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Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Double Show.

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Speaker 1: Ian is on the phone today for to catch a

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Speaker 1: cheater and he thinks that his girlfriend of a year, Elena,

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Speaker 1: might be messing around already, so see if we can

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Speaker 1: help him out. Ian, thank you for your email and

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Speaker 1: agree to do this. What's up, man, why don't you

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Speaker 1: just tell us?

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Speaker 3: Why?

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Speaker 1: Ala? Why do you think Alana might be cheating on you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: No, for sure, Thanks for thanks for having me help

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Speaker 3: me out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So, you know, like, like you said, we've been together

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Speaker 3: about a year, and you know, at the other night,

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Speaker 3: I went over to her apartment and there were two

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Speaker 3: empty glasses sitting out on the counter. Uh, you know,

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Speaker 3: like like somebody else had been there and maybe just

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Speaker 3: she said it was her neighbor and that he had

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Speaker 3: he had come over and they'd had to drink and

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Speaker 3: hung out a little bit. And you know, it's cool

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Speaker 3: that she's friends with her neighbors and whatever generally, but

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Speaker 3: but this he's been coming over a lot lately, like

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Speaker 3: a lot of us. And you know, when I asked

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Speaker 3: he's just been dumb. Do you really need somebody to

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 3: And I don't know, it just it just feels it

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Speaker 3: you know, because I don't get what he would come

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Speaker 3: to her to talk and not go to like his

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Speaker 3: real friends.

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Speaker 4: You know, maybe he just wanted a female's ear, you

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Speaker 4: know how that gets Sometimes guys like want to talk

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Speaker 4: to a female because we understand females, you know, So

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Speaker 4: it could be one of those things.

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Speaker 3: You know, like like sometimes guys want to talk to

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Speaker 3: females because they're females.

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Speaker 1: You know that's true. I get that too. I get

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Speaker 1: that too. There's more things, definitely, and you're feeling like

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Speaker 1: it might be other thing, the other thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, you know it would like once or

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Speaker 3: twice totally, but like I've I've never.

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Speaker 5: Really hung out the dude I've with the dude I've

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Speaker 5: seen passing that you're not a bad looking dude. I

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Speaker 5: don't know, it just it's sorting to get so commonplace

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Speaker 5: that it feels like it's more than just wanting wanting

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, have you done the sniff test. What what is that?

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Speaker 4: This is when you go into the bedroom and you

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Speaker 4: sniff the pillows and the sheets, and I mean not

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Speaker 4: for nasty stuff, but like you can tell if there

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Speaker 4: if there's been a feminine presence.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, because there was a time in my life, Victoria,

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Speaker 4: in very unhealthy situations.

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Speaker 2: So the sniff test.

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Speaker 1: I've done that before, actually is a thing. It is. Yeah, Wow,

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Speaker 1: I don't smell that well, so I'm like, I think

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Speaker 1: I smell something, but I'm not sure. Also, if you

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Speaker 1: have to do it, you probably shouldn't be in the relationship.

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Speaker 1: That's another good point. So have you done it?

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Speaker 3: I didn't, No way, I guess I didn't even didn't

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: Have you asked her straight up if there's something going on?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, like like every time I brought it.

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Speaker 3: Up a couple of times, and and every time I

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Speaker 3: bring it up, she says, you know, sort of the

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Speaker 3: same thing, that he's just going through hard time and

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Speaker 3: she's just being friendly and that there's nothing to worry

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Speaker 2: But I just you know, I don't know. I just

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Speaker 4: Gut feelings are legit. But how she ever lied to

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Speaker 6: I mean, I don't know, you know, like she I

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Speaker 6: like I had a specific present in mind for my

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, what'd you give me? Would you

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Speaker 2: Was like, no, I didn't get to that.

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Speaker 3: I never would and lives like that. But nothing, nothing

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Speaker 3: major that I've caught her out in, you know.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, you told us about grocery store she

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Speaker 1: shops at, and so we'll do the usual. We'll call

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Speaker 1: and pretend to be from that grocery store and tell

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Speaker 1: her that every single month, we choose one Rewards card

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Speaker 1: member at random who gets free flowers delivered from our

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Speaker 1: beautiful new and improve floral apartment. We do delivering now.

