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Speaker 1: I am so sorry to inform you, but we've experienced

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Speaker 1: a fresh new episode. I guess you could call that

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Speaker 1: our Shady Moment of the week. But in the meantime,

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Speaker 1: enjoy this replay of one of our favorite Reasonably Shady

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Speaker 2: Okay, Banye, welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. My

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Speaker 2: name is Jaselle Bryant.

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Speaker 1: What's up? What's up everyone? I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you once again for joining us. We

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Speaker 1: love you so much for loving us.

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Speaker 2: Yes we do. We're so happy to be back once again,

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Speaker 2: and just like usual, we have our reasonably Shady Moment

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Speaker 2: of the week. And guys, it is a doozy for me. Okay. So,

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Speaker 2: a couple of weeks ago, we had a dietitian I

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Speaker 1: Yeah? So she said she's a trainer training a trainer.

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Speaker 1: But yes, we were talking about nutrition one.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and she said that asparacus is great to eat. Okay,

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Speaker 2: it helps you lose weight. It tastes good. Just put

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Speaker 2: I was sick of Kale because I've been a Kale

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Speaker 2: I'm done with you too, because Brocoli, you give me gas. Okay, Okay.

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Speaker 2: So some Carly, our director of operations, she said, but hell,

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Speaker 2: you know that Asparicus makes your peasting, okay, And I.

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Speaker 1: Can't believe you didn't know that.

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Speaker 2: Well I did know that, but to what degree I

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Speaker 2: I had booked a Sweet. I'm in Tallahassee, by the way,

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Speaker 1: Okay, but whatever, We're only there for that moment.

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Speaker 2: But okay, yeah, maybe maybe another episode that would be

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Speaker 2: my shady moment. So I went to go pete and

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Speaker 2: And I was like, oh my god, my peace. Stanks,

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Speaker 2: I mean like stanks, thanks, like horribly stinks. So long

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Speaker 2: story short, asparagus, you are shaky.

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Speaker 1: You are shady. Okay, you're shady. So are you no

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Speaker 2: So this is the deal, guys, I actually really love it,

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Speaker 2: So I'm gonna eat it, but not as much as before.

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Speaker 1: know you're not going to be peeing around other people? Right?

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Speaker 2: When does that happened? Like I'm you're at home, like,

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Speaker 2: So if I'm if this, but this would make any

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Speaker 2: So if if there's any dayting going on, then asparagus.

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Speaker 2: I cannot eat asparacase you're shady. I want everybody to

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Speaker 2: I'm being okay. Okay, I didn't fart, I didn't go

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Speaker 1: So you know, we moved in a new house. The

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Speaker 2: Well clearly, Robbing, you're part of the wrong family, and

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Speaker 1: Okay, So our guest today is none other than the

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Speaker 1: Saddel because she belongs to a very prestigious basketball family. Yep. Okay.

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Speaker 1: that's the name of Her podcast, centers around an open

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Speaker 1: With, you know, without further ado, Welcome to Reasonably Shady Sidel. Welcome, Welcome.

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Speaker 2: We're so happy to.

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Speaker 3: Have you cracking up. Oh my god, I just want

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Speaker 3: Thank you. So we just started in May. Our first

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Speaker 1: Yes, Yes, I love that.

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Speaker 2: And in the church world, I used to be a

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Speaker 2: So Yeah, speaking of your mom, I look at her

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, yeah, I can see it.

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Speaker 3: You know, my mom literally is like Benjamin Button. We

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Speaker 3: I don't even know how she does that. I just

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Speaker 2: Yeah, listen, that thing right there is a bad one.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Now I'm just gonna get right onto it. So

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Speaker 3: No, So We've always played a game in our family

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Speaker 2: To guess on how much the bill is? Okay, and

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Speaker 2: I'm thinking, if if he's not there, then we just

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Speaker 3: When when he's there, you don't hear any lip from

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Speaker 2: Noted duly noted.

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Speaker 1: That is funny. So speaking of your family, tell us

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Speaker 2: I think Ben's Vin's twenty right, Vince cars No, But

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Speaker 2: what about well Ship Lebron right now is about to

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Speaker 1: For thirteen fourteen? Okay, okay, let's two thousand and three

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Speaker 1: He's a long time.

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Speaker 3: It'll be a lot of people passing my dad. But

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Speaker 2: Tom Brady is taking doing something else. Okay, now got.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, he's popping something. But back to your family. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Because he's like he's like some thing to do.

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Speaker 2: So when we all get to in a minute.

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Speaker 2: You get lost in it?

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Speaker 3: No, my parents did a really really good job at

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, or like stop telling people that you know,

438
00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:44,600
Speaker 2: like you don't even want people to know cis exactly.

439
00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:47,800
Speaker 3: But you know what, more than anything, like I it's

440
00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:51,760
Speaker 3: been a really really cool experience because I don't like

441
00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:53,960
Speaker 3: the attention, but I love watching the people in my

442
00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:58,320
Speaker 3: life like elevate and like just break break records and

443
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:00,960
Speaker 3: do things that people never thought that they be able

444
00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 3: to do. Through things that I never thought that they

445
00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 3: would be able to do or could do, and if

446
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:08,359
Speaker 3: I'm shocked all the time. But I again, I feel

447
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:11,600
Speaker 3: like I live a very I always say I'm an

448
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:16,080
Speaker 3: ordinary girl who is an extraordinary or who experiences extraordinary things.

