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Speaker 1: The Nicki Gliser Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Niki Glasers Years, Nikki, Hello here, I am welcome to

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Speaker 2: the podcast. It's Nicki Glaser Podcast. It's a Wednesday, but

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Speaker 2: here it's Sunday. I'm just gonna be honest with you, guys.

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Speaker 2: It's been a long weekend and this is how we're

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Speaker 2: rounding it out.

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Speaker 3: I kept thinking that it was Monday.

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Speaker 2: That's the boy It was the voice of my boyfriend,

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Speaker 2: Chris Convey. Yeah, because I had a show on Thursday

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Speaker 2: this weekend, and I usually start my shows on Friday,

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Speaker 2: that I thought last night's show was Sunday. I almost said,

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Speaker 2: what's up, Baltimore, thank you for coming out on a

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Speaker 2: Sunday night. But I had two shows in Boston, and

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Speaker 2: then I was in Boston for two nights, which I'm

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Speaker 2: only usually in a city for one night, so it

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Speaker 2: was like it almost felt like that was just one

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Speaker 2: and then yeah, so Boston, I did Thursday Friday, and

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Speaker 2: then I was in Baltimore. It was a great weekend

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Speaker 2: of shows. Chris was there for Boston night too, and

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Speaker 2: oh cool. You know it's fun. He's on the rood

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Speaker 2: for me now because he's producing my stand up special

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Speaker 2: special that we're getting ready to do Yeah, what'd.

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Speaker 3: You think of those shows this weekend?

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Speaker 2: I thought about them, thought about them a lot. I

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Speaker 2: liked him a lot, Honestly, the crowds were awesome. Yeawdels

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Speaker 2: like the materials popping off. I've been getting more notes

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Speaker 2: about just like dms saying stuff about my material that

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Speaker 2: is really heartening of like just you're saying things I

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Speaker 2: needed to hear, or you really made me think, or

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Speaker 2: I got this really nice message I want to read

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Speaker 2: actually because I think I read it to you last night, Chris.

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Speaker 2: But it just like really warmed my heart because sometimes

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Speaker 2: you see, sometimes I will look over my DMS and

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Speaker 2: I'll see like a certain word, and I'll be like, oh, no,

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Speaker 2: it's going to be someone who's mad at me, like

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Speaker 2: I've offended someone or something. Especially with a huge tower

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Speaker 2: of text. I'm just like, this could be them being like, hey,

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Speaker 2: I like you, but I want to let you know

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Speaker 2: something that really like fucked with me and hurt my feelings,

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Speaker 2: because that's happened before, and it's like, it's pretty devastating

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Speaker 2: when I.

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Speaker 4: Hurt someone's feelings. It's one of the worst feelings.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, I.

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Speaker 4: Don't so, but this.

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Speaker 2: I saw a couple of keywords in here, and at

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Speaker 2: first I freaked out because a lot of times they lead.

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Speaker 4: With nice and then they go but you know, so

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Speaker 4: I can't even.

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Speaker 2: Trust the first part and this person, yeah, the infamous butt.

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Speaker 2: By the way, Brian and Noah are here. By the way.

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Speaker 3: Hi, guys, everybody knew that already.

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Speaker 2: They no standard, Yes, they're standing. They come with the packaging,

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Speaker 2: aren't there. What is it called.

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Speaker 3: Their batteries not included?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're the battery. Sometimes they are included.

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Speaker 4: Yeah they are we Yeah, you're my batteries. Today. You're

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Speaker 4: a double Wait what you're.

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Speaker 3: A what's your favorite battery? I think my.

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Speaker 2: Favorite is a triple A because they're small and they're

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Speaker 2: like they don't weigh down the device, and they're always

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Speaker 2: you always have triple as. Double as you are are

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Speaker 2: like are they going to be working? But triple as

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Speaker 2: we always have excess of. So when something requires a

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Speaker 2: triple A, I'm always kind of excited.

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Speaker 5: As you get older, c's and d's become much less

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Speaker 5: appropriate because those mostly going toys and STU A sea battery,

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Speaker 5: you don't remember the sea.

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Speaker 4: The vult don't I'm recognize it.

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Speaker 2: Is it the is it the square?

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Speaker 4: No top that like twozzles, it's a two, but it's just.

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Speaker 3: And those ds are huge.

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Speaker 4: The d's, I remember the d's. Those are crazy the environment.

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Speaker 3: These are what like Philadelphians use as weapons sporting events

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Speaker 3: they call they called d's the Philadelphia Grenade.

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Speaker 2: I just remember. I've seen memes a lot for the

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Speaker 2: kids of the nineties, like no one will understand ruining

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Speaker 2: your fingers and like you're getting like almost bone spurs

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Speaker 2: from trying to do the battery. Check the battery and

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Speaker 2: see how much power was left in the door. You

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Speaker 2: press on one and then you press on the other end,

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Speaker 2: and you have to like press it down so much

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Speaker 2: to see its life in it.

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Speaker 3: Those were awesome.

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Speaker 2: Those were awesome, but it was like so hard to

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Speaker 2: press on those things, and you didn't know if you

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Speaker 2: were pressing hard enough because it would fill up. So

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Speaker 2: if anyone's listening that doesn't know what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 2: They used to have a little thing on the side

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Speaker 2: of the battery that you could press on and you

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Speaker 2: could see how much life was in the battery.

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Speaker 3: You'd pressed the side of the battery, in the top

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Speaker 3: of the battery, yes, and then like this like it

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Speaker 3: was I think it was some sort of magnetic something

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Speaker 3: that would like start filling up and you'd be like, oh,

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Speaker 3: we got some power here, baby.

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Speaker 2: It's not easy to press the side of something and

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Speaker 2: the end of something. That's not a good way to

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Speaker 2: get pressure, do you know what I mean? Like the

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Speaker 2: side is slippin'. So it was stick my nail into

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Speaker 2: it like it was a bug bite, and it would

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Speaker 2: it wouldn't work.

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Speaker 3: My parents had a battery tester from like the early seventies.

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Speaker 3: I used it all the time.

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Speaker 4: You still use it?

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Speaker 3: Well, no, not for a while, but we still have it.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, that's cool.

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Speaker 5: I don't think I've ever pressed on one of those

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Speaker 5: batteries and had it be any charge at all. The

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Speaker 5: only time I pressed on it's empty.

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Speaker 2: Well you think it would be empty because you weren't

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Speaker 2: putting enough pressure on it, but you're right, they mostly

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Speaker 2: were empty.

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Speaker 5: You wouldn't be testing it unless it was like, oh,

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Speaker 5: my thing's not working. Let me check if I have charged.

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Speaker 5: Then you check it.

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Speaker 4: It's like good point.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, it's just confirming.

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Speaker 4: What else is a battery tester? The on button.

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Speaker 3: Of the remote?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so my husband and I went to the Thursday

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Speaker 2: night Boston show. Nikki, you friggin killed it in capital Marx,

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Speaker 2: capitol all caps. Yeah, yeah, I am a big fan

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Speaker 2: in a bustie for a few years now, but I've

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Speaker 2: never seen you live. I have to say that, No,

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Speaker 2: I'm just kidding. That's where this is where I could turn.

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Speaker 2: But it didn't, mostly because she said, I'm I'm a

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Speaker 2: but I've never seen you live. Mostly because I am

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Speaker 2: an overweight person who has a lot of anxiety about

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Speaker 2: going to comedy shows for a variety of reasons. Will

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Speaker 2: the will the comedian call me out for being fat?

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Speaker 2: Will the seats be ridiculously small? Lots of obese person anxiety.

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Speaker 2: So when I saw the word fat, obese, overweight, I

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Speaker 4: Because I do talk about being fat.

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Speaker 2: I talk about fat people in my not making fun

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Speaker 2: of them, obviously, but I do talk about fat people,

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Speaker 2: and I think someone who's not maybe because someone who could.

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Speaker 4: Be maybe overly sensitive or.

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Speaker 2: Is not understanding what I'm saying, could misconstrue what I'm

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Speaker 2: saying and think that I'm calling or making fun of

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Speaker 3: No, it's it's a part of it's a part of

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Speaker 3: getting two jokes, and it's defending it's it's defending people

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Speaker 4: Yes, you're defending the fat people.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm actually just addressing the fact that our society

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Speaker 2: discriminates against fat people and that it's fucked up. And

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Speaker 2: if we we don't have let's not act like there's

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Speaker 2: total fat acceptance in show business just because there's three

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Speaker 2: fat people on TV.

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Speaker 4: Like there there is.

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Speaker 2: You're still incentivized in show business and to be thin exactly. Yes,

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Speaker 2: it's true, and like one Dove campaign didn't fix everything,

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Speaker 2: and like I love fat acceptance and I love the

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Speaker 2: the fat acceptance movement, but the work isn't done, like

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Speaker 2: and Hollywood still is. There's such fucking liars, And most

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Speaker 2: of the time they get involved in the fat accept

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Speaker 2: of things. And then they let one fat person on

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Speaker 2: no one else. And so it's really to prove a

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Speaker 2: point about the fact that I hate the fact that

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Speaker 2: I'm obsessed about my looks and all these things, but

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Speaker 2: I'm actually smart and being so because you get less

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Speaker 2: work if you if you aren't the way so business

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Speaker 2: want you to look. So I'm I'm not saying I'm smart.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying like I'm justified in this insane mindset

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Speaker 2: living in does not reward fat people.

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Speaker 6: The world is prejudice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's like the point I keep making.

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Speaker 6: You gotta be hot and skinny.

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Speaker 2: You did well, it's it definitely behooves you. There's no

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Speaker 4: I don't know one fat ugly person that's successful. I

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Speaker 4: couldn't name one.

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Speaker 2: I could name some, but I'm not going to because

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Speaker 2: it seems mean, even though I would argue that being

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Speaker 2: fat and ugly is not a crime, and I should

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Speaker 2: say this one's fat and ugly, but you can get it.

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Speaker 2: That's my point is, like, you get in trouble if

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Speaker 2: you say someone's fat and ugly, but some people just are,

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Speaker 2: but you can't say it because they go, that's mean,

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Speaker 2: and you're like, well that's the truth.

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Speaker 5: I mean the pod I want you to tell me

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Speaker 5: who's fat and ugly and sccessful because I feel like

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Speaker 5: all the fat people that I've seen successful are attractive

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Speaker 5: and all the ugly people are skinny.

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Speaker 7: What about John Candy and I could say it because

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Speaker 7: he's no longer with us, Yeah, he just logged off.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's also different because it's different for men as well.

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Speaker 6: Oh for men.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, Yeah, that's a good point. So fat ugly women.

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Speaker 5: A fat ugly woman who's successful, because I think there's

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Speaker 5: a lot of fat women who are attractive. There's a

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Speaker 5: lot of ugly women who are skinny, but not both.

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Speaker 4: What does ugly mean?

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Speaker 2: Or because I think what you're talking about is someone

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Speaker 2: if they were thin, they would have a hot face,

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Speaker 2: I think that's what we're saying, right, Or they have

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Speaker 2: like a pretty face but they're fat.

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Speaker 4: Is that what you're saying?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean ugly to me, I would think would

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Speaker 2: equal Your face is not symmetrical. If we're talking scientifically,

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Speaker 2: what ugly versus what like aesthetically beautiful people versus aesthetically

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Speaker 2: un beautiful people with I'm saying, no, there's no moral

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Speaker 2: judgment here. If you're ugly, it's not a crime, it's

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Speaker 2: not a bad thing. But your face is not as

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Speaker 2: symmetrical as people who are beautiful.

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Speaker 3: Would we agree on that point, Well, no, I think

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Speaker 3: I think the science point t the science aspect of it.

