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Speaker 1: Hello, Hello.

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Speaker 2: How's it going Pretty fucking chill?

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Speaker 3: Dude, pretty fucking chill? Why is it going for chill?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: Yes, sir? Who is this?

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Speaker 2: Uh? You can call uh? I'm I'm down to go

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Speaker 2: by my former uh smash bro's name, Stud with the

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Speaker 2: money sign.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Stud with the money sign. Um.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 3: You sent me a lot of texts. I'm gonna read

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Speaker 3: all of them.

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Speaker 2: Uh yeah.

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Speaker 3: First of all, your name, your name is Chris. I

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Speaker 3: might just end up calling you that. You said, I'm Chris.

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Speaker 3: I'm violently hungover at work right now. You sent me

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Speaker 3: that about uh two months ago. Then you just said

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Speaker 3: I've been crashing the fuck out for the past two months,

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Speaker 3: got a haircut today, and I'm ready to be a menace, okay.

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Speaker 3: And then you said my name is Gannendorf. And then

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Speaker 3: you said anyone who manes Little Mac on Super Smash

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Speaker 3: Brothers is a bitch. And then you said I got

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Speaker 3: sent to jail on Valentine's Day and I'm out now.

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Speaker 3: So it sounds like you were a little bit too

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Speaker 3: much of a menace. So let's okay, let's get into

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Speaker 3: this here. So you said I've been crashing the fuck

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Speaker 3: out for the past two months. I got a haircut today.

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Speaker 3: I'm ready to be a menace? What does that mean?

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Speaker 2: So, like, basically, like when that was going on in

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Speaker 2: my life, I was just being belligerently drunk on a

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Speaker 2: on with my So. I got two baby moms. My

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Speaker 2: first one she doesn't I can't see my son. She

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Speaker 2: has a restrain order against me that I don't know

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Speaker 2: if it's still standing because it got put on a

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Speaker 2: temporary status. And then my second one is now withholding

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Speaker 2: my son away from me, And that was a big

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Speaker 2: contributing factor to like me constantly crashing out because she

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Speaker 2: blocked me on everything. She doesn't bring my son over

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Speaker 2: or anything anymore, and it just kind of like ultimately

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Speaker 3: I see, have two different baby mamas. Yeah, how old

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Speaker 3: are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm twenty nine. I'm turning thirty in July July fourty exact.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I have a birthday, And how old are the kids?

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Speaker 2: So my first one, his name's Arrows. He turned three

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Speaker 2: on January twenty second. And then my younger one. He's

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, so these are recent kids.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, pretty pretty recent.

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Speaker 3: And all right, let's start with the first one. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry you mentioned one as there stranding order, and

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Speaker 3: then the other one does block to you. What's the

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Speaker 2: So with the second one, we were kind of on

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Speaker 3: She took you away. I'm sorry, I'm getting all the

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Speaker 3: I'm getting all the people mixed up. She took you back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so.

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Speaker 3: After you gave her, after you gave her the hs V,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, And well so she didn't take me back.

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Speaker 2: Like we weren't officially together, but we were, at least

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Speaker 2: to my knowledge, we were like exclusively talking to each other.

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Speaker 2: like now we both have this lifelong fucking STD. But

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Speaker 2: Like I would text her like I would send her

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Speaker 3: Uh Okay, Chris, Yeah, well listen, Chris, did you speak

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Speaker 3: to do you such a real therapist?

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Speaker 2: Man? Uh? I? I did a long time ago, but

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Speaker 2: I was like probably like in high school. Uh and

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Speaker 2: I And so I've listened to your podcast for a

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Speaker 2: long time and like at some point how You're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: GPT about these kind of things.

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Speaker 3: Okay, what did chat GPT say?

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Speaker 2: Uh? I will talk to chat GPT like say like

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Speaker 3: Okay, So you said you you went to uh jail

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Speaker 3: on Valentine's Day and did you just get out?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got out on the fifteenth.

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Speaker 3: All right, so here there for a month. What I mean,

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Speaker 3: if you want to talk about it? What was up?

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Speaker 2: Oh? So okay? Also not a not another proudest moment,

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Speaker 3: So listen, Chris, I'm listen. I'm not a big I'm

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Speaker 3: not gonna sit here and be like try to you

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Speaker 3: be helpful. So like, Okay, so you're out of jail

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Speaker 3: now and you got this restraining order, Like what like

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Speaker 3: what's up? Man? Like, what what's the plan?

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Speaker 2: So my plan, because I thought I was gonna have

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Speaker 2: I got fired. So now I've rebuilt my resume. I

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Speaker 2: have been applying on Sundays. There's an AA meeting here

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Speaker 2: in the next city over for me. So I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: begin going back to AA because I went for like

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Speaker 2: like three years, and I thought I don't need this,

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Speaker 3: And so, okay, so you your wife is a restraining

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Speaker 3: order I get his second wife. Wait, okay, so I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: I haven't drank since I got out, and I don't

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Speaker 3: So, Okay, you match with this girl on a dating

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Speaker 3: You have your mom tell this girl that you match

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like like because I was already in there, and

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Speaker 3: Let's know you for one week.

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Speaker 3: long time ago, but you reconnected on the dating app? Yes, Okay,

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Speaker 3: What that's crazy?

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Speaker 3: Dude, that's crazy? Do you do? You know what?

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Speaker 3: So you went, you like did coke with this lady's

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Speaker 2: No? No? So uh right. So the way my mom

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Speaker 2: sixty nine, sixty nine, and this is how you spell never.

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Speaker 3: Never could have guests to that one, really outing yourself

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and if she I send her one of your episodes.

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Speaker 3: Did you have a phone number from tender or from

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Speaker 3: so you've been out for three days? Have you gone

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: Because so when when the impounded my truck? Whoever like

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Speaker 3: How far away does she live?

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Speaker 3: Okay, man, so what's the okay? Sorry man, I'm trying

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Speaker 3: Are you texting? Are you texting with her all the time?

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Speaker 2: I just texted her as soon as you called me back.

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Speaker 3: That's so funny. Okay, what's up with this lady? Is

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Speaker 3: Because I have to be honest, I like and no,

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Speaker 2: So right now? It's that like that that that that

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Speaker 2: just like I'm like, why, like why me? Like like

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Speaker 3: Are you handsome?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 2: I don't think I'm like handsome, but like, uh, I

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Speaker 3: Are you tall and skinny?

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Speaker 1: I am? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: a lot. That's a lot.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you can.

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Speaker 3: Let you can almost. There's plenty of people out there

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Speaker 2: short king because I am five foot eleven I'm not lying.

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00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:41,159
Speaker 3: You're five foot eleven.

441
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:43,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm five foot eleven.

442
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 3: Okay, that's way less baby mamas than I thought would

443
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 3: be tolerated at five foot eleven, or way more baby

444
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 3: mamas than I thought would be tolerated at five eleven.

445
00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:59,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I mean, like if you're not a six

446
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,439
Speaker 2: feet or tall, like you're a short king, and like

447
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 2: if I wore my boots, like like I'm just living

448
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:07,199
Speaker 2: a lie. Like it's like it's like I'm living the

449
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:08,200
Speaker 2: imposter syndrome.

450
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 3: Okay, So dude, man, this is crazy. So I hear Allkay,

451
00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 3: So I guess what what do we want for you?

452
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 4: Right?

453
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:24,440
Speaker 3: You clearly like if your life was a movie of

454
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:30,120
Speaker 3: some kind, this woman over the this this magical tender

455
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 3: uh rekindling woman would be there. Would probably be the

456
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 3: love interest of the movie. And if the movie had

457
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 3: a happy ending, you'd get to reconnect with your children.

458
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 3: You'd ride away with your lady and her son. You'd

459
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 3: have a nice you know, daughter daughter right with her daughter. Yeah,

460
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 3: you know, you quit drinking. You'd put on like a

461
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:59,480
Speaker 3: white shirt or something like that. Like you want to

462
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 3: you want you want some version of a happy ending

463
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 3: for yourself. Right, So what and right now, it's like, Okay,

464
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 3: you got out of jail, You've been sober for a month.

465
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 3: You've proven to yourself that you can at least do

466
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:14,439
Speaker 3: it for a month. If you can do it for

467
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:18,920
Speaker 3: a month, you can do it forever. So what's what's

468
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:23,639
Speaker 3: between not just knowing you and knowing your life better

469
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 3: than I know you and then I know your life.

470
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 3: What's between you and that happy ending?

471
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:34,959
Speaker 2: Honestly, it's being in this town because like when I

472
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 2: lived like away from like the people who candone and

473
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 2: like enable like the bad behavior and like the bad

474
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 2: influences and stuff like that. Because like every almost every

475
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 2: person in this town that like I'm friends with, like

476
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 2: like my my old my my old drug dealer lives

477
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 2: down the street. Two of them lived on the same block.

478
00:27:55,760 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 2: And Okay, like I I just think like completely like

479
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,199
Speaker 2: cutting myself off from like a majority of these people

480
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:07,920
Speaker 2: that enable and like condone to like drinking and driving

481
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:09,919
Speaker 2: and stuff like that. Like I think it's ideal to

482
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 2: just kind of like cut them off because I've been

483
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 2: in plenty of situations where like even after my second.

484
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:18,679
Speaker 1: Do you I excuse me?

485
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:23,119
Speaker 2: I thought I had a burp again, but uh, like

486
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:25,960
Speaker 2: I'd be putting in a position where like somebody would

487
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 2: be a little too too too drunk, like a little

488
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 2: more drunk than I am, and then I'd get acid

489
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:35,359
Speaker 2: to drive, and the person asking me to drive, I

490
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,560
Speaker 2: can't drive, and I'm like, well, I can't drive either,

491
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 2: And then I'm just like, you know what, fuck it, Like,

492
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 2: I'll just drive. I have drugs on me. I'll just

493
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 2: do a bunch of drugs right now, and then I'll

494
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:44,719
Speaker 2: be sobered up a little bit.

