1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:04,600 Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's Lala Kent. Welcome to untraditionally. 2 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:12,040 Speaker 2: Lala, Hello, gorgeous, welcome back. I'm so excited to be here. 3 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 2: You guys think I don't listen, but I do. And 4 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 2: what my people want, my people, matt people. 5 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 1: Get, and the people want the ginge. Well they wanted 6 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:25,640 Speaker 1: the TT. They want the TT and the GG. Yeah, 7 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: they asked and I delivered. You did. Welcome. How you 8 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:32,560 Speaker 1: feeling My voice is so hoarse, it's because you didn't 9 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 1: sleep here. I didn't sleep at all last night. 10 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 2: And as oh wann say, you sound like a man, 11 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 2: I feel like and I think you sound sexy. Oh yeah, 12 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 2: so over the break you guys during the holiday. 13 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 1: My mom is not what one would. 14 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 2: Call a healthy person, okay, like doesn't lift a finger, 15 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 2: doesn't like, she doesn't work out because. 16 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 1: She gets nauseated. 17 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 2: And I tell her, well, yes, because when your body 18 00:00:57,360 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 2: does something that it hasn't done in sixty five years, 19 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 2: you feel nauseous. 20 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:07,040 Speaker 1: My movement. No, but I always felt nauseous even in 21 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: my twenties and thirties. 22 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 2: Because you never do it. You can't just like pick 23 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 2: up a wait one time and go. I don't like it. 24 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:16,680 Speaker 1: I'm not anything it is but my breathing. I don't 25 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 1: think I was breathing because when I went to pilates 26 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 1: with you and we had to do a little bit 27 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 1: strenuous activity, all of a sudden I got really light headed, 28 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: and you mentioned maybe I wasn't breathing, and then I 29 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 1: started breathing, and then I felt better. 30 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:38,320 Speaker 2: I fucking love you. You're a real nut. Keep in mind, 31 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 2: pilates is on your back. Okay, that's why I feel lightheaded. 32 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 2: Reformer on your back, laying the fuck down. 33 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 1: Anyway. Oh you're so good. I love you so much 34 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 1: it kills me. I think that's why I get lightheaded, 35 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 1: like when I'm walking up incline, because the other day 36 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: we went to Love and I had eaten, I had 37 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: my iced tea, and I started stealing a little lightheaded, 38 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: and I thought, oh, maybe I'm not breathing. So I breathed. Okay, 39 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 1: breaths good. That's really good. That's so good. 40 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 2: I'm happy about that because that's the difference between dead 41 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 2: and a lives. I know, you know, but who forgets 42 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 2: to breathe. There's a lot of things you do that 43 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 2: I say, wow, I know, you know what else? 44 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: I have to work on what When I'm walking most 45 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: people like swing their arms. I walk like and I 46 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 1: have to concentrate to swing my arms. 47 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 2: And then she becomes the woman from on Seinfeld where she's. 48 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 1: Like, is am I moving my arms good enough now? 49 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 1: And she like knocks all the shit off of Elaine's dust. 50 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 2: I feel that way, well, yes, and it is funny 51 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 2: and tt and I like tease you about it. But 52 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 2: my mom had like a meltdown in Palm Springs. She 53 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 2: was still upset about the way she was feeling. And 54 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 2: my mom and Easton had like the sweetest, most beautiful moment. 55 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:08,920 Speaker 2: My mom was saying that she didn't like talking to 56 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 2: us about her health and Easton has PTSD. When it 57 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 2: comes to my dad not talking to us about his health, 58 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 2: cut to Easton wakes up, you know on April twenty first, Yes, 59 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 2: and my dad is you know gone. 60 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. So Easton cried to my mom and. 61 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 2: Was like, you have to tell us how you're feeling 62 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 2: at all times, you know, we have to be able 63 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 2: to know what to do. And so I called doctor Rothbard, 64 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 2: who I love in a door. 65 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: He delivered both of my babies. 66 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 2: Keep in mind, you guys, my mother has not had 67 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 2: a mammogram. 68 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 1: Or been checked out by a guy. No, that's not true. Okay, 69 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 1: defend defend yourself. I did the mammogram here and before 70 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 1: I got onto you, you had not been checked. You're right, 71 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 1: you're right, you're right in. 72 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 2: Probably ten years and I said this is unaccessiable. 73 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: You need to go in and get your boobies checked. 74 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 1: You did that. 75 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 2: Next, I'm like, you haven't been to the guynecologist. Get 76 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 2: in there, like, these are things that are important, right. 