Speaker 1: Second date update Alexis, if you're on a dating app,
Speaker 1: what hobbies could somebody put on their profile that would
Speaker 1: make you go, oh damn, that's hot. I want to
Speaker 1: get to know them.
Speaker 2: Cooking's pretty nice.
Speaker 3: They can make me some meals.
Speaker 1: Yeah, cooking, okay? What about like a professional puppy trainer?
Speaker 1: So what if he houses puppies inside of miniature windmills?
Speaker 1: So technically it's a puppy mill, but it's cute because
Speaker 1: he's raising them inside of the tiny mill. But I
Speaker 1: would ask some follow up questions because I bring it
Speaker 1: up since one of our listeners apparently met someone on
Speaker 1: the dating apps with an interesting hobby that peaked his interest.
Speaker 1: Let's talk to Corey about it. Corey, welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: Hey, how you doing.
Speaker 3: An above board puppy mill?
Speaker 1: Like just talking about that's a fair question.
Speaker 2: No, no, but it is equally as interesting.
Speaker 4: Now.
Speaker 2: She was a speed puzzler.
Speaker 1: What speed puzzler?
Speaker 2: Yeah, like a speed puzzler.
Speaker 1: Oh my, I actually saw an Instagram reel about this recent.
Speaker 3: Where people put jigsaw puzzles together as fast as they can.
Speaker 1: It's like a big competition that they have where there's
Speaker 1: like eight tables of teams all in one room and
Speaker 1: then they like dump all the pieces out at once.
Speaker 1: Whichever team saws it first wins.
Speaker 5: Okay, could I be the one person in the room
Speaker 5: that just sticks one piece in your pocket?
Speaker 3: Just be worth it? Who turns on each other?
Speaker 1: Did I describe that right? Is that what you were
Speaker 1: talking about? Yeah? For sure.
Speaker 2: I mean, like we were just messaging back and forth
Speaker 2: on a dating act and I was like it was weird,
Speaker 2: and she told me all about it. Like three to
Speaker 2: four people get together and like DJ plays it's like
Speaker 2: a bingo hall, you know, and like and it's like
Speaker 2: a thing. Yeah, they throw it all down. Everybody is
Speaker 2: on the clock and you got to put it together,
Speaker 2: and you like pay money to like do this.
Speaker 3: Oh it's okay. So there's like a pot that you
Speaker 3: can win at the end. Is that how it works?
Speaker 2: And then you split it with your team? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Oh dang, so you probably were I was going to say.
Speaker 5: At first, I thought this would be like an easy
Speaker 5: like activity to be like, oh, we should do it together,
Speaker 5: but no, this is too competitive, not the most romantic experience.
Speaker 3: She probably wouldn't let you do it right, right.
Speaker 1: So what what did you do for a day. Did
Speaker 1: you end up going out with her?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean we just totally clicked. We just decided
Speaker 2: to do like a coffee date, you know, quick little
Speaker 2: thirty minutes thing. What we were planning on doing.
Speaker 6: Start a timer.
Speaker 1: Question. How was it?
Speaker 2: I thought it wasn't fine? I was it was all right.
Speaker 2: I mean, like we meant we met.
Speaker 1: We should get her name too, because oh yeah, that's
Speaker 1: an important piece of this puzzle.
Speaker 2: Her name is Aaron.
Speaker 1: Aaron. Okay, it was.
Speaker 3: Interesting how you just said. I thought it was fine.
Speaker 3: It was all right, like.
Speaker 2: It started off well, but it it got weird. Like
Speaker 2: so we met up in lying like asked what she wanted,
Speaker 2: and like I did the coffee order, and like she
Speaker 2: sat down, and I mean, like I sat down for
Speaker 2: a little bit. My name was called. So I went
Speaker 2: up to go get our coffees. And as I was
Speaker 2: like walking back to the table, I realized that on
Speaker 2: the coffee cup there was a different one named Devin
Speaker 2: and a phone number.
