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Speaker 1: This is from Selena in the Bronx clo.

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Speaker 2: Selena writes, my husband has been putting his phone on

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Speaker 2: D and D when he's home. He said he wants

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Speaker 2: to disconnect and focus on me and the kids. But

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Speaker 2: I don't buy it. He's too old to have figured

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Speaker 2: this phone thing out by himself. What or who is

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Speaker 2: he trying to block? Wow?

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Speaker 3: Does that mean you do not disturb?

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, that's cool, that's cool.

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Speaker 4: He did he putting it on D and D spend

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Speaker 4: more time with you and the kids. Now what you want?

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Speaker 4: What do you mean who is he trying to block?

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Speaker 4: If he wanted to block him, he could block him.

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Speaker 3: He don't have to put his phone off. He trying

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Speaker 3: to spend some quality time with you and the kids.

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Speaker 4: You trip it sometimes you just sometimes you make a

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Speaker 4: problem that ain't there. Do you have any evidence that

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Speaker 4: he's seeing somebody cheating or anything? Or just you don't

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Speaker 4: understand all of a sudden how he putting his phone

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Speaker 4: on doing he's.

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Speaker 1: Too old to have figured this out by himself.

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Speaker 4: Okay, cool, then I'm old figure this stuff. But my

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Speaker 4: kids tell me how to do stuff all the time.

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Speaker 4: You know how to put your phone on? Do not

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Speaker 4: to stir.

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Speaker 1: Huh.

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Speaker 4: Moving on to Travis, I just got the volume all

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Speaker 4: the way down and turn it over, so I don't even.

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Speaker 3: See your night, he perceived.

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Speaker 2: Travis in Toledo writes, my wife and my mom are

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Speaker 2: beefing because they wore the same dress to a wedding.

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Speaker 2: My wife told my mom to stop copying her style.

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Speaker 2: I think it's cool that she likes my wife's style,

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Speaker 2: and I asked my wife to apologize.

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Speaker 1: I got cursed out. Do I stay out of it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: You should stay out of that, because, Doug, you don't

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Speaker 4: even understand what it is they talking about. They wore

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Speaker 4: the same dress to the web. They knew they was

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Speaker 4: going to the web. They both got invited. Your girl,

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Speaker 4: your your your wife probably bought the dress.

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Speaker 3: Your mama's saw it and went and got the same.

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Speaker 4: Now they standing up there looking like the two brides

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Speaker 4: maids that they ain't making.

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Speaker 1: So you're telling him to stay out of it, their.

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Speaker 3: Man, stay out of it if you want to have

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Speaker 3: some people to stay out of that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but you know your wife got to quit tripping

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Speaker 4: with a flattery.

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Speaker 3: That's a copying is a form of flattery.

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Speaker 4: She likes her style, so yeah, but still.

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Speaker 3: Why don't you tell your wife she copying your mama style?

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Speaker 1: Stay out of it. But if he says.

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Speaker 3: That, well, then look, you're the closest thing.

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Speaker 4: I wanted to find a woman like my mother, and

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Speaker 4: now I find her, and then y'all just tolike it.

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Speaker 4: Now you got a problem with that. I love both

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Speaker 4: of y'all, And then don't make no more stake here.

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Speaker 3: Stay out.

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Speaker 1: I think his wife could help his mom in a

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Speaker 1: different you know, just help her yea beefing together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but not fighting with your your man mother mother dress.

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Speaker 3: It's way more important stuff.

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Speaker 1: To do, exactly, all right.

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Speaker 2: Moving on to Faith in Jacksonville, Faith says, uh, my

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Speaker 2: boyfriend calls my best friend whenever we argue.

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Speaker 1: I hate discussing.

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Speaker 2: My relationship with her because she usually sides with him.

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Speaker 2: I want to move out, but she said that would

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Speaker 2: be a big mistake. Should I move out and break

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Speaker 2: up with both of them.

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Speaker 1: Have each other.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: But he's calling her best friend whenever they get into it.

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Speaker 2: Whenever they argue, he's on the phone talk her best friend.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't like that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, yeah, move He'll go ahead and move.

