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Speaker 1: The Jewel Show is here. Get your butt at the

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Speaker 1: the best readygo you've heard in a while show. Remember

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Speaker 1: this is a judgment free zone unless you need to

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Speaker 1: be judged. Right, it's the Jewel Show and a list

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Speaker 1: is actually going viral right now of the top things

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Speaker 1: that you secretly judge people for. Great, Yes, look, everybody's judgmental, right,

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Speaker 1: oh very You judge people based on appearance, You judge

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Speaker 1: people based on hygiene, judge people based on how they drive.

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Speaker 1: You're constantly judging all day long. But normal judging is fine.

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Speaker 1: It's when you're actually being prejudice or something like that

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Speaker 1: that it's bad. Right, everybody's judgmental a little bit. Some

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Speaker 1: people are judgmental about everything and their name's Karen. But

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Speaker 1: here are some of the top things from the list

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Speaker 1: of what people secretly judge other people for. So think

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Speaker 1: about this throughout your day. On how someone's kids behave

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Speaker 1: or don't behave. Oh that's a big one. I absolutely

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Speaker 1: judge people on that for sure. Yeah, they can't really

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Speaker 1: if your kids are out of control, it's your fault.

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Speaker 1: But there's sometimes whereas there's nothing you can do. Yeah nothing,

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Speaker 1: You're just like I don't even not give up, Like

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Speaker 1: You go ahead, wing around the grocery store and p everywhere.

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Speaker 1: Another thing that people secretly judge each other on, And

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Speaker 1: It annoys me so much, carrying their dirty laundry. People

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Speaker 1: will say the craziest things. I'm like, why would you

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Speaker 1: friends on Facebook. I'm hypocritical when it comes to this

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Speaker 1: because I'm literally the opposite direction, and I go so

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Speaker 1: far as to not share that I'm told to share more.

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Speaker 1: When someone's rude to a waiter or any server, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: people get judged for that. Any man is growing up.

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Speaker 1: I'm absolutely judging you if you're rude to a server, right,

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Speaker 1: and even if the food's messed up or something, and

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Speaker 1: They're not the one cooking it and they might have

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Speaker 1: screwed up the order. Also, people make mistakes, so it

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Speaker 1: angry at that point, right? The cordless of the top

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Speaker 1: is a big one for me. What I cannot stand

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Speaker 1: this when people do this, People who use their speaker

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Speaker 1: phone in public. Disrespectful it is, and I don't want

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Speaker 1: to hear your conversation and what is it? Yeah? It

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Speaker 1: also like does that person know that they can hear

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Speaker 1: FaceTime all the time in public. Yeah, what the hell

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Speaker 1: I live in like an Evan bubble. Yeah, that's being

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it's like her family members that CPS

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Speaker 1: if you want to judge us on social media, like

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Speaker 1: most people do, you can always follow us at the

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Speaker 1: Bull Show, at the Jewels Show on TikTok, and all

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Speaker 1: It's another Jewil phone frame day morning. So that's one. Hello.

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Speaker 1: Yeah this Ross Parsons called from Plans. I was looking

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Speaker 1: for Madam. Oh yeah, that's see. What can I do

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Speaker 1: for you? Hey, Maddie, So we have down here that

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Speaker 1: you are scheduled for a children's birthday party. You're inning

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Speaker 1: out the whole whole place and the social bank. We're

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Speaker 1: in the Hoscial Bank. Yes, we are sighted very excited,

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Speaker 1: having a lot of fun. But that's why I'm calling

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Speaker 1: not we're not the Hoscial Bank, we're not the whole

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Speaker 1: bowling alley. But we actually have to cancel that reservation.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's kind of late to be canceling a reservation. Um, okay,

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Speaker 1: out at that same time. So we're gonna have to

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Speaker 1: read book. What you are not canceling my reservation? And

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Speaker 1: I don't care if it's Justin Leever, Jim Carry or

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Speaker 1: kind of a celebrity is this that would bump a child? Well, well,

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Speaker 1: the celebrity didn't specifically ask to have the party bumped.

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Speaker 1: We bumped it because celebrity wanted a book Kale from Keenan,

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Speaker 1: and Kale wants to book the Bowling Alley for that night.

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna going and Kale, Kenan and Kale. Those

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure if you hearing me. What celebrity said

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Speaker 1: that night. It is killed from kek Yes, and that

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Speaker 1: was show was a huge hit. Many people watch that show.

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Speaker 1: this is Kale from Kenan and Kel. I would like

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Speaker 1: why we got to cancel. Regulation isn't even a celebrity anymore.

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Speaker 1: I mean one time he used to and he tried

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Speaker 1: were talking about Kel's career or we're talking about the

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Speaker 1: fact that I got to cancel your child's birthday party.

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry about that, but we have to cancel

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Speaker 1: it because it's a major Hollywood celebrity party over somebody

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Speaker 1: he's a celebrity. I will not have that. My child

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Speaker 1: gonna have a good timer. You're gonna regret it. Mark

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Speaker 1: it literally is it is? Yes, I'm not I'm not

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Speaker 1: doing that to you. This is a prank phone call.

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Speaker 1: This is actually Jewel from the Jewel Shore doing a

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Speaker 1: phone prank on you and your husband Darren. Say you up.

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Speaker 1: He said that you've been really stressed out about your

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Speaker 1: I've even been ignoring him. This didn't help any But

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Speaker 1: you weren't more understanding that Kel from Keenan and Kel

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Speaker 1: Jubil Phone Franks the Jebil Show on demand. It's time

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Speaker 1: Floor of the Roses only on the Jewbil Show is

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Speaker 1: on the phone and she thinks that her boyfriend of

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Speaker 1: almost a year, Marcus, might be cheating on her. And

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Speaker 1: apparently it's almost their one year anniversary, so that's a

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Speaker 1: fun time to find that out. It sucks, Shanna, sucks

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Speaker 1: Thank you for your email, though, why don't you tell

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Speaker 1: one year anniversary, and you know, a woman always has

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Speaker 1: communication loving. He's a great boyfriend. But I don't know something,

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Speaker 1: was actually online, and you know, just searching for a

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Speaker 1: And I stumbled on a few photos. I didn't go looking,

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Speaker 1: all that information right now? Um? No? Marcus? Oh what what?

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Speaker 1: What is Marcus? How are you? This is the Jewels Show.

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Speaker 1: How long have you been dating her? Now? See you

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Speaker 1: You told me you were deleting your Tinder. You said

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Speaker 1: everybody who calls in to tell us a dirty little

420
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:22,240
Speaker 1: secret gets a fake anonymous nickname. And on the phone

421
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Speaker 1: right now, mister Pickle, mister Peaho that is. I have

422
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,400
Speaker 1: no idea who mister Pickle is. I don't know either.

423
00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:30,000
Speaker 1: I just said, mister pickles. I don't like pickles. I

424
00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:32,280
Speaker 1: like pickles a lot, do you. Yeah they're good. I

425
00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:34,080
Speaker 1: don't eat many pickles, though, but I do like pickles.

