1 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:17,319 Speaker 1: Good morning. It is La La ca. Yeah you heard 2 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:17,640 Speaker 1: that right? 3 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:19,280 Speaker 2: Was that? 4 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 1: I'm awoke as ship today. I have a McDonald's hash 5 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: brown in my mouth. I'm feeling myself. Well, let's say 6 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 1: her give them La La, give them La La tuk 7 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 1: with the wandle. 8 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:35,519 Speaker 3: Well, here's the thing. A lot of stuff going on 9 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 3: in the world. We have an election coming up, we 10 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 3: have Halloween coming up. It's exciting as. 11 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 1: Fun election Halloween COVID. 12 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 2: We got a trifecta. But here's the thing. Here's the thing, Timmy, Yeah, 13 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 2: do you know. 14 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:48,200 Speaker 3: What you're gonna be following? 15 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 4: I think I'm going as a member of the U 16 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 4: the Incredibles family, so fucked up. I don't choose the costumes, 17 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 4: but my kids choose whatever they want to do. 18 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 3: I know, I love that I do. Okay, that one 19 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 3: you want? Okay, see how I shut up? 20 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:06,040 Speaker 2: That one? You can't say? 21 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 3: Because I've had birthdays that Riley has la nose. I say, Riley, 22 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 3: what do you want the birthday? I want a unicorn 23 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 3: and I want Yeah. 24 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 1: Last year, Randall got Riley a unicorn that looked like 25 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 1: six nine the Rapper. I was like, what is this six' nine? 26 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 1: Donkey that you've rented as The. 27 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 4: Unicorn last year there was only one adult male sized 28 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 4: costume left and target for me it was like two 29 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 4: days Before halloween and it's a giant ere. Costume so 30 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:40,679 Speaker 4: IF i don't get The Mister incredible in, Time i'll 31 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 4: be going as e Or. 32 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 2: Lala what do you ward? 33 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 1: Me my house fell? 34 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 5: Down? 35 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 1: What Tim? Timbo? Lala? 36 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 3: Wow will you do The grnch for me one? Time 37 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 3: people have never heard you do The? Grinch and by the, 38 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 3: WAY i want to say one. 39 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 2: Thing for you do. 40 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 3: It i'm gonna film it because your fans always hit 41 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:57,760 Speaker 3: me like where's the picture of you? Going? 42 00:01:57,840 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 2: What AND i put the picture. 43 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 1: Up BUT i don't KNOW i saw it someone someone 44 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 1: posted it and then gave our podcast mad. Props they. Did, 45 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 1: yeah it was so. 46 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 3: SO i want people to see this video Because lala 47 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 3: and basically takes over. 48 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 2: This oh stop. 49 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 3: That laala is one of the Greatest grench actors on 50 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 3: the face Of is this. 51 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:20,360 Speaker 4: The original or is this like the you to Go. 52 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 3: Oh my, God Tim jim Car sometimes you got to 53 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 3: just take a Time you gotta take a time. 54 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 2: Out you gotta take a time. OUT i Guess i'll 55 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 2: know in a second you tell him to take a time. 56 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 1: Out tim, obviously the one With Jim, Harris, okay, sorry 57 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 1: if you like a, guy you're like the guy that's 58 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 1: LIKE i really want to Watch charlie in The Chocolate. 59 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: Factory the one With Jeane. Wilder it's, like, No Johnny, depp, 60 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 1: OBVIOUSLY i want to. 61 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 2: WATCH i want to, watch, Yeah Jean wilder. 62 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 1: One we're all, right both of, You. 63 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:58,359 Speaker 2: Okay, Lala i'm a video it so we can put 64 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 2: it on on the. Tomorrow want to. 65 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 3: Drops, okay, okay, okay, okay and hold on. 66 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: Shaving you do you THINK i was doing? 67 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 6: WRONGO i made a, notice sure and properly packaged my 68 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 6: Dear max forgot a. 69 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 2: Bow how good is you? 70 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 3: Are? 71 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 1: So thank? 72 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 2: You, okay because it's. 73 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 1: TIME i hope it's just. Good Like i've never seen it, 74 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 1: recorded so IF i see it and, Ship i'm never 75 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 1: just to watch. 76 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 2: It it's. 77 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 4: GREAT i love. 78 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 1: It, okay thank, You, okay thanks for doing, IT i, 79 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: questioned do you know what time it? 80 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 3: Is? 81 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 2: Guys it's time for the? 82 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 6: Surprise collar my god dandle random handle my. 83 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 1: Earphones my headphones are going. 84 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 2: To dig them. Off take the headphones. 85 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 1: Off, okay so so, Far i've done this four weeks 86 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: in a. Row two weeks in a row it's been 87 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 1: my mom and the other two have been randall'smith. 88 00:03:56,640 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 2: One oh that's, Right, okay And. Brittany this is thank You. 89 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 3: Stacy my producer just gave me props because all you 90 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 3: do is try to break me. 91 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 2: Down so this, guest you'll never get to. 92 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: Keep him under my son to keep him with, me. 93 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 2: Guest you'll never. 94 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 3: Guess i'm very excited that this particular guest agreed to 95 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 3: be the surprise. Guest and because It's, Halloween i'm calling 96 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 3: this guest and we're gonna Ask halloween. 97 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:27,600 Speaker 2: Questions, okay here we. Go here's your surprise. Guest it's 98 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 2: the great good. 99 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 1: Questions oh my, God, hello our surprise guest is who? 100 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 1: Ask who is? 101 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 7: It? 102 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:48,479 Speaker 1: Bobo we do a surprise guest AND i never know 103 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 1: who it. 104 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 2: Is that's the point of the. Surprise that makes. 105 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 1: Sense, Okay, bo we're. Coming we're coming to your house For. 106 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: Halloween what is what your is your costume with surprise 107 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:06,239 Speaker 1: or can you tell us what you're gonna? 108 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:07,920 Speaker 2: Be, yeah but we're talking about costumes. 109 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 3: Today, yeah go, Ahead, no you go, ahead Bo i 110 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 3: just know that you are like all in on The halloween. 111 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 3: Front so just share with us your costumes so THAT 112 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 3: i feel super basic WHEN i show up as A hollywood, producer. 113 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 7: You know, what like a real Good hollywood, producer like 114 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:29,279 Speaker 7: a has Been hollywood figure. 115 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:32,239 Speaker 1: Figure he's gonna dress up as one that like only 116 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:37,839 Speaker 1: Makes Bruce willis. Movies, Wow i'm about. 117 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 2: Wow you want to go there? Today i'm? 118 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 1: Sorry, okay bo tell me you know WHAT i. 119 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 2: HAVE i have no. Idea this is the First. Halloween, 120 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 2: WELL i feel LIKE. 121 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 7: I have a ba humbug With halloween Because nasci has 122 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 7: literally Bought halloween stuff SINCE i don't, know the beginning Of. September, 123 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 7: yeah SO i am so fucking Over halloween right. 