449
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:20,640
Speaker 3: And I just feel really blessed because again, I could

450
00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:22,959
Speaker 3: go to the store or I could just do normal

451
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:27,000
Speaker 3: things and not feel like I'm anything special, quote unquote,

452
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:29,120
Speaker 3: just living a normal life, which would be a lot

453
00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:30,800
Speaker 3: for me, like with my mental health and all that

454
00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:32,639
Speaker 3: kind of stuff, Like if I had the same the

455
00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:35,320
Speaker 3: same kind of fame as stuff that. I think God

456
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:38,399
Speaker 3: really did his thing and gave the correct talents to

457
00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 3: one of us, because I would not be able to

458
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:44,680
Speaker 3: handle all the all of the attention that he gets.

459
00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:46,760
Speaker 3: He just does so well with it. Even my dad

460
00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:49,560
Speaker 3: and Seth do really and Damien do really well with that.

461
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:52,679
Speaker 3: I'd probably never leave my house if I had all

462
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:56,239
Speaker 3: that attention. So yeah, I'm just like, I'm like the

463
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:59,159
Speaker 3: biggest cheerleader. I love just the witness of all this.

464
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

465
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:04,680
Speaker 2: Now, I was on the Instagram and I saw how

466
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:09,840
Speaker 2: Steph and Aisha responded to you being pregnant, right, and

467
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 2: they went freaking bonkers. And I didn't get it, Like

468
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 2: I was like, why are you screaming yelling? Then going

469
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:17,199
Speaker 2: crazy like okay, the sister's pregnant.

470
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 3: Okay.

471
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:21,119
Speaker 2: I did not know your story, So I would love

472
00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:22,680
Speaker 2: for you to share a little bit of your story.

473
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 2: But before you share your story, cause you know, I

474
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:27,639
Speaker 2: know you're married to your husband who's also on the

475
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:34,000
Speaker 2: same team as your brother. Now, how did that go plan?

476
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 2: I want to know, like, did you see him and

477
00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 2: you was like you talk? You said to your brother,

478
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:38,680
Speaker 2: can you hook a sister up?

479
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:41,440
Speaker 1: What happened?

480
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:43,199
Speaker 3: I want to not go.

481
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:46,360
Speaker 1: Ahead, excuse me, because I mean from I would think

482
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:48,880
Speaker 1: your brother would be like, there's no way you're dating

483
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:53,000
Speaker 1: an NBA player, Like, hell no, I'm not having it.

484
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 1: Find someone else, find a banker.

485
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:00,960
Speaker 3: I did not want it. I always said growing up,

486
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 3: I would never date or marry a basketball player NBA player,

487
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:08,119
Speaker 3: because I don't know how they are. And I know

488
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 3: that like the guys in my family are top notch

489
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:16,920
Speaker 3: and they're like we called the unicorns, and I didn't

490
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:19,159
Speaker 3: think that that was possible. But when I met I

491
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 3: met my husband way before he was even in the

492
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 3: league because we went to I went to Elon he

493
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 3: went to Drexel and so they're in the same conference.

494
00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:30,359
Speaker 3: So he was playing basketball in Drexel. But like, I

495
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 3: didn't know if he was any good. I didn't know anything.

496
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:36,879
Speaker 3: Like he even transferred to Louisville and like hit me

497
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 3: in my d MS and I was like, who are you? Like,

498
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 3: what do you do? Like whatever? And so we met.

499
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 1: Because you were Steph Curry's sister. He was.

500
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:52,560
Speaker 3: He always tells me that he wasn't like ponning for me.

501
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:58,120
Speaker 2: I'm like, yes, he was doing he was you know,

502
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:02,200
Speaker 2: he was trying to get in the curries. Okay, we understand.

503
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 3: I mean he succeeded. That's what.

504
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:07,639
Speaker 1: That.

505
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 2: Does your brother feel about it? I mean, I'm sure

506
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 2: he's over it now. I mean you guys, are you know, happy.

507
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 3: Their best friend? Like their relationship is kind of sickening,

508
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 3: to be honest.

509
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, you're a little too close and you know

510
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 1: what i mean, Look, he better he better stay on

511
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,880
Speaker 1: Steph steam because Steph can keep an eye on him.

512
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I mean it's definitely.

513
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:32,040
Speaker 3: Easier for me.

514
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:36,160
Speaker 1: May be like, excuse me, who are you talking? Who

515
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 1: is this woman you're talking to?

516
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 2: Right?

517
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:38,000
Speaker 1: Yes?

518
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 3: You know what's kind of annoying though about him being

519
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:43,199
Speaker 3: on the team is that everyone thinks that Stephen literally

520
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 3: called up the GM of the Warriors like a, this

521
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 3: is my brother in law. But Damien was on the

522
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 3: team before we were even engaged. We were just dating,

523
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 3: and like the whole the whole nepotism thing. And then

524
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 3: I'm just like, do y'all not know how the NBA works?

525
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 3: Because they're not going to give away just money to

526
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 3: somebody because of who they're related to, Like they have

527
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:06,920
Speaker 3: to actually be able to contribute something.

528
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 2: I don't know, your brother's married to Doc Rivers's daughter.

