Speaker 1: This is, he said a yadjo with Eric Winter and
Speaker 1: Rodland fantab Welcome back to another episode, he said at
Speaker 1: d Ho Nay some of our favorite episodes. Audience questions.
Speaker 1: I know we've been doing these a lot recently. Yes,
Speaker 1: we'll try to get too as many as we can.
Speaker 1: At Emil asks who are your favorite musicians and what
Speaker 1: kind of music inspires you?
Speaker 2: Well, you know, guys, my thing is I like salsa music.
Speaker 2: I like salsa, I like ballads. You know Alejandro sanz A,
Speaker 2: Luis Miguel, Ricky Martin, this Christian. I don't know they're
Speaker 2: together anymore, El Juan, Luis Guerra American. I'm old school.
Speaker 2: I like I used to love Earth Supply and Journey
Speaker 2: and things like that, and George Michael. But my thing
Speaker 2: is tropical, guys. That gives me life. Tropical music.
Speaker 1: The funny thing is I love all the same music
Speaker 1: that she does as well. I mean, obviously Latin music
Speaker 1: I didn't grow up listening to, but as much I
Speaker 1: would as many of the ones I did know a
Speaker 1: lot of them. I'd take it back. I did know
Speaker 1: a lot of them, but not the tropical, not the
Speaker 1: salsa as much, and all that, but I do love
Speaker 1: all the music she describes. We had that in common.
Speaker 1: But I am also like way into rap, way I
Speaker 1: like pretty much everything. I have not really gotten into
Speaker 1: country as much, although this this one song I'm way
Speaker 1: into right now. That's like a very very big song
Speaker 1: on the charts called a bar song, Tipsy by Shaboozi.
Speaker 1: That song is fun. I might start liking country after
Speaker 1: that song. I'm also liking she loves country. I've been
Speaker 1: catching myself listening to more country wall and I'm actually.
Speaker 2: Morgan than one that is dating Kyl the richer the girl.
Speaker 1: No, it's a guy. Oh anyway, So I've been listening
Speaker 1: to more country, but that's not generally my thing. When
Speaker 1: I'm at the gym doing stuff like that, it's like
Speaker 1: it's rap. I like, I've been listening to all this
Speaker 1: Kendrick Lamar and Drake rap beef going on.
Speaker 2: I don't know anything about it. I'm consumed about I'm uncles.
Speaker 2: I'm all consumed with Puff Daddy Piddy and what's happening
Speaker 2: with p dds A mess. It's a mess, and it
Speaker 2: drives me crazy.
Speaker 1: When I picked you up for the first time, you
Speaker 1: remember I came up to the house bumping with speed
Speaker 1: like loud bass.
Speaker 2: And I almost I contemplated no coming out of the house.
Speaker 2: I was like, no, this kid is confused. I don't
Speaker 2: know it's happening. That was pop rap and the car
Speaker 2: was very low to the ground.
Speaker 1: I don't want to know.
Speaker 2: It's not my thing and this but listen, okay, listen
Speaker 2: to this one.
Speaker 1: Oh.
Speaker 2: I you know it's also consuming me, like besides p
Speaker 2: d D the j Low Beneffleck saga. Okay, and you
Speaker 2: know it's funny.
Speaker 1: I was reving here and I love all that you say.
Speaker 1: I love all the guys.
Speaker 2: I love it. No, I'm actually very sad about it
Speaker 2: because I hope it's not true because after watching the documentaries,
Speaker 2: you know, I don't comprehend how it's possible. That's so
Speaker 2: fast things are going south, and I wish her happiness
Speaker 2: and love. So it's actually breaking my heart. And I
Speaker 2: you know what's crazy, I'm driving here. This never happens
Speaker 2: to me. I wonder if this is a symbol symbolism,
Speaker 2: because I'm all, no, look, I never forget my my
Speaker 2: wedding ring and I put all this jewey and I'm
Speaker 2: driving here to the podcast room and I don't have
Speaker 2: my lose.