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Speaker 1: It's super exciting, and we'll see if she believes that.

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Speaker 1: And if she does believe it, we'll see if she

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Speaker 1: sends them to you or to somebody else. Okay, all right, great, thanks,

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Speaker 1: we'll play us I'll come back and get your to

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Speaker 1: catch a cheater Right after this, it's time.

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Speaker 2: To Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 1: Ian is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater,

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Speaker 1: and he thinks that his girlfriend of a year, Elena,

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Speaker 3: Ian.

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Speaker 1: Before we do that, why don't you refresh everybody's memory though?

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Speaker 1: Why do you think your girlfriend might be cheating?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like her neighbor is there has been coming over

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Speaker 6: a lot lately, and they've just.

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Speaker 3: Been spending a lot of times, just two of them together,

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Speaker 3: and and every time I asked her about it, she

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Speaker 3: kind of blows me off, and I'm like, Oh, he's

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Speaker 3: just he's just a friend, and he went through a

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Speaker 2: It's no big deal.

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Speaker 6: And I just I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I just got this gut feeling that something's not right.

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Speaker 1: All right, cool, And so we're about to call her

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Speaker 1: from the grocery store that she's a Rewards card member

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Speaker 1: at and tell her that every single month, we choose

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Speaker 1: one Rewards Card member random who gets free flowers delivered

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Speaker 1: from our beautiful Reimagine Floral department, and we'll see if

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Speaker 1: she believes that, and if she does, we'll see if

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Speaker 1: Are you ready?

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Speaker 2: I'm ready?

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Speaker 1: All right, man, here we go.

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Speaker 2: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi, this is Joban calling from Is this our Rewards

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Speaker 1: Card member Alina?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Sweet, Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing call, Lena.

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Speaker 1: I'm just calling to let you know. Congratulations, you're this

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Speaker 1: month's big winner.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. What did that? Is there like a prize

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Speaker 2: or something?

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Speaker 1: Yes, there is a prize. Every single month, we choose

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Speaker 1: one Rewards Card member, one beautiful loyal customer like you,

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Speaker 1: to say thank you very much for shopping with us,

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Speaker 1: and you have just won thirty six long stem red roses,

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Speaker 1: a box of chocolates, and a card to be delivered

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Speaker 1: anywhere in the United States one hundred percent free.

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Speaker 2: Awesome. Do I have to do? I have to like

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Speaker 2: ship it or pick it up?

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Speaker 1: All you have to do? I just need I just

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Speaker 1: get the information from you. You get a confirmation that

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Speaker 1: it's free. You get a confirmation when it's been sent

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Speaker 1: that has been ordered, sent out and delivered. If you

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Speaker 1: know who you want to send them to. Right now,

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Speaker 1: I'm ready to get to take the information down. I

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Speaker 1: also set up a time to call you back, or

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Speaker 1: you can come down to the store, which most people

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Speaker 1: don't ever want to do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll send it to somebody.

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Speaker 1: Okay, perfect? And do you know who they are right now?

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Speaker 1: Is what you're saying.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll just Can I send it to their house?

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Speaker 1: Yes, you can. Let me get the so first, I

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Speaker 1: will need the first and last name of the person

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Speaker 1: who want to send them too. I got my form here.

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Speaker 7: M okay, oh okay, So it's Jack, you said, Jack?

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, and is there anything that you want to

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Speaker 7: Let's let's say, okay, let's get your mind off things

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Speaker 7: and go for a movie or something something like that.

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Speaker 1: Let me okay, so I'm just gonna read this back

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Speaker 1: to you. Okay, mm hmm. So this to Jack, And

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Speaker 1: then you wanted to say, let's get your mind off

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Speaker 1: things and go to a movie, even though I probably

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Speaker 1: shouldn't because my boyfriend's name is Ian and he's on

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just a tew you were going to a movie?

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Speaker 2: Wait?

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Speaker 2: Wait? What? What is what is going what is going

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Speaker 1: This is the Jebel Show. It's a radio show. We

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Speaker 1: do a segment call to catch a cheater. What if

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Speaker 1: you think your significant other might be cheating? We try

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Speaker 1: to see with us and flowers too. My name is Jubell. Hi,

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Speaker 1: I'm Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria. And your boyfriend and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what what is going on right now? What is.

