WEBVTT - Bob Pittman

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Ruthie's Table four, a production of iHeartRadio and

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<v Speaker 1>Adamized Studios.

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<v Speaker 2>Today we're here at the can Lion Festival and its

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<v Speaker 2>fopped the River Cafe Kitchen for a galley on the

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<v Speaker 2>most beautiful boat in the harbor, which I'm happy to

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<v Speaker 2>say is safely tied up. Bob Pittman is a captain

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<v Speaker 2>sort of, as he is of so many great things.

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<v Speaker 2>He created MTV, which changed the way we listened to music,

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<v Speaker 2>and most recently, iHeartMedia, which changed the way we listen

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<v Speaker 2>to everything else. Bob believes in stories. He's often said

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<v Speaker 2>that everyone has one great story to tell. The first

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<v Speaker 2>time we met, he told me some about growing up

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<v Speaker 2>in Mississippi, the food his family cooked, and from an

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<v Speaker 2>early age, his almost illegal passion for being a pilot.

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<v Speaker 2>He spoke movingly and proudly about his father's brave commitment

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<v Speaker 2>as an anti segregationist. In our short and recent friendship,

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<v Speaker 2>I've learned from many about his generosity, his faith in

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<v Speaker 2>new talent, and guess what else, his rigorous passion for

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<v Speaker 2>producing Cassa Dragons tequila definitely my favorite. In the two

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<v Speaker 2>years I've known him, I've heard nothing but admiration and

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<v Speaker 2>love from everyone I've spoken to. I understand why. So

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<v Speaker 2>you made this lemon ice cream, and I wonder whether

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<v Speaker 2>you'd like to read the recipe.

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<v Speaker 3>Of course, I'd like to read the roceperes I like

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<v Speaker 3>it because the headline says Bob Pittman lemon ice cream,

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<v Speaker 3>the only time I've ever my name associated with it

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<v Speaker 3>with food. I like that. So the ingredients are finely

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<v Speaker 3>grated zest of one and juice of three lemons makes sense,

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<v Speaker 3>a cup of sugar, a half teaspoon of sea salt,

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<v Speaker 3>two cups of double cream. It serves six, and you

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<v Speaker 3>put it in a bowl. Mix in the lemon, zest

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<v Speaker 3>and juice, sugar and salt with a spoon slowly, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>sure slowly is important. Add the cream carefully, mixing with

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<v Speaker 3>a spoon, and it will immediately thicken. You didn't put

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<v Speaker 3>this is really simple stuff. This is absolutely my kind

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<v Speaker 3>of recipe. You then put the ice cream mixture in

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<v Speaker 3>the freezer and freeze it for two hours. It hardens

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<v Speaker 3>up and then you have magic Try it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So the thing about this ice cream is that

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<v Speaker 2>you don't have to churn it.

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<v Speaker 3>By the way, as a kid growing up in Mississippi.

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<v Speaker 3>My grandmother had a churn and would make ice cream.

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<v Speaker 3>And I loved the ice cream. I hated churning it.

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<v Speaker 3>This was before the days of electric stuff. This is

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<v Speaker 3>you turn it and turn it. When it got really hard,

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<v Speaker 3>I call my older brother over. You turn it some

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<v Speaker 3>and then we'd sort of put it away and we'd

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<v Speaker 3>have the ice cream.

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<v Speaker 2>So tell me about the churner. So we had the

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<v Speaker 2>ice in the.

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<v Speaker 3>Like a wooden tub, and it had a ice in it,

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<v Speaker 3>and you put this metal container down that would hook

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<v Speaker 3>onto the crank on top, put kosher salt all over,

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<v Speaker 3>a big salt, just covered the ice with that, and

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<v Speaker 3>you churn and churn and churn until it hardened up.

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<v Speaker 2>And that was your grandmother, my grandmother. Did your mother

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<v Speaker 2>then discover that you could actually put a plug in

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<v Speaker 2>and today.

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<v Speaker 3>That and we were probably too poor to buy one,

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<v Speaker 3>even if there was one for sale. But it was

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<v Speaker 3>perfect with my grandmother, who, by the way, at the

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<v Speaker 3>same time was making crab gumbo that we'd been catching

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<v Speaker 3>the crabs all day. She was from the Orleans and

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<v Speaker 3>had this spectacular gumbo recipe. Start cooking about nine. We'd

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<v Speaker 3>throw the crabs in about five, the ice cream you'd

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<v Speaker 3>be ready about then she'd put the towel over, take

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<v Speaker 3>the thing off, packet with ice while we ate the gumbo,

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<v Speaker 3>and then we could have the ice cream for dessert.

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<v Speaker 2>This is just because a lot of people I talked

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<v Speaker 2>to really talk about their grandmothers as much as their mother.

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<v Speaker 2>So you started out by talking about your grandmother. So

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<v Speaker 2>why don't we go back to that about growing up

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<v Speaker 2>with your grandmother cooking for you. She lived in your house.

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, we just visited my grandmother often. They had

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<v Speaker 3>a little house on a little bay in Mississippi called

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<v Speaker 3>Bay Saint Louis called it the Camp, and we'd go

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<v Speaker 3>visit them at the camp. And when we went there,

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<v Speaker 3>my grandmother was a proper Cajun cook, and we had

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<v Speaker 3>all that fabulous Southern and Cajun stuff. My mother was

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<v Speaker 3>from northern Mississippi, originally a farm girl, so hers was

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<v Speaker 3>more hardy, like you know, crowder peas butter beans. Crowder

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<v Speaker 3>pea is sort of like a black eyep a little

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<v Speaker 3>firmer and sort of dark all over it supposed to

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<v Speaker 3>one speck of darkness. And my brother and I, every

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<v Speaker 3>time my mother would go visit her family and come

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<v Speaker 3>back home. She'd bring with her bushels of peas and butterbeans,

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<v Speaker 3>and my brother and I hated it because we had

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<v Speaker 3>to shell them all so that she can then freeze

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<v Speaker 3>them for the winter. That's you know, as a kid,

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<v Speaker 3>you don't want to sit around doing that stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're only in a distance of how many miles

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<v Speaker 2>between northern and.

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<v Speaker 3>Southern Mississippi, I should probably five hour drive.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and yet the cooking was so different.

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<v Speaker 3>Very different, very different. When you were down near Louisiana,

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<v Speaker 3>it was very spicy. When you're in the middle of

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<v Speaker 3>Mississippi and up north it's very bland by the time

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<v Speaker 3>you get to the top of the state. And by

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<v Speaker 3>the way, all through the state there's barbecue which has

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<v Speaker 3>a red sauce but is very sweet, and you just

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<v Speaker 3>sort of slow cook the stuff on steamers and so

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<v Speaker 3>it just sort of melts and then you slather that

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<v Speaker 3>stuff on until it really turns to candy, put in

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<v Speaker 3>that smoker and just let it go and go. And

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<v Speaker 3>it was yeah, up north, but on the south it

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<v Speaker 3>was more fried food. We gig for flounders. You go

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<v Speaker 3>out with a white lantern and you'd look for them

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<v Speaker 3>in the water and you gig them and then you

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<v Speaker 3>pull them up in the flounders like it's a stick

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<v Speaker 3>with a nail on the end of it that just

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<v Speaker 3>stick them so you can get them and you pick

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<v Speaker 3>them up from that they sort of burrow into the sand.

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<v Speaker 3>But there are flatfish like a soul. So we do that.

