WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Micro Naps

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jewels. Second date date. Do you ever have one

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<v Speaker 1>of those days where you feel like the world's just

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<v Speaker 1>making you its personal toilet, like the day after it

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<v Speaker 1>had some bad Mexican food and it just keeps dumping

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<v Speaker 1>on you over and over and over again. Well, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of day that Kevin had when he decided

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<v Speaker 1>to go out on a date with the girl that

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to call today. Her name is Denise. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess Kevin, your email said that you had a terrible

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<v Speaker 1>day when you went out with this girl. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>the worst. I don't even know what happened, and I

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<v Speaker 1>already feel empathy for you. So tell us a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about it. What was so bad about your day? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So leading up to the date, Um, somebody rear ended me,

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<v Speaker 1>so I had to bring the car into the shop.

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<v Speaker 1>So I didn't have a car to bring her on

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<v Speaker 1>the date. Oh that sucks, okay, But she's got a

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<v Speaker 1>understanding of that, Like you gave her heads up, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Well yeah, yeah, I had given her heads though, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was you know, last minute, like two hours before

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<v Speaker 1>the date. Oh that sucks, all right. So running through

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<v Speaker 1>my head now, I'm like I looked like an idiot

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<v Speaker 1>because I shan't bring her on the date. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>what you want to be. You want to be gentleman, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, chivalry. But at least it wasn't like you

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<v Speaker 1>just didn't have a car and you forgot to tell

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<v Speaker 1>her in two hours before you're like, oh, yeah, my bad,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta drive. You were in an accident. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>if anything, it's got to be a good read on

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<v Speaker 1>her personality, right, because if she's a total ahole about it,

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<v Speaker 1>you probably know you don't want to date her any further. Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's a really good point because people also tend

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<v Speaker 1>to judge you on the first date. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you're going out on a first date with somebody. That's

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<v Speaker 1>always when they're looking at you most critically. Absolutely, So

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<v Speaker 1>what else happened? I mean, was that the terrible bad

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<v Speaker 1>thing that happened to you that day? Well that was

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<v Speaker 1>pretty pretty bad because then I had to call her

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<v Speaker 1>and ask her to come pick me up. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>So it started out being hey, I'll pick you up

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<v Speaker 1>at seven, and then it was um, I got a

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<v Speaker 1>car accident, can you come pick me up at seven? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>And then how how bad does it look if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>opening the door of her car to you know, get

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<v Speaker 1>her to say it, Yeah, did you do that? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you actually go and open her car door? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>did as a joke to kind of break the eye.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good move, A good move. She thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was funny. She thought it was funny. That's good. So

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<v Speaker 1>we get to the restaurant, and then to make my

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<v Speaker 1>day even worse, they didn't have my reservation. That sucks

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<v Speaker 1>because now it looks like you didn't even make a reservation.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know it looks even worse on my

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<v Speaker 1>behalf because here I am trying to be really organized

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<v Speaker 1>for this date and she's kind of looking at me

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<v Speaker 1>as if to say, who is Yeah, I would start

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<v Speaker 1>to not believe any of your story at this point,

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah, yeah, that's exactly why I thought she was thinking.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you kind of look at somebody's face and

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<v Speaker 1>you can see their eyes kind of drifting to the side,

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<v Speaker 1>like oh God, okay, sure your car us in the shop?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah all right, sure you made a reservation. What's next?

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<v Speaker 1>You forgot your credit card and she has to pay?

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<v Speaker 1>Imagine that, No, I had my credit card with me. Good,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad. We at least got that worked out. Where'd

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<v Speaker 1>you guys end up eating? Did you go somewhere else? Well? No,

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<v Speaker 1>we actually got to stay at that restaurant because they

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<v Speaker 1>had a space at the back of the restaurant right

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<v Speaker 1>by the kitchen. Oh, one of the good tables. So

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<v Speaker 1>how was dinner once you finally got in there? It

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<v Speaker 1>was actually really good. Yeah, we had a great time. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>we had just talked the entire time. We kind of

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<v Speaker 1>put our cell phones to the side. Do you know

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<v Speaker 1>how you stack upon so that the first person to

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<v Speaker 1>answer the cell phone typically pay for the meal. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what we were kind of joking about. Oh, I've never

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<v Speaker 1>played that game. Sounds fine. Oh yeah, it's really efficient.

