1 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod, which Teddy Mellencamp and Camra Judge. 2 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 2: Hi, it's Teddy Mellencamp and Tamra Judge. 3 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Two Cheese and a Pod live from 4 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: Bravo Con in Las Vegas. 5 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 2: It's such a fun, busy weekend and we want to 6 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 2: make sure you get as many episodes as possible, so 7 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:23,119 Speaker 2: we have a special guest co host for you. 8 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 1: Delores Katana is here. Take it away, Delores. Hi, everybody, 9 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: It's Dolores Catana here with two Teas and a very 10 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:36,840 Speaker 1: special guest today. Today's going to be a special episode 11 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 1: because it is me with my now fiance, Paullie Connell. 12 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:45,279 Speaker 2: Hi, Paulli, Hy, Dolores, thank you. 13 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:49,559 Speaker 1: Oh you're woll special. Yes, it's very special. And I 14 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 1: decided before that you and I spoke to anyone. Paulie 15 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 1: that my loyalty and you know, loyalty is my motto. 16 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 1: That two Teas are like my family now, so I 17 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 1: wanted to speak to two Tea's first and all our 18 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 1: loyal friends because loyalty is what it's all about. But uh, 19 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 1: of all of you, all of you who if you 20 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: haven't heard, Pollie and I got engaged a couple of 21 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 1: days ago, and we're really going to sit down and 22 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:20,759 Speaker 1: talk about it for the first time, even to each other, 23 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 1: because it's been such a whirldwind of emotion and surprise 24 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 1: and everything you can imagine, because I had no idea 25 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 1: that I was actually going to the Apple Store for 26 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 1: anything other than the new iPhone. So I'm going to 27 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 1: let Polly here take over, because Pollie sharing with everybody 28 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 1: right now. I'm going to ask you for the first time, 29 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 1: how did you come up with this amazing idea? Number 30 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: One to get engaged because it wasn't on my Bengo 31 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 1: card that day. And number two the way you did it, 32 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: and it was so thought out to reenact our first day. 33 00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 1: But the flora is yours, as Alan Cumming says, the 34 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 1: floor is yours. 35 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 2: I thank you the lors, You're welcome. You look gorgeous today. 36 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: Thank you always. 37 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 2: Well. Obviously I was always planning this, you know, from 38 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 2: the first time I met you at the Apple Store. 39 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 2: It was a very surreal moment because even though by 40 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 2: the time I got to meet you, I kind of 41 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:24,239 Speaker 2: found that you're on TV, I didn't know what TV 42 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:25,920 Speaker 2: was all about. To me. It was just like whatever, 43 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 2: big deal, just go meet her and hang out. 44 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 1: You were going to get to know. 45 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 2: Yes, I was, so I feel like you know that 46 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 2: that always resonated with me the first time I met you. 47 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 2: There was always like important to me because number One, 48 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 2: you stalk me because you drove by the Apple store 49 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 2: that day and you see my card. 50 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:45,959 Speaker 1: I didn't stalk you. I would have stalked anybody would 51 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,679 Speaker 1: have rolled Rice at that time, would. 52 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:55,679 Speaker 2: Walk into the store that I stop. I want to 53 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 2: speak from the heart. 54 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 1: Yes, let me do it from the heart. Okay, but 55 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you if I see it Royce 56 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:01,079 Speaker 1: in the parking lot. 57 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 2: I need to know who owns No to everybody out 58 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 2: there with a rolls Rice park in front of the 59 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 2: door works out? Okay? 60 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 1: Oh is that how you would do it? 61 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:12,280 Speaker 2: Yeah? No, so yeah, so it was. It was meaningful 62 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 2: for me. So when I seen you walk in that 63 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 2: day to see Apple store, and it was just after 64 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 2: the whole COVID thing. I remember I had a mask on. 65 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 2: I'm like, this cannot be fucking Dolores Katania because I'd 66 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 2: only seen you on Instagram, right and we. 67 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: Talked through d MS. Yeah, yeah, I thought you were 68 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 1: gay somebody introduced us a mutual friend. So I went 69 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: on your Instagram and I'm like, oh, this guy's gay, 70 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: so cute. 71 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 2: I have that video. Actually, you know what, I think 72 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 2: I want to post that video. I think he deserves 73 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 2: a post. 74 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: Oh my god. So I left him a dmcause there's nothing. 