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Speaker 3: The symmetrical thing. Yeah, I guess it has some merit.

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Speaker 3: And like Denzel has the most symmetrical face, therefore he

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Speaker 3: is the most handsome. But I think a lot of

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Speaker 3: this is so subjective subjective.

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Speaker 2: I think it's kind of objective for I mean, I

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Speaker 2: make that point of my special but or I will hopefully.

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Speaker 3: Who and for yourself. I mean, you get surrounded by

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Speaker 2: people like just as much as me, that has a

442
00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:19,399
Speaker 2: concert in the movie theaters, that is this phenomenon, Like

443
00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:21,399
Speaker 2: I just I'm so glad I get it.

444
00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:24,520
Speaker 3: It's a perfect shortcut for Swifties to be friends with

445
00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:26,720
Speaker 3: other Swifties. Yes, you know, if you show up and

446
00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:29,960
Speaker 3: like if you I've noticed, like if when girls see

447
00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:32,600
Speaker 3: or when people see people with like the bracelets on,

448
00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:35,679
Speaker 3: they immediately feel like they're going to go talk to

449
00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:38,199
Speaker 3: that person yea, or like a shirt or all of

450
00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:38,600
Speaker 3: that stuff.

451
00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:40,320
Speaker 4: It's like why I wear shirts all the time.

452
00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:42,440
Speaker 3: Shortcut to friendship because.

453
00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:44,760
Speaker 2: I don't really love talking to strangers about nothing. I

454
00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:46,920
Speaker 2: think everyone knows that about me. But if they want

455
00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:49,480
Speaker 2: to talk about Taylor Swift, I will. It's all I want.

456
00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:52,000
Speaker 2: I will talk to anyone anytime. I don't know. I

457
00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:54,480
Speaker 2: don't care if you're almost enough poop on your face.

458
00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:56,600
Speaker 2: I want to get into it and find out what

459
00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:59,359
Speaker 2: you think about Travis Kelce and who you think.

460
00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:01,320
Speaker 4: Now that we don't talk us.

461
00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:04,120
Speaker 2: About anyway, let's take a break and talk more about

462
00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:07,760
Speaker 2: this weekend and more about just adventures in general and

463
00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:09,640
Speaker 2: stud Brian was up to this weekend?

464
00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:13,280
Speaker 4: All right, we're back.

465
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Speaker 3: Can I read a like a post somebody did about

466
00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:17,440
Speaker 3: this weekend?

467
00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:18,399
Speaker 2: Yeah?

468
00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:20,800
Speaker 3: There was two, there was so I had a great

469
00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:22,320
Speaker 3: time because.

470
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Speaker 4: Did I ask?

471
00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:28,439
Speaker 3: All right, well, I'm not gonna now we're not getting

472
00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:33,439
Speaker 3: the compliments, no compliments, what you blew it?

473
00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:35,680
Speaker 4: Come on, let's hear it.

474
00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:37,800
Speaker 3: Okay. So there was a few guys that came to

475
00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:43,040
Speaker 3: the show that rose you know what's that rose? Yeah,

476
00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:46,000
Speaker 3: bros well and some some gals too, some bros and

477
00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:49,760
Speaker 3: gals that were really really nice to me. And then

478
00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:53,080
Speaker 3: like then that person those people and I would talk

479
00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:55,119
Speaker 3: about you kind of like how sometimes you talk about

480
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Speaker 3: Taylor Swift. But Ben was one of my favorites.

481
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Speaker 2: And he yeah, he was the one that was the

482
00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 2: very last of the meet and greet last night.

483
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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, he was in Baltimore, so nice. I talked

484
00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:06,520
Speaker 3: him for a while.

485
00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:08,440
Speaker 2: Baltimore might be the city of besties.

486
00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:09,639
Speaker 7: It was.

487
00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:11,480
Speaker 3: It was a great, great looking crowd.

488
00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:13,679
Speaker 2: There are so many cities with lots of besties, but

489
00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:16,000
Speaker 2: this was the city of the most die hard besties.

490
00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:18,360
Speaker 3: Yeah. People. Really Boston was really good too.

491
00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:18,800
Speaker 2: Boston.

492
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Speaker 4: I mean it was unreal.

493
00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:22,400
Speaker 2: It was really something in the air up in the Northeast.

494
00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:23,160
Speaker 3: It was a beautiful.

495
00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:25,800
Speaker 6: There's some cities out there or plann I know.

496
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Speaker 2: I don't mean to threaten anyone, but they really came

497
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Speaker 2: out in Baltimore last night, like diehard.

498
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Speaker 4: One girl named her WiFi.

499
00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:36,679
Speaker 2: That's big. That's a big deal to me.

500
00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:37,440
Speaker 3: It was a big deal.

501
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:40,520
Speaker 2: By the way, I did get a Bestie bracelet that

502
00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:42,760
Speaker 2: someone made me for the Taylor Swift to Day that

503
00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:47,000
Speaker 2: said summer I posted on our social sy That was

504
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:47,639
Speaker 2: so funny.

505
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Speaker 4: I was like so mad that I hadn't thought of

506
00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:51,399
Speaker 4: that yet. That is brilliant. I really that touched me.

507
00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:53,679
Speaker 3: That could that could like almost be the name of

508
00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 3: your tour next summer, just saying next. This is this

509
00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:59,720
Speaker 3: is something Ben because it's it's what you talk about

510
00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:02,400
Speaker 3: going to shows alone. He said, you put good things

511
00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:04,160
Speaker 3: in the universe that come back. I would say Nicki

512
00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 3: Glazer is just as generous as she is talented, and

513
00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 3: that is amazing.

514
00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:09,399
Speaker 2: You write this down after you talk to him, write

515
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:09,680
Speaker 2: this down.

516
00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:10,320
Speaker 3: He posted this.

517
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:13,159
Speaker 2: Oh really, Oh my god, he posted this.

518
00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 3: So is the differenticture like.

519
00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:15,919
Speaker 4: Taking notes like a little reporter.

520
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:22,320
Speaker 6: You're on the record.

521
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:25,960
Speaker 3: If you go see here and you're by yourself, you

522
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:27,960
Speaker 3: can meet her after the show. She doesn't have to

523
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:30,000
Speaker 3: do this. She wants to people like me who battle

524
00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:33,560
Speaker 3: depression and anxiety don't like doing things by ourselves. This

525
00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 3: opportunity is incredible and lets you feel comfortable going out alone.

526
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:38,639
Speaker 3: This is the second time I've seen her, and her

527
00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:41,960
Speaker 3: stand up is world class. If you're by yourself or

528
00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:44,359
Speaker 3: with twenty friends, go see her. You will not be disappointed.

529
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Speaker 3: Thank you, Nikki for your generosity, so sweet and for

530
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Speaker 3: chatting with me. We need more good humans like this

531
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Speaker 3: in the world.

532
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Speaker 2: That's so nice. He was so sweet and he brought

533
00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:57,399
Speaker 2: a picture of us that we took. Last time he

534
00:22:57,440 --> 00:22:58,919
Speaker 2: came to my meet and greet and I think it

535
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:00,359
Speaker 2: was the first show that he went a loan to

536
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:03,200
Speaker 2: and since then he's gone to so many things alone.

537
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:05,400
Speaker 2: And he was giving me a list of his week plans.

538
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 2: He's going to see Esther alone. He's going to see

539
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,840
Speaker 2: he saw some singer the night before alone. He went

540
00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:13,119
Speaker 2: to New York and saw some actress that sing in

541
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,399
Speaker 2: a bar that it was like he had this. He

542
00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:17,400
Speaker 2: does more stuff than anyone I know now, and he's

543
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:19,720
Speaker 2: doing it all alone because he's overcome that fear.

544
00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 6: And you should become an agent.

545
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:24,439
Speaker 2: Hey, we're going to go to an agent.

546
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:26,159
Speaker 6: He should become an agent. That's what they do. You

547
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 6: just go to shows alone you want.

548
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:30,359
Speaker 2: That's really what I've always told people. If you are

549
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:32,679
Speaker 2: worried about going alone to a show. Just tell and

550
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:34,359
Speaker 2: you think people are going to judge, you bring a

551
00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:37,640
Speaker 2: little notepad and look like a journalist that's reviewing it.

552
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:40,680
Speaker 2: But agent's really good too. So what would you hold

553
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 2: if you were an agent? A business card, money, rufie,

554
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:51,879
Speaker 2: twenty percent of the artist's income. One of a flip phone.

555
00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:57,440
Speaker 3: Oh, a headset was like a Bluetooth, old school Bluetooth.

556
00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,959
Speaker 5: Going there with the Bluetooth headset of flip phone and

557
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 5: a roofie and then it'll be okay.

558
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:06,159
Speaker 2: Think of how many things though, people miss out on

559
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:08,640
Speaker 2: because they just can't find a friend to go with them,

560
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 2: or they're you know, or they just don't have friends.

561
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 2: Friends are really hard to make.

562
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 3: And as you get older, yeah, yes, as you get older,

563
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:18,480
Speaker 3: it's harder to find people to do the things that like,

564
00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:21,879
Speaker 3: I don't know anybody basically to go do. I know

565
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,199
Speaker 3: few people. Okay, I know few people to go do

566
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 3: f one stuff with.

567
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 4: But hard what do you guys call it yourself?

568
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 8: No?

569
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:30,400
Speaker 3: I got a guy who listens to the radio show

570
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:33,480
Speaker 3: called Jake. He likes the same exact same music as

571
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:35,840
Speaker 3: me and f one Where does he live? He lives

572
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:36,400
Speaker 3: in Saint Louis.

573
00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 2: What the fuck, Chris, why aren't you hanging out with you?

574
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:39,919
Speaker 3: He's my best friend.

575
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 2: No, he's not. I've never heard of.

576
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 3: This person, and he's the only friend I've ever had.

577
00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:43,920
Speaker 3: His name is Jake.

578
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 4: Do you like the same like drivers?

579
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 3: Yes, we do. Yeah, we've in the same music. Same ever,

580
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:56,159
Speaker 3: we're We're definitely one. Yeah, you know a little bit.

581
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 2: I do. I this morning, he was watching it in

582
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 2: but and I was just like, how a room? And

583
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 2: he was just like, they're good. I was like, the room.

584
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:08,200
Speaker 3: Besides Taylor Swift, what is something that you've gotten into

585
00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 3: like later in life that your friends don't share. I

586
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:12,440
Speaker 3: guess Taylor Swift is the best.

587
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:14,640
Speaker 2: It's the only one, the only one, the only thing.

588
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 2: I think maybe some TVs just succession, and I think

589
00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 2: I think you should leave like things like that. There

590
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:23,439
Speaker 2: are sometimes comedy things where I go, you have to

591
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 2: see this. I will say my favorite movie of all

592
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 2: time that I can't wait to share with you as

593
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:30,160
Speaker 2: the worst person in the world, and that for a while.

594
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:39,399
Speaker 3: Little Biograph Gotcha. That's Payback. That's very classic payback when you.

595
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Speaker 4: Got Me?

596
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:46,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's really good. So there's sometimes like things that I, Well,

597
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 2: we're watching The Golden Bachelor together, and that's become really fun.

598
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 2: I couldn't ever watch that show on my own, although

599
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,879
Speaker 2: it is a cultural phenomenon enough that people are talking

600
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:57,920
Speaker 2: about it online a lot, so I could find communities

601
00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:00,640
Speaker 2: of people. But The Golden Bachelor is fun to watch

602
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 2: with you. Last night, in fact, we were watching an

603
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,439
Speaker 2: episode of it, and it's really getting down to it.

604
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:07,920
Speaker 2: There's three women left, and there's one.

605
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 1: Who's like very soft spoken and her lipstick. Oh, its

606
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 1: kind of bothers me because.

