WEBVTT - Anger Management

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<v Speaker 1>Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio Podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey guys, welcome back to wind Down. It's uh to

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<v Speaker 1>trust me. Um, I just want to say thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much for all the love last week. UM yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I really appreciate it. I didn't know how

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<v Speaker 1>it would be received because I was like, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>just cried the entire podcast. But it was really comforting

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<v Speaker 1>to see the messages because even people that weren't going

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<v Speaker 1>through my exact situation, we're able to relate in just

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<v Speaker 1>different ways with their own pain and their own grief.

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<v Speaker 1>And you guys went along with the tapping, which was

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<v Speaker 1>so cool, and I just appreciate it, and I appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>you guys still wanting me to, you know, keep on

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<v Speaker 1>the show. And I'm if I'm gonna be honest, it's been.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been a rough week. Again. I'm I'm just waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for when they say it's better. Uh, But in the meantime,

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<v Speaker 1>it's definitely been. It's hard, and it's it's um. I

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<v Speaker 1>think the hardest part is when you imagine something and

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<v Speaker 1>you work for something and then you're the rug kind

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<v Speaker 1>of gets pulled from underneath you. You're just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>left there on the floor kind of spinning like what like.

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<v Speaker 1>And so that's kind of where I think I'm at,

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<v Speaker 1>just the realization and then just divorce sucks. Uh, there's

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<v Speaker 1>it's such a it's hard because you know, I was

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<v Speaker 1>in the office with one of my lawyers and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they're laughing, and I'm like, this isn't funny, like you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, I understand they you know, they have a

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<v Speaker 1>million cases. I'm just one case out of probably five thousand,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean, and it's just yeah, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is this is hard, and this is emotional and

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<v Speaker 1>this is like I'm not laughing about this, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>just it sucks. And unless you're going through it, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just a really awful feeling and I hate it. And

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<v Speaker 1>then it's like I didn't want this, and that's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of where I keep going to. It's like I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want this. I didn't want this, and so now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to get out of that mind frame of Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want this, but now how am I going

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<v Speaker 1>to get past it? And That's where I'm at now,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's why I'm reading so many different books um

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<v Speaker 1>reading right now. Lisa turkis book, it's not supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be this way, and that's been helping a lot and

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<v Speaker 1>just realizing, Okay, this is this is it, this isn't

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<v Speaker 1>what I wanted. But now I have to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>how to get out of my slump because there is

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<v Speaker 1>no going back, there is no um. Yeah, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>just sad because when when you sit in those offices

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<v Speaker 1>it's now a business transaction. I'm like, this is my life,

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<v Speaker 1>this is my kids, this is my money, this is

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<v Speaker 1>my my livelihood, this is you know, everything that I've

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<v Speaker 1>built for myself. And it's when people want to mess

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<v Speaker 1>with that, it's just really hard because yeah, I came

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<v Speaker 1>from nothing and I worked my butt off and anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm that's my SOB spiel for the day. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think we just I think it's it's okay to

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<v Speaker 1>be in those spots where you go around and round

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<v Speaker 1>and round circles because you're gonna get out of it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've gotten out of the Will you ever change?

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<v Speaker 1>Will you ever changed it? Did I make the right decision?

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<v Speaker 1>I know I made the right decision, and that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I can stand from in But now what I'm kind

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<v Speaker 1>of going around circles is when is it going to

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<v Speaker 1>get easier? And it's probably not going to get easier

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<v Speaker 1>for a long time. So now I have to get

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<v Speaker 1>myself up the off the couch, find a way now

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<v Speaker 1>to just try to try and that's like the hardest part.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm doing it. I'm trying it, and I hope

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are too. I'm pumped because I got Shari

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<v Speaker 1>Healy coming on. She's a she's just like a overall

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<v Speaker 1>life coach. She's been on the show before, so hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>she'll be able to give me some wise words and

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<v Speaker 1>then after that we're going to have someone hopefully show

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<v Speaker 1>me that I've got something better on the way. But

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<v Speaker 1>before we get Charian, let's stick a break. Hi Shari, Hi, Janna, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you honey? You know it's the million dollar question. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, I'm just kind of numb. Had had a

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<v Speaker 1>few good cries earlier today and a lot of anger. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I had one of those moments where I

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<v Speaker 1>was driving and was like, I have to pull over

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<v Speaker 1>because if I gotta I gotta pull over. It was

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<v Speaker 1>one of those kind of kind of days right there

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<v Speaker 1>with you know, I've been there, right, you know that

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<v Speaker 1>I was mama of young kids when I filed for divorce,

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<v Speaker 1>And why I'm here is to tell you what it's

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<v Speaker 1>going to look like on the other side and how

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<v Speaker 1>to get there, because we have a phenomenal divorce and

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<v Speaker 1>the kids have gotten through it, and I have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot that I wanted to give you. Yeah, I would.

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<v Speaker 1>I would love that because right now I have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of resentment because of how things are going, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's making me just angry, which I think I need

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<v Speaker 1>to have a piece of angry because yeah, so that

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<v Speaker 1>way I don't get too sad knowing like or like

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<v Speaker 1>did I make their right It's like no, no, like

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<v Speaker 1>I made the right decision. But I am starting to

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<v Speaker 1>feel like a little bit too much because of I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like someone's someone it's just take take, take, take, taking,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like you already took everything, like not everything,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know what I'm saying, Like it's like you

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<v Speaker 1>took my family away from me. You took so it's

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm that's where I'm stuck right now and just

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<v Speaker 1>being like angry. Yeah, and you need to feel that.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know I heard Sarah telling you that as

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<v Speaker 1>well and Gabby, and it's critical because I would say

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<v Speaker 1>where I went wrong is I went so full forced

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<v Speaker 1>into being there for the children and trying to create

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<v Speaker 1>this really good divorce. I was like, I never planned

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<v Speaker 1>out getting divorced, but if I'm going to get divorced,

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to be the best divorce ever, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a great intention. But I delayed my feelings. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I put them off and so I had to. I

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<v Speaker 1>think Gabby said this to you, like, they'll still be there.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't feel them now, you'll feel him later

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<v Speaker 1>like I did. And I think I want that you're

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<v Speaker 1>feeling them now. I'm glad that you are. Now. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just hard because it's you know, the other day he

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<v Speaker 1>had asked me, He's like, hey, you know, do you

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<v Speaker 1>wanna do um you know, birdhouses? Like I've got the

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<v Speaker 1>kids because he hasn't moved into his new place. So

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<v Speaker 1>I let him come and see the kids obviously, and

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<v Speaker 1>uh and I was like yeah, sure, and I went

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<v Speaker 1>out there, but then I just got struck with this emotion.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, this isn't real. This is like like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not ready to do this yet, you know, because

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<v Speaker 1>it's like I would love to have done this, but

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<v Speaker 1>now I'm like, I'm still mad at like I still like,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know what I mean? But it's like I

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<v Speaker 1>would love to do that, but I was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think I'm ready. I gotta, I gotta go to

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<v Speaker 1>the room, like I can't. I can't do this right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that? Is that okay? So glad do you hear that?

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<v Speaker 1>Because yes, I know how much you want for the

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<v Speaker 1>kids to not suffer from this, and you said they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't ask for this, they didn't deserve this. But I

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<v Speaker 1>want to go through with you a few like what

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<v Speaker 1>I would call powerful beliefs that might be guiding lights

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<v Speaker 1>to get you through it, because I would say that.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember saying I don't want to have a broken family.

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<v Speaker 1>I came from a broken family, my parents got divorced.

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<v Speaker 1>I said I'd never do this to my kids. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so what I learned and I feel this to be

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<v Speaker 1>true in my bones and especially now my kids are

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<v Speaker 1>almost off to college. So I've come through it. And

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<v Speaker 1>we got to us when they were very little. They

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<v Speaker 1>choose both of you, They chose you. These kids came

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<v Speaker 1>in to have the experience of Jana and Mike and

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<v Speaker 1>all that comes with that. You know, all the lessons

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<v Speaker 1>that you have to learn, all the things that you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to go through in front of them. And what

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<v Speaker 1>I know is the greatest gift that we can give

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<v Speaker 1>our kids is to let them see us change and grow,

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<v Speaker 1>To let them see us be human and to be

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<v Speaker 1>perfectly imperfect. You know, That's what I feel like we

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<v Speaker 1>all are. We're all here to learn our lessons and

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<v Speaker 1>for you to be showing them how to go through

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<v Speaker 1>pain and hurt and prioritize Mommy, to like take care

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<v Speaker 1>of mom and show them that they will do the

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<v Speaker 1>same thing. They're watching you so they will know either

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<v Speaker 1>I throw myself under the bus and be a martyr

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<v Speaker 1>like mom, or I actually take a loan time and

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<v Speaker 1>I take space and I go away when I need

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<v Speaker 1>to feel feelings and I ask for help. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>loved hearing that you have all your friends coming in

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<v Speaker 1>and helping. It's also something I did not do. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I gotta get out of bed because I

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<v Speaker 1>got to be a mom and I'm gonna be a

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<v Speaker 1>great mom. And it was like this kind of trying

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<v Speaker 1>to do it in a way that I think I

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<v Speaker 1>paid the price for. You'd see, like I try to

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<v Speaker 1>and we nested, and I'd try to be with the

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<v Speaker 1>kid's dad and like be nice and loving and all

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<v Speaker 1>of that, and then there would be like these little digs.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, this resentment would seek out when I least

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<v Speaker 1>expect it because I had processed the resentment and he

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<v Speaker 1>he cheated to I mean, we have very similar experiences

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<v Speaker 1>where you know, I had every right to be livid

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<v Speaker 1>at him and take from him, you know. But here's

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<v Speaker 1>one of the things too, that that helped. I'm come

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<v Speaker 1>back to some powerful beliefs for a second. But one

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<v Speaker 1>thing that got me through was I said, I know

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to have to lead this, but if I

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<v Speaker 1>want this to turn out well for our family, I

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<v Speaker 1>know that's on me. And and it feels like you

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<v Speaker 1>could easily go, well, this happened to me, and why

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<v Speaker 1>do I have to take responsibility? Why do I have

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<v Speaker 1>to be the one? But it's also a great position

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<v Speaker 1>of power to be in to say I know I

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<v Speaker 1>can lead this family, and I know you well enough

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<v Speaker 1>already to know you are the super achiever of the family,

