Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.
Speaker 1: She couldn't. She cleaned and cared for her children and
Speaker 1: the man of the house, and of course she didn't
Speaker 1: talk back. She was both obedient and soft by nature.
Speaker 1: She was a good woman who always made good choices.
Speaker 2: That shit, we're good mom's bad choices. Who's single mom?
Speaker 3: Who said fuck the patriarchy shared all their bad choices.
Speaker 4: And sound out they were so bad.
Speaker 2: After all, we're experts, overshares and your new besties.
Speaker 4: Sit back and enjoy the ride.
Speaker 2: I can do it. Welcome back to good Mom's bad Choices.
Speaker 2: I'm Erica and I'm Nila.
Speaker 4: Happy motherfucking Wednesday.
Speaker 2: Happy Hemp Day, bitches. How are you feeling?
Speaker 4: I feel good. I feel like I have my hair
Speaker 4: slicked back, which I haven't done in a very long time.
Speaker 4: And I was like, oh, there's my face. Yeah, like
Speaker 4: I have a face. My hair is normally like covering
Speaker 4: my whole.
Speaker 2: Now I have a face.
Speaker 4: It's true because I've been like slicking IRI's hair back,
Speaker 4: and I was like, let me just let me see
Speaker 4: what's happening. And plus I my grays, so I was like,
Speaker 4: oh my god, I have a limited amount of time
Speaker 4: to capitalize on this middle part being totally dark. So
Speaker 4: I don't know. I feel like, look, I'm giving a
Speaker 4: shade moment today. If you're on YouTube, go check us out.
Speaker 4: How are you.
Speaker 3: I'm good, I'm feeling good. I yeah, I just shouted
Speaker 3: and get back in the swing of things. Oh yeah,
Speaker 3: we haven't really been. We haven't recorded in a couple
Speaker 3: of weeks because we were on the road. We're about
Speaker 3: to leave again. So yeah, it feels nice to be
Speaker 3: back in the studio and just chilling, trying to get
Speaker 3: my life together. I feel like adulthood is a constant,
Speaker 3: like pendulum of balance of routine and dinner, and you're
Speaker 3: on it, then you're not, and then I'm always always,
Speaker 3: It's always like a forty sixty for me. Sometimes I'm
Speaker 3: in the I'm in the thick of it, and I'm like,
Speaker 3: oh yeah, And then sometimes I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 3: my house is a mess. I need to make dinner
Speaker 3: again for the four hundredth day this week, and.
Speaker 4: Fuck yeah, I don't want to eat anymore. I'm so
Speaker 4: I wish I could just put one of those things
Speaker 4: in my throat, like those tubes, just this feeding tube,
Speaker 4: just feed me nutrition. I'm so fucking tired of figuring
Speaker 4: out what the fuck I'm eating next.
Speaker 5: I'm really over it.
Speaker 3: I am too. I don't want to I like food.
Speaker 3: I don't want to be fed by a tube. But
Speaker 3: I think going on retreats really spoils me because we
Speaker 3: get like three meals, delicious meals planned every day, breakfast, lunch,
Speaker 3: and dinner. Sometimes they even come back gaining ten extra pounds.
Speaker 3: I'm like, look at that ass.
Speaker 4: You know, did you gain ten pounds?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't really weigh myself in my head. I did
Speaker 3: because I was eating so much in Jamaica and like
Speaker 3: without even thinking about it, you know, And then here
Speaker 3: I'm like food, fucking.
Speaker 4: Shout out to our Jamaica tribe and all the ladies
Speaker 4: that joined us at our Jamaica four to twenty retreat.
Speaker 4: That was our first cannabis like focused retreat. And when
Speaker 4: I tell you, bitches can smoke men under the fucking table.
Speaker 4: Like I've never seen women consume so much cannabis in
Speaker 4: a five day period ever, so much so that I
Speaker 4: got at infection. Afterwards, I came back with a heavy
Speaker 4: coffee and I was like, why am I sick, and
Speaker 4: then Aaron like sent me an eye cloud and there
Speaker 4: were multiple photos of me in different outfits smoking three
Speaker 4: blunts at one time, like in my mouth, like like
Speaker 4: cheech and chong, and I was like, oh, that's why we.
Speaker 3: Weren't fucking around. I'm pretty sure, like we you smoke
Speaker 3: like two ounces of weed?
Speaker 4: It was no, we smoked four ounces of weed, not
Speaker 4: two ounces bade four.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we were really getting it in and it was great.
Speaker 3: I literally I was looking at pictures and I have
Speaker 3: a picture on like sleep but there's another picture.
Speaker 4: I'm like and shout out to Brushes and Buds Melissa
Speaker 4: from Brushes and Buds and Buds in Jamaica, because she
Speaker 4: not only hooked us up with a beautiful like what
Speaker 4: is it a paint and smoke or steam and paint
Speaker 4: situation where we learned how to smoke like the Rasta's
Speaker 4: out there callice out of the chalice and the steam,
Speaker 4: but she also blessed the group with a bunch of
Speaker 4: different types of edibles. So there was like crownies, cookies,
Speaker 4: then there were these teas and these bags of it.
Speaker 2: But frozen drinks, frozen drinks.
Speaker 4: And these bags and people just we're smoking, drinking the cannabis.
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, was everyone standing? The only thing
Speaker 4: we were missing was like some cream. We needed some
Speaker 4: cannabis cream.
Speaker 3: We always need to just bathe our bodies in it
Speaker 3: because we were pretty high.
Speaker 4: I led my first cannabis breath work workshop, which I
Speaker 4: feel like I got to take around the world. Now
Speaker 4: I feel like I feel like I've invented something that
Speaker 4: I now need to go on a world tour breath
Speaker 4: work cannabis workshop. So I'm pretty sure we are going
Speaker 4: to be doing this, like probably annually. I think the
Speaker 4: Cannabis for twenty retreat is a new staple of the
Speaker 4: Good Vibe retreat.
Speaker 3: I definitely want to go back, so I'm I'm sold.
Speaker 3: I had a really good time. I had a really
Speaker 3: good group of women with twenty women, and we just
Speaker 3: did a lot of adventure, a lot of smoking, and
Speaker 3: a lot of eating. And I am grateful because that
Speaker 3: food was bomb.
Speaker 4: And if this sounds like your vibe, we have another retreat.
Speaker 4: It's not a cannabis retreat, but we be smoking there too.
Speaker 4: We have two retreats in Costa Rica in July and August,
Speaker 4: So if you want to join us, come We're actually
Speaker 4: almost so hurry up and book it. Check out the
Speaker 4: Good Vibratory. Click the link in this episode description and
Speaker 4: put down your deposit, make payments, and join us because
Speaker 4: we will feed you, we will get you high, and
Speaker 4: we will heal you.
Speaker 3: Don't make any excuses and don't get left behind.
Speaker 2: Fomo's a bitch.
Speaker 3: You will see us on Instagram having the time of
Speaker 3: our lives in paradise.
Speaker 5: Amen.
Speaker 3: But today we have a very special guest, so I
Speaker 3: didn't want to wait any longer. Today we have joining
Speaker 3: us the expert, the expert.
Speaker 4: Intimacy expert millions of women around the world, Susan Bratton.
Speaker 5: Hello, beauties, Hello, happy to be here, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 5: I just adore you both so much. First of all,
Speaker 5: you look beautiful, like in your shad.
Speaker 2: Oh thank you.
Speaker 5: That is just when you walked in this morning, I
Speaker 5: was like, oh, she is so good.
Speaker 4: Yes, tell me more.
Speaker 5: Oh I will, I can, I can literally keep on going.
Speaker 5: And I didn't. I have never seen this little what do.
Speaker 4: You call it, I don't know, like a lip adornment,
Speaker 4: lip adornment. Shout out to what's her name in Costa Rica?
Speaker 2: Essence?
Speaker 5: I think essence.
Speaker 4: Yeah, this woman in Costa Rica. Again, if you join
Speaker 4: us in Costa Rica, you can get this lip adornment
Speaker 4: only she makes beautiful, beautiful jewelry.
Speaker 5: Like so pretty on you, thank you. Yeah, it's stunning,
Speaker 5: especially with your hair back like that and the shape
Speaker 5: of your face and then just that lip adornment. The
Speaker 5: symmetry is really appealing. It looks really pretty and very
Speaker 5: exotic and very like I don't know, like it definitely
Speaker 5: wants me to make out with it like that is
Speaker 5: the first thing I thought was, like, what would it
Speaker 5: be like?
Speaker 4: This is like this is this is a mature lip
Speaker 4: like a tongue ring. I don't want to get a
Speaker 4: tongue ring. This is like the next one and you
Speaker 4: can take it off.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think you can make out with it.
Speaker 5: I think you can, but it was the thing that
Speaker 5: out but my hip was, oh, that'd be an interesting
Speaker 5: thing to experience.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, and you can like swap it back
Speaker 4: and forth, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: I love it. Yeah, and me let's got her Bindian.
Speaker 5: She's got a pink beandion, so she's got her good
Speaker 5: mom's bad choices bindi on.
Speaker 3: I think that's what that is I like to wear
Speaker 3: the Bendi's open up. My third eye activates some chakras.
Speaker 2: I love it.
Speaker 5: That sounds great. Yeah, so I'm very happy to be here.
Speaker 5: I brought goodies. I brought so many goodies. And I
Speaker 5: can't wait to see what you want to talk about,
Speaker 5: because I do like to talk about lots of sexy stuff.
Speaker 4: Well, I have a question because I was looking on
Speaker 4: your website. Can you tell me what an orgasmonaut is? Yeah,
Speaker 4: I said you are a self proclaimed orgasmonaut and I
Speaker 4: was like, I like that term. Tell me more.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Well, and it's particularly good when I'm wearing like a
Speaker 5: silver Licras spacesuit.
Speaker 4: That would be great.
Speaker 5: That's my favorite, of course. Room that is all costumes
Speaker 5: in lingerie.
Speaker 4: Yea in my house.
Speaker 2: Language comes in lingerie to my house.
Speaker 5: Oh I'm so much bigger than you guys, your second
Speaker 5: lovely But yeah, so when I was first. So this
Speaker 5: is my second career. I've been In'smithy expert to millions.
Speaker 5: And I didn't start out with the millions. Oh we
Speaker 5: lost our book. I didn't start out with millions, but
Speaker 5: I worked my way up to it over the last
Speaker 5: two decades that I've been a sexpert, but it was
Speaker 5: my second career, and it was my second career because
Speaker 5: I fucked my husband for twelve years and never had
Speaker 5: an orgasm, No Jesus, and you know, I could have
Speaker 5: an orgasm with my vibrator, but I couldn't have an
Speaker 5: orgasm from intercourse. And I'm like, this is ruin, this
Speaker 5: is ruining my marriage. I mean like I was avoiding
Speaker 5: him for sex I was given in mercy sex. I
Speaker 5: was like, just do it from behind and get it
Speaker 5: over with kind of thing. And it was shitty. We
Speaker 5: were miserable. He was miserable. I was miserable. It wasn't good.
Speaker 5: So we were like, well, what are we going to
Speaker 5: do about it? Okay, well we'll read some books, we'll
Speaker 5: go to some workshops, we'll talk to some therapists. We'll
Speaker 5: see if we can figure this out. And that was
Speaker 5: really good for us to do, because, in all honesty,
Speaker 5: most women who don't have orgasm for intercourse think there's
Speaker 5: something wrong with them. Oh, I just can't, and then
Speaker 5: their husbands think, well, I guess she's broken. But I'm
Speaker 5: still going a fucker, right, I mean, And this is
Speaker 5: kind of what we where we were with that and
Speaker 5: I was just recently watching a very big podcast with
Speaker 5: a sexpert on it who was saying, you know, you
Speaker 5: don't have to have orgasms, you can just enjoy the closeness.
Speaker 5: I'm like, fuck that I'm allowed to say fuck right, Yeah.
Speaker 4: This is a space free space.
Speaker 5: Space is a filled space.
Speaker 3: Getting fucked over here saying fuck, we're getting fucked.
Speaker 5: So, you know, I just really hate it when sexperts
Speaker 5: who obviously aren't coming well are sexperts I hate about.
