1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife. 2 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 1: She couldn't. She cleaned and cared for her children and 3 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 1: the man of the house, and of course she didn't 4 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 1: talk back. She was both obedient and soft by nature. 5 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: She was a good woman who always made good choices. 6 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:19,639 Speaker 2: That shit, we're good mom's bad choices. Who's single mom? 7 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 3: Who said fuck the patriarchy shared all their bad choices. 8 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:23,600 Speaker 4: And sound out they were so bad. 9 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:26,600 Speaker 2: After all, we're experts, overshares and your new besties. 10 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 4: Sit back and enjoy the ride. 11 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 2: I can do it. Welcome back to good Mom's bad Choices. 12 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 2: I'm Erica and I'm Nila. 13 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 4: Happy motherfucking Wednesday. 14 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 2: Happy Hemp Day, bitches. How are you feeling? 15 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:44,840 Speaker 4: I feel good. I feel like I have my hair 16 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:46,880 Speaker 4: slicked back, which I haven't done in a very long time. 17 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:49,519 Speaker 4: And I was like, oh, there's my face. Yeah, like 18 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 4: I have a face. My hair is normally like covering 19 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 4: my whole. 20 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:53,520 Speaker 2: Now I have a face. 21 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:56,319 Speaker 4: It's true because I've been like slicking IRI's hair back, 22 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 4: and I was like, let me just let me see 23 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 4: what's happening. And plus I my grays, so I was like, 24 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 4: oh my god, I have a limited amount of time 25 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:09,040 Speaker 4: to capitalize on this middle part being totally dark. So 26 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 4: I don't know. I feel like, look, I'm giving a 27 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 4: shade moment today. If you're on YouTube, go check us out. 28 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:15,759 Speaker 4: How are you. 29 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 3: I'm good, I'm feeling good. I yeah, I just shouted 30 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 3: and get back in the swing of things. Oh yeah, 31 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 3: we haven't really been. We haven't recorded in a couple 32 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 3: of weeks because we were on the road. We're about 33 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 3: to leave again. So yeah, it feels nice to be 34 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:31,399 Speaker 3: back in the studio and just chilling, trying to get 35 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 3: my life together. I feel like adulthood is a constant, 36 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:42,960 Speaker 3: like pendulum of balance of routine and dinner, and you're 37 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 3: on it, then you're not, and then I'm always always, 38 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 3: It's always like a forty sixty for me. Sometimes I'm 39 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 3: in the I'm in the thick of it, and I'm like, 40 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 3: oh yeah, And then sometimes I'm like, oh my god, 41 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 3: my house is a mess. I need to make dinner 42 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 3: again for the four hundredth day this week, and. 43 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 4: Fuck yeah, I don't want to eat anymore. I'm so 44 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 4: I wish I could just put one of those things 45 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 4: in my throat, like those tubes, just this feeding tube, 46 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 4: just feed me nutrition. I'm so fucking tired of figuring 47 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 4: out what the fuck I'm eating next. 48 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 5: I'm really over it. 49 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 3: I am too. I don't want to I like food. 50 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 3: I don't want to be fed by a tube. But 51 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 3: I think going on retreats really spoils me because we 52 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 3: get like three meals, delicious meals planned every day, breakfast, lunch, 53 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 3: and dinner. Sometimes they even come back gaining ten extra pounds. 54 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 3: I'm like, look at that ass. 55 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 4: You know, did you gain ten pounds? 56 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:29,919 Speaker 2: I don't know. 57 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 3: I don't really weigh myself in my head. I did 58 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 3: because I was eating so much in Jamaica and like 59 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 3: without even thinking about it, you know, And then here 60 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 3: I'm like food, fucking. 61 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:41,519 Speaker 4: Shout out to our Jamaica tribe and all the ladies 62 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:44,360 Speaker 4: that joined us at our Jamaica four to twenty retreat. 63 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 4: That was our first cannabis like focused retreat. And when 64 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 4: I tell you, bitches can smoke men under the fucking table. 65 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 4: Like I've never seen women consume so much cannabis in 66 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 4: a five day period ever, so much so that I 67 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 4: got at infection. Afterwards, I came back with a heavy 68 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 4: coffee and I was like, why am I sick, and 69 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 4: then Aaron like sent me an eye cloud and there 70 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:10,679 Speaker 4: were multiple photos of me in different outfits smoking three 71 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 4: blunts at one time, like in my mouth, like like 72 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 4: cheech and chong, and I was like, oh, that's why we. 73 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 3: Weren't fucking around. I'm pretty sure, like we you smoke 74 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 3: like two ounces of weed? 75 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 4: It was no, we smoked four ounces of weed, not 76 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 4: two ounces bade four. 77 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, we were really getting it in and it was great. 78 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 3: I literally I was looking at pictures and I have 79 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:31,240 Speaker 3: a picture on like sleep but there's another picture. 80 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 4: I'm like and shout out to Brushes and Buds Melissa 81 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 4: from Brushes and Buds and Buds in Jamaica, because she 82 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 4: not only hooked us up with a beautiful like what 83 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 4: is it a paint and smoke or steam and paint 84 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 4: situation where we learned how to smoke like the Rasta's 85 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 4: out there callice out of the chalice and the steam, 86 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 4: but she also blessed the group with a bunch of 87 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 4: different types of edibles. So there was like crownies, cookies, 88 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 4: then there were these teas and these bags of it. 89 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 2: But frozen drinks, frozen drinks. 90 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 4: And these bags and people just we're smoking, drinking the cannabis. 91 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 4: I was like, oh, was everyone standing? The only thing 92 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 4: we were missing was like some cream. We needed some 93 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 4: cannabis cream. 94 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 3: We always need to just bathe our bodies in it 95 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 3: because we were pretty high. 96 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 4: I led my first cannabis breath work workshop, which I 97 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 4: feel like I got to take around the world. Now 98 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:20,280 Speaker 4: I feel like I feel like I've invented something that 99 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 4: I now need to go on a world tour breath 100 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 4: work cannabis workshop. So I'm pretty sure we are going 101 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 4: to be doing this, like probably annually. I think the 102 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:32,159 Speaker 4: Cannabis for twenty retreat is a new staple of the 103 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 4: Good Vibe retreat. 104 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 3: I definitely want to go back, so I'm I'm sold. 105 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:36,720 Speaker 3: I had a really good time. I had a really 106 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:41,479 Speaker 3: good group of women with twenty women, and we just 107 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 3: did a lot of adventure, a lot of smoking, and 108 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 3: a lot of eating. And I am grateful because that 109 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 3: food was bomb. 110 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:50,279 Speaker 4: And if this sounds like your vibe, we have another retreat. 111 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 4: It's not a cannabis retreat, but we be smoking there too. 112 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:56,720 Speaker 4: We have two retreats in Costa Rica in July and August, 113 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 4: So if you want to join us, come We're actually 114 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:02,719 Speaker 4: almost so hurry up and book it. Check out the 115 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 4: Good Vibratory. Click the link in this episode description and 116 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 4: put down your deposit, make payments, and join us because 117 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:13,359 Speaker 4: we will feed you, we will get you high, and 118 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 4: we will heal you. 119 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 3: Don't make any excuses and don't get left behind. 120 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 2: Fomo's a bitch. 121 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:20,839 Speaker 3: You will see us on Instagram having the time of 122 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:21,919 Speaker 3: our lives in paradise. 123 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 5: Amen. 124 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:25,919 Speaker 3: But today we have a very special guest, so I 125 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:29,280 Speaker 3: didn't want to wait any longer. Today we have joining 126 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 3: us the expert, the expert. 127 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 4: Intimacy expert millions of women around the world, Susan Bratton. 128 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 5: Hello, beauties, Hello, happy to be here, Welcome to the show. 129 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 5: I just adore you both so much. First of all, 130 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 5: you look beautiful, like in your shad. 131 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 2: Oh thank you. 132 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 5: That is just when you walked in this morning, I 133 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 5: was like, oh, she is so good. 134 00:05:57,839 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 4: Yes, tell me more. 135 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 5: Oh I will, I can, I can literally keep on going. 136 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 5: And I didn't. I have never seen this little what do. 137 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 4: You call it, I don't know, like a lip adornment, 138 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 4: lip adornment. Shout out to what's her name in Costa Rica? 139 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:10,040 Speaker 2: Essence? 140 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 5: I think essence. 141 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, this woman in Costa Rica. Again, if you join 142 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 4: us in Costa Rica, you can get this lip adornment 143 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:20,159 Speaker 4: only she makes beautiful, beautiful jewelry. 144 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 5: Like so pretty on you, thank you. Yeah, it's stunning, 145 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 5: especially with your hair back like that and the shape 146 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 5: of your face and then just that lip adornment. The 147 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 5: symmetry is really appealing. It looks really pretty and very 148 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 5: exotic and very like I don't know, like it definitely 149 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:38,359 Speaker 5: wants me to make out with it like that is 150 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:39,720 Speaker 5: the first thing I thought was, like, what would it 151 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 5: be like? 152 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:42,679 Speaker 4: This is like this is this is a mature lip 153 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,359 Speaker 4: like a tongue ring. I don't want to get a 154 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 4: tongue ring. This is like the next one and you 155 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 4: can take it off. 156 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think you can make out with it. 157 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:53,279 Speaker 5: I think you can, but it was the thing that 158 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 5: out but my hip was, oh, that'd be an interesting 159 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:57,280 Speaker 5: thing to experience. 160 00:06:57,400 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, and you can like swap it back 161 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 4: and forth, you know what I'm saying. 162 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 5: I love it. Yeah, and me let's got her Bindian. 163 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:06,160 Speaker 5: She's got a pink beandion, so she's got her good 164 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 5: mom's bad choices bindi on. 165 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 3: I think that's what that is I like to wear 166 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 3: the Bendi's open up. My third eye activates some chakras. 167 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 2: I love it. 168 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 5: That sounds great. Yeah, so I'm very happy to be here. 169 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 5: I brought goodies. I brought so many goodies. And I 170 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 5: can't wait to see what you want to talk about, 171 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 5: because I do like to talk about lots of sexy stuff. 172 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 4: Well, I have a question because I was looking on 173 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 4: your website. Can you tell me what an orgasmonaut is? Yeah, 174 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 4: I said you are a self proclaimed orgasmonaut and I 175 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 4: was like, I like that term. Tell me more. 176 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 177 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 5: Well, and it's particularly good when I'm wearing like a 178 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 5: silver Licras spacesuit. 179 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 4: That would be great. 180 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 5: That's my favorite, of course. Room that is all costumes 181 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 5: in lingerie. 182 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 4: Yea in my house. 183 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:53,119 Speaker 2: Language comes in lingerie to my house. 184 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 5: Oh I'm so much bigger than you guys, your second 185 00:07:57,320 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 5: lovely But yeah, so when I was first. So this 186 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 5: is my second career. I've been In'smithy expert to millions. 187 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 5: And I didn't start out with the millions. Oh we 188 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 5: lost our book. I didn't start out with millions, but 189 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 5: I worked my way up to it over the last 190 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 5: two decades that I've been a sexpert, but it was 191 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 5: my second career, and it was my second career because 192 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 5: I fucked my husband for twelve years and never had 193 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 5: an orgasm, No Jesus, and you know, I could have 194 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:28,280 Speaker 5: an orgasm with my vibrator, but I couldn't have an 195 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 5: orgasm from intercourse. And I'm like, this is ruin, this 196 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:33,679 Speaker 5: is ruining my marriage. I mean like I was avoiding 197 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 5: him for sex I was given in mercy sex. I 198 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 5: was like, just do it from behind and get it 199 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 5: over with kind of thing. And it was shitty. We 200 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 5: were miserable. He was miserable. I was miserable. It wasn't good. 201 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:45,599 Speaker 5: So we were like, well, what are we going to 202 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:48,160 Speaker 5: do about it? Okay, well we'll read some books, we'll 203 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 5: go to some workshops, we'll talk to some therapists. We'll 204 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 5: see if we can figure this out. And that was 205 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 5: really good for us to do, because, in all honesty, 206 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 5: most women who don't have orgasm for intercourse think there's 207 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 5: something wrong with them. Oh, I just can't, and then 208 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 5: their husbands think, well, I guess she's broken. But I'm 209 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 5: still going a fucker, right, I mean, And this is 210 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 5: kind of what we where we were with that and 211 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:17,320 Speaker 5: I was just recently watching a very big podcast with 212 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 5: a sexpert on it who was saying, you know, you 213 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:23,479 Speaker 5: don't have to have orgasms, you can just enjoy the closeness. 214 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 5: I'm like, fuck that I'm allowed to say fuck right, Yeah. 215 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 4: This is a space free space. 216 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 5: Space is a filled space. 217 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 3: Getting fucked over here saying fuck, we're getting fucked. 218 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 5: So, you know, I just really hate it when sexperts 219 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 5: who obviously aren't coming well are sexperts I hate about. 220 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 5: Don't worry that you're not having an like forget. So 221 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:54,679 Speaker 5: I devoted my whole career, my second career, to orgasm 222 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 5: experiences techniques. How do you come? How many ways can 223 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 5: you come? What's the pathway? Because in the grand scheme 224 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:05,199 Speaker 5: of things, we have an operating system. Our body is 225 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 5: an operating system. Humans Homo sapiens work the way homo 226 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:13,079 Speaker 5: sapiens work. If you want to elicit an orgasmic response, 227 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:16,080 Speaker 5: you do these things and it makes you come, And 228 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 5: there's over twenty ways that you can come. But I 229 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 5: didn't know all of this until I kind of started 230 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 5: to try to solve my own problem, and I learned 231 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 5: how to have orgasm from intercourse, and I was like, whoa, 232 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:29,079 Speaker 5: I need to teach the rest of the world how 233 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:29,560 Speaker 5: to do this? 234 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 2: It changed your marriage. 