1 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha, and welcome to stuff 2 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: I never told you protection of iHeartRadio, and today I'm 3 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: just going to share some personal stuff that was brought 4 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 1: on by news item that I found, but also some 5 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: stuff going on in my life. 6 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 2: And it's. 7 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 1: Kind of frustrating around like acceptance of the queer community 8 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: and LGBTQ plus people and your family. So I hear 9 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 1: you if you don't want to hear it right now, 10 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 1: but I so. So there was this news story that 11 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 1: said this place in Michigan had banned Pride flax in public, 12 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 1: and here's a quote from the Inn about it. The 13 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 1: resolution brought by city council member Mohammed Hassan says that 14 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 1: the city council will not provide special treatment to any 15 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 1: group of people. City council members shared that flying a 16 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:14,680 Speaker 1: Pride flag could potentially lead to other quote radical or 17 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 1: racist groups asking for their flags to be flown. 18 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 2: So there was that. And then. 19 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: I'm sure you all have seen, but there's been a 20 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 1: lot of a lot of the flags at Stonewall. 21 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 2: Have been destroyed. 22 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: So I was thinking about this, but I wasn't, like, 23 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 1: you know, going to talk about it really, But then 24 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: I was talking with my mom, and we am very 25 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 1: fortunate to have this beach house that my grandparents built. 26 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 2: You've been, Samantha. 27 00:01:56,080 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 1: It's very lovely, yes, yes, but it shared amongst like 28 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: a lot of people. 29 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 2: It's basically. 30 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 1: I mean, it's got to be fifteen plus people have 31 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:11,639 Speaker 1: access to it. 32 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 2: And I last two years ago. 33 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 1: Two years ago, we were there and I have two 34 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 1: friends who I won't say fell in love there, but 35 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:27,919 Speaker 1: it was like kind of where their relationship started, their 36 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: romantic relationships started. They are queer. I've known these women 37 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 1: since middle school high school, so we go every year, 38 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 1: so I've known them for a very long time, and 39 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: I remember joking with them that I thought they were 40 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 1: the power couple before I even knew what was going. 41 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: I was like the last one in our friend group 42 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 1: to find out because I didn't understand. 43 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 2: When one of them told me, she was like I 44 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 2: love her, and I was like, yeah, me too, friendship, 45 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 2: this is. 46 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 3: So on par with everything else in your life, dating, romance, 47 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 3: love life, so yeah, absolutely. 48 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: And then like the next day after she told me 49 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: that because I just got into a lift. 50 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,239 Speaker 2: This was back in the days when I like went 51 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 2: out to clubs at night and. 52 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 1: So I got in the lift she said that, and 53 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: then I get this text and I was like, we 54 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:24,080 Speaker 1: really need to hang out tomorrow again. 55 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, okay, well sure, but they 56 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 2: were like, we need to make you understand what really right? 57 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 1: Right, So it's like an important place in terms of 58 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 1: their relationship. And they had their bachelorette party there. It 59 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 1: was very cute, a lot of peach themed items and 60 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 1: it was very cute. So two years ago, there's a 61 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: flagpole out fronts and we flew the Pride flag so 62 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 1: they could take pictures, pictures they You know, I didn't 63 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 1: really think anything of it, which is perhaps saying something 64 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:07,839 Speaker 1: I think I've said before. You know, I'm so used 65 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 1: to like my friend group in Atlanta, and like I 66 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: don't encounter homophobia like in person a lot anymore. 67 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 2: Like online, yes, in the news, yes, but like in person. 