607
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 2: It's I should make fun of her, because I would

608
00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 2: literally slice my face off right now to be guaranteed

609
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 2: to have her face when I am sixty five or

610
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:27,639
Speaker 2: whatever hers is.

611
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 4: She's yeah, no, they so stut over sixty five.

612
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 2: But her way she talks bothers me. And she was

613
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 2: the one that was like bragging to the other girls

614
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 2: in the house a lot about She didn't mean to

615
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:42,160
Speaker 2: be bragging, but she would just be like Gary.

616
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 1: And I had the most amazing conversation. He came up

617
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,880
Speaker 1: to my room and was so nice.

618
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:50,919
Speaker 2: And they're like, he was in your room, and so

619
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 2: she would just like make the other girls jealous. But

620
00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:56,439
Speaker 2: that's classic bachelor. I mean, like, you only have the

621
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 2: other women in the house to talk about your relationship

622
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:01,639
Speaker 2: with this guy, and they are dating him too, So

623
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:02,400
Speaker 2: it's just kind of the way.

624
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:05,160
Speaker 7: It's like when when Vince came in after his date

625
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 7: with Katie on foy and he's.

626
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 4: Like, game over.

627
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 2: That was such a dramatic thing, but he meant what

628
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 2: people thought that we're talking about foy On when Vince

629
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:21,959
Speaker 2: said game over, I know what Vince meant. This was

630
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:25,359
Speaker 2: saying game over for me, like my it's over, I'm

631
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:29,439
Speaker 2: I'm sprung on this woean game over, I'm done, And

632
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 2: everyone took it as like, yeah, but Vince is gonna

633
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 2: threaten people. Vince is like, I mean stay tuned because

634
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 2: who he could be an f boy, you don't know.

635
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:40,119
Speaker 2: But like that was just not Vince's style and so

636
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 2: but they, you know, everyone's just so on edge being like.

637
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 7: They all twisted it because they're like, oh to this,

638
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 7: like this is a game to Vince, that's what he meant.

639
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 2: Oh god, It's it's so annoying on that show. Like

640
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 2: did you hear me saying to Mercedes was I was

641
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 2: like he was like, this isn't a game to me

642
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:00,360
Speaker 2: and I go, this is literally a game show. Yes,

643
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 2: it's because it is a game, and they're like, this

644
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 2: is a game to you, and it's like, yes, it

645
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:13,119
Speaker 2: is literally a line. This is the TV show this.

646
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 2: If anyone thinks anyone goes on TV to fall in love,

647
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 2: you're insane. Yes, they could go on TV to fall

648
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 2: in love, but they're mainly there to be on TV.

649
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:25,479
Speaker 2: But they But I do believe on the Golden Metchler

650
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 2: we are finding and I believe on f boy, I mean,

651
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 2: keep watching boil And.

652
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 4: Because it's a season, because we need you to, well,

653
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,199
Speaker 4: we desperately need you to. I don't know if you

654
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 4: know the ratings, Brian, but it's not our fault. The

655
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 4: show is good.

656
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 6: It's I've seen articles.

657
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 5: I've seen some articles out there that were not uh

658
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 5: they were not glowing about the ratings.

659
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I don't give a fuck? Can I just

660
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck about ratings.

661
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 4: There's too much TV.

662
00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 2: The fact that no one knows where to find the

663
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Speaker 2: CW ain't my fault. It's not because we did a

664
00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 2: bad job on the show. It's not because the show

665
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 2: isn't good. Do you know what good shit never get

666
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 2: seen because of just where it is. It's about marketing,

667
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 2: it's about what audio, It's about who has cable. It's

668
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 2: about people don't even know where to find the CW

669
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 2: and their dial. It's about, oh, it didn't an ad

670
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 2: for it didn't show up in my feed. It's about

671
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,240
Speaker 2: it's been too long since it's been on air, and

672
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 2: so people kind of forgot about it and there was

673
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 2: the momentum of carrying into the third season. There's a

674
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 2: million reasons why the show isn't doing the as well

675
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 2: as it did last time, and it has nothing to

676
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 2: do with the quality of it. So I don't give

677
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 2: a fuck about ratings. I really don't. They don't affect

678
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 2: me at all. You were there when I got the

679
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 2: email about their ratings. I was sad for like five minutes. Yeah,

680
00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 2: and I wasn't even sad. I was just like, well,

681
00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:40,239
Speaker 2: fuck it, We're still doing f Girl. They gotta air that.

682
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 4: They're gonna people are gonna and it's gonna be amazing.

683
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 4: People might not watch it.

684
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 2: But I have had an I've had two shows canceled

685
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 2: already in my life three sorry my reality show as well.

686
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 2: I've had three television shows not do well and eventually

687
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 2: go off air because of ratings.

688
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 4: Has it affected my career?

689
00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 2: No?

690
00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 4: I mean could it have been for my career if

691
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 4: they succeeded? Yes, was it?

692
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 3: But maybe it wouldn't have been as good because you

693
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:06,320
Speaker 3: wouldn't be even stand up.

694
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 2: And yeah, everything happens for a reason, So I really

695
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 2: recommend people. I was just talking to someone this weekend.

696
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 2: We're talking to Alex Edelman who came and did a set.

697
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you guys don't know who Alex Edelman is.

698
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 3: Get on board he is.

699
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's on Kimmel.

700
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, he was on Kimmel the night before we saw him.

701
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 2: He was in Boston. He texted me when I was

702
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 2: at the Taylor Show show and I was like, he

703
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 2: was like, do you want to hang out?

704
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,560
Speaker 4: I was like, I'm here, but like come to a

705
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 4: set tonight.

706
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 2: And so he stopped by and then we hung out,

707
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 2: and then he went and did another set after mine,

708
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 2: and then he came back to our hotel room and

709
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:41,120
Speaker 2: we had him over to hang out and Washington candy. Y.

710
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 2: He ate Bovie candy and someone had given the best

711
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 2: he had given me and Alex Edelman ate it all.

712
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 2: So but but I was happy because I don't need candy.

713
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 2: So I was happy it got done, but I was

714
00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 2: I love him so much too. And he was talking

715
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 2: about he's having a like a surge of success right now.

716
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 2: He had a run on Broadway that was extremely successful.

717
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 2: He is probably gonna win a Tony. He is now

718
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 2: doing a run of his show in l A coming up.

719
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,400
Speaker 3: They shot it as well, it'll be it'll be a special.

720
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 3: It's an HBO special, it's a one man show. It'll

721
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 3: be out. I don't know when it's gonna come out,

722
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 3: but they shot it. Yeah, somewhat reason like a four

723
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 3: months ago.

724
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, Edelman E D E L M A M. He's

725
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:20,200
Speaker 2: he's going to be a huge deal if you don't

726
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 2: even know about him yet. But he's kind of having

727
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 2: this surge of success. And it was so funny to

728
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 2: listen to him say, like, you know, he's already he's

729
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 2: just now having this success. It hasn't even there's things

730
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 2: ahead of him that are so big. He's doing. He

731
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 2: performed for Biden the other night, Like wow, he's there's

732
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 2: not even like, what's what's come for him hasn't even started,

733
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 2: even though it's like it's it's definitely coming like he

734
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 2: can see it on the horizon, and he's already worried

735
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 2: about losing the things that he has that he's getting

736
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 2: he's about to get that he's guaranteed to get. He's

737
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 2: already worried that once they're done, he's just going to

738
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 2: be a one hit wonder. And I'm like, if you're

739
00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 2: not enjoying this now, what the fuck is the point?

740
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Speaker 4: Yea and all.

741
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 2: Well, so I know this is easy for me to say,

742
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 2: but I went through that, you know, I went through

743
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 2: feeling like after my MTV show got canceled, what am I?

744
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 2: This is?

745
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 4: Ever?

746
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 2: This is so embarrassing. Everyone knows that I have a

747
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,120
Speaker 2: canceled show. Meanwhile, no one gives a fuck. No one

748
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 2: knew you had a show, Nikki. All that really matters

749
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 2: in this business, and everyone has heard me say this

750
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 2: before is the deadline announcement, and it's the announcement that

751
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 2: you got a show. The fact the announcement that I

752
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 2: have a special coming out when I announced it finally

753
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 2: and have the deadline thing is going to be unfortunately,

754
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 2: probably more valuable than the special itself, and more people

755
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 2: will see it and that will make a bigger impact

756
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 2: on the industry thinking I'm something than the special itself.

757
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 3: But like, what a percentage, Brian, what percentage do you

758
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 3: think of shows that get made and go on TV

759
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 3: don't ever make it into like the Zeitgeist? I mean

760
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 3: the Zeitgeist. Oh my god, yeah, ninety five percent something

761
00:32:58,280 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 3: like that.

762
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Speaker 5: The two shows that I worked on didn't even get

763
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Speaker 5: a deadline article. What did you even get deadline?

764
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 4: And I'm right in saying like you were waiting for

765
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 4: that right that's a big Oh my god.

766
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 6: I would have loved to have posted a deadline article.

767
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 5: I didn't get a deadline article when I sold the show,

768
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 5: even though other shows that were in development at the

769
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 5: same time, Dan and I didn't get a deadline article

770
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 5: for the show that I was show running. We couldn't

771
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 5: get anybody to even review that show. We were when

772
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 5: when that show came out? What is the show Adventure

773
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 5: Beast on Netflix? It's like a cartoon supposed to be

774
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 5: for tweens, but reasons things happened and it wasn't for tweens,

775
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 5: but I tried to give up. It was for adults

776
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:41,959
Speaker 5: for some reason, not supposed to be. It was not

777
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,560
Speaker 5: supposed to be competing with Inside Job, but it was

778
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 5: even though it was for supposed.

779
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 2: To be, I cannot it was competing with Inside.

780
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Speaker 6: Job, Inside Job, which was good.

781
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 5: No, it was a it was a cartoon, Illuminati cartoon

782
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:59,720
Speaker 5: that also upset me. But the before the show came out,

783
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 5: I was charged with trying to email just like YouTubers

784
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 5: who had like less than one hundred views per video,

785
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 5: just to interview me in the star of the show,

786
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 5: just to get somebody to say something. I emailed like

787
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 5: twenty different just YouTubers.

788
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 6: This isn't like Entertainment Weekly.

789
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, one person responded Rama's screen, shout out to Rama's screen.

790
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 6: You guys all know Rama right in the screen.

791
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 4: He really he's a taste maker.

792
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 6: Yeah.

793
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:31,760
Speaker 5: So we got on Rama's screen, we did an interview

794
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 5: there and that was the only one who even responded

795
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 5: to my email. And I'm like, this is a show

796
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 5: of premiering on Netflix. It's not like I was premiere.

797
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:42,400
Speaker 5: We're not premiering it on some.

798
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 4: Ship plays als channel.

799
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Speaker 6: Yeah, it wasn't on the real W. It wasn't on

800
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Speaker 6: the c W.

801
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:50,360
Speaker 2: I'm so grateful to be on the scene.

802
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 3: Your career right now.

803
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 4: I'm the comedian. I'm making jokes.

804
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 3: I love going on the great at the c W.

805
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean they're all I'm just saying.

806
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:02,479
Speaker 3: Actually, do you have a show right now that people

807
00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 3: are talking about. I forget what's called, but really I

808
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 3: just saw an article being like, you, guys should check

809
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 3: out this show on the CW. Wasn't that Boy Island?

810
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 2: I met an executive from the CW. He came to

811
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 2: my show last night, and he seemed very proud of

812
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 2: me and was very excited to meet me.

813
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,719
Speaker 3: The show is great and you're great on it. And

814
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 3: what the feedback I get is we need more Glazer.

