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Speaker 2: Why is she always within like a five mile rateus's view?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, wait, John, you did so sam about did I?

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Speaker 1: He did tell me about diplow? Okay, okay? Yeah? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Was it awkward? Yeah? So we were literally it was

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Speaker 1: damn all of three seconds. That's crazy. My coworker is

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Speaker 1: forcing me to love her. I can't believe what she's doing.

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Speaker 1: She's just looking so good in those white linen pants.

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Speaker 1: You know, what's what's the theory, What's what's what's she doing?

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Speaker 4: Like making like a nice dinner playlist playlist like banana bread.

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Speaker 1: Wow, I love so much some banana bread. Yeahe what

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Speaker 1: you do see? Where's banana goes?

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Speaker 4: Here's banana gos. I love banana banana bad completely. I

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Speaker 1: Yes, to cut it and put the butter on it. Yep,

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Speaker 1: A loaf? All right. So a colleague, female thirty is

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Speaker 1: I've been working there for three months. We're scheduled together

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Speaker 4: Dude, Opie, you might just be super hot have you

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Speaker 4: ever heard of this thing called love it first sight? Yeah, dude,

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Speaker 1: Riley sends me some crazy emails.

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Speaker 4: Crazy emails, I mean, like love first dick pics probably

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Speaker 1: Riley, you know you have to do on it? There

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Speaker 4: This video gets a million legs, John and I well personally,

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Speaker 4: so everyone a waxy million million likes.

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Speaker 1: Oh my no, when you have to opt in, right

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Speaker 1: right right? This is purely consensual sexy. Yeah, it's gracious

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Speaker 1: Oh that's weird. That is weird. That is highly strange.

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Speaker 4: He asked, what's the deal? And they said she does

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. I want to say it's time

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Speaker 1: this guy's figuring out all these desires to write a movie.

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Speaker 1: That's true, Dude, I don't think that's true at all. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Oh Godlas, that's what That's what doubble cheeked up day.

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Speaker 1: That's what the coworker probably would like. Oh yeah, wait,

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Speaker 1: gossiping to everyone, like, yo, I like her? Could you, like,

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Speaker 1: That's not fun? Is it an HR violation to say

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Speaker 1: you have a crush? I think I think it's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: you would. You would let it breathe for that's fair.

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Speaker 1: So Opie says, this is dumb. I hated high school

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Speaker 1: amazing energy. I feel cute, you do when she says that? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: market for nines news flash, read all about it. I

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Speaker 1: said she was thinking of transferring clinics and to forget

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Speaker 1: And yes I did speak to hr, but only to

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Speaker 1: Banana bread, banana bread, got bad boys? Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 1: other coworkers. It was worse than what I mentioned. Amber

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Speaker 1: how she cast love spells on me. They are not

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Speaker 4: I'm going to drink that shit liquid Riley, like.

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Speaker 1: The answer I wanted to me okay. Hr saw this

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Speaker 1: HR was present, They were on their break and asked

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Speaker 1: It said, Amber and resin Ha. It's now in a

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Speaker 1: Could you imagine you work in HR and you have

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Speaker 1: some like love? You know love? I made it with

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Speaker 1: of TikTok where women were using their internal juices as perfume.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, dude, I love thekes with bathwater? Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: can we sell our bathwater? Would you guys buy that? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: We got to do something. The the Victorian age ankle stuff,

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Speaker 3: I can't show these puppies for free guys, John, the

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Speaker 1: She replied that she wanted to have me sad face

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Speaker 1: on that right right. The rest is out of my hands.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, hey, Riley, listen to me. Yea, when we

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Speaker 2: How's it gonna be possible? And we're going to sleep

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Speaker 2: I have this question for Sam. Is this your current

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Speaker 2: roommate situation?

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Speaker 1: I cannot comment on that. Yeah, just nod. I cannot comment.