529
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:14,679
Speaker 2: I know, it's so very incest.

530
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 3: Yes, I realized that how he ends up on the

531
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 3: same team, I don't know, but.

532
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 1: It no, I get it, like I love it. Keep

533
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 1: it in the family. You know, like good people when

534
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:33,200
Speaker 1: you know them, And so I feel like, hey, if

535
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:35,639
Speaker 1: if we already know the Curries are great people, so

536
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 1: if the Curries approve of you know, these the Damien,

537
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 1: then like he has to be an amazing person. And

538
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 1: within the NBA, it's not just about your talent, it's

539
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 1: it is almost equally about how good of a person

540
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 1: are you, How reliable are you?

541
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:49,880
Speaker 3: How?

542
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean more and more of these days, like

543
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 1: it's more important to have people of character in your

544
00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:58,680
Speaker 1: organization than just people with talent.

545
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 2: So right, okay, so so share with us. You are,

546
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:03,800
Speaker 2: by the way, congratulations you getting ready to give? So

547
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 2: when is your du date? Can you share that?

548
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:09,439
Speaker 3: Or I'm November eighteen, five weeks today? Yeah?

549
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, okay, so what well, because I'll give

550
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 2: you my brief because it's so weird. My kids asked

551
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:17,320
Speaker 2: me this this morning. They were like, Mom, did you

552
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 2: have any trouble getting pregnant? And I was like, first

553
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,400
Speaker 2: of all, why are y'all even thinking about that? Second

554
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 2: of all, I was I and I did so my

555
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 2: first child, Grace. You know, it took me like six

556
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 2: months or so. There was nothing that the doctors felt

557
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 2: like they needed to do. If it had gone longer,

558
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 2: then of course we would have done some different things,

559
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,399
Speaker 2: but you know, it just took about six months. The

560
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 2: twins was like that, you know, pregnant?

561
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 1: Was that a mistake?

562
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,199
Speaker 2: That's what the twins asked the whoopsies. They were like,

563
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, were we mistakes? I'm like, first of all, y'all,

564
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 2: but like a whoopsie, No, it was not. It was

565
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 2: definitely played. So they asked that.

566
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:56,199
Speaker 1: Soon because they're not even they are Grace and the

567
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:56,920
Speaker 1: twins or how many.

568
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 2: They're eighteen months apart. So I wanted them.

569
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:01,159
Speaker 1: To be you wanted to yourself, Well.

570
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 2: No, I thought it was gonna be one more, but

571
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 2: it was too It was too Yeah, and I wanted

572
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 2: the one more and Grace to be grow up together

573
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 2: and do stuff together, but it was two more. So yes,

574
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 2: then I was torture. But anyway, enough about me. What

575
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 2: to give us, Like your story, because that's every woman

576
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 2: who's been pregnant, they have a story.

577
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:22,680
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yes, for sure. So Damie and I got

578
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:27,680
Speaker 3: married in twenty eighteen, and like June of twenty eighteen,

579
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 3: we were like, let's kind of wait a year before

580
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 3: we start trying to have a baby. So I got

581
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 3: I got on birth control, and then we got married.

582
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:36,760
Speaker 3: And then December of salesand eighteen came around and we

583
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 3: were like, eh, they spend enough time together, Like let's

584
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 3: let's start trying to have a baby. Let's get it on. Yeah,

585
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 3: And so we haven't tried about six months pretty much.

586
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 3: We have been trying her about six months. Nothing happened,

587
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 3: went to my doctor. She was like, oh, ye're young,

588
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 3: and just like keep trying and then if the year

589
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:57,720
Speaker 3: comes by and nothing happens, and come back and we'll

590
00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 3: do some tests. I got pregnant and in September twenty nineteen,

591
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 3: but it ended up being a chemical pregnancy, which really

592
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 3: really sucks. Basically, it is a chemical pregnancy. It's like

593
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:15,160
Speaker 3: an early miscarriage. So I tested positive, and then because

594
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 3: I was trying to get pregnant, I would test every

595
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 3: day every day, and the positive just get lighter and

596
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 3: lighter and lighter until it went away.

597
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 2: So it's like a early Is that a false positive?

598
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 1: I don't know.

599
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 3: No, No, the baby implants, but it doesn't stick long enough.

600
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, oh wow, gotcha bible. So right, I

601
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 3: went back went back to my doctor. Six months later,

602
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 3: we got test done. Uh two weeks into or a

603
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:45,719
Speaker 3: week into quarantine when the lockdown happened twenty twenty, we

604
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 3: get the call that we couldn't have kids naturally or

605
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 3: we had like a really really low chance of having

606
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 3: kids naturally.

607
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:52,719
Speaker 1: Wow.

608
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 3: Uh issues with both of us kind of wow yeah,

609
00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 3: which people were with because like we're so young. I

610
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 3: was twenty yes, twenty five at that time and he

611
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 3: was only twenty seven.

612
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 1: So was the miscarriage related to the reasons why you

613
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 1: can't why they said you couldn't get pregnant.

