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Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels. Second date date. Do you ever have one

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Speaker 1: of those days where you feel like the world's just

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Speaker 1: had some bad Mexican food and it just keeps dumping

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Speaker 1: on you over and over and over again. Well, that's

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Speaker 1: the kind of day that Kevin had when he decided

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Speaker 1: he wants to call today. Her name is Denise. I

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Speaker 1: guess Kevin, your email said that you had a terrible

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Speaker 1: day when you went out with this girl. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: the worst. I don't even know what happened, and I

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Speaker 1: already feel empathy for you. So tell us a little

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Speaker 1: bit about it. What was so bad about your day? Okay?

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Speaker 1: So leading up to the date, Um, somebody rear ended me,

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Speaker 1: so I had to bring the car into the shop.

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Speaker 1: So I didn't have a car to bring her on

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Speaker 1: the date. Oh that sucks, okay, But she's got a

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Speaker 1: understanding of that, Like you gave her heads up, right,

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Speaker 1: Well yeah, yeah, I had given her heads though, but

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Speaker 1: it was you know, last minute, like two hours before

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Speaker 1: my head now, I'm like I looked like an idiot

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Speaker 1: because I shan't bring her on the date. And that's

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Speaker 1: what you want to be. You want to be gentleman, like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, chivalry. But at least it wasn't like you

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Speaker 1: just didn't have a car and you forgot to tell

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Speaker 1: her in two hours before you're like, oh, yeah, my bad,

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Speaker 1: you gotta drive. You were in an accident. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: if anything, it's got to be a good read on

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Speaker 1: her personality, right, because if she's a total ahole about it,

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Speaker 1: you probably know you don't want to date her any further. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's that's a really good point because people also tend

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Speaker 1: to judge you on the first date. Yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 1: you're going out on a first date with somebody. That's

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Speaker 1: always when they're looking at you most critically. Absolutely, So

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Speaker 1: what else happened? I mean, was that the terrible bad

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Speaker 1: thing that happened to you that day? Well that was

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Speaker 1: pretty pretty bad because then I had to call her

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Speaker 1: So it started out being hey, I'll pick you up

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Speaker 1: at seven, and then it was um, I got a

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Speaker 1: car accident, can you come pick me up at seven? Right?

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Speaker 1: And then how how bad does it look if I'm

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Speaker 1: opening the door of her car to you know, get

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Speaker 1: her to say it, Yeah, did you do that? Did

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Speaker 1: you actually go and open her car door? Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: did as a joke to kind of break the eye.

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Speaker 1: That's a good move, A good move. She thought it

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Speaker 1: was funny. She thought it was funny. That's good. So

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Speaker 1: we get to the restaurant, and then to make my

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Speaker 1: day even worse, they didn't have my reservation. That sucks

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Speaker 1: because now it looks like you didn't even make a reservation.

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Speaker 1: I know, I know it looks even worse on my

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Speaker 1: as if to say, who is Yeah, I would start

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Speaker 1: to not believe any of your story at this point,

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Speaker 1: like yeah, yeah, that's exactly why I thought she was thinking.

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Speaker 1: You know, you kind of look at somebody's face and

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Speaker 1: Yeah all right, sure you made a reservation. What's next?

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Speaker 1: You forgot your credit card and she has to pay?

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Speaker 1: Imagine that, No, I had my credit card with me. Good,

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Speaker 1: I'm glad. We at least got that worked out. Where'd

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Speaker 1: how was dinner once you finally got in there? It

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Speaker 1: was actually really good. Yeah, we had a great time. Um,

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Speaker 1: how you stack upon so that the first person to

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Speaker 1: what we were kind of joking about. Oh, I've never

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Speaker 1: It gets people off their phones really quick. Yeah. So wait,

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Speaker 1: afterwards we've hide the bill and she drives me. That's right,

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Speaker 1: Did you guys, kiss or anything that she was? She

