1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,480 Speaker 1: Rich boyfriend makes me pay for everything and dates me 2 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: in secret. Should I marry him or leave? What do 3 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: you think, Riley? 4 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 2: I think you should get that Mary, invest get money 5 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:10,360 Speaker 2: out of it, go for half. 6 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and then take his half. Yep, let's go. 7 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 1: I love that. This is to answer the question how 8 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: should couples split bills? And by the way, you can 9 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:21,479 Speaker 1: join us live on YouTube every weekday at three pm. 10 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 1: So guys, wherever you watch right now, go to you two. 11 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 1: This comes from book Lover eighty three, who says I've 12 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: been having a casual relationship with someone I really care 13 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:32,520 Speaker 1: about for about three years now. I love to go out. 14 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 1: He only goes out with his friends. We both earn 15 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 1: good incomes, but he honestly earns about five times what 16 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 1: I do. Since he doesn't take me out anywhere, I 17 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 1: try to create dates at home. I make him dinner 18 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 1: and order his favorite takeout. I like buying him gifts 19 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: because gifts are my love language. None of this is 20 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 1: ever reciprocate. I think what hurts the most is what 21 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 1: he knows how much I want to go out, because 22 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 1: I've told him many times, but he never takes the 23 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: initiative to take me anywhere, super quick. 24 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 3: We're gonna take a real quick pit stop. 25 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:10,839 Speaker 1: A casual relationship for three years, everyone's saying, and Chat 26 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 1: is saying to leave. Everyone's yeah yeah to my and 27 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 1: four three years is not casual? Broh, Yeah no, this 28 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 1: is not a casual yeller straight dating or like you 29 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 1: should be. 30 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 3: This is like I mean, well, I guess it's true. 31 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:27,119 Speaker 3: Wait a minute, the dates are at home. 32 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 2: Yes, they're not going out, and it's a secret that 33 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 2: they're together. 34 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 3: Self explanatory. 35 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: He's super faithful. He's so faithful, guys, Courtney Brady gets it. 36 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:40,399 Speaker 1: Put an ic you in the comments. But I digress. 37 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:44,040 Speaker 1: Let's keep going. So anytime I suggested going out, there's 38 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: always an excuse not to For three years, bro for 39 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 1: three years. There are, of course things I love about him, 40 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 1: or I wouldn't be wasting my time. 41 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 3: A probably just hot. He's hot, and he has a 42 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 3: lot of money. But he doesn't give you any money. 43 00:01:58,480 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's whack. He's rich. 44 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 3: This is useless. 45 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 1: I don't know if he's embarrassed to be seen with me, 46 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 1: or if he's worried about bumping into another girl he's seeing. 47 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: I don't know what's worse. I'm not expecting some kind 48 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 1: of crazy expensive date, but taking me out on my 49 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 1: birthday would certainly be nice. Am I an idiot for 50 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: thinking that he might change after all of this time? 51 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 1: It is not a lack of communication. I've expressed my 52 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 1: needs literally many times. Should I just let go of 53 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:32,920 Speaker 1: the idea of going on dates? And ladies and gentlemen, 54 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:35,679 Speaker 1: we have an update, We have another update, We have 55 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 1: relevant comments. 56 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 2: Okay, Amanda Morgan or a wife? Yeah, or that's what 57 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 2: I'm thinking. Why he's not spending any money? It is 58 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 2: a good trace back to him. Hey, yabe, what's this 59 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 2: fifty dollars on a Tuesday night? 60 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:48,799 Speaker 1: Here? 61 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 3: Hey babe, what's this Wednesday morning coffee? 62 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:54,640 Speaker 1: Guys? This guy's on fire today. This guy is on 63 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:56,919 Speaker 1: Firelays and gentlemen, We just had a great, great working 64 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: sash too, did we freaking crushed the working sets? Both 65 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: of us. The donners are out right now, we'll explain 66 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 1: after the story. We'll get we'll have some time and 67 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 1: space to to discuss it. 68 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,799 Speaker 3: All is good, But dude, this is how she left 69 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 3: this happen for three years. I don't know how. Lack 70 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 3: of self value, self respect? 71 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: Perhaps, Yeah, that I mean, I don't know any other explanation. 72 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:21,360 Speaker 2: I need more details on the day to day of 73 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:24,559 Speaker 2: this relationship, Like are you only seeing him during the weekdays? 