77 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 1: Go. 78 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 2: So my mom has this idea of like I look 79 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 2: at all these people and I see them like moving, 80 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 2: and I feel like my body has failed me. I 81 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 2: have to remind her. I have to remind her the 82 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:26,480 Speaker 2: people that are moving around they have doctors. 83 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:27,159 Speaker 1: People used to. 84 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 2: Drop dead at like thirty five forty years old. We 85 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 2: now have modern day medicine. 86 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:39,599 Speaker 1: I's such a wait to get into the doctor. Who 87 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:40,479 Speaker 1: pointed that out to you. 88 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:44,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, I said, there's a reason why you call a 89 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:46,039 Speaker 2: doctor and they're like, I can see you in six months. 90 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 2: Because people are prioritizing their health. So I think it 91 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:53,040 Speaker 2: was great that you vented about your health. 92 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 1: The roomatologists today. 93 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:57,839 Speaker 2: You did, and we got a great uh, they took 94 00:04:57,880 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 2: your blood. 95 00:04:58,320 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: We're going to see what happens. 96 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 2: Anyway, I'm so grateful you're prioritizing your health. 97 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:04,599 Speaker 1: Me too, Okay, me too. 98 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:07,280 Speaker 2: That's what's happening in twenty twenty six. I also want 99 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:09,279 Speaker 2: to talk about because Bethany Frankel and this was, like 100 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 2: I want to say, maybe a week week and a 101 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 2: half ago, posted a reel about a bacterial infection that 102 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 2: she got. You guys, OMG, I have to tell you, 103 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 2: guys a story. So I wake up one morning and 104 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 2: I look at my body and there's like what looks 105 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 2: to be little bites and it's It starts on my 106 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 2: chest and on my back. I text doctor Diamond and 107 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, I need a prescription. 108 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 1: I'm like having PTSD. I love PTSD. That's what I've 109 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 1: said it twice already. We're all just struggling. No, don't 110 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: take me back. 111 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 2: I was like, I need a prescription. I am breaking out. 112 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 2: It's on my chest, it's on my back. Throughout the day, 113 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 2: it starts spreading all yeah you know mom oh it 114 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:01,599 Speaker 2: was gnarly, yeah, all over my body. And I'm like, 115 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 2: this is freaking weird. I thought that maybe I brought 116 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:08,679 Speaker 2: like a sand mite home from uh Hawaii and. 117 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: Cut to like the next day. They keep spreading and 118 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:19,720 Speaker 1: they're becoming bigger and weird. This happened and itchy. 119 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 2: This happened, I want to say on a Saturdays when 120 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 2: it started. By Monday, you guys, I was broken out 121 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:34,159 Speaker 2: neck to ankle in full blown discussing. 122 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 1: I'm going to call it what it is. Boils. They 123 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 1: were fucking boils. Yeah, disgusting. 124 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:40,360 Speaker 2: When I look down at some of them, they were 125 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:44,159 Speaker 2: getting so massive trigger warning that they were like oozing. 126 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:48,040 Speaker 2: I was like, I am patient zero, what is going on? 127 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:50,479 Speaker 2: I go to the emergency room. The woman comes in 128 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 2: a hazmat suit. No one will enter the room unless 129 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 2: they're fully covered. 130 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 1: Yep, they like lance, some of them. Is that what 131 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:01,279 Speaker 1: it's called? To get this stuff out of them to 132 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:02,839 Speaker 1: send off to a lab. 133 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 2: It comes back as there's no bacterial infection. Originally people 134 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 2: were like, it's either chicken pox, monkey pox, staff infection. 135 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 2: You know, you talk to your friends and they come 136 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 2: up with a plethora of all the things that are 137 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 2: wrong with you. 138 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:19,239 Speaker 1: It came back as everything was negative. 139 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 2: They said, we recommend you go to your dermatologists, like 140 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 2: as quickly as you can, because they specialize in skin, like, 141 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 2: we're just here to make sure you're not going to die. 142 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: You're not going to die. I thought I was going 143 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 1: to die. They biopsy one, They take like the juiciest 144 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 1: guy on the back of my arm. It was disgusting. Yeah, 145 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 1: it was like a plug like they. 146 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 2: Stamped it and pulled that little motherfucker ride out of 147 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 2: my arm, stitched it up, send it off. I get 148 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 2: the results back from the biopsy. They put me on 149 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 2: a steroid, two steroid creams, an antibiotic, and a steroid oral. 150 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 2: I was worried about scarring. Durham told me, don't worry 151 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 2: about scarring, Like, you're fine. Biopviously comes back and it's 152 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 2: most consistent with what looked like a rare reaction to 153 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 