426
00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 1: Yeah they're okay. It's a quiet taste. I feel like,

427
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:38,560
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I don't know. Maybe mister Pickle can convince

428
00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 1: you to they eat pickles English to eat him. Yeah,

429
00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:44,640
Speaker 1: mister Pickle, how are you? Hey? Are you guys doing

430
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:49,000
Speaker 1: missus Pickle? Maybe sorry, missus Pickles on the phone. Well

431
00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:52,880
Speaker 1: you know I'm delighting because I love pickles. So that's

432
00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:59,760
Speaker 1: all right? Is that your dirty little secret? It's not

433
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Speaker 1: my derby a little everybody likest at all? Um, all right,

434
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:09,920
Speaker 1: what is your dirty little secret? Then, missus Kelly. I've

435
00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:12,000
Speaker 1: been holding on to this one for a very long time.

436
00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:16,440
Speaker 1: Um Man, he has to do with with me and

437
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 1: my best friend. Um he's been friends for oh my

438
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:24,080
Speaker 1: gosh since uh since college. I mean we met. Uh

439
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 1: we met because we were in a lot of the

440
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:28,520
Speaker 1: same classes and all this stuff, and we just we

441
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 1: hit it off. And uh, I'm I'm trying to I'm

442
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:33,560
Speaker 1: trying to figure out how I want to tell you this.

443
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 1: I'm trying to he here's here's what I'm trying to do.

444
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get her a break up with a boyfriend. Okay, Okay,

445
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 1: I like him. I I you know, he's he's he's

446
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:48,479
Speaker 1: a great guy and stuff. But uh, here's the thing, Um,

447
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:53,800
Speaker 1: what my what my best friend doesn't know is that, Um,

448
00:23:55,440 --> 00:24:00,880
Speaker 1: I'm in love with her all your friend and uh yeah,

449
00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,680
Speaker 1: and I don't I don't know if she loved it.

450
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 1: I mean we've been best friends but years to two years,

451
00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 1: and she's she's always been the most incredible person in

452
00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 1: my life. And now, oh wow, she she doesn't know

453
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,440
Speaker 1: that I have feelings for her, but I can't stand

454
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:20,240
Speaker 1: her to be with anybody else but me. And oh

455
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 1: that's really sweet. Actually I hope it works out for you.

456
00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:27,479
Speaker 1: I hope they break up. So you don't know if

457
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:29,479
Speaker 1: she's ever had these feelings for you, but you are

458
00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 1: in love with your best friend and want her to

459
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 1: break up with her boyfriend. Yeah, so I'm I'm doing

460
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 1: a little things to sabotage the relationships and all that.

461
00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:45,120
Speaker 1: Oh no, that was like, oh that's sad. I thought

462
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 1: you're saying it was sweet. So you're doing things to

463
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 1: sabotage the relationship, Like what, Yeah, I mean, I'm I'm

464
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:54,679
Speaker 1: you know, I'm trying to dig up dirt about him,

465
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:58,200
Speaker 1: about his past life and his exto friends, and you know,

466
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 1: just just trying to get her to see he's not

467
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:03,879
Speaker 1: right for her. I don't know if she's dying, and

468
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 1: I really, I really hope she is, because she's just

469
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Speaker 1: the most beautiful. She's the most beautiful person I've ever

470
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Speaker 1: I've ever met in my whole life. And I don't know,

471
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 1: just the always been there, okay, and I can't. I

472
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:21,400
Speaker 1: can't deny it anymore. And I I'm trying to break

473
00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 1: up their relationship. So that's all right, my dirty little secret. Well,

474
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 1: good luck to you. Hey, we're going to keep your number,

475
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:29,680
Speaker 1: missus pickles. Yeah, because we want to hear from you.

476
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Speaker 1: We get an update on this at some point. Yeah.

477
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 1: I want to know if you were able to one

478
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:36,399
Speaker 1: break them up and two if your friend was interested

479
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 1: in you. Yeah, yeah, thank you guys. Good luck. We'll

480
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:41,920
Speaker 1: check in with you a little better talking about it.

481
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:44,520
Speaker 1: That's good. Good luck with that whole thing. Thank you.

482
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:47,680
Speaker 1: All right, what do you guys think? Do you think

483
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Speaker 1: she's going to be successful? Oh uh yeah a little bit,

484
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 1: for a little bit. Yeah, so I feel like, um,

485
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:59,640
Speaker 1: girls get burned, like, yeah, girls, I like girls, you know, girls,

486
00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,239
Speaker 1: I like girls are like girls are like straight girls. Yes,

487
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,440
Speaker 1: girls are like girls that like straight girls get burned

488
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:07,919
Speaker 1: all the time. Okay, thanks? Four one, six one? Are

489
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 1: you a girl that likes girls that like straights girls?

490
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:13,360
Speaker 1: And have you gotten burned? What's your dirty little secret?

491
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 1: Did you bill show on demand? Who's excited to go

492
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,920
Speaker 1: sit at their desk for eight hours pretending to work?

493
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 1: Not me? Now I'm pumped up about it. I'm that

494
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 1: annoying guy in your office. High it's the Jewel Show.

495
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 1: And I say that because there's been a lot of

496
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Speaker 1: talk over the year and a half about productivity in

497
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Speaker 1: the workplace. Because of lockdown, people started working from home,

498
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 1: and then companies realized, Wait a second, so you're telling

499
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 1: me I don't have to chain employees to a desk

500
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:46,479
Speaker 1: with cameras over their head and someone who walks by

501
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:48,639
Speaker 1: every five minutes to check what's on their computer for

502
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:51,239
Speaker 1: them to be productive. They can be productive on their

503
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Speaker 1: own time at home. What yeh? Companies found out that

504
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 1: you could tell commune you can actually do your job

505
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Speaker 1: from anywhere. Now crazy, thanks technology, But according to a

506
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:03,360
Speaker 1: new survey, most workers aren't productive for a full eight

507
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 1: hours anyway. No, it makes sense to me. Yeah, and

508
00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 1: everybody knows this. It's not a surprise, right, even the

509
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,159
Speaker 1: bosses know this, the bosses that want you to be

510
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,399
Speaker 1: working for eight hours on something. I worked in an

511
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 1: office for about three years in my life. I worked

512
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 1: at the marketing company. I would literally be able to

513
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 1: be done with my work in one day, and then

514
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:23,920
Speaker 1: the rest of the week I'd have to spend just

515
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:27,320
Speaker 1: playing the minimizing screens every time somebody would walk by

516
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 1: so they wouldn't see me playing solitary, right, And like

517
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 1: when I used to have a desk job or like

518
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,880
Speaker 1: a cube, it was miserable. That's the worst. You wake

519
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 1: up and you just are like dreading the entire work

520
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 1: today because it's not just eight hours. It's like the

521
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:40,959
Speaker 1: commute there, it's eight and a half. Really if they

522
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 1: do it right, because you get a thirty minute lunch.

523
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:44,480
Speaker 1: Maybe sometimes they make you take a sixty minute lunch,

524
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 1: so then it's nine hours just at work. And it's like,

525
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 1: who wants to be at a miserable, freaking place that long? Long?

526
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:51,440
Speaker 1: And the a hour thing doesn't make sense to me

527
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 1: because no one's attention span is me hours, So like

528
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 1: to think that they can get work done is stupid unproductive.

