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Speaker 1: Hey, I do Part two.

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Speaker 2: It's your celebrity mentor Susan Noles and Batty Schwartz from

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Speaker 2: The Golden Bachelor in our podcast Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour.

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Speaker 1: And we have a lot to cover in today's news.

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Speaker 2: We're talking divorce trends, splits in so much more in

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Speaker 2: chapter two.

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Speaker 1: You ready to get into this.

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Speaker 3: We got to get into it, and we have got

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Speaker 3: to start. Have you heard about this new trend with

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Speaker 3: divorce rings, how women are celebrating their breakups. I can't, Susan.

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Speaker 3: I mean they're having they're repurposing engagement rings, they're doing parties, tattoos,

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Speaker 3: wild home renovations like what just happened to simple divorce?

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Speaker 4: I don't know. What do you think about it?

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Speaker 1: British Vogue is all about it. It's written up in there,

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Speaker 1: so it is a thing.

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Speaker 3: I mean, we all know if Vogue says that it

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Speaker 3: must be true, right, So here's what I'm hearing about it.

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Speaker 3: They're putting it a ring on their fingers.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes it's made of metal.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes they're you know, repurposing their engagement ring. Remember they

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Speaker 3: talked about conscious uncoupling.

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Speaker 4: Yes, well now we're doing like conscious unhitching with jewelry.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know, you know what all celebrate

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Speaker 2: when we get married and we get a wedding ring,

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Speaker 2: And why be miserable at your divorce. Let's celebrate it

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Speaker 2: and put a sign on there that I'm divorced. Sometimes

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Speaker 2: I think they even tattoo.

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Speaker 4: Well, here's the thing. I think a lot of women are.

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Speaker 3: You know, they're having parties, they're bringing their force attorneys state,

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Speaker 3: they all get together. I think it's a new way

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Speaker 3: of building community for the divorce women that are, frankly

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Speaker 3: a larger and larger part of our community. I don't know,

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Speaker 3: I'm not sure that we'll talk about my ring in

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Speaker 3: a minute, but go ahead.

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Speaker 4: What were you gonna say?

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Speaker 1: The girl and gone girl?

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Speaker 4: That model Emily Radikalska.

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Speaker 2: She celebrated her divorce from Sebastian Bear macclair with not one,

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Speaker 2: but two rings that incorporated the diamonds from her engagement ring.

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Speaker 1: So this is like a new sport.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you know, this is called new recycling.

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Speaker 3: Why sell a diamond ring for a quarter of its value?

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Speaker 3: Why not just have a new ring made?

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Speaker 4: But I got to tell you so.

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Speaker 3: In Vogue they go on to talk about jewelers are

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Speaker 3: making these rings like it is a thing. Now bind

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Speaker 3: a ring, wearing it proudly, a lavish I don't know,

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Speaker 3: a divorce ring.

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Speaker 2: You wear it on the same finger, or I'd probably

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Speaker 2: wear it on my middle finger because i won't want

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Speaker 2: somebody else to think I'm not taking So.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: It's a whole new thing for social media. Flash your ice,

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Speaker 3: your new ice on social media. But here's what I

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Speaker 3: want to know. If I'm gonna wear one, and I'm

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Speaker 3: surprised you wouldn't say this, do you know what finger

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Speaker 3: I'd wear it on? And I think a lot of

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Speaker 3: women are doing this the middle one because it can

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Speaker 3: it sends a message in so many ways.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know what I think about.

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Speaker 2: Did you hear there's divorce cakes, divorce party games?

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Speaker 1: I mean, pin the tail on the X anyone?

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Speaker 4: I don't what do you think about it? Though?

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Speaker 3: Like, I'm not sure? So you know I'm a widow

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Speaker 3: your divorce? What'd you do with your diamond ring?

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Speaker 2: Actually my kids benefited from it because the Centerson, my

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Speaker 2: first son was getting engaged and he couldn't afford what

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Speaker 2: he wanted, so I gave him that My at first

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Speaker 2: my daughter had it, and then they that didn't work out,

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Speaker 2: and I had it set in a Christopher had it

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Speaker 2: set in a ring for Jessica, my daughter in law.

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Speaker 4: That's great.

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Speaker 2: Well how about you, Well, yours wasn't a Morris obviously

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Speaker 2: my husband died.