2: a bug bite. Yeah, so mine was not bacterial like 154 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 2: Bethany frankles, but apparently this is. 155 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 1: Like a lot. And then you had a friend that also, yeah, 156 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 1: I'm not a friend full vacation and got the same thing, 157 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 1: the same exact thing. I don't know what is going on. 158 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 2: Bethany's she said, was bacterial. Me and my friend's wife, 159 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:34,439 Speaker 2: we both got bug bites apparently, But I'm telling you, 160 00:08:34,520 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 2: I was scarred. Like I complain all the time about 161 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 2: the little tiny veins in my legs that I got 162 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:40,960 Speaker 2: after my second baby. 163 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 1: It's from carrying excessive weight. Don't love that. 164 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 2: I was like, what I would give to just have 165 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 2: the little baby veins to be worried about. 166 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 1: Like now I look like I'm carrying something not good, 167 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 1: But it's going away. It's gone. And like I told you, 168 00:08:56,360 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 1: thank god it didn't spread to your face. Say god, 169 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 1: you know there's always a silver lining bug bite and all. 170 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 2: Well, And I kept telling people, I'm like, yes, it's 171 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 2: great that I'm not gonna die, got it, But like 172 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 2: the vanity portion of it, I was like, oh my. 173 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 1: God, speaking a vanity portion. Oh yeah, you got some 174 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 1: big stuff coming up. I've got some boobs stuff coming up, guys. 175 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 1: I'm getting new boobs. 176 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:29,720 Speaker 2: Yes, I got them done in twenty twenty two, and 177 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:32,439 Speaker 2: I got them done by amazing doctors. 178 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: I loved them. 179 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:37,559 Speaker 2: My second baby Sosa like wreaked havoc on my body, 180 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 2: Like between my stomach that's a little lucy goosey depending 181 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:43,199 Speaker 2: on the way I move. Again, Thankful for the bounce 182 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:46,840 Speaker 2: back and the baby. She's beautiful and you know, my 183 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 2: body created life. 184 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:48,960 Speaker 1: Love that part. 185 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 2: But my boobs, my right one is like concaved on 186 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:55,200 Speaker 2: one side and is working its way up to the 187 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 2: collar bone. Your new boob job is a medical necessity. 188 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 1: Yeah it is. 189 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 2: And if you guys, what am I talking about? Of 190 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 2: course you guys listen to the podcast regularly. When I 191 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 2: had Terry debro on, I had Heather on and Terry 192 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:15,359 Speaker 2: popped in and we talked about how it's capsular contracture, 193 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 2: which means your body starts to fight off the implant. 194 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 2: And I know you guys, most of you are gonna 195 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 2: be like, then you shouldn't have implants. I'm sorry, I 196 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 2: refuse to have my nipples down to my belly button. Okay, 197 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 2: I'm not about to look like Ezma from Freaking the 198 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:35,800 Speaker 2: Emperor's New Groove. You're tripping, Okay, it's not happening. But 199 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 2: in the fucking implants, I don't care if my body rejects. 200 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: I have new implants too, exactly. 201 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:50,080 Speaker 2: So I'm going to a doctor that specializes in this condition. 202 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:52,960 Speaker 1: And she is a plastic surgeon. 203 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:56,199 Speaker 2: A lot of her patients, though, have had double mass 204 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 2: ectomies and our breast. 205 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 1: Cancer survived, she's world redown, she's world renowned. And I 206 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 1: feel like it's more like you said, like restructuring it. 207 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 2: Well, the bottom line is, like they said, you have 208 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 2: to have that scar tissue cleaned down, Like they're they're 209 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 2: putting a solution in to like clean it out. I 210 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:17,960 Speaker 2: have a hammock in one of them that needs replacing, 211 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 2: which is on my left. But they're basically doing reconstructive 212 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:25,600 Speaker 2: surgery and I'm going to go in and they're going 213 00:11:25,679 --> 00:11:29,440 Speaker 2: to use technology to show like what size would look best. 214 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 2: But ultimately, like this is something that I have to 215 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 2: get done right. The longer I keep these implants in 216 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 2: the right one is going to continue to build scar tissue. 217 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:39,439 Speaker 1: It's going to continue to push. 218 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 2: Towards the center of my chest and up towards my collarbone. 219 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 2: So again for vanity purposes, I'm very excited because my 220 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 2: boobs are not something. Again, they fed two babies. I'm 221 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 2: very happy about that, but I just don't feel confident 222 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 2: with them. And the other side is, you know, the 223 00:11:57,360 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 2: health concern. 224 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:03,200 Speaker 3: So I'm excited to have my new boots, as you 225 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 3: should be at least is getting a new hip, Yes, 226 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:09,480 Speaker 3: getting hip surgery because it's rotted. 