WEBVTT - Second Date Update: First Date Demise

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<v Speaker 1>Second d. It's funny. People in dating apps are just

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<v Speaker 1>like Goldilocks in the Three Bears. Some people are very

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<v Speaker 1>hot and use them all the time, like most of

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<v Speaker 1>the kids in the promo department here. Others they're a

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<v Speaker 1>little more medium, like someone in this room who only

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<v Speaker 1>goes on when her husband's out of town. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>medium's a compliment coming from you. And some are very

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<v Speaker 1>very new to it, like one of our listeners, Mary Anne,

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<v Speaker 1>who said she's just dipping her toe into the online

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<v Speaker 1>dating scene. Mary Anne, you haven't matched with Jose or

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<v Speaker 1>anybody yet? No, not yet. Okay, I'm shocked you kids,

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<v Speaker 1>I put my zip go to every zip. What's it

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<v Speaker 1>like jumping into the online dating scene? Um, it's interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I'm a little cautious about it. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess you should be to do it. So your attitude

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds good though, Like you look like your hope.

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<v Speaker 1>You sound hopeful. Yeah, how are you cautious with online dating? Um? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a teacher of like younger kids, so like I

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<v Speaker 1>just I don't want the parents to find me. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want like any weird pictures of me out there,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to make anything awkward. So I only really

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<v Speaker 1>have like a few pictures in my profile, and like

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of them I'm like wearing sunglasses. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>just there's nothing crazy there. It's like you're a celebrity.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you're I mean. But seriously though, like my kids,

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<v Speaker 1>teachers are very edited on their social media's. Yeah, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you think interesting that book has seen their dating profiles?

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever you want to say. But I couldn't even tell

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<v Speaker 1>you only posted two photos on here? Okay, what, marian So,

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<v Speaker 1>who did you match with online? There's not a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people actually, um So, I actually only go by

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<v Speaker 1>one initial. I just go by him for Marianne. Okay, serious, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen that, which may make people more cautious about you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah backfire Yeah, oh is that true? Marianne?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah no, I really don't get like a lot of messages.

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<v Speaker 1>So who was brave enough to swipe right on you?

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<v Speaker 1>Um So I did. Finally the sky Cordon actually reached

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<v Speaker 1>out to me. Gordon masculine name is masculine? Masculine? Right, Gordon?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I had a pet lizard named Gordon.

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<v Speaker 1>I got that lizard had a six pet lizards, masculine pets.

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<v Speaker 1>What's Gordon? Like? He's really nice? Um, it was just nice.

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<v Speaker 1>He was one of the few people that actually wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to like get to know me and talk to me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and like actually go out in real life, not just

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<v Speaker 1>you know, messaged me online. Okay, what did it feel

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<v Speaker 1>like going into an actual date? I mean I was

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<v Speaker 1>a little nervous, but I mean I was hopeful. I

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<v Speaker 1>was excited. He seemed really nice. So we were going

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<v Speaker 1>to go to a music festival. We decided, Oh that's cute. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was his pick. I didn't really know a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of the bands, but you know, I tried to listen

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<v Speaker 1>and like get to know some of them before we

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<v Speaker 1>went them. There's a couple that are pretty good. Three

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<v Speaker 1>songs from somebody's YouTube channels to participate. Did it turn

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<v Speaker 1>out to be fun? Yeah, it was fun. He was cute,

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<v Speaker 1>positive attitude, and he's like no pressure, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just I liked being around him, honestly, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>so it sounds like it turned out even better than

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<v Speaker 1>you expected. Yeah, it was actually like worried for nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>But when we went to leave, like it was getting

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<v Speaker 1>late and so like we made sure to hut out,

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<v Speaker 1>but I noticed, like once we got posted like the

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<v Speaker 1>exit I did on my phone oh no, And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh my god, like I lost my phone

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere and what a nightmare. So he also looked for it,

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<v Speaker 1>and he eventually found it under these like tables where

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<v Speaker 1>you could like stand her out and drink. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's nice and he's a hero. Yeah, exactly like everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you give him a big kiss as a thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'll get to it. Oh okay, sorry to jump forward,

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<v Speaker 1>so okay. Anyway, so he takes me home and we

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<v Speaker 1>just have a good night hug. Actually weird? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>sound so cute and giggly about it? Though I know