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<v Speaker 1>like you have what it takes to lead this family

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<v Speaker 1>into a better place. You you said the other day,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't can't see it, and I want you to

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<v Speaker 1>start seeing it. I want you to just start imagining

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<v Speaker 1>and I can help you fill in the blanks. But like,

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<v Speaker 1>how great it's going to be. And I know it

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<v Speaker 1>may feel like a leap where you almost take that

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<v Speaker 1>anger right now and be like, all right, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>live in a gorgeous home. I'm gonna have lovers. These

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<v Speaker 1>kids are gonna end up so happy. I Am going

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<v Speaker 1>to be free and living the dream where all my

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<v Speaker 1>other married friends are gonna be like I wish I

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<v Speaker 1>had some alone time to go on trips. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>crush my business, you know, like to start laying down

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<v Speaker 1>what you want, because I know that you're at this

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<v Speaker 1>moment for a reason, and the more you can bring in,

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<v Speaker 1>almost like with your fist in the air, this is

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm going to have. I don't know how and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know when, but this is where I'm leading

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<v Speaker 1>this family to a really joyful, beautiful What I said

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<v Speaker 1>to my kids is we're going to be family forever,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're gonna have two houses, and eventually there's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be even more love around because they'll be even

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<v Speaker 1>more people around you to love on those kids, and

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<v Speaker 1>you have to get you there. What will be in

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<v Speaker 1>my darkest hours the highest value that will that will

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<v Speaker 1>help me get there? So you choose, in every hard

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<v Speaker 1>decision and in every alone moment, what is the thing

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<v Speaker 1>that I cling to? Like, for me, it was peace

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<v Speaker 1>at all costs. I wanted peace, and I in every

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<v Speaker 1>hard conversation and argument, I would choose peace, which now

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<v Speaker 1>looking back, I don't even know that that was the best.

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<v Speaker 1>It got us a peaceful divorce, for sure, but it

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<v Speaker 1>made me compromise some things. So I don't know as

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<v Speaker 1>I say this, what might come up as the thing

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<v Speaker 1>that you cling to. Because it only takes one person

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<v Speaker 1>to set the tone for the family. Yeah, so if

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<v Speaker 1>you want the tone to be love, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>the salt to be really loving, I do. I hear that,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what I do want, and I know that

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<v Speaker 1>I I can. I think I'm just still in the

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<v Speaker 1>space of I just fear that I'm gonna I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>resent him for the rest of my life for breaking

0:12:39.640 --> 0:12:44.120
<v Speaker 1>up our family. And I don't that sound that seems

0:12:44.160 --> 0:12:48.000
<v Speaker 1>so heavy to carry? It is heavy, and I will

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<v Speaker 1>not let you carry it because over time you will

0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:58.480
<v Speaker 1>be able to it won't be possible because you're you're

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<v Speaker 1>already such a creator and you already have such big

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<v Speaker 1>dreams and visions for yourself, it will be impossible to

0:13:05.040 --> 0:13:08.440
<v Speaker 1>drag that thing along. But I'll tell you the exit,

0:13:08.920 --> 0:13:12.720
<v Speaker 1>like the escape hatch for that, and you can. It

0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:14.760
<v Speaker 1>might drop in now, it might be something that you

0:13:14.800 --> 0:13:18.079
<v Speaker 1>hold for a while, but here's another belief that you

0:13:18.120 --> 0:13:21.120
<v Speaker 1>can carry, that that you came together for a reason,

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<v Speaker 1>the two of you and your blueprint for what success

0:13:25.960 --> 0:13:29.840
<v Speaker 1>looked like was we're together forever, we have a happily

0:13:29.840 --> 0:13:35.440
<v Speaker 1>family forever. I had the same thing. But it could

0:13:35.480 --> 0:13:40.640
<v Speaker 1>be that because you're such an achiever, whatever karma you

0:13:40.679 --> 0:13:43.000
<v Speaker 1>had to work out, whatever lesson you were supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>learn together, you knocked it out of the park early.

0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:52.400
<v Speaker 1>You already did what you came together to do, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're on such a path of self growth. It could

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<v Speaker 1>be that you just moved so quickly through what your

0:14:00.760 --> 0:14:05.880
<v Speaker 1>souls came here to experience that you're over early. And

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<v Speaker 1>there's this formula for happiness that says, whatever my blueprint

0:14:10.400 --> 0:14:12.480
<v Speaker 1>is for life has to line up with my life,

0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:15.600
<v Speaker 1>like whatever I expect has to be reality. And when

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<v Speaker 1>they're out of balance and they don't equal each other,

0:14:19.720 --> 0:14:24.560
<v Speaker 1>then you're in unhappiness. And if there don't equal each other,

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<v Speaker 1>if you thought you were supposed to be together forever

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<v Speaker 1>and now you're not, and you feel helpless to change

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<v Speaker 1>that for the rest of your life, then you're bound

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<v Speaker 1>for suffering. You're not just unhappy, you're suffering because you're

0:14:34.920 --> 0:14:38.040
<v Speaker 1>you're disempowered. You can't do anything about it. Family is broken,

0:14:38.080 --> 0:14:42.440
<v Speaker 1>You're supposed to stay together forever, and that is going

0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:47.480
<v Speaker 1>to just lead to long days of suffering, which I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not all about. I think life is short, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think we're supposed to be here to do and do

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<v Speaker 1>this thing. So you could say to bring those back

0:14:56.560 --> 0:14:59.880
<v Speaker 1>into balance, to find happiness again and freedom to create

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<v Speaker 1>family that you want. That maybe my blueprint is, Yeah,

0:15:04.240 --> 0:15:06.160
<v Speaker 1>we probably came together for a really big reason, and

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<v Speaker 1>if I find out what that reason is, then it

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<v Speaker 1>would make sense that we're not together anymore. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think there's a blessing in this. It may not be

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<v Speaker 1>parent right now. I used to be so goddamn mad

0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:21.760
<v Speaker 1>at the kid's dad that I was like, I never

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<v Speaker 1>want to see you again. I can't believe we have

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<v Speaker 1>kids together and I have to see you all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>But I know what the blessed thing is. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>would not be the woman that I am right now

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<v Speaker 1>if I hadn't gone through that with him. And I

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<v Speaker 1>see the karma and my kids too, that my daughter's

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<v Speaker 1>working out stuff with him, my son's working out stuff

0:15:40.440 --> 0:15:44.920
<v Speaker 1>with him, he's becoming a better man. It's it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of mind blowing how much we've all learned together going

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<v Speaker 1>through this. So I dig for what's the good reason

0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:54.360
<v Speaker 1>that you two came together in the first place, and

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<v Speaker 1>what would be the good reason that you're not together anymore?

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<v Speaker 1>And how's it going to serve the kids, Because the

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<v Speaker 1>only way to really hurt them is to be really

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<v Speaker 1>unkind to each other in front of them, to like

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<v Speaker 1>go through some really horrible, knockdown, drag out awful talking

0:16:15.160 --> 0:16:19.720
<v Speaker 1>about each other in front of them, which you wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>And the greatest gift that we can give them as

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<v Speaker 1>mamas is to be happy and good to ourselves. And

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<v Speaker 1>I want that they see a model for healthy, happy love,

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<v Speaker 1>like a really that both of you have really healthy

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<v Speaker 1>relationships out of this, that they could learn what love

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<v Speaker 1>looks like. Because I heard you say about staying together

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<v Speaker 1>for the kids, which so many people do, and then

0:16:45.520 --> 0:16:49.880
<v Speaker 1>their kids grow up in that sort of toxic energy

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<v Speaker 1>that you think you're acting like really great and not

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<v Speaker 1>showing them, but they feel it more than we could

0:16:54.840 --> 0:16:58.520
<v Speaker 1>possibly know, and they're marinating in that, and they know

0:16:58.680 --> 0:17:01.160
<v Speaker 1>something's off with mom and dad, and then they take

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<v Speaker 1>on the responsibility for your unhappiness. They think it's because

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<v Speaker 1>of that. Yeah, I think and I know, and I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely feel that. I mean, there's they I'm sure they

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<v Speaker 1>felt the tension when we have arguments and stuff, and

0:17:14.800 --> 0:17:19.399
<v Speaker 1>I know that's the outcome, and they're the greatest thing

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<v Speaker 1>that's ever happened that, you know. I just like my

0:17:23.240 --> 0:17:25.159
<v Speaker 1>mom always said, my parents got divorced, Like she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>we were just meant to have you guys, And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I and I do know that. I think it's just

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<v Speaker 1>this I imagine, this healthy change of what I was

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<v Speaker 1>like promised. So that's the part, because I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it was ever you know, I was always you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I dreamed, I was dreaming that it was always something

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<v Speaker 1>that it wasn't. And so I don't even know if

0:17:51.280 --> 0:17:56.280
<v Speaker 1>that other that image is actually real, but it's what

0:17:56.400 --> 0:17:58.600
<v Speaker 1>was real in my in my dreams. You know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>real that I made it up that it was this

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<v Speaker 1>happy family, And I think that that's what's that's what

0:18:06.240 --> 0:18:10.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm losing, is that idea of what I dreamt and

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<v Speaker 1>prayed and fought for. Yeah. I remember once saying to

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<v Speaker 1>a friend that we had to move after this divorce

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<v Speaker 1>and that my blueprint for being a great mom was

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<v Speaker 1>to provide them a house that they would grow up

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<v Speaker 1>in until college. One home. And he said to me, well, Sari,

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<v Speaker 1>we know that people who do the best in life

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<v Speaker 1>for the ones who can handle the most uncertainty, people

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<v Speaker 1>who like grew would change. So do you really think

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<v Speaker 1>that's the blueprint for being a great mom? Giving them

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<v Speaker 1>only one home, never having them be challenged or move

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<v Speaker 1>around or deal with change. And I just that blew

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<v Speaker 1>my mind because I thought, no, that's actually true. Anybody

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<v Speaker 1>interesting in my life that I would want to be

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<v Speaker 1>friends with has been through some kind of hell. You

0:18:52.840 --> 0:18:56.840
<v Speaker 1>know that shapes us. And so I think, when you

0:18:56.920 --> 0:19:00.800
<v Speaker 1>have those fights, you're going to teach them how to fight.

