WEBVTT - Rachel Dratch Disobeys Bridger

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I invited you here, thought I made myself perfectly clear.

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<v Speaker 2>But you're a guest to my home.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta come to me empty, And I said, no, guest,

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<v Speaker 1>your presences presents enough. I already had too much stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>So how did you dare to surbey me?

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome to, I said, no gifts. I'm Bridgard Wineger. We're

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<v Speaker 3>in the backyard. I'm still reeling from the live show

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<v Speaker 3>and kind of the assault that happened there, just the audience,

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<v Speaker 3>the guests, everyone attacking me. Oh, but you know, it

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<v Speaker 3>was a nice time, and I hope you enjoyed being

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<v Speaker 3>there or watching, or third option, listening. I'm still, of course,

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<v Speaker 3>getting the emails from the gun website, from the bridger

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<v Speaker 3>I mentioned at the show, I've decided not to unsubscribe

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<v Speaker 3>because I've realized that really lets me keep an eye

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<v Speaker 3>on this person's purchases. So should he, you know, start

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<v Speaker 3>making alarming choices, I can alert his family the proper authorities.

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<v Speaker 3>So watch out that Bridger. I think we should get

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<v Speaker 3>into the podcast. I adore today's guest. It's Rachel Dretch. Hi, Rachel,

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<v Speaker 3>welcome to. I send no gifts.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so happy to have you here.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you. It's so lovely here, listeners. I'm sure you've

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<v Speaker 2>heard that before, listeners. But I'm here to.

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<v Speaker 3>Concur you're here just for a brief time, so I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like I'm ruining your trip.

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<v Speaker 2>No, actually I had nothing going on today's you've provided

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<v Speaker 2>me an activity.

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<v Speaker 3>Wonderful What you do in LA when you don't have

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<v Speaker 3>anything going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I haven't been here for a while. Sometimes I

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<v Speaker 2>meet up with friends. A lot of my friends are

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<v Speaker 2>out of town right now, so doing a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>staring into space. But I'm here on a little job.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was doing that yesterday in the day before Days,

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<v Speaker 2>my first free day. Oh so I was just walking

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<v Speaker 2>around the neighborhood that I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>And the weather is not quite as as it was,

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<v Speaker 3>very nice. It's got a breeze. I think it's about

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<v Speaker 3>eighty two, which is kind of the ideal summer temperature

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<v Speaker 3>for me. Yes, there's still I thought school was out,

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<v Speaker 3>but it sounds like the school children they're trapped at

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<v Speaker 3>the school.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe there's a day camp happening.

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<v Speaker 3>There may be a day camp or an child training

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<v Speaker 3>or yeah something. I don't know what they do at

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<v Speaker 3>school Army training. How are you doing.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you remember the first time we met.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, we met at a swanky ski lodge in Park City, Utah.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like that was must have been such an

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<v Speaker 3>alarming interaction for you.

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<v Speaker 2>No, because okay, first of all, I knew your name

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<v Speaker 2>because I followed you on Twitter, which it was then

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<v Speaker 2>called and I loved your I don't know how you

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<v Speaker 2>came across my feed or whatever they call it, but anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>I loved all of your quips and comments since I

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<v Speaker 2>followed you and I had no idea who you were

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<v Speaker 2>or anything. And then you approached me in the swanky

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<v Speaker 2>ski lodge lobby and you said your name was Bridger.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh my gosh, I love you. One

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<v Speaker 2>of those kind of things.

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<v Speaker 3>I need to correct the history a little bit here,

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<v Speaker 3>because Jim was with.

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<v Speaker 2>Me right and I didn't know him yet.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't know him, but we saw we were just

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<v Speaker 3>we had been on a drive. It was the winter time.

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<v Speaker 3>We had been driving, and I don't know why we stopped.

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<v Speaker 3>I probably had to pee, because that's every twenty hotel. Look,

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<v Speaker 3>if I have an opportunity, I gotel.

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<v Speaker 2>Like the swankiest hotel. I don't want people to make

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<v Speaker 2>I usually roll like this, but this was my once

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<v Speaker 2>a year back then. This is my once a year split.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we walked up one just throwing cash into the

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<v Speaker 3>fireplace exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what it's like.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, but I guess we must have stopped for me

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<v Speaker 3>to use the restroom. I can't imagine others station. Oh

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<v Speaker 3>my god, I didn't get.

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<v Speaker 2>To They have a whole like Smores cart. It's like

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<v Speaker 2>Willie Wanka situation. Anyway, go ahead, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 3>God, I've got to get to this place.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't just pee there. We have the smorest cart. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>go on.

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<v Speaker 3>I was with Jim. I was working on Commissimid at

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<v Speaker 3>the time, but we hadn't met. You were on that

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<v Speaker 3>season but not in my episode, so we hadn't actually met.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yes, yes, that's what.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Okay, now I remember, and we followed each other

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<v Speaker 3>on Twitter but did not know each other. And of

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<v Speaker 3>course Jim takes this bit of information and says, well,

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<v Speaker 3>you have to say hi to her. Of course, it's

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<v Speaker 3>like this woman is on vacation. I'm leaving her alone.

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<v Speaker 3>But this is how it goes in every interaction with

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<v Speaker 3>him and me is I'm pushed into it. So I

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<v Speaker 3>just want people to know I don't just approach people

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<v Speaker 3>on their vacations.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but I was very excited to meet you.

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<v Speaker 3>You were so wonderful because.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I remember, yes, you were a kimmy and maybe

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<v Speaker 2>that's why. Anyway, No, I was, I mean I flipped

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<v Speaker 2>out to meet you, so it all worked out.

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<v Speaker 3>Were you skiing?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you an active skier?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Kind of like now now I go like once a year,

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<v Speaker 2>but I grew up kind of skiing. I mean it's

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<v Speaker 2>like the one sport I was kind of okay at

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm probably not now. But anyway, but I go

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<v Speaker 2>because I just like the whole vibe.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, you know. And you grew up learning to ski

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<v Speaker 3>in Massachusetts.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we would go up to New Hampshire. How is

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<v Speaker 2>the skiing there, Well, it's it's kind of it's very

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<v Speaker 2>icy and people's skiing jeans. It was very like like

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<v Speaker 2>we would go up every weekend with friends and just

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<v Speaker 2>like it was. I don't I know, this sounds weird

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<v Speaker 2>to say, because I right now like skiing became like

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<v Speaker 2>this very like rich person thing, right, But back then

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<v Speaker 2>it was a little more janky in Massachusetts. So anyway, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's a lot harder out there because it's it's icy.

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<v Speaker 3>Did it take you a long time to learn?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I started when I was a kid, So I

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<v Speaker 2>don't really those things, you know. I want to, like, like,

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<v Speaker 2>I have a kid, and I want him to learn

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<v Speaker 2>everything when he's a kid, because whatever it is, like music,

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<v Speaker 2>language is like like those things are really hard to

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<v Speaker 2>learn as adult.

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<v Speaker 3>Nearly impossible.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I never quite picked up the language thing,

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<v Speaker 2>you know anyway. So yeah, so you want to you

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<v Speaker 2>want to expose your kids everything.

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<v Speaker 3>And so as a skier, now do you feel like

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<v Speaker 3>you're a decent skier?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm okay. I don't go down the black diamonds.

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<v Speaker 3>But you're going up to everything. What's the closest of

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<v Speaker 3>blue or red blue? I can do a blue blue.

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<v Speaker 3>That's that's difficult.

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<v Speaker 2>Ski Blue's fine.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow. Do you feel like your kid's better than you?

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<v Speaker 2>No, because we don't go that often.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh right, the whole history.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, he's he's really into basketball. He's not that sweet. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a once in a while thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you ever play basketball?

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<v Speaker 2>No? No, I didn't. I'm a horrible athlete.

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<v Speaker 3>You're in good company.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, I did the ancestry DNA thing, and now they

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<v Speaker 2>give you traits too. What Yeah, so they tell you

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<v Speaker 2>what traits. It's like stuff like you like cilantro or

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<v Speaker 2>you have wet earwax. I'm not kidding, but this just

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<v Speaker 2>came up in my thing. But one thing is said

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<v Speaker 2>like athletic ability, and it said like lower athletic about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I knew it, Like I didn't need

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<v Speaker 2>to see that in prank because I knew it. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a terrible athlete.

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<v Speaker 3>They broached you.

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<v Speaker 2>All my friends from growing up are really good athletes,

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<v Speaker 2>like all of them, and I never was.

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<v Speaker 3>I was.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just it's a thing that I'm not a

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<v Speaker 2>good athlete. Even now when we go on like lady trips,

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<v Speaker 2>they'll wake up at like seven am, like let's go

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<v Speaker 2>for a three mile run. I'm like, oh God, can

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<v Speaker 2>I please hang out with the loafers?

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<v Speaker 3>People of doing that in their personal time, they just

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<v Speaker 3>know their friends are around it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I guess.

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<v Speaker 3>So vacation no no, no running.

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<v Speaker 2>Running and whatever, working out all.

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<v Speaker 3>That early morning exercise on vacation all into that. That's

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<v Speaker 3>a problem. So you're getting all of these traits now.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm actually kind of interested in getting into this ancestry website,

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<v Speaker 3>giving them my all of my.

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<v Speaker 2>Person I didn't really think of that part of it.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, well they say like if you if you're

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<v Speaker 2>a night owl, if you like dancing, I'm not killing

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<v Speaker 2>all this stuff, which I do, and it's like I

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<v Speaker 2>do I do?

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<v Speaker 3>Did it feel mostly accurate?

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<v Speaker 2>I think?

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<v Speaker 3>So what about Cilantro? Do you like Selan?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? I like Cilantro? It said I didn't, So that's

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's a real fifty got really boring Cilanto anyway, Sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a bust on myself. Not I knew.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. I wonder how they figure out the dancing thing

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<v Speaker 3>that makes zero I know, I know it.

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<v Speaker 2>Also like extrovert, I think is part of which I am,

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<v Speaker 2>And it said so I would be.

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<v Speaker 3>And wow, I feel like that must just be a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of guessing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know how they do it. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know which gene you know, little segment counts for some of.

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<v Speaker 3>This stuff dancing.

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<v Speaker 2>You're kind of interested in it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but you do like dancing? I do.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I'm not saying I'm good at it, but I

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<v Speaker 2>do you like it?

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<v Speaker 3>How often are you're dancing?

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<v Speaker 2>Not? Not very often? Get events.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, that's me when I'm at a wedding time

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<v Speaker 3>of my life. Yes, and everyone's shocked. Oh really, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm enjoying. But then and I think, oh, this is

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<v Speaker 3>so much fun. But then, what other opportunity do you

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<v Speaker 3>ever have to dance?

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<v Speaker 2>I know, not very often.

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<v Speaker 3>When was the last time we were dancing?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it?

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<v Speaker 3>Actually?

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<v Speaker 2>I just went to my college reunion, was dancing there.

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<v Speaker 2>We have the silent disco. Have you ever done that?

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<v Speaker 3>I actually did recently.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was really fun.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a very it's an interesting experience.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you think it's gonna not be connected, but it

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<v Speaker 2>is because everyone's like, go to like there's three channels

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<v Speaker 2>like Blue, Red, and Green, and they each have a

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<v Speaker 2>different song playing. So have a good song. Because everyone

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<v Speaker 2>was like, go to blue, go to blue, and then

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<v Speaker 2>everyone jams out together.

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<v Speaker 3>Were they different?

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<v Speaker 2>Like no, they're not even different genres. I don't know why.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't really understand. But anyway, sorry, but that's so.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just dancing, like last week, dancing the night

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<v Speaker 2>away till two in the morning. People, it's in the genes.

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<v Speaker 2>It's in my genes. Night owl and likes to dance.

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<v Speaker 3>So I want to see this because I don't think

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<v Speaker 3>I've seen either of my parents ever dance. Oh really,

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<v Speaker 3>not in a single situation. Okay, so I want to

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<v Speaker 3>put ancestry. You have to see maybe if.

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<v Speaker 2>I maybe it's maybe it's it's nurture that you like

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<v Speaker 2>to dance and not in nature. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying here. Okay, you got my my hypothesizing.

