Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1: Seacrest with you, thanks for having us on. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: know Newar's resolutions. We've talked about this time. I was
Speaker 1: texting you just last night about what Devon Franklin said
Speaker 1: about news resolutions. And as we get into this Thursday,
Speaker 1: January twenty, at the end of the month, it's coming. Uh.
Speaker 1: It's wintry weather issue, you know, even for us some
Speaker 1: of this last handful of weeks, and I, you know,
Speaker 1: I think what happens is, at least for me, I
Speaker 1: was like sitting here feeling the atrophy in my arms.
Speaker 1: You know, my arms used to have a little bit
Speaker 1: of something to them. Now I feel like, I don't
Speaker 1: know if you know. You just you break your routine
Speaker 1: for two weeks even, and it's God, it dissipates so fast,
Speaker 1: it's nuts. It's very frustrating. Baby whims Is. You get
Speaker 1: out of your routine and you're with your more, with
Speaker 1: family more for the holidays, and then you do a
Speaker 1: more day before and then one more day and all
Speaker 1: of a sudden that routine is so hard to get
Speaker 1: back into. I'm with you, it's January got out of
Speaker 1: the routines right before the holidays. That's so annoying. But
Speaker 1: we're here to Yeah, here we have bathing suit weather,
Speaker 1: sunny and nice highs in the mid seventies. You've been
Speaker 1: using a lot of big words lately. What are you saying? Atrophy?
Speaker 1: A trophy, that's not a big word, that's a it's
Speaker 1: a sort of it's a fitness muscular mm hmm. You
Speaker 1: said the quagmire the other day too or something, and
Speaker 1: I was like, what, Yeah, you don't know words like that.
Speaker 1: I was trying to try to impress you. Yeah, alright, sunny,
Speaker 1: nice Heisman seventies weekend looking really nice. Today we've got
Speaker 1: an all new Ryan's Roses and Charlie poo. Charlie's got
Speaker 1: new music, isn't me. You were talking about it and
Speaker 1: I just had a chance to listen to it now. Uh.
Speaker 1: It's so interesting because he tik talks about how he
Speaker 1: puts all the the sounds together, and now we've got
Speaker 1: him in it coming up. Yeah, and we're gonna have
Speaker 1: it all day. It's gonna at seven o'clock we'll play
Speaker 1: it for you. And um, this is like the highest bpms.
Speaker 1: We should ask him. But I think that this is
Speaker 1: the highest BPMS a song has ever had or can have,
Speaker 1: or in the history of all bpms. I don't know
Speaker 1: if the history of all bps, but it feels that way,
Speaker 1: like when you hear it's like fast all right, and
Speaker 1: in all new Ryan's roses this morning too. She says
Speaker 1: her husband has changed passwords, he comes home at different times,
Speaker 1: he goes places, doesn't ask her to go, and is vague,
Speaker 1: I mean like textbook in terms of what I'm hearing.
Speaker 1: So Patty is back with us on microphone. Yesterday, if
Speaker 1: you were listening, you may have heard her on the
Speaker 1: telephone checking in. She was concerned she got the third
Speaker 1: for the third time, one of the COVID variants. But
Speaker 1: it seems like you're feeling better today, Is that right?
Speaker 1: I I am. I still have a headache right above
Speaker 1: my left eye. You had a serious migraine. It was
Speaker 1: the worst and it's not the first time it's happened.
Speaker 1: They're they're happening a lot ever since I got COVID,
Speaker 1: and it just it's I need to go get this checked, obviously.
Speaker 1: So do you feel better than? What? Better than? I
Speaker 1: feel better than yesterday? But I still have this throbbing
Speaker 1: headache right above my left eye, right and not on
Speaker 1: your right, not on the right side. No, it's literally
Speaker 1: right about google left side, left side headache exactly. I
Speaker 1: shouldn't do Yeah, I was, You're right, I know, but
Speaker 1: the pot was so bad yesterday that I my teeth
Speaker 1: were even hurting as well. You know that that level
Speaker 1: of migraine pain that you're jawing your teeth are, just like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, do you? I mean, I think the
Speaker 1: sound of our voice is also kind of inducing. Sure.
Speaker 1: I love you guys all very much, So this is
Speaker 1: not gonna be a hazard, all right, Well, I want
Speaker 1: to get to the issues going on over in your world.
Speaker 1: So you're trying to trying to get rid of your brother,
Speaker 1: but no, not not like get rid of that planet.
Speaker 1: Just move out, move on. So he tested positive late
Speaker 1: last year, right after Christmas, and because he lives with
Speaker 1: my mom, I said to him, why don't you come
Speaker 1: spend a few days over here with us, since we
Speaker 1: also have code ourselves, let's all quarantine together, keep my
Speaker 1: mom safe away from you. So he packs a bag,
Speaker 1: comes over and it's been what almost four weeks, and
Speaker 1: he keeps saying that he doesn't feel he already tested negative.
Speaker 1: So he's saying he doesn't fail a percent, which you
Speaker 1: read between lines meaning he's very COMFORTA. He's very comfortable.
Speaker 1: And look, I'm enjoying him too because he's spending a
Speaker 1: lot of time with my with my kids, which he
Speaker 1: didn't used to do before. So they're bonding. They're playing
Speaker 1: video games, they're playing board games, they're having fun. But said,
Speaker 1: what have you said to have him get the picture?
Speaker 1: So I said, elisod, when are you thinking of leaving
Speaker 1: or going back home? He's like, well, you know what
Speaker 1: you know right now, I don't feel a d percent.
