Speaker 1: Second date. Quick question for the room. Okay, if you're
Speaker 1: on a date with someone, yes, you think it's important
Speaker 1: that you spend a lot of face to face time
Speaker 1: with them? Or is it cool if you don't really
Speaker 1: hang out together for most of the time? No? Yeah,
Speaker 1: what's the point if you don't hang out together? Just? Yikes?
Speaker 1: I was hoping you wouldn't say that. What Why Because
Speaker 1: one of our listeners, Morgan needs our help today after
Speaker 1: she went out with a guy and apparently spend about
Speaker 1: ninety percent of the time in completely different areas. Why
Speaker 1: Some guys might find lots of space and no talking
Speaker 1: extremely attractive, So might have worked in your favor. Sounds
Speaker 1: like my co hosts aren't a big fan of your
Speaker 1: dating strategy though, Sorry Morgan, Oh my gosh, I don't
Speaker 1: know if I was either. I don't know. I can't
Speaker 1: imagine someone being like, how was your date? Oh? It
Speaker 1: was great? I saw him for three minutes. What we plane? Okay? Okay?
Speaker 1: So James and I met online? Okay, and I really
Speaker 1: liked his profile. I felt like he just sort of
Speaker 1: had this like twinkle in his eye that really liked
Speaker 1: that I think of Santa Clause. Yes, sure, yeah, he
Speaker 1: made some sort of comment. He said something like, I'm
Speaker 1: a social introvert ready to enjoy the city, and I
Speaker 1: don't know, I really liked that and we started chatting.
Speaker 1: So our schedules were really kind of tight and crazy
Speaker 1: and well, so some some backstory. I actually I'm a
Speaker 1: dancer on the side, and that is not what sorry,
Speaker 1: get the mind out of the gutter here. I'm a
Speaker 1: pro dancer and I was invited to perform with a
Speaker 1: few of my friends at this local Irish festival. Oh
Speaker 1: are you like an Irish up dancer? Is that what
Speaker 1: you do? Yeah, it's one of the things that I do. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I kind of thought, you know what, like maybe
Speaker 1: this is a great thing to invite James too, because
Speaker 1: it's something different cultural and it can kind of show
Speaker 1: him this different side of me. That's you know, it's
Speaker 1: important to me. Yeah, and he said himself, as an introvert,
Speaker 1: he wants to get out and see stuff, and maybe
Speaker 1: Irish dancing as one of those things. Yea. Yeah. So
Speaker 1: here's the thing though, my mom was in this thig
Speaker 1: that she comes to the festival too. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: she wanted to watch me, which I get. How could
Speaker 1: I say no to that. So no, but it's like, Mom,
Speaker 1: I've been doing this for my whole life, Like, do
Speaker 1: you really need to see this? So to get around it,
Speaker 1: I told James, I was like, okay, let's meet for
Speaker 1: a drink right before. Nothing like Irish dancing with a
Speaker 1: little bit of yeah alcoholic, yeah, yeah, everybody when they're
Speaker 1: a bit I do. That's yeah, that's how the Irish
Speaker 1: do it. Okay, so give me. But it was like
Speaker 1: really brief. I mean, we had wondering, I guzzled it
Speaker 1: down and then had to go, okay, So you didn't
Speaker 1: get a lot of time with him at that point. No,
Speaker 1: So this is where like the real problem started. There
Speaker 1: was not really anywhere to stand, I guess. And I
Speaker 1: had introduced him to my mom right before I left
Speaker 1: to go, like, you know, to the backstage area, and
Speaker 1: he stood and he ended up standing and watched the
Speaker 1: show next to my mom and flirty are you leaving her?
Speaker 1: But no, my mom's awesome. She's really awesome. She's very
Speaker 1: slow to see the type of mom that would be
Speaker 1: like grilling him with questions the entire time that I
Speaker 1: am like positive, I can say, like she's not bad
Speaker 1: type Okay, so after the dance, you go meet up
Speaker 1: with them. What's their vibe together? It's are people happy?