74 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:25,800 Speaker 2: Are you seeing them on the weekends? 75 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 1: Yeah? That schedule, schedule is super important. You were th 76 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: nine to five on the weekend. 77 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 3: That's a great song. 78 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that, dude. Have you heard the Funk remix 79 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 1: to it? No greatest thing ever? Ooh, but you know what, 80 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: it's actually the greatest thing ever. Riley, what this next? Updates? Oh? 81 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 1: They have an update? Oh we got two got Oh 82 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 1: that's right. Oh, so, guys, thank you for all the 83 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: replies to my last post. Most of you pointed out 84 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 1: that he was probably married. Guys, Riley called out. Riley 85 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: called that he was not married. Oh, but he did 86 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: indeed have many side chicks. She was nine to five 87 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 1: Opie's the weekend. There you go. I was just one 88 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 1: of them. Originally, I took everyone's advice and sent a 89 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:14,119 Speaker 1: kind message that I no longer wanted to do this 90 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:17,839 Speaker 1: casual relationship anymore, and I blocked him. In a moment 91 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 1: of weakness, I unblocked him, and he sent me a 92 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 1: message saying that he wanted to have a conversation about 93 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:28,039 Speaker 1: becoming more serious. So she's the best side chick. She's 94 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:31,479 Speaker 1: the best side chick. She's winning out. Can we pull okay? 95 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:33,160 Speaker 1: Get together or not? Or should we do? I guess 96 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: they already broke up. What's better? 97 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 3: Get together? 98 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 1: Get together? Yeah? Get together? Yeah, because that's that's that's 99 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 1: really the action that's being done here. 100 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:41,720 Speaker 2: What do you think, though, dude, if he's been training 101 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 2: her like this for three years and he's like, let's 102 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 2: get serious now. 103 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 1: Because, like op said, I've expressed clearly many times my 104 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 1: wants and needs in a relationship, like going outside on 105 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 1: a date, having some kind of reciprocation of like the 106 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 1: gifts and the attention. What do you got? 107 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 3: You'd probably treat his dog better than you, takes him outside, 108 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 3: gives him a responsibility. 109 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:08,680 Speaker 1: Not he treats his dog better than you. Oh my gosh, 110 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:11,719 Speaker 1: oh man, oh Jesus Christ. 111 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 2: That's rough. No, unless here we go. John's gonna agree 112 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:15,720 Speaker 2: with me on this point. 113 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:17,280 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm scared. 114 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 2: I get ten percent of whatever you make. He's making 115 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:22,039 Speaker 2: five times as much as her. Think about this, She'll 116 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 2: be getting her wage and some like her wage one 117 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 2: point five of her wage. If she gets some money. 118 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 1: Out of it, So I'll be the side check. Just 119 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 1: give me ten percent. It's like a reverse like only. 120 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:34,840 Speaker 2: Well true, you could be the side trick into that, 121 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 2: or be like I want to get serious and ten percent. 122 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 3: Oh oh oh, here we go. Here we go serious 123 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 3: and ten percent or casual. 124 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 1: And I was gonna say, I was gonna say twenty, 125 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:53,479 Speaker 1: but I'm like, no, high value woman, high value woman. 126 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 3: Bro, let's go. 127 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:58,599 Speaker 2: I mean she probably likes him because of the you know, 128 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:02,479 Speaker 2: ten percent and serious. Yeah, dude, I like the fifty 129 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 2: percent sidejick though. This is wild, this is crazy. Okay, 130 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:07,599 Speaker 2: Let's let's see if she puts any offers on the table. 131 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 2: So Opie says, I took the bait. Oh and we 132 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 2: talked last night. 133 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:12,799 Speaker 3: Okay. 134 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:16,719 Speaker 1: The conversations went in circles and ultimately ended up at 135 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 1: the same place. After three years, he still needs to 136 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 1: think about whether or not he wants to be with me. Dude, 137 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 1: he needs another three years. Dude, Just give me another 138 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 1: three years and then we can have this conversation again 139 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 1: and maybe, just maybe I'll have the answers for you at. 140 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 3: Least one and a half. 141 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: You could say another one and that it's already been 142 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 1: three years, Like, hey, you know this, three years, it's 143 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:38,359 Speaker 1: it's flown by with he has been so amazing, So. 144 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 3: We'll just wait another three years. 