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Speaker 1: Well, I invited you here, thought I made myself perfectly clear.

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Speaker 2: But you're a guest to my home.

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Speaker 1: You gotta come to me empty, And I said, no, guest,

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Speaker 1: your presences presents enough. I already had too much stuff,

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Speaker 1: So how did you dare to surbey me?

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Speaker 3: Welcome to, I said, no gifts. I'm Bridgard Wineger. We're

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Speaker 3: in the backyard. I'm still reeling from the live show

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Speaker 3: and kind of the assault that happened there, just the audience,

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Speaker 3: the guests, everyone attacking me. Oh, but you know, it

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Speaker 3: was a nice time, and I hope you enjoyed being

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Speaker 3: there or watching, or third option, listening. I'm still, of course,

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Speaker 3: getting the emails from the gun website, from the bridger

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Speaker 3: I mentioned at the show, I've decided not to unsubscribe

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Speaker 3: because I've realized that really lets me keep an eye

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Speaker 3: on this person's purchases. So should he, you know, start

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Speaker 3: making alarming choices, I can alert his family the proper authorities.

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Speaker 3: So watch out that Bridger. I think we should get

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Speaker 3: into the podcast. I adore today's guest. It's Rachel Dretch. Hi, Rachel,

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Speaker 3: welcome to. I send no gifts.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: I'm so happy to have you here.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. It's so lovely here, listeners. I'm sure you've

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Speaker 2: heard that before, listeners. But I'm here to.

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Speaker 3: Concur you're here just for a brief time, so I

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Speaker 3: feel like I'm ruining your trip.

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Speaker 2: No, actually I had nothing going on today's you've provided

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Speaker 3: Wonderful What you do in LA when you don't have

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Speaker 2: Well, I haven't been here for a while. Sometimes I

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Speaker 2: staring into space. But I'm here on a little job.

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Speaker 2: So I was doing that yesterday in the day before Days,

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Speaker 2: my first free day. Oh so I was just walking

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Speaker 3: And the weather is not quite as as it was,

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Speaker 3: for me. Yes, there's still I thought school was out,

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Speaker 2: Maybe there's a day camp happening.

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Speaker 3: There may be a day camp or an child training

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Speaker 3: or yeah something. I don't know what they do at

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Speaker 3: Do you remember the first time we met.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we met at a swanky ski lodge in Park City, Utah.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that was must have been such an

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Speaker 2: No, because okay, first of all, I knew your name

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Speaker 2: because I followed you on Twitter, which it was then

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Speaker 2: I loved all of your quips and comments since I

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh my gosh, I love you. One

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Speaker 3: I need to correct the history a little bit here,

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Speaker 3: because Jim was with.

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Speaker 2: Me right and I didn't know him yet.

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Speaker 3: You didn't know him, but we saw we were just

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Speaker 3: we had been on a drive. It was the winter time.

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Speaker 3: We had been driving, and I don't know why we stopped.

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Speaker 3: I probably had to pee, because that's every twenty hotel. Look,

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Speaker 2: Like the swankiest hotel. I don't want people to make

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Speaker 2: I usually roll like this, but this was my once

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Speaker 2: That's what it's like.

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Speaker 3: Yes, but I guess we must have stopped for me

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Speaker 3: I was with Jim. I was working on Commissimid at

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, now I remember, and we followed each other

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Speaker 2: Okay, but I was very excited to meet you.

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Speaker 3: Were you skiing?

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Speaker 2: I mean I never quite picked up the language thing,

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Speaker 2: I'm okay. I don't go down the black diamonds.

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Speaker 3: But you're going up to everything. What's the closest of

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Speaker 3: Oh right, the whole history.

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Speaker 2: You know, he's he's really into basketball. He's not that sweet. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: No? No, I didn't. I'm a horrible athlete.

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Speaker 2: Actually, I did the ancestry DNA thing, and now they

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Speaker 2: All my friends from growing up are really good athletes,

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Speaker 3: People of doing that in their personal time, they just

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Speaker 3: So vacation no no, no running.

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Speaker 3: That early morning exercise on vacation all into that. That's

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Speaker 3: So what about Cilantro? Do you like Selan?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know how they do it. I don't

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Speaker 3: This stuff dancing.

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Speaker 2: You're kind of interested in it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you do like dancing? I do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I'm not saying I'm good at it, but I

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Speaker 3: How often are you're dancing?

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Speaker 2: Not? Not very often? Get events.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, that's me when I'm at a wedding time

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Speaker 2: I know, not very often.

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Speaker 3: When was the last time we were dancing?

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Speaker 2: I just went to my college reunion, was dancing there.

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Speaker 2: We have the silent disco. Have you ever done that?

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Speaker 3: I actually did recently.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really fun.

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Speaker 3: It's a very it's an interesting experience.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you think it's gonna not be connected, but it

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Speaker 2: is because everyone's like, go to like there's three channels

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Speaker 3: Were they different?

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Speaker 2: Like no, they're not even different genres. I don't know why.

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Speaker 3: No, I just feel like, I guess I'm only used

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Speaker 3: what do you do?

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Speaker 3: Plymouth, Plymouth rockmoth Rock.

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Speaker 2: Well, I had to put it in the freezer. And

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Speaker 3: I feel like you're gonna give me a dead mouse.

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00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:46,960
Speaker 3: That would be the amount of explaining that.

443
00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:50,080
Speaker 2: Funny thing that happened about this first. This is the

444
00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:55,160
Speaker 2: main gift. Okay, I'm gonna but it needs it needs explanation.

445
00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:59,239
Speaker 2: Wants to open it now.

446
00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:02,160
Speaker 3: That's an old little white bag spic cold.

447
00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:06,960
Speaker 2: It's a fragrance of some sort. It's almost like I

448
00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:10,040
Speaker 2: can't know if it's a room spray, a body spray.

449
00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:11,440
Speaker 2: I mean, tell us what it's called.

450
00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:17,159
Speaker 3: Yes, fragrance library, Yes, fragrance library. And the name of

451
00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:19,399
Speaker 3: the fragrance is Redhead and Bed.

452
00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:24,240
Speaker 2: Yes, red Head and Bed. Now let me explain a

453
00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:28,239
Speaker 2: few things. One is, I remember these fragrances from like

454
00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:29,800
Speaker 2: I don't know, they've been around a while, and they

455
00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:32,200
Speaker 2: really cool. Like the one I really like is tomato.

456
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:33,800
Speaker 2: It's most just like a tomato plant.

457
00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:36,440
Speaker 3: Oh so it's more like a jelly belly situation, I think.

458
00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:38,679
Speaker 2: So. Yeah, they have all these They have like a

459
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,560
Speaker 2: delicious apple, it's most just like a golden delicious. They

460
00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:44,119
Speaker 2: have sugar cookie. I don't really know what people use

461
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,080
Speaker 2: these works. But then I was like, looking through, I

462
00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:48,159
Speaker 2: was gonna get your tomato, right, But then I was

463
00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:50,359
Speaker 2: I was kind of random, and then my eye falls

464
00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:54,360
Speaker 2: upon red Head and Bed. But the thing is that

465
00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:56,520
Speaker 2: that was the tester because they didn't have any in

466
00:21:56,560 --> 00:22:00,480
Speaker 2: the back. Yeah, so it's a little greasy and it

467
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:03,480
Speaker 2: looks old and it was a little bit gone from

468
00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 2: it because it was a tester, and like, you have

469
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:07,640
Speaker 2: to have one in the back. This is the whole

470
00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:10,120
Speaker 2: joke to give.

471
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,640
Speaker 3: This to you. Unbelievable. That's the thing.

472
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 2: They charged me. They took off two bucks and I

473
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:22,119
Speaker 2: was like two bucks. This should be at least half price,

474
00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:24,399
Speaker 2: or give me give the whole thing to me for

475
00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:27,880
Speaker 2: five bucks, and they were like, well it's still pretty full,

476
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:31,040
Speaker 2: and I was like, and I'm thinking like yeah, but

477
00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:33,760
Speaker 2: it doesn't look gift worthy. But I never like to

478
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:37,160
Speaker 2: make a scene or like push back on a salesperson

479
00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 2: because I'm always just like okay, because I just don't

480
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,359
Speaker 2: want to be that person. So I said, okay, so

481
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:44,760
Speaker 2: that's my maximis of why you have a greasy bottle

482
00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:46,680
Speaker 2: of Redhead and Bed.