Speaker 1: I woke up with like a little sort throat. I
Speaker 1: don't want to risk it. And I'm just like, bra
Speaker 1: but you run a tight camp over there. You've got
Speaker 1: all kinds of activities you've got, I mean, the schedule
Speaker 1: of those kids have, that's a lot of fun. There's
Speaker 1: always some good food there. It means, so I kind
Speaker 1: of get it. That's why I say your guest room
Speaker 1: should always have a very uncomfortable bed because they don't
Speaker 1: want to stay that they don't put So what are
Speaker 1: you gonna do? Patty? So I'm thinking that if he's
Speaker 1: planning I'm staying here a little longer that I'm going
Speaker 1: to give him a ask. So I am considering asking
Speaker 1: him for him to take the kids to school in
Speaker 1: the morning. Great, right, that would be amazing. Hold on,
Speaker 1: let's let's flip this in your favor now. M hmmm alright,
Speaker 1: So yeah, capitalized to stick around, You've got a list
Speaker 1: of things to do. He's got a lot of capacity
Speaker 1: that man can get. He can get up, he can
Speaker 1: get the kids to school, and that doesn't take all day.
Speaker 1: So there's some other things that he could do along
Speaker 1: the way. And I know you make yeah. I like,
Speaker 1: let's turn this around and that'll drive him out. And
Speaker 1: he can tell him he has to cook one night. Oh,
Speaker 1: that will drive him out. Might drive you. Might drive
Speaker 1: y'all out too. I don't know if he's a good
Speaker 1: cook or not. Uh. You know, it is this whole
Speaker 1: concept of like when family doesn't get their hand, when
Speaker 1: family over stays there, stay and what do you do
Speaker 1: at some point either give them to asks and chores
Speaker 1: or say this has an end date has ended. I
Speaker 1: as Michael, he was okay with maybe offering the extra
Speaker 1: room to my brother, and you know, he just pay
Speaker 1: us rent. And Michael said, I like your brother a lot,
Speaker 1: but let me think about it. He said, so yeah,
Speaker 1: of course, all right, Well good never a dumb moment.
Speaker 1: Charlie Pooth got new music. Charlie Booth is gonna be
Speaker 1: with us. I've not talked to Charlie Booth in a
Speaker 1: long time. Excited Charlie Pooth in minutes here on Kiss FM.
Speaker 1: Right after right up, yeah, just basically next, so let's
Speaker 1: do the morning act and you're positive. Quote of the day.
Speaker 1: Date nights are important. They're important before you get married.
Speaker 1: I think they're important prices and you would say once
Speaker 1: you get married, absolutely. So I know you're wondering what
Speaker 1: all of the studies at Idaho State Universe City consists of.
Speaker 1: What were Okay, here's one. They hit the sweet spot.
Speaker 1: They found out that this number of date nights a
Speaker 1: month keeps a married couple happy. Sissony, what's the number
Speaker 1: for you and Michael? Now, I know it could fluctuate
Speaker 1: with kids, but let's say an average number. Um I
Speaker 1: would say an averages three because we try to shoot
Speaker 1: for once a week on Thursday nights if we can.
Speaker 1: It was a lot more like it was a lot
Speaker 1: more during football season. I'm exciting a date tonight. We
Speaker 1: don't have a date tonight, so tonight we're not doing it.
Speaker 1: But um, but during football season we had a lot
Speaker 1: more date dates. I guess because we would go to
Speaker 1: Charger games and so we could get a babysitter, so
Speaker 1: that was nice. They say six date nights a month
Speaker 1: is the number these people do not have kids? Whoever
Speaker 1: did this day? They don't? Well, if you'd like to
Speaker 1: take it up with Idaho State University, a bunch of
Speaker 1: college kids, what do they know? They're married, couples, not dating,
Speaker 1: married a survey married couples, married couples. I don't have kids.
Speaker 1: I don't know that this the sample group was only
Speaker 1: from the campus. I'm sure they extended their tentacles into it.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, if you have children going
Speaker 1: out six nights a week a month, I'm not arguing,
Speaker 1: I'm just telling you what they said in Idaho. How
Speaker 1: do you know what their hands in Idaho tell you?
Speaker 1: You're single meaning without kids, not single but unmarried, I
Speaker 1: should say, and you don't have kids, so how many
Speaker 1: dates a month do you? You? And robbieguan Uh, it's
Speaker 1: an interesting question. He has kids, so um, I'd say
Speaker 1: it's somewhere between like six to ten. Remember those days,
Speaker 1: Live it up, enjoy it. Fears are not the same
Speaker 1: as facts on air with Ryan Seacrets. Sisney has the
Speaker 1: headlines this morning. So police have taken a suspect into
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Speaker 1: young woman inside a Handcock Park luxury furniture store. The suspect,
Speaker 1: thirty one year old Sean Laval Smith, was found and
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Speaker 1: of Fair Oaks and Cold Colorado Boulevard. Smith has been
Speaker 1: sought in the January killing twenty four year old Brianna
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Speaker 1: Most USC fraternity's will be open for parties in March
Speaker 1: if members abide by strict rules that include posting security
Speaker 1: guards at stairs or hallways leading to bedrooms yeah under
Speaker 1: new university policies enacted three months after aegations of sexual
Speaker 1: abuse and drugging at several houses on campus were reported.