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<v Speaker 1>It gets people off their phones really quick. Yeah. So wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you were actually going to take her pay if she

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<v Speaker 1>answered a text message before you? Well, I was out,

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to pay anyway. Well, it was just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of incentive for us to really keep communicatient. I

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<v Speaker 1>got a fun icebreaker. Yeah. So we finished meal, we

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<v Speaker 1>get to dessert, and we actually had dessert, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a great sign on a date because that means, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you can just talk over dessert. You never want to

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<v Speaker 1>eat dessert fast. You don't want to be that person. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it means that she wants to stay longer and actually

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you, because if she's having a horrible time,

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<v Speaker 1>she's not going to order dessert check right exactly. So

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<v Speaker 1>afterwards we've hide the bill and she drives me. That's right,

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<v Speaker 1>she had to drive because you didn't have your car.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you guys, kiss or anything that she was? She

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<v Speaker 1>a gentlewoman and walked you to the door. Well, here's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing I had joked. I was like, hey, do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to walk me to the door? Um? And

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<v Speaker 1>she she didn't, and she turned you down. What she's saying.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, no, I'm good. So I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So I tried to wrap the night up quickly and

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<v Speaker 1>I leave in for a kiss and she was like

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<v Speaker 1>hmm maybe next time. Yeah, you should have known when

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<v Speaker 1>she said no to the doorwalk that she didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>the kiss, Like that's why she said no. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to compromise. I was like, we can stay

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<v Speaker 1>in the car. So you ended with no kiss and

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<v Speaker 1>her saying no, I'm good to walking you to the door.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like she might have not been having as

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<v Speaker 1>good of a time as you thought. She yet I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna lie. I felt like she was sending you

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<v Speaker 1>mixed signals ordering the dessert and then not going in

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<v Speaker 1>for the kiss at the end. Yeah, that's what I thought.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you think she's not calling you back? Begin Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, there was a few things. Okay, well we'll

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<v Speaker 1>play a song, come back, call her and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. All right, sounds good, Thank you, hold

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<v Speaker 1>on brooking jubil in the morning. Second, Hello, everybody, and

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<v Speaker 1>welcome back to second Date Update Field. Taking the plate

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<v Speaker 1>right now? Is Kevin? Kevin went out with a girl

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<v Speaker 1>named Denise when he stepped up to the plate, and

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<v Speaker 1>strike number one came when he got in a car

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<v Speaker 1>accident and couldn't pick her up for the date. And

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<v Speaker 1>if that wasn't enough, strike number two came after the

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant didn't have Kevin's reservation down in their records, and

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<v Speaker 1>of course strike number three when Kevin went in for

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<v Speaker 1>a kiss at the end of the night and got

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<v Speaker 1>the old n oh. He went in for a kiss

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<v Speaker 1>and she said no, And Kevin, of course thinks he's

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<v Speaker 1>not getting a call back because his date went so bad. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>are you sure after listening to that play by play

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<v Speaker 1>that you maybe shouldn't just chuck this game up to

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<v Speaker 1>a loss. Move on? No, right, he liked her that much. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was fun, that's right. Sometimes in life you strike

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<v Speaker 1>out and then you just have to get right back

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<v Speaker 1>up there and swing again. Am I right? Kevin? Sounds good?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's hope you don't get sent back down

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<v Speaker 1>to the minor leagues. All right, are you ready? Let's

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<v Speaker 1>do it? He's like, yes, I've been ready for a

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<v Speaker 1>long time, but I want you all to shut up already. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you said it's not me. All Right, here

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<v Speaker 1>we go, Kevin. Hello, all right, I was looking for Denise. Hey, Denise,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? Who is this jewel from Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel in the Morning the radio show? Okay, I've I've

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<v Speaker 1>heard of it? Sweet, awesome, we're taking a survey today. Cool,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll check that down. Any idea why I'm calling you? No,

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<v Speaker 1>you recently went out with a guy named Kevin. How

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<v Speaker 1>How would you know that? I know that because Kevin

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<v Speaker 1>actually emailed us and told us a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>your date and then asked if we could call you

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<v Speaker 1>to find out why you don't want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with him again? Really, he wrote into you guys. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he emailed us. It's a segment we do on our show.