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Speaker 3: I it's funny. I wear my diamond ring on my

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Speaker 3: right hand. But you know what I've noticed and aren't

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Speaker 3: so smart they can't tell right now, They're like, oh,

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Speaker 3: she's married, So I've stopped wearing it.

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Speaker 4: If I go out, I just wear like nothing on.

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Speaker 1: A necklace or have a bracelet mate or something.

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Speaker 3: I don't know because I'm you know what I'm going

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Speaker 3: to do with that. I'm going to give it to

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Speaker 3: my granddaughter.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we'll see eventually.

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Speaker 3: But but wait, we're not just so. It's not just

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Speaker 3: rings that people are doing. They there's paintings, like doing

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Speaker 3: their own mural. Apparently Jessica Alba did one after filing

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Speaker 3: for divorce from her husband Cash Warren, Like, I want

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Speaker 3: to burn it.

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Speaker 1: That one broke my heart. I love them together. Nicole

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Speaker 2: And Jennifer Aniston Andreith Rereith's Witherspoon are said to be

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Speaker 2: throwing a big one for her after her split.

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Speaker 4: Okay, but here's the thing. Here's the thing.

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Speaker 3: When the celebration's over, let's let's let's go here, Susan.

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Speaker 5: We got we got our divorce rings, we've got our tattoos,

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Speaker 5: We've had our parties, we've had a mural, We've got

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Speaker 5: a tattoo that some of them are doing that says

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Speaker 5: life is transformation is life?

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Speaker 4: Like? Okay, once we've done all this and.

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Speaker 3: You know we've we hate the man, We've made it

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Speaker 3: in all of our social media.

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Speaker 4: We're done. When do we come back around to?

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Speaker 3: And maybe not him, but you know, maybe I want

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Speaker 3: to get married again. I mean, if I were a guy,

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Speaker 3: I'd like, I'm not touch her with a ten foot fall.

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Speaker 4: She's gonna have me on a billboard somewhere.

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Speaker 2: And also, Kathy, this is saying that both parties wanted

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Speaker 2: the divorce to have a celebration like this. That means

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Speaker 2: both Sometimes that does happen and they they agree they're

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Speaker 2: not meant to be and they go their separate ways.

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Speaker 1: That I can understand. How like this well person sad

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Speaker 1: over it.

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Speaker 3: I don't think husband and wives are having these party

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Speaker 3: divorcees are having this party together. I think Jennifer Aniston,

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Speaker 3: Nicole Kinman, these women are having these parties.

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Speaker 4: I do not think.

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Speaker 3: I do not think the X or Y chromosome, whichever

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Speaker 4: That men are. I think they're X. They're not invited.

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Speaker 3: But I'm just saying it's it's uh, it's a lot.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it is a lot.

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Speaker 2: Didn't Rachel Zoe from the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she was married over twenty years. You know what

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Speaker 4: it says to me?

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Speaker 3: Honestly, it's like I'd rather I mean, this is a

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Speaker 3: big public statement about divorce. I hate you. I'm going

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Speaker 3: to have a party. I'm going to tack tooo how

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Speaker 3: much I hate you. Then I'm going to burn something

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Speaker 3: in effigy of you.

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Speaker 2: I don't think of the focus like that. Like for me,

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Speaker 2: for instance, we're really good friends. We do things together

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Speaker 2: still with our grandkids. And also not everybody is the

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Speaker 2: I hate ours was more like we can't.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we are.

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Speaker 3: Also, with all due respect, you're not Nicole Kidman, You're

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Speaker 3: not Jefferson, You're not in you know, they have children,

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Speaker 3: they have I heard the funniest thing the other day

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Speaker 3: about Nicole Kidman's divorce from Keith Urban, Like, yeah, he's

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Speaker 3: you know, I let me just say publicly.

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Speaker 4: I don't think i'd want to do it.

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Speaker 3: I get it, they're public, but we got to move

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Speaker 3: on to the next one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, else split you're ready?

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Speaker 4: Yep?

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Speaker 2: I o'cook and Amanda Bachelor announced their separation after four.

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Speaker 1: Years of marriage. We're going to go their separate ways.

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Speaker 2: They post it to their Instagram stories on Monday till nineteenth.

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Speaker 2: What they say, we have mutually and amicably decided to

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Speaker 2: part ways as a couple. We share this heavy heart

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Speaker 2: and kindly ask for your grace and support while we

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Speaker 2: focus on our personal growth and healing. And it feels

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Speaker 2: ironic for them to ask for privacy when their whole

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Speaker 2: marriage was public.

