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Speaker 1: Gammy a break, gamey a break?

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Speaker 2: Hello kid, cat bar?

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Speaker 1: Why are we starting off with you singing?

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Speaker 3: Because you you started the whatever? Hi guys, Hey, welcome

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Speaker 3: to the Unofficial Expert.

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Speaker 1: Podcast with Sydney and Marie.

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Speaker 2: Ah.

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Speaker 1: Yes, super excited to be here for you. Can you

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Speaker 1: give me a break? Marie? No, give me a piece

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Speaker 1: of that kit Cago. But is Thursday?

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Speaker 2: Well, Friday?

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Speaker 1: It is Monday, Saturday.

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Speaker 4: Whatever day you listen to this listeners, this is pre

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Speaker 4: recorded just so you know, and it's Thursday today.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much. Happy Thursday TBT. Thank god it's Friday.

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Speaker 2: Whatever.

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Speaker 1: Don't care about the dates. Sorry, Sidney? How the hell

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Speaker 1: are you doing?

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Speaker 3: I am doing fantastic. Went to the gym today.

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Speaker 4: I worked on my shoulders, I worked on my butt,

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Speaker 4: so like, I feel like twenty eighteen is going to

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Speaker 4: be super.

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Speaker 1: Popping your butt. Your butt is, it's Joe, it is.

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Speaker 4: I'm getting so many compliments that I'm like, yo' I

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Speaker 4: haven't even really got to the levels that I'm waiting on,

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Speaker 4: like like I'm pushing to so like, wait till it happens, Marie,

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Speaker 4: you will no longer. Sidney, I don't even want it

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Speaker 4: to happen Marie if but when I get it, it's

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Speaker 4: like we both got it.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you you got aid.

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Speaker 3: I'm just like, no, wimpy, it's our But it's like, Sidy,

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Speaker 3: who's your friend?

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Speaker 1: Who's your Is that your boyfriend?

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Speaker 4: And it's like no, no, where you have abs And

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Speaker 4: I always say it's our abbs.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but your butt is your butt.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm gonna listen anything that any fruits that I

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Speaker 4: get from this is our fruits.

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Speaker 2: Listen. Sis.

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Speaker 3: I had on a pair of baggy leggings earlier, and

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Speaker 3: I was like, why are.

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Speaker 2: They so loose? Yo?

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Speaker 4: We will know yo when I get But but you

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Speaker 4: will no longer be walking. We will be taking cars everywhere.

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Speaker 4: It will be like three years ago. Remember three years ago.

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Speaker 2: When you're rich.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, we would take cabs just ten blocks my

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Speaker 1: richest friend for like three months.

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Speaker 4: Oh you always hop in and You're like, I don't

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Speaker 4: even have to keep her fully.

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Speaker 3: Sidney, We're just going right up the street. And then

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Speaker 3: I'd be like, wow, going with you do the ox cord?

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Speaker 1: So what's going on? How about you? How you doing?

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Speaker 1: I'm doing really well.

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Speaker 3: I went to the gym and also did legs I

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Speaker 3: feel like I need the bottom to match the top.

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Speaker 2: Right. Yep.

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Speaker 3: So I was in the gym just working on my

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Speaker 3: legs and watching a bunch of men just you arms.

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Speaker 3: So all the leg machines are always available?

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Speaker 1: What is I've been seeing it?

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Speaker 4: I've noticed this more that men are literally not working

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Speaker 4: on their legs.

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Speaker 1: It'll be all upper body.

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Speaker 4: They neck will be more swollen than they fucking cast

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Speaker 4: And it's it's so frustrating because.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, baby, you can work on legs.

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Speaker 3: Baby in there with them, Johnny Bravo bodies. It's so

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Speaker 3: in it's like cut down bodies.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, come on, boot, Derek, come on, do better, Derek.

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Speaker 4: Too bad, Sidney, what were you an expert in the week?

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Speaker 4: Waist trainers? I'm sorry, waist trainers. I talk a lot

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Speaker 4: of shit about them. But my friend, my friend Jennifer

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Speaker 4: had one on her at work randomly. She works at

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Speaker 4: Petco and she.

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Speaker 1: Just had she just you just at Petcoat in a

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Speaker 4: Yes, bood. She's like, this is for afterwork. You know

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Speaker 4: you gotta have that afterwork body, hey, Jen? Yes, So

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Speaker 4: she had one and she was like you want to

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Speaker 3: And I was like, now, She had it on all

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Speaker 3: people spit on it.

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Speaker 1: People dogs drilled on it. You put it on.

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Speaker 4: There was no dogs there, There was no dog. She

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Speaker 4: had it in her bag. She didn't even have it on,

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Speaker 4: but she was like, yeah, I have one. And she's

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Speaker 4: like I got it from like it's like the Colombian

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Speaker 4: store and queens. So I was like, let me see this,

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Speaker 4: and it was real cute. I was like, oh, maybe

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Speaker 4: I should try this. She's like, well, it's an extra small.

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Speaker 4: I was like, bitch, what you're trying to say? I

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Speaker 4: am an extra small? Yeah you're She's like, yeah, but

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Speaker 4: this is a waist trainer extra small.

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Speaker 1: So I tried on.

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Speaker 3: Listen, she was like putting her leg on my check

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Speaker 3: so I can zip it up.

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Speaker 4: It was so hard to put on. But when I

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Speaker 4: tell you, I'll zipped it over to the top.

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Speaker 3: I side.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you don't so dangerous. They like shift your organs.

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Speaker 1: I don't care.

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Speaker 4: I don't need my esophagus. I don't need my intestines.

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Speaker 4: I don't need any of that.

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Speaker 2: Ship.

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Speaker 3: Yo, you're just gonna have a You're gonna eat, but

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Speaker 3: there's gonna be a hole in your body and then

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Speaker 3: the food just gonna come out.

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Speaker 1: Ye y'all.

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Speaker 4: When I tell you my waist was none and sister no,

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Speaker 4: the ass looked even ftter.

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I need to buy one of these.

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Speaker 1: She said it was forty dollars.

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh, that's a lot forty dollars.

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Speaker 3: But how much the medical costs go when you're when

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Speaker 3: you're gihn queued up at in the hospital. Yo, you

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Speaker 3: wish foundation here. You pushed me into in the wheelchair,

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Speaker 3: probably won't, Probably won't s and m I got a

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, yeah, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, city guide, Yo, I'm just gonna just saw sitting

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Speaker 3: in a chair.

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Speaker 2: Yo.

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Speaker 4: They're gonna have to feed me, just only with liquids.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna give me my little sippy cup.

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Speaker 3: Listen, I blend a little smoothie for you, like a

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Speaker 3: you gotta start paying.

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Speaker 1: Blame that burger for me.

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Speaker 4: Says yeah, So I trying to a waist trainer. I

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Speaker 4: was like, damn, I might just buy one because her

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Speaker 4: waist is I'll show you a picture her and you're like, wow,

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Speaker 4: her body is sick, and that's how it looked like

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Speaker 4: she took out about.

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Speaker 1: Full five ribs. M that Jenna Jackson.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's literally just waiste training and just that's

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Speaker 4: how she's naturally built.

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Speaker 1: Hmm, that's just rude. If you're naturally built like an

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Speaker 2: You don't need to waste train nothing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but just let the skinny people be skinny, and

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Speaker 3: let the people with big butts have big butts.

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Speaker 1: Don't be trying to like combine thing. But it's crazy

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Speaker 1: because she her body is so sick. I'm like, why

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Speaker 1: you in here, girl? We need to get you out

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Speaker 1: and about making coins.

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Speaker 4: You're trying to be a pimp and yeah, I'm actually

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Speaker 4: trying to pimp my friend right now. I'm like, we

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Speaker 4: got to get you out of here. In Uh, you

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Speaker 4: need to be on these streets you are Listen, what

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Speaker 4: about you, Marie? Were you an expert in.

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Speaker 3: I was an expert at killing it at meetings and

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Speaker 3: being on time.

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Speaker 1: I'm to auditions. Can we talk about this?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: So I had an.

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Speaker 3: Audition recently and I was like, I'm super excited about this.

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Speaker 1: I'm make some money. I'm super super stoked.

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Speaker 3: And I didn't say stoked because I'm a black woman

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Speaker 3: and I don't talk that again. And so I asked

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Speaker 3: one World Trade and I was like, one World Trade.

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Speaker 3: What does sound familiar to me? World Trade Center? Right

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Speaker 3: where the Twin Towers used to be, And I was like,

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Speaker 3: this giant it's the Freedom Tower, the biggest tallest building

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Speaker 3: I almost didn't go to the audition because.

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Speaker 1: I was like, well, I don't I don't want to

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Speaker 3: I'm being serious, Like it's like like I don't believe

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Speaker 3: like it I didn't feel right going to that site, right,

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Speaker 3: Like that's scary to me? Is it?

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Speaker 1: Wouldn't be scared to go into the Freedom Tower? Absolutely,

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Speaker 1: I've never been, but I'm not afraid. I'm not afraid.

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Speaker 1: I was afraid.

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Speaker 3: So I get I get the email, I'm like, well,

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Speaker 3: and they're like, it's on the eighty second floor. I

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Speaker 3: was like, m yeah, I don't think I could make

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Speaker 1: Like that's how high up I was. I could see everything.

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Speaker 3: And then my ears were popping on the elevator. And

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Speaker 3: my ears never pop like I fly, they be regular

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Speaker 3: like just popping.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, what is this feeling?

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Speaker 3: I felt like my head was gonna explore. My whole

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Speaker 3: body was like it was like fight or flight. Like

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Speaker 3: my body was like no this, we can't be here.

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Speaker 1: You all go with your gut. Dude, did you see

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Speaker 1: that movie? Remember me? No?

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Speaker 2: What was it on?

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Speaker 3: Somebody listening to this podcast right now? Listeners, have you

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Speaker 3: ever heard of me? Robert Robert Pattison. Pattinson was in it.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry that that movie sounds like it went They

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Speaker 4: only played on the airplane.

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Speaker 1: Listen, remember me.

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Speaker 3: No, that's not a movie you want to watch on

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Speaker 3: an airplane, because that's how crazy the movie is.

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Speaker 1: That's how crazy it is.

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Speaker 2: Sis.

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Speaker 1: But look at your life.

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Speaker 3: You're taking two elevators to get somewhere like people dream

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Speaker 3: of being able to take two elevantor people dreamed to

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Speaker 3: be on the eighty second floor. You listen to motivational

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Speaker 3: you are not listen. You better be appreciative and blessed.

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Speaker 2: Listen.

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Speaker 1: I went.

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Speaker 3: I went all the way up there, and then I

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Speaker 3: did the little audition. But when I walked in, it

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Speaker 3: was another black girl with natural hair, and I was like,

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Speaker 3: it's gonna be me or hers. They're not taking both

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Speaker 3: of us. I was, it's gonna be me. You never know, No,

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Speaker 3: I know it's gonna be me or it's gonna be her.

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Speaker 3: And you know, I was up there with my little

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and you came done because we had a meeting

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Speaker 1: We were straight.