145 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: You'll blink, wake up anyone even won't even know, and 146 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:43,480 Speaker 1: then we can talk about maybe if I want to 147 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 1: get with you, maybe maybe not, maybe possibly ten percent, 148 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 1: who knows. I then impressed him on some other issues, 149 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 1: like if he was seeing other women at the same 150 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 1: time as me, So pride surprise, he was with a 151 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 1: very kind, special woman three months ago and he still 152 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 1: thinks about her. He also still has feelings for his 153 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 1: ex and his close friends. With another ex who he's 154 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 1: been with at the same time as me, that's. 155 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 3: Four that's her two people. 156 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 1: And you can't have a nine to five and then 157 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 1: she's the weekend. You need a nine to twelve, twelve 158 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 1: to three, three to six, like you need time blocks 159 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 1: over here for all all these He says he kept 160 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 1: our relationship casual because he thought it was what I wanted. 161 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 1: I never gave any indication of that. Opie did say 162 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 1: earlier that she communicated clearly like what she wanted, which 163 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: I think Opie's trying to kind of manipulate that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 164 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: til he says he wants to have a talk when 165 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: he arrives back from his two month holiday in person 166 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: to see where things are. Two month holiday. 167 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 3: He's European, there's no doubt. There's no doubt. Well they Fridge, 168 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 3: he's friends exactly. Sorry French people. 169 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: Bro, it's so funny. I don't know. So I was 170 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 1: in Lisbon and we went to they go on the 171 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 1: train and we were like trying to get a ticket 172 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 1: from the machine and I was like, bro, even the 173 00:07:57,720 --> 00:08:00,160 Speaker 1: machines don't work on weekends. Like it's crazy anyways, But 174 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 1: I digress. Obie says at this point, I am completely heartbroken. 175 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 1: I have never been this hurt or felt this used 176 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 1: and unworthy. I really don't think anyone has ever treated 177 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: me this badly. I blocked him again, hopefully with the 178 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: strength to do it for good this time. I really 179 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 1: need to stay away. If in three years time I 180 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 1: have never been taken out in public or treated well, 181 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 1: why would it change now bad? Why would it change? 182 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 1: It wouldn't it would not. Should I hear this guy 183 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:36,680 Speaker 1: out because I love him? Or keep him blocked forever 184 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:40,439 Speaker 1: and try to forget it? Guys, Bribley, what with the 185 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 1: bull with the Bulls. 186 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:42,320 Speaker 3: I said ninety four percent. 187 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 1: Said No, I'm a surprised that's not a hundred. I'm 188 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:45,680 Speaker 1: surprised it's not a hundred. 189 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 3: It is crazy. He's my thoughts. 190 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:50,839 Speaker 2: Yes, oh no, this is a chick I usually hang 191 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:53,199 Speaker 2: out with on Tuesdays and Saturdays, who's going to be 192 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 2: in that time zone and he's like giving her a 193 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 2: false like thing so he could still have her during 194 00:08:58,040 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 2: that time because like, yeah, if he has a bunch 195 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 2: of n fives here and there, imagine if you don't 196 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 2: have any work. 197 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 1: He's worked the schedule out exactly to find someone with 198 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 1: He's like, I can't just get any shorty, Like I 199 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: have to get shorty with the schedule exactly, and that's 200 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 1: hard to find. 201 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:14,440 Speaker 2: And as shorty I can treat like, okay, give her 202 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 2: a C plus treating, not even that he's giving her 203 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 2: like d F. 204 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 1: F minas oh man. But yeah, I think this is 205 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 1: the most egregious F boy I've ever seen in the 206 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 1: history of the show. I'm not even gonna lie to you. Yeah, yeah, 207 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:27,839 Speaker 1: this is insane. 208 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 2: Like he's so f boys that he knows and he's 209 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 2: not gonna commit so he can still keep f boing, Yeah, 210 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 2: because usually other F boys are like I'm gonna have 211 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 2: a girlfriend, I'm gonna go cheat. He's like, I can't 212 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 2: even like, you know, have a girlfriend. I'm just gonna 213 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:42,079 Speaker 2: get around as much as i can. 214 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:45,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's almost like two camps. There's the like, actually, okay, 215 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 1: so I'm guys, I'm very very curious to hear your tick. 216 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: So I feel like there's kind of like the classic 217 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 1: F boy, which is like always like sleeping around, always 218 