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<v Speaker 1>This is, he said a yadjo with Eric Winter and

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<v Speaker 1>Rodland fantab Welcome back to another episode, he said at

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<v Speaker 1>d Ho Nay some of our favorite episodes. Audience questions.

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<v Speaker 1>I know we've been doing these a lot recently. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll try to get too as many as we can.

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<v Speaker 1>At Emil asks who are your favorite musicians and what

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<v Speaker 1>kind of music inspires you?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know, guys, my thing is I like salsa music.

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<v Speaker 2>I like salsa, I like ballads. You know Alejandro sanz A,

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<v Speaker 2>Luis Miguel, Ricky Martin, this Christian. I don't know they're

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<v Speaker 2>together anymore, El Juan, Luis Guerra American. I'm old school.

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<v Speaker 2>I like I used to love Earth Supply and Journey

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<v Speaker 2>and things like that, and George Michael. But my thing

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<v Speaker 2>is tropical, guys. That gives me life. Tropical music.

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<v Speaker 1>The funny thing is I love all the same music

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<v Speaker 1>that she does as well. I mean, obviously Latin music

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't grow up listening to, but as much I

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<v Speaker 1>would as many of the ones I did know a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of them. I'd take it back. I did know

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of them, but not the tropical, not the

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<v Speaker 1>salsa as much, and all that, but I do love

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<v Speaker 1>all the music she describes. We had that in common.

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<v Speaker 1>But I am also like way into rap, way I

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<v Speaker 1>like pretty much everything. I have not really gotten into

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<v Speaker 1>country as much, although this this one song I'm way

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<v Speaker 1>into right now. That's like a very very big song

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<v Speaker 1>on the charts called a bar song, Tipsy by Shaboozi.

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<v Speaker 1>That song is fun. I might start liking country after

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<v Speaker 1>that song. I'm also liking she loves country. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>catching myself listening to more country wall and I'm actually.

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<v Speaker 2>Morgan than one that is dating Kyl the richer the girl.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's a guy. Oh anyway, So I've been listening

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<v Speaker 1>to more country, but that's not generally my thing. When

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<v Speaker 1>I'm at the gym doing stuff like that, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>it's rap. I like, I've been listening to all this

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<v Speaker 1>Kendrick Lamar and Drake rap beef going on.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know anything about it. I'm consumed about I'm uncles.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm all consumed with Puff Daddy Piddy and what's happening

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<v Speaker 2>with p dds A mess. It's a mess, and it

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<v Speaker 2>drives me crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>When I picked you up for the first time, you

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<v Speaker 1>remember I came up to the house bumping with speed

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<v Speaker 1>like loud bass.

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<v Speaker 2>And I almost I contemplated no coming out of the house.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, no, this kid is confused. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know it's happening. That was pop rap and the car

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<v Speaker 2>was very low to the ground.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not my thing and this but listen, okay, listen

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<v Speaker 2>to this one.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>I you know it's also consuming me, like besides p

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<v Speaker 2>d D the j Low Beneffleck saga. Okay, and you

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<v Speaker 2>know it's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I was reving here and I love all that you say.

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<v Speaker 1>I love all the guys.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. No, I'm actually very sad about it

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<v Speaker 2>because I hope it's not true because after watching the documentaries,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I don't comprehend how it's possible. That's so

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<v Speaker 2>fast things are going south, and I wish her happiness

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<v Speaker 2>and love. So it's actually breaking my heart. And I

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<v Speaker 2>you know what's crazy, I'm driving here. This never happens

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<v Speaker 2>to me. I wonder if this is a symbol symbolism,

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm all, no, look, I never forget my my

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<v Speaker 2>wedding ring and I put all this jewey and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>driving here to the podcast room and I don't have

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<v Speaker 2>my lose.

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<v Speaker 1>My mind right now because you know, all the time

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<v Speaker 1>look at me bling bling.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I've forgotten my I forgot my wedding ring.

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<v Speaker 2>They're going to take a picture of me and they're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna say we have we're having trouble. Nobody's following me,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Clearly we're going we have some problems.

