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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, welcome back to wind Down. It's uh to

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Speaker 1: trust me. Um, I just want to say thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for all the love last week. UM yeah,

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Speaker 1: I just I really appreciate it. I didn't know how

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Speaker 1: it would be received because I was like, well, I

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Speaker 1: just cried the entire podcast. But it was really comforting

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Speaker 1: to see the messages because even people that weren't going

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Speaker 1: through my exact situation, we're able to relate in just

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Speaker 1: different ways with their own pain and their own grief.

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Speaker 1: And you guys went along with the tapping, which was

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Speaker 1: so cool, and I just appreciate it, and I appreciate

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Speaker 1: you guys still wanting me to, you know, keep on

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Speaker 1: the show. And I'm if I'm gonna be honest, it's been.

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Speaker 1: It's been a rough week. Again. I'm I'm just waiting

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Speaker 1: for when they say it's better. Uh, But in the meantime,

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Speaker 1: it's definitely been. It's hard, and it's it's um. I

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Speaker 1: think the hardest part is when you imagine something and

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Speaker 1: you work for something and then you're the rug kind

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Speaker 1: of gets pulled from underneath you. You're just kind of

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Speaker 1: left there on the floor kind of spinning like what like.

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Speaker 1: And so that's kind of where I think I'm at,

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Speaker 1: just the realization and then just divorce sucks. Uh, there's

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Speaker 1: it's such a it's hard because you know, I was

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Speaker 1: in the office with one of my lawyers and you know,

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Speaker 1: they're laughing, and I'm like, this isn't funny, like you

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Speaker 1: know what, I understand they you know, they have a

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Speaker 1: million cases. I'm just one case out of probably five thousand,

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Speaker 1: you know, I mean, and it's just yeah, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: this is this is hard, and this is emotional and

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Speaker 1: this is like I'm not laughing about this, and it's

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Speaker 1: just it sucks. And unless you're going through it, it's

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Speaker 1: just a really awful feeling and I hate it. And

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Speaker 1: then it's like I didn't want this, and that's kind

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Speaker 1: of where I keep going to. It's like I didn't

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Speaker 1: want this. I didn't want this, and so now I'm

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Speaker 1: just trying to get out of that mind frame of Okay,

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Speaker 1: I didn't want this, but now how am I going

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Speaker 1: to get past it? And That's where I'm at now,

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Speaker 1: and that's why I'm reading so many different books um

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Speaker 1: reading right now. Lisa turkis book, it's not supposed to

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Speaker 1: be this way, and that's been helping a lot and

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Speaker 1: just realizing, Okay, this is this is it, this isn't

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Speaker 1: what I wanted. But now I have to figure out

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Speaker 1: how to get out of my slump because there is

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Speaker 1: no going back, there is no um. Yeah, it's it's

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Speaker 1: just sad because when when you sit in those offices

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Speaker 1: it's now a business transaction. I'm like, this is my life,

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Speaker 1: this is my kids, this is my money, this is

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Speaker 1: my my livelihood, this is you know, everything that I've

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Speaker 1: built for myself. And it's when people want to mess

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Speaker 1: with that, it's just really hard because yeah, I came

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Speaker 1: from nothing and I worked my butt off and anyways,

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Speaker 1: but I'm that's my SOB spiel for the day. But

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Speaker 1: I think we just I think it's it's okay to

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Speaker 1: be in those spots where you go around and round

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Speaker 1: and round circles because you're gonna get out of it.

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Speaker 1: And I've gotten out of the Will you ever change?

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Speaker 1: Will you ever changed it? Did I make the right decision?

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Speaker 1: I know I made the right decision, and that's what

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Speaker 1: I can stand from in But now what I'm kind

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Speaker 1: of going around circles is when is it going to

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Speaker 1: get easier? And it's probably not going to get easier

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Speaker 1: for a long time. So now I have to get

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Speaker 1: myself up the off the couch, find a way now

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Speaker 1: to just try to try and that's like the hardest part.

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Speaker 1: But I'm doing it. I'm trying it, and I hope

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Speaker 1: you guys are too. I'm pumped because I got Shari

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Speaker 1: Healy coming on. She's a she's just like a overall

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Speaker 1: life coach. She's been on the show before, so hopefully

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Speaker 1: she'll be able to give me some wise words and

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Speaker 1: then after that we're going to have someone hopefully show

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Speaker 1: me that I've got something better on the way. But

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Speaker 1: before we get Charian, let's stick a break. Hi Shari, Hi, Janna, Hi,

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Speaker 1: how are you honey? You know it's the million dollar question. Um.

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Speaker 1: Right now, I'm just kind of numb. Had had a

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Speaker 1: few good cries earlier today and a lot of anger. Um.

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Speaker 1: with you know, I've been there, right, you know that

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Speaker 1: I was mama of young kids when I filed for divorce,

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Speaker 1: And why I'm here is to tell you what it's

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Speaker 1: the kids have gotten through it, and I have a

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Speaker 1: lot that I wanted to give you. Yeah, I would.