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<v Speaker 3>No, keep going scientifically. That's get some more theory.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, that's all I have theory wise.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you find anything about out about your family history

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<v Speaker 3>or anything?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like I mean, without going into it, found a

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<v Speaker 2>secret relative. Oh, I didn't expect that. I know it.

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<v Speaker 2>It was kind of up the tree. So it wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>like I have a sister, and it wasn't that drastic.

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<v Speaker 2>But did not expect that.

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<v Speaker 3>Whoa.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know what else I found out. I'm looking

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<v Speaker 2>through ancestry at like your DNA matches, and I see

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<v Speaker 2>the name of my dad's best friend who we grew

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<v Speaker 2>up with. Talking about the skiing We went skiing with

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<v Speaker 2>this family in New Hampshire. We would go up, we

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<v Speaker 2>would share this like janky house with them. There's this

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<v Speaker 2>guy who's like my dad's like they work together best buddy.

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<v Speaker 2>There's his name on my ancestry as a third cousin.

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<v Speaker 3>What and you just know this?

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<v Speaker 2>No, And my dad unfortunately already passed away when I

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<v Speaker 2>saw this, But I called up the guy and like,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, are you and he's like yeah, the

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<v Speaker 2>whole time we're related. So now these these kids I

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<v Speaker 2>grew up as family friends are actually like my fourth

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<v Speaker 2>cousins or something.

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<v Speaker 3>And none of you knew that, none of.

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<v Speaker 2>Us knew, and we still don't even know the connection.

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<v Speaker 3>It's weird when you get into third and fourth cousins

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<v Speaker 3>where it starts. It means less and less a lot less, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>but still is way more connected than anybody else. It's

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<v Speaker 3>a hard thing to parse. It's like, should I care

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<v Speaker 3>about you more? Yeah? Probably not?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but wait, have you done any of this?

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<v Speaker 3>No? I grew up and I was just about to say, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Grew up Mormon. And they have all the records and

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<v Speaker 2>they're bread and butter. So before ancestream came out, there

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<v Speaker 2>was the library, right, yes, and you can go look

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<v Speaker 2>up your records before the internet existence.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. They I think they basically like my mom does this,

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<v Speaker 3>They like send her old records, old birth charts or

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<v Speaker 3>whatever birth certificates ancient things, and she looks at them,

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<v Speaker 3>the scans of them, and then types out their information

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<v Speaker 3>to continue documenting.

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<v Speaker 2>These people, like about her own people or just everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a giant volunteer project.

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<v Speaker 2>And how did that start? Like why the Mormons and

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<v Speaker 2>why why?

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<v Speaker 3>That's because it's because Mormons. This is a controversial subjects.

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<v Speaker 3>They baptize dead people, okay, into the religion, and so

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<v Speaker 3>they get these names they're collecting, they're collecting members members,

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<v Speaker 3>and so they like have just endless lists of names

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<v Speaker 3>from history who they're baptizing. There have been some controversial ones.

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<v Speaker 3>Pretty sure Hitler got baptized at one point. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that was the I don't think they

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<v Speaker 3>end goal, but somehow somebody got that in. I would

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<v Speaker 3>need to be fact checked, but I'm pretty sure that's true.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, there are things like that that happen, and

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<v Speaker 3>so and obviously there's just a focus. They obviously love

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<v Speaker 3>family history, loved each other, and there's a real push

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<v Speaker 3>for family so they care about it a lot. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>And so to answer your question, I don't know anything

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<v Speaker 3>about my family history because it was one of those

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<v Speaker 3>things culturally growing up where like you know, I wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>interested in any of it. So it's like I was.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm almost kind of a I was allergic to it.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't care. It's some people who are from Scandinavia

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<v Speaker 3>or something, but i've slowly it's like Irish and Scottish

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<v Speaker 3>and English and the Swedishish, German, various white people from

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<v Speaker 3>around the world. But if you ask my mom, I

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<v Speaker 3>bet she could really break it down for you. And

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<v Speaker 3>you know, ancestry dot Com, I guess kind of just

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<v Speaker 3>took the idea and ran with it. They said, let's

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<v Speaker 3>put some more computers in this thing. Yeah, and now

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<v Speaker 3>the Mormons can't tell you if you like cilantro or not.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true. They don't have that edge. They don't have

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<v Speaker 2>that you know, you like to dance or not. Or

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<v Speaker 2>how wet your earwaxes, which is disgusting, but that was

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<v Speaker 2>something I was surprised to see as a treat I

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<v Speaker 2>guess some people dry and some people have wet. He

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<v Speaker 2>I know, it's so gross. I just kind of imagenetic.

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<v Speaker 2>What sorry to talk about ear wax everybody. I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>trying to imagine ear off your lunch right now.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I just feel like, I guess I'm only used

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<v Speaker 3>to my own earwax, so I can't. I've never really

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<v Speaker 3>interacted with other people.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true. That's probably good.

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<v Speaker 3>So I might be a freak who knows that someone

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<v Speaker 3>might look at my ear wax and be like this

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<v Speaker 3>genetically this a monster. But I feel like it's pretty

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<v Speaker 3>normal earwax. I've never had trouble.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, good.

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<v Speaker 3>They tell you shouldn't clean out your ears.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we shouldn't use a Q tip, I think, But

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<v Speaker 2>then what, I don't know that that falls like low

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<v Speaker 2>on my list of problems concerns. Whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you using a Q tip? No?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, I mean I don't. I don't really focus

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<v Speaker 2>on smoke everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, oh, I used to use Q tips in

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<v Speaker 3>my ears. I'm still occasionally tempted. I keep them out

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<v Speaker 3>of my bathroom, okay, because if they're there, I will

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<v Speaker 3>use them constantly. It really is like smoking for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Jim's like, well, I need Q tips in the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, well, if you put them in there all.

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<v Speaker 2>Yours, this is really a thing. You're tempted.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, if you hid them, and I've of course found

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<v Speaker 3>them Oh, it's truly almost one to one with smoking.

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<v Speaker 3>And now I'm probably damaging my ears, Like, oh gosh,

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<v Speaker 3>it's just so tempting. And it's not like I have

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<v Speaker 3>a horrible ear wax problem. It's just like into you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm wonder if ancestor could tell me that that you

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<v Speaker 3>love Q tips. Maybe I'm going to sign up for

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<v Speaker 3>the website. I'm going to send them all my blood. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>what do you do?

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<v Speaker 2>You swap your you spit into a little cup.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, you spit like.

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<v Speaker 2>A teeny little vial o.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, that feels like not enough.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know it did the trick, I guess.

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<v Speaker 3>So where are most of your ancestors from.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, they're all from what is now the Ukraine.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, eastern eastern.

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<v Speaker 2>Scratch right yeah wow?

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, and does your family line in the United

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<v Speaker 3>States go fairly far back? No?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, they're all like immigrants from okay, like the

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<v Speaker 2>nineteenth century, twenties, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, twentieth century.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, yeah kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I don't. I can't imagine my ancestors go

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<v Speaker 3>that far back in American history. They were all in

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<v Speaker 3>the they all went west.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I mean, I grew up in Massachusetts where there's

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<v Speaker 2>you know, people that were on the Mayflower, but then

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<v Speaker 2>there's a lot of immigrants there too, so it's sort

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<v Speaker 2>of a mix of wasps and.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, the Mayflower. When you can trace it back to

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<v Speaker 3>the Mayflower.

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<v Speaker 2>You're I know, you're really, you're really in here. We

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<v Speaker 2>need to have one of those Mayflower names.

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<v Speaker 3>Plymouth, Plymouth rockmoth Rock.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, so they say, so.

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<v Speaker 3>They say, who can trust Plymouth Rock? Uh? Well, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I would go on and on and on about family history.

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<v Speaker 3>That's kind of what the theme of this podcast is.

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<v Speaker 2>But there is how do we start talking about that?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't remember.

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<v Speaker 3>Skiing skiing, Wow, shosetski?

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<v Speaker 2>How did we get.

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<v Speaker 4>To the stream?

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<v Speaker 3>You?

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<v Speaker 2>Athletic ability? Athletic ability as it's in my DNA to

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<v Speaker 2>not be good at athletic things.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, I bet you have an excellent memory.

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<v Speaker 2>I do have a good memory. Mind I think it is.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I I mean, you just demonstrated you were

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<v Speaker 3>able to figure this out, this thing that happened six minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, right, well interviews.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm very you know, I was excited to.

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<v Speaker 2>Until I started talking about ear wets. Okay, Mad you're here, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>wire excited.

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<v Speaker 3>I was excited to have Rachel here. I just adore you.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought we'll have a nice time. Yeah, we'll move

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<v Speaker 3>on with our days.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. Perfect.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was a little surprised when you showed up

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<v Speaker 3>to my house late. Well, now you've really told on yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>I got lost.

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<v Speaker 3>It was not a problem for me. I lead a

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<v Speaker 3>very relaxed life. Okay, okay, but you were holding up

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<v Speaker 3>the podcast is called I said, no gifts, Rachel. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>you showed up with a not only a gift bag,

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<v Speaker 3>one that had some very specific instructions from the get go.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I had to put it in the freezer. And

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<v Speaker 2>can I do we talk about the gift now or no?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I've we wait, oh but we're.

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<v Speaker 2>Going to talk about the gift. Let me just explain

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<v Speaker 2>something about the gift everyone who's listening. I only found

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<v Speaker 2>out I was doing this today. So now, if i'd

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<v Speaker 2>had more time, I would have, you know, thought more carefully,

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<v Speaker 2>thought of something really cool, gone to like some thrift

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<v Speaker 2>store and found some cool item, as I'm sure a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people do on this show. But I had

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<v Speaker 2>no notice in a town I don't live it, so

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<v Speaker 2>I walked to the Larchmont area, and you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't like there's a lot of cute little stores there.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like, oh my god, I can't get them a candle.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't get them a book. These are like those

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<v Speaker 2>last minute like oh my god, I need a birthday

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<v Speaker 2>present exactly. And then you I really started thinking about

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<v Speaker 2>gift giving when this whole thing came up. Gifts I received,

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<v Speaker 2>gifts I've given, et cetera. So I think I found something,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I found another something to supplement the something.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, preface our past guests so much credit?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh really, Okay, I was imagining, like.

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<v Speaker 3>The range is, you know, from garbage to valuable to meaningful. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's all over the place. Okay, so it sounds

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<v Speaker 3>like you've already put in more thought than probably thirty percent. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>so you've aced the test. Well, I'll go get this

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<v Speaker 3>gift the freeze. I'll be right back. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Now there's a there's an unfrozen part and a frozen part. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>the frozen part is generic. I wonder if you can

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<v Speaker 2>guess what it is. But let me show you the ungeneric.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, should we open it here on the podcast. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>let me do you want me to do it? I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like you're you are.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, this part needs explanation.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like you're gonna give me a dead mouse.

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<v Speaker 3>That would be the amount of explaining that.

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<v Speaker 2>Funny thing that happened about this first. This is the

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<v Speaker 2>main gift. Okay, I'm gonna but it needs it needs explanation.

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<v Speaker 2>Wants to open it now.

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<v Speaker 3>That's an old little white bag spic cold.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a fragrance of some sort. It's almost like I

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<v Speaker 2>can't know if it's a room spray, a body spray.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, tell us what it's called.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, fragrance library, Yes, fragrance library. And the name of

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<v Speaker 3>the fragrance is Redhead and Bed.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, red Head and Bed. Now let me explain a

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<v Speaker 2>few things. One is, I remember these fragrances from like

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, they've been around a while, and they

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<v Speaker 2>really cool. Like the one I really like is tomato.

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<v Speaker 2>It's most just like a tomato plant.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh so it's more like a jelly belly situation, I think.

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<v Speaker 2>So. Yeah, they have all these They have like a

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<v Speaker 2>delicious apple, it's most just like a golden delicious. They

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<v Speaker 2>have sugar cookie. I don't really know what people use

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<v Speaker 2>these works. But then I was like, looking through, I

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<v Speaker 2>was gonna get your tomato, right, But then I was

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<v Speaker 2>I was kind of random, and then my eye falls

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<v Speaker 2>upon red Head and Bed. But the thing is that

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<v Speaker 2>that was the tester because they didn't have any in

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<v Speaker 2>the back. Yeah, so it's a little greasy and it

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<v Speaker 2>looks old and it was a little bit gone from

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<v Speaker 2>it because it was a tester, and like, you have

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<v Speaker 2>to have one in the back. This is the whole

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<v Speaker 2>joke to give.