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<v Speaker 3>But my again, my parents and my grandmother, you put

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<v Speaker 3>them in cornmeal, although everything's putting cornmeal, and you're throw

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<v Speaker 3>in the deep fryer and you have this spectacular fried fish.

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<v Speaker 3>Everything's fried. I had an uncle who said, I like

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<v Speaker 3>him anyway, you fix it as long as you fry

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<v Speaker 3>at last. So I think that was a great indication

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<v Speaker 3>of Southern cooking.

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<v Speaker 2>And do you think that black culture also contributed to this.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that's something going on right now about the

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<v Speaker 2>black community feeling that a lot of the Cajun cooking

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<v Speaker 2>or the cooking of the South amidst their culture. Do

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<v Speaker 2>you think that or do well?

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<v Speaker 3>I think the Southern cooking and the Black culture were

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<v Speaker 3>completely intertwined. I mean it was sort of all of one.

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<v Speaker 3>And I spent time in Chicago and I love the

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<v Speaker 3>South Side of Chicago. Soul cooking is the cooking out

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<v Speaker 3>I grew up with and always share that affection for

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<v Speaker 3>My other favorite is fried okra, where you cut the

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<v Speaker 3>okra up, have a cast iron skillet, get the really hot,

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<v Speaker 3>roll around in some corn meal and throw it in

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<v Speaker 3>there and by the time it comes out it's crispy.

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<v Speaker 3>I like a popcorn.

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<v Speaker 2>You said something about being too poor to afford a churner,

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<v Speaker 2>perhaps for the ice cream. Tell me about life in

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<v Speaker 2>the Pittman household.

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<v Speaker 3>I grew up. I didn't know we were port My

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<v Speaker 3>dad was very well educated. He had his undergrad from

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<v Speaker 3>University of Southern Mississippi, had a graduate school at Emory

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<v Speaker 3>in Atlanta. My mother was a college graduate, which is

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<v Speaker 3>also unusual for two parents at that era. And the

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<v Speaker 3>family really valued smarts. My dad was a Methodist minister,

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<v Speaker 3>so the church gave us a house and give us

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<v Speaker 3>a very nice house. So we had a nice house

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<v Speaker 3>as if we have a lot of money, and they

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<v Speaker 3>would let you. They would let the ministers join the

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<v Speaker 3>country club. So even though they had no money, they

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<v Speaker 3>didn't have to pay. But we could go to the

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<v Speaker 3>country club as if we have money. And so we

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<v Speaker 3>had a decent lifestyle but little money. And but you know,

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<v Speaker 3>in those days, you didn't miss it and you didn't

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<v Speaker 3>know and all that wasn't flaunted on TV.

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<v Speaker 2>And what was it? What was Yeah? How many are you?

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<v Speaker 3>I had one brother, and I had a magical upbringing

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<v Speaker 3>that I didn't realize how magical it was till I

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<v Speaker 3>became an adult. I never in my life saw my parents.

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<v Speaker 3>My parents have disagreements, They go, well, I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>if I agree with that, Well, I don't know, why

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<v Speaker 3>do you think that? And they would go through it.

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<v Speaker 3>In our household, you couldn't say hate. We never hated anybody.

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<v Speaker 3>We didn't hate anything. So that was sort of the

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<v Speaker 3>dirty word of the house. And when my mom passed away,

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<v Speaker 3>one of my cousins said, you know, the worst thing

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<v Speaker 3>I ever heard your mother say about somebody was I

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<v Speaker 3>wonder why they want to be that way. So that

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<v Speaker 3>was her way of saying, that's not her favorite person.

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<v Speaker 3>But everything was met with sort of an understanding and

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<v Speaker 3>a gentility which I truly appreciate. My brother and I

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<v Speaker 3>often talk about we definitely won the parent lottery, and

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<v Speaker 3>you know, oh, yes we'd have money. We didn't have

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of things, but I'll trade all that for

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<v Speaker 3>what we had.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you and your brother aren't you?

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<v Speaker 3>Of course there were kids. And by the way, I

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<v Speaker 3>wish I could say I didn't argue in my household,

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<v Speaker 3>because I don't have that. I don't know what. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know how my parents managed to pull that off,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think I didn't appreciate it until I became

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<v Speaker 3>an adult.

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<v Speaker 2>This reminds me of when I talked to Valerie Biden,

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<v Speaker 2>who's President biden sister, and she said she was brought

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<v Speaker 2>up in a household of Irish Catholics in Delaware where

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<v Speaker 2>there was no argument. You just were not allowed to

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<v Speaker 2>argue with your brothers or your sisters. That in the house,

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<v Speaker 2>it was that you were you know, you defended each other.

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<v Speaker 2>And I wonder about that because you just see that

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<v Speaker 2>as so much of our life. I don't know about

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<v Speaker 2>your children, but disagreement is okay. You know, it is

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<v Speaker 2>okay to disagree, It's okay to take your position. But

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<v Speaker 2>it's something very beautiful as well about the idea that

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<v Speaker 2>somehow there was peace and you were in the house.

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<v Speaker 3>Also a difference between arguing and personalizing something. It's one

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<v Speaker 3>thing to debate it. I believe that you believe that,

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<v Speaker 3>and will I don't know why you believe that. Let's

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<v Speaker 3>figure out as opposed to you're bad, you're an idiot,

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<v Speaker 3>you don't care, you're evil, and you know, if you

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<v Speaker 3>avoid personalizing it, I think you go so far because

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<v Speaker 3>you can continue the conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>Bettlheim said a great thing I remember as young parent.

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<v Speaker 2>He said that you don't ever say to a child

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<v Speaker 2>you are something. You say you are behaving. So you

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<v Speaker 2>don't say you are selfish. You say you are behaving

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<v Speaker 2>in a selfish way, you know, and that makes apparently.

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<v Speaker 3>A selfish act, and then you usually say, but I

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<v Speaker 3>know that's not you. There's also in a hopeful tone

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<v Speaker 3>to the child.

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<v Speaker 2>So what we aspired to, there's a great coatoon in

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<v Speaker 2>the New Yorker which your mother says, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>get very angry at you in a very quiet and

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<v Speaker 2>controlled way, which is also maybe not that. But back

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<v Speaker 2>to the food. So you said your mother worked.

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<v Speaker 3>My mother worked as a school teacher for some of

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<v Speaker 3>my childhood and then was stayed at home mom after that,

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<v Speaker 3>and so she would cook and cooked and ate at home. Right.

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<v Speaker 3>Usually it was a somewhat like meal coume in eggs,

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<v Speaker 3>piece of meat, piece of fish, some peas, beans, rice

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<v Speaker 3>and uh, sort of these wholesome eating and they would

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<v Speaker 3>probably could be fried stuff. But we also eat stuff

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<v Speaker 3>like squirrel.

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<v Speaker 2>Would squirrel like I've never eaten squirrel.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, squirrel. I always think it. You know, people say

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<v Speaker 3>something tastes like chicken. I always think something tastes like squirrel.

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<v Speaker 3>Squirrels my reference meat. I'm kidding, but it is, uh,

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<v Speaker 3>but it you know, it's a it's a much leaner

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<v Speaker 3>meat than anything you probably get that's domesticated. But I

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<v Speaker 3>always liked squirrel of.

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<v Speaker 2>This, like, would you hunt them? Would you go to

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<v Speaker 2>the squirrel No?

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<v Speaker 3>No, you know, I can't buy them at the grocery store.

