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She was 0:00:58.160 --> 0:01:01.120 a good woman who always made good choices. 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:05.480 We're good mom's bad choices to single mom who said 0:01:05.520 --> 0:01:05.920 fuck the. 0:01:05.840 --> 0:01:08.520 Patriarchy, shared all their bad choices and sound out they 0:01:08.560 --> 0:01:09.080 were so bad. 0:01:09.120 --> 0:01:12.039 After all, we're experts. Overshaars and your new bestie. 0:01:12.200 --> 0:01:13.720 Sit back and near the ride. 0:01:14.240 --> 0:01:20.440 I can do a pam. Welcome back to another episode, 0:01:20.600 --> 0:01:25.640 to the first episode of our bonus episode Tribe Chat. 0:01:26.240 --> 0:01:29.160 Welcome to the tribe Chat. You are officially in the 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:30.559 Tribe Chat. 0:01:30.280 --> 0:01:32.959 Where we're going to cover current events and we might 0:01:33.000 --> 0:01:35.640 not be so nice, but we will always be honest. 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:39.959 Truth hurts and sometimes. 0:01:39.560 --> 0:01:40.480 Somebody's got to do it. 0:01:40.520 --> 0:01:41.479 Someone's got to say it. 0:01:41.680 --> 0:01:44.640 You know who better than the good moms, Better than 0:01:44.640 --> 0:01:47.640 the good moms to tell you like it is, so, 0:01:47.840 --> 0:01:49.880 Welcome to the tribe Chat and. 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:51.520 Uh, let's get to it. 0:01:52.040 --> 0:01:52.400 Let's go. 0:01:55.040 --> 0:01:57.639 First things first, though, I need to smoke. 0:01:57.920 --> 0:02:01.320 Okay, well, roll it up, roll it up up, Let 0:02:01.320 --> 0:02:05.240 the weed fall in, roll the backwood up. I want 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:06.800 to I'm gonna go tell a friend. 0:02:06.560 --> 0:02:09.239 I got our favorite cannabis, My dear, can you guess 0:02:09.240 --> 0:02:09.680 what it is? 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:15.480 Of course I can. It is what blue drink that's right, 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:18.639 that's right. That's why you're right, bitch, because that's our favorite. 0:02:18.800 --> 0:02:22.720 That's our favorite. I went to the weed dispensary across 0:02:22.760 --> 0:02:25.760 the street from our studio. Shout out to Good Good Media. 0:02:25.880 --> 0:02:28.880 If you need a podcast, if you need podcast production, 0:02:28.919 --> 0:02:30.800 if you want to start a podcast, if you have 0:02:30.840 --> 0:02:32.640 self tapes that need to be filmed in the Los 0:02:32.639 --> 0:02:35.200 Angeles area, come check out Good Good Media. Go to 0:02:35.280 --> 0:02:39.079 Good Good Productions dot com and book your spot here. 0:02:39.120 --> 0:02:40.720 You could be sitting right here in the Good Mom's 0:02:40.720 --> 0:02:42.119 Bad Choices couch right here. 0:02:42.360 --> 0:02:43.960 And if you want to do a photo shoot, you 0:02:43.960 --> 0:02:46.280 can also come to Good Good Media because we also 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:49.400 do that. In fact, my lovely wife and I just 0:02:49.600 --> 0:02:53.280 wrapped up a photo shoot because we are some photo 0:02:53.280 --> 0:02:56.880 shoot ass bitches. And you guys, we are celebrating our 0:02:57.000 --> 0:03:00.440 seven year anniversary this month. I don't care what anybody's 0:03:00.440 --> 0:03:06.440 say our birthday. It's Jamerica, our entity's birthday. And yeah, 0:03:06.440 --> 0:03:09.120 we just to a fancy photo shoot for year seven 0:03:09.200 --> 0:03:11.160 because it's our lucky number seven and this means we're 0:03:11.160 --> 0:03:15.959 gonna get rich this year. And yeah, every year we 0:03:16.000 --> 0:03:18.720 do a photo shoot, and so this is a multi 0:03:19.000 --> 0:03:24.079 creative studio you could do lots of things here. I'm 0:03:24.080 --> 0:03:27.640 gonna have to what do they call it, mcguyver, mcguiver, 0:03:27.800 --> 0:03:30.000 you're mcguivering the backwood. Yeah, because I don't know what 0:03:30.040 --> 0:03:33.840 happened here, but it's okay because I'm a backwood expert. 