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:56,559 Speaker 1: like casually seeing other chicks but not but like always 219 00:09:56,600 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 1: avoiding act. So if anyone ever actually goes to be like, hey, 220 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 1: do you want a relationship to like no, no, no, I 221 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 1: don't want a relationship, right, Ben, you have the cheaters 222 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:07,199 Speaker 1: who like get in relationships but then always cheat low key, 223 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 1: is it better to have the F boy who at 224 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 1: least says, you know, he still lies in and like 225 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:15,680 Speaker 1: manipulates and stuff. But yeah, F boy or cheater, Like really, 226 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 1: F boy, your cheater, because at least there is a 227 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 1: who would you rather be with? 228 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:22,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what you're getting with an F boy, 229 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 2: not with the cheater. Yeah, that's the thing is like, 230 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 2: but the thing with the F boy is you have 231 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 2: a higher chance of getting things in your crotch diseases. 232 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 1: Dude, crotch diseases. That's our new that's the new word. 233 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:37,199 Speaker 1: That's the new word. Guy, I'm the discard dictionary. I'm 234 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 1: that wor that just cazando. Yeah, this is crazy. 235 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, but with an F boy he gets around a lot, 236 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:44,680 Speaker 2: so you know he knows how to get you the 237 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 2: best because he has experience. Well, the cheater, it's only 238 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 2: you and another person, so it's like two verses like 239 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 2: fifteen are F boys pleasers? 240 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: Though I don't know into this update. I really appreciate 241 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 1: all the replies from everyone. It's really helped me to 242 00:10:56,960 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 1: put things into perspective. So many red flags now looking back. 243 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 1: He would only see me on weekdays, never weekends, plastic, 244 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: so she was a nine to five and only for 245 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 1: a couple of hours when it was convenient for him. 246 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 1: He'd never pick up his phone when I called, but 247 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 1: only text let me know that maybe he would call later. 248 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:18,680 Speaker 1: He'd also spend hours online talking on WhatsApp while ignoring me. 249 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 1: M dude, he's literally coordinating with his other shorties with 250 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 1: her there, diabolical dude, this is crazy. Only a couple 251 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 1: of his friends know about me, and I was encouraged 252 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:31,480 Speaker 1: not to tell any of my friends because he wanted 253 00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: to keep his vivate life iv it. Oh did Opee 254 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 1: a little bit kind of trap herself by staying this long? 255 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:40,199 Speaker 1: You know, I would say, is there something to be 256 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 1: said there? Let me know, or let's discuss it after 257 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 1: we get through this update. He would make up stories 258 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 1: like that he received an anonymous email from someone that 259 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:50,079 Speaker 1: I was sending them naked pick I know this is 260 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 1: a lie because I've never done this. He was just fishing. 261 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 1: What dude. He made it very clear that he didn't 262 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 1: want me seeing anyone else, always accusing me of flirting. 263 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 1: The word the audacity. This is the big bang of audacity. 264 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:08,840 Speaker 1: This is like Blackstar imploding and ever expanding audacity. 265 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 3: This is wild wow. 266 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 1: Meanwhile, last night, he admits to seeing and having feelings 267 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:17,440 Speaker 1: for many special women who are really great people. He 268 00:12:17,520 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: said he's still figuring out what he wants at fifty six, 269 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 1: after three years of this. Fifty six, you know, you 270 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 1: know when I'm babe, when I'm in my sixties, that 271 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 1: that's one it won't really lock in. You know, I 272 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 1: just need you know, six, I just need a good 273 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 1: sixty years, you know, like. 274 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 3: Oh she honestly, I'm gonna get oh I just read ahead. 275 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna say twenty years younger. 276 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:46,679 Speaker 1: Oh dude, I mean he probably probably is like thinking 277 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 1: about it. When you're fifty six, what are you doing? 278 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 1: You're like, you spend so much time with your family, 279 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:52,439 Speaker 1: You're you're investing into your family. 280 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:55,080 Speaker 3: Have to have grandkids. Could could be it could be, 281 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 3: well my grandparents were doing. 282 00:12:56,960 --> 00:12:59,199 Speaker 1: But he's literally spent all his time when he probably 283 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:01,360 Speaker 1: like goes to the g like, he's like he spent 284 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 1: he has all this extra money and time over fifty 285 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 1: six years to like make himself continue to be able 286 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 1: to be an f boy. Like he's reinvested. He's got 287 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 1: like a bachelor pad, like all of this stuff. 