68 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 2: And so. 69 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:30,039 Speaker 1: All my friends were sleeping, I was outside alone, just relaxing, 70 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:34,279 Speaker 1: and one of my relatives came up to me and 71 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 1: he was just acting kind of funny. He was acting 72 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: kind of weird, and he was like, well, where is 73 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:41,840 Speaker 1: everybody else? And I sat out there inside and he 74 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: was like, what are you doing? Like just relaxing, you 75 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 1: know whatever. The next day, seven am, I had a 76 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 1: phone call from my mom that's like, you have to 77 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 1: take the flag down. And I was so confused, and 78 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 1: I was kind disoriented because it was seven am, and 79 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 1: I remember kind of hedging about it where it was like, 80 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 1: it's not like causing any harms. You know, this is 81 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:08,039 Speaker 1: our property and all this stuff. And it was clear 82 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 1: my mom was not she was being asked by someone else, 83 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 1: and I just didn't have the heart to like tell 84 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:17,840 Speaker 1: my friends to take it down, so we left it up. 85 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 1: I didn't say anything about it, and it was just 86 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 1: strange because then I was looking back over that interaction 87 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 1: I had with the relative, and he was it was 88 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:32,480 Speaker 1: kind of gross because he was like it felt very 89 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 1: like oh like he thought maybe they were all inside 90 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 1: having sex or something or like you know, that kind 91 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 1: of sexualization, and or he was like angry that now, 92 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: oh the another attractor to me, this old dude, which 93 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 1: is gross. And again this is like, maybe that's not 94 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:53,839 Speaker 1: what it was. But he didn't even know what the 95 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 1: flag meant. He had to look it up. He had 96 00:05:56,520 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 1: to look it up and then call another relative, who 97 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:04,919 Speaker 1: then called my mom. And so that reminded me of 98 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:07,480 Speaker 1: your story with your family, Samantha, where you were like, 99 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 1: do you even know when pride is? 100 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 2: Like he didn't even know what this flag was, right, 101 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:17,159 Speaker 2: He was just like I gotta look it up. Okay, no, 102 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 2: this has to be angry. 103 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, And it was so sad because, like I said, 104 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 1: it's it is it might for my friends, it's an 105 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 1: important place and for me it is who I'm also queer. 106 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 1: So it was just like an uncomfortable situation. And then 107 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: so I try to keep it a secret, which I 108 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 1: don't know if it is a good thing or the 109 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 1: bad thing, I don't know, but I tried to like 110 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:47,160 Speaker 1: preserve I can handle this. I can handle my family, 111 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 1: and I'm not going to put it on you. So 112 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:51,919 Speaker 1: I tried not to tell them anything. The next year, 113 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 1: we came and we put up a Star Wars flag 114 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 1: because we're that cool, and it was like Obi wan 115 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 1: Kenobi had come out like we were living our best 116 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 1: Star Wars life, and we got like a lot of 117 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 1: people came over and said, oh, basically the flag. I'm 118 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: glad it's a different flag than the other flag. Everyone 119 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: was cool with the Star Wars flag. 120 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 3: Wait, people actually came over to tell you that, to 121 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 3: tell you that they're glad it's not the other. 122 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 1: Flag one one person did, and then someone else came 123 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 1: over and like, I interpreted what she said as she 124 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 1: did not care because my uncle it was My uncle 125 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 1: also called the neighbors and asked and they were like, no, 126 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 1: we don't care. So that's how I interpreted it. But 127 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 1: now I'm not so sure. That's I don't know. But 128 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 1: people came up and so the truth had to come 129 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 1: out with my friends, where I was like, yes, they 130 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 1: were real mad about it. 131 00:07:57,880 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 2: I hate it. 132 00:07:58,520 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 3: So for a full year they didn't know. 133 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 1: Yes, your friends that know, yeah, because I didn't want 134 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 1: them to feel like how I was feeling after it. 135 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 3: And it also says they didn't listen to the show, 136 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 3: because I remember we talked about this immediately. 137 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 1: After I'll dare you. Yeah, yeah, well they do. Actually 138 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 1: one of them does listen to a lot of it, so. 139 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know. 140 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 1: But anyway, anyway, anyway, so I had kept it a secret, 141 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 1: and then when it came out, I wasn't a big deal. 142 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:33,959 Speaker 2: But then I was kind of caught between. 143 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 1: This desire to like, let's piss this old guy off 144 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 1: as much as we can let's hang up all the flags, 145 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 1: and my poor mom's caught in between. 