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Speaker 1: it's making me just angry, which I think I need

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Speaker 1: to have a piece of angry because yeah, so that

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Speaker 1: did I make their right It's like no, no, like

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Speaker 1: I made the right decision. But I am starting to

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Speaker 1: feel like someone's someone it's just take take, take, take, taking,

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Speaker 1: and it's like you already took everything, like not everything,

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Speaker 1: but you know what I'm saying, Like it's like you

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Speaker 1: like I'm that's where I'm stuck right now and just

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Speaker 1: being like angry. Yeah, and you need to feel that.

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Speaker 1: And I know I heard Sarah telling you that as

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Speaker 1: well and Gabby, and it's critical because I would say

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Speaker 1: where I went wrong is I went so full forced

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Speaker 1: into being there for the children and trying to create

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Speaker 1: this really good divorce. I was like, I never planned

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Speaker 1: it's going to be the best divorce ever, which is

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Speaker 1: a great intention. But I delayed my feelings. I think

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Speaker 1: think Gabby said this to you, like, they'll still be there.

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Speaker 1: If you don't feel them now, you'll feel him later

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Speaker 1: like I did. And I think I want that you're

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Speaker 1: feeling them now. I'm glad that you are. Now. It's

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Speaker 1: it's like I would love to have done this, but

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Speaker 1: now I'm like, I'm still mad at like I still like,

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Speaker 1: Is that? Is that okay? So glad do you hear that?

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Speaker 1: Because yes, I know how much you want for the

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Speaker 1: kids to not suffer from this, and you said they

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Speaker 1: didn't ask for this, they didn't deserve this. But I

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Speaker 1: want to go through with you a few like what

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Speaker 1: I would call powerful beliefs that might be guiding lights

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Speaker 1: to get you through it, because I would say that.

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Speaker 1: I remember saying I don't want to have a broken family.

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Speaker 1: I came from a broken family, my parents got divorced.

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Speaker 1: I said I'd never do this to my kids. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: choose both of you, They chose you. These kids came

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Speaker 1: all that comes with that. You know, all the lessons

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Speaker 1: To let them see us be human and to be

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Speaker 1: for you to be showing them how to go through

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Speaker 1: to feel feelings and I ask for help. Like I

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Speaker 1: All right, Chris, thank you so much for coming on. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I just I'll let you do your thing. Thank you

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Speaker 1: psychic reeting? No, it's not. I've had a few, not

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Speaker 1: I do not discuss death and I do not discuss

429
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:10,879
Speaker 1: anything that's going to scare the s out of you.

430
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:14,239
Speaker 1: Why that's what I need? Well, I'm gonna shake you up,

431
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:15,399
Speaker 1: but I'm not going to scare you. I'm not going

432
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 1: to manipulate you're doing to being horrible to you. Okay, okay. Thanks.

433
00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:23,639
Speaker 1: The second thing is, for the first couple of minutes

434
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:25,119
Speaker 1: of this reading, I'm gonna go in and give you

435
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,160
Speaker 1: what my guides are giving me to give you directly,

436
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,200
Speaker 1: and then I'll open the reading up to any questions

437
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:30,880
Speaker 1: that you have in regards as to what I said,

438
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 1: or if you want to know about something that we

439
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:33,879
Speaker 1: didn't get a chance to touch on, we could do

440
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 1: it at that time. Does that work? Yes? Perfect? And

441
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:39,120
Speaker 1: then the final final thing is your time is very

442
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 1: important and expensive to me. I want you to feel

443
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 1: free to jump in at any time to call bullshit.

444
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,520
Speaker 1: Do not do not worry about trying to be polite,

445
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:48,679
Speaker 1: not wanting to hurt my feelings, none of that. If

446
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:50,880
Speaker 1: it doesn't resonate with you, or if it sounds off,

447
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,640
Speaker 1: let me know. When I do hit stuff, simply confirm yes,

448
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:56,679
Speaker 1: but do not give me any additional details, okay, okay,

449
00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,639
Speaker 1: And you haven't like googled, looked up and you know,

450
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 1: looked into family history. Do you have a grandfather that died? Yeah? Yeah,

451
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 1: you know there's an old man that's coming to me

452
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:12,639
Speaker 1: right now, that's pass from the other side. All everything

453
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:14,200
Speaker 1: that I have for you, I'm gonna try to stay

454
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,399
Speaker 1: away from the medium stuff because I don't have anything

455
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 1: to bring in from that. So I'm just gonna do

456
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:22,719
Speaker 1: everything psychically. Okay, okay, cool, here we go. Okay, alright,

457
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 1: my love, So let me please your mind, especially your mind,

458
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 1: and let you know that I have nothing negative to

459
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,679
Speaker 1: give you. Your guides, angels, messengers, whatever is that you

460
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,280
Speaker 1: choose to call them, are trying to bring clarity and

461
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 1: strength to you. And I know that you're gonna laugh

462
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 1: at that. I know you know what needs to be

463
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 1: done here. But your soul, your essence, your presence, what

464
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 1: makes you you, is very very strong. You're just obviously

465
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 1: at a weak moment right now. But when it comes

466
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:47,960
Speaker 1: to you again, I think people, I think people have

467
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:51,880
Speaker 1: the misperception of you as being like um naive or

468
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:53,920
Speaker 1: you know, um, why did you let this happen? And

469
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:55,479
Speaker 1: kind of put all the blame on you and all

470
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:57,679
Speaker 1: this other ship. I feel like with you when it

471
00:25:57,680 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 1: comes to your way of thinking and it comes to

472
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 1: the relationship at that you've gone through here, you're pretty

473
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 1: much right or die? Does that make sense? Like you're

474
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:06,480
Speaker 1: kind of you're gonna You're gonna go above and beyond,

475
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 1: and you're also going to turn over every single rock

476
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 1: to make sure there's nothing underneath it. Because the last

477
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:15,639
Speaker 1: thing that Janna wants is is to have questions in

478
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:17,920
Speaker 1: her mind? Does that make sense to have to think

479
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 1: could I have done this? Could I have done that?

