WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Mystery Treadmill Man

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<v Speaker 1>New week new show. Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning and this is your Second Date podcast. We

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<v Speaker 1>got a new episode today that really is about not

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<v Speaker 1>jumping to conclusions and some miscommunications is definitely I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like the theme today it gets messy, real messy. But

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<v Speaker 1>first comments, what do you got, alexis? Yeah, Grease said,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing ever prepares me for some of this insanity. Since

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<v Speaker 1>discovering the show, I've been heavily entertained, and I thought

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<v Speaker 1>London Dating was terrible, but maybe it's not. Oh wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I know we still can't afford at our station to

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<v Speaker 1>do international calling. Yeah, so someday we'll get into that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be attracted to every international listener that calls in.

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<v Speaker 2>I love act much.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like they're all great people. Goud, it's so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's start your brand new Second Date update

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<v Speaker 1>right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Second Date Updated.

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<v Speaker 3>I am very curious to hear from the listener who

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<v Speaker 3>wrote to us today, because in her email, she says

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<v Speaker 3>she met a guy one.

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<v Speaker 2>Time, okay, on an app. They never went on an

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<v Speaker 2>actual date.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, they don't really know anything about each other at

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<v Speaker 3>allconnection but.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, still she called him quote.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe the most romantic man I've ever met in my

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<v Speaker 3>entire life.

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<v Speaker 1>How I know, be romantic without knowing anything about each other.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm wondering the same thing. How does she reach that conclusion?

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<v Speaker 3>Let's find out. Her name is Tilly and she's on

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<v Speaker 3>the line right now. So, Tilly, I just got to say,

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<v Speaker 3>your email sounds full blown crazy?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that? No?

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<v Speaker 4>It is crazy. That's literally why I'm calling you, because, like,

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<v Speaker 4>I've never heard of a situation like this. I've never

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<v Speaker 4>been in a situation like this.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't watch a guy propose in the most romantic

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<v Speaker 3>way possible and then you fell in love with him

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<v Speaker 3>because you saw how romantic he was.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a movie.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that could be it.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it felt like a movie, like the me

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<v Speaker 4>cute moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, if we're talking movie level romance, you've got to

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<v Speaker 1>set the whole scene form.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, tell us the whole story.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So here's the story. I'm at the gym, and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm at like a pretty high end gym. I got lucky,

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<v Speaker 4>I got up, you know, a membership through my work situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, boogie, It's like one of.

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<v Speaker 4>The fancy gyms. There's like a tendance and there's like

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<v Speaker 4>a juice cafe in the back. I've been working out.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm actually almost done. Like I'm on my treadmill. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>cooling down, okay, and this good looking man comes up

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<v Speaker 4>on the treadmill next to me and we small talk.

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<v Speaker 4>It's nothing crazy, Like we talked for like less than

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<v Speaker 4>thirty seconds. Like it was quick.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but the timing's good because you're just walking and

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<v Speaker 1>he's just starting.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, and I don't really think anything of it,

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<v Speaker 4>like go into the locker room, I change. Okay, Literally,

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<v Speaker 4>as I'm walking to my car, I hear miss miss

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<v Speaker 4>wait wait. I turn around. It's one of the gym attendants.

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<v Speaker 4>He has flowers and a card from this man that

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<v Speaker 4>I just met.

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<v Speaker 5>Whoa like.

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, this is part of the mystery, because how did

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<v Speaker 4>this man secure flowers that fast.

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<v Speaker 1>And a card? Okay, I am so jaded that my

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<v Speaker 1>first thought is he's been watching you and was prepared

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<v Speaker 1>for this moment.

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<v Speaker 2>Before in the gym.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess it's possible that I certainly didn't recognize him

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<v Speaker 4>at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>It felt spontaneous. That's crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>It felt very spontaneous, which was part of the reason

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, how did you manage that? But there's a

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<v Speaker 4>number on the card, so I obviously text the number

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm like, thank you so much for the flowers.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so flattered. But he is not the one that

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<v Speaker 4>answered the text. It was somebody that was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>this is his assistant.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh make it happen even quicker.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of weird that he gave you his assistant's

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<v Speaker 1>phone number and not his phone umber.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just about to say that unless he wanted her

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<v Speaker 3>to know that he had an assistant like Texter, yea,

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<v Speaker 3>that's possible.