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, but they say, they said, it feels ironic

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Speaker 3: to ask for privacy during this time, since we've always

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Speaker 3: tried to be open and honest about our relationship. But

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Speaker 3: your kindness and respect will go a long way as

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Speaker 3: we try to navigate our chapter. And the statement concluded

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Speaker 3: with him signing a man and Kyle.

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Speaker 2: He's forty three thirty four. They got engaged in and

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Speaker 2: tied the knot in twenty one. It was actually postponed

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Speaker 2: due to COVID and it.

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Speaker 1: Was right here in Jersey, you know.

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Speaker 2: And throughout their relationship, which was documented on Summerhouse, pair

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Speaker 2: has been open about their struggles. In season three of

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Speaker 2: the Bravo series, which aired in March of twenty nineteen,

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Speaker 2: Cook confessed to cheating on her, claiming the blackout during

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Speaker 2: the guy's trip and woke up with a girl in

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Speaker 2: his bed, and recent rumors that they had split began

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Speaker 2: to squirrel when Bachelor claimed that Cook spent the night

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Speaker 2: at a fans apartment in the.

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Speaker 1: Trailer for season ten of Summerhouse.

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Speaker 2: Come on, I mean, yeah, Kyle was sleeping some fans apartment.

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Speaker 1: It came home at like six thirty in the morning.

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Speaker 3: I mean seriously, so so Amanda. You know, she's told

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Speaker 3: Clara Miller and Lindsey Hubbard there expressing their disapproval. That's

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Speaker 3: like saying the sun rises in the east. I mean,

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Speaker 3: but here's the thing. They're young.

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Speaker 4: Cook's forty three, she's thirty four. They're young. It's public.

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Speaker 4: It shouldn't be public.

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Speaker 2: Well, their whole I mean else was public, so why

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Speaker 3: Well, that's what humor's about, the masking now for privacy.

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Speaker 2: My advice to them do it nice and move on.

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Speaker 2: Thirty four years old, you got a whole life ahead

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Speaker 2: of you, right.

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Speaker 3: My advice is, get out of the limelight anyway you can.

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Speaker 3: Do not take out a billboard, do not burn an effigy,

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Speaker 3: do not.

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Speaker 1: Is she going to get a divorce ring?

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Speaker 3: I would know she's going to join Jennifer Anson the

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Speaker 3: rest of the crew and have a big party. I

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Speaker 3: got to say, though, Susan, it's got to be difficult

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Speaker 3: for these Hollywood people to you know, do you want

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Speaker 3: it publicly known that your husband, a recent ex wakes

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Speaker 4: I don't want to know that? All right now we're

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Speaker 4: going to move on to p K. Kemsley.

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Speaker 3: He's made a bold statement on his life amid divorce.

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Speaker 5: Paul p K.

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Speaker 3: Kemsley is sharing a new look at his life today.

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Speaker 3: Amid his divorce from the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills

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Speaker 3: cast member Darree Kemsley. PK has been so incredibly busy

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Speaker 3: with his life and job as Boy Georgia's talent manager.

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Speaker 3: The UK native has taken to Instagram who hasn't over

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Speaker 3: the past few months, where he revealed several new looks

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Speaker 3: at his life, including that he has been gearing up

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Speaker 3: for boy George's US tour, which by the way, begins

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Speaker 3: in February, hanging out with some old friends called pairing

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Speaker 3: the two children that he shares with Deret and ringing

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Speaker 3: in the new with his dad, Kenny Counseley. But p

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Speaker 3: K is ready for a break from his busy lifestyle,

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Speaker 3: so the entrepreneur took to his Instagram story on January fifteenth,

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Speaker 3: I've had enough of the bull blankety blank, he wrote

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Speaker 4: You don't know how much I would love to be

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Speaker 3: You asking me that question and say, yeah, Sandy, things

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Speaker 4: I don't know, Susan.

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Speaker 2: You got to respect her for not just going off.

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Speaker 4: Television show, meaning you know, Beverly.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry. I think it's asking a lot to your

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Speaker 3: That's what I think.

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Speaker 4: Well you think o him.

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Speaker 2: Look in the camera and say, dear life, I've had

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Speaker 3: Well, and here's my thing. He might have had enough

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Speaker 3: the Dermott mulrooney. You having him said to me, you

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Speaker 4: Dancing with him at the wedding like this is my man.

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Speaker 1: One of my favorite shows movies.