Speaker 1: The requirements, issued ahead of spring recruitment rush also include
Speaker 1: mandated risk and sexual violence prevention trainings. For all fraternity
Speaker 1: members the polities. The policies were drafted by Greek life
Speaker 1: and student government leaders, safety experts, and other student group representatives,
Speaker 1: and approved by university officials. The n C double A
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Speaker 1: Under the new guidelines approved by the n C double
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Speaker 1: committee to the Board of Governors with Now we're being
Speaker 1: joined by Charlie. He's got long, curly hair brushing like
Speaker 1: a wave on his eyebrow, a wave in summer seat. Uh, now,
Speaker 1: where are you, Charlie? In your Is that your home studio?
Speaker 1: This is another home studio of mine. Um, it's not
Speaker 1: the fund studio that you see all of TikTok. But
Speaker 1: this is just another vibe. And that's my sister walking
Speaker 1: and giving me. How do I used to stop to talk?
Speaker 1: Now she doesn't want to talk. Things have gotten busy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well all the success has changed her. It's gotten her
Speaker 1: somebody's head. I just want to check in. I have
Speaker 1: not had a chance to say hello in quite a while.
Speaker 1: How you been, what's new? What can we what do
Speaker 1: we need to know? Um? It's I'm still uh in
Speaker 1: my head a lot. I still I'm out of my
Speaker 1: mind musically. Are you still working out? Ryan seacrests, Yes,
Speaker 1: I am. I got out of my intense routine. I'm
Speaker 1: struggling to get back into it because I've enjoyed I've
Speaker 1: kind of enjoyed the out of routine thing. I I
Speaker 1: got out of my routine for a little bit because
Speaker 1: I got Um, I got O Macron like a month ago.
Speaker 1: I feel like I was like case number one with that,
Speaker 1: and I was just I was just down and it
Speaker 1: sucked on my birthday on December second. I was just
Speaker 1: down for like weeks. But better now. Yeah. It plays
Speaker 1: on my head when I can't stick with any routine.
Speaker 1: I like routine, and I also like to not be
Speaker 1: in a routine. When I'm not, it plays him. It's
Speaker 1: it gets in my head. I I know what, I
Speaker 1: know what you mean. But I remember you making really
Speaker 1: good protein smoothies. I feel like you have a very
Speaker 1: good after workout protein smoothie recipe I do. It's simple.
Speaker 1: It's it's pumpkin powder. It's pumpkin powder, which they just
Speaker 1: make dust and water lost me. Pumpkin powder, pumpkin seed powder.
Speaker 1: That's what it. Alright, listen, we're gonna I got lots
Speaker 1: to talk about musically. Let me just play something for you,
Speaker 1: and then we're gonna play Charlie's new song. But you
Speaker 1: were talking about TikTok. I'm gonna play the one of
Speaker 1: these that you posted here, which is about light switch.
Speaker 1: There was a song that's started off like and the
Speaker 1: base went like boomt boomtoo, and the drums would go
Speaker 1: like there's something missing. There should be like a weird
Speaker 1: sound effect, just a random noise or something like that
Speaker 1: light on, Oh my god, and you're gonna hear what
Speaker 1: came of it. But is that a condensed roadmap of
Speaker 1: what really happens and how it works in your head?
Speaker 1: That's it's basically my TikTok account is basically my brain
Speaker 1: if anybody was ever interested to see how my brain works.
Speaker 1: And that light switch that I flicked and put the
Speaker 1: microphone up to is the actual light switch that you
Speaker 1: hear in the song. Switch. But in real time, going
Speaker 1: back to when you had that moment, did you really
Speaker 1: say they need something and did you think of any
Speaker 1: other things that were there something? Yeah? Yeah. The only
Speaker 1: difference was that UM, I thought, I really really initially
Speaker 1: thought of the idea UM while I was showering, and
Speaker 1: I don't know um the TikTok guidelines. I just kind
Speaker 1: of assumed that they wouldn't want to see that. UM.
Speaker 1: But I knew that that same day that I filmed
Speaker 1: that talk, I call him talks UM. I was like,
Speaker 1: I want to have a song where there's a sound,
Speaker 1: and the sound is the name of the song, and
Speaker 1: I wanted to be part of the rhythm the drums
Speaker 1: of the song. And I didn't know what that was
Speaker 1: when I was showering. That's what I meant. I didn't
Speaker 1: know what that was. I just wanted it to be
Speaker 1: what do they call it, tanya and ana monopeia, something
Speaker 1: like that. I wanted it to be part of the
Speaker 1: you know, I wanted it to be part of the
Speaker 1: rhythm of the song. And I just, um, I don't know.
Speaker 1: The studio that I work at, a Conway in Hollywood,
Speaker 1: has really cool light fixtures, and I just flicked, and
Speaker 1: I'm like the original lyricals. I wish I could turn
Speaker 1: my brain off. If I had a light switch, I
Speaker 1: could turn my brain off and just calm it down.
Speaker 1: But then I was like, that's kind of depressing and sad.
Speaker 1: I wanted to make everybody chants. And that's where it's
Speaker 1: the fastest song that will be on the radio. So
Speaker 1: it's very it's it's the highest bpm. Is that right?
Speaker 1: Four bp ms? And there's a typical me fashion. There's
Speaker 1: an odd bar when I say bar a piece of
Speaker 1: music before the chorus um that slows down to seventy
Speaker 1: pm because it's it's supposed to mimic your you know,
Speaker 1: you remember when pop Bye would have the spinage and
Speaker 1: he would get big and strong. That's what that's some
Speaker 1: to musically imitate. Well, that way Spinach turned me on
Speaker 1: a monopia, the formation of a word from a sound
Speaker 1: associated with what is named ergo cuckoo sizzle. It's kind
Speaker 1: of like my mind, I'm out of my mind sizzle.