235 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:33,959 Speaker 4: It was just like it was just like your own exploration, 236 00:10:34,080 --> 00:10:36,560 Speaker 4: or did you have support of like someone else also 237 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 4: guiding you through this experience. 238 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:40,319 Speaker 5: I had support of people guiding me through the experience. 239 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 5: It may became my mentors, and I ultimately I went 240 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:46,560 Speaker 5: to workshops. But ultimately what happened was I took the 241 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 5: work that they were teaching in workshops and turned it 242 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 5: into online programs. Twenty years ago, when this was just 243 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 5: so new and it was their work, I wanted to 244 00:10:57,280 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 5: carry on their legacy. So one of the techniques that 245 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 5: I've been teaching for two decades is a c literal 246 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 5: stroking practice called expanded orgasm. There are regular orgasms, there 247 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:14,079 Speaker 5: are multiple orgasms. There are extended orgasms, ones where you're 248 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 5: coming for a long time, and then there are expanded orgasms. 249 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 5: And expanded orgasms are almost like a quantum gasm. They 250 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 5: kind of they stack, they get longer, they get more intense, 251 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:27,560 Speaker 5: and they're the kind of orgasms where you can touch source, 252 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:31,560 Speaker 5: see God, feel you know, feel guy, I feel connection 253 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 5: to all things. They are the ecstatic bliss orgasms. And 254 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 5: so I learned that practice and I wanted to carry 255 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:42,079 Speaker 5: it on. And I remember when I was first learning 256 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 5: the practice, I was coming. So I was like, how 257 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 5: long could I come? You know, like can I come 258 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 5: for an hour straight? You know, this is what you 259 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:53,679 Speaker 5: do when you learn how to come addicted. 260 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's keep got drug. 261 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 5: What's the upper you know, what's the upper possibility? And 262 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 5: I called Patty because I was coming so much at 263 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 5: that time in my life where I was having like 264 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 5: come hangovers and like it was really you know how 265 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:09,959 Speaker 5: you get fuck brain and you're like, it's going to 266 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 5: take me a while to get back into reality. Yeah, 267 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:15,080 Speaker 5: And I called her one day and I was like, 268 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 5: I am I feel like I am coming to the 269 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:21,960 Speaker 5: point where I'm out in the like I'm out in 270 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 5: space and I'm on the edge of this cliff and 271 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:28,840 Speaker 5: I'm standing on the edge of this cliff and I 272 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 5: feel I'm getting goosebumps right now thinking about it. I 273 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 5: feel like I should step out, but I'm afraid. Will 274 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 5: I come back? Doctor Patti, she was my mentor will 275 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 5: I come back? She goes, step out, You'll come back. 276 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:46,000 Speaker 5: Might take you a while to recover, but you'll come back. 277 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:49,679 Speaker 5: And that's how I came into like being the orgasmaaut, 278 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:54,200 Speaker 5: because it was the stepping out into space, the abyss 279 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 5: of pleasure, the abyss of ecstasy that is never ending, 280 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:03,320 Speaker 5: because when you you touch source, God, Gaia, whatever you 281 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:08,760 Speaker 5: want to call it, you suddenly realize how connected we 282 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 5: all are. We are one thing, we are my cellium, 283 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 5: we are connected, we are a web of life. And 284 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 5: that was so cathartic for me. I had had a 285 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 5: lot of sexual abuse, a lot of traumas, like we 286 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 5: all do. You can't live in this shitty, fucked up 287 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 5: culture without having those traumas. Even if no one's ever 288 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 5: literally put their finger on you and abused you, it's 289 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 5: still an abusive culture, especially for women. But it hurts 290 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 5: our men too, it hurts us all. And so I 291 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:43,439 Speaker 5: that's how I became an orgasmaaut. And then I went 292 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 5: on to be like, well, how many kind of clumbs 293 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:48,440 Speaker 5: are there? And like I took my I'm kind of 294 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:52,080 Speaker 5: like a sciencey nerd girl, and I just took my 295 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 5: sciencey nerdiness and was like, let's see how many ways 296 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:57,960 Speaker 5: I could come, Let's keep, let's go. And That's what 297 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 5: I've been doing. And then what I essentially do I 298 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:03,480 Speaker 5: like cooking, so I liked cook I could give you 299 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 5: three or four my best easy recipes. If you need any, 300 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 5: let me know, because I like to cook at home. 301 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 5: And I wrote the recipes for coming, and that's what 302 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 5: I've been doing. And I think if I look at 303 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 5: twenty years of work, I've published forty four books in programs, 304 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 5: thirty four of which are my own. My gravestone's going 305 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 5: to say she had a lot to say. I just 306 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 5: really like to teach people how to come really well. 307 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 5: And of all of those, I've written about twenty different 308 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:36,960 Speaker 5: kinds of orgasms and exactly how to have them. I 309 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:38,880 Speaker 5: give it away for free. I don't even sell that stuff. 310 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 5: But my crowning achievement is all my work in orgasmic intercourse, 311 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 5: because that was my core sex wound. Was almost losing 312 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 5: my marriage over the fact that I didn't want to 313 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 5: have sex anymore because I wasn't coming. And I think 314 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:57,960 Speaker 5: there's so many women who are having very minimal orgasmic pleasure, 315 00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 5: if any, from intercourse. And I love intercourse so much 316 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:06,640 Speaker 5: that being able to come really well from it has 317 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 5: been such a joy. And I've learned so many great 318 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 5: techniques about orgasmic Intercourse. So for your listeners who are interested, 319 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 5: I put them all for free at orgasmic intercourse dot com. 320 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:20,360 Speaker 5: Let's keep it simple and if you're not currently coming 321 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 5: as well as you'd like to, and you like to 322 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 5: fuck and you want to like to fuck even more, 323 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 5: that's a good place to start. So that's where the 324 00:15:26,520 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 5: orgasma nat was born. 325 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 4: I love that. 326 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 2: I love that. 327 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 5: Exactly. Always feel like putting a flag on the mid 328 00:15:37,040 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 5: a flag on a pussy. 329 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 4: I was like, the way you're glanted the flag has 330 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 4: a pussy exactly. 331 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 5: Exactly. 332 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 4: You mentioned like you mentioned that you have like these 333 00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 4: step by steps and obviously we know that every woman 334 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:56,240 Speaker 4: is different, but so I'm just wondering, like, with that, 335 00:15:56,680 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 4: is there also a piece that because you said you 336 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 4: experienced so actual trauma and all these are things because 337 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 4: I think a lot of times and not I think, 338 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 4: I know that many times for women it's a lot 339 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 4: of what's happened to their body, that there's things that 340 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:14,320 Speaker 4: are trapped that they can't move through also mentally, So 341 00:16:14,440 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 4: like is that a piece that you start with or 342 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 4: do you go straight from the boty? Do you start 343 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 4: with the body or do you start with like the 344 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 4: mind and the like energetic body. 345 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 5: I think what I like to do is I like 346 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 5: to explain to people. And this is men too. Men 347 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 5: can have twenty kinds of orgasms. Like they're kind of 348 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:33,480 Speaker 5: lagging in the orgasma orgasma sphere. They're like, well, I 349 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 5: know I could have a peace bot orgasm, but I'm 350 00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 5: not sure I want to touch my butt, you know, 351 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 5: Like that's kind of where they are. Most of them. 352 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 5: Older guys are much more interested in prostate orgasms, so 353 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:45,360 Speaker 5: they know they care about their prostate health. And so 354 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 5: all bodies we are bodies can come really well. And 355 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 5: there are three kinds of orgasms. There are locations to touch, 356 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 5: Like I can touch my clit and make myself come. 357 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 5: I can have intercourse and make myself come. I can 358 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 5: have an analgasm. I can have a nipplegasm. I can 359 00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:04,640 Speaker 5: have a throat gasm, all of. 360 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 2: Those kinds of throat gasm. 361 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:09,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's one of my favorite. We can get into 362 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:13,679 Speaker 5: that later. And then the second thing is techniques, like 363 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 5: an expanded orgasm practice. It's a very specific five clitteral strokes. 364 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 5: It's five clitteral strokes that elicit the exact response of 365 00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:30,159 Speaker 5: this expanded long calm that you get and then you 366 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:32,720 Speaker 5: can stack them and they get even better. Or like 367 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 5: female ejaculation, I consider that, yes, you can have, you know, 368 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:39,960 Speaker 5: a feat, you can have release your feminine waters, But 369 00:17:40,040 --> 00:17:42,040 Speaker 5: how do you do that in a way that is 370 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:49,200 Speaker 5: cathartic healing, opening releasing to release your amrita, your divine nectar. 371 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 5: There are ways to do that that I think are 372 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 5: really important, not just what we see on porn, which 373 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:56,200 Speaker 5: is just like put the hammer down on our g 374 00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:58,959 Speaker 5: spot and like, you know, wear your arm out and 375 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:02,679 Speaker 5: she'll eventually shoot out some fluid. Like that's not the 376 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 5: right way from my perspective to approach female ejaculation. And 377 00:18:07,880 --> 00:18:12,920 Speaker 5: then there are objects of desire, which I've brought some 378 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:17,080 Speaker 5: for you today, because when you think about objects of desire, 379 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:20,399 Speaker 5: it could be you get turned on, getting spanked. You 380 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:23,840 Speaker 5: could it could be leather, it could be lingerie, It 381 00:18:23,880 --> 00:18:27,400 Speaker 5: could be sex toys, it could be you know, some 382 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:29,919 Speaker 5: sexy candle wax dripping on you. It could be you know, 383 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:34,720 Speaker 5: sensation play, whatever. And so that's its whole category on 384 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 5: its own that creates orgasmic experiences. But that's one thing, 385 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:44,359 Speaker 5: like the techniques themselves and all bodies work the same. 386 00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 5: But here's what gets in the way. And this is 387 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:50,479 Speaker 5: the answer to your question, and that is that if 388 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 5: you touch any given woman on any place in her 389 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:56,399 Speaker 5: body and ask her, like, if I touch your mom's 390 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:58,760 Speaker 5: or your clitteral hood or the tip of your clitterists 391 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 5: or the entrance your vagina, your introudal sphincter, there's my 392 00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:07,679 Speaker 5: sciencey girl nerd shit. You might be like, oh, I 393 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 5: love it when you touch the entrance to my vagina. 394 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:12,159 Speaker 5: And you might be like, I don't love that. It 395 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 5: feels painful or shameful or numb, and so orgasmic activation 396 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 5: is understanding that anything that you currently feel is pain, shame, 397 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:30,880 Speaker 5: or numbness can be transformed through loving touch and heart 398 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:35,000 Speaker 5: connection into pleasure. And that's how you can activate. You 399 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:38,920 Speaker 5: can bring online all of the neural pathways from your genitals, 400 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:43,400 Speaker 5: your breasts, your lips, your ass, your belly, like porgasms, footgasms. 401 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 5: You can come in so many ways. When you establish 402 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:51,680 Speaker 5: the mind body connection, our brain being our biggest sex 403 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 5: organ you know, you've got to get the neural pathways 404 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:59,680 Speaker 5: established and sometimes re established after traumas like g spot 405 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:04,919 Speaker 5: active for healing the enteric nervous system from shame and 406 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:08,159 Speaker 5: abuse and all of those kinds of things. So I 407 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 5: think when when people hear about orgasmic activation, they're like, oh, okay, 408 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:15,120 Speaker 5: so you mean I'm not like, I'm not born this way. 409 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:19,760 Speaker 5: It's not that I can't have a particular kind of orgasm, 410 00:20:19,800 --> 00:20:22,960 Speaker 5: it's just that I haven't yet. Then you open up 411 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:28,840 Speaker 5: all the opportunity for orgasmic cross training. So it kind 412 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:31,679 Speaker 5: of is like, Oh, tell me more about that. And 413 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:36,000 Speaker 5: that's where I recommend using a lot of different types 414 00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:39,040 Speaker 5: of tools. And I brought some to show you anytime 415 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 5: you want to activate that tissue, because fingers are great, 416 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 5: tongues are great, penises are great, but so are these 417 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:51,919 Speaker 5: pleasure tools. Show me the tools about the back. Okay, 418 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:55,400 Speaker 5: So I brought a few things. The first first thing 419 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:58,159 Speaker 5: that I brought was one of the things I do 420 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:00,320 Speaker 5: every year is I do something called my Sex Top 421 00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:04,480 Speaker 5: Sex Trends, and my top sex trend of twenty twenty five, 422 00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:07,080 Speaker 5: which is the year we are in right now, was 423 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 5: Yoni massage. Women want Yoni massage. Men are like, I 424 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 5: need to know all about Yoni massage. My lady wants 425 00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:18,919 Speaker 5: Meoni massage, and what do I do? And I really 426 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 5: like teaching people a lot of different ideas about how 427 00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 5: to approach the yoni, but also I like to give 428 00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:29,680 Speaker 5: them tools to use. And this is one. 429 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 2: That I love. 430 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 5: It's called the Queen. And what I like about it 431 00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:38,880 Speaker 5: is that it uses this technology called pulse plate technology 432 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:41,679 Speaker 5: like this, and it has two motors. It has a 433 00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 5: trouble and a base in this pulse plate. And what 434 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:49,720 Speaker 5: I love about it is that it goes deeper than 435 00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:53,840 Speaker 5: the skin it and you guys are going to put 436 00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 5: links to everything, right, okay, good, So anything that I 437 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:01,239 Speaker 5: talk about, you'll have a link on your Yeah it's nice. 438 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:04,160 Speaker 5: On nipples too, you'll have a link below your videos, 439 00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 5: right yeah, okay cool. So I won't worry about exactly 440 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:10,240 Speaker 5: where all these things are, who they are. Just remember, 441 00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:12,399 Speaker 5: if you want the Queen for yoni massage, you'll know 442 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:13,120 Speaker 5: it's the Queen. 