124 00:05:57,640 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 2: Now and this used to. 125 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:01,480 Speaker 7: Be my favorite. Holiday But i've been staring at freaking 126 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 7: pumpkins and spiderwebs for over almost two months. 127 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 2: Now just Like i'm ready For. 128 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 7: Christmas i'm ready For christmas AND i give zero F 129 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 7: i'm just gonna Maybe i'll, just you, know put on 130 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 7: one of her. Dresses you know. 131 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 2: That freaking. 132 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 1: Day that's what you should. 133 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 3: Do so when you're when we walk in your, house 134 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 3: you're saying for almost two. Months, now you you've had 135 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 3: basically a haunted. 136 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 7: House it's a freaking haunted. House and now it's, like 137 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:32,719 Speaker 7: finally you can be a. Pumpkin so now we have 138 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 7: like rotting pumpkins that we carved four days ago all 139 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 7: around the. 140 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 2: House now we. 141 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 7: Have new pumpkins that like are ready to get. Carved i'm. 142 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: Dying they have all the we don't have one, pumpkin one. 143 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 1: Decoration it doesn't even look Like. 144 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:49,160 Speaker 2: Halloween it looks like it looks like summer. 145 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 7: Time, Sure i'm sure you guys can find like A 146 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 7: gucci gold pumpkin For La. 147 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 2: La come, on, good good point good point. 148 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:58,279 Speaker 1: Good BUT i actually like. That i'm actually taking the 149 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 1: can you tell me what? What stasy's going to be. 150 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 7: Something gross and, morbid something gross and, morbid and she's 151 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 7: going to be using her her belly as a. 152 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 2: Prop it's, just oh my, god it's going to be. 153 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 2: Epic it's gonna be. 154 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 7: Apic it's definitely Like i'm, like that's that's, okay, okay 155 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 7: that's that's your's that's what you're. 156 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 1: Doing oh my, Gosh and NOW i can't. Wait by the, 157 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 1: way very, Good i'm not A halloween, person So i'm 158 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 1: just showing up as. Myself i'm showing up as the 159 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 1: baby mama of a movie. Producer that's. 160 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 2: Fair, yeah all, right well that sounds. 161 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 7: Boring but IF i can find something to like at 162 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 7: least put something, On i'm going to do. IT i, 163 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 7: can't you, KNOW i have to have some type of 164 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 7: steam or some type of. Fun BUT i can't just 165 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 7: be Like stasi's. 166 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 2: Husband. 167 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 1: NO i FEEL i feel like it's only like ten 168 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 1: to ten in the morning and once the day goes, On, 169 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 1: Bo you're gonna get your mojo and be, Like i'm 170 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 1: super high first for. 171 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 2: Anything, oh you're super. 172 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 3: Creative SO i already know that you're going to act 173 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 3: like it's nothing and you're going to come in with 174 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 3: like the award winning. 175 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 2: Costume so, Yeah. 176 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 7: I'm gonna ask THAT i have A halloween trunk That 177 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 7: i'm gonna pull out of the. 178 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 2: Eye we'll just see what. 179 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 1: Happens, NOW i gotta step my game. 180 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 3: Up, okay last question for, You, bob BECAUSE i KNOW 181 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,839 Speaker 3: i disrupted your morning with the surprise guest. Question what 182 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:35,719 Speaker 3: hobby have you taken up IN covid that we should know? 183 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 3: About what new? 184 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 2: Hobby what new hobby That i've taken or what hobby 185 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 2: have you excelled at THROUGH covid language? Learning? 186 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 7: Really, Yeah i've been, like, WELL i Mean i've, already, 187 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:51,439 Speaker 7: like you, know Speak, italian but i haven't like practiced in. 188 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 2: A really long. 189 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 7: Time So i've been taking like two classes a week 190 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 7: online language. 191 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 2: Learning SO i feel like that's like the. 192 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 7: Thing and uh and And i've been playing guitar a lot. 193 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:03,440 Speaker 1: Lately, wait can you play us a song On? Halloween, 194 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:05,200 Speaker 1: Yes i'll learn a creepy song For. 195 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 7: Halloween, yeah that's. 196 00:09:06,360 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: Something that we can sing. 197 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 3: Too, no just just be, you, Bro i'll, Like, Yeah. 198 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 1: I'm, like could you play something that we could sing 199 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 1: too that's also, poppy but also like that we don't 200 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 1: have to have great. Voices was, like shut the fuck, up, 201 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:23,199 Speaker 1: PLEASE i. 202 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 7: Was gonna do like someone's watching me By, Rockwell, okay that's, 203 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:28,840 Speaker 7: fine and then someone can do The Michael jackson for Park, 204 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:29,839 Speaker 7: YES i. 205 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: Can't get that, High, okay we'll do. 206 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 3: It bo quick, question you were very. Kind you drove 207 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 3: all the way up To Santa barbara for our baby. 208 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 3: Reveal what did you think going into it and what 209 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 3: did you think when you saw the people jump out 210 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 3: of the. 211 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 2: Airplane and it was a. 212 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 3: Girl. 213 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:46,440 Speaker 2: Pink, shoot what did you? Do you know? WHAT i 214 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 2: went in there with full on selfish. 215 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 7: INTENTIONS i wanted you guys to have a, girl no 216 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 7: matter how. Bad La la wanted a boy BECAUSE i 217 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:58,400 Speaker 7: want my little girl to have a. Girlfriend, Yes AND 218 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:00,080 Speaker 7: i totally went. 219 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 2: In there AND i grabbed that pink. 220 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 7: Pencil everyone else had the. 221 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 8: Blue AND i was, like please be a, girl please 222 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 8: Be but then In lala's, Face. 223 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 2: I'm, like, oh totally you should get a. 224 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 8: Boy but then When lala turned, AROUND i was like, girl, girl, 225 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:20,199 Speaker 8: girl girt and then, boom, parachute AND i was, like. 226 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 2: Yeah by the, WAY i knew it was a. 227 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 3: GIRL i told. EVERYBODY i told, you, BO i, said 228 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 3: it's a girl for. Sure, NO i couldn't. 229 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 1: Picture having anything but a. Girl i'm like so. EXCITED 230 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 1: i get on And i'm, like, oh what's the most 231 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 1: like hooker baby OUTFIT i could? Bite let's. 232 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 7: You? 233 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 1: Know so she has like crop tops, Already she's gonna 234 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:45,319 Speaker 1: be so she big giant bow, turbans so, cute. Hilarious, 235 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:48,720 Speaker 1: bo thanks for thanks for being the surprise guest on 236 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 1: our Podcast We Love. 237 00:10:50,240 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 2: You Love You. Guys, hell how good was one that was. 238 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:03,120 Speaker 1: Awesome but CAN i tell you WHAT i realized during? 