Speaker 1: How long did it take you to lay all of
Speaker 1: the different put the layers together and the lyrics baby
Speaker 1: not in a very average forty five minutes. Um It
Speaker 1: wasn't like breathtaking like I wrote see you Again, like
Speaker 1: in ten minutes. It wasn't like a life changing amount
Speaker 1: of time. It was a very organized like, Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: going to go to wake up, I'm going to put
Speaker 1: myself together, think of an idea for a song, drive
Speaker 1: to the studio and kind of put the drums in
Speaker 1: the vocals. And I had it. But it was I
Speaker 1: conceptualize at nine am and it was a feasible piece
Speaker 1: of music at about one pm. Know when you have
Speaker 1: provocative not lyrics, but they're they're they're oh no, no,
Speaker 1: you're right there provocative. I couldn't said there's a dirty version.
Speaker 1: Nell there's there they are, there's a dirty version that
Speaker 1: will never find So so I'm in your head on
Speaker 1: that now. Is that who you are? Or are you
Speaker 1: playing a role? Like I need to know because I'm
Speaker 1: listening to the cook Got Charlie whatever. It's so it's
Speaker 1: so difficult keeping a straight, media trained face when you
Speaker 1: do an interview with all of your friends, because I
Speaker 1: know all of you, so um I I just my
Speaker 1: media trained answer to that, Ryan Seacrest is that I
Speaker 1: just want to make the people dance after a long
Speaker 1: time with being in their home. All right, well I
Speaker 1: use that somewhere. But tell me, is am I is
Speaker 1: that the seductive Charlie Pooth, come it out? Ah, well,
Speaker 1: just use your imagination on some of the So in
Speaker 1: the second verse, there's a when you when you walk
Speaker 1: like that? Now, when you walk like that? No, what
Speaker 1: is a word that kind of rhymes with walk? Maybe
Speaker 1: a soft rhyme, but it looks so bad when you
Speaker 1: walk like that. I think of another, think of another,
Speaker 1: and there's and there's yeah, loud, loud and clear, and
Speaker 1: you got me and you got me in a tight grip. Um. Anyway,
Speaker 1: next question again, Deana Mona. I guess I could. I
Speaker 1: guess you could. I guess that works. Yeah, I I'm well,
Speaker 1: we're very happy that we've got light switched to play. Now,
Speaker 1: what is going to be What is gonna be the
Speaker 1: frequency of new music for you? Off to a good start,
Speaker 1: Charlie's publishing team. It's it's the frequent. Well, it's e
Speaker 1: flat minor. Um, it's very fast right now, I can't
Speaker 1: even focus. I'm all hot and bothered. Um, it's a
Speaker 1: flat minor. It's a really fast. Walk like that, when
Speaker 1: I walked like when I walk like that when I
Speaker 1: walk myself off, um I uh, and it's it's a
Speaker 1: good it's a good workout uh song. And you will
Speaker 1: know that if you watch the music video. Okay, is
Speaker 1: this one of? Is this one of? Like? Are you?
Speaker 1: Is there gonna be a stream of tracks coming? Um? Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I have a whole album done and uh, sonically this
Speaker 1: is pretty are what the whole um album will sound like.
Speaker 1: I've produced the whole thing, um, and I think it's
Speaker 1: my best work. And I it was an interesting time
Speaker 1: because usually I get song inspiration, like songs pop into
Speaker 1: my head when I get off the stage. Uh, go
Speaker 1: for a hike with Tanya, Uh, meet people and when
Speaker 1: I'm around people people, Um, but I wasn't around anybody,
Speaker 1: and I you know, I would wake up It's very regiment.
Speaker 1: I would wake up at nine am and go to
Speaker 1: the studio every day. And if I didn't come up
Speaker 1: with anything or make a TikTok like there are I
Speaker 1: made about ten TikTok's a day, and you'll never hear
Speaker 1: the nine bad songs. Um. But I had to really
Speaker 1: get inspiration from kind of talking to myself and having
Speaker 1: conversations with myself and which is a little strange, but
Speaker 1: that's how lights which came about. Like what if there
Speaker 1: was a song? That's why? What if there's a song?
Speaker 1: If if you didn't have all of those things that
Speaker 1: you talk about and you post about, going on the voices,
Speaker 1: the thoughts they however, whatever speed your head moves at
Speaker 1: at or in, then you wouldn't be doing what you do, right,
Speaker 1: I mean, that's right. It wouldn't work. It wouldn't work.