443 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:17,399 Speaker 4: Little asmar for hear that it's going to be your on. 444 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 5: What is this called the Queen? The Queen? 445 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 4: This is your quick This is your clip on the Queen. 446 00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:22,880 Speaker 5: This is your quick. 447 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:24,840 Speaker 2: Quit you'll quit. 448 00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:30,120 Speaker 5: And I like that because it activates all that tissue 449 00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:34,160 Speaker 5: and it penetrates the skin and into the erectile tissue 450 00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:38,720 Speaker 5: of the pussy, and then blood flow runs in, and 451 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 5: then it expands your pussy lips, and then it expands 452 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 5: all of the erectile tissue inside your yoni, and then 453 00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:53,359 Speaker 5: there's more surface area. So everything starts to feel better 454 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 5: because you're getting way more signals to your brain because 455 00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:00,959 Speaker 5: you're all plumped up. You know how, when you have 456 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:03,800 Speaker 5: sex for like the whole weekend, your pussy feels so 457 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:05,960 Speaker 5: good on day two or three, like better that it 458 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:09,160 Speaker 5: did on day one. This is like day three pussy 459 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:13,040 Speaker 5: essentially what it is. It's just it really like plumps 460 00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 5: it all up. 461 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:15,200 Speaker 4: So I like that. 462 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:17,960 Speaker 5: And then another thing that I really like is this 463 00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:20,960 Speaker 5: This is called the Curve. And one of the reasons 464 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:24,720 Speaker 5: that I like this brand as well is that it's 465 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:27,480 Speaker 5: darker colors. And I feel that if I were a 466 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:32,080 Speaker 5: black woman with a nice, beautiful, dark skinned vulva, I 467 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 5: wouldn't want a light pink toy as my only choice. 468 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:40,400 Speaker 5: I would want something that's more like matching my vulva. 469 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:42,119 Speaker 5: And so one of the things I like about this 470 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 5: particular brand that I'm bringing to you is that it's 471 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 5: not all super bright pink colors. 472 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,800 Speaker 4: I hate bright pink vibrators, don't, I mean, And I 473 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:52,879 Speaker 4: don't know if my vulva is like I mean, I 474 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:55,359 Speaker 4: guess it's darker than my natural skin color. 475 00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:57,199 Speaker 5: But yeah, and it gets darker as it gets more. 476 00:23:57,200 --> 00:24:00,359 Speaker 4: But I don't think it looks stupid. I have used 477 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:03,120 Speaker 4: me one yesterday and it was like this light pink one. 478 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:06,760 Speaker 4: It actually sucked. I realized I lost my wand I 479 00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:09,679 Speaker 4: don't know where the fuck it went. My housekeeper, I'm 480 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 4: pretty sure, took it out of my suitcase and placed 481 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:13,160 Speaker 4: it somewhere. 482 00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:14,280 Speaker 2: She just washed it. 483 00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:17,000 Speaker 4: She doesn't know what it is, I think, because no, 484 00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 4: because there's been times where she's put it in my 485 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 4: like hair drawer, like where my like my hair products go. 486 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:25,040 Speaker 4: Then she's put it where my skin good stuff goes. 487 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,359 Speaker 4: I don't know where it's at. Maybe she finally figured 488 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:28,640 Speaker 4: it out and got grossed down and threw it away. 489 00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:30,080 Speaker 4: I don't fucking know. But I was looking for it 490 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 4: for like an hour yesterday because I was in desperate 491 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 4: need of an orgasm, and so then I found this 492 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 4: like lone random vibrator. I have a bag of vibrators 493 00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 4: are all dead, So I was pissed, and can't find 494 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 4: any chargers. 495 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:46,200 Speaker 2: And I like, bring back the battery. 496 00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 4: Then I found one. It was the Satisfire some shit, 497 00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:52,160 Speaker 4: and it was the one like the section remember those 498 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 4: one that was like it's called air stimulat, Yeah, the 499 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,640 Speaker 4: air simulator. And it was like it had it wore. 500 00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:59,040 Speaker 4: I was like, and I was like, I don't know 501 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,880 Speaker 4: how long it's gonna work. I had fast and it did, 502 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 4: it died and the it died, I was like, I 503 00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:06,440 Speaker 4: already came, but I was like, I wan't. 504 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:06,760 Speaker 5: To do it again. 505 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:08,879 Speaker 4: And then I did it again and it died in 506 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 4: the middle, and I was like it was going. I 507 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 4: was like, I guess that's all I get today. 508 00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:16,760 Speaker 5: But well, the good news is I brought you some vibrators. 509 00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:19,399 Speaker 5: You get to do. This is this is SUSY's Sexy show. 510 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:21,120 Speaker 4: And this is right on time. Literally, I was thinking. 511 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:22,640 Speaker 4: I was like, we're going to get you on line 512 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:23,840 Speaker 4: and buy a vibrator. 513 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,080 Speaker 5: Don't do it because most of the stuff that you 514 00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:29,399 Speaker 5: can buy is garbage. As you've noticed, it's crappy. And 515 00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:33,119 Speaker 5: so I mean the I've had my curve for so 516 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:36,000 Speaker 5: many years and I saw the same one and I 517 00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:38,199 Speaker 5: use oils it doesn't bother you. 518 00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 3: You you use that inside of your is it topical? 519 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:44,359 Speaker 5: So I I love this because it's both. And by 520 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,119 Speaker 5: the way, I have not used these. There are my demos. 521 00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:48,760 Speaker 5: I'm not leaving these with you. These everybody touches these things. 522 00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 2: You do not. 523 00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 5: But it's funny. My girlfriend I was talking to this 524 00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:56,680 Speaker 5: morning and I had to borrow something to bring here 525 00:25:56,920 --> 00:26:02,840 Speaker 5: to show you that I forgot, and she she's like, uh, you, well, 526 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:05,160 Speaker 5: you know it's no problem. I mean you've literally given 527 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,560 Speaker 5: me toys that you've already used, and I'm like, I 528 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:14,040 Speaker 5: have it's just pussy juice among friends and water. But anyway, 529 00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:15,359 Speaker 5: so what I like about the curve is this is 530 00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 5: a G spot wand wand but it feels fantastic on 531 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:24,520 Speaker 5: your clip, in your introidal sphincter, on your in your vestibule, 532 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:28,040 Speaker 5: and in your G spot and also just shoving it 533 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,439 Speaker 5: all up in there, which I love too. And this 534 00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:33,360 Speaker 5: has base and trouble. So you can get the rumbley 535 00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 5: vibe and you can get the buzzy vibe, and you 536 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:39,840 Speaker 5: can get your perfect mixture. And Pussy's different every day. 537 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,680 Speaker 5: She wants something different every day, so I just give 538 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 5: her whatever she wants. 539 00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:45,560 Speaker 4: Oh, this is the hot octopus. 540 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:50,399 Speaker 5: Yes, And what I love about it is that I 541 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 5: like to go down on my partner and give them 542 00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:56,440 Speaker 5: a blowjob while I I know. 543 00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 4: Hello, Hello, is that you? Is that pussy? Is that you? 544 00:26:59,119 --> 00:26:59,320 Speaker 5: Yes? 545 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:01,200 Speaker 4: Hear me? Are you ready? 546 00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 5: Or I'm always talking to you? 547 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,159 Speaker 4: I know It's been a while, but I'm still here. 548 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:12,400 Speaker 2: I'm still like, bitch, where have you been? Yeah? 549 00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:14,280 Speaker 5: So I love that one because I love to have 550 00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:18,240 Speaker 5: internal stimulation while I'm going down on my guy, because 551 00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 5: I have throat gasms from the stimulation of his cock 552 00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 5: in my throat, but I also have orgasms from my. 553 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 4: Yoni, so your throat is orgasming. Yeah, And so what 554 00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 4: is I don't know if I mean, I love I 555 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:35,399 Speaker 4: love the second dick, So I don't know, Like, what 556 00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 4: does it throat gas? Maybe I've had one? What does 557 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:38,159 Speaker 4: it feel like? 558 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:40,440 Speaker 5: What does you'd know if you had it? A lot 559 00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:43,200 Speaker 5: of women they're like, oh, I have a gag reflex. 560 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:44,720 Speaker 5: I don't you know, Like I don't really like that. 561 00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,199 Speaker 5: I do not, But your gag reflex is really just 562 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:51,480 Speaker 5: the beginning of the orgasmic contraction, and if you relax, 563 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:56,120 Speaker 5: you start to have contractions in your throat and your 564 00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:59,439 Speaker 5: spit changes over time. Like first it starts out almost 565 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:03,520 Speaker 5: like prec really clear and slippery, and then ultimately it 566 00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:07,960 Speaker 5: gets very like white and foamy, and then you have 567 00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:11,920 Speaker 5: these contractions and your pussy contracts and your throat contracts 568 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 5: at the same time. It's like two ends of the 569 00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:17,640 Speaker 5: same tube basically. And you can even ejaculate while you're 570 00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:21,199 Speaker 5: having a throat gasm, Like you can really get extremely 571 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:24,920 Speaker 5: massively orgasmic through your whole body from it. 572 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,440 Speaker 3: And I know the throat and the pussy like are connected, 573 00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,159 Speaker 3: but I didn't. I didn't even think about having a 574 00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:34,240 Speaker 3: throat gas at the time. I mean, like yeah, like 575 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,120 Speaker 3: I know, like when when I choke, then it makes 576 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,480 Speaker 3: my pussy like exactly right. 577 00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:42,240 Speaker 5: If you kind of move through the choke and into 578 00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:46,760 Speaker 5: like sliding the head of his penis right at the 579 00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 5: top of your throat, you'll start and you relax, and 580 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:54,680 Speaker 5: you just feel your way into it. You'll start to 581 00:28:54,760 --> 00:29:00,480 Speaker 5: have orgasms, mouf gasms, throat gasms. 582 00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,440 Speaker 3: I do like to use it like a like a vibrator. 583 00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 3: I'm giving head need too, but sometimes I won't stay. 584 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,320 Speaker 3: You gotta like jest, you know, Oh, I've. 585 00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:10,920 Speaker 5: Got something to show you for that too, But before 586 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,520 Speaker 5: I do, I have another vibrator that I love. This 587 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:15,360 Speaker 5: is called the Atom and I like that it's black, 588 00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:19,040 Speaker 5: which is nice. And this is good for and I'm 589 00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 5: a little bit of a size queen. I have to 590 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:23,080 Speaker 5: admit that, you guys, this is like a cockering. It's 591 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:27,400 Speaker 5: a it's a double vibrating cockering. And one of the 592 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:30,320 Speaker 5: things I like about this is not for a diminutive penis. 593 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:33,120 Speaker 5: This is not but you stick your dick on your 594 00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:33,720 Speaker 5: balls through there. 595 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 4: Oh okay, I was gonna say, because this is. 596 00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,520 Speaker 5: Right, you stick your dick down your b birthy there. 597 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:42,760 Speaker 5: It is girthy and it's really nice because it has 598 00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,360 Speaker 5: a peraneal vibrator for him, so he gets a vibration 599 00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:46,080 Speaker 5: under his ball. 600 00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 4: Go down here. 601 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:49,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll flip it around. 602 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:52,240 Speaker 4: So this is the bottom. And then this is for you. 603 00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:55,400 Speaker 5: No, it's the opposite. Let me show you. It's his 604 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,600 Speaker 5: dick and balls are shooting out of here. This is 605 00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 5: tickling underneath his balls. His dick is here. This is 606 00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:01,560 Speaker 5: where your click goes. 607 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:04,040 Speaker 4: Well, I see, yeah, And. 608 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:08,320 Speaker 5: So this is really good for slides and grinds, especially cowgirl. 609 00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:12,000 Speaker 5: It's really nice when you're in control and you can 610 00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:16,240 Speaker 5: kind of go on to that vibrator the way you 611 00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:19,520 Speaker 5: want it to be on your clip. You can go 612 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:22,160 Speaker 5: up and down really easily with it too, which is nice. 613 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:22,600 Speaker 1: See. 614 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:25,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, the other way flip it around, it was. 615 00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:28,240 Speaker 4: I had one toy like that was it wasn't a 616 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,400 Speaker 4: cockering situation. It was like one that goes in like 617 00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:34,560 Speaker 4: in and the other part stays out, and I just 618 00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:36,440 Speaker 4: I did not have success with that. So I'm like, 619 00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:40,160 Speaker 4: I kind of gave up on like all in one toys. 620 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 4: Yeah for you know, couples, but maybe. 621 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:46,440 Speaker 5: I try tested one. So yeah, let me know if 622 00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:47,640 Speaker 5: you want one of those, I'll send it to you. 623 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:49,920 Speaker 4: I also think that sometimes men are really can get 624 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:53,080 Speaker 4: really weird around using toys, like they think it's like 625 00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:54,320 Speaker 4: exclusively for women. 626 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:56,600 Speaker 2: It makes them like if you need it, then they're 627 00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:57,560 Speaker 2: inadequate or. 628 00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:59,800 Speaker 4: Like, well it's it's that. And I also think there's 629 00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:02,120 Speaker 4: this stigma around this is for they think it's gay. 630 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:03,800 Speaker 5: They just need to be trained. 631 00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:07,240 Speaker 2: Everything is good. 632 00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:08,480 Speaker 4: I know they're like only gay guys. 633 00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:14,360 Speaker 5: Okay, my guys absolutely love toys. As a matter of fact, 634 00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:16,360 Speaker 5: I'm always like I've got a new toy. We're gonna try, 635 00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,600 Speaker 5: and they're like, oh good, that sounds fun. And a 636 00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:22,440 Speaker 5: lot of times I'll have sex for a long time 637 00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 5: with them, have lots of orgasms, and they're done and 638 00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:26,840 Speaker 5: they've come and I'm like, I got some more in 639 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 5: me and I'll just lay back against them. They'll play 640 00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,240 Speaker 5: with my boobs. I'll get out one of my vibrators 641 00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,680 Speaker 5: and give myself a couple more orgasms, and then I 642 00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 5: am toast. 643 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 4: Wait, talk to me about your guys plural you guys 644 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:40,960 Speaker 4: do I do? So you have a husband and a boyfriend, 645 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 4: and so they they it's not a separate situation. You 646 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:44,920 Speaker 4: guys play together. 647 00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:45,600 Speaker 5: We do both. 648 00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:47,880 Speaker 4: Oh like okay, so you have your own situation. So 649 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,600 Speaker 4: how long have you guys been in relationship. 