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<v Speaker 3>This to you. Unbelievable. That's the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>They charged me. They took off two bucks and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like two bucks. This should be at least half price,

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<v Speaker 2>or give me give the whole thing to me for

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<v Speaker 2>five bucks, and they were like, well it's still pretty full,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, and I'm thinking like yeah, but

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<v Speaker 2>it doesn't look gift worthy. But I never like to

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<v Speaker 2>make a scene or like push back on a salesperson

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm always just like okay, because I just don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to be that person. So I said, okay, so

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<v Speaker 2>that's my maximis of why you have a greasy bottle

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<v Speaker 2>of Redhead and Bed.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I want to smell this let's see.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting, it doesn't even smell that good. I'm gonna I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know what it's trying for.

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<v Speaker 3>A very like chemical paint.

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<v Speaker 2>I was gonna say, it's smells very chemical.

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<v Speaker 3>Right. This is insulting to me because it.

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<v Speaker 2>Was in the freezer. But it doesn't smell very.

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<v Speaker 3>Good there my hand.

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<v Speaker 2>I know you can throw this away by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>if you want, do you just post photos of Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, course of course it doesn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, I don't know what I was expecting a redhead

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<v Speaker 2>and bed to.

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<v Speaker 3>Smell like paint thinner.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's there's no comparison.

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<v Speaker 3>Smell, right, I couldn't tell you what notes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's no there's no notes except I was gonna

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<v Speaker 2>say chemical too. I can't believe that's the word.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you use? Yeah? And then like, I mean, now

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<v Speaker 3>that I've touched the bottle, frozen bottle, a frozen bottle, there,

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<v Speaker 3>there's a smell on my hand. But we can't tell

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<v Speaker 3>if that's from this or other testers who have been

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<v Speaker 3>spraying out.

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<v Speaker 2>It's from that, because the other ones really smell like

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<v Speaker 2>very specifically. Okay, I mean there was one called leather,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, oh, that'd be kind of funny,

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<v Speaker 2>but who wants that smell?

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<v Speaker 3>This is the ideal. This is the most mystifying product

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<v Speaker 3>I've ever seen.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't I almost want to look it up online

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<v Speaker 2>and see what it's trying for.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, let me, I'm actually gonna red head in bed.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually on a least, would you google that and see

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<v Speaker 3>what's happening? I mean, anyone in bed? I mean that's

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<v Speaker 3>just sweat.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you would expect me a little more musky. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I use the word.

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<v Speaker 3>Or like sheets, even like sheets like a clean linen. Yes, right,

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<v Speaker 3>this I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Know what it's met exactly. So because I didn't really

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<v Speaker 2>like this smell, and I thought, you're not gonna like

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<v Speaker 2>this either. This is just a surely a gag gift

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<v Speaker 2>to use the redhead thing. So then I got you

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<v Speaker 2>just a gift so you wouldn't feel bad in here.

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<v Speaker 3>Should we get into this, I mean, we'll keep talking.

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<v Speaker 2>About I'm running the show, you run the show.

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<v Speaker 3>You've got the gifts, right, but I.

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<v Speaker 2>Had to get you like a makeup gift for this.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's take out the makeup gift and general.

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<v Speaker 2>If you want to I understand this.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to reach in here, and this is the

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<v Speaker 3>thing I need to do frozen.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I mean that's just so.

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<v Speaker 3>It's actually ice two.

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<v Speaker 2>Nice brandy, because I was like, is he a chocolate

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a chocolate person, but I am too well. Jimmy

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<v Speaker 2>text me that back after. I also got a wild

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<v Speaker 2>lavender and chocolate.

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<v Speaker 3>This feels like it might be a good combination of flavors.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe should I go get some spoons?

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<v Speaker 2>That's up to you, right, I can't say I would

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<v Speaker 2>say no to the chocolate. This is sometimes the people

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<v Speaker 2>bring gifts that they also get to partake in.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, of course, of course. And I'm gonna spray

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<v Speaker 3>you in the face with the st on at least

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<v Speaker 3>while I'm gone. Have you discovered what it smells like?

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<v Speaker 3>I have?

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<v Speaker 4>So I just want to read this whole thing. Oh

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<v Speaker 4>it just really delights me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Demeter redhead and bed by Demeter Perfume. If you want

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<v Speaker 4>to attract compliments from your friend's family or even total strangers,

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<v Speaker 4>splash on a little Demeter, the ultra feminine fragrance for

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<v Speaker 4>women created by Demeter. The citrus undertones of this classic

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<v Speaker 4>fragrance capture notes of mango, guava, passion fruit, orange, liqueur,

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<v Speaker 4>and lemon juice to bring you a unique blend of

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<v Speaker 4>exotic aromas, lasts for hours and won't fade away during

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<v Speaker 4>a long day, strenuous workout at the gym, or night

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<v Speaker 4>spent dancing at your favorite club.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, I have a question that was specifically about Redhead

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<v Speaker 2>and bed Yeah, red Demeter, Redhead. It was one smell

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<v Speaker 2>that you said that I could kind of wait, will

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<v Speaker 2>you list the fruits again?

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<v Speaker 4>Because one it's got mango, guava, passion fruit, and orange

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<v Speaker 4>orange liqueur and lemon juice.

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<v Speaker 3>That makes sense because of the the alcohol element.

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<v Speaker 2>There's an orange thing.

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<v Speaker 3>And you said, like once I told that it's a

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<v Speaker 3>little starbursty.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what if this was sitting out for like no,

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<v Speaker 2>but this this sold out. I mean everyone wants Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people bought it for their red head friends.

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<v Speaker 2>I bet that's why.

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<v Speaker 4>It is also sold out on this website at perfume

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<v Speaker 4>dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>Bet everybody's buying it for the redheads, and then everyone's

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<v Speaker 2>disappointed when they smell it. Sorry, demeato, because I love

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<v Speaker 2>the tomato one. It smells like a tomato plant, a

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<v Speaker 2>tomato plant. No where, I just smell it in a store,

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<v Speaker 2>and I would never buy that. No, but it smells

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<v Speaker 2>just like it's like when you're little, you sell a tomato,

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<v Speaker 2>right right, that's what it takes me back.

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<v Speaker 3>Go get spoons on the bones.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. Do people bring you food gifts a lot? Because

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<v Speaker 2>they don't they don't have an idea.

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<v Speaker 3>I love when they do. It gets to go away.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, that's what I was thinking, like otherwise you

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<v Speaker 2>have to keep a lot of things.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I love a food thing, even if it's a

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<v Speaker 3>gross food thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's a good idea, knowing that I.

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<v Speaker 3>Can put it in my stomach and grosser. Okay, let's

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<v Speaker 3>all try this chocolate. See how we feel it. This

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<v Speaker 3>is Jenny's brand ice cream. I mean it's pretty good.

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<v Speaker 3>It's wonderful chocolate. It's a very tasty flavor.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that's true.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, honalis, how do you feel about it? Have you

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<v Speaker 3>even tried it?

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<v Speaker 4>Delicious?

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<v Speaker 3>Delicious? Yeah, this is a hard one to screw up,

0:28:20.840 --> 0:28:24.800
<v Speaker 3>that's true. Now I'm concerned about getting this wild berry

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<v Speaker 3>into lavender.

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<v Speaker 2>It just gets I know, I don't care. Do you

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<v Speaker 2>care about?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, if you're good with it?

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<v Speaker 2>What is a gross food item you received.

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<v Speaker 3>A gross food item. Let's see. Naomik Pargan gave me

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<v Speaker 3>vanilla almond gummy bears hm and they tasted like teeth.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, they were Oh thank you onlie so sweetly

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<v Speaker 3>getting me some of this wild berry lavender ice cream.

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<v Speaker 3>Now I love a wild berry, but the lavender is

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<v Speaker 3>where it may be a bridge too far.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what. You can't really taste my lavender up.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, so it might just be uh it.

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<v Speaker 2>Tastes like Redhead and Bed. Now I'm just kidding. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>seeing some common notes here. When it describes it, it

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<v Speaker 2>says a pop of sweet orange, just like that Redhead

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<v Speaker 2>and Bed.

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<v Speaker 3>I wonder if orange is just an easy flavor to get,

0:29:19.000 --> 0:29:21.239
<v Speaker 3>so they just put it in everything and that can

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<v Speaker 3>be identified by the user, and then everything else can

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<v Speaker 3>be a lie. Okay, how do you feel about this

0:29:26.920 --> 0:29:27.360
<v Speaker 3>wild bear?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not really I'm not really a fruit ice cream person. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's I got it in case you were, I appreciate you. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, first of all, does anyone want more ice cream?

0:29:41.280 --> 0:29:41.560
<v Speaker 2>Right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I'm gonna put in the freezer so it's not soup.

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<v Speaker 3>This has been a very active episode. I feel like

0:29:55.760 --> 0:29:56.959
<v Speaker 3>I'm running a little story here.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it made you work for your gifts.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so delicious, the wild berry.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I mean I would always use my dessert points

0:30:08.360 --> 0:30:10.960
<v Speaker 2>on a I don't mean points like a but my

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<v Speaker 2>dessert merits on a chocolate. Yeah, that kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, when I'm going out for a treat, I just

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not ready to experiment exactly good, exactly what I

0:30:20.880 --> 0:30:24.600
<v Speaker 3>want good point. I might try a sample, Yeah, I would.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think I would even bother being like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>you give me the wild berry laughing.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I know me neither, but I should have assumed

0:30:34.840 --> 0:30:37.080
<v Speaker 2>a chocolate thing on you. But anyway, it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Weird when you meet someone who isn't into chocolate.

0:30:39.240 --> 0:30:40.800
<v Speaker 2>I know, I'm suspicious.

0:30:40.920 --> 0:30:42.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he was like, what has happened?

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<v Speaker 2>Actually I just spit Okay, no, but I actually never

0:30:47.000 --> 0:30:48.640
<v Speaker 2>thought it was more. But when someone says they don't

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<v Speaker 2>like chocolate, they drop in.

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<v Speaker 3>My esteem completely. There's immediate judgment. Yes, it feels like

0:30:54.440 --> 0:30:56.560
<v Speaker 3>a choice. It feels like they've decided they don't like.

0:30:56.880 --> 0:30:58.280
<v Speaker 2>Feels like something's wrong with.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because it's just such a it was like such

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<v Speaker 3>a universal flavor. Yeah, And you rarely run into someone

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<v Speaker 3>who picks a different flavor over a chocolate flavor. But

0:31:09.520 --> 0:31:10.800
<v Speaker 3>maybe they're better than us.

0:31:11.040 --> 0:31:12.440
<v Speaker 2>Maybe we just don't know it.

0:31:12.520 --> 0:31:15.440
<v Speaker 3>Maybe I do feel like I have pretty bass taste.

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<v Speaker 3>I like a peanut butter. I just learned that Italians

0:31:19.840 --> 0:31:22.040
<v Speaker 3>don't like peanut butter. Oh really they hate it.

0:31:22.120 --> 0:31:22.880
<v Speaker 2>How did you learn that?

0:31:23.440 --> 0:31:28.280
<v Speaker 3>Another guest on this podcast apparently Italians hiss a peanut butter.

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<v Speaker 3>They think it's they really hate that flavor. It's like

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<v Speaker 3>cats and whatever cat's hiss att.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you have a favorite ice cream place you go to?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, okay, Well, being from Massachusetts, oh my god,

0:31:44.160 --> 0:31:46.960
<v Speaker 2>of course you know this. But Massachusetts is like, for

0:31:47.000 --> 0:31:51.800
<v Speaker 2>some reason, ice cream fanatic. So I like anywhere with

0:31:51.840 --> 0:31:56.160
<v Speaker 2>you know, homemade ice cream. So there's a lot of

0:31:56.160 --> 0:31:59.200
<v Speaker 2>places on Cape Cod that I like, Oh okay and whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Just growing up, I don't know there was ice cream everywhere.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm boring myself again, but I.

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<v Speaker 3>Want to hear more.