Speaker 3: Wait what, I'm confused. Do you grab somebody else's coffee?
Speaker 2: That's what I was thinking, And so like I went,
Speaker 2: I went back to the coffee counter and I said, hey,
Speaker 2: like yeah, I think I got the wrong coffee. It's
Speaker 2: a it's a different name, and so the guy that
Speaker 2: was there said, Nope, that's the right one.
Speaker 5: Oh he was trying to give his number to her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, Like I didn't ask that. So
Speaker 2: I went back to the table and I sat down
Speaker 2: and I was like, is somebody trying to ask you out?
Speaker 2: And in my head I was like trying to process
Speaker 2: it because I didn't. I didn't want to do nothing
Speaker 2: about it.
Speaker 5: You know, that's weird you would do that on like
Speaker 5: some you're obviously on a date, Like you can tell
Speaker 5: when there's two people at a coffee shop who.
Speaker 1: Were on a first how can you tell?
Speaker 3: I don't know, it's just like the awkwardness. They don't
Speaker 3: get a probably hear their small talk, like so how.
Speaker 1: Is your day? Okay, so you you were giving off
Speaker 1: first date vibes with ar in line, and I guess
Speaker 1: another guy saw that and thought he could swoop in.
Speaker 2: So like I went back to the counter and I
Speaker 2: was like, so Who's I said it, like really loudly,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, who's Devin? Like I'm on a date?
Speaker 2: Who did this?
Speaker 4: So?
Speaker 2: Hold on?
Speaker 3: Oh wait?
Speaker 1: You fronted the boy in front of Aaron, in front
Speaker 1: of the whole like coffee establishment.
Speaker 6: It got weird, and.
Speaker 2: I admit, like, it got awkward, and so she ended
Speaker 2: up coming out and over and she was like, what
Speaker 2: are you doing?
Speaker 1: Calm down?
Speaker 2: And I like we went back to the table and
Speaker 2: like nobody answered me.
Speaker 3: Devin never came forward.
Speaker 2: Devin never came forward.
Speaker 1: Devin was scared.
Speaker 2: And so like, yeah, it got awkward. After that, I
Speaker 2: went back to the table. We hung out for like
Speaker 2: twenty minutes.
Speaker 3: Twenty more. Wait that was only ten minutes into the
Speaker 3: date that happened. Holy heck.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so look she's great.
Speaker 2: I made it awkward. I want to redo. We never
Speaker 2: even talked about puzzles.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the whole thing all.
Speaker 5: It would just send up so many red flags that
Speaker 5: you're like a crazy jealous type, even though it's an
Speaker 5: inappropriate move for Devin to make, whoever the hell Devon.
Speaker 1: Is or could have been seen as like a chivalrous
Speaker 1: move standing up for your date. Yeah yeah, but it's
Speaker 1: not your place yet. Yeah, it's definitely how we should
Speaker 1: spin it. When we call Aaron, you can say he
Speaker 1: was standing up for you and standing up for the date.
Speaker 3: Maybe we should just spin it as like he's embarrassed.
Speaker 3: He wants to redo.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's kind of what I was hoping. I just
Speaker 2: want to apologize, and I just want to be like,
Speaker 2: can we just try it again?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Okay, so you haven't apologized yet.
Speaker 2: No no, no, no, like I have, but she hasn't texted back.
Speaker 1: Alexis, if you were on that date, would you give
Speaker 1: him another chance?
Speaker 3: I mean, for the case of this segment, Yeah, totally.
Speaker 1: Stop another guy from hitting on me.
Speaker 5: Because I hope I'm gonna get hit on a lot
Speaker 5: more times in public, so like, I don't want that
Speaker 5: happen every time.
Speaker 1: Well, I was hoping for a stronger answer from your dad. Yeah, probably,
Speaker 1: I said for the segment. We'll hope for a yap.
Speaker 1: Probably when we call Aaron and try and get you
Speaker 1: a second date update right after this.