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Speaker 3: Dressed to the nines for the fucking meeting.

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Speaker 3: Was just real loose, just living her best comfortable Kentucky Like.

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Speaker 2: I was like, they're gonna give it to this girl.

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Speaker 3: No, she's more like you came with the skirt. She's

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Speaker 1: What they want on TV right now.

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Speaker 2: So no, no, no, no no.

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Speaker 3: They want the black girl to be the sidekick to

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Speaker 4: And they were like, actually, Mari, you're gonna stop putting

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Speaker 1: Do any money. So it's just take some ribs out.

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Speaker 1: Second can get us some money.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Speaking of Second and Dick, this next guest is quite fine.

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Speaker 4: He's so fine. He's got a he's got a light

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Speaker 1: That's just one. He's got one eye's not he doesn't

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Speaker 3: Oh, ladies, do you like a little you know, two

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Speaker 1: Brother, he's one of them.

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Speaker 4: But anyway, this guest man, he is producing so much

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Speaker 4: Won't Stop.

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Speaker 1: Marie has been in it. I have been in it.

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Speaker 4: All of our friends that's been on his podcast have

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Speaker 1: Look at him, he's dreaming. That was in his dreams.

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Speaker 1: So he was able to put it on you know camera.

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Speaker 1: My god, we were supposed to kiss.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're like that.

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Speaker 1: I would never this.

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Speaker 4: Yes, this next guest, this next guest tried to have

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Speaker 4: there Mama's boy expert. He is our mama's boy excerpt.

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Speaker 4: Very funny, the very hilarious Mike Brown.

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Speaker 6: Thank you for having me and throw me under the bus,

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Speaker 6: trying to make me sound like some perfect word.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, watch people listen, watch them watch their ship

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Speaker 4: now because we said, oh, we were supposed to kiss

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Speaker 2: So they're like, ya, did you can watch it online?

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Speaker 4: They were like, we want to see that. So they're

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Speaker 4: going to watch all the episodes. There's two seasons. They're

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Speaker 3: Like, Okay, this is real cute, this is cue was

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Speaker 3: my name Tamika to look like? Actually, I was like,

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Speaker 3: that's a perfect name for Marie Marie, Tamika Tamika Marie.

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Speaker 2: Marie to make that sounds like the girl who was

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Speaker 2: on the rock for a little bit. She was on

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Speaker 2: the ride Marie. Yeah. I was like, yeah, yeah, sorry,

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Speaker 2: you have a song.

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Speaker 1: Do we remember any of Tiana Marie's songs?

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Speaker 2: Make a girl?

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Speaker 3: Oh? I do?

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Speaker 1: She's now.

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Speaker 4: But wait, can we talk about how she's on Love

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Speaker 4: and Hip Hop? Just looking terrible?

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Speaker 1: She looks bad?

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Speaker 4: No, she looks good, but she's a mess. She's she's

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Speaker 4: supposed to be the alcoholic on the show. And I'm like,

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Speaker 4: we don't do this, Like if we got this messy,

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Speaker 4: come on but the fact that, yeah, but the fact

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Speaker 4: and is now on Love and Hip Hop getting that

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Speaker 4: Mona Scott check it's a come up for her. Well,

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Speaker 4: Love and Hip Hop LA is kind of like dancing

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Speaker 4: for dancing for the stars. For these people, it's like

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Speaker 4: like your very last before nobody knows who you are?

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Speaker 1: Again, Well, who else is on the show? In m

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Speaker 1: a exactly?

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Speaker 3: Fizz Fizz from B two K Fizz is on it?

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Speaker 3: Ray j.

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Speaker 1: O Marion? What's that guy named the dated Nicki Minaj.

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Speaker 2: Ship? It's so bad.

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Speaker 1: It's just like, you're like, how did these people get

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Speaker 4: But they Mona Scott she's able to you know, may

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Speaker 4: she'd be letting make storylines for terrible people together.

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Speaker 2: Put okay, Sidney, thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: Speaking of terrible people, our guest today is not a

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Speaker 1: He's freaking great.

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Speaker 2: Mike.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about you and who you are?

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Speaker 3: So taller you first six you hear our ladies guests

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Speaker 3: so damn tall.

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Speaker 6: Oh man.

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Speaker 1: We don't want short dudes. We don't have time for that,

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Speaker 1: not for the undifficial X No, we don't.

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Speaker 4: We do need a short shout out to Langston Kerman.

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Speaker 4: We love you, lengsty our lights.

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Speaker 3: Get expert with your short ass.

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Speaker 2: You better get it like king, you better get your king.

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Speaker 1: So, Mike, where are you from?

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Speaker 2: I'm from New York, Man, I'm from Harlem and Queens.

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Speaker 1: You're from Harlem and Queens.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well I was.

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Speaker 6: I was raising Queens and then I went to Harlem

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Speaker 6: for like high school on so I always just say Harlem.

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Speaker 3: Oh so you've been through it Harlem going to school

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Speaker 3: in Harlem one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like you jumped into the gangs.

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Speaker 3: Oh fuck, they'd be waiting outside for you. People were

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Speaker 3: getting jumped into the gangs. So what's like the scariest

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Speaker 3: thing that ever happened to you when you were in

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Speaker 3: high school?

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Speaker 1: To me, I really have scared, like because you have

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Speaker 1: you always been tall?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've boys been tall boy.

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Speaker 1: I mean some people late, Oh no, the whole the

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Speaker 1: whole time. But the whole time the baby came.

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Speaker 2: Out the womb six three, I just stayed the size.

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Speaker 1: Like your baby is six three, you was nine pounds.

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Speaker 1: You were as long as the bibilical court.

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Speaker 2: I was.

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Speaker 1: He walked out. I've been ready like, ain't no hoes

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Speaker 1: in there because my mother is not a hope.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, no it was I'm sure I think

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Speaker 6: like the yeah, nothing crazy like happened to me specifically,

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Speaker 6: but like I'd be around it.

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Speaker 2: Like I remember. I remember the time this dude tried

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Speaker 2: to rob.

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Speaker 6: Me after school and you know, I have no money

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Speaker 6: and it came up to me and he was like,

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Speaker 6: I was like, hey, I was like, I would really

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Speaker 6: love to, but I just don't have any money on

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Speaker 4: And he went to your school, to my school, he

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Speaker 4: didn't go to It was somebody elseide Robin High School.

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Speaker 3: What was that?

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Speaker 1: Sounds like Harlem? Who would have fuck raised you?

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Speaker 2: I know he was on and you know you were really.

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Speaker 5: In Harlem pgs Fredick Douglas Academy, Well, Frederick Douglas Academy

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Speaker 5: or Martin Luther King anything or Malcolm.

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Speaker 4: Xans all bad SuperH It's the opposite of what the

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Speaker 1: The high school is about Washington.

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Speaker 2: Adam Clayton Powell Juvar one of the worst.

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Speaker 1: Adam Clayton. I've seen a couple of gang bangs on

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Speaker 4: So yeah, oh yeah, I'm sure Adam Clayton would be proud.

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Speaker 6: We did at least we became a community.

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Speaker 3: So so you went to school in Harlem. Your parents

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Speaker 3: are divorced.

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Speaker 2: My parents are divorced. My mom is from My mom

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Speaker 2: is i'll say.

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Speaker 6: Like regular flavor black, and my dad is Jamaican from Jamaica.

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Speaker 1: So what did your mom simply black?

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Speaker 2: Simply Yeah, we got that.

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Speaker 1: We got that in the uber pool uper uberpool this morning.

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Speaker 3: They called the people in the pool called me simply black, simply.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I just called them regular.

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Speaker 2: Feels racist though they were the people.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they were people. Because I said, oh, you know,

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Speaker 3: I'm just black. And then the guy was like, no,

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Speaker 3: simply black.

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Speaker 2: He corrected me.

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Speaker 1: He didn't call you simple, but now he said, you're

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Speaker 1: more than that, simply.

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Speaker 2: Simply that's real. That is really beautiful.

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Speaker 3: You have siblings, you like you're you're simply black Jamaican.

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Speaker 2: Who got a bunch of siblings?

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Speaker 1: Do you really?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Your dad and they all beautiful.

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Speaker 1: You have such an unattracted father.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's an attractive family. It's crazy. Six you're the

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Speaker 3: oldest of six.

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Speaker 2: Six, I don't have any foolies. Have bodies a half?

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, yes, I mean your sisters are fly Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I have.

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Speaker 2: Just one, says to nobody. See I don't talk about her.

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Speaker 3: Oh man, can you pass show us?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Let me yeah, we want to see.

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Speaker 4: Probably is she an extra on love and hip hop?

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Speaker 4: Let me know, No, she could be. She just moved

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Speaker 4: to Atlanta, so I'm scared.

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Speaker 3: Oh man, king of diamonds, look out too thick Atlanta?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, what are we talking? Simply thick?

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Speaker 6: No, she she too thin for that. She will serve

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Speaker 6: some bottles though, for a little bit. Oh you know

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Speaker 6: what beautiful brown skin like? She's beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Show me a picture.

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Speaker 2: Please.

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Speaker 1: The same color eyes as you?

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Speaker 2: No, no, who do you look like?

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Speaker 1: You look like your mom? Your mom has the same

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Speaker 6: Right, my grandfather did. He was the only one with

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Speaker 6: his lies and the rest of his secret family. We

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Speaker 3: Your grandfather wasn't killing it if he doesn't even a

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Speaker 3: secret family.

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Speaker 2: I had a secret family. Shout out to them, Shout

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Speaker 2: to them out.

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Speaker 1: Did they live in the same town or another state?

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Speaker 1: They lived on the same block.

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Speaker 6: Gosh, they lived in the same in the same borough.

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Speaker 6: We didn't know until after. Like the at the funeral people, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Like, who they look like? My people like, is that me?

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Speaker 2: Anybody looked like? It's scary? Scary. You have secret family,

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Speaker 2: you know, Jamaica.

451
00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:35,400
Speaker 1: Jamaica, So six six siblings you got.

452
00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:38,280
Speaker 4: You have both your parents and your life, but they're

453
00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:40,680
Speaker 4: separated from life.

454
00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:41,520
Speaker 2: Both of you married.

455
00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:42,479
Speaker 1: So who did you live with?

456
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Speaker 6: I live with my mom for for the Queens section

457
00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:47,640
Speaker 6: and then moved with my dad for the Harlem section.

458
00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:49,320
Speaker 3: So he puts you out there. He's like, if you're

459
00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:51,560
Speaker 3: gonna be with me, son, you go learn today.

460
00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:54,640
Speaker 6: You're gonna learn like he did, Like he came from

461
00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:58,399
Speaker 6: Jamaica living in Harlem with uh, with grandpa whatever.

462
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Speaker 2: So yeah, I learned. I learned these.

463
00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:05,040
Speaker 4: Streets, but I you learned these streets with your dad.

464
00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:08,560
Speaker 4: But I still feel that like mama's boy energy.

465
00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:10,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, well, well she put the foundation in me.