0:03:34.200 --> 0:03:37.560 You are certainly mcguyvering it. My dear, something's gonna there's 0:03:37.560 --> 0:03:38.040 some holes. 0:03:38.080 --> 0:03:38.560 Is that okay? 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:39.080 I think so? 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:39.720 Yeah? Okay. 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:45.720 Shout out to my daughter who's engineering the episode right now. Hey, Lou, 0:03:46.000 --> 0:03:50.520 hey lou, because my fiance is barfing his head off. 0:03:50.640 --> 0:03:52.000 Yeah. Baby. 0:03:52.080 --> 0:03:57.080 If men turn into such babies when they get sick, 0:03:57.320 --> 0:04:02.600 like yeah, just such a baby, so interesting. Women are 0:04:02.640 --> 0:04:04.240 definitely the stronger species. 0:04:04.280 --> 0:04:07.240 I'm a baby when I'm sick. I'm not well. I 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:08.000 need to be cared for. 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:08.160 It, I know. 0:04:08.200 --> 0:04:09.600 But he's not actually sick. 0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:12.760 He like he is sick. Nothing's worse than throwing up, I. 0:04:12.680 --> 0:04:14.360 Know, but he's like, I feel like I got jumped. 0:04:14.360 --> 0:04:15.440 I'm like, how are you throwing up? 0:04:15.440 --> 0:04:18.440 And they're like, I mean when she like, when you 0:04:18.480 --> 0:04:19.480 have nothing left there? 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:21.080 Yeah, and it keeps like coming you just. 0:04:21.480 --> 0:04:23.239 Just nothing is there. It's horrible. 0:04:23.480 --> 0:04:26.240 I'm in poor baby, dude. Look okay, I didn't touch it, 0:04:26.279 --> 0:04:32.240 my makeup or anything gorgeous. Okay, so yeah, we decided 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:35.480 to do this bonus episode because we needed a space 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:37.520 to get a little bit more personal and talk a 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:40.320 little bit more shit. I mean, the dms that we 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:43.320 have are mad madness. The amount of dms we send 0:04:43.360 --> 0:04:44.839 each other, the amount of text, and the amount of 0:04:44.839 --> 0:04:47.680 shit talking we do in the dms. Don't you judge us. 0:04:47.880 --> 0:04:49.920 I know you're talking shit talking with your friends too, 0:04:50.360 --> 0:04:52.839 so don't be on that girl power bullshit talking about 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:55.400 you don't talk shit with your friends. Everybody talks shit privately, 0:04:55.680 --> 0:04:57.320 and now we're here to just do it publicly. 0:04:57.640 --> 0:05:00.840 I just the tribe chat is super int for all 0:05:00.880 --> 0:05:04.160 moms and I think women in general. But our personal 0:05:04.240 --> 0:05:07.840 tribe chat, our face. I'm not a Facebook, our Instagram, 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:10.000 tribe chat, whatever that shit is that we have, what 0:05:10.080 --> 0:05:11.960 is it called advance called tribe chat too, It's called 0:05:11.960 --> 0:05:13.160 trip chat, but it's called something else. 