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<v Speaker 2>It's something jose would for sure do the way I

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<v Speaker 2>have two agents.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't know if anybody realize.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, get away from Hey, did you ever actually talk

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<v Speaker 1>to him?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Do we know his name?

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<v Speaker 4>That's the thing, I don't know his name?

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<v Speaker 5>What?

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<v Speaker 2>Who?

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't even send a good first text introducing himself.

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<v Speaker 4>No, the assistant says there is actually a gift waiting

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<v Speaker 4>for you at a jewelry store and gives me an address.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, whoa, whoa.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if this is romantic anymore. Now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>getting worried.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, nobody cares what you think. It's only a

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<v Speaker 2>tilling sugar baby situation.

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<v Speaker 1>I feels like I don't have a good personality, so

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<v Speaker 1>let me buy you. Did you go to the jewelry store?

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<v Speaker 4>I was curious, of course I went. I mean it

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<v Speaker 4>for the plot.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, you're doing this for the plot alone. So

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<v Speaker 3>we support you in this decision. What happened at the

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<v Speaker 3>jewelry store.

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<v Speaker 4>I go to the jewelry store and there is a

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<v Speaker 4>bracelet waiting there for me, and I will say, like,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't feel like I can be bought, but I

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<v Speaker 4>can be impressed. And it's sixteen flowers and a bracelet.

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<v Speaker 4>I have impressed, even though I don't know anything about him,

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<v Speaker 4>including his name.

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<v Speaker 2>So we yeah, oh my god, this is wild.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no setup of a date, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So I get the bracelet and then I text the

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<v Speaker 4>only number I have back to this and I'm basically like,

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<v Speaker 4>let's set this up, like how do we meet or whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>So we set up a whole situation, a time and

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<v Speaker 4>a place to meet, and then I go there and

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<v Speaker 4>he doesn't show up, and now nobody's answering this number.

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<v Speaker 2>This rings like he does this, like he's set the trap.

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<v Speaker 2>He gives you jewelry. He doesn't show up. Why now

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, what is going on?

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<v Speaker 3>And now you have to get a hold of Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to be in that game.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't sound odd.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like he's gonna play a lot of games.

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<v Speaker 1>With I mean, why would he stand you up? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I don't get.

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<v Speaker 4>My friends think maybe he's married or maybe that was

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<v Speaker 4>some sort of scam. But if it was a scam,

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<v Speaker 4>then like where's the request to let's get my money

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<v Speaker 4>or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but you better make sure that bracelet

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have a tracker in it. Yeah, this is this

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<v Speaker 1>is a wild story.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I was kind of skeptical at the

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<v Speaker 3>start of this when you said he was the most

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<v Speaker 3>romantic guy of all time, But after hearing the story,

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<v Speaker 3>I think Brooke is one hundred percent sold.

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<v Speaker 2>In fact, she's probably ready to.

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<v Speaker 3>Leave her husband depending on how this Paul goes when

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<v Speaker 3>we come back.

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<v Speaker 1>Nameless man, I already don't trust this guy.

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<v Speaker 2>You're only saying that because you're jealous.

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<v Speaker 3>Brooke.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna call this mystery guy in just a second or.

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<v Speaker 1>His assistant, you mean, wherever it is.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm excited to talk to anybody that picks up this

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<v Speaker 3>phone number and try and get you your second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>Right after this second date update, our listener Tilly told

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<v Speaker 3>us in part one that she met the most romantic

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<v Speaker 3>guy ever, and wow, she was not kidding meta guy

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<v Speaker 3>on the treadmill at the gym.

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<v Speaker 2>They talked for thirty.

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<v Speaker 3>Seconds, but as she's leaving just a few minutes later,

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<v Speaker 3>she's being chased down handed a giant bouquet of flowers,

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<v Speaker 3>not by him, like the gym assistant guy is told

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<v Speaker 3>it's from treadmill dude. He already has a handwritten note

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<v Speaker 3>for her in a phone number for his assistant. Later,

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<v Speaker 3>she's told there's a necklace and a bracelet waiting for

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<v Speaker 3>her at a jewelry store, which turns out to be true.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, she is just a bracelet. I mean, don't oversell it.

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<v Speaker 2>Never find this guy sucks forge. No, I thought he

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<v Speaker 2>was romantic. You guys are right, he's a looser gems

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<v Speaker 2>on it.