495
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 3: So normally I'll say this to that point, I think

496
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:51,960
Speaker 3: a lot of people will tell you, like, oh, you

497
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 3: can't blame the people around you, and you can't, But

498
00:28:55,840 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 3: I do think that there's a lot of uh validity

499
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 3: to your point that like the community that you're in

500
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 3: and the people you surround yourself in are actually genuinely

501
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 3: extremely important for like the kind of person that you become.

502
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 3: So you know, you can't really like blame your friends

503
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 3: for like enabling your like stuff that you're doing. But

504
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 3: I think you got the great sentiment going that you

505
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 3: should find a new environment, not just a place, but

506
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 3: people as well who like share your desires and sentiments

507
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:44,280
Speaker 3: to stop like making crazy ass decisions. I think AA

508
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 3: is a good thing for that. I think you know, however,

509
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 3: you can yeah, kind of build a new community that

510
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 3: won't be like where it won't be so easy to

511
00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 3: do the shit that you're doing and they'll be looking

512
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 3: at it and going like you know, what the fuck

513
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 3: more than like, yeah, this is totally normal and cool.

514
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 1: Yeah.

515
00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, because like it in the in the community that

516
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 2: I mean, like the community of friends that I have,

517
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 2: like that, like that is just a normal thing. So

518
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 2: it's like to everyone in my circle of friends, like

519
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 2: they're like, oh, like it's no big deal. Like just

520
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 2: an example, like two of my longest friends that I've

521
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 2: known here, Like these two dudes, they've been hanging out

522
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 2: for like the past like fifteen ish years on a

523
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,720
Speaker 2: daily basis, and they put down about a twenty pack

524
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 2: to thirty pack a day.

525
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 1: Whow Yeah, Like like.

526
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 2: It is extremely like just a normal thing to like

527
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 2: put down just multiple cases in a day. Like there's

528
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 2: nothing to do in this town. Like we live in

529
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 2: bump fuck basically nowhere we're surrounded by orchards, Like there's

530
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 2: drug dealers everywhere, and like if I go to the

531
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 2: next city over like twenty minutes South. I end up

532
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 2: in Bakersfield, and I used to be like in high school,

533
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 2: I was like really big and like the Super Smash

534
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,160
Speaker 2: Bros Community over here, and like I would help like coordinate,

535
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 2: like with local tournaments and like at my mom's house,

536
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 2: Like I think we had fucking mewtwo King come over

537
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 2: one time.

538
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 3: You had shut up. You had mewtwo King at your apartment?

539
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 3: Why your house?

540
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 2: Once it was some MLG guy I can't remember exactly

541
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 2: who his name was. And my friend that helped coordinate

542
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 2: all these Super Smash brow tournaments. He's competed in EVO

543
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 2: fucking for the Super Smash Pros competition.

544
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 3: Dude, I just had a weird moment just now. Can

545
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 3: I tell you where you're twenty nine? And you were like, yeah,

546
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 3: when I was in high school, I was helping organize

547
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 3: Super Smash Brothers tournaments and dude, I genuine dude, I woy.

548
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 3: I just had a genuinely crazy moment in my head.

549
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 3: I was like, Wow, this guy must be fucking old

550
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 3: or no, no, no, no, no no, no, it wasn't.

551
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 3: It wasn't that. It wasn't that. It was like, no, no,

552
00:31:57,800 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 3: it's not. Actually, I'm sorry. That's how I said that

553
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 3: this gout was old. I was like, huh, what do

554
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 3: you mean you were doing in high school? That was

555
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 3: like Super Smash Brothers was popping like kind of recently.

556
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 3: And then I remember that I'm about your age and

557
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 3: I also organized Super Smash Brothers tournaments when I was

558
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 3: in high school. And I'm like, oh fuck, I'm fuck

559
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 3: getting fucking old now.

560
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 2: Yeah what we're pushing thirty dude?

561
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 3: Yeah damn. I was like, wait, that was like two

562
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:26,719
Speaker 3: years ago and we're not it just it didn't make

563
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:30,040
Speaker 3: any sense to me. The math, yes, not was not mathing,

564
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 3: but yeah that's funny.

565
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 4: Huh.

566
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, So the point is so once you

567
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 3: get back into Smash Brothers, man, it's still around.

568
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 2: Okay, so funny enough. I still have my CRT TV.

569
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 2: I have like three game cubes, and I have all

570
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 2: the characters unlocked on Melee, and I have every every

571
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 2: every Moth pizza shit, I'm outside those the Moth but huh,

572
00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 2: like I have every I have every damn it. What

573
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 2: are the words? I'm like I could get back into,

574
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 2: but like, I don't know if the Kern County community

575
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 2: like really doubled in like Melee anymore.

576
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 3: Uh huh okay, well maybe not melee man, but like

577
00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 3: just spit something like whatever, smash ultimates fucking just something

578
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 3: something where you can show up regularly and like be

579
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 3: a part of society. Because that's what I think is

580
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 3: you want to get your kids back. I assume, Yeah, okay,

581
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:30,520
Speaker 3: so you I think the first step to like this

582
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 3: this fairy tale happy ending that we're talking about is

583
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 3: just like finding your way back to being a well

584
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 3: rounded human being where you feel like when you are,

585
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 3: like where you feel like you can be judged as

586
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 3: worthy of like being back in everyone's life. And I

587
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 3: told I totally totally think that that is achievable for you.

588
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 3: I think everything is there, right, but I think like

589
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 3: you got to kind of do this mental mapping out

590
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 3: of like what are the steps, what are the steps

591
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 3: of like of like just being able to like look

592
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 3: around and be like, I have a healthy life. I

593
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 3: don't feel like my emotions are running a muck. I'm not,

594
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 3: you know, the drugs aren't running a munk, the manias

595
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 3: not running a monk. Like I'm just like a healthy,

596
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:20,960
Speaker 3: normal fucking dude, and I'm ready to be a boring dad.

597
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 3: It's like how do you get there? Because that's the

598
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 3: first step. It was like the internal work of being like,

599
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:29,399
Speaker 3: all right, I'm worthy to like have my kids back,

600
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:33,919
Speaker 3: be a good uh you know whatever, boyfriend's stepdad, whatever

601
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 3: it is you want to be to this this this

602
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:43,839
Speaker 3: new this old new old flame person. Yeah, you know.

603
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,440
Speaker 3: So basically you just want to mentally map out like

604
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 3: how are you gonna get there?

605
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:48,319
Speaker 1: You know?

606
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:54,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it's like to me because like a little yeah,

607
00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 2: correct me if I'm using this term wrong. But I've

608
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:01,320
Speaker 2: heard younger people say that this is a lore drop

609
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 2: and I mean that will complete genuinity that I'm not

610
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 2: sure if I'm using this term correctly, but this.

611
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:08,759
Speaker 3: Is a large rope. Yes, we're we're getting a lot

612
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 3: of lower about you.

613
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:15,239
Speaker 2: Okay, cool, I'm young and hip now, but like I've

614
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,839
Speaker 2: been like so I started smoking cigarettes and we went

615
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 2: I was like ten, eleven years old, and I've been

616
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 2: drinking since I was about like twelve, And this is

617
00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:26,560
Speaker 2: probably like the first time. Like I've had like short

618
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 2: bursts of like being sober in the past, but like

619
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 2: nothing like more than a month. And I've never thought

620
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:34,400
Speaker 2: like being sober for more than a month would be

621
00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 2: at all achievable in life, because like, I'm not sorry,

622
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:40,719
Speaker 2: there's a bunch of cops going on.

623
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:43,279
Speaker 3: I don't know why keep going.

624
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:46,800
Speaker 2: But I never thought it would be like an achievable

625
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 2: feat in life because like it just seemed like the

626
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:51,879
Speaker 2: normal thing. And like, like, do you know the band

627
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 2: Motley Crew, I've heard of them? Okay, uh, Nikki six,

628
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:00,839
Speaker 2: they have a documentary called The Dirt and growing up

629
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 2: like Dad's been gone. Mom wore two full time jobs

630
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:05,799
Speaker 2: to like keep a roof over my head with my

631
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 2: brother and so so she wasn't exactly absent. She was

632
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 2: just working all the time because that's what she had

633
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 2: to do. And there's a quote from Nikki six in

634
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:19,800
Speaker 2: the movie, except it's not exactly verbatim that I feel

635
00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:21,880
Speaker 2: the same way, because it's not it wasn't my preference

636
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 2: of drug. But it's like the camera pans out from

637
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:26,799
Speaker 2: the outside of his mansion and like it slowly comes

638
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 2: in and like it goes to him in his tidy whities,

639
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 2: like basically on the verge of overdosing from heroin, and

640
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 2: he says, I've never felt a motherly love until I

641
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 2: met her, and her name was heroin, and to me,

642
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 2: like that completely resonated with me because like alcohol and

643
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:43,400
Speaker 2: like drugs and substance abaset was like it was an

644
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 2: easy thing to turn to as a kid, and so

645
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:50,400
Speaker 2: like now like I'm just like fuck, like I'm sober,

646
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:52,399
Speaker 2: Like I'm not feeling like shit all the time. Like

647
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 2: how do I maintain this? Like because getting sober is easy,

648
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:57,479
Speaker 2: but staying sober is the hard part.

649
00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, of course he do to maintain it. I

650
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:06,840
Speaker 3: guess one day at a time. Man, That's what they say.

651
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:10,880
Speaker 2: Right, yeah. Like and like because I used to be

652
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 2: like super into skateboarding and stuff like that, Like like

653
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 2: I was all on a doing death metal vocals as

654
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 2: like a teenager and playing Super Smash Bros. So like

655
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 2: now I'm like, like I can I can do the

656
00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 2: Super Smash Bros.

657
00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 1: Part.

658
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:25,839
Speaker 2: Skateboarding might be a little bit out of the question.