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't like the fact is her best friend, but

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Speaker 2: her best friend sides with her.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well go move break over now, you ain't got

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Speaker 3: no man and no friend. Ago bottom saw.

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Speaker 1: She's in her feelings. What are you saying? She's get

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Speaker 1: on your nerves and me you don't want to help you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I told you all in twenty twenty six. I don't.

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Speaker 4: I'm I'm nothing to do. I'm not finn to wreck

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Speaker 4: my brain no more. No, I'm gonna give you an

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Speaker 4: answer I got And if you don't like that one,

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Speaker 4: you write about something else next week.

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Speaker 3: But Steve, because you're gonna have some more problems.

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Speaker 1: Her purpose is to help you, do realize that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let me ask you a question.

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Speaker 4: Yes, let me ask you and everybody driving in their car,

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Speaker 4: have you ever realized at some point that it's some

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Speaker 4: people you can't help.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever had to come to that?

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Speaker 1: Yes, but not your Let me ask you another question.

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Speaker 3: Here's one. I got another one for you.

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Speaker 4: Have you ever have somebody ever wrote in or asked

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Speaker 4: you for advice on the phone, text, or anything, and

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Speaker 4: you gave him the answer And then they start with

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Speaker 4: but but I.

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Speaker 3: Will see right? Yeah, help them they don't want to.

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Speaker 2: So your response to this woman faith is to leave

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Speaker 2: them both.

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Speaker 3: Because that's the only option she gave me.

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Speaker 1: But she said some other suggestions.

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Speaker 3: She says, should I break up with should I move out?

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Speaker 3: Break up with him and break up with her.

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Speaker 1: Too, both of them?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, So the option is she ain't got me

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Speaker 4: gaming the old option. So the option okay, stay, yeah,

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Speaker 4: stay and don't worry about nothing. Then he'll call her,

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Speaker 4: let her talk to him, and quit worrying about.

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Speaker 2: This answer sucks. Okay, moving on the last one. Maybe

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Speaker 2: you can help Chauncey in la Uh.

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Speaker 4: Chauncey had a whole lot of trouble and he my

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Speaker 4: boy to Chauncey. Billy Shout out to Chauncey, Billy.

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Speaker 3: Hanging that dog.

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Speaker 1: Chauncey says, yeah, hearing that gambling thing.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I got busted. Shout out to him hanging out there.

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Speaker 3: I hope you get cut up.

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Speaker 1: But you can help Chauncey.

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Speaker 4: But why are you arrested somebody for cheating and gambling?

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Speaker 4: How that what you're supposed to do.

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Speaker 5: In the sport that he's the coach, But you're helping

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Speaker 5: him though, you see you see they had a card

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Speaker 5: game and he had rigged the cards and lights up

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Speaker 5: under the table and stuff and could tell what people

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Speaker 5: had in their hands.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he wasn't betting on basketball game.

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Speaker 1: So like Shirley said, you can help chance.

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Speaker 4: That's the Chauncy I want to help because I don't

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Speaker 4: know what this other chancey? What the other chance W want?

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Speaker 4: How much time?

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Speaker 3: What the other Chauncey want? The one that wrote in

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Speaker 3: I really want.

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Speaker 1: To help Chauncey Bathe. Her name is Faith.

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Speaker 4: You see, I'm not gonna be help nobody with name

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Speaker 4: like Faith. You need to be talking to God if.

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Speaker 1: You need to have some faith.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, your name Faith? You really just go straight to God.

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Speaker 4: I don't know why you bother me. Chauncey Billup needs

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Speaker 4: some help now. See see they trying They go trying

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Speaker 4: to wrest for running a game, a card game, and

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Speaker 4: he was cheating and it was an illegal game, one

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Speaker 4: of the two, which one you won't charge me with.

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Speaker 4: But if I got an illegal game, what is you

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Speaker 4: charging me for cheating?

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Speaker 3: Folk?

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Speaker 4: Do you know how many times I've been gambling with

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Speaker 4: my friends and I cheated every time?

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Speaker 2: Hey, hey, hey, hey, that's you shouldn't be saying some

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Speaker 2: money this God.

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Speaker 1: Do you need us to help you? We gotta go.

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Speaker 1: You're listening, Harvey Morning Show,