815
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:24,359
Speaker 6: You know that's my feedback too.

816
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 2: Oh that's really nice, guys.

817
00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 6: And more Glazer more.

818
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 2: I don't really watch myself, so I don't. I haven't

819
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:34,759
Speaker 2: watched it. This is this is my fatal flaw is

820
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:36,399
Speaker 2: I can't watch tape, can't watch tape?

821
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:38,319
Speaker 3: What was your what was it Johnny Manziel thing that

822
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 3: you liked?

823
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:40,000
Speaker 2: He watched? He didn't watch tape?

824
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:43,080
Speaker 3: Watch zero tape, zero tape? How much tape did you

825
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 3: watch Johnny zero?

826
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:48,240
Speaker 2: And he yeah, oh yeah, Johnny Manziel thirty for thirty

827
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:49,280
Speaker 2: watched zero tape.

828
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 4: But he was just like.

829
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 2: Kind of just got by Have we talked about how

830
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:53,040
Speaker 2: did it work for him?

831
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 3: No?

832
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:56,880
Speaker 2: In the end, No, did he need to be watching tape?

833
00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 5: Yes?

834
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 3: Have we talked about how Nikki ownly like sports but

835
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:04,840
Speaker 3: ten years from now? So she loves sports documentaries, but

836
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:07,760
Speaker 3: she doesn't like current sports as they're happening.

837
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 4: Yes, I love.

838
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 3: But it's great because now I'm so good now when

839
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 3: I'm like encouraging her like something, you know, something's not

840
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 3: going her way or if we if we want to

841
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 3: do something ambitious, I always bust out, like Michael Jordan's

842
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 3: stuff for Johnny Manzel stuff.

843
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 2: I do relate to athletes in that way when I

844
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 2: look back, because athletes I've found are a lot like

845
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:36,800
Speaker 2: me in that they they nothing's ever good enough. They

846
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:39,279
Speaker 2: some of them are super cocky, but a lot of

847
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:41,799
Speaker 2: them have low self esteem. I think a lot of

848
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:47,320
Speaker 2: them feel like they're only alive when they like completely

849
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 2: shift from like when they're on stage or off stage

850
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:53,640
Speaker 2: or off the quarter on court, and they're just complicated,

851
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 2: like kind of uh depressed people.

852
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 3: A lot of time they met like a lot of it,

853
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:02,880
Speaker 3: like they've got the talent, the skill, and then the

854
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:04,280
Speaker 3: mental game comes into.

855
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,799
Speaker 6: The mental game. A question you got affection. Nothing's ever

856
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:07,319
Speaker 6: good enough.

857
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 5: It's always got to be better because there's someone next

858
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:10,759
Speaker 5: to you who's going to be doing it twice as

859
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:12,080
Speaker 5: hard and they're going to beat you.

860
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 2: Who do you consider David Beckham would be better off

861
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 2: if his dad wasn't so mean?

862
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 4: I don't.

863
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 2: I think he wouldn't have been as successful and all

864
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:20,800
Speaker 2: that stuff, But I think he'd be a happier person

865
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 2: if his dad wasn't such a dick.

866
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:25,880
Speaker 3: Who do you think is like the like the most

867
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 3: the biggest meant, when you think of like mental giant

868
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 3: with like a winning mentality, Who do you think of first?

869
00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 4: Michael George David Goggins David Goggins.

870
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know anything about him, but I just

871
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 2: know that he likes That's a really good like. If

872
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 2: I could have anyone's brain, he seems like someone who's

873
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 2: just like loves himself.

874
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:44,120
Speaker 3: Goggins is great, and Yah, Jordan Is is probably the

875
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 3: like the number one guy. Kobe's up there for sure.

876
00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:53,319
Speaker 2: Sure, But Kobe's I'm not saying, but wasn't Wasn't his

877
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 2: belief in himself kind of the reason that he's like

878
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 2: go through the fog right right, right, like doesn't that.

879
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:03,239
Speaker 5: I think everybody like you, no, anybody with it was

880
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 5: the guy driving the helicopter's belief in himself that was

881
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:07,359
Speaker 5: like I should go through this lit.

882
00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 4: I mean I don't know anything about it.

883
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:11,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, I do'n think about it either, But someone was

884
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:12,800
Speaker 5: cocky in that situation.

885
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:14,520
Speaker 6: There was a cocky person involved.

886
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:18,279
Speaker 4: It was foggy, right, I think that.

887
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:22,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I I guess that's a really good question, Like

888
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,440
Speaker 2: whose mental fortitude would you want to have? I honestly

889
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 2: want to have Taylor Swift's because she seems to have

890
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 2: a healthy balance of She seems humble, and she seems

891
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 2: like she still is like really excited about everything that's

892
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:41,520
Speaker 2: happening to her. She seems and she she obviously has

893
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 2: a ton of confidence to do what she has, but

894
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 2: she also doesn't seem delusional. And I think Michael Jordan

895
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:52,719
Speaker 2: seems delusional even though he is great. It's like his

896
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 2: is like wanting to get back in his coach. I

897
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:56,839
Speaker 2: mean Taylor Swift has son of that too.

898
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:59,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's a lot of Taylor is like

899
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 3: the revenge up right, like sticking it to so much vengeance,

900
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:06,759
Speaker 3: and that's what Jordan has in his heart Jordan. I

901
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 3: don't think he's delusional. Okay, well, but they do fabricate,

902
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 3: not fabricate, but they create some sort of an enemy

903
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 3: to fight against. I mean, I guess if that's.

904
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:25,280
Speaker 6: You need to have an enemy. Yeah, at any given.

905
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 2: Time, you're producer, Chris, give me an enemy.

906
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:30,359
Speaker 3: I could think of a few. Really, Yeah, I can

907
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:30,919
Speaker 3: think of a few.

908
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:32,400
Speaker 6: A couple to that.

909
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 8: You.

910
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:34,319
Speaker 6: Yeah, I know. I don't want.

911
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:36,920
Speaker 2: Specifically people that I'm in competition with.

912
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:39,319
Speaker 3: I've got a Baker's dozen. You can literally have some

913
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:39,800
Speaker 3: of mine.

914
00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll take some of your own. I can't think

915
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 2: of any that I have. I have all the people

916
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 2: that I used to hate, I've already eclipsed.

917
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, well, you've achieved so much success, your enemies have

918
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 5: less power. It's for someone like me. Enemies are just

919
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 5: like jet few I have, so I have too many.

920
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:01,319
Speaker 5: I have too much, too much disappointment. It's almost not

921
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:02,160
Speaker 5: helping anymore.

922
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:06,120
Speaker 2: Like to I want my life to be I don't

923
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 2: want to. I really think that manifestation and all the

924
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:13,359
Speaker 2: things that lead to a really healthy, great life are

925
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 2: being positive and thinking good thoughts and really any kind

926
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 2: of motivation being like, I want this person to do

927
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 2: badly or because I want to do good is just

928
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 2: a poison in my system, and I'm selfishly like, I

929
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 2: still feel that way about these people. I have it

930
00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:34,320
Speaker 2: in my heart to like want It's almost like the

931
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:37,280
Speaker 2: way I feel about eating not eating meat. I still

932
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 2: have the taste for it. I still crave cheese, still

933
00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:43,839
Speaker 2: crave meat. I don't do it because I'm trying to

934
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,760
Speaker 2: do the right. Well, no, I'm not doing that selfishly.

935
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:50,439
Speaker 2: I'm actually that's the opposite of this. I'm only not

936
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 2: wanting to hate on my haters because I know that

937
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 2: it's bad for me. Right, Yeah, So it's selfish because

938
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 2: I really think that I've been doing these manifest stations

939
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:03,759
Speaker 2: recently and just listening to like I just say to

940
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 2: myself when I'm going to sleep, when i'm feeling let's say, recently,

941
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:09,320
Speaker 2: I've been feeling, Oh, I'm really sick of my act.

942
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:11,319
Speaker 2: I'm bored with it. I feel like I'm just like

943
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 2: brain dead. I can't come up with new things. My

944
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:15,799
Speaker 2: one yesterday, what I just said to myself as I

945
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:19,880
Speaker 2: was going to sleep in my head was you're sharp, funny, smart,

946
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 2: and important to the world. You're sharp, funny, smart, and

947
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 2: important to the world. You're sharp, funny, smart, important. I

948
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 2: just kept saying it over and over, and then I

949
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 2: sometimes feel you know, the other day, I almost downvoted

950
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:37,480
Speaker 2: something on Reddit that was just me being jealous. But

951
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 2: I didn't do it. I didn't downvote it, even though

952
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:43,319
Speaker 2: no one would have ever known it was me. No

953
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:45,759
Speaker 2: one knows who downvotes things. It would have just been

954
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:47,800
Speaker 2: putting negativity into the world, and I don't want to

955
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 2: do that anymore.

956
00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's one thing I do like.

957
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 2: Except on our Intrusive Thoughts episode, which I'm going to release,

958
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get.

959
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:56,680
Speaker 3: Some hanger out the month.

960
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,360
Speaker 4: Huh, it's a month. I let out my anger on

961
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:00,600
Speaker 4: Intrusive Thoughts that episode.

962
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 2: You gotta be a big money player's uh, golden member,

963
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 2: what absorb? I'm sorry?

964
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, if you want to, If you want to someone

965
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:09,919
Speaker 4: my hate, we will see it there.

966
00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 3: Well. I like how you when you're jealous of something,

967
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 3: you go the opposite way it. Sometimes it bothers me

968
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:18,760
Speaker 3: that you do it, because I'm like, God, that person

969
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 3: doesn't deserve that.

970
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:21,359
Speaker 6: But that's the worst.

971
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:23,360
Speaker 2: But you know, I only do it if I actually

972
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:25,759
Speaker 2: think the thing is funny, you know, like there are

973
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 2: people I'm jealous of that get a bunch of stuff

974
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:30,160
Speaker 2: and I don't think the stuff is funny or good,

975
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 2: and I won't post it just because I'm like, I

976
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:34,759
Speaker 2: can be jealous of someone that sucks and I won't

977
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:37,040
Speaker 2: post it. But if I truly think the clip is

978
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 2: funny and I and there's a little voice in me going,

979
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 2: don't do it, I can't. I can't fight that voice.

980
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 2: I gotta post it, and.

981
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 4: It's hard to do.

982
00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:47,200
Speaker 5: That's a different story. You gotta fight against it if

983
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:50,879
Speaker 5: it's funny. But what's personally offensive is when someone succeeds

984
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:51,479
Speaker 5: with shit.

985
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:54,799
Speaker 3: Ye dude, that's that bothers me too.

986
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:56,919
Speaker 4: I really think I could succeed with shit.

987
00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:59,400
Speaker 3: But I have a question that because you know, you

988
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 3: were saying you're excited about your act sometimes sometimes, but

989
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 3: why don't you ever give your You're hard on yourself.

990
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 3: Why don't you ever give yourself credit? Like when I

991
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:09,319
Speaker 3: because I went to those two shows and I've seen

992
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 3: I've seen your comedy probably more than anybody at this point. Yeah,

993
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 3: and almost every time I go, even though I see

994
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 3: the show evolve quite a bit, there's always something like

995
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 3: new that you thought of, Like that day or an

996
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 3: hour before. Why don't you give yourself credit for any

997
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:27,239
Speaker 3: of that stuff? Because some of that comes easy to you.

998
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:28,600
Speaker 3: Why don't you ever it's because.

999
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 2: It's easy, because like things that are easy, I shouldn't

1000
00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 2: get credit for. You should only get credit for things

1001
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 2: that make you go like oh at the end of ent,

1002
00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:35,840
Speaker 2: why are you like that?

1003
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 3: Who'd like this? Don't you think a win is a win?