239 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 1: That you ate my fucking. Biscuit, dude you ate both McDonald's. 240 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:11,839 Speaker 1: Biscuits stare. Down can you have him go get? Another 241 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 1: that was. RUDE i can't even believe you did. THAT 242 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 1: i was so looking forward to it after the. 243 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 3: Podcast you know we're on the air right, now so 244 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:21,199 Speaker 3: you should just pretend that you see real. 245 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 1: Life oh this is a real life. 246 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:28,679 Speaker 2: Guys you, GUYS i ate her biscuit and now. 247 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 1: And on the break you want to go get me another? 248 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:31,839 Speaker 2: One you're fucking. 249 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 3: Dreaming, okay back to, Business SO i Have i'm excited about, 250 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 3: today And i'll tell you. 251 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 1: WHAT i won't be able to stop thinking about it 252 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 1: until he talks someone TO i. 253 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 4: Want McDonald's, too so i'll buy you a. 254 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:46,319 Speaker 1: BUSINESS i need a fucking. Biscuit can we fucking move? 255 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:46,480 Speaker 7: On? 256 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, Sorry, okay WHAT i want to say Is i'm 257 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 3: very excited about today's. 258 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:52,079 Speaker 2: Episode And i'll tell you why tell, me, baby you. 259 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 3: Invited somebody on this show that recently is sober and 260 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 3: is a fellow uh has a show on the same 261 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:01,440 Speaker 3: network as. You why don't you share? This BECAUSE i 262 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 3: know you're, super super fucking pumped up about, this And 263 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:07,200 Speaker 3: i'm excited to hear you guys talk about your. 264 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:12,160 Speaker 1: Journeys so today we have a housewife From Orange. COUNTY 265 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 1: i had the honor of sharing my sobriety story with. 266 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 1: Her in the most recent it was like this week 267 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 1: A glamour article about women On bravo who Are, sober 268 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:31,440 Speaker 1: which featured, Myself leah McSweeney from House sives Of New 269 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:37,320 Speaker 1: york and our guest, Today Bronwin Wyndham. Burke that's what's. 270 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 2: That let's, go, bro. 271 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 1: That's who we're gonna have. On i'm going to pick 272 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:43,200 Speaker 1: her brain, about you, know all good. 273 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:45,480 Speaker 3: Stuff so AND i THINK i Think i'm excited to 274 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 3: hear you guys talk about sobriety being on television in, 275 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 3: reality BECAUSE i know the, environment you, know has a 276 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 3: lot of, drinking a lot of, fun and that's probably 277 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:57,960 Speaker 3: got to, be you, know a very similar journey of 278 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:01,440 Speaker 3: both of you being sober on YOUR tv shows has 279 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 3: to be a new experience or a unique experience for 280 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:06,040 Speaker 3: each of. You AND i think it's interesting for fans to, 281 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:08,760 Speaker 3: hear even for, me what it was like to drink 282 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 3: through all those years on the show and then have 283 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:13,839 Speaker 3: to suddenly. Stop that's probably makes it even, harder you, 284 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:16,559 Speaker 3: know not that so sobriety is, hard, period but then 285 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 3: being an environment like that's so, new it's got to 286 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:20,680 Speaker 3: be really. 287 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:24,600 Speaker 1: Challenging so it was, challenging And i'm excited to hear 288 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 1: what it's like for her because you, know she's she 289 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:33,440 Speaker 1: hasn't been sober for you, know years on, end she's 290 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:36,840 Speaker 1: still pretty fresh in. It so filming A tv show 291 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 1: fresh in, sobriety, man that's a bad, ass. 292 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 3: Bitch, okay powerful episode because two powerful women talking about. 293 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:47,440 Speaker 2: Sobriety you introduce her and bring her. 294 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 1: On we're gonna cut to a, break you, guys because 295 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 1: that's how we do things. Here thank you for that, Though. 296 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 1: Randall we're going to cut to a, break and when 297 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:57,680 Speaker 1: we get, back we Have Miss brawnwin FROM Oc. 298 00:13:57,840 --> 00:14:06,640 Speaker 5: Housewives all, right we are back with give Them lalla 299 00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 5: And randall and we Have bronwyn from Oh sea house will. 300 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 6: Word, hey, Guys. 301 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,679 Speaker 3: BRONWIN i have to first of all, say first of, 302 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 3: ALL i am like the biggest Closet housewives Of Orange, 303 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 3: County SO i love that you are a rock star 304 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 3: on the, show AND i love that you And lala 305 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 3: have come out in this sober superstar. 306 00:14:32,640 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 2: Reality coolest, SHIT i, know cool ast. 307 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 6: Shit i'm, Right, like who would have thought it was 308 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 6: possible given the climate of our. 309 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 1: Shows it's truly. Insane and you, KNOW i want to 310 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 1: deep dive into all things fun about, sobriety but we'll 311 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 1: keep it light at the. Beginning so this is your second, Season, 312 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:55,640 Speaker 1: bron win or? 313 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 6: Third this is my second, season. 314 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:00,640 Speaker 1: Second, season AND i have to, know what is it 315 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 1: like filming a show with seven? Children time? 316 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 2: Out hold, On, bron when are you that? Busy you're 317 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 2: popping out seven? 318 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 6: KIDS i mean there's a big age gap between them, 319 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:15,000 Speaker 6: All so the oldest is twenty and the youngest is, 320 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:17,680 Speaker 6: Two so like you, know it WAS i kind of 321 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 6: like dribble them out over. TIME i have to be. 322 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 6: Honest you, Know i'm an alcoholic in all aspects of my. 323 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 6: LIFE i don't do anything in, Moderation like If i'm gonna 324 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 6: have one, BABY i might as well have. 325 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 1: Seven you, know totally. Right it's like we as alcoholics 326 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 1: don't have ass anything that we. Commute you, know did 327 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 1: you know from a young age that you wanted a 328 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:40,400 Speaker 1: big family or was it just kind of like you 329 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 1: woke up one day and you're, like all, RIGHT i 330 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 1: have seven. 331 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 6: KIDS i KNEW i wanted a big. FAMILY i actually 332 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 6: Told sean that on our first. DATE i was. Eighteen 333 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 6: keep in MIND i was eighteen twenty, two AND i was, 334 00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 6: LIKE i never want to. WORK i want to have 335 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 6: a lot of kids and we stay at home, Mom 336 00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 6: like that was ALL i, wanted you, Know oh my, 337 00:15:57,880 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 6: god just like law. Law ALTHOUGH i feel Like LAILE 338 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 6: i was working her ass off. LATELY i see all 339 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 6: her beauty. 340 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 2: Things no job, Joking, bron when she she can't. Sit. 341 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 1: No, No the problem is the REASON i can't have 342 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 1: a lot of kids is because my fiance is old as. 343 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 1: Shit it wouldn't work. 344 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 6: Out really, nice, really that's, yeah that's hard to find 345 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 6: them later at life. 346 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 3: When i'm Like chet's homrco a really fine wine AND 347 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 3: i age better every, Year. Bron WHEN i just want 348 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 3: to say one, thing AND i, said my fiance down 349 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:36,479 Speaker 3: to you for a little cooking, training like a little domestic. 