650 00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,920 Speaker 5: I've been married thirty four years. And my husband and 651 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:58,760 Speaker 5: I like some variety. We have an excellent marriage. I 652 00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:01,800 Speaker 5: love my husband. We are in business together, we have 653 00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:05,560 Speaker 5: a beautiful daughter. We are a really good couple, and 654 00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:09,200 Speaker 5: we like a little sexual variety. And I really like 655 00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:11,680 Speaker 5: having sex with two men. I like having sex. I 656 00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:14,320 Speaker 5: like having threesomes and foursomes. They're really fun for me. 657 00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 5: I enjoy it. And by the way, I'm not recommending 658 00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:20,760 Speaker 5: this for any of your fans and followers. I'm really 659 00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:24,200 Speaker 5: not here proselytizing about my relationship. You just asked me. 660 00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:27,680 Speaker 5: But my job is to have hot sex and tell 661 00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:30,040 Speaker 5: you how to have it. So what am I gonna do? 662 00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:32,280 Speaker 5: Fuck the same guy for thirty four years and be like, 663 00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:35,320 Speaker 5: I know what we're thinking about sex. Every party that 664 00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:41,040 Speaker 5: you have is they add some wonderful experiences and they're different, 665 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:43,200 Speaker 5: you know, they're different. They have different skills, they have 666 00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:46,760 Speaker 5: different they have different experiences. So I've had I was 667 00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:51,520 Speaker 5: telling Mela this yesterday. I've had over a thousand threesomes. 668 00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:55,440 Speaker 4: Wow, you are a real threesome expert. 669 00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,720 Speaker 5: Because and and really I love threesomes. They're my favorite. 670 00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:00,200 Speaker 5: Four somems are fun. But I love a threesome and 671 00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:03,000 Speaker 5: I've been having them for twenty years. 672 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 4: You know, it adds up. 673 00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:07,000 Speaker 5: And so it's my current boyfriend I've been with for 674 00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:10,360 Speaker 5: four years and he's a darling and he and my 675 00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:13,080 Speaker 5: husband are fantastic with me in bed together. You know, 676 00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:14,480 Speaker 5: we just have so much fun. 677 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:16,360 Speaker 4: Is he younger than you or older? 678 00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:19,200 Speaker 5: He's sixty seven, I'm sixty three and my husband's sixty two. 679 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,880 Speaker 4: Oh wow. Yeah, okay, And I'm having the best sex 680 00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:22,360 Speaker 4: of my life. 681 00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:22,920 Speaker 5: And is your. 682 00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:26,480 Speaker 4: Boyfriend and married as well? Or is he in a relationship? No, 683 00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:28,960 Speaker 4: he's been married three times. And he's like, that's that's 684 00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:32,239 Speaker 4: not for me. Honestly, he said, had I known the 685 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:35,280 Speaker 4: skills you've taught me, communication skills that you taught me 686 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:37,720 Speaker 4: in this relationship, I probably would still be married to 687 00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:38,560 Speaker 4: my first wife. 688 00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 2: Oh wow. 689 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 5: Because I don't just teach hot sex techniques and like 690 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:46,320 Speaker 5: what I like to call erootic play dates. I also 691 00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:50,080 Speaker 5: teach bedroom communication skills, dirty talk, pillow talk, things like that, 692 00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:54,520 Speaker 5: and I also teach sexual biohacking and sexual regenerative wellness. 693 00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:59,520 Speaker 5: So it's like the body, the communication, and the techniques 694 00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:04,720 Speaker 5: are a really well rounded sexual skill set. So I 695 00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:08,040 Speaker 5: really teach people all three things. Yeah I love that. 696 00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:10,960 Speaker 5: And we have a new girlfriend and. 697 00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:16,040 Speaker 4: How do you how do you sour? How do youriends? 698 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:21,400 Speaker 5: She found my boyfriend on field okay, w on a 699 00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 5: date and she really liked him, and she showed up. 700 00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:27,120 Speaker 5: I mean she showed up with a pie, you know 701 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:29,719 Speaker 5: what I mean. Like she's like, I would really like 702 00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:31,279 Speaker 5: to have sex with your boyfriend, and. 703 00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:34,120 Speaker 2: She came to your house with a pie of course, what. 704 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:38,520 Speaker 5: A woman, and cane patch for my sore back. She's 705 00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:43,439 Speaker 5: a doctor and uh so super sweet. Yeah so the 706 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:45,319 Speaker 5: so I really liked her and I was like, yeah 707 00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:47,600 Speaker 5: please that yes, yes you may, but she had to 708 00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:50,920 Speaker 5: screen in. So I'm the chief advocacy officer of a 709 00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:55,520 Speaker 5: company called pro dx Health and they're an STI testing company. 710 00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:59,319 Speaker 5: They do at home tests. So the new generation of 711 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:02,360 Speaker 5: STI tests is you get a box sent to your house. 712 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:04,800 Speaker 5: You put this little thing, it's called a Tasso collector 713 00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:06,839 Speaker 5: on your arm. You don't even have to go get 714 00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:08,280 Speaker 5: a blood test, you don't have to have a needle, 715 00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:09,719 Speaker 5: you don't have to do any stuff you have to 716 00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:13,640 Speaker 5: go anywhere. It's just a it's like a little capsule thing. 717 00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:16,719 Speaker 5: It's almost like a continuous glucose monitor type of a thing. 718 00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,399 Speaker 5: But it doesn't you don't just stick it in so far. 719 00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:21,840 Speaker 5: It just it literally adheses to your skin and somehow 720 00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:24,480 Speaker 5: it gets the blood out into a little vial. You 721 00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:25,840 Speaker 5: send that. You do a little swab. 722 00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 4: So it's not a needle though, no it isn't. 723 00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:33,080 Speaker 5: It's called a Tasso collector, and you send it back 724 00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:36,239 Speaker 5: and within twenty four to forty eight hours. You've got organized, 725 00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,320 Speaker 5: easy to read results on your phone. 726 00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:38,920 Speaker 4: Wow. 727 00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:43,920 Speaker 5: And so she came over and she and my husband 728 00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:47,120 Speaker 5: and I did our test together because if someone screens 729 00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:51,839 Speaker 5: into our group, then they have to take this full 730 00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:55,040 Speaker 5: panel test. And that's what the URL is. By the way, 731 00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:58,200 Speaker 5: full paneltest dot com will put it on the links 732 00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,600 Speaker 5: below your video because I like people to know where 733 00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:03,480 Speaker 5: to get everything, because nothing makes people more annoyed as like, 734 00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:04,680 Speaker 5: where the fuck do I get that? 735 00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:08,239 Speaker 4: Talk? Got to go back? Was the timestamp? 736 00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:12,520 Speaker 5: Sorry about my big feet sticking out here. So yeah, 737 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:15,280 Speaker 5: so she screened in. We had this little like date 738 00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:17,480 Speaker 5: and she came over for dinner and then we like 739 00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:20,680 Speaker 5: did our blood tests and we swabbed our genitals and 740 00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:22,799 Speaker 5: we all did our boxes and we mailed them off 741 00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:25,040 Speaker 5: and then she was screened in and she's been dating 742 00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:28,120 Speaker 5: my boyfriend, and uh, then I was like, you know, 743 00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:30,520 Speaker 5: you're screened in. You if you're interested in being with 744 00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:34,319 Speaker 5: my husband, you're welcome to do that. He's amazing, you know, 745 00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,719 Speaker 5: and it would be his joy. He likes variety, he 746 00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:39,560 Speaker 5: likes you, he's very impressed with you. And and she's like, oh, 747 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:42,400 Speaker 5: I definitely want to. And so the other day she 748 00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:44,080 Speaker 5: came over and she had her first date with him, 749 00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:48,080 Speaker 5: and it was so cute because at the time my 750 00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:49,799 Speaker 5: friend was over rubbing my back. So I've had this 751 00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:52,840 Speaker 5: back damn back problem. It's going away. I'm feeling better today. 752 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,359 Speaker 5: I swear when I sat with Mila at Lunchester day, 753 00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:58,120 Speaker 5: she made me so happy to talk to her that 754 00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:01,200 Speaker 5: it like cured my back, like I'm eighty percent better 755 00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:05,000 Speaker 5: and the doctor struggling for two weeks. Because she's so precious, holistic, 756 00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:06,839 Speaker 5: it was so nice just to be with her. I 757 00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:10,319 Speaker 5: just loved her so much. So she came over and 758 00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:12,880 Speaker 5: I was getting a back massage and I heard her 759 00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:13,440 Speaker 5: go into the room. 760 00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:13,920 Speaker 4: My husband. 761 00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:16,799 Speaker 5: I set up the whole bedroom for them. I made 762 00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:20,040 Speaker 5: it really nice. I made this little silver bowl that 763 00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:23,360 Speaker 5: was my grandmother's full of like some things I have 764 00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:26,600 Speaker 5: brought you that I'm going to show you, and laid 765 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:27,960 Speaker 5: it by the bed and set everything up with the 766 00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:30,440 Speaker 5: fascinators on, and did the whole thing, all the pillows 767 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,279 Speaker 5: and all the things that made it really nice in there. 768 00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:35,040 Speaker 5: And so they were in there and I went outside 769 00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:36,799 Speaker 5: after my massage and I was laying out in my 770 00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:39,359 Speaker 5: front yard on my chaise lounge, naked, getting some sun, 771 00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:43,399 Speaker 5: eating some chocolate chip cookies, strolling threads, which is what 772 00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:49,000 Speaker 5: I do. And I am like a massively progressive political 773 00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:51,480 Speaker 5: nut and so like, I have to see what the 774 00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:54,360 Speaker 5: fuck is going on in our society right now. You know, 775 00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:57,880 Speaker 5: I'm always like, oh god, the latest horrible. 776 00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:58,279 Speaker 2: Thing, got it. 777 00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:02,960 Speaker 5: And so I was listening to them making love, and 778 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 5: I was listening to my husband. He was giving her 779 00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:07,839 Speaker 5: Yoni massage, he was given her an expanded orgasm date, 780 00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:11,560 Speaker 5: and then they were making love, and I heard him 781 00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:14,560 Speaker 5: talking her through the whole thing and encouraging her, telling 782 00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:17,120 Speaker 5: her how pretty she was, telling her how pretty, or 783 00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:20,920 Speaker 5: pussy was noticing it, getting like more full and rich 784 00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:23,799 Speaker 5: and you know, velvety and like all this stuff. And 785 00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:26,560 Speaker 5: then he started telling her like fantasy stories about how 786 00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:29,279 Speaker 5: he and my boyfriend were gonna have so much fun 787 00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:30,759 Speaker 5: with her and all this stuff, and she was like 788 00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:33,680 Speaker 5: moaning and coming. I'm just sitting out there's girl and threads. 789 00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:37,120 Speaker 5: Listening to her come was so nice. I enjoyed it 790 00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:38,520 Speaker 5: so much. And later she's like, I knew you were 791 00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:40,040 Speaker 5: sitting out there because she told us she were sitting 792 00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:41,440 Speaker 5: out there and she's like, I knew you could hear me, 793 00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:44,080 Speaker 5: and it was really turning me on. And it's like 794 00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:47,719 Speaker 5: that's a good partnership where you know, she she can 795 00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,480 Speaker 5: come over. Sheould bring a pie or something, you know, 796 00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,520 Speaker 5: or some line Kane patches or whatever and help mommy 797 00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:57,200 Speaker 5: out and will we make love? Yeah, we probably will. 798 00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:00,600 Speaker 5: I'm a little slower. I'm not at on the scale 799 00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:04,080 Speaker 5: of like how straight or why am I? I'm more 800 00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:07,560 Speaker 5: like a sapio sexual. I fall in love with the person, 801 00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:12,360 Speaker 5: and so I just have really enjoyed her, enjoying my 802 00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:16,480 Speaker 5: partners and how great and kind she's been and how 803 00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:19,239 Speaker 5: lovely she's been, and so I feel like it just 804 00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:21,600 Speaker 5: adds so much to my life, like it just works 805 00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:26,600 Speaker 5: for us. And I have a daughter too. We're all moms. Yeah, 806 00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:29,480 Speaker 5: we all love our baby girl girl mom girl mom's 807 00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:32,440 Speaker 5: and my daughter's twenty eight, and she loves my boyfriend 808 00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:34,879 Speaker 5: and she loves my husband and she knows and if 809 00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:37,480 Speaker 5: she watched this podcast, but she wouldn't, but if she did, 810 00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:39,439 Speaker 5: she'd be like, yeah, that that about sounds like my mom? 811 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:42,319 Speaker 4: You know how fine with that? Because you guys entered 812 00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:45,400 Speaker 4: into this dynamic twenty years ago. Right, So your daughter 813 00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:47,840 Speaker 4: was eight or wherever it is. 814 00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:48,879 Speaker 5: Eight eight? 815 00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:50,040 Speaker 4: So how was that? 816 00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:52,480 Speaker 5: I never told her? Okay, we never did anything in 817 00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:55,080 Speaker 5: front of her. But when she was about twenty years old, 818 00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:58,399 Speaker 5: she goes, mom, are you and dad in an open relationship? 819 00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:01,200 Speaker 5: And I go yeah, and he goes okay, And that 820 00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:02,120 Speaker 5: was all she wanted to know. 821 00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:04,360 Speaker 2: She knew a little bit, but she probably had language 822 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:04,600 Speaker 2: for it. 823 00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:06,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, she was like, okay, are you in an open relationship? 824 00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:09,080 Speaker 5: And I was like, yeah, we are. She goes okay, but. 825 00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:11,200 Speaker 4: She knew the work that you did, so she did 826 00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:13,759 Speaker 4: so she probably knew before that for a while and 827 00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:15,800 Speaker 4: maybe like finally got the confidence to ask. 828 00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:17,239 Speaker 5: We know how our kids don't really give a shit 829 00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:17,839 Speaker 5: what we do. 830 00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:20,799 Speaker 4: You know, I don't know yet. My daughter's tin it's 831 00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:21,279 Speaker 4: to be seen. 832 00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:24,319 Speaker 5: Yeah, they're in their own life. Yeah, in their little 833 00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:26,960 Speaker 5: la la land, and that's where we want them to be, 834 00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:30,719 Speaker 5: to be like Rainbow Sparkle, pony shit, that's what we 835 00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:32,840 Speaker 5: want them to be. Were not who mommy is fucking 836 00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:37,680 Speaker 5: And so we were never you know, out and you know, 837 00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:42,640 Speaker 5: in that way in front of her. But we do travel, 838 00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:45,080 Speaker 5: like my boyfriend goes with my husband and I to 839 00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:47,160 Speaker 5: a lot of places, and our daughter goes along. Like 840 00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:50,280 Speaker 5: we are a happy family. We're very kitchen table Polly. 841 00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:54,080 Speaker 5: I heard you guys talking about polyamory and monogymy on, 842 00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:57,960 Speaker 5: what was that adorable guy who came on? Uh uh Fontaine? 843 00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:01,520 Speaker 4: What was his first names? 844 00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:05,560 Speaker 5: So cute, so cute, so cute. But yeah, when you 845 00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:07,799 Speaker 5: had your party Fonteine episode, and you guys were all 846 00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:10,839 Speaker 5: like ethical one other kind of nominogamy with it, Like 847 00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:14,879 Speaker 5: I know they're just words, but we have ethical nominogamy. 848 00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:19,160 Speaker 5: We are kitchen table Polly. We are one big, happy table. 849 00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:19,439 Speaker 2: Polly. 850 00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:22,719 Speaker 5: Is like, you eat dinner together, you know you you 851 00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:26,040 Speaker 5: go on vacations together, you have Christmas together, Like that's 852 00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:29,480 Speaker 5: just what we do. Are you public, Polly, Yeah, well girl, 853 00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:30,319 Speaker 5: I'm on your no. 854 00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:32,239 Speaker 4: I mean, like when you're out and about, are you 855 00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:34,080 Speaker 4: like kissing your boyfriend kissing? 