Speaker 1: It was always UM. It was always like this for me,
Speaker 1: but it was never how I showcased myself at the
Speaker 1: UM the beginning of my career. You look at past
Speaker 1: interviews of myself, I thought I had to be a
Speaker 1: different type of artists. I never thought that so many
Speaker 1: people would care about my musical creative process, the layering
Speaker 1: of instruments. I thought that was kind of supposed to
Speaker 1: be just for me. But I'm very happy that UM
Speaker 1: people are intrigued by it. Yeah, people, and some of
Speaker 1: the biggest names ever in music legends too. M I mean,
Speaker 1: can you believe that I get it? And I also
Speaker 1: couldn't believe that without revealing our address, that we lived
Speaker 1: two doors down from each other. That's pretty cool. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that he's happy to talk about that, like he loves
Speaker 1: that story. Alton sends me some crazy emails. I'll tell
Speaker 1: you listen, man, it's great to see it. Thanks for
Speaker 1: coming on, Charlie poot Lights which is out now, we'll
Speaker 1: talk to you real simbro pleasure. Thank you guys. I
Speaker 1: love you all by both. Bye bye bye bye. Come
Speaker 1: tickets to go see Billy I got it it. Tenty
Speaker 1: of th Hykes must be fantastically cerebral. Cerebral. Yeah, honestly,
Speaker 1: he's such a fun but he's a music genius too,
Speaker 1: music genius, but also like that thought, that thought process
Speaker 1: that he puts to his music, he puts to like
Speaker 1: every other aspect of life too. So it's really fun
Speaker 1: to kind of just like my takeaway there is Charlie
Speaker 1: was struggling with how to be knowing who he was
Speaker 1: in his head and all these things, but now realize
Speaker 1: that's the gift he's got and look at all of
Speaker 1: the credibility that comes with it now for him. Ryan
Speaker 1: Seacres one or two points seven Kiss FM. I need
Speaker 1: to go right now because Terry and hisparia is on
Speaker 1: hold and we need to get into Ryan's roses for Terry.
Speaker 1: She says, my husband has been very secretive with his
Speaker 1: phone lately. He actually changed his password and didn't tell
Speaker 1: me the new one. He also has been going out
Speaker 1: without inviting me. H. He's never been like this before, Terry.
Speaker 1: Thank you for coming. A lot of questions here. This
Speaker 1: is all not good behavior based on what we've seen
Speaker 1: in the past. But why So did you have his
Speaker 1: password before he changed it his old password? Yes? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean we we shared each other's passwords, you know,
Speaker 1: just in case we needed to get into the phone
Speaker 1: for some reason, you know. And he changed it um
Speaker 1: and he didn't say anything. And that's really really weird.
Speaker 1: And he's been going out going where out. He just
Speaker 1: comes home later sometimes and he's like, oh, I, you know,
Speaker 1: I stopped off at the store or I had to
Speaker 1: work late or whatever. But it's just it's later than normal,
Speaker 1: and I I don't know. It just seems like he's
Speaker 1: so secretive. Ryan. Uh. And it's a change in behavior.
Speaker 1: You said, it's not a normal pattern. No, it's not.
Speaker 1: It's so suspic Si. It's he normally tells me when
Speaker 1: he does something like this, like he changes his password
Speaker 1: or he won't he won't say really where he's been.
Speaker 1: He's like, oh, you know, I was just out or
Speaker 1: you know I was the one to the store. He
Speaker 1: won't say what store, or you know what he was
Speaker 1: working on at work late or whatever. So is there
Speaker 1: any chance he's concocting a surprise? Oh no, no, I
Speaker 1: mean my birthday isn't coming up. It's not a big
Speaker 1: anniversary or anything. So Terry, I need you to say, Ryan,
Speaker 1: you have my permission to call, and then your husband's
Speaker 1: name on Kiss FM. Go ahead, Yeah, Ryan, you have
Speaker 1: my permission to call. Okay, going to do that. Now,
Speaker 1: be very quiet. Let's see what we can find out. Okay, okay, okay. Hello.
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Speaker 1: is that t E r R E T E r R.
Speaker 1: I got it? And then when would you like to
Speaker 1: put on the note? Uh? I just hope it brightens
Speaker 1: your day, Alex. Your voice be broadcast on the radio.
Speaker 1: My name is Ryan Seacrest, and your wife carry is
Speaker 1: on the line. But hi Alex, Alex, we need you
Speaker 1: to answer a couple of questions real fast, okay, if
Speaker 1: you don't mind. Okay, Alex, what is happening? Your wife
Speaker 1: has said that your behavior patterns changed a little bit,
Speaker 1: and she said, you change your password on your phone.
Speaker 1: Is there a reason why you did that? She was
Speaker 1: telling us a couple of details. Um, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I was just changing things up. And what motivated doing well,
Speaker 1: that's what we're trying to get to. What motivated that change?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I was just sitting I honestly I've
Speaker 1: seen if anybody noticed. Okay, and someone didn't notice, Now,
Speaker 1: why why do you say if someone noticed? What does
Speaker 1: that mean? Well, by someone, I mean you, Terry. I
Speaker 1: was just wondering if you would even notice if I
Speaker 1: did change my password. I don't know why we're talking
Speaker 1: about this. Why why would you want her to notice? What?
Speaker 1: What's that test about? What is this test? I don't understand. Well,
Speaker 1: I could okay, well honestly, because like, I just feel
Speaker 1: like you're so miserable when we're together. I'm I don't
Speaker 1: even know if you want to be around me. So
Speaker 1: I was trying to see if you would even care.