350 00:16:36,560 --> 00:16:39,520 Speaker 3: Training could you just give her like two percent two 351 00:16:39,560 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 3: percent of your domestic. 352 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 6: ABILITY i can. DO i can send one of my 353 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 6: nannies because they actually do a lot of the. Cookie, yes. 354 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 1: That's my kind of well. 355 00:16:50,480 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 2: Said well, said that's not. 356 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 6: One of my foretes. EITHER i, mean my whole thing 357 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 6: with cooking is like IF i can eat it with a, 358 00:16:56,840 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 6: Fork i'll eat. IT i don't want to make a, 359 00:16:58,520 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 6: mess you, know totally when it comes to feeding. 360 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:04,919 Speaker 1: Myself so well, Said i'm the same. Way i'm Like, 361 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 1: randall if you wanted a, housewife you picked the wrong 362 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:12,159 Speaker 1: one because the cooking and cleaning just is not SOMETHING 363 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:13,320 Speaker 1: i want to do that badly. 364 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 2: Now AND i want to, SAY i want to say one. 365 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:16,639 Speaker 2: Thing so she bullshitted. 366 00:17:16,720 --> 00:17:19,199 Speaker 3: Me so we're renovating our house and she, goes if 367 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:21,920 Speaker 3: you build me a beautiful, KITCHEN i am going to 368 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:25,879 Speaker 3: cook for you every. DAY i built the. BURNERS i 369 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:28,400 Speaker 3: picked like the biggest, one like twelve or it looks 370 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 3: like burger king my. Stovetop and she's been in there one, 371 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:34,399 Speaker 3: time one time, Literally so it's all. 372 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 1: Bullshit, yeah, yeah. 373 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 6: Bullshit she played, You she played. 374 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 2: You play she Played. 375 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:45,520 Speaker 1: So you guys have HAD i believe one episode. Air, Correct, yes, 376 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 1: okay the first episode Of housewives OF oc has. Aired 377 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 1: you guys are on like season a. Million, REALLY i 378 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 1: think it's, fifteen, right, right, yes, okay my sobriety journey 379 00:17:56,880 --> 00:18:00,600 Speaker 1: was completely off camera as far as you. Know WHEN 380 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:04,439 Speaker 1: i REALIZED i was an alcoholic ron when the scene 381 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:08,680 Speaker 1: of you admitting, that LIKE i won't get emotional right, 382 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:12,679 Speaker 1: now even THOUGH i want, to was like the most beautiful, 383 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:16,480 Speaker 1: thing AND i feel like we all needed, that you, 384 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:19,480 Speaker 1: know as his. Alcoholics what was that moment like for? 385 00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:23,800 Speaker 6: You, sorry, NO i Actually i'm cheering up right, now 386 00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:26,640 Speaker 6: AND i get chilled every TIME i see, it because 387 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 6: like it was, intense you know WHAT i. MEAN i 388 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:34,640 Speaker 6: was fourteen days sober when we started feeling. Me WHEN 389 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:37,280 Speaker 6: i sat down and told my producer we were going 390 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 6: to do, THIS i THINK i was three or four days, 391 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:44,040 Speaker 6: sober AND i kind of committed to this without actually 392 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:47,480 Speaker 6: thinking it, through you. KNOW i was just, Like, okay 393 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:48,919 Speaker 6: we're gonna do. This we're just going to do it. 394 00:18:49,119 --> 00:18:52,880 Speaker 6: Right and you, know WHEN i filmed that confessional WHERE 395 00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:54,399 Speaker 6: i said, that it was still in the midst of, 396 00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:58,760 Speaker 6: quarantine So i'd been very. Isolated i've been by. Myself 397 00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 6: i'm not SURE i had found The zoom meetings. Yet 398 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:05,439 Speaker 6: but like for, me it was almost could start. It 399 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:09,000 Speaker 6: talking to my, producer it was like therapy or. Something 400 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:12,560 Speaker 6: so it was actually really beautiful to sit there with 401 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:16,239 Speaker 6: my producer and have that moment and just you, know 402 00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:19,280 Speaker 6: admitting it like, yeah for some, reason those words are 403 00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 6: so hard to say the first. Time they're so hard to. 404 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:25,760 Speaker 6: Say but there is a sense of relief, too you. 405 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:29,160 Speaker 1: Know you KNOW i say that to people often when 406 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 1: they asked, me, like what was that moment like for? 407 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 1: You and it's, like you, know it was absolutely, terrifying 408 00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:39,119 Speaker 1: but it felt, like you, know this dark tunnel THAT 409 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:41,240 Speaker 1: i had been living in for so many, YEARS i 410 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 1: finally saw light and it was almost like an elephant 411 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:47,879 Speaker 1: got off of my, Chest Like i'm taking control of 412 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:50,320 Speaker 1: my life AND i never have to live this way, 413 00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:51,960 Speaker 1: Again SO i can. 414 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:54,480 Speaker 6: Relate is it so nice to not have to live 415 00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:57,480 Speaker 6: like that? Anymore like that's The it's hard to explain, 416 00:19:57,520 --> 00:19:59,440 Speaker 6: it but it's so. Freeing it's so. 417 00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:03,880 Speaker 1: FREE i look back on my calendars THAT i would 418 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 1: keep and it was so funny because you would look 419 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:09,919 Speaker 1: at like days THAT i would have nothing to, do 420 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 1: and it was LIKE i planned my my days around my, 421 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 1: Hangover like IF i KNEW i was going to go 422 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:17,120 Speaker 1: out the night, before it was, like, WELL i clearly 423 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:20,199 Speaker 1: can't do anything tomorrow and the next day is going 424 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:23,160 Speaker 1: to be like full, recovery which is so insane because 425 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:24,879 Speaker 1: it was, like, well, Tomorrow i'm just going to drink all, 426 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:27,880 Speaker 1: Day so like there really is you KNOW i. Do, 427 00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 1: Yeah it's. 428 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:32,119 Speaker 6: FUNNY i was in my hotel room the other day 429 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 6: AND i was like cleaning my stuff, out pointing it 430 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 6: out Because i'm so used to WHEN i was. DRINKING 431 00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:39,639 Speaker 6: i would prepare so WHEN i came, back everything was 432 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:41,080 Speaker 6: where it was needed to. Be AND i had this 433 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:44,399 Speaker 6: moment of, wait WHEN i get back, TONIGHT i can do, 434 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 6: this LIKE i still go through the motions THAT i did. 435 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:51,479 Speaker 6: Before it's weird how much PREPARING i had to do 436 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:53,240 Speaker 6: to be drunk and. 437 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 1: HUNGOVER i, know it was like us alcoholics, are like we, 438 00:20:57,240 --> 00:21:02,720 Speaker 1: really LIKE i, said we commit you, know no lala. 439 00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 3: Lala bron lala WAS i mean it was a full 440 00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 3: time job for, you. 441 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:08,919 Speaker 2: BABE i MEAN i can laugh. Today it. 442 00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 3: WASN'T i definitely wasn't laughing living through. It BUT i 443 00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 3: am very proud of. Her and and like you, said 444 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 3: when you just said to me the day that you 445 00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:20,440 Speaker 3: said you're an, alcoholic those, words you, KNOW i can 446 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:22,880 Speaker 3: only relate BECAUSE i remember when you said, it, babe 447 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:24,399 Speaker 3: when you came in the office and you, Said i'm an. 448 00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:28,359 Speaker 1: Alcoholic, oh he gets em. TOO i definitely did some 449 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:32,160 Speaker 1: damage on the people around me that fucked. 450 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:36,080 Speaker 2: Up who Was i'm very proud of, you very, proud thank. 451 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 1: You Rand bronwin was your, husband the first person that 452 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 1: you went to say, Like i'm getting, help or how 453 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:46,160 Speaker 1: how did that day look for? You he. 454 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:48,639 Speaker 6: Was we were actually In. Miami we were at the W. 455 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:53,320 Speaker 3: Hotel oh, god right, there right, there that's an easy 456 00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:54,400 Speaker 3: way to quit right. 