1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 1: The Jubil Show on Demand First Day follow Up. Dante 2 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 1: is on the phone today for a first day follow up. 3 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:10,960 Speaker 1: He's not getting called back. He's getting ghosted by a 4 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: woman named Emma. Dante, thank you for agreeing to do 5 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:16,080 Speaker 1: the first day follow up. Before we get into everything, 6 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: why don't you tell us how long it's been since 7 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 1: you even talk to Emma. It's been like eight days, 8 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:23,639 Speaker 1: I think seven or eight days. It's been about a week. Yeah, 9 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:25,159 Speaker 1: all right, And how long? How many times have you 10 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 1: tried to reach out to her in those eight days? Yeah, 11 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:29,479 Speaker 1: I've here here up like one or twice. You know, 12 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 1: here was like a high, you know, but like nothing crazy. 13 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: So why do you feel like she's ghosting you? Honestly, 14 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:37,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. I thought everything was going super super well, 15 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: Like I feel like things were totally chilling. To be 16 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:43,480 Speaker 1: honest with you, what did you guys do? We met 17 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: on Tenner. We started talking about like like music, We 18 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 1: talked about like the past, like work and stuff. We 19 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:49,480 Speaker 1: were like talking about talking it up, and we found 20 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 1: out we both kind of had some mutual interests, mostly 21 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 1: like music and stuff. We were arriving on music and 22 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 1: we were kind of talking about stuff, and honestly, she's 23 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 1: smoking hot right, Like, she's gorgeous, this girl. So Okay, 24 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: we were talking there and stuff kind of started getting 25 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 1: like dirty, right Like, we kind of started like getting 26 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 1: into it. And after about a week of us kind 27 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 1: of doing that, we decided I was like, like we 28 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 1: kind of needed to see each other, right, So we 29 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: met up, we linked up, and we just kind of 30 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:15,479 Speaker 1: got some drinks. We're just hanging out getting some drinks. 31 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 1: It was all a good time to be honest, like 32 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:20,679 Speaker 1: I thought everything was going like pretty smoothly, reviving on stuff. 33 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 1: So afterward I asked her if she wanted to go 34 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: over to my place, when she told me that she 35 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:30,200 Speaker 1: actually has worked the next day, right, but I'm not 36 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 1: sure if I've kind of overshot things because we were 37 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 1: both kind of little tipsty. I didn't want to push 38 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 1: it or anything too crazy, but I asked her if 39 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 1: she wanted to go home. She said not not to night. 40 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: It sends me a text later that night saying that 41 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: she's home, and that's the last I've heard from her. 42 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 1: It got to the point where you figured it was 43 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 1: on when you saw each other. Yeah, exactly, no, exactly, 44 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 1: So like by when we did hang out. I just 45 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 1: assumed because of like how dirty and flirty everything was 46 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: getting that when we were gonna hang out, that everything 47 00:01:57,640 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: was gonna kind of take its wings from there. But 48 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 1: when I for it, she kind of backchacked a little bit. 49 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: She kind of retracted that that she had worked, and 50 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:06,919 Speaker 1: then sends me a text later saying she has worked, 51 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 1: and that's the last thought heard from her. Then, Dante respectfully, 52 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: because I don't know either one of you, but do 53 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: you think there's any chance this could be just like 54 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 1: you weren't what she what she thought you were gonna be. Like, 55 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,519 Speaker 1: maybe she just like wasn't feeling it anymore, and that's 56 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: all right, it happens. I mean maybe I don't know. 57 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: I've been thinking about this a lot since the A wall, 58 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:28,639 Speaker 1: Like I've been thinking about this wet and I don't 59 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 1: I don't know if like to me, it kind of 60 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: seems like like I wasn't in the most stable place. 