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<v Speaker 2>Marvel that other places don't have as much ice cream

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<v Speaker 2>as Massachusetts.

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<v Speaker 3>Right. I went to a big ice cream place in Massachusetts.

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<v Speaker 3>It's almost like a weird little theme park. It's like

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<v Speaker 3>Kimball Kimball Farm Kimble Farms. Yes, I've been there once

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<v Speaker 3>and I remember being dazzled by it.

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<v Speaker 2>Very good.

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<v Speaker 3>They also had like go carts. I wasn't entirely sure

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<v Speaker 3>what the operation was, but I must have started.

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<v Speaker 2>With ice And what were you doing there?

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<v Speaker 3>I was visiting friends living in Boston, okay, and I

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<v Speaker 3>must have read about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know if you were going to be like

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<v Speaker 2>I was writing on a blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay on an ice cream theme parks. Yeah, exactly, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I remember being very good ice cream, but also being

0:32:47.440 --> 0:32:50.680
<v Speaker 3>confused by people in Massachusetts call it a milk, but

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<v Speaker 3>I know as a milksh frap, yeah, which it makes

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<v Speaker 3>no sense about me.

0:32:56.320 --> 0:32:58.720
<v Speaker 2>That's a I didn't even know that was a Massachusetts word.

0:32:58.960 --> 0:32:59.880
<v Speaker 3>But they still have a milk.

0:33:00.720 --> 0:33:03.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but it's not it's the same. It's the same thing.

0:33:04.000 --> 0:33:05.240
<v Speaker 2>A milkshake is a frap.

0:33:05.720 --> 0:33:08.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, But in Massachusetts, if you order milkshake, isn't it

0:33:08.440 --> 0:33:09.880
<v Speaker 3>like a thick thing that you can't drink?

0:33:11.000 --> 0:33:11.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:33:11.240 --> 0:33:11.640
<v Speaker 2>Probably?

0:33:11.720 --> 0:33:13.480
<v Speaker 3>And then a frap is like, because I like to

0:33:13.560 --> 0:33:15.640
<v Speaker 3>drink the ice cream any it as easy as possible

0:33:15.920 --> 0:33:16.360
<v Speaker 3>to consum.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I thought they were the same. But

0:33:18.720 --> 0:33:19.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:33:19.120 --> 0:33:21.280
<v Speaker 3>Ye I remember being a little thrown and frap feels

0:33:21.320 --> 0:33:27.080
<v Speaker 3>like such a to do about the dessert frap. Until

0:33:27.160 --> 0:33:28.880
<v Speaker 3>I had learned that about Massachusetts, I thought it was

0:33:28.880 --> 0:33:32.360
<v Speaker 3>a word basically that Starbucks had invented. But I guess

0:33:32.360 --> 0:33:37.720
<v Speaker 3>that's a frapp of Chino, which it's all a little confused.

0:33:38.320 --> 0:33:44.000
<v Speaker 3>There's suspicious, there's something going on, something going on. But

0:33:44.040 --> 0:33:47.880
<v Speaker 3>you like a cape Caught ice cream? Yea, Ultimately that's good.

0:33:47.760 --> 0:33:51.080
<v Speaker 2>To Cape Cod, cape Cod and ski.

0:33:52.200 --> 0:33:59.880
<v Speaker 3>Yes, we're trying to build a character, Yes, Knob Rachel.

0:34:00.680 --> 0:34:02.320
<v Speaker 2>Yes, ice cream snob.

0:34:02.680 --> 0:34:05.800
<v Speaker 3>Utah is very ice cream focused too. It is Utah,

0:34:05.880 --> 0:34:08.480
<v Speaker 3>I mean because most people don't drink or do anything

0:34:08.640 --> 0:34:10.879
<v Speaker 3>like that. So like, the entertainment options.

0:34:10.520 --> 0:34:13.480
<v Speaker 2>Are more fairly from okay, so ice.

0:34:13.320 --> 0:34:16.560
<v Speaker 3>Cream jello, going to the movies, okay, okay. So I

0:34:16.560 --> 0:34:19.160
<v Speaker 3>feel like I've had some pretty good ice cream. I

0:34:19.160 --> 0:34:21.440
<v Speaker 3>don't know, but now we've got like places like Jenny's,

0:34:21.480 --> 0:34:24.440
<v Speaker 3>which it's literally like forty dollars for an ice cream cone.

0:34:24.560 --> 0:34:26.719
<v Speaker 2>Oh you know what makes me really sad when you

0:34:26.719 --> 0:34:28.239
<v Speaker 2>go to get an ice cream cone and it's like

0:34:28.280 --> 0:34:30.719
<v Speaker 2>a tiny little golf ball and it makes you It's

0:34:30.760 --> 0:34:33.920
<v Speaker 2>like I'm not kidding, it like breaks my heart, Like

0:34:34.440 --> 0:34:39.840
<v Speaker 2>when they hand you the tiny gulf. I'm like, now

0:34:39.920 --> 0:34:41.600
<v Speaker 2>I might make you cut this because it makes me

0:34:41.640 --> 0:34:44.319
<v Speaker 2>sound super pathetic. But one time I was in La,

0:34:44.560 --> 0:34:46.920
<v Speaker 2>Like when I'm in La, like I'm not at home, right,

0:34:47.000 --> 0:34:49.160
<v Speaker 2>so I'm like it can get a little lonely sometimes.

0:34:49.560 --> 0:34:52.440
<v Speaker 2>So I'm staying in this hotel and so this is

0:34:52.480 --> 0:34:57.080
<v Speaker 2>the stupidest story. But so I decide like, isn't it

0:34:57.080 --> 0:35:00.000
<v Speaker 2>pretty rare? Like you go get an ice cream by yourself,

0:35:00.160 --> 0:35:03.680
<v Speaker 2>Like that alone is like a freaking sand that's sad.

0:35:03.920 --> 0:35:10.000
<v Speaker 2>That's a sad activity, right, Like, but ice cream is social,

0:35:10.080 --> 0:35:12.400
<v Speaker 2>like you're going out with a group with your kid whatever.

0:35:12.719 --> 0:35:16.760
<v Speaker 2>But I'm like, I'm like, I'm gonna go down the street,

0:35:16.800 --> 0:35:21.560
<v Speaker 2>and because I deserve it, I'm sad. So anyway, like

0:35:21.719 --> 0:35:23.879
<v Speaker 2>go down to this ice cream place. I think it's

0:35:23.920 --> 0:35:29.240
<v Speaker 2>called Sultan's Straw. And if a free coupon should arrive

0:35:29.320 --> 0:35:32.520
<v Speaker 2>after this story, I'm not gonna be sad about. But anyway,

0:35:32.640 --> 0:35:36.200
<v Speaker 2>so so songs John, which is like it's kind of

0:35:36.200 --> 0:35:39.239
<v Speaker 2>like high I've never been, but I got like really

0:35:39.280 --> 0:35:44.320
<v Speaker 2>good ratings because I looked it up afterwards to a

0:35:44.360 --> 0:35:47.240
<v Speaker 2>horrible yelper revealing this about myself.

0:35:47.280 --> 0:35:50.040
<v Speaker 3>Now, But so we're not there's no way, I'm.

0:35:51.360 --> 0:35:55.400
<v Speaker 2>So I walk down the hill to the Sultan's John, okay,

0:35:55.600 --> 0:35:59.560
<v Speaker 2>and I ordered my sad ice cream and it arrives

0:35:59.840 --> 0:36:03.080
<v Speaker 2>and she hands it over and it was the smallest

0:36:03.400 --> 0:36:06.480
<v Speaker 2>ice cream scoop you've ever seen in your life. Okay,

0:36:06.760 --> 0:36:11.279
<v Speaker 2>It like my heart sank. Okay. So it was so

0:36:11.320 --> 0:36:14.080
<v Speaker 2>small that, like I realized, if I'd been with someone else,

0:36:14.200 --> 0:36:16.279
<v Speaker 2>I would have had the nerve to be like, well

0:36:16.360 --> 0:36:19.200
<v Speaker 2>that's it, like I would have said so. But because

0:36:19.239 --> 0:36:21.840
<v Speaker 2>I was by myself, I just took it like a

0:36:21.880 --> 0:36:25.399
<v Speaker 2>sad ziggy characters and I just took the ice cream

0:36:25.440 --> 0:36:31.319
<v Speaker 2>and I was like visibly shaken, so that I'm I'm

0:36:31.440 --> 0:36:34.680
<v Speaker 2>walking back up to my hotel and myself like I'm

0:36:34.680 --> 0:36:37.400
<v Speaker 2>not kidding. It was like done in three bites. The

0:36:37.480 --> 0:36:40.520
<v Speaker 2>experience lasted like forty seconds, and then I walked back

0:36:40.520 --> 0:36:42.640
<v Speaker 2>to my door, and then I had this This is

0:36:42.640 --> 0:36:49.440
<v Speaker 2>where the story gets. It's even more embarrassed, so that

0:36:49.600 --> 0:36:54.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm like maybe they maybe they're really no, let make

0:36:54.200 --> 0:36:57.200
<v Speaker 2>make me small portions. So I look at the on

0:36:57.520 --> 0:37:00.759
<v Speaker 2>Yo right by the way I'm walking, gonna tell the

0:37:00.800 --> 0:37:04.000
<v Speaker 2>ice cream is long gone. After like ten steps of

0:37:04.120 --> 0:37:09.480
<v Speaker 2>day of walking, I'm already looking at and I look

0:37:09.560 --> 0:37:12.920
<v Speaker 2>up thinking I'm gonna see the portions are really small.

0:37:13.239 --> 0:37:17.480
<v Speaker 2>But the reviews it says that they're huge, and the

0:37:17.600 --> 0:37:20.719
<v Speaker 2>review this, it's like, oh my gosh, I'm small. It's

0:37:20.840 --> 0:37:22.600
<v Speaker 2>like a double large at this place.

0:37:22.640 --> 0:37:23.160
<v Speaker 3>That's something.

0:37:23.239 --> 0:37:26.160
<v Speaker 2>Then I find out like what it was the exception,

0:37:26.600 --> 0:37:31.440
<v Speaker 2>what happened? Like everyone's talking about large the scoops, and

0:37:31.520 --> 0:37:34.440
<v Speaker 2>I felt like, oh my god. Anyway, it was like

0:37:34.480 --> 0:37:36.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm still obviously mad about it.

0:37:36.480 --> 0:37:42.400
<v Speaker 3>It was like four years owes you.

0:37:40.960 --> 0:37:43.600
<v Speaker 2>You owe me like a double scoop for free, a

0:37:43.640 --> 0:37:46.480
<v Speaker 2>full box, because not only did you rip me off,

0:37:46.520 --> 0:37:50.320
<v Speaker 2>but also you created an emotional experience that I'm still

0:37:50.920 --> 0:37:55.839
<v Speaker 2>living four years later on a podcast over an ice

0:37:55.880 --> 0:37:57.319
<v Speaker 2>cream transaction.

0:37:58.040 --> 0:38:08.560
<v Speaker 5>So anyway, that is my embarrassing pathos Layden, Oh that

0:38:08.680 --> 0:38:09.520
<v Speaker 5>to me, I.

0:38:09.440 --> 0:38:11.319
<v Speaker 2>Feel I feel like I got I got it out.

0:38:11.760 --> 0:38:17.680
<v Speaker 2>That was a good started of that feeling fireworks, emotional

0:38:18.239 --> 0:38:19.000
<v Speaker 2>emotional virus.

0:38:19.080 --> 0:38:22.120
<v Speaker 3>No, at that moment, I empathize with you so much.

0:38:22.120 --> 0:38:23.560
<v Speaker 3>In the moment of them handing you the small and

0:38:23.600 --> 0:38:27.080
<v Speaker 3>you're alone. There's nothing you can do. You like some

0:38:27.120 --> 0:38:29.759
<v Speaker 3>more and think these teenagers like, oh you what are

0:38:29.760 --> 0:38:30.360
<v Speaker 3>you a page?

0:38:32.320 --> 0:38:34.160
<v Speaker 2>I cannot tell you I saw this thing? Was it

0:38:34.280 --> 0:38:36.960
<v Speaker 2>like barely even like surfaced over the colne It was.