0:19:01.200 --> 0:19:03.840
<v Speaker 1>You're going to teach them how to talk about emotions.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna say, Mom, Dad are really having a hard day,

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<v Speaker 1>And this is how mom feels, this is how I

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<v Speaker 1>feel right now, and model for them what it is

0:19:13.359 --> 0:19:17.439
<v Speaker 1>to go through hard times. And maybe you're expanding your

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<v Speaker 1>definition of what family looks like. So what are the

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<v Speaker 1>three five things that I can do right now in

0:19:22.600 --> 0:19:25.479
<v Speaker 1>this kind of you know, the next ninety days of

0:19:25.800 --> 0:19:30.800
<v Speaker 1>kind of crisis? Yeah, okay, I want you to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out what the good reason was for marrying Mike, for

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<v Speaker 1>you two being together, the kids, and what was the blessing? Okay, right?

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<v Speaker 1>And so what's then also the good reason for coming apart?

0:19:40.880 --> 0:19:44.800
<v Speaker 1>The kids? Okay, because they chose you too. And you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know exactly what's going to come of all this,

0:19:46.840 --> 0:19:49.120
<v Speaker 1>but you're all learning exactly what you're here to learn.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that you would have come to this

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<v Speaker 1>moment if you weren't supposed to. And I also think

0:19:56.119 --> 0:19:59.920
<v Speaker 1>if you rest in this. I spoke to a spiritual

0:20:00.119 --> 0:20:03.360
<v Speaker 1>cher when I was deciding whether or not to pull

0:20:03.400 --> 0:20:06.199
<v Speaker 1>the trigger on my marriage, and he said, in the

0:20:06.280 --> 0:20:11.399
<v Speaker 1>tantra in the old, old, old ancient texts, there's a

0:20:11.600 --> 0:20:14.000
<v Speaker 1>there's a rule that if you're going to endeavor to

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<v Speaker 1>do anything in life, your likelihood for success needs to

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<v Speaker 1>be high. Otherwise that endeavor could be your undoing. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think the thing that caused you to finally say

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<v Speaker 1>we're done is because you knew that that dream, the

0:20:29.680 --> 0:20:32.560
<v Speaker 1>likelihood for success of actually realizing what you knew you

0:20:32.560 --> 0:20:38.080
<v Speaker 1>could have with him was too too low, because to

0:20:38.200 --> 0:20:41.080
<v Speaker 1>try and stay in it and keep going for it

0:20:41.280 --> 0:20:46.000
<v Speaker 1>like that was going to undo you kill me. I think.

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<v Speaker 1>I think because I heard about how you were constantly

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<v Speaker 1>watching and trying to, you know, be on guard and

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<v Speaker 1>man your boundaries. So so the next thing would be

0:20:54.080 --> 0:20:58.119
<v Speaker 1>to write just right, like a divine contract, this is

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<v Speaker 1>what's coming from my family. I am going to declare

0:21:00.440 --> 0:21:04.119
<v Speaker 1>this vision your visionary. You created this business out of nothing,

0:21:04.200 --> 0:21:06.119
<v Speaker 1>You had an idea for a podcast, look at it.

0:21:06.440 --> 0:21:08.520
<v Speaker 1>You can do the same thing with the family. This

0:21:08.560 --> 0:21:10.520
<v Speaker 1>is what it's gonna look like. I'm not into doing

0:21:10.520 --> 0:21:14.080
<v Speaker 1>the birdoses right now, but I will, you know, and

0:21:14.119 --> 0:21:17.520
<v Speaker 1>we'll do holidays together. Or I know you're scared about

0:21:17.560 --> 0:21:21.119
<v Speaker 1>letting them go on overnight, so if they're too little,

0:21:21.560 --> 0:21:24.680
<v Speaker 1>say no, say I'm gonna do the nesting thing, or

0:21:24.720 --> 0:21:27.800
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna do or we're gonna move and the kids

0:21:27.800 --> 0:21:29.840
<v Speaker 1>are going to stay. I'm not going to let them

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<v Speaker 1>go overnight until I'm ready. You are in charge of

0:21:34.000 --> 0:21:37.000
<v Speaker 1>setting up what's in the highest best interest for the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>So write the vision, see it in living color as

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<v Speaker 1>often as possible, like you're dreaming, because you're a dreamer,

0:21:43.840 --> 0:21:47.919
<v Speaker 1>So work with that's already a strength of yours. I

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<v Speaker 1>would also choose that highest value, if it's love, and

0:21:53.200 --> 0:21:56.119
<v Speaker 1>ask yourself with every hard moment, what would love do?

0:21:56.840 --> 0:21:59.720
<v Speaker 1>What would be loving? And in the moment, what would

0:21:59.760 --> 0:22:01.600
<v Speaker 1>be love is taking care of me? Because I'm really

0:22:01.600 --> 0:22:04.439
<v Speaker 1>resentful right now, and I'm not going to put myself

0:22:04.440 --> 0:22:07.800
<v Speaker 1>on the back burner, you know, until I'm ready to

0:22:07.920 --> 0:22:15.240
<v Speaker 1>be doing all these things. Um. I think energy clearings

0:22:15.520 --> 0:22:18.320
<v Speaker 1>would be really helpful. I know you talked to Gabby

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<v Speaker 1>about doing E F T and E M d R,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would have said, M d R, you're already

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<v Speaker 1>doing it, so I would get a really good and

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<v Speaker 1>I can give you some names and numbers of really

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<v Speaker 1>really good energy clearing people who do energy clearings, because

0:22:31.680 --> 0:22:35.960
<v Speaker 1>at that level of your being where there's still trauma

0:22:36.119 --> 0:22:39.040
<v Speaker 1>and there's entanglement and there's lessons to be learned and

0:22:39.160 --> 0:22:42.920
<v Speaker 1>contracts and vows, you can let somebody do the heavy

0:22:42.920 --> 0:22:46.600
<v Speaker 1>lifting on that stuff for you. It will speed up

0:22:46.640 --> 0:22:50.840
<v Speaker 1>the journey. All right, sure, thank you so much for

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<v Speaker 1>coming on. I know you just helped a lot of people,

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<v Speaker 1>including me, so thank you. And can I have you

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<v Speaker 1>come back in a couple of episodes please? Absolutely as more. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, thanks you. I appreciate you. Okay, appreciate you.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's take a break and then I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's time for a second greeting. All right, so we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna bring Chris Medina in, who is a psychic and

0:23:28.760 --> 0:23:33.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm so nervous what I'm excited. Um. He has a

0:23:33.840 --> 0:23:36.840
<v Speaker 1>podcast called in your Head and you can also go

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<v Speaker 1>to Chris Medina dot guide for more information on him.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Chris, thank you so much for coming on. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I'll let you do your thing. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much for having me on. Is this your first

0:23:48.760 --> 0:23:52.639
<v Speaker 1>psychic reeting? No, it's not. I've had a few, not

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<v Speaker 1>like today, but yeah, I've had a few in the past.

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<v Speaker 1>Whenever I have crisis, I'm always like, I need a psychic.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do it. I'm to give you my quick little

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<v Speaker 1>spiel and then we're going to jump right into it. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So just to let you know before you answer this question.

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<v Speaker 1>I do not discuss death and I do not discuss

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<v Speaker 1>anything that's going to scare the s out of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Why that's what I need? Well, I'm gonna shake you up,

0:24:14.240 --> 0:24:15.399
<v Speaker 1>but I'm not going to scare you. I'm not going

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<v Speaker 1>to manipulate you're doing to being horrible to you. Okay, okay. Thanks.

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<v Speaker 1>The second thing is, for the first couple of minutes

0:24:23.640 --> 0:24:25.119
<v Speaker 1>of this reading, I'm gonna go in and give you

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<v Speaker 1>what my guides are giving me to give you directly,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'll open the reading up to any questions

0:24:29.200 --> 0:24:30.880
<v Speaker 1>that you have in regards as to what I said,

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<v Speaker 1>or if you want to know about something that we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get a chance to touch on, we could do

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<v Speaker 1>it at that time. Does that work? Yes? Perfect? And

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<v Speaker 1>then the final final thing is your time is very

0:24:39.160 --> 0:24:41.520
<v Speaker 1>important and expensive to me. I want you to feel

0:24:41.560 --> 0:24:43.520
<v Speaker 1>free to jump in at any time to call bullshit.

0:24:44.000 --> 0:24:46.520
<v Speaker 1>Do not do not worry about trying to be polite,

0:24:46.520 --> 0:24:48.679
<v Speaker 1>not wanting to hurt my feelings, none of that. If

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't resonate with you, or if it sounds off,

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<v Speaker 1>let me know. When I do hit stuff, simply confirm yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but do not give me any additional details, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And you haven't like googled, looked up and you know,

0:25:00.240 --> 0:25:05.960
<v Speaker 1>looked into family history. Do you have a grandfather that died? Yeah? Yeah,

0:25:06.640 --> 0:25:08.560
<v Speaker 1>you know there's an old man that's coming to me

0:25:08.760 --> 0:25:12.639
<v Speaker 1>right now, that's pass from the other side. All everything

0:25:12.640 --> 0:25:14.200
<v Speaker 1>that I have for you, I'm gonna try to stay

0:25:14.240 --> 0:25:16.399
<v Speaker 1>away from the medium stuff because I don't have anything

0:25:16.400 --> 0:25:18.080
<v Speaker 1>to bring in from that. So I'm just gonna do

0:25:18.119 --> 0:25:22.719
<v Speaker 1>everything psychically. Okay, okay, cool, here we go. Okay, alright,

0:25:22.720 --> 0:25:25.840
<v Speaker 1>my love, So let me please your mind, especially your mind,

0:25:25.880 --> 0:25:27.480
<v Speaker 1>and let you know that I have nothing negative to

0:25:27.520 --> 0:25:30.679
<v Speaker 1>give you. Your guides, angels, messengers, whatever is that you

0:25:30.760 --> 0:25:33.280
<v Speaker 1>choose to call them, are trying to bring clarity and

0:25:33.359 --> 0:25:35.480
<v Speaker 1>strength to you. And I know that you're gonna laugh

0:25:35.480 --> 0:25:37.080
<v Speaker 1>at that. I know you know what needs to be

0:25:37.119 --> 0:25:40.000
<v Speaker 1>done here. But your soul, your essence, your presence, what

0:25:40.080 --> 0:25:43.520
<v Speaker 1>makes you you, is very very strong. You're just obviously