61 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 1: Maybe there was something I did that kind of threw 62 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: her off with that like during the day. I don't know, 63 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 1: I'm kind of on my own thing. I have to 64 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: ask you this because you kind of sound like this 65 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: type of person and it doesn't mean you're a bad person. 66 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 1: It probably means you're awesome, but it can be kind 67 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:49,920 Speaker 1: of off putting. You know, when you have a conversation 68 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:52,079 Speaker 1: with somebody and you get really excited and you kind 69 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:54,519 Speaker 1: of jump in and they go, stop, I wasn't finished. 70 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: I need to finish what I'm saying. Don't cut me 71 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 1: off before I'm done. And then they go about their 72 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:00,359 Speaker 1: business and they think they're being polite and trying to 73 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: explain to you that they need to finish. Well, it's 74 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:07,239 Speaker 1: actually quite rude. So I'm just wondering if a moment 75 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 1: like that could have happened, because a lot of times 76 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:12,519 Speaker 1: you don't realize you're being rude when it's actually quite rude. 77 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe, and I'm hoping there's something like that. 78 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 1: I like to think that I'm respectful and all my stuff, 79 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 1: but I don't know. You just you like, sometimes you 80 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 1: pick up a vibe in the middle of some of 81 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 1: these conversations and you're like, I think I just think 82 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: her a different direction, you know, Yeah, maybe I don't. 83 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:29,359 Speaker 1: I don't really understand what you mean by you're doing 84 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: your own thing when you're on a date. In the 85 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 1: dating world, it has burned me a little bit because 86 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 1: I because, like, well, let's say if I was dating 87 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 1: somebody for a while and then I go to meet 88 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: their parents, right, I don't go out of my way 89 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 1: right to like, wow people, right because I'm just like, 90 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 1: I'm me, you're you, I respect you, You're expect me. 91 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 1: I don't have to respect you just because, right, I 92 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 1: don't have to go out of my way put your 93 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 1: best foot forward to expect people and show up and 94 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:55,839 Speaker 1: say I'm so happy to me. Yeah. And I've never 95 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:58,839 Speaker 1: done that, even though I want to. So it has 96 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 1: looked bad on me though, and I haven't understood it 97 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: until recently. I'm like, oh, there's nothing wrong with doing that, 98 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: it's just being polite. Yeah. Yeah, And that's hard to say. 99 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:08,839 Speaker 1: But that's the thing, because I like this girl a lot, 100 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 1: Like I don't know if she is quick, she is gorgeous, 101 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 1: she's so fun, and I've never really vibe with someone 102 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 1: like that through this tender stuff. So I was just 103 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 1: really hoping that something will go my way with this one. Okay, well, 104 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: let's see if we can figure it out for you. 105 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 1: Then we'll play a song, come back, and then call 106 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 1: her and get your first date and then call her 107 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 1: and see if we can find out why she's ghosting 108 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 1: you and maybe get you another date with your first 109 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 1: day follow up. Okay, thank you guys. All right, man, 110 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 1: we'll do it next. Bend the liddle of your first 111 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 1: date follow up if you're just joining us. Dante is 112 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,799 Speaker 1: on the phone and Dante isn't getting a call back 113 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 1: from Emma, and he has no idea why. Before we 114 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:41,480 Speaker 1: give her a phone call to see if we can 115 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 1: find out exactly why he's getting ghosted, Dante, give everybody 116 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: a real quick recap on your date with Emma. So 117 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 1: I just I met with this girl on tender. We 118 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:53,160 Speaker 1: were vibing on vibing, just totally vibing. She's so gorgeous. 119 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 1: She's all the boxes checked with this one. So I'm 120 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:58,039 Speaker 1: really hoping something goes good with her. We hung out, 121 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:00,280 Speaker 1: got a little bit flirty with it. I'm worried. Think 122 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:02,360 Speaker 1: you got a little bit too flirty before we hung out, 123 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 1: because now I'm getting totally go to buy this tip 124 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: that I am fully into. All Right, so disappointing. I'm 125 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:09,479 Speaker 1: so sorry. See if we can figure it out for you, Dante. 