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<v Speaker 3>But either I'd hunt them or somebody would bring some

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<v Speaker 3>squirrel by because they've been squirrel hunting and uh. And

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<v Speaker 3>occasionally people bring by dove or quail and eat that

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<v Speaker 3>as well. Yeah, quail and venison. Yeah, it was always

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<v Speaker 3>somebody would get a deer every winter, and then the

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<v Speaker 3>butcher it and everybody have some venison for the winner

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<v Speaker 3>venison sausage.

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<v Speaker 2>I grew up in upstate New York, and I still

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<v Speaker 2>have memories of the deer on the front of the car.

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<v Speaker 2>Even the deer being brought back from the hunting, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you watch Bambi and could never take it right.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you get the wild boars. They didn't look so nice.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, did your parents ever take you to a restaurant?

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<v Speaker 3>We did, but there were not great restaurants. And bo

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<v Speaker 3>Cava Mississippi Holiday and on Sunday was probably the best

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<v Speaker 3>restaurant in town. There were catfish cabins which were great.

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<v Speaker 3>So you go out there on the river and you'd

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<v Speaker 3>eat the filet of catfish and hush puppies and French

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<v Speaker 3>fries and are a corn meal that's fried, No, that's

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<v Speaker 3>corn dog with a hot dog in it. But think

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<v Speaker 3>of that without the hot dog in it, Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 3>without the stick, and you're getting pretty close to a

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<v Speaker 3>hush puppy. So there were things like that. There's sort

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<v Speaker 3>of specialty places, but there were no in my day.

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<v Speaker 3>There was no fine dining, and if there was, my

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<v Speaker 3>family would know about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Talking about your father and segregation, can you tell

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<v Speaker 2>me about that. Presumably when you went to restaurants they

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<v Speaker 2>were segregated. It was your school segregated.

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<v Speaker 3>When I started school in Mississippi in nineteen fifty nine,

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<v Speaker 3>it was completely segregated. There were white schools and black schools.

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<v Speaker 3>There were colored only for water fountains and bathrooms, and

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<v Speaker 3>white onlies completely separate. In the twelve years I went

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<v Speaker 3>to school, everything happened, and by my senior year in

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<v Speaker 3>high school, my graduating class was about fifty to fifty

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<v Speaker 3>white black. So it all happened in my school years.

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<v Speaker 3>And there were people like my dad who were very

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<v Speaker 3>supportive of change and working hard for it. There were

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<v Speaker 3>people who were absolute racist and didn't want it, and

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<v Speaker 3>then there was a group of people in between that

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<v Speaker 3>knew it was the right thing, but they just they

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to come slowly. I was talking to Jesse Jackson once,

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<v Speaker 3>and Jesse was saying that the biggest problem they had

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<v Speaker 3>in the civil rights movement were not the racists, because

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<v Speaker 3>they could sort of deal with them. It was the

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<v Speaker 3>people who wanted to go slow. And that's sort of

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<v Speaker 3>human nature, I'm sure. So there was not bad people.

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<v Speaker 3>They weren't terrible people. They just they were liked want

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<v Speaker 3>things to change, and so I think you had to

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<v Speaker 3>sort of overcome that inertia. You didn't necessarily have to

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<v Speaker 3>convince them not to be racist. You had to commence

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<v Speaker 3>them to go ahead and make the changes and make

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<v Speaker 3>them more dramatically than you expected to be. Initially, in

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<v Speaker 3>Mississippi to break through segregation, they did freedom of choice,

0:14:11.320 --> 0:14:13.079
<v Speaker 3>so you could choose which school you wanted.

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<v Speaker 2>To go to.

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<v Speaker 3>So we have maybe ten black kids at our school

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<v Speaker 3>and maybe ten white kids at the black school. Hardly integrated.

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<v Speaker 3>And it wasn't until the federal government basically said, look,

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<v Speaker 3>you're going to have to bust kids or do whatever,

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<v Speaker 3>but you're gonna have to mix the schools based on

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<v Speaker 3>sort of the racial population of the area. And that's

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<v Speaker 3>when the big change came.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, we're getting into another discussion, but that is

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<v Speaker 2>the role of the federal government, wasn't it was saying,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we do you change hearts and minds first

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<v Speaker 2>and then bring an integration or do you say we're

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<v Speaker 2>doing this and you're going to have to change.

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<v Speaker 3>I think, you know, and by the way, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>think there was any looking back any other way. Probably

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<v Speaker 3>would have been better to do it sooner, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>I look at all these years. I was on Instagram

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<v Speaker 3>with one of my friends, the people I went to

0:15:00.680 --> 0:15:03.320
<v Speaker 3>school with who was black, and my senior year they

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<v Speaker 3>closed down the black high school, merged it with the

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<v Speaker 3>white high school, turned the black school into the middle school,

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<v Speaker 3>and sort of moved everything into that building. And I

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<v Speaker 3>was asking, I said, what did feel like? And he

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<v Speaker 3>said I felt unwelcome? And I thought that was the

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<v Speaker 3>interesting feeling about. You know, here are these kids that

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<v Speaker 3>are forced to go somewhere new, into a new situation

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<v Speaker 3>and not feeling like everybody's going, hey, welcome, let me

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<v Speaker 3>show you around. So I think it's you know, been

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<v Speaker 3>a struggle from that, but I think there are, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>many people making great progress, and there's some people still

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<v Speaker 3>resisting progress.

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<v Speaker 2>And while you were growing up in this house and

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<v Speaker 2>the food, you also started working, as I said when

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<v Speaker 2>you told me the other night, at a kind of

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<v Speaker 2>almost illegal age. I would have thought it was even

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<v Speaker 2>fourteen or fifteen.

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<v Speaker 3>I had actually worked. Even when I was in the

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<v Speaker 3>fifth grade. I got a job sweeping up a department

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<v Speaker 3>store in town after the store closed. I'm sure that

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<v Speaker 3>was illegal, But when I was fifteen, I needed the

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<v Speaker 3>job to pay for flying lessons, and the only job

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<v Speaker 3>I could find I just.

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<v Speaker 2>Stopped flying lessons. Todaye fifteen you.

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<v Speaker 3>Can solo at sixteen. So I wanted to get the

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<v Speaker 3>money when I was fifteen, so that at sixteen I

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<v Speaker 3>could start my flying career. And I tried to get

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<v Speaker 3>a job bagging groceries, actually at to Pigley Wiggily, which

0:16:22.960 --> 0:16:24.560
<v Speaker 3>was a very good paying job because they tipped you

0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:27.520
<v Speaker 3>to bring the bags out to the car. And the jobs,

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<v Speaker 3>as you imagine, we're all full. I tried to get

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<v Speaker 3>a job at a men's clothing store, which everyone hung

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<v Speaker 3>out at after school. And I had no jobs. And

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<v Speaker 3>I walked in this radio station and asked a man

0:16:37.400 --> 0:16:39.840
<v Speaker 3>named Bill Jones who owned the radio station, if I

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<v Speaker 3>could have a job. And he said, do you get

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<v Speaker 3>in trouble? Not really, you get good grades. Yeah, I

0:16:45.120 --> 0:16:46.920
<v Speaker 3>get good grades. He goes, come in this room. He

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<v Speaker 3>took me in a little studio. He had a real,

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<v Speaker 3>real tape recorder. He turned it on record. He tore

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<v Speaker 3>some wire to copy off these teletype machines he used

0:16:54.360 --> 0:16:57.040
<v Speaker 3>to print the news constantly, and he said, read this.