75 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 2: Wrong with being gay, right, So no, I came off 76 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 2: for a feminine right if. 77 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 1: You are, it's okay, Paul, you could let me know. 78 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 2: Think you would know, no doors, No, okay, do you 79 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 2: think I'm gay? 80 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 1: No? I think you have a feminine side. 81 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 2: To you, like a mammy's boy or gay. No. 82 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 1: Both. Yeah, okay, but I'm just gonna say that we 83 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 1: were talking and it was actually just kind of kismet 84 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: that we both wound up our phones were broken at 85 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: the same time. We wound up getting our phones on 86 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 1: the same you know. 87 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll put it like that. But it was stalking. 88 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 2: So I mean, listen, so you walk into the store 89 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 2: for me, Like I said, you were larger than life, right, 90 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 2: And you know, I make joke about your hair, your boobs, 91 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 2: your little lemons, and your ass, but your presence just 92 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 2: filled up the whole store. And I always remember when 93 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,720 Speaker 2: you come over to me. You just you just made 94 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 2: me disengage with my nerves. I'd pulled a mask up 95 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:38,719 Speaker 2: over my face. You could only see, like barely see 96 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 2: my eyes because it was shitting my pants. If she 97 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 2: comes over to me, what I say? The meantime, I 98 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 2: meant to be going out with you that night. So 99 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 2: for me it was like, dude, stop being a woosy. 100 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 2: So you came over, you broke the ice, and it 101 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:56,760 Speaker 2: was cool. It was very cool. I remember we spoke outside. 102 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 2: We went to the Panera bread. We spoke there for a. 103 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 1: While three hours po, yeah, and didn't feel like three 104 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 1: I didn't feel. 105 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:05,360 Speaker 2: Like three hours. And then we were going. 106 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:08,680 Speaker 1: When we get back to the Apple store, I remember 107 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 1: you were shaking you're when you went because I had 108 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:15,839 Speaker 1: like probably twenty five no exaggeration, because I lose my 109 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 1: headphones all the time I was trying while I was 110 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 1: talking to I was deleting all my headphones. 111 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 2: You were deleting all the DMS you were getting, saying 112 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 2: Okay I found the right guy. Nah, Yes you were so. 113 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 1: But anyway, I noticed you went to show me something 114 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:31,840 Speaker 1: and you were like shaking was I Yes, you were, 115 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 1: And I knew I knew I had you a little 116 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:35,599 Speaker 1: bit then I didn't know how much. But anyway, sorry, 117 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 1: go ahead. 118 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 2: I was definitely shaking last Monday. So yeah, so that's 119 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:43,719 Speaker 2: kind of always been a place in me. And obviously 120 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 2: our relationship, you know, bloomed into what it did, right 121 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 2: and then obviously the tent, which you didn't put together. 122 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 2: November tenth is when you officially took residency in the Undercliff. 123 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 2: That's when you officially decided to move in. 124 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 1: I did not realize that. Well that's how do you know? 125 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 1: Did you document that? 126 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 2: Of course you wrote it in your I wouldn't have 127 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 2: to write I would just know that I moved. 