0:25:43.560 --> 0:25:45.680
<v Speaker 1>at a weak moment right now. But when it comes

0:25:45.720 --> 0:25:47.960
<v Speaker 1>to you again, I think people, I think people have

0:25:48.000 --> 0:25:51.880
<v Speaker 1>the misperception of you as being like um naive or

0:25:51.920 --> 0:25:53.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, um, why did you let this happen? And

0:25:54.000 --> 0:25:55.479
<v Speaker 1>kind of put all the blame on you and all

0:25:55.520 --> 0:25:57.679
<v Speaker 1>this other ship. I feel like with you when it

0:25:57.680 --> 0:25:59.320
<v Speaker 1>comes to your way of thinking and it comes to

0:25:59.320 --> 0:26:01.840
<v Speaker 1>the relationship at that you've gone through here, you're pretty

0:26:01.920 --> 0:26:04.520
<v Speaker 1>much right or die? Does that make sense? Like you're

0:26:04.560 --> 0:26:06.480
<v Speaker 1>kind of you're gonna You're gonna go above and beyond,

0:26:06.520 --> 0:26:10.000
<v Speaker 1>and you're also going to turn over every single rock

0:26:10.280 --> 0:26:12.800
<v Speaker 1>to make sure there's nothing underneath it. Because the last

0:26:12.840 --> 0:26:15.639
<v Speaker 1>thing that Janna wants is is to have questions in

0:26:15.680 --> 0:26:17.920
<v Speaker 1>her mind? Does that make sense to have to think

0:26:18.080 --> 0:26:19.520
<v Speaker 1>could I have done this? Could I have done that?

0:26:20.040 --> 0:26:21.639
<v Speaker 1>Or blah blah blah, whatever the case may be. So

0:26:21.720 --> 0:26:24.640
<v Speaker 1>you handle your process in a way that works for you.

0:26:24.800 --> 0:26:27.959
<v Speaker 1>Does that make sense? And so? And here's another thing

0:26:27.960 --> 0:26:30.919
<v Speaker 1>what I love about you two is that you for

0:26:31.000 --> 0:26:33.199
<v Speaker 1>all for for how you come across. I don't, to

0:26:33.200 --> 0:26:34.800
<v Speaker 1>be honest with I don't know too much about you.

0:26:34.920 --> 0:26:36.480
<v Speaker 1>I noticed a little bit about what I've heard and

0:26:36.520 --> 0:26:38.239
<v Speaker 1>all that, all the big stuff, but I don't know

0:26:38.280 --> 0:26:40.320
<v Speaker 1>really much about your character other than when I pick

0:26:40.359 --> 0:26:43.600
<v Speaker 1>up psychically and with you. I think that you're very perceptive.

0:26:43.840 --> 0:26:46.200
<v Speaker 1>I think that you're very very intuitive, and I think

0:26:46.240 --> 0:26:49.280
<v Speaker 1>that your everyday way of thinking gets in the way

0:26:49.600 --> 0:26:52.440
<v Speaker 1>of your intuition. Does that make sense, because you're very

0:26:52.520 --> 0:26:55.440
<v Speaker 1>much picking up on the intention of other people, whether

0:26:55.480 --> 0:26:58.160
<v Speaker 1>they choose to say anything or not. So what ends

0:26:58.200 --> 0:27:00.199
<v Speaker 1>up happening for you is that you pick up You

0:27:00.240 --> 0:27:02.080
<v Speaker 1>pick up on what's going on here, and if there's

0:27:02.080 --> 0:27:04.240
<v Speaker 1>any questions that that you have, of course you're going

0:27:04.280 --> 0:27:05.679
<v Speaker 1>to go and answer them. But the stuff that is

0:27:05.760 --> 0:27:08.080
<v Speaker 1>not said is what really gets on your nerves. Does

0:27:08.080 --> 0:27:10.800
<v Speaker 1>that make sense? Yeah, I'm gonna try to say from

0:27:10.800 --> 0:27:13.320
<v Speaker 1>that does not make sense. But when it comes that,

0:27:13.320 --> 0:27:14.760
<v Speaker 1>that's That's one of the things that I think that

0:27:14.800 --> 0:27:16.920
<v Speaker 1>really gets in your way here is again is having

0:27:16.920 --> 0:27:19.639
<v Speaker 1>this insane amount of intuition being told one thing and

0:27:19.640 --> 0:27:22.159
<v Speaker 1>then doing another thing. Then with you, I feel like,

0:27:22.160 --> 0:27:24.960
<v Speaker 1>again this is very much the healing phase. I don't

0:27:24.960 --> 0:27:26.760
<v Speaker 1>think that you've actually gone through that yet. I think

0:27:26.760 --> 0:27:28.919
<v Speaker 1>that you're still sitting. With all due respect, this is

0:27:28.920 --> 0:27:30.400
<v Speaker 1>not a shot at you. I think that you're still

0:27:30.400 --> 0:27:32.360
<v Speaker 1>sitting on your pity pot right now and you're absorbing

0:27:32.400 --> 0:27:34.800
<v Speaker 1>everything that's going But that's a good thing, though. Don't

0:27:34.840 --> 0:27:37.560
<v Speaker 1>get off that. Don't get off that too soon. Sit

0:27:37.600 --> 0:27:39.280
<v Speaker 1>there and take all the time that you need to

0:27:39.280 --> 0:27:41.720
<v Speaker 1>forget about what everybody's telling you. Oh girl, you know,

0:27:41.800 --> 0:27:44.720
<v Speaker 1>be strong, do this whatever, take whatever downtime that you

0:27:44.760 --> 0:27:47.800
<v Speaker 1>need to heal, because with you, you're very much once

0:27:47.920 --> 0:27:50.560
<v Speaker 1>once it starts hitting the fan, you immediately want to

0:27:50.560 --> 0:27:52.200
<v Speaker 1>crawl and tell me if this is wrong, feel free

0:27:52.200 --> 0:27:54.240
<v Speaker 1>to jump in here. But you immediately want to crawl

0:27:54.280 --> 0:27:56.320
<v Speaker 1>into bed and kind of like wait till everything's done

0:27:56.320 --> 0:27:58.639
<v Speaker 1>and over with? Does that make sense? Like kind of

0:27:58.680 --> 0:28:00.760
<v Speaker 1>like you know, I just I need time to think,

0:28:00.800 --> 0:28:03.080
<v Speaker 1>any time to absorb. So with you again, sit on

0:28:03.119 --> 0:28:05.359
<v Speaker 1>that pitypot, do what you need, go through the healing

0:28:05.400 --> 0:28:07.960
<v Speaker 1>that you need in order for you to feel better.

0:28:08.119 --> 0:28:11.000
<v Speaker 1>But here's the thing, though, with all that being said,

0:28:11.200 --> 0:28:12.919
<v Speaker 1>all the stuff that your mind is doing to you,

0:28:12.920 --> 0:28:14.960
<v Speaker 1>as far as like playing tricks on you, and you

0:28:14.960 --> 0:28:17.240
<v Speaker 1>know and kind of like enticing you and irritating you,

0:28:17.240 --> 0:28:19.439
<v Speaker 1>would do it all that stuff here, I think that

0:28:19.480 --> 0:28:21.600
<v Speaker 1>your biggest hurdle here in the biggest thing that that

0:28:21.680 --> 0:28:24.080
<v Speaker 1>gets in your way here is that you want this

0:28:24.160 --> 0:28:28.719
<v Speaker 1>person to feel the same way that you feel. And

0:28:28.840 --> 0:28:30.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna put it out there. I think that's

0:28:30.280 --> 0:28:32.760
<v Speaker 1>impossible because if that if that was the case that

0:28:32.800 --> 0:28:34.719
<v Speaker 1>would have never been done to you in the first place.

0:28:35.960 --> 0:28:40.120
<v Speaker 1>M How do you feel about that? Makes sense? And

0:28:40.160 --> 0:28:42.280
<v Speaker 1>I also think that again, I'm not I'm not gonna

0:28:42.280 --> 0:28:45.000
<v Speaker 1>throw anybody under the bus. I'm not gonna, um, you know,

0:28:45.560 --> 0:28:47.480
<v Speaker 1>pick sides or anything like that. But I also feel

0:28:47.520 --> 0:28:49.480
<v Speaker 1>like again with that intuition and that perception that you

0:28:49.520 --> 0:28:52.320
<v Speaker 1>have between the two of you guys, knowing his insecurities,

0:28:52.360 --> 0:28:57.520
<v Speaker 1>knowing his fears, knowing that this is somebody that tell

0:28:57.520 --> 0:28:58.920
<v Speaker 1>me if this is wrong, I'm just gonna throw this

0:28:58.960 --> 0:29:02.120
<v Speaker 1>out there. I can't think for themselves. Sometimes that kind

0:29:02.120 --> 0:29:04.600
<v Speaker 1>of does what's expected of them rather than what they

0:29:04.640 --> 0:29:06.760
<v Speaker 1>truly need to be doing, and kind of just can

0:29:06.760 --> 0:29:09.000
<v Speaker 1>go with the flow. And you, because you know this

0:29:09.080 --> 0:29:13.760
<v Speaker 1>person inside and out, is kind of like what the mhm.

0:29:15.080 --> 0:29:17.800
<v Speaker 1>So that that that you know And I'm not telling

0:29:17.800 --> 0:29:19.560
<v Speaker 1>you anything that you don't already know here, but I

0:29:19.560 --> 0:29:21.320
<v Speaker 1>feel like that's a huge problem for you, is is

0:29:21.360 --> 0:29:25.080
<v Speaker 1>doing the thinking for both you and this person? How

0:29:25.080 --> 0:29:28.840
<v Speaker 1>do you feel about that? Makes sense? If I'm gonna

0:29:28.880 --> 0:29:31.520
<v Speaker 1>tell you it's time for you know again, when you're ready,

0:29:31.560 --> 0:29:33.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna I'm not gonna tell you this in

0:29:33.120 --> 0:29:35.200
<v Speaker 1>two weeks here. But it's time to start getting mad.