Speaker 2: All right, great, thanks, all right, now.
Speaker 1: Hold on second date update. Nothing worse than getting hit
Speaker 1: with some fdsa first date swoop action where somebody else
Speaker 1: tries to hit on your date while you're currently with that.
Speaker 1: But that's what happened to one of our listeners, Corey,
Speaker 1: who took a woman named Aaron out to coffee and
Speaker 1: while they were there, one of the baristas wrote their
Speaker 1: phone number onto Aaron's cup, and then Corey had to
Speaker 1: deliver it to her. So just insult to injury right there,
Speaker 1: and in processing what to do, Corey thought the best
Speaker 1: move was to just go up and confront the barista
Speaker 1: in front of everybody.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, and so awkwardly.
Speaker 1: Now he's not going to call back, which maybe means
Speaker 1: that wasn't the best movie. But the good news is,
Speaker 1: just like the coffees that Alexis used to serve at
Speaker 1: Herberst the job, you can always ask for a redo,
Speaker 1: and that's what we're doing today.
Speaker 3: No, if something was wrong, that wasn't my fault in them. Never, it's.
Speaker 1: Fault that happened on his dates.
Speaker 3: It was the confrontation that turned everything that.
Speaker 1: I think Corey can be forgiven for being put into
Speaker 1: a rough spot.
Speaker 3: Oh I don't. I think he knows he did that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I definitely overacted, But we're just speculating. So we're
Speaker 1: gonna find out once and for all when we call
Speaker 1: Aaron how she felt about it, because maybe she felt
Speaker 1: like it was a very heroic move.
Speaker 5: I feel like it's a big mystery to I think
Speaker 5: he's just trying to defend aman I am.
Speaker 3: You know, he's always trying to defend our listeners.
Speaker 1: It's hard to do this job sometimes over a here
Speaker 1: trying to be the hero, the white Knight of the
Speaker 1: listeners on the flat. I appreciate you, jeppreciate you, Corey. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Aaron to appreciate you too, So let's call her and
Speaker 1: force her to appreciate your.
Speaker 2: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hey, we're looking for Aaron.
Speaker 6: This is she.
Speaker 1: You made a big mistake.
Speaker 3: Not start like that a.
Speaker 1: Little mift.
Speaker 3: No, you made the right choice, is what she did.
Speaker 3: But maybe we can.
Speaker 1: Yeah. This is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning.
Speaker 3: We're a whole show.
Speaker 7: Show.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, this This is a segment that we do
Speaker 1: on our show that's called a second Date Update, where
Speaker 1: we try to help our listeners meet up with somebody
Speaker 1: that they went out with recently for a second time.
Speaker 7: And you're calling me because I went on a.
Speaker 3: Date and the guy was really interested in you.
Speaker 1: His name is Corey.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, okay, uh huh, yeah, she's not gonna forget
Speaker 3: I'd the story.
Speaker 1: I wasn't loving your reaction to the name Corey there,
Speaker 1: but we're just trying to help Corey figure out if
Speaker 1: something maybe went wrong on the date, or.
Speaker 7: You want me to let you know, yes happened or whatever.
Speaker 1: Well here, let me just tell you. Corey says he
Speaker 1: feels like he may have overreacted slightly to the situation.
Speaker 3: I don't know if we should put slightly in there.
Speaker 1: It sounds like he feels like it was a mild,
Speaker 1: very light jump to conclusions.
Speaker 5: Of what happened, mild confrontation at the costa leaving a
Speaker 5: phone number on your cup.
Speaker 6: I mean, that's not exactly what happened.
Speaker 1: What do you mean, Well, we only have Corey's side
Speaker 1: of the story, so maybe he missed something.
Speaker 7: Yeah, well, I mean it's kind of it's kind of
Speaker 7: like embarrased.
Speaker 6: So so like I'm so I'm a girl, Yeah yeah.