466
00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:13,840
Speaker 6: You know she was she was a single woman, single mother,

467
00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:15,720
Speaker 6: you know what I mean, raising me, keeping me away

468
00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:18,200
Speaker 6: from trying to keep me off the streets, trying to.

469
00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:22,520
Speaker 1: Even as a crack mama, you always black queen.

470
00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:31,600
Speaker 3: Mama, but I've never Yeah, did you ever you appreciate

471
00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:34,480
Speaker 3: when he when he was growing up after like mob

472
00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:37,280
Speaker 3: deep and like when he hit him up, I feel

473
00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:37,960
Speaker 3: like he had lived.

474
00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:43,600
Speaker 7: She might have lived, maybe like one tell my god,

475
00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:48,520
Speaker 7: bring up.

476
00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:52,000
Speaker 1: I didn't even remember that because I loved you.

477
00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:55,400
Speaker 3: Oh God, we got to get a Tupac expert soon.

478
00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:59,400
Speaker 2: So yeah, you need expert man, definitely. That's so funny. Yeah,

479
00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:00,640
Speaker 2: but yeah, she she.

480
00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:04,320
Speaker 6: Raised me, and I I never wanted to like disappoint her.

481
00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:06,480
Speaker 6: And I was like in a in a world where

482
00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:10,159
Speaker 6: I had my mom raised me and my grandmother raised me,

483
00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:13,399
Speaker 6: and then when I was seven, she had my sister.

484
00:20:13,520 --> 00:20:16,080
Speaker 6: So I was around a lot of women. I was

485
00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:17,520
Speaker 6: kind of like that man at a house. So it

486
00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:20,760
Speaker 6: was like, you're going to respect women and you're also

487
00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:23,719
Speaker 6: going to do things that I guess make you a

488
00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:24,240
Speaker 6: better man.

489
00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:26,600
Speaker 2: So you don't need no woman, you know what I mean?

490
00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:33,320
Speaker 1: What's name Laura? Laura? We love you, Laura. And what

491
00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:34,080
Speaker 1: about your grandmother?

492
00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:39,400
Speaker 2: My grandmother she was a lululu.

493
00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:44,359
Speaker 6: She's uh and uh yeah, my grandmother, my grandmother was

494
00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:46,439
Speaker 6: a I thought she was single this whole time, and

495
00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:47,920
Speaker 6: I'm just like realizing she.

496
00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:48,720
Speaker 1: Was getting dicked down.

497
00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:52,399
Speaker 2: Really okay? Did she had a friend? Was an uncle?

498
00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:53,720
Speaker 1: But it wasn't.

499
00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:55,160
Speaker 2: He was I forget his name.

500
00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:58,320
Speaker 1: He was hitting her down and then giving her that.

501
00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:03,080
Speaker 3: Icy hot stroke in her body.

502
00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,680
Speaker 2: That must have been.

503
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:07,600
Speaker 3: Okay, that tiger momb Dick, I love, get them cankle.

504
00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:12,520
Speaker 3: It was a mister Noah was Lulu and mystery. Get

505
00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:13,560
Speaker 3: that dialysis, dick.

506
00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:15,119
Speaker 2: I'm here for it, thank you.

507
00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:20,800
Speaker 3: We could watch some stories, stories, Yo.

508
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:20,840
Speaker 1: What do you want to watch?

509
00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:22,760
Speaker 3: We'll a fortune now he beat it up and then

510
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:24,280
Speaker 3: they would fall asleep to Jeopardy.

511
00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:27,359
Speaker 2: Yes, I noticed answer.

512
00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:31,600
Speaker 1: What is this dick?

513
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:33,760
Speaker 2: It's good for your soul?

514
00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:40,080
Speaker 1: So that's but that's good. I feel like a lot

515
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:41,120
Speaker 1: of moms who.

516
00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:43,720
Speaker 3: Are like single and raising their like little boys, like

517
00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:44,960
Speaker 3: they don't take time to teach them like.

518
00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:45,680
Speaker 1: How to treat women.

519
00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:48,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean yeah, I feel like a decent.

520
00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:50,119
Speaker 3: Amount, Like I know, like I'm just talking about the

521
00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:52,359
Speaker 3: people that I see in my community. Like when I

522
00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:54,399
Speaker 3: be on the train, i'd be like, you didn't nobody

523
00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:56,000
Speaker 3: told your son? Like you didn't tell your son? Is

524
00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:58,760
Speaker 3: the stand when like like a woman needs to sin

525
00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:01,560
Speaker 3: or you're not teaching them how to like hold doors

526
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:03,840
Speaker 3: open for people, like you know what I mean, Like.

527
00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:06,960
Speaker 6: I think that might be like a New York City

528
00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:10,000
Speaker 6: It's definitely a New York City thing.

529
00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:13,440
Speaker 4: Because when I would take the bus and the Greyhound

530
00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:15,960
Speaker 4: as a kid, I would see.

531
00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody, they just let you go.

532
00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 3: No, I was with my family. I was there with

533
00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:28,280
Speaker 3: my grammy. Okay, I went with my grammy and my knees.

534
00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:36,439
Speaker 3: I was a kid, and I was I had chaperones,

535
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,160
Speaker 3: all right. I was like latch key bus.

536
00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:38,640
Speaker 4: No.

537
00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 1: I would see No.

538
00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 4: I would see mothers and their sons together on the

539
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:44,639
Speaker 4: bus all the time, and she would Some of them

540
00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 4: would put them on their laps so other people could

541
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 4: sit next to them. They were like, you don't get

542
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 4: your own seat. You got to give up your seat

543
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:51,359
Speaker 4: for this older woman.

544
00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:53,880
Speaker 3: Listen, if I'm paying for two seats, then we gonna

545
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:55,960
Speaker 3: have two seats. It's for me, me and my purse,

546
00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 3: and my baby is gonna stand in the aisle.

547
00:22:57,800 --> 00:22:58,239
Speaker 2: I don't know.

548
00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:02,679
Speaker 1: But if paying, I mean, he ain't putting the chicken.

549
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:05,520
Speaker 2: Stupid. No.

550
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,960
Speaker 4: But I growing up, I felt like I saw a

551
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 4: lot of boys with their mothers, and there was a

552
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:16,560
Speaker 4: lot more interaction than what's going on right now, because

553
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:18,800
Speaker 4: you people would open like little boys would open.

554
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:23,040
Speaker 1: Doors for older women and like good morning. That's because

555
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 1: those little boys didn't have Instagram pages.

556
00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:27,960
Speaker 3: People too busy tap double tapping on fat asses to

557
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 3: hold doors open for old ladies.

558
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:30,919
Speaker 2: Now that's what it is.

559
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:34,240
Speaker 6: I mean it's also and when I grew up, uh

560
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 6: in in the early eighties or whatever, you hear these

561
00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:41,440
Speaker 6: things about not like feminism, but there were like kind

562
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:42,159
Speaker 6: of gender.

563
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:44,040
Speaker 2: Roles that were really specifically assigned.

564
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 6: So it was like, Okay, as a guy, you need

565
00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:48,359
Speaker 6: to know that you are a man and you should

566
00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 6: be a natural protector of your sister. You should, yeah,

567
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 6: like be protective and aware of these things you know

568
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:59,359
Speaker 6: growing up, And I think now, h nothing, it's just different.

569
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 6: It's like we talk about like equality, so sometimes they

570
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:04,000
Speaker 6: might be like, Okay, you can do whatever you want

571
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 6: to do, don't worry about.

572
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 1: Catch this door with your face. When they say equality,

573
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 1: they talking about finances. I feel like they're talking about money.

574
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 4: We want to get paid equally, that's the Yeah, we

575
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 4: want to be able to get the same job and

576
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:17,640
Speaker 4: get paid equally.

577
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:18,880
Speaker 2: You think it's all finance.

578
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:21,199
Speaker 4: I do I think that's what people are fighting for.

579
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:23,920
Speaker 4: White women are fighting for it. I mean, yeah, you're trying,

580
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 4: you're trying to get they fight.

581
00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, they fight for it. They want to get the

582
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:29,640
Speaker 1: same amount.

583
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 3: Who was the who's the actress that oh my god,

584
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:37,120
Speaker 3: quet part Arquette. What did she say when she got

585
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 3: her she won like an award or she was talking

586
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:43,760
Speaker 3: about equality and she was like, white women work hard

587
00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,360
Speaker 3: every and it was like wait, it was like wait,

588
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 3: what what about all the other women who work hard?

589
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,360
Speaker 4: And then she was like the people who helped move

590
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 4: the civil rights movement, Now it's like those people need

591
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:58,680
Speaker 4: to help move this women's rights movement or something like that.

592
00:24:58,720 --> 00:24:59,400
Speaker 1: It was like.

593
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 2: She was doing a lot, doing the most. And I

594
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:06,800
Speaker 2: think that's that's where the changes because like when.

595
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:09,000
Speaker 6: I was growing up, also, you didn't have like so

596
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 6: much connectivity, so it was like when you're out in

597
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 6: the world, you don't know what's going to happen. So

598
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 6: it's like, okay, Mike, you got to know this is

599
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:19,440
Speaker 6: how you treat women. Also kind of know your identity

600
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 6: as as a black man, and ah, the cops might

601
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 6: be treating you and how people might look at you. Yeah,

602
00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:26,719
Speaker 6: and you're growing up with this fear of like, okay,

603
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 6: you had you had like the civil the Voting Act

604
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:31,160
Speaker 6: go through.

605
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 1: You were you really that scared?

606
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:36,199
Speaker 3: You A light skinned man with light eyes, You're.

607
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 1: Like, well, maybe I could beat a minute in Harlem.

608
00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:39,560
Speaker 3: Harlem was scary because there was a parley, there was

609
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 3: a blood.

610
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 4: The bloods were going rampant in Harlem like they would.

611
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:45,920
Speaker 4: They're like, I'll eat your food. Like people were talking.

612
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 3: About buck fifties and I was like a dollar fifty.

613
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 3: They're like no, no, no, a bug fifty on your

614
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 3: face like this they were talking about. For those of

615
00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 3: you who are listening who don't know what a buck

616
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:57,360
Speaker 3: fifty is, that's when they cut you away from ear

617
00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 3: to ear because no, I thought it was one hundred

618
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 3: and fifty stitches across your face.

619
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god, who raised you?

620
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:06,480
Speaker 2: City?

621
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:13,920
Speaker 3: That's so like you know the joker scar in Batman?

622
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, literally that.

623
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:18,439
Speaker 6: But but that's the difference because like when I was

624
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 6: growing up in Queens, I had like a Jewish neighbor

625
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 6: on one side across the street. I had like this

626
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:28,120
Speaker 6: uh Spanish Latino family and it was like one one

627
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:31,400
Speaker 6: house was like Russians, not even we didn't the Russian around,

628
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 6: didn't have the Russian round.

629
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, they came around, they came around, but this is

630
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:38,920
Speaker 2: very nice. Yeah, yeah, they came and bought some that's

631
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:39,840
Speaker 2: little property.