0:38:37.520 --> 0:38:40.120
<v Speaker 2>It was like the smallest ice cream ever. So anyway,

0:38:40.280 --> 0:38:42.680
<v Speaker 2>whenever they hand you like, you know.

0:38:45.760 --> 0:38:48.319
<v Speaker 3>Well, while you were telling you storys like because I've

0:38:48.360 --> 0:38:51.239
<v Speaker 3>always had and this is this is not an advertisement

0:38:51.239 --> 0:38:53.000
<v Speaker 3>for Salton Straw, but they've always given me a normal

0:38:53.040 --> 0:38:55.520
<v Speaker 3>scoop of ice cream. But Jenny's I've had some of

0:38:55.560 --> 0:38:56.640
<v Speaker 3>these situations.

0:38:56.640 --> 0:38:58.880
<v Speaker 2>Not always I've never been to Jenny's before.

0:38:58.680 --> 0:39:02.680
<v Speaker 3>Delicious ice cream off, but occasionally a little sweet for me.

0:39:02.800 --> 0:39:08.400
<v Speaker 2>But go on a sewer, Okay, sorry, go on, I

0:39:08.440 --> 0:39:09.120
<v Speaker 2>probably can't back.

0:39:09.560 --> 0:39:10.920
<v Speaker 3>I wasn't going to say anything, but you gave it

0:39:10.920 --> 0:39:11.880
<v Speaker 3>to me. It is a little sweet.

0:39:11.960 --> 0:39:14.600
<v Speaker 2>Do you think it needs a little like you need

0:39:14.640 --> 0:39:17.560
<v Speaker 2>a break? Yeah, it needs to kick a little at sugar.

0:39:17.600 --> 0:39:20.080
<v Speaker 3>Yes, or like a piece of dark chocolate in there

0:39:20.160 --> 0:39:24.360
<v Speaker 3>saying yeah, my tolerance for sweetness has gone way down.

0:39:25.280 --> 0:39:28.400
<v Speaker 3>The desserts I'm eating are frequently basically charcoal.

0:39:29.680 --> 0:39:32.600
<v Speaker 2>I should have got you the salted kermel that was

0:39:31.880 --> 0:39:33.640
<v Speaker 2>the ice.

0:39:33.520 --> 0:39:35.560
<v Speaker 3>Cream needs that sort of thing. I'm dumping salt on

0:39:35.760 --> 0:39:37.440
<v Speaker 3>chocolate ice cream at this point.

0:39:37.800 --> 0:39:41.120
<v Speaker 2>Delicious, Okay, okay, sorry.

0:39:40.880 --> 0:39:44.200
<v Speaker 3>But salt and straw. They this. Whoever was in charge

0:39:44.200 --> 0:39:46.719
<v Speaker 3>of your ice cream cone dropped the ball, they did.

0:39:47.000 --> 0:39:50.040
<v Speaker 3>I hope the company is looking into that transaction right now.

0:39:51.080 --> 0:39:52.359
<v Speaker 3>Going through their records.

0:39:53.200 --> 0:39:59.240
<v Speaker 2>Four years ago, I bet location hes need to roll

0:40:00.320 --> 0:40:02.120
<v Speaker 2>some straw West Hollywood.

0:40:02.520 --> 0:40:05.279
<v Speaker 3>If they don't know about that transaction, then ancestry dot

0:40:05.280 --> 0:40:11.120
<v Speaker 3>com does. Wow, that's it. But I am going to

0:40:11.239 --> 0:40:13.440
<v Speaker 3>stand up and say you should be anyone should be

0:40:13.480 --> 0:40:14.800
<v Speaker 3>able to go get an ice cream alone.

0:40:15.000 --> 0:40:15.960
<v Speaker 2>That's true.

0:40:16.200 --> 0:40:17.759
<v Speaker 3>It's just something that I support you.

0:40:17.840 --> 0:40:21.200
<v Speaker 2>I don't do that often, and I learned. I learned

0:40:21.200 --> 0:40:24.840
<v Speaker 2>my love. There's something like sad about it. I don't know,

0:40:24.920 --> 0:40:27.480
<v Speaker 2>that's just me judging me. Well, it is a situation.

0:40:27.520 --> 0:40:30.359
<v Speaker 2>You're normally with social and you should be socially right.

0:40:30.800 --> 0:40:33.680
<v Speaker 2>I'll go to a restaurant in myself. I'm like another town, whatever,

0:40:34.120 --> 0:40:35.560
<v Speaker 2>go to a movie, mom. I don't. I don't have

0:40:35.640 --> 0:40:37.440
<v Speaker 2>that thing. But something about buying an ice cream com

0:40:37.480 --> 0:40:37.960
<v Speaker 2>by yourself.

0:40:38.080 --> 0:40:40.560
<v Speaker 3>I think it's because it's unnecessary.

0:40:40.000 --> 0:40:42.320
<v Speaker 2>It's something about it. It's like I deserve a treat

0:40:42.360 --> 0:40:45.759
<v Speaker 2>it like something like something like feels like ooky about it,

0:40:45.800 --> 0:40:48.560
<v Speaker 2>Like I'm gonna treat myself to what ice cream? Colm?

0:40:51.480 --> 0:40:51.960
<v Speaker 2>But you are.

0:40:52.320 --> 0:40:55.120
<v Speaker 3>I feel like you're a hero in that situation. Everyone's

0:40:55.160 --> 0:40:56.919
<v Speaker 3>saying that person's been there.

0:40:57.080 --> 0:40:59.560
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I'm helping people by telling this story.

0:40:59.680 --> 0:41:04.799
<v Speaker 3>Yes, I'm proud about going to sweet places alone. Ultimately,

0:41:04.880 --> 0:41:06.000
<v Speaker 3>the everyone will thank you.

0:41:06.480 --> 0:41:09.800
<v Speaker 2>Everyone probably can relate to the small cone sadness.

0:41:09.800 --> 0:41:13.040
<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, it's such a ripoff. You shouldn't You

0:41:13.040 --> 0:41:14.719
<v Speaker 3>should be able to enjoy an ice cream cone for

0:41:14.760 --> 0:41:19.080
<v Speaker 3>at least ten minutes. I really take my time.

0:41:19.160 --> 0:41:22.520
<v Speaker 2>I revealed that about myself. Really, the Barbara Walters of

0:41:22.600 --> 0:41:24.840
<v Speaker 2>the podcast.

0:41:24.520 --> 0:41:27.799
<v Speaker 3>I get the darkest things out of people do a

0:41:27.800 --> 0:41:31.160
<v Speaker 3>lot of that's gonna have to be beeped out. That

0:41:31.320 --> 0:41:34.920
<v Speaker 3>was a horrible story. No, I appreciate you telling that.

0:41:34.960 --> 0:41:37.280
<v Speaker 3>And eating alone is a different thing.

0:41:37.160 --> 0:41:40.560
<v Speaker 2>I guess, because sometimes you're just like you got to

0:41:40.600 --> 0:41:42.279
<v Speaker 2>eat on the road whatever.

0:41:42.160 --> 0:41:44.160
<v Speaker 3>Right, and I'll have a book or whatever. I'm like, yeah,

0:41:44.200 --> 0:41:45.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm eating dinner, leave me alone.

0:41:45.880 --> 0:41:48.560
<v Speaker 2>Let's face it. The book is just there to let

0:41:48.560 --> 0:41:50.040
<v Speaker 2>people know you're okay with this.

0:41:50.400 --> 0:41:51.080
<v Speaker 3>Just blank pack.

0:41:51.560 --> 0:41:57.440
<v Speaker 2>It's a mean time I treat myself, and this is

0:41:57.480 --> 0:41:59.400
<v Speaker 2>my mean time. This is my reading time.

0:42:00.400 --> 0:42:02.399
<v Speaker 3>I was told to do this by the artist's way.

0:42:03.120 --> 0:42:04.120
<v Speaker 2>Yes, oh my god.

0:42:04.360 --> 0:42:07.040
<v Speaker 3>I just want everyone to always assume I'm doing the artists'

0:42:07.080 --> 0:42:12.600
<v Speaker 3>wayes and movies, I actually think everyone should go to alone. Yeah,

0:42:12.680 --> 0:42:13.160
<v Speaker 3>because I.

0:42:13.080 --> 0:42:15.560
<v Speaker 2>Don't mind that, although I must admit I don't really

0:42:15.560 --> 0:42:16.440
<v Speaker 2>go to movies anyway.

0:42:16.520 --> 0:42:17.480
<v Speaker 3>I don't done with the movies.

0:42:17.520 --> 0:42:19.120
<v Speaker 2>Well no, I mean like I watched them at home

0:42:19.239 --> 0:42:21.640
<v Speaker 2>or it's been a while since I've gone to either.

0:42:21.680 --> 0:42:22.640
<v Speaker 2>I feel bad about.

0:42:22.440 --> 0:42:24.040
<v Speaker 3>That contributing to Hollywood's mind.

0:42:24.120 --> 0:42:26.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like I need the movies to keep going, and

0:42:27.280 --> 0:42:28.560
<v Speaker 2>I've sort of missed that experience.

0:42:28.640 --> 0:42:30.520
<v Speaker 3>Well, once you get into the rhythm of not going,

0:42:30.920 --> 0:42:34.440
<v Speaker 3>it's hard to break out of that. I'm currently in

0:42:34.480 --> 0:42:36.879
<v Speaker 3>a lull. You just have to force yourself one time

0:42:36.920 --> 0:42:39.120
<v Speaker 3>and then you're back into the movies, and then there's

0:42:39.160 --> 0:42:41.360
<v Speaker 3>a drought of good ones and then you're back into it.

0:42:41.719 --> 0:42:43.520
<v Speaker 2>But I have memories of when I lived in Chicago,

0:42:43.640 --> 0:42:45.960
<v Speaker 2>Like there were all these little art movie houses and

0:42:46.160 --> 0:42:48.960
<v Speaker 2>remember like you'd find that indie movie and like, let's

0:42:48.960 --> 0:42:50.520
<v Speaker 2>go see this on Friday.

0:42:50.239 --> 0:42:52.800
<v Speaker 3>Night, like that was something cool and I felt like

0:42:52.480 --> 0:42:55.680
<v Speaker 3>it like you had really like found something and you

0:42:55.760 --> 0:42:57.800
<v Speaker 3>love doing the work to enjoy this.

0:42:58.080 --> 0:43:00.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, and you can't be distracted.

0:43:00.280 --> 0:43:01.920
<v Speaker 3>Right, And it was a limited time to see it.

0:43:02.040 --> 0:43:03.200
<v Speaker 3>You weren't going to be able to just see it

0:43:03.600 --> 0:43:08.280
<v Speaker 3>in the billion choices of jah right. Yeah, it feels

0:43:08.280 --> 0:43:10.799
<v Speaker 3>like that's gone away. So many things have gone away.

0:43:10.960 --> 0:43:13.120
<v Speaker 2>Turn you just take a sad turn.

0:43:13.560 --> 0:43:14.799
<v Speaker 3>Well, this podcast is a roller.

0:43:16.840 --> 0:43:18.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm feeling so many emotions.

0:43:19.960 --> 0:43:21.880
<v Speaker 3>But I yeah, I love going to And this is

0:43:21.920 --> 0:43:23.960
<v Speaker 3>a trick I do at the movies now is if

0:43:23.960 --> 0:43:25.759
<v Speaker 3>the movie's three hours long, I only go to an

0:43:25.760 --> 0:43:27.799
<v Speaker 3>hour and a half of it. And this gives you

0:43:27.840 --> 0:43:29.760
<v Speaker 3>a new level of freedom with the movies.

0:43:30.719 --> 0:43:34.359
<v Speaker 2>Hold on, hold on, what movie are we doing? This

0:43:34.440 --> 0:43:34.799
<v Speaker 2>is real.

0:43:35.320 --> 0:43:38.520
<v Speaker 3>This has happened several times, like on purpose, on purpose.

0:43:38.560 --> 0:43:42.080
<v Speaker 3>It's my new philosophy. It feels incredible. I've talked about

0:43:42.120 --> 0:43:43.320
<v Speaker 3>on this podcast a few times.

0:43:43.360 --> 0:43:45.359
<v Speaker 2>But well, give me an example of a three hour movie.