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<v Speaker 3>No, okay, it was pretty cool until the weird part

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<v Speaker 3>was she was stood up by him waiting at a

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<v Speaker 3>coffee shop where she thought they were gonna meet Tilly.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you nervous? Are you like? What are you feeling

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<v Speaker 1>right now at this.

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<v Speaker 4>Point, it's so crazy that I'm assuming it's not gonna

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<v Speaker 4>work out, but I cannot move on until I know

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<v Speaker 4>what the story is.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, we love it.

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<v Speaker 3>The bottom line is we need to figure out who

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<v Speaker 3>this guy is or figure out some answer so till

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<v Speaker 3>he can get some peace of mind.

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<v Speaker 1>All we have is his assistant's number, right, So that's

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<v Speaker 1>who we're calling.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, So that's all we have to go off of.

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<v Speaker 3>We're just gonna call it and see what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but be polite, like this guy sounds professional.

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<v Speaker 1>We need to keep it buttoned up.

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<v Speaker 2>I would take that advice and turn it right around

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<v Speaker 2>at yourself. That'd be really good. If he has an assistant,

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<v Speaker 2>he's always busy. Like we called, she's gonna be like

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<v Speaker 2>he's not available, and we'll see. Let's find out only

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<v Speaker 2>one way to know. I'm gonna dial this number. We'll

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<v Speaker 2>see who picks up and what happens. But here we go.

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<v Speaker 6>Jeff, Hello, Hi, uh Hi, my name is Jeff Professional Jeff.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know who.

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<v Speaker 3>This is, so hello, yeah, Hi, Sorry, So I work

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<v Speaker 3>for a radio show called Broken Jeffrey in the Morning,

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<v Speaker 3>and uh, This is gonna sound kind of odd because

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<v Speaker 3>I don't really know who I'm calling for here. But

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<v Speaker 3>we have a woman who is a friend of the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Her name is Tilly, and I believe your boss sent

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<v Speaker 3>her flowers and gave her a bracelet.

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<v Speaker 2>You have the wrong person.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I don't. I don't want to talk about this.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, just hold on. Do you know a lot about this?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you don't want to talk about this. What

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<v Speaker 1>the heck are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 2>Did he have Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>No, Oh, he is not going to stand up up?

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<v Speaker 1>You better call him back.

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<v Speaker 2>It's probably because you were scaring him broke. I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to dial it again. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 5>Hold on, I don't want to talk about this.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, a little hot, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen.

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<v Speaker 3>We're not trying to get into anybody's business here, especially

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<v Speaker 3>anybody with a lot of money, because our lawyers aren't

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<v Speaker 3>good enough to handle anything like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, it seems like we don't.

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<v Speaker 3>The thing is, we're just reaching out because we need

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<v Speaker 3>to get a general answer about what happened with Tilly

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<v Speaker 3>and this guy that we're trying to.

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<v Speaker 2>Get a hold of.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because it started out romantic and now it's feeling

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<v Speaker 1>not so great.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the thing you don't know is our friend Tilly

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<v Speaker 3>was completely blown away by this gesture. I'm assuming from

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<v Speaker 3>your boss. I still don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that's true closure here.

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<v Speaker 3>But we're talking way too much, so I should just

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<v Speaker 3>let you say something if you're still there.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, what is the most unprofessional assistants?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? Do you know what I'm talking about with Tilly?

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<v Speaker 5>I do?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Can you fill us in because we're very confused?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So here's the deal. This guy messed up. It's

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<v Speaker 5>way different than I thought it was going to go up.

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<v Speaker 2>What got messed up?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not the guy that was on the treadmill.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're the assistant.

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<v Speaker 2>You're the assistant.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm an assistant. I'm an assistant at the gym.

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<v Speaker 1>What huh wait wait, you're a gym employee. You work

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<v Speaker 1>at the gym.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm the one that brought her the flowers.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, you're the one that rushed out and brought the

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<v Speaker 1>flowers from the treadmill.

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<v Speaker 2>With the no yes, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would she have your number? I thought she had

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<v Speaker 1>the assistants number.

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<v Speaker 5>This whole thing got messed up. That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 5>The whole thing got messed up.