Speaker 5: Don't worry that you're not having an like forget. So
Speaker 5: I devoted my whole career, my second career, to orgasm
Speaker 5: experiences techniques. How do you come? How many ways can
Speaker 5: you come? What's the pathway? Because in the grand scheme
Speaker 5: of things, we have an operating system. Our body is
Speaker 5: an operating system. Humans Homo sapiens work the way homo
Speaker 5: sapiens work. If you want to elicit an orgasmic response,
Speaker 5: you do these things and it makes you come, And
Speaker 5: there's over twenty ways that you can come. But I
Speaker 5: didn't know all of this until I kind of started
Speaker 5: to try to solve my own problem, and I learned
Speaker 5: how to have orgasm from intercourse, and I was like, whoa,
Speaker 5: I need to teach the rest of the world how
Speaker 5: to do this?
Speaker 2: It changed your marriage.
Speaker 4: It was just like it was just like your own exploration,
Speaker 4: or did you have support of like someone else also
Speaker 4: guiding you through this experience.
Speaker 5: I had support of people guiding me through the experience.
Speaker 5: It may became my mentors, and I ultimately I went
Speaker 5: to workshops. But ultimately what happened was I took the
Speaker 5: work that they were teaching in workshops and turned it
Speaker 5: into online programs. Twenty years ago, when this was just
Speaker 5: so new and it was their work, I wanted to
Speaker 5: carry on their legacy. So one of the techniques that
Speaker 5: I've been teaching for two decades is a c literal
Speaker 5: stroking practice called expanded orgasm. There are regular orgasms, there
Speaker 5: are multiple orgasms. There are extended orgasms, ones where you're
Speaker 5: coming for a long time, and then there are expanded orgasms.
Speaker 5: And expanded orgasms are almost like a quantum gasm. They
Speaker 5: kind of they stack, they get longer, they get more intense,
Speaker 5: and they're the kind of orgasms where you can touch source,
Speaker 5: see God, feel you know, feel guy, I feel connection
Speaker 5: to all things. They are the ecstatic bliss orgasms. And
Speaker 5: so I learned that practice and I wanted to carry
Speaker 5: it on. And I remember when I was first learning
Speaker 5: the practice, I was coming. So I was like, how
Speaker 5: long could I come? You know, like can I come
Speaker 5: for an hour straight? You know, this is what you
Speaker 5: do when you learn how to come addicted.
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's keep got drug.
Speaker 5: What's the upper you know, what's the upper possibility? And
Speaker 5: I called Patty because I was coming so much at
Speaker 5: that time in my life where I was having like
Speaker 5: come hangovers and like it was really you know how
Speaker 5: you get fuck brain and you're like, it's going to
Speaker 5: take me a while to get back into reality. Yeah,
Speaker 5: And I called her one day and I was like,
Speaker 5: I am I feel like I am coming to the
Speaker 5: point where I'm out in the like I'm out in
Speaker 5: space and I'm on the edge of this cliff and
Speaker 5: I'm standing on the edge of this cliff and I
Speaker 5: feel I'm getting goosebumps right now thinking about it. I
Speaker 5: feel like I should step out, but I'm afraid. Will
Speaker 5: I come back? Doctor Patti, she was my mentor will
Speaker 5: I come back? She goes, step out, You'll come back.
Speaker 5: Might take you a while to recover, but you'll come back.
Speaker 5: And that's how I came into like being the orgasmaaut,
Speaker 5: because it was the stepping out into space, the abyss
Speaker 5: of pleasure, the abyss of ecstasy that is never ending,
Speaker 5: because when you you touch source, God, Gaia, whatever you
Speaker 5: want to call it, you suddenly realize how connected we
Speaker 5: all are. We are one thing, we are my cellium,
Speaker 5: we are connected, we are a web of life. And
Speaker 5: that was so cathartic for me. I had had a
Speaker 5: lot of sexual abuse, a lot of traumas, like we
Speaker 5: all do. You can't live in this shitty, fucked up
Speaker 5: culture without having those traumas. Even if no one's ever
Speaker 5: literally put their finger on you and abused you, it's
Speaker 5: still an abusive culture, especially for women. But it hurts
Speaker 5: our men too, it hurts us all. And so I
Speaker 5: that's how I became an orgasmaaut. And then I went
Speaker 5: on to be like, well, how many kind of clumbs
Speaker 5: are there? And like I took my I'm kind of
Speaker 5: like a sciencey nerd girl, and I just took my
Speaker 5: sciencey nerdiness and was like, let's see how many ways
Speaker 5: I could come, Let's keep, let's go. And That's what
Speaker 5: I've been doing. And then what I essentially do I
Speaker 5: like cooking, so I liked cook I could give you
Speaker 5: three or four my best easy recipes. If you need any,
Speaker 5: let me know, because I like to cook at home.
Speaker 5: And I wrote the recipes for coming, and that's what
Speaker 5: I've been doing. And I think if I look at
Speaker 5: twenty years of work, I've published forty four books in programs,
Speaker 5: thirty four of which are my own. My gravestone's going
Speaker 5: to say she had a lot to say. I just
Speaker 5: really like to teach people how to come really well.
Speaker 5: And of all of those, I've written about twenty different
Speaker 5: kinds of orgasms and exactly how to have them. I
Speaker 5: give it away for free. I don't even sell that stuff.
Speaker 5: But my crowning achievement is all my work in orgasmic intercourse,
Speaker 5: because that was my core sex wound. Was almost losing
Speaker 5: my marriage over the fact that I didn't want to
Speaker 5: have sex anymore because I wasn't coming. And I think
Speaker 5: there's so many women who are having very minimal orgasmic pleasure,
Speaker 5: if any, from intercourse. And I love intercourse so much
Speaker 5: that being able to come really well from it has
Speaker 5: been such a joy. And I've learned so many great
Speaker 5: techniques about orgasmic Intercourse. So for your listeners who are interested,
Speaker 5: I put them all for free at orgasmic intercourse dot com.
Speaker 5: Let's keep it simple and if you're not currently coming
Speaker 5: as well as you'd like to, and you like to
Speaker 5: fuck and you want to like to fuck even more,
Speaker 5: that's a good place to start. So that's where the
Speaker 5: orgasma nat was born.
Speaker 4: I love that.
Speaker 2: I love that.
Speaker 5: Exactly. Always feel like putting a flag on the mid
Speaker 5: a flag on a pussy.
Speaker 4: I was like, the way you're glanted the flag has
Speaker 4: a pussy exactly.
Speaker 5: Exactly.
Speaker 4: You mentioned like you mentioned that you have like these
Speaker 4: step by steps and obviously we know that every woman
Speaker 4: is different, but so I'm just wondering, like, with that,
Speaker 4: is there also a piece that because you said you
Speaker 4: experienced so actual trauma and all these are things because
Speaker 4: I think a lot of times and not I think,
Speaker 4: I know that many times for women it's a lot
Speaker 4: of what's happened to their body, that there's things that
Speaker 4: are trapped that they can't move through also mentally, So
Speaker 4: like is that a piece that you start with or
Speaker 4: do you go straight from the boty? Do you start
Speaker 4: with the body or do you start with like the
Speaker 4: mind and the like energetic body.
Speaker 5: I think what I like to do is I like
Speaker 5: to explain to people. And this is men too. Men
Speaker 5: can have twenty kinds of orgasms. Like they're kind of
Speaker 5: lagging in the orgasma orgasma sphere. They're like, well, I
Speaker 5: know I could have a peace bot orgasm, but I'm
Speaker 5: not sure I want to touch my butt, you know,
Speaker 5: Like that's kind of where they are. Most of them.
Speaker 5: Older guys are much more interested in prostate orgasms, so
Speaker 5: they know they care about their prostate health. And so
Speaker 5: all bodies we are bodies can come really well. And
Speaker 5: there are three kinds of orgasms. There are locations to touch,
Speaker 5: Like I can touch my clit and make myself come.
Speaker 5: I can have intercourse and make myself come. I can
Speaker 5: have an analgasm. I can have a nipplegasm. I can
Speaker 5: have a throat gasm, all of.
Speaker 2: Those kinds of throat gasm.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's one of my favorite. We can get into
Speaker 5: that later. And then the second thing is techniques, like
Speaker 5: an expanded orgasm practice. It's a very specific five clitteral strokes.
Speaker 5: It's five clitteral strokes that elicit the exact response of
Speaker 5: this expanded long calm that you get and then you
Speaker 5: can stack them and they get even better. Or like
Speaker 5: female ejaculation, I consider that, yes, you can have, you know,
Speaker 5: a feat, you can have release your feminine waters, But
Speaker 5: how do you do that in a way that is
Speaker 5: cathartic healing, opening releasing to release your amrita, your divine nectar.
Speaker 5: There are ways to do that that I think are
Speaker 5: really important, not just what we see on porn, which
Speaker 5: is just like put the hammer down on our g
Speaker 5: spot and like, you know, wear your arm out and
Speaker 5: she'll eventually shoot out some fluid. Like that's not the
Speaker 5: right way from my perspective to approach female ejaculation. And
Speaker 5: then there are objects of desire, which I've brought some
Speaker 5: for you today, because when you think about objects of desire,
Speaker 5: it could be you get turned on, getting spanked. You
Speaker 5: could it could be leather, it could be lingerie, It
Speaker 5: could be sex toys, it could be you know, some
Speaker 5: sexy candle wax dripping on you. It could be you know,
Speaker 5: sensation play, whatever. And so that's its whole category on
Speaker 5: its own that creates orgasmic experiences. But that's one thing,
Speaker 5: like the techniques themselves and all bodies work the same.
Speaker 5: But here's what gets in the way. And this is
Speaker 5: the answer to your question, and that is that if
Speaker 5: you touch any given woman on any place in her
Speaker 5: body and ask her, like, if I touch your mom's
Speaker 5: or your clitteral hood or the tip of your clitterists
Speaker 5: or the entrance your vagina, your introudal sphincter, there's my
Speaker 5: sciencey girl nerd shit. You might be like, oh, I
Speaker 5: love it when you touch the entrance to my vagina.
Speaker 5: And you might be like, I don't love that. It
Speaker 5: feels painful or shameful or numb, and so orgasmic activation
Speaker 5: is understanding that anything that you currently feel is pain, shame,
Speaker 5: or numbness can be transformed through loving touch and heart
Speaker 5: connection into pleasure. And that's how you can activate. You
Speaker 5: can bring online all of the neural pathways from your genitals,
Speaker 5: your breasts, your lips, your ass, your belly, like porgasms, footgasms.
Speaker 5: You can come in so many ways. When you establish
Speaker 5: the mind body connection, our brain being our biggest sex
Speaker 5: organ you know, you've got to get the neural pathways
Speaker 5: established and sometimes re established after traumas like g spot
Speaker 5: active for healing the enteric nervous system from shame and
Speaker 5: abuse and all of those kinds of things. So I
Speaker 5: think when when people hear about orgasmic activation, they're like, oh, okay,
Speaker 5: so you mean I'm not like, I'm not born this way.
Speaker 5: It's not that I can't have a particular kind of orgasm,
Speaker 5: it's just that I haven't yet. Then you open up
Speaker 5: all the opportunity for orgasmic cross training. So it kind
Speaker 5: of is like, Oh, tell me more about that. And
Speaker 5: that's where I recommend using a lot of different types
Speaker 5: of tools. And I brought some to show you anytime
Speaker 5: you want to activate that tissue, because fingers are great,
Speaker 5: tongues are great, penises are great, but so are these
Speaker 5: pleasure tools. Show me the tools about the back. Okay,
Speaker 5: So I brought a few things. The first first thing
Speaker 5: that I brought was one of the things I do
Speaker 5: every year is I do something called my Sex Top
Speaker 5: Sex Trends, and my top sex trend of twenty twenty five,
Speaker 5: which is the year we are in right now, was
Speaker 5: Yoni massage. Women want Yoni massage. Men are like, I
Speaker 5: need to know all about Yoni massage. My lady wants
Speaker 5: Meoni massage, and what do I do? And I really
Speaker 5: like teaching people a lot of different ideas about how
Speaker 5: to approach the yoni, but also I like to give
Speaker 5: them tools to use. And this is one.
Speaker 2: That I love.