227 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: We're about to be brand new. I'm ready. Oh you 228 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,559 Speaker 1: know what we should talk about how great our massages were. 229 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 2: Oh you. I don't know about you, guys, but I 230 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 2: have the worst like tech nek. I walk her around 231 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 2: like this, and my shoulders are pretty much up to 232 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 2: my ears. 233 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 1: Mine too, Yeah, mine too. And I couldn't move my 234 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 1: right arm and my hand didn't work since my massage. 235 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 1: Game changer. Game changer. She's breathing, she can move her arms. 236 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 2: Oh. 237 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 1: The masseuse taught me how to breathe to again she did? Yeah, 238 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:47,199 Speaker 1: what she did? Have you hold your stomach. She had 239 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 1: recount to eight and exhale and then push on my 240 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 1: abdomen to release all of the my breaths. That's great 241 00:12:57,640 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 1: while doing exercises. You should do that every night. Oh, 242 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 1: I do breath exercise it I do good. 243 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 4: Yeah. 244 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 2: I wanted to talk about getting Ocean into preschool and 245 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:22,720 Speaker 2: what a freaking nightmare you and I were. We weren't 246 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 2: a nightmare, but we just sobbed you guys at our meeting. 247 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 2: So getting your child into preschool out here is like 248 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 2: getting them into Harvard Law School. It's like the craziest 249 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 2: experience I've ever heard. 250 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:39,120 Speaker 1: My thing is they're interviewing you to see if they're 251 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:41,000 Speaker 1: going to pick you. I love where this is going. 252 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:43,599 Speaker 1: Let's get her into school, let's get her into it. 253 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 2: I don't love where this is going at all. 254 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:49,320 Speaker 1: I will say the rest. 255 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:53,959 Speaker 2: Once we're in, just say whatever you want, but for now, 256 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 2: shut the fuck up. Anyway, Lisa and I they're like, 257 00:13:57,920 --> 00:13:59,959 Speaker 2: tell us about ocean, and the two of us will 258 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 2: at each other and just sob She's masaal drama BT, 259 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:09,800 Speaker 2: Like these people think we're insane. They're no one's gonna 260 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 2: have us come. They're gonna be like, don't have them 261 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 2: in the school. Because they appear and you ask them 262 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:15,439 Speaker 2: one question about ocean, they just start sobbing. 263 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 1: No, that's love, it is. I think it's kind of 264 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:23,120 Speaker 1: a little unhinged. I think it's love, Like we love 265 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: her so much. 266 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 2: What's that emotional? Yeah, we're very emotional about ocean. But 267 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 2: it is wild that she's now going to be in school. 268 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 2: Like I have a five year old and when she 269 00:14:36,240 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 2: talks to me, like my mom and I are good cop, 270 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 2: bad cop. Yes, there are many times I have to 271 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 2: play both, but like you're a good cop at all, times. Yeah, 272 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 2: and you get through to her because she and I 273 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 2: can go toes at times where we're both. 274 00:14:49,680 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 1: That I get stern when I need to be stern, 275 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 1: like to get her to brush her teeth and get 276 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:58,360 Speaker 1: her jammies on. Like I take on a little bit 277 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:01,280 Speaker 1: of that role. What are you talking about? 278 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 2: I'm not saying that you take her to like have 279 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 2: candy and dinn. 280 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 1: No, I know, but I'm just saying I feel like 281 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:08,840 Speaker 1: I've taken on a little bit of that too. 282 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 2: You have, but you go in and you say, if 283 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 2: you don't brush your teeth, I'm gonna have to tell 284 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 2: your mom. That's a good cap, bad cop mom. That's 285 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 2: what that means. 286 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 1: No, that's called good cop, bad cop. What are you 287 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 1: talking about? Okay, what are you saying? You've taken on 288 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:28,720 Speaker 1: that role? Yes, you're you're the co parent, right, but 289 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 1: I'm usually really sweet and I've taken on more of 290 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:33,680 Speaker 1: us stern approach. Sometimes. 291 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:37,560 Speaker 2: Yes, you guys, she says, brush your teeth, it's very stern. 292 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 1: Are you talking about? 293 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 2: All I'm saying is I like the fact that, like 294 00:15:43,520 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 2: when ocean is not because she and I are like 295 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 2: this at times, Yes, that I can punt. 296 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:52,160 Speaker 1: Her to you. Yes, yes, yes, yes. 297 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 2: And she's getting to that age where I feel like 298 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 2: she's she has this voice. I mean, last night was 299 00:15:57,600 --> 00:15:59,000 Speaker 2: a fucking nightmare and you know it. 300 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I do know. And I had to. 301 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 2: Pun her to my mom because I was ready to 302 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 2: go season four vander Pump Rules on her ass. 303 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, no, but she would have. You 304 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 1: would have met your match last night with her. I 305 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 1: had met it. I met it, yeah, and I did 306 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:15,040 Speaker 1: not like it at all. 307 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 2: No, So I'm trying to figure out this way because 308 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 2: she hasn't acted that way in so long. 309 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 1: I think she was overly tired. She gets overly tired. 