126 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:11,280 Speaker 1: Here we go. I'm gonna call her right now. Okay, 127 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 1: I think all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, Ma, 128 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 1: speak to Emma please. Hey. This is Emma. Hey, Emma, 129 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:34,040 Speaker 1: how are you? My name is Jewel from a radio 130 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 1: show called The Jewel Show. Hi, Emma, my name's Nina. 131 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 1: I'm here too. Hi. I'm Victoria. I'm also here. Yeah. Hey, 132 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: how's it going good? How are you? I'm good? What's 133 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:48,480 Speaker 1: this about? Well? Not much. First of all, have you 134 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 1: ever listened to the show before? Um? Yeah, a few times? Sweet? Okay, 135 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:54,839 Speaker 1: so you might be familiar with the segment We do 136 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 1: call it the first eight follow up? Are you? Oh 137 00:05:57,279 --> 00:06:03,159 Speaker 1: my god? Yes? Okay, So it's your girl. There's your answer. 138 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:04,600 Speaker 1: That's what the phone call is about. We got an 139 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:06,840 Speaker 1: email from one of our listeners about you and they 140 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 1: say you're ghosting them. Oh my god, is there somebody? Yeah? 141 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 1: Do you know who you are ghosting? Um? I mean 142 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,840 Speaker 1: someone does come to mind? All right? You throw out 143 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 1: a name and I'll tell you if you're right? A wrong? Okay? Crap? 144 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: Is it is it? Dante? Yes? It's Dante. He emailed us, 145 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 1: told us a little bit about your day. He said 146 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:34,280 Speaker 1: he really liked you, but you're ghosting and he wants 147 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:39,240 Speaker 1: to know. Why can you tell us? Wow? Wow wow wow? Um? 148 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:42,160 Speaker 1: I mean we yeah, I guess we hit it off. 149 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 1: We just met on tender, you know, and we ended 150 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:50,160 Speaker 1: up hanging out. Um yeah, honestly I had a good time. Like, 151 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 1: I can't say anything bad, I think. So when we 152 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 1: talked to him, he said that, you guys, um, we're 153 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 1: like really flirty on Tinder, like like getting to the 154 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:01,280 Speaker 1: point where where was getting like dirty. Yeah, and then 155 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 1: it just like stopped. Yeah, So it's confused. I mean 156 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 1: I was buying with him. I don't know what to say. 157 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 1: You know, well, why do you think you didn't hit 158 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 1: him up after the date, because he said you hit 159 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: him back and said that you had to work and 160 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 1: you got home safe and then you never heard from 161 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 1: you again. I mean, look, his profile picture was hot. 162 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 1: Like you think you're talking to someone and you think 163 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 1: you know everything that you're gonna see in person, and 164 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 1: then honestly he shows up with corn Roads and this 165 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 1: is a white guy, okay, and you didn't like that. 166 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 1: It was amazing Crim's moment for me. It gave me 167 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 1: the egg. You know, I got Corners recently and I'm 168 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 1: a white dude, I know, And he loves I changed 169 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 1: him a little bit from just the straight corn rows. 170 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: But do you think that's crazy? Yeah? I just think 171 00:07:56,360 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: that's kind of embarrassing, a little inappropriate, okay for you 172 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 1: or for them, for them, for everyone, Okay. And so 173 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 1: that's what that's what you didn't like. You didn't like 174 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 1: the fact that he had corn rows. Yeah, I just 175 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 1: don't get like why he would choose that, because he 176 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 1: had great hair in his pictures. So it's just a 177 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 1: little off pudding. But so you know that he has 178 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 1: great hair, and then without the corn rows, you find 179 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 1: yourself attracted to him. So it could have ended up 180 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 1: just being as simple as you want to get rid 181 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 1: of those. Yeah, see what happens now. I mean he 182 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 1: kind of fumbled it. I just didn't really feel like 183 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 1: I could go and ask him to change his hair, 184 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 1: especially when you first start dating somebody to ask them like, hey, 185 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 1: can you change your hairstyle? I mean, I know, deeper 186 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 1: into the relationship and he just popped up with corn rows, 187 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:48,079 Speaker 1: we'd have a conversation for