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Speaker 1: Welcome to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Here we are again.

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Speaker 1: We're back. Thank you so much for coming back and

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Speaker 1: joining us.

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Speaker 2: Katy, Oh my gosh, we are having so much fun.

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Speaker 2: If you haven't listened to our episode from Wednesday, I

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Speaker 2: have so many questions. The biggest one is why not

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Speaker 1: We couldn't stop laughing. I mean, I can't, can't. You

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Speaker 1: We've got some great fan questions. I can't wait to

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Speaker 1: get into these today. And don't forget if you have

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Speaker 1: dot com slash Golden Hour. We have been getting so

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Speaker 1: many great questions from you guys. Thank you for keeping

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Speaker 2: The questions and the comments have been great. We got

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Speaker 2: our first update. It's been wonderful. Please send them in.

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Speaker 2: But first, before we get started with today's questions, we're

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Speaker 2: going to do the topic of the day. Are you ready, Susan? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Today's topic is what do you consider cheating? Some people

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Speaker 2: think flirting is cheating, others think dancing with someone else

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Speaker 2: is cheating something. Some think texting someone else is cheating,

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Speaker 2: and then there are some more obvious ones like kissing

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Speaker 2: or sleeping with someone, or maybe hooking up with someone.

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Speaker 2: So where is the line for you when it comes

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Speaker 2: to what cheating is and how do you communicate that

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm all about communication. My lips aren't sealed, that's

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Speaker 1: for sure.

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Speaker 2: I mean to me, if it looks like a dog

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Speaker 2: and smells like a dog, it's a dog, right, cheat?

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Speaker 1: I mean flirting, flirting, it depends. That's not cheating.

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Speaker 2: I don't think flirting is cheating. No, I don't.

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Speaker 1: And I'm dancing with somebody.

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Speaker 2: Come on, I said, that's not cheating. I mean, I

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Speaker 2: think even depending on how the kisses is not cheating.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's just like a hugs, so nice to

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Speaker 2: see you. Making out is cheating?

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Speaker 1: Texting? They're saying texting.

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Speaker 2: Susan, Susan, there's sexting and then there's texting.

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Speaker 1: I don't do that either.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're teaching Susan about hooking up and sexting.

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Speaker 1: Okay, get passed the hooking up? Okay, So where cheating

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Speaker 1: is making out with somebody and.

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Speaker 2: Going wait a minute. Cheating is wait a minute, having

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Speaker 2: sex with someone?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Or making out with someone? Yeah, that's cheating. That's it.

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Speaker 1: Great, I kiss somebody else?

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Speaker 2: Great? If those are your two rules for for for cheating,

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Speaker 2: I can't knoll oh, what's coming is? I can't wait

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Speaker 2: for your next boyfriend because he and I are going

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Speaker 2: to Italy. I promise I won't sleep with them and

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Speaker 2: I won't kiss him, but we're gonna have a great.

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Speaker 1: Time in Well, you can't do that.

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Speaker 2: It's not cheating. I just asked you. I said, do

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Speaker 2: you can go on a trip together? Was not in

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Speaker 2: this equation here? It just said, where is the line

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Speaker 2: when it comes to what is cheating? I asked you

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Speaker 2: what cheating was? You said making out? The world heard it, Susan,

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Speaker 2: you said making out or sleeping with him. So I'm

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Speaker 2: telling you I'm not going to make out with your

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Speaker 2: he's going to Italy with me and we're gonna have

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Speaker 2: a great time.

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Speaker 1: I won't guess that I'm coming.

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Speaker 2: No, you're not.

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Speaker 1: Why would you want to go with my boyfriend and

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Speaker 1: I don't even have one?

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Speaker 2: Because I don't have one? And if you have one

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Speaker 2: in any port in a storm.

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Speaker 1: He'll do. What is cheating to you? Again?