Speaker 1: My mind right now because you know, all the time
Speaker 1: look at me bling bling.
Speaker 2: I was like, I've forgotten my I forgot my wedding ring.
Speaker 2: They're going to take a picture of me and they're
Speaker 2: gonna say we have we're having trouble. Nobody's following me,
Speaker 2: so it's okay.
Speaker 1: Clearly we're going we have some problems.
Speaker 2: No, but it isn't that weird. That has never happened
Speaker 2: to me. And I feel naked. I'm literally naked. I'm
Speaker 2: sure not used to. You're the one that lives going
Speaker 2: to the.
Speaker 1: Gym without the work out with a ring on my finger.
Speaker 1: That's all scratched, dude.
Speaker 2: I I work out with my ring on this.
Speaker 1: I don't mind to get all scratched up and out
Speaker 1: of it. Every time Eric leaves coming gym, I don't
Speaker 1: take my ring.
Speaker 2: That's what you need. That that's funny. Of all places
Speaker 2: in the world where you need a ring, is it
Speaker 2: the gym? This is funny. Guys like girls also full
Speaker 2: of It's like there's a there is a there's an equinox.
Speaker 2: How you saying it? And I'm not saying everybody goes
Speaker 2: to equinox just for the show of it all, because
Speaker 2: some people truly go to workout and you know, get
Speaker 2: their healthy hour and the in and out of all
Speaker 2: these women going so provocative, Like when I go to
Speaker 2: the gym, I'm not don't go anymore. I just work
Speaker 2: out of my house. But I didn't want to be shown.
Speaker 2: Like on the contrary, I will cover myself to go
Speaker 2: to the gym because it's not about that. And you
Speaker 2: see them parading. It's like a fashion show and you
Speaker 2: feel like, girls.
Speaker 1: This is the culture. What do you what do you
Speaker 1: buy a little lemon alo or any of these places
Speaker 1: you buy. People are buying fitted workout gear. That's this.
Speaker 2: Then you put out you put a vest on top
Speaker 2: of it, a sweatshow. It's a show, Eric, it is
Speaker 2: a show.
Speaker 1: A little top and you love it.
Speaker 2: I'm not saying they get sweaty, like they start and
Speaker 2: I don't know. And it was like she looks like
Speaker 2: the hair is getting at a ware. They're like red cheek.
Speaker 1: Wow, they're wearing what is being sold in the market.
Speaker 1: Workout gears tight for women for.
Speaker 2: Men, go with baggies and be comfortable. There's nothing comfortable
Speaker 2: about a g string with a tight legging that is
Speaker 2: made of sympathetic to see them, that gives infections and
Speaker 2: bacteria and stuff.
Speaker 1: Just that I'm looking at their butt. But you don't
Speaker 1: want to see panty lions. You want to see a
Speaker 1: thought the quiet. You're not gonna walk around with tights
Speaker 1: on in a freaking regular underwear.
Speaker 2: And the sweatpants.
Speaker 1: I know, but if you wore leggings to the gym,
Speaker 1: you're not well, of course I'm gonna.
Speaker 2: Do, and then I'm gonna be caught. Then I'm uncomfortable
Speaker 2: the entire time.
Speaker 1: Exactly. Well, but you're gonna wear comfortable, that's what you're
Speaker 1: gonna wear.
Speaker 2: I went hiking through the guys and I'm covered her
Speaker 2: with to toe. I have a hat and I have glasses.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't want to be bothered.
Speaker 1: This would not have been the ra in her twenties
Speaker 1: because you are on a talk show in a thong
Speaker 1: and basically pasties and like ad dress that would barely
Speaker 1: cover you. What talk shows that I don't know many
Speaker 1: talk shows you barely had clothes on.
Speaker 2: When what are you talking about?
Speaker 1: You would be on carpet show, tell me is out cleavage?
Speaker 1: The thigh you were showing your whole body all the
Speaker 1: time in your time a hypocrite, I'm being a hypotrites.