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Speaker 1: a gentlewoman and walked you to the door. Well, here's

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Speaker 1: the thing I had joked. I was like, hey, do

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Speaker 1: It sounds like she might have not been having as

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Speaker 1: Why do you think she's not calling you back? Begin Yes,

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Speaker 1: you're right, there was a few things. Okay, well we'll

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Speaker 1: play a song, come back, call her and get your

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Speaker 1: second date update. All right, sounds good, Thank you, hold

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Speaker 1: on brooking jubil in the morning. Second, Hello, everybody, and

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Speaker 1: welcome back to second Date Update Field. Taking the plate

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Speaker 1: right now? Is Kevin? Kevin went out with a girl

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Speaker 1: if that wasn't enough, strike number two came after the

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Speaker 1: restaurant didn't have Kevin's reservation down in their records, and

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Speaker 1: of course strike number three when Kevin went in for

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Speaker 1: a loss. Move on? No, right, he liked her that much. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was fun, that's right. Sometimes in life you strike

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Speaker 1: up there and swing again. Am I right? Kevin? Sounds good?

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Speaker 1: All right, let's hope you don't get sent back down

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Speaker 1: to the minor leagues. All right, are you ready? Let's

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Speaker 1: do it? He's like, yes, I've been ready for a

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Speaker 1: I'm glad you said it's not me. All Right, here

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Speaker 1: we go, Kevin. Hello, all right, I was looking for Denise. Hey, Denise,

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Speaker 1: how are you? Who is this jewel from Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning the radio show? Okay, I've I've

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Speaker 1: heard of it? Sweet, awesome, we're taking a survey today. Cool,

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Speaker 1: we'll check that down. Any idea why I'm calling you? No,

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Speaker 1: you recently went out with a guy named Kevin. How

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Speaker 1: How would you know that? I know that because Kevin

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Speaker 1: actually emailed us and told us a little bit about

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Speaker 1: your date and then asked if we could call you

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Speaker 1: with him again? Really, he wrote into you guys. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he emailed us. It's a segment we do on our show.

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Speaker 1: We do it all the time. It's called a second

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Speaker 1: date update. There are a lot of reasons why I

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Speaker 1: want to hear at least a couple. Let's start with

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Speaker 1: the beginning. He said that he thought you might not

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Speaker 1: I mean it worked out, like I have a car.

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Speaker 1: It was fine to understand when people get in like accidents,

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Speaker 1: that's like a whole another issue. But what else did

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Speaker 1: he tell you about the date? He said that you

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Speaker 1: guys had dinner, shared dessert, and then you drove him

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Speaker 1: no way. See, and I thought that was mixed signals

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Speaker 1: because you ordered dessert, which usually indicates you're having a

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Speaker 1: good time and you want it to last longer. No,

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Speaker 1: I just like dessert. Oh okay, I could sacrifice into chocolate.

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Speaker 1: I get that, all right. So he wasn't so terrible

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Speaker 1: that you couldn't eat dessert with him, that's what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: I could handle a couple more minutes. Okay, okay, So

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Speaker 1: what didn't you like about him? Then it all sort

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Speaker 1: And I get it. He was just in a car accident,

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Speaker 1: I understand that, Like that's really stressful. But when he

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Speaker 1: He slept in the car while you drove at the restaurant. Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, it won't like fine,

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Speaker 1: get that. Then he actually closed his eyes said like thanks,

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Speaker 1: like we'll catch up when we get to the restaurant.

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Speaker 1: Shut up, what's going through your head when you're driving

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Speaker 1: It was like just really bizarre. Did he ever address

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Speaker 1: it like apologist, like Hey, I'm sorry that I took

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Speaker 1: a nap. No. In fact, when we got to the restaurant,

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Speaker 1: That's all the guy needed was a nap, a little

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Speaker 1: power nap and then you're good. Yeah. I mean, we

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Speaker 1: was he joking with you at that point? No, So

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