Speaker 5: It's called the Queen. And what I like about it
Speaker 5: is that it uses this technology called pulse plate technology
Speaker 5: like this, and it has two motors. It has a
Speaker 5: trouble and a base in this pulse plate. And what
Speaker 5: I love about it is that it goes deeper than
Speaker 5: the skin it and you guys are going to put
Speaker 5: links to everything, right, okay, good, So anything that I
Speaker 5: talk about, you'll have a link on your Yeah it's nice.
Speaker 5: On nipples too, you'll have a link below your videos,
Speaker 5: right yeah, okay cool. So I won't worry about exactly
Speaker 5: where all these things are, who they are. Just remember,
Speaker 5: if you want the Queen for yoni massage, you'll know
Speaker 5: it's the Queen.
Speaker 4: Little asmar for hear that it's going to be your on.
Speaker 5: What is this called the Queen? The Queen?
Speaker 4: This is your quick This is your clip on the Queen.
Speaker 5: This is your quick.
Speaker 2: Quit you'll quit.
Speaker 5: And I like that because it activates all that tissue
Speaker 5: and it penetrates the skin and into the erectile tissue
Speaker 5: of the pussy, and then blood flow runs in, and
Speaker 5: then it expands your pussy lips, and then it expands
Speaker 5: all of the erectile tissue inside your yoni, and then
Speaker 5: there's more surface area. So everything starts to feel better
Speaker 5: because you're getting way more signals to your brain because
Speaker 5: you're all plumped up. You know how, when you have
Speaker 5: sex for like the whole weekend, your pussy feels so
Speaker 5: good on day two or three, like better that it
Speaker 5: did on day one. This is like day three pussy
Speaker 5: essentially what it is. It's just it really like plumps
Speaker 5: it all up.
Speaker 4: So I like that.
Speaker 5: And then another thing that I really like is this
Speaker 5: This is called the Curve. And one of the reasons
Speaker 5: that I like this brand as well is that it's
Speaker 5: darker colors. And I feel that if I were a
Speaker 5: black woman with a nice, beautiful, dark skinned vulva, I
Speaker 5: wouldn't want a light pink toy as my only choice.
Speaker 5: I would want something that's more like matching my vulva.
Speaker 5: And so one of the things I like about this
Speaker 5: particular brand that I'm bringing to you is that it's
Speaker 5: not all super bright pink colors.
Speaker 4: I hate bright pink vibrators, don't, I mean, And I
Speaker 4: don't know if my vulva is like I mean, I
Speaker 4: guess it's darker than my natural skin color.
Speaker 5: But yeah, and it gets darker as it gets more.
Speaker 4: But I don't think it looks stupid. I have used
Speaker 4: me one yesterday and it was like this light pink one.
Speaker 4: It actually sucked. I realized I lost my wand I
Speaker 4: don't know where the fuck it went. My housekeeper, I'm
Speaker 4: pretty sure, took it out of my suitcase and placed
Speaker 4: it somewhere.
Speaker 2: She just washed it.
Speaker 4: She doesn't know what it is, I think, because no,
Speaker 4: because there's been times where she's put it in my
Speaker 4: like hair drawer, like where my like my hair products go.
Speaker 4: Then she's put it where my skin good stuff goes.
Speaker 4: I don't know where it's at. Maybe she finally figured
Speaker 4: it out and got grossed down and threw it away.
Speaker 4: I don't fucking know. But I was looking for it
Speaker 4: for like an hour yesterday because I was in desperate
Speaker 4: need of an orgasm, and so then I found this
Speaker 4: like lone random vibrator. I have a bag of vibrators
Speaker 4: are all dead, So I was pissed, and can't find
Speaker 4: any chargers.
Speaker 2: And I like, bring back the battery.
Speaker 4: Then I found one. It was the Satisfire some shit,
Speaker 4: and it was the one like the section remember those
Speaker 4: one that was like it's called air stimulat, Yeah, the
Speaker 4: air simulator. And it was like it had it wore.
Speaker 4: I was like, and I was like, I don't know
Speaker 4: how long it's gonna work. I had fast and it did,
Speaker 4: it died and the it died, I was like, I
Speaker 4: already came, but I was like, I wan't.
Speaker 5: To do it again.
Speaker 4: And then I did it again and it died in
Speaker 4: the middle, and I was like it was going. I
Speaker 4: was like, I guess that's all I get today.
Speaker 5: But well, the good news is I brought you some vibrators.
Speaker 5: You get to do. This is this is SUSY's Sexy show.
Speaker 4: And this is right on time. Literally, I was thinking.
Speaker 4: I was like, we're going to get you on line
Speaker 4: and buy a vibrator.
Speaker 5: Don't do it because most of the stuff that you
Speaker 5: can buy is garbage. As you've noticed, it's crappy. And
Speaker 5: so I mean the I've had my curve for so
Speaker 5: many years and I saw the same one and I
Speaker 5: use oils it doesn't bother you.
Speaker 3: You you use that inside of your is it topical?
Speaker 5: So I I love this because it's both. And by
Speaker 5: the way, I have not used these. There are my demos.
Speaker 5: I'm not leaving these with you. These everybody touches these things.
Speaker 2: You do not.
Speaker 5: But it's funny. My girlfriend I was talking to this
Speaker 5: morning and I had to borrow something to bring here
Speaker 5: to show you that I forgot, and she she's like, uh, you, well,
Speaker 5: you know it's no problem. I mean you've literally given
Speaker 5: me toys that you've already used, and I'm like, I
Speaker 5: have it's just pussy juice among friends and water. But anyway,
Speaker 5: so what I like about the curve is this is
Speaker 5: a G spot wand wand but it feels fantastic on
Speaker 5: your clip, in your introidal sphincter, on your in your vestibule,
Speaker 5: and in your G spot and also just shoving it
Speaker 5: all up in there, which I love too. And this
Speaker 5: has base and trouble. So you can get the rumbley
Speaker 5: vibe and you can get the buzzy vibe, and you
Speaker 5: can get your perfect mixture. And Pussy's different every day.
Speaker 5: She wants something different every day, so I just give
Speaker 5: her whatever she wants.
Speaker 4: Oh, this is the hot octopus.
Speaker 5: Yes, And what I love about it is that I
Speaker 5: like to go down on my partner and give them
Speaker 5: a blowjob while I I know.
Speaker 4: Hello, Hello, is that you? Is that pussy? Is that you?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 4: Hear me? Are you ready?
Speaker 5: Or I'm always talking to you?
Speaker 4: I know It's been a while, but I'm still here.
Speaker 2: I'm still like, bitch, where have you been? Yeah?
Speaker 5: So I love that one because I love to have
Speaker 5: internal stimulation while I'm going down on my guy, because
Speaker 5: I have throat gasms from the stimulation of his cock
Speaker 5: in my throat, but I also have orgasms from my.
Speaker 4: Yoni, so your throat is orgasming. Yeah, And so what
Speaker 4: is I don't know if I mean, I love I
Speaker 4: love the second dick, So I don't know, Like, what
Speaker 4: does it throat gas? Maybe I've had one? What does
Speaker 4: it feel like?
Speaker 5: What does you'd know if you had it? A lot
Speaker 5: of women they're like, oh, I have a gag reflex.
Speaker 5: I don't you know, Like I don't really like that.
Speaker 5: I do not, But your gag reflex is really just
Speaker 5: the beginning of the orgasmic contraction, and if you relax,
Speaker 5: you start to have contractions in your throat and your
Speaker 5: spit changes over time. Like first it starts out almost
Speaker 5: like prec really clear and slippery, and then ultimately it
Speaker 5: gets very like white and foamy, and then you have
Speaker 5: these contractions and your pussy contracts and your throat contracts
Speaker 5: at the same time. It's like two ends of the
Speaker 5: same tube basically. And you can even ejaculate while you're
Speaker 5: having a throat gasm, Like you can really get extremely
Speaker 5: massively orgasmic through your whole body from it.
Speaker 3: And I know the throat and the pussy like are connected,
Speaker 3: but I didn't. I didn't even think about having a
Speaker 3: throat gas at the time. I mean, like yeah, like
Speaker 3: I know, like when when I choke, then it makes
Speaker 3: my pussy like exactly right.
Speaker 5: If you kind of move through the choke and into
Speaker 5: like sliding the head of his penis right at the
Speaker 5: top of your throat, you'll start and you relax, and
Speaker 5: you just feel your way into it. You'll start to
Speaker 5: have orgasms, mouf gasms, throat gasms.
Speaker 3: I do like to use it like a like a vibrator.
Speaker 3: I'm giving head need too, but sometimes I won't stay.
Speaker 3: You gotta like jest, you know, Oh, I've.
Speaker 5: Got something to show you for that too, But before
Speaker 5: I do, I have another vibrator that I love. This
Speaker 5: is called the Atom and I like that it's black,
Speaker 5: which is nice. And this is good for and I'm
Speaker 5: a little bit of a size queen. I have to
Speaker 5: admit that, you guys, this is like a cockering. It's
Speaker 5: a it's a double vibrating cockering. And one of the
Speaker 5: things I like about this is not for a diminutive penis.
Speaker 5: This is not but you stick your dick on your
Speaker 5: balls through there.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, I was gonna say, because this is.
Speaker 5: Right, you stick your dick down your b birthy there.
Speaker 5: It is girthy and it's really nice because it has
Speaker 5: a peraneal vibrator for him, so he gets a vibration
Speaker 5: under his ball.
Speaker 4: Go down here.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll flip it around.
Speaker 4: So this is the bottom. And then this is for you.
Speaker 5: No, it's the opposite. Let me show you. It's his
Speaker 5: dick and balls are shooting out of here. This is
Speaker 5: tickling underneath his balls. His dick is here. This is
Speaker 5: where your click goes.
Speaker 4: Well, I see, yeah, And.
Speaker 5: So this is really good for slides and grinds, especially cowgirl.
Speaker 5: It's really nice when you're in control and you can
Speaker 5: kind of go on to that vibrator the way you
Speaker 5: want it to be on your clip. You can go
Speaker 5: up and down really easily with it too, which is nice.
Speaker 1: See.
Speaker 5: Yeah, the other way flip it around, it was.
Speaker 4: I had one toy like that was it wasn't a
Speaker 4: cockering situation. It was like one that goes in like
Speaker 4: in and the other part stays out, and I just
Speaker 4: I did not have success with that. So I'm like,
Speaker 4: I kind of gave up on like all in one toys.
Speaker 4: Yeah for you know, couples, but maybe.
Speaker 5: I try tested one. So yeah, let me know if
Speaker 5: you want one of those, I'll send it to you.
Speaker 4: I also think that sometimes men are really can get
Speaker 4: really weird around using toys, like they think it's like
Speaker 4: exclusively for women.
Speaker 2: It makes them like if you need it, then they're
Speaker 2: inadequate or.
Speaker 4: Like, well it's it's that. And I also think there's
Speaker 4: this stigma around this is for they think it's gay.
Speaker 5: They just need to be trained.
Speaker 2: Everything is good.
Speaker 4: I know they're like only gay guys.
Speaker 5: Okay, my guys absolutely love toys. As a matter of fact,
Speaker 5: I'm always like I've got a new toy. We're gonna try,
Speaker 5: and they're like, oh good, that sounds fun. And a
Speaker 5: lot of times I'll have sex for a long time
Speaker 5: with them, have lots of orgasms, and they're done and
Speaker 5: they've come and I'm like, I got some more in
Speaker 5: me and I'll just lay back against them. They'll play
Speaker 5: with my boobs. I'll get out one of my vibrators
Speaker 5: and give myself a couple more orgasms, and then I
Speaker 5: am toast.
Speaker 4: Wait, talk to me about your guys plural you guys
Speaker 4: do I do? So you have a husband and a boyfriend,
Speaker 4: and so they they it's not a separate situation. You
Speaker 4: guys play together.
Speaker 5: We do both.
Speaker 4: Oh like okay, so you have your own situation. So
Speaker 4: how long have you guys been in relationship.