0:29:36.120 --> 0:29:38.680
<v Speaker 1>It's time to start really strengthen, you know, when you're

0:29:38.680 --> 0:29:41.360
<v Speaker 1>ready to start strengthening your mind, strengthening your core, strengthening

0:29:41.400 --> 0:29:43.720
<v Speaker 1>your character, getting up here and doing what it is

0:29:43.760 --> 0:29:45.880
<v Speaker 1>that you need to be doing because you're not done

0:29:45.880 --> 0:29:47.480
<v Speaker 1>living as far as like your life. This is just

0:29:47.520 --> 0:29:49.200
<v Speaker 1>a little bump in the road here. What ends up

0:29:49.200 --> 0:29:51.040
<v Speaker 1>happening to you again? What your guides want to bring

0:29:51.080 --> 0:29:53.680
<v Speaker 1>us that clarity and that strength, And I think that again,

0:29:53.960 --> 0:29:55.760
<v Speaker 1>tell me if this is wrong again, feel free to

0:29:55.800 --> 0:29:57.560
<v Speaker 1>call both if you need to. But I feel like

0:29:57.600 --> 0:29:59.080
<v Speaker 1>with you that you lost a little bit of your

0:29:59.120 --> 0:30:02.040
<v Speaker 1>identity through this whole process here. And it's it's difficult

0:30:02.040 --> 0:30:04.480
<v Speaker 1>because again with you, when people talk about being in

0:30:04.600 --> 0:30:06.760
<v Speaker 1>relationships and you know, oh, you know that this person

0:30:06.880 --> 0:30:10.880
<v Speaker 1>is codependent in relationships, I question that sometimes because isn't

0:30:10.880 --> 0:30:14.239
<v Speaker 1>that person truly codependent in a relationship or is this

0:30:14.320 --> 0:30:17.640
<v Speaker 1>person Does this person shine better when they have somebody

0:30:17.680 --> 0:30:20.240
<v Speaker 1>else in their life to share things with? Does that

0:30:20.320 --> 0:30:23.080
<v Speaker 1>make sense? So people will automatically say, you know, oh,

0:30:23.120 --> 0:30:25.320
<v Speaker 1>they're there. You know, she's very codependent in this relationship.

0:30:25.360 --> 0:30:27.840
<v Speaker 1>She can't see straight here. Well, some people need that

0:30:27.920 --> 0:30:30.680
<v Speaker 1>extra balance or that extra person there to balance and

0:30:30.800 --> 0:30:33.080
<v Speaker 1>even them out. It's not really codependent as far as

0:30:33.160 --> 0:30:35.280
<v Speaker 1>like I need you in order to live, but I

0:30:35.320 --> 0:30:37.840
<v Speaker 1>just feel better when I have that security, comfort protection

0:30:38.160 --> 0:30:40.200
<v Speaker 1>right next to me. It makes me shine better. It

0:30:40.240 --> 0:30:42.280
<v Speaker 1>makes me feel like, you know, I have everything that

0:30:42.320 --> 0:30:44.840
<v Speaker 1>I need to move forward with. Does that make sense?

0:30:45.600 --> 0:30:47.239
<v Speaker 1>It's like how I feel like with you that that

0:30:47.320 --> 0:30:48.920
<v Speaker 1>because there's so much history and there's so much of this,

0:30:49.080 --> 0:30:51.200
<v Speaker 1>you know that stuff out of the public and people

0:30:51.240 --> 0:30:53.400
<v Speaker 1>don't really know here is the reason why you're holding

0:30:53.440 --> 0:30:55.360
<v Speaker 1>on so strong. But I also feel like, again, you

0:30:55.600 --> 0:30:57.920
<v Speaker 1>shine better when you have somebody there that could that

0:30:57.920 --> 0:30:59.680
<v Speaker 1>that could pick you up or boost you up. Because

0:30:59.800 --> 0:31:02.840
<v Speaker 1>when you're by yourself, you're very emotional. It could be

0:31:02.960 --> 0:31:04.680
<v Speaker 1>very hard on yourself. You can do that, could have,

0:31:04.720 --> 0:31:06.280
<v Speaker 1>should have, would have in the what it and you

0:31:06.360 --> 0:31:08.560
<v Speaker 1>take yourself further down the rabbit hole than you need to.

0:31:08.840 --> 0:31:10.400
<v Speaker 1>And that's what ends up messing you up. Is that

0:31:10.480 --> 0:31:12.840
<v Speaker 1>again your mind, your mind just goes to those dark

0:31:12.840 --> 0:31:15.240
<v Speaker 1>places sometimes and it's difficult for you to get up

0:31:15.360 --> 0:31:19.200
<v Speaker 1>or to focus. How do you feel about all this? Yeah,

0:31:19.360 --> 0:31:23.680
<v Speaker 1>and all makes sense. So when I talk about your

0:31:23.720 --> 0:31:25.400
<v Speaker 1>guides coming in here, I know that's such a weird

0:31:25.440 --> 0:31:27.040
<v Speaker 1>thing to say. I never used to say guides until

0:31:27.040 --> 0:31:29.480
<v Speaker 1>people started asking me who's they? So we're just gonna

0:31:29.520 --> 0:31:31.320
<v Speaker 1>say guides for lack of a better word. How do

0:31:31.360 --> 0:31:33.440
<v Speaker 1>you feel when I bring in your intuition and your

0:31:33.480 --> 0:31:37.800
<v Speaker 1>everyday way of thinking? I mean, I definitely hear that

0:31:37.800 --> 0:31:40.600
<v Speaker 1>because I I feel like I have a really good

0:31:41.200 --> 0:31:45.040
<v Speaker 1>gut and intuition, like I I it's like I know,

0:31:45.120 --> 0:31:48.280
<v Speaker 1>but I always like wait for proof. But I just

0:31:48.320 --> 0:31:50.640
<v Speaker 1>need to start listening to that more and then knowing that.

0:31:50.680 --> 0:31:53.200
<v Speaker 1>I like the clarity thing just because I keep asking

0:31:53.240 --> 0:31:56.840
<v Speaker 1>for clarity, um, and I just I know it's there.

0:31:56.880 --> 0:31:59.320
<v Speaker 1>I just need to feel it. But what ends up

0:31:59.360 --> 0:32:01.240
<v Speaker 1>happening about how about when I tell you that you

0:32:01.280 --> 0:32:03.520
<v Speaker 1>pick up on the intention of other people? Again, I

0:32:03.560 --> 0:32:05.520
<v Speaker 1>don't want to throw anybody under the bus, but you

0:32:05.560 --> 0:32:08.000
<v Speaker 1>know this person like the back of your hand. You

0:32:08.040 --> 0:32:10.080
<v Speaker 1>know this person like nobody else does. So when I

0:32:10.120 --> 0:32:13.720
<v Speaker 1>talk about the intention and also you know, um, picking

0:32:13.840 --> 0:32:16.240
<v Speaker 1>up on what's going on, what's going on behind the scenes,

0:32:16.320 --> 0:32:17.800
<v Speaker 1>how do you feel about that as well? Because I

0:32:17.840 --> 0:32:20.640
<v Speaker 1>feel like again that also adds to your intuition. That

0:32:20.720 --> 0:32:23.440
<v Speaker 1>also adds to that level of stress or anxiety that

0:32:23.480 --> 0:32:27.640
<v Speaker 1>you get. Yeah, for sure, I mean I definitely have Yeah,

0:32:27.960 --> 0:32:30.000
<v Speaker 1>I I take I take that on and I don't

0:32:30.000 --> 0:32:34.040
<v Speaker 1>want to take that on anymore. But I definitely it's frustrating.

0:32:34.320 --> 0:32:37.440
<v Speaker 1>For sure. That's one of your biggest lessons here. Again,

0:32:37.480 --> 0:32:39.240
<v Speaker 1>I hate to dip into the past life and bring

0:32:39.320 --> 0:32:42.360
<v Speaker 1>up past life information because again for one, for one thing,

0:32:42.440 --> 0:32:44.480
<v Speaker 1>there's no way to validate that. There's no way to

0:32:44.520 --> 0:32:46.760
<v Speaker 1>look back and look at somebody else's past life and say, oh,

0:32:46.760 --> 0:32:49.040
<v Speaker 1>this is exactly who you were here. I have the proof,

0:32:49.200 --> 0:32:51.840
<v Speaker 1>but people like people like that. It does trigger a

0:32:51.840 --> 0:32:53.840
<v Speaker 1>lot of what's going on in this lifetime. But my

0:32:53.880 --> 0:32:56.000
<v Speaker 1>whole thing is staying present and being focused on what's

0:32:56.000 --> 0:32:58.400
<v Speaker 1>going on in this life time. However, you do have

0:32:58.440 --> 0:33:01.080
<v Speaker 1>those lessons when it comes to how you love and

0:33:01.120 --> 0:33:05.000
<v Speaker 1>how you receive love, because in relationship, relationships are huge

0:33:05.040 --> 0:33:07.920
<v Speaker 1>for you, especially in this lifetime. You're you're gonna find

0:33:08.000 --> 0:33:11.880
<v Speaker 1>your strength, your character, your identity through relationships in this lifetime.