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<v Speaker 1>We do it all the time. It's called a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. There are a lot of reasons why I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go out with him again, reasons I

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<v Speaker 1>want to hear at least a couple. Let's start with

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<v Speaker 1>the beginning. He said that he thought you might not

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<v Speaker 1>be calling him back because his car was like in

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<v Speaker 1>the shop and you had to go pick him up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it worked out, like I have a car.

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<v Speaker 1>It was fine to understand when people get in like accidents,

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<v Speaker 1>like obviously he hadn't planned for that. Hopefully it's not

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<v Speaker 1>like a thing that happens all the time, because then

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<v Speaker 1>that's like a whole another issue. But what else did

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<v Speaker 1>he tell you about the date? He said that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys had dinner, shared dessert, and then you drove him

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<v Speaker 1>back to his place. Yeah, and he tried to get

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<v Speaker 1>a kiss and you were just like, nope, no way,

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<v Speaker 1>no way. See, and I thought that was mixed signals

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<v Speaker 1>because you ordered dessert, which usually indicates you're having a

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<v Speaker 1>good time and you want it to last longer. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I just like dessert. Oh okay, I could sacrifice into chocolate.

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<v Speaker 1>I get that, all right. So he wasn't so terrible

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<v Speaker 1>that you couldn't eat dessert with him, that's what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I could handle a couple more minutes. Okay, okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>what didn't you like about him? Then it all sort

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<v Speaker 1>of started when I picked him up. I was okay

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<v Speaker 1>with picking him up, but when he got in the car,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I could just tell that he was really frazzled.

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<v Speaker 1>And I get it. He was just in a car accident,

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<v Speaker 1>calling his insurance, Like I totally am a human and

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<v Speaker 1>I understand that, Like that's really stressful. But when he

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<v Speaker 1>got in the car, he said he was tired, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, do you want me to take you home?

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<v Speaker 1>But he just said no, And he just asked if

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<v Speaker 1>we drove to the restaurant in silence because he is

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna take a little micro nap. Yes, are you serious?

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<v Speaker 1>He slept in the car while you drove at the restaurant. Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you know what, it won't like fine,

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<v Speaker 1>turn on the radio like let him zone out. Totally

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<v Speaker 1>get that. Then he actually closed his eyes said like thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>like we'll catch up when we get to the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>Shut up, what's going through your head when you're driving

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<v Speaker 1>in the car with the sleeping stranger sitting next to you.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like just really bizarre. Did he ever address

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<v Speaker 1>it like apologist, like Hey, I'm sorry that I took

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<v Speaker 1>a nap. No. In fact, when we got to the restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>I put the car in park and he just snapped

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<v Speaker 1>right awake, and it was like, oh, here we are.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean it was so weird, like he just

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<v Speaker 1>was like this brand new refresh person after this time

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<v Speaker 1>in the car ride and this little nap that he took.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all the guy needed was a nap, a little

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<v Speaker 1>power nap and then you're good. Yeah. I mean, we

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<v Speaker 1>were having such a good time, like really nice, easy conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we ordered dessert, and right after we ordered,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, I'm going to take a little nap again

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<v Speaker 1>at the table. At the table, is he I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>was he joking with you at that point? No, So

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<v Speaker 1>I asked him if he was joking, and he said

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't. And before he even finished that sentence, he

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<v Speaker 1>was curled up in a little ball in the booth

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<v Speaker 1>in the back of the restaurant, Like he actually curled

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<v Speaker 1>up in a ball in the booth lay down pretty much.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he wasn't sucking his thumb, but he was

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<v Speaker 1>getting very comfortable. And he wasn't kicked out of the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>I've done that a lot drunk, and they kick you

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<v Speaker 1>out because of the drunk party. That's a sleeping part.