Speaker 1: Girls are generally.
Speaker 2: If you haven't show up. You talk about having a
Speaker 2: healthy lifestyle, especially when it comes to eating. When you
Speaker 2: are running around and you need something in a pinch,
Speaker 2: what is a good healthy option and what if you
Speaker 2: have to get fast food?
Speaker 1: That's a great question, and I'm going to be honest.
Speaker 1: For me, I avoid fast food like I will sit
Speaker 1: there and starve for the longest time. And I think
Speaker 1: when we've been in a crunch like it happened to
Speaker 1: Dylan Night, which is our version. A lot of times
Speaker 1: the fast food now is like Starbucks. Right, you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: but it's an a grap but it's still filled with sodium,
Speaker 1: and it's pre made and it's frozen, and it's still
Speaker 1: not great, right, but I feel it's better than other things. However,
Speaker 1: it's still fast food. So sometimes we'll get like the
Speaker 1: protein box, which is really just like a harribleled egg
Speaker 1: and some protein, some peanut butter and crackers maybe and
Speaker 1: cheese or something like that.
Speaker 2: I would say I would go to if we're going
Speaker 2: to do that. Quick stop is Starbucks for the most part.
Speaker 1: But I would, yeah, for sure, and anywhere I can
Speaker 1: find to stop and just grab a salad or a
Speaker 1: clean sandwich, like something that feels like it's relatively made healthy.
Speaker 1: But I just I avoid, and that's just me. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I ate fast food my whole life growing up,
Speaker 1: but I just avoid fast food like the plague. I
Speaker 1: don't go to any of these. Yeah, we don't like
Speaker 1: it fast food stops. Look at this one at Petrol
Speaker 1: Caerry protein bars. Like you. That's also not she We've
Speaker 1: talked about it. You have Tosh or Whoppers stash. You're
Speaker 1: always putt stuff in your.
Speaker 2: Car Petrel Underscore, Timon Underscore, Sawny. This is not a
Speaker 2: quite but a comment. I am a German and I
Speaker 2: wanted to say thank you for motivating me to improve
Speaker 2: my English and learn some Spanish. The show helps me
Speaker 2: helps me be conversational with my English. Thank you. You
Speaker 2: are more than welcome. This is so awesome. Once again,
Speaker 2: our fans from Germany, we have to go to Germany.
Speaker 2: Eric Germany. It's awesome.
Speaker 1: There are a bunch of times.
Speaker 2: And what advice do you have for someone who is
Speaker 2: about to graduate high school and starting to join the
Speaker 2: adult world from the Rookie Underscore seven.
Speaker 1: And someone is about to graduate high school. I mean, well,
Speaker 1: I don't know. If you're not going to college, it
Speaker 1: would buy you a little time into the adult world
Speaker 1: travel pre adult world travel for sure, if you can.
Speaker 1: It's hard because you have to pay bills. You have
Speaker 1: to get out there and start working. I believe. I
Speaker 1: believe in if as soon as you start getting out
Speaker 1: there and working, as soon as you can do what
Speaker 1: you love as your passion and you enjoy your job,
Speaker 1: please start with that. If it's something you have to
Speaker 1: do for the sake of making money, find some aspect
Speaker 1: in it that makes you happy and proud to be
Speaker 1: doing it. Because nothing annoys me more than when people
Speaker 1: are doing jobs and acting like they hate the job
Speaker 1: that they're in. You know, it's like, if that's the
Speaker 1: job you're doing, do it to the best of your
Speaker 1: ability and make it.
Speaker 2: Except well, that's only fifty percent of the workforce. Usually
Speaker 2: people that love what they do for it.
Speaker 1: No, But, like I'm saying, especially if you're in the
Speaker 1: customer relations department, right, if you're dealing with the service industry,
Speaker 1: do it to the best of your ability and you
Speaker 1: will be rewarded long term somehow.