1004
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 4: Like? Do you think yet?

1005
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 2: Because you know it's my example when someone was like, Nik,

1006
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 2: your legs are amazing, what do you do for them?

1007
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:48,840
Speaker 2: And I'm like, they're my dad's legs. I did nothing

1008
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 2: for them. I literally just got genetically good looking legs.

1009
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:55,919
Speaker 2: I will not ever take credit for my legs because

1010
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 2: I didn't work for them. Now, if if someone was

1011
00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:00,320
Speaker 2: like you have, like, my abs are going to be

1012
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 2: pretty good after pilates, if someone goes like, wow, your

1013
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 2: abs are amazing, I will go I worked for these motherfuckers. Yeah,

1014
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 2: you know, all my dad did was coming to my

1015
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:09,799
Speaker 2: mom in nineteen eighty hurt my legs.

1016
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 4: How you do it?

1017
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:12,760
Speaker 6: That's good. That's how you accept the compliment.

1018
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're talking about they're smart, because like you noticed

1019
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:17,920
Speaker 5: that I had been working on my abs and they

1020
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 5: are good because I'm working.

1021
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:22,759
Speaker 2: Yes, Yes, that's such a good point. Yeah, I guess

1022
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 2: I hear your point, and I think you're absolutely right.

1023
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:27,880
Speaker 2: I need to give myself more credit for being the

1024
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 2: things I was saying. I'm quick, I'm smart, i'm sharp,

1025
00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:33,759
Speaker 2: i'm funny like, and those things do come naturally to me,

1026
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:34,279
Speaker 2: and they don't.

1027
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:36,880
Speaker 4: They actually don't come naturally to me. Those are you know, the.

1028
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 2: Work is already done, so it doesn't feel like it's

1029
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 2: it's just there now. Yeah, and so when I come

1030
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 2: up with a new line on stage, I don't give

1031
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 2: myself credit for because it was like I didn't like

1032
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:50,520
Speaker 2: sit down with a pen and paper and write that,

1033
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 2: so it doesn't feel like work.

1034
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 3: But the work has already happened. The work has already happened,

1035
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:56,160
Speaker 3: So you got to give yourself credit.

1036
00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:57,280
Speaker 4: I'll give it, Okay.

1037
00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:00,400
Speaker 2: I'm really good, I'm quick, i'm sharp, i'm smart, smart,

1038
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:01,760
Speaker 2: and my voice is important.

1039
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:03,960
Speaker 5: You're just not thinking far back enough. The reason you're

1040
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:05,960
Speaker 5: able to come up with those lines is because you

1041
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:09,240
Speaker 5: did comedy ten years ago, fifteen years ago. That trained

1042
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:10,920
Speaker 5: your brain to be able to do that. So you

1043
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 5: should be really happy that your brain is functioning in

1044
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:15,799
Speaker 5: that way because it took you fifteen years to make

1045
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:16,239
Speaker 5: that brain.

1046
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:18,319
Speaker 2: Okay, I'll take credit for it.

1047
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1048
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:23,399
Speaker 5: Yeah, because you're smart and act to the world now.

1049
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 3: Important to the world. You have a voice and something

1050
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:25,839
Speaker 3: to say.

1051
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:27,279
Speaker 2: All right, we were going to go to break and

1052
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 2: talk about more stuff when we get back up to break. Okay.

1053
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 2: So today we were boarding a plane to come to

1054
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 2: Saint Louis. Our flight was in the morning, six twenty

1055
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 2: five am was our flight. Brian.

1056
00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:46,399
Speaker 4: Last night, we got it saving time.

1057
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we got an extra hour, so it's not

1058
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 2: as bad. We didn't lose now we got in our

1059
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:52,840
Speaker 2: but we were last night. We got in after the

1060
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 2: show and like it was a like I had a

1061
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:57,800
Speaker 2: three show night or a three show weekend.

1062
00:45:57,840 --> 00:45:59,719
Speaker 4: It was just a long weekend and did the Taylor

1063
00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:00,239
Speaker 4: Swift Show.

1064
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 2: Is like a pretty exhausting weekend with meet and greets,

1065
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 2: and Chriss flew out to be with me, and then

1066
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,200
Speaker 2: we traveled to Boston, and we traveled to or we

1067
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:10,400
Speaker 2: traveled to Baltimore, and we did the show last night

1068
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 2: and we get back to our hotel and we're like

1069
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:13,520
Speaker 2: excited to just like our show was at seven.

1070
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:15,280
Speaker 4: We were done by ten thirty. We're back at the hotel.

1071
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 2: And we got back and we're like, yes, we're back

1072
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:20,839
Speaker 2: and a nice hotel. And Chris is like, when's our

1073
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:23,839
Speaker 2: flight tomorrow. I was like, let me look like it's

1074
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:28,319
Speaker 2: probably like eleven or something, and I'm like, in four hours.

1075
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, Like it was so devastating.

1076
00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 5: But did you did you sleep? Did you decide to

1077
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 5: not sleep?

1078
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:41,239
Speaker 2: Well? I Brian. My calculus, which I think actually might

1079
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:44,399
Speaker 2: help you, is that when I'm gonna get less than

1080
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 2: four hours, I just think of it as a dope

1081
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:49,400
Speaker 2: ass nap, and then all of a sudden, it's not

1082
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:51,640
Speaker 2: a bad night sleep, it's a really good nap.

1083
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:54,400
Speaker 4: Oh okay, You're able to get a three.

1084
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 2: And a half hour nap. That is fucking amazing. So

1085
00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:59,319
Speaker 2: you just have to like think of what it is

1086
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 2: and what it what. Don't not think of what it

1087
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 2: isn't So anyway, we get to the we get to

1088
00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 2: the yeah, it was like a triple negative. So you

1089
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 2: get we get to the oh, yeah, that's true. We

1090
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 2: got to the airport in the morning and I was

1091
00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:16,880
Speaker 2: just feeling saucy. I even told Chris I was like

1092
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 2: it's as if it's like nine am. I'm feeling like

1093
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 2: awake kind of it was like five five am or whatever.

1094
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:25,879
Speaker 2: And we're going through the TSA, and you know when

1095
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:30,319
Speaker 2: you're going through TSA, there's like some people that are

1096
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:32,640
Speaker 2: slower loading their things on the thing. Well, there's a

1097
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:34,359
Speaker 2: woman in front of me, there's a guy in front

1098
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 2: of me, and there's a woman in front me. In

1099
00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:38,799
Speaker 2: front of the woman had a sea like a seeing

1100
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 2: eye dog with her, so she was kind of struggling

1101
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:43,680
Speaker 2: and taking her time. This guy, not the guy in

1102
00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 2: front of me. There was a guy in front of me,

1103
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 2: but a guy from behind me comes flying out of

1104
00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 2: nowhere and just shoves like has ample room to do it,

1105
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 2: because the woman's kind of like slow, and we're all

1106
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:56,239
Speaker 2: kind of like waiting and being patient for her to

1107
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 2: load her stuff because she's got the dog and she

1108
00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:00,399
Speaker 2: might be blind I don't really remember, or it might

1109
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:02,839
Speaker 2: have just been a dog for her anxiety or something.

1110
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 2: But this guy runs in, puts his bag up and

1111
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:10,440
Speaker 2: like shoves it down, takes a bin and dodges in

1112
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 2: front of her, cuts the line. There's three people in line,

1113
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:15,799
Speaker 2: and he cuts in front and I go what's with

1114
00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:16,719
Speaker 2: this asshole?

1115
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:17,800
Speaker 7: Asshole?

1116
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 2: I go, and then the guy in front of me

1117
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:23,319
Speaker 2: was like, he kind of looked at me, and I go,

1118
00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 2: not you, sir, I go, what did you see? That guy?

1119
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:27,680
Speaker 2: What an asshole?

1120
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:27,840
Speaker 8: Like?

1121
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 2: I said it pretty loudly because I wanted the guy

1122
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 2: to hear me, but like, also not hear me and

1123
00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:32,480
Speaker 2: maybe think I'm the blind woman.

1124
00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 4: No.

1125
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:35,239
Speaker 2: I was ready to get into a thing with it,

1126
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 2: because there's it was just so egregious.

1127
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:37,879
Speaker 6: But I didn't hear.

1128
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 2: He did. He definitely heard, but he acted like he

1129
00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:43,799
Speaker 2: did it right. So then the guy in front of

1130
00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:46,360
Speaker 2: me is like, well, maybe he's in a hurry. I

1131
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:48,719
Speaker 2: was like, then he should have told us that. I

1132
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 2: have no problem. As as people know on this podcast,

1133
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 2: if you are missing your flight, but me in line,

1134
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 2: just tell me you're running late, and I will get

1135
00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 2: other people on board. I will say, like we let

1136
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 2: this girl go ahead. I will work for you to

1137
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:04,759
Speaker 2: get you ahead, because I know what it's like to

1138
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:06,560
Speaker 2: be late for a plane. It's so miserable because you're

1139
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:09,200
Speaker 2: scared to ask people. You gotta ask, and will always

1140
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:10,240
Speaker 2: let you ahead. Always.

1141
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 4: I will always give you that benefit, but you gotta ask.

1142
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:14,879
Speaker 2: You can't just button assume we're just saying I'm sorry,

1143
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:16,840
Speaker 2: I'm running late. I have to do this. That's it,

1144
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:18,560
Speaker 2: that's all you gotta do.

1145
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:20,720
Speaker 4: He didn't.

1146
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:23,160
Speaker 5: He probably gets away with it all the time. That's

1147
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:25,640
Speaker 5: the way the world works. I think he does get

1148
00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:27,359
Speaker 5: away with I think he does get away with.

1149
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:27,879
Speaker 3: It all the time.

1150
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,440
Speaker 4: He does so very people.

1151
00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 5: Would have done what you did, even and say, look

1152
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 5: at this asshole, Like.

1153
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 2: I have a new plan though, Okay, so the guy,

1154
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:39,399
Speaker 2: So the guy in front of me was like, maybe

1155
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 2: he's in a hurry, and I go and then I'm

1156
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 2: almost mad at that guy. I'm like, don't make excuses

1157
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:44,279
Speaker 2: for him. I was like, well, then he should have

1158
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 2: told us. I'm getting an attitude with this guy now

1159
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 2: because he seems to be freaked out by me calling

1160
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:49,879
Speaker 2: this guy an asshole. But I'm like, be on my side.

1161
00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 2: He cut you too, I'm standing up for us. And

1162
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:55,120
Speaker 2: then and Chris is in the other lane, and Chris

1163
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 2: already I have clear, and Chris just has TSA pre

1164
00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:01,880
Speaker 2: Oh god, pree too. But I have clear. And Chris

1165
00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:04,239
Speaker 2: beats me through just doing prey because the TSA clear

1166
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 2: was so slow.

1167
00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 3: Not to slow down to your story. But you gotta

1168
00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 3: eye the lines. You take it, take an inventory of

1169
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:11,279
Speaker 3: both lines, and you say which which line is gonna

1170
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 3: be faster. It's not always about how many people it is.

1171
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 3: It's how irresponsible some of the people might life. I

1172
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 3: told Brian, what are their ages?

1173
00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 2: I told Brian one time because he asked about like,

1174
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:22,320
Speaker 2: what do you what line do you choose at a

1175
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:24,400
Speaker 2: grocery store, like when you're looking at them, and I go,

1176
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 2: whatever line I choose, I don't ever think about it

1177
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 2: anymore because when I put effort into it, it will

1178
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:33,240
Speaker 2: inevitably be the longer line. And because I've put effort,

1179
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:35,759
Speaker 2: it will matter to me more and it will irk

1180
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:37,840
Speaker 2: me more. So I just I don't care anymore and

1181
00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:38,800
Speaker 2: I just get in a line.