128 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 1: In your house. So so for everyone that doesn't know 129 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 1: I was living, remember that my beautiful townhouse, Well it 130 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 1: was a rental while my house was getting done. And 131 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: Paul and I had a heart to heart one day 132 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 1: and I was looking at other places to live for 133 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 1: a short time because my house still wasn't actually done, 134 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 1: and he said, what did you say to me? Do 135 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 1: you remember you were. 136 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 2: Looking to move to the neighborhood to be close to me, 137 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 2: which at the time we were having our conversation, and 138 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 2: I said to myself, it's either like, let's do it together, 139 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 2: or you know, you move in somewhere else's and really, like, 140 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 2: doesn't make sense, right, if we're going to be seeing 141 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 2: each other, why not move here in the figure out 142 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 2: it doesn't work that you can move back out? And 143 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 2: you were you were hesitant for about three minutes and 144 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 2: then you said yes. 145 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:57,840 Speaker 1: So no, it was it big. It was a big, 146 00:06:58,240 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 1: a big deal for both of us. 147 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:04,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, so, which I never looked back on. You know, 148 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 2: I didn't understand that I was going to inherit all 149 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 2: the dogs well package, so very soon after that, we 150 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 2: had some furry friends coming around the house, and. 151 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:16,119 Speaker 1: Your and your bachelor pad was never the same. 152 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 2: It was never the same. So but it's it feels 153 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 2: more like a home now because there was a coldness 154 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 2: to it. I remember when you used to first come 155 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 2: over back in the day. But yeah, but there definitely 156 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 2: is a warmth to it. And it's not just from 157 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 2: the piss of dog that she leaves everywhere and this 158 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 2: tench that she leaves everywhere because she lives and she 159 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 2: dropped what how the fuck is when we're there? She 160 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 2: drops thees little bombs. You look around, You're like, hey, dog, 161 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 2: what's up? You throw them back. There's like a bomb there. 162 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 2: It's like she sets traps so for you to walk on. 163 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 2: She wants part of the action. Shout out the dog, 164 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 2: love dog. 165 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 1: You love her now though you sleep together, every. 166 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 2: Package deal with you, two guys. So she definitely persuaded 167 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 2: a little bit on the end, just so you know 168 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 2: she she brought over the finish line. Okay, if you 169 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 2: want to shoot. 170 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: Well, I have to say I do judge a man 171 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 1: by the way he treats his kids and his dogs. 172 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: So the way you treated her, even though she ruined 173 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 1: all your brand new floor Like what do you call 174 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 1: those floors? They were? Would I call them? 175 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 2: We we pads? Now large fucking we we pad everywhere? 176 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 1: Paul, Paul, what is that? It's like what? 177 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 2: What is what? It's not that the lords, it's what. 178 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 1: No, No, it's like something else. Well, you didn't have 179 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 1: it sealed because it shouldn't stain from piss gray. 180 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 2: It's like gray, No, it shouldn't stay for pissed. That's 181 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 2: wiped up. But when you walk by six times doors because. 182 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 1: You're on that or whatever, busy two teas comes first. 183 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 2: Okay, real, I see that. 184 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 1: Good. So so your decision to get engaged. There was 185 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 1: because it was sentimental to you from us meeting there 186 00:08:58,640 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: for the first time. 187 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:03,720 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, it was. And and I was thinking about 188 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 2: the place, you know obviously. Then that night we went 189 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 2: to rock Holes for dinner, so I was but then 190 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:08,839 Speaker 2: I was like, I don't really want to do it 191 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:11,560 Speaker 2: in a restaurant. Then I was thinking, like, you know, 192 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 2: I spoked to one of our friends. We were talking 193 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 2: about like a nice rooftop with a backdrop of New 194 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 2: York City that. 195 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 1: Would be the fashionable couple. 196 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 2: Yes it was. 197 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 1: I'm glad the gay men told you the rendition of what. 198 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 2: I had picked the place, and then they wanted to 199 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 2: bring it to Jersey, so yeah, so and then it 200 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:33,839 Speaker 2: was about having your family there, who do we invite, 201 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 2: who we do not invite, And it just got to 202 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:37,200 Speaker 2: be a It got to be such a mess. I 203 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 2: was like, it's now taken over what it really means 204 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 2: from from my side, and I know what you you 205 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 2: would expect, right, so you want the most, you know, 206 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 2: meaning meaning it was way for it to happen for 207 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:51,000 Speaker 2: you want like from from my heart. 