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Speaker 2: Honestly, uh, I think there can be in all seriousness,

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Speaker 2: which we have not been today, all affairs of the

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Speaker 2: heart and affairs of the mind are cheating. But when

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Speaker 2: I think of cheating, I think what does real danger

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Speaker 2: I'm saying. What can do emotional damage? You know, the physical.

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Speaker 2: I used to say to my husband, this is true.

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Speaker 2: We used to say to each other. You know, you

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Speaker 2: can do a lot of things. You know, you can

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Speaker 2: gamble the grocery money when we were younger. But you

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Speaker 2: cheat on me, We're done, It's over. That is I

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Speaker 2: would walk away. But what's cheating, I just for me,

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Speaker 2: cheating is having a relationship with another person male female,

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Speaker 2: where your mind and body part is somewhere else.

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Speaker 1: People think flirting and dancing with somebody is cheating, Like.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean some people. Who's some people? You know,

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Speaker 2: I don't think. I don't think that's cheating, But I

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Speaker 2: think insecure people might think, you know, if I asked

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Speaker 2: wouldn't bother you at all. You'd say, go for it.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go to drink at the bar.

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Speaker 1: But although I've been to religious churches and some people

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Speaker 1: think dancing is not appropriate period.

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Speaker 2: But that's different. That's like a sin. I'll tell you

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Speaker 2: my sister stepsister was very jealous. If her husband even

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Speaker 2: looked at another woman, she could go postals. So you know,

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Speaker 2: I think it's I think we all know what's cheating.

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Speaker 2: You know, you and I know what would be cheating.

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Speaker 2: And I can assure you my husband knew what was cheating.

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Speaker 1: All righty, you're ready for the questions today? Guess this

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Speaker 1: is old Karen?

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Speaker 2: Are you gonna good questions?

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Speaker 1: She didn't put her age or where she's from. I

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Speaker 1: Kathy and Susan, I could do some dating advice or

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Speaker 1: words of encouragement. I used to be bed down and

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Speaker 1: wigh a almost six hundred pounds. After getting gastric bypass

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Speaker 1: surgery and working on myself, I am much healthier and happier. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: despite losing a lot of weight, I am very self

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Speaker 1: conscious of my new body. It's completely hindered my dating

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Speaker 1: life and ability to put myself out there. I am

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Speaker 1: proud of all that I have done, but I am

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Speaker 1: bummed to still be feeling this way. Any tips, Thank

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Speaker 1: you both, Love you ladies. God bless her.

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Speaker 2: Can I just say yay to you, Karen, and that

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Speaker 2: you used to weigh six hundred pounds and I'm guessing couldn't. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you said bedbound. Let's just be honest here, friends, if

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Speaker 2: you've lost out much weight, you've got a lot of

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Speaker 2: loose skin because our body can only reabsorb react so much.

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Speaker 2: So if if you can afford it, go get me.

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Speaker 2: If you can afford it, go get the surgery and

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Speaker 2: get your you know your body. I will tell you,

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Speaker 2: and you know, Susan, I've said it on this podcast.

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Speaker 2: I used to weigh two hundred pounds and you know

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Speaker 2: now I I weigh you know, one thirty whatever, and

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Speaker 2: my skin is not what it you.

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Speaker 1: Know what it is. You're fine, I've seen.

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Speaker 2: I'm saying it's not taught.

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Speaker 2: But I'm just saying no, no, no, let me finish. My

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Speaker 2: point is I sometimes feel I look in the mirror

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Speaker 2: and it's it's like body dysmorphia, Like I look awful

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Speaker 2: because I see the person that weigh that, and that

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Speaker 2: may be partially what's going on with her, and maybe

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Speaker 2: partially that you know, her skin needs some some medical tension,

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Speaker 2: medical attention.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just I agree with that. I would take

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Speaker 1: a loan and I'd finish the process. Or maybe she

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Speaker 1: already has. I don't know, but she's hindered by her

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Speaker 1: dating like that, she had no dating life and she's

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Speaker 1: worried about putting herself out there. You should feel fabulous

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Speaker 1: you did this. Stand proud, love yourself, because it's not

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Speaker 1: going to be worth dating anybody until you love yourself.