Speaker 2: But you know what's interesting, guys, I was about to
Speaker 2: send Eric this TikTok that I saw to David. I
Speaker 2: was like, you know, I'm not going to do it
Speaker 2: because he's going to have a very specific opinion anyways,
Speaker 2: I know what he's going to say. But it was
Speaker 2: this man. He was at a very important, huge podcast,
Speaker 2: This man that I follow that I like a lot,
Speaker 2: you know, and they question and they're very very provocative
Speaker 2: when it comes to points of view. And this man
Speaker 2: was saying, what is the only thing that I regret
Speaker 2: doing to my kids right as a parent, And he said,
Speaker 2: send them them to school? What sending them to private school?
Speaker 2: Send them them? Sending them to public school? And then
Speaker 2: he says, and then sending them to private school because
Speaker 2: I believe the.
Speaker 1: Public school first, and then going to private school.
Speaker 2: And then he regrets both because he understands the option,
Speaker 2: because the option is he believes school is designed to
Speaker 2: indoctrinate and everything about it, for the most part is
Speaker 2: what I tell you all the time is not useful
Speaker 2: once they go into the world. That's why they didn't
Speaker 2: send it to you the way he explained.
Speaker 1: I mean, look, school. That's ridiculous a point, there's no
Speaker 1: point like at I could see a person going like, oh,
Speaker 1: private school was actually worse in some ways than a
Speaker 1: public school or vice versa. Obviously, you know, I grew
Speaker 1: up public school my whole life. But I think and
Speaker 1: I had this long conversation funny enough with the tennis
Speaker 1: coach that's about a school because you'll start playing tennis there,
Speaker 1: and this you know, craze about all these kids homeschooling
Speaker 1: and homeschooling, and they're saying that in colleges, these kids
Speaker 1: that are getting scholarships, A lot of these colleges are
Speaker 1: really encouraging school now, even more so because and we
Speaker 1: actually heard this firsthand from a girl that was at
Speaker 1: Sebby's tennis academy that went to play for Princeton and
Speaker 1: a lot of her friends that are on the tennis
Speaker 1: team were homeschooled and when they got to college, they
Speaker 1: were lost. They were getting behind because they didn't know
Speaker 1: how to manage their time and actually operate in a
Speaker 1: school setting. So a lot of these colleges are encouraging
Speaker 1: these kids that are coming in on scholarships from homeschooling.
Speaker 1: You should go to school. You should stay in school
Speaker 1: as much as you can because it opens up your
Speaker 1: brain into the way of thinking and processing things in
Speaker 1: a school environment.
Speaker 2: This is a problem that I have. Yes, there are
Speaker 2: a lot of education is everything. I just wish that
Speaker 2: the same. The same way schools, private schools, all schools
Speaker 2: are becoming more and more and more progressive and welcoming
Speaker 2: different philosophies, you know, and acceptance of all kinds of genders,
Speaker 2: you know, and educating that part of what's happening with
Speaker 2: the world. You know, it's an uprising, it's a new beginning,
Speaker 2: it's it's a it's a new era. The same way
Speaker 2: they dedicate so much time to that, I wish they
Speaker 2: will also dedicate more time into truly teaching them about
Speaker 2: life and existence and and and gardening and eating healthy,
Speaker 2: and economics and credit and investment, and like, I just
Speaker 2: want them to create a more full circled individual. It
Speaker 2: shouldn't be so much about for years and years and years,
Speaker 2: it's the same curriculum, the same books, the same eight
Speaker 2: to eight, eight to three, and the bell rings and
Speaker 2: they all like little cattle, you know, everything feels so
Speaker 2: repetitive and there's no evolution.
Speaker 1: Definitely time that could be used more efficiently.
Speaker 2: The pe time is like forty five minutes. They don't
Speaker 2: even like it. It's doing the same thing over and
Speaker 2: over again.
Speaker 1: Is super important. I do condition it is, but it
Speaker 1: shouldn't be wrong.
Speaker 2: The field four times and then let's do some jumping jacks.
Speaker 1: Guys know, well, you have to do with what you
Speaker 1: can in that time.