0:33:11.920 --> 0:33:14.440
<v Speaker 1>It's important for you. And what ends up happening again

0:33:14.600 --> 0:33:17.000
<v Speaker 1>is that I think that you have like you I'm

0:33:17.000 --> 0:33:18.360
<v Speaker 1>not gonna go I'm not gonna go as far as

0:33:18.360 --> 0:33:20.920
<v Speaker 1>to call you bipolar or have a slip personality. But

0:33:20.960 --> 0:33:23.440
<v Speaker 1>I definitely know, I know, I definitely feel like this,

0:33:23.560 --> 0:33:27.600
<v Speaker 1>this very intelligent, this very you know um knows what

0:33:27.760 --> 0:33:30.480
<v Speaker 1>needs to be done type of person. I definitely see

0:33:30.520 --> 0:33:33.040
<v Speaker 1>that with you. But I also see that shadows side

0:33:33.040 --> 0:33:35.680
<v Speaker 1>to you, that shadows side that when nobody else is around,

0:33:35.840 --> 0:33:37.480
<v Speaker 1>the stuff that you can do to yourself, when it

0:33:37.520 --> 0:33:39.400
<v Speaker 1>comes to your way of thinking. That's where your guys

0:33:39.480 --> 0:33:41.160
<v Speaker 1>want to jump in and tell you again, Look, we've

0:33:41.160 --> 0:33:43.120
<v Speaker 1>got to figure out a way to filter this so

0:33:43.200 --> 0:33:45.920
<v Speaker 1>it's not it's not so intention so it's not so

0:33:46.000 --> 0:33:50.160
<v Speaker 1>intense and so much for you. Yeah, but when when

0:33:50.160 --> 0:33:53.560
<v Speaker 1>we talk about can I call him Mike? Sure, So

0:33:53.600 --> 0:33:57.320
<v Speaker 1>we're talking about when I talk about him, what do

0:33:57.360 --> 0:33:59.160
<v Speaker 1>you think about when I say that he does what's

0:33:59.160 --> 0:34:01.520
<v Speaker 1>expected of him rather than what he truly wants to

0:34:01.520 --> 0:34:05.120
<v Speaker 1>be doing and sometimes can't think for himself. Yeah, I mean,

0:34:05.320 --> 0:34:08.640
<v Speaker 1>I hear that, and I wonder, you know, I mean,

0:34:08.680 --> 0:34:11.600
<v Speaker 1>now he's free to do whatever he wants. Here's the thing, though,

0:34:12.000 --> 0:34:13.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be a little bit manipulative too, and

0:34:13.800 --> 0:34:16.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm also going to be team you. Right now, here's

0:34:16.960 --> 0:34:20.759
<v Speaker 1>the thing I'm gonna I'm having difficulty saying this. I'm

0:34:20.800 --> 0:34:24.279
<v Speaker 1>just gonna throw it out there. What other woman is

0:34:24.280 --> 0:34:28.640
<v Speaker 1>going to put up with that? Well, he's gonna, he says,

0:34:28.719 --> 0:34:31.920
<v Speaker 1>he's going to change, and so the next girl gets

0:34:31.920 --> 0:34:34.800
<v Speaker 1>the changed man. You've got to want to change. First

0:34:34.800 --> 0:34:36.880
<v Speaker 1>of all, you have to acknowledge that there's an issue

0:34:36.920 --> 0:34:40.840
<v Speaker 1>going on. And I don't believe in um not having

0:34:40.920 --> 0:34:45.000
<v Speaker 1>self control, and I don't believe in making excuses and

0:34:45.040 --> 0:34:47.680
<v Speaker 1>putting band aids on a wound where that where it

0:34:47.760 --> 0:34:51.520
<v Speaker 1>just keeps bleeding NonStop here, and this is something to

0:34:51.560 --> 0:34:53.960
<v Speaker 1>where I feel like people live behind that excuse as

0:34:54.000 --> 0:34:56.040
<v Speaker 1>far as like you know, I'm not saying that everybody

0:34:56.120 --> 0:34:58.719
<v Speaker 1>that that that nobody suffers from from things or they

0:34:58.760 --> 0:35:00.759
<v Speaker 1>can't go through certain things, but we start living behind

0:35:00.760 --> 0:35:02.879
<v Speaker 1>that excuse and people start putting in your head, oh

0:35:02.920 --> 0:35:05.279
<v Speaker 1>it's this, it's that the reason why you are is

0:35:05.320 --> 0:35:07.759
<v Speaker 1>because of X, Y and Z. I feel like people

0:35:07.840 --> 0:35:09.600
<v Speaker 1>end up living behind that and make a bigger deal

0:35:09.600 --> 0:35:11.040
<v Speaker 1>out of it than what needs to be made out

0:35:11.040 --> 0:35:14.000
<v Speaker 1>of it. And I feel like with you that again,

0:35:14.040 --> 0:35:16.040
<v Speaker 1>with you thinking about this. You're kind of like, don't

0:35:16.040 --> 0:35:18.799
<v Speaker 1>be stupid, Like I know who you are and I

0:35:18.800 --> 0:35:21.239
<v Speaker 1>know I know how you think, and it has to

0:35:21.280 --> 0:35:25.040
<v Speaker 1>be extremely frustrating for you because you see through that. Yeah,

0:35:25.600 --> 0:35:28.040
<v Speaker 1>but I don't. But I do not see anything negative

0:35:28.080 --> 0:35:29.560
<v Speaker 1>you're I don't see you. You know this is something

0:35:29.560 --> 0:35:31.279
<v Speaker 1>that's gonna be bothering you for the rest of your life.

0:35:31.360 --> 0:35:33.440
<v Speaker 1>I honestly feel, and again there's you can you have

0:35:33.520 --> 0:35:35.560
<v Speaker 1>the ability to change is you can do. You can

0:35:35.640 --> 0:35:37.920
<v Speaker 1>change what I'm saying moving forward here by just you know,

0:35:38.320 --> 0:35:40.360
<v Speaker 1>not doing anything about it, But I don't feel like

0:35:40.400 --> 0:35:42.400
<v Speaker 1>that's in your character, and I definitely feel like with

0:35:42.480 --> 0:35:46.680
<v Speaker 1>you that it's gonna be. I'm gonna say probably by

0:35:46.760 --> 0:35:49.600
<v Speaker 1>summer of next year, things are going to be different

0:35:49.640 --> 0:35:52.520
<v Speaker 1>for you as far as like um feeling. Again, that's

0:35:52.520 --> 0:35:54.080
<v Speaker 1>not to take away that you know that you're not

0:35:54.120 --> 0:35:55.799
<v Speaker 1>going to be good by this coming fall here, but

0:35:55.880 --> 0:35:58.960
<v Speaker 1>by summer of next year, a total one eighty different, different,

0:35:59.080 --> 0:36:02.320
<v Speaker 1>different outlook on life, different feeling, different vibe, more confident,

0:36:02.320 --> 0:36:04.560
<v Speaker 1>more determined to kind of get things done here. And

0:36:04.600 --> 0:36:06.759
<v Speaker 1>also too, I really feel like your kids are going

0:36:06.800 --> 0:36:10.279
<v Speaker 1>to come in and show you strength here and get

0:36:10.280 --> 0:36:12.279
<v Speaker 1>back to what matters the most, which is you and

0:36:12.360 --> 0:36:16.839
<v Speaker 1>this family that you've created. For sure, I know about

0:36:16.840 --> 0:36:19.359
<v Speaker 1>all this. I can give it to me, and I

0:36:19.400 --> 0:36:21.239
<v Speaker 1>want that that bad side of me to come out.

0:36:21.840 --> 0:36:24.400
<v Speaker 1>No I can't. I mean, I that sounds great. I

0:36:24.440 --> 0:36:26.560
<v Speaker 1>want all that you know, and I hope, I hope

0:36:26.560 --> 0:36:28.440
<v Speaker 1>for that. I don't want to be but I want

0:36:28.440 --> 0:36:30.759
<v Speaker 1>to be alone forever, you know, So I hope that

0:36:31.000 --> 0:36:33.640
<v Speaker 1>you know there's someone out there eventually you know that

0:36:33.760 --> 0:36:37.080
<v Speaker 1>I'll But let's make it worth at this time though.

0:36:37.200 --> 0:36:40.200
<v Speaker 1>Let's let's kind of take a step back here and realize,

0:36:40.200 --> 0:36:42.200
<v Speaker 1>like I said when I told you at the very beginning,

0:36:42.200 --> 0:36:43.840
<v Speaker 1>that you're pretty much right or diet like when you

0:36:43.840 --> 0:36:46.680
<v Speaker 1>get involved in a relationship. This is the security, comfort,

0:36:46.680 --> 0:36:48.680
<v Speaker 1>peace of mind that I'm looking for. I only want

0:36:48.680 --> 0:36:50.360
<v Speaker 1>to do this once. I don't want to date around

0:36:50.440 --> 0:36:52.360
<v Speaker 1>for dating is fundor. But right now I'm at this

0:36:52.400 --> 0:36:55.200
<v Speaker 1>age where where I want the real thing. So we

0:36:55.200 --> 0:36:57.000
<v Speaker 1>already know what it is that you have to offer,

0:36:57.080 --> 0:36:59.160
<v Speaker 1>what you bring to the table. Let's take a step

0:36:59.160 --> 0:37:01.040
<v Speaker 1>back here and see what the next person has to

0:37:01.080 --> 0:37:03.680
<v Speaker 1>offer before we jump it. See if they're up to

0:37:03.760 --> 0:37:07.160
<v Speaker 1>par with who you are and where you're I'm never

0:37:07.200 --> 0:37:13.160
<v Speaker 1>settling ever again ever again, I'd rather be alone. Who's

0:37:13.200 --> 0:37:15.759
<v Speaker 1>to say that within the next six months that this

0:37:15.840 --> 0:37:18.839
<v Speaker 1>new look, this new you, this new vibe isn't gonna

0:37:18.920 --> 0:37:21.960
<v Speaker 1>be the come up ins that've been waiting for, because again,

0:37:22.000 --> 0:37:24.399
<v Speaker 1>you can't keep a woman like you down for very long.

0:37:24.719 --> 0:37:26.120
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna again, like I said, you're going to go

0:37:26.160 --> 0:37:30.040
<v Speaker 1>through the emotions. You're going to said on that pity pot,

0:37:30.120 --> 0:37:33.040
<v Speaker 1>cry more, and do not let anybody tell you again

0:37:33.160 --> 0:37:35.279
<v Speaker 1>here I am giving you psychic insight, but I am

0:37:35.320 --> 0:37:37.480
<v Speaker 1>not going to push you because again I feel like

0:37:37.480 --> 0:37:39.040
<v Speaker 1>we're kind of like in the same boat your work.

0:37:39.200 --> 0:37:41.440
<v Speaker 1>We need a hot minute to get our together. We

0:37:41.480 --> 0:37:43.360
<v Speaker 1>need to go through so we need to throw things around,

0:37:43.400 --> 0:37:45.000
<v Speaker 1>we need to cry, we need to get piste off

0:37:45.040 --> 0:37:46.239
<v Speaker 1>and do what we need. We need to get that

0:37:46.320 --> 0:37:48.600
<v Speaker 1>all out. So honored, I get that all out. But

0:37:48.719 --> 0:37:53.200
<v Speaker 1>don't ever ever mistake your emotions, your sensitivity as a

0:37:53.280 --> 0:37:55.480
<v Speaker 1>weakness here, because that's one of the best parts about you.

0:37:55.680 --> 0:37:57.879
<v Speaker 1>It reminds you that you're human. So again, when you're

0:37:57.880 --> 0:38:01.080
<v Speaker 1>ready to find your strength, let's do that us. Thanks Chris,

0:38:01.680 --> 0:38:05.279
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate you coming on, UM and I love that

0:38:05.400 --> 0:38:07.359
<v Speaker 1>you also have a podcast and do you help other

0:38:07.400 --> 0:38:10.320
<v Speaker 1>people on the podcast? Like do you do? That's so cool?

