WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Putting The Pieces Together

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update Alexis, if you're on a dating app,

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<v Speaker 1>what hobbies could somebody put on their profile that would

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<v Speaker 1>make you go, oh damn, that's hot. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>get to know them.

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<v Speaker 2>Cooking's pretty nice.

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<v Speaker 3>They can make me some meals.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, cooking, okay? What about like a professional puppy trainer?

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<v Speaker 1>So what if he houses puppies inside of miniature windmills?

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<v Speaker 1>So technically it's a puppy mill, but it's cute because

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<v Speaker 1>he's raising them inside of the tiny mill. But I

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<v Speaker 1>would ask some follow up questions because I bring it

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<v Speaker 1>up since one of our listeners apparently met someone on

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<v Speaker 1>the dating apps with an interesting hobby that peaked his interest.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk to Corey about it. Corey, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, how you doing.

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<v Speaker 3>An above board puppy mill?

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<v Speaker 1>Like just talking about that's a fair question.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, but it is equally as interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>She was a speed puzzler.

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<v Speaker 1>What speed puzzler?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like a speed puzzler.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my, I actually saw an Instagram reel about this recent.

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<v Speaker 3>Where people put jigsaw puzzles together as fast as they can.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a big competition that they have where there's

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<v Speaker 1>like eight tables of teams all in one room and

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<v Speaker 1>then they like dump all the pieces out at once.

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<v Speaker 1>Whichever team saws it first wins.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, could I be the one person in the room

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<v Speaker 5>that just sticks one piece in your pocket?

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<v Speaker 3>Just be worth it? Who turns on each other?

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<v Speaker 1>Did I describe that right? Is that what you were

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<v Speaker 1>talking about? Yeah? For sure.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, like we were just messaging back and forth

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<v Speaker 2>on a dating act and I was like it was weird,

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<v Speaker 2>and she told me all about it. Like three to

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<v Speaker 2>four people get together and like DJ plays it's like

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<v Speaker 2>a bingo hall, you know, and like and it's like

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<v Speaker 2>a thing. Yeah, they throw it all down. Everybody is

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<v Speaker 2>on the clock and you got to put it together,

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<v Speaker 2>and you like pay money to like do this.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh it's okay. So there's like a pot that you

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<v Speaker 3>can win at the end. Is that how it works?

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<v Speaker 2>And then you split it with your team? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh dang, so you probably were I was going to say.

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<v Speaker 5>At first, I thought this would be like an easy

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<v Speaker 5>like activity to be like, oh, we should do it together,

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<v Speaker 5>but no, this is too competitive, not the most romantic experience.

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<v Speaker 3>She probably wouldn't let you do it right, right.

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<v Speaker 1>So what what did you do for a day. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you end up going out with her?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean we just totally clicked. We just decided

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<v Speaker 2>to do like a coffee date, you know, quick little

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<v Speaker 2>thirty minutes thing. What we were planning on doing.

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<v Speaker 6>Start a timer.

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<v Speaker 1>Question. How was it?

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it wasn't fine? I was it was all right.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, like we meant we met.

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<v Speaker 1>We should get her name too, because oh yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>an important piece of this puzzle.

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<v Speaker 2>Her name is Aaron.

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<v Speaker 1>Aaron. Okay, it was.

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<v Speaker 3>Interesting how you just said. I thought it was fine.

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<v Speaker 3>It was all right, like.

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<v Speaker 2>It started off well, but it it got weird. Like

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<v Speaker 2>so we met up in lying like asked what she wanted,

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<v Speaker 2>and like I did the coffee order, and like she

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<v Speaker 2>sat down, and I mean, like I sat down for

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit. My name was called. So I went

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<v Speaker 2>up to go get our coffees. And as I was

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<v Speaker 2>like walking back to the table, I realized that on

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<v Speaker 2>the coffee cup there was a different one named Devin

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<v Speaker 2>and a phone number.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait what, I'm confused. Do you grab somebody else's coffee?

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I was thinking, And so like I went,

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<v Speaker 2>I went back to the coffee counter and I said, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>like yeah, I think I got the wrong coffee. It's

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<v Speaker 2>a it's a different name, and so the guy that

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<v Speaker 2>was there said, Nope, that's the right one.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh he was trying to give his number to her.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know, Like I didn't ask that. So

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<v Speaker 2>I went back to the table and I sat down

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, is somebody trying to ask you out?

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<v Speaker 2>And in my head I was like trying to process

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<v Speaker 2>it because I didn't. I didn't want to do nothing

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<v Speaker 2>about it.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, that's weird you would do that on like

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<v Speaker 5>some you're obviously on a date, Like you can tell

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<v Speaker 5>when there's two people at a coffee shop who.

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<v Speaker 1>Were on a first how can you tell?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, it's just like the awkwardness. They don't

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<v Speaker 3>get a probably hear their small talk, like so how.

