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Speaker 1: New week new show. Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the morning and this is your Second Date podcast. We

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Speaker 1: got a new episode today that really is about not

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Speaker 1: jumping to conclusions and some miscommunications is definitely I feel

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Speaker 1: like the theme today it gets messy, real messy. But

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Speaker 1: first comments, what do you got, alexis? Yeah, Grease said,

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Speaker 1: nothing ever prepares me for some of this insanity. Since

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Speaker 1: discovering the show, I've been heavily entertained, and I thought

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Speaker 1: London Dating was terrible, but maybe it's not. Oh wow,

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Speaker 1: I know we still can't afford at our station to

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Speaker 1: do international calling. Yeah, so someday we'll get into that.

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Speaker 1: I'd be attracted to every international listener that calls in.

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Speaker 2: I love act much.

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Speaker 1: I feel like they're all great people. Goud, it's so funny.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's start your brand new Second Date update

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Speaker 1: right now.

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Speaker 2: Second Date Updated.

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Speaker 3: I am very curious to hear from the listener who

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Speaker 3: wrote to us today, because in her email, she says

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Speaker 3: she met a guy one.

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Speaker 2: Time, okay, on an app. They never went on an

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Speaker 2: actual date.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, they don't really know anything about each other at

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Speaker 3: allconnection but.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, still she called him quote.

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Speaker 3: Maybe the most romantic man I've ever met in my

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Speaker 3: entire life.

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Speaker 1: How I know, be romantic without knowing anything about each other.

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Speaker 3: I'm wondering the same thing. How does she reach that conclusion?

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Speaker 3: Let's find out. Her name is Tilly and she's on

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Speaker 3: the line right now. So, Tilly, I just got to say,

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Speaker 3: your email sounds full blown crazy?

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Speaker 2: Is that? No?

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Speaker 4: It is crazy. That's literally why I'm calling you, because, like,

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Speaker 4: I've never heard of a situation like this. I've never

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Speaker 4: been in a situation like this.

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Speaker 3: You didn't watch a guy propose in the most romantic

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Speaker 3: way possible and then you fell in love with him

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Speaker 3: because you saw how romantic he was.

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Speaker 1: I think it's a movie.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that could be it.

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Speaker 4: I mean it felt like a movie, like the me

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Speaker 1: Okay, if we're talking movie level romance, you've got to

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Speaker 1: set the whole scene form.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, tell us the whole story.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So here's the story. I'm at the gym, and

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Speaker 4: I'm at like a pretty high end gym. I got lucky,

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Speaker 1: Okay, boogie, It's like one of.

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Speaker 4: The fancy gyms. There's like a tendance and there's like

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Speaker 4: a juice cafe in the back. I've been working out.

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Speaker 4: I'm actually almost done. Like I'm on my treadmill. I'm

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Speaker 4: cooling down, okay, and this good looking man comes up

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Speaker 4: on the treadmill next to me and we small talk.

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Speaker 4: It's nothing crazy, Like we talked for like less than

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Speaker 4: thirty seconds. Like it was quick.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but the timing's good because you're just walking and

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Speaker 4: So yeah, and I don't really think anything of it,

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Speaker 4: like go into the locker room, I change. Okay, Literally,

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Speaker 4: as I'm walking to my car, I hear miss miss

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Speaker 4: wait wait. I turn around. It's one of the gym attendants.

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Speaker 4: He has flowers and a card from this man that

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Speaker 4: Honestly, this is part of the mystery, because how did

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Speaker 4: this man secure flowers that fast.

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Speaker 1: And a card? Okay, I am so jaded that my

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Speaker 2: Before in the gym.

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Speaker 4: I guess it's possible that I certainly didn't recognize him

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Speaker 2: It felt spontaneous. That's crazy.

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Speaker 4: It felt very spontaneous, which was part of the reason

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Speaker 4: I'm like, how did you manage that? But there's a

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Speaker 3: Oh make it happen even quicker.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of weird that he gave you his assistant's

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Speaker 3: It's just about to say that unless he wanted her

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Speaker 5: You don't know if anybody realize.

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Speaker 1: Okay, get away from Hey, did you ever actually talk

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Speaker 1: Do we know his name?

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Speaker 4: That's the thing, I don't know his name?

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Speaker 5: What?

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Speaker 2: Who?

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Speaker 1: You didn't even send a good first text introducing himself.

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Speaker 4: No, the assistant says there is actually a gift waiting

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Speaker 4: for you at a jewelry store and gives me an address.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, whoa, whoa.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if this is romantic anymore. Now I'm

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, nobody cares what you think. It's only a

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Speaker 1: I feels like I don't have a good personality, so

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Speaker 4: I was curious, of course I went. I mean it

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you're doing this for the plot alone. So

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Speaker 3: we support you in this decision. What happened at the

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Speaker 4: I go to the jewelry store and there is a

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Speaker 4: I don't feel like I can be bought, but I

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Speaker 4: I have impressed, even though I don't know anything about him,

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Speaker 2: So we yeah, oh my god, this is wild.