288 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know, because in Europe, yes, if we'll say, 289 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 2: I don't know, like you got like an iceol gut, 290 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 2: you got some chest hair going on, and you're like suave. 291 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 3: I think you're good. 292 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:23,320 Speaker 1: You don't need that going Yeah, he's got I feel 293 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 1: he's got something. And maybe at least like the the 294 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:28,680 Speaker 1: like she said he was rich, maybe he's got like 295 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:31,720 Speaker 1: a sick bachelor pad and just like wins over the girls. 296 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 2: That way, he's not going to change. Jellabo at fifty six, 297 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 2: no way, get out of there. 298 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 1: I don't know, Jella, but maybe maybe if we give 299 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 1: him another fifty six years, maybe he just has a stroke. 300 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:42,439 Speaker 3: He might get. 301 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 1: It if he has a brain disorder. Oh my god. 302 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 1: I know some of you have been very focused on 303 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:52,679 Speaker 1: the fact that he's super rich and accusing me of 304 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 1: being a gold digger. I can assure you that there's 305 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 1: nothing farther from the truth. He never spent a dime 306 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 1: on me, and I've always paid for everything without any 307 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 1: offer in return. He even forgot my birthday. Oh dude, 308 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 1: bro is just Oh my god. On weekends he would 309 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 1: take off to his cottage and invite friends and family, 310 00:14:12,040 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 1: but never me, always an excuse not to bring me. 311 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 1: I stayed together because we laughed and got along great together, 312 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 1: lots of chemistry and similar interests like fitness in business. 313 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 1: I loved him, okay, like, but you don't if you 314 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 1: love someone that's not a casual I guess the actual 315 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 1: mechanics of it were casual, but she loved him. 316 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:34,920 Speaker 3: Oh man, Daddy. Issue could be because he's twenty years older. 317 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 1: Oh man, fuck reading through all the comments, I see 318 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 1: how foolish I was for thinking things would ever change. 319 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 1: I was one of many side chicks. The comments that 320 00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 1: hurt me the most are the ones saying that he 321 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 1: is out of my leg How I used to think this, 322 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 1: which is why I allowed it to go on so long. 323 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 1: In reality, I am a successful, educated, attractive woman who 324 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:03,520 Speaker 1: ro what's your own business? Yoh? I am also twenty 325 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 1: years younger than him. Despite his wealth, I think I'm 326 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 1: also a catch. Keep in mind he'll be seventy before 327 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 1: he knows it. Yeah, I mean I bro at this ray. 328 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: I think Bro's going to the grave and f boy. Yeah, dude, 329 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 1: f boy to the grave. That's crazy, that's bananas. That's 330 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 1: a lifestyle. That's a lifestyle, Dude, that's a religion. At 331 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 1: that point, you are, you are biasly dedicated to your 332 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 1: pursuit of non commitment. I need this group to keep 333 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:35,680 Speaker 1: me from unblocking slash going back. Dude. How how good 334 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 1: is this man in the sack? What sort of pills 335 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 1: is he taking? I've fallen for this lie three times now. 336 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 1: What are some strategies to help me never speak to 337 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 1: this cheap narc again? 338 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:47,920 Speaker 3: I've already blocked him on everything. 339 00:15:48,040 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 1: Is there a service with iPhone that I can pay 340 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 1: for that that will keep me from unblocking him? Delete 341 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 1: the number, any strategies to heal and put this loser 342 00:15:55,800 --> 00:15:58,400 Speaker 1: behind me for good. Right now, he's all I can 343 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 1: think about. Let's read these relevants and then get to 344 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 1: the breakdown. So don't ask, I don't know, says my 345 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 1: stomach dropped, when after everything, she is still asking if 346 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 1: she should forgive him, of course, not stay away from 347 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 1: my son. Response to that, Honestly, this is why I 348 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 1: am a bad friend. I had friends who were in 349 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:17,960 Speaker 1: the exact same position, whole thing on to hope for 350 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:20,880 Speaker 1: quick essential f boys for years, like there was true 351 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 1: romance waiting to happen as soon as he stopped hooking 352 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:27,440 Speaker 1: up with other women, disregarding her wishes, giving excuses, being 353 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 1: a selfish lay, risking their sexual health, making them cry, 354 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 1: et cetera, et cetera, et cetera. I couldn't take it. 355 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 1: I just ended up getting mad at them because they 356 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:37,600 Speaker 1: would always say they were going to end it until 357 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 1: he threw a