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You can dm us 21 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 2: Fredshowradio dot com and we can take your story to 22 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 2: the air and then we can we can figure out 23 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 2: your life for you and can call eight five, five, 24 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 2: five nine, one one three five context the same number. 25 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 2: So you and your wife are high school sweethearts, right, 26 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 2: been together for a very long time, is that correct? 27 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 2: That's that's right, And you're trying to keep things interesting 28 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 2: in the in the intimacy department, right, So I'm using 29 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 2: sort of code words, And so you had the brilliant idea, 30 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 2: THEO to do what. 31 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 3: Well, you know, like you said, we've been together so 32 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 3: long and they you know, high school sweethearts, and we 33 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 3: I love her so much and we always prioritize physical 34 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 3: intimacy and keeping thinks new and exciting because we've known 35 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 3: each other so long. And so a few months back 36 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 3: I suggested maybe adding another person into into the mix, 37 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 3: bringing in a third uh yeah, something that that I 38 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 3: never thought my wife would actually go for, and just 39 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 3: assume the conversation alone would spice things up. 40 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 2: Now, like like this TLC show, add a third person, like, 41 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 2: you know, consistently, or just add someone for a little 42 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 2: fun time, just you know, like a one time, one 43 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 2: off deal. 44 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 3: I think ideally it would be someone who would be 45 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 3: consistent with, but you know, if it was even once, 46 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 3: it would spice things up again. I didn't even think 47 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:25,240 Speaker 3: she was going to go for. 48 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 2: This, okay, all right, but she did. But spoiler alert, 49 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 2: she did. 50 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 1: She went for it. 51 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, like she. We laid down some ground rules, 52 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:42,079 Speaker 3: you know, like no no conversation outside of the three 53 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 3: of us together, or that we don't know about, that 54 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 3: the other one doesn't know about, and selected you know, 55 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 3: this woman who lived out of town, so that we 56 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 3: didn't have to it didn't ever become it would never 57 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 3: become an issue in our relationship before we run it 58 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 3: ran into them and so we went through it and 59 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 3: had a great time. 60 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 1: Better than expected. 61 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 3: My wife was more than that was something that'll be 62 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 3: in my memory forever. And I thought everything was good 63 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 3: and that chapter was closed. But last week I saw 64 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:18,919 Speaker 3: flirty messages between my wife and this woman, and that 65 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 3: was very much against the agreement. 66 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 2: Tales oldest time, tales, so old at time. So wow, well, 67 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 2: now I mean fairness. You know, people do this all 68 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 2: the time, and they set ground rules and they follow them, 69 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:33,519 Speaker 2: and it works for certain people. 70 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 1: It wouldn't work for me. I don't know, you know, 71 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 1: I don't think I could do it. 72 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 2: But but you guys were on the same page and 73 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 2: you thought this was open shot whatever. But now you're 74 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 2: finding that there's sort of a side dialogue here, and 75 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 2: it's flirty. It's not like they're just you know, interacting, 76 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:53,800 Speaker 2: like sharing you know, recipes or something. I mean, we're 77 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 2: talking about like they're over here flirt with each other 78 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 2: on the side, like like it's almost like a little 79 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:00,040 Speaker 2: side quest going on. 80 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 3: Yep, yep, yeah, yeah, I you know, I wish they 81 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 3: were just sharing recipes. 82 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 4: When when I when I spoke to my wife about it. 83 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 3: She said they were just you know, just talking because 84 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 3: she thought the woman was cool and said, you know, 85 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,159 Speaker 3: they would never she said, they would never do anything 86 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 3: without me present. 87 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 2: But they okay, nothing physical, but they're they're having this 88 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 2: this communicative relationship, which I don't know what you saw 89 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 2: is one thing. I mean, there could be more. I guess, 90 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 2: whatever the case may be, this is not within the 91 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:34,479 Speaker 2: confines of what you would agreed to. You would agree 92 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 2: that anything that you did with this other person was 93 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 2: the two of you together right to prevent this from happening. 94 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:41,480 Speaker 1: And she didn't follow the rules. 95 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:44,719 Speaker 3: I did not expect this to happen. I thought, if anything, 96 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 3: I would be more more into the woman we brought it, 97 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 3: not my wife, and you know, and and so the 98 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 3: woman and the messages were flirty. The messages were you 99 00:04:57,839 --> 00:05:01,160 Speaker 3: know you don't do like a heart emoji and the 100 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:03,799 Speaker 3: kiss emoji with the side hard. 101 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 1: No, not to harden the kiss emoji. Here we go. Yeah, 102 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 1: they put you. 103 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:10,040 Speaker 2: In a group chain. Yeah what about the water emoji? 104 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:13,280 Speaker 2: Oh boy, before long the water emoji? Maybe the egg 105 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 2: plant emoji? Before long, it's over. Whole thing's over, hardeys 106 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:22,280 Speaker 2: and then finished. Okay, so you but you feel betrayed 107 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 2: because this is what you guys agreed upon. You both 108 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 2: agreed upon it, and now you feel like there's something 109 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:29,839 Speaker 2: going on on the side that you're not involved with 110 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 2: and that's not in your self conscious about it. 111 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 1: And I think it's understandable. 