483
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:49,520
Speaker 3: Okay, I want to smell this let's see.

484
00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:54,600
Speaker 2: Interesting, it doesn't even smell that good. I'm gonna I

485
00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,160
Speaker 2: don't know what it's trying for.

486
00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:58,960
Speaker 3: A very like chemical paint.

487
00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:01,080
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, it's smells very chemical.

488
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:04,760
Speaker 3: Right. This is insulting to me because it.

489
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:08,040
Speaker 2: Was in the freezer. But it doesn't smell very.

490
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:10,040
Speaker 3: Good there my hand.

491
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 2: I know you can throw this away by the way,

492
00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 2: if you want, do you just post photos of Oh?

493
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, course of course it doesn't.

494
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:20,560
Speaker 2: Like, I don't know what I was expecting a redhead

495
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 2: and bed to.

496
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:22,200
Speaker 3: Smell like paint thinner.

497
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:26,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's there's no comparison.

498
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:28,119
Speaker 3: Smell, right, I couldn't tell you what notes.

499
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:31,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no there's no notes except I was gonna

500
00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 2: say chemical too. I can't believe that's the word.

501
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,119
Speaker 3: Do you use? Yeah? And then like, I mean, now

502
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:38,440
Speaker 3: that I've touched the bottle, frozen bottle, a frozen bottle, there,

503
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:41,520
Speaker 3: there's a smell on my hand. But we can't tell

504
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:43,719
Speaker 3: if that's from this or other testers who have been

505
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:44,359
Speaker 3: spraying out.

506
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 2: It's from that, because the other ones really smell like

507
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:50,359
Speaker 2: very specifically. Okay, I mean there was one called leather,

508
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:51,919
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, that'd be kind of funny,

509
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 2: but who wants that smell?

510
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 3: This is the ideal. This is the most mystifying product

511
00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:57,440
Speaker 3: I've ever seen.

512
00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:59,920
Speaker 2: I don't I almost want to look it up online

513
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:01,360
Speaker 2: and see what it's trying for.

514
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, let me, I'm actually gonna red head in bed.

515
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:06,400
Speaker 3: Actually on a least, would you google that and see

516
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 3: what's happening? I mean, anyone in bed? I mean that's

517
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:10,120
Speaker 3: just sweat.

518
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:14,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, you would expect me a little more musky. Yeah,

519
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 2: I use the word.

520
00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 3: Or like sheets, even like sheets like a clean linen. Yes, right,

521
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:22,639
Speaker 3: this I don't.

522
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:27,120
Speaker 2: Know what it's met exactly. So because I didn't really

523
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:28,800
Speaker 2: like this smell, and I thought, you're not gonna like

524
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:32,160
Speaker 2: this either. This is just a surely a gag gift

525
00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 2: to use the redhead thing. So then I got you

526
00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 2: just a gift so you wouldn't feel bad in here.

527
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 3: Should we get into this, I mean, we'll keep talking.

528
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:44,240
Speaker 2: About I'm running the show, you run the show.

529
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 3: You've got the gifts, right, but I.

530
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 2: Had to get you like a makeup gift for this.

531
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:51,880
Speaker 3: Let's take out the makeup gift and general.

532
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:56,359
Speaker 2: If you want to I understand this.

533
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,480
Speaker 3: I'm going to reach in here, and this is the

534
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 3: thing I need to do frozen.

535
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,239
Speaker 2: Yes, I mean that's just so.

536
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:04,679
Speaker 3: It's actually ice two.

537
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:09,159
Speaker 2: Nice brandy, because I was like, is he a chocolate

538
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:11,919
Speaker 2: I'm a chocolate person, but I am too well. Jimmy

539
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 2: text me that back after. I also got a wild

540
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:17,640
Speaker 2: lavender and chocolate.

541
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 3: This feels like it might be a good combination of flavors.

542
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:21,440
Speaker 3: Maybe should I go get some spoons?

543
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:24,640
Speaker 2: That's up to you, right, I can't say I would

544
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:27,639
Speaker 2: say no to the chocolate. This is sometimes the people

545
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:29,920
Speaker 2: bring gifts that they also get to partake in.

546
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, of course, of course. And I'm gonna spray

547
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:35,400
Speaker 3: you in the face with the st on at least

548
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 3: while I'm gone. Have you discovered what it smells like?

549
00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 3: I have?

550
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 4: So I just want to read this whole thing. Oh

551
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 4: it just really delights me.

552
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 2: Okay.

553
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 4: Demeter redhead and bed by Demeter Perfume. If you want

554
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 4: to attract compliments from your friend's family or even total strangers,

555
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 4: splash on a little Demeter, the ultra feminine fragrance for

556
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 4: women created by Demeter. The citrus undertones of this classic

557
00:25:56,000 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 4: fragrance capture notes of mango, guava, passion fruit, orange, liqueur,

558
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 4: and lemon juice to bring you a unique blend of

559
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 4: exotic aromas, lasts for hours and won't fade away during

560
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 4: a long day, strenuous workout at the gym, or night

561
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 4: spent dancing at your favorite club.

562
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:17,680
Speaker 3: Okay, here we go.

563
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 2: Wait, I have a question that was specifically about Redhead

564
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 2: and bed Yeah, red Demeter, Redhead. It was one smell

565
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:25,120
Speaker 2: that you said that I could kind of wait, will

566
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:26,240
Speaker 2: you list the fruits again?

567
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 4: Because one it's got mango, guava, passion fruit, and orange

568
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:33,200
Speaker 4: orange liqueur and lemon juice.

569
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 3: That makes sense because of the the alcohol element.

570
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 2: There's an orange thing.

571
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 3: And you said, like once I told that it's a

572
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:42,400
Speaker 3: little starbursty.

573
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, what if this was sitting out for like no,

574
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 2: but this this sold out. I mean everyone wants Maybe

575
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:52,919
Speaker 2: a lot of people bought it for their red head friends.

576
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 2: I bet that's why.

577
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 4: It is also sold out on this website at perfume

578
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 4: dot com.

579
00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:00,880
Speaker 2: Bet everybody's buying it for the redheads, and then everyone's

580
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 2: disappointed when they smell it. Sorry, demeato, because I love

581
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:06,680
Speaker 2: the tomato one. It smells like a tomato plant, a

582
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:09,000
Speaker 2: tomato plant. No where, I just smell it in a store,

583
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:12,880
Speaker 2: and I would never buy that. No, but it smells

584
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:14,959
Speaker 2: just like it's like when you're little, you sell a tomato,

585
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:16,880
Speaker 2: right right, that's what it takes me back.

586
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 3: Go get spoons on the bones.

587
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 2: Okay. Do people bring you food gifts a lot? Because

588
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 2: they don't they don't have an idea.

589
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 3: I love when they do. It gets to go away.

590
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:44,199
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's what I was thinking, like otherwise you

591
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 2: have to keep a lot of things.

592
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 3: Yes, I love a food thing, even if it's a

593
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 3: gross food thing.

594
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 2: Oh that's a good idea, knowing that I.

595
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 3: Can put it in my stomach and grosser. Okay, let's

596
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 3: all try this chocolate. See how we feel it. This

597
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 3: is Jenny's brand ice cream. I mean it's pretty good.

598
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 3: It's wonderful chocolate. It's a very tasty flavor.

599
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:12,400
Speaker 2: Yeah that's true.

600
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:16,199
Speaker 3: Now, honalis, how do you feel about it? Have you

601
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:17,120
Speaker 3: even tried it?

602
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 4: Delicious?

603
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 3: Delicious? Yeah, this is a hard one to screw up,

604
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 3: that's true. Now I'm concerned about getting this wild berry

605
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 3: into lavender.

606
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 2: It just gets I know, I don't care. Do you

607
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 2: care about?

608
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:29,480
Speaker 3: Okay, if you're good with it?

609
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 2: What is a gross food item you received.

610
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 3: A gross food item. Let's see. Naomik Pargan gave me

611
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 3: vanilla almond gummy bears hm and they tasted like teeth.

612
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 3: Oh wow, they were Oh thank you onlie so sweetly

613
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 3: getting me some of this wild berry lavender ice cream.

614
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 3: Now I love a wild berry, but the lavender is

615
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:58,040
Speaker 3: where it may be a bridge too far.

616
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 2: You know what. You can't really taste my lavender up.