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<v Speaker 3>I read it. He listened to tape and goes, that's

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<v Speaker 3>good enough. Go to New Orleans and get your third

0:17:02.040 --> 0:17:04.840
<v Speaker 3>class radio telephone operator's license, which means I could then

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<v Speaker 3>control the transmitter. And so I went away to New

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<v Speaker 3>Orleans got it and that began my radio at age

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<v Speaker 3>age fifteen making a dollar I think it was probably

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<v Speaker 3>a dollar sixty five an hour minimum wage.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow. Do you remember anything to do with food and

0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:19.600
<v Speaker 2>you're ate garbage? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I was a very skinny kid. So I

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<v Speaker 3>heard in my ear always eat, you need to eat more.

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<v Speaker 3>We got to faten you up. So I would eat

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<v Speaker 3>bags of potato, chips and candy and everything, so anything

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to eat, and just had a ravenous appetite

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<v Speaker 3>for chunk.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And did that last?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it lasted until I started gaining weight and go, well,

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<v Speaker 3>wait a minute, that's not a good idea.

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<v Speaker 2>And when you left home, did you go to university?

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<v Speaker 3>I went to college in Jackson, Mississippi. I was on

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<v Speaker 3>the radio. I kept getting better and better jobs, and

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<v Speaker 3>I had a job I worked in the afternoons in Brookhaven.

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<v Speaker 3>On Sunday, I drove to Jackson and was on Sunday

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<v Speaker 3>morning on the one o two point nine stereo rock

0:18:00.359 --> 0:18:02.720
<v Speaker 3>and Jackson where we went. And that was a tasty

0:18:02.760 --> 0:18:05.760
<v Speaker 3>track from Doctor John the Night Tripper. And before that

0:18:05.840 --> 0:18:09.000
<v Speaker 3>you heard the doors and it was you imagine great radio.

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<v Speaker 3>You would imagine people sitting in some you know, smoke

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<v Speaker 3>field filled room. And then I got a job on

0:18:15.280 --> 0:18:17.879
<v Speaker 3>the top forty station in town, which was the Pop station,

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<v Speaker 3>and I did night times there. So at the college

0:18:20.359 --> 0:18:23.679
<v Speaker 3>here in today, went there and I got completely bitten

0:18:23.720 --> 0:18:26.119
<v Speaker 3>by the radio bug and decided this is going to

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<v Speaker 3>be my career. Maybe as simple as because there were

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<v Speaker 3>restlines ringing all the time, and there were girls in

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<v Speaker 3>the other end of the request line. I mean, mom,

0:18:34.119 --> 0:18:36.240
<v Speaker 3>you know a teenage boy and they go, hello, I'd

0:18:36.240 --> 0:18:37.679
<v Speaker 3>like to meet you, and you go, what you're asking

0:18:37.680 --> 0:18:41.399
<v Speaker 3>me to meet me? So I got buried. This was

0:18:41.520 --> 0:18:47.040
<v Speaker 3>nineteen seventy one seventy two. In nineteen seventy two, I

0:18:47.080 --> 0:18:49.320
<v Speaker 3>sent away all these air checks, which are tapes of

0:18:49.359 --> 0:18:51.840
<v Speaker 3>your radio shows, all these radio stations all over the

0:18:51.840 --> 0:18:54.200
<v Speaker 3>country trying to get a job, and I got hired

0:18:54.200 --> 0:18:57.360
<v Speaker 3>in Milwaukee. This eighteen year old kid. I've never been

0:18:57.400 --> 0:19:01.879
<v Speaker 3>north of Tennessee, and I remember driving up. I loaded

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<v Speaker 3>up my car, I drove up, spent the night in

0:19:03.920 --> 0:19:05.920
<v Speaker 3>Saint Louis, and then I drove the rest of away

0:19:05.960 --> 0:19:08.480
<v Speaker 3>the next day. And when I saw that Chicago skyline,

0:19:08.600 --> 0:19:11.600
<v Speaker 3>I went, oh my god, what is that I've never

0:19:11.640 --> 0:19:15.360
<v Speaker 3>seen anything like it. And I said one day, One day,

0:19:15.359 --> 0:19:17.920
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to work in Chicago. And I went to Milwaukee,

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<v Speaker 3>and the competitor in Milwaukee had a sister station in Detroit,

0:19:22.280 --> 0:19:24.280
<v Speaker 3>and they hired me to go to Detroit to do

0:19:24.400 --> 0:19:26.600
<v Speaker 3>tenant night till two in the morning. At that time,

0:19:26.640 --> 0:19:29.080
<v Speaker 3>Detroit was the fifth largest city in the country. And

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<v Speaker 3>I go, oh my god, I'm in absolutely the big time. Now.

0:19:32.080 --> 0:19:33.639
<v Speaker 3>They didn't pay me any money, but I'm in the

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<v Speaker 3>big time. So at age twenty, I went to Chicago

0:19:37.119 --> 0:19:39.720
<v Speaker 3>NBC in Chicago and I'm the program director and I'm

0:19:39.760 --> 0:19:42.080
<v Speaker 3>doing the afternoon show on the radio station. And I

0:19:42.119 --> 0:19:43.960
<v Speaker 3>did the FM station there and then they sent me

0:19:44.000 --> 0:19:51.679
<v Speaker 3>to New York to WNBC when I was twenty three.

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<v Speaker 2>Those were very heady political times, late sixties, early seventies.

0:20:01.200 --> 0:20:02.919
<v Speaker 2>Detroit was burning.

0:20:03.800 --> 0:20:06.760
<v Speaker 3>Sixties and the sixties. I came there not much after that.

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<v Speaker 3>The country was in turmoil, Nixon resigning, you know, everything,

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<v Speaker 3>the draft. I escaped the draft because I have one eye.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was four f so I was never going in. Yeah,

0:20:21.240 --> 0:20:23.200
<v Speaker 3>but I lost an eye as a child, my right

0:20:23.240 --> 0:20:25.280
<v Speaker 3>eye lost an eye as a child in a horseback

0:20:25.359 --> 0:20:28.000
<v Speaker 3>riding accident, so I was not going to be drafted.

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<v Speaker 3>But I also had a They had a lottery for

0:20:31.480 --> 0:20:33.760
<v Speaker 3>my age group, and I happened to get a good

0:20:33.840 --> 0:20:36.240
<v Speaker 3>number for the lottery. Said the lottery numbers completely wasted

0:20:36.280 --> 0:20:39.640
<v Speaker 3>on me, so the draft. But the draft was there

0:20:40.320 --> 0:20:41.879
<v Speaker 3>every And by the way, I still had a draft

0:20:41.880 --> 0:20:44.080
<v Speaker 3>card because too they get called up and get classified

0:20:44.080 --> 0:20:45.760
<v Speaker 3>as four F you have to have the draft card.

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<v Speaker 3>But that was going on. And remember we had the

0:20:49.040 --> 0:20:52.439
<v Speaker 3>the oil embargo, so we had to wait days to

0:20:52.520 --> 0:20:56.200
<v Speaker 3>get our gasoline. And it was just an inflation went

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<v Speaker 3>wild and the economy went terrible and through the seventies.

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<v Speaker 3>So I lived through all that. I didn't know what

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<v Speaker 3>I was looking at. By the way, I'd never driven

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<v Speaker 3>in snow until I got to Detroit and someone took

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<v Speaker 3>me to a parking lot one day and taught me

0:21:10.080 --> 0:21:13.160
<v Speaker 3>how to drive in snow. But I learned a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you do something bad?