614
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 3: My miscarriages happened because I have a progesterone level or

615
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 3: a progesterone level issue after implantation, so my progesterones just

616
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 3: levels didn't stay high enough, Okay, okay, And so we

617
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 3: went into like right into fertility treatments. We tried three

618
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 3: months of IUIS, which is interuterine insemination, which basically is

619
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 3: a step up from natural. They'll put me on medications

620
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 3: and create more eggs and then they'll insert his like

621
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 3: they call it the good swimmers through a catheter. And

622
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 3: we tried those for three months, didn't work, took a

623
00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 3: month off of October of twenty twenty, and then we

624
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 3: went into IVF in twenty twenty, twenty twenty one.

625
00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 2: Okay, and that's like pretty rigorous, right, like you have to.

626
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I did two weeks of three injections a

627
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 3: day in my stomach. And honestly, though, like this is

628
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 3: this is kind of like full circle right now, because

629
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 3: it was this time last year is when I started

630
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 3: watching the House Lives of Potomacs. So you guys, you guys,

631
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 3: I took a whole month off. I took a whole

632
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 3: month off of November to do my I v F

633
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 3: and just would sit down every day with my husband,

634
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 3: my mother in law, and we would watch Real House

635
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 3: Lives of Potomac. Every we watched this all seasons, every day.

636
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 2: Watched the whole week You get pregnant.

637
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 3: You did did so, thank you, and then it's like

638
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 3: this literally, So anyways, we did our IVF cycle. We

639
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 3: got a good amount of embryos, which is as far

640
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 3: as they can be developed outside of my body. Went

641
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 3: through our first embryo transfer in February of twenty twenty one.

642
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 3: That didn't work. It just was a really devastating time.

643
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:13,520
Speaker 3: So then we went into my next embria transfer, which

644
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 3: I had asked my doctor, like, can I go on

645
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 3: some progesterone because I felt like I think I had

646
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 3: another chemical pregnancy in the first embryo transfer. So that's

647
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 3: kind of where I found out. Went on progesterone for

648
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 3: the second one, and this one stuck and we are

649
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 3: thirty five weeks pregnant with that first baby. Boy.

650
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 2: Oh it's a boy. Oh Jesus Christ, girls.

651
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 3: We have three girls already. We have that girls.

652
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 2: That's true, three girls and some boy and one boy. Okay,

653
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 2: so now I get it. Now, I get why your

654
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 2: brother and your sister in law were super excited that

655
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:57,520
Speaker 2: you are preggers, and so like your husband, I know,

656
00:32:57,600 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 2: he was just like through the roof.

657
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 3: He was so excited. I actually got to surprise him

658
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 3: too with this pregnancy, because when you go through this

659
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 3: and there's doctors and timelines involved, like you know, every

660
00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 3: single time I got to a doctor at this day

661
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 3: this time, so I had actually tested and found out

662
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 3: earlier than expected that I was pregnant, and so he

663
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 3: they were in the middle of season last year and

664
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 3: he was away for a road trip when I had

665
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 3: found out that I was pregnant. So I got to

666
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 3: surprise him when he came home. He had no idea

667
00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 3: that I was pregnant, because again, we had a week

668
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 3: to go until I went to the doctor for my

669
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 3: blood test to see if it had worked. And that

670
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 3: was just like one of the best moments of my life,

671
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 3: because you know, I really wanted this to be as

672
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 3: normal of an experience as possible, and it hasn't been

673
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 3: that normal because of all the doctors and all my

674
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 3: legs and syrups and all that kinds of.

675
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:54,720
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, it was good. Like, how were you

676
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 2: able to even keep that from him?

677
00:33:56,600 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 3: Like right few days? Oh my gosh, artist thing every

678
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 3: he was like, was I am I the last one

679
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 3: to know? Did you tell everyone except me? Like? No, no,

680
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 3: I only you told your mom, told my mom and

681
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 3: my sister in mom.

682
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 1: Yeah.

683
00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 2: Okay, speaking of sister in law, let's get back to

684
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 2: this dinner that y'all play Russian Roulette with the bill.

685
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:22,799
Speaker 2: So ah, yeah, first of all, does she lets you

686
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:25,040
Speaker 2: cook with her? Because she's got this, you know, all

687
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 2: this cooking situations going on.

688
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:28,359
Speaker 1: Is her food really good?

689
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 3: Yeah?

690
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:34,439
Speaker 2: That's it's getting there. We're not done with the question yet.

691
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 2: Hold on, hold time. Okay, when y'all have moments at

692
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 2: the because you know, any family will have some tense

693
00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:44,920
Speaker 2: moments at the table. Okay, nine times out of ten,

694
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 2: she starts it right, she.

695
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 1: Starts the draw.

696
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 2: She's the jokesters, she tries to but does everyone understanding

697
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:54,920
Speaker 2: her jokes? Okay, the jokes.

698
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:58,000
Speaker 3: Really not funny, No, they're funny, but she has a

699
00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 3: different type of humor and and you really have to

700
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:04,239
Speaker 3: understand her to really like think it's funny. Sometimes you

701
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:09,719
Speaker 3: look at her like I will laugh. You laugh at

702
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 3: her because she's she thinks she's hilarious and she is.

703
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:16,719
Speaker 3: Her and Stefan just feed off of each other really cool.

704
00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 3: So that's funny to watch. Even if you don't get

705
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 3: the joke, you know that they're in their own little world. Okay,

706
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 3: good for them. R No, she food's bombed. She if

707
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:28,840
Speaker 3: you bomb really have y'all been to any of the

708
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 3: restaurants has.