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<v Speaker 3>What the whole thing that you You're going to have

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<v Speaker 3>to explain a little bit because we we were under

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<v Speaker 3>the impression we were calling the assistant of the rich

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<v Speaker 3>guy on the treadmill.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know if he has an assistant. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have a name? What's your name?

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<v Speaker 5>Mitchell?

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<v Speaker 2>Mitchell? So tell us what you do know.

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<v Speaker 5>I know I've had a crush on her for two months.

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<v Speaker 2>You've had a crush on Tilly?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>What the heck? Wait? Wait wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Were the flowers not from the guy? Were the flowers

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<v Speaker 1>from you?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Oh on what's a treadmill guy? Where where's he?

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<v Speaker 1>What the height?

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<v Speaker 2>You're saying the flowers were from him?

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<v Speaker 1>Is what he's saying.

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<v Speaker 5>I'd been planning to approach her for a couple of months.

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<v Speaker 5>I did not know how to do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, because you see her in the gym, because you

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<v Speaker 3>worked there.

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<v Speaker 5>And I had flowers waiting for her that day.

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<v Speaker 1>Why didn't you take credit for the flowers?

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<v Speaker 5>Because I'm not rich. When I walked out to give

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<v Speaker 5>her the flowers, it was like she was seeing just

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<v Speaker 5>an employee.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't even say she liked rich guys though.

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<v Speaker 5>People go to that gym to meet rich guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Mitchell because her work gives her a free membership there.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why she goes to the gym, and also.

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<v Speaker 5>The big rich guys.

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<v Speaker 3>No, to his credit, it can be both.

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<v Speaker 1>So wait, why I don't understand?

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<v Speaker 4>Still, I don't understand either. What is going on?

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<v Speaker 7>Let's just break the facade and tell you, because Mitchell

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<v Speaker 7>Tilly has actually been listening to this call on the

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<v Speaker 7>other line, waiting to talk to I mean, not necessarily you,

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<v Speaker 7>but I guess yeah you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, she was waiting to talk to whoever gave her

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<v Speaker 1>the flowers and the bracelet, which we haven't even gotten

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<v Speaker 1>a close answer to the bracelet.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, yeah, so crazy. Hold on, let's clear this up.

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<v Speaker 4>So you've had a crush on me, You were planning

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<v Speaker 4>a big romantic gesture, and then while you were in

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<v Speaker 4>the midst of doing it, you somehow decided that I

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<v Speaker 4>was just a gold digger and that the best course

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<v Speaker 4>of action would be.

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<v Speaker 2>To lie to me, I mean, a gold maybe bracelet digger.

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<v Speaker 5>I wasn't just assuming you were a gold digger, isn't

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<v Speaker 5>that what you said?

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<v Speaker 6>You said.

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<v Speaker 4>You came out and I looked at you like you

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<v Speaker 4>were just an employee at the gym, even though you

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<v Speaker 4>are an employee at the gym, and I was just

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<v Speaker 4>leaving the gym.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's be honest, in the real world, you're not going

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<v Speaker 5>out with the gym assistant. And as I was about

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<v Speaker 5>to give you the flowers, I saw that look on

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<v Speaker 5>your face, and that's when I knew.

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<v Speaker 4>That, who wow, it's so ridiculous. The look on my

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<v Speaker 4>face would have been, why is the gymasistn't running at

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<v Speaker 4>me with flowers?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Nice? I mean for you to put all this on me.

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<v Speaker 4>You built this entire fantasy up in your head over

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<v Speaker 4>the course of two months, only to just decide that

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<v Speaker 4>that's what I want. But how dare I?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 4>What are you even saying? This doesn't make any sense?

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<v Speaker 5>And that's why I didn't go to the coffee shop.

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<v Speaker 5>I figured it would end something like this, and that's

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<v Speaker 5>what happened.

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<v Speaker 4>You didn't figure it would end something like this because

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<v Speaker 4>you figured it would never start, because you figured I

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<v Speaker 4>was gonna judge you based on your job or how

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<v Speaker 4>much money you had.

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<v Speaker 5>I really like you to focus just a little more,

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<v Speaker 5>just a little more on the flowers and bracelet.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to hear her.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to tell you what. I'm going to return

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<v Speaker 4>the bracelet because I don't care what anybody's job is.

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<v Speaker 4>But if that's what you think of me, then there's

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<v Speaker 4>nothing here.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Mitchell, you doug your own grave man.