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Speaker 1: Be proud of yourself. You've accomplished something really huge and

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Speaker 1: you never dated. You were in bed, so it's like

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Speaker 1: a learning thing for you. Try little things.

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Speaker 2: I was going to say, yes, you got to give it,

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Speaker 2: but you got to do it. Yeah, Karen, you got

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Speaker 2: to give yourself some grace here.

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Speaker 1: Proud of Karen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're proud of you for losing the weight. And

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Speaker 2: you said you're much healthier and happier. Yeah, you, but

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Speaker 2: take it a step at a time. If you feel

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Speaker 2: like a surgery would help you, if you feel like

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Speaker 2: getting out in meeting small groups. Just just do it

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Speaker 2: a step at a time. You don't just like you know,

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Speaker 2: even after you have the gas to bypass surgery, you

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Speaker 2: didn't lose all that weight overnight. It does. These changes

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Speaker 2: in your personal life take time.

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Speaker 1: To oud of you, go for it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, really proud of you. It's good for you. Okay.

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Speaker 2: This is from Heaven eight, not from upstairs, but our

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Speaker 2: Hello Golden Hour gals. I hope question isn't too personal.

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Speaker 2: I am just a woman in my sixties trying to

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Speaker 2: look my best and think you are both so gorgeous.

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Speaker 2: I was curious about your beauty routines and your feelings

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Speaker 2: on plastic surgeries, fillers, and botox. I am considering getting

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Speaker 2: not that I quote need it, It's more that I

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Speaker 2: want to just feel better about myself. Would love to

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Speaker 2: just hear you two talk about this topic and normalize

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Speaker 2: Just do it, Just do it.

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Speaker 1: But the thing is, you don't do it for anyone else.

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Speaker 1: That's right yourself. And she said that a little boatogs

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Speaker 1: it only lasts a couple of months, like four months.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's spill it. Let's spill it. Have we talked

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Speaker 2: to you, me and Nancy about the three of us

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Speaker 2: going for facelifts, all taking care of each other.

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Speaker 1: Well, yes, we're all going to take care of one another.

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Speaker 2: You can't. I mean, my beauty started a kitty. I'm

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Speaker 2: saying that I would do it all. Susan, I've done fillers,

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Speaker 2: I've done both times. I mean, I don't have any.

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Speaker 1: Problembody that judges you or jealous because they're not doing it.

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Speaker 2: Tell us what you really think, Susan.

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Speaker 1: More power to you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, and you're right, Susan's absolutely right. Do it

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Speaker 2: because you want to feel good about yourself. It doesn't

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Speaker 2: matter what your husband says. It really doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: It's funny somebody asked me I would tell them, yeah,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, I got shot up over here a little bit.

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Speaker 1: But I love the people that say, oh no, I've

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Speaker 1: had no work done.

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Speaker 2: Hello. There were some women on our show who said

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Speaker 2: that were like, we can still see the needle marks.

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Speaker 2: But I will say as far as beauty routines go, yeah,

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Speaker 2: own it and enjoy it.

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Speaker 1: Take care of our skin definitely.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean I get facials once a month. I

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Speaker 2: never I never ever go out in the sun without

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Speaker 2: sunscreen on and hat on. And I washed my face

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Speaker 2: with moisturizers I put on, like I cream night.

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Speaker 1: What creams? What do you call them? Your do you

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Speaker 1: have a name for him? You pack your I don't know, God,

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Speaker 1: yes you do.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well it'll come to me. But I'm just saying

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Speaker 2: I use and you know what, it doesn't have to

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Speaker 1: can happen, And honestly, if he did, it's gonna hurt

434
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:32,639
Speaker 1: like hell, but never regret the moment, so that you

435
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:35,480
Speaker 1: learn from him, grew with him and enjoyed him.