Speaker 5: I've been married thirty four years. And my husband and
Speaker 5: I like some variety. We have an excellent marriage. I
Speaker 5: love my husband. We are in business together, we have
Speaker 5: a beautiful daughter. We are a really good couple, and
Speaker 5: we like a little sexual variety. And I really like
Speaker 5: having sex with two men. I like having sex. I
Speaker 5: like having threesomes and foursomes. They're really fun for me.
Speaker 5: I enjoy it. And by the way, I'm not recommending
Speaker 5: this for any of your fans and followers. I'm really
Speaker 5: not here proselytizing about my relationship. You just asked me.
Speaker 5: But my job is to have hot sex and tell
Speaker 5: you how to have it. So what am I gonna do?
Speaker 5: Fuck the same guy for thirty four years and be like,
Speaker 5: I know what we're thinking about sex. Every party that
Speaker 5: you have is they add some wonderful experiences and they're different,
Speaker 5: you know, they're different. They have different skills, they have
Speaker 5: different they have different experiences. So I've had I was
Speaker 5: telling Mela this yesterday. I've had over a thousand threesomes.
Speaker 4: Wow, you are a real threesome expert.
Speaker 5: Because and and really I love threesomes. They're my favorite.
Speaker 5: Four somems are fun. But I love a threesome and
Speaker 5: I've been having them for twenty years.
Speaker 4: You know, it adds up.
Speaker 5: And so it's my current boyfriend I've been with for
Speaker 5: four years and he's a darling and he and my
Speaker 5: husband are fantastic with me in bed together. You know,
Speaker 5: we just have so much fun.
Speaker 4: Is he younger than you or older?
Speaker 5: He's sixty seven, I'm sixty three and my husband's sixty two.
Speaker 4: Oh wow. Yeah, okay, And I'm having the best sex
Speaker 4: of my life.
Speaker 5: And is your.
Speaker 4: Boyfriend and married as well? Or is he in a relationship? No,
Speaker 4: he's been married three times. And he's like, that's that's
Speaker 4: not for me. Honestly, he said, had I known the
Speaker 4: skills you've taught me, communication skills that you taught me
Speaker 4: in this relationship, I probably would still be married to
Speaker 4: my first wife.
Speaker 2: Oh wow.
Speaker 5: Because I don't just teach hot sex techniques and like
Speaker 5: what I like to call erootic play dates. I also
Speaker 5: teach bedroom communication skills, dirty talk, pillow talk, things like that,
Speaker 5: and I also teach sexual biohacking and sexual regenerative wellness.
Speaker 5: So it's like the body, the communication, and the techniques
Speaker 5: are a really well rounded sexual skill set. So I
Speaker 5: really teach people all three things. Yeah I love that.
Speaker 5: And we have a new girlfriend and.
Speaker 4: How do you how do you sour? How do youriends?
Speaker 5: She found my boyfriend on field okay, w on a
Speaker 5: date and she really liked him, and she showed up.
Speaker 5: I mean she showed up with a pie, you know
Speaker 5: what I mean. Like she's like, I would really like
Speaker 5: to have sex with your boyfriend, and.
Speaker 2: She came to your house with a pie of course, what.
Speaker 5: A woman, and cane patch for my sore back. She's
Speaker 5: a doctor and uh so super sweet. Yeah so the
Speaker 5: so I really liked her and I was like, yeah
Speaker 5: please that yes, yes you may, but she had to
Speaker 5: screen in. So I'm the chief advocacy officer of a
Speaker 5: company called pro dx Health and they're an STI testing company.
Speaker 5: They do at home tests. So the new generation of
Speaker 5: STI tests is you get a box sent to your house.
Speaker 5: You put this little thing, it's called a Tasso collector
Speaker 5: on your arm. You don't even have to go get
Speaker 5: a blood test, you don't have to have a needle,
Speaker 5: you don't have to do any stuff you have to
Speaker 5: go anywhere. It's just a it's like a little capsule thing.
Speaker 5: It's almost like a continuous glucose monitor type of a thing.
Speaker 5: But it doesn't you don't just stick it in so far.
Speaker 5: It just it literally adheses to your skin and somehow
Speaker 5: it gets the blood out into a little vial. You
Speaker 5: send that. You do a little swab.
Speaker 4: So it's not a needle though, no it isn't.
Speaker 5: It's called a Tasso collector, and you send it back
Speaker 5: and within twenty four to forty eight hours. You've got organized,
Speaker 5: easy to read results on your phone.
Speaker 4: Wow.
Speaker 5: And so she came over and she and my husband
Speaker 5: and I did our test together because if someone screens
Speaker 5: into our group, then they have to take this full
Speaker 5: panel test. And that's what the URL is. By the way,
Speaker 5: full paneltest dot com will put it on the links
Speaker 5: below your video because I like people to know where
Speaker 5: to get everything, because nothing makes people more annoyed as like,
Speaker 5: where the fuck do I get that?
Speaker 4: Talk? Got to go back? Was the timestamp?
Speaker 5: Sorry about my big feet sticking out here. So yeah,
Speaker 5: so she screened in. We had this little like date
Speaker 5: and she came over for dinner and then we like
Speaker 5: did our blood tests and we swabbed our genitals and
Speaker 5: we all did our boxes and we mailed them off
Speaker 5: and then she was screened in and she's been dating
Speaker 5: my boyfriend, and uh, then I was like, you know,
Speaker 5: you're screened in. You if you're interested in being with
Speaker 5: my husband, you're welcome to do that. He's amazing, you know,
Speaker 5: and it would be his joy. He likes variety, he
Speaker 5: likes you, he's very impressed with you. And and she's like, oh,
Speaker 5: I definitely want to. And so the other day she
Speaker 5: came over and she had her first date with him,
Speaker 5: and it was so cute because at the time my
Speaker 5: friend was over rubbing my back. So I've had this
Speaker 5: back damn back problem. It's going away. I'm feeling better today.
Speaker 5: I swear when I sat with Mila at Lunchester day,
Speaker 5: she made me so happy to talk to her that
Speaker 5: it like cured my back, like I'm eighty percent better
Speaker 5: and the doctor struggling for two weeks. Because she's so precious, holistic,
Speaker 5: it was so nice just to be with her. I
Speaker 5: just loved her so much. So she came over and
Speaker 5: I was getting a back massage and I heard her
Speaker 5: go into the room.
Speaker 4: My husband.
Speaker 5: I set up the whole bedroom for them. I made
Speaker 5: it really nice. I made this little silver bowl that
Speaker 5: was my grandmother's full of like some things I have
Speaker 5: brought you that I'm going to show you, and laid
Speaker 5: it by the bed and set everything up with the
Speaker 5: fascinators on, and did the whole thing, all the pillows
Speaker 5: and all the things that made it really nice in there.
Speaker 5: And so they were in there and I went outside
Speaker 5: after my massage and I was laying out in my
Speaker 5: front yard on my chaise lounge, naked, getting some sun,
Speaker 5: eating some chocolate chip cookies, strolling threads, which is what
Speaker 5: I do. And I am like a massively progressive political
Speaker 5: nut and so like, I have to see what the
Speaker 5: fuck is going on in our society right now. You know,
Speaker 5: I'm always like, oh god, the latest horrible.
Speaker 2: Thing, got it.
Speaker 5: And so I was listening to them making love, and
Speaker 5: I was listening to my husband. He was giving her
Speaker 5: Yoni massage, he was given her an expanded orgasm date,
Speaker 5: and then they were making love, and I heard him
Speaker 5: talking her through the whole thing and encouraging her, telling
Speaker 5: her how pretty she was, telling her how pretty, or
Speaker 5: pussy was noticing it, getting like more full and rich
Speaker 5: and you know, velvety and like all this stuff. And
Speaker 5: then he started telling her like fantasy stories about how
Speaker 5: he and my boyfriend were gonna have so much fun
Speaker 5: with her and all this stuff, and she was like
Speaker 5: moaning and coming. I'm just sitting out there's girl and threads.
Speaker 5: Listening to her come was so nice. I enjoyed it
Speaker 5: so much. And later she's like, I knew you were
Speaker 5: sitting out there because she told us she were sitting
Speaker 5: out there and she's like, I knew you could hear me,
Speaker 5: and it was really turning me on. And it's like
Speaker 5: that's a good partnership where you know, she she can
Speaker 5: come over. Sheould bring a pie or something, you know,
Speaker 5: or some line Kane patches or whatever and help mommy
Speaker 5: out and will we make love? Yeah, we probably will.
Speaker 5: I'm a little slower. I'm not at on the scale
Speaker 5: of like how straight or why am I? I'm more
Speaker 5: like a sapio sexual. I fall in love with the person,
Speaker 5: and so I just have really enjoyed her, enjoying my
Speaker 5: partners and how great and kind she's been and how
Speaker 5: lovely she's been, and so I feel like it just
Speaker 5: adds so much to my life, like it just works
Speaker 5: for us. And I have a daughter too. We're all moms. Yeah,
Speaker 5: we all love our baby girl girl mom girl mom's
Speaker 5: and my daughter's twenty eight, and she loves my boyfriend
Speaker 5: and she loves my husband and she knows and if
Speaker 5: she watched this podcast, but she wouldn't, but if she did,
Speaker 5: she'd be like, yeah, that that about sounds like my mom?
Speaker 4: You know how fine with that? Because you guys entered
Speaker 4: into this dynamic twenty years ago. Right, So your daughter
Speaker 4: was eight or wherever it is.
Speaker 5: Eight eight?
Speaker 4: So how was that?
Speaker 5: I never told her? Okay, we never did anything in
Speaker 5: front of her. But when she was about twenty years old,
Speaker 5: she goes, mom, are you and dad in an open relationship?
Speaker 5: And I go yeah, and he goes okay, And that
Speaker 5: was all she wanted to know.
Speaker 2: She knew a little bit, but she probably had language
Speaker 2: for it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she was like, okay, are you in an open relationship?
Speaker 5: And I was like, yeah, we are. She goes okay, but.
Speaker 4: She knew the work that you did, so she did
Speaker 4: so she probably knew before that for a while and
Speaker 4: maybe like finally got the confidence to ask.
Speaker 5: We know how our kids don't really give a shit
Speaker 5: what we do.
Speaker 4: You know, I don't know yet. My daughter's tin it's
Speaker 4: to be seen.
Speaker 5: Yeah, they're in their own life. Yeah, in their little
Speaker 5: la la land, and that's where we want them to be,
Speaker 5: to be like Rainbow Sparkle, pony shit, that's what we
Speaker 5: want them to be. Were not who mommy is fucking
Speaker 5: And so we were never you know, out and you know,
Speaker 5: in that way in front of her. But we do travel,
Speaker 5: like my boyfriend goes with my husband and I to
Speaker 5: a lot of places, and our daughter goes along. Like
Speaker 5: we are a happy family. We're very kitchen table Polly.
Speaker 5: I heard you guys talking about polyamory and monogymy on,
Speaker 5: what was that adorable guy who came on? Uh uh Fontaine?
Speaker 4: What was his first names?
Speaker 5: So cute, so cute, so cute. But yeah, when you
Speaker 5: had your party Fonteine episode, and you guys were all
Speaker 5: like ethical one other kind of nominogamy with it, Like
Speaker 5: I know they're just words, but we have ethical nominogamy.
Speaker 5: We are kitchen table Polly. We are one big, happy table.
Speaker 2: Polly.
Speaker 5: Is like, you eat dinner together, you know you you
Speaker 5: go on vacations together, you have Christmas together, Like that's
Speaker 5: just what we do. Are you public, Polly, Yeah, well girl,
Speaker 5: I'm on your no.
Speaker 4: I mean, like when you're out and about, are you
Speaker 4: like kissing your boyfriend kissing?
Speaker 5: It just depends. Here's my thing. I don't want to
Speaker 5: trigger anybody ever about anything like That's the last thing
Speaker 5: I want to do is make somebody feel uncomfortable. And
Speaker 5: so I know that's why when I started talking about this,
Speaker 5: I was like, I am not recommending this for you.
Speaker 5: This is high stakes shit. I am a trained professional,
Speaker 5: like I have. I have done the work. I am
Speaker 5: sixty three years old, I have gone through a lot
Speaker 5: of shit, and so I'm not here recommending it for anybody.
Speaker 5: It just works for us. We just like it. It
Speaker 5: suits us. So and how long will our girlfriend be
Speaker 5: in our polypod screen?