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<v Speaker 2>No, but it isn't that weird. That has never happened

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<v Speaker 2>to me. And I feel naked. I'm literally naked. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>sure not used to. You're the one that lives going

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<v Speaker 2>to the.

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<v Speaker 1>Gym without the work out with a ring on my finger.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all scratched, dude.

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<v Speaker 2>I I work out with my ring on this.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mind to get all scratched up and out

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<v Speaker 1>of it. Every time Eric leaves coming gym, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>take my ring.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what you need. That that's funny. Of all places

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<v Speaker 2>in the world where you need a ring, is it

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<v Speaker 2>the gym? This is funny. Guys like girls also full

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<v Speaker 2>of It's like there's a there is a there's an equinox.

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<v Speaker 2>How you saying it? And I'm not saying everybody goes

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<v Speaker 2>to equinox just for the show of it all, because

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<v Speaker 2>some people truly go to workout and you know, get

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<v Speaker 2>their healthy hour and the in and out of all

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<v Speaker 2>these women going so provocative, Like when I go to

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<v Speaker 2>the gym, I'm not don't go anymore. I just work

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<v Speaker 2>out of my house. But I didn't want to be shown.

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<v Speaker 2>Like on the contrary, I will cover myself to go

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<v Speaker 2>to the gym because it's not about that. And you

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<v Speaker 2>see them parading. It's like a fashion show and you

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<v Speaker 2>feel like, girls.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the culture. What do you what do you

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<v Speaker 1>buy a little lemon alo or any of these places

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<v Speaker 1>you buy. People are buying fitted workout gear. That's this.

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<v Speaker 2>Then you put out you put a vest on top

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<v Speaker 2>of it, a sweatshow. It's a show, Eric, it is

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<v Speaker 2>a show.

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<v Speaker 1>A little top and you love it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying they get sweaty, like they start and

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. And it was like she looks like

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<v Speaker 2>the hair is getting at a ware. They're like red cheek.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, they're wearing what is being sold in the market.

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<v Speaker 1>Workout gears tight for women for.

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<v Speaker 2>Men, go with baggies and be comfortable. There's nothing comfortable

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<v Speaker 2>about a g string with a tight legging that is

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<v Speaker 2>made of sympathetic to see them, that gives infections and

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<v Speaker 2>bacteria and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Just that I'm looking at their butt. But you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to see panty lions. You want to see a

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<v Speaker 1>thought the quiet. You're not gonna walk around with tights

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<v Speaker 1>on in a freaking regular underwear.

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<v Speaker 2>And the sweatpants.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but if you wore leggings to the gym,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not well, of course I'm gonna.

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<v Speaker 2>Do, and then I'm gonna be caught. Then I'm uncomfortable

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<v Speaker 2>the entire time.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly. Well, but you're gonna wear comfortable, that's what you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna wear.

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<v Speaker 2>I went hiking through the guys and I'm covered her

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<v Speaker 2>with to toe. I have a hat and I have glasses.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I don't want to be bothered.

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<v Speaker 1>This would not have been the ra in her twenties

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<v Speaker 1>because you are on a talk show in a thong

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<v Speaker 1>and basically pasties and like ad dress that would barely

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<v Speaker 1>cover you. What talk shows that I don't know many

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<v Speaker 1>talk shows you barely had clothes on.

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<v Speaker 2>When what are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>You would be on carpet show, tell me is out cleavage?

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<v Speaker 1>The thigh you were showing your whole body all the

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<v Speaker 1>time in your time a hypocrite, I'm being a hypotrites.

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<v Speaker 1>Girls are generally.

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<v Speaker 2>If you haven't show up. You talk about having a

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<v Speaker 2>healthy lifestyle, especially when it comes to eating. When you

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<v Speaker 2>are running around and you need something in a pinch,

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<v Speaker 2>what is a good healthy option and what if you

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<v Speaker 2>have to get fast food?