0:38:10.840 --> 0:38:12.799
<v Speaker 1>So it's called in your Head and you can listen

0:38:12.840 --> 0:38:14.799
<v Speaker 1>to that wherever or for more information, you can go

0:38:14.840 --> 0:38:18.799
<v Speaker 1>to Chris Medina dot guide UM and it could people

0:38:18.800 --> 0:38:21.520
<v Speaker 1>sign up to get a psychic reading from you there, Yeah,

0:38:21.520 --> 0:38:23.960
<v Speaker 1>they can visit my website sign up for a half

0:38:23.960 --> 0:38:26.279
<v Speaker 1>hour session, hour long session. I just want to make this,

0:38:26.600 --> 0:38:28.919
<v Speaker 1>uh know one right out about here or out the gate.

0:38:29.400 --> 0:38:32.160
<v Speaker 1>My sessions tend to go over. I am not a clockwatcher,

0:38:32.200 --> 0:38:33.800
<v Speaker 1>so if you sign up for a half an hour reading,

0:38:33.960 --> 0:38:35.640
<v Speaker 1>be prepared to be on the phone for thirty to

0:38:35.719 --> 0:38:38.480
<v Speaker 1>forty five minutes. Same thing with an hour and ten.

0:38:38.719 --> 0:38:40.760
<v Speaker 1>I want to make sure I get everything in your session.

0:38:40.760 --> 0:38:43.799
<v Speaker 1>You're paying the top dollar for that. Let's talk about it.

0:38:43.960 --> 0:38:45.640
<v Speaker 1>I love it, Chris. Thank you so much for coming

0:38:45.640 --> 0:38:48.879
<v Speaker 1>on and shutting some insight. I really appreciate it. You're

0:38:48.880 --> 0:38:50.759
<v Speaker 1>so my love, and please keep in touch if there's

0:38:50.760 --> 0:38:52.640
<v Speaker 1>anything I can do for you, do not ever hesitate

0:38:52.640 --> 0:38:55.160
<v Speaker 1>to reach out. Awesome, Thanks Chris, You're welcome to take

0:38:55.160 --> 0:38:59.960
<v Speaker 1>care all right. Super excited to have Seth for million

0:39:00.160 --> 0:39:04.240
<v Speaker 1>coming on so you can get more information from coming

0:39:04.280 --> 0:39:09.080
<v Speaker 1>out Tarot dot com, um, psychic, medium, tea guardare, I'm

0:39:09.120 --> 0:39:14.759
<v Speaker 1>so excited. Dom is something good? All right? Seth, do

0:39:14.840 --> 0:39:23.120
<v Speaker 1>your thing, do me. There's there's so many ways to

0:39:23.200 --> 0:39:26.440
<v Speaker 1>approach tarot and how it is a part of our lives,

0:39:26.440 --> 0:39:28.640
<v Speaker 1>and my favorite way to work with it is to

0:39:28.719 --> 0:39:31.680
<v Speaker 1>bring clarity, to bring confidence, and to help the person

0:39:31.760 --> 0:39:34.759
<v Speaker 1>sitting across from me you today to have a more

0:39:35.160 --> 0:39:38.440
<v Speaker 1>enriching life and work through whatever transformation it is that

0:39:38.480 --> 0:39:40.920
<v Speaker 1>you might be going through today. And you're also you

0:39:40.960 --> 0:39:43.400
<v Speaker 1>also do psychic and is that go in with the

0:39:43.440 --> 0:39:45.640
<v Speaker 1>psychic and medium reading too, or how does that work

0:39:45.960 --> 0:39:49.240
<v Speaker 1>that does? So some people will ask me specifically for

0:39:49.480 --> 0:39:53.560
<v Speaker 1>mediumship readings. Psychic for me has a lot of connotations,

0:39:53.640 --> 0:39:56.200
<v Speaker 1>and many people think of a psychic as someone who's

0:39:56.239 --> 0:40:00.520
<v Speaker 1>constantly clairvoyant, But psychic has all of the It's kind

0:40:00.560 --> 0:40:02.880
<v Speaker 1>of like an umbrella term that has a lot of

0:40:02.920 --> 0:40:06.400
<v Speaker 1>things underneath it, including mediumship and taro and all the

0:40:06.480 --> 0:40:09.080
<v Speaker 1>other Claire is like Claar sentience and Claire audience, so

0:40:09.080 --> 0:40:13.520
<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of stuff that falls underneath that. For me, Uh,

0:40:13.680 --> 0:40:17.439
<v Speaker 1>the mediumship will be a tool that I use. Clar

0:40:17.440 --> 0:40:19.360
<v Speaker 1>sentience will be a tool that I use, which is

0:40:19.400 --> 0:40:22.000
<v Speaker 1>feeling something in your body. So it comes reading for

0:40:22.040 --> 0:40:25.320
<v Speaker 1>someone once and my neck got supertense and we talked

0:40:25.320 --> 0:40:28.799
<v Speaker 1>about how in their neck they've been recently diagnosed with

0:40:29.560 --> 0:40:32.960
<v Speaker 1>a pretty severe case of arthritis. So there are there

0:40:32.960 --> 0:40:35.799
<v Speaker 1>are moments like that that happen. And then when I

0:40:35.880 --> 0:40:40.480
<v Speaker 1>use my cards, that's tapping into intuition and sometimes the

0:40:40.560 --> 0:40:44.799
<v Speaker 1>technique called scrying, which will help me see images that

0:40:45.000 --> 0:40:47.200
<v Speaker 1>may or may not be in the card, but it

0:40:47.280 --> 0:40:49.520
<v Speaker 1>might have something to do with you or may have

0:40:49.600 --> 0:40:54.280
<v Speaker 1>something to do with me. So the the experience can

0:40:54.320 --> 0:41:00.000
<v Speaker 1>take many different skill sets to arrive at the transformation

0:41:00.000 --> 0:41:02.319
<v Speaker 1>and real the insight that you're looking for. And my

0:41:02.400 --> 0:41:04.399
<v Speaker 1>favorite way to do that is to work with you

0:41:04.680 --> 0:41:08.239
<v Speaker 1>either with a strong question something that you're focused on

0:41:08.360 --> 0:41:10.440
<v Speaker 1>right now that you're trying to get a little more

0:41:10.480 --> 0:41:13.640
<v Speaker 1>insight on and and dig through. If you don't have

0:41:14.160 --> 0:41:17.319
<v Speaker 1>a or you don't want to ask a like a

0:41:17.360 --> 0:41:20.440
<v Speaker 1>strong question saying here's where I want to really focus,

0:41:21.400 --> 0:41:24.480
<v Speaker 1>then I'll also work in themes and it ends up

0:41:24.560 --> 0:41:29.520
<v Speaker 1>narrowing down into something specific. The same way so how

0:41:29.560 --> 0:41:32.120
<v Speaker 1>how do you have you had a tero reading before? Yeah,

0:41:32.160 --> 0:41:36.560
<v Speaker 1>I have one, I've had before. Cool, So what has

0:41:36.600 --> 0:41:38.680
<v Speaker 1>the experience been like for you? Has it been similar

0:41:38.680 --> 0:41:42.160
<v Speaker 1>to that or different? Um, I don't know. It's one

0:41:42.160 --> 0:41:47.720
<v Speaker 1>of those where I'm like, I don't really don't believe

0:41:47.760 --> 0:41:49.359
<v Speaker 1>in it. I'm just I'm I don't know, Like, I

0:41:49.400 --> 0:41:51.040
<v Speaker 1>just I don't know. I'm not I'm not used to

0:41:51.920 --> 0:41:53.440
<v Speaker 1>used to it. Like my friends always like, you know,

0:41:53.480 --> 0:41:55.279
<v Speaker 1>what's the intention of the day, And so she has

0:41:55.320 --> 0:41:59.239
<v Speaker 1>the tarot cards and she's but I'm like, but you

0:41:59.280 --> 0:42:00.919
<v Speaker 1>could have picked another a card and then it would

0:42:00.920 --> 0:42:03.759
<v Speaker 1>have been something else. So that's I just I go there.

0:42:03.800 --> 0:42:08.120
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes that makes complete sense to me because I do

0:42:08.200 --> 0:42:10.719
<v Speaker 1>the same exact thing, not just the intention of the day,

0:42:10.719 --> 0:42:12.400
<v Speaker 1>but the feeling of well, it could have been any card.

0:42:12.760 --> 0:42:15.319
<v Speaker 1>But that's part of the point, isn't it that that

0:42:15.400 --> 0:42:19.880
<v Speaker 1>the these things have collided to say, here's where we

0:42:19.920 --> 0:42:23.040
<v Speaker 1>are right now in this moment, and there's so many

0:42:23.080 --> 0:42:26.680
<v Speaker 1>things that could transpire after that may divert us onto

0:42:26.719 --> 0:42:30.040
<v Speaker 1>another road. But here, in this moment, right now, this

0:42:30.120 --> 0:42:34.680
<v Speaker 1>is something that we can touch, dig deeper into, feel,

0:42:34.920 --> 0:42:38.600
<v Speaker 1>feel the the inspiration of or maybe even want to

0:42:38.680 --> 0:42:42.080
<v Speaker 1>hold onto and say this is this is a talisman

0:42:42.120 --> 0:42:45.239
<v Speaker 1>for me, or maybe the phrase I'm going to use

0:42:45.280 --> 0:42:48.040
<v Speaker 1>to get through the day, to help me feel stronger,

0:42:48.160 --> 0:42:51.279
<v Speaker 1>more empowered, more confident as I go through all the

0:42:51.360 --> 0:42:55.799
<v Speaker 1>things that can come at me throughout the course of

0:42:55.840 --> 0:42:59.360
<v Speaker 1>the day or several months, you know, whatever might be

0:42:59.440 --> 0:43:04.799
<v Speaker 1>most most important. So how about you, would you would

0:43:04.840 --> 0:43:08.560
<v Speaker 1>you like to focus on a question? Um, I think

0:43:08.680 --> 0:43:17.640
<v Speaker 1>just clarity and then the future. Okay, let's dick. Clarity

0:43:17.719 --> 0:43:22.800
<v Speaker 1>is pretty, Clarity is broad right, making the right choices,

0:43:24.960 --> 0:43:27.839
<v Speaker 1>that's all right, it's a little little Yeah. I think

0:43:27.880 --> 0:43:30.759
<v Speaker 1>it's great. Every every terror reader is different. And some

0:43:30.800 --> 0:43:33.080
<v Speaker 1>people like, don't tell me anything. I don't wonder anything

0:43:33.080 --> 0:43:36.640
<v Speaker 1>about you. I don't want to hear any questions. Um.