Speaker 2: Them.
Speaker 1: Pe is actually one of the very important aspect of school.
Speaker 2: Winter, Barrett Winter, I'm not saying that it's not, of course,
Speaker 2: it is what I'm saying, but change the freaking playbook.
Speaker 1: There could be more things about nutrition, There could be
Speaker 1: more things about We didn't really answer anyway. We did
Speaker 1: answer this question at all. I feel terrible. We actually
Speaker 1: just told you how how your high school probably should
Speaker 1: have done everything differently. That was a mess. Listen, travel, travel,
Speaker 1: love what you do, and uh just give it your
Speaker 1: best and.
Speaker 2: My own school. Lord, so many things in life and
Speaker 2: I don't have enough time or money.
Speaker 1: How you can open your own school? Huge? Can you
Speaker 1: call me? You're talking about?
Speaker 2: I have so many ideas. Nobody takes me seriously. That's
Speaker 2: what's so sad?
Speaker 1: Is it?
Speaker 2: My accent? Do I come across like an uneducated. I'm
Speaker 2: very educated.
Speaker 1: Clara, Clara, Clarimicia, And you say this is there. Why
Speaker 1: are you laughing about yourself?
Speaker 2: I don't know. There is illusional because I hate everybody.
Speaker 1: Is there a life lesson that you have learned from
Speaker 1: a character that either of you have played, a life
Speaker 1: lesson that a character you've played has taught you.
Speaker 2: I wish I had karenin Luna's belief in herself. Karra
Speaker 2: Man Luna from Vivius Metz was the best, ambitious and
Speaker 2: relentless and a dreamer and life. You know, it's hard,
Speaker 2: Carmel Luna for life.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I have a follow up to that.
Speaker 2: This is a good one. This is a good one
Speaker 2: from jab Dutch. You mentioned that going to church in
Speaker 2: an episode. You mentioned that you guys go to church
Speaker 2: and episode, but also that you are spiritual. I am
Speaker 2: wondering if you feel there is a difference between being
Speaker 2: religious and.
Speaker 1: Spiritual one hundred percent?
Speaker 2: What is a difference?
Speaker 1: Eric Well? I think being spiritual is your connection with
Speaker 1: God or your higher being, whatever you want to call
Speaker 1: the energy of the world, you know, the universe. It's
Speaker 1: it's being spiritual to a greater purpose and I think
Speaker 1: that connection is super important and less about a religion
Speaker 1: and following you talking about doctrinating right, following the path
Speaker 1: of one belief system if you don't feel it's right
Speaker 1: for you. I think it's about the connection with a
Speaker 1: higher purpose or God, let's call it as I like
Speaker 1: to say God. But thereybody is something different. But I
Speaker 1: think that spirituality to me is more important than the
Speaker 1: institution of religion for me. I do love going to church.
Speaker 1: I love having a setting. I love the way it
Speaker 1: makes me feel, I love the energy it brings me.
Speaker 1: But I could walk into a Buddhist temple and also
Speaker 1: feel incredibly special with what that's going to give me.
Speaker 1: I've walked into many different spiritual buildings, whatever they may
Speaker 1: be right structures, and I feel that same overwhelming appreciation
Speaker 1: for what their practices are. One of the best classes
Speaker 1: I ever took in school was World Religions. I took that.
Speaker 2: It's fascinating. I think spirituality is unbelievable and the best
Speaker 2: feeling in the world. I'm not talking about religions specifically religions.
Speaker 2: I'm talking about that connection that you have with Source,
Speaker 2: with the universe, with God, with whatever you believe I
Speaker 2: think it is so so important, Like I don't know
Speaker 2: how people can walk through life without having spirituality as
Speaker 2: part of their being. I don't understand it that when
Speaker 2: somebody says I'm a full atheist, like I don't believe
Speaker 2: in anything. I don't believe in God, I don't listen.