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:16.359 The channels, the subscriber channel, the. 0:05:16.360 --> 0:05:20.080 Subscribe chanel like the tribe chat is, our. 0:05:19.960 --> 0:05:23.360 Discord is popping, our Facebook, our Facebook group is popping, 0:05:23.880 --> 0:05:27.159 our tribe chat, subscriber is popping. Basically, if you're not 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:28.840 plugged in. What the fuck are you doing? 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:30.560 Let's look at Mica divered Blunt. 0:05:30.600 --> 0:05:31.280 It's beautiful. 0:05:31.320 --> 0:05:33.480 I know it's a little short, little chody. 0:05:34.040 --> 0:05:37.040 You know, do you like showties what? I don't know. 0:05:38.040 --> 0:05:41.160 No, I mean, I don't want it to be skinny, 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:43.280 but I don't want it to chow does like it's 0:05:44.720 --> 0:05:45.520 oh my god, our. 0:05:45.800 --> 0:05:48.640 And she doesn't know that it is. Okay, that's why 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:51.200 I'm keeping with the language that I'm keeping. 0:05:51.360 --> 0:05:54.360 Oh Lord Jesus, Okay, I'm putting a little honey propping 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:56.400 little honey on the backwoods. 0:05:56.560 --> 0:05:58.320 You know after this, or there's a lot of honey 0:05:58.360 --> 0:06:00.760 after this, are probably going to have to wait till 0:06:00.920 --> 0:06:02.840 she turned sixteen to engineer for us again. 0:06:03.200 --> 0:06:06.039 Okay, today, this was the last minute emergency. 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:07.600 We needed to do what we gotted to get done. 0:06:07.720 --> 0:06:08.640 It's kind of like the old days. 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:10.680 Although the kids weren't listening to our podcast. They were 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:13.480 the other room, but they were around. And remember people 0:06:13.480 --> 0:06:16.080 will be like, you guys are bad moms. Your kids 0:06:16.080 --> 0:06:19.400 are in the room while you're podcasting, talking about their shit, 0:06:19.440 --> 0:06:19.839 and I'm. 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:22.839 We're like, actually, we have a glass door, bitches. I 0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:27.560 mean shout out to Brian and uhy, Tracy, that's like 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:29.440 there was a like, first of all, our podcast was 0:06:29.480 --> 0:06:31.680 birth there. Second of all, what better house to podcasts 0:06:31.720 --> 0:06:34.160 and where we had literally clear doors where we could 0:06:34.240 --> 0:06:38.440 just watch them but not be present. If you guys 0:06:38.480 --> 0:06:42.680 haven't checked out some of our first years of podcasting, 0:06:43.800 --> 0:06:45.839 you will hear our kids and they were three and 0:06:45.880 --> 0:06:47.719 they would come in and interrupt, and we had like 0:06:47.720 --> 0:06:51.640 elevator music and we were definitely multitasking like we always do. 0:06:51.760 --> 0:06:57.560 And you know, seven years later, not shit has changed. Okay, okay, 0:06:57.760 --> 0:06:59.440 night of that, because we're gonna need some weed for 0:06:59.480 --> 0:07:05.240 these topics. Okay specifically no here, Oh god, I just 0:07:05.360 --> 0:07:07.240 let it specific there. 