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<v Speaker 1>That's a great question, and I'm going to be honest.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, I avoid fast food like I will sit

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<v Speaker 1>there and starve for the longest time. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>when we've been in a crunch like it happened to

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<v Speaker 1>Dylan Night, which is our version. A lot of times

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<v Speaker 1>the fast food now is like Starbucks. Right, you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's an a grap but it's still filled with sodium,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's pre made and it's frozen, and it's still

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<v Speaker 1>not great, right, but I feel it's better than other things. However,

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<v Speaker 1>it's still fast food. So sometimes we'll get like the

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<v Speaker 1>protein box, which is really just like a harribleled egg

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<v Speaker 1>and some protein, some peanut butter and crackers maybe and

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<v Speaker 1>cheese or something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I would say I would go to if we're going

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<v Speaker 2>to do that. Quick stop is Starbucks for the most part.

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<v Speaker 1>But I would, yeah, for sure, and anywhere I can

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<v Speaker 1>find to stop and just grab a salad or a

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<v Speaker 1>clean sandwich, like something that feels like it's relatively made healthy.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just I avoid, and that's just me. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I ate fast food my whole life growing up,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just avoid fast food like the plague. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't go to any of these. Yeah, we don't like

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<v Speaker 1>it fast food stops. Look at this one at Petrol

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<v Speaker 1>Caerry protein bars. Like you. That's also not she We've

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<v Speaker 1>talked about it. You have Tosh or Whoppers stash. You're

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<v Speaker 1>always putt stuff in your.

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<v Speaker 2>Car Petrel Underscore, Timon Underscore, Sawny. This is not a

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<v Speaker 2>quite but a comment. I am a German and I

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to say thank you for motivating me to improve

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<v Speaker 2>my English and learn some Spanish. The show helps me

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<v Speaker 2>helps me be conversational with my English. Thank you. You

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<v Speaker 2>are more than welcome. This is so awesome. Once again,

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<v Speaker 2>our fans from Germany, we have to go to Germany.

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<v Speaker 2>Eric Germany. It's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>There are a bunch of times.

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<v Speaker 2>And what advice do you have for someone who is

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<v Speaker 2>about to graduate high school and starting to join the

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<v Speaker 2>adult world from the Rookie Underscore seven.

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<v Speaker 1>And someone is about to graduate high school. I mean, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. If you're not going to college, it

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<v Speaker 1>would buy you a little time into the adult world

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<v Speaker 1>travel pre adult world travel for sure, if you can.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard because you have to pay bills. You have

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<v Speaker 1>to get out there and start working. I believe. I

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<v Speaker 1>believe in if as soon as you start getting out

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<v Speaker 1>there and working, as soon as you can do what

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<v Speaker 1>you love as your passion and you enjoy your job,

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<v Speaker 1>please start with that. If it's something you have to

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<v Speaker 1>do for the sake of making money, find some aspect

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<v Speaker 1>in it that makes you happy and proud to be

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<v Speaker 1>doing it. Because nothing annoys me more than when people

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<v Speaker 1>are doing jobs and acting like they hate the job

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<v Speaker 1>that they're in. You know, it's like, if that's the

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<v Speaker 1>job you're doing, do it to the best of your

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<v Speaker 1>ability and make it.

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<v Speaker 2>Except well, that's only fifty percent of the workforce. Usually

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<v Speaker 2>people that love what they do for it.

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<v Speaker 1>No, But, like I'm saying, especially if you're in the

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<v Speaker 1>customer relations department, right, if you're dealing with the service industry,

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<v Speaker 1>do it to the best of your ability and you

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<v Speaker 1>will be rewarded long term somehow.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know what's interesting, guys, I was about to

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<v Speaker 2>send Eric this TikTok that I saw to David. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, you know, I'm not going to do it

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<v Speaker 2>because he's going to have a very specific opinion anyways,

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<v Speaker 2>I know what he's going to say. But it was

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<v Speaker 2>this man. He was at a very important, huge podcast,

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<v Speaker 2>This man that I follow that I like a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and they question and they're very very provocative

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<v Speaker 2>when it comes to points of view. And this man

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<v Speaker 2>was saying, what is the only thing that I regret

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<v Speaker 2>doing to my kids right as a parent, And he said,

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<v Speaker 2>send them them to school? What sending them to private school?