617
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 3: Thank you, so it might just be uh it.

618
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 2: Tastes like Redhead and Bed. Now I'm just kidding. I'm

619
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 2: seeing some common notes here. When it describes it, it

620
00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:16,240
Speaker 2: says a pop of sweet orange, just like that Redhead

621
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 2: and Bed.

622
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:18,960
Speaker 3: I wonder if orange is just an easy flavor to get,

623
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:21,239
Speaker 3: so they just put it in everything and that can

624
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 3: be identified by the user, and then everything else can

625
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 3: be a lie. Okay, how do you feel about this

626
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 3: wild bear?

627
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 2: I'm not really I'm not really a fruit ice cream person. Yeah,

628
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 2: it's I got it in case you were, I appreciate you. Yeah.

629
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, first of all, does anyone want more ice cream?

630
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 2: Right now?

631
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:44,280
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm gonna put in the freezer so it's not soup.

632
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 3: This has been a very active episode. I feel like

633
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:56,959
Speaker 3: I'm running a little story here.

634
00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:58,600
Speaker 2: I know it made you work for your gifts.

635
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 3: It's so delicious, the wild berry.

636
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 2: No, I mean I would always use my dessert points

637
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 2: on a I don't mean points like a but my

638
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 2: dessert merits on a chocolate. Yeah, that kind of thing.

639
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, when I'm going out for a treat, I just

640
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 3: I'm not ready to experiment exactly good, exactly what I

641
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 3: want good point. I might try a sample, Yeah, I would.

642
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 3: I don't think I would even bother being like, oh,

643
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 3: you give me the wild berry laughing.

644
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 2: No, I know me neither, but I should have assumed

645
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 2: a chocolate thing on you. But anyway, it's.

646
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 3: Weird when you meet someone who isn't into chocolate.

647
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 2: I know, I'm suspicious.

648
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, he was like, what has happened?

649
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 2: Actually I just spit Okay, no, but I actually never

650
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 2: thought it was more. But when someone says they don't

651
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 2: like chocolate, they drop in.

652
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 3: My esteem completely. There's immediate judgment. Yes, it feels like

653
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 3: a choice. It feels like they've decided they don't like.

654
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 2: Feels like something's wrong with.

655
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's just such a it was like such

656
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 3: a universal flavor. Yeah, And you rarely run into someone

657
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 3: who picks a different flavor over a chocolate flavor. But

658
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 3: maybe they're better than us.

659
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 2: Maybe we just don't know it.

660
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 3: Maybe I do feel like I have pretty bass taste.

661
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 3: I like a peanut butter. I just learned that Italians

662
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 3: don't like peanut butter. Oh really they hate it.

663
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 2: How did you learn that?

664
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 3: Another guest on this podcast apparently Italians hiss a peanut butter.

665
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 3: They think it's they really hate that flavor. It's like

666
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 3: cats and whatever cat's hiss att.

667
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 2: I don't know.

668
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 3: Do you have a favorite ice cream place you go to?

669
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, okay, Well, being from Massachusetts, oh my god,

670
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 2: of course you know this. But Massachusetts is like, for

671
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 2: some reason, ice cream fanatic. So I like anywhere with

672
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 2: you know, homemade ice cream. So there's a lot of

673
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 2: places on Cape Cod that I like, Oh okay and whatever.

674
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 2: Just growing up, I don't know there was ice cream everywhere.

675
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 2: I'm boring myself again, but I.

676
00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 3: Want to hear more.

677
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 2: Marvel that other places don't have as much ice cream

678
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 2: as Massachusetts.

679
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 3: Right. I went to a big ice cream place in Massachusetts.

680
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 3: It's almost like a weird little theme park. It's like

681
00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 3: Kimball Kimball Farm Kimble Farms. Yes, I've been there once

682
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 3: and I remember being dazzled by it.

683
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 2: Very good.

684
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 3: They also had like go carts. I wasn't entirely sure

685
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 3: what the operation was, but I must have started.

686
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 2: With ice And what were you doing there?

687
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 3: I was visiting friends living in Boston, okay, and I

688
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 3: must have read about it.

689
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 2: I didn't know if you were going to be like

690
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 2: I was writing on a blah blah blah.

691
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 3: Okay on an ice cream theme parks. Yeah, exactly, but yeah,

692
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 3: I remember being very good ice cream, but also being

693
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 3: confused by people in Massachusetts call it a milk, but

694
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 3: I know as a milksh frap, yeah, which it makes

695
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:55,960
Speaker 3: no sense about me.

696
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 2: That's a I didn't even know that was a Massachusetts word.

697
00:32:58,960 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 3: But they still have a milk.

698
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's not it's the same. It's the same thing.

699
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 2: A milkshake is a frap.

700
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, But in Massachusetts, if you order milkshake, isn't it

701
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 3: like a thick thing that you can't drink?

702
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: Yeah?

703
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 2: Probably?

704
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 3: And then a frap is like, because I like to

705
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 3: drink the ice cream any it as easy as possible

706
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 3: to consum.

707
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 2: I don't know. I thought they were the same. But

708
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 2: I don't know.

709
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:21,280
Speaker 3: Ye I remember being a little thrown and frap feels

710
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 3: like such a to do about the dessert frap. Until

711
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 3: I had learned that about Massachusetts, I thought it was

712
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 3: a word basically that Starbucks had invented. But I guess

713
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 3: that's a frapp of Chino, which it's all a little confused.

714
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 3: There's suspicious, there's something going on, something going on. But

715
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 3: you like a cape Caught ice cream? Yea, Ultimately that's good.

716
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 2: To Cape Cod, cape Cod and ski.

717
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 3: Yes, we're trying to build a character, Yes, Knob Rachel.

718
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 2: Yes, ice cream snob.

719
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,800
Speaker 3: Utah is very ice cream focused too. It is Utah,

720
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 3: I mean because most people don't drink or do anything

721
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:10,879
Speaker 3: like that. So like, the entertainment options.

722
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 2: Are more fairly from okay, so ice.

723
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 3: Cream jello, going to the movies, okay, okay. So I

724
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 3: feel like I've had some pretty good ice cream. I

725
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 3: don't know, but now we've got like places like Jenny's,

726
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:24,440
Speaker 3: which it's literally like forty dollars for an ice cream cone.

727
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 2: Oh you know what makes me really sad when you

728
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 2: go to get an ice cream cone and it's like

729
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 2: a tiny little golf ball and it makes you It's

730
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:33,920
Speaker 2: like I'm not kidding, it like breaks my heart, Like

731
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:39,840
Speaker 2: when they hand you the tiny gulf. I'm like, now

732
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:41,600
Speaker 2: I might make you cut this because it makes me

733
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 2: sound super pathetic. But one time I was in La,

734
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 2: Like when I'm in La, like I'm not at home, right,

735
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 2: so I'm like it can get a little lonely sometimes.

736
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:52,440
Speaker 2: So I'm staying in this hotel and so this is

737
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 2: the stupidest story. But so I decide like, isn't it

738
00:34:57,080 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 2: pretty rare? Like you go get an ice cream by yourself,

739
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 2: Like that alone is like a freaking sand that's sad.

740
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 2: That's a sad activity, right, Like, but ice cream is social,

741
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:12,400
Speaker 2: like you're going out with a group with your kid whatever.

742
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:16,760
Speaker 2: But I'm like, I'm like, I'm gonna go down the street,

743
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 2: and because I deserve it, I'm sad. So anyway, like

744
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:23,879
Speaker 2: go down to this ice cream place. I think it's

745
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:29,240
Speaker 2: called Sultan's Straw. And if a free coupon should arrive

746
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 2: after this story, I'm not gonna be sad about. But anyway,

747
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 2: so so songs John, which is like it's kind of

748
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:39,239
Speaker 2: like high I've never been, but I got like really

749
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:44,320
Speaker 2: good ratings because I looked it up afterwards to a

750
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:47,240
Speaker 2: horrible yelper revealing this about myself.

751
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 3: Now, But so we're not there's no way, I'm.