0:07:07.240 --> 0:07:07.600 We go. 0:07:11.600 --> 0:07:20.800 Make a wish for year seven as you're inhaling to 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:25.000 get so good. Wayah, last night I did so much manifesting, 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:28.760 which you can God, I can't even talk about it. 0:07:30.440 --> 0:07:35.080 Did so much manifesting which you came in union, yes, 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:40.200 and it was great, like talking while you're doing it. 0:07:40.280 --> 0:07:42.520 I don't know if you guys have tried this, but yeah, 0:07:42.560 --> 0:07:45.160 like speaking the thing that you need and want while 0:07:45.200 --> 0:07:50.400 in union, if you know what I mean, Uh, you 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:55.120 have tobacco on your lip. It is like super powerful 0:07:55.200 --> 0:07:58.960 manifestation because you're like in union with another person. It's 0:07:59.000 --> 0:08:02.440 literally how you create life. So you can create the 0:08:02.480 --> 0:08:05.840 life of anything, like an entity that Good Moms By 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:09.680 Choices or the Good Vibra Treat. If you haven't checked 0:08:09.680 --> 0:08:11.600 out the Good Vibrra Treat, check it out. You guys 0:08:11.920 --> 0:08:14.840 are going to Jamaica next month. That is sold out. 0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:17.000 You can't come to that. We're going for four to twenty. 0:08:17.040 --> 0:08:19.240 But in June we were having a couple's retreat with 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:21.880 our lovers. It's the first of it's kind. It's a 0:08:21.960 --> 0:08:29.239 Tanchi retreat. I emphasis on. I will be leaving Tantric 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:30.120 movement with my. 0:08:30.120 --> 0:08:35.920 Hips and those eric and those hips don't lie baby 0:08:36.640 --> 0:08:41.960 like Shakura. Just it's fine. It's an eat, it's a 0:08:42.280 --> 0:08:45.079 it's a snat blunt, snack blunt. It's an edible blunt, 0:08:45.360 --> 0:08:45.560 just like. 0:08:45.559 --> 0:08:51.719 A small solid thing. Anyway, if you haven't checked out 0:08:51.720 --> 0:08:53.679 the Good Vibratree and you're afraid to check it out alone, 0:08:53.720 --> 0:08:55.640 you can check it out with your lover. And there's 0:08:55.640 --> 0:08:58.319 still time to make payments. There's still time to get 0:08:58.360 --> 0:09:01.439 Klarna or whatever the late pay after pay is and 0:09:01.800 --> 0:09:05.040 come join us in paradise and do sexy fun shit. 0:09:05.200 --> 0:09:11.080 Yeah, it's June. What is it, twenty nineteenth? Oh yeah, yeah, 0:09:11.120 --> 0:09:15.520 fourteenth through the nineteenth and six days fourteen. 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:16.880 Fifteen, sixteen, seventeen, eighteen nineteen. 0:09:16.960 --> 0:09:21.640 Oh, it's gonna be so fun. I'm really excited. 0:09:21.679 --> 0:09:23.079 It's going to be so fun. There's all have a 0:09:23.120 --> 0:09:26.680 lot of adventure. We're doing things that we've never done 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:29.000 in group, obviously because we've never had men on property, 0:09:29.040 --> 0:09:30.200 so this is going to be a different vibe. 0:09:30.200 --> 0:09:30.800 It's really so. 0:09:30.840 --> 0:09:33.480 We have some of the OG Retreat members coming as 0:09:33.559 --> 0:09:35.839 a couple, which I'm really excited for. Shout out to 0:09:35.920 --> 0:09:40.280 Jessica and Connie, and yeah, there's a few other people. 0:09:40.360 --> 0:09:44.160 But you know, because we're OG Retreat leaders, we're at 0:09:44.160 --> 0:09:47.280 the point where there's a lot of There are a 0:09:47.280 --> 0:09:49.719 lot of reoccurring people coming. We see people a couple 0:09:49.760 --> 0:09:52.120 of times a year. So I love that. I love 0:09:52.160 --> 0:09:53.720 that for us, and I love that for our tribe 0:09:53.720 --> 0:09:56.640 because it is very much a tight knit spiritual story. 0:09:56.960 --> 0:10:00.400 It is it is. So let's get to the sh talking. 