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Speaker 7: I mean?

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Speaker 2: What? What? What are you doing? They kind of just

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Speaker 3: You guys can go to.

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Speaker 2: The movie together. What the hell are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: Right now? This is what you're doing right now? I

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Speaker 2: send it? My god, I don't even know what to

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Speaker 2: say right now?

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Speaker 3: This is.

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Speaker 2: What was wrong with that? If I send it? What

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Speaker 6: If?

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Speaker 7: If I send it, I don't understand what is wrong

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Speaker 7: with that? I send it to a person that needs

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Speaker 7: some help right now?

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Speaker 2: What is wrong? He's a friend of mine, So.

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Speaker 3: If I send it to just some random girl, you

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Speaker 7: Eden are you serious? Like we've gone through this so

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Speaker 7: many times, Like what is the problem? I told you

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Speaker 7: he's a friend of mine. He just went through a

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Speaker 7: for five years, Like, well, what are you doing?

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to get to the bottom of what's going

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Speaker 8: The There's nothing going on with the two of us.

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Speaker 8: I've said that so many times. He just needs to

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Speaker 8: be here. This is crazy, right, I mean crazy.

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Speaker 4: I mean I think that it's possible that she wants

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Speaker 4: to do something to make her neighbor feel good. But Elena,

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Speaker 4: as you hear Ian's concerns, don't you want to make

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Speaker 4: and your friendship with.

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Speaker 1: This Jack guy.

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Speaker 7: No, I've literally spoken to him about this so many

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Speaker 7: times and this is not the first time. So now

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Speaker 7: this is embarrassing because I told you that he's through

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Speaker 7: a really hard breakup. I agree that, Yeah, yeah, it's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what is going on? He needs people to talk to.

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Speaker 2: He came over.

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Speaker 7: I gave him some advice. He doesn't know if he

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Speaker 7: for five years. I'm helping him out.

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Speaker 5: Like, how many and how many times has he come

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Speaker 2: Who cares? He's a friend of mine. What do you

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Speaker 2: think is happening? We're just talking? What do you like?

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Speaker 2: Would you want a camera to put up? I don't

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Speaker 7: I reassured you like a few times, and now you're

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Speaker 2: Are you serious? But here's at your point.

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Speaker 3: Have you denied that anything's happening?

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Speaker 8: You're like, oh, a friend, No, nothing, I've denied it

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Speaker 8: many times.

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Speaker 2: I I'm any many many times?

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Speaker 7: Is it?

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Speaker 2: You know what? I can't I'm just goodbye?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 7: Ian?

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Speaker 1: She hung up. Yeah, doesn't sound honest to me.

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Speaker 3: Okay, great, So it's not just me like I'm I'm

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Speaker 2: It doesn't sound honest right right.

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Speaker 4: It sounds disrespectful more than anything else to me, because,

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Speaker 4: regardless of whatever is actually happening, if you care about

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Speaker 4: I don't know, come up with boundaries or whatever it

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Speaker 4: is if this is really bothering you.

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Speaker 1: But the defensiveness, yeah, so what do you What do

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Speaker 1: you think you're gonna do? Ian?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Uh, I'm gonna cool down a little bit. I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: give her some time to cool down, and I guess

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Speaker 3: I'm want to call her because like I.

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Speaker 4: Don't know, Ian, maybe don't maybe just take some space

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Speaker 4: and let her kind of just marinate in the fact

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Speaker 3: But is she anna marinate and that like she seemed

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Speaker 3: really defensive to the point like she doesn't see herself

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Speaker 4: So how does that help I in? So if she

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Speaker 4: doesn't come back, then I mean, that's kind of your answer.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Is that manipulative or is that going to get you

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Speaker 4: to the point?

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Speaker 2: God, I don't know. I mean, I guess, like we've only.

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Speaker 3: Been together a year, I guess, so long time. I

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Speaker 3: guess maybe I'll just just move I don't know. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 3: five years, right like this guy, right, I.

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Speaker 2: Can just let it go. Thanks, I mean, well, let

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Speaker 2: us know.

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Speaker 1: If you need anything else then.

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Speaker 3: No, yeah, absolutely, I mean I appreciate it, appreciate what

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Speaker 3: he goes doing us

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