659
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:29,720
Speaker 2: I don't want to break an ankle or if I

660
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 2: do skate just like be careful mm hmm. But like

661
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:37,239
Speaker 2: I and like, I'm like rediscovering a lot of things

662
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 2: about myself again because it's like it's been so long

663
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:42,879
Speaker 2: of like not being sober at all and like understanding

664
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 2: who I am anymore as a person. Who's like, like,

665
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 2: what do I even enjoy? Like do I enjoy those

666
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 2: things anymore?

667
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:49,600
Speaker 4: Mmm?

668
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 1: So, like this is a whole new adventure, the whole

669
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 1: new world.

670
00:37:57,719 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 3: It is a whole new adventure. Well, i'd look at

671
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 3: let's at least you're going on the adventure, right. I mean,

672
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:04,400
Speaker 3: we have a we have guys call into this podcast

673
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 3: who have similar problems and are are kind of they're

674
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:12,359
Speaker 3: actually a step behind. They're actually a step or two

675
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 3: behind where you are. Where they they actually don't even

676
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:21,280
Speaker 3: believe that there is an adventure to go on, right, Yeah,

677
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:26,480
Speaker 3: Like that in and of itself is a important thing.

678
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 3: The fact that you're like, Okay, I'm gonna walk, I'm

679
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 3: gonna walk this road, I'm gonna do this thing. I

680
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 3: know what I have to do, and I'm gonna fucking

681
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:36,480
Speaker 3: do it, versus like, oh, there's no hope on a

682
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 3: piece of shit, I should die, you know, all these

683
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 3: crazy thoughts. So so look, man, I think like staying

684
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 3: sane is just a thing you have to try to

685
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:54,319
Speaker 3: do every day. And so I don't know, I'm kind

686
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:56,360
Speaker 3: of talking a little bit of nonsense here. I appreciate

687
00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 3: you sharing all of this stuff with us, but uh,

688
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:01,560
Speaker 3: I I think just like staying saying it is just

689
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:06,200
Speaker 3: something you just kind of fucking have to try to. Dude,

690
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 3: being an adult is just like you wake up, you

691
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 3: try again. You know, you fucking just keep trying. So

692
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 3: that's that's what what you just do. Man's keep keep

693
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 3: keep trying to not drink and not kill yourself. That's

694
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 3: that's the the best way to do it.

695
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 2: You seeing the whole like keep trying thing. I'm gonna

696
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:28,920
Speaker 2: shout out my favorite book right now. It's called A

697
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:31,279
Speaker 2: Million Little Pieces by James Fray, And what you said

698
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,320
Speaker 2: just completely reminded me of what the author says in

699
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,440
Speaker 2: the book, because like it's about him going to rehabbing,

700
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 2: like him struggling like to maintain sobriety even in rehabbing,

701
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 2: like all the emotional like difficulties that he has to

702
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,840
Speaker 2: navigate and everything, and and he he says in the book,

703
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:50,759
Speaker 2: whatever it takes, just hold on, Just keep fucking holding on,

704
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 2: is what he says.

705
00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 3: Do you know that book got like you know that

706
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 3: guy got in a lot of trouble because he's made

707
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:57,840
Speaker 3: the book up, right, did he?

708
00:39:58,840 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 2: Oh?

709
00:39:59,040 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 3: Fuck, you didn't know about.

710
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:04,760
Speaker 2: Any of No? I didn't wait wait, wait.

711
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 3: Wait wait wait wait, I'm I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I

712
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 3: thought you knew Wait you didn't know about this? No?

713
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:13,759
Speaker 2: Wait wait what did you get in touble for? I have?

714
00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 2: Are you?

715
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:18,520
Speaker 3: You're okay? You're fucking skateboarding super Smash Brothers.

716
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:18,839
Speaker 2: Guy?

717
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:20,239
Speaker 3: You watch South Park, don't you?

718
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 4: Uh?

719
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 2: Not really? But like I do. You've never seen?

720
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 3: Dude? You said you've you don't really like South Park?

721
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:29,919
Speaker 2: No? No, I do like it, but like I don't

722
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 2: really watch it, Like I don't have whatever streaming platform

723
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:32,840
Speaker 2: it's on.

724
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 3: Okay, streaming platform, dude, you're like you watched on like

725
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 3: the TV that you play Melee on. Anyway, do you

726
00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 3: have you seen this episode of South Park called A

727
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:45,800
Speaker 3: Million Little Fibers?

728
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 2: Uh? No, wait hold on, you said it's a Million

729
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 2: Little Fibers.

730
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm so sorry that I have to do this

731
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 3: to you, but uh yeah, there's a South Pak episode

732
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 3: called a Million Little You know Towley?

733
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:57,799
Speaker 1: Right?

734
00:40:59,200 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 2: Yeah?

735
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 3: Okay, So so they make basically in the in that episode,

736
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 3: they make fun of this book. Towley writes a memoir

737
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 3: and then like goes on Oprah and then Towleie gets

738
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:11,799
Speaker 3: in trouble because it turns out he made up a

739
00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:15,440
Speaker 3: lot of his memoir and they're basically parodying this book.

740
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:20,839
Speaker 2: I am reading the little uh summary on Google as

741
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 2: as you said it, and I see Towley sitting next

742
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:24,799
Speaker 2: to Oprah.

743
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:27,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, but this is but this it's based off of

744
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:29,840
Speaker 3: a real thing with the real author where he got

745
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 3: in trouble for making up that book. I'm sorry to

746
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 3: do this to you when you said that this is

747
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:36,319
Speaker 3: the book, I'm so sorry. You're like, You're like, this

748
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 3: is the most inspiring quote from my favorite book. It

749
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:40,879
Speaker 3: keeps me going every day, and I'm like, turns out,

750
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 3: I'm like, you know it's all a fraud, right, I'm

751
00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 3: man should keep my mouth shut.

752
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:49,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna DM this motherfucker on Instagram. I swear

753
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 2: to God, are you reading. I'm gonna take a screenshot

754
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 2: of Towlee. I'm gonna take the picture of Tali with

755
00:41:57,280 --> 00:42:03,440
Speaker 2: the fucking mustache and a little fucking I'm blanking on

756
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 2: the investigator's name, like the famous investigator who has the corn.

757
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:07,840
Speaker 3: Kob pipe, Sherlock Holmes.

758
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:10,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, his Sherlock Holmes has. I'm taking his picture and

759
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:13,840
Speaker 2: I'm just sending it to James fray On Instagram. He

760
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:17,399
Speaker 2: will probably never see it because now his book is fake.

761
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 3: Damn. Ok yeah large part. Yeah, there we go a

762
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:31,240
Speaker 3: million lli pieces. After a six week investigation, the Smoking

763
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 3: Gun Publishing articles saying that they described fabrications in Frey's

764
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 3: account of his drug abuse experiences, life and criminal record,

765
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 3: Frey responded to the claims, saying, I've never denied, I've

766
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:51,240
Speaker 3: altered small details. I stand by the book as being

767
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 3: the essential truth of my life.

768
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:55,239
Speaker 2: Boy.

769
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 3: Then he appeared on Oprah again, and this time he

770
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:00,399
Speaker 3: said that the same demons that had made and turned

771
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 3: to alcohol and other drugs had also driven him to

772
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:10,800
Speaker 3: fabricate crucial portions of his memoir. So listen, so listen, listen.

773
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 3: Actually I'm gonna you know what, Let's do this. Let's

774
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 3: do this, Chris. You said your name was Yeah, Chris.

775
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 3: I think you can, if you really want to. I

776
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:20,760
Speaker 3: think you can still find inspiration in James Fray. Because

777
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 3: because James Fray, what he did was he he did.

778
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:26,759
Speaker 3: He did your version of getting a haircut and being

779
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 3: ready to be a menace, which is he got really

780
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:35,719
Speaker 3: fucked up and wrote a fake memoir, which sounds like

781
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 3: something you might do if you got really fucked up

782
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:41,719
Speaker 3: and we're doing a bunch of crazy stuff. So you

783
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:43,759
Speaker 3: can still see yourself in this guy.

784
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's that's not far from Drew.

785
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:58,719
Speaker 3: M all right. Well anyway, sorry for ruining this book

786
00:43:58,760 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 3: for you.

787
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 2: Okay, now I need to tell tell my my lady

788
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 2: about this.

789
00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 1: It doesn't really hurt.

790
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:12,800
Speaker 3: Chris, keep trying, keep doing anything. Thank you for sharing

791
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 3: all this stuff about yourself. I appreciate your vulnerability as always.

792
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 3: Was this helpful for you? Was this a good conversation

793
00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:20,920
Speaker 3: to have?

794
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:26,439
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, two ten in the morning right now,

795
00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:30,319
Speaker 2: and I'm just gonna shout out shafter in Schafter California.

796
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 2: I don't know they didn't expect you to call me

797
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 2: because I tried calling like five times before you head

798
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:38,320
Speaker 2: cold and I was like, I was like, I'm just

799
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 2: gonna keep watching Animal Kingdom on my silly little iPad,

800
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 2: and and then I saw a call and I was like,

801
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:46,040
Speaker 2: I know this number. I I'm gonna answer this. I

802
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:47,279
Speaker 2: don't even have to ask who it is.

803
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 3: Well, Chris, is there anything else? Who I say to

804
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 3: the people of the computer before we go.

805
00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 2: If any of you guys played Little Mac, you fucking suck.

806
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 2: I don't care fight me.

807
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 3: Thanks Chris. Also, oh yeah, go ahead.

808
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:05,960
Speaker 2: Also if anyone knows about the current County Smash prostage

809
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 2: that started at my mom's house when I.

810
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:10,720
Speaker 3: Was sixteen, Thank you for calling Chris.

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00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 2: Thank well, have a good night. Get wait wait wait,

812
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 2: I have one last question that I really wanted to

813
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 2: ask before before you let me go go ahead. If

814
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 2: I take my son as soon as I get a

815
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 2: chance to go to one of your shows, if I

816
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 2: take him in a baby Get Go costume and take

817
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:29,919
Speaker 2: a sword, can you knight him into the get Nation

818
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 2: on video for me? Please listen.

819
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:35,440
Speaker 3: I don't if you just got it, like if you

820
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:37,279
Speaker 3: just got your custody back, you don't want to be

821
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 3: doing child to be a shit like that.