Speaker 2: Eddy, I don't know.
Speaker 5: I'm not worried about that. I'm worried about creating joy
Speaker 5: pleasure connection community, you know, with people who are like minded, open,
Speaker 5: who love to make love and have great pleasurable times,
Speaker 5: you know, and eat homemade food which I like.
Speaker 2: I didn't like to eat, and fun.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what I know. It's I like to eat,
Speaker 5: I like to I like to fuck, I like to
Speaker 5: ride my mountain bike. I like to sleep.
Speaker 4: Those are that is a very good.
Speaker 2: Mountain biking.
Speaker 4: Homemade homemade food I hear specifically, chocolate, cookies, threads.
Speaker 2: Sound like my type of gow. Honestly, I'm gonna come over,
Speaker 2: need you for sure?
Speaker 3: Maybe I'd like my type of parties, costumes, lingerie, cookies.
Speaker 5: Oh and one more thing sor right, So I gotta
Speaker 5: can I show you a couple more things? I really
Speaker 5: I'm like such a Santa.
Speaker 2: I mean, I just kept sex Santa.
Speaker 5: I am a sex Santa. So do you want to
Speaker 5: see my I love to get fucked up in fuck?
Speaker 5: Or do you want to see my favorite new I
Speaker 5: love that I can say fuck as much as I want.
Speaker 5: Or do you want to see my new fucking sex.
Speaker 4: Toy I love to get fucked up in fuck.
Speaker 5: Okay, let's get fucked up and fuck. Then I'll show
Speaker 5: you the sex toy.
Speaker 2: Do it.
Speaker 5: So this is a brand that I fell in love with.
Speaker 5: So one of the things that I do is I
Speaker 5: I moderate panels at the x Biz show on sex tech.
Speaker 5: I'm a sex tech nerd. I'm a sciencey nerd. And
Speaker 5: when I was at the show, I met this company Nude,
Speaker 5: and I fell in love with their vapor djix.
Speaker 2: I really like that.
Speaker 5: So I have a supplement company, and I have sexual
Speaker 5: vitality supplements, libido botanicals, and I have been studying indigenous
Speaker 5: wisdom for libido botanicals, going back as far as as
Speaker 5: the written word and beyond. We we humans, we hopo sapiens.
Speaker 5: We have been running around on this earth, licking plants,
Speaker 5: looking for shit that gave us a boner. Clip boner,
Speaker 5: dick boner, you name it. Forever. We love to feel
Speaker 5: turned on, and so my favorite turn on is cannabis,
Speaker 5: but I love it when it's mixed with libido botanicals,
Speaker 5: and that's what they do. So what I have here
Speaker 5: is I have the vapor djias. They have them for
Speaker 5: men and women.
Speaker 2: It is cannabis too.
Speaker 5: It's cannabis and mixed sex vape. It's a sex vape
Speaker 5: and I did that. Feel free to have a puff
Speaker 5: off either one fashion fruit ones.
Speaker 4: I think.
Speaker 5: That one's strubb. There's many flavors, and what I love
Speaker 5: about them is that they they they get oh take
Speaker 5: the lid off. They get the flavors from the terpenes.
Speaker 5: So they use only essential oils and terpenes for flavoring.
Speaker 5: It's all natural ingredients. I love that. So they're not
Speaker 5: they don't use butane or any of that nasty shit either.
Speaker 5: They have really clean formulations. I'm a c I don't
Speaker 5: put anything in my pussy or my body that isn't clean.
Speaker 5: That's so that's just what I like. And so they
Speaker 5: have those, and they have these really nice pre rolls
Speaker 5: and they do like blue lotus and rose hips. They
Speaker 5: get singles and got they've got really not. It's a
Speaker 5: little harder to open joints.
Speaker 2: Yes, sex joints, Well, where have they been my whole life?
Speaker 2: It's next me my favorite two things.
Speaker 5: You know why I wanted to show up.
Speaker 2: Cannabis and sex.
Speaker 4: Give me some more.
Speaker 5: Exactly it could be if it's not coming out, it
Speaker 5: might be cold.
Speaker 4: You just have to suck on it.
Speaker 5: It's rolled in raw paper exactly. And then they also
Speaker 5: have these sex bites. So these are really strong. These
Speaker 5: are Delta nine plus Labido botanicals.
Speaker 2: Oh, there you go.
Speaker 5: If anybody buys them, do not eat a whole one.
Speaker 5: I'm looking right at the camera right now. I know
Speaker 5: where the camera is because you my new little girlfriend
Speaker 5: when I had my Grandma's silver platter and I had
Speaker 5: some sex biz.
Speaker 4: On whole one. But what happens if you a whole one?
Speaker 5: But we went out for tacos after and then we
Speaker 5: went to see Sinners, which was fantastic. Have you guys
Speaker 5: seen it? Yes, Oh my god, it was so good.
Speaker 5: And my husband originally he was like, I'll have the tacos,
Speaker 5: but I'm gonna just go home. And then of course
Speaker 5: they ate the whole of the sex bites and he's like, well,
Speaker 5: I'm going to sinners with you because I can barely move.
Speaker 2: Can you please roll me into the movie theater?
Speaker 5: Oh eat a quarner. He was so fucked up. So
Speaker 5: I love those things. And they make them for men
Speaker 5: and they make them for women. And they're labida botanicals,
Speaker 5: so afrodisiacs with cannabis. That's a very good combination.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so intrigued. I'm so glad.
Speaker 5: And then these are gummies that don't have any can
Speaker 5: us in them. They are only the libido bit botanicals.
Speaker 5: And these are capsules that only have labida botantic What
Speaker 5: I want to know, what are the libido botanicals. There's like, uh,
Speaker 5: there's horny goat weed, there's cordis SEPs. There's you can
Speaker 5: probably read it with your young.
Speaker 4: Eyes Guama, yeah, baron wart yes, longfolia, yeah.
Speaker 5: Longefolio, that's tongueketlly yeah, steps yeah, cordyceps is the mushroom
Speaker 5: complex and so uh they work really really well. Don't
Speaker 5: you love my little balls?
Speaker 2: I love those.
Speaker 5: Just more of the same.
Speaker 3: I'm always wondering about female enhancers because you always see viagra.
Speaker 2: I always see like the hunt for the guys. You
Speaker 2: always right at the liquor store. They're always like, what
Speaker 2: is like?
Speaker 5: What are like?
Speaker 4: What are the symptoms of like a female enhancer working?
Speaker 4: Because I like for men, it's like your dick gets hard.
Speaker 5: Well, clip boner. You get a clip boner and you
Speaker 5: get wet, and you get turned on and you feel
Speaker 5: good and you're in your body and you get horny's.
Speaker 2: About five minutes.
Speaker 5: Be careful. That's pretty strong, okay, just so you know
Speaker 5: you'll be you'll be stoned all day if yes, the stone.
Speaker 5: That's what I like about the vapordis ax is like
Speaker 5: you take a sex gummy, you take a sex bite,
Speaker 5: but it's gonna take an hour for the edible to
Speaker 5: kick in. Right, Only take a quarter. Even though you
Speaker 5: smoke a lot of pot I smoke a lot of pot.
Speaker 4: I, only take a quart. I mean, I gotta be
Speaker 4: careful with edibles in general. They hit me my body
Speaker 4: is like.
Speaker 5: But you can take a couple of hits off the
Speaker 5: vapordisiac just to get things going while the edibles kicking in,
Speaker 5: and you can take the libido botanicals. The capsules are
Speaker 5: good for the weekend. The gummies are good for the night,
Speaker 5: so the capsules are super saturated. They actually cook the
Speaker 5: ingredients in a way that makes them very bioavailable.
Speaker 2: So basically they work all week.
Speaker 5: Yes, exactly.
Speaker 4: Wow, all right, I have.
Speaker 5: Now that we're fucked up, let's fuck.
Speaker 4: Okay, let's fuck. Come on, let's get.
Speaker 5: Too So here you go. Can you pass it down? Yes,
Speaker 5: thank you. Here you got me that. Open it up.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna show you what it is. You'll have to
Speaker 5: stick your finger, your beautiful fingernail in there, but they're
Speaker 5: probably strong, so you can do it. Good, good job, perfect, yes,
Speaker 5: good climax together. Yes. So this is a Dutch company
Speaker 5: and it comes with two parts. Yeah. Just take that
Speaker 5: little thing out. Yep. That's this little thing that's a
Speaker 5: handheld piece. And then there's straps in there that you
Speaker 5: can strap on as well.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, yep.
Speaker 5: And so you can just hold it on your clid
Speaker 5: if you want to. It's a vibrator.
Speaker 4: Wait this, yes, but oh my god, they stick together.
Speaker 5: They do because they're magnetic. Get the straps out this, nope,
Speaker 5: go in there a little further. Dig deeper, erica, dig
Speaker 5: deeper this yeah, okay, oh wait, there's silicone pads. And
Speaker 5: then are there some straps in there?
Speaker 2: No, I don't see straps. Where's your straps? This is
Speaker 2: not a strap.
Speaker 5: No, let me see those things. Let me see that
Speaker 5: these are the silicone pads. Is so weird.
Speaker 4: Huh.
Speaker 5: I don't know why there's no straps of mind had
Speaker 5: straps in it? Are there straps in New Yorks?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 5: Oh, well they come to straps. All I ask about
Speaker 5: that because this is a new product for me that
Speaker 5: I am really out in love with. I think it is.
Speaker 5: But anyway, that little thing cops on your mons and
Speaker 5: it goes like this, so the point where the real
Speaker 5: action is goes down and you hold it. It kind
Speaker 5: of goes up here. You can use the silicone pad
Speaker 5: to pop it on there. I don't know where the
Speaker 5: hell of straps one or the straps.
Speaker 2: Around your thighs.
Speaker 4: Yeah, wait this what does this do?
Speaker 5: That's the silicone pad that goes on here. And then
Speaker 5: it's like sections. So it's up here on your mons.
Speaker 5: So your vagina is open, so you're you know, you
Speaker 5: can get in and this is a proximity sensor to this.
Speaker 5: So this goes on your man's penis. And let me
Speaker 5: just take this little let me take this little thing off.
Speaker 5: So I just think these things are so fun.
Speaker 2: That looks like it might be tight this time. What
Speaker 2: we need for the couple stretches.
Speaker 5: I know it stretches. And this goes on his penis.
Speaker 5: It doesn't vibrate. It's a proximity and it'll go on.
Speaker 5: It just goes on his penis. And this is good
Speaker 5: for guys of any size.
Speaker 4: So when you use this, are you supposed to put
Speaker 4: your penis and your balls inside just your peniska that just.
Speaker 5: Goes at the base of your shaft and then as
Speaker 5: he is fucking you, as he gets closer and deeper inconnects. No,
Speaker 5: it just makes the vibrator. E turn on the vibrator,
Speaker 5: press the button internal the vibrator as it as it
Speaker 5: starts to vibrate as you move the penis proximity thing. Yeah,
Speaker 5: it's on.
Speaker 4: Look feel so okay? So this goes yes, yes, And
Speaker 4: this goes on the.
Speaker 5: Guy and as he gets closer, it'll go there's an
Speaker 5: app and it could be that I have to make
Speaker 5: it go to the proximity thing. It could be that.
Speaker 5: But as he goes in and out, is it doing it?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 5: Good? I know, and I love that because it is
Speaker 5: exactly It is exactly what you said.
Speaker 4: You get more I'm getting? Is it doing it? Maybe
Speaker 4: to turn on a little bit lower?
Speaker 5: Can I just throw this on this over here? Okay? Good?
Speaker 5: So it goes nice and high too, And it's super
Speaker 5: fun because I have this technique called thrust in time
Speaker 5: that is really good. You know. I like to help
Speaker 5: women come from intercourse. That that's if you just want
Speaker 5: to hold it on your clip, you just slide that
Speaker 5: on the whole thing and you just you can just
Speaker 5: hold it.
Speaker 4: If you want to use the straps, put this on here, yeah,
Speaker 4: like I get it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, keep going.
Speaker 2: Oh and you just hold it with your fingers.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and then you could just have like this. I
Speaker 5: gotta find out about those straps. Is because I like
Speaker 5: the hands free.