529
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:01,160
Speaker 1: And the new survey came out that showed just how

530
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 1: long people actually spend working when they have to work

531
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 1: an eight hour workday, So this should be proof that

532
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 1: the work week and the work day should be shortened. Okay, life,

533
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:16,200
Speaker 1: life is too short, right, there's nothing more valuable than time.

534
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:19,440
Speaker 1: Don't get it back, right, You don't get time back anyway.

535
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: People spend, on average working in an eight hour work

536
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 1: day four hours and twelve minutes. Yes, about half the time. Yes,

537
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 1: So why can't we just shorten to a four and

538
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:34,880
Speaker 1: a half hour or a five hour work day. I've

539
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 1: been saying it forever, And if you knew that the

540
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 1: time limit was four hours that you were going to

541
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 1: be that, you'd be like, Okay, I've got four I'm

542
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 1: gonna get all my stuff done. Yes. Such a good

543
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 1: point it is, And I don't understand why they don't

544
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 1: just do it because everybody knows this. This research has

545
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 1: been out for probably ten fifteen plus, it's probably been

546
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 1: out since the beginning of work. But then you know,

547
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 1: the people who wanted to run things are like, no, no, no,

548
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 1: that's not that that get out. But I don't understand

549
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 1: why they can't just go, hey, shorten the work day. No, seriously,

550
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:00,200
Speaker 1: Like it's a long time it's a long time to

551
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 1: stayway from your family, and you know, you spend more

552
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 1: time at work and with those people than you do

553
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 1: with your family. And then we always like we're like, oh,

554
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: why is everyone depressed in the world? Why does everyone

555
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 1: have mental health issues? I think I know well. And

556
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 1: then also just stress trying to handle normal life stuff.

557
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 1: If you have a job during the day, oh my god,

558
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 1: they can't leave, you know, it's hard to get time off.

559
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:21,680
Speaker 1: It's like, hey, I just got a car accident esterday.

560
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 1: I have to run down to this place and if

561
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 1: I don't do it, then I'm gonna be out like

562
00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 1: thousands of dollars. Also, you don't pay me thousands of

563
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 1: dollars a month, so how can I do that? And

564
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 1: they're like, got fifteen minutes? Yeah, you got two fifteen

565
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 1: minute breaks? Yeah, Or like trying to schedule doctor's appointments

566
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 1: or anything during the day because like they're not open

567
00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 1: or they're open until noon on Saturday, which is not

568
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,160
Speaker 1: what you want to be doing on Saturday. Is getting

569
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,680
Speaker 1: your teeth cleaned exactly and straight? Like people will have

570
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 1: to take days their personal vacation days, yes, to do errands. Yes,

571
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 1: that's stressful. And they're going to be worse at work

572
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 1: because of the stress. So I just don't understand why

573
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 1: they can't do it, and I don't think there's anything

574
00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:57,479
Speaker 1: that we can do about it. Normally, when I talk

575
00:29:57,480 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: about things that, you know, I don't understand why that's

576
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 1: not a thing like let's start a cause. But I

577
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 1: don't even what would we do a change dot org

578
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 1: petition we could do, we can try. We always talk

579
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 1: about that, but we never do it. You know why,

580
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 1: because we're burnt out for exactly getting more than four

581
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 1: hours a day too long. The people that entered this

582
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 1: survey that proves once again that the workday should be

583
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 1: shorter because during an eight hour workday, the average worker

584
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 1: only spends four hours and twelve minutes actively working. I've

585
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 1: always said people should be able to finish their work

586
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 1: for the day, and if you're out of work, you

587
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 1: should be able to go home whatever it is like,

588
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 1: so you just work on that. There's some you know,

589
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 1: there's a lot of companies that that never happens. That's true.

590
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 1: There's there's a lot of businesses that just the work's

591
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 1: never done. So just make it, make it four and

592
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 1: a half hours, get the most work done you can

593
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 1: in a day, and then go try to do some

594
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 1: other things, because what are people doing at work when

595
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 1: they're not working? Because you got another four about four

596
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: hours to work. Other texting, Yeah, bathroom breaks. I used

597
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 1: to go take naps in the bathroom. Oh dude. And

598
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 1: the construction guys that work, yeah the moment, they're always

599
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 1: in the box. Yeah, there's working just to get away

600
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 1: and take a nap. Other other things include snack breaks,

601
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 1: coffee breaks, reading and drawing, watching TV, phone calls, and

602
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 1: listening to the Jewil Show podcast. Read you up. I

603
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: don't know. That's not a bad way to do it. Yeah,

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00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 1: following the Jewil Show, at the Jewil Show on TikTok

605
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 1: and Instagram, all of us individually. I'm at Jewel Fresh,

606
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Speaker 1: I met that dreas, I met Evan on the radio.

607
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Speaker 1: And that's a good way to kill some time in

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Speaker 1: your work day to day. Other than that text in

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Speaker 1: four one too six one, how I was gonna say,

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Speaker 1: how do you spend the extra time at work when

611
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Speaker 1: you're supposed to be working? But I was gonna say,

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Speaker 1: how can we actually make this a movement right and

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Speaker 1: change the work day in this kind Let's change the woe.

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Speaker 1: Let's do it. Text in four If you're working, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you got nothing else to do? You already finished your

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Speaker 1: spreadsheets text in four one, six one The Jewbil Show

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Speaker 1: its twenties. Hello, um, yum, the fire has been put out.

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Speaker 1: So I was just calling to let you know that

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Speaker 1: everything's okay and so like if you were worried about it,

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Speaker 1: don't I'm worry them. Um. I sorry, what did you

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Speaker 1: say the fire was put out? Um? Yeah, I was

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Speaker 1: just calling to tell you the fires one put out,

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Speaker 1: so should I'll be fine? Where Who is this? What

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Speaker 1: are you talking about? Um? Oh yeah, I guess I

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Speaker 1: didn't introduce myself. My name is Trevor, and I um

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Speaker 1: am one of the employees at work in the warehouse.

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Speaker 1: And I don't think that we've met yet. But is

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Speaker 1: this Tina? Yeah, this is Tina. I don't know if

630
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:28,520
Speaker 1: it's Trevor, and I don't know what you're talking about.

631
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 1: So I was really sorry to call you, like, well

632
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 1: you're um, not like on the clock you because like

633
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 1: I know, it's like later in the evening. Um, and uh,

634
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 1: I just thought i'd let you know that the fire.

635
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't care what time it is. Is

636
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:45,320
Speaker 1: there a fire at the warehouse? Okay? So yeah, that's

637
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:47,120
Speaker 1: why I'm calling because like I looked at the phone

638
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 1: number list and it said like if there's, you know,

639
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: ever a problem or you ever need to get a

640
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 1: hold of Tina, just get a hold of Tina and

641
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 1: you can get her number right here. So I just

642
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 1: called you. I hope, I hope that's okay. So just

643
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 1: let's so you know the fire. Did you did you

644
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 1: call the lease or the firefighters? Like what was the magnitude?

645
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 1: They left? Yeah, they left. So that's why I was

646
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 1: calling to let you know that everything's okay. Fighters were

647
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 1: there at the warehouse and I'm hearing about it. Yeah,

648
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: they were like really nice, Like so I had a

649
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:16,479
Speaker 1: good conversation with them. Firemen were I don't care if

650
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 1: they were nice. How was the warehouse? Is it? Is it? Okay? Oh? Um? Okay.