632
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 1: Its Russian.

633
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:42,439
Speaker 2: It was did you do that?

634
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:44,880
Speaker 1: Did I do it at the meeting?

635
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:49,399
Speaker 2: Did you just out the Russian? Very good?

636
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 6: But uh yeah. So but so you get like that

637
00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 6: kind of foundation. So when when I went to high school,

638
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:57,199
Speaker 6: my mom was like, oh, you have to live with

639
00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 6: your dad because the school there is a better school

640
00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 6: and you will have more opportunities. And I'm like, but mom,

641
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 6: I'm gonna be in Harlem that I have the opportunity

642
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 6: to shy.

643
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, well she was like, well it was willing to take.

644
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:13,160
Speaker 4: It was really scary, like just going to the park,

645
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 4: just going across the street, like I would hear people

646
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 4: getting killed all the time.

647
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 6: Really yeah, I remember, like I don't know how crazy

648
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 6: it is now, but before like every Halloween you would

649
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 6: get like the just like hey, you guys, be careful.

650
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,159
Speaker 6: They're throwing eggs, they're cutting people. If someone flashes their

651
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:34,439
Speaker 6: lights that you don't pull over, if someone does this

652
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 6: thing that you don't you know.

653
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but my mom was getting those letters in

654
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:38,159
Speaker 1: the suburbs.

655
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:39,679
Speaker 2: She was like taking people.

656
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, my mom was like we weren't allowed to go

657
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 3: through her treating as kids.

658
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 1: I never my.

659
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 3: Entire life have ever gone treating. Was not allowed.

660
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:50,880
Speaker 2: That's that's my parents would get.

661
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:52,640
Speaker 1: Candy for other people who came to the door.

662
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:56,880
Speaker 3: We weren't allowed to go out with like a pillowcase

663
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 3: or nothing.

664
00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 6: That's like when I'm I know we're talking about this earlier,

665
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:03,679
Speaker 6: but like I think about that, like being brought up,

666
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 6: like I never went trick or treating and the sense

667
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 6: of like freedom in this country.

668
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 3: I've never met somebody else who didn't go trigger treating.

669
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 3: Y'all never went either.

670
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 1: I never went trick or treating anything. Black pants, they're not.

671
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:16,440
Speaker 3: First of all, black parents are like, I get off

672
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:18,880
Speaker 3: of work. You think I'm gonna come out and trick

673
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 3: or treat with you? After I spent eight hours working

674
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 3: to get money to feed you? Are you fucking crazy?

675
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 1: Then we got to dig through this candy to make

676
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 1: sure none of it's open.

677
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, and make sure and then you there's strangers out

678
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 4: there that you gotta go in packs like it's too

679
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 4: much and I gotta buy you a costume already bought

680
00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:37,120
Speaker 4: you a costume. We're a costume to school and that's

681
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 4: it all.

682
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 3: My parents were like, we don't make My parents were like,

683
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 3: here's a pair of glasses in a book.

684
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 2: You a librarian.

685
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 1: It was like, wow, I wanted to be beauty and

686
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 1: the beef yo.

687
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 3: I wanted to I wanted to be a princess so bad.

688
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 3: They were like, well, you better cut these sheets out

689
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 3: and make the sheet better, do its best. You want

690
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 3: to be being in the best colored that shit yellow.

691
00:28:56,920 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 3: Like my family was ruthless, you know, damn. And then

692
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 3: one time they made me be Spider Man. They made

693
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:08,240
Speaker 3: me be Spider Man because my cousin had the Spider

694
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 3: Man costume though.

695
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 1: Year before, and they like, throw this ship on it,

696
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 1: and I was like bag. I was like, did were

697
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 1: not even the same size? They were like cut, cut

698
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 1: the legs out, reboot.

699
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 3: It was so I was like, but I'm not even

700
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 3: like a fat Spider Man because bumping out of his clothes.

701
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 1: It was like yeah, I just cut hold no, But

702
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 1: I was like I'm not even I'm not even a boy.

703
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:33,719
Speaker 4: And they were like this is progress, you woman, Like

704
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 4: this was what fifteen years ago.

705
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 2: They were feminist at least at least you dressed up.

706
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 1: I never got a costume.

707
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, my mom, we walked out a cast with a

708
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 6: Friendly Ghost movie because you thought it was Sitanic.

709
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 1: Your mother, Oh, I believe that. Yeah, my mom was.

710
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 2: I believe that it's a friendly ghost.

711
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, we see death Stakes in the movie. I've never

712
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 1: seen Casper, but my mom never took us in the movie.

713
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:03,239
Speaker 3: I saw that. I saw that with my cousins. I

714
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 3: saw did your parents know?

715
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 1: Did your Graham Graham? Did your grammy know?

716
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 4: Let me tell you a movie. My mother took me.

717
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 4: She took me to see candy Man, so you know

718
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 4: the FS. My mother didn't care. She took me to

719
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 4: Candy Man as a matinee and it was I had

720
00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 4: nightmares for weeks. I was like, why would you take

721
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 4: me to see this? She was like, I thought it

722
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 4: would be fun.

723
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 3: I've never seen candy Man, but your mom is a

724
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 3: she knew. Like I feel like the movie poster.

725
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 2: For candy Man.

726
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 1: It didn't look like like a kid.

727
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 4: It was a black man and a coat, and I

728
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 4: was like, oh, uncle Raymond, that's uncle Raymond.

729
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 2: That's way hold on up. Candy Man.

730
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 1: He had a hook and I was.

731
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 2: Like, that's doesn't that's Uncle Raymond. That's still Uncle Raymon.

732
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's our neighbor.

733
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 3: Mary, like such a I'm like God nineteen ninety two

734
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 3: Fantasy Slasher.

735
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it, Cory.

736
00:30:58,760 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 2: It was so boring.

737
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,640
Speaker 1: I couldn't believe my mother went to like, oh my god,

738
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 1: that's the black Man.

739
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 3: From Final Destination.

740
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 4: Okay, wait, so we got to get into your relationship

741
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 4: with your mother.

742
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 2: Your mom took you.

743
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 1: So is your mom really religious? She took you out

744
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 1: of Caspers.

745
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean she she's religious now, but she never

746
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 6: was like super religious. She put me in a Catholic

747
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 6: school and had to pretend to be Catholic for all

748
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 6: of up until high school.

749
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 1: So you had to pretend. So like your mom was like,

750
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 1: just pretend.

751
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, just pretend.

752
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 6: We'd go and then have to go to all the masks,

753
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 6: you know, and sing all the songs like be with

754
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 6: You all that ship and then on.

755
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 2: But on the weekends we'd go to the Baptist church.

756
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 4: And you know, there's a big difference with the big

757
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 4: difference is the choir. Okay, first of all, the choir

758
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 4: is going in in a Baptist church.

759
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 6: Feeling it like there's more energy, like when you're you're

760
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 6: in your Catholic church is like you know, like.

761
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 2: They were the first mumble rappers on the.

762
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 1: You know.

763
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 5: Are dead.

764
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 2: All my friends and.

765
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:16,720
Speaker 1: Wait, what was the Thousand Songs? Wasn't real?

766
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 2: I can't remember.

767
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 1: I can't remember. It's done.

768
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, and uh, but then you go to Baptist church

769
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 2: and then you.

770
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 7: I don't want to yeah, I don't want a revolution,

771
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 7: and then they feed you at the end.

772
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

773
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 6: But she I think she wanted me to be uh,

774
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 6: she wanted me to be religious so I can have

775
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 6: like that spiritual grounding and like, now.

776
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 1: Something to believe in that's more than just this.

777
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I believe in it.

778
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 6: But I saw warped now because like that smokes weed

779
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 6: and so now I'm all messed up.

780
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 1: But did she, like did she support you around at church?

781
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 3: Because that's what my aunt would do, Like they would

782
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 3: make sure my church outfits were cute and I would

783
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,600
Speaker 3: look clean and like look so so when people would

784
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 3: come up to this, like look how good she looks?

785
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah, yeah yeah yeah.

786
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 3: And you have light eyes to look a little Mike,

787
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 3: you're looking up you how many inches did you.

788
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: Grow this this week.

789
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 2: My inches.

790
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 6: God, yeah, you know, no, no, she she she made me.

791
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 6: She made sure I was I was looking good and

792
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 6: I and I represented her. I remember, like, but but

793
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 6: she's like I think every black person has this thing.

794
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 6: Was like there's things you know, you couldn't do with

795
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 6: your mom, Like like if I saw my boy was

796
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 6: out and I wanted him to come over, I couldn't

797
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 6: ask if he could come over.

798
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you know, put on a spot like that.

799
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 3: There's things like that. It's like, so there was that yo.

800
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 3: I was no, I hear what you're saying. I wasn't

801
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 3: allowed to have people come to the house. Let me

802
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 3: tell you what happened. So I had a best friend

803
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 3: when I was in first grade, right, Her name was Shakira.

804
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 4: She lived up the block. That's crazy. The first girl

805
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 4: I kiss was named Shakira.

806
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 3: That's gross anyway. So Shakira, I like, because you know

807
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 3: what kids would like be come.

808
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 1: Over after school or like, oh you.

809
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 3: Gonna play whatever. So I invited Chekira to my house

810
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 3: to play catch. One day on a school night, her

811
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:12,799
Speaker 3: and her dad come to my house and my dad

812
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 3: comes to the door a big scary Haitian man face, what.

813
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:20,360
Speaker 3: They're like, Hi, I just you know, sekis here to

814
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 3: play catch?

815
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:21,880
Speaker 1: Catch?

816
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 2: What catch?

817
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 3: My mom and dad made her leave, wouldn't even let

818
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 3: me play catch, or they were like, it's a school night,

819
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 3: you got homework. I'm like, I'm me first grade. Like

820
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 3: all I'm doing is like learning how to write my

821
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:37,880
Speaker 3: name or you know how to do that. And he

822
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 3: was like, yeah, but it's a school night. You didn't

823
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 3: ask us. She gotta got her leave.

824
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 4: I never had Guess over, Like, never had Guess, didn't

825
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 4: do this slumber party thing. I could never go to

826
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 4: birthday parties, Like I wanted to go to this birthday

827
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 4: party so bad. And I told my aunt. I was like, listen,

828
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:56,280
Speaker 4: this is my friend I love. It was a girl,

829
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:59,439
Speaker 4: but she had a short, short haircut and her mom

830
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 4: had a short her hair cut.

831
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 1: And she's like those bull dykes. No, you can't go

832
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:07,440
Speaker 1: to those bull dykes birthday parties. I was like, wow,

833
00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 1: I didn't even.

834
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:12,440
Speaker 3: Know what a bull dyke was.

835
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 1: I'm not googling it.

836
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:16,760
Speaker 3: Really like, no, you can't go over there, They're gonna

837
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 3: touch you.

838
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:20,239
Speaker 1: I was like, wow, this is a lot. That's what

839
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:22,600
Speaker 1: our parents did to us, right, Like I mean.