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<v Speaker 1>it was. It felt good, it felt right. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought we clicked and like, I don't know, I'm surprised

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<v Speaker 1>we aren't going out again, Like I texted him being

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<v Speaker 1>like I really enjoyed seeing you, Like I have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of fun, Like I'd love to hang out again,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I was really looking forward to, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out with him again a long hug or was

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<v Speaker 1>it like a quick I want to know it wasn't. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it wasn't like a side church hog I

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<v Speaker 1>mean like there was you know, it was like a

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<v Speaker 1>full hug. Okay, wait, you haven't heard from him at all? No,

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know what to do. It's weird hopeful,

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<v Speaker 1>and now I'm like, I'm so caught up on a

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<v Speaker 1>church hug because the hugs that I've had from people

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<v Speaker 1>in church, they go, they get pretty intense. Ye, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you, Wow, God, bless you, bless you. I've had

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<v Speaker 1>therapy from some of those church. So it's been how

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<v Speaker 1>long since? I don't know, people do it different and

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<v Speaker 1>so how so how long has it been since you

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<v Speaker 1>and Gordon hung out? Um, it was a few weeks

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<v Speaker 1>ago now so you've waited. Wait now you have your

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<v Speaker 1>phone back. Have you guys been texting since then? Not really.

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<v Speaker 1>I've tried to get him to hang out, but he's

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<v Speaker 1>not really super responsive. I guess we need this to

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<v Speaker 1>work out because it's like your first time in online

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<v Speaker 1>dating and it's gonna be bad, I know, and you

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<v Speaker 1>had fun like normally it's like, oh my god, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>never gonna online again. You had a good experience. They

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<v Speaker 1>want you to have another date. I want more church

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<v Speaker 1>hugs for you, So we'll try and get some of

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<v Speaker 1>that done. When we play a song, come back and

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<v Speaker 1>to call Gordon and try and get your second date

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<v Speaker 1>update right after this. Okay, very cool, thank you. Hold one.

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<v Speaker 1>Marianne the school teacher is on the phone with us

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<v Speaker 1>for a second date. And he just sounds so innocent

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<v Speaker 1>when you say that. She does. And her very first

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<v Speaker 1>online dating experience went just about as well as it

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<v Speaker 1>possibly could because she went to a music festival, lost

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<v Speaker 1>her phone but found it before they left, and ended

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<v Speaker 1>the night with a steamy church hug better than that

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<v Speaker 1>church or not. God was watching and God was liking.

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<v Speaker 1>But now it's been weeks and her date Gordon has

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<v Speaker 1>been kind of distant, and I know Brooke was surprised

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<v Speaker 1>that Marianne left a music festival with her top still on.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody has different vibes. Alexis was shocked that she remembered

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<v Speaker 1>the music festival at all. Yeah, yeah, but we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to do our best here. How you feeling, Marianne, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>feeling okay. You're brave because not only were you trying

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<v Speaker 1>dating apps for the first time, you're reaching out to

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<v Speaker 1>us to help. This is this is a move your phone,

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<v Speaker 1>very traumatic experience. Some would say that you're at an

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<v Speaker 1>all time low being on the show with us. But

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<v Speaker 1>that just means, that just means the only way we

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<v Speaker 1>could go from here is up. Oh okay, backwards compliment

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<v Speaker 1>kind of see that? Okay, I thought that was a

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<v Speaker 1>positive thing to say. It's interesting. I'll apologize with a

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<v Speaker 1>church hug to you. Okay, Mary, don't take Jeff's church hugs. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'll pass. We should just call him. Good idea,

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<v Speaker 1>but let's just do that. We're gonna call Gordon right

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<v Speaker 1>now here we go? Hello, Hello, is this Gordon? This

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<v Speaker 1>is Gordon? Who's this? Sorry? Did we call you in

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom or something? I'll go you over there? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you wanting that to be the truth? I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to interrupt you. No, I'm good. Who am I talking to?

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<v Speaker 1>Who is this you're talking to? Esteemed radio host Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>Dubou from award winning morning Showbrook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Yes, why,

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<v Speaker 1>great question. We're calling to the award because our mom's

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<v Speaker 1>made us one. No, we're we're calling because we're doing

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<v Speaker 1>a segment called a second Date Update, hoping to get

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<v Speaker 1>some answers for one of our listeners named Mary Anne.