480
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 1: Or blah blah blah, whatever the case may be. So

481
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:24,640
Speaker 1: you handle your process in a way that works for you.

482
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:27,959
Speaker 1: Does that make sense? And so? And here's another thing

483
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:30,919
Speaker 1: what I love about you two is that you for

484
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,199
Speaker 1: all for for how you come across. I don't, to

485
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 1: be honest with I don't know too much about you.

486
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 1: I noticed a little bit about what I've heard and

487
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,239
Speaker 1: all that, all the big stuff, but I don't know

488
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:40,320
Speaker 1: really much about your character other than when I pick

489
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 1: up psychically and with you. I think that you're very perceptive.

490
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,200
Speaker 1: I think that you're very very intuitive, and I think

491
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 1: that your everyday way of thinking gets in the way

492
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:52,440
Speaker 1: of your intuition. Does that make sense, because you're very

493
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:55,440
Speaker 1: much picking up on the intention of other people, whether

494
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:58,160
Speaker 1: they choose to say anything or not. So what ends

495
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,199
Speaker 1: up happening for you is that you pick up You

496
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 1: pick up on what's going on here, and if there's

497
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 1: any questions that that you have, of course you're going

498
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:05,679
Speaker 1: to go and answer them. But the stuff that is

499
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 1: not said is what really gets on your nerves. Does

500
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 1: that make sense? Yeah, I'm gonna try to say from

501
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 1: that does not make sense. But when it comes that,

502
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 1: that's That's one of the things that I think that

503
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 1: really gets in your way here is again is having

504
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,639
Speaker 1: this insane amount of intuition being told one thing and

505
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:22,159
Speaker 1: then doing another thing. Then with you, I feel like,

506
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 1: again this is very much the healing phase. I don't

507
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 1: think that you've actually gone through that yet. I think

508
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:28,919
Speaker 1: that you're still sitting. With all due respect, this is

509
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:30,400
Speaker 1: not a shot at you. I think that you're still

510
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,360
Speaker 1: sitting on your pity pot right now and you're absorbing

511
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 1: everything that's going But that's a good thing, though. Don't

512
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 1: get off that. Don't get off that too soon. Sit

513
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: there and take all the time that you need to

514
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: forget about what everybody's telling you. Oh girl, you know,

515
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 1: be strong, do this whatever, take whatever downtime that you

516
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 1: need to heal, because with you, you're very much once

517
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 1: once it starts hitting the fan, you immediately want to

518
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 1: crawl and tell me if this is wrong, feel free

519
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 1: to jump in here. But you immediately want to crawl

520
00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 1: into bed and kind of like wait till everything's done

521
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:58,639
Speaker 1: and over with? Does that make sense? Like kind of

522
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 1: like you know, I just I need time to think,

523
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 1: any time to absorb. So with you again, sit on

524
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:05,359
Speaker 1: that pitypot, do what you need, go through the healing

525
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 1: that you need in order for you to feel better.

526
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: But here's the thing, though, with all that being said,

527
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:12,919
Speaker 1: all the stuff that your mind is doing to you,

528
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 1: as far as like playing tricks on you, and you

529
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 1: know and kind of like enticing you and irritating you,

530
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,439
Speaker 1: would do it all that stuff here, I think that

531
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 1: your biggest hurdle here in the biggest thing that that

532
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 1: gets in your way here is that you want this

533
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:28,719
Speaker 1: person to feel the same way that you feel. And

534
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna put it out there. I think that's

535
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 1: impossible because if that if that was the case that

536
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:34,719
Speaker 1: would have never been done to you in the first place.

537
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 1: M How do you feel about that? Makes sense? And

538
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 1: I also think that again, I'm not I'm not gonna

539
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 1: throw anybody under the bus. I'm not gonna, um, you know,

540
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 1: pick sides or anything like that. But I also feel

541
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 1: like again with that intuition and that perception that you

542
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 1: have between the two of you guys, knowing his insecurities,

543
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: knowing his fears, knowing that this is somebody that tell

544
00:28:57,520 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 1: me if this is wrong, I'm just gonna throw this

545
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 1: out there. I can't think for themselves. Sometimes that kind

546
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 1: of does what's expected of them rather than what they

547
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 1: truly need to be doing, and kind of just can

548
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 1: go with the flow. And you, because you know this

549
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 1: person inside and out, is kind of like what the mhm.

550
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 1: So that that that you know And I'm not telling

551
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:19,560
Speaker 1: you anything that you don't already know here, but I

552
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 1: feel like that's a huge problem for you, is is

553
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 1: doing the thinking for both you and this person? How

554
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 1: do you feel about that? Makes sense? If I'm gonna

555
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 1: tell you it's time for you know again, when you're ready,

556
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I'm not gonna tell you this in

557
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: two weeks here. But it's time to start getting mad.