0:43:45.560 --> 0:43:49.000
<v Speaker 3>Avatar, Oh God, hour and a half in I thought,

0:43:49.520 --> 0:43:51.399
<v Speaker 3>I know everything I need to know about this movie.

0:43:51.440 --> 0:43:54.319
<v Speaker 3>I can go home. I've experienced whatever this is my

0:43:54.400 --> 0:43:58.480
<v Speaker 3>apologies to Jim Cameron and A Submarine number two, John

0:43:58.520 --> 0:44:01.400
<v Speaker 3>Wick four, which I enjoy's seen any of those, but

0:44:01.840 --> 0:44:04.560
<v Speaker 3>it's literally three hours of fighting, and so ever, an

0:44:04.560 --> 0:44:06.799
<v Speaker 3>hour and a half of fighting, I thought, I've seen

0:44:06.880 --> 0:44:09.800
<v Speaker 3>enough people get thrown downstairs. I could probably go home. Okay.

0:44:10.400 --> 0:44:15.040
<v Speaker 3>Bo Is Afraid, which is the ari Astra movie with

0:44:15.600 --> 0:44:20.960
<v Speaker 3>Joaquin Phoenix, which I enjoyed enough. Bo Is Afraid never

0:44:21.000 --> 0:44:23.279
<v Speaker 3>even heard of it. I enjoyed enough, But it was

0:44:23.400 --> 0:44:25.359
<v Speaker 3>just three hours. I couldn't do it. I can't sit

0:44:25.400 --> 0:44:28.080
<v Speaker 3>there that long. Yeah, so I went home. And when

0:44:28.120 --> 0:44:29.960
<v Speaker 3>you leave an hour and a half in, it's like

0:44:30.040 --> 0:44:33.360
<v Speaker 3>you broke out of jail. Even if you're enjoying the movie. Wow,

0:44:33.400 --> 0:44:35.240
<v Speaker 3>you can go around the mall and look at stores.

0:44:35.320 --> 0:44:37.680
<v Speaker 3>Everyone assumes you're still trapped in the theater. But no,

0:44:37.760 --> 0:44:39.719
<v Speaker 3>if this is your secret hour and a half that

0:44:39.800 --> 0:44:41.320
<v Speaker 3>you can kind of just live your life.

0:44:41.760 --> 0:44:43.680
<v Speaker 2>I have to say, like, if I see three hours

0:44:43.680 --> 0:44:45.399
<v Speaker 2>on a movie, I don't really watch it.

0:44:45.760 --> 0:44:47.240
<v Speaker 3>Oh you mean zoning out?

0:44:47.840 --> 0:44:50.160
<v Speaker 2>I don't. Okay, So I don't make myself watch Oscar

0:44:50.200 --> 0:44:50.840
<v Speaker 2>movies anymore.

0:44:50.920 --> 0:44:51.480
<v Speaker 3>That's good for you.

0:44:51.719 --> 0:44:53.640
<v Speaker 2>That's the gift I've given to myself.

0:44:53.320 --> 0:44:54.359
<v Speaker 3>What an amazing life.

0:44:54.440 --> 0:44:57.560
<v Speaker 2>I mean, what I mean is like back in the day,

0:44:57.680 --> 0:45:00.360
<v Speaker 2>I'd try to see everything. I'm not I'm not a

0:45:00.400 --> 0:45:02.279
<v Speaker 2>voter or anything. I don't mean that. I just mean

0:45:02.360 --> 0:45:05.279
<v Speaker 2>as a civilian that I used to like try to

0:45:05.280 --> 0:45:07.359
<v Speaker 2>make myself or if it was like the Action Hero

0:45:07.520 --> 0:45:09.799
<v Speaker 2>movie that everyone's saying I goes, But like then I

0:45:09.800 --> 0:45:11.720
<v Speaker 2>was like, wait a minute, I don't like these movies.

0:45:12.040 --> 0:45:14.560
<v Speaker 2>I don't like Action Hero. I will not see war

0:45:14.640 --> 0:45:18.360
<v Speaker 2>movies because they make me too bummed out and like

0:45:18.600 --> 0:45:21.000
<v Speaker 2>heavy dramas, I just don't like it. So I've given

0:45:21.040 --> 0:45:23.560
<v Speaker 2>myself a pass, so I don't see any.

0:45:23.400 --> 0:45:25.200
<v Speaker 3>Of those that's really taking ownership.

0:45:25.360 --> 0:45:28.359
<v Speaker 2>Sorry for not supporting Hollywood in that way, But I

0:45:28.440 --> 0:45:29.000
<v Speaker 2>like comedies.

0:45:29.000 --> 0:45:29.960
<v Speaker 3>You're watching comedies.

0:45:30.000 --> 0:45:30.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm watching comedy.

0:45:30.800 --> 0:45:33.520
<v Speaker 3>You're watching light Fair, and you're enjoying yourself. You're not

0:45:33.800 --> 0:45:36.920
<v Speaker 3>subjecting yourself exactly. Yeah, I'm still very much in a

0:45:37.239 --> 0:45:39.400
<v Speaker 3>wanting to be part of like to be able to

0:45:39.440 --> 0:45:41.960
<v Speaker 3>comment for two minutes during dinner.

0:45:42.239 --> 0:45:44.520
<v Speaker 2>That's a good point, but I can't comment on a

0:45:44.520 --> 0:45:45.879
<v Speaker 2>lot of those kind of things.

0:45:45.920 --> 0:45:48.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you're basically silent at every dinner at this point.

0:45:48.280 --> 0:45:52.319
<v Speaker 3>People are saying stop about the movie.

0:45:52.680 --> 0:46:05.880
<v Speaker 2>That's what I bring up. You guys heard of Sultan Straw? Okay, sorry, no,

0:46:06.000 --> 0:46:08.600
<v Speaker 2>I think needs to be I didn't mean to go

0:46:08.640 --> 0:46:09.759
<v Speaker 2>back on last.

0:46:10.920 --> 0:46:14.000
<v Speaker 3>I've got that's probably the leading company right now, and

0:46:14.040 --> 0:46:15.359
<v Speaker 3>somebody's got to take him down a pack.

0:46:16.239 --> 0:46:18.399
<v Speaker 2>These companies need to know didn't mean to go back

0:46:18.400 --> 0:46:21.479
<v Speaker 2>to you. They're kind of call back ladies in Jenero.

0:46:21.760 --> 0:46:27.760
<v Speaker 2>That's a comedy technique. Okay, sorry, sorry, go ahead about

0:46:27.760 --> 0:46:31.440
<v Speaker 2>saving Private Ryan. Okay, so you love Tom Hanks is

0:46:31.520 --> 0:46:32.840
<v Speaker 2>uh an actor?

0:46:33.440 --> 0:46:37.040
<v Speaker 3>Yes, I do. I know that when I went in

0:46:37.080 --> 0:46:37.680
<v Speaker 3>Private Ryan.

0:46:38.280 --> 0:46:39.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean.

0:46:39.760 --> 0:46:40.879
<v Speaker 3>When I said that, I was like, oh no, he's

0:46:40.920 --> 0:46:41.960
<v Speaker 3>not leading he's.

0:46:42.600 --> 0:46:43.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I've never seen it.

0:46:43.880 --> 0:46:50.560
<v Speaker 3>I haven't seen it either, Private Ryan. Well, I think

0:46:50.560 --> 0:46:52.960
<v Speaker 3>we should play a game. Okay, we're gonna play a

0:46:52.960 --> 0:46:55.880
<v Speaker 3>game called Gift or this game. I like that. I

0:46:55.920 --> 0:46:58.920
<v Speaker 3>need a number between one and ten from you. Okay, five, Okay,

0:46:58.960 --> 0:47:01.279
<v Speaker 3>I have to do been calculating right now. I have

0:47:01.320 --> 0:47:03.399
<v Speaker 3>to get our game pieces. So you have the mic.

0:47:03.440 --> 0:47:05.719
<v Speaker 3>You can recommend, promote, do whatever you want.

0:47:06.640 --> 0:47:17.200
<v Speaker 2>Promote something, oh, ship, promote something. Let's see. Things have

0:47:17.280 --> 0:47:21.040
<v Speaker 2>been pretty slow, so my promoting something about myself or

0:47:21.160 --> 0:47:23.680
<v Speaker 2>something in general about yourself.

0:47:24.120 --> 0:47:25.600
<v Speaker 3>You have a podcast, let's hear about that.

0:47:25.840 --> 0:47:29.800
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I have a podcast. I have a podcast too, Bridger.

0:47:30.600 --> 0:47:33.520
<v Speaker 2>I just started it, though a little more recently than you.

0:47:33.960 --> 0:47:38.360
<v Speaker 2>I should be taking notes about tricks of the Trade.

0:47:39.040 --> 0:47:42.080
<v Speaker 2>Well you've been going, you've been doing this for four years.

0:47:42.600 --> 0:47:45.759
<v Speaker 2>I think. Sorry, I'm supposed to be talking silly four years.

0:47:45.760 --> 0:47:46.239
<v Speaker 2>Four years?

0:47:46.239 --> 0:47:46.399
<v Speaker 1>Wow?

0:47:46.400 --> 0:47:49.600
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So I started mine in October. Well whatever, it's

0:47:49.600 --> 0:47:50.400
<v Speaker 2>been like eight months.

0:47:51.080 --> 0:47:56.680
<v Speaker 6>It's called should I talk about it? It's called wo

0:47:57.080 --> 0:48:00.960
<v Speaker 6>with Rachel Drafts, and it's stories of like the unexplained.

0:48:02.200 --> 0:48:07.760
<v Speaker 6>So it could be ghost stories, psychic phenomena, weird eerie

0:48:07.760 --> 0:48:09.760
<v Speaker 6>things that have or it could be like like Amy

0:48:09.760 --> 0:48:11.480
<v Speaker 6>Pohler came on, she doesn't really believe in any of

0:48:11.480 --> 0:48:14.479
<v Speaker 6>this stuff, so she talked about the Enneagram personality test.

0:48:15.080 --> 0:48:17.440
<v Speaker 6>So it could be like anything woo, anything that's like

0:48:17.600 --> 0:48:19.000
<v Speaker 6>I don't want to be all woo woo, but I

0:48:19.040 --> 0:48:21.080
<v Speaker 6>went and had my tea leaves right like, it could

0:48:21.080 --> 0:48:23.960
<v Speaker 6>be any yeah, because I sort of am into all

0:48:23.960 --> 0:48:26.239
<v Speaker 6>that stuff. I mean, I'm into the stories around I'm

0:48:26.239 --> 0:48:28.839
<v Speaker 6>not I'm not a truly woo woo person. But I

0:48:29.040 --> 0:48:31.840
<v Speaker 6>but every so often I hear a ghost story, I'm like, oh, wow,

0:48:32.360 --> 0:48:36.200
<v Speaker 6>maybe we don't know what happens after death.

0:48:36.280 --> 0:48:38.959
<v Speaker 2>I don't know anyway, But I didn't mean to bring

0:48:39.040 --> 0:48:42.200
<v Speaker 2>up the D word, but but no, Like, so, there's

0:48:42.239 --> 0:48:44.520
<v Speaker 2>been really cool stories on there, and if you have one,

0:48:44.719 --> 0:48:45.760
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I've.

0:48:45.560 --> 0:48:47.759
<v Speaker 3>Got to come on, do you have a story? I

0:48:47.800 --> 0:48:50.719
<v Speaker 3>do have one, a sweet story. I've told it to

0:48:50.840 --> 0:48:54.239
<v Speaker 3>somebody before, but it's it's a nice story, and I

0:48:54.280 --> 0:48:56.000
<v Speaker 3>have I have conflicting feelings about.

0:48:55.800 --> 0:48:58.360
<v Speaker 2>All and that's why I'm not like a full tilt

0:48:58.480 --> 0:49:02.399
<v Speaker 2>liked percent believer. But when you listen to a bunch

0:49:02.400 --> 0:49:05.200
<v Speaker 2>of these stories, you're like, oh, because.

0:49:05.000 --> 0:49:07.359
<v Speaker 3>People were like this happened to me, Yeah, exactly.