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<v Speaker 1>You remember going out with mary Anna a couple weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I remember that. Yeah I did not. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry Gordon to interrupt, but I didn't expect that type

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<v Speaker 1>of reaction. She sounds bubbly and lovely and she's a

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<v Speaker 1>school teacher. That's that's what she says. I guess, Oh wow,

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<v Speaker 1>you're clearly not very fond of Maryanne. But she felt

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<v Speaker 1>like the date with you went really well. Yeah, did

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<v Speaker 1>you have fun at the music festival? Yeah, i'd fun

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<v Speaker 1>at the music festival. It started out fun, it started

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<v Speaker 1>out great. Okay, what's going on? What's with the coldness?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know. I don't know what she

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<v Speaker 1>told you guys, but she she lost her phone at

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<v Speaker 1>one point, and uh, you know, I was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>help her find it. That is hate, irresponsible people. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that what you're saying? Well, I wound up actually finding

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<v Speaker 1>her phone. Yeah, you were You were her hero, that

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<v Speaker 1>was what she said. Yeah, well I I When I

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<v Speaker 1>picked up her phone, her home screen came on, and

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<v Speaker 1>what I saw kind of broke me. WHOA what she's

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<v Speaker 1>a school teacher. I can't imagine it being I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how else to say it. When I looked at

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<v Speaker 1>her her screen. It was a picture of her kissing

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<v Speaker 1>another guy. What kind of guy? That doesn't matter? Like

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<v Speaker 1>her father. Maybe it definitely was not the way you

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<v Speaker 1>kiss your father. I don't know. You don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>I kissed my father, So how dare you jumped to

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<v Speaker 1>that sort of conclusion. I mean that could have been,

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't know, we didn't get her last relationship status,

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<v Speaker 1>Like maybe she just broke up with somebody. Maybe she's

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<v Speaker 1>there could be other reason didn't we char the photo

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<v Speaker 1>you're on a date with somebody else. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it kind of all started to make sense

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<v Speaker 1>to me. What I'm not? What are you? What's going

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<v Speaker 1>on in your mind when you see that picture? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>her profile is just m and all of her photos

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<v Speaker 1>are her but sunglasses on. And then I see this

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<v Speaker 1>and it snapped in the clear focus for me. She's

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<v Speaker 1>she's cheating. She acted so innocent, like she always she

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<v Speaker 1>totally played up the innocent school teacher. And I mean

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<v Speaker 1>she told us that she just did m and the

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<v Speaker 1>sunglasses and stuff because she didn't want parents of her

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<v Speaker 1>students to find her. Yeah, she told me the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>When your stances you're not cool with her cheating. It's

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<v Speaker 1>always like two steps. I just want to be clear.

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<v Speaker 1>Why didn't you Why didn't you address her when you

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<v Speaker 1>saw the phone and you picked it up and handed

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<v Speaker 1>it back to her, Why didn't you say something? I

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<v Speaker 1>just honestly, I wanted nothing to do with her at

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<v Speaker 1>that point. I guess that makes sense. Why at the

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<v Speaker 1>end there was no kiss? Yeah, just a church hug.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's what you call church hug. Sure, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was what to call it at this point. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I guess I'd be surprised if she was

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<v Speaker 1>still there on the line after this whole thing. But

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<v Speaker 1>why would she call us if she was cheating? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, an idiot. Let's ask Mary Anne, because she's

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<v Speaker 1>been listening to this the entire time, Gordon, Mary Anne. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's been there the whole time. Mary. You there, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here, Mary. What do you have to say? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>this is it's not what you think. That's a famous thing. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you mean? You had you had a picture

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<v Speaker 1>of you kissing another guy on your phone screen? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>That was my husband. He passed away last year. Oh oh,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just have a memory of him on my phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. We went from thinking, yeah, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know you well enough yet to really talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it. Um, so I didn't want to bring it

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<v Speaker 1>up on our first date. You know, are you okay? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I am honest a little taken aback just

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<v Speaker 1>listening to what you said and jumping so soon to

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<v Speaker 1>conclusions about me without you could have just confronted me

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<v Speaker 1>that night. Gordon, mean, how do you feel right now?

