1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: Why don't two point seven? It's kids Harry styles there. Well, 2 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: you know, when you've worked with someone a long time, 3 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:09,400 Speaker 1: you just don't fight it. 4 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 2: You don't I would. You don't fight it. You just 5 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 2: let him run with it. You know. 6 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: Tanya has said to me, there must be some meaning 7 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: behind the fact that you never finish some of the 8 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: things that you start. 9 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 2: Now, let's be clear. 10 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 1: Personally, professionally, I can I steer it to full follow 11 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 1: through in completion. 12 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, though, Like there there is like 13 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:34,879 Speaker 3: if you think about it, you don't. You you are 14 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:37,599 Speaker 3: very you don't like things to finish, Like you've been 15 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 3: doing all your jobs for several several sub. 16 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:44,640 Speaker 2: Several years, two decades plus for most of them. 17 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, which is indunerable and like amazing. 18 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 2: So are you saying that I fear the end card? 19 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay, Well, anyway, you don't fight this stuff when 20 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: your coworker colleague brings it up. So Tanya spent endless 21 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: hours researching what it all means. Yeah, we were talking 22 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:05,400 Speaker 1: about TV show specifically because I mentioned I finished Baby 23 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:07,320 Speaker 1: Reindeer in one sitting. I had to Everybody told me, 24 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:10,119 Speaker 1: you got to see it, I said, I thought Tany 25 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 1: and Ruby would be exciting proud of me because I 26 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: so rarely finished those shows, right, yeah, or even movies 27 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 1: like Saltfurn So what'd you learn? 28 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 2: Okay? 29 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 3: So actually it's interesting because there were several different things. 30 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 3: So one of them is like fear of evaluation, and 31 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 3: I think it's specific to TV and movies. So you 32 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 3: might avoid finishing things because you don't want to be 33 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 3: judged on them. Rather, you prefer to be judged on 34 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 3: your efforts. So like when everybody says they're watching all 35 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 3: these things, you want to be in on the conversation 36 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 3: of like, yeah, i'm watching it too, I'm watching it too. 37 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 2: But then you don't really want. 38 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 3: The follow up like did you like it, because you 39 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 3: don't want to answer if you liked it or not. 40 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 2: I don't like I don't think that's true. What else 41 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 2: do you learn? 42 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 3: Okay? It could be the anticipation versus completion. So there's this. 43 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 3: You enjoy the anticipation excitement of watching a series or 44 00:01:58,120 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 3: something new, but. 45 00:01:58,800 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 2: Then I get sad when it's over. 46 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, it's like I didn't want to get a 47 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 1: dog for myself because I was afraid of the lifespan. 48 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, so the anticipation does diminish as you go on, 49 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 3: and there may be less motivation to complete the series. 50 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 3: Then I found this thing called never finish anything syndrome, 51 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 3: and there is this like five step prescription to like 52 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 3: not to resolve this quickly, create a list of remove 53 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:23,800 Speaker 3: things that you don't want to finish, and kind of 54 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:25,679 Speaker 3: like things like that. But I do think that there 55 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:29,080 Speaker 3: is something there psychologically. 56 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:33,920 Speaker 2: That it's bigger than just not finishing a TV show. Yes, m. 57 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:38,839 Speaker 1: Le, let's just do this information mark now, I can't, 58 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 1: I won't sleep time. 59 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 2: No. 60 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 3: I think this is so great. I think when when 61 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 3: you start to kind of like look at these things 62 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 3: in your life and you really start to analyze, you 63 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 3: start to have these breakthroughs where you start to understand yourself, 64 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:52,360 Speaker 3: you have more compassion for yourself and empathy. And I 65 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 3: think this is really going to be great. 66 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 1: Well, I started a new series called Your Honor right now. 67 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 1: It's not new, but I started it. It's new to me. 68 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, did you enjoy it? 69 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 1: I watched the first episode in its entirety nice, proud 70 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 1: of you, and it's great. 71 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,079 Speaker 2: I'm hooked. Are you going to finish it? I am 72 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 2: going to work on my symbolism here and try and 73 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 2: finish it for you and the focus. 74 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 3: Just put that one show that's. 75 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: Step at a time. Yes, coming back here Kiss was 76 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: some Dodger tickets. Thank you for the ryannalysis Theretonia, You're welcome.