146 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 2: So all of that. 147 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 1: This other day, my mom called me and it came 148 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 1: up and she said, they've requested you only fly the 149 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 1: American flag and no other flag, which I don't care, 150 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 1: Like honestly, I don't care, And I could like hang 151 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 1: up all of the flags alongside, like there's a lot 152 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:14,839 Speaker 1: of things I could do, but it was just kind 153 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 1: of like, oh my god, it's been two years, Like 154 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:24,120 Speaker 1: chill out, just just. 155 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 2: Just stop with this. 156 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 3: I feel like, like like hearing this from the beginning 157 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:33,440 Speaker 3: of the first incident to this, it shows the level 158 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 3: of media influence, especially conservative media influence, and where where 159 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:41,319 Speaker 3: they're getting their news and how they're dealing with it. 160 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 3: So their following suit to the conservative gas lighting of 161 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 3: the queer individuals in general, which wasn't not happening as 162 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 3: much five years ago. It started happening within the Trump administration, 163 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 3: and it got bigger and bigger and bigger, and then 164 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 3: went from trance to obviously all queer because we knew 165 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,079 Speaker 3: that was going to happen now doing all the things. 166 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 3: But yeah, it almost is like the perfect timeline of 167 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:06,080 Speaker 3: predictor of what's happening in your family. 168 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, it does feel like it's backtracking along with what 169 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:13,839 Speaker 1: we're seeing in the news because originally there's like three 170 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:17,560 Speaker 1: main family members involved in this, and originally it was 171 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:20,079 Speaker 1: like two to one on my side, with my mom 172 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 1: obviously being on my side. Now it's two to one 173 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 1: against me. Although I mean he didn't say anything specific, 174 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:30,559 Speaker 1: but I feel like that's a pretty clear, right message. 175 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 3: That's especially there's like we have to tell Annie, Yeah, 176 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:36,079 Speaker 3: that is more than pointed, that is obvious. 177 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, And it was just so infuriating because and 178 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 1: I'm sure a lot of listeners can relate to this. 179 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:46,680 Speaker 1: I know any listener who's been to a family gathering 180 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 1: where you don't agree politically can relate to this. But 181 00:10:49,480 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 1: it's so annoying because there is a part of me 182 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 1: that's like, no, I just do what I want, And 183 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 1: there's another part of me that's like, is that the 184 00:10:58,400 --> 00:10:59,199 Speaker 1: fight I want to have? 185 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 2: Is that the fight I want to pull my mom into, because. 186 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 1: I mean, one of them lives like right there, so 187 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 1: it would be I would be dealing with it, which 188 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 1: is not what I want on a vagation, right, Yeah, 189 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:20,319 Speaker 1: but it makes me feel like then I'm not standing 190 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:21,079 Speaker 1: up for stuff. 191 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 2: But at the same time, I'm like, we all have 192 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:25,839 Speaker 2: to choose these battles. 193 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 1: But that's why I'm like, maybe I'll compromise and I'll 194 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 1: hang a bunch of them about and not put it 195 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 1: on just like black right. 196 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:33,960 Speaker 2: Put it on. 197 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:37,200 Speaker 3: Get the little little like uh, decorations that go on tables, 198 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 3: you know, while people have flags on tables, Yeah, put 199 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 3: it all over your little posts. 200 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:47,200 Speaker 2: Ye have a little porch, just put it there. Yeah. 201 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 1: And it's also like it's just frustrated because you know, 202 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 1: I don't want to pull my friends into it. I 203 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 1: don't want them to get dragged into my family drama, 204 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:58,720 Speaker 1: even though I'm sure they have all dealt with it too. 205 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 2: So I don't know. I was just like reading this 206 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 2: news and then my mom. 207 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:06,200 Speaker 1: Said that, and I was like, jeez, it really has 208 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 1: become a lot a lot worse. 209 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 2: I do agree with you, but I'm gonna come up 210 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 2: with something. I don't know what I'm gonna do. 211 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:20,680 Speaker 3: I'm excited to hear what you come up with. 212 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I will. 213 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:25,320 Speaker 1: And it is it's like the fact that he didn't 214 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 1: even know what it was. That's oh my god. All right, Well, 215 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 1: I'll report back. 216 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 2: I'm sure, because we're going in July. Yes. 217 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: Well, it's also I'm really annoyed too because they were like, 218 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 1: that's what your grandfather would have wanted, only the American flag, 219 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: and it's like, okay, bring him into this. 220 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 3: Indicate what the American flag is today. It's almost more 221 00:12:52,679 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 3: fearful for me to see than anything else. It almost 222 00:12:57,679 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 3: translates into the opposite of what a pride fly would be. Right. 223 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 1: It does feel like the people who would proudly be 224 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 1: flying it, and I'm not saying you can't, but it 225 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:08,720 Speaker 1: feels like a lot of the people who are are 226 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 1: probably people I won't agree with a little lot of things, right, yeah, yeah, 227 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 1: which is a really unfortunate, unfortunate thing, but yeah, yeah, 228 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 1: So we'll see what happens. 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