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Speaker 1: This was a what a secret string you said, Tanya.

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Speaker 2: It's called invisible string. It's a Taylor Swift song, and

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Speaker 2: it's all about like there was like an invisible string

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Speaker 2: kind of holding you together to this person for your

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Speaker 2: whole life. You didn't realize it until you met them.

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Speaker 3: So well, I guess that's part of what happened here

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Speaker 3: in the second date update. So, dear Ryan in siciny,

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Speaker 3: I need some answers because this date really felt like fate.

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Speaker 1: We met him bumble, but we actually were in the same.

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Speaker 3: First grade class. Yeah, this is from John in Huntington Beach. Hey, John,

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Speaker 3: good morning.

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Speaker 1: How are you.

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Speaker 4: I'm great? How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm doing well? John. This is it's like a sign.

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Speaker 3: Right, you realize that you guys crossed paths on bumble,

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Speaker 3: but we're actually kids together in first grade.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it I mean in my mind, Yeah, it was

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Speaker 4: like fate for sure.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember her from first grade?

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Speaker 4: Oh? Yeah, I had the biggest crush on her in

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Speaker 4: first You had.

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Speaker 3: A crush in first That's great, I mean didn't we

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Speaker 3: all Well, don't know if I knew what a crushed was.

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Speaker 1: I had a crush in kindergarten. I get I get

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Speaker 1: it Johns everywhere. Well, John, what do we need to

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Speaker 1: know about what went wrong?

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Speaker 3: So you meet, you go out, you go on a date,

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Speaker 3: you have history, and you guys are practically from the

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Speaker 3: same place, and now she wants to blow you off.

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Speaker 4: Well so I mean okay, so yeah, we knew each

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Speaker 4: other in first grade and then my family ended up

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Speaker 4: so I changed schools and districts and then never saw

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Speaker 4: my mind, it was like meant to be. So you know,

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Speaker 4: I was really excited. I took her to this gorgeous

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Speaker 4: restaurant with a great view, you know, uh, Pelican Grill

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Speaker 4: in Newport Beach. Yes, yeah, and I thought it went

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Speaker 4: really great, you know, but like I texted her to

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Speaker 4: go out again, and I got no response for like

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Speaker 4: twenty four hours mm hmm. So then you know, I

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Speaker 4: just kind of sent a question mark and she did

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Speaker 4: respond but was like, oh, I'm so sorry, I'm I'm

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Speaker 4: super slammed right now. I don't think that'll work, but

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Speaker 4: thank you. And that was it. Like, no no indication

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Speaker 3: I mean, come on, you didn't get a sense of

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Speaker 3: anything that went wrong on the date.

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Speaker 4: On the date itself, no, like it was it was

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Speaker 4: don't like, I didn't do anything that I that I

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Speaker 4: think was red flags or anything like that.

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Speaker 1: I'm just looking at the Pelican grill on the website.

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Speaker 3: M M, nice place. Bro looks like, uh, I love

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Speaker 3: that lamps on the tables. Those battery powered lamps popular,

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Speaker 3: the little lamp that sits there with the battery.

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Speaker 1: A lot of restaurants have those.

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Speaker 3: Now, did you find that the tilla soup was any good?

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Speaker 3: That looks like a highlight to me.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I didn't have the soup, but I but the

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Speaker 4: food itself was fantastic.

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Speaker 1: Nice all right.

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Speaker 3: Well, what I'm trying to figure out like that seems

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Speaker 3: like a fun night, like at least a Hey, this

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Speaker 3: was great, great to connect with you again. Just not gonna,

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Speaker 3: you know, we should be friends something. It just seems strange.

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Speaker 3: Something obviously went wrong. John, We're gonna put you on hold,

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Speaker 3: and John, we're gonna find out at least try and

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Speaker 4: I should say, okay, that'd be great, thank you.

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Speaker 3: It's with pleasure. Hold on one second. Do you guys

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Speaker 3: look at when you look at restaurants? Do you look

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Speaker 1: Depends. I'll probably start the website, but then I'll go

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Speaker 2: Like going to Instagram and seeing photos that other people

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Speaker 3: Okay, we'll do that during the break for Pelican Grill

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Speaker 3: coming up next, we're gonna try and get Kristin on

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Speaker 3: the line on air.

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Speaker 1: With Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 4: On Air with Ryan.

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Speaker 3: Seacrest, John is on the phone. John goes on Bumble

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Speaker 1: Small world. You would think that's the.

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Speaker 3: Greatest icebreaker above icebreakers out there. What a great first

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Speaker 3: date icebreaker. They go out on a first date. They

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Speaker 3: go out of Newport Pizza for dinner, nice place, you know, lamps,

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Speaker 3: off after one day. Can't figure out why John, nothing,

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Speaker 3: your jogging me memory, can't figure out anything in the

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Speaker 1: Did you feel chemistry, bro?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I felt like we were having some decent conversation, but

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Speaker 1: Like was it natural? Was there a flow?

