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Speaker 1: Rib the biggest stories.

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Speaker 2: Of the day, right, So this Nancy Guthrie case continues.

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Speaker 2: I mean, talk about how does somebody disappear without a

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Speaker 1: I don't even I didn't think that was possible anymore.

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Speaker 2: Everyone's got cameras all over their house, and cameras on

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Speaker 2: the stop lights, and satellites in the sky and whatever else.

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Speaker 2: But one month after Nancy Guthrie disappeared from her Arizona home,

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Speaker 2: investigators still have no clear account of what happened to

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Speaker 2: the eighty four year old Aerial video on Monday showed

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Speaker 2: her daughter today in Chris Savannah Guthrie, and other family

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Speaker 2: members laying flowers at a memorial outside the house. Authority

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Speaker 2: say that they've received tens of thousands of tips and

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Speaker 2: pursuit thousands of leads, but none have produced a breakthrough.

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Speaker 2: DNA recovered from inside the home described by investigators. He

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Speaker 2: is described by investigators is as a mixture for multiple people.

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Speaker 2: Is now undergoing genetic testing, but still a month later,

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Speaker 2: they have no idea which either the investigators are inept

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Speaker 2: which is like, no wonder if these letters they've been getting,

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Speaker 2: these ransom letters are from the actual person.

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Speaker 1: No wonder.

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Speaker 2: They're like so nonchalant because they got away with it.

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Speaker 2: You can't find me. It's really crazy. The Department of

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Speaker 2: Justice is trial against Live Nation and Ticketmaster started in

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Speaker 2: court yesterday in Manhattan. The anti trust case began with

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Speaker 2: the jury selection yesterday and opening statements of scheduled to

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Speaker 2: start today. The trials expected to last six weeks. The

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Speaker 2: dozens of states and Washington d C. It alleges at

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Speaker 2: Live Nation illegally dominated the live concert industry by monopolizing ticketing,

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Speaker 2: concert booking venues, and promotions. The lawsuit said this activity

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Speaker 2: led to fans paying more and fees, artists getting fewer

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Speaker 2: chances to play concerts, and venues having limited choices for

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Speaker 2: ticketing services. This whole thing really started with Taylor, right,

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Speaker 2: mm hmm, people trying to get tailor tickets where.

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Speaker 1: It became obvious. Yeah, and that's when you two decided

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, And now every tour has like

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Speaker 3: great war like airy everyone say.

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Speaker 2: Everybody knows like I said yesterday about you know, hype

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Speaker 2: bee'st clothing. If you want something from the internet, just

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Speaker 4: It for you.

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Speaker 1: It's true.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, go to the computer lab and find the

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Speaker 2: kid who's writing code, and then he'll figure out how

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Speaker 2: to do it for you.

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Speaker 1: If you're into space, we love space.

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Speaker 2: Around here, a blood red moon will be visible in

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Speaker 2: the sky this morning is part of a total lunar eclipse.

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Speaker 2: The blood moon looks red because bits of sunlight filter

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Speaker 2: eclipse won't need any special glass.

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Speaker 1: It's just a clear cloudlest view of the sky.

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Speaker 2: This type of red moon won't be seen again until

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Speaker 2: late twenty twenty eight. This cript up on me because

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Speaker 2: I need to go buy the ticket because I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: win mega millions. He is nearly half a billion dollars

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Speaker 2: four hundred and seventy three million ahead of tonight's drawing.

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Speaker 2: The cash option works out to about two hundred and

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Speaker 2: twenty two million. I'm not going to tell you the odds.

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Speaker 2: They don't matter because the odds for us to win

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Speaker 2: are very good. I just need to remember to buy

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Speaker 2: you guys heard about this? And I have no tie

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Speaker 2: is urging the Atlanta Hawks to rethink a promotion that

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Speaker 2: trip clubs. They're doing a Magic City Monday event at

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Speaker 2: the Atlanta Hawks game.

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Speaker 1: What's the problem. That's awesome? Nothing at all.

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Speaker 2: The Center for the San Antonio Spurs who asked you,

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Speaker 2: to scrap its Magic City Monday event, tied to Monday's

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Speaker 2: City Adult entertainment club. He argued the league should remain

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Speaker 1: What are you talking.

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Speaker 2: Magic City has been supported by NBA players for generations.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, there's respect. That's your own moral code.

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Speaker 2: And you go to Magic City or what you do.

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Speaker 2: The Hawks announced the promotion last week, featuring a performance

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Speaker 2: by Atlanta rapper Tei, a collaborative hoodie for sale, and

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Speaker 2: But this guy who played for the Spurs road that

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Speaker 2: allowing the Knight to proceed without protests risks complicity in

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Speaker 2: the potential objectification and mistreatment of women. Instead, celebrating a

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Speaker 2: He also noted that the Hawks promoted the event as

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Speaker 2: respond to the request. I did see the hoodie, and

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Speaker 2: I did want it. I just have no other reason

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Speaker 1: I would respect the move. Yeah, I thought about it though.