0:10:00.800 --> 0:10:03.679 Okay, well, my ship talking number one is going to 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:08.760 go to motherfucking Lena. I'm Gonnea the camera me, motherfucking 0:10:09.559 --> 0:10:12.920 Sherry Shepherd, Okay, this is for you. 0:10:13.120 --> 0:10:14.319 Should we rewatch the video? 0:10:15.640 --> 0:10:18.000 Did you send me the links I did on your 0:10:18.000 --> 0:10:18.600 text messages? 0:10:18.800 --> 0:10:20.240 Perfect? Perfect? 0:10:21.280 --> 0:10:28.400 Oh so recently, uh, the Oscars came on and you 0:10:28.440 --> 0:10:30.960 know we're in Hollywood, so we get all the inside 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:36.439 Oscar scoop put it closer to the mic. 0:10:37.640 --> 0:10:43.480 Okay, Julia Fox wore a completely dress that barely covered 0:10:43.679 --> 0:10:44.480 her cookie jar. 0:10:44.800 --> 0:10:49.439 Let's just say that dress was ugly, just a great 0:10:49.440 --> 0:10:50.800 crack in the. 0:10:50.920 --> 0:10:54.600 Stallion wore a dark green gown with only matching green 0:10:54.720 --> 0:10:57.520 pasties to cover up and dress. 0:10:57.960 --> 0:11:01.199 And so this is where I have that, not her 0:11:01.240 --> 0:11:03.120 them putting this air in this Handmaid's. 0:11:02.679 --> 0:11:07.160 Tale, fucking Outpha delivering this is the part that killed 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:07.640 me the most. 0:11:07.960 --> 0:11:11.520 And I say this because there are young women, young 0:11:11.600 --> 0:11:15.800 girls who are looking up to all of you, not the. 0:11:15.800 --> 0:11:17.400 Church ladies and the audience clapping. 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:20.680 Cy say they don't want to be a role model. 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:22.400 But here's the thing. 0:11:22.800 --> 0:11:27.480 It comes with the territory. Turn it off, turn off. Okay, 0:11:27.520 --> 0:11:31.640 that's enough from Sherry. You know point one with this, 0:11:32.960 --> 0:11:34.920 Why the fuck did you deliver that message in that 0:11:35.040 --> 0:11:37.800 ugly ass that it's really hard to even hear what 0:11:37.840 --> 0:11:41.640 you're saying through that fucking cream and black handmaid's gown. 0:11:42.760 --> 0:11:45.440 That's the first That's the first thing you your Chile 0:11:45.559 --> 0:11:48.040 team should at the very least wardrobe should have very 0:11:48.200 --> 0:11:49.640 is knowing that you're delivering this very. 0:11:49.640 --> 0:11:52.000 Oh that's that was exactly why she's wearing it. This 0:11:52.200 --> 0:11:54.200 very literally has boots up to her fucking knee cap. 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:56.240 If you were going to deliver this stupid ass message, 0:11:56.320 --> 0:11:59.480 the very least you could have done was wore a 0:11:59.520 --> 0:12:02.440 cute outpha. It could have been conservative and cute. Conservative 0:12:02.480 --> 0:12:05.800 and cute does exist. But that however, they played you. 0:12:06.000 --> 0:12:08.520 The warbajone team doesn't like you, Sherry. I hate to 0:12:08.520 --> 0:12:10.839 tell you. They are talking shit behind your back. They're like, 0:12:10.920 --> 0:12:13.040 we got one for her, and that was that outfit. 0:12:12.760 --> 0:12:14.239 That was I have to agree. 0:12:15.240 --> 0:12:17.880 Secondly, you know, I was the comments is what really 0:12:17.880 --> 0:12:19.559 got I mean, that got me, but then the comments 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:21.880 got me. And you know, listen, I get everyone has 0:12:21.920 --> 0:12:25.280 their preference. Ever, you're allowed to have your preference in style. 0:12:25.360 --> 0:12:28.000 If you want to dress more modestly. 