scrap and reeled them back in. It 358 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 1: hurt just to witness it, and in the end they 359 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 1: couldn't confide in me because it was a broken record 360 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:50,360 Speaker 1: that drove me insane, just super quick responding to that 361 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 1: relevant comment. Honestly, I think there's only you can only 362 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:56,240 Speaker 1: help someone so much, to be honest, and like they're like, hey, 363 00:16:56,280 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 1: I did it. I tried to tell him over and 364 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 1: over and they kept going back. I don't think it's 365 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 1: necessarily a responsibility if you've like given it the good 366 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 1: old college try for you know, friends who really matter 367 00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:08,399 Speaker 1: to you, and they keep going back, like that's on 368 00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 1: them at some point. Yeah, and if you if you're 369 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 1: like my whole friendship is just trying to get them 370 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: to like save them from themselves. 371 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 3: I mean, get more better friends. 372 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I get better friends. 373 00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 3: But wow, guys, I mean, holy crap. I hope she 374 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 3: don't unblock them. I'm Brian. 375 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:26,600 Speaker 1: Actually, I guess technically if you delete a number, can 376 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 1: you really block a deleted number? All right? Guess I 377 00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:31,600 Speaker 1: guess that's probably an option, right, because it has to 378 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:33,280 Speaker 1: know what the number is to block it could. 379 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:35,359 Speaker 3: Like put contact information and then block it. 380 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 1: I'm not sure. Yeah, but like I think that's the move. 381 00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:41,120 Speaker 1: Literally get a new number and delete his from from 382 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:43,679 Speaker 1: the old one. That is the only way to just 383 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:48,200 Speaker 1: like completely completely hut it outoo, dude, just Becauzanda says 384 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 1: she needs to go out and get some spicy one 385 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 1: night stands and get over this loser. That's way to 386 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 1: get is under another you know, if it if that's 387 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 1: what it takes, because at this point, like op is 388 00:17:58,880 --> 00:18:02,680 Speaker 1: still I think is at high risk of going back. Honestly, 389 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:04,440 Speaker 1: I kind of think that she'll slip up at least 390 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:07,400 Speaker 1: one more time, maybe a few more. 391 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 2: And she's struggling with like, hey, guys, please convince me 392 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 2: not to get. 393 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:13,240 Speaker 1: Back with them, Like what are we doing? We need 394 00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:16,480 Speaker 1: a support group, a post f boy support group. 395 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:20,199 Speaker 2: I wish we just had pictures of these people. Imagine, dude, 396 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:21,360 Speaker 2: you're so right. 397 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 3: We'd be roasting these people so much. 398 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:26,600 Speaker 1: You're literally so right. But let's answer the question of 399 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 1: the episode as show favorite. Should you split them? Mills? No, 400 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:36,679 Speaker 1: but yeah, yeah, you're you're in the in the no camp. Well, 401 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:39,359 Speaker 1: in this case, yes, split. The guy should be doing 402 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:41,439 Speaker 1: way more. He should be paying for all of this. 403 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:45,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, especially if he has five times five times as 404 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:46,479 Speaker 2: much money as her. 405 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:49,119 Speaker 1: Yeah. So I think, like most of you know, me 406 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 1: and Riley's positions. My position classically is like generally split 407 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 1: everything equally slash equitably. Riley's take is guy pays for 408 00:18:57,320 --> 00:19:01,720 Speaker 1: everything basically and like also, to add some nuance to 409 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:04,160 Speaker 1: my take, I think it's kind of like you because 410 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:06,520 Speaker 1: in the very beginning of like when you're like when 411 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:08,399 Speaker 1: you're in your early twenties and when you're it's like 412 00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:10,639 Speaker 1: starting out in your career, I think it's like very 413 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:13,680 Speaker 1: fair to split because you are building up low key, 414 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 1: you're building up your nest egg for your future partner. 415 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 1: Like that's how I've always looked at it. 416 00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 3: But when does a partner come into the nest egg? 417 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 1: When you get married? 418 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:23,960 Speaker 2: When I get married, well, well time not till about 419 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 2: John John question. Yeah, yeah, you get married, who's going 420 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 2: to be paying for the dates? 