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Speaker 2: students who frequently skipped school Paulina. The Georgia State Senate

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Speaker 2: have five unexcused absences in the first fifty days of school.

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Speaker 2: school activities, including sports, ban choir, and drama. See, we

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Speaker 2: I guess if you had, you know, fifty people in

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so you you went to a similar school

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Speaker 2: Would you call from the same number and do that?

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Speaker 2: Because I guess back in the day you could do that.

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Speaker 7: the worst thing for administrations.

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Speaker 3: People they got to do.

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Speaker 1: We wouldn't come back ever coming back lunch.

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Speaker 7: You're not coming back now the rest of your three classes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh we got to leave for lunch too, but

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Speaker 1: I think real quick. There's no skipping school. Yeah. Everyone

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Speaker 1: Nothing. I should be a rule follower too.

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Speaker 2: and behold, we'll be playing the crap out of it.

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Speaker 1: I promise you that, I promise you exactly.

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Speaker 2: It's national pancake tape and it's national anthem.

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Speaker 1: D ye. Hey, I don't make the days.

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Speaker 2: And it's Magic City day to day too, you know,

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Speaker 2: if you know, you know, I don't if I can.

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Speaker 1: Still get the hoodie anything.

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Speaker 2: I thought it was like a poser wearing an Atlanta hoodie,

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Speaker 1: And I have nothing to do with Atlanta. It's stay

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Speaker 2: You got an issue and you think, Man, I'd love

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Speaker 2: I know that probably comes up regularly. Fred Show Radio

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Speaker 1: Up, Ethan. Good morning, Ethan. Hello, Oh very Ethan. You're

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Speaker 1: so distraught? How are you? Ethan? You all right?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean as all right as they can be.

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Speaker 2: All right as you can be. So I have your

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Speaker 2: been with a woman for a while, it seems like,

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Speaker 2: but you've been having some issues of late.

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Speaker 4: Right, correct, over the past couple years. It's been rough

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Speaker 4: Three month break, just reset everything, just you know, clear

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Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, after you know, killing out what it

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Speaker 1: And so she found someone else. Yeah, but this is

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Speaker 2: call again. I mean, I guess I don't. What did

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Speaker 4: Well, we only intended to break up for three months,

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Speaker 4: Right, I didn't even think to think about that because

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Speaker 4: Yes, she wants to be with me. Yes, the three

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Speaker 1: Everything. Well, I want to know what.

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Speaker 2: People have to say about this, about this whole break

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Speaker 2: real question. What's happened? Has happened? She wants to get

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Speaker 1: We're going to work on this. Now I get back together.

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Speaker 4: Yes, and we have so much history to lean on.

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Speaker 4: It's just you know that it happened, and I don't

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Speaker 2: You guys were having issues and you decided together to

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Speaker 2: Maybe in some ways it just reinforces that you guys

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Speaker 4: I don't get over it. I'm i kiel myself right

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but but he doesn't get to dictate. There were

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Speaker 2: It wasn't as though they sat down and said, let's

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Speaker 2: would you not agree, Ethan? You broke up for three

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Speaker 4: Yes to no conditions, But I mean to me, because

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Speaker 4: And yes, I didn't have brand rules or conditions for

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it.

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Speaker 4: Sucks constantly, you know, think of each other.

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Speaker 2: And it sucks, Ethan, that you were committed to sort

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Speaker 2: isn't it. I mean, whatever she found out there wasn't

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Speaker 2: better in her opinion, right, Glass, Well let me I'll

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Speaker 2: take some other perspectives on this and we'll see what

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Speaker 1: Man.

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Speaker 2: I can hear in your voice you know you're hurting,

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Speaker 2: if this is always going to linger, then you can't

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Speaker 2: but I wish you the best, Ethan, thanks for calling.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: I appreciate your time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you got it, guys, sounds devastated, he does. I

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Speaker 1: do a break, just break up.

440
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Speaker 7: That's just I've always been a believer in that, because

441
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Speaker 7: like anything can happen those three months, Right, I understand,

442
00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:52,120
Speaker 7: like you're taking a break from this person and you're

443
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Speaker 7: going to see if you can live without. I get

444
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Speaker 7: what this was, but again, there were no rules. She

445
00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:58,680
Speaker 7: did what she did, and now that's going to linger

446
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Speaker 7: in your brain for a very long time.

447
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Speaker 2: Here's another question, and again eight five five, five nine

448
00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:05,520
Speaker 2: one of three five So get ahold of us called

449
00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:06,320
Speaker 2: text the same number.

450
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Speaker 1: Here's another thing. Should she even have told him?