709
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 1: Att yeah's got like three or four? What have I

710
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 1: been under a rock? I There aren't any like over here.

711
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 1: They're more like what isn't in Texas or something?

712
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 3: She has one in Miami. She has one in the

713
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 3: MGM in Vegas.

714
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 2: In Miami. What's the one called in Miami because I'm

715
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:50,879
Speaker 2: about to go back down there.

716
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 3: They're all called International Smoke.

717
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 1: Because she has Barbie.

718
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 3: It's like it's it's barcue from all around the world, though,

719
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:02,800
Speaker 3: but they have Okay, the mac and cheese. I'm running

720
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:04,840
Speaker 3: down tried tip mac and cheese.

721
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,800
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, there was one in Miami, but okay, okay,

722
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:11,879
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna okay, Miami.

723
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,920
Speaker 3: Vegas, where else and and San Francisco. There was one

724
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:17,880
Speaker 3: in Houston, but Houston.

725
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:21,720
Speaker 4: They don't like the Warriors, and it was they started

726
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 4: yelping her like before they started negative, negative, yelping her

727
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:29,399
Speaker 4: at the fans out.

728
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 3: Deep but some food so good? That is.

729
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 1: Now. How is your relationship with your sister in law?

730
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 1: You all, from what I can tell you all appear

731
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 1: to be really really close.

732
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 3: Yeah no, I super blast. I was always really hard

733
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 3: on all my brother's girlfriends, as.

734
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 2: You should be, because you know that holds out here

735
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:50,759
Speaker 2: in the street.

736
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 3: The DR's a lot.

737
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 2: Of women and it's a lot to it up to

738
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 2: because their mother is a bad one. And so if

739
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 2: like the girlfriend or the scallywag got a hole on

740
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:08,239
Speaker 2: the side, I can't live up to the mama. It's

741
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:08,760
Speaker 2: a problem.

742
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:12,239
Speaker 3: Yeah no. But with Ayisha, like, I was mean to

743
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:15,400
Speaker 3: her for about two weeks okay, good, and I couldn't

744
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,839
Speaker 3: be I couldn't be mean to her anymore. I was like,

745
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 3: I can't not like you, and we became like that.

746
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:24,840
Speaker 3: I was her maid of honor in their wedding.

747
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:25,920
Speaker 1: Oh so yeah, special.

748
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 3: I couldn't be with both my sister in laws are

749
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 3: amazing their sisters. I always wanted, Oh oh yeah, they

750
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 3: perfectly family.

751
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,799
Speaker 1: If you all have Thanksgiving dinner, I wouldn't mind being

752
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 1: invited one.

753
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 2: Day, or if y'all wanted, I could just like fit

754
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 2: in y'all be like, oh, there's cousin.

755
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:47,919
Speaker 3: Ron everyone does. Everyone does.

756
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 2: Or going to a restaurant because I just want to

757
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 2: go in order the whole menu because I know I'm

758
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 2: not paying, so I'm just gonna order, Okay, bring me

759
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:55,640
Speaker 2: the lobster.

760
00:37:55,800 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 3: And I don't know, you might you might have you

761
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 3: might have to guess on the on the on the

762
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 3: bill that.

763
00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 1: She makes money too.

764
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:19,360
Speaker 2: I'm not money. Let's get into your Instagram because it

765
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:23,160
Speaker 2: is the pictures, the way it's laid out, like everything

766
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 2: about it. It's like clearly I look at it and

767
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, what professional is doing this? It's it's amazing,

768
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 2: So talk to us about like why you there's like

769
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:36,799
Speaker 2: a style to it, is there?

770
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:40,439
Speaker 3: I mean I I don't try to fit any kind

771
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:44,839
Speaker 3: of style. I think that I just try to be myself,

772
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:48,759
Speaker 3: and it's it gets sometimes imposter syndrome, like I'm not

773
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:50,440
Speaker 3: doing enough, I'm not good enough, because then I go

774
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:52,600
Speaker 3: look at other people's pages and I'm like, wow, that's

775
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 3: so esthetically pleasing. Every every filter is perfect with the other.

776
00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 3: But that's just not me. Like if I've been hours

777
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 3: editing a photo or thinking about, you know, what I'm

778
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 3: going to post, like, it doesn't feel genuine and authentic.

779
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 3: And I want everything that I do to feel genuine,

780
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,359
Speaker 3: authentic because that's how I've gotten to this point. And

781
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 3: it's much harder to be someone else than it is

782
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 3: just to be me. And I don't have time, Like,

783
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:19,759
Speaker 3: I just don't have time. It's exhausting. So but thank you.

784
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 3: I appreciate that. I know, I want people to look

785
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 3: at my Instagram and know that that's me, and it's

786
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:29,360
Speaker 3: there's nothing fake about it. There's nothing you know, highlight

787
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 3: really like I like to be. I like to show

788
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 3: all the good and the bad of my life because

789
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 3: it's normal.

790
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:39,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you do an awesome job, and it's

791
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 1: it is definitely aesthetically pleasing, but without being you know,

792
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 1: it doesn't it does not look fake or forced. So

793
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:50,600
Speaker 1: in in in the content creator world, that's really it's

794
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 1: it's people don't really realize how hard it is actually

795
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:57,319
Speaker 1: to put out good content. Aesthetically pleasing content. Ye, so

796
00:39:57,760 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 1: you know, kudos to you for doing a great job.