436
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm saying they haven't dated long enough to

437
00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:41,680
Speaker 2: know they haven't dated something else. You know what I'm saying.

438
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:43,439
Speaker 2: She might meet a guid at the bus stop she

439
00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 2: likes better. I mean. But I will say to you, Carrie,

440
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:50,879
Speaker 2: when you say it's all green flags, is there a

441
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:55,639
Speaker 2: perfect relationship anywhere in life? So be realistic, Carrie in

442
00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:59,360
Speaker 2: your assessment of him, Be realistic. No one is perfect.

443
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:04,120
Speaker 2: All right? Well, that amazing group of questions today. Thank

444
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:06,879
Speaker 2: you to everyone who wrote in. We're wishing you guys

445
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:10,120
Speaker 2: all the best. Whether you're dating, is planning a wedding,

446
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 2: whatever's going on, And if you want to send us

447
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 2: a question, head to Bachelor nation dot com slash Golden

448
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 2: Hour and submit yours. Now, we really do love hearing

449
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:22,959
Speaker 2: from you. We love sharing our opinions. Susan and I

450
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:26,160
Speaker 2: love arguing with each other who's right? So keep those

451
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Speaker 2: questions coming.

452
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Speaker 1: Okay? Then, now, before we wrap up for today, Kathy,

453
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Speaker 1: I have an idea for a new little game. How

454
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 1: about this is just because you failed at truth, I

455
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:43,000
Speaker 1: suck at quandary. Okay, so how about we play around

456
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 1: of truth? Or drink?

457
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 2: Oh wait, w drink? Wait, drink? I mean all right,

458
00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:49,919
Speaker 2: I got it.

459
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:51,600
Speaker 1: Let's do this, all right.

460
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 2: I'm always down first, Spiley, I'll do whatever I gotta

461
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:57,639
Speaker 2: do to get my glass of wine. Let's do it

462
00:24:57,680 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 2: all right? All right?

463
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 1: What's the weirdest thing you've been asked on a date? Now?

464
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,359
Speaker 1: I guess this means if we don't want to answer it,

465
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:13,480
Speaker 1: we drink. Is that yeah?

466
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:15,919
Speaker 2: Well for me, it's it's it's you can't lose I

467
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:18,160
Speaker 2: get to drink or answer the question. I mean, who cares?

468
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 2: All right? So what what's the weirdest thing you've even

469
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:21,120
Speaker 2: asked on a date?

470
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Speaker 1: Weird. I don't know.

471
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 2: I can't. I can't drink. We're going to drink drinking? Hmmm?

472
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 2: All right? Oh, who had your favorite night one dress

473
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 2: on Golden Bachelor? That's easy. I loved mine.

474
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say my feathers, Yeah.

475
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 2: I remember them. Do you remember that I left.

476
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 1: Eight of his gold dress? I thought that was nice?

477
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was pretty too. Yeah.

478
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 1: I honestly, Kathy, I was more into getting to know them.

479
00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:00,439
Speaker 1: I couldn't even tell you what everybody war.

480
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 2: I can't either, I can't. All right, where is the

481
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 2: weirdest place you've ever had sex?

482
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:18,200
Speaker 1: Come on on a rooftop in Miami in the jacuzzie.

483
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 2: Oh shoot, you're gonna believe this? You know what? My

484
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:32,159
Speaker 2: answer was, thanks a lot. No, it was also in

485
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 2: a jacuzzie. But it was not fun. I don't like

486
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 2: doing Yeah that was yeah, but there was more of

487
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 2: that story. But I don't have to drink because I can't.

488
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 2: My kids can't hear this. All right? Which Bachelor Nation

489
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:49,720
Speaker 2: couple do you truly think we'll get married next?

490
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:51,320
Speaker 1: Oh? I know that one?