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<v Speaker 2>Going back to the food when you left is being

0:21:18.240 --> 0:21:21.480
<v Speaker 2>cooked for by your mother, being shopped for, buying your mother,

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<v Speaker 2>having wild squirrels, and then you were on your own.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you just forget about the food that you've grown

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<v Speaker 2>up with and grab what you could, and did you

0:21:30.160 --> 0:21:32.760
<v Speaker 2>have an apartment where cook did you have a girlfriend

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<v Speaker 2>who cooked for you? Did you have a domestic life,

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<v Speaker 2>because you haven't described any domestic life.

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<v Speaker 3>I was completely a fiend for working, and I was

0:21:41.720 --> 0:21:44.639
<v Speaker 3>so ambitious that I wanted to put all my efforts

0:21:44.680 --> 0:21:47.480
<v Speaker 3>into working. I would eat whatever I could. I'd eat

0:21:47.520 --> 0:21:51.080
<v Speaker 3>stuff out of a can. I felt it was like

0:21:51.119 --> 0:21:55.960
<v Speaker 3>a college student eating. But when I went to Milwaukee

0:21:55.960 --> 0:21:58.399
<v Speaker 3>back then, the regional foods and that's the first time

0:21:58.440 --> 0:22:00.639
<v Speaker 3>I ever saw a submarine sam which I go, what

0:22:00.680 --> 0:22:03.720
<v Speaker 3>the hell is that thing? So I discovered submarine sandwiches.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I ate my first pizza in Detroit and

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<v Speaker 3>you like it? Yeah, I liked it. It was not

0:22:08.600 --> 0:22:12.119
<v Speaker 3>what I expected, and I probably got to I went

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<v Speaker 3>to Pittsburgh in Chicago, I think I was Chicago before

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<v Speaker 3>ever he ate an artichoke, and I.

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<v Speaker 2>Remember the first time I ate an artichoke. I was

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<v Speaker 2>at Harvard at a party and somebody passed around. I

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<v Speaker 2>literally didn't know how to eat it. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 2>what it was that you took the leaf off, you

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<v Speaker 2>know that that was something that.

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<v Speaker 3>Was A girlfriend introduced me to the artichoke, and she

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<v Speaker 3>had to explain to me as if I'm some simpleton

0:22:38.480 --> 0:22:40.720
<v Speaker 3>how I would eat it. And I thought, wow, this

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<v Speaker 3>is so advanced. I can't wait to go back to

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<v Speaker 3>Mississippi and tell him about an ARTI choke.

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<v Speaker 2>When you were at home, Was it a big event

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<v Speaker 2>for your family?

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<v Speaker 3>Whenever I would come home, the cast iron skill was out.

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<v Speaker 3>My mother always made fried okre because she knew it

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<v Speaker 3>was my favorite, and we would probably have some fried catfish,

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<v Speaker 3>which was also mine. And for year I'm a pilot,

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<v Speaker 3>and for years I would stop if I was doing

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<v Speaker 3>a trip and going anywhere near Memphis, or I would

0:23:06.840 --> 0:23:09.879
<v Speaker 3>stop in Memphis. I would have called my cousins before

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<v Speaker 3>get one of them to bring me some catfish and

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<v Speaker 3>some barbecue to the plane and get some fuel there

0:23:15.800 --> 0:23:18.720
<v Speaker 3>and take off, and so I eat the Rendezvous or

0:23:18.760 --> 0:23:22.480
<v Speaker 3>Corky's barbecue for years there in the fried catfish vallets.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you like about flying?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, that's a really good question. I was in

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<v Speaker 3>the fifth grade in Mississippi. My dad had a friend

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<v Speaker 3>who had an airplane two seater, and he took me

0:23:35.320 --> 0:23:38.719
<v Speaker 3>up in that plane, and I remember that sensation of

0:23:38.760 --> 0:23:40.720
<v Speaker 3>like you're going up in elevator, but you don't come down.

0:23:40.800 --> 0:23:43.480
<v Speaker 3>You just keep going. And I looked down in the

0:23:43.560 --> 0:23:47.160
<v Speaker 3>sense of control. And my grandfather worked for a man

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<v Speaker 3>in picking You in Mississippi who had a big lumber

0:23:51.800 --> 0:23:54.600
<v Speaker 3>mill and plant. My grandfather ran it for him, and

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<v Speaker 3>he had a plane, and my dad's cousin, my grandfather's,

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<v Speaker 3>was the pilot for it. So when I would go

0:24:03.920 --> 0:24:05.720
<v Speaker 3>to picking You, and my grandfather would let me go

0:24:05.800 --> 0:24:07.960
<v Speaker 3>out and crawl all over the plane and hang out

0:24:08.000 --> 0:24:10.760
<v Speaker 3>with these planes. And I was just eating up with airplanes.

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<v Speaker 3>No idea why, but it's just something about flying. And

0:24:13.880 --> 0:24:16.399
<v Speaker 3>over the years always found that I'd get in that

0:24:16.520 --> 0:24:19.480
<v Speaker 3>cockpit and whatever I'm thinking about goes away, and I

0:24:19.480 --> 0:24:22.600
<v Speaker 3>think about flying and I look down at the ground.

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<v Speaker 3>On cross country, I stop at these places to get fuel.

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<v Speaker 3>I try and stop. I used to try and stop anymore,

0:24:29.119 --> 0:24:31.080
<v Speaker 3>but used to stop in all these little towns. So

0:24:31.119 --> 0:24:33.800
<v Speaker 3>I had planes that didn't go very far before we

0:24:33.880 --> 0:24:36.800
<v Speaker 3>needed more fuel. And I would often borrow a crew car,

0:24:37.440 --> 0:24:40.119
<v Speaker 3>and while they're refueling the plane, I'd go into town

0:24:40.200 --> 0:24:43.320
<v Speaker 3>and go to a restaurant, buy something, look around.

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<v Speaker 2>You find out the food of the place.

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<v Speaker 3>I can still remember I went to stop the North

0:24:47.480 --> 0:24:50.760
<v Speaker 3>Carolina once and went into town ordered some barbecue and

0:24:50.800 --> 0:24:53.879
<v Speaker 3>they brought me out this meat with like vinegar on it,

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<v Speaker 3>and I go, I'm sorry, I ordered barbecue, and they go,

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<v Speaker 3>this is barbecue. I go, boy, I don't know what

0:24:58.560 --> 0:25:02.800
<v Speaker 3>this stuff is. Well to me, it was to them

0:25:02.840 --> 0:25:07.240
<v Speaker 3>that was perfect barbecue. Where was it in North Carolina?

0:25:07.280 --> 0:25:11.040
<v Speaker 3>And I actually a friend I met years ago. I

0:25:11.080 --> 0:25:13.240
<v Speaker 3>met him at a mutual friend introduced this in a

0:25:13.280 --> 0:25:16.080
<v Speaker 3>barbecue restaurant and we start banning a little bit, and

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<v Speaker 3>I go, he's from North Carolina. Go, you know, I

0:25:18.480 --> 0:25:20.720
<v Speaker 3>don't know what that stuff is you have, but that's

0:25:20.760 --> 0:25:23.480
<v Speaker 3>not barbecue. So I threw down the gauntlet. And so

0:25:23.640 --> 0:25:28.000
<v Speaker 3>he organized a party that summer and invited all of

0:25:28.000 --> 0:25:30.160
<v Speaker 3>his friends from the South to bring the barbecue from

0:25:30.200 --> 0:25:33.320
<v Speaker 3>their home state. And it was such a great and

0:25:33.400 --> 0:25:35.960
<v Speaker 3>he did it for a couple of years, which great fun.