797
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:03,239
Speaker 1: You're welcome. Yes, Now, are you gonna have I'm sorry, okay,

798
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:04,719
Speaker 1: go ahead, no, no, do you have I own to get

799
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 1: into this topic?

800
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 3: Okay? Are you going to.

801
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:09,399
Speaker 1: You know, after your son is born?

802
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:10,399
Speaker 2: By the way, do we have a name?

803
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 1: Is it an s name?

804
00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 2: Do you know it's a it's an so y'all are

805
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:18,000
Speaker 2: going to have an empire of d's like, it's yes, okay,

806
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:20,920
Speaker 2: very good. Are you going to show a bunch of

807
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 2: pictures of him?

808
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 3: Like?

809
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 2: How do you feel about social media and your child?

810
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:26,759
Speaker 2: Because it's all it's it's a little tricky. It's a

811
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:27,320
Speaker 2: little tricky.

812
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:27,840
Speaker 1: Yeah.

813
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 3: I mean I've seen both sides of that. Sephan and

814
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 3: Aisha they show their kids a lot, Seth and Kelli

815
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:38,160
Speaker 3: don't show theirs that much. Just the back of the mind.

816
00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 1: I didn't even realize he had a child.

817
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 3: Mm hmm. Yeah, so I've seen both sides. Honestly, when

818
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:47,560
Speaker 3: he's when my baby's first born, I'm going to really

819
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:49,600
Speaker 3: determine on if he's cute or not.

820
00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:52,040
Speaker 2: Because the last thing that's what I want, that is

821
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,440
Speaker 2: last thing I want is for him to be eighteen

822
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:56,799
Speaker 2: twenty years old, be like, ma, why is this picture on.

823
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 3: The online of me looking af Like I don't want that.

824
00:40:59,560 --> 00:40:59,799
Speaker 3: I'm not.

825
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:05,320
Speaker 1: But wait, if you people like wait, don't feel rushed

826
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 1: to put your child if he looks like an alien.

827
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:11,760
Speaker 3: You're looking to his hand, his little foot.

828
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,799
Speaker 1: Wait, he fills out a little bit. Yes, I mean

829
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:19,760
Speaker 1: my my son Carter that was talking to you earlier.

830
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:22,720
Speaker 1: He was I don't like to use the word ugly.

831
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:30,480
Speaker 2: Yes, he was cute and look at him now.

832
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:32,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

833
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:35,640
Speaker 3: But like I I got a d M one time

834
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 3: from this woman who was like yelling at me because

835
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:40,759
Speaker 3: I didn't show pictures of my nieces and nephew. She's like, oh,

836
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:43,719
Speaker 3: you have her pictures like your dogs. And I'm like, okay, well,

837
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 3: first of that's not your responsibility like my dogs she

838
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:49,399
Speaker 3: and I like was like, well, ma'am, I don't now.

839
00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:51,520
Speaker 3: I definitely don't feel comfortable showing pictures of my of

840
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 3: my nieces and nephews because like, there's people like you

841
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 3: who are incessant on the fact that I post them

842
00:41:57,719 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 3: and what are you going to do with them? And

843
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,760
Speaker 3: why do you need so badly? And their parents post

844
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:05,400
Speaker 3: pictures of them so and so that to me, like

845
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 3: really with a red flag about you know, the craziness

846
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 3: of people. But I don't want people to dictate, you know,

847
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 3: what I do or don't do. So it's really game

848
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 3: time decision on little baby boy.

849
00:42:17,200 --> 00:42:21,239
Speaker 2: But okay, all right, Yeah, he's gonna be cute, stop it.

850
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:22,320
Speaker 1: It's gonna be adorable.

851
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 2: Stop six months from now exactly, and he's gonna be guccy.

852
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 2: Down to the socks I already know.

853
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 3: Listen, I got them. I got them hand me downs

854
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 3: from Stephan and Aisha.

855
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 2: There we go, listen, there we go, There we go,

856
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 2: because you know they only wear it one time.

857
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 3: And yes, exactly the whole bag at Gucci hand me downs.

858
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 1: So we're good.

859
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 3: Must be nice, must be nice.

860
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:52,319
Speaker 1: All right, Well, before we let you go, let's talk

861
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 1: a little bit more about mental health, specifically seasonal depression,

862
00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:59,879
Speaker 1: because I'll be honest, the other day it was like two,

863
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 1: it was gloomy outside, and I was on my couch

864
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 1: and I just felt this like heaviness over me, and

865
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, it's starting already. So

866
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:14,880
Speaker 1: you know, do you have any advice or remedies or

867
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:17,359
Speaker 1: just you know, any words of wisdom that you can

868
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 1: give to people who may be around this time of

869
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 1: year are starting to feel different and they don't know why.

870
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 3: Right, Definitely, it's a normal thing. A lot of people

871
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 3: who don't experience depression during the other seasonal months of

872
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:32,160
Speaker 3: the year experienced it during this time. So no, that

873
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 3: you're not alone. One thing for sure, especially for us

874
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:38,480
Speaker 3: Black people, we need to be Vitamin D is huge

875
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:40,760
Speaker 3: because we get vitamin D from the sun and vitamin

876
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 3: D deficiency. So get your get supple vitamin D supplement.