491
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 2: Who?

492
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 1: Kelsey and No?

493
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:56,360
Speaker 2: Are you joking?

494
00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 1: Brandon and Christina? Why? And Zach got a drink.

495
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 2: You're going a drink.

496
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:07,439
Speaker 1: You gotta drink your doesn't say drink when you're wrong.

497
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 2: Drink when I was right? Who cares?

498
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: I think a few of them are going to But

499
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:18,440
Speaker 1: who's next? Maybe you're Maybe you're right because they're closer

500
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 1: to getting married than the other ones.

501
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 2: That's what I think.

502
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, take a drink. Break.

503
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:28,600
Speaker 2: You've learned Wait, wait, wait before you read this one.

504
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:32,400
Speaker 2: You've learned some terms. You know what hooking up it? Oh?

505
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 2: You know? Okay, great? Read it.

506
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 1: I was a flight attendant, kat This has nothing to

507
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 1: do with me. Yes it does. Are you a member

508
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:43,439
Speaker 1: of the Mile High Club? This is not a credit

509
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:45,880
Speaker 1: card club. Do you know what the mile High?

510
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,399
Speaker 2: Yes? I do. It's having sex in the bathroom on

511
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:49,119
Speaker 2: an airplane.

512
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 1: Yes, those years and never was a member of the

513
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:59,199
Speaker 1: mile High Club. My ex husband and I went to

514
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 1: Hawaii to get married. I said, Dicky, I've never had

515
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 1: sex the airplane, so you got to come in here.

516
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,119
Speaker 1: I want to be a member of the Mile Hog Club.

517
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 2: Can I just tell you I was never a flight attendant,

518
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 2: and I've never been a member of the High Club.

519
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 2: But you know why. I can barely turn my ass

520
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 2: around in that bath and by myself.

521
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 1: It's like it's just a moment. It's not really sex.

522
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 1: But whatever. Yeah, okay, that was funny. Where are we?

523
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 2: What's the worst date you've ever been on?

524
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: Just a few of them?

525
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:35,640
Speaker 2: Give me, give me one.

526
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 1: He didn't show up.

527
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 2: The work. That's good, you know my worst date? It

528
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 2: was actually right for one on the show. It was

529
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 2: a guy who just sat and talked about his deceased wife.

530
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 2: I think I said this on the podcast before. I

531
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 2: wouldn't shut up.

532
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 1: I was a counselor. I can't. I just can't. Let

533
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:00,600
Speaker 1: me pay the bill for you and let me out

534
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 1: of you.

535
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 2: This guy was like, you know, I would say, oh,

536
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 2: I like your glasses. My wife picked him out from me.

537
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 2: Oh you know, oh you live in a house wherever. Oh,

538
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 2: my wife picked up. I got to the point where

539
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 2: I just wanted to say ship to see if I

540
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:16,120
Speaker 2: could get him to say, my wife did it all right.

541
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 1: I kind of want to skip the next one. Oh, while,

542
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 1: have you ever sent a nude photo?

543
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:25,640
Speaker 2: Absolutely not, have you?

544
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 1: It's not your business.

545
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 2: That's not an answer. Yes, I have drink. You didn't

546
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 2: have to drink because you answered the question. Susan, you

547
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 2: really struggle with rules of dance.

548
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 1: You don't do any rules? Have you met me? I

549
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 1: break them all?

550
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 2: All right? Which Golden Bachelor date do you wish you

551
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 2: could steal? That's easy anyone that Jon's on that.

552
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 1: Which Golden Bachelor date do you.

553
00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 2: Wish you could sleep? I want to damn Ellen's rastes

554
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:01,959
Speaker 2: and diamonds who come up?

555
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 1: Or the helicopter, the helicopter with all that date before

556
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:07,920
Speaker 1: it happened?