Speaker 1: I didn't realize that you were going to call Ryan Seacrest, Alex,
Speaker 1: is this also why you're disconnecting and you're going out
Speaker 1: without her and do whatever you're doing without her? All that,
Speaker 1: All of that was just a asked recently because I
Speaker 1: really felt like she would rather be alone than have
Speaker 1: me around. Oh my gosh, Alex, No, No, I really
Speaker 1: didn't understand. Wow, I didn't know I was coming across
Speaker 1: as so miserable. I mean, oh, sweetie, it's not you,
Speaker 1: It is not you, I Brian, because it's just I
Speaker 1: love you so much, and I really didn't understand why
Speaker 1: you you know, you're doing all these things. I just
Speaker 1: but Terry, why does he think that, why does he
Speaker 1: feel that? What's what's going on? Well, I guess I've
Speaker 1: just been really feeling worn down lately, just you know,
Speaker 1: by life and and and the world right now. But
Speaker 1: you never tell me that, you'd like, you never want
Speaker 1: to open up and tell me what's wrong. I just
Speaker 1: feel like you're in your own world and I don't
Speaker 1: know what you're thinking. And I just got to the
Speaker 1: point where I felt like maybe you would just be
Speaker 1: happier if I was gone, And then I just started
Speaker 1: to think that you wouldn't even notice. I know that
Speaker 1: was your childish and I'm sorry, and I shouldn't have.
Speaker 1: I don't know, there's probably a better way that I
Speaker 1: could have. I guess the experiment worked because I love you,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, we should talk more. I love you too.
Speaker 1: I was just so embarrassed by the way I was feeling,
Speaker 1: and I just didn't want to talk about it because
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's don't kind of depressed and I've
Speaker 1: never felt that way before. And do you see how
Speaker 1: therapeute this do you see how this is great that
Speaker 1: you're talking through these things and you're having this common
Speaker 1: conversation and you're really in the same place. So we're
Speaker 1: gonna you guys, continue this therapy session. But the takeaway
Speaker 1: in this is communication. You're both feeling a certain thing
Speaker 1: I had to do is say it, and then you
Speaker 1: would have realized you're in the same place. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I love you so much. I was just so worried. Well,
Speaker 1: this is great, what a break talk to me about anything,
Speaker 1: no offense, Ryan, Next time, we could talk about it,
Speaker 1: you know, in private and not on the radio. No,
Speaker 1: I I don't need to talk about it with you
Speaker 1: in private. You should talk to Terry about it, Terry,
Speaker 1: Alex listen. Thank you very much for being vulnerable in
Speaker 1: this moment. Terry, thank you for reaching out and what
Speaker 1: a breakthrough you guys. Take care. Thank you, Thank you
Speaker 1: so Terry. In Asperia and her husband Alex, she wrote
Speaker 1: to us saying, he's acting strange, he's disconnected, he goes places,
Speaker 1: doesn't including his change his password. It's all weird. Now
Speaker 1: that all adds up to be a problem. It turns
Speaker 1: out he was trying to get attention. That's what he
Speaker 1: was trying to do. He thought, for some reason, she
Speaker 1: was presenting an energy that made him think he wasn't wanted,
Speaker 1: so he changed his password to get attention, to get
Speaker 1: her to think something was up, so they could have
Speaker 1: the breakthrough they just had. Yeah, yeah, he didn't think
Speaker 1: that she was gonna call us. But it's like the
Speaker 1: things we don't do with our significant other, the and
Speaker 1: the things we do do, the links we go to
Speaker 1: to create that moment of oh here I am, and
Speaker 1: this attention, like the things we do to seek attention
Speaker 1: when we could just address it because they have the
Speaker 1: same issue. They both wanted attention. Yeah, they vote were
Speaker 1: feeling insecure about their relationship. It's just like, come on,
Speaker 1: and instead of addressing it, he changed his password to
Speaker 1: make or think something's up. Relationship relationships are exhausting. No
Speaker 1: they're not. I mean, you're not exhausted exhaust Well, I'm
Speaker 1: exhausted for other reasons, but not because of my relationship.
Speaker 1: It No, that's like, you're not exhausted. No, I'm exhausted
Speaker 1: because of my puppy, but not my relationship. How do
Speaker 1: you not exhausted? I am? Thank you? I think we
Speaker 1: all are alright, just fishing for some idea exhaust you,
Speaker 1: Ryan when it comes to a relationship about my own.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the ones that we talk about here. No, No,
Speaker 1: we're talking about your own. Knowing things like that would
Speaker 1: exhaust me. If I were in a situation where I
Speaker 1: felt insecure and didn't address it and I have done
Speaker 1: it and you seek attention and then you realize we're
Speaker 1: on the same page, that would that exhausts me. That
Speaker 1: exhausts me, right, or hey, how are you good? Mare's fine?
Speaker 1: That exhausts me? Are you sure? Yes? Like the chipping
Speaker 1: away exhausts me. I want your chip away and you
Speaker 1: figure it out. It's like one time, one and done,
Speaker 1: and then you guys can communicate better and you grow
Speaker 1: from it. Yeah. You know the cities that have belt
Speaker 1: ways or perimeters with the freeway goes around the city,
Speaker 1: you know they have like Atlanta has a five to
Speaker 1: call it. The perimeter goes around the city. That's exhausted,
Speaker 1: just go through the city. I think because we talk
Speaker 1: so much here, by the time you get to talking
Speaker 1: or chipping away, you know what I mean, it's like,
Speaker 1: come on, are you exhausted? No, touch not exhausted. Are
Speaker 1: you pretty silent at home. You get home, and depends
Speaker 1: on the day, depends on the depends on the day
Speaker 1: of the week. Mondays and Tuesdays per much, Wednesdays, days, Thursdays,
Speaker 1: fancy you're ready? Yeah, but also Fridays and Saturday on
Speaker 1: my same schedules. So when I don't have a schedule,
Speaker 1: I got more thoughts that are coming out, right. I
Speaker 1: also have to save up for you guys. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure. I gotta save all this for you guys. Yeah.