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Speaker 4: I think there was a flow. Yeah. I mean I

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Speaker 4: wouldn't be calling you guys if I thought that, you know,

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Speaker 4: I truly did anything wrong or did something that that

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Speaker 1: No, I got you all right.

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Speaker 3: Listen John here, I gotta get it before she hangs

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Speaker 3: up on me. She's on the online. Be very quiet,

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Speaker 3: let me grab her. Hold on one second, Kristen, how

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Speaker 3: are you?

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Speaker 5: I'm good?

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Speaker 1: Good, Thank you for holding on. Let me explain.

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Speaker 3: Ryan Seacrest here and Tany and Sistney. You're on Kiss FM,

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Speaker 3: Los Angeles. Thanks for coming on with us this morning. Okay,

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Speaker 3: So we're calling you about a guy named John that

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Speaker 3: you met on Bumble.

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Speaker 1: Apparently guys went on a date. Yeah, how is the date?

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Speaker 5: Fine?

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Speaker 1: Like fine? Why are you.

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Speaker 3: Calling me right now?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna explain that in a second, but more importantly,

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Speaker 1: What was not there for the date for you?

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Speaker 5: I feel like I need to know what's going on

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Speaker 3: So the reason we're asking is, I believe John is

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Speaker 3: is stumped. I believe John, you know, went out with

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Speaker 1: Would that be accurate?

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Speaker 5: So he called you to call me.

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Speaker 3: So without saying it, yes, he did. He called me

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, because I didn't jump at the opportunity to

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Speaker 3: Don't know, did you not jump at the opportunity? Did

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 5: I didn't. Look it just it wasn't a great date

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Speaker 1: So there was no real chemistry, chemistry, no, like.

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Speaker 5: There was nothing, you know, actually I have. This is

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Speaker 5: so funny. My friends and I we we always check

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Speaker 5: And let me see if I can. I'm just looking.

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Speaker 5: My friend took a photo. I'm just trying to find

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Speaker 5: know on my phone. Can I send you guys this photo?

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Speaker 1: Yes, Tanya, what's yourself? You can text it.

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Speaker 5: You can text us to four one two seven four one.

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Speaker 2: I would have given her my number, but not on

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Speaker 5: Okay, I just sent it to you. So, my friend

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Speaker 5: Ashley took this photo of us on the date.

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Speaker 4: Look at it.

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Speaker 5: Look it just honestly says it all. If you look

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Speaker 1: Who gets the text mark?

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Speaker 5: He's just looking at the waves.

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Speaker 1: God, I see it now.

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Speaker 3: Ah, he's enjoying the view, which it is a tranquil view,

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Speaker 3: but he's he turned his whole chair.

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Speaker 1: He turned his whole chair.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was just weird and all right, Well.

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Speaker 3: So there wasn't marked that you guys would you were

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Speaker 3: Now should you just tell him, hey, this is not

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Speaker 3: You're great to reconnect, but it's not gonna work out.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I feel like me not responding to his

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Speaker 3: Some would say that makes people just you know, creates anxiety.

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Speaker 3: So let me create an opportunity for all of this

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Speaker 3: And John, does that seem accurate that you just didn't

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Speaker 4: Hi, Kristin, Hello, So look, I was just I was

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Speaker 4: I just I couldn't believe we found each other again.

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Speaker 4: And I just I felt like I felt like it

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Speaker 5: That's the other thing, though, this fate thing. You said

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Speaker 5: Like I felt like you were saying it's fate and

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Speaker 3: That, and then there's no second date, which it sounds

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Speaker 1: I mean, your chair is not even facing her. We're

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Speaker 3: Fat yeah picture of you on your date, which is weird.

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Speaker 3: But John, we're gonna just call it. I think Kristen

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Speaker 3: it would be safe to say that great to reconnect,

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Speaker 3: but it's not going to work out with John.

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Speaker 4: Well, let me just let me step in. I'm telling you,

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Speaker 4: I was just super nervous. I think I think I

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Speaker 5: No, no, that's that's that's sweet. But there was no connection.

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Speaker 5: And I haven't seen you since I was six years old.

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Speaker 5: And we're always going to have our memories in the

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Speaker 1: But that's it, all right. Well, thank you Kristin for

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Speaker 3: And John, I think we have closure and that's the

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Speaker 3: best news of all today, and good luck to both

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Speaker 3: of you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I do not want them to go out. Actually again,

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Speaker 3: I am not. I did not feel comfortable. I didn't

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Speaker 3: like the fate. Fate, Fate, Fate freaks me out too,

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Speaker 3: Fate on it and that's wrong with it. You start

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Speaker 3: throwing words like fate around on a first dates, I

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Speaker 3: would like it.

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Speaker 1: For me, It's not for me.

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Speaker 3: I mean first grade, A long time ago, not fate,

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Speaker 3: it was She's right, they just were not a match.

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Speaker 1: I got to know them for one minute. They were

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Speaker 1: not a match. I got a second update. There you go.