558
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,680
Speaker 1: It's time to start really strengthen, you know, when you're

559
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 1: ready to start strengthening your mind, strengthening your core, strengthening

560
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 1: your character, getting up here and doing what it is

561
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 1: that you need to be doing because you're not done

562
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 1: living as far as like your life. This is just

563
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 1: a little bump in the road here. What ends up

564
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 1: happening to you again? What your guides want to bring

565
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:53,680
Speaker 1: us that clarity and that strength, And I think that again,

566
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 1: tell me if this is wrong again, feel free to

567
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 1: call both if you need to. But I feel like

568
00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 1: with you that you lost a little bit of your

569
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 1: identity through this whole process here. And it's it's difficult

570
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 1: because again with you, when people talk about being in

571
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 1: relationships and you know, oh, you know that this person

572
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 1: is codependent in relationships, I question that sometimes because isn't

573
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:14,239
Speaker 1: that person truly codependent in a relationship or is this

574
00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 1: person Does this person shine better when they have somebody

575
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 1: else in their life to share things with? Does that

576
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 1: make sense? So people will automatically say, you know, oh,

577
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 1: they're there. You know, she's very codependent in this relationship.

578
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 1: She can't see straight here. Well, some people need that

579
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 1: extra balance or that extra person there to balance and

580
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 1: even them out. It's not really codependent as far as

581
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 1: like I need you in order to live, but I

582
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:37,840
Speaker 1: just feel better when I have that security, comfort protection

583
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: right next to me. It makes me shine better. It

584
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 1: makes me feel like, you know, I have everything that

585
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 1: I need to move forward with. Does that make sense?

586
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:47,239
Speaker 1: It's like how I feel like with you that that

587
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 1: because there's so much history and there's so much of this,

588
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 1: you know that stuff out of the public and people

589
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 1: don't really know here is the reason why you're holding

590
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 1: on so strong. But I also feel like, again, you

591
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 1: shine better when you have somebody there that could that

592
00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 1: that could pick you up or boost you up. Because

593
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 1: when you're by yourself, you're very emotional. It could be

594
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 1: very hard on yourself. You can do that, could have,

595
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 1: should have, would have in the what it and you

596
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 1: take yourself further down the rabbit hole than you need to.

597
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:10,400
Speaker 1: And that's what ends up messing you up. Is that

598
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 1: again your mind, your mind just goes to those dark

599
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 1: places sometimes and it's difficult for you to get up

600
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 1: or to focus. How do you feel about all this? Yeah,

601
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 1: and all makes sense. So when I talk about your

602
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 1: guides coming in here, I know that's such a weird

603
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: thing to say. I never used to say guides until

604
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 1: people started asking me who's they? So we're just gonna

605
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 1: say guides for lack of a better word. How do

606
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 1: you feel when I bring in your intuition and your

607
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:37,800
Speaker 1: everyday way of thinking? I mean, I definitely hear that

608
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 1: because I I feel like I have a really good

609
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 1: gut and intuition, like I I it's like I know,

610
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 1: but I always like wait for proof. But I just

611
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 1: need to start listening to that more and then knowing that.

612
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 1: I like the clarity thing just because I keep asking

613
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 1: for clarity, um, and I just I know it's there.

614
00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 1: I just need to feel it. But what ends up

615
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:01,240
Speaker 1: happening about how about when I tell you that you

616
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 1: pick up on the intention of other people? Again, I

617
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 1: don't want to throw anybody under the bus, but you

618
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 1: know this person like the back of your hand. You

619
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: know this person like nobody else does. So when I

620
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:13,720
Speaker 1: talk about the intention and also you know, um, picking

621
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,240
Speaker 1: up on what's going on, what's going on behind the scenes,

622
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 1: how do you feel about that as well? Because I

623
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 1: feel like again that also adds to your intuition. That

624
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 1: also adds to that level of stress or anxiety that

625
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: you get. Yeah, for sure, I mean I definitely have Yeah,

626
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 1: I I take I take that on and I don't

627
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:34,040
Speaker 1: want to take that on anymore. But I definitely it's frustrating.

628
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 1: For sure. That's one of your biggest lessons here. Again,

629
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 1: I hate to dip into the past life and bring

630
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 1: up past life information because again for one, for one thing,

631
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 1: there's no way to validate that. There's no way to

632
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 1: look back and look at somebody else's past life and say, oh,

633
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 1: this is exactly who you were here. I have the proof,

634
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 1: but people like people like that. It does trigger a

635
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 1: lot of what's going on in this lifetime. But my

636
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 1: whole thing is staying present and being focused on what's

637
00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 1: going on in this life time. However, you do have

638
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 1: those lessons when it comes to how you love and

639
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 1: how you receive love, because in relationship, relationships are huge

640
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 1: for you, especially in this lifetime. You're you're gonna find

641
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:11,880
Speaker 1: your strength, your character, your identity through relationships in this lifetime.