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<v Speaker 1>How long was he a sleep for? Like fifteen minutes? Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>It was like they put the plate on the table

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<v Speaker 1>and he just snapped awake and was like ready to

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<v Speaker 1>have more conversation. And I was just very confused. So

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<v Speaker 1>you're sitting there twiddling your thumbs for fifteen minutes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he just goes back into talking about whatever

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<v Speaker 1>you guys left off on. It was incredible. I have

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<v Speaker 1>never heard or seen of, you know, this ability to

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<v Speaker 1>nap anywhere, but it happened on my date. And I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, I know the perfect way to figure it out, Denise,

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<v Speaker 1>what's that? Why don't we just ask him? Because Kevin's

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line listening to this conversation to

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<v Speaker 1>you or sleeping through the conversation. I don't what, Kevin,

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<v Speaker 1>are you there? Yeah, I'm here? Wake up? Kevin? This

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<v Speaker 1>is not happening. Oh, it actually is, Denise. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>think you'd have such a big problem with napping. You

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<v Speaker 1>can nap all you want in your room, on a

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<v Speaker 1>couch and on the TV. But like on a first date,

0:12:51.840 --> 0:12:57.080
<v Speaker 1>in a restaurant, in my car, but they're just micro naps.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the date wouldn't have gone so well if I

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<v Speaker 1>was here. But in the beginning, I said, we don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to do this, Like I totally like, like I

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<v Speaker 1>knew you were stressed out. I could see it. But

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<v Speaker 1>we did go on a date. We had a great

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<v Speaker 1>time on the date. We even had dessert, and I

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<v Speaker 1>only had two naps. So this is all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>You take naps like that all the time now when

0:13:22.480 --> 0:13:24.760
<v Speaker 1>you're just stressed out at a car accident. They work,

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<v Speaker 1>They work really well. I'm actually supplied more people don't do.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why if your body finds so funny. Kevin,

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<v Speaker 1>are you saying that you don't find it strange that

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<v Speaker 1>you took two naps on the first date. No, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's not strange at all. You're making this out to

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<v Speaker 1>be a bigger issue than it really is. Look, a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people take micro naps throughout the day. A

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<v Speaker 1>lot of Japanese people take naps throughout the day. Um. Yeah, Ever,

0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:50.079
<v Speaker 1>I mean I take naps. Yeah, I get that, But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't curl up at a restaurant booth with a

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<v Speaker 1>girl I'm trying to impress while I'm eating dinner with her. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what you're not getting. I couldn't impress her with

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<v Speaker 1>such a great date without taking that nap. You didn't

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<v Speaker 1>impress me by taking those naps either. Okay. Look, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I'm on prior here for taking a nap. Okay, Kevin,

0:14:09.720 --> 0:14:11.559
<v Speaker 1>You're not on t for taking a nap. You're not.

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<v Speaker 1>You're on for taking two naps on your first date.

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<v Speaker 1>It is kind of strange. I've listened to you on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio and New York kind of strange. So why

0:14:20.680 --> 0:14:24.680
<v Speaker 1>is this my problem? That is very true, very true.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still confused. Do you have like a sleeping disorder

0:14:27.960 --> 0:14:32.000
<v Speaker 1>or something, Kevin's it's not a sleeping disorder. You take

0:14:32.120 --> 0:14:34.960
<v Speaker 1>naps or the day it makes you more productive. Michelangelo

0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:40.720
<v Speaker 1>painted the fifteen Chapel by taking naps. Okay he did, Yeah, okay, Kevin,

0:14:40.840 --> 0:14:43.600
<v Speaker 1>but I doubt that he took naps. Well, he was