Speaker 1: So that's where there's a problem. Um so we finished
Speaker 1: our number and instead of like just being done and
Speaker 1: getting to go back into the crowd, they like ushered
Speaker 1: us into this vit tent where they wanted to do
Speaker 1: like pictures and meat and greets. And I had no
Speaker 1: idea that that was going to happen. And meanwhile, you know,
Speaker 1: James is waiting out there, and I felt so sad. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: and even if you do get him into the tent,
Speaker 1: it's like you're taking pictures, right really, So I found
Speaker 1: a brief moment that I texted him and I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, I'll be out really soon, okay, And
Speaker 1: what did he say that? He's like, yeah, no problem,
Speaker 1: and me and your mom are having a great time.
Speaker 1: Don't even come back. It ended up taking over an hour.
Speaker 1: Did he land because I would have Oh, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: have hung around either, I know. I at that point
Speaker 1: I kind of thought he would have left, but I did.
Speaker 1: I found James and my mom they were still together. Oh,
Speaker 1: over an hour with your mother. That's a good sign.
Speaker 1: If he stuck around long enough through all of that.
Speaker 1: That must mean he either really really likes you, or
Speaker 1: he really really likes your mom, or he doesn't know
Speaker 1: how to say no and get out of social situation.
Speaker 1: That is a classic introvert. So I apologized profusely, and
Speaker 1: I mean, that's okay, Like I get it, it's okay.
Speaker 1: But and he was like, I can only stay another
Speaker 1: ten minutes. So it was like totally like we just
Speaker 1: basically chatted until he then had to leave. And and now,
Speaker 1: of course he's not responding to my tech. And how
Speaker 1: long has it been since the festival. It's been like
Speaker 1: a week and a half. Oh my god. Yeah. What
Speaker 1: did your mom say about him? She loved it. Oh good,
Speaker 1: that's a good sign. Yeah, Like I really would like
Speaker 1: to do like a redo. Yeah, you know, we'll do
Speaker 1: it more normal, like dinner in a movie or something.
Speaker 1: All right, well, let's get to work here. We're going
Speaker 1: to play a song, come back and call James to
Speaker 1: see how he felt about your date together. And if
Speaker 1: James doesn't answer, then we'll call your mom and ask
Speaker 1: her about James. Either way, we're getting some answers when
Speaker 1: we do your second date update. Next second update. You know,
Speaker 1: they say that you can tell a lot about a
Speaker 1: woman just by looking at her mom. Okay, haven't you
Speaker 1: heard that? Does that work the same for dad's No,
Speaker 1: I don't think it's it's just the mom's Okay. Moms
Speaker 1: are a telescope into the future. Yeah, okay, yeah, look,
Speaker 1: I know this. This is already start off a second date,
Speaker 1: but in this case it actually applies because Morgan's date, James,
Speaker 1: spent most of the time hanging out with Morgan's mom. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and hour together, because Morgan was busy dancing and shaking
Speaker 1: hands up on stage and then behind the stage. The
Speaker 1: good thing is that her mom and James were getting
Speaker 1: along really well. Yeah, thankfully, so says her mother. And
Speaker 1: the fact that he didn't leave, Yeah, that's a good sign.
Speaker 1: And sorry, we may have asked you this already, Morgan,
Speaker 1: but your mom and dad are they still together? Yeah,
Speaker 1: they've been together for a long time. Okay, well, happily together.