840
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:24,839
Speaker 6: But like my mom, like as I got older, she

841
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:27,399
Speaker 6: was she was cool. But also like at the Catholic school,

842
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:31,439
Speaker 6: it was like probably like the class was like fifteen kids.

843
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 2: Like it was such a small school.

844
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 3: So literally that's not enough kids for you to like

845
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:36,839
Speaker 3: where was this? This was for you to get away

846
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 3: with doing?

847
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, so uh there was this.

848
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 6: There was this one girl who I think my low

849
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 6: key might have been like my first little like girlfriend.

850
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 1: Little shorty. You had a little shorty, little short shorty.

851
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 2: I mean that says so much. This says so much

852
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:49,799
Speaker 2: about me.

853
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:54,759
Speaker 6: Now. She was Korean, Oh all right, Korean, and I

854
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 6: would wow, were in chill at her house? You really progressive,

855
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 6: like Korean chilling because your mom was like, oh, yeah,

856
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:03,360
Speaker 6: you're not interested in that little Korean girl.

857
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:06,919
Speaker 1: Meanwhile, yeah, but.

858
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 2: Like yeah she would let me if she knew the person,

859
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:10,239
Speaker 2: I think.

860
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:12,040
Speaker 6: But wasn't it like that for your family too, Like

861
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 6: if you if you knew the person, if they knew.

862
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 2: That My parents, like we parents, probably.

863
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:21,879
Speaker 4: My one of my best friends, Ziggy lived two doors down,

864
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 4: and they didn't even want going over to her house.

865
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:27,440
Speaker 4: I have to sneak to the house and they they

866
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 4: didn't even want me in the house like my my

867
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:32,319
Speaker 4: Ziggie's family.

868
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 1: Didn't realize that we were so similar.

869
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 3: Yes, she didn't even want They would make me stand

870
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 3: outside and they would open the door and they would

871
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 3: talk to.

872
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 1: Me while I was outside, like, yeah, I feel it's nice.

873
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:45,560
Speaker 1: Ziggy's parents didn't want you in the house.

874
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:47,359
Speaker 4: They didn't want me in the house, and my aunt

875
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:49,479
Speaker 4: didn't want me in their house. Like nobody was able

876
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 4: to come to anybody's house.

877
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 1: It was crazy. I was like, black people are nuts.

878
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 1: Black were crazy. Soon as I went to middle school

879
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 1: and met all these white people, they were like, come

880
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 1: over and you were hang out of.

881
00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 3: The den And I was like what And you were like, well,

882
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 3: what line tell my parents so I can go to lindsay.

883
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 4: Oh man, I would I'd be like, yo, I'm in

884
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:08,440
Speaker 4: the longest after school program ever, like doing whatever I

885
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 4: could just to be over in this den.

886
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 6: Yeah, because you never, like, I really don't have to

887
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 6: lie to my mom about going to certain places.

888
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,200
Speaker 4: You were a boy, that's yeah, yeah, boy, But that's

889
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:20,279
Speaker 4: I think it's just it's just that, that's all it is.

890
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 4: My family always was afraid that somebody was trying to

891
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 4: like take me or something touch me or you know,

892
00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 4: I would pick up bad habits.

893
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 2: You know.

894
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 4: I went to my friend's house one time and I

895
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 4: realized that they had three different types of bread.

896
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 1: And I came home and I was like, Mom, did

897
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 1: you know.

898
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:41,919
Speaker 3: They have three different types of bread? And she was like, yeah,

899
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 3: you can't go over there no more.

900
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:48,399
Speaker 1: That's it. I was like, there's we do like, there's

901
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 1: white and a rye. It's not just the Jumbo wonderbread.

902
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 1: But this potato bread.

903
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 6: Potato bread changed the game for me. My mom got that,

904
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,560
Speaker 6: I was like, oh she got that check money.

905
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, Mom, did you know

906
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:02,480
Speaker 1: they potato bread? Mom?

907
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 3: Did you know that they have a box for bread?

908
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 3: They put their bread in a box. It's not just

909
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 3: a plastic thing with.

910
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:09,840
Speaker 1: A tie on.

911
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 3: So you take the bread out of the bag and

912
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 3: then put it in the box, or you put it

913
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:13,839
Speaker 3: just in the box.

914
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:16,760
Speaker 4: You could put them in the bag in the box.

915
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 4: It was a bread box, Sydney, I know what a

916
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 4: bread box.

917
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 2: I didn't know.

918
00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:20,919
Speaker 1: I didn't have it in my home.

919
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 2: We just throw the bread on top of the refrigerator. Yes,

920
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 2: yes that's what I did.

921
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, but yes, Mike, go ahead and do your public

922
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 3: service and listeners.

923
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 6: So the listeners at home who have not experienced the

924
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 6: joys of having your bread in a box, please.

925
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:42,920
Speaker 2: Amazon search of bread box.

926
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:45,760
Speaker 3: And send it to the unificial experience.

927
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 2: Please.

928
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:50,840
Speaker 1: I feel like for the listeners.

929
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 3: Black people just like to put their cereal on top

930
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:54,160
Speaker 3: of the fridge.

931
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 2: In my mind, that's just where good, that's where it is.

932
00:38:56,160 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 1: We don't put it in the cabinet. In a cabinet, yeah, why.

933
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 6: Yeah, because you're gonna go get that cereal probably every

934
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:04,400
Speaker 6: day exactly.

935
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 1: Look you see. I looked at my friends, there's no

936
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 1: cereal there because I ate it.

937
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 4: But I went to my friend's Allegra's house, and she

938
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 4: had like a whole closet full of like different cereals.

939
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 1: Different pantry.

940
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:16,359
Speaker 6: Dude.

941
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, she went to she had a pantry, cereal box,

942
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 4: put everything in a cereal box.

943
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:26,279
Speaker 1: Cereal, I see rice in the cereal box.

944
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:27,720
Speaker 2: It's crazy, It's crazy.

945
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:28,839
Speaker 1: They live in a life in here.

946
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

947
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:30,560
Speaker 3: But the first time I saw a pantry, I was

948
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 3: in college and I was like, oh, it's a little

949
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:33,960
Speaker 3: closet off the off the kitchen and they were like

950
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:37,879
Speaker 3: this up pantry and I was like for towels.

951
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 6: Well, see see see just the thing I know with

952
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 6: my mom, right, I think she had white friends and

953
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:45,319
Speaker 6: so she was seeing the best white life. So she

954
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:47,479
Speaker 6: was like, Okay, I want to make sure that Mike

955
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:52,360
Speaker 6: can get some of that because I remember when she

956
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:54,319
Speaker 6: got the bread box, she'd make a big, a big

957
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 6: deal about it.

958
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 3: Oh, it's a big deal, it's a huge it's a

959
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:00,320
Speaker 3: fucking you.

960
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 1: So when you went to your friend's house.

961
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:04,480
Speaker 3: You would wow, you got a box for bread, like

962
00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 3: you didn't want to be me.

963
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:06,880
Speaker 1: Okay, great, got it.

964
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:08,600
Speaker 6: But she was like, you know, you gotta kind of

965
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:10,759
Speaker 6: you gotta kind of okay, you gotta kind of blend in.

966
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:13,840
Speaker 2: But you know what I mean, just like being Oh.

967
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:15,839
Speaker 1: I went to homes and I couldn't believe it.

968
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 3: So did your mom also give you like dating advice,

969
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 3: like when you like when you were started dating. Did

970
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 3: she tell you like how to talk to girls, how

971
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 3: to treat them, talk about did she talk to you

972
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 3: about your peepee? Like?

973
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:26,799
Speaker 2: What did she do?

974
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 6: She didn't talk to me about my peepy. She don't

975
00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 6: really give me the sex tuff. My dad gave me

976
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 6: all the sexks.

977
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:33,320
Speaker 1: I'm still waiting for my sex talk for my parents.

978
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 2: It's not gonna come. My mother went and there version forever.

979
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:41,839
Speaker 4: Ramona would never sex, wouldn't even come out of her mouth.

980
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 1: We don't even say the letters S e X.

981
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:46,840
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I've never I've never had that talk. I

982
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:47,720
Speaker 2: mean with dating.

983
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:51,040
Speaker 6: My mom would always would say that to be respectful,

984
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:52,799
Speaker 6: that was the thing, like, you have to make sure

985
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 6: that means I don't know, I don't really really disrespecting.

986
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 2: Your breadthos.

987
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:13,399
Speaker 4: It's probably like, uh, excuse me, excuse me, miss, may

988
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 4: I touch your ass?

989
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 1: Like that's that's the most respectful way.

990
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:19,280
Speaker 2: Excuse me a little titty.

991
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,360
Speaker 3: Then that means that when Mike Cat calls women, he

992
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 3: does it on the outside of the of the sidewalk,

993
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 3: so like she is not facing the street.

994
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:28,399
Speaker 2: Once she told me that.

995
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 6: My mom told me to always walk on the outside,

996
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:31,759
Speaker 6: and she gave me reasons why. She was like, even

997
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:34,480
Speaker 6: if it's a friend, if you're dating front or whatever.

998
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 6: And that was the that was a weird thing, because

999
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 6: she would always want me to treat women respectfully.

1000
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,520
Speaker 1: And you were like, but we're lot these hosts, some

1001
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:42,800
Speaker 1: of them, you know, That's how I felt.

1002
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:43,719
Speaker 2: That's how I felt I was.

1003
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 4: That's how I know a guy doesn't have a mother

1004
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,880
Speaker 4: in his life because whenever he's like walks outside of

1005
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:50,640
Speaker 4: me and he's like, but yeah, we're not fucking it,

1006
00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:52,200
Speaker 4: don't I'm like, who raised you?

1007
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 2: You don't have a mothers did? Yeah?

1008
00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 6: That and that becomes that whole thing became problematic for me,

1009
00:41:57,880 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 6: just like dealing with women, Like when I moved to

1010
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:02,640
Speaker 6: uh to Harlem and I have all my moms kind

1011
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:05,920
Speaker 6: of like programming, and then I'm walking on the outside

1012
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 6: of the street. I'm trying to talk properly to all

1013
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:10,440
Speaker 6: these people of authority, and.

1014
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 2: What's wrong with you?

1015
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,359
Speaker 1: Hey, good day, miss good day.

1016
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 2: Excuse me, sister.

1017
00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 1: Sis, excuse me, queen, excuse me, queen.

1018
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:22,719
Speaker 2: And yes, that's just to.

1019
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 1: Make a shoe up.

1020
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:25,239
Speaker 2: She don't got no pred box.

1021
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,320
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a problem.

1022
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 4: When you're so respectful, people think that you are thirsty

1023
00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:35,480
Speaker 4: or that you are that you're always interested in somebody,

1024
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 4: and it's like, I'm just being.

1025
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 3: Then eighties ladies listening to this podcast right now. If

1026
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 3: a man wants to hold the door for you so

1027
00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 3: he can maybe peek at your butt, or he says

1028
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 3: good morning to you, or he tells you to smile,

1029
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 3: like you don't want to put his dick in your butt.