451
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Speaker 4: No?

452
00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:09,760
Speaker 1: No, No, I might have.

453
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Speaker 2: Not if it was a one off deal that didn't

454
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Speaker 2: mean anything. Honestly, I don't know that I short of like,

455
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Speaker 2: I don't know bringing any sort of outside anything into

456
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Speaker 2: the relationship, like if you you know, maybe get tested

457
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Speaker 2: or something, so there's no like risk. But I mean

458
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Speaker 2: what I'm saying is otherwise unless it's like a health thing,

459
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Speaker 2: I don't know that he needed to know that, because

460
00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:32,440
Speaker 2: now this might kill the whole thing.

461
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Speaker 1: You could live with yourself not saying it. I wasn't.

462
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Speaker 1: I didn't do anything wrong, I know, but like, oh yeah,

463
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Speaker 1: for like what reason? I didn't do anything wrong? Eric?

464
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Speaker 1: How you doing? You say? Go by the way, Hey, hey,

465
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Speaker 1: hey y'all doing Hey Hey, hello, Eric, We are all

466
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Speaker 1: doing great? What do you do here?

467
00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:51,600
Speaker 4: Hey?

468
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Speaker 2: Hey?

469
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you doing Oh?

470
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Speaker 8: So I think he's this. That's a lot of us.

471
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Speaker 8: Man that ran into that situation right there with a woman.

472
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Speaker 8: And I was telling the woman over the phone. I

473
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Speaker 8: was letting her know, like, I think, Hi, Hefner didn't

474
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Speaker 8: have these issues. He had fifty women in the in

475
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Speaker 8: the house like that. It'd be the man that's trying to.

476
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Speaker 1: That you just made.

477
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Speaker 8: I'm like, his mentality was just completely different, like you

478
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Speaker 8: in the household. And then he's chasing this one woman

479
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Speaker 8: that been with him for years and didn't want to

480
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Speaker 8: separate go be with another, like he just too down

481
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Speaker 8: and like he I don't know, he got to outgrow that.

482
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Speaker 1: So how many women should he have? How many women

483
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Speaker 1: do you?

484
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Speaker 4: Said?

485
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Speaker 1: If you got a lot of women, then you have

486
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Speaker 1: to worry about one. I guess. So there's that, But

487
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Speaker 1: you're right, how many do you have? Eric? How many

488
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Speaker 1: are you juggling currently? Like?

489
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Speaker 8: So, so I had a situation like this before. And

490
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Speaker 8: when I bring up things like this, I'll say, yeah,

491
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Speaker 8: I'll tell my girlfriend this, and then she the whole

492
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:01,760
Speaker 8: face expression changes.

493
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Speaker 5: How does that go?

494
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Speaker 8: Like you don't care what girl? Is she didn't know

495
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Speaker 8: who's talking to who? You got fifty different women in

496
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Speaker 8: the household, but.

497
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Speaker 1: How many do you have? You never answered the question.

498
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Speaker 4: Oh I only got one? All right?

499
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Speaker 2: I don't know, man. I have a good day, Eric.

500
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Speaker 2: I appreciate you. Be somebody executed that. I'm wrong. I mean, period,

501
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 2: Fred is absolutely wrong. Love you, but he needs to go.

502
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Speaker 2: I was the person who got with a guy when

503
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Speaker 2: he was on a break. Of course I didn't know

504
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Speaker 2: until I found out I was pregnant. Well, if you're

505
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Speaker 2: on a break, then it should be to focus on

506
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:49,359
Speaker 2: growing and improving. He's hurt and having right to me,

507
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Speaker 2: I'm not saying he does. I've said multiple times that

508
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Speaker 2: I understand that he's heard. I hear that he's heard.

509
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Speaker 2: I understand why. But there were no rules. You broke up,

510
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Speaker 2: way right up.

511
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Speaker 1: You broke up.

512
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Speaker 3: You broke up.

513
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Speaker 2: Kathy, Yeah, Hi, Kathy?

514
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Speaker 1: How you doing? You say go yes, hi, Kathy, you

515
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:18,400
Speaker 1: say go go hi?

516
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Speaker 7: Yes yes.

517
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Speaker 6: I think if they were going to take a break

518
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Speaker 6: for three months and they agreed to that, she should

519
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Speaker 6: have really done what he did and worked on herself

520
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:30,720
Speaker 6: and then if she wants someone after, then do that.

521
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Speaker 6: But that's not what they agreed.

522
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Speaker 1: She did work on herself while working on somebody else. Look,

523
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Speaker 1: but there were no rules like they were.

524
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Speaker 2: They worked. I think if your expectation in a break

525
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Speaker 2: is that you're not going to get with somebody else,

526
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Speaker 2: and you got to say that, I think you have

527
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Speaker 2: to define the kind of break that we're talking about here,

528
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Speaker 2: and they didn't. And so I'm sad that he's sad,

529
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 2: but like, Roe.