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Speaker 1: There's no setup of a date, okay.

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Speaker 4: So I get the bracelet and then I text the

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Speaker 4: only number I have back to this and I'm basically like,

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Speaker 4: So we set up a whole situation, a time and

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Speaker 2: This rings like he does this, like he's set the trap.

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Speaker 2: He gives you jewelry. He doesn't show up. Why now

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Speaker 3: And now you have to get a hold of Yes,

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Speaker 3: I want to be in that game.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't sound odd.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like he's gonna play a lot of games.

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Speaker 1: With I mean, why would he stand you up? Like?

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Speaker 4: My friends think maybe he's married or maybe that was

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Speaker 4: then like where's the request to let's get my money

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but you better make sure that bracelet

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Speaker 1: doesn't have a tracker in it. Yeah, this is this

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Speaker 3: I think Brooke is one hundred percent sold.

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Speaker 2: In fact, she's probably ready to.

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Speaker 1: Nameless man, I already don't trust this guy.

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Speaker 2: You're only saying that because you're jealous.

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Speaker 3: Brooke.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna call this mystery guy in just a second or.

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Speaker 1: His assistant, you mean, wherever it is.

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Speaker 3: I'm excited to talk to anybody that picks up this

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Speaker 3: Right after this second date update, our listener Tilly told

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Speaker 3: us in part one that she met the most romantic

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Speaker 3: guy ever, and wow, she was not kidding meta guy

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Speaker 2: They talked for thirty.

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Speaker 3: Seconds, but as she's leaving just a few minutes later,

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Speaker 3: she's being chased down handed a giant bouquet of flowers,

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Speaker 1: Well, she is just a bracelet. I mean, don't oversell it.

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Speaker 2: Never find this guy sucks forge. No, I thought he

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Speaker 3: No, okay, it was pretty cool until the weird part

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Speaker 1: Are you nervous? Are you like? What are you feeling

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Speaker 4: Point, it's so crazy that I'm assuming it's not gonna

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, we love it.

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Speaker 3: The bottom line is we need to figure out who

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Speaker 1: All we have is his assistant's number, right, So that's

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Speaker 3: Yes, So that's all we have to go off of.

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Speaker 3: We're just gonna call it and see what happens.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but be polite, like this guy sounds professional.

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Speaker 1: We need to keep it buttoned up.

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Speaker 2: I would take that advice and turn it right around

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Speaker 2: at yourself. That'd be really good. If he has an assistant,

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Speaker 2: he's always busy. Like we called, she's gonna be like

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Speaker 2: one way to know. I'm gonna dial this number. We'll

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Speaker 6: Jeff, Hello, Hi, uh Hi, my name is Jeff Professional Jeff.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know who.

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Speaker 3: This is, so hello, yeah, Hi, Sorry, So I work

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Speaker 3: for a radio show called Broken Jeffrey in the Morning,

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Speaker 3: and uh, This is gonna sound kind of odd because

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Speaker 3: I don't really know who I'm calling for here. But

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Speaker 3: we have a woman who is a friend of the show.

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Speaker 3: Her name is Tilly, and I believe your boss sent

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Speaker 3: her flowers and gave her a bracelet.

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Speaker 2: You have the wrong person.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't. I don't want to talk about this.

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Speaker 2: Well, just hold on. Do you know a lot about this?

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Speaker 1: I mean, you don't want to talk about this. What

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Speaker 1: the heck are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: Did he have Oh?

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Speaker 1: No, Oh, he is not going to stand up up?

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Speaker 1: You better call him back.

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Speaker 2: It's probably because you were scaring him broke. I'm going

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Speaker 2: to dial it again. Here we go.

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Speaker 5: Hold on, I don't want to talk about this.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, a little hot, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Listen.

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Speaker 3: We're not trying to get into anybody's business here, especially

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Speaker 3: The thing is, we're just reaching out because we need

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Speaker 2: Get a hold of.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because it started out romantic and now it's feeling

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Speaker 3: That's the thing you don't know is our friend Tilly

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's true closure here.

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Speaker 3: But we're talking way too much, so I should just

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, what is the most unprofessional assistants?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Do you know what I'm talking about with Tilly?

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Speaker 5: I do?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, what's going on?

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Speaker 5: Okay, So here's the deal. This guy messed up. It's

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Speaker 2: What got messed up?

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Speaker 5: I'm not the guy that was on the treadmill.

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Speaker 1: So you're the assistant.

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Speaker 2: You're the assistant.

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Speaker 5: I'm an assistant. I'm an assistant at the gym.

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Speaker 5: I'm the one that brought her the flowers.

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Speaker 1: Why would she have your number? I thought she had

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Speaker 5: This whole thing got messed up. That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: The whole thing got messed up.

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Speaker 3: What the whole thing that you You're going to have

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Speaker 5: I don't know if he has an assistant. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Do you have a name? What's your name?

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Speaker 5: Mitchell?

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Speaker 2: Mitchell? So tell us what you do know.

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Speaker 5: I know I've had a crush on her for two months.