651
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 1: So I'm you know, like I'm a newer employee and

652
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 1: I don't think that we've ever met. My name is Trevor,

653
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 1: and so yeah you mentioned that TV. Yeah I don't,

654
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't really care who you are. No, offense,

655
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 1: just tell me about the fire. Well, so, okay, this

656
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 1: is kind of an interesting story. So you know, all

657
00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 1: the employees at work in the warehouse, I have to um,

658
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 1: you know, iron their shirts and stuff and like look

659
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 1: pretty clean and um presentable and what are you talking about.

660
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to tell you about the origin of

661
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 1: the fire, which I thought was pretty crazy because I

662
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 1: didn't even know an iron could do that. So, um,

663
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 1: Like anyway, I was arking my share in the warehouse

664
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 1: and I sort of left the iron on it for

665
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 1: a little bit because like one of the guys I

666
00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 1: was joking around with me and started the fire. Well,

667
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 1: I mean techne, the iron that I was using to

668
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:06,280
Speaker 1: iron my shirt started the fire. So I don't know

669
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:09,360
Speaker 1: who hired you, but I'm literally going to have you

670
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:11,719
Speaker 1: fired the next time I go into the office. But

671
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:14,839
Speaker 1: right now I'm funny warehouse to make sure everything. Well,

672
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:16,880
Speaker 1: it's kind of funny because like we're talking about a

673
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 1: fire and then you said that you're gonna fire me.

674
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 1: W You're not gonna fire me, are you? That's exactly

675
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 1: what I'm going to do. Um. I don't know why

676
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 1: you would need to do that, because, like I thought

677
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:27,719
Speaker 1: I'd did all the protocols right, Like, I called you

678
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 1: right away, well not right away, I called you for

679
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 1: the firefighters left, but I still called you and to

680
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 1: let you know about the fire. And so I don't

681
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 1: know why you're upset with me. I'm trying to figure

682
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:38,440
Speaker 1: that out, you idiot. Okay, I'm going to drive there

683
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 1: right now. And by the way, who hired you? Hired you? Yeah? Yeah,

684
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:48,839
Speaker 1: So do you know Jenna? Jenna? So yeah, Jenna hired you. Okay,

685
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:50,799
Speaker 1: I will be having a work Okay, No, she didn't

686
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:52,439
Speaker 1: hire me, like I'm her cousin. I just been hanging

687
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 1: out for a while. So what the Jenna's cousin is

688
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 1: hanging out at the warehouse is happening? I haven't name.

689
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 1: My name is Trevor. So it's like, you know, however,

690
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 1: you are an absolute Okay, I'm on my way there

691
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 1: right now. I'm literally on the I'm gonna fire Jenna.

692
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 1: I'm gonna seeking on my private property. I just hope

693
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 1: you wouldn't do that all for like a prank phone call,

694
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 1: because I think that would be really bad, Like if

695
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:15,839
Speaker 1: I got seed and then you fire Jenna and then

696
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 1: like all that kind of stuff just because it's a

697
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 1: phone call I did. Because this is actually Jewel from

698
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 1: The Jewel Show doing a phone prank on you and

699
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:27,759
Speaker 1: your employee. Jenna set you up. Oh my god. She

700
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:29,840
Speaker 1: says that you were talking the other day how you

701
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:32,279
Speaker 1: have had to fire some people in the warehouse, and

702
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 1: she wanted me to screw with you. Oh my god. Okay,

703
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 1: so just real quick, there's no fire. Everything's okay, Yes,

704
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:43,720
Speaker 1: just a joke. Yes, it was just a joke. Okay,

705
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:45,600
Speaker 1: Well you know what Jenna's gonna know what a fire

706
00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:49,359
Speaker 1: is like, because I'm gonna fire wake up every morning

707
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:54,399
Speaker 1: with Jewil phone pranks The Jewel Show on demand. Time

708
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 1: for your dirty little secret? Text in four one oh

709
00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 1: six one if you have a dirty little secret, and

710
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 1: then we'll be like hey, cool, tell and we'll be like, hey,

711
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 1: do you want to tell us? And then you'll be like, yeah, sure,

712
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 1: that's fine, called in yep. And then we'll put you

713
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:06,840
Speaker 1: on the radio and then you'll tell us what the

714
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:09,359
Speaker 1: dirty secret is and be famous kind of maybe yeah,

715
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 1: but it's not as oldward as that. Unfortunately, nobody will

716
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:13,399
Speaker 1: know what your name is or who you are because

717
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 1: you remain anonymous. Because we give everybody a fake anonymous

718
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 1: nic name because we don't even ask what your name is,

719
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:18,879
Speaker 1: so you're free to say whatever. So on the phone

720
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 1: right now to tell us a dirty little secret is

721
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:25,320
Speaker 1: I wasn't prepared, I guess, So let's just leave it

722
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,279
Speaker 1: at that. I wasn't prepared. I guess it's on the

723
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:29,279
Speaker 1: phone for your dirty little secret. That's the anonymous nick name.

724
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 1: What's up? I wasn't prepared, I guess. Oh, Hi, I

725
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 1: didn't realize that was my Hi. Yeah, I know the

726
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 1: whole thing was awkward, but I like it that way.

727
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 1: And that's also perfect that you didn't realize because you're anyway,

728
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 1: I do it fits Hi? I'm and no, no, you

729
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:49,919
Speaker 1: don't say your name do that? Yeah, yeah, we'll weep

730
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 1: that out now. That's fine. It's just that that's why

731
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 1: we kept your anonymous. So what's your dirty little secret?

732
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 1: Definitely not regretting telling this on the radio. So my

733
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 1: boyfriend and I, um we're in a big site. Earlier

734
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 1: this year, UM and kind of broke up. It wasn't clear.

735
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 1: It was like a Ross and Rachel breakup, but maybe

736
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 1: we were on a break anyway. I I was really

737
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:17,200
Speaker 1: angry with him and like any sensible person would do.

738
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:20,280
Speaker 1: I audition sent in an audition tape for The Bachelor.

739
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 1: Oh you did? Wow? Yeah I did, And then I

740
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 1: kind of forgot about it. And then um, they called

741
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:32,839
Speaker 1: me back recently or emailed and they put me through

742
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 1: the first round of casting. Oh yeah, well congratulations. Yeah

743
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: when was that? Thank you? I mean, um, they it

744
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 1: was a while ago that they accepted me through the

745
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 1: first round of the competition. But my Jody little secret

746
00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 1: is that I just didn't tell my boyfriend. Oh so okay,

747
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:52,880
Speaker 1: So you guys are broken up, probably when you started

748
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 1: going through the process, but now you're back together and

749
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:58,919
Speaker 1: you made it through. Except that show is about finding

750
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 1: a husband. Yes, oh you know, I thought I might

751
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 1: need one, but we got back together almost immediately and

752
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:10,320
Speaker 1: we're still together. Okay, So you didn't go through with it. No,

753
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:12,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to be on that show. What did

754
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 1: you do after they accept to do the first round?