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:28.960 Then go ahead and do that. 0:12:29.000 --> 0:12:32.439 But I just feel like the thing about the dressing 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:37.920 thing is a another black woman policing another any black 0:12:37.920 --> 0:12:39.160 woman's body is a problem map. 0:12:39.200 --> 0:12:40.480 It's problematic to me, and I get it. 0:12:40.480 --> 0:12:41.720 People are like, she was very kind. 0:12:41.720 --> 0:12:42.760 It doesn't fucking matter if she. 0:12:42.760 --> 0:12:46.200 Was, you would That is the most backwards compliment, Like don't. 0:12:46.480 --> 0:12:48.680 Don't just because you deliver it, just because you deliver 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:52.040 a message with a smile and nice words doesn't mean 0:12:52.080 --> 0:12:54.120 that it's not undercutting. And that's the thing is like 0:12:54.559 --> 0:12:57.800 you literally created a whole segment, sat on a chair 0:12:57.840 --> 0:13:01.079 by yourself, talking directly to camera, just to say this statement. 0:13:01.160 --> 0:13:02.920 This statement was very important to her. 0:13:03.160 --> 0:13:05.440 I'm gonna say that they're running out of topics, and 0:13:05.440 --> 0:13:07.080 that's why you should call us, Sherry. We'll come on 0:13:07.080 --> 0:13:08.720 the show and we'll spice things up and I'll wear 0:13:08.760 --> 0:13:09.400 my nipples out. 0:13:10.080 --> 0:13:11.240 I wore this for you, Sherry. 0:13:11.840 --> 0:13:13.640 I'm actually wearing a blazer so you won't come for me. 0:13:13.720 --> 0:13:18.000 And guess what, I'm a mom. 0:13:16.400 --> 0:13:19.280 And yeah, as far as the mom comment from two mothers, 0:13:19.360 --> 0:13:21.200 what I want to say is it is not the 0:13:21.200 --> 0:13:25.800 world's responsibility to influence our children. As you can see, 0:13:25.800 --> 0:13:28.720 we live in America, and America is influencing on who 0:13:28.760 --> 0:13:31.600 in the fuck knows right now. So the outfit that 0:13:31.679 --> 0:13:34.800 Meg the fucking stallion is wearing is by far my 0:13:35.120 --> 0:13:38.720 least most concern. Everybody has to fend for themselves, and 0:13:38.720 --> 0:13:40.679 you need to parent your own child and explain to 0:13:40.720 --> 0:13:43.560 them in the world. And if you intend on imposing 0:13:43.559 --> 0:13:48.760 your conservative Christian old lady ways, do it at home 0:13:49.080 --> 0:13:49.920 like everybody else. 0:13:50.600 --> 0:13:53.640 The thing about also is that these are grown ass women. 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:57.960 Where are the fuck they want to wear? And childless women? 0:13:58.080 --> 0:14:01.040 And furthermore, we're out in a show. I don't know 0:14:01.040 --> 0:14:02.760 if this was I mean, I think it's a compilation 0:14:02.800 --> 0:14:04.559 of the Vanity Fair Party, the Oscars. 0:14:05.559 --> 0:14:07.640 This is a celebration of bold voices. 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:09.040 This is a celebration of art. 0:14:09.160 --> 0:14:11.880 This is a celebration of people that have don't really 0:14:11.920 --> 0:14:14.199 give a fuck about the status quo and are open 0:14:14.440 --> 0:14:18.440 and are creative and expressive. What other time or place 0:14:18.520 --> 0:14:21.240 would be best for them to express themselves in fashion? 0:14:21.480 --> 0:14:24.400 Fashion has a long history of being provocative. It's not 0:14:24.520 --> 0:14:25.640 this is not new news. 0:14:26.080 --> 0:14:28.760 This is not news. Art and our and women's bodies. 0:14:29.000 --> 0:14:31.640 I feel like there's so much shame around just especially 0:14:31.640 --> 0:14:33.560 if you're a mother, especially if you're a black woman, 0:14:33.640 --> 0:14:35.520 brown woman. I mean, granted, I feel like white women 0:14:35.520 --> 0:14:36.920 get a lot more grace in this space. 