822
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:40,680
Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair.

823
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 2: What was like a like a styrofoam sword.

824
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 3: Bringing a child to my show is abuse of everyone

825
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 3: else who came. Actually, I think there, I mean they

826
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:56,799
Speaker 3: shouldn't be. They should be like I think all the

827
00:45:56,800 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 3: shows are like eight. I think there's been like like

828
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,880
Speaker 3: maybe teenagers have come to the shows, but never like

829
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 3: hold your son. He's like one two.

830
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 2: Uh one and a half and another one's three.

831
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 3: Oh, they're gonna have a bad time.

832
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 2: I'll just be outside the venue.

833
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,320
Speaker 3: If you really want to stand outside of the venue

834
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 3: with your kid, I'll uh yeah, I'll night I'll night

835
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 3: your child.

836
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 2: Fuck yeah, I'm gonna I'm gonna do everything in my

837
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:28,480
Speaker 2: power so that way he can be get nighted into

838
00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 2: the get nation. Thank loll fucking love your dog.

839
00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:32,040
Speaker 3: Thank you, Chris. I appreciate you.

840
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 2: Good luck man, Thanks man, have a good night.

841
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:41,399
Speaker 3: That was Chris. If you're three years old and you're

842
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 3: listening to this podcast, I would appreciate if you stay

843
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 3: at home from the live shows. If you're above the

844
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 3: age of eighteen I think in Canada sixteen some places

845
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 3: unfortunately twenty one. But if you're reasonably an adult, then

846
00:46:57,600 --> 00:46:59,759
Speaker 3: you should come to the show. Therapy Gecko tour dot

847
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:07,680
Speaker 3: com to get tickets and many places around the universe. Actually,

848
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:09,279
Speaker 3: you know what, fuck it. If you're three years old

849
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 3: and you're listening to this podcast like on your own right,

850
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 3: Like if you're three years old and somebody else is

851
00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 3: this podcast near you, this doesn't count. But if you're

852
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:20,840
Speaker 3: three years old and you managed to go to Spotify

853
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 3: click on the podcast and you're like actually genuinely listening,

854
00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:27,360
Speaker 3: you can come Oh yeah, you can come if you

855
00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:30,400
Speaker 3: if you're like an actual genuine listener and fan of

856
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:33,200
Speaker 3: the podcast and you're three years old, then you know,

857
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:38,399
Speaker 3: go for it. Hello, Yo, what's up?

858
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:42,440
Speaker 4: Is this the therapy? Get go right now?

859
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:44,839
Speaker 3: Yes, sir, this is the therapy, Get go right now?

860
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:47,880
Speaker 3: And who is this right now that I am speaking to?

861
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:53,319
Speaker 4: Oh do your My name is Jonathon Jonnason, so I

862
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:55,640
Speaker 4: go by John John John John.

863
00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:57,880
Speaker 2: I like that.

864
00:47:57,880 --> 00:47:59,799
Speaker 3: That's cute. Did somebody give you that name or did

865
00:47:59,840 --> 00:48:02,000
Speaker 3: you give it to yourself?

866
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:06,359
Speaker 4: Now? My friend from like elementary gave me that name

867
00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:10,480
Speaker 4: in like firstrate, and then after that I just like stuck.

868
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:13,680
Speaker 3: With it, John John. I have to ask you, are

869
00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 3: you okay? Because you sound you sound like you just

870
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 3: woke up.

871
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:23,800
Speaker 4: No, I'm from I'm fucking faded half an edible.

872
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:26,040
Speaker 3: You're fade off and edible.

873
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:30,040
Speaker 4: Yeah. And then I saw your story and I was like, bro,

874
00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:31,680
Speaker 4: I God, I call this dude.

875
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:33,240
Speaker 3: Right now an edible?

876
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:33,360
Speaker 1: What?

877
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 3: Uh? Oh John John? What are you doing right now

878
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:41,880
Speaker 3: that you're fade off of an edible?

879
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:46,280
Speaker 4: Dude? I was like, I was a takeing some notes

880
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 4: and then I was setting ahead of bed and then

881
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 4: I saw your story an.

882
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 3: Article you were taking notes.

883
00:48:57,080 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 4: On what astronomy? For astronomy because I have an exam tomorrow.

884
00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:07,480
Speaker 3: So you are up at what two o'clock in the morning?

885
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:13,880
Speaker 4: Oh no, it's I mean like Kelly, so like twelve am.

886
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 3: Okay, you're at at twelve am and you are faded

887
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 3: off an edible studying the universe. What was the most

888
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 3: interesting thing that you learned about the universe in your

889
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:27,719
Speaker 3: notes that you wrote down?

890
00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:34,960
Speaker 4: Hmmm, that's a good one. I'm laugh to like, look

891
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,239
Speaker 4: thank at them because it's pretty cool.

892
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 3: Okay, you should know this. This could be on the test.

893
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:45,800
Speaker 3: What's the coolest thing about the universe that could be

894
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:47,279
Speaker 3: on the test?

895
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 1: Her?

896
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 4: Uh?

897
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:55,359
Speaker 3: Do you normally get faded when you study for a test?

898
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:55,920
Speaker 2: No?

899
00:49:56,120 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 4: This is not like first time?

900
00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 3: And is it making you better or worse?

901
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:10,480
Speaker 4: In between? In between like total flight?

902
00:50:14,920 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm here, but how's your not going?

903
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:17,919
Speaker 1: Though?

904
00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:19,479
Speaker 3: How's my night going?

905
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:22,279
Speaker 4: Yeah?

906
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 3: Uh, I'm actual, I'm in Tokyo right now. It's five pm.

907
00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:33,399
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's right, I'm here talking to you. But anyway, listen, listen.

908
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:35,280
Speaker 3: Who cares about any who cares about anything?

909
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:37,480
Speaker 2: John? John?

910
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:39,560
Speaker 3: Is there a particular reason why you called.

911
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 4: I don't know. I just wanted to give it a

912
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,399
Speaker 4: shot because I started calling you before when you post it,

913
00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:50,280
Speaker 4: like when you post about it, okay, And to be honest,

914
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:51,920
Speaker 4: I didn't really think I was gonna be able to

915
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:52,680
Speaker 4: like talk to you.

916
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:56,240
Speaker 3: So John, John, how's your life going as a whole?

917
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 3: I know you have this test tomorrow, I mean, but

918
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 3: outside of that, how's everything going?

919
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 4: Schooling on? Like, I've been like, looky tweaking out about

920
00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 4: school and I feel like it's kind of not for

921
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:10,880
Speaker 4: me at times?

922
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:13,320
Speaker 3: That is not for you? What is causing you to

923
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:14,879
Speaker 3: tweak out?

924
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 4: Like I just can't get like in the mindset to

925
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:23,239
Speaker 4: like care about it, if like that makes sense? You know?

926
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:24,920
Speaker 3: Do you care about anything?

927
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:31,040
Speaker 4: My girlfriend and skateboarding?

928
00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 3: Wow, that's pretty sweet. How long have you been with

929
00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:35,760
Speaker 3: your girlfriend?

930
00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:39,560
Speaker 4: Dude? Six years seven this year?

931
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 2: Really?

932
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 3: You sound young?

933
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, I'm like I turned twenty a few months ago.

934
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 3: Always fuck you've been with her since you were thirteen?

935
00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:51,759
Speaker 2: Yeah?

936
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:57,760
Speaker 3: How did you guys meet like in class in middle school?

937
00:51:58,320 --> 00:51:58,480
Speaker 4: Yeah?

938
00:51:58,560 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 1: Yeah?

939
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:02,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, was like you then you grew in my clothes

940
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:03,080
Speaker 4: and I was.

941
00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 3: Like yo, you were like she was the new girl

942
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 3: in your class and you were like yo.

943
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:14,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, like yo, because like I kind of knew you

944
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 4: were because she was a pretty tall girl. I was

945
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:24,480
Speaker 4: like a pretty short kid and cool. I haven't skateboarding

946
00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:29,840
Speaker 4: since I was in like seventh Gates, like maybe like

947
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:33,359
Speaker 4: six or seven ish years.

948
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:36,000
Speaker 3: Can you do a kick flip?

949
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 4: Yes?

950
00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 3: Can you do a tray flip? That's the real question. Okay,

951
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:47,880
Speaker 3: was your does your girlfriend? Is your girlfriend attracted to

952
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:49,800
Speaker 3: the skateboarding skills?

953
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:52,120
Speaker 4: Uh?

954
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:56,320
Speaker 3: No, I would no. Is she active? Does she actively

955
00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:58,960
Speaker 3: find them childish?

956
00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:00,799
Speaker 1: Oh?

957
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 4: No?

958
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:02,400
Speaker 3: No?

959
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 4: I show my clips sometimes.

960
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 2: Really yeah, I'm like, yo, look at this.

961
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:12,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, go ahead, go ahead.

962
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:14,879
Speaker 4: Sorry, Sorry, I didn't mean you off.

963
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:17,680
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, so you show her like clips

964
00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:22,600
Speaker 3: of like you you clear, like a set of stairs. Yeah,

965
00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:24,719
Speaker 3: and then and then you show her the video of it.

966
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:29,799
Speaker 4: Yeah. I did my first tents there and I had

967
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 4: her with me for it and she recorded it.

968
00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:34,560
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, so she's supportive.

969
00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:41,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's nice. Like it was like a pretty

970
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:44,960
Speaker 4: mental battle like the tents there, and then like I

971
00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:47,839
Speaker 4: finally had the courage for it to like do it,

972
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:49,399
Speaker 4: and I was pretty stoked too.

973
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:52,239
Speaker 3: Have you ever fucked yourself up doing any of this?

974
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:53,640
Speaker 3: Like broken any bones.

975
00:53:55,040 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 4: Oh, thankfully not, just like willing my ankles. Mm hmmm. Yeah.

976
00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:05,799
Speaker 3: And you said that school is not for you? What

977
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:06,919
Speaker 3: is for you?