530
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Speaker 1: Actually hate this. I want her to go now now

531
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Speaker 1: that I think about it.

532
00:23:57,119 --> 00:23:59,200
Speaker 7: Yes, he wanted his cake too, and he wanted to eat.

533
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Speaker 1: If somebody texted that, and I agree, think about it.

534
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 7: If we're breaking up ray and he's like, but you

535
00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 7: can't do this, you can't do that, gotta think of

536
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:06,920
Speaker 7: me for three months, Like excuse me, but you don't

537
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 7: want me, you don't want to be with me. I understand.

538
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:09,400
Speaker 1: We're figuring out.

539
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:11,560
Speaker 2: He wanted to clear the air, he wanted the problems.

540
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:14,359
Speaker 2: He wanted to hopefully like hit reset on the relationship.

541
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Speaker 2: But it's a very risky move. It's a very risky move.

542
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, go ahead.

543
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Speaker 6: I think that's a break. Was meant to kind of

544
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Speaker 6: like settle some dust and take some space.

545
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Speaker 8: But that didn't seem.

546
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Speaker 6: Like she was suddling any dush.

547
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Speaker 2: Yeah, go out here, Okay, I don't think I don't.

548
00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 2: I don't think she did anything wrong. I mean, if

549
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:37,879
Speaker 2: this is and thank you Kathy for calling, you, have

550
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 2: a good day. If this is the demise of the relationship,

551
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Speaker 2: find but it would sad because I don't know that

552
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Speaker 2: she violated any terms of a break.

553
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Speaker 1: Brian, how you doing? Good morning?

554
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Speaker 4: Y'all?

555
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Speaker 2: All right, Brian, are you gonna make it? You haf

556
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:55,199
Speaker 2: no reference or not? I'm scared. No, Okay, all right,

557
00:24:55,280 --> 00:25:02,400
Speaker 2: there go so I say you should so okay. Why

558
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:03,200
Speaker 2: the reason.

559
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:06,440
Speaker 8: Being because when they broke up initially, if he didn't.

560
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Speaker 1: Stipulate you know what this is really gonna be? What

561
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:10,880
Speaker 1: the rules and regulations go be, that's.

562
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Speaker 4: On him and her to a degree, but that's on him.

563
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:16,640
Speaker 6: All this all I could think about was her and man,

564
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 6: that's a sucking.

565
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 1: You need to be specific and what's go like.

566
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Speaker 8: I've been in a relationship for fifteen years and we

567
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:24,400
Speaker 8: communication is key.

568
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 1: So if he's not gonna be direct.

569
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Speaker 8: And all this other stuff, that's on him either that

570
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 8: or I'm you know, get his get back.

571
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Speaker 1: But even its way, you know, no.

572
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Speaker 4: Man, stay with your girls. You didn't specify you out

573
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 4: there her. She was at home spooling your thumbs.

574
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:40,360
Speaker 1: That's on you, bro.

575
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Speaker 2: Yes, he had every opportunity to go do the same

576
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 2: thing and he didn't. And it's lovely that he was

577
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 2: so focused on her that he didn't do that. But

578
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:50,919
Speaker 2: I mean, if the roles are reversed, I have a

579
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,399
Speaker 2: feeling he would want to be forgiven too, and he

580
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:54,399
Speaker 2: would want to move forward.

581
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:55,760
Speaker 1: He just didn't make that choice.

582
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Speaker 6: Yeah, all right, my man's had ninety days to go

583
00:25:58,760 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 6: out there and do what he needs to do.

584
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 2: All right, all right, Brian, thank you laughing? You laughing, Brian,

585
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:09,239
Speaker 2: you're laughing in this man's face. I'm going through all

586
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 2: these texts. I don't know, it seems pretty fifty to

587
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 2: fifty here. He needs to go. He'll never get over

588
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 2: I mean, that's what it comes down to. Are you

589
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:18,879
Speaker 2: gonna get over this or not? It doesn't sound like

590
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 2: he is, no, so that might that might be the

591
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 2: end then, because again, if it's gonna come up every time,

592
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 2: if he's going to wallow in this thing forever, then

593
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 2: he never should have agreed to a break. They should

594
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Speaker 2: have I don't know, gone a therapy or done something

595
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,680
Speaker 2: different where they stayed together and then that you know,

596
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,160
Speaker 2: the terms of a relationship stayed intact.

597
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 4: Yep.

598
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:39,439
Speaker 2: He just he expected her to do the same thing

599
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:41,879
Speaker 2: he did and now he's bummed she didn't. That's what

600
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 2: this is really about.

601
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Speaker 1: There you go, right, yeah, all yeah, thank you so much, right,