0:25:36.119 --> 0:25:38.680
<v Speaker 3>And you know, you realize South Carolina has this mustard

0:25:38.680 --> 0:25:42.720
<v Speaker 3>based barbecue. Texas has barbecue that looks like Mississippi. It's

0:25:42.800 --> 0:25:46.840
<v Speaker 3>red barbecue, nothing sweet about it. And then you get

0:25:47.640 --> 0:25:50.800
<v Speaker 3>very chilly Chile and then you get up to Missouri

0:25:50.960 --> 0:25:53.200
<v Speaker 3>or somewhere like that, and it is barbecue, but it's

0:25:53.240 --> 0:25:56.760
<v Speaker 3>not pork. It's beef, and everywhere else is pork barbecue.

0:25:56.800 --> 0:25:58.880
<v Speaker 3>So what's your favorite Mississippi?

0:25:58.920 --> 0:26:03.720
<v Speaker 2>Of course question, because I remember I also talked to

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<v Speaker 2>Al Gore and he talked a lot about the barbecue

0:26:06.520 --> 0:26:07.080
<v Speaker 2>in Tennessee.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually, at that party, the first party, his daughter came

0:26:11.480 --> 0:26:13.840
<v Speaker 3>with her husband, and I was going to get my

0:26:14.000 --> 0:26:19.199
<v Speaker 3>barbecue from Corky's in Memphis, and they got Corky's, so

0:26:19.240 --> 0:26:21.000
<v Speaker 3>I couldn't do that, and so I had to get

0:26:21.040 --> 0:26:25.280
<v Speaker 3>my cousin, who his partner was one of these barbecuers,

0:26:25.400 --> 0:26:27.840
<v Speaker 3>like Championship Barbecue where they take the rig out on

0:26:27.840 --> 0:26:30.280
<v Speaker 3>the weekends and they'd do with the barbecue vessel, and

0:26:30.359 --> 0:26:33.760
<v Speaker 3>so he made some and they flew it up and

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<v Speaker 3>I had I won the award for the best barbecue,

0:26:36.240 --> 0:26:39.480
<v Speaker 3>but I totally cheated. This guy's like a blue ribbon barbecuer,

0:26:39.880 --> 0:26:43.280
<v Speaker 3>and we pulled this stuff out and so it was

0:26:43.480 --> 0:26:46.320
<v Speaker 3>that's my connection to Al's barbecue as well.

0:26:46.440 --> 0:26:49.520
<v Speaker 2>Do you think it's very male barbecuing? I always wonder

0:26:49.520 --> 0:26:51.600
<v Speaker 2>whether it's it gives men an excuse to cook.

0:26:51.840 --> 0:26:54.160
<v Speaker 3>I think I think grilling in the South was sort

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<v Speaker 3>of a male activity that they would hang out around

0:26:57.080 --> 0:27:00.600
<v Speaker 3>the grill outside and do it. I think it's changed

0:27:00.600 --> 0:27:03.560
<v Speaker 3>a lot. I don't think it's quite that way anymore.

0:27:04.359 --> 0:27:06.800
<v Speaker 2>And then did you have a family quite early on?

0:27:06.840 --> 0:27:07.760
<v Speaker 2>Did you have children?

0:27:07.800 --> 0:27:11.440
<v Speaker 3>And I was twenty nine when I had my first child, son?

0:27:12.040 --> 0:27:13.200
<v Speaker 2>Where was that? What city?

0:27:13.320 --> 0:27:13.760
<v Speaker 3>New York?

0:27:13.960 --> 0:27:17.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? And was that also work obsessed? So that you

0:27:17.600 --> 0:27:19.040
<v Speaker 2>did you think about food?

0:27:19.119 --> 0:27:23.400
<v Speaker 3>Then I'm really still work obsessed. I tell people work

0:27:23.520 --> 0:27:26.600
<v Speaker 3>is my golf. I quite enjoyed. It's like the most

0:27:26.640 --> 0:27:30.360
<v Speaker 3>interesting puzzle you could possibly play a game and love

0:27:30.440 --> 0:27:33.840
<v Speaker 3>playing it. And I often described to my kids. I

0:27:33.880 --> 0:27:36.800
<v Speaker 3>read somewhere don't go home and complain about your work

0:27:36.800 --> 0:27:39.040
<v Speaker 3>to your kids, because they'll say, if you hate it

0:27:39.040 --> 0:27:40.760
<v Speaker 3>that much, why are you doing that instead of being

0:27:40.760 --> 0:27:43.040
<v Speaker 3>with me? So you should actually be honest and say

0:27:43.040 --> 0:27:44.960
<v Speaker 3>I really enjoy my work and then say, okay, well

0:27:44.960 --> 0:27:46.960
<v Speaker 3>I understand why you do that instead of be with me.

0:27:47.600 --> 0:27:50.320
<v Speaker 3>And so with that in mind, I used to tell

0:27:50.320 --> 0:27:52.080
<v Speaker 3>my kid, you know, this is like the greatest video

0:27:52.160 --> 0:27:54.320
<v Speaker 3>game in the world. In the morning, I can't wait

0:27:54.359 --> 0:27:55.600
<v Speaker 3>to get them and start playing it. At the end

0:27:55.600 --> 0:27:58.560
<v Speaker 3>of the day, I don't quite want to put it away, but.

0:27:58.560 --> 0:28:01.119
<v Speaker 2>Did you eat when you work? Do you still stop?

0:28:01.520 --> 0:28:04.000
<v Speaker 3>I have a terrible habit. Then when I start thinking

0:28:04.480 --> 0:28:06.439
<v Speaker 3>and we start like okay, let's get in the room,

0:28:06.520 --> 0:28:08.520
<v Speaker 3>let's start white boarding, I have to eat. I don't

0:28:08.560 --> 0:28:10.760
<v Speaker 3>know what's the fuel in my brain. It's very bad

0:28:10.800 --> 0:28:12.600
<v Speaker 3>for me because what I want to eat. And it

0:28:12.680 --> 0:28:15.080
<v Speaker 3>was for years. They had a joke about how many

0:28:15.080 --> 0:28:18.480
<v Speaker 3>bags of potato chips could I eat in an hour?

0:28:18.960 --> 0:28:21.640
<v Speaker 3>And if there were cookies, I would eat. Everyone say

0:28:21.640 --> 0:28:23.560
<v Speaker 3>oh everybody wants cookies. I would eat all the cookies.

0:28:23.560 --> 0:28:25.800
<v Speaker 3>I would leave none for anyone else in a meeting

0:28:26.080 --> 0:28:31.159
<v Speaker 3>and walking And now I try and modulate that with

0:28:31.440 --> 0:28:34.119
<v Speaker 3>vegetables and something that's going to be good for me

0:28:34.359 --> 0:28:35.040
<v Speaker 3>or some nuts.

0:28:35.280 --> 0:28:37.879
<v Speaker 2>Were you too young for that kind of madmen to

0:28:38.080 --> 0:28:38.960
<v Speaker 2>Martini lunch?