0:14:37.000 --> 0:14:37.760 They really do. 0:14:38.080 --> 0:14:41.200 And you know she included Julia Fox. I feel like 0:14:41.280 --> 0:14:44.320 to just trying to say, well, I'm including a white person, 0:14:44.360 --> 0:14:46.320 but generally all the women that were shared were black. 0:14:46.720 --> 0:14:50.960 And I just feel like this is it's an a 0:14:51.360 --> 0:14:54.280 I feel like it's an attack on women. And for 0:14:54.320 --> 0:14:57.360 her to like say it in a nice and kind 0:14:57.520 --> 0:15:00.640 and smiling way was actually a pist me off. More 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:04.160 and we all know that everything here in America is 0:15:04.200 --> 0:15:09.800 based in colonialism, patriarchy. And who do you think created modesty? 0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:12.240 It wasn't someone said God. I'm like, who's God? 0:15:12.680 --> 0:15:13.240 Who created? 0:15:13.560 --> 0:15:16.800 Who is God? But Who's God created modesty? Right right? 0:15:16.960 --> 0:15:19.920 You know, like because God, my God created this bomb 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:22.280 ass body? Ask But That's what I'm saying, Like, who's God? 0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:24.160 Your God? My God? Which one? 0:15:24.360 --> 0:15:25.280 Like this? 0:15:25.360 --> 0:15:28.640 Who are you to tell everybody what God's dress code is? 0:15:28.920 --> 0:15:31.400 Because you didn't get that email? Because I didn't. 0:15:31.960 --> 0:15:33.880 I was just like if there was ever a time, Yeah, 0:15:33.880 --> 0:15:35.880 you don't see these tities at the Vanity Fair party. 0:15:35.920 --> 0:15:39.400 Furthermore, just sexualizing women all the time is just I'm 0:15:39.400 --> 0:15:41.640 so over it, Like, you know, our bodies have other functions, 0:15:41.640 --> 0:15:43.160 others I mean, I know they're beautiful, I know they 0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:46.120 turn people on. I know to someone who may be 0:15:46.160 --> 0:15:49.720 protecting you know, it could be triggering. But I think 0:15:49.720 --> 0:15:51.840 it's time to end all the bullshit. I think that 0:15:52.520 --> 0:15:57.480 women birth babies, We nurture humans, We nurture babies, and 0:15:57.920 --> 0:16:00.320 we wouldn't see a naked cow and be like, oh God, 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:03.440 put some clothes. So I just think it's just like 0:16:03.800 --> 0:16:05.680 we might need to come back to the basics, which 0:16:05.760 --> 0:16:08.800 is your motherfucking self. You came, we came in naked, 0:16:08.840 --> 0:16:09.240 you guys. 0:16:09.560 --> 0:16:12.120 I think I think that when it comes to the 0:16:12.200 --> 0:16:15.760 role model thing, like, there's so many other things that 0:16:15.800 --> 0:16:18.320 are going on in the world that are going to 0:16:18.640 --> 0:16:22.920 impact your child to act out or whatever show up 0:16:23.600 --> 0:16:25.600 how you don't want them to. I don't think Meg 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:29.960 the Stallion or fucking Zoe Kravitz butt crack is really 0:16:29.960 --> 0:16:32.960 going to be the thing that's gonna be Like, let's do. 0:16:32.920 --> 0:16:35.320 A segment on the book ban Let's do a segment 0:16:35.360 --> 0:16:37.600 on that, Sherry. Let's yeah, like, can we talk about that. 0:16:37.960 --> 0:16:40.880 The corrupt government. I don't know something crazy, I know 0:16:41.040 --> 0:16:44.680 something education, I don't know something that anybody actually gives 0:16:44.720 --> 0:16:47.480 a shit about, but that that just wasn't it. And 0:16:47.520 --> 0:16:51.280 I you know, I think I have a personal vendetta 0:16:51.440 --> 0:16:54.560 against you know, women's wardrobe and how you're supposed to 0:16:54.600 --> 0:16:57.720 show up because there's so many boxes created for us 0:16:57.800 --> 0:17:02.200 to be, you know, like a digestible. And I'm obviously 0:17:02.240 --> 0:17:04.919 I'm over it as I'm wearing my classy as I 0:17:04.960 --> 0:17:06.800 report the news and wear my classy blazer. 