Speaker 1: What if I burned all this energy out at home
Speaker 1: doing my own thing, then that I wouldn't have any
Speaker 1: to give you guys. All right, let's not stay up
Speaker 1: on the one eight team and out on the fifteen.
Speaker 1: Let's take the ten. That's what I'm trying to say,
Speaker 1: right through it, right through it, through it. On air
Speaker 1: with Ryan Seacrest, I mentioned were I cannot remember how
Speaker 1: we got into it. We dovetailed into a conversation about
Speaker 1: maybe you couldn't remember something, or one of us could
Speaker 1: remember something, Yeah, I can't right, or could make a choice,
Speaker 1: but a restaurant, a restaurant, making decisions at a restaurant
Speaker 1: to eat. Yeah, I think you said it. Then you
Speaker 1: one that said the menu, you can't figure out what
Speaker 1: to choose, and I so you said it, You said
Speaker 1: cheesecake factories too big of a menu, that thing. He
Speaker 1: said yes, And then Tanya said, oh my gosh, I'm
Speaker 1: going through that issue where I can't make a decision
Speaker 1: like decision and I never used to be that way.
Speaker 1: It would be like, Okay, we're going on to dinner.
Speaker 1: I'm going to get this or that that needs a
Speaker 1: product I've been reading. It's a product of what we've
Speaker 1: all been going through in this pandemic. So sisen E
Speaker 1: took it upon herself to research it and come back
Speaker 1: with a full report. Thank you for bringing this deck
Speaker 1: in this morning. Go ahead, I said I would, And
Speaker 1: here we are. So apparently we are all suffering from
Speaker 1: a case of pandemic paralysis. We're feeling overwhelmed by decision
Speaker 1: making post lockdown. Now it makes sense when you really
Speaker 1: break it down. Simply for a substantial period of time,
Speaker 1: our daily freedoms were taken away from us. So not
Speaker 1: only did we face many restrictions around what we could
Speaker 1: or could not do, we didn't know if we can
Speaker 1: make plans for tomorrow. We didn't know if we can
Speaker 1: make plans for six months from now. So all of that,
Speaker 1: it's almost like we lost our rhythm in life of
Speaker 1: decision making, and now that we're kind of back in it,
Speaker 1: we don't know how to like recharge that part of
Speaker 1: our brain again, and so having a difficult time making
Speaker 1: decisions quickly now because for the longest time we just paused.
Speaker 1: So it's no different. It's no different than the way
Speaker 1: our body reacts physically. When we stop doing something frequently,
Speaker 1: it turns to atrophy or the atrophy of the brain,
Speaker 1: of the decision component of the brain. It's like muscle memory,
Speaker 1: you know. So what do we do now? We know
Speaker 1: what interesting? What we do is we nip it in
Speaker 1: the butt and get back out there, like just start,
Speaker 1: don't overthink things, just start making decisions. And so I'm
Speaker 1: just asking should we becaus the on air we just
Speaker 1: knowing this for our own good to get back up
Speaker 1: the speed and decision making. Should we just make decisions
Speaker 1: even if they're bad? I mean, I think you make
Speaker 1: a choice and then you have a plan b if
Speaker 1: you can, Like I'm talking to all like you brides
Speaker 1: that have postponed your wedding how many times? And now
Speaker 1: you're you're stuck with trying to figure out like, well,
Speaker 1: should I do it this month or not month? Like
Speaker 1: what if this? What if? Who's pregnant? This? It's like
Speaker 1: just make a decision, you know, and have a plan
Speaker 1: B in case something happens, and then just we have
Speaker 1: to move on. And I'm talking to all the brides
Speaker 1: and grooms. Is marriage really the right? Mom? What we
Speaker 1: need to decide? But it's it's also challenging because you
Speaker 1: get shamed for going out, You get shamed for trying
Speaker 1: to live your life right now, and then you get
Speaker 1: like you get shamed for staying at home, so you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like you you can't win right now.
Speaker 1: It's like you're kind of caring about the sham. We're
Speaker 1: kind of living in this like weird like we're not
Speaker 1: here nor there right now and like this really weird
Speaker 1: middle where you can't If you are out too much,
Speaker 1: then you know you're being reckless. Yeah, and if you're
Speaker 1: insight two months, then you're not living your life. You
Speaker 1: than this limb, this gray limbo weirdness, and that's all
Speaker 1: part of the you know, to carry that weight either.
Speaker 1: All right, So this is interesting record you've seen it
Speaker 1: in the news, and maybe you're part of this wave.
Speaker 1: Record turnover rates, great resignation. Uh, what's there on the
Speaker 1: big quit? A lot of people quitting their jobs for
Speaker 1: obvious reasons. The obvious reasons are more money, quit job
Speaker 1: for better conditions or better benefits, those things we've all
Speaker 1: had in our universe. But now the biggest reason people
Speaker 1: are quitting and record numbers, they say, is being driven
Speaker 1: by a toxic work culture. Toxic work cultures are ten
Speaker 1: times more important than pay when you predict turnover, meaning
Speaker 1: has ten times more impact than economics. I can see
Speaker 1: that people are fed up. They're like, I don't need
Speaker 1: to deal with this. There's bigger problems in the world.
Speaker 1: M hm. I kind of agree, mm hmm. I was
Speaker 1: thinking about, you know, just things that you we did,
Speaker 1: we have to do. You think, what's the point, What
Speaker 1: is the point I'm gonna do this assignment? Why? Why? Why?