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 2: Dermott settles divorce from Prima outside of court.

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Speaker 1: You know he's sixty two for me.

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Speaker 2: His own lawyer filed a declaration for an uncontested dissolution

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Speaker 1: Outside of it's through mediation, mediation. I beg you for

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Speaker 3: Well, he probably probably needs to. I'm saying, first of all,

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Speaker 3: But all I want to know is where is he now?

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Speaker 4: Stop? Stop? Wait?

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Speaker 2: He also is representing himself, and I know that it

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Speaker 2: addresses payment of attorney fees, spousal and child support, as

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Speaker 2: well as custody and visitation matters regarding their two daughters. Unbelievable, Like,

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Speaker 2: I think that's kind of smart. Mabel Ray seventeen and

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Speaker 3: Okay, but here's the thing, it doesn't happen very often.

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Speaker 3: custody of their minor children. Susan, you know, I have

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Speaker 3: pretty standard legal legally. You know we're gonna we're gonna

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Speaker 4: Easy.

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Speaker 2: Nobody is asking for anything, not one is denying anything.

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Speaker 1: They're not arguing over the children or the money.

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Speaker 2: Right, they use mediators not lawyers as they are friends.

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Speaker 1: I love this, Okay, is amicable.

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Speaker 3: Can I just say to you, you know how long

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Speaker 3: they're going to stay friends. They're going to stay friends

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Speaker 3: until one of them meets somebody else.

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Speaker 1: This, No, it does happen, Kathy, Well.

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Speaker 3: Listen, Can I just tell you when I meet him

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Speaker 3: at Starbucks in LA I don't care if he's got

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Speaker 4: I mean, I hate to say.

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Speaker 3: It was happier he got divorced, but this guy, ever

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Speaker 3: since my best friend's wedding, I was like, where is he?

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Speaker 4: Where is he?

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Speaker 1: And Lucky Julia Roberts that's million dollars smile.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well I got one of those too. He's not

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Speaker 2: Melissa Gilbert cries court as her husband Timothy is released

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Speaker 2: from jail WAF facing child's sex abuse charge.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So, after a two hour pre trial detention hearing

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Speaker 3: a judge ruled at the sixty eight years old will

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Speaker 3: think that can be remedied through different conditions of release.

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Speaker 3: He said this in part while delivering his decision, quote,

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Speaker 3: I don't find that there's been sufficient presentation that this

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Speaker 3: no evidence of a pattern of criminal conduct. There are

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Speaker 3: no evidence of non compliance with prior court orders. Rather,

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Speaker 3: conditions that would reasonably protect the safety of any younger

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Speaker 4: Let me just say to you, this is a.

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Speaker 3: Lot of legalese legal jargons saying there almost doesn't sound

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Speaker 1: What brought in there, Like, you gotta think about that.

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Speaker 4: Well, what brought him?

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Speaker 3: There were two kids said years ago that he molested them,

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Speaker 3: I don't know why they were fired. And you know,

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Speaker 3: now how many years later we're gonna take it to court.

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Speaker 3: After being released on his own recognizance, Busfield has been

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Speaker 3: or have unsupervised contact with any minor children. The judge

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Speaker 3: must notify the court of his address. Upon hearing the news,

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Speaker 3: Busfield's wife, Melissa Gilbert was seeing crime and whispering, thank

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Speaker 3: you God, it makes it gives me the chills, Susan.

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Speaker 1: That sounds like she was being supportive.

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Speaker 4: Such she was, She wrote a letter to the judge.

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Speaker 3: Gilbert supported her husband from the courtroom, along with her

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Speaker 4: Attendance at the hearing.

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Speaker 3: Gilbert previously voiced her support, told I just said this

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Speaker 4: To the judge in this case.

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Speaker 3: In the defendant's response in opposition to the state's motion

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Speaker 3: I began this letter with logic, but now the feelings

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Speaker 3: only want this extraordinary man safe and whole. So I

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Speaker 4: It's amazing.

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Speaker 3: He first appeared in front of a judge on Wednesday,

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Speaker 3: according to prosecutors, Okay, here's what I got to say.

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Speaker 3: He drove to turn himself in. Seventy five letters from

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Speaker 3: We're not talking the mailman and the guy that works

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Speaker 4: Up for him. What do you think. I think it's

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Speaker 2: I think it's outstanding that people actually believe in him

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Speaker 2: many I could never be a judge. I think I've

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Speaker 4: On what the judge says, there's no there's no grants.