421 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:30,679 Speaker 1: Probably some sort of joint split. And still I don't know. 422 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 1: I don't know. Well so so okay, So here's here's 423 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:38,359 Speaker 1: the here's the ramp up right early early early dating 424 00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:41,240 Speaker 1: and early like just in your life and career split 425 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 1: generally speaking, and then as you get more and more 426 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:46,160 Speaker 1: and more, you start paying for more. Okay, like you, 427 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:48,480 Speaker 1: you ramp up the amount of pay over time as 428 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:51,400 Speaker 1: your salary and this is what you agree to. Yeah, 429 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 1: this is basically by how is this what you're doing? Role? Yes, 430 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:57,440 Speaker 1: really we're both kind of like, well, what now it's 431 00:19:57,480 --> 00:19:59,440 Speaker 1: happening is we're both just starting to treat each other 432 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 1: because both of our pays are kind of like scale. 433 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:04,399 Speaker 1: But what's happened is like so like with me and 434 00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 1: my girlfriend, like we we've pretty much it's not like 435 00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 1: we've always split. Like I in the beginning, I was 436 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:12,879 Speaker 1: making more like I I like bought her when we 437 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 1: when we did a remote month, I like bought her 438 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:18,439 Speaker 1: flight back home. Like it's like there's like different different things, 439 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 1: but like generally speaking, on like on average, like if 440 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:24,320 Speaker 1: we're like when we when we lived together for that 441 00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:26,160 Speaker 1: for that month, we're eating out every day, we would 442 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 1: just pay for whatever we each got generally speaking, right, And. 443 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:33,560 Speaker 2: I'm not judging like how you got totally, but I'm 444 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:37,000 Speaker 2: just saying with my relationship, I got you. Unless she 445 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:38,680 Speaker 2: was good for me and she already bought the stuff 446 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 2: because I can't pay get it, then then yeah, But 447 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:43,520 Speaker 2: like in my position, she's like kind of working part time, 448 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 2: already kind of got a thing going and. 449 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 1: It and it is it is totally and That's why 450 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:50,880 Speaker 1: I said equitably too, because it is totally dependent on 451 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 1: like what that situation is. Yeah, I was. I was 452 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 1: definitely paying more in the in the very beginning, and 453 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:58,680 Speaker 1: then she ended up waking it making way. It's it's 454 00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 1: gone like this, like she's ended up making way more 455 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 1: than we when I started the show, Like when I 456 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:06,640 Speaker 1: started the show, that's when her career started like heating up. 457 00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 1: But when we started the show, we were losing money, 458 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:12,919 Speaker 1: you know. So like general philosophy is like split equitably, 459 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,159 Speaker 1: that's really what it is. Okay, I like that. I 460 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 1: like that, But in this case, well yeah, yeah, yeah, 461 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:20,119 Speaker 1: in this case, it's like I feel like splitting equitably 462 00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:23,080 Speaker 1: is a qualifier because like when I would be I 463 00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:25,560 Speaker 1: would always be like after the first date at which 464 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 1: I would always pay for on the second of like 465 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:29,040 Speaker 1: oh Jimi, like we just like split the bill of 466 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:31,440 Speaker 1: like yeah, buy our things. Because I wanted to see 467 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:34,399 Speaker 1: if like she was more like kind of like was 468 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:36,800 Speaker 1: chill about it and was there for me more so 469 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 1: than like you know, other things. And it's like, you know, 470 00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 1: I just didn't want it to go down this path 471 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:44,639 Speaker 1: of like we just go on these expensive dates and 472 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:46,919 Speaker 1: it just kind of like becomes that, and it. 473 00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:49,360 Speaker 3: Just aligned with my personal you know. 474 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:52,439 Speaker 1: Again, if if she wanted something that's different, that is 475 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:54,679 Speaker 1: perfectly fine, but we were not, we would not be 476 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:55,880 Speaker 1: a match at that point. 477 00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:56,960 Speaker 3: That makes sense, you know what I mean. 478 00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 1: So it kind of like helped determine if we are 479 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:02,520 Speaker 1: aligned in our philosophy of like relationship. But I digress. 480 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:04,280 Speaker 2: I have a lot of girls pay for me a 481 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:07,719 Speaker 2: few times, like whenever I watched that one girl's goats 482 00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:12,639 Speaker 2: and here in La, remember when we were at Tiffany's 483 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:14,280 Speaker 2: thing and that one girl left her card. 484 00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:17,000 Speaker 1: Well that that was like you did a favor and 485 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:19,080 Speaker 1: then she's like, let me get you. That's almost like 486 00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:21,360 Speaker 1: it didn't start on a pure date vibe. It wasn't 487 00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 1: like you were like, Yo, what's up, shorty, let's diet 488 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 1: it out. She's like after that, she was like, no, 489 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,960 Speaker 1: I got it. But let's let's address the elephant not 490 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:31,480 Speaker 1: in the room real quick. What's that our boy? Sam? 491 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:36,159 Speaker 3: Oh, he's not there. So guys, he went to it 492 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 3: was it last night? 