310 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 2: She gets that way, I know, and thank god, because 311 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 2: I felt so guilty after I checked her, and you 312 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 2: guys know what I mean by checked her, it was like, 313 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 2: if you freaking talk to me like that one more time, 314 00:16:36,200 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 2: take it everything. 315 00:16:37,240 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 1: Your playroom is going to be empty. Stroller, she lost 316 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 1: her roomy costumes and she lost. 317 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, when you throw a stroller down my freshly carpeted stairs. 318 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 1: She no longer get. She just pushed it. Are you 319 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 1: defending her? I'm not defending, but she didn't throw it 320 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 1: down the stairs. She pushed it. To see what it 321 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 1: would do. Oh, that's curiosity killed the cat. 322 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I was not happy about it. And then 323 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:05,159 Speaker 2: she was lippy, so she lost all of her roomy costumes. 324 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 2: And then she continue to tell me that when she 325 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 2: gots the hot sauce in her mouth, she's gonna burn 326 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:13,240 Speaker 2: me up. I was just like enough already, that room 327 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 2: is gonna be cleared out. You're not gonna have one 328 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 2: toy in there. 329 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 330 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:19,719 Speaker 2: So then I feel guilty, so I put her in 331 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:21,240 Speaker 2: my bed because we clarify, we. 332 00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:24,760 Speaker 1: Don't really do the hot sauce. It's a just a 333 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 1: tactic to try and get her to do things. 334 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 2: You go obviously, well, I know, but no, everything I 335 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:32,119 Speaker 2: do is a bluff. That's why she doesn't listen to me, 336 00:17:32,359 --> 00:17:34,640 Speaker 2: because I'm a constant threat and no fault. 337 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:37,880 Speaker 1: But once you mentioned the bars that they were going 338 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 1: bye bye, if she said one more word. 339 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:42,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, and she lost the iPad too, That was right. 340 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 2: That was the other thing that I took. No, I've 341 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:46,879 Speaker 2: never like putts out people. 342 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:49,880 Speaker 1: Not everyone knows, but everyone knows I would never actually 343 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:50,159 Speaker 1: do that. 344 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 2: But like she knew, I would never do that, which 345 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:55,920 Speaker 2: is why the rebuttal was put hot saus in my mouth. 346 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:58,160 Speaker 1: Becase I'm gonna burn your ass up. She didn't say asked, 347 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 1: but I was like, just going to come out. I 348 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:03,680 Speaker 1: put her in my bed. You guys that moe? Yeah, 349 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:04,160 Speaker 1: she did. 350 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:06,679 Speaker 2: So then I broke her little imagination by telling her 351 00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:07,879 Speaker 2: dragons aren't even real. 352 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:11,480 Speaker 1: You know what, My kids were so easy, you really were. 353 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:15,239 Speaker 1: I think maybe you blocked it out disassociate. Maybe I 354 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 1: don't know, but I know, but I feel like Ocean's easy. 355 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:21,200 Speaker 1: She just gets slippy. 356 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 2: But I I know for a fact I was like 357 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 2: that as a kid. 358 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:28,360 Speaker 1: Well, I had a teenager. Do you remember with your 359 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:33,680 Speaker 1: your ewet iPhone in the pool? Yeah, when you threw 360 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 1: my eye. Well, she had wrapped her. It was new too, 361 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 1: wasn't it. 362 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:40,120 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, and this is back when the iPhone had 363 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 2: just come out, and you had to give the like 364 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:45,160 Speaker 2: or AT and T to get the iPhone, so any 365 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:47,480 Speaker 2: other network that you were with you had to go and. 366 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 1: Have it like unlocked. So we'd gone to do and 367 00:18:51,560 --> 00:18:53,159 Speaker 1: then you put on the side of the pool and 368 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:55,359 Speaker 1: you put your towel over it. Well, I went to 369 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:57,680 Speaker 1: sit down and I wanted to shake the towel out, 370 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:01,680 Speaker 1: and it flipped into the pool and then the guy 371 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 1: that you were dating at that time called it. Oh 372 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 1: I remember him. 373 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 2: He goes, oh lah, and I went instead of an iPhone, and. 374 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:12,320 Speaker 1: I was so furious at my mom. 375 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:14,280 Speaker 2: I think I hugged the phone at the dashboard on 376 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 2: the way home, and she was. 377 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:17,800 Speaker 1: Like pulled the car over and was going to make 378 00:19:17,800 --> 00:19:21,119 Speaker 1: her get out. I really wasn't on the freeway. I'm fifteen. 