557
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, the But I mean, really, I've said this before

558
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,840
Speaker 2: on this podcast. I got nothing. I didn't get a date,

559
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:15,960
Speaker 2: I didn't get quartz, I didn't get a rose. I

560
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 2: got nothing.

561
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 1: Okay, oh god, who wrote these? Who is the last

562
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 1: person you text? Wouldn't you read the text?

563
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 2: Who's the last? My mine was born? Mister? My daughter?

564
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 2: What was yours?

565
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 1: I'm on the podcast, can't talk.

566
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 2: To my daughter? How how to read her daughter? My granddaughter?

567
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:50,960
Speaker 2: How did she do in school today? Really boring? Okay, Oh, Susan,

568
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 2: is there anything I do that really annoys you?

569
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 1: Yeah?

570
00:30:57,400 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 2: What?

571
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god? But you're getting way better at a girlfriend?

572
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 2: And what do I do that?

573
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 1: You over talked me? Shut the hell up and listen,

574
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 1: and you gotta do this and you gotta do shut up. Pause? Okay, Kathy,

575
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:20,479
Speaker 1: is there anything I do that really annoys you? Are

576
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 1: they trying to put us in counseling or what they're

577
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 1: trying to break us up?

578
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 2: Before?

579
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 1: Let me drink to that girlfriend. Cheers, cheers, Love you

580
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 1: maybe one hundred years.

581
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 2: People wonder we really are good friends. I tell you

582
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 2: the help with Gary and terreiesa. You are the best

583
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 2: thing to get.

584
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 1: And we argue and we at each other and then

585
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 1: we love you. We don't say goodbye without saying I

586
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:46,239
Speaker 1: love you good night.

587
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, what do I do that in? Wait

588
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 2: a minute, Kat, wait a minute? Dupid?

589
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 1: He annoys you?

590
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 2: I know, honestly what you do?

591
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 1: First of all, go to have a list in a minute, now,

592
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 1: be nice?

593
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 2: What you Susan asked for your advice? Asked for my advice?

594
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 2: Particularly in one I know I'm dying. Susan asked for

595
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:12,680
Speaker 2: my advice, and then I give her my advice and

596
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 2: she goes, yeah, I'm not going to do that. I'm

597
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 2: like them, why the hell did you ask my advice?

598
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 2: I want to Yeah, I was curious. So now when

599
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:20,959
Speaker 2: she asked my advice, I'm like, why do you want it.

600
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 2: Are you just curious or do you want?

601
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 1: I want to know what you think? Yeah? Oh god, okay, if.

602
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 2: You ever had a one Susan, have you ever hooked up?

603
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 2: That's the old word for one night stand? No, I have,

604
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 2: that's I haven't either.

605
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 1: No, we're weird.

606
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 2: We're weird.

607
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 1: Well maybe no, Oh jesus, it was more than once.

608
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 1: That would have been like a friend with benefit thing.

609
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

610
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 1: But I liked him like I wanted a relationship, but

611
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 1: he did so yeah, so no, it wasn't a one night.

612
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 2: While you're talking, I'm drinking, I'm just yeah. Okay, what

613
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 2: are your thoughts on sex toys? That truly is the

614
00:32:58,480 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 2: next question.

615
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 1: I wish I took stocking them.

616
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 2: Oh, look at you, you're learning the financial rules? Body?

617
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 1: Do I enjoy them?

618
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 2: That?

619
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: I think partners should be comfortable with everybody enjoying them?

620
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:16,479
Speaker 2: So should we tell everyone what Susan gave me for

621
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 2: my birthday?

622
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:23,600
Speaker 1: And she loved the best birthday president she ever? A

623
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 1: hookup would have been a better birthday gift. But yeah,

624
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 1: hold up, that's a one night stand. This one gets

625
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 1: recharged and it could go forever.

626
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 2: Okay, al drink to that.

627
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 1: No, I don't think there's anything wrong with them. Some

628
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 1: people struggle in certain ways and they're helpful.