642
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:14,440
Speaker 1: It's important for you. And what ends up happening again

643
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 1: is that I think that you have like you I'm

644
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 1: not gonna go I'm not gonna go as far as

645
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 1: to call you bipolar or have a slip personality. But

646
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 1: I definitely know, I know, I definitely feel like this,

647
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 1: this very intelligent, this very you know um knows what

648
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: needs to be done type of person. I definitely see

649
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 1: that with you. But I also see that shadows side

650
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 1: to you, that shadows side that when nobody else is around,

651
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 1: the stuff that you can do to yourself, when it

652
00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 1: comes to your way of thinking. That's where your guys

653
00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 1: want to jump in and tell you again, Look, we've

654
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 1: got to figure out a way to filter this so

655
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 1: it's not it's not so intention so it's not so

656
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 1: intense and so much for you. Yeah, but when when

657
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: we talk about can I call him Mike? Sure, So

658
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 1: we're talking about when I talk about him, what do

659
00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 1: you think about when I say that he does what's

660
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 1: expected of him rather than what he truly wants to

661
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 1: be doing and sometimes can't think for himself. Yeah, I mean,

662
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 1: I hear that, and I wonder, you know, I mean,

663
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,600
Speaker 1: now he's free to do whatever he wants. Here's the thing, though,

664
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 1: I'm going to be a little bit manipulative too, and

665
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:16,920
Speaker 1: I'm also going to be team you. Right now, here's

666
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 1: the thing I'm gonna I'm having difficulty saying this. I'm

667
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 1: just gonna throw it out there. What other woman is

668
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 1: going to put up with that? Well, he's gonna, he says,

669
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,920
Speaker 1: he's going to change, and so the next girl gets

670
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,800
Speaker 1: the changed man. You've got to want to change. First

671
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 1: of all, you have to acknowledge that there's an issue

672
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:40,840
Speaker 1: going on. And I don't believe in um not having

673
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 1: self control, and I don't believe in making excuses and

674
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 1: putting band aids on a wound where that where it

675
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:51,520
Speaker 1: just keeps bleeding NonStop here, and this is something to

676
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 1: where I feel like people live behind that excuse as

677
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 1: far as like you know, I'm not saying that everybody

678
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 1: that that that nobody suffers from from things or they

679
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:00,759
Speaker 1: can't go through certain things, but we start living behind

680
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:02,879
Speaker 1: that excuse and people start putting in your head, oh

681
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 1: it's this, it's that the reason why you are is

682
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:07,759
Speaker 1: because of X, Y and Z. I feel like people

683
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: end up living behind that and make a bigger deal

684
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 1: out of it than what needs to be made out

685
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 1: of it. And I feel like with you that again,

686
00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 1: with you thinking about this. You're kind of like, don't

687
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:18,799
Speaker 1: be stupid, Like I know who you are and I

688
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:21,239
Speaker 1: know I know how you think, and it has to

689
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 1: be extremely frustrating for you because you see through that. Yeah,

690
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 1: but I don't. But I do not see anything negative

691
00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 1: you're I don't see you. You know this is something

692
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 1: that's gonna be bothering you for the rest of your life.

693
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,440
Speaker 1: I honestly feel, and again there's you can you have

694
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 1: the ability to change is you can do. You can

695
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:37,920
Speaker 1: change what I'm saying moving forward here by just you know,

696
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,360
Speaker 1: not doing anything about it, But I don't feel like

697
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:42,400
Speaker 1: that's in your character, and I definitely feel like with

698
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 1: you that it's gonna be. I'm gonna say probably by

699
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 1: summer of next year, things are going to be different

700
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: for you as far as like um feeling. Again, that's

701
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 1: not to take away that you know that you're not

702
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:55,799
Speaker 1: going to be good by this coming fall here, but

703
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 1: by summer of next year, a total one eighty different, different,

704
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:02,320
Speaker 1: different outlook on life, different feeling, different vibe, more confident,

705
00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 1: more determined to kind of get things done here. And

706
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,759
Speaker 1: also too, I really feel like your kids are going

707
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:10,279
Speaker 1: to come in and show you strength here and get

708
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 1: back to what matters the most, which is you and

709
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:16,839
Speaker 1: this family that you've created. For sure, I know about

710
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:19,359
Speaker 1: all this. I can give it to me, and I

711
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 1: want that that bad side of me to come out.

712
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 1: No I can't. I mean, I that sounds great. I

713
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 1: want all that you know, and I hope, I hope

714
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:28,440
Speaker 1: for that. I don't want to be but I want

715
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:30,759
Speaker 1: to be alone forever, you know, So I hope that

716
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 1: you know there's someone out there eventually you know that

717
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 1: I'll But let's make it worth at this time though.

718
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 1: Let's let's kind of take a step back here and realize,

719
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: like I said when I told you at the very beginning,

720
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:43,840
Speaker 1: that you're pretty much right or diet like when you

721
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 1: get involved in a relationship. This is the security, comfort,

722
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:48,680
Speaker 1: peace of mind that I'm looking for. I only want

723
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:50,360
Speaker 1: to do this once. I don't want to date around

724
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,360
Speaker 1: for dating is fundor. But right now I'm at this

725
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 1: age where where I want the real thing. So we

726
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 1: already know what it is that you have to offer,

727
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 1: what you bring to the table. Let's take a step

728
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 1: back here and see what the next person has to

729
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 1: offer before we jump it. See if they're up to

730
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 1: par with who you are and where you're I'm never

731
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 1: settling ever again ever again, I'd rather be alone. Who's

732
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 1: to say that within the next six months that this

733
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:18,839
Speaker 1: new look, this new you, this new vibe isn't gonna

734
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 1: be the come up ins that've been waiting for, because again,

735
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:24,399
Speaker 1: you can't keep a woman like you down for very long.