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<v Speaker 2>Send them them? Sending them to public school? And then

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<v Speaker 2>he says, and then sending them to private school because

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<v Speaker 2>I believe the.

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<v Speaker 1>Public school first, and then going to private school.

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<v Speaker 2>And then he regrets both because he understands the option,

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<v Speaker 2>because the option is he believes school is designed to

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<v Speaker 2>indoctrinate and everything about it, for the most part is

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<v Speaker 2>what I tell you all the time is not useful

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<v Speaker 2>once they go into the world. That's why they didn't

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<v Speaker 2>send it to you the way he explained.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, look, school. That's ridiculous a point, there's no

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<v Speaker 1>point like at I could see a person going like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>private school was actually worse in some ways than a

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<v Speaker 1>public school or vice versa. Obviously, you know, I grew

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<v Speaker 1>up public school my whole life. But I think and

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<v Speaker 1>I had this long conversation funny enough with the tennis

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<v Speaker 1>coach that's about a school because you'll start playing tennis there,

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<v Speaker 1>and this you know, craze about all these kids homeschooling

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<v Speaker 1>and homeschooling, and they're saying that in colleges, these kids

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<v Speaker 1>that are getting scholarships, A lot of these colleges are

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<v Speaker 1>really encouraging school now, even more so because and we

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<v Speaker 1>actually heard this firsthand from a girl that was at

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<v Speaker 1>Sebby's tennis academy that went to play for Princeton and

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of her friends that are on the tennis

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<v Speaker 1>team were homeschooled and when they got to college, they

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<v Speaker 1>were lost. They were getting behind because they didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>how to manage their time and actually operate in a

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<v Speaker 1>school setting. So a lot of these colleges are encouraging

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<v Speaker 1>these kids that are coming in on scholarships from homeschooling.

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<v Speaker 1>You should go to school. You should stay in school

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<v Speaker 1>as much as you can because it opens up your

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<v Speaker 1>brain into the way of thinking and processing things in

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<v Speaker 1>a school environment.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a problem that I have. Yes, there are

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of education is everything. I just wish that

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<v Speaker 2>the same. The same way schools, private schools, all schools

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<v Speaker 2>are becoming more and more and more progressive and welcoming

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<v Speaker 2>different philosophies, you know, and acceptance of all kinds of genders,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and educating that part of what's happening with

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<v Speaker 2>the world. You know, it's an uprising, it's a new beginning,

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<v Speaker 2>it's it's a it's a new era. The same way

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<v Speaker 2>they dedicate so much time to that, I wish they

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<v Speaker 2>will also dedicate more time into truly teaching them about

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<v Speaker 2>life and existence and and and gardening and eating healthy,

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<v Speaker 2>and economics and credit and investment, and like, I just

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<v Speaker 2>want them to create a more full circled individual. It

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<v Speaker 2>shouldn't be so much about for years and years and years,

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<v Speaker 2>it's the same curriculum, the same books, the same eight

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<v Speaker 2>to eight, eight to three, and the bell rings and

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<v Speaker 2>they all like little cattle, you know, everything feels so

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<v Speaker 2>repetitive and there's no evolution.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely time that could be used more efficiently.

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<v Speaker 2>The pe time is like forty five minutes. They don't

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<v Speaker 2>even like it. It's doing the same thing over and

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<v Speaker 2>over again.

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<v Speaker 1>Is super important. I do condition it is, but it

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't be wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>The field four times and then let's do some jumping jacks.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys know, well, you have to do with what you

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<v Speaker 1>can in that time.

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<v Speaker 2>Them.

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<v Speaker 1>Pe is actually one of the very important aspect of school.

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<v Speaker 2>Winter, Barrett Winter, I'm not saying that it's not, of course,

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<v Speaker 2>it is what I'm saying, but change the freaking playbook.