Speaker 2: Where's the shops they go run your side?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Wait, this goes down right, this goes yeah? Okay okay,
Speaker 4: so then this is and.
Speaker 5: Then he goes in and out And I teach men
Speaker 5: this fucking technique. I trust in time. It's an ancient
Speaker 5: Daoist practice. I know you like your your energy things.
Speaker 5: It's an ancient Daoist practice that helps men last as
Speaker 5: long as they want. It's a stamina technique. But what
Speaker 5: it also does is it toggles the female sympathetic parasympathetic
Speaker 5: nervous system so that she comes better and harder, or
Speaker 5: even comes for the first time. And the way that
Speaker 5: she does is that he uses a series of short,
Speaker 5: shallow strokes and long deep slow strokes, and he does
Speaker 5: it kind of on a ten count where he'll do
Speaker 5: nine shallow strokes and one deep stroke, and then he'll
Speaker 5: do eight shallow strokes and two deep. Oh, you got
Speaker 5: the rhythm. And when he does that, at first, he's
Speaker 5: consciously incompetent, right, He's like counting, but he's not counting.
Speaker 5: I'm like, don't count out loud. We know you can,
Speaker 5: we know, we know you got there. But he just
Speaker 5: gets that idea of shallow and deep strokes. And when
Speaker 5: he does, by the time he gets to four or
Speaker 5: five deep strokes, you are going to come because it
Speaker 5: the way that it's toggling the nervous system, it's making
Speaker 5: your pussy reach for it. Like when you want one
Speaker 5: more long deep stroke, you want it so bad, and
Speaker 5: then you needs back to the short strokes and you're like.
Speaker 2: God, nerve, we want we'll right, and so.
Speaker 5: Your pussy's gonna be like you come, you just come.
Speaker 5: And so combining this fun little clip vibrator with the
Speaker 5: proximity thing with the thrusting path ship, thrust in time,
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Speaker 4: Websites do have I have?
Speaker 5: I got like fifty and I love to name ship.
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Speaker 5: mean I just love I'm my husband. I'm like, I
Speaker 5: need to buy another u ur L. He's like, okay,
Speaker 5: what's this one gonna be?
Speaker 2: What a good team exactly?
Speaker 5: Anyways, So fun fun, fun.
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, yeah, very grateful. This is good and I'm
Speaker 4: going to thrust in time tonight.
Speaker 5: Yes, I want to hear about it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is pretty This technology here is they're getting
Speaker 3: getting really amazing.
Speaker 5: Isn't that cool?
Speaker 2: This is cool?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 2: They better send me my damn straps.
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yea, yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't know. I'll
Speaker 5: learn about that.
Speaker 3: It's a pretty like you could just I feel like
Speaker 3: this is like very like you could hold it profile. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's a low profile, like I have a mushroom and
Speaker 3: I'd be like, excuse me, hold on, Kate, can you
Speaker 3: back up a little bit?
Speaker 2: Trying to get my friend in here. So it's basically
Speaker 2: a threesome. I love that vibrator.
Speaker 5: I hate that thing.
Speaker 4: Why it just doesn't do anything. I like a strong vibe.
Speaker 2: I do not like that.
Speaker 5: I don't that was like for some Yeah, that same
Speaker 5: company makes this. This is another one that.
Speaker 4: I also like really hard massages. So I just.
Speaker 3: Feel like I like a hard massage, but I don't
Speaker 3: want a hard vibration of my cla.
Speaker 2: You know what I also don't like.
Speaker 3: I don't like very hard jacuzzi jets for an extended time.
Speaker 3: It makes me like it give it to me hard, baby,
Speaker 3: Like I like a hard massage, a hard vibration.
Speaker 5: One of the things I like about this particular wand
Speaker 5: because if you like, if you like a lot of vibration,
Speaker 5: you generally would air toward a wand because wands no.
Speaker 4: Why do you think I was pissed I couldn't find
Speaker 4: a fucking wand exactly.
Speaker 5: And so what I like about this is that it
Speaker 5: and it's from the same company. I'll put a link
Speaker 5: below to this wand. It's called the pro wond. And
Speaker 5: what I like about it is that you know how
Speaker 5: wand heads are big.
Speaker 4: Some of them, I mean mine is small. I have
Speaker 4: a magic wand and it's like a yeah, MANI magic.
Speaker 5: What I like about this is you can put that
Speaker 5: in your pussy.
Speaker 2: Oh really, yes, it's a slide right.
Speaker 5: In your pussy. I mean, look at it. It's not
Speaker 5: that big, and so it's kind of like a wand.
Speaker 5: But when you tease your introidal sphincter, when you know
Speaker 5: the round muscle that is the opening to your vagina.
Speaker 5: When you tease it and then you slide that right
Speaker 5: in the entrance to your vagina, you're getting your G
Speaker 5: spot and you're getting that sphincter muscle which loves pressure.
Speaker 5: It has mechano receptors. So that's why we love the
Speaker 5: feeling of a cock sliding in our pussy.
Speaker 2: Even the G spot, I think people think that it's
Speaker 2: very deep on the top end.
Speaker 3: I think people assume G spot is some are very
Speaker 3: deep in the that and it's actually more in the entrance.
Speaker 5: Yep. Yeah, So anyway, that's a nice product from that
Speaker 5: particular brand too. I am always looking for a nice lightweight,
Speaker 5: super strong.
Speaker 2: And this is a light way.
Speaker 5: You're like, it's not way you can use it when
Speaker 5: you're fucking you.
Speaker 2: If you get pulled over by TSA. It's not so traumatic.
Speaker 4: That's why I like my little one small screen.
Speaker 2: I'm sure you'll find it, honey, I'm sure it's still around.
Speaker 2: It's gone some of the internet.
Speaker 5: Yeah, see that. That is the one thing I don't
Speaker 5: like about the wand I prefer sex toys that are darker.
Speaker 5: That's why I liked what I brought you today because
Speaker 5: I don't want bubble gum in my pussy. You know,
Speaker 5: I just don't know.
Speaker 4: I like black. It's my favorite color one of them. Anyway, Yeah,
Speaker 4: that bubble gum in my pussy.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, Wow, this was lovely. This is These are
Speaker 3: beautiful things that I didn't know I need it. I'm
Speaker 3: so excited to try this today.
Speaker 5: Yeah. I like to have a lot of like accoutrement
Speaker 5: to my love making, but I also like to just
Speaker 5: you know, ascend into bliss with nothing, and so like
Speaker 5: I'm a very equal opportunity lover that way where sometimes
Speaker 5: I just want bodies, maybe more than one, and sometimes
Speaker 5: I want fun toys, weed, vibrators, bells and whistle things,
Speaker 5: and it's all on the table. When you get it
Speaker 5: all on the table, then you're starting to have some fun.
Speaker 5: Then you're not like, oh, should I use this? Will
Speaker 5: this make it so I can have?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 5: No, it's gonna make you. It's gonna activate your orgasms.
Speaker 5: It's gonna make you come better. The more toys you have,
Speaker 5: the different places you stimulate, getting all that pussy online,
Speaker 5: it's just gonna make you come better even when you're
Speaker 5: not using them.
Speaker 2: And different types of orgasms.
Speaker 5: Yes, exactly.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, thank you for bringing all of these amazing toys, Santa.
Speaker 2: Our sex life in an hour. Wow.
Speaker 4: This really came in the nick of time, because literally yesterday,
Speaker 4: when that stupid fucking vibrator died on me, I was like, Okay,
Speaker 4: well it's time to buy some new ones. And here
Speaker 4: I am.
Speaker 5: What do you like? What do you want? What do
Speaker 5: you want? Pleasure? Give me your orders so I can
Speaker 5: have them sent. What what's appealing to you?
Speaker 4: Well, I mean this is appealing because I wanted to
Speaker 4: I want I realized I didn't have I had this
Speaker 4: other thing to try, but I didn't want to try.
Speaker 4: I wanted to try something with my partner. This was
Speaker 4: this is great. I'm excited to use that.
Speaker 5: And they love when they're plunging into you and they
Speaker 5: see you going. You know, I feel so happy.
Speaker 4: So yeah, and then yeah, I mean this wand is
Speaker 4: always going to.
Speaker 5: Be okay, so wond you got it.
Speaker 4: I'm really excited about this another one. I want to
Speaker 4: have more to do with my partner.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and toys.
Speaker 4: Have you you've played with toys?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: And I love seeing his dick and his balls squirting
Speaker 5: out of that thing.
Speaker 2: I've never got that thing.
Speaker 4: I never used. I had a cock ring and then
Speaker 4: one time I pulled it out not with this guy,
Speaker 4: and he got mad and a cockering. Yeah that's just
Speaker 4: like shoot.
Speaker 2: It basically thinks that dick is soft and you're trying
Speaker 2: to help him. But if you were, it was, which
Speaker 2: is why he was triggered.
Speaker 1: It was.
Speaker 5: Do you know I'm the Queen of Pean This is
Speaker 5: one of my other names because I love orgas Queen
Speaker 5: a pen because I am the woman who has helped
Speaker 5: almost twenty thousand men learn how to use a penis
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Speaker 4: You know that ladies put your husband on, put your
Speaker 4: boyfriend on, exactly. I mean, that's obviously I think that.
Speaker 4: I think a lot of women too, Like I know,
Speaker 4: for me, like when I was experiencing this in a relationship,
Speaker 4: granted I was in my twenties, and so I just
Speaker 4: didn't even know how to talk to him about this.
Speaker 4: And yeah, at first I thought it was me. I
Speaker 4: was like, yeah, I always think it's I was like,
Speaker 4: is it me? What the fuck? And then come to
Speaker 4: find out it's not me at all, because we have
Speaker 4: spoken to other women about this particular person and it's
Speaker 4: not us. But I think there's a lot of shame
Speaker 4: for men too, because there's I mean, they're supposed to
Speaker 4: just get hard, like that's their only fucking job, right,
Speaker 4: and they can't even do that well.
Speaker 2: Well, But it's also like it's it's not a big deal.
Speaker 3: But if you if we can talk about it, if
Speaker 3: we can talk about it, and we can just like
Speaker 3: talk about it, we can have solutions, we can ask Susan,
Speaker 3: we can do the heart filled things. But like, if
Speaker 3: you are so defensive and triggered by us even considering
Speaker 3: like this can be better for you.
Speaker 2: And for me, then how the fuck are we supposed
Speaker 2: to improve.
Speaker 3: It's like men have such a sensitivity because there's so
Speaker 3: much ego tied into performance and boners and.
Speaker 2: Like, you know, like let's just talk about it.
Speaker 3: Let's but if you're not willing to seek the assistance
Speaker 3: to get better, I mean even when you're like a
Speaker 3: lot of times just talking about I'm not coming, you know,
Speaker 3: like how did that conversation go with your husband after
Speaker 3: twelve years of marriage and you're like, I'm not orgasming.
Speaker 3: Like some guys could take that so personally and be like,
Speaker 3: fuck you bitch. Everybody loves this dick, you know, which
Speaker 3: they most do, and you're like, no, you're lying. I
Speaker 3: just talked to the girl last week. But it's like
Speaker 3: if you just have the if you're expanded enough, you
Speaker 3: feel safe enough. And that's another thing I feel like
Speaker 3: to women always talk about their safety and how like
Speaker 3: we can come in our orgasms get larger as soon
Speaker 3: as we feel safe and our nervous systems are like,
Speaker 3: you know, and a good place. But I think men
Speaker 3: also really require safety, and it's like, I don't think
Speaker 3: women really talk about that different.
Speaker 6: You know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're the same, but the.
Speaker 5: Parts arranged in different orders exactly.
Speaker 3: And it's just like I think that women also forget
Speaker 3: that men have to feel comfortable and safe in the
Speaker 3: conversation of how can we improve this because they are
Speaker 3: sensitive as fuck, more sensitive than women as we know, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: you know, and we have to like and we have
Speaker 3: to learn the language of like affirming them while also
Speaker 3: saying there's room for improvement, you know, because it is
Speaker 3: a sense of subject. Everybody wants to think they're a
Speaker 3: sex god, and everybody's not. Most of us aren't because
Speaker 3: we haven't been taught.