0:28:39.280 --> 0:28:41.840
<v Speaker 3>I was just on the tail end of that. When

0:28:41.880 --> 0:28:44.600
<v Speaker 3>I came to New York. In the media business, people

0:28:44.720 --> 0:28:47.400
<v Speaker 3>drank every day at lunch and they had a bar

0:28:47.600 --> 0:28:49.920
<v Speaker 3>in their office. And so if you came to someone's office,

0:28:49.920 --> 0:28:52.080
<v Speaker 3>say hey, can I get you a drink? Let's talk

0:28:52.120 --> 0:28:55.280
<v Speaker 3>about this, and I'll take a vodka. And people are

0:28:55.320 --> 0:28:59.240
<v Speaker 3>like soust and there were people you would never ask

0:28:59.280 --> 0:29:01.719
<v Speaker 3>for a decision after lunch, you'd avoid them, or there

0:29:01.720 --> 0:29:04.280
<v Speaker 3>were people you always wait until after lunch to ask

0:29:04.320 --> 0:29:07.160
<v Speaker 3>them for a decision. The people who were like, oh yeah,

0:29:07.160 --> 0:29:09.040
<v Speaker 3>that's great, go ahead and do that. Those were the

0:29:09.080 --> 0:29:11.320
<v Speaker 3>people you ask after lunch, and the others that got

0:29:11.320 --> 0:29:13.320
<v Speaker 3>cranky to stay away from them, ask them before they

0:29:13.320 --> 0:29:13.840
<v Speaker 3>go to lunch.

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<v Speaker 2>So you did go out for working lunches.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yes. In New York he did, and back at

0:29:17.960 --> 0:29:21.760
<v Speaker 3>twenty one Club across I was at the Warner Communications

0:29:21.800 --> 0:29:24.360
<v Speaker 3>for many years, which was a Rockefeller Center. Before that

0:29:24.480 --> 0:29:27.760
<v Speaker 3>was at NBC, which was also Rockefeller Center, and I

0:29:27.800 --> 0:29:30.680
<v Speaker 3>would go over to twenty one Club. We also had

0:29:30.680 --> 0:29:33.040
<v Speaker 3>a Warner by the time I rose up to be

0:29:33.080 --> 0:29:35.560
<v Speaker 3>a high enough executive, we had a corporate dining room

0:29:35.880 --> 0:29:38.040
<v Speaker 3>and that was a great luxury and something you don't

0:29:38.040 --> 0:29:40.040
<v Speaker 3>see today. I mean, there would be hoppers on the

0:29:40.080 --> 0:29:43.560
<v Speaker 3>wall and the chef would cook you anything you wanted,

0:29:43.720 --> 0:29:46.720
<v Speaker 3>and it was sort of extravagant meals. And I'd say,

0:29:46.720 --> 0:29:48.040
<v Speaker 3>you know, I don't have time to go up there.

0:29:48.080 --> 0:29:50.120
<v Speaker 3>Instead of ordering a sandwich, the chef would come down

0:29:50.160 --> 0:29:51.840
<v Speaker 3>to my office and go, what would you like me

0:29:51.880 --> 0:29:53.120
<v Speaker 3>to make for you to I haven't got it. So

0:29:53.160 --> 0:29:54.320
<v Speaker 3>and so and so I could do this and this

0:29:54.400 --> 0:29:55.320
<v Speaker 3>and this, say I'll take that.

0:30:05.960 --> 0:30:10.400
<v Speaker 2>Henry Cravis, you know Henry Sure, he had a fantastic food.

0:30:10.520 --> 0:30:12.480
<v Speaker 2>I was always so impressed with the food that he

0:30:12.520 --> 0:30:16.120
<v Speaker 2>did in London. Well, I had one of the chefs

0:30:16.120 --> 0:30:18.000
<v Speaker 2>in the River Cafe went to work for him. That

0:30:18.120 --> 0:30:20.800
<v Speaker 2>anybody could have their choice. You could order a steak,

0:30:20.920 --> 0:30:23.280
<v Speaker 2>or you could order a lobster. You could, and that

0:30:23.360 --> 0:30:26.600
<v Speaker 2>the idea of actually feeding well the people who worked

0:30:26.640 --> 0:30:30.160
<v Speaker 2>for you was an obligation and actually good for business

0:30:30.200 --> 0:30:31.040
<v Speaker 2>because you gave people.

0:30:31.640 --> 0:30:34.760
<v Speaker 3>In those days, it was the senior executives. It was

0:30:35.320 --> 0:30:38.440
<v Speaker 3>a very limited perk. When I went to America Online,

0:30:38.440 --> 0:30:40.320
<v Speaker 3>where I was president of America Online for a while,

0:30:40.840 --> 0:30:44.280
<v Speaker 3>we had in our campus in Dulles, Virginia, we had

0:30:44.320 --> 0:30:47.880
<v Speaker 3>a cafeteria and everybody got to eat there, and we

0:30:47.960 --> 0:30:52.120
<v Speaker 3>provided food that seemed much more egalitarian and much fairer.

0:30:52.480 --> 0:30:55.000
<v Speaker 3>And maybe the food wasn't quite as nice, but it

0:30:55.040 --> 0:30:57.200
<v Speaker 3>was there as affordable. People didn't have to go off

0:30:57.240 --> 0:30:59.640
<v Speaker 3>campus to go find a place to eat or bring

0:30:59.640 --> 0:31:00.640
<v Speaker 3>their food in a bag.

0:31:01.040 --> 0:31:04.880
<v Speaker 2>Richard, my husband always had a place for people to

0:31:04.880 --> 0:31:06.840
<v Speaker 2>eat in his office. You know that there was a

0:31:06.840 --> 0:31:09.160
<v Speaker 2>place where you could, you know, work on a drawing

0:31:09.240 --> 0:31:11.760
<v Speaker 2>for a building and then go down and have lunch

0:31:11.760 --> 0:31:13.840
<v Speaker 2>with the person that you were talking about it with,

0:31:14.040 --> 0:31:16.560
<v Speaker 2>or you would meet. And Michael Bloomberg does that very

0:31:16.600 --> 0:31:21.320
<v Speaker 2>seriously in his offices of actually providing free food.

0:31:21.440 --> 0:31:23.600
<v Speaker 3>He was almost a pioneer of doing that at the

0:31:23.720 --> 0:31:26.160
<v Speaker 3>level of which he did it. And you know, it's

0:31:26.160 --> 0:31:29.160
<v Speaker 3>interesting because it changes today because you can get delivery

0:31:29.280 --> 0:31:31.800
<v Speaker 3>like you never could before. I'm one of those people

0:31:31.840 --> 0:31:33.800
<v Speaker 3>that if I'm in the office, I don't want to

0:31:33.800 --> 0:31:36.080
<v Speaker 3>go out because I don't want to disrupt the work,

0:31:36.320 --> 0:31:38.200
<v Speaker 3>and somebody just sort of slides a plate in front

0:31:38.240 --> 0:31:40.560
<v Speaker 3>of me. If I'm meeting with someone, they'll ask them

0:31:40.560 --> 0:31:42.160
<v Speaker 3>what would you like? And today in New York we

0:31:42.400 --> 0:31:44.720
<v Speaker 3>order from great restaurants. Yeah, say whatever you want, we'll

0:31:44.800 --> 0:31:45.280
<v Speaker 3>order for you.

0:31:45.560 --> 0:31:47.600
<v Speaker 2>Tell that to me. I'm a restaurant. I have a restaurant.

0:31:47.640 --> 0:31:48.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to hear these stories.