457 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:58,919 Speaker 6: There fuck, Man we're going back to. Filming and at that, 458 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:01,359 Speaker 6: Point i've been drinking the clock AND i hadn't, stopped 459 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:04,199 Speaker 6: AND i was hiding, alcohol AND i MEAN i was 460 00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 6: doing all the typical. Stuff AND i walked out of the, 461 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:08,920 Speaker 6: room probably at four in the. Morning AND i don't 462 00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:11,359 Speaker 6: think he had. REALIZED i, mean he must have known 463 00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:13,920 Speaker 6: on some level it was out of. Control other people 464 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:15,719 Speaker 6: were reaching out to, him BUT i. WALKED i just 465 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:17,720 Speaker 6: had this moment of, clarity AND i walked into his 466 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:20,720 Speaker 6: room BECAUSE i was sleeping on the couch or passed 467 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,200 Speaker 6: out on the, couch and, UH i, SAID i can't 468 00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 6: stop drinking AND i need to. STOP i need to. 469 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:28,879 Speaker 6: Stop and like he literally had to sit on me 470 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 6: because the withdrawal was so. Painful Oh, god like THAT 471 00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:37,600 Speaker 6: i de talked on my, own WHICH i don't recommend 472 00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:41,520 Speaker 6: to fenty, one but it was so physically. 473 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:44,159 Speaker 3: Painful did you start your detox right there at the 474 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:46,359 Speaker 3: w In, miami like from this four and a? 475 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:47,080 Speaker 2: BENDER i? 476 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:47,359 Speaker 6: Did? 477 00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:48,359 Speaker 1: WOW i? 478 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:51,679 Speaker 6: Did AND i detalked on the. Plane not. Pretty it 479 00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 6: was not a pretty. Thing and he, said AND i 480 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,360 Speaker 6: think ONCE i said it that one time he knew 481 00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 6: that he kind of had an. End so he, said 482 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:01,120 Speaker 6: if you'd take one more. Drink we had a ski 483 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:02,920 Speaker 6: trip with our. Children he, said if you take one more, 484 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,760 Speaker 6: drink you're not going on the ski. Trip you're going to. Rehab. 485 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:07,800 Speaker 1: WOW i just got. 486 00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 6: Chills, yeah and then you, know AND i haven't had 487 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:12,359 Speaker 6: a drink since. Then AND i mean that first twenty 488 00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 6: four hours it. Hurt WAS i was painting around the. 489 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 6: HOUSE i mean it was. 490 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 2: Painful oh, Yeah so your body it's not just your. 491 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 3: Mind your body is. SICK i, mean it's it's IT'S i, 492 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 3: MEAN i, mean that's a real. WITHDRAWAL i agree with 493 00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:30,160 Speaker 3: you that doing that on your own with no, medication 494 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:34,879 Speaker 3: no medical. Support that is high because my cousin's sober 495 00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,439 Speaker 3: and my dad is. Sober BUT i remember when my 496 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 3: cousin flew out Of miami with a jug of vodka 497 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,680 Speaker 3: on the plane because he was going to rehab and 498 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:44,399 Speaker 3: he just said he couldn't, stop you, know or he 499 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:46,879 Speaker 3: might have a heart. ATTACK i, mean that's how our 500 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:50,479 Speaker 3: stroke so so he had this jug of vodka literally 501 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:52,720 Speaker 3: walked into the. House i'll never forget that. Image and 502 00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:54,439 Speaker 3: then the morning my dad drove him to a medical. 503 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 3: Facility so THAT i commend. You that is a huge. 504 00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:00,200 Speaker 6: Feed, yeah AND i don't recommend. IT i think everyone 505 00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 6: should do it in a medical setting because there is 506 00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:05,080 Speaker 6: so much that can go. WRONG i always want to 507 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:06,800 Speaker 6: throw that out, there LIKE i did, that BUT i 508 00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:10,800 Speaker 6: don't recommend. It always, seeks you, know professional. HELP i 509 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 6: do want to say, Too AND i just want everyone 510 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,920 Speaker 6: that listens to you know. THAT i Messaged La law 511 00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 6: probably two or three days later and, said BECAUSE i 512 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:21,439 Speaker 6: knew she was, sober AND i found her On, INSTAGRAM i, 513 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:24,280 Speaker 6: said you, know hi And, bronwin how did you do? 514 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:25,159 Speaker 6: This CAN i do? 515 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:25,320 Speaker 3: This? 516 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:26,000 Speaker 2: Wow? 517 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:28,960 Speaker 6: You And lala was so Sweet she got right back to. 518 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:31,080 Speaker 6: Me she's, Like i'm proud of. You, yes you can do. 519 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,280 Speaker 6: It my cast has been, supportive and SO i JUST 520 00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:35,920 Speaker 6: i just want to throw that out there that WHEN 521 00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:39,159 Speaker 6: i reached out for, help you, know and, ADVICE i 522 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:41,720 Speaker 6: didn't know in the climate of the shows that we, 523 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:46,040 Speaker 6: film is it possible to stay sober on a reality 524 00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:48,159 Speaker 6: Show the does a lot to do with. Drinking and 525 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:49,879 Speaker 6: you were, like, absolutely. 526 00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:50,639 Speaker 2: That's an amazing. POINT I. 527 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:53,360 Speaker 3: I you, Know lawa has been on her show a long, 528 00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:57,160 Speaker 3: time AND i remember when you got, sober, babe exactly 529 00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:59,760 Speaker 3: what she just. Said you said to, Me AM i 530 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,679 Speaker 3: to be able to be on the show? Sober is 531 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:04,879 Speaker 3: my cat's going to be? Supportive AM i gonna get? 532 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:06,000 Speaker 3: Along AM i gonna be the? 533 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 2: Same? 534 00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:08,560 Speaker 3: Lalla AM i going to be a Different? Lalla AM 535 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:12,360 Speaker 3: i gonna even make? Sense you were really really confused 536 00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:15,359 Speaker 3: in the beginning of not about whether to be, sober 537 00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 3: but whether or not it makes sense anymore for, you 538 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 3: and you were. Nervous we talked about. 539 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:22,720 Speaker 1: That of, course it's a scary thing when when you 540 00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:27,120 Speaker 1: go into film and it's such a big part of the. 541 00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:30,639 Speaker 1: SHOW i don't think and that is not me labeling 542 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:35,640 Speaker 1: anybody as an. Alcoholic it's a self diagnosed. Thing but it's, 543 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,159 Speaker 1: like by the, way we're filming you at ten am, 544 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:41,280 Speaker 1: Tomorrow fuck, yeah we're gonna get it pop in most 545 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:45,719 Speaker 1: is a, brunch it's an all day, thing and what 546 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:50,399 Speaker 1: the people everything every scene of, course, obviously BUT. 547 00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:51,439 Speaker 2: I don't think audiences know. 548 00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:53,480 Speaker 3: THAT i think you should explain like they were always 549 00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 3: set up in bar settings or. 550 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:56,159 Speaker 2: Whatever it was just part of the. 551 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:59,440 Speaker 1: Sores And i'm, sorry but people with alcohol in them 552 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,920 Speaker 1: is a much more. Interesting you're, uninhibited you say crazy. 