1030
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 3: No wants to be respectful. Why would you go straight

1031
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:55,239
Speaker 3: to the he wants you to smile? Why would you

1032
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 3: go straight to anal.

1033
00:42:57,880 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 2: That's sound like you.

1034
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:05,319
Speaker 1: For listen, guys, I'm just trying to be respectful. Ah,

1035
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:06,319
Speaker 1: you're right, You're right.

1036
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 3: So is there anything that your mom taught you or

1037
00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 3: says said to you that your dad completely contradicted?

1038
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:14,280
Speaker 1: Your dad was like nice?

1039
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 6: Well, I will say I will say it was about

1040
00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 6: like not like being respectful, but being like just treating

1041
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 6: all women kind of the same, just like trying to

1042
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:25,880
Speaker 6: be respectful and just being nice and all that stuff.

1043
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 6: Because what would happen was I'd be in Harlem and

1044
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 6: I was with my dad. They were like certain girls

1045
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:33,879
Speaker 6: who I was not into it all that nobody was into.

1046
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:35,839
Speaker 2: Who would be like, Mike is so nice.

1047
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 6: I like him, and they'd be like flirting with me,

1048
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 6: and it make me uncomfortable because they ain't trying to holler.

1049
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 2: And now I'm just trying to be cool.

1050
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 6: I don't want nothing to do with you, and my

1051
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 6: dad is like, you're giving out the vibes, you got

1052
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:47,479
Speaker 6: the brown charm. You gotta work on that you gotta

1053
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:50,360
Speaker 6: not put that energy out there because it's gonna confuse

1054
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 6: some women and it's not gonna be good for you.

1055
00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 3: Your dad was like turning that charm off, So how

1056
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:56,759
Speaker 3: did you do that?

1057
00:43:57,200 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 1: He started hitting people in the streets, started backhanded chicks

1058
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 1: the excuse me? Can you tell me what time he

1059
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 1: shut up?

1060
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 4: You were just mushing girls in the face, people tripping women.

1061
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:23,880
Speaker 2: You know, I just I just tried to.

1062
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 6: I started treating a lot of my women friends like

1063
00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:29,280
Speaker 6: I would treat my boys, you know what I mean, which.

1064
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 1: That's a no. I don't like that.

1065
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:33,600
Speaker 3: So you were like dapping up chicks like they come

1066
00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 3: in for the hugging.

1067
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:37,239
Speaker 2: You'd be like it was up, just like all right, cool,

1068
00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:38,320
Speaker 2: just bounce.

1069
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 1: But sometimes I thought up yeah, But sometimes.

1070
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 4: When guys would treat me like one of the boys,

1071
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:49,879
Speaker 4: I thought they were attracted to me. I was like, Oh,

1072
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 4: he likes me so much that he's got to do

1073
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 4: the opposite of what somebody would.

1074
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 2: Like me because they don't want to play his hands.

1075
00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:58,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, which a lot of the times happened. Like I

1076
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 4: had a dude pushed me a few times and I

1077
00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 4: was like, what, what is your problem? Why do you

1078
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:05,839
Speaker 4: keep pushing me like you know how you're like, oh,

1079
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 4: you're so stupid and you push their shoulder or whatever.

1080
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 4: He eventually was like, well that's my way of showing you, like.

1081
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 1: Hey, you know now I think you're cute. Absolutely not.

1082
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 1: My thing was this.

1083
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 3: I was always really nice when people would ask me

1084
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 3: out in high school and I wasn't allowed to date,

1085
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:23,319
Speaker 3: so I would try to. I wouldn't say I can't

1086
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 3: date because my parents gonna kick my ass and your ass.

1087
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:28,839
Speaker 3: I would just try to be nice when I shut

1088
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 3: these men down, just real nice, just well you know,

1089
00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:35,359
Speaker 3: I'm not saying yes, but I'm not saying no. Like

1090
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:39,759
Speaker 3: so it was so I was so bad, like and

1091
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:42,840
Speaker 3: you know, so this this big, fat, sloppy dude that

1092
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 3: looked across the street came over and was like he

1093
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:45,840
Speaker 3: was like hmry.

1094
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:50,440
Speaker 1: He also had hazel eyes and you want to waste

1095
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 1: the eyes, and he was light skinned.

1096
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:58,240
Speaker 3: But he was also in that like one he couldn't

1097
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:01,399
Speaker 3: change classes in high school. He was in that one right,

1098
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 3: poor girl, poor eyes, poor hazel eyes.

1099
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 1: So sad his eye had have been great.

1100
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:10,400
Speaker 3: But anyway, he was like, uh, he had like a

1101
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:13,399
Speaker 3: temper and he was like so he was. He would

1102
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 3: fly off the handle right, so he couldn't be trusted

1103
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 3: around regular kids.

1104
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 1: Came over, he asked me.

1105
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:19,240
Speaker 2: I was like, no, I can't.

1106
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:21,719
Speaker 3: And then a couple months later, I was talking to

1107
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 3: my friend and she was like, Henry's telling everybody.

1108
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:26,440
Speaker 1: That y'all dated. And I was like, hanngry and she was.

1109
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, he's telling everybody that he was your boyfriend.

1110
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:30,920
Speaker 3: And I was like, wait what And I went to

1111
00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 3: speak to him.

1112
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:33,800
Speaker 1: And he was like, you can't deny I love Marie.

1113
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:35,879
Speaker 3: And I was like, I never said we never went

1114
00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:39,359
Speaker 3: on no dates, we never touched, Like why why would

1115
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:40,319
Speaker 3: you tell people that we dated?

1116
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:42,120
Speaker 2: He was like because you didn't say no?

1117
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 1: And I was like, I start saying no.

1118
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:47,919
Speaker 4: It's always the big, light skinned dudes that just can't

1119
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:48,400
Speaker 4: handle it.

1120
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:51,360
Speaker 3: He was screaming in the hallway during like fourth period,

1121
00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:53,880
Speaker 3: and everyone was like, oh, Marie's boyfriend looks angry to

1122
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 3: do this.

1123
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:58,280
Speaker 4: Guy was when I was in high school, I couldn't

1124
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:00,839
Speaker 4: say no either. So this guy, tan MoU, his name

1125
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:02,439
Speaker 4: his take Moo.

1126
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:04,920
Speaker 2: He was six five.

1127
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:09,000
Speaker 1: Was he clean, had now his name is Tamu.

1128
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:13,440
Speaker 4: I felt like his families were really into like uh

1129
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:14,520
Speaker 4: Asian culture.

1130
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:16,919
Speaker 1: Listen, you wear your tamu want.

1131
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 2: With your jacket?

1132
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 3: Can I tell you his tamu summer twenty seven.

1133
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:27,960
Speaker 4: His name was Tamu, but he kind of had like

1134
00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:31,040
Speaker 4: the entered the dragon like emblem over his over the U,

1135
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 4: like it looked like Cisco, but it was like, you know,

1136
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:42,880
Speaker 4: the T a dash m U like little squiggly line

1137
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 4: on top of the there was a I thought it

1138
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:56,440
Speaker 4: was a T with an a proscution shut up, and

1139
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 4: then there was like a dragon over the dash.

1140
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 1: He had to listen in my mind, tam it was

1141
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 1: like one of the members of drew.

1142
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:07,160
Speaker 2: Chess table.

1143
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:16,279
Speaker 8: Yes, tamuh bite.

1144
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, So anyway, got that fashion, tame take your girl?

1145
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:27,760
Speaker 2: Can I finish?

1146
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:31,720
Speaker 3: Yeah? Old Tabo used to ask everybody out and everybody

1147
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:35,200
Speaker 3: said no. He asked me he was and he had

1148
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:38,880
Speaker 3: like those little tiny corn rolls that were so dry

1149
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 3: and they looked like he bore them for months, and.

1150
00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 1: They stopped like right at his ear.

1151
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:45,480
Speaker 3: Oh no, no, they stopped midway like they didn't go

1152
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:48,160
Speaker 3: all the way back. So he asked me out and

1153
00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:51,360
Speaker 3: I couldn't say no. I was like, you know, you know,

1154
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:55,440
Speaker 3: I kept saying, you know, and so we started dating.

1155
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:59,360
Speaker 3: And we started dating because I could not say I

1156
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 3: would just be like, you know, and so he he

1157
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:04,759
Speaker 3: was a good singer though, so for this of course

1158
00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 3: Table was a good singer.

1159
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 1: He wasn't drue.

1160
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 3: Yes, So for the school talent show he sang for me.

1161
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 1: He was singing to me.

1162
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 2: He was singing. It was like it was a church song.

1163
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 2: It was crazy.

1164
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:21,920
Speaker 4: But oh no, no, he sang Stevie Wonders, Ribbon in

1165
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 4: the sky is ab in.

1166
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 1: This guy over and he made me sit on the bench.

1167
00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 1: There's a table.

1168
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:34,440
Speaker 2: This guy for her.

1169
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 3: He was so he was so tall, and his backpack

1170
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:50,239
Speaker 3: was so small, like it looked like a young backpack.

1171
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 3: It looked like it was for a kindergarten. It was

1172
00:49:53,040 --> 00:50:00,839
Speaker 3: full of us gotta catch a moll co Oh my god,

1173
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 3: I can't believe we had this tangent with this.

1174
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:06,239
Speaker 1: It was love Tamo. Can we look him up face?

1175
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 6: That's why I said, t a dash m u.

1176
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:13,520
Speaker 2: The only told me one table on Facebook.

1177
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 1: He's the only one on there.

1178
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:18,840
Speaker 2: There might be a j that's silent.

1179
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 5: I don't know, my god, with a silence, I'm like, please,

1180
00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:37,480
Speaker 5: it's no.

1181
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 2: Wait, okay, let's get back to your mom.

1182
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 3: So your mom separated from your dad, when did she

1183
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:43,799
Speaker 3: start dating? How did you feel about that? When your

1184
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 3: mom is back on you know, the market?

1185
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 2: All right, I give I'll give you someth all right,

1186
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:49,040
Speaker 2: so I keep my mom.

1187
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 6: My mom and my dad they split up for real

1188
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:55,520
Speaker 6: when I was three, right, my mom was pregnant and

1189
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:57,279
Speaker 6: she tells my dad like that they were just they

1190
00:50:57,280 --> 00:50:58,960
Speaker 6: were dating and she was like, yo, I'm pregnant.

1191
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:00,480
Speaker 2: And my dad was like, oh, why well, I just

1192
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:02,239
Speaker 2: gotta tell you something or I just want to be

1193
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 2: honest with you. We can make this work. But I've been,

1194
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 2: you know, kind of fucking around on you. But we

1195
00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:09,400
Speaker 2: can make this work. And she was like, I appreciate

1196
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:10,000
Speaker 2: your honesty.

1197
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:12,520
Speaker 1: And my niggas was being honest around that time.

1198
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:14,479
Speaker 2: I feel like they wouldn't. They wasn't tell me people

1199
00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 2: about Yeah, my dad. My daddy, I mean he was Jamaican.