379 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:25,280 Speaker 1: It's no joke, but at fifteen, no joke. Anyway, we 380 00:19:25,359 --> 00:19:28,439 Speaker 1: drove home and I treated her like a child and 381 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 1: told her boyfriend he had to go home because she 382 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:35,560 Speaker 1: was grounded. Well, we were children. We were seventeen and 383 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:42,840 Speaker 1: fucking like jack rabbits. So best time of my life. 384 00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:49,439 Speaker 2: So anyway, anyway, now that's an eye I'll tell you what. 385 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:58,960 Speaker 1: Anyway movie right along, And anytime Lala would lose her 386 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:02,399 Speaker 1: like lose her cool or get upset, so daily do 387 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:05,359 Speaker 1: you go like this? He knew how to handle me. 388 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 1: That's for sure. 389 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:08,240 Speaker 2: Still the most how sad at thirty five, I'm like, 390 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 2: when I was seventeen, I had a very productive relationship, 391 00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:15,720 Speaker 2: very healthy and mature. Thirty five I'm like, oh my god, 392 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 2: I've lost all sense of self and what I deserve truly, 393 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:26,040 Speaker 2: you guys, I had a moment the other day with you, mom. Yeah, 394 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 2: and I was actually disappointed in myself when this happened, 395 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:35,120 Speaker 2: because for however many years I've sworn off men. 396 00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:36,960 Speaker 1: We all know that, and I've had it. 397 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 2: No, you've also sworn off men, but granted your husband died. 398 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 1: Well, when you have the best, you kind, it's easy 399 00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 1: to kind of swear off the rest. You're like doctor 400 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:47,040 Speaker 1: SEUs of love. 401 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:47,640 Speaker 2: I know. 402 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 1: You're right in the car. 403 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, And when you've had the worst, you tend 404 00:20:57,640 --> 00:20:59,800 Speaker 2: to run away from men in general. 405 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:02,879 Speaker 1: So I had the best, you had the worst. 406 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:03,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. 407 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 1: No, we need a happy meal medium for the love 408 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:07,600 Speaker 1: of God, give me the gray. 409 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:13,399 Speaker 2: But I had this moment of like, I'm going to 410 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:16,119 Speaker 2: open myself up to love again. I've talked to you 411 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 2: guys about it, just like venturing into twenty twenty six, 412 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 2: Like I don't want to be guarded. 413 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:21,360 Speaker 1: I want to know that like. 414 00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 2: I can still have the life I want and also 415 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:25,120 Speaker 2: welcome like a really good guy. 416 00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:31,359 Speaker 1: And I was watching a clip. 417 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:36,119 Speaker 2: From An Unlikely Affair, the new podcast that I have 418 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 2: with Amber, and it was I think me talking about 419 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 2: how I had like, and I told you this in 420 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 2: your response when I told you about this clip, because 421 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:47,840 Speaker 2: you and I talked about it, you go, oh my, 422 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:50,879 Speaker 2: you like read for your coffee. Anyway, I told I 423 00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 2: was I'm telling you guys a conversation I had with 424 00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 2: my mom. So I looked at this this clip and 425 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:58,399 Speaker 2: then I knew that it was picked up as an 426 00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:01,120 Speaker 2: article where they, you know, think of that I had 427 00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 2: masturbated to Amber when I was pregnant right with Ocean, 428 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:09,400 Speaker 2: And I had this moment of like, I don't I'm 429 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:14,120 Speaker 2: finally open to finding somebody, and like, who would ever 430 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:17,720 Speaker 2: want to like date me? Like if this is like 431 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:21,360 Speaker 2: what they're seeing and you know who's mom or family 432 00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:24,119 Speaker 2: would ever be like, yeah, dater. She seems like a 433 00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:27,160 Speaker 2: great girl, Like if Easton told me, like. 434 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:29,640 Speaker 1: I really like this girl, and I googled her. 435 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:32,920 Speaker 2: And I saw all of the things that were written 436 00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 2: about me, but they were written about her. 437 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:39,880 Speaker 1: I would say, you're not bringing this woman home. She's insane. 438 00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 2: And I literally had a moment of being like, Okay, 439 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:46,160 Speaker 2: well I need to like I need to be more filtered, 440 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:46,959 Speaker 2: I need to do this. 441 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:49,440 Speaker 1: And I checked myself so quickly. 442 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:53,119 Speaker 2: I'm like, you are thinking about making a massive change, 443 00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:56,159 Speaker 2: which let's call it what it is. The way that 444 00:22:56,480 --> 00:23:02,240 Speaker 2: I am and have been is I'm not an actress. 445 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 2: No one's giving me a script like who I am 446 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:07,280 Speaker 2: has quite literally built the life that I have that 447 00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 2: I'm very proud of, right, and I am willing to 448 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:14,399 Speaker 2: toss that and make all of these changes. 449 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:17,480 Speaker 1: You're trying to make concessions and it's like why well, 450 00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:18,399 Speaker 1: and you said that to me. 451 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:21,400 Speaker 2: You were like, Lauren, if a guy comes into your 452 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 2: life and let's just say he reads that you masturbated 453 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:29,440 Speaker 2: to cure ex's ex wife, I was like, as it's coming. 