112 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 2: Hmm exactly. I want to know what people think about 113 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 2: this eight five five five three five. I think there 114 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 2: are a lot of different viewpoints. You could say that this, hey, 115 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 2: this is the risk that you take when you introduce 116 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 2: someone from the outside. There's a risk that you know, 117 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 2: this whole exposure might might unearth something in one or 118 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 2: the other. Uh, they could be unhealthy or dangerous to 119 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 2: the relationship. You could say, hey, you guys agree that 120 00:05:56,880 --> 00:05:59,279 Speaker 2: there are rules here, and then the rules aren't being followed, 121 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 2: and either follow the rules are or or you're basically 122 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 2: you're cheating. I mean, I think it would be fair 123 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 2: to say, because again, what you've agreed to together and what 124 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 2: you agreed to separately or two different things. 125 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. 126 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 2: I don't know if this is worth like blowing up 127 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 2: your whole relationship for it, But I suppose it is. 128 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 2: If if she's now really super interested in this other person, 129 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 2: I mean, that's that's an extra marital relationship at this point. 130 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 2: I mean, it threatens your threatens the relationship, doesn't it. 131 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:30,160 Speaker 4: Yeah? 132 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,359 Speaker 5: Does would you be okay with her having a girlfriend 133 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:34,840 Speaker 5: on the side, like a permit girlfriend? 134 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 4: No? 135 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, definitely not, definitely not. I mean, 136 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:40,360 Speaker 3: I know the idea sounds hot. 137 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:41,919 Speaker 1: But in practice. 138 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 3: It's you know, it's like I never I didn't think 139 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:49,479 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, girl on girl, like this is 140 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:51,719 Speaker 3: like this is what, this is a this is a dream? 141 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, right, well a lot of do what you're 142 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 1: texting right now? Hell yeah. 143 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 2: But I mean I don't think they're thinking about like 144 00:06:57,760 --> 00:06:59,919 Speaker 2: the fact that you love each other and had a 145 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:04,719 Speaker 2: you know, functioning, healthy relationship before this, and and you 146 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 2: had an agreement. 147 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's trust, it's about it's about trust, you know. 148 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 3: I think she broke she broke the trust of what 149 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 3: we were setting up. 150 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 2: All right, Well, let me take some phone calls on this, 151 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 2: you know, have the radio on, have iHeart on. We'll 152 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 2: see what happens. We'll see if people have to say 153 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 2: but good luck, thank you guys. Of course we're getting 154 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 2: all these sex Oh this is cool. I mean, this 155 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 2: isn't like the video though that you watched, you know, 156 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 2: yesterday or this morning, whatever you watch it. This isn't 157 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 2: like you know, what's on the internet. Like, this is 158 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 2: a real relationship. And they tried it and they had 159 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 2: a deal, and she broke the deal. And it's a 160 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 2: little more serious than that. Someone said, I've been the 161 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 2: third in two different marriages. It's never a good idea. 162 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, how did you meet I'm so curious how 163 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: did you meet. 164 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 2: The cost I'd like to have a little more information 165 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 2: from that. Hey, Jim, Jim, so you you've been like 166 00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 2: THEO your wife and we're trying to keep this PG, 167 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 2: but your wife you brought in somebody else and then 168 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 2: your wife had like a little side quest there. 169 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, and we we had we decided to try 170 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 4: that out. As the lifestyle, and it comes down to 171 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 4: the communication has to be there. They probably jumped in 172 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:25,119 Speaker 4: a little too quick. 173 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. 174 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 2: Okay, I mean, but is the relationship over? I mean, 175 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 2: can this be repaired? 176 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:32,200 Speaker 1: Do you think? 177 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 4: Or it doesn't have It doesn't It doesn't have to 178 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 4: be because in the very beginning, me and my wife, 179 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 4: we both had kind of those feelings of the insecurity 180 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 4: and all that. But what it comes down to is 181 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:49,280 Speaker 4: communication about the feelings. The feelings are normal. They've got 182 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 4: to be able to talk through it. And it may 183 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 4: not be for them. They may not enjoy it, and 184 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 4: you know, or she may want to keep going with 185 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 4: it and he doesn't want to. That's the conversation they 186 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 4: have to be willing to have in those conversations are hard. 187 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, but can you like unopen that door, Like I mean, 188 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 2: what if what if this has uncovered something within her 189 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 2: that she now feels she needs to fulfill and what 190 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 2: if he's not okay with that? I mean, is that 191 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 2: not something that you sort of that open yourself up, that. 192 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 4: That is something that that is something that could happen 193 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:23,839 Speaker 4: and you know, that may be the end of their relationship, 194 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 4: but it doesn't have to. 195 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 2: Be okay, all right, Jim, thank you, have a good day. 196 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 2: Look at Jim over here. 197 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 1: Man. Hey Gabby, Hi, Hi Gabby. You say stay well? 198 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 6: So with like some conditions, yes, So, Like I think 199 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 6: that right now he should like kind of steer away 200 