0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:46.400
<v Speaker 1>on a first date with a girl. That's sure. We

0:14:46.440 --> 0:14:49.880
<v Speaker 1>don't know much about Michelangelo's dating experience. I'm sure if

0:14:49.880 --> 0:14:52.480
<v Speaker 1>he did have a girl that he was dating, that

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<v Speaker 1>he would have taken micro naps and they would have

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<v Speaker 1>had a great date. I will say, Denise, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>despite this odd behavior, which isn't really necessarily bad towards

0:15:02.680 --> 0:15:05.320
<v Speaker 1>you at all, you had a great time when he

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<v Speaker 1>was awake. Yeah, okay, Denise, what about this? What if

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<v Speaker 1>I can promise you that Kevin stays awake and you

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<v Speaker 1>guys go out on a second date, we will pay.

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<v Speaker 1>You're going to come with us. I know I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be around Kevin, but we will pay for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date if you'll go out with him again. Kevin,

0:15:23.640 --> 0:15:28.360
<v Speaker 1>can you stay awake? Yes? Or we could take a

0:15:28.480 --> 0:15:32.120
<v Speaker 1>lassing date together. Oh there you go? Well come time.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh that's an attractive offer. But I think I like

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<v Speaker 1>to go on dates where people stay awake the whole

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<v Speaker 1>time and we don't have to worry about Okay. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I think you should take a micro napp and

0:15:45.920 --> 0:15:50.680
<v Speaker 1>make that decision again. I'm okay, I'm okay with my

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<v Speaker 1>sleep schedule like a grown woman. He stays awake. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you sure, Denise, Denise, we could wait for like ten

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<v Speaker 1>minutes while you take an appen sleep. Would you mind?

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<v Speaker 1>Just how everyone knows that that feels like? All right? Well, Denise,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you very much. Yeah, Kevin, I'm sorry we couldn't

0:16:07.400 --> 0:16:09.600
<v Speaker 1>get you a second date. It was worth a try.

0:16:09.760 --> 0:16:11.720
<v Speaker 1>Maybe warn people about your micro naps, let them know

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<v Speaker 1>what you're doing first, or just learn how to stay

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<v Speaker 1>awake for a four hour span. I don't know. You know,

0:16:16.200 --> 0:16:19.040
<v Speaker 1>you guys are really missing out here. Micro Naps are

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<v Speaker 1>the way out of the future. If you want to

0:16:20.560 --> 0:16:22.440
<v Speaker 1>be productive, if you want to, you know, bring your

0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:25.920
<v Speaker 1>ratings up, you should probably try. We'll try anything at

0:16:25.920 --> 0:16:30.840
<v Speaker 1>this point, so yeah, why not In the morning text

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<v Speaker 1>in at seven eight, five nine two that says maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that guy had narcolepsi. You need to back off. No,

0:16:37.160 --> 0:16:39.720
<v Speaker 1>he did not have NARCILEPSI. I'm talking about today's second

0:16:39.800 --> 0:16:42.040
<v Speaker 1>date update. He admitted that he did not have any

0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:45.560
<v Speaker 1>disorder with sleeping. If you missed it, Kevin wanted to

0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:47.240
<v Speaker 1>call a girl named Denise. They went out for a

0:16:47.320 --> 0:16:50.520
<v Speaker 1>date to dinner and during the date. The reason that

0:16:50.560 --> 0:16:52.880
<v Speaker 1>she wasn't calling him back was because he took naps,

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<v Speaker 1>Like in the car ride there, he was like, hold

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<v Speaker 1>on a second, I'm gonna take a nap till we

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<v Speaker 1>get there. And then at the dinner table he actually

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<v Speaker 1>took a little just you know, a couple of minutes

0:17:03.040 --> 0:17:05.240
<v Speaker 1>micro naps that is what he called them. And he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't see a problem with it. He's like, what I

0:17:07.280 --> 0:17:10.239
<v Speaker 1>needed to recharge so that I could be you know,

0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:13.240
<v Speaker 1>give you all that I have to give on the dates.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to rest up, I will say. She said