1200
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess he didn't know know better Jamaican

1201
00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:20,000
Speaker 2: being honest.

1202
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 1: Don't believe it original.

1203
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:27,560
Speaker 2: He you know, he was raised he was raised over here.

1204
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:28,400
Speaker 2: He was raised over here.

1205
00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 6: After like the thing like when he was nine or whatever.

1206
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:31,960
Speaker 6: But my mom was like, you know, I appreciate your honesty.

1207
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:34,760
Speaker 6: And also I've been fucking other niggas too, so wow,

1208
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 6: this niggas your baby. So so my grandmother found out,

1209
00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:41,719
Speaker 6: sat them both down and was like, all right, so

1210
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:43,800
Speaker 6: when y'all get married, because my grandson ain't come in

1211
00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:46,560
Speaker 6: here at bastard. So they got married, and then when

1212
00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:48,200
Speaker 6: I was three, my dad was like, so, who does

1213
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:50,440
Speaker 6: he look like? And then she was like, to be real,

1214
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:52,200
Speaker 6: looks like the other dude. And then they broke up.

1215
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:56,360
Speaker 6: And that's when they got divorced. So for years my

1216
00:51:56,480 --> 00:51:58,279
Speaker 6: dad wasn't in my life. And then my dad had

1217
00:51:58,320 --> 00:51:59,360
Speaker 6: another This is.

1218
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:00,520
Speaker 2: Some deep ship.

1219
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:02,920
Speaker 1: I did not fucking know.

1220
00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:06,280
Speaker 3: This hold on everybody listening, pull us, get a glass

1221
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 3: of water, warm milk or something, maybe a cookie, and

1222
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:10,479
Speaker 3: then press play again.

1223
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 6: So they got divorced. My mom is raising me by

1224
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:20,479
Speaker 6: herself with her mother, my grandma, right. Meanwhile, my dad

1225
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 6: is out here.

1226
00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:23,399
Speaker 2: In these streets back in New York living his best life.

1227
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 2: You know.

1228
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:25,320
Speaker 6: He went to uh, he went to col gain and

1229
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:28,640
Speaker 6: then my tea got got math degrees, I mean smart ship.

1230
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:30,120
Speaker 2: So he's doing that.

1231
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:34,040
Speaker 6: Meets a woman, gets her pregnant, has a daughter's being

1232
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 6: a good father whatever, and through this new fatherhood he says, Wow,

1233
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:42,800
Speaker 6: you know what, there's this other kid out there and

1234
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:45,359
Speaker 6: no one's being a father to him. And I need

1235
00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:47,439
Speaker 6: to make sure that this is not my kid, because

1236
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 6: if this is my kid, I have to go be

1237
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:49,640
Speaker 6: a father to him.

1238
00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:51,480
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna have like this father of this kid

1239
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:56,440
Speaker 2: dwinking of him. That does not sound the youngest. He's

1240
00:52:56,440 --> 00:52:57,319
Speaker 2: the youngest of six.

1241
00:52:57,600 --> 00:52:59,399
Speaker 1: So like he's you see a picture of your dad,

1242
00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:00,880
Speaker 1: what's your dad's name?

1243
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:11,000
Speaker 8: He was at Wesley, Wesley, Wesley and table.

1244
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 1: I feel like they should go on tour Wesley and

1245
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:17,160
Speaker 1: let me get to the table.

1246
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 2: Get elephant man.

1247
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 7: On the phone and.

1248
00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:34,800
Speaker 2: Wait, I want to hear the other start. Okay, so

1249
00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 2: so so so he calls my mom and he's like, hey,

1250
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:42,440
Speaker 2: you know I have this daughter and I am very.

1251
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:45,839
Speaker 6: Like, I don't know about this kid. Is the did

1252
00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:47,400
Speaker 6: you talk to other guys? She's like no, I've just

1253
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:49,920
Speaker 6: been raising myself. He was like, listen, and it's going

1254
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 6: to be me and him. I want to go get

1255
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:53,800
Speaker 6: this test because if I am a part of like

1256
00:53:53,880 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 6: if I'm father, I'm going to be there. And the

1257
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 6: nigga took and Yati.

1258
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:02,439
Speaker 2: It was me that I was his son. He's like shit,

1259
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 2: and so now.

1260
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:06,400
Speaker 1: Wait, who said that you looked like the other guy, Mamula, Oh,

1261
00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:06,960
Speaker 1: your mom?

1262
00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 2: I think my mom. I didn't know.

1263
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:11,640
Speaker 6: My mom was like like dad, like he looked like

1264
00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:13,359
Speaker 6: anybody else, thinking get out of here, Like I don't

1265
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:13,840
Speaker 6: know how she.

1266
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:15,719
Speaker 2: Felt whatever, but that's what she thought.

1267
00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 3: That is.

1268
00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:19,319
Speaker 6: So once we did the test, things started changing because

1269
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:20,759
Speaker 6: I was in Queen's and so I was like, all right,

1270
00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:24,360
Speaker 6: every so often, like it might be like once, probably

1271
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 6: like once a month or something, I would go to

1272
00:54:26,080 --> 00:54:28,759
Speaker 6: my dad's house in Harlem, and like some summers I

1273
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:30,920
Speaker 6: would spend in Harlem, my sister would come up because

1274
00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 6: at this time, my sister and uh, like my dad's

1275
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:38,640
Speaker 6: daughter was living with her mother in like South Carolina,

1276
00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:40,839
Speaker 6: so she would fly up to spend the time, yeah,

1277
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:42,480
Speaker 6: my dad for the summer, and then I would spend

1278
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:44,239
Speaker 6: time my dad for the summer. And so that's what

1279
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 6: was going on until like high school, when she was like, hey,

1280
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:47,680
Speaker 6: there's a better school in Harlem.

1281
00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:49,799
Speaker 1: So you don't look like you're dad at all.

1282
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:52,560
Speaker 2: I look like both of them, Like if I if

1283
00:54:52,560 --> 00:54:53,880
Speaker 2: I'm right next to my mom, I look just like

1284
00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 2: my mom. If I'm right next to my dad, I

1285
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:56,120
Speaker 2: looked just like my dad.

1286
00:54:56,680 --> 00:55:02,160
Speaker 1: So why yeah, simply black Jamaican tea right there.

1287
00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:05,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is that is super super tea. Ready. That

1288
00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 2: is great, it's it's it's beautiful.

1289
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:09,680
Speaker 3: So I know that you because I feel like your

1290
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:11,319
Speaker 3: dad be at shows and I think I've met your

1291
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:11,759
Speaker 3: dad before.

1292
00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:14,280
Speaker 2: I just can't remember Jersey.

1293
00:55:14,320 --> 00:55:21,360
Speaker 1: So your mother is out fucking standing. She's so beautiful thinking,

1294
00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:24,440
Speaker 1: and you could just tell she has a warm spirit.

1295
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:30,279
Speaker 1: Like I feel like she bakes cookies. No, she do, but.

1296
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:34,040
Speaker 3: Cookies like no, I feel like she's the type that

1297
00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:36,760
Speaker 3: you come over and she's just got some warm cookies waiting.

1298
00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:37,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how she.

1299
00:55:37,840 --> 00:55:40,719
Speaker 6: She's like when I was when I was like kind

1300
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:43,440
Speaker 6: of between my time, like in high school, and i'd

1301
00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:45,040
Speaker 6: be at my dad's house, at my mom's house. If

1302
00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 6: somebody would come over, she'd be like, oh, we're having company,

1303
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:50,359
Speaker 6: and she start baking, start making sure this's food time,

1304
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:51,879
Speaker 6: hanging my boys, and she come out.

1305
00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 2: Hey, you got hey, here's some here's some snacks.

1306
00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:56,359
Speaker 3: That's your mom, Marie. Your mama always got some food

1307
00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:57,840
Speaker 3: up in the crib, ready to go on.

1308
00:55:58,320 --> 00:55:59,879
Speaker 1: But she only do that when people come. She don't

1309
00:55:59,880 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 1: do that for I come home.

1310
00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:02,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, she was.

1311
00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 1: There's a stew.

1312
00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:07,920
Speaker 3: There was a plethora of food when I went there

1313
00:56:07,960 --> 00:56:08,919
Speaker 3: because she knew you were coming.

1314
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:10,160
Speaker 2: Also, it was a holiday weekend.

1315
00:56:11,560 --> 00:56:14,560
Speaker 1: She fish, she like made lasagna.

1316
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:16,239
Speaker 2: It was ri so good.

1317
00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:19,120
Speaker 1: There was like different types of sauce. Delicious.

1318
00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:20,960
Speaker 2: That's what has to happen exactly.

1319
00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 1: So wait, your mom was out there like in the

1320
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:23,799
Speaker 1: dating world.

1321
00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:29,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, she was out there in Dayton. She had a profile. Hello,

1322
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:35,200
Speaker 2: she not she was scared. I mean, come to see

1323
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:39,880
Speaker 2: to show y'all you have a bit about it. She

1324
00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:42,400
Speaker 2: comes to show you love it. But yeah, she uh,

1325
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 2: she dated this.

1326
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:47,600
Speaker 6: One dude, my my sister's father was I mean, he

1327
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:49,040
Speaker 6: got his life together, but he was he was a

1328
00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:49,640
Speaker 6: piece of ship.

1329
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:52,520
Speaker 2: And then he was dating. She dated another dude who

1330
00:56:52,600 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 2: was real cool, but that that just didn't work out.

1331
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:58,359
Speaker 6: And she dated this other dude who ended up being

1332
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:00,160
Speaker 6: my my little brother's father and got mad are in

1333
00:57:00,200 --> 00:57:00,959
Speaker 6: a divorce now.

1334
00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:06,680
Speaker 3: Got three Your mother don't play divorced and married three

1335
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Speaker 3: times or.

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Speaker 2: Two times just too.

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Speaker 1: Your mother is fertile.

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00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:13,839
Speaker 2: Your dad. I'm glad she's dating now and no more

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00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:16,360
Speaker 2: kids coming out? Better not be no more kids coming up?

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00:57:16,400 --> 00:57:16,919
Speaker 2: Are you sure?

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00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:19,720
Speaker 1: But your dad also has three or four kids?

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00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 3: Four?

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00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:21,479
Speaker 2: Your dad got four kids?

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00:57:21,560 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 1: By how many different women?

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00:57:23,200 --> 00:57:24,520
Speaker 2: Mean by three? Y'all?

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00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 3: Wow, y'all real fertile, and y'all got coins because kids

1347
00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:30,680
Speaker 3: are expensivesive.

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00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:34,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, but everybody's grown now out the house paying.

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00:57:35,040 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 2: I'm out here living off drink tickets. Baby, all right,

1350
00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 2: all right?

1351
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:43,160
Speaker 1: What is something that you could tell us about?

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00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:44,600
Speaker 2: What do you mean?

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00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:47,720
Speaker 3: Like like because like we're calling you the MoMA's boy expert,

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00:57:47,840 --> 00:57:49,280
Speaker 3: but like you just sound like a dude who got

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00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:52,160
Speaker 3: like a mom who like I feel.