736
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 1: You're gonna again, like I said, you're going to go

737
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 1: through the emotions. You're going to said on that pity pot,

738
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 1: cry more, and do not let anybody tell you again

739
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 1: here I am giving you psychic insight, but I am

740
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 1: not going to push you because again I feel like

741
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:39,040
Speaker 1: we're kind of like in the same boat your work.

742
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 1: We need a hot minute to get our together. We

743
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:43,360
Speaker 1: need to go through so we need to throw things around,

744
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 1: we need to cry, we need to get piste off

745
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 1: and do what we need. We need to get that

746
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:48,600
Speaker 1: all out. So honored, I get that all out. But

747
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 1: don't ever ever mistake your emotions, your sensitivity as a

748
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 1: weakness here, because that's one of the best parts about you.

749
00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:57,879
Speaker 1: It reminds you that you're human. So again, when you're

750
00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 1: ready to find your strength, let's do that us. Thanks Chris,

751
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 1: I appreciate you coming on, UM and I love that

752
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,359
Speaker 1: you also have a podcast and do you help other

753
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:10,320
Speaker 1: people on the podcast? Like do you do? That's so cool?

754
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 1: So it's called in your Head and you can listen

755
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:14,799
Speaker 1: to that wherever or for more information, you can go

756
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:18,799
Speaker 1: to Chris Medina dot guide UM and it could people

757
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 1: sign up to get a psychic reading from you there, Yeah,

758
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 1: they can visit my website sign up for a half

759
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 1: hour session, hour long session. I just want to make this,

760
00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:28,919
Speaker 1: uh know one right out about here or out the gate.

761
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: My sessions tend to go over. I am not a clockwatcher,

762
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:33,800
Speaker 1: so if you sign up for a half an hour reading,

763
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 1: be prepared to be on the phone for thirty to

764
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 1: forty five minutes. Same thing with an hour and ten.

765
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:40,760
Speaker 1: I want to make sure I get everything in your session.

766
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:43,799
Speaker 1: You're paying the top dollar for that. Let's talk about it.

767
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 1: I love it, Chris. Thank you so much for coming

768
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:48,879
Speaker 1: on and shutting some insight. I really appreciate it. You're

769
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:50,759
Speaker 1: so my love, and please keep in touch if there's

770
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 1: anything I can do for you, do not ever hesitate

771
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 1: to reach out. Awesome, Thanks Chris, You're welcome to take

772
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 1: care all right. Super excited to have Seth for million

773
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:04,240
Speaker 1: coming on so you can get more information from coming

774
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 1: out Tarot dot com, um, psychic, medium, tea guardare, I'm

775
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 1: so excited. Dom is something good? All right? Seth, do

776
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 1: your thing, do me. There's there's so many ways to

777
00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 1: approach tarot and how it is a part of our lives,

778
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 1: and my favorite way to work with it is to

779
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 1: bring clarity, to bring confidence, and to help the person

780
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 1: sitting across from me you today to have a more

781
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 1: enriching life and work through whatever transformation it is that

782
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 1: you might be going through today. And you're also you

783
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 1: also do psychic and is that go in with the

784
00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 1: psychic and medium reading too, or how does that work

785
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:49,240
Speaker 1: that does? So some people will ask me specifically for

786
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 1: mediumship readings. Psychic for me has a lot of connotations,

787
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 1: and many people think of a psychic as someone who's

788
00:39:56,239 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: constantly clairvoyant, But psychic has all of the It's kind

789
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 1: of like an umbrella term that has a lot of

790
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 1: things underneath it, including mediumship and taro and all the

791
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 1: other Claire is like Claar sentience and Claire audience, so

792
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 1: there's a lot of stuff that falls underneath that. For me, Uh,

793
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:17,439
Speaker 1: the mediumship will be a tool that I use. Clar

794
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 1: sentience will be a tool that I use, which is

795
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 1: feeling something in your body. So it comes reading for

796
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:25,320
Speaker 1: someone once and my neck got supertense and we talked

797
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:28,799
Speaker 1: about how in their neck they've been recently diagnosed with

798
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 1: a pretty severe case of arthritis. So there are there

799
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:35,799
Speaker 1: are moments like that that happen. And then when I

800
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 1: use my cards, that's tapping into intuition and sometimes the

801
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:44,799
Speaker 1: technique called scrying, which will help me see images that

802
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 1: may or may not be in the card, but it

803
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 1: might have something to do with you or may have

804
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:54,280
Speaker 1: something to do with me. So the the experience can

805
00:40:54,320 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 1: take many different skill sets to arrive at the transformation

806
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:02,319
Speaker 1: and real the insight that you're looking for. And my

807
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:04,399
Speaker 1: favorite way to do that is to work with you

808
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:08,239
Speaker 1: either with a strong question something that you're focused on

809
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:10,440
Speaker 1: right now that you're trying to get a little more

810
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 1: insight on and and dig through. If you don't have

811
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:17,319
Speaker 1: a or you don't want to ask a like a