454 00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 1: Out of your mouth, I'm like, yeah, I'm fucking nuts. 455 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 1: I'm fucking second. 456 00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:38,160 Speaker 2: Insane, Like if you have to find someone who's gonna 457 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:39,880 Speaker 2: let you be who you are? 458 00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:41,920 Speaker 1: But totally, but that. 459 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 2: Was like kind of a tough pill to swallow, to 460 00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:46,640 Speaker 2: be like, I may not find someone because I think 461 00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 2: I'm too off my rocker. 462 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:52,400 Speaker 1: No, you're not. Really, No, You're gonna find that special 463 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:57,639 Speaker 1: someone who loves the fact that you masturbate to their exes. Well, 464 00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 1: some guys are into that, so there you go. Really, yeah, 465 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:07,320 Speaker 1: I love your mom. No, but I'm like, what is this. 466 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 1: Why would I ever think that way? 467 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:13,440 Speaker 2: Why would I ever think about making I'm like, okay, 468 00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:16,199 Speaker 2: now we've gone too far. I'm like, we've opened ourselves 469 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,160 Speaker 2: up to love, and now we're thinking about like I'm 470 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 2: going to change who I am for a man who 471 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:23,439 Speaker 2: doesn't exist yet, but for the potential love interest that 472 00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:24,399 Speaker 2: comes into my life. 473 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 1: I'm sweating thinking about it right now. Well, it's absurd 474 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:32,440 Speaker 1: googling me and seeing that. So they say it lucky them. 475 00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 1: You're right, lucky them. She's a bag of fun. I 476 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:45,400 Speaker 1: hope your mom likes me. And you've gone through all 477 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,679 Speaker 1: these valleys and hills and you're a changed person on 478 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 1: your own from not drinking anymore. Like you've made so 479 00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,919 Speaker 1: many concessions on your terms, and that's how it should be, 480 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,840 Speaker 1: is on your terms. Do you think that people will 481 00:24:57,920 --> 00:24:59,080 Speaker 1: be able to look. 482 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:04,399 Speaker 2: Past like because I still have a pretty outrageous mouth. 483 00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 2: I think a lot of times it's for like shock 484 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:08,760 Speaker 2: value and things like that. 485 00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 1: I think you can be spicy, but I think I 486 00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:17,199 Speaker 1: can be spicy. It's okay, it's okay, yeah you, but 487 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 1: I have you. And if they're if they leave, then 488 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:22,480 Speaker 1: it's their loss. Goodbye. 489 00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I love that you just said that. 490 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:27,800 Speaker 2: My mom always says it's your loss. And there was 491 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:29,840 Speaker 2: a day that Ocean told me some girls were being 492 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 2: mean to her, and I go, they don't want to 493 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:32,600 Speaker 2: play with you. 494 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:35,400 Speaker 1: You tell them it is your loss. She comes home, 495 00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:35,960 Speaker 1: she goes. 496 00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:38,719 Speaker 2: I told so and so to get lost today. I go, Ocean, 497 00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 2: that is so rude, and she goes, you. 498 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,119 Speaker 1: Told me to say it. Mom, you told me to 499 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:43,960 Speaker 1: say that to them. 500 00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:47,720 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, she thought I told them to 501 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:50,680 Speaker 2: get lost, and I told her that it's their loss. 502 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:53,160 Speaker 1: But it's fine. I'm like you here a savage. Yeah, 503 00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 1: good for you. 504 00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:56,639 Speaker 2: And I think there are times though that I forget 505 00:25:56,640 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 2: that where it's like I will be so convicted when 506 00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 2: it comes to if you don't like me exactly like 507 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:10,320 Speaker 2: this is, then like be gone. But then there are 508 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:14,399 Speaker 2: moments where all look in the mirror and think about 509 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:17,000 Speaker 2: all the things that I need to change, whether it's 510 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:22,320 Speaker 2: internally on the outside, and I have these moments of weakness. 511 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 2: And I don't know where that comes from, but I'm 512 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 2: telling you that moment thinking listing all the ways I 513 00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 2: need to change in order for someone to come into 514 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:36,119 Speaker 2: my life. I understand, but I'm trying to and I 515 00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:40,280 Speaker 2: know how you feel like it's asinine and it's their loss. 516 00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:43,680 Speaker 2: But I think you have a very specific way of 517 00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 2: looking at life and you're very much. 518 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:48,720 Speaker 1: Cut and dry. I am cutting dry. 519 00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 2: Like when people are like her mom's the best, but 520 00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:54,480 Speaker 2: lawless do this, I'm like, my mom is fucking cutthroat, 521 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 2: like she will be done with you and not think 522 00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 2: a thing about it. 523 00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,400 Speaker 1: It doesn't to talk, not at all. 524 00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:03,600 Speaker 2: So when I have these conversations, she looks at me 525 00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:05,359 Speaker 2: like I'm crazy, and I'm like, okay, I need you 526 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 2: to go believe. 