755
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 1: I just didn't respond to the email. I just also

756
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,040
Speaker 1: haven't told my boyfriend about any of it. Do you

757
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 1: think that he would be mad? I don't know. How

758
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 1: would you guys feel? I wouldn't feel great. Well, if

759
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 1: I was planning on getting back. If it was just

760
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 1: like a break sort of thing, yeah, then I would

761
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 1: be upset. But if it was like a breakup where

762
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 1: I didn't think that I was going to get back

763
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 1: and you guys ended up getting back together, then I

764
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:40,399
Speaker 1: don't think that matters. Yeah, if we were talking about

765
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 1: planning on getting back together, I still couldn't be upset.

766
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 1: Really I can't, because but that person was trying to

767
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 1: find love, right but we were we were like split up,

768
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:52,800
Speaker 1: and if we agreed that we weren't exclusive, I literally

769
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 1: can't be mad about it. Oh my gosh. So I

770
00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:56,880
Speaker 1: wouldn't be upset about it any well, Like, what the

771
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:58,800
Speaker 1: intention of getting back to sorry, with the intention of

772
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:01,880
Speaker 1: getting back together? If I, well, we were broken up

773
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 1: when I did that. Yeah, so if we're broken up

774
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 1: broken up, I can't have a say in it. That's

775
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 1: not what I said. I know, Okay, So how would

776
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 1: I feel, though? How would I feel? I wouldn't be upset.

777
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 1: You have such high morl high ground, like you love

778
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 1: the highest of high grounds. There's no emotions though, That's

779
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:18,320
Speaker 1: what I mean. I have emotions, but if the emotion

780
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:21,680
Speaker 1: is an emotion that like I am not supposed to

781
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:23,799
Speaker 1: have because I can't. I don't have a say we're

782
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,360
Speaker 1: broken up. I can't be mad, that's fair. I wouldn't

783
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:28,080
Speaker 1: be How would you feel love in I'd feel very upset.

784
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:31,719
Speaker 1: I feel like someone like normal. Yeah I know, I

785
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:34,359
Speaker 1: know I'm not normal. How does he get a right

786
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 1: to be upset exactly with my life, which is exactly

787
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 1: what he told me to do? Well? Fine, Yeah, I

788
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:40,799
Speaker 1: was just saying like, yeah, I thought that you were

789
00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:42,400
Speaker 1: saying that you guys were like on a break So

790
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:43,879
Speaker 1: if you guys were, if you guys are totally broken

791
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:46,400
Speaker 1: up now planning getting back together, then I mean, I

792
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:47,880
Speaker 1: don't know if I would tell my boyfriend if I

793
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:50,879
Speaker 1: got back with him right that hidden probably just keep that, Yeah,

794
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:52,839
Speaker 1: I mean, because I think a lot of people would

795
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:55,400
Speaker 1: get upset. I think a lot of people would get

796
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:57,080
Speaker 1: upset no matter what, even if you're broken up, they'd

797
00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:58,759
Speaker 1: still let it bother him. Yeah, I just feel like

798
00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 1: he can't. But I know I'm not right. I'm weird

799
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 1: with emotions. I know that. Ask Alex her and I

800
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 1: are married. If you didn't know that, i'd have to

801
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 1: say that for people who don't know, For new listeners,

802
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 1: if you already knew because he has listen to listens

803
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 1: for a long time. Sorry about that, but ask her,

804
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 1: I'm weird with emotions. Yeah, I already said it, no emotions.

805
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:16,880
Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank you for telling us your your

806
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 1: little secret. You're welcome. What's your dirty little secret? The

807
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:27,320
Speaker 1: Jebel Show on Demand First Date follow Up. Sydney is

808
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 1: on the phone for a first date follow up and

809
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 1: she's not getting a call back from a dude named Robert.

810
00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 1: And they did something crazy date insane when skydiving, very risky,

811
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 1: risky than skydiving. Yeah, this is a high risk date.

812
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 1: But for now because of the pandemic. Movie theaters have

813
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 1: been closed for a long time. They're starting to open

814
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:49,040
Speaker 1: up now all over the place. Most things are opening up.

815
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:51,279
Speaker 1: They went to a real life movie in a movie

816
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 1: theater together. Whoa wow, that had congratulations. That had to

817
00:40:55,000 --> 00:41:00,880
Speaker 1: have felt very crazy adrenal Limrosch Sidney. How was that experience? Hey, well,

818
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:04,239
Speaker 1: it's kind of weird but a relief at the same time.

819
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:07,919
Speaker 1: I don't know which has been so long? All right? Well,

820
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 1: so you said you when out with a guy named Robert.

821
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 1: Before we get into everything, just tell us how did

822
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:16,440
Speaker 1: you meet Robert? Sure? Yeah, So we actually knew each

823
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:19,120
Speaker 1: other a long time ago. We met in college and

824
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:20,839
Speaker 1: it was one of those things where we just kind

825
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:25,359
Speaker 1: of reconnected online via Facebook, okay, and so he kind

826
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:27,400
Speaker 1: of reached out and we've been chatting be a messenger

827
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 1: for I don't know a couple of weeks. When you

828
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 1: say reconnected, do you mean that you always thought that

829
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 1: he was hot and you wanted to ask him out,

830
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 1: and then you saw him on Facebook You're like, oh

831
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 1: my god. I definitely always thought he was attractive. I

832
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:47,399
Speaker 1: didn't really think we would ever, I don't know, get

833
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:49,920
Speaker 1: along that way though, But it turns out like we

834
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 1: have a lot in common, and the more we chatted

835
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 1: and where I was like, wow, this could really happen.

836
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:56,319
Speaker 1: So yeah, we talked a lot, got to know each other,

837
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: and he asked me if i'd be interesting going on

838
00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:01,759
Speaker 1: a date and really into the idea. He seems great.

839
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 1: So we went out to the movies. Well, how did

840
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 1: the Dago did? Did you guys have fun? Did he

841
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:11,160
Speaker 1: seem into it? I think he seemed really into me

842
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:14,239
Speaker 1: and he obviously we couldn't talk a lot during the movie,

843
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 1: but you know, we held hands and I kind of

844
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:19,319
Speaker 1: put my head on his shoulder and well that's cute. Yeah,

845
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:22,360
Speaker 1: and we had a good chat afterward and we agreed

846
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 1: like we would see each other again sometimes. Okay, and

847
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 1: that's the last you heard from him. Yes, do you

848
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 1: kiss or anything? Um? No, but we I don't know.

849
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 1: It's the first date. That's always kind of weird. We

850
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:38,200
Speaker 1: hugged and said that we would do it again soon.

851
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 1: So how long has it been since your date? It's

852
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:43,759
Speaker 1: been a week. And how many times have you tried

853
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 1: reaching out to him? I haven't reached out to him.

854
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 1: He said he you know, we would do it again,

855
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:49,799
Speaker 1: and so I kind of thought he would reach out.

856
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 1: He usually instigates. And okay, so neither of you have

857
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:57,360
Speaker 1: reached out to each other. No. I wonder if like

858
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:03,200
Speaker 1: he thinks you're ghosting him, but you think he's ghosting you. Yeah. Yeah,

859
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: I definitely think he's ghosting me because he said that

860
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:08,359
Speaker 1: he would get in touch, you know, when we could

861
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 1: do it again, you know, and I kind have been

862
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:13,120
Speaker 1: waiting for him to do that. Maybe he's waiting for

863
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:15,359
Speaker 1: you to just be like, hey, I enjoy the date.