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 6: from the conversation of thinking that it's like hot. I 201 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 6: feel like that's kind of like the man you point 202 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 6: to go with, but maybe like having that open conversation 203 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 6: with her, that's something that like she actually wants to 204 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 6: explore within her sexuality. But I do think that she 205 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 6: is kind of going past the boundaries that they currently set. 206 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 6: I don't think that he should kind of just get 207 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 6: up and go. I think that more more conversation has 208 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 6: to happen between the two of us. 209 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean, I don't want to say that 210 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 2: this is just this is the risk you take when 211 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 2: you do stuff like this, but there is a risk 212 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 2: that he has to assume, right, I mean, and so 213 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:21,200 Speaker 2: does she. And I'm not saying that that that they 214 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 2: should lie to each other or break the agreement, but 215 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:25,839 Speaker 2: like there's a chance that you introduced this and the 216 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 2: other person really likes it or realizes that they really 217 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 2: have a connection with someone else, and then then then 218 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 2: you can't. You can't unbring that now, really is what 219 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:38,559 Speaker 2: I mean. But thank you, Gabby. Have a good day. 220 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, of course, glad you called Na. 221 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 2: Hannah. I mean she is basically cheating, Hannah. I agree 222 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:52,560 Speaker 2: with that. I mean because they had a deal Hannah. Hello, Okay, 223 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 2: Well I mean you call, you call the radio station. 224 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 2: But Hannah said she was basically cheating, and I agree. 225 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:02,600 Speaker 2: Hey Shanny, Hello, Hi Seannie. So you say, stay, how 226 00:11:02,640 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 2: are you good? 227 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 1: How you doing? I do? 228 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 7: Stay safe? So I actually I am the one that 229 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:10,720 Speaker 7: texted I've been a third and two different marriages. 230 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 1: Oh yes, tell mar. 231 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 7: So it's a bad idea. They have a threesome to 232 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 7: begin with, and essentially she's having an emotional affair with 233 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 7: the other woman. I do think he should stay. I 234 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 7: do think he can save the relationship. But she needs 235 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 7: to cut all ties and they should not have threesomes ever. 236 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 2: Again, Well, if it's a bad idea, why'd you do 237 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:35,080 Speaker 2: it two? I'm not judging you, but why'd you do 238 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:36,320 Speaker 2: it twice? 239 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 4: So I was the third? 240 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 7: So I was not the one in a relationship. I 241 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 7: was the one invited into the relationships. 242 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 2: So you thought Noah Noel, Yeah again, I know where 243 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 2: Kilin's going with this. 244 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 1: How did you? How did you discover these folks with 245 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 1: whom to know? 246 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 7: So the both of them started with the female was 247 00:11:57,480 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 7: interested in having a threesome and invited me in the 248 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 7: first marriage that I got invited to. The man actually 249 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:06,959 Speaker 7: got jealous because her and I started a relationship I 250 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 7: intew and then the second one, she got jealous because 251 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 7: she felt like he was paying more attention to me 252 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 7: than he was to her. 253 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 1: I'll just sound so dangerous to me. I mean, people 254 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 1: can do I know people can pull this off, but 255 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 1: I just think you are asking for it fish on 256 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 1: my part. 257 00:12:26,760 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 7: It may fell selfish on my part, but I was getting. 258 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:29,880 Speaker 4: The best of both worlds. 259 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 7: Yeah, I was getting the woman and the man and 260 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 7: I had a relationship that was factory. 261 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 262 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 2: I mean yeah, I guess from your perspective, it's not 263 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 2: your relationship to maintain. But yeah, but now you're no more. 264 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:45,680 Speaker 2: You're not doing it again. 265 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 7: No, I've learned mylf I've learned my lesson. 266 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough, Thank you, Seanning, have a good day. 267 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 4: Thank you too. 268 00:12:54,520 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 1: Wow he's a funer, you said, ain't my proper? 269 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 3: I mean. 270 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 2: It's not my These aren't my terms to a pold 271 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:07,080 Speaker 2: if I were that person. 272 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 1: But oh no, I don't know. 273 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 2: I think I wouldn't even like that because you know 274 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 2: what happens if you develop a connection with the person, 275 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:16,120 Speaker 2: then it's like they're married, right. 276 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 5: And then what if, like the person you guys are 277 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 5: fighting and then your husband is confiding in her, or 278 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 5: like you're going to confide in her like that can 279 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,440 Speaker 5: get so messy. I don't know if you do this 280 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:27,960 Speaker 5: type of stuff, I sugg just doing it on vacation somewhere, 281 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 5: like you. 282 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 1: Never see the person again ever. Okay, I've ever done it. Yeah. Language, 283 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 1: I'll just say some sound advice. Yeah, we gotta be 284 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 1: on vacation. 285 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 2: You can't speak any we can't speak the same language. 286 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 2: You need to not have the internet, no social media. 287 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 2: In fact, if you don't have a phone, that's even better, 288 00:13:57,160 --> 00:13:58,000 Speaker 2: and then we can do that. 289 00:13:58,120 --> 00:13:58,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. 290 00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 2: The entertainer of fort fourteen Hundre box with You'll Visielly 291 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:01,720 Speaker 2: next Fred Show