493 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? 494 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:37,760 Speaker 3: It was last night? 495 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:39,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, so last night he went to I'll have him 496 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 1: retell the story from his own POV. But basically, last night, 497 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:46,640 Speaker 1: Sam went to a screening for Andrew Callahan Channel five, 498 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,520 Speaker 1: which like both huturely, I didn't even know that there 499 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:52,080 Speaker 1: was a screening last night, but he went and they 500 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,200 Speaker 1: had this like they were showing this movie it was 501 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:56,159 Speaker 1: like super dope, and they had this like guy who 502 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:57,879 Speaker 1: I guess is the character like on the channel and 503 00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:00,400 Speaker 1: in the movie something like that, And he was like, a, right, guys, 504 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 1: we're gonna have like we're gonna have interimation on the movie. 505 00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:05,240 Speaker 1: He's gonna perform a freestyle and so Sam was so excited. 506 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 1: He stands on the seat as Sam does. And then 507 00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 1: as happens when Sam does these things, a security comes 508 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:12,960 Speaker 1: out and like, hey, sit down, like we can't be 509 00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 1: having to do that, gets to sit down, rolls his ankle. 510 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:17,960 Speaker 3: I think he said the worst he's he's ever done 511 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:18,480 Speaker 3: it before. 512 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, and currently he went to went to the hospital 513 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:24,399 Speaker 1: just like get a checked X ray. We talked to 514 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 1: him on the phone for a long time this morning. 515 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:28,439 Speaker 1: He's good, overall, he'll be fine. He's trying to get 516 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:30,159 Speaker 1: a boot and some X rays and some crutches, you know, 517 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 1: just to just to. 518 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,719 Speaker 3: Like basically, he rolled his ankle from hopping down from 519 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:34,120 Speaker 3: a chair. 520 00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:38,600 Speaker 2: That's the thing that happened. Yeah, and he has a 521 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:43,280 Speaker 2: date tonight with a nurse. He's gonna get some treatment. 522 00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:45,160 Speaker 1: So he's gonna he's gonna get healed. He's gonna get 523 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:48,080 Speaker 1: healed real good. His special unit will be taken care of. Yes, 524 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:49,720 Speaker 1: it's gonna be It's gonna be fantastic. 525 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Oh that's probably the best thing to go 526 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:54,199 Speaker 2: on a first date with a nurse is with a 527 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:54,639 Speaker 2: boot on. 528 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 1: Honestly. Yeah, dude, just get injured. Just get injured. Guys, 529 00:23:57,560 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 1: pray for our boy. Pray for Sam. Send some like 530 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,400 Speaker 1: any messages in the discord to make him feel better. 531 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:03,120 Speaker 3: I think he's back. 532 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:03,600 Speaker 1: He's back. 533 00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:07,320 Speaker 3: I just heard some field walk by. H he might 534 00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:08,919 Speaker 3: he might hop on, he might hop on. 535 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:12,360 Speaker 1: He might hop on literally hop on because he can't 536 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:16,280 Speaker 1: walk on. Oh no, I'm so evil. 537 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,920 Speaker 3: Let's pogo stick onto this. Yeah, let's focus. Yeah, let's 538 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:21,240 Speaker 3: pocus stick alloy. 539 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:24,359 Speaker 2: Since Sam's twenty seven, he's old now, John just had 540 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:28,200 Speaker 2: his birthday yesterday. Let's get some happy BBB's in the chat. 541 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:31,520 Speaker 2: But ever since this happened, Sam's been on the dcline. 542 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:33,480 Speaker 3: Dude, when he hates the new twenty three. 543 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:35,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, see here, Yeah, here's what it is. 544 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:37,399 Speaker 3: Anyone in twenty seven is old as soon as you 545 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 3: get to twenty eight. 546 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:39,399 Speaker 1: Youth. 547 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 3: Youth. 548 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:44,919 Speaker 1: Dude, look at me. My ankles are good. That's all. 549 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:46,679 Speaker 1: That's that's all I'm saying that. 550 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:48,560 Speaker 3: You do not care to put your feet on camera. 551 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:51,720 Speaker 1: That's all. Chancy gets on bro, I got the socks. 552 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 1: I gave no free feet. I gave no free feet. 553 00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,439 Speaker 1: There're totally good. Anyways. But guys, by the way, we're 554 00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 1: live right now. So if you're watching this and you're 555 00:24:58,560 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 1: not on the live, have a profile. 556 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 3: What are you doing? 557 00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:03,960 Speaker 1: Cater? Okay, yes, well, daddy say I'm joined today. He 558 00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:05,960 Speaker 1: might he might, we'll see, but we need him to 559 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 1: rest him. That's what we need. 560 00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 3: All right, ladies and gentlemen, Let's get into this next story. 561 00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:11,160 Speaker 1: Here we go.