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<v Speaker 1>Is your day? Okay, so you you were giving off

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<v Speaker 1>first date vibes with ar in line, and I guess

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<v Speaker 1>another guy saw that and thought he could swoop in.

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<v Speaker 2>So like I went back to the counter and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, so Who's I said it, like really loudly,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, who's Devin? Like I'm on a date?

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<v Speaker 2>Who did this?

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<v Speaker 4>So?

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wait?

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<v Speaker 1>You fronted the boy in front of Aaron, in front

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<v Speaker 1>of the whole like coffee establishment.

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<v Speaker 6>It got weird, and.

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<v Speaker 2>I admit, like, it got awkward, and so she ended

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<v Speaker 2>up coming out and over and she was like, what

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<v Speaker 2>are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Calm down?

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<v Speaker 2>And I like we went back to the table and

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<v Speaker 2>like nobody answered me.

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<v Speaker 3>Devin never came forward.

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<v Speaker 2>Devin never came forward.

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<v Speaker 1>Devin was scared.

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<v Speaker 2>And so like, yeah, it got awkward. After that, I

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<v Speaker 2>went back to the table. We hung out for like

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<v Speaker 2>twenty minutes.

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<v Speaker 3>Twenty more. Wait that was only ten minutes into the

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<v Speaker 3>date that happened. Holy heck.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so look she's great.

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<v Speaker 2>I made it awkward. I want to redo. We never

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<v Speaker 2>even talked about puzzles.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the whole thing all.

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<v Speaker 5>It would just send up so many red flags that

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<v Speaker 5>you're like a crazy jealous type, even though it's an

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<v Speaker 5>inappropriate move for Devin to make, whoever the hell Devon.

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<v Speaker 1>Is or could have been seen as like a chivalrous

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<v Speaker 1>move standing up for your date. Yeah yeah, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>not your place yet. Yeah, it's definitely how we should

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<v Speaker 1>spin it. When we call Aaron, you can say he

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<v Speaker 1>was standing up for you and standing up for the date.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe we should just spin it as like he's embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 3>He wants to redo.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's kind of what I was hoping. I just

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<v Speaker 2>want to apologize, and I just want to be like,

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<v Speaker 2>can we just try it again?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you haven't apologized yet.

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<v Speaker 2>No no, no, no, like I have, but she hasn't texted back.

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis, if you were on that date, would you give

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<v Speaker 1>him another chance?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, for the case of this segment, Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop another guy from hitting on me.

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<v Speaker 5>Because I hope I'm gonna get hit on a lot

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<v Speaker 5>more times in public, so like, I don't want that

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<v Speaker 5>happen every time.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I was hoping for a stronger answer from your dad. Yeah, probably,

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<v Speaker 1>I said for the segment. We'll hope for a yap.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably when we call Aaron and try and get you

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, great, thanks, all right, now.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on second date update. Nothing worse than getting hit

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<v Speaker 1>with some fdsa first date swoop action where somebody else

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<v Speaker 1>tries to hit on your date while you're currently with that.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's what happened to one of our listeners, Corey,

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<v Speaker 1>who took a woman named Aaron out to coffee and

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<v Speaker 1>while they were there, one of the baristas wrote their

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<v Speaker 1>phone number onto Aaron's cup, and then Corey had to

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<v Speaker 1>deliver it to her. So just insult to injury right there,

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<v Speaker 1>and in processing what to do, Corey thought the best

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<v Speaker 1>move was to just go up and confront the barista

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<v Speaker 1>in front of everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, and so awkwardly.

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<v Speaker 1>Now he's not going to call back, which maybe means

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<v Speaker 1>that wasn't the best movie. But the good news is,

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<v Speaker 1>just like the coffees that Alexis used to serve at

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<v Speaker 1>Herberst the job, you can always ask for a redo,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what we're doing today.

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<v Speaker 3>No, if something was wrong, that wasn't my fault in them. Never, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Fault that happened on his dates.

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<v Speaker 3>It was the confrontation that turned everything that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Corey can be forgiven for being put into

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<v Speaker 1>a rough spot.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh I don't. I think he knows he did that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I definitely overacted, But we're just speculating. So we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna find out once and for all when we call

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<v Speaker 1>Aaron how she felt about it, because maybe she felt

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<v Speaker 1>like it was a very heroic move.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like it's a big mystery to I think

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<v Speaker 5>he's just trying to defend aman I am.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, he's always trying to defend our listeners.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard to do this job sometimes over a here

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<v Speaker 1>trying to be the hero, the white Knight of the

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<v Speaker 1>listeners on the flat. I appreciate you, jeppreciate you, Corey. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Aaron to appreciate you too, So let's call her and

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<v Speaker 1>force her to appreciate your.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, we're looking for Aaron.