Speaker 4: So you all you all go on dates and you know,
Speaker 4: you tell your friends where you're going.
Speaker 3: And right, okay, you're like safety net.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: So I have a friend that is a barista at
Speaker 6: the coffee shop that I chose for us to go to,
Speaker 6: and so often I'll be like, if I drop my
Speaker 6: spoon on the ground, this person is crazy and I
Speaker 6: need you to come over, and you know what I mean,
Speaker 6: Like you buying, but she's keeping an eye out for
Speaker 6: me or whatever.
Speaker 3: So what does it have to do with the number
Speaker 3: and the name on the country?
Speaker 6: So listen, So I do this thing. My hobby is
Speaker 6: beed puzzling.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, he told us about that. He was excited
Speaker 5: about that. He thought that was cool.
Speaker 6: Oh and so I have a team of four, or
Speaker 6: I had a team of four, but our fourth member
Speaker 6: recently moved and it's Devin's number. Who is a person
Speaker 6: that my friend wanted me to text to be like, hey,
Speaker 6: I hear you're a puzzler. You put the number on
Speaker 6: my cup and then they outlined it in the shape
Speaker 6: of a puzzle piece.
Speaker 1: Oh he told us about that, but he didn't mention
Speaker 1: anything about the puzzle piece.
Speaker 6: Yeah, he was more focused on the number than actually
Speaker 6: looking at it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, why wouldn't your friend just text you?
Speaker 6: Was the busiest day at the coffee shop, Like the
Speaker 6: line was really long, and so I think she saw
Speaker 6: me and was like, oh, yeah, I gotta tell her
Speaker 6: about Devin.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, why didn't you explain this to him
Speaker 5: when he was yelling.
Speaker 6: This was before I even got the cop And then
Speaker 6: I see him yelling at the people and then he
Speaker 6: comes back.
Speaker 1: So you didn't really know that that's what the confrontation
Speaker 1: was about until he brought the cop to your table.
Speaker 7: He brought the cup and I saw the number and
Speaker 7: the name, and I was like, I didn't know, and.
Speaker 1: Nobody knew who Devin was because Devin wasn't there in
Speaker 1: that coffee.
Speaker 6: Devin is not a barista.
Speaker 3: I thought Devon was just a scaredy cat hiding in
Speaker 3: the back.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: If you want to talk about a scaredy cat who's
Speaker 1: hiding right now, that would be Corey hiding on the
Speaker 1: other line listening to this conversation.
Speaker 3: And it's got to be embarrassing.
Speaker 4: Hi.
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, how you doing?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sorry, Aaron, that's how the segment works.
Speaker 2: Yeah wait wait, so so let me just clarify Devin.
Speaker 2: Devin is a gal that's supposed to be on your team,
Speaker 2: and like, there was no Devon back you had a
Speaker 2: friend who was a barista back there. That's right. Wait,
Speaker 2: who's this?
Speaker 1: That's Corey on the other line. He's been listening to
Speaker 1: this conversation quietly.
Speaker 5: Coming in a little high Yeah again yeah Corey.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Hi.
Speaker 2: Yeah, It's just like like nobody told me that I
Speaker 2: would rather have heard that than just like nothing, you know, like,
Speaker 2: please tell me the truth, Like I want to know
Speaker 2: what is going on here, so that I can like
Speaker 2: judge it appropriately. Like I was just living in a.
Speaker 6: Fan we had just met.
Speaker 4: I didn't know.
Speaker 6: If, like you would also get mad that my friend
Speaker 6: was there, you know what I mean? Like, how would
Speaker 6: I get mad at chat? I thought you would get
Speaker 6: mad because you already yelled at the baristas.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of a solid read on there, dude,
Speaker 2: I don't even know, man, I like it just it
Speaker 2: just blows my mind that your choice was to not explain.
Speaker 3: I thought you wanted to apologize for this.
Speaker 1: That was an apology if you really look hard at it.