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<v Speaker 1>There could be more things about nutrition, There could be

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<v Speaker 1>more things about We didn't really answer anyway. We did

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<v Speaker 1>answer this question at all. I feel terrible. We actually

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<v Speaker 1>just told you how how your high school probably should

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<v Speaker 1>have done everything differently. That was a mess. Listen, travel, travel,

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<v Speaker 1>love what you do, and uh just give it your

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<v Speaker 1>best and.

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<v Speaker 2>My own school. Lord, so many things in life and

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have enough time or money.

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<v Speaker 1>How you can open your own school? Huge? Can you

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<v Speaker 1>call me? You're talking about?

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<v Speaker 2>I have so many ideas. Nobody takes me seriously. That's

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<v Speaker 2>what's so sad?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it?

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<v Speaker 2>My accent? Do I come across like an uneducated. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>very educated.

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<v Speaker 1>Clara, Clara, Clarimicia, And you say this is there. Why

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<v Speaker 1>are you laughing about yourself?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. There is illusional because I hate everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there a life lesson that you have learned from

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<v Speaker 1>a character that either of you have played, a life

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<v Speaker 1>lesson that a character you've played has taught you.

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<v Speaker 2>I wish I had karenin Luna's belief in herself. Karra

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<v Speaker 2>Man Luna from Vivius Metz was the best, ambitious and

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<v Speaker 2>relentless and a dreamer and life. You know, it's hard,

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<v Speaker 2>Carmel Luna for life.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I have a follow up to that.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a good one. This is a good one

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<v Speaker 2>from jab Dutch. You mentioned that going to church in

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<v Speaker 2>an episode. You mentioned that you guys go to church

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<v Speaker 2>and episode, but also that you are spiritual. I am

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<v Speaker 2>wondering if you feel there is a difference between being

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<v Speaker 2>religious and.

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<v Speaker 1>Spiritual one hundred percent?

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<v Speaker 2>What is a difference?

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<v Speaker 1>Eric Well? I think being spiritual is your connection with

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<v Speaker 1>God or your higher being, whatever you want to call

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<v Speaker 1>the energy of the world, you know, the universe. It's

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<v Speaker 1>it's being spiritual to a greater purpose and I think

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<v Speaker 1>that connection is super important and less about a religion

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<v Speaker 1>and following you talking about doctrinating right, following the path

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<v Speaker 1>of one belief system if you don't feel it's right

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<v Speaker 1>for you. I think it's about the connection with a

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<v Speaker 1>higher purpose or God, let's call it as I like

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<v Speaker 1>to say God. But thereybody is something different. But I

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<v Speaker 1>think that spirituality to me is more important than the

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<v Speaker 1>institution of religion for me. I do love going to church.

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<v Speaker 1>I love having a setting. I love the way it

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<v Speaker 1>makes me feel, I love the energy it brings me.

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<v Speaker 1>But I could walk into a Buddhist temple and also

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<v Speaker 1>feel incredibly special with what that's going to give me.

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<v Speaker 1>I've walked into many different spiritual buildings, whatever they may

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<v Speaker 1>be right structures, and I feel that same overwhelming appreciation

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<v Speaker 1>for what their practices are. One of the best classes

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<v Speaker 1>I ever took in school was World Religions. I took that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's fascinating. I think spirituality is unbelievable and the best

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<v Speaker 2>feeling in the world. I'm not talking about religions specifically religions.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm talking about that connection that you have with Source,

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<v Speaker 2>with the universe, with God, with whatever you believe I

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<v Speaker 2>think it is so so important, Like I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>how people can walk through life without having spirituality as

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<v Speaker 2>part of their being. I don't understand it that when

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<v Speaker 2>somebody says I'm a full atheist, like I don't believe

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<v Speaker 2>in anything. I don't believe in God, I don't listen.

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<v Speaker 2>I respect you. I'm sure you have your reasons, and

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<v Speaker 2>it doesn't mean you're a bad person. You can be

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<v Speaker 2>an outstanding person. But just the fact that you lack spirituality,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't. It's like somebody that I don't like dogs.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't connect with dogs.