0:49:07.000 --> 0:49:09.080
<v Speaker 2>That's all people coming on saying. And it could be

0:49:09.160 --> 0:49:12.279
<v Speaker 2>someone like whoever, I don't know, Seth Meyers did a

0:49:12.360 --> 0:49:15.120
<v Speaker 2>Tina faded, Or it could be like the mom from

0:49:15.600 --> 0:49:17.880
<v Speaker 2>my son's school who has this crazy ghost story. She

0:49:17.960 --> 0:49:19.640
<v Speaker 2>was telling me at field day and I was like,

0:49:19.640 --> 0:49:21.759
<v Speaker 2>will you come on the podcast? So she has a

0:49:21.800 --> 0:49:25.160
<v Speaker 2>great story. So it's it's all. It's all people, and

0:49:25.280 --> 0:49:27.680
<v Speaker 2>you have stories, right, I have? I have a ghost

0:49:27.680 --> 0:49:30.319
<v Speaker 2>story that happened in l A. And I have a

0:49:30.560 --> 0:49:34.120
<v Speaker 2>crazy psychic story too, So those are whatever I pepper

0:49:34.239 --> 0:49:35.879
<v Speaker 2>my own little stories throughout.

0:49:35.600 --> 0:49:36.200
<v Speaker 3>As you should.

0:49:36.320 --> 0:49:38.240
<v Speaker 2>Yes, anyway, that's.

0:49:39.960 --> 0:49:40.319
<v Speaker 3>W O.

0:49:40.520 --> 0:49:42.400
<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, yes.

0:49:42.400 --> 0:49:46.480
<v Speaker 3>Everyone go listen to that podcast. Rachel's wonderful and ghosts

0:49:46.600 --> 0:49:52.000
<v Speaker 3>are incredible, so wonderful. This is how we play gift

0:49:52.040 --> 0:49:55.160
<v Speaker 3>to a Curse. I'm going to name three things. You're

0:49:55.200 --> 0:49:56.640
<v Speaker 3>going to tell me if there are a gift or

0:49:56.680 --> 0:49:59.160
<v Speaker 3>a curse and why, and then I'll tell you if

0:49:59.200 --> 0:50:02.160
<v Speaker 3>you're right or wrong because there are correct answers. Okay,

0:50:02.320 --> 0:50:04.080
<v Speaker 3>and there's a good chance you could fail, and you've

0:50:04.280 --> 0:50:06.360
<v Speaker 3>you know, you've had some sadness already on this podcast.

0:50:06.400 --> 0:50:08.680
<v Speaker 3>We don't want to watch you walk away a failure,

0:50:08.719 --> 0:50:09.600
<v Speaker 3>so be very careful.

0:50:09.640 --> 0:50:11.239
<v Speaker 2>Okay. Now do I try to match what I think

0:50:11.239 --> 0:50:11.920
<v Speaker 2>you're gonna.

0:50:11.680 --> 0:50:14.960
<v Speaker 3>Say or you do whatever you want? Okay, gift or

0:50:15.000 --> 0:50:18.040
<v Speaker 3>a curse? This is ah, Actually I do need to quickly.

0:50:18.320 --> 0:50:20.440
<v Speaker 3>During the live show, we use some listener suggestions and

0:50:20.480 --> 0:50:22.480
<v Speaker 3>I simply didn't think the people who had sent them in.

0:50:22.640 --> 0:50:25.520
<v Speaker 3>We had an Ellen who suggested the window seat on

0:50:25.560 --> 0:50:28.600
<v Speaker 3>an airplane. We had Mark who suggested cash, and then

0:50:29.000 --> 0:50:31.960
<v Speaker 3>this is tomatoes and guacamole. I no, which just kind

0:50:31.960 --> 0:50:36.480
<v Speaker 3>of mysterious. But okay, let's get into this. Victoria has

0:50:36.520 --> 0:50:40.319
<v Speaker 3>suggested gift or a curse people who walk dogs on

0:50:40.360 --> 0:50:43.520
<v Speaker 3>a leash that fastens around their waist.

0:50:44.600 --> 0:50:46.680
<v Speaker 2>Fastens around the walker the person's waist.

0:50:46.760 --> 0:50:47.799
<v Speaker 3>Yes, it's like a belt.

0:50:49.160 --> 0:50:52.080
<v Speaker 2>I've never seen that even. I guess I'm gonna say

0:50:52.239 --> 0:50:54.440
<v Speaker 2>curse because I don't get why you're not just holding

0:50:54.480 --> 0:51:00.839
<v Speaker 2>it with your hand. But unless you a limitation, Okay,

0:51:00.840 --> 0:51:03.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna say curse because I don't get it.

0:51:03.960 --> 0:51:05.640
<v Speaker 3>It's a curse. It makes it. I don't know what

0:51:05.640 --> 0:51:07.319
<v Speaker 3>we're doing. Do you need both hands? What do you

0:51:07.320 --> 0:51:10.319
<v Speaker 3>need both hands for? Are you making pizza? I don't

0:51:10.400 --> 0:51:13.960
<v Speaker 3>understand that an l a thing. I've actually never seen

0:51:14.000 --> 0:51:17.000
<v Speaker 3>this in person. When this person's send this in I

0:51:17.160 --> 0:51:19.759
<v Speaker 3>obviously googled it to get my eyes on this product,

0:51:20.239 --> 0:51:22.200
<v Speaker 3>and it seems to be at least one person in

0:51:22.200 --> 0:51:26.399
<v Speaker 3>a stock photo has done it. So but I guess, I.

0:51:26.320 --> 0:51:29.400
<v Speaker 2>Guess it's good if you're dealing with like groceries.

0:51:28.880 --> 0:51:31.439
<v Speaker 3>Phone fighting off attackers, fighting.

0:51:31.080 --> 0:51:37.080
<v Speaker 2>Off attackers, the doggy bag thing whatever. Maybe, but I'm

0:51:37.120 --> 0:51:38.440
<v Speaker 2>just gonna say that's weird.

0:51:39.560 --> 0:51:41.280
<v Speaker 3>It's different, so it's worm.

0:51:41.160 --> 0:51:42.440
<v Speaker 2>With what everyone else does.

0:51:42.640 --> 0:51:45.560
<v Speaker 3>That's a curse. No one thing about it to me

0:51:45.760 --> 0:51:49.280
<v Speaker 3>is I get a little. I love dogs more than anything,

0:51:49.320 --> 0:51:52.640
<v Speaker 3>but people who are too comfortable with their dog interacting

0:51:52.640 --> 0:51:55.320
<v Speaker 3>with other people when they just assume everyone is comfortable

0:51:55.320 --> 0:51:58.240
<v Speaker 3>with their dog, I like you think about other people.

0:51:58.880 --> 0:52:01.680
<v Speaker 3>I'm sure your dog's lovely, but maybe not everyone's comfortable

0:52:01.680 --> 0:52:04.839
<v Speaker 3>with it running around your waist, racking them right right,

0:52:05.040 --> 0:52:06.480
<v Speaker 3>So when you have the dog on a leash with

0:52:06.520 --> 0:52:08.040
<v Speaker 3>your hand, I feel like there's a little bit more

0:52:08.040 --> 0:52:13.400
<v Speaker 3>control there. And uh yeah, I just don't understand this product.

0:52:13.880 --> 0:52:15.200
<v Speaker 3>We should stop selling it.

0:52:15.239 --> 0:52:16.719
<v Speaker 2>Okay, curse curse.

0:52:16.640 --> 0:52:19.920
<v Speaker 3>Very good Number two. This is from a listener named Diego.

0:52:20.120 --> 0:52:22.439
<v Speaker 3>Gift to a curse. Yellow popsicles.

0:52:23.480 --> 0:52:30.960
<v Speaker 2>Curse Why because I don't like lemon as a popsicle flavor?

0:52:31.440 --> 0:52:33.480
<v Speaker 3>You're not into a lemon flavor anything?

0:52:33.880 --> 0:52:36.120
<v Speaker 2>Hmm, well what else would a yellow pop? I guess

0:52:36.160 --> 0:52:37.839
<v Speaker 2>it could be pineapple? If you go on, no, I'm

0:52:37.880 --> 0:52:39.239
<v Speaker 2>gonna say curse. Why what do you say?

0:52:40.000 --> 0:52:43.040
<v Speaker 3>You say curse? I've only ever known them to be banana,

0:52:43.480 --> 0:52:45.120
<v Speaker 3>which is the worst flavor of anything.

0:52:45.200 --> 0:52:47.439
<v Speaker 2>Oh, now I know what you mean those ice cream

0:52:47.440 --> 0:52:48.600
<v Speaker 2>truck banana ones.

0:52:48.760 --> 0:52:52.560
<v Speaker 3>No, they have the regular pop traditional popsicle in a

0:52:52.640 --> 0:52:55.200
<v Speaker 3>yellow the ones I remember from a kid there was

0:52:55.200 --> 0:52:58.000
<v Speaker 3>a blue, red, yellow, orange, and brown.

0:52:58.160 --> 0:53:02.279
<v Speaker 2>Well, you're reminded me that the creamy yellow one. It

0:53:02.320 --> 0:53:02.960
<v Speaker 2>was kind of good.

0:53:04.280 --> 0:53:07.360
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, but a banana flavored a regular popsicle

0:53:08.320 --> 0:53:09.359
<v Speaker 3>absolutely the worst flaw.

0:53:09.440 --> 0:53:12.720
<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, you're gonna want a red or a purple purple,

0:53:12.800 --> 0:53:16.440
<v Speaker 2>purple delicious grape.

0:53:17.000 --> 0:53:18.040
<v Speaker 3>I can't do a root beer.

0:53:18.760 --> 0:53:23.560
<v Speaker 2>No, I can't stand root beer awful. Beer needs to

0:53:23.560 --> 0:53:27.919
<v Speaker 2>be excised from the community. Root beer flavor. I don't

0:53:27.960 --> 0:53:29.759
<v Speaker 2>care if it's a soda. I don't care if it's

0:53:29.760 --> 0:53:31.560
<v Speaker 2>a popsicle or a candy.

0:53:32.000 --> 0:53:34.600
<v Speaker 3>No, to me, it just tastes like years in boy

0:53:34.640 --> 0:53:38.520
<v Speaker 3>Scouts and there was always a root beer float float awful.

0:53:39.040 --> 0:53:41.840
<v Speaker 2>Anyone else, here's another beer I have? Haven't you like,

0:53:41.920 --> 0:53:44.040
<v Speaker 2>tried to like root beer? Like it's the thing, Like

0:53:44.080 --> 0:53:47.719
<v Speaker 2>maybe I like root beer looks good, maybe I like this,

0:53:48.719 --> 0:53:51.719
<v Speaker 2>and you're like, Nope, no, it's still not going to cut.

0:53:51.920 --> 0:53:54.279
<v Speaker 3>No, it's a it's are that you a lot about

0:53:54.280 --> 0:54:02.239
<v Speaker 3>desserts on this red heads And okay, okay, very good you.

0:54:02.719 --> 0:54:06.120
<v Speaker 2>So I'm really getting overly passionate about these. Okay, sorry,

0:54:06.239 --> 0:54:10.279
<v Speaker 2>go on, all right, stoic On this next one, I'm

0:54:10.280 --> 0:54:11.399
<v Speaker 2>not so impassioned.

0:54:12.000 --> 0:54:14.800
<v Speaker 3>Okay, This third one is from a listener named Susie Gift,

0:54:14.800 --> 0:54:17.319
<v Speaker 3>You're a curse rat tail hairstyle.

0:54:20.320 --> 0:54:23.960
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I might be out of it and too

0:54:24.000 --> 0:54:25.840
<v Speaker 2>old to answer this, but I'm going to say curse.

0:54:27.320 --> 0:54:29.480
<v Speaker 2>Maybe it's come back around and it's cool now. But

0:54:30.960 --> 0:54:34.040
<v Speaker 2>I just think of that as Kurt. I don't know,

0:54:34.719 --> 0:54:35.160
<v Speaker 2>what do you.

0:54:35.080 --> 0:54:37.600
<v Speaker 3>Say, Oh, Rachel, you played the game so well until now.

0:54:37.800 --> 0:54:39.280
<v Speaker 3>Why it's it's a gift.