856 00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:37,000 Speaker 5: It just depends. Here's my thing. I don't want to 857 00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:40,640 Speaker 5: trigger anybody ever about anything like That's the last thing 858 00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:43,400 Speaker 5: I want to do is make somebody feel uncomfortable. And 859 00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:45,799 Speaker 5: so I know that's why when I started talking about this, 860 00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:47,759 Speaker 5: I was like, I am not recommending this for you. 861 00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:51,120 Speaker 5: This is high stakes shit. I am a trained professional, 862 00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:55,920 Speaker 5: like I have. I have done the work. I am 863 00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:58,719 Speaker 5: sixty three years old, I have gone through a lot 864 00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:02,400 Speaker 5: of shit, and so I'm not here recommending it for anybody. 865 00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:05,920 Speaker 5: It just works for us. We just like it. It 866 00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:09,560 Speaker 5: suits us. So and how long will our girlfriend be 867 00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:10,640 Speaker 5: in our polypod screen? 868 00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:11,680 Speaker 2: Eddy, I don't know. 869 00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:14,560 Speaker 5: I'm not worried about that. I'm worried about creating joy 870 00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:20,160 Speaker 5: pleasure connection community, you know, with people who are like minded, open, 871 00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:24,480 Speaker 5: who love to make love and have great pleasurable times, 872 00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:27,560 Speaker 5: you know, and eat homemade food which I like. 873 00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:28,640 Speaker 2: I didn't like to eat, and fun. 874 00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:31,319 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what I know. It's I like to eat, 875 00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:34,759 Speaker 5: I like to I like to fuck, I like to 876 00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:38,000 Speaker 5: ride my mountain bike. I like to sleep. 877 00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:44,719 Speaker 4: Those are that is a very good. 878 00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:45,920 Speaker 2: Mountain biking. 879 00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:55,760 Speaker 4: Homemade homemade food I hear specifically, chocolate, cookies, threads. 880 00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:58,359 Speaker 2: Sound like my type of gow. Honestly, I'm gonna come over, 881 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:01,200 Speaker 2: need you for sure? 882 00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:06,120 Speaker 3: Maybe I'd like my type of parties, costumes, lingerie, cookies. 883 00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:08,439 Speaker 5: Oh and one more thing sor right, So I gotta 884 00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:10,680 Speaker 5: can I show you a couple more things? I really 885 00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:12,560 Speaker 5: I'm like such a Santa. 886 00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:14,480 Speaker 2: I mean, I just kept sex Santa. 887 00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:16,960 Speaker 5: I am a sex Santa. So do you want to 888 00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,360 Speaker 5: see my I love to get fucked up in fuck? 889 00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:22,200 Speaker 5: Or do you want to see my favorite new I 890 00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:23,719 Speaker 5: love that I can say fuck as much as I want. 891 00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:26,360 Speaker 5: Or do you want to see my new fucking sex. 892 00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:28,040 Speaker 4: Toy I love to get fucked up in fuck. 893 00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:30,080 Speaker 5: Okay, let's get fucked up and fuck. Then I'll show 894 00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:30,680 Speaker 5: you the sex toy. 895 00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:31,080 Speaker 2: Do it. 896 00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:35,120 Speaker 5: So this is a brand that I fell in love with. 897 00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:37,040 Speaker 5: So one of the things that I do is I 898 00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:41,399 Speaker 5: I moderate panels at the x Biz show on sex tech. 899 00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:44,960 Speaker 5: I'm a sex tech nerd. I'm a sciencey nerd. And 900 00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:47,120 Speaker 5: when I was at the show, I met this company Nude, 901 00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:51,040 Speaker 5: and I fell in love with their vapor djix. 902 00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:51,920 Speaker 2: I really like that. 903 00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,920 Speaker 5: So I have a supplement company, and I have sexual 904 00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:59,799 Speaker 5: vitality supplements, libido botanicals, and I have been studying indigenous 905 00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:05,560 Speaker 5: wisdom for libido botanicals, going back as far as as 906 00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:10,400 Speaker 5: the written word and beyond. We we humans, we hopo sapiens. 907 00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:13,280 Speaker 5: We have been running around on this earth, licking plants, 908 00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:17,200 Speaker 5: looking for shit that gave us a boner. Clip boner, 909 00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:22,760 Speaker 5: dick boner, you name it. Forever. We love to feel 910 00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:28,319 Speaker 5: turned on, and so my favorite turn on is cannabis, 911 00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:31,720 Speaker 5: but I love it when it's mixed with libido botanicals, 912 00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:35,960 Speaker 5: and that's what they do. So what I have here 913 00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:38,520 Speaker 5: is I have the vapor djias. They have them for 914 00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:39,160 Speaker 5: men and women. 915 00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:40,759 Speaker 2: It is cannabis too. 916 00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:45,640 Speaker 5: It's cannabis and mixed sex vape. It's a sex vape 917 00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:47,520 Speaker 5: and I did that. Feel free to have a puff 918 00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:49,680 Speaker 5: off either one fashion fruit ones. 919 00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:50,080 Speaker 4: I think. 920 00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:55,359 Speaker 5: That one's strubb. There's many flavors, and what I love 921 00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:58,640 Speaker 5: about them is that they they they get oh take 922 00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:01,960 Speaker 5: the lid off. They get the flavors from the terpenes. 923 00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:06,920 Speaker 5: So they use only essential oils and terpenes for flavoring. 924 00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:11,719 Speaker 5: It's all natural ingredients. I love that. So they're not 925 00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:14,240 Speaker 5: they don't use butane or any of that nasty shit either. 926 00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:17,160 Speaker 5: They have really clean formulations. I'm a c I don't 927 00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:19,799 Speaker 5: put anything in my pussy or my body that isn't clean. 928 00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:22,000 Speaker 5: That's so that's just what I like. And so they 929 00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:23,959 Speaker 5: have those, and they have these really nice pre rolls 930 00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:28,440 Speaker 5: and they do like blue lotus and rose hips. They 931 00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:31,480 Speaker 5: get singles and got they've got really not. It's a 932 00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:33,640 Speaker 5: little harder to open joints. 933 00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:36,880 Speaker 2: Yes, sex joints, Well, where have they been my whole life? 934 00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:38,560 Speaker 2: It's next me my favorite two things. 935 00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:40,040 Speaker 5: You know why I wanted to show up. 936 00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:41,680 Speaker 2: Cannabis and sex. 937 00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:42,600 Speaker 4: Give me some more. 938 00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:46,120 Speaker 5: Exactly it could be if it's not coming out, it 939 00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:47,160 Speaker 5: might be cold. 940 00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:51,000 Speaker 4: You just have to suck on it. 941 00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:54,840 Speaker 5: It's rolled in raw paper exactly. And then they also 942 00:45:55,000 --> 00:46:00,680 Speaker 5: have these sex bites. So these are really strong. These 943 00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:04,440 Speaker 5: are Delta nine plus Labido botanicals. 944 00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:05,000 Speaker 2: Oh, there you go. 945 00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:08,400 Speaker 5: If anybody buys them, do not eat a whole one. 946 00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:10,239 Speaker 5: I'm looking right at the camera right now. I know 947 00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:16,400 Speaker 5: where the camera is because you my new little girlfriend 948 00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:18,360 Speaker 5: when I had my Grandma's silver platter and I had 949 00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:19,120 Speaker 5: some sex biz. 950 00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:22,279 Speaker 4: On whole one. But what happens if you a whole one? 951 00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:23,880 Speaker 5: But we went out for tacos after and then we 952 00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:25,960 Speaker 5: went to see Sinners, which was fantastic. Have you guys 953 00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:27,879 Speaker 5: seen it? Yes, Oh my god, it was so good. 954 00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:30,680 Speaker 5: And my husband originally he was like, I'll have the tacos, 955 00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:32,680 Speaker 5: but I'm gonna just go home. And then of course 956 00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:35,359 Speaker 5: they ate the whole of the sex bites and he's like, well, 957 00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:37,239 Speaker 5: I'm going to sinners with you because I can barely move. 958 00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:41,479 Speaker 2: Can you please roll me into the movie theater? 959 00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:45,480 Speaker 5: Oh eat a quarner. He was so fucked up. So 960 00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:47,600 Speaker 5: I love those things. And they make them for men 961 00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:49,920 Speaker 5: and they make them for women. And they're labida botanicals, 962 00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:53,719 Speaker 5: so afrodisiacs with cannabis. That's a very good combination. 963 00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:56,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, so intrigued. I'm so glad. 964 00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:59,759 Speaker 5: And then these are gummies that don't have any can 965 00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:03,759 Speaker 5: us in them. They are only the libido bit botanicals. 966 00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:07,640 Speaker 5: And these are capsules that only have labida botantic What 967 00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:12,600 Speaker 5: I want to know, what are the libido botanicals. There's like, uh, 968 00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:16,520 Speaker 5: there's horny goat weed, there's cordis SEPs. There's you can 969 00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:18,200 Speaker 5: probably read it with your young. 970 00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:26,840 Speaker 4: Eyes Guama, yeah, baron wart yes, longfolia, yeah. 971 00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:30,920 Speaker 5: Longefolio, that's tongueketlly yeah, steps yeah, cordyceps is the mushroom 972 00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:34,960 Speaker 5: complex and so uh they work really really well. Don't 973 00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:35,839 Speaker 5: you love my little balls? 974 00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:36,560 Speaker 2: I love those. 975 00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:37,399 Speaker 5: Just more of the same. 976 00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:42,000 Speaker 3: I'm always wondering about female enhancers because you always see viagra. 977 00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:43,960 Speaker 2: I always see like the hunt for the guys. You 978 00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:46,279 Speaker 2: always right at the liquor store. They're always like, what 979 00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:46,640 Speaker 2: is like? 980 00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:47,160 Speaker 5: What are like? 981 00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:49,800 Speaker 4: What are the symptoms of like a female enhancer working? 982 00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:52,040 Speaker 4: Because I like for men, it's like your dick gets hard. 983 00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:53,880 Speaker 5: Well, clip boner. You get a clip boner and you 984 00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:55,839 Speaker 5: get wet, and you get turned on and you feel 985 00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:58,279 Speaker 5: good and you're in your body and you get horny's. 986 00:47:58,000 --> 00:47:58,880 Speaker 2: About five minutes. 987 00:48:01,600 --> 00:48:04,480 Speaker 5: Be careful. That's pretty strong, okay, just so you know 988 00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:08,560 Speaker 5: you'll be you'll be stoned all day if yes, the stone. 989 00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:11,440 Speaker 5: That's what I like about the vapordis ax is like 990 00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:13,640 Speaker 5: you take a sex gummy, you take a sex bite, 991 00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:15,239 Speaker 5: but it's gonna take an hour for the edible to 992 00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,759 Speaker 5: kick in. Right, Only take a quarter. Even though you 993 00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:19,800 Speaker 5: smoke a lot of pot I smoke a lot of pot. 994 00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:21,000 Speaker 4: I, only take a quart. I mean, I gotta be 995 00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:26,280 Speaker 4: careful with edibles in general. They hit me my body 996 00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:26,520 Speaker 4: is like. 997 00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:31,000 Speaker 5: But you can take a couple of hits off the 998 00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:34,399 Speaker 5: vapordisiac just to get things going while the edibles kicking in, 999 00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:38,200 Speaker 5: and you can take the libido botanicals. The capsules are 1000 00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:41,480 Speaker 5: good for the weekend. The gummies are good for the night, 1001 00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:46,040 Speaker 5: so the capsules are super saturated. They actually cook the 1002 00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:50,240 Speaker 5: ingredients in a way that makes them very bioavailable. 1003 00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:50,680 Speaker 2: So basically they work all week. 1004 00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:53,239 Speaker 5: Yes, exactly. 1005 00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:54,600 Speaker 4: Wow, all right, I have. 1006 00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:57,759 Speaker 5: Now that we're fucked up, let's fuck. 1007 00:48:57,840 --> 00:48:59,960 Speaker 4: Okay, let's fuck. Come on, let's get. 1008 00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:05,960 Speaker 5: Too So here you go. Can you pass it down? Yes, 1009 00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:08,279 Speaker 5: thank you. Here you got me that. Open it up. 1010 00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:11,440 Speaker 5: I'm gonna show you what it is. You'll have to 1011 00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:14,839 Speaker 5: stick your finger, your beautiful fingernail in there, but they're 1012 00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:21,040 Speaker 5: probably strong, so you can do it. Good, good job, perfect, yes, 1013 00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:27,040 Speaker 5: good climax together. Yes. So this is a Dutch company 1014 00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:32,120 Speaker 5: and it comes with two parts. Yeah. Just take that 1015 00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:34,759 Speaker 5: little thing out. Yep. That's this little thing that's a 1016 00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:37,640 Speaker 5: handheld piece. And then there's straps in there that you 1017 00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:39,120 Speaker 5: can strap on as well. 1018 00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:40,480 Speaker 2: Oh wow, yep. 1019 00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:43,960 Speaker 5: And so you can just hold it on your clid 1020 00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:45,640 Speaker 5: if you want to. It's a vibrator. 1021 00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:49,000 Speaker 4: Wait this, yes, but oh my god, they stick together. 1022 00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:53,600 Speaker 5: They do because they're magnetic. Get the straps out this, nope, 1023 00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:57,160 Speaker 5: go in there a little further. Dig deeper, erica, dig 1024 00:49:57,200 --> 00:50:00,920 Speaker 5: deeper this yeah, okay, oh wait, there's silicone pads. And 1025 00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:02,120 Speaker 5: then are there some straps in there? 1026 00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:07,759 Speaker 2: No, I don't see straps. Where's your straps? This is 1027 00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:08,360 Speaker 2: not a strap. 1028 00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:10,960 Speaker 5: No, let me see those things. Let me see that 1029 00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:15,240 Speaker 5: these are the silicone pads. Is so weird. 1030 00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:17,320 Speaker 4: Huh. 1031 00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:19,600 Speaker 5: I don't know why there's no straps of mind had 1032 00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:21,720 Speaker 5: straps in it? Are there straps in New Yorks? 1033 00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:22,280 Speaker 2: No? 1034 00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:24,200 Speaker 5: Oh, well they come to straps. All I ask about 1035 00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:26,200 Speaker 5: that because this is a new product for me that 1036 00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:29,040 Speaker 5: I am really out in love with. I think it is. 1037 00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:32,960 Speaker 5: But anyway, that little thing cops on your mons and 1038 00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:36,359 Speaker 5: it goes like this, so the point where the real 1039 00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:39,200 Speaker 5: action is goes down and you hold it. It kind 1040 00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:41,160 Speaker 5: of goes up here. You can use the silicone pad 1041 00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:43,040 Speaker 5: to pop it on there. I don't know where the 1042 00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:44,719 Speaker 5: hell of straps one or the straps. 1043 00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:46,080 Speaker 2: Around your thighs. 1044 00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:47,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, wait this what does this do? 1045 00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:50,640 Speaker 5: That's the silicone pad that goes on here. And then 1046 00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:56,840 Speaker 5: it's like sections. So it's up here on your mons. 1047 00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:59,360 Speaker 5: So your vagina is open, so you're you know, you 1048 00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:04,640 Speaker 5: can get in and this is a proximity sensor to this. 1049 00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:08,520 Speaker 5: So this goes on your man's penis. And let me 1050 00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:10,880 Speaker 5: just take this little let me take this little thing off. 1051 00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:13,840 Speaker 5: So I just think these things are so fun. 1052 00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:15,840 Speaker 2: That looks like it might be tight this time. What 1053 00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:17,400 Speaker 2: we need for the couple stretches. 1054 00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:23,200 Speaker 5: I know it stretches. And this goes on his penis. 