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<v Speaker 1>They're annoyed.

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<v Speaker 2>They go to your house and the dog goes and

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<v Speaker 2>they jump on them when they I don't understand it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think people who generally, and I could be saying

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<v Speaker 1>this in correctly, but people who generally have this feeling

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<v Speaker 1>of I don't connect spiritually. It's not about the spirit

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<v Speaker 1>it's about religion, what religion has done to them to

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<v Speaker 1>make them think I don't believe in God. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>believe in anything. However, I beg you they believe in

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<v Speaker 1>the universe still, or they believe in a higher energy.

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<v Speaker 1>They believe that we all, you know, die and our

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<v Speaker 1>energy goes back into a greater source if you will,

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<v Speaker 1>which is still kind of having spirituality. If you believe

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<v Speaker 1>you have a soul. Now, if you don't believe you

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<v Speaker 1>have a soul, then you can't really have any spirituality

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<v Speaker 1>at all because you're you're not believing in that part

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<v Speaker 1>of your of your body.

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<v Speaker 2>What about Anita. Anita, this massive, massive Brazilian superstar. Our

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<v Speaker 2>music is great, She's beautiful, and she came out publicly,

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<v Speaker 2>openly saying that her religion is Santaria, which is like

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<v Speaker 2>Caribbean voodoo, and she lost like two hundred thousand followers,

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<v Speaker 2>like it was the people were outraged.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, yeah, I didn't know that that was the back.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a big deal. And she came out defending it, saying,

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<v Speaker 2>I am whom this is what I believe.

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<v Speaker 1>This is where I would take her side, so to speak.

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<v Speaker 1>She was brave enough to say this is what I

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<v Speaker 1>believe in. You don't have to like it. You can

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<v Speaker 1>unfollow me. It doesn't mean you have to agree with it.

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<v Speaker 1>But she was brave enough to come out and say,

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<v Speaker 1>this is how I identify spiritually, and this is what

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<v Speaker 1>gives me life, right, this is what drives me in

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<v Speaker 1>my journey. To me that whether people liked it or

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like it, it's more powerful than all the other

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<v Speaker 1>artists out there that are doety by hiding behind it

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<v Speaker 1>and acting like it doesn't exist and acting like they

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<v Speaker 1>don't do it. So to me, I give her tons

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<v Speaker 1>of credit. And I think it's incredible because everybody has

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<v Speaker 1>that right to believe and follow and do what they want. Spiritually,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't make it even if you don't disagree with it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, even if you don't agree with it, doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>give you the right to say, I don't believe in

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<v Speaker 1>what you're what you what you stand for. So I

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<v Speaker 1>give her credit. I give her a lot of credit

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<v Speaker 1>for them, because there are a lot of people that

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<v Speaker 1>would not say it. They would do it behind closed doors.

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<v Speaker 2>Well remember the majority, at least eighty percent of the music,

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<v Speaker 2>basinis and the entertainment business, they do some form of magic.

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<v Speaker 2>It is true, the guys, is there anybody? Is it

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<v Speaker 2>true that I've seen it firsthand? And they all they

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<v Speaker 2>they never talk about it openly or they don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to collect the millions, and they don't want to do

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<v Speaker 2>the offerings, and they kill the chickens and they don't

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<v Speaker 2>want that okay, and they don't say anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I have no words at Angela Club. I am dating

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<v Speaker 1>someone and we both have commitment issues. We have been

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<v Speaker 1>seeing each other for a year, and I know we

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<v Speaker 1>need to have a conversation on where it is going.

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<v Speaker 1>We basically live together, We spend the night at my

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<v Speaker 1>home five to six days a week. How do I

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<v Speaker 1>approach one ting more? Well, let's see a year. The

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<v Speaker 1>year is a pretty good timepends on the age of

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<v Speaker 1>these I don't know the age of you, Angela, but

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<v Speaker 1>I think if you are of a reasonable likely you're

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<v Speaker 1>in your twenties at a certain point, right, I think.