752
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 2: So I walk down the hill to the Sultan's John, okay,

753
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 2: and I ordered my sad ice cream and it arrives

754
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 2: and she hands it over and it was the smallest

755
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 2: ice cream scoop you've ever seen in your life. Okay,

756
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 2: It like my heart sank. Okay. So it was so

757
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 2: small that, like I realized, if I'd been with someone else,

758
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:16,279
Speaker 2: I would have had the nerve to be like, well

759
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 2: that's it, like I would have said so. But because

760
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:21,840
Speaker 2: I was by myself, I just took it like a

761
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:25,399
Speaker 2: sad ziggy characters and I just took the ice cream

762
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:31,319
Speaker 2: and I was like visibly shaken, so that I'm I'm

763
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 2: walking back up to my hotel and myself like I'm

764
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:37,400
Speaker 2: not kidding. It was like done in three bites. The

765
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 2: experience lasted like forty seconds, and then I walked back

766
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 2: to my door, and then I had this This is

767
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 2: where the story gets. It's even more embarrassed, so that

768
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 2: I'm like maybe they maybe they're really no, let make

769
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 2: make me small portions. So I look at the on

770
00:36:57,520 --> 00:37:00,759
Speaker 2: Yo right by the way I'm walking, gonna tell the

771
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 2: ice cream is long gone. After like ten steps of

772
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 2: day of walking, I'm already looking at and I look

773
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 2: up thinking I'm gonna see the portions are really small.

774
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 2: But the reviews it says that they're huge, and the

775
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:20,719
Speaker 2: review this, it's like, oh my gosh, I'm small. It's

776
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 2: like a double large at this place.

777
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 3: That's something.

778
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 2: Then I find out like what it was the exception,

779
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 2: what happened? Like everyone's talking about large the scoops, and

780
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 2: I felt like, oh my god. Anyway, it was like

781
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:36,880
Speaker 2: I'm still obviously mad about it.

782
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 3: It was like four years owes you.

783
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 2: You owe me like a double scoop for free, a

784
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:46,480
Speaker 2: full box, because not only did you rip me off,

785
00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:50,320
Speaker 2: but also you created an emotional experience that I'm still

786
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:55,839
Speaker 2: living four years later on a podcast over an ice

787
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:57,319
Speaker 2: cream transaction.

788
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 5: So anyway, that is my embarrassing pathos Layden, Oh that

789
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 5: to me, I.

790
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:11,319
Speaker 2: Feel I feel like I got I got it out.

791
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 2: That was a good started of that feeling fireworks, emotional

792
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 2: emotional virus.

793
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 3: No, at that moment, I empathize with you so much.

794
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 3: In the moment of them handing you the small and

795
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 3: you're alone. There's nothing you can do. You like some

796
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 3: more and think these teenagers like, oh you what are

797
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:30,360
Speaker 3: you a page?

798
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 2: I cannot tell you I saw this thing? Was it

799
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 2: like barely even like surfaced over the colne It was.

800
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 2: It was like the smallest ice cream ever. So anyway,

801
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 2: whenever they hand you like, you know.

802
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:48,319
Speaker 3: Well, while you were telling you storys like because I've

803
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 3: always had and this is this is not an advertisement

804
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 3: for Salton Straw, but they've always given me a normal

805
00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 3: scoop of ice cream. But Jenny's I've had some of

806
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 3: these situations.

807
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:58,880
Speaker 2: Not always I've never been to Jenny's before.

808
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 3: Delicious ice cream off, but occasionally a little sweet for me.

809
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 2: But go on a sewer, Okay, sorry, go on, I

810
00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 2: probably can't back.

811
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:10,920
Speaker 3: I wasn't going to say anything, but you gave it

812
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 3: to me. It is a little sweet.

813
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 2: Do you think it needs a little like you need

814
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 2: a break? Yeah, it needs to kick a little at sugar.

815
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 3: Yes, or like a piece of dark chocolate in there

816
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:24,360
Speaker 3: saying yeah, my tolerance for sweetness has gone way down.

817
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 3: The desserts I'm eating are frequently basically charcoal.

818
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 2: I should have got you the salted kermel that was

819
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 2: the ice.

820
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 3: Cream needs that sort of thing. I'm dumping salt on

821
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 3: chocolate ice cream at this point.

822
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 2: Delicious, Okay, okay, sorry.

823
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 3: But salt and straw. They this. Whoever was in charge

824
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 3: of your ice cream cone dropped the ball, they did.

825
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 3: I hope the company is looking into that transaction right now.

826
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:52,359
Speaker 3: Going through their records.

827
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:59,240
Speaker 2: Four years ago, I bet location hes need to roll

828
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 2: some straw West Hollywood.

829
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:05,279
Speaker 3: If they don't know about that transaction, then ancestry dot

830
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 3: com does. Wow, that's it. But I am going to

831
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 3: stand up and say you should be anyone should be

832
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:14,800
Speaker 3: able to go get an ice cream alone.

833
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 2: That's true.

834
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:17,759
Speaker 3: It's just something that I support you.

835
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 2: I don't do that often, and I learned. I learned

836
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:24,840
Speaker 2: my love. There's something like sad about it. I don't know,

837
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 2: that's just me judging me. Well, it is a situation.

838
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:30,359
Speaker 2: You're normally with social and you should be socially right.

839
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 2: I'll go to a restaurant in myself. I'm like another town, whatever,

840
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 2: go to a movie, mom. I don't. I don't have

841
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:37,440
Speaker 2: that thing. But something about buying an ice cream com

842
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 2: by yourself.

843
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 3: I think it's because it's unnecessary.

844
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:42,320
Speaker 2: It's something about it. It's like I deserve a treat

845
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:45,759
Speaker 2: it like something like something like feels like ooky about it,

846
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 2: Like I'm gonna treat myself to what ice cream? Colm?

847
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:51,960
Speaker 2: But you are.

848
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:55,120
Speaker 3: I feel like you're a hero in that situation. Everyone's

849
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:56,919
Speaker 3: saying that person's been there.

850
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm helping people by telling this story.

851
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:04,799
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm proud about going to sweet places alone. Ultimately,

852
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 3: the everyone will thank you.

853
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:09,800
Speaker 2: Everyone probably can relate to the small cone sadness.

854
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's such a ripoff. You shouldn't You

855
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 3: should be able to enjoy an ice cream cone for

856
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:19,080
Speaker 3: at least ten minutes. I really take my time.

857
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 2: I revealed that about myself. Really, the Barbara Walters of

858
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:24,840
Speaker 2: the podcast.

859
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:27,799
Speaker 3: I get the darkest things out of people do a

860
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 3: lot of that's gonna have to be beeped out. That

861
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:34,920
Speaker 3: was a horrible story. No, I appreciate you telling that.

862
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:37,280
Speaker 3: And eating alone is a different thing.

863
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 2: I guess, because sometimes you're just like you got to

864
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 2: eat on the road whatever.

865
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 3: Right, and I'll have a book or whatever. I'm like, yeah,

866
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 3: I'm eating dinner, leave me alone.

867
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 2: Let's face it. The book is just there to let

868
00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 2: people know you're okay with this.

869
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 3: Just blank pack.

870
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 2: It's a mean time I treat myself, and this is

871
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 2: my mean time. This is my reading time.

872
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:02,399
Speaker 3: I was told to do this by the artist's way.

873
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 2: Yes, oh my god.

874
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:07,040
Speaker 3: I just want everyone to always assume I'm doing the artists'

875
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 3: wayes and movies, I actually think everyone should go to alone. Yeah,

876
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 3: because I.

877
00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 2: Don't mind that, although I must admit I don't really

878
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 2: go to movies anyway.

879
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 3: I don't done with the movies.

880
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 2: Well no, I mean like I watched them at home

881
00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 2: or it's been a while since I've gone to either.

882
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 2: I feel bad about.

883
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 3: That contributing to Hollywood's mind.

884
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I need the movies to keep going, and

885
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:28,560
Speaker 2: I've sort of missed that experience.

886
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 3: Well, once you get into the rhythm of not going,

887
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:34,440
Speaker 3: it's hard to break out of that. I'm currently in

888
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:36,879
Speaker 3: a lull. You just have to force yourself one time

889
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 3: and then you're back into the movies, and then there's

890
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:41,360
Speaker 3: a drought of good ones and then you're back into it.

891
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 2: But I have memories of when I lived in Chicago,

892
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 2: Like there were all these little art movie houses and

893
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 2: remember like you'd find that indie movie and like, let's

894
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 2: go see this on Friday.

895
00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:52,800
Speaker 3: Night, like that was something cool and I felt like

896
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 3: it like you had really like found something and you

897
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:57,800
Speaker 3: love doing the work to enjoy this.

898
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, and you can't be distracted.