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Speaker 2: But anyone that gets a sexual abuse charge to a minor,

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Speaker 1: I hate you go to jail.

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 1: They don't even give him the bet.

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Speaker 2: That's why seventy five different people stood up for him.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, well, everyone's innocent. He'll proven guilty. Yes,

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Speaker 3: some brings a charge, they have to investigate it. But frankly,

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Speaker 3: personally hope he gets off. I don't think it's true.

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Speaker 2: For her to write that letter and her emotional part

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Speaker 2: at like a death of a child, not comparing to this,

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Speaker 2: But some marriages get even closer together, where other marriages

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Speaker 2: it's like a big knife right down the middle.

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Speaker 1: How do you feel this one's going.

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Speaker 2: I think her support is going to make him love

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Speaker 3: Well, you know that I hang around with a lot

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Speaker 4: That's a joke.

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Speaker 3: But I think the fact that she wrote a letter

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Speaker 4: She it defends him. Care for the man who's cared

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Speaker 1: I think that'll make her marriage even stronger.

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Speaker 3: I think they've been married, like, I don't know, close

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Speaker 3: very close marriage. They both were married before they know

442
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Speaker 3: what it takes to make a strong marriage. I personally

443
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Speaker 3: think this is going to bring him closer together. I

444
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Speaker 3: think she's going to fight tooth and nail for his freedom.

445
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Speaker 3: And you know what, they have the money.

446
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Speaker 2: If God forbid, it was you, okay, and somebody plant

447
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Speaker 2: that seed, you have to question that. I know you

448
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Speaker 2: love your husband, and I know you think's he's absolutely

449
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:55,679
Speaker 2: not guilty, but there's got to be one moment of

450
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Speaker 2: oh my god, could he have or no way?

451
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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Well, I think it's yeah, no,

452
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Speaker 3: I think it's human nature to that to say, wait,

453
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Speaker 3: to maybe say for a fraction of a second season,

454
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Speaker 3: I might say what, and they're absolutely not, or have.

455
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Speaker 1: A conversation with him.

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Speaker 4: You No, never, No, I wouldn't. I wouldn't.

457
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Speaker 2: For me, it would probably just blurred out of my mouth,

458
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Speaker 2: even though I would not knew. Yeah, oh my god,

459
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 2: I did not do anything like this, did you?

460
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Speaker 4: Yeah? I can hear you doing that.

461
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Speaker 3: What I'm trying to say is I can't imagine being

462
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Speaker 3: married to someone and I know you can't either where

463
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Speaker 3: that would be the case. And remember, we don't know.

464
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Speaker 3: There is more to this story than what we know.

465
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Speaker 3: So given that, I'm guessing there is more to the

466
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Speaker 3: story of these kids that we're never going to know

467
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Speaker 3: unless it gets to court, and then we're going to

468
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Speaker 3: hear all kinds of things.

469
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Speaker 2: And it depends on how big it is in court

470
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Speaker 2: and how loud it gets, whether it affects.

471
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Speaker 1: The marriage or not.

472
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Speaker 2: To certain things are said, questions that are asked, Sometimes

473
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Speaker 2: you just take a step back and go what the actual.

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Speaker 4: Okay, let's take a bet now.

475
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Speaker 3: I don't think I think their marriage is going to

476
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Speaker 3: be a strong, if not stronger.

477
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Speaker 1: What do you think that's what I'm hoping for?

478
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Speaker 3: Yes, Okay, well, we're gonna keep watching this.

479
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Speaker 4: I just I really don't think so.

480
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Speaker 3: I hate to say it, but I feel I don't

481
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Speaker 3: know how much older these kids are now.

482
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Speaker 4: But you said it earlier.

483
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Speaker 3: I think sometimes people say something happened, you know, eighteen

484
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Speaker 3: years ago, and now he's got some money, I'm gonna

485
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Speaker 3: go after it, you know.

486
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Speaker 4: So, so I don't know.

487
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Speaker 1: I think he's innocent. Let's pray that the judge thinks so.

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Speaker 2: And it sounds by the way the judge is saying, look,

489
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Speaker 2: you're not doing any.

490
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Speaker 3: Harm or I'm going to go when all alts fails.

491
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Speaker 3: It's their third marriage and the third time is the charm.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll say stick with that and that's your good

493
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 1: luck chart.