208 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 1: I wanted it from your heart, yes. 209 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 2: And I felt like that was and again I don't 210 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:58,400 Speaker 2: want this to sound the wrong way, but that was 211 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 2: when I still that was for the very short time 212 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 2: that I knew you as Dolores Catania and not a housewife. 213 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 2: That's when that time was to me, before my world 214 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 2: just fucking opened up to this whole. Like all primes, 215 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:17,319 Speaker 2: it was a very different universe to if it takes 216 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:18,560 Speaker 2: you a long time to get used to it, to 217 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:21,320 Speaker 2: settle in all the pros and cons to it, which 218 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 2: put there's a lot more pros than the you know, 219 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 2: I just felt like for me, I felt a very 220 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:30,080 Speaker 2: sentimental and I just kept on tying it back to 221 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 2: there and I'm like, you know what I think this 222 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 2: is going to be. It's going to mean a lot 223 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 2: to more. She's gonna feel this. And it's very hard 224 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 2: to catch you out because coming from the background with 225 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 2: your dad and your brother and the cops, it's like 226 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 2: fucking dating a fucking FBI agent, you know, so everything 227 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:50,439 Speaker 2: we use like you think I'm a conspiracy serials on everything. 228 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 2: Holy shit. So I had to do something that would 229 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 2: throw you off. And then we just started putting the 230 00:10:57,080 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 2: wheels in motion, and the time it was and I'm like, 231 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:00,680 Speaker 2: you know, the tenth is in the important day to me, 232 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 2: so let's go. I'm going to do it. 233 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 1: Wow. And but to do it before Bravo Con you didn't, 234 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:11,360 Speaker 1: So you had anything that had to do with Bravo 235 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 1: had nothing to do with your engagement because you didn't 236 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 1: care what was going to happen here. Absolutely, you didn't 237 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:20,079 Speaker 1: care what anybody was going to think that it wasn't 238 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:24,439 Speaker 1: this elaborate like engagement on a yacht and you know, 239 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 1: Greece or whatever. You wanted it to be. What we 240 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 1: are outside of this. 241 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 2: We could have done. I could have proposed to you 242 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:33,320 Speaker 2: anywhere I wanted it, because there is no restrictions for 243 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 2: me to do it. I chose there for it to 244 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 2: be most meaningful for me and you. I could have 245 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 2: I could have walked you in Bravocon. I could have 246 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 2: done the middle of floor of Bravacon. I could have 247 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 2: done it on the plane. I could have done I 248 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 2: could have done anywhere I picked up, because that's what 249 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 2: I meant was the first time I met you. I 250 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 2: always remember, distinctly remember how you made me feel when 251 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 2: you walked into that place, and when we start talking 252 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 2: and I was like, you know what I felt right 253 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 2: to me? And I went with the gamble, and it 254 00:11:57,600 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 2: worked out. 255 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 1: It did because I can tell you this from me 256 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 1: finally figuring out you were proposing and you were not 257 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:09,600 Speaker 1: seizing because you were so nervous. 258 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 2: Nervous I know, Paul. 259 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:15,200 Speaker 1: But I had no idea. So when I I couldn't 260 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 1: have wanted it any other way. 261 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 2: I'm a very important person the loors like, You're a 262 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 2: serious important person to a lot of people, so, you know, 263 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 2: speaking to your dad, speaking to your family, I was like, 264 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:29,440 Speaker 2: you know, this is a big role to take on. 265 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 2: You can date someone, but taking like the responsibility of 266 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 2: having the best for them for the rest of the livers, 267 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 2: it's a big deal. And that's that's a big ask 268 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 2: to put yourself in. So I had to make sure 269 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:43,400 Speaker 2: that you were okay. You know, I was always worried 270 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 2: about maybe you didn't feel I was the right you 271 00:12:45,679 --> 00:12:48,840 Speaker 2: were going through the time? Would you say yes? I 272 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 2: mean I asked everybody did they think she would say yes? 273 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 2: And they all said yes. But I still had the 274 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 2: hesitant piece of me to say, if you'd have said no, 275 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 2: I like my life the way it is. Maybe we'll 276 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 2: look at it later, because that's the kind of person 277 00:13:00,640 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 2: you are. You speak from where you feel, right. 