Speaker 2: I respect you. I'm sure you have your reasons, and
Speaker 2: it doesn't mean you're a bad person. You can be
Speaker 2: an outstanding person. But just the fact that you lack spirituality,
Speaker 2: I don't. It's like somebody that I don't like dogs.
Speaker 2: I don't connect with dogs.
Speaker 1: They're annoyed.
Speaker 2: They go to your house and the dog goes and
Speaker 2: they jump on them when they I don't understand it.
Speaker 1: I think people who generally, and I could be saying
Speaker 1: this in correctly, but people who generally have this feeling
Speaker 1: of I don't connect spiritually. It's not about the spirit
Speaker 1: it's about religion, what religion has done to them to
Speaker 1: make them think I don't believe in God. I don't
Speaker 1: believe in anything. However, I beg you they believe in
Speaker 1: the universe still, or they believe in a higher energy.
Speaker 1: They believe that we all, you know, die and our
Speaker 1: energy goes back into a greater source if you will,
Speaker 1: which is still kind of having spirituality. If you believe
Speaker 1: you have a soul. Now, if you don't believe you
Speaker 1: have a soul, then you can't really have any spirituality
Speaker 1: at all because you're you're not believing in that part
Speaker 1: of your of your body.
Speaker 2: What about Anita. Anita, this massive, massive Brazilian superstar. Our
Speaker 2: music is great, She's beautiful, and she came out publicly,
Speaker 2: openly saying that her religion is Santaria, which is like
Speaker 2: Caribbean voodoo, and she lost like two hundred thousand followers,
Speaker 2: like it was the people were outraged.
Speaker 1: Really, yeah, I didn't know that that was the back.
Speaker 2: It was a big deal. And she came out defending it, saying,
Speaker 2: I am whom this is what I believe.
Speaker 1: This is where I would take her side, so to speak.
Speaker 1: She was brave enough to say this is what I
Speaker 1: believe in. You don't have to like it. You can
Speaker 1: unfollow me. It doesn't mean you have to agree with it.
Speaker 1: But she was brave enough to come out and say,
Speaker 1: this is how I identify spiritually, and this is what
Speaker 1: gives me life, right, this is what drives me in
Speaker 1: my journey. To me that whether people liked it or
Speaker 1: didn't like it, it's more powerful than all the other
Speaker 1: artists out there that are doety by hiding behind it
Speaker 1: and acting like it doesn't exist and acting like they
Speaker 1: don't do it. So to me, I give her tons
Speaker 1: of credit. And I think it's incredible because everybody has
Speaker 1: that right to believe and follow and do what they want. Spiritually,
Speaker 1: it doesn't make it even if you don't disagree with it.
Speaker 1: I mean, even if you don't agree with it, doesn't
Speaker 1: give you the right to say, I don't believe in
Speaker 1: what you're what you what you stand for. So I
Speaker 1: give her credit. I give her a lot of credit
Speaker 1: for them, because there are a lot of people that
Speaker 1: would not say it. They would do it behind closed doors.
Speaker 2: Well remember the majority, at least eighty percent of the music,
Speaker 2: basinis and the entertainment business, they do some form of magic.
Speaker 2: It is true, the guys, is there anybody? Is it
Speaker 2: true that I've seen it firsthand? And they all they
Speaker 2: they never talk about it openly or they don't want
Speaker 2: to collect the millions, and they don't want to do
Speaker 2: the offerings, and they kill the chickens and they don't
Speaker 2: want that okay, and they don't say anything.
Speaker 1: I have no words at Angela Club. I am dating
Speaker 1: someone and we both have commitment issues. We have been
Speaker 1: seeing each other for a year, and I know we
Speaker 1: need to have a conversation on where it is going.
Speaker 1: We basically live together, We spend the night at my
Speaker 1: home five to six days a week. How do I
Speaker 1: approach one ting more? Well, let's see a year. The
Speaker 1: year is a pretty good timepends on the age of
Speaker 1: these I don't know the age of you, Angela, but
Speaker 1: I think if you are of a reasonable likely you're
Speaker 1: in your twenties at a certain point, right, I think.