Speaker 5: There's so much to learn. I mean, I've been literally
Speaker 5: focused on learning about sex for two decades straight, and
Speaker 5: I constantly learn new things, and I'm constantly incrementing my
Speaker 5: skills and my ability and my orgasmic potential and all
Speaker 5: kinds of things. So that's one of the things I
Speaker 5: love about sex. If sex were brand, its tagline would
Speaker 5: be sex There's always something more, and it never and
Speaker 5: that's one of the things that my mentor who taught
Speaker 5: me to be an orgasmonaut. She's like, don't worry, baby,
Speaker 5: You'll never run out of things to try. It's there's
Speaker 5: always more. And she's she's in she's pushing her eighties now,
Speaker 5: and she's still got a great sex life.
Speaker 2: Really.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I speak from stage a lot about sex span.
Speaker 5: Why extending your sex span.
Speaker 4: Extend your life self span? Well, and you like your
Speaker 4: health and your life or your happiness. Yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 4: definitely I understand that. I agree with that.
Speaker 2: Does she have a partner?
Speaker 5: Yes too?
Speaker 2: Who's who's old? Who's old? Are they older too?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: My grandma told me before she passed, blessed her heart,
Speaker 3: she said, And she's a Christian.
Speaker 2: She said, God cursed us. Oh, I said, what do
Speaker 2: you mean. She's like, I still work fine, everything works fine.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but the men they don't work well. I have
Speaker 5: a whole regenerative stack that I recommend for men so
Speaker 5: that they have a bang and boner for their whole life.
Speaker 2: That was the only always be reversed.
Speaker 3: That's literally the only negative thing I ever heard my
Speaker 3: grandmother say about God. That's the only negative thing I've
Speaker 3: ever heard to come out of her Christian mouth and
Speaker 3: right and before she died, she told me listen when
Speaker 3: I die, I went, I was like, what she's like.
Speaker 3: I was like, She's like, I want to tell you
Speaker 3: about something. I was like, oh my god, she's gonna
Speaker 3: give you money. She's gonna tell me what the stashes.
Speaker 3: She's like, in my room there's a Crown Royal bag.
Speaker 3: Next to my bed.
Speaker 2: There's a wet bag Crown Royal bed.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah yeah.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, I'm the only granddaughter.
Speaker 3: I'm going to have the money. She was like, it's
Speaker 3: my vibrators. Throw it away.
Speaker 2: She was like, I don't want your aunt to find them.
Speaker 2: She's so square.
Speaker 3: And God and thank God. When I was there and
Speaker 3: I was like crying and I was like, let me
Speaker 3: go Royal.
Speaker 2: Shelly had one wish. I was looking through a ship
Speaker 2: and then I found it.
Speaker 4: What kind of vibrad?
Speaker 5: I didn't go I'm dying to know what.
Speaker 2: I didn't go very deep in back, guys. I just
Speaker 2: like I just confirmed it was in there.
Speaker 3: There was like I think it's like the want and
Speaker 3: I just laughed and also threw it away.
Speaker 2: But for that to be her last request and for.
Speaker 3: It to be a me I was, I know, I
Speaker 3: mean I never told anyone that, but I just thought
Speaker 3: only my grandmother would have such a request.
Speaker 5: So I have a request yet, I'd like to end.
Speaker 5: I know, we need to bring this to a clothes
Speaker 5: Such a nice time with you too.
Speaker 2: I enjoyed it so really pleasure, Thank you.
Speaker 5: I wanted to know if we could do hashtag mom brags.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I would like.
Speaker 5: I would like to hear something you're really proud of
Speaker 5: your daughter about.
Speaker 4: Hmmm, would you like to go first?
Speaker 2: Sure?
Speaker 3: Luna is ten, and you know what, I'm really proud
Speaker 3: that she's developing and like coming into her womanhood.
Speaker 2: She is sad, and she's very like level headed.
Speaker 5: That's nice.
Speaker 2: She's very clear.
Speaker 3: She's like, you know, one of the teachers at school
Speaker 3: told me, you know, I have to tell you about her.
Speaker 3: She and I don't know what I thought she could
Speaker 3: tell me, And I asked her what was she gonna
Speaker 3: tell me?
Speaker 2: She was like, I don't know.
Speaker 3: She was just saying, like some of the girls, they're
Speaker 3: like acting weird and sometimes we will play, sometimes we don't,
Speaker 3: but like I'll just basically I'll remove myself, you know,
Speaker 3: like she's like, I just ill good.
Speaker 2: She'll play myself.
Speaker 3: Yeah, She's like, I'm good, and she can remove herself,
Speaker 3: and like it really seems like she doesn't take it
Speaker 3: so personally, and it's just like I think I remember
Speaker 3: at an age, but you know when friends start, you know,
Speaker 3: getting catty, just feeling sad. But I just feel like
Speaker 3: she's like very clear about who she is and what
Speaker 3: she wants. And I feel like it's like, wow, you're
Speaker 3: pretty emotionally you know, like expansive at this age. And
Speaker 3: it makes me like very proud to know that she
Speaker 3: made me some of the work I hope that I've
Speaker 3: done to plant seeds that is like, you know, starting
Speaker 3: to develop in a way that's meaningful that I see
Speaker 3: like conversations I didn't have with my parents and just her. Oh,
Speaker 3: if I was there, I would have said, you know,
Speaker 3: like she's very I don't know, matter of fact, and
Speaker 3: I love it and she's hilarious. So I'm like really
Speaker 3: enjoying her developing as like always been my best friend,
Speaker 3: but really like knowing that if we met in a
Speaker 3: different life and you weren't my child, I would really
Speaker 3: enjoy you.
Speaker 5: Nice. She's sovereign she's self possessed. I love that. Boy,
Speaker 5: that's the kind of girls we want to raise, right,
Speaker 5: Sovereign at ten is what we need, sovereign from the
Speaker 5: minute we come out of the womb, you know, to
Speaker 5: support that in our daughters, and to see that in
Speaker 5: your daughter, that's lovely.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that. I'm very proud.
Speaker 5: Yeah, me too. I'm proud for her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love her so much.
Speaker 5: I get a contact proud high. I like mom brags.
Speaker 4: I think I'm I think I'm really proud of how
Speaker 4: compassionate my daughter is. I think that I've I know
Speaker 4: that about her, but hearing it from other people like
Speaker 4: I recently too, I had a parent teacher conference and
Speaker 4: just like hearing her teacher express to her how fair
Speaker 4: she is. Oh nice, Because she's in a phase in
Speaker 4: her friendship circles where there's a lot of they're like
Speaker 4: kind of getting into like the mean girl moments of
Speaker 4: their life and like the division, and she doesn't go
Speaker 4: for it good and she stays out of trouble, like
Speaker 4: she's not gonna follow the pack and just see fuck
Speaker 4: around and find out. Yeah she's gonna be like yeah,
Speaker 4: I don't think so, I'm gonna remove myselfles same with
Speaker 4: like what she just said. In that way, I also think, like,
Speaker 4: you know, me and my daughter too are like are
Speaker 4: on a journey right now of like learning how to
Speaker 4: express emotions, and it's been like it's been for me,
Speaker 4: I think challenging because like when they say, like your
Speaker 4: children are your mirrors, like I've of course I've experienced that,
Speaker 4: but I'm very much experiencing that right now in this
Speaker 4: moment with her, because as a young girl, I had
Speaker 4: a really hard time expressing my emotions and I realize
Speaker 4: how I still maybe have that you do. You run deep,
Speaker 4: and so.
Speaker 5: I can tell I could tell at the minute I
Speaker 5: met you you run deep. There's a lot going on,
Speaker 5: but you don't show it. It takes you a while
Speaker 5: to show.
Speaker 4: Yeah, i have a lot of scorpio in my chart,
Speaker 4: and I'm just an observe. I'm an observer, so I
Speaker 4: like to observe and then and I decide how much
Speaker 4: I want to share. And I think that I see
Speaker 4: that in her as well. But I also see like
Speaker 4: we've been having a lot of conversations over the last
Speaker 4: week and that I met a beautiful point in our
Speaker 4: relationship where like I have the opportunity to shift that
Speaker 4: and she's open to it, and I wasn't sure if
Speaker 4: she was going to be And so we had a
Speaker 4: call with our community. Shout out to our Discord community.
Speaker 4: You guys like really showed up for me the other
Speaker 4: day on Zoom because I was having a really hard
Speaker 4: time and I was feeling really emotional about it and
Speaker 4: like feeling lost, like what the fuck do I do?
Speaker 4: Like how do I do this? I don't have the tools.
Speaker 4: I thought I had the tools. I don't have the tools.
Speaker 4: And they gave me a lot of great advice. And
Speaker 4: I talked to her about it the other day about
Speaker 4: like just some things I want to implement and just
Speaker 4: like our every day mom practices, mom and daughter practices,
Speaker 4: and she was open to it. She didn't resist it,
Speaker 4: she wasn't scared by it, and so I just I
Speaker 4: think I really appreciate just like how open she is
Speaker 4: to wanting us to be closer and better and she's
Speaker 4: not I think I'm I'm lucky that she's at an
Speaker 4: age too where she's ten and there's still that desire
Speaker 4: for mommy, you know, like I've caught it at a
Speaker 4: good age, Like she's not not a good age. I
Speaker 4: was saying, like, if you have a fourteen or fifty
Speaker 4: year old, it's too late. But like I think that
Speaker 4: there's still this like malleableness that she that she has
Speaker 4: this curiosity that she has. So I'm excited that I
Speaker 4: get to do that with her, and she is like
Speaker 4: my she's my little friend. She's my friend, and I'm
Speaker 4: just grateful that I get to like do life with
Speaker 4: her in this life and that she's teaching me because
Speaker 4: I realize, like, fuck, we're learning together. I really don't know.
Speaker 4: Jamila asked me the other day, like what would you
Speaker 4: have wanted in that moment? And I was like, bitch,
Speaker 4: I don't know. That's the problem. And so I'm figuring
Speaker 4: it out now and I feel like it's helping me
Speaker 4: heal something in my little like little Erica through her.
Speaker 4: So I'm just I'm grateful that I get to do
Speaker 4: that with her.
Speaker 5: Oh that's so sweet. What was the best piece of
Speaker 5: advice she got from your discord grouped?
Speaker 4: She started a journal with her?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I thought that was a really good.
Speaker 4: Like start a journal like with each other, like so
Speaker 4: like I write something, she writes something. It doesn't have
Speaker 4: to be heavy at first, like something light. My friend also,
Speaker 4: she works with kids. I was talking to her on
Speaker 4: the way here and she was saying that I should have.
Speaker 4: She's like, have you ever had a feelings wheel? And
Speaker 4: I was like, what a feel What's a feeling wheel?
Speaker 4: She's like a wheel where there's like thirty different feelings
Speaker 4: and like you, she picks how she feels today and
Speaker 4: she like she's able to identify it because sometimes like
Speaker 4: you don't even know how to identify what you're feeling.
Speaker 4: And I was like, bitch, I need a feelings wheel.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like Orlando has one as a screensaver.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I was like, I need a feelings well because.
Speaker 2: We're not really trying.
Speaker 3: Our language is so limited, and I think we were
Speaker 3: thinking I can speak English, I can read And it's
Speaker 3: like when you ask about emotions, it's like angry, sad, stressed, anxious,
Speaker 3: pissed off, really pissed off, you know, like furious, fear, scared.
Speaker 2: But they really don't they don't extend much out of that.
Speaker 3: Like there's like probably like if we had a test
Speaker 3: right now, like as fast as you can write down
Speaker 3: twenty feelings, we're probably gonna cap out at like fucking
Speaker 3: twenty five each. I mean, unless you've been studying your
Speaker 3: feelings less, it's probably less.
Speaker 2: So it makes me realize like even you're like, oh,
Speaker 2: how was school and they're.
Speaker 3: Like good, yeah, and you're like wanting more, but you
Speaker 3: don't know the questions to ask. It's like that is
Speaker 3: the most telling sign that we're all out of language,
Speaker 3: including our ten year olds, including our thirty seven year olds.
Speaker 3: Like if you don't expand in that way, like damn,
Speaker 3: I realize I don't have a lot of ways to
Speaker 3: express my emotions and that leaves me limited and limited
Speaker 3: in my expression and how I share and let people in.