278 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:06,560 Speaker 1: I do. I do, But I also felt, Paul that 279 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:09,400 Speaker 1: it was time for us to make a different move. 280 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 1: You're now divorced, which a lot of people gave us 281 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 1: a lot of flack about. I know what a lot 282 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 1: of people don't know is behind the scenes, what goes 283 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 1: on in our life, okay, is it's very simple outside 284 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 1: of this. I mean, people look at what we have, 285 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:26,720 Speaker 1: like we like nice things, right, but we do live 286 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:27,800 Speaker 1: a fairly simple life. 287 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:30,959 Speaker 2: No, I would like to think so. A lot of 288 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:34,000 Speaker 2: people won't, but I think so. And we could be 289 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 2: a little bit more extravagant if we wanted to be, 290 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:36,439 Speaker 2: but we don't. 291 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:41,679 Speaker 1: Right, So so I know which never bothered me, but 292 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 1: it bothered you very much that people gave you a 293 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:47,720 Speaker 1: very hard time about one not not being divorced. 294 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:50,160 Speaker 2: And they should have and I'm okay with that. 295 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:52,680 Speaker 1: They were not wrong. And that's and that's a man 296 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:56,319 Speaker 1: that loves you, Because a man who loves you will 297 00:13:56,400 --> 00:14:00,319 Speaker 1: never get mad at somebody who's actually sticking up for 298 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 1: you in the right way, with the right intention. So 299 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:06,560 Speaker 1: that is just one of the many million of things 300 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 1: that when you just sit in front of me and 301 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 1: say that I know that you do truly love me 302 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 1: and care about me because I've watched other men when 303 00:14:13,040 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 1: their friends stick up for them if they're doing something wrong, 304 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 1: get mad at the friend. You know what I'm saying. 305 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 1: And I always look at the intention behind things. So 306 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 1: the intention behind this whole engagement meant the most to me. 307 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 1: That you did it from your heart, that you were 308 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 1: so sincere, that you went out of your way so much. 309 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:32,720 Speaker 1: You bought me the ring. I said, go, I want 310 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 1: a big ring. I said, to wait a long time. 311 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 1: I want to feel it on my finger. I want 312 00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 1: to feel it on my hand. And you did an 313 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 1: amazing job. But what a lot of people don't know 314 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 1: is that you are a tough guy. You're from the 315 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 1: streets to Dublin. You could really handle just about anything. 316 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 1: But it hurt your feelings when people used to give 317 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 1: me a hard time about your situation, but it didn't 318 00:14:56,960 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 1: hurt me. And I never took that and said, this 319 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:04,280 Speaker 1: is what people are saying. Now, you have to get divorced, 320 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 1: you have to get engaged to me. I never once 321 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 1: pushed you to do that because I always tell people, 322 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 1: if you have to ask somebody to do the right thing, 323 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 1: it's wrong. 324 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 2: You never you never forced it, you always supported it. 325 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 2: You went through with me like you really understood it. 326 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 2: And you know, obviously one or two times we got 327 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:29,400 Speaker 2: into like conversations, and rightfully so it ticked you a 328 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 2: little bit, but that's you just letting the air out, 329 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 2: because as you're going through the process you have to 330 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 2: kind of let the let the let the pressure out 331 00:15:36,200 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 2: of it. But as you go along, but you you 332 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:41,360 Speaker 2: supported me, and you knew what was going on. So 333 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 2: at the end of the day, you knew what you know, listen, 334 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 2: should have should have gone faster. A lot of things 335 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:50,880 Speaker 2: happened in that divorce that were