629
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 2: Oh look at now now, now she's playing the political

630
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 2: guard struggle. You're not on the struggle bus. Okay, all right?

631
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 2: Besides each other? Who from Golden Bachelor? Oh this is

632
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 2: easy for me. Besides each other? Who from Golden Bachelor?

633
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 2: Would you want to be stranded on a desert island

634
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 2: with you? Got to think about this. We take the

635
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 2: people we really like, and then we take the people

636
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 2: we really don't like.

637
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:09,839
Speaker 1: I couldn't know.

638
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 2: I'm kidding. Don't write into me, guys, kid, I'm.

639
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:16,399
Speaker 1: Talking all right, Kathy? You ready for this one? Would

640
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 1: you have sex in the fantasy suite? You're down to two.

641
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 2: Or three?

642
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 1: Or three?

643
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 2: You know the truth? You want the truth to answer?

644
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 1: You could give me whatever you want.

645
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:33,480
Speaker 2: No, I'll give you the truth to answer. If I

646
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 2: had gotten to the fantasy suite.

647
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:38,799
Speaker 1: Try it before you buy it.

648
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 2: No, I would have been so convinced, because I am confident.

649
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 2: I would have been so convinced that he would choose me.

650
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 2: I would have been planning for the future, and I

651
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 2: and I would have probably had sex with him. Yep.

652
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 2: What about you.

653
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 1: I'm not telling yes you are. I have to be

654
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Speaker 1: in the moment probably if you got that far like

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Speaker 1: that's yeah happens, yeah yeah, But nobody knows what goes

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Speaker 1: on behind closed doors. They just assume.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I would like to have I'd like to

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Speaker 2: go to the Fantasy Suite just to see what goes

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Speaker 2: on there. I mean, you know, I don't want to

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Speaker 2: watch Scared with you.

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Speaker 1: I'm having wine. You're making me drink every question.

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Speaker 2: See, here's the problem for all of you who are listening.

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Speaker 1: Susan.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Susan drinks, she gets loose lips. You know what

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Speaker 2: can we say?

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Speaker 1: I'm funny, that one cute sometimes all right, kids, as

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Speaker 1: I just choked on that last and it was a

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Speaker 1: lot of fun. Kats that you think.

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Speaker 2: It really was super fun.

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Speaker 1: And once again we thank you all for joining us

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Speaker 1: today on Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. You know what, guys,

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Speaker 1: we couldn't do this without you. I'm so glad that

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Speaker 1: you're tuning in and enjoying us. We mean no harm.

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Speaker 1: We love everybody and we just speak from the heart.

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Speaker 2: And you know it's Susan that is such a great point.

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Speaker 2: The other thing is, guys, we love hearing from you,

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Speaker 2: but know that we are kind hearted people. If you

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Speaker 2: take what we say and it makes you feel better

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Speaker 2: and helps you, we're happy for that. But the biggest

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Speaker 2: message here is love your life into your life. That's

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Speaker 2: what we're doing and to that, and we love that

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Speaker 2: you tune in and listen to us, and we hope

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Speaker 2: you're following our podcast because life is hard enough. You

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Speaker 2: gotta laugh a little bit along the way.

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Speaker 1: And it's very short. Enjoy every single moment of it.

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Speaker 2: And please get us a date.

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Speaker 1: Please don't judge us. We mean no harm. And you know,

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Speaker 1: maybe Kathy, that's why we don't have dates. Because we're loud,

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Speaker 1: we're fun, we're not just we intimidate people. And I'm

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Speaker 2: We you know what you and I both are, so

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Speaker 2: I know so, so send in your date request for

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Speaker 1: If you listen to all of our podcasts, you'll know

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Speaker 1: I was left out in the cold. But make sure

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Speaker 2: Happy Hours Golden Hour on the iHeartRadio app or wherever

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Speaker 1: Have a great will be here.

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Speaker 2: You'll be here till next time.

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Speaker 1: See ya Tell