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Speaker 1: I get in the confirmed comment, Oh man, let me

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Speaker 1: save you. Here you found it. I found the rest

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Speaker 1: of the story. I told hr that I don't want

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Speaker 1: her punished or sanctioned. I first knew Amber as a

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Speaker 1: competent and reliable coworker. I just want that person back. Clearly,

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Speaker 1: there is something more happening in her life, and I

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Speaker 1: hope she can overcome it and we can return to

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Speaker 1: how things were before. There were many comments in my

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Speaker 1: previous posts. Here's the rundown things suggested I will not

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Speaker 1: do with an update from before, lying about having a

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Speaker 1: significant other, lying about being gay, finding a different job,

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Speaker 1: dating all of my coworkers, taking her out on a

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Speaker 1: date to let her down, and a new edition sleep

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Speaker 1: with her. Gee, that would make it so much easier. God,

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Speaker 1: for those having trouble wrapping your heads as to why

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Speaker 1: a man does not jump on an eager female swap

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Speaker 1: the sexes in this entire affair, that's all we've been saying.

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Speaker 1: See how creepy it is? Yeah, there you go. My

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Speaker 1: colleagues are not comfortable with the situation, and they are

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Speaker 1: not even involved. She is talking to everyone about how

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Speaker 1: much she wants me and how it's unfair that I

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Speaker 1: don't want her back. Damn to close it out. We

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Speaker 1: have some relevant comments and some little updates in there.

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Speaker 1: To start. Every employee is in a group chat. She

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Speaker 1: personally messaged me through there. It's a valuation time for everyone,

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Speaker 1: not just Amber. The action taken against her is pretty evident.

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Speaker 1: The schedule they informed me that was made specifically so

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Speaker 1: that way we do not have any interaction. What is

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Speaker 1: discussed between them if they have further plans, I rightfully

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Speaker 1: do not know. I respect Amber as a colleague. Neither

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Speaker 1: I or anyone else wants to lose her. This behavior

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Speaker 1: is reportedly from everyone completely unlike her. Thus the suspected

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Speaker 1: issues in her personal life. We all want her to

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Speaker 1: be happy and well. What is happening is a symptom

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Speaker 1: of something else. Firing her will not help her. I've

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Speaker 1: been through a lot in my life, a lot. HR

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Speaker 1: is managing this in a way that is acceptable to me.

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Speaker 1: I see no change in my work environment, and I'm

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Speaker 1: being allowed to grow and prosper within the workplace. And

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Speaker 1: Amber is being reprimanded in such a way that normally

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Speaker 1: they'd understand that the behavior is unacceptable. If this doesn't click,

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Speaker 1: for her. I am willing to participate in such a

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Speaker 1: way that it does for her own well being. I

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Speaker 1: am carrying by nature. I do not believe in outright punishment.

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Speaker 1: I believe in teaching and reformation, and HR is aligned

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Speaker 1: with my values. There. It might take more time, but

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Speaker 1: in the end everyone will be better for it. All right,

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Speaker 1: that's a pretty good good sum up. I hope that

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Speaker 1: it works out that way and she doesn't get crazier

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Speaker 1: and crazier because it feels like it's been escalating. It

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Speaker 1: kind of feels escalating.

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Speaker 4: I'm not convinced it's going to stop where it stopped.

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Speaker 1: It's giving nice guy, it's nice girl, Yeah, nice? Like

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Speaker 1: why don't you want me? Just love me? Hate a

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Speaker 1: more powerful spell to cast on you. Here's the question,

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Speaker 1: what do you do, as op in the scenario.

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Speaker 4: Cast a spell on her back? Spell for spells I

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Speaker 4: like that, Or make yourself less desirable, cover yourself and

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Speaker 4: shit and.

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Speaker 1: And see what that does. Wear burlap sacks, Maybe put

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Speaker 1: a bag over your head. Yeah, you know, maybe do

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Speaker 1: the uh oh oh, it's a good one. You know

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Speaker 1: that the monk look where it's just like, wow, that

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Speaker 1: could be pretty good. The fryer would be a move.

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Speaker 1: It's basically shaving it bald on the top and then

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Speaker 1: hair everywhere else. That's a move right there. That would

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Speaker 1: be pretty sick. I think basically like Op's too sexy

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Speaker 1: and just needs to tone it down.

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Speaker 4: I agree, Yeah, stop being so beautiful, pe Yep. All

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Speaker 4: of your problems would be solved. You weren't that hot,

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Speaker 4: that's right. But you know what else is hot? What

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Speaker 4: piping story I'm about to tell you, John, Let's get

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Speaker 4: into it.

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Speaker 1: You didn't even realize it was the last one. Did

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Speaker 1: I forgot it was saw Us. I had to process