1055 00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:26,160 Speaker 5: It doesn't vibrate. It's a proximity and it'll go on. 1056 00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:27,680 Speaker 5: It just goes on his penis. And this is good 1057 00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:28,800 Speaker 5: for guys of any size. 1058 00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:31,160 Speaker 4: So when you use this, are you supposed to put 1059 00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:34,440 Speaker 4: your penis and your balls inside just your peniska that just. 1060 00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:36,279 Speaker 5: Goes at the base of your shaft and then as 1061 00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:41,280 Speaker 5: he is fucking you, as he gets closer and deeper inconnects. No, 1062 00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:44,320 Speaker 5: it just makes the vibrator. E turn on the vibrator, 1063 00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:52,040 Speaker 5: press the button internal the vibrator as it as it 1064 00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:59,080 Speaker 5: starts to vibrate as you move the penis proximity thing. Yeah, 1065 00:51:59,120 --> 00:51:59,320 Speaker 5: it's on. 1066 00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:05,520 Speaker 4: Look feel so okay? So this goes yes, yes, And 1067 00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:06,399 Speaker 4: this goes on the. 1068 00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:12,719 Speaker 5: Guy and as he gets closer, it'll go there's an 1069 00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:15,040 Speaker 5: app and it could be that I have to make 1070 00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:17,200 Speaker 5: it go to the proximity thing. It could be that. 1071 00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:21,880 Speaker 5: But as he goes in and out, is it doing it? 1072 00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:22,640 Speaker 2: Okay? 1073 00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:26,920 Speaker 5: Good? I know, and I love that because it is 1074 00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:28,879 Speaker 5: exactly It is exactly what you said. 1075 00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:37,600 Speaker 4: You get more I'm getting? Is it doing it? Maybe 1076 00:52:37,680 --> 00:52:39,000 Speaker 4: to turn on a little bit lower? 1077 00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:42,080 Speaker 5: Can I just throw this on this over here? Okay? Good? 1078 00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:46,880 Speaker 5: So it goes nice and high too, And it's super 1079 00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:49,760 Speaker 5: fun because I have this technique called thrust in time 1080 00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:52,680 Speaker 5: that is really good. You know. I like to help 1081 00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:56,440 Speaker 5: women come from intercourse. That that's if you just want 1082 00:52:56,440 --> 00:52:58,239 Speaker 5: to hold it on your clip, you just slide that 1083 00:52:58,280 --> 00:52:59,520 Speaker 5: on the whole thing and you just you can just 1084 00:52:59,520 --> 00:52:59,759 Speaker 5: hold it. 1085 00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:03,000 Speaker 4: If you want to use the straps, put this on here, yeah, 1086 00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:04,560 Speaker 4: like I get it. 1087 00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:05,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, keep going. 1088 00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:08,200 Speaker 2: Oh and you just hold it with your fingers. 1089 00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:09,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, and then you could just have like this. I 1090 00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:13,200 Speaker 5: gotta find out about those straps. Is because I like 1091 00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:13,959 Speaker 5: the hands free. 1092 00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:15,680 Speaker 2: Where's the shops they go run your side? 1093 00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:20,400 Speaker 4: Yeah? Wait, this goes down right, this goes yeah? Okay okay, 1094 00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:21,440 Speaker 4: so then this is and. 1095 00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:23,680 Speaker 5: Then he goes in and out And I teach men 1096 00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:27,760 Speaker 5: this fucking technique. I trust in time. It's an ancient 1097 00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:31,000 Speaker 5: Daoist practice. I know you like your your energy things. 1098 00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:36,319 Speaker 5: It's an ancient Daoist practice that helps men last as 1099 00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:40,000 Speaker 5: long as they want. It's a stamina technique. But what 1100 00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:44,600 Speaker 5: it also does is it toggles the female sympathetic parasympathetic 1101 00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:48,640 Speaker 5: nervous system so that she comes better and harder, or 1102 00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:52,279 Speaker 5: even comes for the first time. And the way that 1103 00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:56,400 Speaker 5: she does is that he uses a series of short, 1104 00:53:56,719 --> 00:54:04,000 Speaker 5: shallow strokes and long deep slow strokes, and he does 1105 00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:05,759 Speaker 5: it kind of on a ten count where he'll do 1106 00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:11,919 Speaker 5: nine shallow strokes and one deep stroke, and then he'll 1107 00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:16,560 Speaker 5: do eight shallow strokes and two deep. Oh, you got 1108 00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:19,560 Speaker 5: the rhythm. And when he does that, at first, he's 1109 00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:24,720 Speaker 5: consciously incompetent, right, He's like counting, but he's not counting. 1110 00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:26,359 Speaker 5: I'm like, don't count out loud. We know you can, 1111 00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:29,680 Speaker 5: we know, we know you got there. But he just 1112 00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:34,839 Speaker 5: gets that idea of shallow and deep strokes. And when 1113 00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:37,520 Speaker 5: he does, by the time he gets to four or 1114 00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:42,520 Speaker 5: five deep strokes, you are going to come because it 1115 00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:45,280 Speaker 5: the way that it's toggling the nervous system, it's making 1116 00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:49,719 Speaker 5: your pussy reach for it. Like when you want one 1117 00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:52,600 Speaker 5: more long deep stroke, you want it so bad, and 1118 00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:54,680 Speaker 5: then you needs back to the short strokes and you're like. 1119 00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:59,160 Speaker 2: God, nerve, we want we'll right, and so. 1120 00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:05,040 Speaker 5: Your pussy's gonna be like you come, you just come. 1121 00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:10,680 Speaker 5: And so combining this fun little clip vibrator with the 1122 00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:17,120 Speaker 5: proximity thing with the thrusting path ship, thrust in time, 1123 00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:19,920 Speaker 5: thrust time I'll put I'll put a link under for 1124 00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:22,040 Speaker 5: a thrust and it's a thrust in time dot Com 1125 00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:24,359 Speaker 5: like I have. So I have the world's. 1126 00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:26,359 Speaker 4: Websites do have I have? 1127 00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:30,680 Speaker 5: I got like fifty and I love to name ship. 1128 00:55:31,600 --> 00:55:33,600 Speaker 5: I have the best collection of you r L in 1129 00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:35,879 Speaker 5: the world. I mean my brand is better lover dot com. 1130 00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:39,600 Speaker 5: That's my brand. That's a good brand, right, So, I 1131 00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:41,880 Speaker 5: mean I just love I'm my husband. I'm like, I 1132 00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:43,840 Speaker 5: need to buy another u ur L. He's like, okay, 1133 00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:44,839 Speaker 5: what's this one gonna be? 1134 00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:48,360 Speaker 2: What a good team exactly? 1135 00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:50,080 Speaker 5: Anyways, So fun fun, fun. 1136 00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:54,040 Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, yeah, very grateful. This is good and I'm 1137 00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:55,280 Speaker 4: going to thrust in time tonight. 1138 00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:57,120 Speaker 5: Yes, I want to hear about it. 1139 00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:00,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, this is pretty This technology here is they're getting 1140 00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:01,440 Speaker 3: getting really amazing. 1141 00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:02,480 Speaker 5: Isn't that cool? 1142 00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:03,480 Speaker 2: This is cool? 1143 00:56:03,680 --> 00:56:03,879 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1144 00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:05,600 Speaker 2: They better send me my damn straps. 1145 00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:07,960 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yea, yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't know. I'll 1146 00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:08,640 Speaker 5: learn about that. 1147 00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:10,640 Speaker 3: It's a pretty like you could just I feel like 1148 00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:13,920 Speaker 3: this is like very like you could hold it profile. Yeah, 1149 00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:15,880 Speaker 3: it's a low profile, like I have a mushroom and 1150 00:56:15,880 --> 00:56:17,759 Speaker 3: I'd be like, excuse me, hold on, Kate, can you 1151 00:56:17,800 --> 00:56:18,480 Speaker 3: back up a little bit? 1152 00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:21,120 Speaker 2: Trying to get my friend in here. So it's basically 1153 00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:22,600 Speaker 2: a threesome. I love that vibrator. 1154 00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:23,239 Speaker 5: I hate that thing. 1155 00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:26,120 Speaker 4: Why it just doesn't do anything. I like a strong vibe. 1156 00:56:26,120 --> 00:56:27,359 Speaker 2: I do not like that. 1157 00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:30,160 Speaker 5: I don't that was like for some Yeah, that same 1158 00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:32,000 Speaker 5: company makes this. This is another one that. 1159 00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:34,719 Speaker 4: I also like really hard massages. So I just. 1160 00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:36,399 Speaker 3: Feel like I like a hard massage, but I don't 1161 00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:37,799 Speaker 3: want a hard vibration of my cla. 1162 00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:38,759 Speaker 2: You know what I also don't like. 1163 00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:43,200 Speaker 3: I don't like very hard jacuzzi jets for an extended time. 1164 00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:46,640 Speaker 3: It makes me like it give it to me hard, baby, 1165 00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:48,680 Speaker 3: Like I like a hard massage, a hard vibration. 1166 00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:50,799 Speaker 5: One of the things I like about this particular wand 1167 00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:52,760 Speaker 5: because if you like, if you like a lot of vibration, 1168 00:56:52,840 --> 00:56:56,400 Speaker 5: you generally would air toward a wand because wands no. 1169 00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:57,839 Speaker 4: Why do you think I was pissed I couldn't find 1170 00:56:57,880 --> 00:56:59,480 Speaker 4: a fucking wand exactly. 1171 00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:03,239 Speaker 5: And so what I like about this is that it 1172 00:57:03,840 --> 00:57:05,480 Speaker 5: and it's from the same company. I'll put a link 1173 00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:08,319 Speaker 5: below to this wand. It's called the pro wond. And 1174 00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:10,839 Speaker 5: what I like about it is that you know how 1175 00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:12,600 Speaker 5: wand heads are big. 1176 00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:15,040 Speaker 4: Some of them, I mean mine is small. I have 1177 00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:19,560 Speaker 4: a magic wand and it's like a yeah, MANI magic. 1178 00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:23,960 Speaker 5: What I like about this is you can put that 1179 00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:24,680 Speaker 5: in your pussy. 1180 00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:27,480 Speaker 2: Oh really, yes, it's a slide right. 1181 00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:29,080 Speaker 5: In your pussy. I mean, look at it. It's not 1182 00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:32,080 Speaker 5: that big, and so it's kind of like a wand. 1183 00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:36,720 Speaker 5: But when you tease your introidal sphincter, when you know 1184 00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:40,280 Speaker 5: the round muscle that is the opening to your vagina. 1185 00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:43,400 Speaker 5: When you tease it and then you slide that right 1186 00:57:43,440 --> 00:57:45,800 Speaker 5: in the entrance to your vagina, you're getting your G 1187 00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:50,960 Speaker 5: spot and you're getting that sphincter muscle which loves pressure. 1188 00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:53,720 Speaker 5: It has mechano receptors. So that's why we love the 1189 00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:55,560 Speaker 5: feeling of a cock sliding in our pussy. 1190 00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:57,360 Speaker 2: Even the G spot, I think people think that it's 1191 00:57:57,480 --> 00:58:01,360 Speaker 2: very deep on the top end. 1192 00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:04,040 Speaker 3: I think people assume G spot is some are very 1193 00:58:04,040 --> 00:58:07,560 Speaker 3: deep in the that and it's actually more in the entrance. 1194 00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:11,080 Speaker 5: Yep. Yeah, So anyway, that's a nice product from that 1195 00:58:11,120 --> 00:58:15,040 Speaker 5: particular brand too. I am always looking for a nice lightweight, 1196 00:58:15,560 --> 00:58:16,840 Speaker 5: super strong. 1197 00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:18,040 Speaker 2: And this is a light way. 1198 00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:20,760 Speaker 5: You're like, it's not way you can use it when 1199 00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:21,640 Speaker 5: you're fucking you. 1200 00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:24,480 Speaker 2: If you get pulled over by TSA. It's not so traumatic. 1201 00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:27,720 Speaker 4: That's why I like my little one small screen. 1202 00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:30,360 Speaker 2: I'm sure you'll find it, honey, I'm sure it's still around. 1203 00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:32,720 Speaker 2: It's gone some of the internet. 1204 00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:37,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, see that. That is the one thing I don't 1205 00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:40,280 Speaker 5: like about the wand I prefer sex toys that are darker. 1206 00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:42,840 Speaker 5: That's why I liked what I brought you today because 1207 00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:45,720 Speaker 5: I don't want bubble gum in my pussy. You know, 1208 00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:47,240 Speaker 5: I just don't know. 1209 00:58:47,520 --> 00:58:50,400 Speaker 4: I like black. It's my favorite color one of them. Anyway, Yeah, 1210 00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:52,640 Speaker 4: that bubble gum in my pussy. 1211 00:58:52,800 --> 00:58:57,040 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, Wow, this was lovely. This is These are 1212 00:58:57,080 --> 00:59:00,680 Speaker 3: beautiful things that I didn't know I need it. I'm 1213 00:59:00,720 --> 00:59:02,120 Speaker 3: so excited to try this today. 1214 00:59:02,240 --> 00:59:05,320 Speaker 5: Yeah. I like to have a lot of like accoutrement 1215 00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:08,400 Speaker 5: to my love making, but I also like to just 1216 00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:14,400 Speaker 5: you know, ascend into bliss with nothing, and so like 1217 00:59:14,440 --> 00:59:18,040 Speaker 5: I'm a very equal opportunity lover that way where sometimes 1218 00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:23,080 Speaker 5: I just want bodies, maybe more than one, and sometimes 1219 00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:28,880 Speaker 5: I want fun toys, weed, vibrators, bells and whistle things, 1220 00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:33,280 Speaker 5: and it's all on the table. When you get it 1221 00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:35,439 Speaker 5: all on the table, then you're starting to have some fun. 1222 00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:37,760 Speaker 5: Then you're not like, oh, should I use this? Will 1223 00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:39,320 Speaker 5: this make it so I can have? 1224 00:59:39,440 --> 00:59:39,480 Speaker 6: No? 1225 00:59:39,640 --> 00:59:42,200 Speaker 5: No, it's gonna make you. It's gonna activate your orgasms. 1226 00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:44,880 Speaker 5: It's gonna make you come better. The more toys you have, 1227 00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:48,480 Speaker 5: the different places you stimulate, getting all that pussy online, 1228 00:59:48,960 --> 00:59:51,040 Speaker 5: it's just gonna make you come better even when you're 1229 00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:52,440 Speaker 5: not using them. 1230 00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:53,800 Speaker 2: And different types of orgasms. 1231 00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:55,320 Speaker 5: Yes, exactly. 1232 00:59:56,360 --> 01:00:04,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, thank you for bringing all of these amazing toys, Santa. 1233 01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:04,439 Speaker 2: Our sex life in an hour. Wow. 1234 01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:08,280 Speaker 4: This really came in the nick of time, because literally yesterday, 1235 01:00:08,320 --> 01:00:14,520 Speaker 4: when that stupid fucking vibrator died on me, I was like, Okay, 1236 01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:17,560 Speaker 4: well it's time to buy some new ones. And here 1237 01:00:17,640 --> 01:00:17,840 Speaker 4: I am. 1238 01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:20,640 Speaker 5: What do you like? What do you want? What do 1239 01:00:20,640 --> 01:00:22,520 Speaker 5: you want? Pleasure? Give me your orders so I can 1240 01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:24,720 Speaker 5: have them sent. What what's appealing to you? 1241 01:00:24,800 --> 01:00:26,680 Speaker 4: Well, I mean this is appealing because I wanted to 1242 01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:28,720 Speaker 4: I want I realized I didn't have I had this 1243 01:00:28,760 --> 01:00:30,160 Speaker 4: other thing to try, but I didn't want to try. 1244 01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:32,240 Speaker 4: I wanted to try something with my partner. This was 1245 01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:33,920 Speaker 4: this is great. I'm excited to use that. 1246 01:00:34,080 --> 01:00:36,200 Speaker 5: And they love when they're plunging into you and they 1247 01:00:36,200 --> 01:00:39,800 Speaker 5: see you going. You know, I feel so happy. 1248 01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:43,520 Speaker 4: So yeah, and then yeah, I mean this wand is 1249 01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:44,080 Speaker 4: always going to. 1250 01:00:44,120 --> 01:00:46,400 Speaker 5: Be okay, so wond you got it. 1251 01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:49,200 Speaker 4: I'm really excited about this another one. I want to 1252 01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:51,360 Speaker 4: have more to do with my partner. 1253 01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:53,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, and toys. 1254 01:00:53,600 --> 01:00:55,120 Speaker 4: Have you you've played with toys? 1255 01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:55,360 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1256 01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:57,200 Speaker 5: And I love seeing his dick and his balls squirting 1257 01:00:57,240 --> 01:00:57,800 Speaker 5: out of that thing. 1258 01:00:57,920 --> 01:00:59,360 Speaker 2: I've never got that thing. 1259 01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:02,000 Speaker 4: I never used. I had a cock ring and then 1260 01:01:02,080 --> 01:01:03,960 Speaker 4: one time I pulled it out not with this guy, 1261 01:01:04,560 --> 01:01:08,120 Speaker 4: and he got mad and a cockering. Yeah that's just 1262 01:01:08,320 --> 01:01:09,200 Speaker 4: like shoot. 1263 01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:12,080 Speaker 2: It basically thinks that dick is soft and you're trying 1264 01:01:12,120 --> 01:01:16,959 Speaker 2: to help him. But if you were, it was, which 1265 01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:18,000 Speaker 2: is why he was triggered. 