527 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:11,640 Speaker 1: But I had friendships that are thirty forty fifty years 528 00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:15,800 Speaker 1: in the making that I still hang on to. What 529 00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:19,679 Speaker 1: are you talking about? Like I'm saying that when I 530 00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:23,560 Speaker 1: clean out my closet of friends, I have a lot 531 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:26,240 Speaker 1: of friends that I've still had forever. But I've also 532 00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 1: cleaned out my closet. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you have friends 533 00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:34,080 Speaker 1: that you have had for that long. Yeah, Like Jamie 534 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:38,560 Speaker 1: is how since the seventh grade? Okay, so what fifty years? 535 00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:43,840 Speaker 1: Sixty five? Sixty five? Baby, Yeah, you better work, bitch. 536 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:46,840 Speaker 2: But then you have another friend where it was like 537 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:49,920 Speaker 2: we've known each other since the seventh grade, and I 538 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:53,320 Speaker 2: think I'm done here. Yeah, don't come for the paper, 539 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:58,720 Speaker 2: you know, no, no, no, A very hard to get here. 540 00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,600 Speaker 2: Don't come for my family, and don't come for how 541 00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 2: I provide for my family. Or we're like fucking done here. 542 00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:09,159 Speaker 2: You do wish that I would stop saying the F 543 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,760 Speaker 2: word a lot. I say the F word so much 544 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:24,280 Speaker 2: it feels so good. Oh. 545 00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:27,639 Speaker 1: Also big news, This is huge news, you guys. 546 00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:31,960 Speaker 2: I'm going to admit Hi, I'm La La and I'm 547 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,480 Speaker 2: a vapor and I have to give it up for 548 00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:35,160 Speaker 2: my boob job. 549 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:38,080 Speaker 1: They called me and they were tell me and I 550 00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:42,720 Speaker 1: was like, oh, yeah, I vape. Nasty nasty habit that is. 551 00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:46,320 Speaker 2: And they were like, no, like in all seriousness, you 552 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:49,200 Speaker 2: have to quit a month before your surgery. 553 00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,480 Speaker 1: Or you can't have it. They said, yeah, pretty much. 554 00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,080 Speaker 2: They were like, it affects so many different things with 555 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:57,560 Speaker 2: the nicotine, and also you cannot pick it up after 556 00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:59,920 Speaker 2: because it will really really. 557 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:01,280 Speaker 1: In fact your healing process. 558 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:05,480 Speaker 2: So I ordered a bag of Jelly Bellies popcorn flavor 559 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:07,680 Speaker 2: because that's my favorite and that's what I will be 560 00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:09,840 Speaker 2: popping instead of vaping. 561 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,480 Speaker 1: So they were on the counter last night in ocean song, 562 00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 1: and she goes, what are these? And I go, it's 563 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 1: your mom's medicine. And she goes, because it's kind of 564 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:20,960 Speaker 1: your medicine for getting off the babe. Yeah, you're not 565 00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:24,040 Speaker 1: telling her that. She goes, if this is candy, Gigi, 566 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:26,920 Speaker 1: I know it's candy. Did she want one? Of course 567 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 1: she wanted one. I told her they're popcorn flavor. It's 568 00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 1: her least favorite flavor. She tried what she loves, popcorn, 569 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:36,240 Speaker 1: animal popcorn. 570 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:39,320 Speaker 2: She doesn't like this artificial jelly belly popcorn flavor. 571 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,160 Speaker 1: No. I gave it to her and she was repulsed 572 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,160 Speaker 1: by it, and I was like, oh, this is excellent. Great. 573 00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:45,800 Speaker 2: I know when I told her that the jelly bellies 574 00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:49,680 Speaker 2: I got were popcorn flavor, she wanted no part. 575 00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:52,800 Speaker 1: I got popcorn flavored rice cakes because I thought she'd 576 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 1: like them. Oh delicious? Did she like? I don't know, 577 00:29:56,080 --> 00:30:01,480 Speaker 1: but I ate them. They were delicious. Learn to so. 578 00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:03,240 Speaker 2: Good? 579 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:08,320 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, now we're talking. We're in freaking business. I 580 00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:10,040 Speaker 1: loved having you on the pod today. Mom. 581 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,920 Speaker 2: I'm really glad the doctor's appointment has steered you into 582 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:18,480 Speaker 2: making healthier choices better jam Okay, I love you so 583 00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:20,840 Speaker 2: much it kills me. You guys, if you have questions 584 00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,000 Speaker 2: for the gig, I definitely want to have her back on. 585 00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:25,360 Speaker 2: If you have them for the G T T, please 586 00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:29,240 Speaker 2: write them in. I've seen your guys' comments. I loved 587 00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:31,960 Speaker 2: having guests, by the way, but there is nothing like 588 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:35,920 Speaker 2: uh my family as guests. I think that you're very 589 00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 2: interesting to talk to. Look at her, she keeps staring 590 00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:39,920 Speaker 2: at her cookie, like, wrap it up, grab it up. 591 00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:41,959 Speaker 2: But I want this in my mouth, wrap it up, 592 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:43,000 Speaker 2: so I'm gonna wrap it up. 593 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:44,440 Speaker 1: I love you, guys. I'll catch you on Monday for 594 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:48,880 Speaker 1: the bonus and again next week. Bye.