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<v Speaker 2>But what is one and more marriage? What are we

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<v Speaker 2>talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>More or permanently moving in together? Maybe and giving that

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<v Speaker 1>a try. If that's on the car, you're basically living

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<v Speaker 1>at her house five to six days a week. I

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<v Speaker 1>think you can open up that conversation and say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you're basically here all the time. It's been a year.

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<v Speaker 1>Where are we headed in this relationship? Do you think

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<v Speaker 1>a year is too soon to have that conversation?

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<v Speaker 2>No, not at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Depends on the age of the person.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I would say, Angela, I think a.

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<v Speaker 1>Year could be a little early, like maybe you get

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<v Speaker 1>into a year and a half, even maybe get into

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<v Speaker 1>two years, but a year still feels really good.

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<v Speaker 2>Angela. You know how awesome it is just to have

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<v Speaker 2>just to live together five days a week, and then

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<v Speaker 2>for two days you don't have to and you have

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<v Speaker 2>the privacy of your own home.

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<v Speaker 1>They just don't stay over for two days. They probably

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<v Speaker 1>see each other on those two days. No I know,

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<v Speaker 1>But then do you want me to leave for two days?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you're getting at? Do you want that privacy?

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<v Speaker 1>Should we be talking about what our next steps are?

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<v Speaker 2>True, we'll be talking about you know that. But who's

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<v Speaker 2>the Who's the one that came out Carson Daily and

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<v Speaker 2>Mario Lopez separated, and if who else? I think it

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<v Speaker 2>was Gwyneth Cameron Diaz, Gwyneth foul Trow. I apologize if

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<v Speaker 2>I'm making it up that they also believe that it's

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<v Speaker 2>a good thing to have separate I even I even

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<v Speaker 2>think that this whole Benon Jayla thing is that sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>you know, he's very autistic and he's very heady when

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<v Speaker 2>it comes to directing and acting. Maybe he's just living

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<v Speaker 2>in a separate house because he needs some quiet time.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't. I'm not down with you sleep in a

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<v Speaker 1>different bedroom. There's no way. I know you're down with it.

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<v Speaker 1>You would love it, but I ain't down with that.

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<v Speaker 2>I will never do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing that. But I think Angela, I think

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<v Speaker 1>you could open the conversation up if you want. If

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<v Speaker 1>you don't think it's too soon, you could even wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, wait a little longer. But if you're seeing

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<v Speaker 1>each other five to six days a week at your house,

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<v Speaker 1>at least at your house, that's one thing. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's probably more comfortable for you. But I would probably

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<v Speaker 1>have the conversation about where we headed, when do we

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<v Speaker 1>do it? No pressure, but I would like to know

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<v Speaker 1>you're here a lot, what are we what's the direction

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<v Speaker 1>the path we're on? And how do you do it?

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<v Speaker 1>You just ask?

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<v Speaker 2>Just say communication, guys, Okay? Last one Linn's Beckstar. I

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<v Speaker 2>am recently divorced and learning to try and comparement with

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<v Speaker 2>my ex. Any advice on how to put myself back

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<v Speaker 2>out there and when my confidence, when my confidence is

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<v Speaker 2>not at its highest.

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<v Speaker 1>So tough. I come from divorced parents. It's so tough,

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<v Speaker 1>but I know my parents did a great job go

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<v Speaker 1>parenting they were really both hands on all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>And hopefully you and your ex are doing that. I

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<v Speaker 1>hope you guys are both accepting the fact that you

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<v Speaker 1>want to have the other parent very active in the

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<v Speaker 1>kid's life and you don't want to try and block

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<v Speaker 1>that or that in any kind of way. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>going down that path successfully and you guys are respecting

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<v Speaker 1>each other, that's a huge start. When your confidence isn't

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<v Speaker 1>as high ast if you're ready, Are you ready to

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<v Speaker 1>get back out there, because that's a big question, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Your confidence can be low, but you're saying to myself yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>I am ready. And if you're ready, you get your

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<v Speaker 1>friends and you have a support system, and you go

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<v Speaker 1>out and you go on a girls trip. You go

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<v Speaker 1>on a girls trip, you go have dinner somewhere, you

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<v Speaker 1>go to a nice you know, you have to go

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<v Speaker 1>to a club, whatever. You just go to like nice

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<v Speaker 1>restaurants where there's a bar, hang out, start socializing. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>allow the energies and the world to come your way.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that, you know it's very open to it.