Speaker 1: I should have said, thinking that the mom is moving
Speaker 1: in on her mail. I'm for me. It's a strange
Speaker 1: concept to have your mom get along with your date,
Speaker 1: but that that just might be a reflection on my parents. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's cool. And she's happily married. Okay, so really, whatever
Speaker 1: you're thinking, don't think it because it's impossible. Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna stop my thinking. What are you thinking? Why do
Speaker 1: you think James isn't calling asked the question. I think
Speaker 1: that it's just because he was annoyed. Yeah, maybe he
Speaker 1: thinks that I wasted his time, which I feel bad
Speaker 1: I did waste his time. I mean he probably was
Speaker 1: just sort of like if this girl is so self
Speaker 1: centered and we're just gonna all James and interrogate him
Speaker 1: right off the bat, let's do this, Okay, Okay, hellu
Speaker 1: oh he actually picked up Actually, well this is James, right, Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: now we can do it. Oh wow, James, what's up
Speaker 1: my man? You're on the radio now with Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning. Whoa, whoa is right? I'm not
Speaker 1: sure what's going on. What's going on is we heard
Speaker 1: that you went out with one of our listeners named
Speaker 1: Morgan the other day. This is really awkward. Well, ask
Speaker 1: about her. I mean, she actually feels pretty bad about
Speaker 1: your date. She didn't realize that she wouldn't be able
Speaker 1: to hang out with you for a whole hour like
Speaker 1: that's a long time. Yeah, that was too bad. I
Speaker 1: was really looking forward to hanging out. She said the
Speaker 1: same thing about you. She really was hoping to get
Speaker 1: off the stage and back to you as quickly as possible,
Speaker 1: but it was totally out of her control. It was
Speaker 1: kind of weird too, because like her mama was there,
Speaker 1: and yeah, weird about that. Oh my god, we were
Speaker 1: all so she told us the story, and we were
Speaker 1: all shocked when she said that you were still hanging
Speaker 1: out with her mom at the end of all of this, Like,
Speaker 1: we thought for sure you would have bailed. Nobody would
Speaker 1: have thought bad of you if you did. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: kind of got stuck there, huh. Yeah. And I mean
Speaker 1: I liked her mom. She was cool and honest and stuff.
Speaker 1: But after a half hour of hanging out and learning
Speaker 1: all about Morgan's childhood, I started running out of stuff
Speaker 1: to say. Down an wait a minute, what do you
Speaker 1: mean by learning about her childhood the year zero to
Speaker 1: twelve or thirteen? How far did you get into Well,
Speaker 1: she was just kind of saying like that she's always
Speaker 1: been this way since she was a kid, a little flaky.
Speaker 1: Oh she called her daughters flaky. Yeah, yeah, and that
Speaker 1: was kind of crazy. She said that, and I suffer.
Speaker 1: I mean, I said, yeah, maybe she's flaky, but she's
Speaker 1: nice and fun. I don't think flakey's the worst thing
Speaker 1: you could say about somebody. Like my best friend is
Speaker 1: super flaky, she's kind of crazy. Jeans has known, has
Speaker 1: met her for all of two minutes, and now he's
Speaker 1: defending her. And then I said, is this a bad
Speaker 1: thing for me to pursue her? She's not ready for
Speaker 1: a relationship. Oh, just straight up asked her mom. That
Speaker 1: the person that's a good person to ask. Yeah. So
Speaker 1: her mom was like, it's up to you, but there
Speaker 1: are other options. Oh wow, she's trying to talk you
Speaker 1: out of dating her daughter. Other options? What is she saying?
Speaker 1: What are the other options? Yeah? So that's when I
Speaker 1: got scared, because I thought she'd say herself yeah, but
Speaker 1: she brought up Morgan's younger sister, Taylor. Oh, oh my god,
Speaker 1: what do you say to that? Talk about? Well? Hold on, guy,
Speaker 1: that is so low of a mother. You don't even
Speaker 1: know what happened. Well, she said to me that Taylor's
Speaker 1: single two and definitely won't flake on you. I mean,
Speaker 1: you got to get a photo of Taylor before you
Speaker 1: can make a final decision on that inappropriate unless she's hot. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she showed me um and here's the pictures. And so
Speaker 1: I haven't met her sister yet, but her mom gave
Speaker 1: me her contact, and so you're gonna do it? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean we might hang out this weekend. I don't know.
Speaker 1: D o wow, No, wonder you're not calling Morgan back
Speaker 1: to set up another day. That actually be worse. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's worse date with Bosh. I know Morgan is a
Speaker 1: little bit of a flake. So I don't know if
Speaker 1: she's hung up by now. I'm flaked out on this call,
Speaker 1: but she should be on the other line wanting to
Speaker 1: talk to you. James, oh Man, what Yeah, Morgan, you're
Speaker 1: still there? You know I am here and I'm literally
Speaker 1: about to burst. I don't even know what to say
Speaker 1: right now. I don't even know who to be met,
Speaker 1: my mom, my sister or James, Like, well, hey, I
Speaker 1: mean you could have left the VP any time. I mean,
Speaker 1: your mom said this stuff happens all the time and
Speaker 1: said you're super late and never show. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm at this stage in my life where I need
Speaker 1: someone that's going to be there for me. I mean,
Speaker 1: this is comical at this point. Okay, I did not
Speaker 1: know that I was going to be kept like that.