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<v Speaker 1>You must kind of feel like boob. I mean right now,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really sorry to hear that. I just I've been

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<v Speaker 1>down this road before, and so I didn't think. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't think. I feel like I had it all figured

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<v Speaker 1>out already. Yeah, hopefully you guys that's his whole heartbreaking

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah sides though, I feel like they understanding needs to

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<v Speaker 1>be there, like and I mean, Marianne, he's obviously been

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<v Speaker 1>on dating apps a lot longer because he's jaded and

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<v Speaker 1>jumps to conclusions, which is what we did when he

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<v Speaker 1>explained it. I mean, when you connect that to just

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<v Speaker 1>your m profile and everything in your secrecy, it makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, we didn't know you lost your husband, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean yeah, but if the good news is if

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<v Speaker 1>Marianne is on the dating apps, it must mean that

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<v Speaker 1>she's feeling ready to put herself back out there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's encouraging. It took me a while, but I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I finally did it. Yeah, I mean and it makes

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<v Speaker 1>sense why it's your first time ever on dating apps

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<v Speaker 1>because you were married. Yeah, Brooke doesn't play by the

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<v Speaker 1>same rules as that. But oh man, that's hard. But wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad we got closure a little clarity in this situation.

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<v Speaker 1>And Gordon, now that you know that she's not cheating

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<v Speaker 1>and what the situation is, we'd like to offer to

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<v Speaker 1>send the two of you out on another date and

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<v Speaker 1>we would pay for it. Um. I do feel terrible

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<v Speaker 1>about the assumption, and obviously about what happened to your

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<v Speaker 1>husband and you and other than that, nothing else that happened. Correct,

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<v Speaker 1>guys are really cute. Yeah. I honestly really did have

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<v Speaker 1>a good time on the date until I saw that

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<v Speaker 1>I would be open to it if you are, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that is fair because based on this I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that Marianne is still interested. Arian true, are you willing

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<v Speaker 1>to give him another chance? After he jumped to conclusions? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll give another shot. We can talk it out. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>see where we get from there. I guess really excited.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So it sounds she's the most brilliant cheater ever.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kidding. I'm happy for you guys. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>we're sending you out on another day. Um, congratulations you two.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Jeff Church Dad. I don't know about that,

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<v Speaker 1>but we could celebrate by ending this with an entire

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<v Speaker 1>show church hug. Oh yeah, everybody, bring it in close.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go into your church, Jeff Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Man. Legit tears coming from the text board

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<v Speaker 1>from a lot of people who are all pulling for

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<v Speaker 1>Charlotte and her love story. I mean, it was beautiful. Gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a couple that I definitely hope that we

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<v Speaker 1>get an update from, even if it doesn't work out.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to hear that everybody's doing okay still. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and obviously she didn't go into much detail about what

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<v Speaker 1>happened with the passing of her late husband because we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to pry into that. Good work, team, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>why would you ask that that was on your mind?

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<v Speaker 1>A true crime podcast. I'm giving us props for not

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<v Speaker 1>going there, That's what I'm saying. But you do have

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<v Speaker 1>to you have to give her credit for being courageous

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<v Speaker 1>and being brave, not just by putting herself out in

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<v Speaker 1>the dating world again, but also staying on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>while this guy accuses her of cheating. For sure, that

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<v Speaker 1>must have been so emotions for her. One of the

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<v Speaker 1>most intense cases of like assuming is never a good

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<v Speaker 1>Either that or she's on the other line thinking, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, this idiot bad after Maybe it's a good

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<v Speaker 1>rule of thumb. If you ever see somebody else with

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<v Speaker 1>a phone screen picture of them kissing somebody, just assume

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<v Speaker 1>that it's a relative that's passed away. I don't know, really,

0:17:07.440 --> 0:17:11.680
<v Speaker 1>that's not the lesson. Yeah, maybe just a more open communication. Yeah,

0:17:12.680 --> 0:17:17.080
<v Speaker 1>lessons apparently, But jeff take weird lesson. Here's a good lesson.

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<v Speaker 1>If you ever want to get in touch with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>that you went on a date with that's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back, you can email the show and we'll call

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<v Speaker 1>that person. Yeah, let's stick to that. That's a good lesson. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>it's broken. Jeffrey in the morning