899
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 3: Right, And it was a limited time to see it.

900
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:03,200
Speaker 3: You weren't going to be able to just see it

901
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:08,280
Speaker 3: in the billion choices of jah right. Yeah, it feels

902
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:10,799
Speaker 3: like that's gone away. So many things have gone away.

903
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:13,120
Speaker 2: Turn you just take a sad turn.

904
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:14,799
Speaker 3: Well, this podcast is a roller.

905
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:18,440
Speaker 2: I'm feeling so many emotions.

906
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:21,880
Speaker 3: But I yeah, I love going to And this is

907
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 3: a trick I do at the movies now is if

908
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 3: the movie's three hours long, I only go to an

909
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:27,799
Speaker 3: hour and a half of it. And this gives you

910
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:29,760
Speaker 3: a new level of freedom with the movies.

911
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:34,359
Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, what movie are we doing? This

912
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:34,799
Speaker 2: is real.

913
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 3: This has happened several times, like on purpose, on purpose.

914
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 3: It's my new philosophy. It feels incredible. I've talked about

915
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:43,320
Speaker 3: on this podcast a few times.

916
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:45,359
Speaker 2: But well, give me an example of a three hour movie.

917
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 3: Avatar, Oh God, hour and a half in I thought,

918
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:51,399
Speaker 3: I know everything I need to know about this movie.

919
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:54,319
Speaker 3: I can go home. I've experienced whatever this is my

920
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 3: apologies to Jim Cameron and A Submarine number two, John

921
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:01,400
Speaker 3: Wick four, which I enjoy's seen any of those, but

922
00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 3: it's literally three hours of fighting, and so ever, an

923
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:06,799
Speaker 3: hour and a half of fighting, I thought, I've seen

924
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,800
Speaker 3: enough people get thrown downstairs. I could probably go home. Okay.

925
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 3: Bo Is Afraid, which is the ari Astra movie with

926
00:44:15,600 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 3: Joaquin Phoenix, which I enjoyed enough. Bo Is Afraid never

927
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 3: even heard of it. I enjoyed enough, But it was

928
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:25,359
Speaker 3: just three hours. I couldn't do it. I can't sit

929
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:28,080
Speaker 3: there that long. Yeah, so I went home. And when

930
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 3: you leave an hour and a half in, it's like

931
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 3: you broke out of jail. Even if you're enjoying the movie. Wow,

932
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:35,240
Speaker 3: you can go around the mall and look at stores.

933
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:37,680
Speaker 3: Everyone assumes you're still trapped in the theater. But no,

934
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:39,719
Speaker 3: if this is your secret hour and a half that

935
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:41,320
Speaker 3: you can kind of just live your life.

936
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 2: I have to say, like, if I see three hours

937
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:45,399
Speaker 2: on a movie, I don't really watch it.

938
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:47,240
Speaker 3: Oh you mean zoning out?

939
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 2: I don't. Okay, So I don't make myself watch Oscar

940
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:50,840
Speaker 2: movies anymore.

941
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 3: That's good for you.

942
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 2: That's the gift I've given to myself.

943
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:54,359
Speaker 3: What an amazing life.

944
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 2: I mean, what I mean is like back in the day,

945
00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:00,360
Speaker 2: I'd try to see everything. I'm not I'm not a

946
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 2: voter or anything. I don't mean that. I just mean

947
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 2: as a civilian that I used to like try to

948
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:07,359
Speaker 2: make myself or if it was like the Action Hero

949
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:09,799
Speaker 2: movie that everyone's saying I goes, But like then I

950
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:11,720
Speaker 2: was like, wait a minute, I don't like these movies.

951
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 2: I don't like Action Hero. I will not see war

952
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:18,360
Speaker 2: movies because they make me too bummed out and like

953
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 2: heavy dramas, I just don't like it. So I've given

954
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 2: myself a pass, so I don't see any.

955
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 3: Of those that's really taking ownership.

956
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:28,359
Speaker 2: Sorry for not supporting Hollywood in that way, But I

957
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 2: like comedies.

958
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 3: You're watching comedies.

959
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:30,760
Speaker 2: I'm watching comedy.

960
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 3: You're watching light Fair, and you're enjoying yourself. You're not

961
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,920
Speaker 3: subjecting yourself exactly. Yeah, I'm still very much in a

962
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:39,400
Speaker 3: wanting to be part of like to be able to

963
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 3: comment for two minutes during dinner.

964
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 2: That's a good point, but I can't comment on a

965
00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:45,879
Speaker 2: lot of those kind of things.

966
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're basically silent at every dinner at this point.

967
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:52,319
Speaker 3: People are saying stop about the movie.

968
00:45:52,680 --> 00:46:05,880
Speaker 2: That's what I bring up. You guys heard of Sultan Straw? Okay, sorry, no,

969
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 2: I think needs to be I didn't mean to go

970
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 2: back on last.

971
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 3: I've got that's probably the leading company right now, and

972
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:15,359
Speaker 3: somebody's got to take him down a pack.

973
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:18,399
Speaker 2: These companies need to know didn't mean to go back

974
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:21,479
Speaker 2: to you. They're kind of call back ladies in Jenero.

975
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:27,760
Speaker 2: That's a comedy technique. Okay, sorry, sorry, go ahead about

976
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:31,440
Speaker 2: saving Private Ryan. Okay, so you love Tom Hanks is

977
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:32,840
Speaker 2: uh an actor?

978
00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 3: Yes, I do. I know that when I went in

979
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:37,680
Speaker 3: Private Ryan.

980
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean.

981
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:40,879
Speaker 3: When I said that, I was like, oh no, he's

982
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 3: not leading he's.

983
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I've never seen it.

984
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 3: I haven't seen it either, Private Ryan. Well, I think

985
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:52,960
Speaker 3: we should play a game. Okay, we're gonna play a

986
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 3: game called Gift or this game. I like that. I

987
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:58,920
Speaker 3: need a number between one and ten from you. Okay, five, Okay,

988
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:01,279
Speaker 3: I have to do been calculating right now. I have

989
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:03,399
Speaker 3: to get our game pieces. So you have the mic.

990
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,719
Speaker 3: You can recommend, promote, do whatever you want.

991
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 2: Promote something, oh, ship, promote something. Let's see. Things have

992
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 2: been pretty slow, so my promoting something about myself or

993
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:23,680
Speaker 2: something in general about yourself.

994
00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 3: You have a podcast, let's hear about that.

995
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:29,800
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I have a podcast. I have a podcast too, Bridger.

996
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 2: I just started it, though a little more recently than you.

997
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:38,360
Speaker 2: I should be taking notes about tricks of the Trade.

998
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 2: Well you've been going, you've been doing this for four years.

999
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:45,759
Speaker 2: I think. Sorry, I'm supposed to be talking silly four years.

1000
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 2: Four years?

1001
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:46,399
Speaker 1: Wow?

1002
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 2: Okay, So I started mine in October. Well whatever, it's

1003
00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:50,400
Speaker 2: been like eight months.

1004
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 6: It's called should I talk about it? It's called wo

1005
00:47:57,080 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 6: with Rachel Drafts, and it's stories of like the unexplained.

1006
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:07,760
Speaker 6: So it could be ghost stories, psychic phenomena, weird eerie

1007
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:09,760
Speaker 6: things that have or it could be like like Amy

1008
00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:11,480
Speaker 6: Pohler came on, she doesn't really believe in any of

1009
00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:14,479
Speaker 6: this stuff, so she talked about the Enneagram personality test.

1010
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:17,440
Speaker 6: So it could be like anything woo, anything that's like

1011
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 6: I don't want to be all woo woo, but I

1012
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 6: went and had my tea leaves right like, it could

1013
00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 6: be any yeah, because I sort of am into all

1014
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:26,239
Speaker 6: that stuff. I mean, I'm into the stories around I'm

1015
00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:28,839
Speaker 6: not I'm not a truly woo woo person. But I

1016
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:31,840
Speaker 6: but every so often I hear a ghost story, I'm like, oh, wow,

1017
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 6: maybe we don't know what happens after death.

1018
00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:38,959
Speaker 2: I don't know anyway, But I didn't mean to bring

1019
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 2: up the D word, but but no, Like, so, there's

1020
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 2: been really cool stories on there, and if you have one,

1021
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:45,760
Speaker 2: I don't know, I've.