877
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 3: Make sure you're taking that because it will not only

878
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:50,800
Speaker 3: help you mentally but also physically. It gets your energy

879
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 3: back up and stuff like that.

880
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,759
Speaker 2: And now, so why is that like not a universal thing.

881
00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:57,320
Speaker 2: Why is that like geared towards Black people.

882
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 3: We're just known to have low vitamin D deficiency. I mean,

883
00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 3: I'm sure white people can get it as well during

884
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 3: this time, but especially Black people.

885
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 2: And I didn't know that was a thing. I don't

886
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:13,800
Speaker 2: know that was a thing. Okay, So that's good for sure.

887
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 3: It could be very isolating too, because it's cold outside,

888
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 3: it's dark faster, you don't really want to go anywhere,

889
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:23,760
Speaker 3: but make an effort to if you feel safe. Obviously

890
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 3: we're still living in COVID times. Uh see, people go

891
00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:31,720
Speaker 3: get drinks with people, go hang out, just walk around

892
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 3: something with someone other than yourself, because that's going to

893
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 3: be really good to get you out of that mood.

894
00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:40,239
Speaker 3: For me, it's not. I mean, it kind of might

895
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 3: not be too late. I have a summer scent and

896
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:44,640
Speaker 3: a winter scent. So if I will be like a

897
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:49,400
Speaker 3: perfume if I'm feeling really down, I'm feeling really down

898
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:52,719
Speaker 3: or really like just depressed or whatever, I'll spray my

899
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 3: summer scent and that sense. Use your senses during this time.

900
00:44:57,239 --> 00:45:01,799
Speaker 3: Eyes ears, now, watermelon. I don't know something that you

901
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 3: know can bring you to summary. Yes, that's my craving

902
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 3: right now.

903
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:09,160
Speaker 2: Oh mean, I was gonna I was gonna ask you

904
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 2: that because I was gonna tell you my child, my

905
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:15,400
Speaker 2: my pregnancy cravings were ridiculous. But I love that, so either,

906
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 2: So spray something that's going to remind you of like

907
00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 2: the summertime and happy and sunshine and all that.

908
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:24,360
Speaker 1: I love this, So throw the pumpkin spice in the trash.

909
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 2: But I love me a little pumpkin, yeah, a little.

910
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:33,960
Speaker 3: But I don't be afraid of either. During right, Christmas,

911
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:36,839
Speaker 3: but a pinata be real good, Like that is good.

912
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:39,240
Speaker 2: But a lot of people talk about in the wintertime

913
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 2: it's like cuffing seasons, like when you got to make

914
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 2: sure you gotta boo so and but now that you

915
00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:46,880
Speaker 2: kind of like broke it down, like make sure you're engaging,

916
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 2: make sure you're going out going and you have drinks whatever.

917
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:51,239
Speaker 2: That makes sense. Like I couldn't understand cuffing season, but

918
00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:55,440
Speaker 2: I understand it now because you do need somebody, are you.

919
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 2: You should have somebody that you can just kind of

920
00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 2: like cuddle up with, yeah, you know, hang out with whatever,

921
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:03,360
Speaker 2: go to the movies with whatever.

922
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 1: And my thing is, you know, I don't like to

923
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:06,880
Speaker 1: leave the house, right Yeah, And I think half the

924
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 1: battle is like putting on clothes and make it literally hair.

925
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's hard. It's hard. Self care is it's easy

926
00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:16,840
Speaker 3: to talk about, but it's hard to get going. But

927
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:19,759
Speaker 3: you always feel better afterwards. Like it's like working out.

928
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 3: It's really hard to start working out, but as soon

929
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:24,319
Speaker 3: as you're done, you're like, I mean I'm tired, but

930
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:27,399
Speaker 3: I'm so happy I did that. So there, just think

931
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:31,799
Speaker 3: about the reward at the end of getting started, and

932
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:34,800
Speaker 3: then also, like my last advice with the seasonal depression

933
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:37,359
Speaker 3: is no that this is a season, like there will

934
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 3: be an end, the sun will come out again, the

935
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 3: days will be longer, it'll be lighter outside longer again.

936
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 3: So it's just as time span. There is light at

937
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:48,880
Speaker 3: the end of the tunnel, and so it's not maybe

938
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 3: like this forever.

939
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

940
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:50,839
Speaker 2: Oh I love that.

941
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 1: No, I mean I love that. It's so funny. So

942
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:54,920
Speaker 1: the other day I was talking to one and I

943
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 1: was like, I'm starting to feel it and he was like,

944
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 1: you know, he was like, I'm like, do you feel

945
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:01,239
Speaker 1: the same thing, And he was like no. I said,

946
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:03,760
Speaker 1: remember when we lived in Portland. We lived in Portland, Oregon,

947
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:07,680
Speaker 1: and he you know, it rained every day literally from

948
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 1: like early December until the middle of May. It literally

949
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 1: rained like every single day. So I was like, whan

950
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 1: you remember the family when we lived in Portland, Like

951
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:19,279
Speaker 1: how when it rained every day, you just it just

952
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:21,360
Speaker 1: didn't feel great. And he was like yeah. I was like,

953
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 1: well that's how I feel, you know this time of

954
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 1: year until probably early February, right or maybe you know,

955
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 1: maybe March. And he was like wow, like you know,

956
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:36,880
Speaker 1: he doesn't feel that at all, and I'm just like, damn, like, yes,

957
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:39,719
Speaker 1: that must be nice. So I'm like, I don't I mean, yeah,

958
00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 1: I gotta really make an effort because it does keep

959
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:44,880
Speaker 1: me in the house, like the cold, the dark, you know,

960
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:48,520
Speaker 1: just balling up on the couch, not wanting to get dressed.