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<v Speaker 6>This is she.

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<v Speaker 1>You made a big mistake.

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<v Speaker 3>Not start like that a.

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<v Speaker 1>Little mift.

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<v Speaker 3>No, you made the right choice, is what she did.

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<v Speaker 3>But maybe we can.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. This is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 3>We're a whole show.

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<v Speaker 7>Show.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, this This is a segment that we do

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<v Speaker 1>on our show that's called a second Date Update, where

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<v Speaker 1>we try to help our listeners meet up with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>that they went out with recently for a second time.

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<v Speaker 7>And you're calling me because I went on a.

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<v Speaker 3>Date and the guy was really interested in you.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Corey.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, okay, uh huh, yeah, she's not gonna forget

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<v Speaker 3>I'd the story.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't loving your reaction to the name Corey there,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're just trying to help Corey figure out if

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<v Speaker 1>something maybe went wrong on the date, or.

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<v Speaker 7>You want me to let you know, yes happened or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Well here, let me just tell you. Corey says he

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<v Speaker 1>feels like he may have overreacted slightly to the situation.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if we should put slightly in there.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like he feels like it was a mild,

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<v Speaker 1>very light jump to conclusions.

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<v Speaker 5>Of what happened, mild confrontation at the costa leaving a

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<v Speaker 5>phone number on your cup.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, that's not exactly what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean, Well, we only have Corey's side

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<v Speaker 1>of the story, so maybe he missed something.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, well, I mean it's kind of it's kind of

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<v Speaker 7>like embarrased.

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<v Speaker 6>So so like I'm so I'm a girl, Yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So you all you all go on dates and you know,

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<v Speaker 4>you tell your friends where you're going.

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<v Speaker 3>And right, okay, you're like safety net.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>So I have a friend that is a barista at

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<v Speaker 6>the coffee shop that I chose for us to go to,

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<v Speaker 6>and so often I'll be like, if I drop my

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<v Speaker 6>spoon on the ground, this person is crazy and I

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<v Speaker 6>need you to come over, and you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>Like you buying, but she's keeping an eye out for

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<v Speaker 6>me or whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>So what does it have to do with the number

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<v Speaker 3>and the name on the country?

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<v Speaker 6>So listen, So I do this thing. My hobby is

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<v Speaker 6>beed puzzling.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, he told us about that. He was excited

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<v Speaker 5>about that. He thought that was cool.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh and so I have a team of four, or

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<v Speaker 6>I had a team of four, but our fourth member

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<v Speaker 6>recently moved and it's Devin's number. Who is a person

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<v Speaker 6>that my friend wanted me to text to be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 6>I hear you're a puzzler. You put the number on

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<v Speaker 6>my cup and then they outlined it in the shape

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<v Speaker 6>of a puzzle piece.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he told us about that, but he didn't mention

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<v Speaker 1>anything about the puzzle piece.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, he was more focused on the number than actually

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<v Speaker 6>looking at it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, why wouldn't your friend just text you?

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<v Speaker 6>Was the busiest day at the coffee shop, Like the

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<v Speaker 6>line was really long, and so I think she saw

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<v Speaker 6>me and was like, oh, yeah, I gotta tell her

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<v Speaker 6>about Devin.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, why didn't you explain this to him

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<v Speaker 5>when he was yelling.

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<v Speaker 6>This was before I even got the cop And then

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<v Speaker 6>I see him yelling at the people and then he

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<v Speaker 6>comes back.

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<v Speaker 1>So you didn't really know that that's what the confrontation

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<v Speaker 1>was about until he brought the cop to your table.

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<v Speaker 7>He brought the cup and I saw the number and

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<v Speaker 7>the name, and I was like, I didn't know, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody knew who Devin was because Devin wasn't there in

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<v Speaker 1>that coffee.

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<v Speaker 6>Devin is not a barista.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought Devon was just a scaredy cat hiding in

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<v Speaker 3>the back.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to talk about a scaredy cat who's

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<v Speaker 1>hiding right now, that would be Corey hiding on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening to this conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's got to be embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, No, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, sorry, Aaron, that's how the segment works.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah wait wait, so so let me just clarify Devin.

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<v Speaker 2>Devin is a gal that's supposed to be on your team,

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<v Speaker 2>and like, there was no Devon back you had a

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<v Speaker 2>friend who was a barista back there. That's right. Wait,

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<v Speaker 2>who's this?

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<v Speaker 1>That's Corey on the other line. He's been listening to

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<v Speaker 1>this conversation quietly.

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<v Speaker 5>Coming in a little high Yeah again yeah Corey.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Hi.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, It's just like like nobody told me that I

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<v Speaker 2>would rather have heard that than just like nothing, you know, like,

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<v Speaker 2>please tell me the truth, Like I want to know

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<v Speaker 2>what is going on here, so that I can like

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<v Speaker 2>judge it appropriately. Like I was just living in a.