1022
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 3: Got to come on, do you have a story? I

1023
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 3: do have one, a sweet story. I've told it to

1024
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:54,239
Speaker 3: somebody before, but it's it's a nice story, and I

1025
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:56,000
Speaker 3: have I have conflicting feelings about.

1026
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:58,360
Speaker 2: All and that's why I'm not like a full tilt

1027
00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:02,399
Speaker 2: liked percent believer. But when you listen to a bunch

1028
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 2: of these stories, you're like, oh, because.

1029
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:07,359
Speaker 3: People were like this happened to me, Yeah, exactly.

1030
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 2: That's all people coming on saying. And it could be

1031
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:12,279
Speaker 2: someone like whoever, I don't know, Seth Meyers did a

1032
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 2: Tina faded, Or it could be like the mom from

1033
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:17,880
Speaker 2: my son's school who has this crazy ghost story. She

1034
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 2: was telling me at field day and I was like,

1035
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:21,759
Speaker 2: will you come on the podcast? So she has a

1036
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 2: great story. So it's it's all. It's all people, and

1037
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 2: you have stories, right, I have? I have a ghost

1038
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:30,319
Speaker 2: story that happened in l A. And I have a

1039
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 2: crazy psychic story too, So those are whatever I pepper

1040
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:35,879
Speaker 2: my own little stories throughout.

1041
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 3: As you should.

1042
00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:38,240
Speaker 2: Yes, anyway, that's.

1043
00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:40,319
Speaker 3: W O.

1044
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:42,400
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes.

1045
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 3: Everyone go listen to that podcast. Rachel's wonderful and ghosts

1046
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:52,000
Speaker 3: are incredible, so wonderful. This is how we play gift

1047
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 3: to a Curse. I'm going to name three things. You're

1048
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:56,640
Speaker 3: going to tell me if there are a gift or

1049
00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 3: a curse and why, and then I'll tell you if

1050
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 3: you're right or wrong because there are correct answers. Okay,

1051
00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 3: and there's a good chance you could fail, and you've

1052
00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:06,360
Speaker 3: you know, you've had some sadness already on this podcast.

1053
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 3: We don't want to watch you walk away a failure,

1054
00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 3: so be very careful.

1055
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:11,239
Speaker 2: Okay. Now do I try to match what I think

1056
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 2: you're gonna.

1057
00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 3: Say or you do whatever you want? Okay, gift or

1058
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 3: a curse? This is ah, Actually I do need to quickly.

1059
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:20,440
Speaker 3: During the live show, we use some listener suggestions and

1060
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 3: I simply didn't think the people who had sent them in.

1061
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:25,520
Speaker 3: We had an Ellen who suggested the window seat on

1062
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 3: an airplane. We had Mark who suggested cash, and then

1063
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 3: this is tomatoes and guacamole. I no, which just kind

1064
00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 3: of mysterious. But okay, let's get into this. Victoria has

1065
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:40,319
Speaker 3: suggested gift or a curse people who walk dogs on

1066
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 3: a leash that fastens around their waist.

1067
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 2: Fastens around the walker the person's waist.

1068
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:47,799
Speaker 3: Yes, it's like a belt.

1069
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:52,080
Speaker 2: I've never seen that even. I guess I'm gonna say

1070
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:54,440
Speaker 2: curse because I don't get why you're not just holding

1071
00:50:54,480 --> 00:51:00,839
Speaker 2: it with your hand. But unless you a limitation, Okay,

1072
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say curse because I don't get it.

1073
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 3: It's a curse. It makes it. I don't know what

1074
00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:07,319
Speaker 3: we're doing. Do you need both hands? What do you

1075
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:10,319
Speaker 3: need both hands for? Are you making pizza? I don't

1076
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 3: understand that an l a thing. I've actually never seen

1077
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:17,000
Speaker 3: this in person. When this person's send this in I

1078
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 3: obviously googled it to get my eyes on this product,

1079
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 3: and it seems to be at least one person in

1080
00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:26,399
Speaker 3: a stock photo has done it. So but I guess, I.

1081
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:29,400
Speaker 2: Guess it's good if you're dealing with like groceries.

1082
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:31,439
Speaker 3: Phone fighting off attackers, fighting.

1083
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 2: Off attackers, the doggy bag thing whatever. Maybe, but I'm

1084
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:38,440
Speaker 2: just gonna say that's weird.

1085
00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:41,280
Speaker 3: It's different, so it's worm.

1086
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 2: With what everyone else does.

1087
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:45,560
Speaker 3: That's a curse. No one thing about it to me

1088
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:49,280
Speaker 3: is I get a little. I love dogs more than anything,

1089
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 3: but people who are too comfortable with their dog interacting

1090
00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:55,320
Speaker 3: with other people when they just assume everyone is comfortable

1091
00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:58,240
Speaker 3: with their dog, I like you think about other people.

1092
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 3: I'm sure your dog's lovely, but maybe not everyone's comfortable

1093
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:04,839
Speaker 3: with it running around your waist, racking them right right,

1094
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 3: So when you have the dog on a leash with

1095
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:08,040
Speaker 3: your hand, I feel like there's a little bit more

1096
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:13,400
Speaker 3: control there. And uh yeah, I just don't understand this product.

1097
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:15,200
Speaker 3: We should stop selling it.

1098
00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 2: Okay, curse curse.

1099
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:19,920
Speaker 3: Very good Number two. This is from a listener named Diego.

1100
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:22,439
Speaker 3: Gift to a curse. Yellow popsicles.

1101
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:30,960
Speaker 2: Curse Why because I don't like lemon as a popsicle flavor?

1102
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 3: You're not into a lemon flavor anything?

1103
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 2: Hmm, well what else would a yellow pop? I guess

1104
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:37,839
Speaker 2: it could be pineapple? If you go on, no, I'm

1105
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:39,239
Speaker 2: gonna say curse. Why what do you say?

1106
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:43,040
Speaker 3: You say curse? I've only ever known them to be banana,

1107
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 3: which is the worst flavor of anything.

1108
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,439
Speaker 2: Oh, now I know what you mean those ice cream

1109
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 2: truck banana ones.

1110
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:52,560
Speaker 3: No, they have the regular pop traditional popsicle in a

1111
00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 3: yellow the ones I remember from a kid there was

1112
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 3: a blue, red, yellow, orange, and brown.

1113
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:02,279
Speaker 2: Well, you're reminded me that the creamy yellow one. It

1114
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 2: was kind of good.

1115
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:07,360
Speaker 3: I don't know, but a banana flavored a regular popsicle

1116
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:09,359
Speaker 3: absolutely the worst flaw.

1117
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:12,720
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, you're gonna want a red or a purple purple,

1118
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:16,440
Speaker 2: purple delicious grape.

1119
00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:18,040
Speaker 3: I can't do a root beer.

1120
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:23,560
Speaker 2: No, I can't stand root beer awful. Beer needs to

1121
00:53:23,560 --> 00:53:27,919
Speaker 2: be excised from the community. Root beer flavor. I don't

1122
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 2: care if it's a soda. I don't care if it's

1123
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:31,560
Speaker 2: a popsicle or a candy.

1124
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 3: No, to me, it just tastes like years in boy

1125
00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 3: Scouts and there was always a root beer float float awful.

1126
00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:41,840
Speaker 2: Anyone else, here's another beer I have? Haven't you like,

1127
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 2: tried to like root beer? Like it's the thing, Like

1128
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:47,719
Speaker 2: maybe I like root beer looks good, maybe I like this,

1129
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:51,719
Speaker 2: and you're like, Nope, no, it's still not going to cut.

1130
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:54,279
Speaker 3: No, it's a it's are that you a lot about

1131
00:53:54,280 --> 00:54:02,239
Speaker 3: desserts on this red heads And okay, okay, very good you.

1132
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 2: So I'm really getting overly passionate about these. Okay, sorry,

1133
00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:10,279
Speaker 2: go on, all right, stoic On this next one, I'm

1134
00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:11,399
Speaker 2: not so impassioned.

1135
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:14,800
Speaker 3: Okay, This third one is from a listener named Susie Gift,

1136
00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:17,319
Speaker 3: You're a curse rat tail hairstyle.

1137
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:23,960
Speaker 2: I mean, I might be out of it and too

1138
00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:25,840
Speaker 2: old to answer this, but I'm going to say curse.