961
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 1: Not it's it, but it becomes debilitating because I do

962
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:53,880
Speaker 1: feel like I do miss out on a lot of stuff.

963
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, for me to get rid of out of the

964
00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 2: house in the winter time, it's a struggling pushed the mirror.

965
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, yeah, And I feel bad because I think

966
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:08,239
Speaker 1: people think that I'm being like anti social and it's

967
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:10,160
Speaker 1: just like no, I'm.

968
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 3: Just a lot of energy.

969
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:14,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, or like they're taking it personal because I'm not

970
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:15,879
Speaker 1: hanging out with them, and I'm like, well, don't take

971
00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:16,160
Speaker 1: a person.

972
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:22,839
Speaker 2: I'm not hanging out with anyone right good, But yes,

973
00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 2: I gotta make more of an effort because it's yes

974
00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 2: for sure. And then my mom always said, you know,

975
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 2: if you are having a bad day, just put on

976
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 2: lipstick and I'll make you feel better. So I like

977
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 2: live by that. Okay, yeah, you always have to have

978
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:36,240
Speaker 2: your lips popping.

979
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 1: I like, you feel bad and so put lipstick on.

980
00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 1: And just looking at yourself in the mirror.

981
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:41,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, and just say I'm beautiful, Like I'm beautiful. I

982
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 2: don't care what you say.

983
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:46,400
Speaker 3: Affirmation. Yeah, but instead of talking, affirmations will start becoming

984
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:47,000
Speaker 3: a real thing.

985
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 1: Yes, I do say though. One of my advice is,

986
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 1: like when you're feeling down, is just to like smile

987
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:55,520
Speaker 1: and brend because when the smile, like the endorphins you

988
00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 1: get from the smile, like really changes your mood. So

989
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 1: sometimes you just like sit there and just like put

990
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,760
Speaker 1: on the big, cheesiest smile and you can like feel

991
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:04,839
Speaker 1: a little bit better, feel little endorphin rush.

992
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 4: Yes.

993
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:11,839
Speaker 2: So sure, well you have been amazing, amazing we got

994
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:13,399
Speaker 2: you know, you didn't mind us getting all up into

995
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 2: the curry lea business.

996
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:17,800
Speaker 3: All right, I'll tell all this, I'll tell all the stuff.

997
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:19,399
Speaker 3: Nobody else wants to talk, I'll talk.

998
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:22,359
Speaker 2: And if we ever see y'all out, I'm just coming

999
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 2: to sit down at the table. They will never know

1000
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 2: I'm not family.

1001
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:26,240
Speaker 1: They won't.

1002
00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:27,719
Speaker 3: They won't.

1003
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 2: Me and Robert are coming to the family reunion, okay,

1004
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 2: because I think it's going to be off the chain.

1005
00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:37,360
Speaker 3: Always it's always a good time. People never want to

1006
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:39,000
Speaker 3: leave us that's.

1007
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 1: Awesome. Well you have been. Do you have anything you

1008
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:48,520
Speaker 1: want to like promote? Well, what's your Instagram page? You

1009
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 1: have websites or anything else going on?

1010
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 3: My Instagram is just my name is Sidel Curry Lee.

1011
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:56,319
Speaker 3: And then my podcast because life with sidell uh on

1012
00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 3: Instagram and anywhere you listen to your podcast.

1013
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:03,240
Speaker 2: So yes, yes, you're you're in. I'm recommend your Instagram.

1014
00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:06,319
Speaker 2: It's beautiful. Like I just throw pictures up because it's

1015
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:10,360
Speaker 2: just it's a mess, but it's fine. But yours is

1016
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:14,719
Speaker 2: absolutely beautiful. And thank you so much. Always remember never

1017
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:17,879
Speaker 2: forget live your life, either reasonable or shade. You know what,

1018
00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 2: we weren't even shady with you.

1019
00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:24,800
Speaker 3: We have we see, lady.

1020
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:27,480
Speaker 2: I mean, we tried to throw your system law under

1021
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:28,040
Speaker 2: the bus, but.

1022
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 1: You would lie.

1023
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:36,040
Speaker 3: I can, I can't. All right, there's nothing, okay, all right.

1024
00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:38,520
Speaker 2: So this was a very reasonable episode people, which we

1025
00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 2: probably need some of those.

1026
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:43,240
Speaker 1: Yes, we got a balance, balance called balance.

1027
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 2: Yes, thank you so much. We appreciate you, all right, girl,

1028
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:55,160
Speaker 2: thank you right. Reasonably Shady is a production of the

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Speaker 2: Black Effect podcast Network.

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Speaker 1: Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen to your favorite shows

1032
00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 2: And you can connect with us on social media at

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