sure. Yeah, I'm sure you'd 188 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 1: have no problem deeper in relationship being like what is that? Yeah? 189 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:54,839 Speaker 1: Other than that was everything else, like the whole day 190 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 1: in general, Like, was that nice? That's fair? Yeah, unfortunately 191 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 1: I really liked him go along. Well, so you just 192 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 1: can't see past the corn rows though, right, I mean 193 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: could you? Yes? Because I had? Yeah. I think that, 194 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:16,319 Speaker 1: you know, if everything else is cool and some people 195 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 1: can just rock that, you know, like there are certain 196 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:21,040 Speaker 1: people that their style is an extension of, you know, 197 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: their own personal swag. Like we use the word swag 198 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 1: kind of freely, but you know, people have their own 199 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:30,959 Speaker 1: kind of littles like swag. You know, maybe that's his deal. Yeah. 200 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:33,840 Speaker 1: I just feel like there's certain hairstyles that are not 201 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 1: for you when you're a white guy. Okay, So it's 202 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 1: so you see it as it's not like a quote 203 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:44,199 Speaker 1: unquote white hairstyle. I feel like it's a bit of 204 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 1: a cultural appropriation moment. Okay. I mean, well, you're definitely 205 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 1: entitled to have your opinion. You wonder how you would 206 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 1: feel about that Since you've gone out with him, do 207 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:55,840 Speaker 1: you wonder how he feels about them? Yeah? I mean 208 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: I'll hear him out sweet because he's actually on the 209 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:01,680 Speaker 1: phone listening, has been listening this whole time. I wants 210 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 1: to talk to you, oh yo yo, He's so Okay, 211 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: is the core Rose is that if though core Rose 212 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:20,800 Speaker 1: that's it? That was it? Yeah? I was sometime, Um, yeah, 213 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:23,559 Speaker 1: I guess I thought you would be a little bit 214 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:27,680 Speaker 1: more serious of a guy when we met. I mean, 215 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 1: all right, look, look, I feel like this is all 216 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:33,079 Speaker 1: right because this is the thing is that that's like 217 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:35,800 Speaker 1: I'm still an adult, right, Like I like to take 218 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 1: things seriously for show, but that shouldn't stop me from 219 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 1: being like an experimental person. I like trying new things. 220 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:44,680 Speaker 1: I like stepping outside of the box, you know what 221 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,680 Speaker 1: I mean. And the core Rose, I mean, yeah, they're 222 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 1: they're a little they're a little outside of the box. 223 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: But I like that about myself. I don't want to 224 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 1: feel stifled, you know. I find myself to be an 225 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: original person that way. I love that. I just feel 226 00:10:59,880 --> 00:11:03,080 Speaker 1: like there's so many choices. There's just like a billion 227 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:07,880 Speaker 1: things to and that's what you went with. You might 228 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:11,280 Speaker 1: and see the thing is you might not be totally 229 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 1: wrong on that. There's all kinds of creativity that I 230 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 1: could I can express through right, which is why I 231 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 1: have actually an offer for you. So if if you're 232 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 1: willing to let me take you out on a second date, 233 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 1: I might get rid of them corn rows. Wow, might 234 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:32,319 Speaker 1: he's willing to change already. That's actually kind of a 235 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 1: good sign. Guys a lot longer to be willing to 236 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 1: change right where they don't. Yeah, all right, you know what, Well, 237 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:42,560 Speaker 1: let me ask Emma, would you like to go on 238 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:46,840 Speaker 1: another date with Dante. We'll pay for it. I'm down, honestly, 239 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 1: corn Rows are not? Why not? You know who am 240 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:54,960 Speaker 1: I to judge? Oh? Wow? See, so Emma really loves 241 00:11:55,040 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 1: feeling Sometimes it's not just about what they look like, 242 00:11:57,600 --> 00:12:02,960 Speaker 1: it's about how they make you feel. Right. Yeah. I 243 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 1: appreciate you understanding, Emma, And I'm excited for this. So 244 00:12:07,040 --> 00:12:10,199 Speaker 1: we're doing a second date. Oh yeah, we really went 245 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 1: for extra mile here. So congratulations Dante, you got another date. 246 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 1: That's exciting. That's the Dante. You're gonna take the raids 247 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 1: out though, for real. That's been Mike The Jebel Show 248 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 1: on Demand