812
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:20,440
Speaker 1: strong question saying here's where I want to really focus,

813
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 1: then I'll also work in themes and it ends up

814
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 1: narrowing down into something specific. The same way so how

815
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 1: how do you have you had a tero reading before? Yeah,

816
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:36,560
Speaker 1: I have one, I've had before. Cool, So what has

817
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 1: the experience been like for you? Has it been similar

818
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 1: to that or different? Um, I don't know. It's one

819
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:47,720
Speaker 1: of those where I'm like, I don't really don't believe

820
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:49,359
Speaker 1: in it. I'm just I'm I don't know, Like, I

821
00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:51,040
Speaker 1: just I don't know. I'm not I'm not used to

822
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:53,440
Speaker 1: used to it. Like my friends always like, you know,

823
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 1: what's the intention of the day, And so she has

824
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:59,239
Speaker 1: the tarot cards and she's but I'm like, but you

825
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:00,919
Speaker 1: could have picked another a card and then it would

826
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 1: have been something else. So that's I just I go there.

827
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 1: Sometimes that makes complete sense to me because I do

828
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 1: the same exact thing, not just the intention of the day,

829
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 1: but the feeling of well, it could have been any card.

830
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:15,319
Speaker 1: But that's part of the point, isn't it that that

831
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:19,880
Speaker 1: the these things have collided to say, here's where we

832
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 1: are right now in this moment, and there's so many

833
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 1: things that could transpire after that may divert us onto

834
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 1: another road. But here, in this moment, right now, this

835
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 1: is something that we can touch, dig deeper into, feel,

836
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 1: feel the the inspiration of or maybe even want to

837
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:42,080
Speaker 1: hold onto and say this is this is a talisman

838
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:45,239
Speaker 1: for me, or maybe the phrase I'm going to use

839
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 1: to get through the day, to help me feel stronger,

840
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 1: more empowered, more confident as I go through all the

841
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:55,799
Speaker 1: things that can come at me throughout the course of

842
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:59,360
Speaker 1: the day or several months, you know, whatever might be

843
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:04,799
Speaker 1: most most important. So how about you, would you would

844
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 1: you like to focus on a question? Um, I think

845
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 1: just clarity and then the future. Okay, let's dick. Clarity

846
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:22,800
Speaker 1: is pretty, Clarity is broad right, making the right choices,

847
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:27,839
Speaker 1: that's all right, it's a little little Yeah. I think

848
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,759
Speaker 1: it's great. Every every terror reader is different. And some

849
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 1: people like, don't tell me anything. I don't wonder anything

850
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:36,640
Speaker 1: about you. I don't want to hear any questions. Um.

851
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:40,320
Speaker 1: I love to work from where you are. You've already

852
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:41,799
Speaker 1: done a ton of work on your own to get

853
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 1: to where you are today. And sometimes hearing all this

854
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:47,360
Speaker 1: stuff you already know, people like, okay, yeah, we'll already

855
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 1: knew that. Help me out. Let me know where things

856
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 1: are headed. A confirmation is sometimes it's part of the

857
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:57,440
Speaker 1: name of the game. Let it knows it helps me

858
00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:00,319
Speaker 1: know it helps you know that we're zero it on

859
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:03,319
Speaker 1: something that's the right track. Yeah, it's a I heard

860
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 1: this thing I was reading in a book and I

861
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 1: can't remember the exact term of what they use, but

862
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 1: it's like you have to hear something or see something

863
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:11,839
Speaker 1: a certain amount of times before you can actually start

864
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:14,759
Speaker 1: believing it. So I'm like, I've asked people probably fifteen times,

865
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 1: and I'm making the right decision and making the right decision,

866
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 1: and it's like when then you finally are gonna be

867
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 1: like it's just going to click and you're like, I

868
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 1: made the right decision. But sometimes you have to and

869
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:27,920
Speaker 1: I can't remember, I have to go back to the book.

870
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 1: But it was it was fascinating because I'm like, wow,

871
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:32,600
Speaker 1: that's I do that all the time. I'm like, oh

872
00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 1: my gosh, I took this vaccination. Am I gonna get

873
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 1: blood clots? And like, am I gonna be? Okay? I'm

874
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 1: I gonna die. It's like until I get the answer

875
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:39,279
Speaker 1: like all the way and then I'm like, okay, now

876
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 1: I'm fine, I'm fine, all right? So do you want

877
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:46,520
Speaker 1: to see these? Uh? And I can describe them as

878
00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 1: I pulled them up, what the cards are? Read them out. Okay,

879
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,360
Speaker 1: so I like to use layout. It's not every readers

880
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:54,920
Speaker 1: use layouts, which means there's a meeting to each position

881
00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:57,359
Speaker 1: in the card that I laid out. The first card

882
00:44:57,400 --> 00:45:00,120
Speaker 1: that I pulled, which is a current position with what

883
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 1: might be going on now, is the moon. And these

884
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 1: look a little different from what people might be familiar with.

885
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:08,000
Speaker 1: This moon has a big unicorn on it, a gorgeous

886
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:11,759
Speaker 1: moon m crawda down there in the bottom, and it's

887
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:14,840
Speaker 1: coming out of a lake and there's some some planets

888
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:19,760
Speaker 1: that are surrounding it. The the moon for me today

889
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 1: and in this moment, is representing the state of everything

890
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:26,120
Speaker 1: that is being revealed. You're you're in a position of

891
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:31,840
Speaker 1: coming to understanding things that you didn't expect, things that

892
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:34,840
Speaker 1: are probably are surprise. It's like the veil is being lifted.