978
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:07,520
Speaker 1: Then?

979
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:08,920
Speaker 3: What do you want to do with your life? You're

980
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 3: pretty young guy, do you have thoughts about how you

981
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:12,680
Speaker 3: want to spend your days on the earth?

982
00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:18,319
Speaker 4: Hmm? I WoT That's why I was kind of like

983
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:24,120
Speaker 4: worried about school, like like like tweeting out about it

984
00:54:24,160 --> 00:54:26,520
Speaker 4: because I don't know what I want to do. And

985
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 4: then then like school feels like it has that guide

986
00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:36,480
Speaker 4: towards where I can be, but I just like I

987
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:40,239
Speaker 4: feel like I don't know, like school is in for me,

988
00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:42,360
Speaker 4: and then without school, I can't have a sense of

989
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:46,239
Speaker 4: the direction of where I'm going in life. M hmm.

990
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:49,520
Speaker 3: What do you study asta? Astronomy?

991
00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 2: Oh?

992
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:51,920
Speaker 4: I know, psychology?

993
00:54:52,600 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, okay, mm hmmm. It's it's an interesting conundrum.

994
00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:02,160
Speaker 3: I gotta be honest with you, man. You you know,

995
00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:07,080
Speaker 3: it's tough to be like a young like eighteen to

996
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 3: twenty year old right now because you're going into a

997
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:18,160
Speaker 3: The world gets kind of rapidly exponentially more uncertain every year,

998
00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:21,160
Speaker 3: so you're going into a bit of an uncertain universe.

999
00:55:21,360 --> 00:55:26,720
Speaker 3: But there are still a certain constants to the universe

1000
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:29,600
Speaker 3: that remain. Do you have a job of any kind?

1001
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:30,680
Speaker 3: Do you make money in any way?

1002
00:55:31,640 --> 00:55:32,640
Speaker 4: Yeah? I have two jobs.

1003
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:34,840
Speaker 3: What do you What do you do jobs?

1004
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:37,480
Speaker 4: I work at ross and then I work at this

1005
00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:39,560
Speaker 4: poky place with my girlfriend.

1006
00:55:39,960 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 3: Oh you work at the poke place with your girlfriend?

1007
00:55:43,040 --> 00:55:43,360
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1008
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:49,560
Speaker 3: Okay, how okay? If your life is exactly the same

1009
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 3: right now when you're like thirty, would you be happy

1010
00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:56,080
Speaker 3: with that? Genuine question?

1011
00:55:58,320 --> 00:56:01,360
Speaker 4: No? Like, if I'm like exact cooler I'm at right now.

1012
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:05,160
Speaker 3: Like that, Yeah, if you're exactly where you are right now,

1013
00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:08,040
Speaker 3: you're working in a couple of jobs, skateboarding, hanging out

1014
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:09,040
Speaker 3: with your girlfriend.

1015
00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:15,280
Speaker 4: Uh, probably, like fine, if like I'm able to manage,

1016
00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:17,800
Speaker 4: But like, if I don't have like an actual career,

1017
00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:22,560
Speaker 4: probably not. Mm yeah, I feel I kind of thought

1018
00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 4: about like switching it. But I'm already like two years

1019
00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:26,200
Speaker 4: deep into this.

1020
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 3: Oh what the fuck you know? You're not le me

1021
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:31,640
Speaker 3: say something. You're not too deep into anything. You're you're

1022
00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 3: in your infancy of existence, I think. Oh, I mean

1023
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:37,560
Speaker 3: you're in your You're you're in your You're not in

1024
00:56:37,560 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 3: your infancy of existence, but you're in your career infancy.

1025
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:46,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, because I kind of I thought about switching

1026
00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:51,200
Speaker 4: it to like something like with mechanics. I feel like

1027
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:54,439
Speaker 4: there's always going to be like some type of work there.

1028
00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:56,959
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1029
00:56:57,080 --> 00:57:00,600
Speaker 3: I think two years of college is a little too

1030
00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:09,279
Speaker 3: early to be subscribing to the sock the sunk cost fallacy.

1031
00:57:10,480 --> 00:57:14,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I see, I see, dude, you said.

1032
00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:16,000
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm keeping you up.

1033
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:16,240
Speaker 1: Man.

1034
00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:23,280
Speaker 4: No, not of mind though, all right, unless you like

1035
00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:25,280
Speaker 4: pretty stoked to like be talking to you.

1036
00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:28,040
Speaker 3: I feel pretty stoked to be talking to you too, man.

1037
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 3: I didn't know that, like there's there were still guys

1038
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 3: out there who were chill like that for real, for real?

1039
00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 4: Yes, thank you therapy cool John John?

1040
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:41,520
Speaker 3: Is there anything else? Who I say to the people

1041
00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:45,680
Speaker 3: of the computer before we go, Uh.

1042
00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:49,400
Speaker 4: Hope you guys have a good last night.

1043
00:57:50,400 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 3: Swag and.

1044
00:57:55,160 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 4: Oh I recently started living, like trying to live every

1045
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:04,440
Speaker 4: day like it's my last. Like I tried putting it

1046
00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:08,440
Speaker 4: in one effort everything I do. I think everyone should

1047
00:58:08,480 --> 00:58:09,080
Speaker 4: do the same.

1048
00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:16,080
Speaker 3: And yeah, well you can't do Yeah, you have a

1049
00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:17,920
Speaker 3: you have a good one, John John, God bless you.

1050
00:58:18,840 --> 00:58:19,520
Speaker 3: We'll see you around the.

1051
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 4: Universe, man, hope to see you around.

1052
00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:28,200
Speaker 3: That was John John. He's about a sleep for I

1053
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:30,520
Speaker 3: don't know. I don't know what John John's deal is.

1054
00:58:30,560 --> 00:58:33,360
Speaker 3: He was an interesting guy. He was very sleepy. He

1055
00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 3: sounded a little a little, uh, a little like whacked out,

1056
00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:41,640
Speaker 3: but maybe in a nice way. You can't really live

1057
00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 3: your you can't really live every day like it's your last.

1058
00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:47,280
Speaker 3: Because if if, if today was my last down Earth,

1059
00:58:47,320 --> 00:58:51,440
Speaker 3: I would uh probably do more drastic things, you know,

1060
00:58:52,800 --> 00:58:59,479
Speaker 3: I'd i'd uh, i'd spend every dollar I had. I'd

1061
00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:01,760
Speaker 3: I'd probably committed at least a couple of crimes, right,

1062
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:05,080
Speaker 3: like ones that are victimless, like you know, well, I

1063
00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:09,200
Speaker 3: don't know, like steal stuff from like a Walmart, although

1064
00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:10,760
Speaker 3: I know I wouldn't do that. I wouldn't go to

1065
00:59:10,760 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 3: Walmart on my last day. I probably talk, I probably

1066
00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 3: hang out with my family and friends. No, I wouldn't

1067
00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 3: commit any crimes. There's no real crimes I want to commit.

1068
00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:25,760
Speaker 3: I'd like to commit tax fraud, but if you're if

1069
00:59:25,760 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 3: it's your last day on Earth, there's no point in

1070
00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:31,560
Speaker 3: committing tax fraud because what's the point of pay your taxes.

1071
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:33,160
Speaker 3: Don't pay your taxes, You're going to die, you know,

1072
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:37,800
Speaker 3: So I have a little off track, but uh yeah,

1073
00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:38,600
Speaker 3: thanks Jean John.

1074
00:59:40,400 --> 00:59:42,720
Speaker 2: Hello, Hello is this Lyle?

1075
00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:44,120
Speaker 3: Yes, sir? Who's this?

1076
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:48,760
Speaker 1: Holy Molly? This is Uh. We'll go with David.

1077
00:59:48,720 --> 00:59:55,040
Speaker 3: David, David David and Goliath Camp David. That's where the

1078
00:59:55,080 --> 01:00:05,480
Speaker 3: president goes to h bread. Uh David Copperfield, famous magician.

1079
01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:07,440
Speaker 3: Not sure what he's up to these days.

1080
01:00:08,720 --> 01:00:08,959
Speaker 1: Either.

1081
01:00:09,200 --> 01:00:15,920
Speaker 3: Fid Schwimmer one of the popular UH Friends actors. He

1082
01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:18,040
Speaker 3: played one of the friends. He's your friend, he's my friend,

1083
01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:24,520
Speaker 3: He's everyone's friend. Uh, throw it in, Throw anyone in.

1084
01:00:24,800 --> 01:00:26,600
Speaker 3: I tried to do this with someone else. They want

1085
01:00:26,600 --> 01:00:28,919
Speaker 3: to do it because give me anyone, give me anyone.

1086
01:00:29,160 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 1: Isn't I don't know. I'm David.

1087
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:34,040
Speaker 2: I guess he did the same thing.

1088
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 3: It doesn't even have to be It doesn't even have

1089
01:00:37,120 --> 01:00:40,440
Speaker 3: to be a David. Come on, give me something.

1090
01:00:40,560 --> 01:00:42,080
Speaker 1: David isn't the DJ.

1091
01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:51,560
Speaker 3: No DJ, anyone anyone anything. It doesn't DJ DJ Howe Mandel,

1092
01:00:52,520 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 3: How we know?

1093
01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:55,640
Speaker 1: Man? I really I don't even know if it's David

1094
01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:56,080
Speaker 1: right now?

1095
01:00:56,680 --> 01:01:00,240
Speaker 3: Listen. Doesn't have to be anyone, Howie Mandel? Uh do

1096
01:01:00,280 --> 01:01:02,120
Speaker 3: you work with? Give me the name of somebody that

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01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:02,880
Speaker 3: you work with.

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01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:06,200
Speaker 1: The name of someone who I work with, like.

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01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:08,120
Speaker 3: Right now, yes, yes, right now.

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01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:11,240
Speaker 2: I don't work with a David.

1101
01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:14,760
Speaker 3: It doesn't have to be a David, just like Harry Potter.

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01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 3: Come on something, someone, anyone, anything, just say stuff. It

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01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 3: doesn't We're gonna it's gonna be fine.