553 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:06,639 Speaker 1: Shit i've learned. THAT i oh. True without the, Alcohol 554 00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:11,720 Speaker 1: i'm still saying crazy. Shit but When bronwyn reached out to, 555 00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:15,480 Speaker 1: ME i, was you, know Because bronwhen and you you 556 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:19,160 Speaker 1: can relate to. This when you're watching a, Show you're, 557 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:23,280 Speaker 1: like they're just like me filming a. Show i'm, LIKE 558 00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 1: i get. It like everyone's, out they're having, fun they're, 559 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,720 Speaker 1: filming you, know and when cameras shut, down you go 560 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:32,600 Speaker 1: back to normal. LIFE i never knew how to go 561 00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:36,480 Speaker 1: back to normal, life BUT i watched the Show bronwhen 562 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:39,359 Speaker 1: and you know you're weaning. Party you, KNOW i just 563 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:42,479 Speaker 1: looked at you drunk as like, fuck, yeah it's weaning. 564 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 1: Party she's done, breastfeeding like, awesome you, know so when 565 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 1: you reached out to, me it was like, Wow like 566 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,360 Speaker 1: she suffered when the cameras went down just as much 567 00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:52,679 Speaker 1: AS i. 568 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 6: Did, yeah when the camera shut, DOWN i did, it 569 00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:58,520 Speaker 6: AND i will say. Too you, know there was a 570 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,920 Speaker 6: lot they don't. SHOW i think they try to protect. 571 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 6: Us maybe at least they try to protect, me because 572 00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 6: you don't see me passed out on a chair, later 573 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:10,359 Speaker 6: or they didn't air the third day In maryvall WHEN 574 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:13,200 Speaker 6: i was walking around literally with a bottle of tequila 575 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:16,360 Speaker 6: in my purse drink it, straight LIKE i almost picked 576 00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:18,480 Speaker 6: off an. Airplane my production had a bag to let me. 577 00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,080 Speaker 2: On lala, Too, lala and you have a lot in. 578 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:23,639 Speaker 2: Common you almost got kicked off, too going From. 579 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,320 Speaker 6: Vegas, YES i mean it's not, funny but it's like 580 00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:27,160 Speaker 6: we can. 581 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,679 Speaker 2: Laugh you guys could. Laugh you got now you're. Sober, 582 00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:31,399 Speaker 2: YEAH i have to. 583 00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:35,520 Speaker 6: Laugh and SO i think people might have thought maybe 584 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,960 Speaker 6: she has a. Problem but then also when everyone else 585 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,439 Speaker 6: is drinking, excessively it's easy to kind of blend. In 586 00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:44,160 Speaker 6: AND i was also really good at. LYING i had 587 00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:44,639 Speaker 6: a lie for. 588 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,399 Speaker 1: Everything oh, yeah and they're good. Lies, yeah and you 589 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,119 Speaker 1: like wonder how you came up with. It you're, like, 590 00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:50,920 Speaker 1: damn EVEN i believe that. 591 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 6: Shit, Yeah LIKE i totally BELIEVE i don't have a. 592 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 6: Problem you're, RIGHT i probably lied so well THAT i 593 00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:57,680 Speaker 6: didn't THINK i had a problem. Either that's the. 594 00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 1: Problem, No you're, LIKE i just like to drink and 595 00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 1: AND i can handle myself really well WHEN i. Drink 596 00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:06,879 Speaker 1: and you, know because the producers didn't catch you with 597 00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:09,800 Speaker 1: your hand in your, purse you, know with the. Bottle, 598 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 1: right our producers aren't so. Nice they want to catch 599 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 1: me doing that. Shit we're going to take a quick 600 00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:26,040 Speaker 1: break and then we will be back With. Bronwyn, hey, 601 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:30,360 Speaker 1: guys It's lala kent with my Fiance, randall and we 602 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:35,280 Speaker 1: have my sober sister and friend and also you, Know 603 00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:40,160 Speaker 1: bravo family Member. Bronwyn, hey Bab, By hey. 604 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,719 Speaker 6: THERE i love that you say that to Your bravo family, 605 00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:46,400 Speaker 6: member because it really has been so amazing to get 606 00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:49,040 Speaker 6: sober in this. Family there has been so much the 607 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:52,680 Speaker 6: court from everyone At, bravo like cast through. 608 00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 3: EVERYONE i agree with. You the one THING i noticed 609 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:58,640 Speaker 3: When laala get sober is that everybody At bravo and 610 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:02,840 Speaker 3: everybody at her production. Evolution you, know they really embraced, 611 00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:05,520 Speaker 3: You law and they were very. Supportive AND i got 612 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 3: to give credit BECAUSE i bet you not all studios 613 00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:12,479 Speaker 3: and networks are the, same but But bravo really really 614 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:15,400 Speaker 3: rallied Around lalla and gave her all the support she. 615 00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:19,160 Speaker 1: Needed Was, Yeah so when we my first year completed 616 00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:23,440 Speaker 1: of the show and being sober and bron, Win i'm 617 00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 1: sure you'll get. This i'm gonna spoil the, surprise but 618 00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:28,600 Speaker 1: you know how they send us those baskets of, like, 619 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:32,920 Speaker 1: yay congratulations on another. Season here some wine and. Chocolate 620 00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 1: they're like gift. Baskets mine came with like fruit and 621 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 1: nuts and like sparkling water and ME i was, like, 622 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:44,880 Speaker 1: wow they changed it this. Year AND i asked my 623 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:48,080 Speaker 1: cast members and they're, like, No, law it's because you don't. 624 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:50,960 Speaker 1: Drink i'm like they went through they like thought about 625 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:54,920 Speaker 1: that for. Me you, know it's a week it. 626 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,719 Speaker 6: IS i have a story. Too at my FIRST aa, 627 00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:00,239 Speaker 6: MEETING i had someone from the crew THAT i mean 628 00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 6: they didn't film, it but walked in with me and 629 00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 6: basically held my hand into. 630 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:06,080 Speaker 2: The wow damn. 631 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:10,760 Speaker 6: Wow that is something that you know THAT i really 632 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:14,160 Speaker 6: want to, share is someone's evolution held my. Hand it 633 00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 6: took me to my first meeting and sat in that 634 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:17,920 Speaker 6: chair for me for that a whole hour BECAUSE i 635 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:21,120 Speaker 6: was so you, know broken and. EMBARRASSED i couldn't hit 636 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,920 Speaker 6: that door on my. Own getting to my first meeting was, 637 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:28,480 Speaker 6: hard AND i had evolution behind. Me and IT'S i, 638 00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 6: mean LIKE i filled this cheer up because as crazy 639 00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 6: as as it, SOUNDS i don't know IF i would 640 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:35,440 Speaker 6: be sober if it wasn't for the. 641 00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:39,120 Speaker 1: Show do you feel like it acted as a mirror 642 00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 1: for you to see like your real life. Behavior it. 643 00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 6: Was And i've ALSO i was accountable right of a, 644 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:48,720 Speaker 6: SUDDEN i was, accountable and Because i've tried to get 645 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:51,080 Speaker 6: sober before AND i would make it like five, days 646 00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:53,840 Speaker 6: you know WHAT i. Mean it just NEVER i KNEW 647 00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:55,959 Speaker 6: i had a problem for a long, time BUT i 648 00:30:56,080 --> 00:31:00,200 Speaker 6: couldn't do, it and sort of having knowing THAT i 649 00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:02,760 Speaker 6: was doing this on, camera THAT i was gonna have 650 00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:06,240 Speaker 6: to be, accountable made such a. Difference those first three 651 00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:10,680 Speaker 6: Months i'm not gonna, lie were, horrible, horrible. Horrible those 652 00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:13,080 Speaker 6: first ninety days are just YOUR i was in. IT 653 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:18,239 Speaker 6: i was not in good. Shape but ONCE i got 654 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,480 Speaker 6: past those first ninety, DAYS i was, Like, wow this 655 00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:23,000 Speaker 6: is what this is what life's. About this is amazing 656 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:25,800 Speaker 6: and remembering that you can be. FUN i really THOUGHT 657 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:26,480 Speaker 6: i would never have fun. 658 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:31,240 Speaker 1: AGAIN i, know isn't that? Funny and you seem like 659 00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 1: the type of person where you don't need a drink 660 00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 1: to be, interesting like just talking to you right, now 661 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:38,920 Speaker 1: WHICH i don't know about. You, well ACTUALLY i do 662 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:42,280 Speaker 1: know about. You WHEN i would do podcasts not, SOBER 663 00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:46,320 Speaker 1: i Was i'm, like it's a, Podcast we're. Drinking we're doing, 664 00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:50,240 Speaker 1: This we're drinking like it was just like that's what we, do. 665 00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:53,600 Speaker 1: Right did your older, kids AND i Hope i'm not 666 00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 1: stepping over any, boundaries but did your older kids realize 667 00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:59,880 Speaker 1: that something was a little bit off with Their? 