1139
00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:29,480
Speaker 2: Maybe it's come back around and it's cool now. But

1140
00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:34,040
Speaker 2: I just think of that as Kurt. I don't know,

1141
00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 2: what do you.

1142
00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 3: Say, Oh, Rachel, you played the game so well until now.

1143
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:39,280
Speaker 3: Why it's it's a gift.

1144
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:40,040
Speaker 2: It's a gift.

1145
00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:42,400
Speaker 3: I don't know that it's ever been in style, but

1146
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:44,080
Speaker 3: it's always been interesting to look at.

1147
00:54:44,200 --> 00:54:48,320
Speaker 2: That's true. We all shock says a lot about the wearer.

1148
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:52,719
Speaker 3: Yes, you almost immediately know what's happening in that person's life.

1149
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 3: You see a lot of kids with.

1150
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:56,560
Speaker 2: Just about to say that we're on the same way.

1151
00:54:56,719 --> 00:54:58,920
Speaker 2: Like I was gonna say, what I picture. I picture

1152
00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:02,760
Speaker 2: a little kid, a little like hey, like a little

1153
00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:04,640
Speaker 2: you can't see me right now, but I'm like, hey

1154
00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 2: with a little tank top causing trouble completely.

1155
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:13,320
Speaker 3: That's an interesting one because Usually the rat tail child

1156
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:16,200
Speaker 3: doesn't have a rat tail parent, so the parents like, well,

1157
00:55:16,239 --> 00:55:20,600
Speaker 3: let's get one on the kid right when you decide

1158
00:55:20,600 --> 00:55:22,000
Speaker 3: to start growing your child's rat tag.

1159
00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:24,040
Speaker 2: I haven't seen one in a really long time, though,

1160
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:26,840
Speaker 2: I feel like, because I live in New York and

1161
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:33,680
Speaker 2: probably we see that's a real thing. It's cheesy, But no,

1162
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 2: I haven't seen a rat I have seen a rat

1163
00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 2: tail in a really long time.

1164
00:55:38,400 --> 00:55:41,640
Speaker 3: Have you, at least within the last five to six years,

1165
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 3: you know, I.

1166
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 2: Feel like can see a lot of them. Disney World,

1167
00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:45,880
Speaker 2: Oh my god, of course. I bet. I bet if

1168
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:48,840
Speaker 2: we went to disney I haven't been to Disneyland ever.

1169
00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:50,919
Speaker 2: I bet if I went to disney World, I could

1170
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:53,120
Speaker 2: spot it would be like a scavenger hunt. I bet

1171
00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:55,240
Speaker 2: I could find three rat tails at Disney World.

1172
00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:58,240
Speaker 3: Within three hours. I bet like an fcot, you're surrounded

1173
00:55:58,239 --> 00:55:59,080
Speaker 3: by rat tails.

1174
00:55:59,239 --> 00:55:59,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I bet so.

1175
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:02,120
Speaker 3: But I love to see them. I support them. I

1176
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:04,359
Speaker 3: don't know that I would ever have one myself. It's

1177
00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:07,440
Speaker 3: an interesting one because it's really hidden back there, so.

1178
00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:10,080
Speaker 2: You can kind of secret personality.

1179
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:12,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, the moment you turn around, you're like, oh, you've

1180
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:15,839
Speaker 3: been interacting with someone with the rat and that I love.

1181
00:56:16,520 --> 00:56:17,240
Speaker 3: So it's a gift.

1182
00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:21,400
Speaker 2: That's that's true. Okay, but you got two out of three, which.

1183
00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 3: Is not bad. Two out of three is not a failure.

1184
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:26,400
Speaker 3: I don't want you to feel like a failure in

1185
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:26,920
Speaker 3: this moment.

1186
00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:27,440
Speaker 2: I don't.

1187
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:28,480
Speaker 3: You did not fail.

1188
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:31,000
Speaker 2: Okay, and you you sort of talked me around to

1189
00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:31,720
Speaker 2: the rat hill.

1190
00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:35,600
Speaker 3: Okay, and I've have converted somebody. Okay. This is the

1191
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:39,280
Speaker 3: final segment of the podcast. It's called I said no emails.

1192
00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:42,240
Speaker 3: People write into I said no gifts at gmail dot com.

1193
00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:44,759
Speaker 3: People are begging for answers and all these sorts of

1194
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:47,359
Speaker 3: things in their lives, and just out of kind of

1195
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:50,360
Speaker 3: the generosity of my heart, I help you help me

1196
00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:53,239
Speaker 3: answer a question? Yeah, okay, this and now this is

1197
00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:55,600
Speaker 3: one that we tried reading the live show. And we're

1198
00:56:56,640 --> 00:56:59,400
Speaker 3: interrupted artificially by something I thought of.

1199
00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:02,160
Speaker 2: Where was the live show?

1200
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:05,480
Speaker 3: It was a Dynasty typewriter. Oh here, yeah, right here

1201
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:07,640
Speaker 3: in LA and we're going to try to do more soon.

1202
00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:08,839
Speaker 3: It was very funn oh cool.

1203
00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:10,880
Speaker 2: Okay, sorry, but interjection.

1204
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:13,239
Speaker 3: But this one, we've got to get back to the

1205
00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:16,920
Speaker 3: question because I stopped reading it at the show. This

1206
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:20,200
Speaker 3: is Deer Bridger on elis an illustrious guest. I hope

1207
00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:23,440
Speaker 3: you were all well, the house dry, the backyard mostly tranquil,

1208
00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 3: the flowers watered, et cetera. I'm emailing you from the

1209
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:30,320
Speaker 3: Chicago suburbs with a question about a situation I encountered recently.

1210
00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:32,880
Speaker 3: I bought a birthday gift for my sister in law

1211
00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:36,040
Speaker 3: and scored a great sale on some clothes. I wasn't

1212
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:38,640
Speaker 3: sure if I could remove the markdown sticker without voiding

1213
00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 3: the return, so I left it on. It is now

1214
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:44,400
Speaker 3: several weeks later, and something about it isn't sitting right

1215
00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:47,160
Speaker 3: with me. How should I do things next time? I

1216
00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:50,680
Speaker 3: obviously think my sister in law deserves full price, but

1217
00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:53,200
Speaker 3: at this point in my life, I got a shop

1218
00:57:53,240 --> 00:57:56,000
Speaker 3: the sales. What do I do next time? Bridger, I

1219
00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 3: hope you were properly of This is just a little

1220
00:57:58,120 --> 00:58:00,560
Speaker 3: in between. I hope you were scanned lies by your

1221
00:58:00,560 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 3: guest's unwanted gift. And guess I can't wait to consume

1222
00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:05,960
Speaker 3: whatever media you're promoting. You've got a new listener to

1223
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:09,439
Speaker 3: the already. Thank you so much for taking my letter,

1224
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:11,080
Speaker 3: and have a good day. And that's from bo oh

1225
00:58:11,120 --> 00:58:14,160
Speaker 3: interesting that we talked about BO is afraid everything is connected? Right,

1226
00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:16,320
Speaker 3: everything is connected?

1227
00:58:16,800 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 2: Is afraid of mark Down's Okay, So wait, here's what

1228
00:58:21,920 --> 00:58:26,280
Speaker 2: I'm not getting. Bo left the price tag on the gift. Yes,

1229
00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:31,320
Speaker 2: so Bo, you can rip the price tag off and

1230
00:58:31,360 --> 00:58:35,000
Speaker 2: get like some sort of gift receipt, right right?

1231
00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:39,440
Speaker 3: I mean yeah, I'm getting a feeling that BO is

1232
00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 3: not familiar with modern retail or both.

1233
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 2: I was thinking maybe Bo is very young.

1234
00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:47,680
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, like hitched a ride. Well, I don't know

1235
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:48,680
Speaker 3: if on sale.

1236
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:56,960
Speaker 2: Has l No, I'm thinking no, I'm thinking maybe if

1237
00:58:57,000 --> 00:58:59,680
Speaker 2: Bo is young and BO doesn't know that, then you

1238
00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:02,560
Speaker 2: don't You don't have to leave the actual price tag

1239
00:59:02,720 --> 00:59:05,480
Speaker 2: on the clue. That would make sense to me.

1240
00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:08,400
Speaker 3: What I'm getting is BO is excusing bad behavior. BO

1241
00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:11,400
Speaker 3: knew what he was doing. He knew the sister in

1242
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 3: law would be offended when she saw that he had

1243
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 3: bought her marked down merchandise. And now he's backpedaling, so

1244
00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 3: there's no excuse he should have taken it off. This

1245
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:21,080
Speaker 3: is bad behavior.