Speaker 3: And then you don't like take the extra step to
Speaker 3: be like let me go fucking look and then tell
Speaker 3: my kid this at this early age so she's not
Speaker 3: stuck or feeling stuck at this age. It's like there's
Speaker 3: a learning that we have to continue to indulge in
Speaker 3: as adults, specifically with language, so that we can connect
Speaker 3: with other people in our communities in like an adequate way,
Speaker 3: and that we don't really do adult it's not like
Speaker 3: promoted and so like it's limited in the bedroom and
Speaker 3: your relationships and with your kids, and then they just
Speaker 3: repeat the cycle because we're teaching them the all ten feelings.
Speaker 2: We know.
Speaker 5: Yeah, oh, I love that. That's great. The journaling thing
Speaker 5: is a neat idea.
Speaker 3: I like the wheel, like getting a physical one and
Speaker 3: then making it everyday thing so it doesn't feel like
Speaker 3: when we're in when something's big, then you the only
Speaker 3: time we pull it out where it's like okay, like
Speaker 3: what if you kept it in the car and every
Speaker 3: time you pick up from school you're like tell me
Speaker 3: how was today? You know, like make it a practice.
Speaker 2: I like that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I love that. That's so great. Yeah all right.
Speaker 2: Hashtag to the shows mom bragged by mom.
Speaker 5: I know exactly. Hashtag mom brag. Let's get them. My
Speaker 5: daughter's twenty eight and she didn't ever feel like she
Speaker 5: did well in school and now she has a full
Speaker 5: ride scholarship to get a PhD. I gave her a
Speaker 5: DK eyewitness book on sharks when she was like seven
Speaker 5: or eight years old, and she's like, Mom, this is amazing.
Speaker 5: And she became a marine scientist. All these years, and
Speaker 5: just recently she had applied for a Fulbright scholarship and
Speaker 5: she has been helping her friends in Africa apply for
Speaker 5: scholarships like she figured out how to do it, and
Speaker 5: she's spoken on climate change climate change conferences and done
Speaker 5: a lot of work in Africa, and so she was
Speaker 5: really wanting this Fullbright scholarship. And I was worried with.
Speaker 7: The current administration that all that shit got wrecked with
Speaker 7: DOGE and all the wrecking ball of what's going on
Speaker 7: with our USAID and all of those kinds of things.
Speaker 5: And I was like, Babe, you're not going to get that.
Speaker 5: She's like, Mom, don't be so negative.
Speaker 2: I still have helpe.
Speaker 5: And I'm like, all right, but I'm just trying to
Speaker 5: be reasonable, like I just don't think the full Brights
Speaker 5: are going to be happening right now.
Speaker 2: She calls me and.
Speaker 5: She's like, guess what I got. They have given her
Speaker 5: twenty six thousand dollars and to do her dream, which
Speaker 5: is to go to Tanzania and to work with the
Speaker 5: fisher folks of the reef coastal reef communities, which it's
Speaker 5: mostly women that do the commerce. And she is setting
Speaker 5: up a sea cucumber fingerling baby aquaculture farm with these
Speaker 5: women and they are going to grow sea cucumbers and
Speaker 5: release them out on their reefs and when they grow
Speaker 5: up on the reefs. They can sell them to the Chinese,
Speaker 5: who buy them for their longevity biologics. The Chinese like
Speaker 5: them because it makes them and there are longevity biologics
Speaker 5: and sea cucumbers. The problem is that the reefs have
Speaker 5: been decimated by people trying to feed their kids, selling
Speaker 5: off the sea cucumbers and not replacing them. And so
Speaker 5: she's setting up an aquaculture farm with on Zanzibar off
Speaker 5: the coast of Tanzania as her one point oh to
Speaker 5: prove that this can be replicated all over the world,
Speaker 5: because she said, I can try to save the reefs
Speaker 5: as a marine scientist, but what I gotta do is
Speaker 5: I gotta I gotta fix the poverty on the shores.
Speaker 5: It's not the reefs, it's the poverty on the shore.
Speaker 4: They're gonna just keep going. I was watching some sort
Speaker 4: of like it was a documentary. It was like a
Speaker 4: it's like a short documentary about something similar to that,
Speaker 4: where they were like like the locals or the local fishermen,
Speaker 4: some of them ethically fish, where they literally just go
Speaker 4: down there and swim and like spearfish, and then some
Speaker 4: of them just let off bombs ye and they're just
Speaker 4: letting off bombs for just like because they need to
Speaker 4: feed their families and they need to just get a
Speaker 4: bunch of shit at once, and it's totally damaging.
Speaker 2: They're putting just kill everything and take it up.
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, okay, yeah, it breaks all the carl. It
Speaker 5: ruins everything. So I love that she is focused on
Speaker 5: lifting up the indigenous people, not being She's like, I'm
Speaker 5: not going to be a scientist coming in and telling
Speaker 5: the local people what the fuck to do. I'm going
Speaker 5: to go empower them so that they can live a
Speaker 5: better life and take care of the thing that they've
Speaker 5: been living off of for eons. And so I'm just
Speaker 5: so proud of her, and I'm just so happy she
Speaker 5: got that scholarship. But I'm so glad I was wrong
Speaker 5: and she was right. And I say it because it
Speaker 5: was that DK book that started it all and the
Speaker 5: fact that I never would let her give up her
Speaker 5: dreams and that she I never let her think she
Speaker 5: was stupid, even if she thought she was, I was like, girl,
Speaker 5: you're not.
Speaker 2: They're so hard on themselves.
Speaker 5: They're so hard on themselves, and so having our young
Speaker 5: women be able to show other young women what is
Speaker 5: possible That's what makes me so happy. And that's what
Speaker 5: I love about mom brags. It's like when you when
Speaker 5: I hear what you're doing with your daughter, when you
Speaker 5: hear what I'm doing with my daughter, When we when
Speaker 5: we get the opportunity to share that with your audience,
Speaker 5: that's that's that just lifts up everybody. That lifts up
Speaker 5: all women. And when we lift up women, we lift
Speaker 5: up everybody.
Speaker 2: Amen, because we run the world.
Speaker 4: Like Beyonce said, okay, wait before we get out of here,
Speaker 4: three things. Oh okay, do you have an affirmation that
Speaker 4: you can share with her audience. I feel like you've
Speaker 4: said a lot of them, just like right now. But
Speaker 4: I'm just wondering if you have something that like maybe
Speaker 4: you know, motivates you or maybe it's motivated your daughter
Speaker 4: to just keep going or get you out of a rut.
Speaker 5: Yeah. I have like like a saying that I've said
Speaker 5: to myself my whole life, and it was from Janice Joplin. Yeah,
Speaker 5: and I'm a sixties girl, you know, So it's don't
Speaker 5: compromise yourself. You're all you've got.
Speaker 2: Don't compromise yourself, You're all you've got. I love that.
Speaker 4: Love that Next because we can't leave this episode without
Speaker 4: you're sharing a horror story. I don't know if you
Speaker 4: did it.
Speaker 5: Did you say horror not horror?
Speaker 4: No kind of a combo deal. It could be like
Speaker 4: a horrific horror story.
Speaker 3: Like it's usually just when you're like really horing out.
Speaker 3: You're a top notch ob like a top notch.
Speaker 5: I think I'm the top not just hoe now, I
Speaker 5: mean I kind of think that. Yeah, I meet my
Speaker 5: chocolate chip cookies. Listening to my girlfriend get fucked by
Speaker 5: my husband. I'm enjoying it with all her little goodie bowls.
Speaker 5: I think that was a pretty good horse story.
Speaker 2: That was a pretty good one.
Speaker 4: You're right, You're right. That was a good horse story. Okay.
Speaker 4: And so lastly, then you pulled the four of cups.
Speaker 5: It's Tarot time, guys, time.
Speaker 4: Susan pulled the four of cups.
Speaker 3: It's like a man sitting by a tree contemplating his
Speaker 3: three cups in front of him, and there's just one
Speaker 3: cloud cup from the sky giving his fourth cup, which
Speaker 3: is I don't know, is that God, is that an angel?
Speaker 3: It's just a cloud hand very interesting. The fourth cups.
Speaker 3: When the fourth cups return turns up in a tarot reading.
Speaker 3: New invitations and opportunities are flowing to you, but for
Speaker 3: now you're saying no and turning them away.
Speaker 2: Perhaps to prospects.
Speaker 3: The prospects do not interest you, or your cup is full,
Speaker 3: or you already have too much on your plate. Use
Speaker 3: your discernment to decide on what is truly important to you,
Speaker 3: and don't be afraid to decline new projects that don't
Speaker 3: align with your future path. The four of cups can
Speaker 3: also indicate a time when you are turning your attention
Speaker 3: and your energy internally to realign to this new phase
Speaker 3: of your life. You might need to be standing on
Speaker 3: terra firma before you can decide where your next steps.
Speaker 3: While you may need to decline some very alluring opportunities,
Speaker 3: you do so knowing you will be in a better
Speaker 3: position to say yes to the opportunities that are a
Speaker 3: better fit for you. You're creating the space within yourself so
Speaker 3: that you're ready to accept new opportunities later and give
Speaker 3: them the best possibility of success. Use this time for
Speaker 3: inward reflection, grounding, and contemplation before accepting the big thing.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's exactly what's going on for me. That's why
Speaker 5: I started that intimacy alliance with all of our fellows
Speaker 5: experts because my cups are running over getting a lot
Speaker 5: of opportunities now, which is wonderful. It only took me
Speaker 5: work in my ass off for decades, you know, that's
Speaker 5: how it works. And I have so many good things
Speaker 5: coming into me that I wanted a place to say,
Speaker 5: can you would you like this one? Would you like
Speaker 5: this one? Would you? Because I can't do them all?
Speaker 5: And that's my real joy. My real joy isn't that
Speaker 5: the opportunities come in.
Speaker 4: It's that I.
Speaker 5: Can channel them to people that I am lifting.
Speaker 2: Up with me overflow.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So that's what I'm doing with my flow right now,
Speaker 5: is I'm I'm I'm letting it flow out beautiful. Yeah,
Speaker 5: and that brings me the most.
Speaker 3: Joy, wonderful And yeah, you've been so kind and just
Speaker 3: showing up happy and beverly and ready to get all
Speaker 3: your toys like Santa Claus.
Speaker 2: So I'm grateful. Thank you, It's been a joy. Shout
Speaker 2: out to Kenya for then, thank you, Kenya. Yeah, this
Speaker 2: is why I love what we do.
Speaker 3: I love to connect with other women, other people that
Speaker 3: are just on the same page, open minded, talking and
Speaker 3: like this is how we create can comunity, and this
Speaker 3: is how we change.
Speaker 2: The world by conversation.
Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you for having us tell everybody where
Speaker 2: they can find you.
Speaker 5: Sure, Betterlover dot com is a good place to find
Speaker 5: You can follow me on Instagram. It's my name, Susan Bratton.
Speaker 4: And of course we're going to link everything in this
Speaker 4: episode description and thank you Susan for joining us. You
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Speaker 2: You bye bye Lees.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm living so good.
Speaker 2: Can't you tell?
Speaker 6: I went through a drought. That's until I found out,
Speaker 6: Well may my have been known Earth. I used to
Speaker 6: be broken tail, now got the blues in to like
Speaker 6: Beyonce jaw throat shot or Pop in his cow wearing
Speaker 6: our voices.
Speaker 2: Patriarchy kept it in the box to exploit it. Women
Speaker 2: put the pee and powers, so it's.
Speaker 6: Pointing that they want me to be good, so I
Speaker 6: make bad choices. Bad mom, not a bad mom, but
Speaker 6: a bad mom. Gitter's in on put cannabus in their bath.
Speaker 6: Bon walked in bossas cap and I blew his cat
Speaker 6: ball hop dog. Now I'm immune to the cat called
Speaker 6: Herbie and no waisted straight to it like a dollar sign.
Speaker 6: Mother rent the lover went to it. It's like a
Speaker 6: water someone where you're rent the winter essential will when
Speaker 6: the summertime. I do what doll ain't know when I
Speaker 6: needs to run it by