1104
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:21,480
Speaker 2: Everything.

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01:01:22,240 --> 01:01:26,400
Speaker 3: I don't know what I'm doing right now. Oh, Ellen degenerous?

1106
01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:27,200
Speaker 3: Do you know Ellen?

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01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:27,959
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1108
01:01:28,600 --> 01:01:33,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, in the universe, she's madder in the universe. You know,

1109
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:36,120
Speaker 3: we're beyond David. We're in the realm of everything. We're

1110
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:39,720
Speaker 3: in the universe. Right What is chef to these days?

1111
01:01:39,720 --> 01:01:45,160
Speaker 3: She's playing she's in Finding uh Dory two.

1112
01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:49,080
Speaker 2: I don't know, Man, who cares?

1113
01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:50,000
Speaker 3: Who cares about anything?

1114
01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:52,160
Speaker 1: David cares?

1115
01:01:52,560 --> 01:01:53,120
Speaker 3: Who cares?

1116
01:01:54,200 --> 01:01:56,800
Speaker 1: Well, I can't. I can't believe I'm talking to you.

1117
01:01:56,840 --> 01:01:59,040
Speaker 1: That's crazy. You're like you're a pan right now, aren't you?

1118
01:01:59,560 --> 01:02:04,360
Speaker 3: Doctor Phil? He's something, David? What is it?

1119
01:02:04,640 --> 01:02:04,840
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1120
01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:06,200
Speaker 3: That made you want to call me today?

1121
01:02:06,240 --> 01:02:10,439
Speaker 1: Man, Well, I'm camping in the back of my car

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01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:14,440
Speaker 1: right now in Seattle. I'm not from Seattle, but trying

1123
01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:17,440
Speaker 1: to sleep, but I can't really sleep. I've called you

1124
01:02:17,480 --> 01:02:20,600
Speaker 1: like twenty times. I'm a little, a little under the

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01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:24,600
Speaker 1: influence of some substances to help me fall asleep. I

1126
01:02:24,640 --> 01:02:26,320
Speaker 1: was like, let me call a while one more time,

1127
01:02:27,120 --> 01:02:30,520
Speaker 1: but he'll like, we're here. We're here now. So it's sick.

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01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 3: What is it that is making it so that you

1129
01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:42,880
Speaker 3: are in your car right now?

1130
01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 1: Oh well, I think just to I don't know, just

1131
01:02:48,040 --> 01:02:51,400
Speaker 1: to save a little money and got another Sorry, got

1132
01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 1: at another trip next week ago, drive down to San Diego.

1133
01:02:54,680 --> 01:02:58,760
Speaker 1: I'm in the PNW obviously, but not from Seattle. But

1134
01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:03,520
Speaker 1: I've came here for the day. We've not shitty days off,

1135
01:03:03,560 --> 01:03:06,320
Speaker 1: got Tuesdays and Wednesdays off, but trying to make the

1136
01:03:06,360 --> 01:03:06,760
Speaker 1: most of it.

1137
01:03:06,840 --> 01:03:10,360
Speaker 3: You know, m what do you do on these shitty

1138
01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 3: Tuesdays and Wednesdays as you call them?

1139
01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:16,000
Speaker 1: Try to do as much as I can. I'm really

1140
01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:21,800
Speaker 1: trying to meet more people. But you know, actually I'm

1141
01:03:21,920 --> 01:03:24,560
Speaker 1: very grateful to other people I've met so far on

1142
01:03:24,680 --> 01:03:28,640
Speaker 1: these Tuesdays and Wednesdays. I met some really great people

1143
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:31,560
Speaker 1: who are willing to come hang out with me and

1144
01:03:31,600 --> 01:03:33,200
Speaker 1: make the effort to hang out with me on my

1145
01:03:33,440 --> 01:03:35,800
Speaker 1: terrible days off though they have the weekends off, you know.

1146
01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:39,560
Speaker 1: But I'm, you know, just trying to put myself out

1147
01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:42,040
Speaker 1: there some more of these days and trying to do

1148
01:03:42,320 --> 01:03:43,480
Speaker 1: some more for myself.

1149
01:03:44,880 --> 01:03:47,400
Speaker 3: What ways are you putting yourself out there?

1150
01:03:49,480 --> 01:03:51,880
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to meet more people, trying to actively

1151
01:03:51,960 --> 01:03:55,560
Speaker 1: like socialize with people strangers. You know, I'll just like

1152
01:03:55,640 --> 01:04:00,240
Speaker 1: go up to them and strict conversation or trick my

1153
01:04:00,280 --> 01:04:04,480
Speaker 1: friends out or you know, like I'm kind of interesting

1154
01:04:04,520 --> 01:04:08,360
Speaker 1: because I've I guess there's a word like ambrovert, like

1155
01:04:08,400 --> 01:04:10,840
Speaker 1: a little bit of both, like introvert and extrovert. But

1156
01:04:10,840 --> 01:04:14,680
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be more extroverted these days, meet more

1157
01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:18,080
Speaker 1: people because I've found myself most of my life being introverted,

1158
01:04:19,120 --> 01:04:21,840
Speaker 1: and you know, I'm just finally getting out of my shell.

1159
01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:24,080
Speaker 1: I'm in my late twenties now. I think it's a

1160
01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:30,040
Speaker 1: little something that comes with age possibly, but also another

1161
01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:34,000
Speaker 1: circumstance of like, uh, getting out of a long term

1162
01:04:34,040 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 1: relationship has also been wanting to or actually pushing me

1163
01:04:38,040 --> 01:04:40,240
Speaker 1: to want to meet more people and to get out

1164
01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:41,439
Speaker 1: of like that sort of rut.

1165
01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 3: You know, you said that you've met some people already.

1166
01:04:46,480 --> 01:04:50,800
Speaker 3: Who who are these people? How did you meet them?

1167
01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:54,680
Speaker 1: I'm into I think for anyone that's listening, like if

1168
01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:57,880
Speaker 1: you're trying to get into the new hobby. Like rock

1169
01:04:57,880 --> 01:05:01,320
Speaker 1: climbing is a great hobby, whether you exercise or not,

1170
01:05:01,560 --> 01:05:05,760
Speaker 1: Like it's a great social sport. So I've met some

1171
01:05:05,920 --> 01:05:09,040
Speaker 1: really great people through that, and then after that I'll

1172
01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:12,840
Speaker 1: invite them for like some drinks or something and extend

1173
01:05:12,840 --> 01:05:16,520
Speaker 1: our hangout and we'll do that. So it's a little

1174
01:05:17,280 --> 01:05:22,600
Speaker 1: social exercising plus you know, get that little socially like

1175
01:05:22,920 --> 01:05:24,840
Speaker 1: just having some drinks and that sort of thing and

1176
01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:26,439
Speaker 1: having some fun that sort of way.

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01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:31,160
Speaker 3: Do you feel like you're able to connect with all

1178
01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:32,080
Speaker 3: that many people.

1179
01:05:34,440 --> 01:05:37,760
Speaker 1: I'm trying the best I can, you know. I I

1180
01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:41,360
Speaker 1: texted you a while ago one of my issues that

1181
01:05:41,480 --> 01:05:44,720
Speaker 1: worked night shift, and it's been very crueling. I feel

1182
01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:49,720
Speaker 1: like I can't escape that night work from several jobs.

1183
01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:54,120
Speaker 1: So I know that it's difficult to meet people when

1184
01:05:54,120 --> 01:05:57,720
Speaker 1: you're sleeping through the day, but I do the best

1185
01:05:57,800 --> 01:06:00,760
Speaker 1: to try to, you know, wake up early even I'm tired.

1186
01:06:00,920 --> 01:06:03,440
Speaker 1: You know, I never get that great of rest, but

1187
01:06:03,440 --> 01:06:05,640
Speaker 1: I still like, you know, get my coffee in and

1188
01:06:06,280 --> 01:06:09,840
Speaker 1: go out an exercise, climb and hang out with some friends,

1189
01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:13,000
Speaker 1: go out on my weekends even though it's on the weekdays.

1190
01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:15,440
Speaker 1: You know, try to meet people, just do the best

1191
01:06:15,480 --> 01:06:17,320
Speaker 1: that I can when it comes to that sort of

1192
01:06:17,360 --> 01:06:20,280
Speaker 1: thing and socializing, because I really I work with a

1193
01:06:20,320 --> 01:06:24,120
Speaker 1: smat crew at work, and it's like we're all busy.

1194
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:27,920
Speaker 1: They paid us pretty decently, so it's like, you know,

1195
01:06:28,080 --> 01:06:30,720
Speaker 1: there's just that incentive to make sure you're doing a

1196
01:06:30,800 --> 01:06:35,520
Speaker 1: decent job, you know. So it's hard to socialize, especially

1197
01:06:35,520 --> 01:06:37,720
Speaker 1: when it's very busy. When it's a little slow, it's

1198
01:06:37,760 --> 01:06:39,760
Speaker 1: a it's okay to chat here and there, but when

1199
01:06:39,760 --> 01:06:43,360
Speaker 1: it's busy, it's like, you know, you're by yourself at times,

1200
01:06:43,400 --> 01:06:47,640
Speaker 1: and I you know, I feel that I wish I

1201
01:06:47,680 --> 01:06:51,440
Speaker 1: was like talking to more people, but I don't feel

1202
01:06:51,520 --> 01:06:55,160
Speaker 1: that much too much these days because I'm trying to

1203
01:06:55,200 --> 01:06:58,320
Speaker 1: socialize more, you know. But you know, your podcast keep

1204
01:06:58,360 --> 01:07:01,480
Speaker 1: me very busy, and you know, it's it's nice to have,

1205
01:07:01,760 --> 01:07:02,840
Speaker 1: so thank you for that.

1206
01:07:02,880 --> 01:07:05,439
Speaker 3: What Oh, of course, man, I'm honored to be hanging

1207
01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:07,320
Speaker 3: out with you in the forklift. Which brings me to

1208
01:07:07,400 --> 01:07:14,520
Speaker 3: my next question. What is the process of becoming forklift certified?