1266 01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:18,960 Speaker 1: It was. 1267 01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:21,800 Speaker 5: Do you know I'm the Queen of Pean This is 1268 01:01:21,840 --> 01:01:24,600 Speaker 5: one of my other names because I love orgas Queen 1269 01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:29,120 Speaker 5: a pen because I am the woman who has helped 1270 01:01:29,160 --> 01:01:33,000 Speaker 5: almost twenty thousand men learn how to use a penis 1271 01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:38,160 Speaker 5: pump for reversing atrophy, improving a rectile function, and even 1272 01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:41,240 Speaker 5: male enhancement, which is make your dick bigger, which all 1273 01:01:41,280 --> 01:01:42,240 Speaker 5: guys wanted bigger dick. 1274 01:01:42,360 --> 01:01:44,320 Speaker 4: You know that ladies put your husband on, put your 1275 01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:47,480 Speaker 4: boyfriend on, exactly. I mean, that's obviously I think that. 1276 01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:48,840 Speaker 4: I think a lot of women too, Like I know, 1277 01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:51,280 Speaker 4: for me, like when I was experiencing this in a relationship, 1278 01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:53,720 Speaker 4: granted I was in my twenties, and so I just 1279 01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:56,200 Speaker 4: didn't even know how to talk to him about this. 1280 01:01:58,240 --> 01:02:00,480 Speaker 4: And yeah, at first I thought it was me. I 1281 01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:03,880 Speaker 4: was like, yeah, I always think it's I was like, 1282 01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:07,240 Speaker 4: is it me? What the fuck? And then come to 1283 01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:09,000 Speaker 4: find out it's not me at all, because we have 1284 01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:11,680 Speaker 4: spoken to other women about this particular person and it's 1285 01:02:11,760 --> 01:02:16,480 Speaker 4: not us. But I think there's a lot of shame 1286 01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:18,880 Speaker 4: for men too, because there's I mean, they're supposed to 1287 01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:21,439 Speaker 4: just get hard, like that's their only fucking job, right, 1288 01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:23,680 Speaker 4: and they can't even do that well. 1289 01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:26,000 Speaker 2: Well, But it's also like it's it's not a big deal. 1290 01:02:26,080 --> 01:02:28,320 Speaker 3: But if you if we can talk about it, if 1291 01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:29,880 Speaker 3: we can talk about it, and we can just like 1292 01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:32,680 Speaker 3: talk about it, we can have solutions, we can ask Susan, 1293 01:02:33,040 --> 01:02:35,200 Speaker 3: we can do the heart filled things. But like, if 1294 01:02:35,200 --> 01:02:39,680 Speaker 3: you are so defensive and triggered by us even considering 1295 01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:41,480 Speaker 3: like this can be better for you. 1296 01:02:41,480 --> 01:02:43,520 Speaker 2: And for me, then how the fuck are we supposed 1297 01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:43,960 Speaker 2: to improve. 1298 01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:46,760 Speaker 3: It's like men have such a sensitivity because there's so 1299 01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:50,600 Speaker 3: much ego tied into performance and boners and. 1300 01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:52,480 Speaker 2: Like, you know, like let's just talk about it. 1301 01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:55,960 Speaker 3: Let's but if you're not willing to seek the assistance 1302 01:02:56,080 --> 01:02:57,800 Speaker 3: to get better, I mean even when you're like a 1303 01:02:57,800 --> 01:02:59,840 Speaker 3: lot of times just talking about I'm not coming, you know, 1304 01:02:59,880 --> 01:03:02,360 Speaker 3: like how did that conversation go with your husband after 1305 01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:04,600 Speaker 3: twelve years of marriage and you're like, I'm not orgasming. 1306 01:03:04,680 --> 01:03:07,160 Speaker 3: Like some guys could take that so personally and be like, 1307 01:03:07,320 --> 01:03:10,120 Speaker 3: fuck you bitch. Everybody loves this dick, you know, which 1308 01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:12,120 Speaker 3: they most do, and you're like, no, you're lying. I 1309 01:03:12,160 --> 01:03:14,400 Speaker 3: just talked to the girl last week. But it's like 1310 01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:18,440 Speaker 3: if you just have the if you're expanded enough, you 1311 01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:20,280 Speaker 3: feel safe enough. And that's another thing I feel like 1312 01:03:20,280 --> 01:03:22,880 Speaker 3: to women always talk about their safety and how like 1313 01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:24,920 Speaker 3: we can come in our orgasms get larger as soon 1314 01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:27,560 Speaker 3: as we feel safe and our nervous systems are like, 1315 01:03:27,640 --> 01:03:30,000 Speaker 3: you know, and a good place. But I think men 1316 01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:33,240 Speaker 3: also really require safety, and it's like, I don't think 1317 01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:34,880 Speaker 3: women really talk about that different. 1318 01:03:35,280 --> 01:03:35,440 Speaker 6: You know. 1319 01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:36,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're the same, but the. 1320 01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:38,920 Speaker 5: Parts arranged in different orders exactly. 1321 01:03:39,320 --> 01:03:42,640 Speaker 3: And it's just like I think that women also forget 1322 01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:45,360 Speaker 3: that men have to feel comfortable and safe in the 1323 01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:48,600 Speaker 3: conversation of how can we improve this because they are 1324 01:03:48,640 --> 01:03:51,960 Speaker 3: sensitive as fuck, more sensitive than women as we know, yeah, yeah, 1325 01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:53,680 Speaker 3: you know, and we have to like and we have 1326 01:03:53,760 --> 01:03:57,760 Speaker 3: to learn the language of like affirming them while also 1327 01:03:58,120 --> 01:04:01,080 Speaker 3: saying there's room for improvement, you know, because it is 1328 01:04:01,120 --> 01:04:03,080 Speaker 3: a sense of subject. Everybody wants to think they're a 1329 01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:05,600 Speaker 3: sex god, and everybody's not. Most of us aren't because 1330 01:04:05,600 --> 01:04:06,440 Speaker 3: we haven't been taught. 1331 01:04:06,440 --> 01:04:09,120 Speaker 5: There's so much to learn. I mean, I've been literally 1332 01:04:09,360 --> 01:04:13,160 Speaker 5: focused on learning about sex for two decades straight, and 1333 01:04:13,360 --> 01:04:17,240 Speaker 5: I constantly learn new things, and I'm constantly incrementing my 1334 01:04:17,320 --> 01:04:21,400 Speaker 5: skills and my ability and my orgasmic potential and all 1335 01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:23,120 Speaker 5: kinds of things. So that's one of the things I 1336 01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:27,640 Speaker 5: love about sex. If sex were brand, its tagline would 1337 01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:33,440 Speaker 5: be sex There's always something more, and it never and 1338 01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:35,800 Speaker 5: that's one of the things that my mentor who taught 1339 01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:38,440 Speaker 5: me to be an orgasmonaut. She's like, don't worry, baby, 1340 01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:41,439 Speaker 5: You'll never run out of things to try. It's there's 1341 01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:45,080 Speaker 5: always more. And she's she's in she's pushing her eighties now, 1342 01:04:45,080 --> 01:04:47,000 Speaker 5: and she's still got a great sex life. 1343 01:04:47,080 --> 01:04:47,440 Speaker 2: Really. 1344 01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:50,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, I speak from stage a lot about sex span. 1345 01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:52,920 Speaker 5: Why extending your sex span. 1346 01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:56,400 Speaker 4: Extend your life self span? Well, and you like your 1347 01:04:56,440 --> 01:04:59,400 Speaker 4: health and your life or your happiness. Yeah, yeah, I 1348 01:04:59,560 --> 01:05:02,400 Speaker 4: definitely I understand that. I agree with that. 1349 01:05:02,880 --> 01:05:03,880 Speaker 2: Does she have a partner? 1350 01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:05,760 Speaker 5: Yes too? 1351 01:05:05,600 --> 01:05:08,080 Speaker 2: Who's who's old? Who's old? Are they older too? 1352 01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:08,439 Speaker 5: Yeah? 1353 01:05:08,560 --> 01:05:10,919 Speaker 3: My grandma told me before she passed, blessed her heart, 1354 01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:12,920 Speaker 3: she said, And she's a Christian. 1355 01:05:13,120 --> 01:05:16,000 Speaker 2: She said, God cursed us. Oh, I said, what do 1356 01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:19,200 Speaker 2: you mean. She's like, I still work fine, everything works fine. 1357 01:05:19,280 --> 01:05:23,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, but the men they don't work well. I have 1358 01:05:23,240 --> 01:05:26,960 Speaker 5: a whole regenerative stack that I recommend for men so 1359 01:05:27,000 --> 01:05:29,920 Speaker 5: that they have a bang and boner for their whole life. 1360 01:05:30,000 --> 01:05:32,280 Speaker 2: That was the only always be reversed. 1361 01:05:32,280 --> 01:05:34,280 Speaker 3: That's literally the only negative thing I ever heard my 1362 01:05:34,280 --> 01:05:38,640 Speaker 3: grandmother say about God. That's the only negative thing I've 1363 01:05:38,640 --> 01:05:41,000 Speaker 3: ever heard to come out of her Christian mouth and 1364 01:05:41,160 --> 01:05:46,320 Speaker 3: right and before she died, she told me listen when 1365 01:05:46,360 --> 01:05:48,920 Speaker 3: I die, I went, I was like, what she's like. 1366 01:05:49,160 --> 01:05:50,520 Speaker 3: I was like, She's like, I want to tell you 1367 01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:51,880 Speaker 3: about something. I was like, oh my god, she's gonna 1368 01:05:51,880 --> 01:05:53,520 Speaker 3: give you money. She's gonna tell me what the stashes. 1369 01:05:53,560 --> 01:05:56,600 Speaker 3: She's like, in my room there's a Crown Royal bag. 1370 01:05:56,680 --> 01:05:57,320 Speaker 3: Next to my bed. 1371 01:05:57,400 --> 01:05:58,840 Speaker 2: There's a wet bag Crown Royal bed. 1372 01:05:58,920 --> 01:06:00,000 Speaker 5: Oh yeah yeah. 1373 01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:02,120 Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, I'm the only granddaughter. 1374 01:06:02,160 --> 01:06:04,520 Speaker 3: I'm going to have the money. She was like, it's 1375 01:06:04,520 --> 01:06:06,840 Speaker 3: my vibrators. Throw it away. 1376 01:06:08,360 --> 01:06:10,000 Speaker 2: She was like, I don't want your aunt to find them. 1377 01:06:10,080 --> 01:06:11,280 Speaker 2: She's so square. 1378 01:06:12,720 --> 01:06:15,760 Speaker 3: And God and thank God. When I was there and 1379 01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:18,120 Speaker 3: I was like crying and I was like, let me 1380 01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:19,360 Speaker 3: go Royal. 1381 01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:23,840 Speaker 2: Shelly had one wish. I was looking through a ship 1382 01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:25,120 Speaker 2: and then I found it. 1383 01:06:26,160 --> 01:06:26,920 Speaker 4: What kind of vibrad? 1384 01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:30,959 Speaker 5: I didn't go I'm dying to know what. 1385 01:06:32,000 --> 01:06:34,280 Speaker 2: I didn't go very deep in back, guys. I just 1386 01:06:34,600 --> 01:06:36,800 Speaker 2: like I just confirmed it was in there. 1387 01:06:36,840 --> 01:06:38,840 Speaker 3: There was like I think it's like the want and 1388 01:06:38,880 --> 01:06:42,280 Speaker 3: I just laughed and also threw it away. 1389 01:06:42,360 --> 01:06:44,920 Speaker 2: But for that to be her last request and for. 1390 01:06:45,000 --> 01:06:48,920 Speaker 3: It to be a me I was, I know, I 1391 01:06:48,960 --> 01:06:51,200 Speaker 3: mean I never told anyone that, but I just thought 1392 01:06:51,680 --> 01:06:54,800 Speaker 3: only my grandmother would have such a request. 1393 01:06:55,040 --> 01:06:58,080 Speaker 5: So I have a request yet, I'd like to end. 1394 01:06:58,160 --> 01:06:59,760 Speaker 5: I know, we need to bring this to a clothes 1395 01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:01,200 Speaker 5: Such a nice time with you too. 1396 01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:03,360 Speaker 2: I enjoyed it so really pleasure, Thank you. 1397 01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:06,560 Speaker 5: I wanted to know if we could do hashtag mom brags. 1398 01:07:06,880 --> 01:07:08,120 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I would like. 1399 01:07:08,280 --> 01:07:11,840 Speaker 5: I would like to hear something you're really proud of 1400 01:07:11,880 --> 01:07:14,720 Speaker 5: your daughter about. 1401 01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:17,640 Speaker 4: Hmmm, would you like to go first? 1402 01:07:18,280 --> 01:07:18,600 Speaker 2: Sure? 1403 01:07:19,640 --> 01:07:22,600 Speaker 3: Luna is ten, and you know what, I'm really proud 1404 01:07:22,720 --> 01:07:25,880 Speaker 3: that she's developing and like coming into her womanhood. 1405 01:07:27,560 --> 01:07:34,320 Speaker 2: She is sad, and she's very like level headed. 1406 01:07:34,840 --> 01:07:35,320 Speaker 5: That's nice. 1407 01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:36,160 Speaker 2: She's very clear. 1408 01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:38,800 Speaker 3: She's like, you know, one of the teachers at school 1409 01:07:38,800 --> 01:07:40,680 Speaker 3: told me, you know, I have to tell you about her. 1410 01:07:40,760 --> 01:07:41,920 Speaker 3: She and I don't know what I thought she could 1411 01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:43,040 Speaker 3: tell me, And I asked her what was she gonna 1412 01:07:43,040 --> 01:07:43,280 Speaker 3: tell me? 1413 01:07:43,320 --> 01:07:44,640 Speaker 2: She was like, I don't know. 1414 01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:46,680 Speaker 3: She was just saying, like some of the girls, they're 1415 01:07:46,720 --> 01:07:49,400 Speaker 3: like acting weird and sometimes we will play, sometimes we don't, 1416 01:07:49,400 --> 01:07:52,160 Speaker 3: but like I'll just basically I'll remove myself, you know, 1417 01:07:52,240 --> 01:07:53,880 Speaker 3: like she's like, I just ill good. 1418 01:07:54,040 --> 01:07:54,960 Speaker 2: She'll play myself. 1419 01:07:55,680 --> 01:07:59,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, She's like, I'm good, and she can remove herself, 1420 01:07:59,000 --> 01:08:01,800 Speaker 3: and like it really seems like she doesn't take it 1421 01:08:01,840 --> 01:08:04,400 Speaker 3: so personally, and it's just like I think I remember 1422 01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:06,560 Speaker 3: at an age, but you know when friends start, you know, 1423 01:08:06,600 --> 01:08:09,840 Speaker 3: getting catty, just feeling sad. But I just feel like 1424 01:08:09,880 --> 01:08:14,080 Speaker 3: she's like very clear about who she is and what 1425 01:08:14,160 --> 01:08:15,840 Speaker 3: she wants. And I feel like it's like, wow, you're 1426 01:08:15,840 --> 01:08:19,559 Speaker 3: pretty emotionally you know, like expansive at this age. And 1427 01:08:19,600 --> 01:08:21,760 Speaker 3: it makes me like very proud to know that she 1428 01:08:22,760 --> 01:08:24,880 Speaker 3: made me some of the work I hope that I've 1429 01:08:24,920 --> 01:08:28,320 Speaker 3: done to plant seeds that is like, you know, starting 1430 01:08:28,360 --> 01:08:31,360 Speaker 3: to develop in a way that's meaningful that I see 1431 01:08:31,400 --> 01:08:35,960 Speaker 3: like conversations I didn't have with my parents and just her. Oh, 1432 01:08:36,000 --> 01:08:40,000 Speaker 3: if I was there, I would have said, you know, 1433 01:08:40,080 --> 01:08:43,240 Speaker 3: like she's very I don't know, matter of fact, and 1434 01:08:43,320 --> 01:08:46,320 Speaker 3: I love it and she's hilarious. So I'm like really 1435 01:08:46,400 --> 01:08:49,800 Speaker 3: enjoying her developing as like always been my best friend, 1436 01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:53,640 Speaker 3: but really like knowing that if we met in a 1437 01:08:54,080 --> 01:08:56,519 Speaker 3: different life and you weren't my child, I would really 1438 01:08:57,040 --> 01:08:57,519 Speaker 3: enjoy you. 1439 01:08:58,320 --> 01:09:03,760 Speaker 5: Nice. She's sovereign she's self possessed. I love that. Boy, 1440 01:09:03,840 --> 01:09:05,800 Speaker 5: that's the kind of girls we want to raise, right, 1441 01:09:06,400 --> 01:09:10,439 Speaker 5: Sovereign at ten is what we need, sovereign from the 1442 01:09:10,439 --> 01:09:12,680 Speaker 5: minute we come out of the womb, you know, to 1443 01:09:12,720 --> 01:09:14,960 Speaker 5: support that in our daughters, and to see that in 1444 01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:16,880 Speaker 5: your daughter, that's lovely. 1445 01:09:16,960 --> 01:09:18,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that. I'm very proud. 1446 01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:21,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, me too. I'm proud for her. 1447 01:09:21,920 --> 01:09:23,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love her so much. 1448 01:09:23,280 --> 01:09:28,240 Speaker 5: I get a contact proud high. I like mom brags. 1449 01:09:30,120 --> 01:09:33,320 Speaker 4: I think I'm I think I'm really proud of how 1450 01:09:33,320 --> 01:09:36,519 Speaker 4: compassionate my daughter is. I think that I've I know 1451 01:09:36,600 --> 01:09:38,720 Speaker 4: that about her, but hearing it from other people like 1452 01:09:38,760 --> 01:09:41,240 Speaker 4: I recently too, I had a parent teacher conference and 1453 01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:46,599 Speaker 4: just like hearing her teacher express to her how fair 1454 01:09:46,920 --> 01:09:50,040 Speaker 4: she is. Oh nice, Because she's in a phase in 1455 01:09:50,080 --> 01:09:53,519 Speaker 4: her friendship circles where there's a lot of they're like 1456 01:09:53,800 --> 01:09:56,680 Speaker 4: kind of getting into like the mean girl moments of 1457 01:09:56,720 --> 01:10:00,599 Speaker 4: their life and like the division, and she doesn't go 1458 01:10:00,720 --> 01:10:03,240 Speaker 4: for it good and she stays out of trouble, like 1459 01:10:03,280 --> 01:10:06,040 Speaker 4: she's not gonna follow the pack and just see fuck 1460 01:10:06,080 --> 01:10:08,960 Speaker 4: around and find out. Yeah she's gonna be like yeah, 1461 01:10:09,080 --> 01:10:11,120 Speaker 4: I don't think so, I'm gonna remove myselfles same with 1462 01:10:11,160 --> 01:10:16,280 Speaker 4: like what she just said. In that way, I also think, like, 1463 01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:18,120 Speaker 4: you know, me and my daughter too are like are 1464 01:10:18,120 --> 01:10:20,240 Speaker 4: on a journey right now of like learning how to 1465 01:10:20,320 --> 01:10:24,840 Speaker 4: express emotions, and it's been like it's been for me, 1466 01:10:25,000 --> 01:10:28,120 Speaker 4: I think challenging because like when they say, like your 1467 01:10:28,200 --> 01:10:31,640 Speaker 4: children are your mirrors, like I've of course I've experienced that, 1468 01:10:31,720 --> 01:10:35,080 Speaker 4: but I'm very much experiencing that right now in this 1469 01:10:35,200 --> 01:10:37,559 Speaker 4: moment with her, because as a young girl, I had 1470 01:10:37,600 --> 01:10:41,599 Speaker 4: a really hard time expressing my emotions and I realize 1471 01:10:41,680 --> 01:10:45,559 Speaker 4: how I still maybe have that you do. You run deep, 1472 01:10:45,960 --> 01:10:46,639 Speaker 4: and so. 1473 01:10:46,479 --> 01:10:47,880 Speaker 5: I can tell I could tell at the minute I 1474 01:10:47,920 --> 01:10:50,000 Speaker 5: met you you run deep. There's a lot going on, 1475 01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:52,840 Speaker 5: but you don't show it. It takes you a while 1476 01:10:52,880 --> 01:10:53,200 Speaker 5: to show. 1477 01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:55,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, i have a lot of scorpio in my chart, 1478 01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:58,840 Speaker 4: and I'm just an observe. I'm an observer, so I 1479 01:10:58,920 --> 01:11:01,200 Speaker 4: like to observe and then and I decide how much 1480 01:11:01,240 --> 01:11:04,519 Speaker 4: I want to share. And I think that I see 1481 01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:07,760 Speaker 4: that in her as well. But I also see like 1482 01:11:07,800 --> 01:11:09,679 Speaker 4: we've been having a lot of conversations over the last 1483 01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:13,640 Speaker 4: week and that I met a beautiful point in our 1484 01:11:13,680 --> 01:11:17,040 Speaker 4: relationship where like I have the opportunity to shift that 1485 01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:21,920 Speaker 4: and she's open to it, and I wasn't sure if 1486 01:11:21,920 --> 01:11:24,439 Speaker 4: she was going to be And so we had a 1487 01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:26,880 Speaker 4: call with our community. Shout out to our Discord community. 1488 01:11:26,920 --> 01:11:28,439 Speaker 4: You guys like really showed up for me the other 1489 01:11:28,520 --> 01:11:30,240 Speaker 4: day on Zoom because I was having a really hard 1490 01:11:30,280 --> 01:11:33,040 Speaker 4: time and I was feeling really emotional about it and 1491 01:11:33,120 --> 01:11:35,559 Speaker 4: like feeling lost, like what the fuck do I do? 1492 01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:37,360 Speaker 4: Like how do I do this? I don't have the tools. 1493 01:11:37,360 --> 01:11:38,960 Speaker 4: I thought I had the tools. I don't have the tools. 1494 01:11:39,640 --> 01:11:42,479 Speaker 4: And they gave me a lot of great advice. And 1495 01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:45,080 Speaker 4: I talked to her about it the other day about 1496 01:11:45,080 --> 01:11:47,000 Speaker 4: like just some things I want to implement and just 1497 01:11:47,040 --> 01:11:50,960 Speaker 4: like our every day mom practices, mom and daughter practices, 1498 01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:52,880 Speaker 4: and she was open to it. She didn't resist it, 1499 01:11:53,320 --> 01:11:56,080 Speaker 4: she wasn't scared by it, and so I just I 1500 01:11:56,080 --> 01:11:59,640 Speaker 4: think I really appreciate just like how open she is 1501 01:12:00,200 --> 01:12:05,599 Speaker 4: to wanting us to be closer and better and she's 1502 01:12:05,640 --> 01:12:08,479 Speaker 4: not I think I'm I'm lucky that she's at an 1503 01:12:08,520 --> 01:12:11,200 Speaker 4: age too where she's ten and there's still that desire 1504 01:12:11,560 --> 01:12:14,080 Speaker 4: for mommy, you know, like I've caught it at a 1505 01:12:14,080 --> 01:12:15,680 Speaker 4: good age, Like she's not not a good age. I 1506 01:12:15,720 --> 01:12:16,920 Speaker 4: was saying, like, if you have a fourteen or fifty 1507 01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:18,439 Speaker 4: year old, it's too late. But like I think that 1508 01:12:18,479 --> 01:12:21,719 Speaker 4: there's still this like malleableness that she that she has 1509 01:12:21,760 --> 01:12:25,320 Speaker 4: this curiosity that she has. So I'm excited that I 1510 01:12:25,360 --> 01:12:27,200 Speaker 4: get to do that with her, and she is like 1511 01:12:27,320 --> 01:12:32,760 Speaker 4: my she's my little friend. She's my friend, and I'm 1512 01:12:32,800 --> 01:12:34,760 Speaker 4: just grateful that I get to like do life with 1513 01:12:34,800 --> 01:12:36,920 Speaker 4: her in this life and that she's teaching me because 1514 01:12:37,240 --> 01:12:40,680 Speaker 4: I realize, like, fuck, we're learning together. I really don't know. 1515 01:12:40,800 --> 01:12:42,360 Speaker 4: Jamila asked me the other day, like what would you 1516 01:12:42,360 --> 01:12:44,240 Speaker 4: have wanted in that moment? And I was like, bitch, 1517 01:12:44,280 --> 01:12:48,360 Speaker 4: I don't know. That's the problem. And so I'm figuring 1518 01:12:48,400 --> 01:12:51,080 Speaker 4: it out now and I feel like it's helping me 1519 01:12:51,200 --> 01:12:56,200 Speaker 4: heal something in my little like little Erica through her. 1520 01:12:56,680 --> 01:12:58,840 Speaker 4: So I'm just I'm grateful that I get to do 1521 01:12:58,920 --> 01:12:59,320 Speaker 4: that with her. 1522 01:12:59,439 --> 01:13:02,080 Speaker 5: Oh that's so sweet. What was the best piece of 1523 01:13:02,120 --> 01:13:03,719 Speaker 5: advice she got from your discord grouped? 