494
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Speaker 2: Really, oh man, let's get into Shannon and God rest

495
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:23,680
Speaker 2: the soul. Doherty ex husband Kurt is challenging he challenges

496
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 2: the divorce settlement two years after her death. He said

497
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Speaker 2: he's filed legal documents, which people obtained in Los Angeles

498
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:39,919
Speaker 2: Superior Court on January fourteenth, nearly two months after her estate,

499
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 2: said he has failed to fulfill several monetary obligations and

500
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:52,639
Speaker 2: provisions of the settlement that the alleged alleged that the

501
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 2: divorce settlement, which was signed by her by Shannon on

502
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Speaker 2: July twelfth, twenty twenty four, and Kurt on the following day,

503
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Speaker 2: and was finalized just before her death on July thirteenth

504
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 2: that year. Was brought in the wrong court, Kathy. Because

505
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Speaker 2: of this, he claimed, the court has no jurisdiction to

506
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Speaker 2: enforce the terms of the agreement.

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Speaker 4: Okay, wait before we continue, Before we continue, let me

508
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Speaker 4: just say to you.

509
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Speaker 3: You know, the US law is very particular, and people

510
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Speaker 3: win on on.

511
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Speaker 4: Technicalities all the time.

512
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Speaker 3: That's what he's trying to do, right, Well, you know, Okay,

513
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Speaker 3: keep going here, Okay, well here, let me give you

514
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Speaker 3: some more. He further argued that the divorce case should

515
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 3: have been put to an end when Doherty died after

516
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 3: years long battle with Cancler and the settlement shouldn't have

517
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 3: even been filed per the legal documents. This comes after

518
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 3: Doherty's attorneys and Christopher Cortezzo, trustee of the Shannon Doherty

519
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 3: Family Trust, claimed in a filing on November twenty fourth,

520
00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 3: that Israelanko still owes.

521
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Speaker 4: Money as part of the divorce settlement. Holy smokes.

522
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Speaker 3: This included a provision for him to sell Doherty's one

523
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 3: point five million Texas home and equally divide the net

524
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 3: proceeds with her estate. However, the filing stated that he

525
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 3: has refused to list the Dripping Springs home for sale.

526
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 3: You understand I live twenty minutes from this home. I'm

527
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 3: going to go check it out and see if I

528
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 3: can get it, okay. The filing also claimed that a

529
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Speaker 3: photographer was to buy out Doherty's share of a Mooney

530
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 3: M twenty airplane for one hundred thousand and pay that

531
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 3: sum to her estate within five business days of the sale. However,

532
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 3: he allegedly unilaterally withheld fifty two hundred and seventy four

533
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Speaker 3: dollars from Doherty's estate after making the sale in August

534
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 3: of twenty twenty four, and as you have to pay

535
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 3: the SUN and.

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Speaker 2: D Her attorneys noted that that he has also refused

537
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 2: to return Doherty's items of personal property, including photographs of her,

538
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 2: which was another provision of the divorce settlement.

539
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 1: Why couldn't make any photos of her?

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Speaker 4: Keep going?

541
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Speaker 1: I don't get that part.

542
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 4: I got thoughts, Keep going.

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00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 1: Okay?

544
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Speaker 2: He contended in his January fourteenth filing that Cortezza can't

545
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 2: Cortano failed to show he has authority under the trust

546
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 2: to have even introduced the motion in the first place.

547
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 2: Doherty filed for divorce in twenty twenty three after eleven

548
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 2: years of marriage. I'm believed her representation, Leslie Sloane, told

549
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 2: people in a statement at the time, divorce is the

550
00:30:56,640 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 2: last thing Shannon wanted. Unfortunately, she felt she was left

551
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 2: with no other option.

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00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 4: Okay, what he's trying to do.

553
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 3: Can I just say to you, you know who wins

554
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:14,320
Speaker 3: in these cases, not the not the estate of the deceased,

555
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 3: and not her ex husband.

556
00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 4: The lawyers, that's the wins.

557
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 3: They're going to argue point after poor, legality over legality,

558
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 3: and anyone you know, is he supposed to send the money?

559
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 4: Is he's supposed to Is the divorce supposed to happen?

560
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 1: The interrupt for one second.

561
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 2: So she passes before they sell the one point five

562
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 2: million dollar home in Texas. If we divide the proceeds

563
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 2: with her estate, Okay, she passed, her estate gets happened.

564
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 1: He gets halp, Is that with this is?