0:17:07.119 --> 0:17:09.320 Yeah, And I had commented, I'd left to comment, and 0:17:09.359 --> 0:17:11.280 like so many people came in for me, and it 0:17:11.359 --> 0:17:12.639 was just like they kept talking about my. 0:17:12.720 --> 0:17:15.359 Daughter, like would you want your daughter wearing that? 0:17:15.520 --> 0:17:16.840 And I was like, if my daughter was a grown 0:17:16.880 --> 0:17:18.520 ass woman, I'm gonna be like, you look good. 0:17:18.640 --> 0:17:19.720 Yeah, I'm gonna say you look good. 0:17:19.720 --> 0:17:21.159 And also my daughter's nine, and you know what, she 0:17:21.200 --> 0:17:23.560 wants to wear baggy pants and crop tops because. 0:17:23.400 --> 0:17:24.600 That's what's in for the kids. 0:17:24.640 --> 0:17:27.959 Like, stop stop with this narrative that celebrities are controlling 0:17:28.119 --> 0:17:30.320 the minds of the youth. No, it's so much deeper 0:17:30.359 --> 0:17:32.000 than celebrities controlling the minds of these. 0:17:32.280 --> 0:17:35.520 Advertising and also age appropriate, Like my kid is not 0:17:35.560 --> 0:17:36.280 even gonna. 0:17:36.320 --> 0:17:38.440 Be watching the Oscars or Vanity Fair. I mean she's 0:17:38.600 --> 0:17:40.760 I mean, I guess she's also talking about teenagers, but 0:17:40.840 --> 0:17:46.159 still like that's I feel like we've we this society 0:17:46.400 --> 0:17:51.320 has historically just made the youth feel like they have 0:17:51.440 --> 0:17:52.359 no mind of their own. 0:17:52.480 --> 0:17:53.960 Obviously, we're all influenced. 0:17:54.000 --> 0:17:55.760 You don't have to be a ten year old, a 0:17:55.800 --> 0:17:57.880 fifteen year old, a twenty year old to be influenced 0:17:57.880 --> 0:18:00.760 by what you see. Not because share he's forty two 0:18:00.880 --> 0:18:03.760 or fifty two, however old she is, she's not influenced 0:18:03.760 --> 0:18:06.040 by the things that she sees, Like somehow she has 0:18:06.080 --> 0:18:08.720 this like No, I think that everyone is liable to 0:18:08.800 --> 0:18:09.440 be influences. 0:18:09.680 --> 0:18:11.600 Teacher your kid how to filter their shit out. 0:18:11.680 --> 0:18:15.120 Yeah, and that's why you're a good mom, And that's 0:18:15.160 --> 0:18:17.760 why you teach your kids whatever it is that you 0:18:17.880 --> 0:18:20.560 feel that is supposed to be. But you also just 0:18:20.600 --> 0:18:22.600 have to support your child and what they do. If 0:18:22.600 --> 0:18:24.920 my daughter wanted to wear her butt crack out, yeah 0:18:24.920 --> 0:18:25.800 you're gonna hear about it. 0:18:25.880 --> 0:18:27.280 But at the end of the day, I'm like, you're 0:18:27.280 --> 0:18:28.879 gonna do it. You gotta be better do it and 0:18:28.960 --> 0:18:31.120 stand the fuck up tall, because yeah, I will talk shit. 0:18:31.359 --> 0:18:32.600 Yeah, and that's what it is. 0:18:32.640 --> 0:18:34.960 So which you know, it kind of brings us to 0:18:35.000 --> 0:18:38.160 our next topic, which is there's a trend on sm 0:18:38.240 --> 0:18:39.600 right now social media. 0:18:39.600 --> 0:18:41.480 I'll just pain that today. Wow, you're so advanced. 0:18:41.520 --> 0:18:47.680 Shout out to Cheriny about growing up with a naked mom, 0:18:47.720 --> 0:18:48.880 and it was a big trend. 0:18:49.000 --> 0:18:50.520