668 00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:03,440 Speaker 6: Absolutely so this is NOT i went to rehab ten years. Ago, 669 00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:06,400 Speaker 6: okay they my older kids have been through this. Before 670 00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:09,680 Speaker 6: they saw me get. Sober and THEN i had a 671 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,720 Speaker 6: bunch of, kids SO i didn't drink for like seven 672 00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 6: years BECAUSE i was having back to back. Babies, wow 673 00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 6: so they have been through this. Before they've they've seen 674 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,560 Speaker 6: me hit. Bottom we were living IN dc at the. 675 00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:23,080 Speaker 6: Time i've had a couple of bad, experiences but they've 676 00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:25,600 Speaker 6: they've been on this roller coaster with me since they were, 677 00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 6: little so they have seen. It it's actually my third time, 678 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:33,600 Speaker 6: trying once IN, dc once In miami, now so they 679 00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 6: they knew and they were GRATEFUL i was getting help 680 00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:39,920 Speaker 6: my little. KIDS i mentioned now THAT i go to 681 00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:42,720 Speaker 6: self help. Meetings i'm very open about it BECAUSE i 682 00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:44,360 Speaker 6: grew up in a house where we didn't talk about. 683 00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:46,520 Speaker 6: This it runs in my, family, right and it was like, 684 00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,440 Speaker 6: shushed like should talk about, that. Right SO i think 685 00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 6: the little, ones for age, appropriate know that mommy canter. 686 00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:56,520 Speaker 6: Galcohol you. Know the older ones, though oh, yeah they get. 687 00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:59,160 Speaker 6: IT i mean they have seen. It one of them 688 00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:01,120 Speaker 6: is scared to even try drinking because you know What 689 00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:02,680 Speaker 6: i've gone. Through she petrifies. 690 00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:04,480 Speaker 1: Her, Wow and we. 691 00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:06,320 Speaker 6: DO i will stay on the. Show we do have 692 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 6: interviews with my children and we do talk about this Same, 693 00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:13,320 Speaker 6: sean because alcoholism is a family. Disease it's not just. 694 00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:16,040 Speaker 6: Me you, Know sean goes through a self help meeting 695 00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:19,520 Speaker 6: now too to deal with his you, know his. Issues 696 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 6: it's definitely affected, everyone and everyone's in therapy to deal with. 697 00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:26,760 Speaker 6: This BECAUSE i, YEAH i definitely put my older kids 698 00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 6: through some really hellish. 699 00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:31,600 Speaker 3: Years you, KNOW i commend you because, honestly to owe 700 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:35,800 Speaker 3: that and be so aware, of you, know the effects 701 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,400 Speaker 3: that you know you're drinking is hot on. 702 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 2: People that's. 703 00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:41,920 Speaker 3: Amazing AND i commend you for stepping up and making 704 00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:45,200 Speaker 3: sure your family is you, know all insulated and has 705 00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:47,480 Speaker 3: the tools that they're going to need to to you, 706 00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:49,720 Speaker 3: know to move through. This because obviously you guys love 707 00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:53,200 Speaker 3: each other and, anyway very proud of the things you said, 708 00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:55,320 Speaker 3: here AND i give you a lot of, props AND i, think, 709 00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:57,960 Speaker 3: UH i think just being able to say that you're 710 00:33:57,960 --> 00:33:59,720 Speaker 3: an alcoholic, first it's. 711 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:02,800 Speaker 1: Not hard to the hardest. Step, actually it's stuff. 712 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,920 Speaker 6: All the HARDEST i do was want to say how 713 00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:06,600 Speaker 6: amazing it is o for you because you get to 714 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:08,759 Speaker 6: have a you, know a daughter and she gets to 715 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:11,640 Speaker 6: see sober, mom and like that is such the best. 716 00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:16,040 Speaker 6: Gift you, Know there's there's no crib or fancy stroller 717 00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 6: that is better than having a sober. Parent so that 718 00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:19,680 Speaker 6: is just so. 719 00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:23,640 Speaker 1: AMAZING i, really you, know there's been many times WHERE 720 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:28,400 Speaker 1: i have questioned if there is a god or a higher. 721 00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:33,279 Speaker 1: Power and two things happened two years. Ago that brought 722 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:37,440 Speaker 1: me to the conclusion that there is somebody looking out for. 723 00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:40,000 Speaker 1: Me and that was the fact THAT i was still 724 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:44,439 Speaker 1: breathing after my dad, died and the fact THAT i got. 725 00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:48,360 Speaker 1: Sober i'm, like there someone is looking out for. Me 726 00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:52,880 Speaker 1: and you, Know, BRONWIN i think even though you know 727 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:54,839 Speaker 1: there's a lot of healing that needs to be done 728 00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:56,560 Speaker 1: in your, family there was a lot of healing that 729 00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:58,920 Speaker 1: had to be done in my. Family that's just what 730 00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:03,399 Speaker 1: happens in families that have alcoholics and. Addicts you, know 731 00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:06,000 Speaker 1: you guys are gonna come out of this on. Top 732 00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 1: i'm sure you're already seeing like such a difference in 733 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:14,360 Speaker 1: your children and just like seeing their Mom and even 734 00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,200 Speaker 1: though you know you AND i are alcoholics and that's 735 00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:21,360 Speaker 1: our weakness and we are powerless over. That there's nothing 736 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:24,960 Speaker 1: stronger than someone who can get. Sober there's. 737 00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:29,160 Speaker 6: Not it's such a beautiful thing, Too and for anyone that's, 738 00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:32,280 Speaker 6: LISTENING i just want them to know life is, Better 739 00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:34,960 Speaker 6: life is. Fun you can still go out with your, 740 00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:38,480 Speaker 6: friends you can still travel like life actually gets so 741 00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:43,279 Speaker 6: much bigger and, better and there's no more. Limits you 742 00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:45,960 Speaker 6: don't there's no limits on what you can. Do it's. 743 00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:47,239 Speaker 1: Amazing aim in to. 744 00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,840 Speaker 3: That And i'll say one, Thing lalla encourages people that 745 00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:51,640 Speaker 3: do drink to drink as much as they. 746 00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 1: Can that's not. TRUE i encourage people who don't have 747 00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:58,799 Speaker 1: a problem to have a drink for me. 748 00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:00,799 Speaker 2: Saying a fun, way, yeah when we're. 749 00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:03,560 Speaker 3: Out when we're, Out lala will be, like you guys do, 750 00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 3: shots and Then lalla for a water shot and she'll 751 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:08,120 Speaker 3: hold it up and then she just thinks it's. Fun she's, 752 00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:10,520 Speaker 3: like let's do another, one and everybody's like falling off the. 753 00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:12,880 Speaker 1: Time i'm like jealous of. Normies i'm like they if 754 00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:15,200 Speaker 1: they're getting drunk because it's A friday night and then 755 00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:18,560 Speaker 1: they're like this is gonna Be they're like fun for the. 756 00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:20,400 Speaker 1: Months LIKE i WISH i could do. 757 