864
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 1: I'm excited to do it again. You know, Like people

865
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 1: usually text if they're into each other, right, and if

866
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:23,240
Speaker 1: you're into him, then he probably is thinking the same thing. Maybe.

867
00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 1: But if he did say though that he's going to

868
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 1: reach out and then doesn't, that's kind of weird. But

869
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 1: also it's only been a week, and so if he's

870
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 1: trying to see like, maybe she doesn't like me, I've

871
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 1: I heard from her, right, Yeah, I feel like a

872
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 1: week is a long time, you know, maybe think that

873
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 1: maybe you should try to reach out to him though,

874
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 1: or should have tried to reach out to him. I

875
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:44,840
Speaker 1: mean maybe, but in my experience, like when I have

876
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:46,680
Speaker 1: a date with a guy, they usually reach out to

877
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 1: me and say, hey, you no, let's do this next thing,

878
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 1: And they tend to take the initiative in my experience,

879
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 1: and traditionally is like more so on the man to

880
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 1: like reach out if you're in a classic relationship, I

881
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:03,919
Speaker 1: guess I think so, yeah, And he said that he would,

882
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 1: so why do you think then that he would be

883
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:09,840
Speaker 1: ghosting you? So yeah, I've been thinking about it a

884
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 1: lot after What could it have been? I realized that

885
00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 1: day I was in such a panic and I was

886
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 1: so nervous. I think I totally forgot to brush my

887
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:21,919
Speaker 1: teeth that day. So maybe my breath was a little bad. Oh,

888
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:25,880
Speaker 1: so you think maybe you had bad breath. I don't know,

889
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:28,560
Speaker 1: maybe that could be it. You didn't eat fish, did you?

890
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 1: Before you win garlic? Thank god? No? No, I mean

891
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 1: not brushing your teeth is not ideal. That's a good

892
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:37,640
Speaker 1: thing about COVID though, wearing masks, Like, if you think

893
00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:39,320
Speaker 1: you have bad breath, you can just keep your mask on.

894
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 1: Did you just keep your mask on the whole time? No,

895
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 1: that would have been a good idea. But then also

896
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 1: that might have been why you did not getting a

897
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 1: call back, even like she didn't take her mask off

898
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:52,319
Speaker 1: right at all? She must all right, well, we'll try

899
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 1: to figure it out for you to play a song

900
00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 1: and come back and call him and get your first

901
00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 1: day follow up. Okay, we'll do it right after this.

902
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 1: It's a jewel show right in the middle of today's

903
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:04,319
Speaker 1: first date follow up, And if you missed the first part,

904
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:06,200
Speaker 1: Sidney is on the phone and she's not getting a

905
00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:09,400
Speaker 1: call back from a dude named Robert. She's not going

906
00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 1: to call back from Robert. They actually knew each other

907
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 1: in college but then reconnected through Facebook and decided to

908
00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:17,919
Speaker 1: do something weird, actually go out to a movie theater

909
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 1: and see a movie, because that hasn't happened in a while,

910
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:22,279
Speaker 1: and now other things are opening up, you can do that.

911
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:24,800
Speaker 1: She thought it went great, except now it's been a

912
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:26,919
Speaker 1: week and he's not calling her back. The only reason

913
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 1: that she can think of was that she was in

914
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 1: a rush to head out for the date and she

915
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:33,719
Speaker 1: forgot to brush her teeth, so she might have had

916
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:36,920
Speaker 1: stank mouthyak mouth, whatever kind of mouth you want to

917
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:39,960
Speaker 1: call it. Nasty breath is the only reason that you

918
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:43,279
Speaker 1: can think of Sydney. Yeah, so far, that's the only thing.

919
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 1: It was crossed my mind. Everything else is great, all right,

920
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 1: So everything else seemed great. Robert said that he would

921
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 1: reach out to her to make plans for another date.

922
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 1: He hasn't done that. She also hasn't tried to contact him,

923
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 1: so both of them could be thinking that they're getting

924
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 1: ghosted by the other one. We have no idea, and

925
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 1: that's why I'm gonna just shut up and call Robert

926
00:45:57,360 --> 00:45:58,560
Speaker 1: right now and see if we can figure it out.

927
00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 1: Does that sound like a good idea of Sydney. That

928
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:02,879
Speaker 1: sounds good? All right, then I'll shut up and call him.

929
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:26,719
Speaker 1: Here we go, Hello, Robert Wiring con Sidney back. What's

930
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:31,319
Speaker 1: going on, Robert? How are you? This is the Jewel Show.

931
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:33,319
Speaker 1: My name is Jewel, my name's Alex Fresh, my name

932
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:38,840
Speaker 1: is English, Evan, Robert wireing con Sentdney back? Um, okay,

933
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 1: I'm a little How did you get How do you

934
00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:45,000
Speaker 1: know I'm not calling Sydney back because Sydney emailed us.

935
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:46,399
Speaker 1: We do a segment on the show called the first

936
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 1: Date follow Up. What that is is if you go

937
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:51,480
Speaker 1: out on a date with someone and then ghost them,

938
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:53,839
Speaker 1: they can email us to call you and find out

939
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 1: what went wrong. So I don't know if you listen

940
00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 1: to the radio show or not, Robert, And that's not

941
00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:01,200
Speaker 1: even important right now. No Denis explain it. I don't care.

942
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:03,839
Speaker 1: All I want to know is why aren't you calling

943
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 1: Sydney back? Oh? Oh this is super weird man. Um

944
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 1: uh yeah, I've nothing personal. I've just I've been really

945
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 1: busy with work. That's it. It doesn't sound like that's it. Yeah.

946
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 1: Usually when people are busy with work, they'll still reach

947
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 1: out and go, hey, I'm busy with work. Yeah. And

948
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:33,359
Speaker 1: also you said you would take Sydney Sydney back off

949
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 1: to your date, so yeah I did. And I've just

950
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:41,840
Speaker 1: I've been slammed. I've been slammed working, working every day. Okay, Robert,

951
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:47,600
Speaker 1: it's a real reason, been working my tail off. But okay,

952
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 1: so neither of you they'll have reached out to each other,

953
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 1: and she wants to know why you haven't actually just

954
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 1: even texted her. Yeah, if it was the reason why

955
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 1: it's hard to believe. The work thing is because if

956
00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 1: you like someone, you got on a date, if you

957
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:03,319
Speaker 1: even if you are busy, you might still reach out

958
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:06,359
Speaker 1: within a week to say, hey, how are things going. Sorry,

959
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:08,439
Speaker 1: I haven't reached out yet. I've been super busy working

960
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 1: my tail off at work. But as soon as this

961
00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:14,880
Speaker 1: tail's not off anymore and it's on, then we're on

962
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:18,839
Speaker 1: for a date that that probably would have been better.

963
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:21,320
Speaker 1: But yeah, I just haven't haven't done it. Been busy,

964
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 1: been busy. I mean, how busy are you that you

965
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:30,840
Speaker 1: can send a text? Um really coming in hot on me?