Speaker 2: But what is one and more marriage? What are we
Speaker 2: talking about.
Speaker 1: More or permanently moving in together? Maybe and giving that
Speaker 1: a try. If that's on the car, you're basically living
Speaker 1: at her house five to six days a week. I
Speaker 1: think you can open up that conversation and say, hey,
Speaker 1: you're basically here all the time. It's been a year.
Speaker 1: Where are we headed in this relationship? Do you think
Speaker 1: a year is too soon to have that conversation?
Speaker 2: No, not at all.
Speaker 1: Depends on the age of the person.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say, Angela, I think a.
Speaker 1: Year could be a little early, like maybe you get
Speaker 1: into a year and a half, even maybe get into
Speaker 1: two years, but a year still feels really good.
Speaker 2: Angela. You know how awesome it is just to have
Speaker 2: just to live together five days a week, and then
Speaker 2: for two days you don't have to and you have
Speaker 2: the privacy of your own home.
Speaker 1: They just don't stay over for two days. They probably
Speaker 1: see each other on those two days. No I know,
Speaker 1: But then do you want me to leave for two days?
Speaker 1: Is that what you're getting at? Do you want that privacy?
Speaker 1: Should we be talking about what our next steps are?
Speaker 2: True, we'll be talking about you know that. But who's
Speaker 2: the Who's the one that came out Carson Daily and
Speaker 2: Mario Lopez separated, and if who else? I think it
Speaker 2: was Gwyneth Cameron Diaz, Gwyneth foul Trow. I apologize if
Speaker 2: I'm making it up that they also believe that it's
Speaker 2: a good thing to have separate I even I even
Speaker 2: think that this whole Benon Jayla thing is that sometimes
Speaker 2: you know, he's very autistic and he's very heady when
Speaker 2: it comes to directing and acting. Maybe he's just living
Speaker 2: in a separate house because he needs some quiet time.
Speaker 1: I ain't. I'm not down with you sleep in a
Speaker 1: different bedroom. There's no way. I know you're down with it.
Speaker 1: You would love it, but I ain't down with that.
Speaker 2: I will never do that.
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. But I think Angela, I think
Speaker 1: you could open the conversation up if you want. If
Speaker 1: you don't think it's too soon, you could even wait,
Speaker 1: you know, wait a little longer. But if you're seeing
Speaker 1: each other five to six days a week at your house,
Speaker 1: at least at your house, that's one thing. I think
Speaker 1: that's probably more comfortable for you. But I would probably
Speaker 1: have the conversation about where we headed, when do we
Speaker 1: do it? No pressure, but I would like to know
Speaker 1: you're here a lot, what are we what's the direction
Speaker 1: the path we're on? And how do you do it?
Speaker 1: You just ask?
Speaker 2: Just say communication, guys, Okay? Last one Linn's Beckstar. I
Speaker 2: am recently divorced and learning to try and comparement with
Speaker 2: my ex. Any advice on how to put myself back
Speaker 2: out there and when my confidence, when my confidence is
Speaker 2: not at its highest.
Speaker 1: So tough. I come from divorced parents. It's so tough,
Speaker 1: but I know my parents did a great job go
Speaker 1: parenting they were really both hands on all the time.
Speaker 1: And hopefully you and your ex are doing that. I
Speaker 1: hope you guys are both accepting the fact that you
Speaker 1: want to have the other parent very active in the
Speaker 1: kid's life and you don't want to try and block
Speaker 1: that or that in any kind of way. If you're
Speaker 1: going down that path successfully and you guys are respecting
Speaker 1: each other, that's a huge start. When your confidence isn't
Speaker 1: as high ast if you're ready, Are you ready to
Speaker 1: get back out there, because that's a big question, right,
Speaker 1: Your confidence can be low, but you're saying to myself yourself,
Speaker 1: I am ready. And if you're ready, you get your
Speaker 1: friends and you have a support system, and you go
Speaker 1: out and you go on a girls trip. You go
Speaker 1: on a girls trip, you go have dinner somewhere, you
Speaker 1: go to a nice you know, you have to go
Speaker 1: to a club, whatever. You just go to like nice
Speaker 1: restaurants where there's a bar, hang out, start socializing. You know,
Speaker 1: allow the energies and the world to come your way.