1524 01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:07,200 Speaker 4: She started a journal with her? 1525 01:13:07,479 --> 01:13:09,160 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I thought that was a really good. 1526 01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:12,680 Speaker 4: Like start a journal like with each other, like so 1527 01:13:13,720 --> 01:13:15,800 Speaker 4: like I write something, she writes something. It doesn't have 1528 01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:20,120 Speaker 4: to be heavy at first, like something light. My friend also, 1529 01:13:20,160 --> 01:13:21,560 Speaker 4: she works with kids. I was talking to her on 1530 01:13:21,600 --> 01:13:24,000 Speaker 4: the way here and she was saying that I should have. 1531 01:13:24,200 --> 01:13:26,160 Speaker 4: She's like, have you ever had a feelings wheel? And 1532 01:13:26,200 --> 01:13:27,639 Speaker 4: I was like, what a feel What's a feeling wheel? 1533 01:13:27,680 --> 01:13:29,599 Speaker 4: She's like a wheel where there's like thirty different feelings 1534 01:13:29,600 --> 01:13:31,840 Speaker 4: and like you, she picks how she feels today and 1535 01:13:31,880 --> 01:13:34,200 Speaker 4: she like she's able to identify it because sometimes like 1536 01:13:34,479 --> 01:13:36,280 Speaker 4: you don't even know how to identify what you're feeling. 1537 01:13:36,280 --> 01:13:37,719 Speaker 4: And I was like, bitch, I need a feelings wheel. 1538 01:13:37,760 --> 01:13:41,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, like Orlando has one as a screensaver. 1539 01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:42,240 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1540 01:13:42,360 --> 01:13:44,919 Speaker 4: I was like, I need a feelings well because. 1541 01:13:44,920 --> 01:13:45,759 Speaker 2: We're not really trying. 1542 01:13:45,800 --> 01:13:48,519 Speaker 3: Our language is so limited, and I think we were 1543 01:13:48,560 --> 01:13:50,599 Speaker 3: thinking I can speak English, I can read And it's 1544 01:13:50,680 --> 01:13:54,800 Speaker 3: like when you ask about emotions, it's like angry, sad, stressed, anxious, 1545 01:13:55,200 --> 01:13:59,960 Speaker 3: pissed off, really pissed off, you know, like furious, fear, scared. 1546 01:14:00,479 --> 01:14:03,640 Speaker 2: But they really don't they don't extend much out of that. 1547 01:14:03,720 --> 01:14:05,679 Speaker 3: Like there's like probably like if we had a test 1548 01:14:05,720 --> 01:14:07,400 Speaker 3: right now, like as fast as you can write down 1549 01:14:07,400 --> 01:14:10,040 Speaker 3: twenty feelings, we're probably gonna cap out at like fucking 1550 01:14:10,040 --> 01:14:12,280 Speaker 3: twenty five each. I mean, unless you've been studying your 1551 01:14:12,320 --> 01:14:14,080 Speaker 3: feelings less, it's probably less. 1552 01:14:14,160 --> 01:14:17,080 Speaker 2: So it makes me realize like even you're like, oh, 1553 01:14:17,080 --> 01:14:18,599 Speaker 2: how was school and they're. 1554 01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:21,320 Speaker 3: Like good, yeah, and you're like wanting more, but you 1555 01:14:21,320 --> 01:14:23,439 Speaker 3: don't know the questions to ask. It's like that is 1556 01:14:23,479 --> 01:14:26,400 Speaker 3: the most telling sign that we're all out of language, 1557 01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:29,120 Speaker 3: including our ten year olds, including our thirty seven year olds. 1558 01:14:29,120 --> 01:14:31,760 Speaker 3: Like if you don't expand in that way, like damn, 1559 01:14:31,800 --> 01:14:33,160 Speaker 3: I realize I don't have a lot of ways to 1560 01:14:33,200 --> 01:14:36,200 Speaker 3: express my emotions and that leaves me limited and limited 1561 01:14:36,240 --> 01:14:38,479 Speaker 3: in my expression and how I share and let people in. 1562 01:14:38,840 --> 01:14:40,680 Speaker 3: And then you don't like take the extra step to 1563 01:14:40,680 --> 01:14:43,000 Speaker 3: be like let me go fucking look and then tell 1564 01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:44,840 Speaker 3: my kid this at this early age so she's not 1565 01:14:45,080 --> 01:14:47,759 Speaker 3: stuck or feeling stuck at this age. It's like there's 1566 01:14:48,120 --> 01:14:51,280 Speaker 3: a learning that we have to continue to indulge in 1567 01:14:51,360 --> 01:14:55,679 Speaker 3: as adults, specifically with language, so that we can connect 1568 01:14:55,680 --> 01:14:58,439 Speaker 3: with other people in our communities in like an adequate way, 1569 01:14:58,680 --> 01:15:00,760 Speaker 3: and that we don't really do adult it's not like 1570 01:15:00,840 --> 01:15:04,120 Speaker 3: promoted and so like it's limited in the bedroom and 1571 01:15:04,120 --> 01:15:06,600 Speaker 3: your relationships and with your kids, and then they just 1572 01:15:06,920 --> 01:15:09,799 Speaker 3: repeat the cycle because we're teaching them the all ten feelings. 1573 01:15:09,840 --> 01:15:10,080 Speaker 2: We know. 1574 01:15:10,280 --> 01:15:13,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, oh, I love that. That's great. The journaling thing 1575 01:15:13,760 --> 01:15:14,400 Speaker 5: is a neat idea. 1576 01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:16,519 Speaker 3: I like the wheel, like getting a physical one and 1577 01:15:16,520 --> 01:15:18,680 Speaker 3: then making it everyday thing so it doesn't feel like 1578 01:15:18,680 --> 01:15:21,080 Speaker 3: when we're in when something's big, then you the only 1579 01:15:21,120 --> 01:15:23,080 Speaker 3: time we pull it out where it's like okay, like 1580 01:15:23,240 --> 01:15:24,479 Speaker 3: what if you kept it in the car and every 1581 01:15:24,520 --> 01:15:26,040 Speaker 3: time you pick up from school you're like tell me 1582 01:15:26,080 --> 01:15:29,320 Speaker 3: how was today? You know, like make it a practice. 1583 01:15:29,400 --> 01:15:29,840 Speaker 2: I like that. 1584 01:15:30,120 --> 01:15:33,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, I love that. That's so great. Yeah all right. 1585 01:15:35,600 --> 01:15:39,760 Speaker 2: Hashtag to the shows mom bragged by mom. 1586 01:15:40,360 --> 01:15:44,080 Speaker 5: I know exactly. Hashtag mom brag. Let's get them. My 1587 01:15:44,160 --> 01:15:48,920 Speaker 5: daughter's twenty eight and she didn't ever feel like she 1588 01:15:48,960 --> 01:15:51,200 Speaker 5: did well in school and now she has a full 1589 01:15:51,280 --> 01:15:54,519 Speaker 5: ride scholarship to get a PhD. I gave her a 1590 01:15:54,600 --> 01:15:57,880 Speaker 5: DK eyewitness book on sharks when she was like seven 1591 01:15:57,960 --> 01:16:03,120 Speaker 5: or eight years old, and she's like, Mom, this is amazing. 1592 01:16:03,840 --> 01:16:08,280 Speaker 5: And she became a marine scientist. All these years, and 1593 01:16:08,560 --> 01:16:13,840 Speaker 5: just recently she had applied for a Fulbright scholarship and 1594 01:16:14,160 --> 01:16:19,760 Speaker 5: she has been helping her friends in Africa apply for 1595 01:16:19,920 --> 01:16:22,880 Speaker 5: scholarships like she figured out how to do it, and 1596 01:16:22,920 --> 01:16:26,680 Speaker 5: she's spoken on climate change climate change conferences and done 1597 01:16:26,720 --> 01:16:30,840 Speaker 5: a lot of work in Africa, and so she was 1598 01:16:31,040 --> 01:16:34,000 Speaker 5: really wanting this Fullbright scholarship. And I was worried with. 1599 01:16:33,960 --> 01:16:38,840 Speaker 7: The current administration that all that shit got wrecked with 1600 01:16:39,000 --> 01:16:41,880 Speaker 7: DOGE and all the wrecking ball of what's going on 1601 01:16:41,960 --> 01:16:44,320 Speaker 7: with our USAID and all of those kinds of things. 1602 01:16:44,320 --> 01:16:46,040 Speaker 5: And I was like, Babe, you're not going to get that. 1603 01:16:46,040 --> 01:16:48,280 Speaker 5: She's like, Mom, don't be so negative. 1604 01:16:48,360 --> 01:16:49,200 Speaker 2: I still have helpe. 1605 01:16:49,200 --> 01:16:50,640 Speaker 5: And I'm like, all right, but I'm just trying to 1606 01:16:50,680 --> 01:16:52,599 Speaker 5: be reasonable, like I just don't think the full Brights 1607 01:16:52,600 --> 01:16:54,360 Speaker 5: are going to be happening right now. 1608 01:16:54,840 --> 01:16:55,439 Speaker 2: She calls me and. 1609 01:16:55,400 --> 01:16:59,439 Speaker 5: She's like, guess what I got. They have given her 1610 01:16:59,520 --> 01:17:04,439 Speaker 5: twenty six thousand dollars and to do her dream, which 1611 01:17:04,479 --> 01:17:08,880 Speaker 5: is to go to Tanzania and to work with the 1612 01:17:08,920 --> 01:17:14,559 Speaker 5: fisher folks of the reef coastal reef communities, which it's 1613 01:17:14,560 --> 01:17:18,360 Speaker 5: mostly women that do the commerce. And she is setting 1614 01:17:18,400 --> 01:17:27,639 Speaker 5: up a sea cucumber fingerling baby aquaculture farm with these 1615 01:17:27,760 --> 01:17:32,360 Speaker 5: women and they are going to grow sea cucumbers and 1616 01:17:32,479 --> 01:17:34,960 Speaker 5: release them out on their reefs and when they grow 1617 01:17:35,200 --> 01:17:39,000 Speaker 5: up on the reefs. They can sell them to the Chinese, 1618 01:17:39,080 --> 01:17:42,880 Speaker 5: who buy them for their longevity biologics. The Chinese like 1619 01:17:42,920 --> 01:17:46,360 Speaker 5: them because it makes them and there are longevity biologics 1620 01:17:46,360 --> 01:17:49,400 Speaker 5: and sea cucumbers. The problem is that the reefs have 1621 01:17:49,720 --> 01:17:54,920 Speaker 5: been decimated by people trying to feed their kids, selling 1622 01:17:55,000 --> 01:17:58,639 Speaker 5: off the sea cucumbers and not replacing them. And so 1623 01:17:58,680 --> 01:18:04,760 Speaker 5: she's setting up an aquaculture farm with on Zanzibar off 1624 01:18:04,800 --> 01:18:08,680 Speaker 5: the coast of Tanzania as her one point oh to 1625 01:18:08,760 --> 01:18:11,439 Speaker 5: prove that this can be replicated all over the world, 1626 01:18:11,840 --> 01:18:14,280 Speaker 5: because she said, I can try to save the reefs 1627 01:18:14,600 --> 01:18:16,880 Speaker 5: as a marine scientist, but what I gotta do is 1628 01:18:16,880 --> 01:18:19,240 Speaker 5: I gotta I gotta fix the poverty on the shores. 1629 01:18:19,320 --> 01:18:21,679 Speaker 5: It's not the reefs, it's the poverty on the shore. 1630 01:18:22,200 --> 01:18:24,240 Speaker 4: They're gonna just keep going. I was watching some sort 1631 01:18:24,280 --> 01:18:25,920 Speaker 4: of like it was a documentary. It was like a 1632 01:18:26,640 --> 01:18:29,280 Speaker 4: it's like a short documentary about something similar to that, 1633 01:18:29,320 --> 01:18:32,519 Speaker 4: where they were like like the locals or the local fishermen, 1634 01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:35,040 Speaker 4: some of them ethically fish, where they literally just go 1635 01:18:35,120 --> 01:18:38,080 Speaker 4: down there and swim and like spearfish, and then some 1636 01:18:38,120 --> 01:18:40,760 Speaker 4: of them just let off bombs ye and they're just 1637 01:18:40,800 --> 01:18:43,519 Speaker 4: letting off bombs for just like because they need to 1638 01:18:43,520 --> 01:18:44,960 Speaker 4: feed their families and they need to just get a 1639 01:18:45,000 --> 01:18:47,759 Speaker 4: bunch of shit at once, and it's totally damaging. 1640 01:18:48,200 --> 01:18:50,840 Speaker 2: They're putting just kill everything and take it up. 1641 01:18:50,920 --> 01:18:54,439 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, okay, yeah, it breaks all the carl. It 1642 01:18:54,520 --> 01:18:58,080 Speaker 5: ruins everything. So I love that she is focused on 1643 01:18:58,439 --> 01:19:01,880 Speaker 5: lifting up the indigenous people, not being She's like, I'm 1644 01:19:01,880 --> 01:19:03,360 Speaker 5: not going to be a scientist coming in and telling 1645 01:19:03,520 --> 01:19:05,680 Speaker 5: the local people what the fuck to do. I'm going 1646 01:19:05,760 --> 01:19:09,040 Speaker 5: to go empower them so that they can live a 1647 01:19:09,040 --> 01:19:11,240 Speaker 5: better life and take care of the thing that they've 1648 01:19:11,280 --> 01:19:14,439 Speaker 5: been living off of for eons. And so I'm just 1649 01:19:14,439 --> 01:19:15,960 Speaker 5: so proud of her, and I'm just so happy she 1650 01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:17,720 Speaker 5: got that scholarship. But I'm so glad I was wrong 1651 01:19:17,800 --> 01:19:21,519 Speaker 5: and she was right. And I say it because it 1652 01:19:21,560 --> 01:19:24,400 Speaker 5: was that DK book that started it all and the 1653 01:19:24,439 --> 01:19:26,880 Speaker 5: fact that I never would let her give up her 1654 01:19:26,960 --> 01:19:29,400 Speaker 5: dreams and that she I never let her think she 1655 01:19:29,479 --> 01:19:31,800 Speaker 5: was stupid, even if she thought she was, I was like, girl, 1656 01:19:31,880 --> 01:19:32,240 Speaker 5: you're not. 1657 01:19:32,439 --> 01:19:33,679 Speaker 2: They're so hard on themselves. 1658 01:19:33,760 --> 01:19:38,040 Speaker 5: They're so hard on themselves, and so having our young 1659 01:19:38,080 --> 01:19:42,000 Speaker 5: women be able to show other young women what is 1660 01:19:42,080 --> 01:19:45,479 Speaker 5: possible That's what makes me so happy. And that's what 1661 01:19:45,520 --> 01:19:48,400 Speaker 5: I love about mom brags. It's like when you when 1662 01:19:48,439 --> 01:19:50,040 Speaker 5: I hear what you're doing with your daughter, when you 1663 01:19:50,080 --> 01:19:52,400 Speaker 5: hear what I'm doing with my daughter, When we when 1664 01:19:52,400 --> 01:19:55,120 Speaker 5: we get the opportunity to share that with your audience, 1665 01:19:55,360 --> 01:19:58,680 Speaker 5: that's that's that just lifts up everybody. That lifts up 1666 01:19:58,720 --> 01:20:00,760 Speaker 5: all women. And when we lift up women, we lift 1667 01:20:00,840 --> 01:20:01,480 Speaker 5: up everybody. 1668 01:20:01,600 --> 01:20:03,360 Speaker 2: Amen, because we run the world. 1669 01:20:03,920 --> 01:20:06,639 Speaker 4: Like Beyonce said, okay, wait before we get out of here, 1670 01:20:06,880 --> 01:20:09,439 Speaker 4: three things. Oh okay, do you have an affirmation that 1671 01:20:09,439 --> 01:20:11,920 Speaker 4: you can share with her audience. I feel like you've 1672 01:20:11,920 --> 01:20:13,360 Speaker 4: said a lot of them, just like right now. But 1673 01:20:13,400 --> 01:20:15,320 Speaker 4: I'm just wondering if you have something that like maybe 1674 01:20:15,560 --> 01:20:18,200 Speaker 4: you know, motivates you or maybe it's motivated your daughter 1675 01:20:19,360 --> 01:20:21,679 Speaker 4: to just keep going or get you out of a rut. 1676 01:20:21,760 --> 01:20:24,679 Speaker 5: Yeah. I have like like a saying that I've said 1677 01:20:24,720 --> 01:20:28,679 Speaker 5: to myself my whole life, and it was from Janice Joplin. Yeah, 1678 01:20:28,720 --> 01:20:32,240 Speaker 5: and I'm a sixties girl, you know, So it's don't 1679 01:20:32,240 --> 01:20:35,080 Speaker 5: compromise yourself. You're all you've got. 1680 01:20:35,520 --> 01:20:39,400 Speaker 2: Don't compromise yourself, You're all you've got. I love that. 1681 01:20:39,160 --> 01:20:43,000 Speaker 4: Love that Next because we can't leave this episode without 1682 01:20:43,000 --> 01:20:44,600 Speaker 4: you're sharing a horror story. I don't know if you 1683 01:20:45,080 --> 01:20:45,360 Speaker 4: did it. 1684 01:20:45,360 --> 01:20:48,160 Speaker 5: Did you say horror not horror? 1685 01:20:48,320 --> 01:20:52,680 Speaker 4: No kind of a combo deal. It could be like 1686 01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:54,680 Speaker 4: a horrific horror story. 1687 01:20:54,360 --> 01:20:56,920 Speaker 3: Like it's usually just when you're like really horing out. 1688 01:20:56,960 --> 01:20:59,960 Speaker 3: You're a top notch ob like a top notch. 1689 01:21:00,120 --> 01:21:02,519 Speaker 5: I think I'm the top not just hoe now, I 1690 01:21:02,520 --> 01:21:04,800 Speaker 5: mean I kind of think that. Yeah, I meet my 1691 01:21:04,840 --> 01:21:07,800 Speaker 5: chocolate chip cookies. Listening to my girlfriend get fucked by 1692 01:21:07,840 --> 01:21:11,479 Speaker 5: my husband. I'm enjoying it with all her little goodie bowls. 1693 01:21:11,560 --> 01:21:13,080 Speaker 5: I think that was a pretty good horse story. 1694 01:21:13,080 --> 01:21:13,840 Speaker 2: That was a pretty good one. 1695 01:21:14,000 --> 01:21:16,200 Speaker 4: You're right, You're right. That was a good horse story. Okay. 1696 01:21:16,320 --> 01:21:19,160 Speaker 4: And so lastly, then you pulled the four of cups. 1697 01:21:20,360 --> 01:21:23,000 Speaker 5: It's Tarot time, guys, time. 1698 01:21:23,240 --> 01:21:25,320 Speaker 4: Susan pulled the four of cups. 1699 01:21:32,640 --> 01:21:35,880 Speaker 3: It's like a man sitting by a tree contemplating his 1700 01:21:35,960 --> 01:21:37,880 Speaker 3: three cups in front of him, and there's just one 1701 01:21:37,920 --> 01:21:40,639 Speaker 3: cloud cup from the sky giving his fourth cup, which 1702 01:21:40,680 --> 01:21:42,280 Speaker 3: is I don't know, is that God, is that an angel? 1703 01:21:42,320 --> 01:21:47,320 Speaker 3: It's just a cloud hand very interesting. The fourth cups. 1704 01:21:47,320 --> 01:21:50,360 Speaker 3: When the fourth cups return turns up in a tarot reading. 1705 01:21:50,760 --> 01:21:54,240 Speaker 3: New invitations and opportunities are flowing to you, but for 1706 01:21:54,360 --> 01:21:56,520 Speaker 3: now you're saying no and turning them away. 1707 01:21:56,640 --> 01:21:57,880 Speaker 2: Perhaps to prospects. 1708 01:21:58,040 --> 01:22:00,719 Speaker 3: The prospects do not interest you, or your cup is full, 1709 01:22:02,000 --> 01:22:04,479 Speaker 3: or you already have too much on your plate. Use 1710 01:22:04,479 --> 01:22:07,519 Speaker 3: your discernment to decide on what is truly important to you, 1711 01:22:07,640 --> 01:22:11,120 Speaker 3: and don't be afraid to decline new projects that don't 1712 01:22:11,160 --> 01:22:13,800 Speaker 3: align with your future path. The four of cups can 1713 01:22:13,840 --> 01:22:16,080 Speaker 3: also indicate a time when you are turning your attention 1714 01:22:16,160 --> 01:22:19,639 Speaker 3: and your energy internally to realign to this new phase 1715 01:22:19,640 --> 01:22:21,880 Speaker 3: of your life. You might need to be standing on 1716 01:22:22,000 --> 01:22:25,400 Speaker 3: terra firma before you can decide where your next steps. 1717 01:22:25,840 --> 01:22:28,960 Speaker 3: While you may need to decline some very alluring opportunities, 1718 01:22:29,000 --> 01:22:31,000 Speaker 3: you do so knowing you will be in a better 1719 01:22:31,040 --> 01:22:33,760 Speaker 3: position to say yes to the opportunities that are a 1720 01:22:33,800 --> 01:22:36,880 Speaker 3: better fit for you. You're creating the space within yourself so 1721 01:22:36,920 --> 01:22:39,800 Speaker 3: that you're ready to accept new opportunities later and give 1722 01:22:39,840 --> 01:22:42,800 Speaker 3: them the best possibility of success. Use this time for 1723 01:22:42,920 --> 01:22:48,080 Speaker 3: inward reflection, grounding, and contemplation before accepting the big thing. 1724 01:22:49,560 --> 01:22:52,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's exactly what's going on for me. That's why 1725 01:22:52,120 --> 01:22:55,960 Speaker 5: I started that intimacy alliance with all of our fellows 1726 01:22:56,040 --> 01:23:00,720 Speaker 5: experts because my cups are running over getting a lot 1727 01:23:00,720 --> 01:23:03,080 Speaker 5: of opportunities now, which is wonderful. It only took me 1728 01:23:03,080 --> 01:23:05,400 Speaker 5: work in my ass off for decades, you know, that's 1729 01:23:05,439 --> 01:23:08,360 Speaker 5: how it works. And I have so many good things 1730 01:23:08,360 --> 01:23:13,000 Speaker 5: coming into me that I wanted a place to say, 1731 01:23:13,120 --> 01:23:14,920 Speaker 5: can you would you like this one? Would you like 1732 01:23:15,000 --> 01:23:16,599 Speaker 5: this one? Would you? Because I can't do them all? 1733 01:23:17,400 --> 01:23:20,680 Speaker 5: And that's my real joy. My real joy isn't that 1734 01:23:20,680 --> 01:23:21,800 Speaker 5: the opportunities come in. 1735 01:23:22,000 --> 01:23:22,760 Speaker 4: It's that I. 1736 01:23:22,680 --> 01:23:27,000 Speaker 5: Can channel them to people that I am lifting. 1737 01:23:26,720 --> 01:23:28,320 Speaker 2: Up with me overflow. 1738 01:23:28,479 --> 01:23:28,919 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1739 01:23:29,000 --> 01:23:30,840 Speaker 5: So that's what I'm doing with my flow right now, 1740 01:23:30,960 --> 01:23:35,080 Speaker 5: is I'm I'm I'm letting it flow out beautiful. Yeah, 1741 01:23:35,120 --> 01:23:36,639 Speaker 5: and that brings me the most. 1742 01:23:36,520 --> 01:23:40,439 Speaker 3: Joy, wonderful And yeah, you've been so kind and just 1743 01:23:40,960 --> 01:23:43,320 Speaker 3: showing up happy and beverly and ready to get all 1744 01:23:43,360 --> 01:23:44,719 Speaker 3: your toys like Santa Claus. 1745 01:23:44,760 --> 01:23:46,960 Speaker 2: So I'm grateful. Thank you, It's been a joy. Shout 1746 01:23:47,000 --> 01:23:50,880 Speaker 2: out to Kenya for then, thank you, Kenya. Yeah, this 1747 01:23:50,960 --> 01:23:52,000 Speaker 2: is why I love what we do. 1748 01:23:52,080 --> 01:23:55,760 Speaker 3: I love to connect with other women, other people that 1749 01:23:56,160 --> 01:23:58,640 Speaker 3: are just on the same page, open minded, talking and 1750 01:23:58,720 --> 01:24:00,519 Speaker 3: like this is how we create can comunity, and this 1751 01:24:00,640 --> 01:24:01,599 Speaker 3: is how we change. 1752 01:24:01,400 --> 01:24:02,440 Speaker 2: The world by conversation. 1753 01:24:02,880 --> 01:24:03,639 Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you. 1754 01:24:03,720 --> 01:24:06,240 Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you for having us tell everybody where 1755 01:24:06,240 --> 01:24:06,800 Speaker 2: they can find you. 1756 01:24:06,960 --> 01:24:09,559 Speaker 5: Sure, Betterlover dot com is a good place to find 1757 01:24:09,680 --> 01:24:13,520 Speaker 5: You can follow me on Instagram. 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That's until I found out, 1781 01:25:12,240 --> 01:25:14,280 Speaker 6: Well may my have been known Earth. I used to 1782 01:25:14,320 --> 01:25:16,560 Speaker 6: be broken tail, now got the blues in to like 1783 01:25:16,640 --> 01:25:19,880 Speaker 6: Beyonce jaw throat shot or Pop in his cow wearing 1784 01:25:19,880 --> 01:25:20,439 Speaker 6: our voices. 1785 01:25:20,600 --> 01:25:23,519 Speaker 2: Patriarchy kept it in the box to exploit it. Women 1786 01:25:23,600 --> 01:25:25,280 Speaker 2: put the pee and powers, so it's. 1787 01:25:25,240 --> 01:25:27,120 Speaker 6: Pointing that they want me to be good, so I 1788 01:25:27,240 --> 01:25:30,160 Speaker 6: make bad choices. Bad mom, not a bad mom, but 1789 01:25:30,280 --> 01:25:33,320 Speaker 6: a bad mom. Gitter's in on put cannabus in their bath. 1790 01:25:33,400 --> 01:25:35,920 Speaker 6: Bon walked in bossas cap and I blew his cat 1791 01:25:36,000 --> 01:25:38,840 Speaker 6: ball hop dog. Now I'm immune to the cat called 1792 01:25:38,920 --> 01:25:41,479 Speaker 6: Herbie and no waisted straight to it like a dollar sign. 1793 01:25:41,560 --> 01:25:43,400 Speaker 6: Mother rent the lover went to it. It's like a 1794 01:25:43,479 --> 01:25:45,880 Speaker 6: water someone where you're rent the winter essential will when 1795 01:25:45,960 --> 01:25:48,240 Speaker 6: the summertime. I do what doll ain't know when I 1796 01:25:48,360 --> 01:25:49,200 Speaker 6: needs to run it by