1182
00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:41,160
Speaker 4: But you're right, I should have paid attention in the

1183
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 4: in the grocery store.

1184
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:43,280
Speaker 3: You got to play the cashier.

1185
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:44,879
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, Oh do.

1186
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:46,239
Speaker 2: You know the cashier at the whole Foods that makes

1187
00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:47,680
Speaker 2: you put it closer to him?

1188
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 3: Yes, I do it.

1189
00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 2: I do it for every guy now because I'm just

1190
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:52,919
Speaker 2: scared he might shape shift into another guy.

1191
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:53,640
Speaker 4: He always tells that.

1192
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 2: You you just put all your groceries as close to

1193
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:57,759
Speaker 2: him as possible. So they're all lined up at the

1194
00:50:57,840 --> 00:51:01,359
Speaker 2: like the far right side of the ream. He won't reach.

1195
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:05,440
Speaker 2: You got to move them. He doesn't want Scanner's elbow.

1196
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:09,160
Speaker 2: I think it's something that he's reflected with He probably

1197
00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 2: sometimes ten to night is So anyway, this guy cuts

1198
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:14,359
Speaker 2: in front, I say, asshole. Then I'm getting a little

1199
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 2: utuned with the guy in front of me then and

1200
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 2: I'm I'm just like, oh, this guy sucks so much.

1201
00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:22,280
Speaker 2: And then I already come up with a plan because

1202
00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 2: I was like, this isn't a good look to be

1203
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:26,760
Speaker 2: like saying just asshole to people.

1204
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:28,759
Speaker 4: It's just not a good look, even if he is

1205
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:29,360
Speaker 4: an asshole.

1206
00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:32,239
Speaker 2: So I think my new thing when someone does this

1207
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 2: and I told it from Taylor Swift, it's a thing

1208
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:37,840
Speaker 2: she's or no, I'm sorry, I stole from Olivia Rodrigue.

1209
00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 4: How dare I confuse the two?

1210
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 2: In Vampire Olivia's song she goes, look at you, cool guy?

1211
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 2: Got it and she's like it's she's saying it sarcastically

1212
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 2: calling people cool guy.

1213
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:50,839
Speaker 4: I think that's my new.

1214
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:55,839
Speaker 2: Look at this cool guy, because you can't be mad

1215
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:58,520
Speaker 2: at someone calling you a cool guy. But it's one

1216
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:00,719
Speaker 2: hundred percent sarcastic. Cool guy.

1217
00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:03,080
Speaker 4: Oh what a cool guy. I feel like that's my

1218
00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 4: new thing.

1219
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 7: If you would have said it to that guy, he

1220
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 7: probably would have turned around, like winked at you or something.

1221
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:12,879
Speaker 2: Well, here's so we get through.

1222
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:16,400
Speaker 4: We get through, and I'm ready to give.

1223
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,279
Speaker 2: This guy an evil eye on the other side, you know,

1224
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:20,640
Speaker 2: once we get through the scanner, because we're all collecting

1225
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:22,760
Speaker 2: our things at the same time, because it's kind of backed.

1226
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 4: Up, and he was the one interview you for the job,

1227
00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 4: well kind of.

1228
00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:33,600
Speaker 2: Oh no, puts on his jacket and he's a pilot, which,

1229
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:35,880
Speaker 2: by the way, I know the rules that pilots and

1230
00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 2: flight attendants.

1231
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 4: And people who work at the huts.

1232
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:40,480
Speaker 2: Of news, they always get to go in front of you. Well,

1233
00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:43,200
Speaker 2: you did not look like a pilot at all. I

1234
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:47,200
Speaker 2: would have never ever. He wasn't drunk, he had a

1235
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:49,960
Speaker 2: sloppy haircut. No, he he just didn't look like a pilot.

1236
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:52,319
Speaker 2: He didn't have any kind of pilot outfit on. But

1237
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:54,719
Speaker 2: then his jacket was like Southwest gives him like these

1238
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 2: sloppy jacket. It wasn't like a good pilot jacket. So

1239
00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:01,160
Speaker 2: I felt horrible and thank god the guy didn't start

1240
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:03,719
Speaker 2: anything with me, because I would have had it. Can

1241
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:06,879
Speaker 2: you imagine I called the pilot an asshole? I'm so sorry.

1242
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:09,879
Speaker 3: When we were walking, she was like, yeah, what if

1243
00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 3: that was my hour.

1244
00:53:11,040 --> 00:53:12,919
Speaker 4: Pilot, chriscos, would you say?

1245
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 3: I don't remember?

1246
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:15,480
Speaker 2: You were like, yeah, can you imagine if he was

1247
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:20,280
Speaker 2: so mad at you he crashed the plane on? Like really?

1248
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:21,760
Speaker 4: So it was just funny.

1249
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:23,920
Speaker 2: I felt really bad. So shout out to all pilots

1250
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:26,400
Speaker 2: who butt in line. You're allowed to. I know the rules.

1251
00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:29,359
Speaker 2: I know you're probably screaming at your podcast device being like,

1252
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 2: what if it was a pilot, I know the rules.

1253
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:33,560
Speaker 2: I always make sure if it's a pilot. I've done

1254
00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 2: this a million times. He did not read pilot. He

1255
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:42,319
Speaker 2: was not giving pilot asshole. He's give me cool that

1256
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:46,839
Speaker 2: he was in a hurry like he was, Yes, I'll

1257
00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:49,879
Speaker 2: never do it again. I really learned my lesson because

1258
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:52,000
Speaker 2: it is not cool to be a woman, or to

1259
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:54,680
Speaker 2: be any kind of person that shouts that, that just

1260
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:57,279
Speaker 2: has like a tude about stuff and like it was

1261
00:53:57,440 --> 00:54:00,440
Speaker 2: just I was I told this before or when I

1262
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 2: get angry, I feel amazing, I feel powerful, I like it,

1263
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:06,560
Speaker 2: I feel right. It's the only time in my life

1264
00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 2: I feel good is when I'm really angry. I feel amazing.

1265
00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:14,839
Speaker 2: I like tapping into it. I felt good, But I'm

1266
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:16,879
Speaker 2: not gonna say asshole. I'm not gonna cuss the next

1267
00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:19,359
Speaker 2: time I get angry. Cool guy is my new thing,

1268
00:54:19,440 --> 00:54:21,319
Speaker 2: and I will be getting an attitude with the word

1269
00:54:21,320 --> 00:54:23,840
Speaker 2: cool guy. Yeah, it will be uncomfortable for people around me,

1270
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 2: but it won't be as uncomfortable as asshole, because that

1271
00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:28,160
Speaker 2: is inappropriate, and I do regret us.

1272
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:30,279
Speaker 5: You might get a good idea to say cool guy,

1273
00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:33,920
Speaker 5: but it just doesn't get that same punch, doesn't get

1274
00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:35,279
Speaker 5: that AnGR I'll like if you said, look at this

1275
00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:38,400
Speaker 5: cocksucker like that, like.

1276
00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:43,040
Speaker 6: Mother fucker. Like to say cool guy, that's gonna tamper

1277
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:43,560
Speaker 6: it a little bit.

1278
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:47,440
Speaker 3: Tamp well cool guy to me, it has a nonchalance

1279
00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:49,399
Speaker 3: to it that could get under their skin.

1280
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:55,520
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, there's a thing I'm saving for the Intrusive

1281
00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:58,240
Speaker 2: Thoughts episode we're doing right after this. That is another

1282
00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 2: thing that I'm doing to get back up my haters.

1283
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:02,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, wait, I think hold on.

1284
00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:04,400
Speaker 7: I just want to share this with you because I

1285
00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 7: just don't want to burst your bubble. But part of

1286
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:11,799
Speaker 7: me thinks that the whole like anger and getting satisfaction

1287
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 7: calling them a cool guy or asshole. It's kind of

1288
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:17,480
Speaker 7: like the antithesis of having empathy.

1289
00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:21,879
Speaker 2: Absolutely, you're yes, okay, it's all. It's fucking with my mojo.

1290
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:25,799
Speaker 3: It's shit. Who is fun?

1291
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:29,760
Speaker 2: Its trying to keep my temporal clean and calm.

1292
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 4: It's not clear.

1293
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:33,280
Speaker 6: You have a dirty temple. Will be fine.

1294
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 4: I know it's not good.

1295
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:38,400
Speaker 2: You gotta sweep the steps, you gotta keep it clean,

1296
00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:43,279
Speaker 2: you gotta keep your Yes, it's it's true. It's like

1297
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:45,919
Speaker 2: and I've said this a million times. I know better

1298
00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 2: than this. It's just when you are underslept and you

1299
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:53,919
Speaker 2: are not being mindful and you're just on autopilot, your

1300
00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:56,560
Speaker 2: anger can get the best of you, and it's not good.

1301
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:58,680
Speaker 2: It's not It is not good for my health to

1302
00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 2: be mouthing off anyone, even if they really harm me

1303
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:05,240
Speaker 2: in some way. I should always be nice.

1304
00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:06,040
Speaker 4: And that's why.

1305
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:08,560
Speaker 2: No, I think I sent you a thing final thought, No,

1306
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:10,279
Speaker 2: I think you I sent you a thing that I

1307
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:12,920
Speaker 2: wanted to share a long time ago. But it was

1308
00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:16,279
Speaker 2: someone it was his head. Yeah, will you do you

1309
00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:16,759
Speaker 2: have it?

1310
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:19,640
Speaker 4: I do we have it? Right? Because it made me

1311
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:20,360
Speaker 4: so happy.

1312
00:56:20,400 --> 00:56:24,680
Speaker 2: It was about people on Instagram who get dms that

1313
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:27,840
Speaker 2: are so hateful and mean, and this one.

1314
00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:29,399
Speaker 4: Girl had the idea to just.

1315
00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:33,360
Speaker 2: Write nights things back okay, and it instantly changes everything.

1316
00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:35,560
Speaker 3: Oh because then they go back there like, hey, I'm sorry.

1317
00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:37,480
Speaker 3: I you know, I was having a rough day and

1318
00:56:37,480 --> 00:56:38,960
Speaker 3: like this sort of thing is hard on me and

1319
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:39,279
Speaker 3: my kids.

1320
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:41,800
Speaker 2: Yes, so what she writes is my favorite thing in

1321
00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 2: the world is responding to my hateful messages and seeing

1322
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:46,000
Speaker 2: how fast I can change their mood. Okay, no, will

1323
00:56:46,000 --> 00:56:47,920
Speaker 2: you read that because it's too small for me. Oh wait,

1324
00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:49,840
Speaker 2: he goes, shut the fuck up and go back the

1325
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:52,719
Speaker 2: fuck wherever you came from? Then pussy, and she goes,

1326
00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:55,480
Speaker 2: you look really nice in your icon. What do you

1327
00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:57,920
Speaker 2: use to whiten your teeth like that? And they go,

1328
00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:00,839
Speaker 2: I'm pretty nice. Usually just a little sick. Right now,

1329
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:03,239
Speaker 2: my girlfriend does it. I don't really prefer it, but

1330
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:06,080
Speaker 2: I like the pick. I like your facial hair wish

1331
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:07,880
Speaker 2: I had. Okay, so I guess this is a guy.

1332
00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:13,240
Speaker 2: So immediately everything is fine again. The person is back. Amazing,

1333
00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:16,800
Speaker 2: it's amazing. There's another one that goes, where does one Oh? Oh,

1334
00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:20,200
Speaker 2: then the guy wrote back, where does one get those?

1335
00:57:20,280 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 2: And she says any drug store likes. I guess this

1336
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:24,400
Speaker 2: is her writing him writing.