Speaker 1: You know that, you know it's very open to it.
Speaker 2: You know it's very powerful and it's interesting. And this
Speaker 2: is just my experience guys. When I when I got
Speaker 2: divorce the first time. I never liked. I was petrified
Speaker 2: before being married to just go to a restaurant or
Speaker 2: go to lunch by myself, Like I didn't understand how
Speaker 2: to do that. You know, I will always be like
Speaker 2: it looks weird if I'm by myself.
Speaker 1: I was so weird because you want your own bedroom
Speaker 1: and you want to be alone all the time. Because
Speaker 1: I have changed by myself all the time the.
Speaker 2: Time, nobody I couldn't do it. I couldn't do it.
Speaker 2: I need a company, as like, I didn't comprehend how
Speaker 2: to do that. Then I got married, got divorced, and
Speaker 2: I so much want to It was such like a
Speaker 2: I felt like such a failure because I was so young,
Speaker 2: and I'm going like I don't want that on my resume,
Speaker 2: my life resume. You know that I am twenty five
Speaker 2: years old and I'm already divorced. I was so mortified
Speaker 2: about that fact. And I guess it was my ego.
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know what it was. I'm going,
Speaker 2: how am I going to tell anybody else? Like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I've been I've been married, and it was disgusting, So
Speaker 2: I did. I just didn't want to leave the house,
Speaker 2: you know, and I was so young. I'm doing so
Speaker 2: fantastic and funny enough, you know what, you want to
Speaker 2: do something funny talking about Jaylaw it's a lot of jail.
Speaker 2: I apologize Jaelo that I mentioned in your name so much.
Speaker 2: But your first husband or honey Noah Cuan the waiter
Speaker 2: from Miami that she met her first husband. We were
Speaker 2: friendly at the time. He was always been lovely with me.
Speaker 2: And I'm at a goals gym in Hollywood, funny enough, miserable,
Speaker 2: and he sees me and he goes, hey, Ross, and
Speaker 2: I'm going, oh my god, how why? So what's up
Speaker 2: with you? I'm going I had life, you know. I'm like,
Speaker 2: I'm trying to get out there, I'm trying to work out,
Speaker 2: and I'm just so uncomfortable. And he said to me,
Speaker 2: this is your prime. You're beautiful, you're so young, this
Speaker 2: is the moment that you should be so comfortable with yourself.
Speaker 2: And what are you doing?
Speaker 1: Ross?
Speaker 2: You know, snap out of it? Oh honey, Noah, isn't
Speaker 2: that crazy? And I was like, oh my god, thank
Speaker 2: you so much. And it was as simple as saying,
Speaker 2: you know what, I am going to go to breakfast
Speaker 2: and instead of just being by myself and my friends
Speaker 2: calling me a you okay, and I'm avoiding everybody. And
Speaker 2: I started just going to lunch and breakfast and early
Speaker 2: dinners by myself with a kindle or a book and
Speaker 2: just minding my own business, having a great meal, just
Speaker 2: comfortable with myself. And that was huge for me.
Speaker 1: If they were attractive, that a girl that's comfortable in herself,
Speaker 1: that wants nothing to do with anybody, exactly right. It
Speaker 1: feels hard to get so then all the guys start going, ooh,
Speaker 1: what's up with that girl? She's so occupied, Oh she's cute.
Speaker 1: And that was a very occupying boom boom boom.
Speaker 2: You start getting hit on everyone, and I didn't want
Speaker 2: to be hit by anybody, and I was like, I
Speaker 2: just want to be left alone.
Speaker 1: Get yourself back out there. It's going to be good.
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