Speaker 1: Why do why that meeting? What's the point of that meeting?
Speaker 1: Actually will go nowhere. I've met with this person, this
Speaker 1: supervisor for many, many times. We do your zooms and
Speaker 1: there's really no plot, there's no point, and it's just
Speaker 1: it's occupying time. Well, I think it's a level of
Speaker 1: like being disrespected at work or like that's the toxic,
Speaker 1: the toxicity, toxicity that I'm talking about, and so like
Speaker 1: I don't know, like if you are in a job
Speaker 1: and you know you're never going to be promoted, like
Speaker 1: that's toxing. Like are you trying to have the common
Speaker 1: station with your manager and it never goes anywhere? Like
Speaker 1: you're saying that's toxic. At some point, you have to
Speaker 1: just throw in the towel. Yeah, well, bless you, tony.
Speaker 1: She put her ZOOMA mutant sneezed, thank you, ka zoom. Tight.
Speaker 1: Economists say high turnover will continue in especially since it's
Speaker 1: an employee's market right now. It's just interesting times never
Speaker 1: seen so much, and you know, this pandemic kit when
Speaker 1: technology is at a height too, when we have all
Speaker 1: of these other ways to do things, and in a
Speaker 1: world where a lot of new people in the job
Speaker 1: market grew up on devices. So this is all happening
Speaker 1: at such a strange time and you're seeing all of this. Man,
Speaker 1: I wish I would have bought stock in Zoom before
Speaker 1: the pandemic. Wishes I wish I said, I wish I said.
Speaker 1: Kazoom tight and not kazoom tight that have been more,
Speaker 1: you know, not have been better. I didn't. So what
Speaker 1: am I gonna do with Ryan's secrets? Okay, Tanya, you
Speaker 1: said after the honeymoon face and a relationship is basically
Speaker 1: over in your trending report. Something got you thinking last
Speaker 1: night about that? Go ahead, yeah, Well, these are the
Speaker 1: two things I want you guys to think about in
Speaker 1: your own lives. What are some things that you do
Speaker 1: that you don't want to do in front of your partner?
Speaker 1: And then what are some things that your partner does
Speaker 1: that's gross at home? Okay? So I was thinking about
Speaker 1: this because Katy Perry was doing an interview and she
Speaker 1: was asked about Orlando blooms worse habit, and this is
Speaker 1: what she had to say. She said, Oh, my god,
Speaker 1: he loves to floss, which thank god because some partners
Speaker 1: don't and it's disgusting. And he has brilliant teeth, but
Speaker 1: he leaves his floss everywhere, on the side of the bed,
Speaker 1: in the car, on the kitchen table. I know, so gross.
Speaker 1: I know, because like plaque is smelly. Um, But I
Speaker 1: was thinking, what are like, what is the grossest thing
Speaker 1: that your partner does? At home. And also are there
Speaker 1: things that you do kind of like because there's certain
Speaker 1: things I basically like, I'm with my boyfriend all the time.
Speaker 1: Now I'm just I'm home just to kind of work. Uh.
Speaker 1: And there's two things I do when I'm at home
Speaker 1: that I will never do it his place. One of
Speaker 1: them is pluck myself. No, I don't think I can
Speaker 1: say the word on the airy good then don't. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like you know around here, and then um, shave
Speaker 1: shave my mustache. Like I'll never bring my little like
Speaker 1: razor over, like my little thing over and do that there.
Speaker 1: But it's gonna go back stiff. You know, it's not
Speaker 1: it's called it's like derma planing. I use. I don't
Speaker 1: use a razor, I use like one of those things
Speaker 1: that you derma plane with. I would wax it. Uh yeah,
Speaker 1: it's not that. No, no, no, no, I'll take a
Speaker 1: picture next time before I shave it. Noting. No, I
Speaker 1: hope I have as so I I leave the flows
Speaker 1: on the counter in the bathroom. I do that too,
Speaker 1: because it gets you know, it's that my entire it
Speaker 1: gets all tangled up in my finger. You know, it's
Speaker 1: all it's all tangling. It's all webbed up, right, and
Speaker 1: so I just leave it there, put it in the trash.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I do. I get lazy at that
Speaker 1: moment and I'm like, I'm done and I leave it
Speaker 1: on the counter. It's gross. Next morning it's there. It's
Speaker 1: not that gross. It's not like chunks of stuff are
Speaker 1: on it because I've spit, you know, into this. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's still gross. Do you leave the toilet seat up?
Speaker 1: I mean, let's see, it's so basic. I actually I'm
Speaker 1: gonna install a urinal. I think that's the solution. Like
Speaker 1: if we had a urinal would be so much easier, Right,
Speaker 1: you just put a girl on there on one side
Speaker 1: of the wall, freaking locker room anything in your world,
Speaker 1: say no, necessarily gross. But like Michael does take off
Speaker 1: his shoes like I swear he takes off his shoes
Speaker 1: like as walking, like you'll you'll see them like one
Speaker 1: in front of the other, just in the middle of
Speaker 1: the living room. Like that's annoying. It's like, if you're
Speaker 1: gonna take off your shoes, like at least put him
Speaker 1: to the side if you're not going to put them away.
Speaker 1: But like it, I would love that about you anything
Speaker 1: in your world, Patty, I mean a few get things,
Speaker 1: but I don't think I can see them in the air. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: well if you don't think so, don't do it. Thank
Speaker 1: you for that Channing report. On Air with Ryan Seacrest.
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