1209
01:07:15,960 --> 01:07:17,840
Speaker 1: You know, I know that there's been a couple of

1210
01:07:18,640 --> 01:07:21,120
Speaker 1: some people brought up being a forklift driver. There's that

1211
01:07:21,160 --> 01:07:23,320
Speaker 1: one episode of like the one girl that's like really

1212
01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:26,560
Speaker 1: into her boyfriend's a forklift driver. Whi's quite funny?

1213
01:07:27,320 --> 01:07:29,080
Speaker 3: Is that true? Are the ladies all over you with

1214
01:07:29,120 --> 01:07:30,040
Speaker 3: the forklift stuff?

1215
01:07:31,120 --> 01:07:33,520
Speaker 1: I feel, I mean someone still I know that there's

1216
01:07:33,520 --> 01:07:36,280
Speaker 1: a trend of like being a forklift driver, server fight

1217
01:07:36,400 --> 01:07:38,760
Speaker 1: or whatever is like the hottest thing, and some people

1218
01:07:38,800 --> 01:07:40,400
Speaker 1: still remember that when I bring it up, and that's

1219
01:07:40,440 --> 01:07:43,840
Speaker 1: pretty sweet. But to be forklifts surf that's not doesn't

1220
01:07:43,880 --> 01:07:44,520
Speaker 1: take very much.

1221
01:07:44,560 --> 01:07:44,720
Speaker 4: You know.

1222
01:07:44,720 --> 01:07:46,960
Speaker 1: It's like a little golf car or something. It's a

1223
01:07:47,680 --> 01:07:49,320
Speaker 1: It takes a couple of months or so to get

1224
01:07:49,360 --> 01:07:52,160
Speaker 1: like decent at it. It's not the hardest thing in

1225
01:07:52,200 --> 01:07:54,080
Speaker 1: the world, honestly, mm hmm.

1226
01:07:58,120 --> 01:07:59,240
Speaker 3: What's your ultimate dream?

1227
01:08:00,640 --> 01:08:05,040
Speaker 1: Create an ultimate dream? Oh man? I think just trying

1228
01:08:05,080 --> 01:08:06,280
Speaker 1: to make the most out of life.

1229
01:08:06,560 --> 01:08:08,680
Speaker 2: Like I don't know.

1230
01:08:08,680 --> 01:08:14,760
Speaker 1: I've my parents are have immigrated and they're all about work, work, work,

1231
01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:17,000
Speaker 1: and I feel like I'm kind of like the black

1232
01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:19,720
Speaker 1: sheet of the sheep of the family, where I'm like, yeah,

1233
01:08:19,720 --> 01:08:21,439
Speaker 1: I work a lot, but I also want to have

1234
01:08:21,560 --> 01:08:23,679
Speaker 1: as much fun as I work, you know, and try

1235
01:08:23,720 --> 01:08:27,360
Speaker 1: to experience and see as much as I can before

1236
01:08:27,400 --> 01:08:29,800
Speaker 1: I die. Like one of my things is like I

1237
01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:32,080
Speaker 1: do not want to be on my deathbed and like

1238
01:08:32,840 --> 01:08:34,800
Speaker 1: regret not seeing more, you know, And I'm sure you

1239
01:08:34,800 --> 01:08:35,559
Speaker 1: could relate to that.

1240
01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:42,040
Speaker 3: What what have you yet to do that you would

1241
01:08:42,439 --> 01:08:44,040
Speaker 3: regret not doing on your deathbed?

1242
01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:46,120
Speaker 4: Well?

1243
01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:48,400
Speaker 1: Have I yet to do? I mean I'm trying to do.

1244
01:08:49,720 --> 01:08:52,040
Speaker 1: I feel that like right now I'm actively doing that.

1245
01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:56,000
Speaker 1: Like There's been so many times where I doubt myself

1246
01:08:56,080 --> 01:09:01,080
Speaker 1: of like like I'll think, like something to do like

1247
01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:04,639
Speaker 1: this last few days, like to the last minute trip,

1248
01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:07,120
Speaker 1: like I'm getting I booked a but an appointment for

1249
01:09:07,160 --> 01:09:12,760
Speaker 1: a tattoo today. Technically I'm like should I go because

1250
01:09:12,760 --> 01:09:15,760
Speaker 1: I work nights? Should I go the night of my

1251
01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:20,479
Speaker 1: day off and see, try to meet some people, go out,

1252
01:09:20,600 --> 01:09:23,840
Speaker 1: get some drinks, and then like you know, do my

1253
01:09:23,840 --> 01:09:26,240
Speaker 1: tattoo like the next day, you know. And I was

1254
01:09:26,280 --> 01:09:28,600
Speaker 1: like just doubting myself, like is that worth doing? Or

1255
01:09:28,640 --> 01:09:31,840
Speaker 1: should I just stay at home and like feel comfortable

1256
01:09:31,880 --> 01:09:33,640
Speaker 1: and then go the next day?

1257
01:09:33,760 --> 01:09:34,000
Speaker 2: You know?

1258
01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:35,760
Speaker 1: But I'm like, let me try to get out of

1259
01:09:35,800 --> 01:09:39,920
Speaker 1: my shell and try to experience something new and get

1260
01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:43,960
Speaker 1: out of that comfort zone, you know, So trying to

1261
01:09:44,000 --> 01:09:47,439
Speaker 1: do more of like a little last minut when it

1262
01:09:47,479 --> 01:09:49,160
Speaker 1: comes to things. But you know that can be funny.

1263
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:50,760
Speaker 1: You know, you never know what can come out of it.

1264
01:09:50,800 --> 01:09:52,680
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I need to do more of like

1265
01:09:53,360 --> 01:09:56,439
Speaker 1: let's go do that one thing that you know I

1266
01:09:56,479 --> 01:09:58,639
Speaker 1: normally wouldn't do. So I'm trying to do more of that,

1267
01:09:58,800 --> 01:10:03,200
Speaker 1: trying to plan some more thing things that sort of

1268
01:10:03,200 --> 01:10:03,559
Speaker 1: thing out.

1269
01:10:03,640 --> 01:10:07,160
Speaker 3: You know, you have any big plans on the horizon.

1270
01:10:08,720 --> 01:10:11,439
Speaker 1: I want to just visit more of the country. I'm

1271
01:10:11,479 --> 01:10:14,439
Speaker 1: in the US, but I want to visit Canada some more.

1272
01:10:14,439 --> 01:10:17,160
Speaker 1: I want to visit Mexico some more, hopefully go to

1273
01:10:17,200 --> 01:10:19,800
Speaker 1: Europe one day. That sort of thing. Just need to

1274
01:10:19,880 --> 01:10:23,599
Speaker 1: see more things, meet more people, just actively do as

1275
01:10:23,680 --> 01:10:26,080
Speaker 1: much as I can so that one day I don't

1276
01:10:26,120 --> 01:10:27,880
Speaker 1: regret like not doing enough, you know.

1277
01:10:28,560 --> 01:10:28,960
Speaker 2: Mmmm.

1278
01:10:34,000 --> 01:10:38,920
Speaker 3: And so you're in kind of a nomadic vibe right now.

1279
01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:40,599
Speaker 3: You're out there in you're in your car.

1280
01:10:43,040 --> 01:10:46,000
Speaker 1: It's crazy. Yeah, I am in my car. I forgot

1281
01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:47,880
Speaker 1: you know. I've got a little camping set up. It's

1282
01:10:47,880 --> 01:10:51,320
Speaker 1: pretty chill. Got a little inflatable bed that have been

1283
01:10:51,320 --> 01:10:54,000
Speaker 1: in the back of my car. I've got little uh

1284
01:10:54,160 --> 01:10:56,880
Speaker 1: wind show covers as though I forgot the front wind

1285
01:10:56,920 --> 01:11:00,280
Speaker 1: show cover. So hopefully I don't get in any trouble

1286
01:11:00,320 --> 01:11:02,680
Speaker 1: in the morning. But I'm like, it's a city, like

1287
01:11:02,960 --> 01:11:05,880
Speaker 1: there's a bigger fish to fry around here, So hopefully

1288
01:11:05,880 --> 01:11:06,840
Speaker 1: I don't get in any trouble.

1289
01:11:06,920 --> 01:11:11,240
Speaker 3: But how much how much longer are you going to

1290
01:11:11,280 --> 01:11:13,880
Speaker 3: stay on the road for before you pick a place

1291
01:11:13,960 --> 01:11:15,920
Speaker 3: to to hang out at?

1292
01:11:17,479 --> 01:11:19,680
Speaker 1: Well, I do, I do have a home. I'm just

1293
01:11:19,880 --> 01:11:23,160
Speaker 1: you know, traveling. I'm on the road a lot. I

1294
01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:28,040
Speaker 1: love to drive. I love to just I don't spend

1295
01:11:28,120 --> 01:11:29,800
Speaker 1: a lot of if I'm not at work. I spend

1296
01:11:29,840 --> 01:11:33,000
Speaker 1: a lot of time either at like climbing or just

1297
01:11:33,080 --> 01:11:36,400
Speaker 1: driving somewhere, or at work obviously because I have to

1298
01:11:36,439 --> 01:11:39,639
Speaker 1: be at work. But besides I hate being at home,

1299
01:11:40,600 --> 01:11:43,479
Speaker 1: like I just I'm just at home to sleep. But

1300
01:11:43,520 --> 01:11:47,080
Speaker 1: besides that, I love to just like drive, listen to

1301
01:11:47,200 --> 01:11:49,840
Speaker 1: music on the drive, just driving my car. I enjoy

1302
01:11:49,960 --> 01:11:53,960
Speaker 1: driving my car, you know, And it's a really really

1303
01:11:53,960 --> 01:11:57,160
Speaker 1: important thing to do if you're trying to like drive

1304
01:11:57,200 --> 01:11:59,800
Speaker 1: ten hours ago to like a national park or do something,

1305
01:12:00,200 --> 01:12:02,760
Speaker 1: you know, like you gotta enjoy driving a little bit

1306
01:12:02,840 --> 01:12:03,320
Speaker 1: at least.