1337
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:26,880
Speaker 5: This one isn't like an example. This one seems like

1338
00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 5: it's just a random conversation.

1339
00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:31,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Like they continued to conversation, so it was

1340
00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:33,080
Speaker 2: still it was still yeah, because where do you get there?

1341
00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 6: She became friends.

1342
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, she goes any drug store like CVS. I guess

1343
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:39,560
Speaker 2: they're talking about facial hair. At this point, the hater

1344
00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:42,800
Speaker 2: came back and said, appreciate it. Well, sorry to have

1345
00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:46,320
Speaker 2: been rude. Man, Have a good night. Sleep well, homie,

1346
00:57:46,520 --> 00:57:50,520
Speaker 2: love you may so happy.

1347
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:52,320
Speaker 4: That's awesome, isn't that cute?

1348
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:55,200
Speaker 3: The thing is, every time you lose control, everybody around

1349
00:57:55,200 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 3: you knows this woman's not doing well. It's you know

1350
00:57:58,080 --> 00:57:58,760
Speaker 3: when you know.

1351
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:01,040
Speaker 2: But you know what, sometimes I need people to know

1352
00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:01,720
Speaker 2: I'm not doing that.

1353
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:04,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's why you do for help. Yes, I think

1354
00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:04,960
Speaker 4: it is.

1355
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 2: It's sometimes like it's my castles are crumbling and I

1356
00:58:09,360 --> 00:58:11,720
Speaker 2: can't keep it up anymore, and I need people to know,

1357
00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 2: like I want people to feel sorry for me. I

1358
00:58:14,160 --> 00:58:17,480
Speaker 2: think it's it's yes, it's asking for help, but it's

1359
00:58:17,520 --> 00:58:19,560
Speaker 2: honestly pushing people away because they're like, I don't want

1360
00:58:19,560 --> 00:58:20,720
Speaker 2: to get involved in this at all.

1361
00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 4: I think that's a really good point.

1362
00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:27,640
Speaker 5: The day yesterday I had I put blueberries in those

1363
00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:30,919
Speaker 5: green crates, you know those green crates that you can.

1364
00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 4: Get, yes, yes, but they fall the blue.

1365
00:58:33,960 --> 00:58:35,280
Speaker 6: Floor, they fall out all the time.

1366
00:58:35,440 --> 00:58:38,200
Speaker 5: I opened up the refrigerator and the blueberries fell out

1367
00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:39,960
Speaker 5: and it fell out in the back and all the

1368
00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 5: blueberries fell out, and I almost I almost exploded.

1369
00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:44,640
Speaker 6: I was almost like.

1370
00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:49,000
Speaker 8: These fucking blueberry Of course, the blueberries go over well.

1371
00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:51,720
Speaker 8: And today of all days, like like yesterday was any

1372
00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:55,880
Speaker 8: worse than today of all. But I caught myself and

1373
00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:58,760
Speaker 8: I was like, Brian, it's fine, just let the blueberries

1374
00:58:58,800 --> 00:58:59,440
Speaker 8: bounce around.

1375
00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 6: It's and I didn't explore, which I was very happy about.

1376
00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:05,520
Speaker 2: I did the same thing. Okay, So this weekend I

1377
00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:08,160
Speaker 2: did have a good mindful moment. I have these amazing

1378
00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:11,000
Speaker 2: pants by Ripley Raider. If you're a girl, you know

1379
00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:13,080
Speaker 2: what I'm talking about. They're advertised you all the time

1380
00:59:13,120 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 2: and the tagline is my clients always are people who

1381
00:59:16,040 --> 00:59:18,160
Speaker 2: buy these always tell me Ripley Raider is the girl

1382
00:59:18,200 --> 00:59:20,440
Speaker 2: that makes them, I guess, or whoever the woman is

1383
00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:22,720
Speaker 2: that created the brand is like, people tell me they

1384
00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:24,920
Speaker 2: wear these to get laid or get hired, and it

1385
00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:27,160
Speaker 2: like it sold me so much. They're such cute pants.

1386
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:30,480
Speaker 2: I'm obsessed with them. They fit perfectly, and this weekend

1387
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:33,080
Speaker 2: I wanted to wear them to the Swifty Show, so

1388
00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:36,680
Speaker 2: I went to iron them and it burnt them have

1389
00:59:36,760 --> 00:59:39,760
Speaker 2: something and they're two hundred dollars pants. I mean, these

1390
00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:42,360
Speaker 2: aren't cheap pants, and they're my favorite pants. And I

1391
00:59:42,440 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 2: was like, you're such an idiot. That was such a

1392
00:59:44,160 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 2: quick thing to do. You said it on the highest setting.

1393
00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:48,280
Speaker 2: You didn't test it before, you didn't look at I

1394
00:59:48,320 --> 00:59:49,920
Speaker 2: look for a tag that said don't iron, and they

1395
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:51,240
Speaker 2: didn't have it. So there's a part of me that

1396
00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:52,840
Speaker 2: was like, I'm entitled to a new pair of pants,

1397
00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:53,520
Speaker 2: but I didn't do that.

1398
00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 4: You know what I did.

1399
00:59:54,320 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 2: I just quickly bought a new pair of pants and said,

1400
00:59:57,800 --> 01:00:00,360
Speaker 2: you're not allowed to like be a victim today about this.

1401
01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:03,800
Speaker 2: Such a dumb thing to be upset about that there's

1402
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:06,200
Speaker 2: a little orange stripe on your pants now from it

1403
01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:09,760
Speaker 2: being burnt. It's okay. You can have nice things. You

1404
01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:12,840
Speaker 2: just messed up. You're a good person. It's okay. Mistakes happen,

1405
01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:15,080
Speaker 2: buy a new pair of pants. Just fix this right

1406
01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:16,320
Speaker 2: now and go have fun.

1407
01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:17,040
Speaker 4: A tailor swept.

1408
01:00:17,040 --> 01:00:18,720
Speaker 3: That's sort of the key to everything. And that's why

1409
01:00:18,760 --> 01:00:20,640
Speaker 3: resilience is so important. It's like, you are going to

1410
01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:23,600
Speaker 3: get over those pants eventually. Everything I've ever done, I've

1411
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:25,800
Speaker 3: gotten over it. You're gonna get over it eventually.

1412
01:00:25,920 --> 01:00:26,520
Speaker 4: Chare the cock.

1413
01:00:26,600 --> 01:00:30,320
Speaker 3: Oh god, I almost picked a chair up it's this

1414
01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:33,120
Speaker 3: size over my head and threw it out my door

1415
01:00:33,200 --> 01:00:35,640
Speaker 3: because I got paint. Because I got paint on it.

1416
01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:38,840
Speaker 3: And I've been babying this chair for years because it's

1417
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:42,240
Speaker 3: all white and I don't let like things get near it.

1418
01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 3: And like I got a little bit of pain on it,

1419
01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 3: and I can't. You can't get it out. It's actually stain.

1420
01:00:47,440 --> 01:00:50,640
Speaker 3: It's like, you know, like wood stain. And when I

1421
01:00:50,720 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 3: did it, I saw it, I was filled with rage,

1422
01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:56,560
Speaker 3: filled filled and I was going to pick the chair

1423
01:00:56,640 --> 01:00:59,080
Speaker 3: up and throw it out my front door. And I

1424
01:00:59,120 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 3: was and I even thought to myself, this could be

1425
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:04,240
Speaker 3: a turning point in my entire life. Like if I

1426
01:01:04,240 --> 01:01:05,880
Speaker 3: picked this chair up and I throw it out the door,

1427
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:09,000
Speaker 3: that's you could have killed baby.

1428
01:01:10,880 --> 01:01:14,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's then that's you if someone sees that.

1429
01:01:15,440 --> 01:01:18,920
Speaker 3: Well, even for myself, like I just don't want to

1430
01:01:19,800 --> 01:01:21,040
Speaker 3: cross that line where you.

1431
01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:23,640
Speaker 2: I remember one time my dad almost hit me. I

1432
01:01:23,680 --> 01:01:26,400
Speaker 2: was a kid, and he was like he really wanted to,

1433
01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:29,880
Speaker 2: and I could tell like just I almost wanted him

1434
01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:31,920
Speaker 2: to because I just didn't you threaten him, Yeah I did,

1435
01:01:32,120 --> 01:01:35,480
Speaker 2: or you goted him. Oh I was. I was the

1436
01:01:35,480 --> 01:01:38,960
Speaker 2: greatest of all timing him go down. Sorry, that's I

1437
01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:41,600
Speaker 2: was goating him so hard. I remember it was like

1438
01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:45,400
Speaker 2: I told he had said something to me. He complained

1439
01:01:45,400 --> 01:01:47,920
Speaker 2: about my mom to me, because there's not good boundaries

1440
01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:49,640
Speaker 2: in my family, so he had complained about my mom

1441
01:01:49,680 --> 01:01:52,080
Speaker 2: about something, and I had told her about what he

1442
01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:55,280
Speaker 2: had complained about because I was tired of being this

1443
01:01:55,360 --> 01:02:00,720
Speaker 2: go between. Its inappropriate, exactly triangulating. So I didn't realize

1444
01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:02,400
Speaker 2: at the time, like Dad, don't tell like take it

1445
01:02:02,480 --> 01:02:02,800
Speaker 2: up with mom.

1446
01:02:02,840 --> 01:02:04,400
Speaker 4: Don't take it up with me, go see a therapist.

1447
01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:06,000
Speaker 2: And by the way, my dad sent me a note

1448
01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 2: today because I posted all my story. There's this like

1449
01:02:09,160 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 2: beautiful picture that apparently was from propaganda for Jehovah's witnesses,

1450
01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:17,040
Speaker 2: but it just shows this like kind of paradise, and

1451
01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:19,360
Speaker 2: it says, this is the world if parents went to therapy,

1452
01:02:19,400 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 2: and it's just like this, all humans and animals all

1453
01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 2: living blissfully together, and it says, this is the world

1454
01:02:25,400 --> 01:02:27,040
Speaker 2: of parents went to therapy. And my dad wrote back

1455
01:02:27,040 --> 01:02:29,680
Speaker 2: ha ha to that. So this is an example of

1456
01:02:29,760 --> 01:02:31,960
Speaker 2: like maybe he wouldn't have done it. You know, it

1457
01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:33,920
Speaker 2: didn't fuck me up too much, but it was just

1458
01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:36,080
Speaker 2: an if you're a parent out there, don't complain to

1459
01:02:36,120 --> 01:02:38,720
Speaker 2: your kids about your spouse. Go to therapy and talk

1460
01:02:38,760 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 2: to someone, even if you have no one else to

1461
01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:45,400
Speaker 2: talk to. It's inappropriate because character assassination. Yes, it's not good,

1462
01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:47,760
Speaker 2: even though I know that, Like at the time, it

1463
01:02:47,800 --> 01:02:50,240
Speaker 2: was just I was probably complaining about my mom and

1464
01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:52,200
Speaker 2: my dad was like, I agree with you, you know,

1465
01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:53,720
Speaker 2: like it was probably just a way for us to

1466
01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 2: bond in that moment, and my mom has done the

1467
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 2: same for me with my dad, you know, like it's

1468
01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:59,160
Speaker 2: hard not to do that, especially when your daughter is

1469
01:02:59,200 --> 01:03:00,560
Speaker 2: super smart intelligence.

1470
01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:01,160
Speaker 3: What kind of.

1471
01:03:02,600 --> 01:03:05,360
Speaker 2: And so affair that'll be in the Interestive Thoughts episodes?

1472
01:03:05,480 --> 01:03:06,200
Speaker 4: Dad won't pay for that.

1473
01:03:06,280 --> 01:03:07,440
Speaker 3: I was really just trying to get you to do

1474
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:08,480
Speaker 3: a Julia impression.