1246
00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 2: But here's one thing. What about when you give a

1247
00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:26,520
Speaker 2: gift with the price you could rip off the little

1248
00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:27,880
Speaker 2: actual number.

1249
00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 3: I'm sure really BO is after his sister in law

1250
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:34,840
Speaker 3: just trying to stir up family drama.

1251
00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:35,720
Speaker 2: Imagine.

1252
00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 3: I mean, you obviously make some good points about gift gifting,

1253
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:43,120
Speaker 3: some very basic concepts, and if BO doesn't know these things,

1254
00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:46,360
Speaker 3: then I've got a listener that needs to rethink a lot.

1255
00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:49,920
Speaker 2: All right, But so the sister in law never thanked Bo,

1256
00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:53,040
Speaker 2: there's no thank you, was worred. He committed a faux

1257
00:59:53,040 --> 01:00:02,320
Speaker 2: pas a Bo paw if you will, But uh yeah,

1258
01:00:02,360 --> 01:00:05,040
Speaker 2: that kind of that kind of sucks, like she should

1259
01:00:05,080 --> 01:00:08,720
Speaker 2: have thanked him anyway, even if she thought it was tacky, right,

1260
01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:10,280
Speaker 2: because Bo did.

1261
01:00:10,080 --> 01:00:12,320
Speaker 3: Get a gift, money was spent.

1262
01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:15,080
Speaker 2: Thought it was kind of hard to get clothes for

1263
01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:17,360
Speaker 2: people too, because it's hard to match their styles.

1264
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:18,400
Speaker 3: That is another interesting thing.

1265
01:00:18,440 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 2: You don't know them.

1266
01:00:19,080 --> 01:00:21,520
Speaker 3: I would never buy my sister in law clothing. Yeah,

1267
01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:26,160
Speaker 3: now we're getting, you know, a portrait of the podcast. Yeah,

1268
01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:29,880
Speaker 3: that needs to really be unraveled. Bo is buying discount

1269
01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:30,920
Speaker 3: clothing for his sister.

1270
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:35,120
Speaker 2: Was it a scarf? Fine? Was it a dress?

1271
01:00:35,400 --> 01:00:38,040
Speaker 3: Was it like a we need to talk, yeah, micro mini,

1272
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:40,760
Speaker 3: you know what is BO dressing his sister in law

1273
01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:41,160
Speaker 3: up in.

1274
01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:44,080
Speaker 2: Or even maybe it's not even her style, right, but

1275
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:45,960
Speaker 2: his sister in law still should thank him.

1276
01:00:46,000 --> 01:00:49,120
Speaker 3: It was something given to her. Yeah, I feel like

1277
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:52,160
Speaker 3: BO should stop giving everything. Bo is a teen, Bo

1278
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:53,920
Speaker 3: maybe a teen with as you're said.

1279
01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:56,560
Speaker 2: Bo isn't a teen. Then BO is very insulted right now.

1280
01:00:56,600 --> 01:00:57,160
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1281
01:00:57,160 --> 01:01:00,320
Speaker 3: Bo's freaking out. BO turned it up, turned off the podcast.

1282
01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:02,920
Speaker 2: Maybe early twenties, maybe early twenties.

1283
01:01:03,400 --> 01:01:05,800
Speaker 3: It does seem like they've got to shop the sales, So.

1284
01:01:07,600 --> 01:01:08,960
Speaker 2: It's okay to shop the sales.

1285
01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:11,000
Speaker 3: I encourage shopping.

1286
01:01:11,120 --> 01:01:13,000
Speaker 2: Don't save the price tag on.

1287
01:01:13,200 --> 01:01:16,120
Speaker 3: Never pay retail, right, That's what I say. Yeah, especially

1288
01:01:16,120 --> 01:01:17,680
Speaker 3: when you're buying sister in law or if you're.

1289
01:01:17,560 --> 01:01:20,760
Speaker 2: Buying a sample item, or you should not be paying.

1290
01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:25,160
Speaker 2: Did you hear that store that sold me the sample

1291
01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:28,200
Speaker 2: size for two dollars off?

1292
01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:31,760
Speaker 3: That's so offensive, that's and that's such a random number,

1293
01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:33,800
Speaker 3: it really is. It should have been a half.

1294
01:01:34,200 --> 01:01:36,640
Speaker 2: And if you well, you'll see this bottle ladies and

1295
01:01:36,840 --> 01:01:41,600
Speaker 2: gentlemen and everybody a lot of it. That's the label

1296
01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:44,720
Speaker 2: is Oily. Anyway, Sorry, I'm not trying to sway off

1297
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:47,160
Speaker 2: of Bow and Bose gifting issues.

1298
01:01:47,720 --> 01:01:49,640
Speaker 3: I feel like your main mission on this episode has

1299
01:01:49,680 --> 01:01:53,920
Speaker 3: been to shut down everything on Larch month, all of

1300
01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:54,480
Speaker 3: these boutinque.

1301
01:01:54,520 --> 01:01:55,960
Speaker 2: You know, maybe we can't say the name of it

1302
01:01:56,000 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 2: because if I'm going to complain this much about it.

1303
01:01:57,800 --> 01:01:58,880
Speaker 3: Oh, it's a great store.

1304
01:01:59,120 --> 01:02:01,040
Speaker 2: It is a great but I don't want to. I

1305
01:02:01,040 --> 01:02:04,120
Speaker 2: don't want to complain publicly about them and the two dollars.

1306
01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:08,160
Speaker 2: They'll beep out their name, but.

1307
01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:13,760
Speaker 3: We won't be about the street there on. Bo, go

1308
01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:16,720
Speaker 3: to a store with some fragrances, find the tester, get

1309
01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:20,480
Speaker 3: a discount, fill it up with water, right and now

1310
01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:25,120
Speaker 3: no one knows anything better or rubbing alcohol. Whatever you

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Speaker 3: have might be better nearby right in the redhead and bed,

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Speaker 3: and the sister in law will go crazy. Bo, don't

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Speaker 3: write back in okay. Closing up the email, Rachel, what

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Speaker 3: you've brought such beautiful gifts of the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. I mean, it's a pleasure.

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Speaker 3: I screamed that I will. Of course I will eat

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Speaker 3: the chocolate one. The other one's going to be there until,

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Speaker 3: like we have another pandemic and the grocery store is out.

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Speaker 2: I know I was getting that sense right after I

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Speaker 2: bought it too.

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Speaker 3: But we challenged ourselves, we branched out and learned that

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Speaker 3: we still don't like that type of ice cream, right,

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Speaker 3: which is important to know about yourself. Yeah, especially if

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Speaker 3: you're standing alone in an ice cream store, you need

1325
01:03:07,080 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 3: to know. You should be as informed as possible because

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Speaker 3: you don't.

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Speaker 2: Want a bad You don't want to go wrong, right.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much for being Thank you. That's such

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Speaker 3: a wonderful time. And listener, the podcast is over. We're

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Speaker 3: coming to a halt. The audio will end, your life

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01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:25,720
Speaker 3: will continue you. You're gonna have a very productive day.

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Speaker 3: I can feel it. I love you, goodbye. I said

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Speaker 3: No Gifts is an exactly right production. It's produced by

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Speaker 3: our dear friend Analise Nilson, and it's beautifully mixed by

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Speaker 3: Ben Holliday. And we couldn't do it without our guest booker,

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Speaker 3: Patrick Kottner. The theme song, of course, could only come

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Speaker 3: from a miracle worker, Amy Man. You must follow the

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01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:54,600
Speaker 3: show on Instagram. At I said no Gifts, I don't

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01:03:54,600 --> 01:03:56,800
Speaker 3: want to hear any excuses. That's where you get to

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01:03:56,800 --> 01:03:59,240
Speaker 3: see pictures of all these gorgeous gifts I'm getting. And

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Speaker 3: don't you want to seeatures of the gifts?

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Speaker 1: But I invited you here thought I made myself perfectly clear.

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Speaker 1: But you're a guest to my home. You gotta come

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01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:22,000
Speaker 1: to me empty, and I said, no guests. Your own

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Speaker 1: presences presents enough that I already had too much stuff.

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Speaker 1: So how did you dare to surbey me?