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<v Speaker 2>You know it's very powerful and it's interesting. And this

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<v Speaker 2>is just my experience guys. When I when I got

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<v Speaker 2>divorce the first time. I never liked. I was petrified

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<v Speaker 2>before being married to just go to a restaurant or

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<v Speaker 2>go to lunch by myself, Like I didn't understand how

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<v Speaker 2>to do that. You know, I will always be like

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<v Speaker 2>it looks weird if I'm by myself.

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<v Speaker 1>I was so weird because you want your own bedroom

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<v Speaker 1>and you want to be alone all the time. Because

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<v Speaker 1>I have changed by myself all the time the.

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<v Speaker 2>Time, nobody I couldn't do it. I couldn't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>I need a company, as like, I didn't comprehend how

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<v Speaker 2>to do that. Then I got married, got divorced, and

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<v Speaker 2>I so much want to It was such like a

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<v Speaker 2>I felt like such a failure because I was so young,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm going like I don't want that on my resume,

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<v Speaker 2>my life resume. You know that I am twenty five

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<v Speaker 2>years old and I'm already divorced. I was so mortified

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<v Speaker 2>about that fact. And I guess it was my ego.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I don't know what it was. I'm going,

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<v Speaker 2>how am I going to tell anybody else? Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I've been I've been married, and it was disgusting, So

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<v Speaker 2>I did. I just didn't want to leave the house,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and I was so young. I'm doing so

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<v Speaker 2>fantastic and funny enough, you know what, you want to

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<v Speaker 2>do something funny talking about Jaylaw it's a lot of jail.

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<v Speaker 2>I apologize Jaelo that I mentioned in your name so much.

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<v Speaker 2>But your first husband or honey Noah Cuan the waiter

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<v Speaker 2>from Miami that she met her first husband. We were

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<v Speaker 2>friendly at the time. He was always been lovely with me.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm at a goals gym in Hollywood, funny enough, miserable,

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<v Speaker 2>and he sees me and he goes, hey, Ross, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going, oh my god, how why? So what's up

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<v Speaker 2>with you? I'm going I had life, you know. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to get out there, I'm trying to work out,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm just so uncomfortable. And he said to me,

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<v Speaker 2>this is your prime. You're beautiful, you're so young, this

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<v Speaker 2>is the moment that you should be so comfortable with yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>And what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Ross?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, snap out of it? Oh honey, Noah, isn't

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<v Speaker 2>that crazy? And I was like, oh my god, thank

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<v Speaker 2>you so much. And it was as simple as saying,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, I am going to go to breakfast

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<v Speaker 2>and instead of just being by myself and my friends

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<v Speaker 2>calling me a you okay, and I'm avoiding everybody. And

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<v Speaker 2>I started just going to lunch and breakfast and early

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<v Speaker 2>dinners by myself with a kindle or a book and

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<v Speaker 2>just minding my own business, having a great meal, just

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<v Speaker 2>comfortable with myself. And that was huge for me.

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<v Speaker 1>If they were attractive, that a girl that's comfortable in herself,

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<v Speaker 1>that wants nothing to do with anybody, exactly right. It

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<v Speaker 1>feels hard to get so then all the guys start going, ooh,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up with that girl? She's so occupied, Oh she's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was a very occupying boom boom boom.

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<v Speaker 2>You start getting hit on everyone, and I didn't want

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<v Speaker 2>to be hit by anybody, and I was like, I

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<v Speaker 2>just want to be left alone.

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<v Speaker 1>Get yourself back out there. It's going to be good.

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