0:43:36.680 --> 0:43:40.320
<v Speaker 1>I love to work from where you are. You've already

0:43:40.320 --> 0:43:41.799
<v Speaker 1>done a ton of work on your own to get

0:43:41.840 --> 0:43:45.000
<v Speaker 1>to where you are today. And sometimes hearing all this

0:43:45.040 --> 0:43:47.360
<v Speaker 1>stuff you already know, people like, okay, yeah, we'll already

0:43:47.400 --> 0:43:50.480
<v Speaker 1>knew that. Help me out. Let me know where things

0:43:50.520 --> 0:43:54.640
<v Speaker 1>are headed. A confirmation is sometimes it's part of the

0:43:54.680 --> 0:43:57.440
<v Speaker 1>name of the game. Let it knows it helps me

0:43:57.480 --> 0:44:00.319
<v Speaker 1>know it helps you know that we're zero it on

0:44:00.360 --> 0:44:03.319
<v Speaker 1>something that's the right track. Yeah, it's a I heard

0:44:03.360 --> 0:44:05.160
<v Speaker 1>this thing I was reading in a book and I

0:44:05.200 --> 0:44:07.880
<v Speaker 1>can't remember the exact term of what they use, but

0:44:07.960 --> 0:44:09.719
<v Speaker 1>it's like you have to hear something or see something

0:44:09.719 --> 0:44:11.839
<v Speaker 1>a certain amount of times before you can actually start

0:44:11.880 --> 0:44:14.759
<v Speaker 1>believing it. So I'm like, I've asked people probably fifteen times,

0:44:14.760 --> 0:44:16.960
<v Speaker 1>and I'm making the right decision and making the right decision,

0:44:17.040 --> 0:44:19.160
<v Speaker 1>and it's like when then you finally are gonna be

0:44:19.239 --> 0:44:21.080
<v Speaker 1>like it's just going to click and you're like, I

0:44:21.160 --> 0:44:25.600
<v Speaker 1>made the right decision. But sometimes you have to and

0:44:25.640 --> 0:44:27.920
<v Speaker 1>I can't remember, I have to go back to the book.

0:44:27.920 --> 0:44:30.120
<v Speaker 1>But it was it was fascinating because I'm like, wow,

0:44:30.160 --> 0:44:32.600
<v Speaker 1>that's I do that all the time. I'm like, oh

0:44:32.600 --> 0:44:34.520
<v Speaker 1>my gosh, I took this vaccination. Am I gonna get

0:44:34.520 --> 0:44:36.040
<v Speaker 1>blood clots? And like, am I gonna be? Okay? I'm

0:44:36.080 --> 0:44:38.000
<v Speaker 1>I gonna die. It's like until I get the answer

0:44:38.080 --> 0:44:39.279
<v Speaker 1>like all the way and then I'm like, okay, now

0:44:39.280 --> 0:44:44.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm fine, I'm fine, all right? So do you want

0:44:44.040 --> 0:44:46.520
<v Speaker 1>to see these? Uh? And I can describe them as

0:44:46.560 --> 0:44:49.680
<v Speaker 1>I pulled them up, what the cards are? Read them out. Okay,

0:44:50.120 --> 0:44:52.360
<v Speaker 1>so I like to use layout. It's not every readers

0:44:52.680 --> 0:44:54.920
<v Speaker 1>use layouts, which means there's a meeting to each position

0:44:54.960 --> 0:44:57.359
<v Speaker 1>in the card that I laid out. The first card

0:44:57.400 --> 0:45:00.120
<v Speaker 1>that I pulled, which is a current position with what

0:45:00.200 --> 0:45:03.120
<v Speaker 1>might be going on now, is the moon. And these

0:45:03.120 --> 0:45:05.719
<v Speaker 1>look a little different from what people might be familiar with.

0:45:05.760 --> 0:45:08.000
<v Speaker 1>This moon has a big unicorn on it, a gorgeous

0:45:08.040 --> 0:45:11.759
<v Speaker 1>moon m crawda down there in the bottom, and it's

0:45:11.800 --> 0:45:14.840
<v Speaker 1>coming out of a lake and there's some some planets

0:45:14.840 --> 0:45:19.760
<v Speaker 1>that are surrounding it. The the moon for me today

0:45:19.840 --> 0:45:23.000
<v Speaker 1>and in this moment, is representing the state of everything

0:45:23.040 --> 0:45:26.120
<v Speaker 1>that is being revealed. You're you're in a position of

0:45:26.640 --> 0:45:31.840
<v Speaker 1>coming to understanding things that you didn't expect, things that

0:45:31.880 --> 0:45:34.840
<v Speaker 1>are probably are surprise. It's like the veil is being lifted.

0:45:35.280 --> 0:45:39.080
<v Speaker 1>And as you start to understand more than just getting

0:45:39.080 --> 0:45:40.759
<v Speaker 1>it in front of me again, as you start to

0:45:40.840 --> 0:45:45.000
<v Speaker 1>understand more, I think there is a there's a path

0:45:45.040 --> 0:45:47.759
<v Speaker 1>that is still yet to be revealed. There's there's a bit,

0:45:48.120 --> 0:45:50.920
<v Speaker 1>there's a bit you don't know yet as much as

0:45:50.960 --> 0:45:54.120
<v Speaker 1>you may know at this point, there's still there's something

0:45:54.200 --> 0:45:59.200
<v Speaker 1>hidden for me. And what's interesting I remember I was saying,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a scrying thing that kind of happens. I see images.

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<v Speaker 1>This looks like a like a This is gonna sound weird.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know if this sounds if this is

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<v Speaker 1>important for you or not. You know the story of

0:46:13.200 --> 0:46:16.000
<v Speaker 1>King Arthur and the Lady of the Lake. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>so the King Arthur received his sword um and through

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<v Speaker 1>not only pulling it out of this stone, but it

0:46:25.440 --> 0:46:28.160
<v Speaker 1>was it was originally the stone upon the world by

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<v Speaker 1>the Lady of the Lake, this magical, mythical creature. And

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<v Speaker 1>what it looks like to me is this sword is

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<v Speaker 1>starting to come out of the lake. Uh. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say this is a symbol for me because it's not

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<v Speaker 1>a story that you know. So the symbol for me

0:46:43.719 --> 0:46:46.799
<v Speaker 1>is there is truth about to be revealed. There's more

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<v Speaker 1>for you to know, to understand, and to have that

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<v Speaker 1>illuminated by the moon. Is is it's a secret. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't know this yet, so you're about to find out more.

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<v Speaker 1>We itch in the case of where you you are,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fascinating because I'm going to add a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more to this, So hold on to that thought for

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<v Speaker 1>a minute. So as a result of where you are

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<v Speaker 1>at the moment and seeking the clarity you're looking for.

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<v Speaker 1>There's more information coming that's going to get you the

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<v Speaker 1>clarity that you're looking for. It's going to be revealed

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Though it's not something you can find, chase,

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<v Speaker 1>or or discover on your own. Somebody's going to give

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<v Speaker 1>it to you. And as a result, that opens up

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<v Speaker 1>And this feels weird, but go with me, and maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it don't mean something more to you than it does

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<v Speaker 1>to me. At the moment. That opens up a whole

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<v Speaker 1>new path of love and opportunity for you. Okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to switch those words the opportunity for love

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<v Speaker 1>for you. But this, this revelation has to happen first.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to get out of the mire of uh

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<v Speaker 1>of where you are today. And that comes as a

0:48:03.360 --> 0:48:06.160
<v Speaker 1>result of someone else saying, hey, here's this thing you

0:48:06.200 --> 0:48:10.040
<v Speaker 1>didn't know. Now that you know it, what are you

0:48:10.040 --> 0:48:15.920
<v Speaker 1>gonna do? And you then it's like the veil is

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<v Speaker 1>totally lifted. The you know, the rose colored glasses come off.

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<v Speaker 1>The feeling of um struggling through family and challenges around

0:48:27.160 --> 0:48:29.759
<v Speaker 1>family moves out of the way and you're able to

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<v Speaker 1>see clearly where you're meant to be next? Got it?

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<v Speaker 1>What kind of questions does that raise for you? When? Ah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>cool timing and taros. Any taro reader will probably tell

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<v Speaker 1>you as a challenge because once we leave, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>once we're not engaged in this moment anymore, you have

0:48:54.160 --> 0:48:57.399
<v Speaker 1>free will. You can make your next choice, and then

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<v Speaker 1>the next reading might say something the timing has changed

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<v Speaker 1>because of who you ran into or or the guide

0:49:05.200 --> 0:49:09.840
<v Speaker 1>posts you you ignored, for example. So timing is relative.

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<v Speaker 1>It's based on the information that we have today, though,

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<v Speaker 1>I just think it would be interesting to hear what

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<v Speaker 1>happens in thirty days. I'll let you know. I'm excited. Yeah, seriously. Um, so,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you so much for coming on and doing the

0:49:27.880 --> 0:49:30.680
<v Speaker 1>tarot cards with me. I appreciate it. And where could

0:49:30.960 --> 0:49:34.960
<v Speaker 1>listeners find you? Uh, they can find me. It's psychics

0:49:35.000 --> 0:49:37.719
<v Speaker 1>one on one dot com. That's the easiest place to

0:49:37.760 --> 0:49:43.120
<v Speaker 1>work with me today. I can be found in so

0:49:43.200 --> 0:49:46.000
<v Speaker 1>many places. That is one of the places that you

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<v Speaker 1>can find the easiest. Okay, awesome, Thank you so much

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<v Speaker 1>that I really appreciate it. And I'll let you know

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<v Speaker 1>what happens in the next thirty All right, good, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. Alright, guys, we did it. I promise you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going uh figure this out, and we're gonna we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna keep on trucking on and next week I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit stronger. And so will you see you

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<v Speaker 1>next week By