Speaker 1: I had no idea. I was told to start. This
Speaker 1: was going to be a ten minute thing. And I
Speaker 1: thought that you were the type of person that was
Speaker 1: such a go with the flow personality that could be
Speaker 1: cool enough to be like we'll hang out later. But
Speaker 1: clearly I get it now, Like I really get it.
Speaker 1: You stayed because my mom kept telling you more things
Speaker 1: about my sister, my cute little sister, and then you
Speaker 1: got more interested in her, and so then that's why
Speaker 1: you didn't leave, because you were like, yeah, tell me
Speaker 1: more about your sister. Has ever happened to you before?
Speaker 1: Has has mom stolen one of your boyfriends and handed
Speaker 1: her off to the younger sister before? Never time? Okay, Okay, wow, Morgan,
Speaker 1: obviously there was something going on, and you need to
Speaker 1: have a conversation with your mom. But I don't think
Speaker 1: you can really blame him. Like if you were standing
Speaker 1: there with somebody's dad and the dad's like this guy sucks,
Speaker 1: you'd believe the dad. I mean you wouldn't. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: she's known you longer than I have. I didn't know
Speaker 1: what to do. I mean, yeah, James, No, she's known
Speaker 1: me longer than you. Duck. Yeah, Morgan. I really hate
Speaker 1: to bring this up, but weren't we supposed to do
Speaker 1: this call a week ago and then we had to
Speaker 1: reschedule because you had a conflict? Is that true? Oh wow,
Speaker 1: that's why it's been a week and a half since
Speaker 1: we called. She really wanted to call after a few days.
Speaker 1: Isn't that right, Morgan? It's right. But I'm not ama
Speaker 1: just gonna even like let that blow over. I'm so okay, Carol,
Speaker 1: just own your flakiness. Okay, it's fine. I am not flaky. Okay.
Speaker 1: I don't even know what to do at this point.
Speaker 1: I have to call my mom like immediately, and I see,
Speaker 1: you better not see my sister. And that's all I'm
Speaker 1: thinking of him out like this is crossing the lines?
Speaker 1: Are you still interested in James? No? But he's still
Speaker 1: not allowed to see my sister. That checks out normally.
Speaker 1: What we do here is I would offer to send
Speaker 1: you and Morgan out on another date, and we would
Speaker 1: pay for it. But what I'm going to do instead
Speaker 1: is ask you to not see Morgan's sister. He will
Speaker 1: give you money to not see her. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: a gift card, but it still counts us. What do
Speaker 1: you say? Yeah, a gift card is nice, but I'm
Speaker 1: just going to keep texting her? Are you kidding? I mean,
Speaker 1: I've already gone through all this. I'm as well just
Speaker 1: see what happens now. Wow, doesn't work out, you know what?
Speaker 1: James Like mother, like daughter. Let me tell you a
Speaker 1: little bit about my sister. Freak and Jeffrey in the
Speaker 1: Morning be here same time tomorrow because Morgan agreed yes
Speaker 1: to do an awkward Tuesday phone call with her mom.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it's gonna be fireworks tomorrow at seven
Speaker 1: thirty Fake and Jeffrey in the Morning. You just heard
Speaker 1: it from Brooke. Morgan has agreed to come back on
Speaker 1: the show tomorrow in an awkward Tuesday phone call. Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, I'm freaking out. Yeah, And I heard her
Speaker 1: talking to our producer off the air, and she was saying,
Speaker 1: how could my mom do this to me? I can't
Speaker 1: believe it. I want to hear it from her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: That's what I was saying. And I'm not even hurt. So,
Speaker 1: my god. She's having a hard time believing that this
Speaker 1: actually happened. The original plan was for me to confront
Speaker 1: my mom tomorrow, but we're gonna have to push that
Speaker 1: conversation back to a later time. Let somebody else confront
Speaker 1: their mother. Now what doesn't sound as fun, So don't
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