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<v Speaker 6>Fan we had just met.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know.

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<v Speaker 6>If, like you would also get mad that my friend

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<v Speaker 6>was there, you know what I mean? Like, how would

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<v Speaker 6>I get mad at chat? I thought you would get

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<v Speaker 6>mad because you already yelled at the baristas.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's kind of a solid read on there, dude,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know, man, I like it just it

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<v Speaker 2>just blows my mind that your choice was to not explain.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought you wanted to apologize for this.

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<v Speaker 1>That was an apology if you really look hard at it.

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<v Speaker 2>Ye, Like I'm apologizing for reacting off of something that

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<v Speaker 2>like I didn't. I did react big. I did react big.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll fully admit that. I'm so sorry about that.

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<v Speaker 1>But like, I don't think you need about it. Then

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<v Speaker 1>you just leave it where you had it. Sound it good,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll leave it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll leave it at that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, there you go. He's so deeply sorry for how

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<v Speaker 1>he reacted and wishes that he could take it all back,

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<v Speaker 1>and we would love to offer you the chance to

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<v Speaker 1>take it all back by sending you on another date

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<v Speaker 1>that we would pay for. We all know he was

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<v Speaker 1>going to say it's your friend's fault for writing. But Aaron,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's our offer to you. We'll offer to send

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<v Speaker 1>you and Corey out one more time on our dime.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, let's put the pieces of this puzzle back together. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we never even got to the puzzle.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I guess it's I guess it's up to him,

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<v Speaker 6>because it sounds like he's pretty mad at me for

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<v Speaker 6>doing the girl thing of having a backup.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm mad that you didn't tell me. You didn't, like,

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't feel okay to share.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, you know, yeah I didn't because, like we'd known

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<v Speaker 6>each other for ten minutes, and I saw your reaction

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<v Speaker 6>to the burista, and so I was afraid that you'd

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<v Speaker 6>take it out on me too. So I just protect

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<v Speaker 6>myself by not bringing it up.

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<v Speaker 3>Man, is this one giant red flax? Yah?

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<v Speaker 7>It's a girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, you know this is good. We get all

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<v Speaker 1>of the therapy out now. Oh and then the relationship

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<v Speaker 1>is smooth sailing the rest of the way.

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<v Speaker 5>I have told myself many times.

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<v Speaker 1>The part is the first date, Yes, exactly, so there

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<v Speaker 1>you go, erin will send you out?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, I mean honestly, our first day was really

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<v Speaker 7>only like thirty minutes maybe, so I guess I'd be

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<v Speaker 7>open to going out on a longer date.

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<v Speaker 1>Corey, she's being very forgiving here because she realizes that

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't know the full scope of what really was

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<v Speaker 1>going on with the phone number on her cup. She

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<v Speaker 1>sees that, can you be forgiving of Aaron and try

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<v Speaker 1>this thing again with less confusion and yelling next time?

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<v Speaker 2>Let's give another shot?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, yeah, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, congratulations you tube. We're guys going to head up

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<v Speaker 1>one more time.

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<v Speaker 5>Why do I have a feeling we're not going to

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<v Speaker 5>hear an update updates?

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<v Speaker 1>Not that attitude, come on that.

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<v Speaker 2>Look and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of that call, Brooke mentioned something that

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<v Speaker 1>we do on our show called second date update update,

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<v Speaker 1>where we check back in with a couple months later

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<v Speaker 1>after they've agreed to go out again to find out

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<v Speaker 1>how the relationship's going. Brooke said she doesn't think we'll

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<v Speaker 1>get one from Corey and Aaron. And my question, Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>is why wouldn't we really why wouldn't we.

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<v Speaker 3>Want that because it just sounds like they're just not.

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<v Speaker 1>The radio gold is what it sounds like. I learn

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<v Speaker 1>to hear. If he's yelling at a Barisa on their

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<v Speaker 1>first outing, just imagine what would happen on their second

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<v Speaker 1>dated short temper.

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<v Speaker 3>On the air.

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<v Speaker 5>I was thinking as a person instead of a producer, our.

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<v Speaker 1>Ratings, need them back for an update update. I would

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely tune in to hear that.

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<v Speaker 3>Well. I would too, thought that I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, would totally totally email us not. I mean, we're

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<v Speaker 1>not going to help much with your mental health or

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<v Speaker 1>your actual relationship. Probably it really no. We promise we'll

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<v Speaker 1>give it our best shot to help you in your

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<v Speaker 1>love life. Email the show. We'll call that person wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back, And by the way, for your own

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<v Speaker 1>mental health, go check out our podcast. You can listen

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<v Speaker 1>to all our second date updates wherever you get yours

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<v Speaker 1>at Brook and Jeffrey