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Speaker 1: Jubils Dirty little Secrets six by One's time for your

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Speaker 1: dirty little secret? Remember texting four one O six one.

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Speaker 1: If you have a dirty little secret that you'd like

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Speaker 1: to tell us, you can tell us anything because nobody

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Speaker 1: will know who you are, even we won't. We don't

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Speaker 1: ask anybody's name. That's why everybody gets a fake anonymous nickname.

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Speaker 1: And on the phone right now is Microsoft Excel? What

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Speaker 1: a programming? Yeah? Hey, Microsoft Excel, what's up? How are you? Hey?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry you got a really bad Yeah, you got

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Speaker 1: a really bad nickname. I apologize about that. Well, I

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Speaker 1: don't know is it supposed to be because I'm organized,

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Speaker 1: Because I'm definitely not. I'm definitely not either. But anyway,

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Speaker 1: right now you're stuck being Microsoft Excel. So what's your

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Speaker 1: dirty little secret? Um? Well, I am sleeping with my

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Speaker 1: baby daddy. Oh please, that's good. Right. I have to

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Speaker 1: assume that you guys are not together anymore for you

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Speaker 1: saying that otherwise I feel bad. Yeah, so let me

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Speaker 1: I guess I can elaborate. Um, I had a baby

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Speaker 1: with my baby daddy when I was We were dating

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Speaker 1: and I was sixteen, and so I thought he was

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Speaker 1: you know, the love of my life and I thought

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Speaker 1: we were going to be together forever, you know, and

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Speaker 1: he cheated on me after I had the baby. Um,

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Speaker 1: so we broke up and it's been a few years now,

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Speaker 1: and obviously we are in each other's lives. I mean,

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Speaker 1: we have a kid together, and he ended up marrying

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Speaker 1: the girl that he cheated on me with. Wa. But

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Speaker 1: now he's been like really into me lately and we've

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Speaker 1: actually slept together a few times. Oh, so he's cheating

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Speaker 1: on his wife. So now he's cheating on his wife. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this guy, find anybody knew? Nobody knows. But um, I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm really enjoying it. Good for you? Wow? Is he like,

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Speaker 1: is he involved in your child's life? Yeah? Yeah, m

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Speaker 1: he is. We've never had a problem there. You know,

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Speaker 1: he's just a cheater. I guess, Well, hostly if you're

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Speaker 1: enjoying him another Oh, I have another confession. I guess

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Speaker 1: I actually want to tell his wife so that the

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Speaker 1: breakup and he's with me now. No no, no, for

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Speaker 1: a couple of reasons. Because he's a cheater. Well, and

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Speaker 1: he's a cheater. But if you if you love him, no, no,

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Speaker 1: because he's gonna cheat on you too. Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: he already did cheat on you. Well, this is very

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Speaker 1: negative thinking what if he's changed. I guess you're right,

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Speaker 1: you know, that's always my mindset is always like, hey,

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Speaker 1: don't worry about the problem, find a solution, right, don't

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Speaker 1: be problem based person, because then you're only gonna have problems.

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Speaker 1: If you're a solution based person, you're only gonna have

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Speaker 1: solutions and you'll fix things. Except in this case, I

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Speaker 1: think you've only got problems. I mean we're more grown

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Speaker 1: up now. I mean when we were obviously we were

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Speaker 1: we were sixteen. But he's cheating right now. And his wife,

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Speaker 1: it's a very good point. Well, you know she's so

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Speaker 1: she kind of got on I mean maybe she is,

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Speaker 1: maybe she isn't. I don't know. We don't know her personally,

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Speaker 1: you know. But still he's constantly telling me all the

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Speaker 1: things that she does to him. So I mean I

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Speaker 1: could see why he's not happy, and I make him happy.

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Speaker 1: So if he wasn't cheat on you, though, again, will

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Speaker 1: you have him stay? No? Of course not. I mean

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Speaker 1: I didn't have him stay the first time. I mean, well,

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Speaker 1: I guess he kind of left me. I mean I

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Speaker 1: don't know, so he got you pregnant, cheated on you

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Speaker 1: with now his current wife, and is now cheating on

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Speaker 1: his wife with you, And you don't think there's any

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Speaker 1: chance if you guys got back together that he would

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Speaker 1: cheat on you. No. I mean he's clearly still thinking

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Speaker 1: of me. We're still in each other's lives. It's like

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Speaker 1: he knows we're meant to be okay, So you see

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Speaker 1: it as like a face thing, like he realizes that

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Speaker 1: he should have been with you, and then he messed up,

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Speaker 1: and now he's ready to come back home. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: mean we were young. Who doesn't make a mistake when

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Speaker 1: they're young. I mean, we've got pregnant. I'm like, whoa,

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Speaker 1: So I think we'll be fine this time. So I

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Speaker 1: just but I want to get the ball rollings. I

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Speaker 1: want her to know a great time for a sports analogy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: let's get the ball rolling Come on, all right, Well,

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Speaker 1: good luck to you and let us know how it goes. Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you guy. Yep, what's your dirty little secret