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<v Speaker 5>So are you saying I can't like just say hello

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<v Speaker 5>to you anymore when you come to the gamble.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't imagine why you would want to at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, dude, job, if he's at the front, you

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<v Speaker 1>might have to.

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<v Speaker 2>At least needs to like scan your card in a

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<v Speaker 2>bare minimum.

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<v Speaker 1>But h Mitchell, you need to have more confidence. She

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<v Speaker 1>could have really fallen for you had you played this

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<v Speaker 1>totally differently.

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<v Speaker 5>I just I think you're wrong there. I don't think

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<v Speaker 5>it was going to So.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to tell you what you should do. Continue

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<v Speaker 4>to judge people before you know them at all, and

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<v Speaker 4>see how well that works out for you, because clearly

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<v Speaker 4>it's going great.

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<v Speaker 1>That was sarcasm, Mitchell. If you didn't catch it, yeah, well.

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<v Speaker 3>It's at this point that I would like to jump

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<v Speaker 3>in and offer another date exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I love when the most romantic stories end this way. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>See Now, normally we would ask the person that we're calling,

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<v Speaker 3>but in this situation, since so much has happened and

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<v Speaker 3>things have changed, Tilly will ask you first.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you out of your mind?

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<v Speaker 7>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>I only said that because Brooke was making me ask

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<v Speaker 2>the question, So it's really her fault.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's yeah, bru.

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<v Speaker 2>That was really awful.

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<v Speaker 3>So this call didn't go the way that we wanted

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<v Speaker 3>it to go. But Mitchell, do you have any last

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<v Speaker 3>words for us or for Tilly?

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<v Speaker 5>Look, I'm so sorry this whole thing went this way.

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<v Speaker 5>It was a misunderstanding from get go. But Tilly, if

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<v Speaker 5>you could just next time you're at the gym, wipe

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<v Speaker 5>down the equipment after you use it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, he has been watching her the entire time.

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<v Speaker 4>That type of girl, Tilly, And now we're just like

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<v Speaker 4>I always wiped down my equipment.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, at.

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<v Speaker 3>Least Mitchell got a shot in on the way out,

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<v Speaker 3>So there you go, Mitchell, win for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Rook Jeffrey in the morning. That definitely blew up in

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<v Speaker 2>the guy's face.

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<v Speaker 5>Glory.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a good lesson though, to not assume things

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<v Speaker 1>about people.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but if I am reading the textboard right, a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of people are.

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<v Speaker 2>Saying till he needed to give Mitchell a break.

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<v Speaker 1>Really so kind of I felt bad she waited thirty

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<v Speaker 1>minutes for a coffee shop for him to not show up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he ditched her. He never showed up, and then he

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<v Speaker 1>accused her of being a gold digger without even knowing her.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well, I understand that idea. But listen to this

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<v Speaker 3>text At seven eighty five, nine to two. Someone said, clearly,

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<v Speaker 3>Mitchell is a guy who does not value himself. He

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<v Speaker 3>has low self image, low self esteem. But we should

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<v Speaker 3>still see him for what he is, a regular guy

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<v Speaker 3>who had a big crush on a girl for two months. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>he had a bad plan, but he has a good heart.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but to me, that means you need to work

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<v Speaker 1>on yourself and get yourself image up before you're You

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<v Speaker 1>gotta love yourself, man, before you can love somebody else.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just how it goes.

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<v Speaker 3>Doesn't excuse leaving someone on a date yet, that is true.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, all that is really well said. I do

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<v Speaker 3>hope Mitchell knows that he's not the worst person in

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<v Speaker 3>the world before he buys a gift for his next

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<v Speaker 3>Jim crush.

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<v Speaker 2>By them gifts immediately, he's like.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm broke, what do I think it? He's got a

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<v Speaker 1>whole bracelet to regift, a whole Jim hot woman.

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<v Speaker 3>And I also hope Mitchell subscribes to our YouTube page

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<v Speaker 3>and he listens to all of our second date updates

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<v Speaker 3>while he's wiping sweat off of all the gym equipment,

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<v Speaker 3>because you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Those high end clients don't do it themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>No, they don't. Go check that out.

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<v Speaker 3>If you haven't subscribed to our podcast, they're up available

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<v Speaker 3>wherever you get yours.

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<v Speaker 2>That Brooke and Jeffrey