0:54:39.440 --> 0:54:40.040
<v Speaker 2>It's a gift.

0:54:40.239 --> 0:54:42.400
<v Speaker 3>I don't know that it's ever been in style, but

0:54:42.480 --> 0:54:44.080
<v Speaker 3>it's always been interesting to look at.

0:54:44.200 --> 0:54:48.320
<v Speaker 2>That's true. We all shock says a lot about the wearer.

0:54:48.640 --> 0:54:52.719
<v Speaker 3>Yes, you almost immediately know what's happening in that person's life.

0:54:52.719 --> 0:54:53.600
<v Speaker 3>You see a lot of kids with.

0:54:54.200 --> 0:54:56.560
<v Speaker 2>Just about to say that we're on the same way.

0:54:56.719 --> 0:54:58.920
<v Speaker 2>Like I was gonna say, what I picture. I picture

0:54:58.960 --> 0:55:02.760
<v Speaker 2>a little kid, a little like hey, like a little

0:55:03.040 --> 0:55:04.640
<v Speaker 2>you can't see me right now, but I'm like, hey

0:55:05.440 --> 0:55:09.279
<v Speaker 2>with a little tank top causing trouble completely.

0:55:10.800 --> 0:55:13.320
<v Speaker 3>That's an interesting one because Usually the rat tail child

0:55:13.320 --> 0:55:16.200
<v Speaker 3>doesn't have a rat tail parent, so the parents like, well,

0:55:16.239 --> 0:55:20.600
<v Speaker 3>let's get one on the kid right when you decide

0:55:20.600 --> 0:55:22.000
<v Speaker 3>to start growing your child's rat tag.

0:55:22.040 --> 0:55:24.040
<v Speaker 2>I haven't seen one in a really long time, though,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like, because I live in New York and

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<v Speaker 2>probably we see that's a real thing. It's cheesy, But no,

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't seen a rat I have seen a rat

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<v Speaker 2>tail in a really long time.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you, at least within the last five to six years,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Feel like can see a lot of them. Disney World,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, of course. I bet. I bet if

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<v Speaker 2>we went to disney I haven't been to Disneyland ever.

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<v Speaker 2>I bet if I went to disney World, I could

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<v Speaker 2>spot it would be like a scavenger hunt. I bet

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<v Speaker 2>I could find three rat tails at Disney World.

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<v Speaker 3>Within three hours. I bet like an fcot, you're surrounded

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<v Speaker 3>by rat tails.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I bet so.

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<v Speaker 3>But I love to see them. I support them. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know that I would ever have one myself. It's

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<v Speaker 3>an interesting one because it's really hidden back there, so.

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<v Speaker 2>You can kind of secret personality.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the moment you turn around, you're like, oh, you've

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<v Speaker 3>been interacting with someone with the rat and that I love.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's a gift.

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<v Speaker 2>That's that's true. Okay, but you got two out of three, which.

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<v Speaker 3>Is not bad. Two out of three is not a failure.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want you to feel like a failure in

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<v Speaker 3>this moment.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>You did not fail.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, and you you sort of talked me around to

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<v Speaker 2>the rat hill.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, and I've have converted somebody. Okay. This is the

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<v Speaker 3>final segment of the podcast. It's called I said no emails.

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<v Speaker 3>People write into I said no gifts at gmail dot com.

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<v Speaker 3>People are begging for answers and all these sorts of

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<v Speaker 3>things in their lives, and just out of kind of

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<v Speaker 3>the generosity of my heart, I help you help me

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<v Speaker 3>answer a question? Yeah, okay, this and now this is

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<v Speaker 3>one that we tried reading the live show. And we're

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<v Speaker 3>interrupted artificially by something I thought of.

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<v Speaker 2>Where was the live show?

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<v Speaker 3>It was a Dynasty typewriter. Oh here, yeah, right here

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<v Speaker 3>in LA and we're going to try to do more soon.

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<v Speaker 3>It was very funn oh cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, sorry, but interjection.

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<v Speaker 3>But this one, we've got to get back to the

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<v Speaker 3>question because I stopped reading it at the show. This

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<v Speaker 3>is Deer Bridger on elis an illustrious guest. I hope

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<v Speaker 3>you were all well, the house dry, the backyard mostly tranquil,

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<v Speaker 3>the flowers watered, et cetera. I'm emailing you from the

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<v Speaker 3>Chicago suburbs with a question about a situation I encountered recently.

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<v Speaker 3>I bought a birthday gift for my sister in law

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<v Speaker 3>and scored a great sale on some clothes. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>sure if I could remove the markdown sticker without voiding

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<v Speaker 3>the return, so I left it on. It is now

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<v Speaker 3>several weeks later, and something about it isn't sitting right

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<v Speaker 3>with me. How should I do things next time? I

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<v Speaker 3>obviously think my sister in law deserves full price, but

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<v Speaker 3>at this point in my life, I got a shop

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<v Speaker 3>the sales. What do I do next time? Bridger, I

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<v Speaker 3>hope you were properly of This is just a little

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<v Speaker 3>in between. I hope you were scanned lies by your

0:58:00.560 --> 0:58:03.280
<v Speaker 3>guest's unwanted gift. And guess I can't wait to consume

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<v Speaker 3>whatever media you're promoting. You've got a new listener to

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<v Speaker 3>the already. Thank you so much for taking my letter,

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<v Speaker 3>and have a good day. And that's from bo oh

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<v Speaker 3>interesting that we talked about BO is afraid everything is connected? Right,

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<v Speaker 3>everything is connected?

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<v Speaker 2>Is afraid of mark Down's Okay, So wait, here's what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not getting. Bo left the price tag on the gift. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>so Bo, you can rip the price tag off and

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<v Speaker 2>get like some sort of gift receipt, right right?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean yeah, I'm getting a feeling that BO is

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<v Speaker 3>not familiar with modern retail or both.

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<v Speaker 2>I was thinking maybe Bo is very young.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, like hitched a ride. Well, I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>if on sale.

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<v Speaker 2>Has l No, I'm thinking no, I'm thinking maybe if

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<v Speaker 2>Bo is young and BO doesn't know that, then you

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<v Speaker 2>don't You don't have to leave the actual price tag

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<v Speaker 2>on the clue. That would make sense to me.

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<v Speaker 3>What I'm getting is BO is excusing bad behavior. BO

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<v Speaker 3>knew what he was doing. He knew the sister in

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<v Speaker 3>law would be offended when she saw that he had

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<v Speaker 3>bought her marked down merchandise. And now he's backpedaling, so

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<v Speaker 3>there's no excuse he should have taken it off. This

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<v Speaker 3>is bad behavior.

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<v Speaker 2>But here's one thing. What about when you give a

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<v Speaker 2>gift with the price you could rip off the little

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<v Speaker 2>actual number.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure really BO is after his sister in law

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<v Speaker 3>just trying to stir up family drama.

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<v Speaker 2>Imagine.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you obviously make some good points about gift gifting,

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<v Speaker 3>some very basic concepts, and if BO doesn't know these things,

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<v Speaker 3>then I've got a listener that needs to rethink a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, But so the sister in law never thanked Bo,

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<v Speaker 2>there's no thank you, was worred. He committed a faux

0:59:53.040 --> 1:00:02.320
<v Speaker 2>pas a Bo paw if you will, But uh yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that kind of that kind of sucks, like she should

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<v Speaker 2>have thanked him anyway, even if she thought it was tacky, right,

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<v Speaker 2>because Bo did.

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<v Speaker 3>Get a gift, money was spent.

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<v Speaker 2>Thought it was kind of hard to get clothes for

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<v Speaker 2>people too, because it's hard to match their styles.

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<v Speaker 3>That is another interesting thing.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't know them.

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<v Speaker 3>I would never buy my sister in law clothing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>now we're getting, you know, a portrait of the podcast. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that needs to really be unraveled. Bo is buying discount

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<v Speaker 3>clothing for his sister.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it a scarf? Fine? Was it a dress?

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<v Speaker 3>Was it like a we need to talk, yeah, micro mini,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what is BO dressing his sister in law

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<v Speaker 3>up in.

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<v Speaker 2>Or even maybe it's not even her style, right, but

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<v Speaker 2>his sister in law still should thank him.

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<v Speaker 3>It was something given to her. Yeah, I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>BO should stop giving everything. Bo is a teen, Bo

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<v Speaker 3>maybe a teen with as you're said.

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<v Speaker 2>Bo isn't a teen. Then BO is very insulted right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Bo's freaking out. BO turned it up, turned off the podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe early twenties, maybe early twenties.

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<v Speaker 3>It does seem like they've got to shop the sales, So.

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<v Speaker 2>It's okay to shop the sales.

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<v Speaker 3>I encourage shopping.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't save the price tag on.

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<v Speaker 3>Never pay retail, right, That's what I say. Yeah, especially

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<v Speaker 3>when you're buying sister in law or if you're.

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<v Speaker 2>Buying a sample item, or you should not be paying.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you hear that store that sold me the sample

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<v Speaker 2>size for two dollars off?

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<v Speaker 3>That's so offensive, that's and that's such a random number,

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<v Speaker 3>it really is. It should have been a half.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you well, you'll see this bottle ladies and

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<v Speaker 2>gentlemen and everybody a lot of it. That's the label

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<v Speaker 2>is Oily. Anyway, Sorry, I'm not trying to sway off

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<v Speaker 2>of Bow and Bose gifting issues.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like your main mission on this episode has

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<v Speaker 3>been to shut down everything on Larch month, all of

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<v Speaker 3>these boutinque.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, maybe we can't say the name of it

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<v Speaker 2>because if I'm going to complain this much about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, it's a great store.

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<v Speaker 2>It is a great but I don't want to. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to complain publicly about them and the two dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>They'll beep out their name, but.

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<v Speaker 3>We won't be about the street there on. Bo, go

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<v Speaker 3>to a store with some fragrances, find the tester, get

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<v Speaker 3>a discount, fill it up with water, right and now

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<v Speaker 3>no one knows anything better or rubbing alcohol. Whatever you

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<v Speaker 3>have might be better nearby right in the redhead and bed,

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<v Speaker 3>and the sister in law will go crazy. Bo, don't

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<v Speaker 3>write back in okay. Closing up the email, Rachel, what

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<v Speaker 3>you've brought such beautiful gifts of the podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you. I mean, it's a pleasure.

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<v Speaker 3>I screamed that I will. Of course I will eat

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<v Speaker 3>the chocolate one. The other one's going to be there until,

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<v Speaker 3>like we have another pandemic and the grocery store is out.

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<v Speaker 2>I know I was getting that sense right after I

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<v Speaker 2>bought it too.

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<v Speaker 3>But we challenged ourselves, we branched out and learned that

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<v Speaker 3>we still don't like that type of ice cream, right,

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<v Speaker 3>which is important to know about yourself. Yeah, especially if

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<v Speaker 3>you're standing alone in an ice cream store, you need

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<v Speaker 3>to know. You should be as informed as possible because

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<v Speaker 3>you don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Want a bad You don't want to go wrong, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much for being Thank you. That's such

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<v Speaker 3>a wonderful time. And listener, the podcast is over. We're

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<v Speaker 3>coming to a halt. The audio will end, your life

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<v Speaker 3>will continue you. You're gonna have a very productive day.

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<v Speaker 3>I can feel it. I love you, goodbye. I said

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<v Speaker 3>No Gifts is an exactly right production. It's produced by

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<v Speaker 3>our dear friend Analise Nilson, and it's beautifully mixed by

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<v Speaker 3>Ben Holliday. And we couldn't do it without our guest booker,

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<v Speaker 3>Patrick Kottner. The theme song, of course, could only come

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<v Speaker 3>from a miracle worker, Amy Man. You must follow the

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<v Speaker 3>show on Instagram. At I said no Gifts, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>want to hear any excuses. That's where you get to

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<v Speaker 3>see pictures of all these gorgeous gifts I'm getting. And

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<v Speaker 3>don't you want to seeatures of the gifts?

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<v Speaker 1>But I invited you here thought I made myself perfectly clear.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're a guest to my home. You gotta come

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<v Speaker 1>to me empty, and I said, no guests. Your own

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<v Speaker 1>presences presents enough that I already had too much stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>So how did you dare to surbey me?