966
00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 1: They're my English friend? Um? But yeah, I uh yeah,

967
00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:38,840
Speaker 1: I've been working, working hard. So yeah, that's all I

968
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: can tell you. But wish that's something better for you.

969
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:46,200
Speaker 1: But yeah, that's the truth. Does that sound legit to you, Sydney? No,

970
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: it doesn't, but it was, Hey, Robert, that's Sydney. She's

971
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 1: actually on the line listening and wants to talk to you,

972
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:56,719
Speaker 1: and it sounds like she doesn't believe you either. I

973
00:48:56,719 --> 00:49:00,719
Speaker 1: don't may. Sorry, that's just that's that sounds like an

974
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:07,239
Speaker 1: excuse to me. I don't know. No, I really am.

975
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 1: I'm at last year. I'm telling you the truth. I've

976
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:15,160
Speaker 1: been working, so uh. Yeah, I wish I had had

977
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 1: done the I'm busy I'm working thing. Didn't do it,

978
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:21,800
Speaker 1: but yeah, I've been working. That's it. This is truth.

979
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:25,960
Speaker 1: But you weren't your best buy that it's not even

980
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 1: like a real career. Wow, that was kind of rude.

981
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 1: Cut deep. It's an hourly job, Robert. I mean you

982
00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:42,760
Speaker 1: can't find time to text me, you know, on a break,

983
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 1: you know, because you get those at hourly jobs like

984
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:50,800
Speaker 1: it just seems like you could have found time. Wow, Okay,

985
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:53,879
Speaker 1: that's cool. Um, yes, it's an hour's job, but it's

986
00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 1: still a job and it's work. And I've worked every

987
00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:59,879
Speaker 1: day since we went on the date. Um, long days,

988
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:03,960
Speaker 1: long hours. Yes, your points you're making is correct, but

989
00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:07,040
Speaker 1: I really do not I don't want to tone about

990
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 1: what I do for work. That's kind of messed up.

991
00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:12,000
Speaker 1: I'm just telling you the truth. It's not a job

992
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:15,000
Speaker 1: that should really take that much of your time. Wow.

993
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:16,759
Speaker 1: I mean you don't do you know what he does

994
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 1: at best Buy though, Sydney. I mean, how many jobs

995
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:24,360
Speaker 1: are there at best Buy? I mean sales? Wow? I

996
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:27,960
Speaker 1: have no idea, but I mean it's a job, and

997
00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 1: it sounds like dude works hard and he's getting money. Well, yeah,

998
00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 1: haven't like it's it's not an adult the career. I

999
00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:40,879
Speaker 1: mean it is if they want to make it their career. Yeah.

1000
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:44,759
Speaker 1: I still don't feel like it's demanding enough to not

1001
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 1: be able to send a text. I agree. Okay, if

1002
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:49,680
Speaker 1: you're the president, you can still send a text. Yes,

1003
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 1: you could. He still find time to send a text.

1004
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 1: You all are not wrong. Everybody's not wrong that I

1005
00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:58,239
Speaker 1: should have send a text. Having said that, the fact

1006
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:01,040
Speaker 1: that we're downplaying what I do for work messed up,

1007
00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 1: messed up. Okay, forget the whole work thing. We're trying

1008
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:05,919
Speaker 1: to figure out why though you don't want to see

1009
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:08,759
Speaker 1: her again, I didn't say I didn't want to see

1010
00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:10,799
Speaker 1: her again. I just said it's just been busy with work.

1011
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:13,480
Speaker 1: But I definitely don't want to see her now. Oh well,

1012
00:51:13,520 --> 00:51:16,920
Speaker 1: let's let's hold on pumping brakes. Yeah, it's only because

1013
00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:19,239
Speaker 1: she just made that comment about where you work, right,

1014
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:22,239
Speaker 1: It's not because of anything she did before. I thought

1015
00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 1: we did great on the date, Sydney. But that was

1016
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:30,759
Speaker 1: before I knew you were a bitch. Oh wow, yeah,

1017
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:32,920
Speaker 1: and I have to before I found out you have

1018
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:39,280
Speaker 1: no ambition in life. Okay, come on you guys, Sydney.

1019
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:40,840
Speaker 1: You knew I worked it best buy before we we

1020
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:42,320
Speaker 1: one on the dates. I don't know what it's a

1021
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:43,880
Speaker 1: problem now all of a sudden because you get from

1022
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:45,520
Speaker 1: feelings her because I didn't text you back and you

1023
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 1: didn't get that gratification right away, like jeez, well, I

1024
00:51:49,719 --> 00:51:52,279
Speaker 1: just thought that after we were dating a while, you'd

1025
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:56,480
Speaker 1: actually grow up, invited a real job, and maybe although

1026
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 1: not be a huge ass, which she turned out to be.

1027
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:02,920
Speaker 1: So all right, Well this has been fun. Oh no, no,

1028
00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 1: we're not done, Robert. I do have to ask you

1029
00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:06,799
Speaker 1: one more question, and I am so happy for you guys,

1030
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:09,400
Speaker 1: because Sydney, would you like to go on another date

1031
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:10,920
Speaker 1: with Robert? Will pay for it? Or Robert, would you

1032
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:12,880
Speaker 1: like going on another date with Sydney will pay for it,

1033
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:17,239
Speaker 1: absolutely not. She she you usually put her on a date,

1034
00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 1: get her another day because she's very needy for some

1035
00:52:19,320 --> 00:52:22,520
Speaker 1: male attention. Obviously, I'm gonna go back to my my

1036
00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 1: garbage job, it's not real and keep making money. Um, yeah,

1037
00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:29,880
Speaker 1: she should go on the day she needs it. But

1038
00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:33,800
Speaker 1: my break is almost over from my really hourly job.

1039
00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:36,520
Speaker 1: So you know, I've actually I've got to go, so

1040
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 1: by Sydney, by Felicia. I'm gonna find a man that

1041
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:43,759
Speaker 1: makes actual money and has a real job. Okay, may

1042
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:47,960
Speaker 1: all right. So it's a note that went well. Jubils

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Speaker 1: first Day follow up the Jubils Show on demand. But

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Speaker 1: if you're a significant other went on The Bachelor looking

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Speaker 1: for love, what how would that make you feel? I

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Speaker 1: asked the question because in case you missed the dirty

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Speaker 1: little Secret that we just aired, it's the Jewel Show.

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Speaker 1: A woman just told us a dirty little secret that

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Speaker 1: while her boyfriend and her were on a break, she

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Speaker 1: actually made it onto the Bachelor and he doesn't know

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Speaker 1: about it. And then we got into the conversation of

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Speaker 1: would that make you jealous or not? I have a question,

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Speaker 1: right or my lack of emotions are confusing. I do

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Speaker 1: know that, and this is something that I've been thinking

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Speaker 1: about a lot because Alex and I are married, by

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Speaker 1: the way, he didn't know that, and so we have

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Speaker 1: a lot of conversations about emotions. That's what married people

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Speaker 1: do sometimes, except when you're married to me, it can

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Speaker 1: seem like I don't care about anything, right, because I

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Speaker 1: don't really have emotion or show emotion. So here's the question, Babe.