0:17:15.800 --> 0:17:18.520
<v Speaker 1>he was absolutely delightful when he was away. Yeah, it

0:17:18.640 --> 0:17:22.680
<v Speaker 1>really really charged him, and said every single time he

0:17:22.720 --> 0:17:24.679
<v Speaker 1>woke up, he was like a completely different person. She

0:17:24.720 --> 0:17:27.159
<v Speaker 1>seemed ready to forgive him after the car nap, but

0:17:27.200 --> 0:17:28.879
<v Speaker 1>then when it came to the dessert nap in the

0:17:28.920 --> 0:17:31.359
<v Speaker 1>restaurant booth, it was just too much. Yeah, a little

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<v Speaker 1>over the top. Somebody texted in at seven eight, five

0:17:33.080 --> 0:17:34.360
<v Speaker 1>nine two and said, my ten year old is taking

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<v Speaker 1>a micro nap right now. It's kind of like she

0:17:37.280 --> 0:17:38.359
<v Speaker 1>was on a date with a ten year old and

0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:40.080
<v Speaker 1>just kept falling asleep. I don't know if I have

0:17:40.119 --> 0:17:42.720
<v Speaker 1>low standards, but I would have gone out with him again. Really, Yeah,

0:17:42.760 --> 0:17:45.159
<v Speaker 1>I don't know like he sounded. She said she had

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<v Speaker 1>a great time and maybe I love naps. It could

0:17:50.359 --> 0:17:53.480
<v Speaker 1>have worked out. They decided not to go out again.

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<v Speaker 1>He still says it's not weird that he naps all

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<v Speaker 1>the time throughout the day, even on dates. Doesn't matter.

0:18:00.359 --> 0:18:03.320
<v Speaker 1>They'll take a nap at any time it is. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the part that gets me is he doesn't understand

0:18:05.720 --> 0:18:08.520
<v Speaker 1>that it's not a societal nor Yeah. Well, I mean

0:18:08.560 --> 0:18:10.479
<v Speaker 1>we all love naps, right, but I mean normally take

0:18:10.480 --> 0:18:12.760
<v Speaker 1>a nap, it's like twenty thirty minutes, an hour, two hours.

0:18:12.760 --> 0:18:14.880
<v Speaker 1>This guy literally takes like five minute naps. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how you can do that. I get it if

0:18:16.280 --> 0:18:19.199
<v Speaker 1>you love napping, Yeah, I understand that you do, but

0:18:19.280 --> 0:18:22.560
<v Speaker 1>you have to understand most people don't nap when they're

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<v Speaker 1>out in public. But maybe that's right, Maybe we should.

0:18:25.359 --> 0:18:28.280
<v Speaker 1>Maybe we'd be a better, more productive society. I agree,

0:18:28.480 --> 0:18:31.200
<v Speaker 1>he's got it figured out. Yeah, I'm gonna take like

0:18:31.280 --> 0:18:35.040
<v Speaker 1>a minute micro nap right now the next songs. That's

0:18:35.040 --> 0:18:37.359
<v Speaker 1>actually probably gonna happen. You're the one that falls asleep

0:18:37.400 --> 0:18:41.239
<v Speaker 1>in the bathroom stall, that's true. Yeah, I go take

0:18:41.359 --> 0:18:43.160
<v Speaker 1>naps in the bathroom sometimes when I get really tired.

0:18:44.240 --> 0:18:47.200
<v Speaker 1>Maybe I like this guy more than I thought. Yeah. Remember,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to do a second day update, all

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<v Speaker 1>you have to do is email the show and we

0:18:50.280 --> 0:18:53.360
<v Speaker 1>will call the person who didn't call you back. It's Friday,

0:18:53.640 --> 0:18:55.560
<v Speaker 1>and that means Young Jeffrey will be here to sing

0:18:55.600 --> 0:18:57.720
<v Speaker 1>his song of the week in just a little while.

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<v Speaker 1>At eight ten, only five