1475
01:03:08,640 --> 01:03:12,360
Speaker 2: You know what, he's tracking in mud all the goddamn time.

1476
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:17,560
Speaker 2: I just got this goddamn table. Any day you put

1477
01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:21,280
Speaker 2: a scratch on this table already, this is bullshit. You

1478
01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:23,800
Speaker 2: know what, I'm not even gonna have nice things anymore.

1479
01:03:23,920 --> 01:03:24,240
Speaker 2: You know what.

1480
01:03:24,280 --> 01:03:25,880
Speaker 4: The house is gonna go to shit. Fine, I'm not

1481
01:03:25,920 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 4: cleaning anymore.

1482
01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:27,040
Speaker 2: I'm done.

1483
01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:27,760
Speaker 3: I'm done.

1484
01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:32,520
Speaker 2: So uh so my dad. I told my mom and

1485
01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:34,440
Speaker 2: he was like, you told her. And I just remember

1486
01:03:34,520 --> 01:03:38,920
Speaker 2: him like like he wanted to slap me so badly,

1487
01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:40,800
Speaker 2: and I kind of deserved it. I was really a

1488
01:03:40,840 --> 01:03:43,000
Speaker 2: content at this point in my adolescence, Like this is

1489
01:03:43,040 --> 01:03:46,400
Speaker 2: probably seventeen, eighteen, nineteen years old around there, and I

1490
01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:48,840
Speaker 2: just remember saying, I go, Dad, hit me. I go,

1491
01:03:49,040 --> 01:03:53,120
Speaker 2: everything's gonna change. Though everything will change, it will never

1492
01:03:53,360 --> 01:03:55,400
Speaker 2: be the same between you and me if you do it.

1493
01:03:55,560 --> 01:03:56,560
Speaker 2: But you should do it.

1494
01:03:56,720 --> 01:03:57,640
Speaker 4: And he didn't do it.

1495
01:03:58,320 --> 01:04:01,240
Speaker 2: But I remember being like this, this is the moment, dad,

1496
01:04:01,880 --> 01:04:03,040
Speaker 2: everything that's like.

1497
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 7: Too old of an age to be hitting a kid.

1498
01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:09,000
Speaker 7: It's just basically like brawling with your kid, like.

1499
01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:12,640
Speaker 3: A street you want to hit your kid between the

1500
01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:14,120
Speaker 3: ages of three and seven.

1501
01:04:14,080 --> 01:04:20,919
Speaker 4: Yeah, already to be a professional athlete or musician. Yes,

1502
01:04:21,640 --> 01:04:22,320
Speaker 4: no kidding.

1503
01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:25,840
Speaker 5: What if he did that thing in movies where he

1504
01:04:25,920 --> 01:04:27,840
Speaker 5: goes to punch you but he really just punches the

1505
01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 5: wall right next to your head and misses you.

1506
01:04:31,080 --> 01:04:32,800
Speaker 4: Still violent, No, I don't like that.

1507
01:04:33,120 --> 01:04:35,320
Speaker 2: I think that's crazy. I think that even if you

1508
01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:37,840
Speaker 2: witness that as a child, that is like really traumatic.

1509
01:04:38,000 --> 01:04:40,240
Speaker 5: He punches next to your head, he misses you, It

1510
01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:41,919
Speaker 5: makes a hole in the wall, and you go, look

1511
01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:42,920
Speaker 5: at this asshole.

1512
01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:48,720
Speaker 2: I have a friend who's constantly injured, and every time

1513
01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:51,040
Speaker 2: I see him he has some new like bandage or

1514
01:04:51,040 --> 01:04:54,280
Speaker 2: like he has like a like a new ace bandage

1515
01:04:54,320 --> 01:04:56,800
Speaker 2: on his arm or his leg. And I'm not joking you,

1516
01:04:56,880 --> 01:05:00,560
Speaker 2: I go, what what what did you kick? And every

1517
01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:03,560
Speaker 2: single time he's hit or kicked something, his anger. Yeah,

1518
01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:04,640
Speaker 2: I'll tell you who afterwards.

1519
01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:05,520
Speaker 3: Is it Johnny Manziel.

1520
01:05:07,640 --> 01:05:10,120
Speaker 2: But it's really a thing that people do. And I

1521
01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:13,080
Speaker 2: talk about anger. I mean I could talk about it

1522
01:05:13,120 --> 01:05:13,480
Speaker 2: all day.

1523
01:05:13,560 --> 01:05:15,520
Speaker 3: Yeah you can't. It's so fun, Yeah you can't.

1524
01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:16,120
Speaker 4: It's a great.

1525
01:05:16,320 --> 01:05:20,120
Speaker 2: It really horns me up because gets me charged up.

1526
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:21,320
Speaker 4: I feel good.

1527
01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:23,880
Speaker 2: I like it because I think it's something I just

1528
01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:26,560
Speaker 2: never addressed for so long. So when I get angry,

1529
01:05:26,960 --> 01:05:29,000
Speaker 2: Oh boy, I.

1530
01:05:28,880 --> 01:05:31,280
Speaker 3: Get you become somebody different.

1531
01:05:31,400 --> 01:05:32,120
Speaker 4: Oh you've seen it.

1532
01:05:32,200 --> 01:05:32,760
Speaker 3: I've seen it.

1533
01:05:32,880 --> 01:05:35,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, you've been like, is this late?

1534
01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:36,920
Speaker 3: Why is this happening?

1535
01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:39,720
Speaker 4: And why does she only come out drink or therapy sessions.

1536
01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:46,520
Speaker 3: You said something the other day, Yeah, because we're saying

1537
01:05:46,520 --> 01:05:49,640
Speaker 3: you know, we're talking trash over. Yeah, OK, talk about

1538
01:05:49,640 --> 01:05:54,080
Speaker 3: your dad hitting you? Great? God, that was good? All right?

1539
01:05:56,200 --> 01:05:57,520
Speaker 4: Really, what's a good note?

1540
01:05:57,920 --> 01:05:59,880
Speaker 3: You said something really nice about the meet and greets

1541
01:06:00,720 --> 01:06:04,480
Speaker 3: after the meet and greets that that I thought was great.

1542
01:06:04,520 --> 01:06:06,200
Speaker 3: I think you should share with people. Do you remember

1543
01:06:06,200 --> 01:06:06,560
Speaker 3: what it was?

1544
01:06:06,680 --> 01:06:07,520
Speaker 4: No, will you share it?

1545
01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:10,560
Speaker 3: You talked about how it's fun because you haven't been

1546
01:06:10,560 --> 01:06:14,360
Speaker 3: doing them for too long, but now people will come back,

1547
01:06:15,040 --> 01:06:17,200
Speaker 3: and it's fun to have the moments when people come

1548
01:06:17,240 --> 01:06:19,840
Speaker 3: back and and like there are people are telling you

1549
01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:22,760
Speaker 3: really nice things at them, so they they've become like

1550
01:06:22,960 --> 01:06:25,280
Speaker 3: kind of like a source of joy for you.

1551
01:06:25,400 --> 01:06:28,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it feels really good. Well, I will have

1552
01:06:28,880 --> 01:06:30,640
Speaker 2: to say to people that listen to the podcast, it

1553
01:06:30,680 --> 01:06:32,280
Speaker 2: really means a lot to me that you listen to

1554
01:06:32,280 --> 01:06:34,680
Speaker 2: the podcast. I'm so touched every single time, and it's

1555
01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:37,240
Speaker 2: always like this really awkward moment of like it's as

1556
01:06:37,240 --> 01:06:40,840
Speaker 2: if someone's like, I read your diary kind of thing

1557
01:06:40,880 --> 01:06:43,840
Speaker 2: where I'm like, it is for you to read, but like, oh,

1558
01:06:43,880 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 2: like you read my biography or something where I'm like, oh,

1559
01:06:45,920 --> 01:06:47,520
Speaker 2: I put a lot of weird I don't even know

1560
01:06:47,560 --> 01:06:48,240
Speaker 2: what's in there.

1561
01:06:48,400 --> 01:06:50,040
Speaker 4: So it's always a moment where I get a little

1562
01:06:50,080 --> 01:06:50,520
Speaker 4: bit awkward.

1563
01:06:50,560 --> 01:06:52,560
Speaker 2: But I love you so much for listening, and it

1564
01:06:52,600 --> 01:06:55,080
Speaker 2: means so much to me, and like it really that

1565
01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:57,280
Speaker 2: gives me more self esteem than anything that people just

1566
01:06:57,400 --> 01:06:59,640
Speaker 2: like to listen to this this thing that is just

1567
01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:05,080
Speaker 2: so one hundred percent me and isn't any There's nothing

1568
01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 2: being put on here, there's no performance.

1569
01:07:06,960 --> 01:07:13,440
Speaker 3: Twelve percent Brian and like, yeah, it's really really nice

1570
01:07:13,560 --> 01:07:14,800
Speaker 3: and I appreciate it so much.

1571
01:07:14,840 --> 01:07:16,919
Speaker 2: But if you really want the real me, you gotta

1572
01:07:16,960 --> 01:07:21,160
Speaker 2: do Intrusia thoughts. You got to be a big money player.

1573
01:07:19,640 --> 01:07:23,000
Speaker 3: Or therapy with her or cut her in line at

1574
01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:26,120
Speaker 3: the airport and not be a pilot, or.

1575
01:07:26,160 --> 01:07:27,200
Speaker 4: Go see her this weekend.

1576
01:07:27,240 --> 01:07:27,600
Speaker 7: Where are you.

1577
01:07:27,560 --> 01:07:29,560
Speaker 2: Gonna be or you can, Yeah, it comes to me

1578
01:07:29,600 --> 01:07:31,840
Speaker 2: this weekend because I will get I get Buck Wilde

1579
01:07:31,880 --> 01:07:35,360
Speaker 2: on stage. Man, it's all coming out recently this weekend

1580
01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:39,280
Speaker 2: is going to be Rehobeth, Delaware. I've never been there,

1581
01:07:39,480 --> 01:07:43,200
Speaker 2: but I cannot wait to perform in rehobe with Delaware

1582
01:07:43,400 --> 01:07:46,880
Speaker 2: and then Atlantic City on Saturday night. And then next

1583
01:07:46,920 --> 01:07:48,240
Speaker 2: week I will be in Tempe.

1584
01:07:48,400 --> 01:07:50,920
Speaker 4: Noah will be at the show's backstage with me.

1585
01:07:51,040 --> 01:07:54,960
Speaker 2: I'm so excited. And then I will be in Portland

1586
01:07:55,080 --> 01:07:58,360
Speaker 2: on Saturday. So a Thursday, Friday in Tempe, Arizona, and

1587
01:07:58,400 --> 01:08:00,560
Speaker 2: then Saturday in Portland next week. And I would love

1588
01:08:00,600 --> 01:08:03,040
Speaker 2: to meet busties. There's meet and greets. You can just

1589
01:08:03,040 --> 01:08:04,320
Speaker 2: find Anya at the merch booth.

1590
01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:05,720
Speaker 4: Tempt me. I don't know how we're gonna do the

1591
01:08:05,760 --> 01:08:06,240
Speaker 4: meet and greet.

1592
01:08:06,760 --> 01:08:10,800
Speaker 2: We'll figure something out, but yeah, or DM me and

1593
01:08:10,800 --> 01:08:12,440
Speaker 2: and we'll figure it out as well. I love you guys,

1594
01:08:12,480 --> 01:08:14,200
Speaker 2: thank you so much for listening to the show. We'll

1595
01:08:14,240 --> 01:08:24,920
Speaker 2: see you tomorrow and dumpy Ka and dance. We'll be okay.