Speaker 2: Ye, Like I'm apologizing for reacting off of something that
Speaker 2: like I didn't. I did react big. I did react big.
Speaker 2: I'll fully admit that. I'm so sorry about that.
Speaker 1: But like, I don't think you need about it. Then
Speaker 1: you just leave it where you had it. Sound it good,
Speaker 1: I'll leave it.
Speaker 2: I'll leave it at that.
Speaker 1: Okay, there you go. He's so deeply sorry for how
Speaker 1: he reacted and wishes that he could take it all back,
Speaker 1: and we would love to offer you the chance to
Speaker 1: take it all back by sending you on another date
Speaker 1: that we would pay for. We all know he was
Speaker 1: going to say it's your friend's fault for writing. But Aaron,
Speaker 1: that's that's our offer to you. We'll offer to send
Speaker 1: you and Corey out one more time on our dime.
Speaker 1: You know, let's put the pieces of this puzzle back together. Hey,
Speaker 1: we never even got to the puzzle.
Speaker 6: I mean, I guess it's I guess it's up to him,
Speaker 6: because it sounds like he's pretty mad at me for
Speaker 6: doing the girl thing of having a backup.
Speaker 2: I'm mad that you didn't tell me. You didn't, like,
Speaker 2: you didn't feel okay to share.
Speaker 6: Okay, you know, yeah I didn't because, like we'd known
Speaker 6: each other for ten minutes, and I saw your reaction
Speaker 6: to the burista, and so I was afraid that you'd
Speaker 6: take it out on me too. So I just protect
Speaker 6: myself by not bringing it up.
Speaker 3: Man, is this one giant red flax? Yah?
Speaker 7: It's a girl.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know this is good. We get all
Speaker 1: of the therapy out now. Oh and then the relationship
Speaker 1: is smooth sailing the rest of the way.
Speaker 5: I have told myself many times.
Speaker 1: The part is the first date, Yes, exactly, so there
Speaker 1: you go, erin will send you out?
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I mean honestly, our first day was really
Speaker 7: only like thirty minutes maybe, so I guess I'd be
Speaker 7: open to going out on a longer date.
Speaker 1: Corey, she's being very forgiving here because she realizes that
Speaker 1: you didn't know the full scope of what really was
Speaker 1: going on with the phone number on her cup. She
Speaker 1: sees that, can you be forgiving of Aaron and try
Speaker 1: this thing again with less confusion and yelling next time?
Speaker 2: Let's give another shot?
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 1: Well, congratulations you tube. We're guys going to head up
Speaker 1: one more time.
Speaker 5: Why do I have a feeling we're not going to
Speaker 5: hear an update updates?
Speaker 1: Not that attitude, come on that.
Speaker 2: Look and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: At the end of that call, Brooke mentioned something that
Speaker 1: we do on our show called second date update update,
Speaker 1: where we check back in with a couple months later
Speaker 1: after they've agreed to go out again to find out
Speaker 1: how the relationship's going. Brooke said she doesn't think we'll
Speaker 1: get one from Corey and Aaron. And my question, Brooke
Speaker 1: is why wouldn't we really why wouldn't we.
Speaker 3: Want that because it just sounds like they're just not.
Speaker 1: The radio gold is what it sounds like. I learn
Speaker 1: to hear. If he's yelling at a Barisa on their
Speaker 1: first outing, just imagine what would happen on their second
Speaker 1: dated short temper.
Speaker 3: On the air.
Speaker 5: I was thinking as a person instead of a producer, our.
Speaker 1: Ratings, need them back for an update update. I would
Speaker 1: absolutely tune in to hear that.
Speaker 3: Well. I would too, thought that I wouldn't.
Speaker 1: Listen, would totally totally email us not. I mean, we're
Speaker 1: not going to help much with your mental health or
Speaker 1: your actual relationship. Probably it really no. We promise we'll
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Speaker 1: love life. Email the show. We'll call that person wasn't
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