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Speaker 2: You've had a crush on Tilly?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What the heck? Wait? Wait wait?

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Speaker 1: Were the flowers not from the guy? Were the flowers

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Oh on what's a treadmill guy? Where where's he?

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Speaker 2: You're saying the flowers were from him?

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Speaker 1: Is what he's saying.

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Speaker 5: I'd been planning to approach her for a couple of months.

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Speaker 5: I did not know how to do it.

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Speaker 5: And I had flowers waiting for her that day.

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Speaker 1: Why didn't you take credit for the flowers?

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Speaker 5: Because I'm not rich. When I walked out to give

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Speaker 1: She didn't even say she liked rich guys though.

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Speaker 5: People go to that gym to meet rich guys.

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Speaker 1: Mitchell because her work gives her a free membership there.

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Speaker 1: That's why she goes to the gym, and also.

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Speaker 5: The big rich guys.

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Speaker 3: No, to his credit, it can be both.

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Speaker 1: So wait, why I don't understand?

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Speaker 4: Still, I don't understand either. What is going on?

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Speaker 7: Let's just break the facade and tell you, because Mitchell

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Speaker 1: Well, she was waiting to talk to whoever gave her

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, so crazy. Hold on, let's clear this up.

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Speaker 4: So you've had a crush on me, You were planning

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Speaker 2: To lie to me, I mean, a gold maybe bracelet digger.

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Speaker 5: I wasn't just assuming you were a gold digger, isn't

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Speaker 5: that what you said?

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Speaker 4: You came out and I looked at you like you

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Speaker 5: Let's be honest, in the real world, you're not going

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Speaker 4: That, who wow, it's so ridiculous. The look on my

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Nice? I mean for you to put all this on me.

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Speaker 4: You built this entire fantasy up in your head over

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 4: What are you even saying? This doesn't make any sense?

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Speaker 5: And that's why I didn't go to the coffee shop.

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Speaker 5: I figured it would end something like this, and that's

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Speaker 4: You didn't figure it would end something like this because

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Speaker 5: I really like you to focus just a little more,

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Speaker 1: You got to hear her.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to tell you what. I'm going to return

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Speaker 4: But if that's what you think of me, then there's

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Speaker 1: Oh Mitchell, you doug your own grave man.

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Speaker 5: So are you saying I can't like just say hello

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Speaker 4: I can't imagine why you would want to at this point.

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Speaker 2: At least needs to like scan your card in a

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Speaker 1: But h Mitchell, you need to have more confidence. She

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Speaker 1: could have really fallen for you had you played this

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Speaker 5: I just I think you're wrong there. I don't think

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Speaker 4: I'm going to tell you what you should do. Continue

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Speaker 1: That was sarcasm, Mitchell. If you didn't catch it, yeah, well.

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Speaker 3: It's at this point that I would like to jump

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Speaker 1: I love when the most romantic stories end this way. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: See Now, normally we would ask the person that we're calling,

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Speaker 4: Are you out of your mind?

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Speaker 7: Yes?

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Speaker 2: I only said that because Brooke was making me ask

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's yeah, bru.

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Speaker 2: That was really awful.

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Speaker 3: So this call didn't go the way that we wanted

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Speaker 3: it to go. But Mitchell, do you have any last

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Speaker 5: Look, I'm so sorry this whole thing went this way.

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Speaker 5: It was a misunderstanding from get go. But Tilly, if

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Speaker 5: you could just next time you're at the gym, wipe

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Speaker 2: Oh, he has been watching her the entire time.

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Speaker 4: That type of girl, Tilly, And now we're just like

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, at.

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Speaker 3: Least Mitchell got a shot in on the way out,

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Speaker 3: So there you go, Mitchell, win for you.

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Speaker 2: Rook Jeffrey in the morning. That definitely blew up in

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Speaker 5: Glory.

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Speaker 1: It was a good lesson though, to not assume things

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but if I am reading the textboard right, a

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Speaker 2: Saying till he needed to give Mitchell a break.

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Speaker 1: Really so kind of I felt bad she waited thirty

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I understand that idea. But listen to this

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Speaker 3: who had a big crush on a girl for two months. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but to me, that means you need to work

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Speaker 1: That's just how it goes.

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Speaker 3: Doesn't excuse leaving someone on a date yet, that is true.

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Speaker 3: I mean, all that is really well said. I do

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Speaker 2: By them gifts immediately, he's like.

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Speaker 1: I'm broke, what do I think it? He's got a

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Speaker 1: whole bracelet to regift, a whole Jim hot woman.

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Speaker 3: And I also hope Mitchell subscribes to our YouTube page

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Speaker 3: and he listens to all of our second date updates

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Speaker 3: while he's wiping sweat off of all the gym equipment,

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Speaker 3: because you know.

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Speaker 1: Those high end clients don't do it themselves.

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Speaker 2: No, they don't. Go check that out.

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Speaker 3: If you haven't subscribed to our podcast, they're up available

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Speaker 3: wherever you get yours.

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Speaker 2: That Brooke and Jeffrey