1307
01:12:04,360 --> 01:12:06,800
Speaker 3: No, I'm the same way like when I when I

1308
01:12:06,880 --> 01:12:09,720
Speaker 3: was first kind of starting doing this podcast in my

1309
01:12:09,760 --> 01:12:12,439
Speaker 3: mom's basement. I I just couldn't, like I had to

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Speaker 3: go out, and it's like during COVID, so like my

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Speaker 3: I had, I would have that. I would record from

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01:12:16,560 --> 01:12:20,080
Speaker 3: like six pm to nine pm and then uh, it

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01:12:20,120 --> 01:12:22,120
Speaker 3: would be like late and I would just like get

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Speaker 3: in my car and I would drive to the parking

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01:12:26,360 --> 01:12:31,160
Speaker 3: lot of a Dick's Sporting Goods and I would just

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Speaker 3: like smoke weed in the car and listen to music,

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Speaker 3: just like in the middle of the night, like that

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Speaker 3: was my night out.

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Speaker 1: It was.

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Speaker 3: It was actually it was. It was pretty fucking chill.

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01:12:39,520 --> 01:12:44,920
Speaker 3: I would eat Jack in the Box. It was chill time, man,

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Speaker 3: now that I think about it, those were those were

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01:12:46,479 --> 01:12:47,519
Speaker 3: chill nights, just.

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01:12:47,520 --> 01:12:49,719
Speaker 1: Like uh yeah, you know.

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Speaker 3: Very uh yeah, very low five vibes. Yeah, I mean

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01:12:56,600 --> 01:13:01,400
Speaker 3: like a catgirl, a catgirl, no, you know, the fucking

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01:13:01,439 --> 01:13:04,639
Speaker 3: cat girl with the uh you know, the lo fi

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01:13:04,720 --> 01:13:05,400
Speaker 3: hip hop beats.

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Speaker 2: Lady.

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Speaker 1: I felt like I was that oh yeah, oh but

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Speaker 1: that in your car, dude, Yeah, definitely. Like yeah, I'm

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01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:15,800
Speaker 1: just like thinking of all the things about you and

1333
01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:17,759
Speaker 1: like one of the things that you've mentioned on this podcast,

1334
01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:21,120
Speaker 1: like journaling, Like I personally journal as well, but also

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01:13:21,200 --> 01:13:24,920
Speaker 1: like being in your car is gives you just that

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01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:27,840
Speaker 1: space to like think a little bit.

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Speaker 2: You know. It's like your little permal journal in a way.

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Speaker 1: Like your car is kind of like you bond with

1339
01:13:34,600 --> 01:13:37,200
Speaker 1: your car even and it's like you get to think

1340
01:13:37,240 --> 01:13:41,479
Speaker 1: in your car. You eat, you can like listen to music,

1341
01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:44,840
Speaker 1: sleep in your car, like talk too while on the

1342
01:13:44,880 --> 01:13:47,240
Speaker 1: film in the car, Like these are memories I'm gonna

1343
01:13:47,240 --> 01:13:49,680
Speaker 1: have with my car for as long as I have

1344
01:13:49,720 --> 01:13:52,240
Speaker 1: this car for, you know, So that's special experience.

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01:13:52,960 --> 01:13:54,840
Speaker 3: I know, I talk a lot about how I hate cars,

1346
01:13:54,880 --> 01:14:00,320
Speaker 3: but I do miss like sitting in them parked.

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01:14:00,920 --> 01:14:01,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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01:14:01,240 --> 01:14:02,960
Speaker 3: I like being in a car much better when it's

1349
01:14:03,000 --> 01:14:06,280
Speaker 3: parked randomly than where it's like parked in a in

1350
01:14:06,320 --> 01:14:08,920
Speaker 3: a place, than when it's uh, you know, driving down

1351
01:14:08,960 --> 01:14:10,080
Speaker 3: the highway about to kill me.

1352
01:14:13,320 --> 01:14:17,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's those car naps can can hit pretty

1353
01:14:17,040 --> 01:14:19,960
Speaker 1: good sometimes too. I'll like I'll take a break if

1354
01:14:19,960 --> 01:14:21,920
Speaker 1: it's like a really bad night, I'll take a little

1355
01:14:21,920 --> 01:14:24,800
Speaker 1: fifteen break on in my car and just hit that

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01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:26,400
Speaker 1: nap and it HiT's differently.

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Speaker 3: What's your name again, brother, David?

1358
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:32,840
Speaker 1: David?

1359
01:14:33,280 --> 01:14:36,400
Speaker 3: How to forget David? It's like a David. There's a

1360
01:14:36,400 --> 01:14:39,720
Speaker 3: guy with a camp with named day Is. Name is

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01:14:39,960 --> 01:14:43,280
Speaker 3: u Is. I don't know if he's still alive. Probably

1362
01:14:43,600 --> 01:14:44,480
Speaker 3: he's probably.

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Speaker 1: My I crazy to think about, like people that you

1364
01:14:46,800 --> 01:14:49,360
Speaker 1: grow up with and you're like, are there's still a

1365
01:14:49,400 --> 01:14:51,880
Speaker 1: lot if you know games, they.

1366
01:14:51,760 --> 01:14:55,599
Speaker 3: Could be dead. Life is fragile. Just because they're probably

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01:14:55,600 --> 01:14:57,559
Speaker 3: twenty eight doesn't mean they're probably alive. You know, they

1368
01:14:57,560 --> 01:14:59,640
Speaker 3: could be. There's a lot of it's a lot of

1369
01:14:59,640 --> 01:15:04,080
Speaker 3: good out there now. There's a lot of shootings. There's

1370
01:15:04,080 --> 01:15:04,759
Speaker 3: a lot of ways.

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01:15:05,000 --> 01:15:07,080
Speaker 1: But hopefully did you ever get COVID?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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01:15:07,880 --> 01:15:09,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I got COVID a couple of times.

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01:15:10,200 --> 01:15:13,479
Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever gotten COVID, which is pretty crazy.

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01:15:14,360 --> 01:15:16,040
Speaker 3: I feel like you just jinxed yourself. Now you're going

1376
01:15:16,080 --> 01:15:16,800
Speaker 3: to wake up with it.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't know.

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01:15:18,760 --> 01:15:21,760
Speaker 1: I tend to get sick like at least once a month,

1379
01:15:21,880 --> 01:15:26,200
Speaker 1: and I think that's because like, like I never sleep,

1380
01:15:26,320 --> 01:15:29,400
Speaker 1: which is such a struggle. One of my issues currently

1381
01:15:29,479 --> 01:15:31,960
Speaker 1: is like I never really sleep, and so I feel

1382
01:15:31,960 --> 01:15:34,360
Speaker 1: like my immune system is just like to the dirt,

1383
01:15:34,520 --> 01:15:36,439
Speaker 1: and so I get sick at least once a month.

1384
01:15:37,320 --> 01:15:41,880
Speaker 1: But I don't know. I've done sick terribly. But I've

1385
01:15:41,960 --> 01:15:44,280
Speaker 1: tested for COVID. I never gotten it so far, and

1386
01:15:44,320 --> 01:15:46,320
Speaker 1: I know it's still lingering around here and there, But

1387
01:15:47,320 --> 01:15:49,080
Speaker 1: so far, so good, I guess.

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01:15:49,240 --> 01:15:50,519
Speaker 3: David, is there anything else who want to say to

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Speaker 3: the people of the computer before we go.

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Speaker 1: Speaking, I want to say, I think I want to say, like,

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01:15:57,439 --> 01:16:00,680
Speaker 1: you know, don't like if you have and you have

1392
01:16:00,800 --> 01:16:03,519
Speaker 1: and you feel a little like apprehensive, like just do it.

1393
01:16:04,000 --> 01:16:08,080
Speaker 1: Like it comes to anything like traveling, you should definitely

1394
01:16:08,120 --> 01:16:10,280
Speaker 1: do it. You know, more people should travel, more people

1395
01:16:10,320 --> 01:16:15,000
Speaker 1: should see the world, experience people like that's what life

1396
01:16:15,080 --> 01:16:18,559
Speaker 1: is about. You know, like there's nothing wrong with like

1397
01:16:18,720 --> 01:16:23,000
Speaker 1: chilling at home, but you know, life is exists outside

1398
01:16:23,040 --> 01:16:25,200
Speaker 1: of the internet sometimes, you know, that's where you can

1399
01:16:25,240 --> 01:16:30,960
Speaker 1: real truly make some real connections and don't we know, Yeah,

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01:16:31,080 --> 01:16:35,960
Speaker 1: it's good, it's good. But also like parcast exists on

1401
01:16:35,960 --> 01:16:38,799
Speaker 1: the internet, so I get it to be on the internet,

1402
01:16:39,479 --> 01:16:42,599
Speaker 1: but meet people travel that sort of thing.

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01:16:43,479 --> 01:16:45,080
Speaker 3: Hey, David, thanks for calling and listening.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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01:16:45,240 --> 01:16:48,240
Speaker 3: I appreciate you have a good rest of your evening

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01:16:48,280 --> 01:16:48,679
Speaker 3: in your.

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01:16:48,560 --> 01:16:56,400
Speaker 1: Car sounds good, man. That's talking to you too, see you, David.

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01:16:56,840 --> 01:17:00,439
Speaker 3: Sometimes in life you got to hang out in your car.

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01:17:01,080 --> 01:17:03,800
Speaker 2: There a be get goes on the line, taking your

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01:17:03,920 --> 01:17:05,200
Speaker 2: phone calls every night.

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01:17:05,560 --> 01:17:07,439
Speaker 3: There repeat Cant goes to his eight.

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01:17:07,560 --> 01:17:08,280
Speaker 1: You're just teaching you.

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01:17:08,360 --> 01:17:09,679
Speaker 4: To a house, to your life.

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Speaker 3: But he's not really an expert.