893
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 1: And as you start to understand more than just getting

894
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 1: it in front of me again, as you start to

895
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 1: understand more, I think there is a there's a path

896
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,759
Speaker 1: that is still yet to be revealed. There's there's a bit,

897
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 1: there's a bit you don't know yet as much as

898
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 1: you may know at this point, there's still there's something

899
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 1: hidden for me. And what's interesting I remember I was saying,

900
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 1: there's a scrying thing that kind of happens. I see images.

901
00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 1: This looks like a like a This is gonna sound weird.

902
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:10,279
Speaker 1: So I don't know if this sounds if this is

903
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 1: important for you or not. You know the story of

904
00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 1: King Arthur and the Lady of the Lake. You know,

905
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 1: so the King Arthur received his sword um and through

906
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:25,399
Speaker 1: not only pulling it out of this stone, but it

907
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 1: was it was originally the stone upon the world by

908
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:30,799
Speaker 1: the Lady of the Lake, this magical, mythical creature. And

909
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 1: what it looks like to me is this sword is

910
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:38,680
Speaker 1: starting to come out of the lake. Uh. I'm gonna

911
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:40,279
Speaker 1: say this is a symbol for me because it's not

912
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 1: a story that you know. So the symbol for me

913
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:46,799
Speaker 1: is there is truth about to be revealed. There's more

914
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:50,719
Speaker 1: for you to know, to understand, and to have that

915
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 1: illuminated by the moon. Is is it's a secret. You

916
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 1: don't know this yet, so you're about to find out more.

917
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:03,879
Speaker 1: We itch in the case of where you you are,

918
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:06,360
Speaker 1: I'm fascinating because I'm going to add a little bit

919
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 1: more to this, So hold on to that thought for

920
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:13,839
Speaker 1: a minute. So as a result of where you are

921
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:17,240
Speaker 1: at the moment and seeking the clarity you're looking for.

922
00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 1: There's more information coming that's going to get you the

923
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:23,680
Speaker 1: clarity that you're looking for. It's going to be revealed

924
00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 1: to you. Though it's not something you can find, chase,

925
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:29,680
Speaker 1: or or discover on your own. Somebody's going to give

926
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:34,440
Speaker 1: it to you. And as a result, that opens up

927
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:39,759
Speaker 1: And this feels weird, but go with me, and maybe

928
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 1: it don't mean something more to you than it does

929
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 1: to me. At the moment. That opens up a whole

930
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 1: new path of love and opportunity for you. Okay, and

931
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:51,919
Speaker 1: I'm going to switch those words the opportunity for love

932
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:56,840
Speaker 1: for you. But this, this revelation has to happen first.

933
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 1: You have to get out of the mire of uh

934
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:03,319
Speaker 1: of where you are today. And that comes as a

935
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 1: result of someone else saying, hey, here's this thing you

936
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 1: didn't know. Now that you know it, what are you

937
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 1: gonna do? And you then it's like the veil is

938
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:20,919
Speaker 1: totally lifted. The you know, the rose colored glasses come off.

939
00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:27,120
Speaker 1: The feeling of um struggling through family and challenges around

940
00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 1: family moves out of the way and you're able to

941
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:32,840
Speaker 1: see clearly where you're meant to be next? Got it?

942
00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 1: What kind of questions does that raise for you? When? Ah, okay,

943
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:47,399
Speaker 1: cool timing and taros. Any taro reader will probably tell

944
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:51,319
Speaker 1: you as a challenge because once we leave, you know,

945
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 1: once we're not engaged in this moment anymore, you have

946
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:57,399
Speaker 1: free will. You can make your next choice, and then

947
00:48:57,440 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: the next reading might say something the timing has changed

948
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 1: because of who you ran into or or the guide

949
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:09,840
Speaker 1: posts you you ignored, for example. So timing is relative.

950
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:13,280
Speaker 1: It's based on the information that we have today, though,

951
00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:17,840
Speaker 1: I just think it would be interesting to hear what

952
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:25,360
Speaker 1: happens in thirty days. I'll let you know. I'm excited. Yeah, seriously. Um, so,

953
00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 1: thank you so much for coming on and doing the

954
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 1: tarot cards with me. I appreciate it. And where could

955
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:34,960
Speaker 1: listeners find you? Uh, they can find me. It's psychics

956
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 1: one on one dot com. That's the easiest place to

957
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 1: work with me today. I can be found in so

958
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 1: many places. That is one of the places that you

959
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 1: can find the easiest. Okay, awesome, Thank you so much

960
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:50,080
Speaker 1: that I really appreciate it. And I'll let you know

961
00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 1: what happens in the next thirty All right, good, thank you.

962
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 1: Thank you. Alright, guys, we did it. I promise you.

963
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:04,879
Speaker 1: I'm going uh figure this out, and we're gonna we're

964
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:08,480
Speaker 1: gonna keep on trucking on and next week I'll be

965
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 1: a little bit stronger. And so will you see you

966
00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:11,239
Speaker 1: next week By