based on nothing to 336 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 2: do with either side, you know. Unfortunately at the end 337 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:56,440 Speaker 2: the attorney got sick like. 338 00:15:57,440 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 1: On the stairs pretty much. 339 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:02,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you never, you never went against that. You 340 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 2: always supported it. And that's that's one thing that I 341 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:09,120 Speaker 2: will always be thankful for you, because while everybody else 342 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 2: was shitting on it, you could have jumped on that 343 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 2: wagon and you could have emphasized been like you know 344 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:17,000 Speaker 2: what this is, fucking fuck you do this whatever it is, 345 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 2: and you never once did it. 346 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 1: And because Paul, at the end of the day, I 347 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 1: don't care what other people think. 348 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 2: And that's why I appreciate about you the most. You 349 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:29,920 Speaker 2: don't care what anybody else thinks. I don't, but we 350 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:30,640 Speaker 2: care what I think. 351 00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:40,920 Speaker 1: But that's I do care what you think. Now moving forward, 352 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:43,760 Speaker 1: after I am so shocked at the Apple Store, I 353 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 1: want you to know, and I don't know if I've 354 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 1: told you this since, because the past couple of days 355 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 1: have been a blur. What went more to me than 356 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 1: the ring and what meant more to me than how 357 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:54,040 Speaker 1: you went out of your way to have everybody in 358 00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 1: the Apple Store in on this and telling me I'm 359 00:16:56,520 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 1: going to get a phone, and having me get my 360 00:16:58,320 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 1: makeup done in the morning, saying, having my assistant tell 361 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 1: me I had a meaning that was canceled, and you 362 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:05,840 Speaker 1: say we had to get a ten o'clock appointment otherwise 363 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 1: I was going to lose my phone, and then getting 364 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:10,199 Speaker 1: there and being absolutely surprised. What meant more to me 365 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 1: is the things that you said to me before you 366 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:16,240 Speaker 1: got down on one knee, Because I don't hear those 367 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:21,360 Speaker 1: things from you ever, although I felt them, but sometimes 368 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 1: you need to hear them. But I can tell you this, 369 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 1: if there was ever a doubt in my mind that 370 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:30,680 Speaker 1: maybe this isn't something I didn't want, which I never 371 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:34,000 Speaker 1: thought that that would have been a whole nother like 372 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 1: the things. Everything you said to me is what I've 373 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:39,200 Speaker 1: always wanted to hear. Do you remember what you said 374 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:39,439 Speaker 1: to me? 375 00:17:40,040 --> 00:17:41,840 Speaker 2: I do, of course I do. 376 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:49,399 Speaker 1: We were Tell me again, Oh pressure, go ahead. I 377 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 1: want to hear it again because now I'm calm, now 378 00:17:52,040 --> 00:17:56,360 Speaker 1: I'm not surprised. I want to soak it up. Tell 379 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 1: me what you said before you got down on one 380 00:17:58,400 --> 00:18:01,440 Speaker 1: nay and you studied? You said? What did you say 381 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 1: about getting engaged. 382 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:05,440 Speaker 2: Chat GBT is a disaster for me that day. 383 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 1: Because I thank you from your arm. 384 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:11,040 Speaker 2: No, I was no. So what I was looking up 385 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:14,520 Speaker 2: was like how to get your speech across meaningfully, like 386 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 2: make eye contact, don't hold her hands straight away, don't 387 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:21,040 Speaker 2: kneel down, stand up, And I'm fucking It's like do 388 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:22,919 Speaker 2: you ever take a golf swing? Six thousand things go 389 00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 2: through your head the same stand in front of you. 390 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 2: I'm like, get down, stay up, talk, don't talk, like 391 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:30,399 Speaker 2: go grab her hand, make eye contact as I'm trying 392 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:31,960 Speaker 2: to talk to you. That's any way you thought I 393 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 2: was having a. 394 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 1: Stroke sweating you were you were saying things like I've 395 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:38,520 Speaker 1: been around people that are like that, and you were 396 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:41,560 Speaker 1: saying things that didn't make sense to me, so I 397 00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:43,960 Speaker 1: wanted I was more worried about your health in the moment, 398 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 1: and I and I knew what you were saying was 399 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:47,760 Speaker 1: everything I wanted here. But now that I'm not worried 400 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:48,840 Speaker 1: about you, could you say it again? 