565
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 3: I mean, last time I checked my legal decree from

566
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 3: the law school.

567
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 4: I intended in Texas.

568
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 3: I don't know if you go way back up to

569
00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 3: the this whole story began.

570
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 1: He refused to list it.

571
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 3: He's contending it was filed in the wrong court and

572
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 3: the court has no jurisdiction to enforce the terms of

573
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 3: the agreement. So you know whether or not, I think

574
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:16,479
Speaker 3: it's all going to be rewound to whether the court

575
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 3: has jurisdiction, and if they don't have jurisdiction, and if

576
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 3: they she died inadvertently, you know, she died before everything

577
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 3: was finalized and then and then filed in the wrong court.

578
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 4: By the letter of the law, he may inherit everything.

579
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 4: You know, it's it made just technicality.

580
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 3: Listen, where I live, A guy just won a quarter

581
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 3: of a million dollars on it in RhoA on a technicality.

582
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 2: To make sure a slow year roll dot your eyes

583
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Speaker 2: and cross every tea.

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Speaker 4: I'm just saying, it's like, you know what I want

585
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 4: to do. I want to go. Literally, Dripping Springs is

586
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 4: twenty minutes from.

587
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 3: Where I live, and I wonder why, you know why

588
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 3: he's refused to list the home. I mean, he's not

589
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 3: living in it, so but I guess the money would

590
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 3: go to the estate.

591
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 1: Your backer pictures like, what is that about?

592
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 3: Well, I think I think Susan that if it's I

593
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 3: think he does not want to honor.

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00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 4: This is my guest.

595
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 3: I'm not a lawyer. He doesn't want to honor any

596
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 3: aspect of the divorce screen because if you honor one

597
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 3: part of it, you got to honor the rest of it.

598
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 3: He's saying they have no right to tell him to

599
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 3: give him back. I don't think he wants him. I

600
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 3: think he's arguing it again as a point of law.

601
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 3: And you know, I wanted to go to law school.

602
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 3: I wish I had gone so I could work on

603
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:33,160
Speaker 3: this case.

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00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 1: I would be her in a courtroom. I'd walk out

605
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Speaker 1: and say, Okay, it's all you may so.

606
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 2: Out of everything we covered today, you know what really

607
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 2: sticks in my mind what I never got a divorce ring.

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00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 4: I want to do that tweet. You didn't get a

609
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 4: divorce ring.

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00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:51,959
Speaker 3: You didn't get a tattoo, you didn't have a divorce party.

611
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 1: Bracelets.

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00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 3: I told you all the bracelets on my arm every

613
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 3: time I did a guy and it doesn't work out.

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00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 3: That's what you and I started to We keep buying bracelets.

615
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 3: The hell the hell would The ring men are dumb.

616
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 3: They see a ring with diamonds on your hand, they

617
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 3: think you're unavailable.

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00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:12,279
Speaker 4: Both of the bracelets I don't know. Let me just

619
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 4: say one thing that I really want to say.

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00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 3: Divorce sucks. We all know that it's hard. It's rarely amicable.

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Speaker 3: You had one, but it rarely is amicable. And I

622
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:27,000
Speaker 3: feel sorry for celebrities because not only are they having

623
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:31,719
Speaker 3: to navigate the rough roads of financial emotional, they're doing

624
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 3: it in the public eye.

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00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:36,400
Speaker 1: Yes, we now know what that's like, Kathy.

626
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Speaker 2: Everything we do, we're scrutinized in the on social media,

627
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 2: a lot of good positive things, but imagine doing saying

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00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,919
Speaker 2: these things what social media has to say.

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Speaker 3: Well, I want to continue watching how these guys get

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00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:50,839
Speaker 3: through chapter two.

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Speaker 2: I want to be invited to a divorce party.

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00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 3: I want to see if they start dating, what they

633
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 3: do with all this jewelry and tattoos when they find

634
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 3: the next man or woman of the dreams?

635
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 4: What do they do? What do they do? Get a

636
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:05,759
Speaker 4: big X through through the tattoo and give the ring.

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00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:08,400
Speaker 1: The diamond better be big enough to cover that tattoo.

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00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 1: That's all. That's a no brainer. And Dan, this was

639
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Speaker 1: a lot to cover.

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00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 2: But I think we can all learn a lot from

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Speaker 2: just hearing how other people, even celebrities, navigate through Chapter two.

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Speaker 4: Really.

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Speaker 3: If you need some advice, call us or email us.

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