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Speaker 1: If this happened to us, then you tried to go

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Speaker 1: on The Bachelor, which, by the way, congratulations you made

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Speaker 1: it through the first round. And then and then we

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Speaker 1: got back together and I found out. But then I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't let myself be bad about it because I had

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Speaker 1: no right to be mad about it. So you didn't

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Speaker 1: see me get upset about it. Would that be upsetting

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Speaker 1: to you? Because I feel like some people, and this

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Speaker 1: is a question for you too, Evan, people in general

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Speaker 1: sometimes get upset when they're significant other doesn't get upset

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Speaker 1: about things like that. Yeah, but I probably wouldn't make

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Speaker 1: it a big deal. Okay, Yeah, Kevin, I think if

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Speaker 1: it happened to me and my girlfriend, I would want

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Speaker 1: her to care. Yeah, Like you know, if I was

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Speaker 1: going to the Bachelor. Yeah, I would say, hey, you

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Speaker 1: probably should be mad at me because I tried to

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Speaker 1: find love somewhere else, Like why aren't you mad? I know,

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Speaker 1: And I think that's the part that confuses people with me.

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Speaker 1: They feel like I'm not invested, and I think that's why.

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Speaker 1: It's because of stuff like that. It's like I just go, well,

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Speaker 1: I have no right to be upset, so I have

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Speaker 1: to check it. I can't be right. But then it

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Speaker 1: looks like I don't care. Yeah, it looks opposite. But

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Speaker 1: when you're like that with everything, Yeah, yeah, it looks

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Speaker 1: like I don't care about anything. Yeah. It makes sense

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Speaker 1: because people are always like you don't care, and I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I do. Well, how do you feel about me? If

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Speaker 1: I was to go onto the Bachelor, say I made

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Speaker 1: it through the rounds and then we're broken up or whatever,

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Speaker 1: and then I'm like having all this fun was like

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Speaker 1: all these dudes and then we get back together. You

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Speaker 1: wouldn't have any like hurt, sad, mad, any sort of

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Speaker 1: like ill will fillings on that. I would be insanely jealous, right, well,

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Speaker 1: that's a feeling. That's a feeling, But I also wouldn't

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Speaker 1: express you wouldn't say it. No, if I didn't think

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Speaker 1: we're gonna get back together and then I saw you

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Speaker 1: on there, that would drive me crazy, right, And then

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Speaker 1: if we got back together and you were on the

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Speaker 1: Bachelor having all kinds of fun like that, I literally

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Speaker 1: would not let myself get upset about it, so because

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Speaker 1: I would go, I can't. I can't. It's disrespectful to

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Speaker 1: her if I do. That's what it does. This actually

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Speaker 1: makes so much sense to me because I've been working

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Speaker 1: on trying to share and show emotion. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: like you don't care. I don't know. It's weird like

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Speaker 1: sometimes where I feel like you would be feeling some

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Speaker 1: sort of way jealous, like not even in like a

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Speaker 1: bad way, like not being mean, just like feeling jealous,

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Speaker 1: because like everybody has that feeling of jealous and I do.

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Speaker 1: You don't say You just don't say anything even regarding

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Speaker 1: that feeling at all. Yes, ever, there are things that

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Speaker 1: bother you, but you don't ever bring anything up because

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Speaker 1: you just let it go, which is fine. That's how

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Speaker 1: you do life, and like you do you right, Like,

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Speaker 1: but I brought this ubstence the beginning. I'm like, there's

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Speaker 1: got to be things that I do that really annoy

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Speaker 1: you or piss you off. But then he's like, but

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Speaker 1: you're so cute, and I'm like no, like I'm sometimes

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Speaker 1: like it's not even funny. It was not even like mean,

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Speaker 1: just like PM saying yeah, yeah, and I know that.

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Speaker 1: But then I go, Okay. She shared with me in

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Speaker 1: that conversation that she's about to start her period. I

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Speaker 1: know that three days before her period this can happen.

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Speaker 1: So therefore, I'm not going to focus on the fact

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Speaker 1: of how she's being right now. I'm just going to

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Speaker 1: let her speak and get it out and be like,

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Speaker 1: I understand, and that is the way I feel in

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Speaker 1: my head, And I honestly don't have a problem. But

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Speaker 1: there are things I'm sure that have bothered me that

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Speaker 1: I don't say. And what I realized is through our

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Speaker 1: conversation the other day of my therapist, she said something hilarious.

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Speaker 1: I'll say, I'll tell you what that is in a second.

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Speaker 1: But what that does in a relationship, here's a little

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Speaker 1: therapy advice. Or if you're in a relationship having the

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Speaker 1: same problem, what that can do, though, is create distance

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Speaker 1: between you and your partner because it makes them not

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Speaker 1: emotionally intimate with you. And I've been learning about emotional intimacy,

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Speaker 1: and this whole conversation and that dirty little secret really

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Speaker 1: made me realize, Oh, that's what it means. Emotional intimacy

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Speaker 1: doesn't mean being pissed off at your partner for whatever

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Speaker 1: reason or bringing up all the bad things about him.

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Speaker 1: It means telling them how you feel. And I was

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Speaker 1: having a conversation with my therapist and now it all

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Speaker 1: makes sense to me. My mind blown. And that's why

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Speaker 1: I'm a big supporter of mental health because look how

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Speaker 1: old I am, and I've been going to therapy since kindergarten,

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Speaker 1: and I still have to figure stuff out like this.

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Speaker 1: I have to figure out how to still be like

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Speaker 1: a normal human with emotions. Sometimes well not really. So

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Speaker 1: my therapist sets me because good therapy will break you down, right.

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Speaker 1: Good therapists aren't going to tell you everything you're doing

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Speaker 1: is right and the people in your life are wrong.

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Speaker 1: Good therapists will push you. And she goes, yeah, having

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Speaker 1: a conversation with you would be so frustrating, and I

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Speaker 1: was like, well why and she's like, well, because, um,

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Speaker 1: have you ever seen Star Trek? And I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's like, you know Spok from Star Trek. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I don't even feel that reference. He has no emotions

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Speaker 1: and he comes from a planet where everything is logic,

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Speaker 1: so he doesn't do anything. He doesn't have a range

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Speaker 1: of emotion. It's all logic. And she goes, it would

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Speaker 1: be like having a conversation with Spock. And she goes,

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Speaker 1: Now what sucks. Sometimes people just want you to go yo,

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Speaker 1: I feel like this right. Well, sorry about the like

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Speaker 1: spur of the moment therapy session, but that literally was

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Speaker 1: helpful for me. Thanks for explaining that. And Babe, I'm

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Speaker 1: sorry that you deal with a robot alien who doesn't

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Speaker 1: show his emotion very well. But now I I you know,

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Speaker 1: but I've been working on it for a while and

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Speaker 1: I have been doing a little bit better, and I'll

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Speaker 1: continue to try to show all the emotions all the time. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: watch now he's about to be bipolo or something. No.

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Speaker 1: I promise I won't be like mood swingy, right, but

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Speaker 1: I'll start sharing how I feel. Thank you even more done? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I do Tooangeble as a human because he has top too. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I do the Jebel Show on demand