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00:57:51,920 --> 00:57:55,200
Speaker 4: Like you you've posted numerous pictures of your mother and

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00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:58,240
Speaker 4: it wasn't Mother's Day. Sometimes dudes only post pictures as

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00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:00,160
Speaker 4: their mom's when it's her birthday or Mother's Day, And like,

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00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:01,440
Speaker 4: I didn't even know you had a mother.

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00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:04,480
Speaker 3: Like, but you you are always talking about your mom.

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00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:07,400
Speaker 3: You post pictures, you post pictures of your family. You're

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00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:10,200
Speaker 3: super family oriented. You're like, this is my queen, like

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00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:11,480
Speaker 3: nobody will.

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00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:12,400
Speaker 1: He's her question in this.

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00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:17,240
Speaker 2: I'm just saying it's beautiful. Get my mom.

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00:58:17,360 --> 00:58:23,320
Speaker 3: I really want to mean, she's third marriage name against Laura.

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00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 1: I need to just I want to shake Laura's hand.

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00:58:26,760 --> 00:58:27,000
Speaker 2: That's it.

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00:58:27,400 --> 00:58:30,840
Speaker 1: She wants to touch the hem of Laura. No, I

1370
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 1: want to touch her slip. I know she got a slip,

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00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:36,960
Speaker 1: touched the hem of her garden from the House of Laura.

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Speaker 2: She it seems like she wears a petticoat under her dress.

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00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:43,960
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean the thing is like my mom.

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00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 2: I'll say, this is like my mom's.

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00:58:46,080 --> 00:58:48,680
Speaker 6: I guess her imprint in me is that she's she

1376
00:58:48,880 --> 00:58:51,520
Speaker 6: used to own an African arts store in Rosedale. She

1377
00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:54,560
Speaker 6: has her own business now. I think she's going to

1378
00:58:54,600 --> 00:58:57,800
Speaker 6: be doing some like professional sporting. I can't talk about it,

1379
00:58:57,800 --> 00:58:59,760
Speaker 6: but like that kind of work. But she's always been

1380
00:58:59,840 --> 00:59:01,600
Speaker 6: like the hustle. Like she grew up in the projects

1381
00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:03,280
Speaker 6: and was like, I'm making sure like my family doesn't

1382
00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:04,080
Speaker 6: grow up in the project.

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00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:04,400
Speaker 8: Yeah.

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00:59:04,680 --> 00:59:08,480
Speaker 6: She when we when I was like a kid, we

1385
00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:12,560
Speaker 6: lived on the second floor of a two story household, right,

1386
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:14,920
Speaker 6: and then she like got her own house and then

1387
00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:15,840
Speaker 6: she got a bigger heuse, you know.

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00:59:15,840 --> 00:59:16,120
Speaker 2: What I mean.

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00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 1: So she's like.

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00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:22,720
Speaker 6: Spine make She's like, no one's gonna make things happen

1391
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:24,520
Speaker 6: for you have to kind of make them happen yourself

1392
00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:25,320
Speaker 6: and you're go get her.

1393
00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:27,880
Speaker 3: You really you put your own stuff out and you

1394
00:59:28,040 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 3: work hard and you're always constantly grinding. Mike, what you

1395
00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 3: got coming up? Where can people listening? Also keep in

1396
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:34,720
Speaker 3: mind that we don't know when.

1397
00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:35,400
Speaker 1: I know, I know.

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00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:38,000
Speaker 6: That's why kept asking you, guys. I'll say this, make

1399
00:59:38,240 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 6: just just follow me on all your social at yo,

1400
00:59:40,120 --> 00:59:42,120
Speaker 6: Mike Brown. I got a lot of great stuff coming up.

1401
00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 1: I have a yo Mike Brown.

1402
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:46,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, Yo, Mike Brown, at Yo, Mike Brown on everything.

1403
00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:48,800
Speaker 6: I have a podcast coming Outlines podcast. I do a

1404
00:59:48,880 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 6: monthly show at the same title. I have just scept

1405
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:53,400
Speaker 6: the Comics Crew. If you're black, you probably heard of us.

1406
00:59:54,000 --> 00:59:56,240
Speaker 6: I do a show with one of those members Super

1407
00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 6: video Bros. I mean can't stop. Most start where there's

1408
00:59:59,120 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 6: so many things.

1409
00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:02,240
Speaker 1: Man, you don't play arounds, you know, just you are

1410
01:00:02,240 --> 01:00:04,480
Speaker 1: a Laura Son and wait for the listeners.

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01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:07,080
Speaker 2: Are you Are you single? No, I'm not single. I'm

1412
01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:09,600
Speaker 2: out the game. Yea, he's out the game. SI the game.

1413
01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:13,520
Speaker 1: I'm looking at your fingers that literally like in the game.

1414
01:00:16,160 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 2: But if you want to try to table mind, like.

1415
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 3: I mean, listen, you can take the Jamaican out of

1416
01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:28,360
Speaker 3: the I mean, you can't take the Jamaican out.

1417
01:00:28,240 --> 01:00:28,560
Speaker 2: Of the mind.

1418
01:00:28,600 --> 01:00:37,920
Speaker 1: You can't take the Tamu outt.

1419
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:43,000
Speaker 2: Call up table and you feel Laura, oh my.

1420
01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:46,120
Speaker 1: Instead of screaming Ricky, it was like Tame.

1421
01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 2: Ta Hill, I love it, Tame MoU Hill.

1422
01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:54,680
Speaker 1: Can we just do like a video of doing the

1423
01:00:54,840 --> 01:00:57,560
Speaker 1: new the new group Ta Hill, Tamu.

1424
01:00:57,320 --> 01:01:02,080
Speaker 2: Hills, just Tame move. There's so many things that are

1425
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:02,960
Speaker 2: tau worthy.

1426
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:09,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it doesn't sound like a high end fashion. Yeah,

1427
01:01:09,600 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 1: Tamu is at Barney's New York.

1428
01:01:11,440 --> 01:01:12,360
Speaker 2: I'm wearing tam.

1429
01:01:12,320 --> 01:01:16,280
Speaker 3: Right now, Sydney, Sydney, who are you wearing? A scount

1430
01:01:16,400 --> 01:01:19,680
Speaker 3: is a Tamu. Tamu Fall twenty and eighteen. This is

1431
01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:20,880
Speaker 3: vintage Tame MoU.

1432
01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:24,360
Speaker 2: It could also be like the type of clothing you

1433
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like like, oh, what's that?

1434
01:01:26,160 --> 01:01:26,280
Speaker 1: Oh?

1435
01:01:26,360 --> 01:01:27,160
Speaker 2: This is just a Tamu.

1436
01:01:27,400 --> 01:01:31,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, what are you guys gonna wear out tonight?

1437
01:01:31,280 --> 01:01:33,680
Speaker 1: I'm probably throw my tam But.

1438
01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:36,920
Speaker 2: It also sounds like a dessert. You can eat it.

1439
01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:38,840
Speaker 1: What are we having for dessert?

1440
01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:39,000
Speaker 2: Oh?

1441
01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:43,560
Speaker 3: Well, this is a crusted tay mood with almonds, parmesan,

1442
01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:48,080
Speaker 3: crusting chame MoU with a with a tamu glaze.

1443
01:01:52,000 --> 01:01:54,480
Speaker 2: This This is a poached tamu.

1444
01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 1: It's like you guys have the Cabernet. Do you guys

1445
01:01:58,800 --> 01:01:59,640
Speaker 1: have a tam.

1446
01:02:02,880 --> 01:02:05,600
Speaker 3: I hate you so much, Mike, but I also love

1447
01:02:05,720 --> 01:02:09,280
Speaker 3: myself for bringing that tamus.

1448
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:11,959
Speaker 1: I gotta make a bit out of this. Now listen.

1449
01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 3: If you're listening to this right now, find us on

1450
01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:17,520
Speaker 3: Twitter or Instagram and and tell us what Tamu is

1451
01:02:17,600 --> 01:02:17,760
Speaker 3: to you.

1452
01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:21,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, what is your but do you tamu?

1453
01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:28,080
Speaker 2: Okay?

1454
01:02:28,160 --> 01:02:30,800
Speaker 3: And if you are listening tau can you? Can you

1455
01:02:30,920 --> 01:02:33,040
Speaker 3: slide in the d M. We would love to interview

1456
01:02:33,040 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 3: you because we want to know what you're doing.

1457
01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 1: It's something fantastic. You should with a name like that.

1458
01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:41,240
Speaker 3: I mean, you could do so much. I mean Tamo

1459
01:02:41,320 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 3: could be top Ramen or it could be steak. It

1460
01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:49,840
Speaker 3: sounds dusty but also high end. It sounds like a

1461
01:02:49,920 --> 01:02:55,920
Speaker 3: type of Can I get the Tamu? And can I

1462
01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:57,200
Speaker 3: get the hand roll Tamu?

1463
01:02:59,040 --> 01:03:02,520
Speaker 1: I've done. I'm pretty can I get It's like a

1464
01:03:02,600 --> 01:03:03,160
Speaker 1: sneaker too.

1465
01:03:03,240 --> 01:03:14,160
Speaker 2: It's like me then I want to tell you the Jordan's.

1466
01:03:16,400 --> 01:03:16,960
Speaker 1: Cepham.

1467
01:03:18,160 --> 01:03:19,080
Speaker 2: You're like, oh, you were in.

1468
01:03:21,920 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 1: Or or could be like a type of tune. Yes,

1469
01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:29,960
Speaker 1: I got the from Broccoli Moves. Listen, I have to go,

1470
01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:35,240
Speaker 1: we have to go. Listen. Tell us what a TA

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01:03:35,640 --> 01:03:35,960
Speaker 1: is to you.

1472
01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:40,000
Speaker 3: My Instagram is rez r e E e z y

1473
01:03:40,320 --> 01:03:43,200
Speaker 3: or you can find us on Facebook the Unofficial Expert

1474
01:03:43,240 --> 01:03:46,360
Speaker 3: and you can Tameleo us there or you can make

1475
01:03:46,360 --> 01:03:51,640
Speaker 3: sure to like, comment, subscribe or tamo us on iTunes please.

1476
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:54,200
Speaker 1: And on Instagram it's an official expert. Yes, my name

1477
01:03:54,400 --> 01:03:55,920
Speaker 1: is just said b W.

1478
01:03:56,320 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 4: On Instagram, please follow me, slide my d ms and

1479
01:03:59,200 --> 01:04:01,400
Speaker 4: also shout out to a comedy Hype, the place where

1480
01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:02,640
Speaker 4: you can get all your comedy news.

1481
01:04:02,880 --> 01:04:04,200
Speaker 2: Yo, you know who I really like.

1482
01:04:04,240 --> 01:04:05,640
Speaker 1: A comedy my friend.

1483
01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:10,080
Speaker 2: Follow me on Twitter at underscore Move.

1484
01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:13,680
Speaker 1: Bye guys.

1485
01:04:22,720 --> 01:04:26,320
Speaker 3: H m hm