00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:20,920 Speaker 7: THAT i. 758 00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:24,360 Speaker 6: Can't it's, like just Because i'm sober doesn't MEAN i 759 00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:27,319 Speaker 6: WANT i don't want to instigate. Trouble oh, yes, right, 760 00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:30,759 Speaker 6: YEAH i just want to remember WHAT i did. 761 00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:35,239 Speaker 1: EXACTLY i love. It and how how many days sober are, You? 762 00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:37,120 Speaker 6: Bronwyn it's nine months on the. 763 00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:40,200 Speaker 1: Thirtieth oh my, Gosh i'm so proud of. 764 00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:43,719 Speaker 3: You nine months is gigantic and Uh laala has her 765 00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:47,040 Speaker 3: two year birthday coming up this, Week, yeah this. 766 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:49,600 Speaker 6: Week you, KNOW i don't even think you realize how 767 00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:52,839 Speaker 6: many people you've touched with, this you, know because LIKE 768 00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,480 Speaker 6: i knew you were, sober and just watching you do 769 00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:57,359 Speaker 6: it made me, Think, okay THEN i can do. It 770 00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:01,680 Speaker 6: And i'm so happy that you're sharing this because even 771 00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:03,600 Speaker 6: people that aren't reaching, out And i'm sure you're like 772 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,200 Speaker 6: me right, now you get tons of people that, are 773 00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:08,120 Speaker 6: but for everyone that reaches, out there's probably a hundred that. 774 00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:10,600 Speaker 6: Don't it, says you, know If lala can do, IT 775 00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:12,160 Speaker 6: i can do, it and. 776 00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:14,279 Speaker 3: Well bron when she has tears in her eyes right, 777 00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,400 Speaker 3: now AND i just wanted TO. 778 00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,560 Speaker 6: I can say thank you because you helped me get, 779 00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:22,600 Speaker 6: sober and it's knowing that you did it gave me 780 00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:25,200 Speaker 6: the strength to keep going and to do, it BECAUSE 781 00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:28,759 Speaker 6: i just don't think we sometimes realize that we touch. 782 00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:30,319 Speaker 6: People AND i just want to say thank you to 783 00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:33,360 Speaker 6: you BECAUSE i knew that you were going through this 784 00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:35,359 Speaker 6: and it gave me the strength to, Think, okay she did, 785 00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:35,799 Speaker 6: it so CAN. 786 00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:40,160 Speaker 1: I i am extremely humbled by you saying, That, Bronwin 787 00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:43,760 Speaker 1: thank you very, much and thank you for sharing your 788 00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:49,279 Speaker 1: journey on national television for millions of. PEOPLE i, like 789 00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:53,040 Speaker 1: admire you so much and where you AND i are 790 00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:54,960 Speaker 1: going to keep in. Touch i'm going to catch you 791 00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:56,879 Speaker 1: on Some zoom. Meetings that's what's. 792 00:37:56,960 --> 00:38:00,200 Speaker 6: Up, Yes i'm, like you know, what will you send 793 00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:02,000 Speaker 6: me a? LINK i would love to go to one with, You. 794 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,160 Speaker 1: Ron WHEN i have A sunday. Meeting you'll die for 795 00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:05,279 Speaker 1: So i'll send you that. 796 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:08,120 Speaker 6: Link send me To zoom. WINKS i would love to 797 00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:08,640 Speaker 6: join you on. 798 00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:11,680 Speaker 1: THAT i got, YOU i got you, all and thank 799 00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:14,919 Speaker 1: you so much for joining us. Today go sleigh watch 800 00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:15,480 Speaker 1: what happens? 801 00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:17,880 Speaker 6: Live all, right we'll have. That thank you, Guys thank you. 802 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,680 Speaker 3: BYE i just got to tell, You, lala watching you get, 803 00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:24,320 Speaker 3: EMOTIONAL i can tell you THAT i am so proud 804 00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:26,560 Speaker 3: of you and the fact that you. DO i see 805 00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,120 Speaker 3: you reach out to people all the time when they 806 00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:29,760 Speaker 3: hit you up and Say i'm trying to get. SOBER 807 00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:32,600 Speaker 3: i just got. Sober you drop everything you're doing to 808 00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:35,320 Speaker 3: respond to people and look at the work how it's affecting. 809 00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,360 Speaker 3: PEOPLE i Just i'm very proud of. You it's a 810 00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:38,160 Speaker 3: very very. 811 00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:38,520 Speaker 2: Moving. 812 00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:41,640 Speaker 3: Well thank you to hear her to hear her journey 813 00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:43,400 Speaker 3: and what she's accomplished and HOW. 814 00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:45,840 Speaker 1: I MEAN i got TO i got to kind of 815 00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:50,279 Speaker 1: go through my. Journey let's See october novembery. SUMMER i, 816 00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:52,920 Speaker 1: MEAN i was seven months sober WHEN i started filming 817 00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:56,000 Speaker 1: Vander Pump. Rules so for, me it was like she 818 00:38:56,280 --> 00:39:00,520 Speaker 1: was in. It oh we're gonna see like it very 819 00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:02,359 Speaker 1: raw On housewives OF. 820 00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:05,400 Speaker 3: Oc and but that's great for people because now people 821 00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:08,800 Speaker 3: get to see that her struggles and her but now 822 00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:10,839 Speaker 3: she's come out of. It nine months, later she's still. 823 00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:12,840 Speaker 3: Sober so that's THAT'S i think that's going to be 824 00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:13,640 Speaker 3: really special to. 825 00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:16,680 Speaker 1: See oh my, GOSH i agree with, you AND i 826 00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:23,160 Speaker 1: turned two. Tomorrow it is my two, year two year variety. 827 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:29,400 Speaker 1: Birthday oh your. PARTY i am a proud member Of Alcoholics, 828 00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:34,920 Speaker 1: anonymous and a huge part of the program is offering. 829 00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:37,920 Speaker 1: Service so when you say you see, ME i feel 830 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:42,200 Speaker 1: LIKE i have to go through MY dms because there 831 00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:46,239 Speaker 1: are people in there that are like really struggling who 832 00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:49,719 Speaker 1: reach out to, me AND i just feel LIKE i 833 00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:53,319 Speaker 1: could be like that one tipping point that could make 834 00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:57,040 Speaker 1: them say LIKE i can do, this you. Know. Yeah, 835 00:39:57,239 --> 00:40:01,799 Speaker 1: Yeah so just really cool to if you're struggling with 836 00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:07,280 Speaker 1: addiction AND aa or anything like that terrifies. You giving 837 00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:10,799 Speaker 1: up your drink or your substance terrifies. YOU i get. 838 00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,799 Speaker 1: IT i just recommend getting The Big book On. Amazon 839 00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:16,399 Speaker 1: just start highlighting. Things you don't have to make any, 840 00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:19,600 Speaker 1: Decision just start highlighting things that resonate with you and 841 00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:21,960 Speaker 1: go from. There but just KNOW i have your. 842 00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:22,560 Speaker 2: Back go to. 843 00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:25,560 Speaker 1: Meeting, yeah and it's one day at a. Time. Baby 844 00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:27,920 Speaker 1: it was so funny because my SPONSOR i texted her 845 00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:30,600 Speaker 1: AND i was, like by the, way it's my second 846 00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:33,920 Speaker 1: birthday On, thursday and she was, like why don't you 847 00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:35,800 Speaker 1: take a? Cake AND i was, LIKE i don't count 848 00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:40,319 Speaker 1: days that haven't been completed. Sober she was, like next, 849 00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:40,920 Speaker 1: week we'll do. 850 00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,120 Speaker 3: It all, Right, well, listen this has been a really moving, 851 00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:46,000 Speaker 3: episode and, Honestly i'm very proud of, You, law And 852 00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:48,080 Speaker 3: i'm proud Of bronwin and all the people in the 853 00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:50,960 Speaker 3: world that live a sober life and made that decision 854 00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:52,920 Speaker 3: and all the people who are brave enough to do. 855 00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:54,320 Speaker 2: That so it's been a beautiful. 856 00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:55,239 Speaker 1: Episode bye you. 857 00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:55,560 Speaker 5: Guys