401 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 2: I basically told you how important you were to me, 402 00:18:51,560 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 2: how you've made me elevate as a person, and what 403 00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 2: how much of a better person you've made me, and 404 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:01,439 Speaker 2: how my life become so much better for meeting you. 405 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:04,320 Speaker 2: I've also told you about my children, how they feel 406 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:07,400 Speaker 2: towards you, how I feel towards your kids, how you've 407 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:10,640 Speaker 2: made me a one part of your family. And when 408 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:13,400 Speaker 2: I spoke to your family even before this went down, 409 00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 2: like just the stuff they said to me just reassured me, 410 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 2: like you are a part of this family, like this, 411 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:19,200 Speaker 2: this is. 412 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:21,280 Speaker 1: Real, And what does that mean to you? Because a 413 00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 1: lot of people are not family orientated. 414 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:27,199 Speaker 2: You know, it's everything to me, It means everything. All 415 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:32,160 Speaker 2: the families are important to make it work as well. 416 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:34,680 Speaker 2: They don't hold the key to your happiness, but they're 417 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:39,720 Speaker 2: very important to the process. Of happiness when you're moving 418 00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:40,920 Speaker 2: into that life with somebody. 419 00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 1: I think everybody who gets engaged, it's a package deal, 420 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:48,399 Speaker 1: whatever's going on in their life, whatever they have, and 421 00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:51,439 Speaker 1: you have to love what they love, even if you 422 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:53,840 Speaker 1: don't like it. You have to love what they love. 423 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 1: And one of the most important things for me about 424 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 1: you was you had to take on all the philanthropy work. 425 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 1: I don't ask you for a chanel bag, Paul. Have 426 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:03,440 Speaker 1: I ever asked you once for a bag? 427 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:03,879 Speaker 2: Yes? 428 00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 1: Okay? Maybe? Did I ever ask you more than once? 429 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:07,280 Speaker 2: Yes? 430 00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 1: Shut the fuck up now, truth, the fucking truth. What 431 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:14,920 Speaker 1: do I ask for, pop? 432 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:18,000 Speaker 2: Nothing? The truth? Nothing? Okay? Zero? 433 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:20,919 Speaker 1: Yeah. So, but what's more important for me is for 434 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:23,800 Speaker 1: you to take on to write that check. When I say, Paul, 435 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:26,720 Speaker 1: we're going to a dog event tonight, you know you're 436 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:28,919 Speaker 1: going to write a check you have no problem like 437 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 1: or my family or you know, the kid, you know. 438 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 2: Some kind of stuff. That's that's whatever you like. 439 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:40,400 Speaker 1: That's for me what I needed you to be okay with, 440 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:43,240 Speaker 1: because that's very important for me. I want you to 441 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 1: treat my friends, my family, and I and that's my 442 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:50,680 Speaker 1: treats from you. And then the other things too. Like 443 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:55,919 Speaker 1: my watches. No, but but I'm excited for this for us. 444 00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:59,159 Speaker 1: And then I come home to UH premiere events by 445 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:02,200 Speaker 1: Rima is one of my very closest friends. She has 446 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:06,879 Speaker 1: amazing She does flowers for weddings and I had a 447 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 1: thousand roses at my house with candles lit everywhere in 448 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:14,440 Speaker 1: a big sign that said she said yes. The photographers 449 00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:15,880 Speaker 1: met us back at the house and then you asked 450 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:18,400 Speaker 1: me to go get dressed. I was not ready for that, Paul. 451 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:21,199 Speaker 1: I had to wear dress that I had hanging up 452 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:24,280 Speaker 1: that was too small for me. It was not And 453 00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:28,240 Speaker 1: then and then to go back to the restaurant where 454 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 1: the whole staff was waiting for us at night, and 455 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 1: the booth that we sat in, right down to the 456 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:40,119 Speaker 1: wine that we drank that night was really special and 457 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:42,879 Speaker 1: beautiful and yes, I could not have asked for more. 458 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:49,879 Speaker 1: So ah me too. So yeah, now that I wanted 459 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:52,800 Speaker 1: to share that very special day with all of you, 460 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 1: and I thank you for always being there and listening. 461 00:21:57,320 --> 00:22:00,760 Speaker 1: And stay tuned for part two about where we go 462 00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 1: from here to the future.