0:31:49.480 --> 0:31:51.320
<v Speaker 3>But it was by the way. I don't know what

0:31:51.360 --> 0:31:54.320
<v Speaker 3>the profit margin is, but probably not bad because there's

0:31:54.320 --> 0:31:56.480
<v Speaker 3>no overhead except to getting the food to me. The

0:31:56.520 --> 0:31:58.840
<v Speaker 3>ones I think are tougher. Whoever, those people are who

0:31:58.840 --> 0:32:01.160
<v Speaker 3>are delivering? It can't possible been making any money?

0:32:02.760 --> 0:32:06.640
<v Speaker 2>And what about your family children? As your parents sat

0:32:06.680 --> 0:32:08.520
<v Speaker 2>down with you every night for dinner, did you do

0:32:08.600 --> 0:32:10.920
<v Speaker 2>that with your children or you were working? Now?

0:32:11.040 --> 0:32:14.200
<v Speaker 3>Well, I just found I don't know whether it's the

0:32:14.240 --> 0:32:16.840
<v Speaker 3>busy New York life or whether it was our family,

0:32:17.360 --> 0:32:19.200
<v Speaker 3>but I found everybody so wanted to eat when they

0:32:19.200 --> 0:32:23.440
<v Speaker 3>wanted to eat, and sort of indulge that. And if

0:32:23.480 --> 0:32:25.440
<v Speaker 3>I went out eat, I was going out at nine o'clock,

0:32:26.080 --> 0:32:29.600
<v Speaker 3>not at their timetable. So I would sit with kids

0:32:29.640 --> 0:32:33.440
<v Speaker 3>when they were eating in the afternoon for their dinner.

0:32:33.640 --> 0:32:35.480
<v Speaker 3>And I think as they got older, they wanted to

0:32:35.480 --> 0:32:36.880
<v Speaker 3>do this or that, and they wanted to do with

0:32:36.880 --> 0:32:39.280
<v Speaker 3>the friends, and so it was not at all what

0:32:39.320 --> 0:32:40.400
<v Speaker 3>the meal was for me.

0:32:41.720 --> 0:32:44.720
<v Speaker 2>Are they interested in food? There? Kids? Are they cooking?

0:32:44.800 --> 0:32:48.320
<v Speaker 3>My oldest son's a really good cook and very interested

0:32:48.320 --> 0:32:51.560
<v Speaker 3>in food, knows a lot about it, has great knife

0:32:51.560 --> 0:32:54.239
<v Speaker 3>skills and cooking skills, and knows how to do it.

0:32:54.680 --> 0:32:59.240
<v Speaker 3>My daughter was always a great baker and enjoyed baking stuff.

0:32:59.320 --> 0:33:02.800
<v Speaker 3>I was off sugar for about three years and for

0:33:02.920 --> 0:33:06.240
<v Speaker 3>my sixtieth birthday, my daughter said, Daddy, if I make

0:33:06.280 --> 0:33:08.040
<v Speaker 3>you a cake, Will you eat a piece? And I

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<v Speaker 3>go sure. I ate that piece of cake and it

0:33:10.440 --> 0:33:12.680
<v Speaker 3>triggered me and I eat ice cream that night. I

0:33:12.680 --> 0:33:16.440
<v Speaker 3>eat the cookies, I eat everything, and I'm ten years later,

0:33:16.480 --> 0:33:18.120
<v Speaker 3>I'm still not able to get off sugar for any

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<v Speaker 3>more than a month or so. And my middle son

0:33:22.320 --> 0:33:25.760
<v Speaker 3>is it doesn't like to eat, so it's like for

0:33:25.840 --> 0:33:26.880
<v Speaker 3>him eating the chore.

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<v Speaker 2>Can we have a moment on the tequila?

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<v Speaker 3>Sure?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So tell me how that story started.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I had a house in San Miguelde Ende in Mexico,

0:33:36.920 --> 0:33:40.000
<v Speaker 3>wonderful old you know, school World Heritage site up in

0:33:40.000 --> 0:33:43.200
<v Speaker 3>the mountains north of Mexico City and the big ax

0:33:43.280 --> 0:33:46.240
<v Speaker 3>Pat population, and there was a bootleg tequila in town

0:33:46.480 --> 0:33:49.360
<v Speaker 3>that all the expats loved because it was so smooth.

0:33:49.720 --> 0:33:52.480
<v Speaker 3>Most tequila has sort of that Wentz factor where you'd

0:33:52.720 --> 0:33:56.840
<v Speaker 3>need some salt or lime making your face grimace, and

0:33:56.880 --> 0:33:58.560
<v Speaker 3>this had none of that. It was smooth. It was

0:33:58.640 --> 0:34:03.880
<v Speaker 3>like a great whiskey. And my son came to visit.

0:34:03.920 --> 0:34:05.680
<v Speaker 3>He was working in Vegas at the time. He brought

0:34:05.720 --> 0:34:08.120
<v Speaker 3>his buddy who ran a nightclub in Vegas, and we

0:34:08.239 --> 0:34:10.560
<v Speaker 3>drank this stuff one night and this stuff came in

0:34:10.600 --> 0:34:13.319
<v Speaker 3>a plastic jug, and his friend said. The next morning,

0:34:13.360 --> 0:34:16.239
<v Speaker 3>he goes, you know, mister quitment, I sell Christal in

0:34:16.320 --> 0:34:18.480
<v Speaker 3>my club for a thousand dollars a bottle, so I

0:34:18.520 --> 0:34:20.440
<v Speaker 3>could get ten thousand dollars a jug for this. And

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<v Speaker 3>I think, wow, there's a business idea. I'm just doing investing,

0:34:24.160 --> 0:34:26.480
<v Speaker 3>then not really working that hard. I go back to

0:34:26.520 --> 0:34:30.040
<v Speaker 3>New York a month or so later, and I sort

0:34:30.040 --> 0:34:31.719
<v Speaker 3>of still thinking about it and sort of think, who

0:34:31.719 --> 0:34:34.000
<v Speaker 3>do I know in this spirit's business? And the dance

0:34:34.200 --> 0:34:36.640
<v Speaker 3>was really no one. Six months later I met a

0:34:36.640 --> 0:34:40.880
<v Speaker 3>party in Brooklyn, meet this interesting Mexican lady, chatting for

0:34:40.920 --> 0:34:42.680
<v Speaker 3>a while, and somewhere in the conversation I says, so

0:34:42.719 --> 0:34:44.440
<v Speaker 3>what do you do for a living? She goes, I

0:34:44.480 --> 0:34:48.080
<v Speaker 3>run Jose Quevo and North America. It's fate. Quit your job,

0:34:48.120 --> 0:34:51.040
<v Speaker 3>come be my partner. Have a great idea. And she

0:34:51.280 --> 0:34:53.239
<v Speaker 3>was sort of wanted to be an entrepreneur, but I mean,

0:34:53.400 --> 0:34:56.799
<v Speaker 3>leaving a good career was tough for her. And about

0:34:56.800 --> 0:34:59.120
<v Speaker 3>two months later I finally commenced her she should do it.

0:34:59.719 --> 0:35:02.560
<v Speaker 3>I'm thinking, naively, we'll just take this illegal stuff and

0:35:02.600 --> 0:35:05.680
<v Speaker 3>make it legal and import it she calls me and said,

0:35:05.680 --> 0:35:08.399
<v Speaker 3>by by bad news, said, I put that tequila through

0:35:08.400 --> 0:35:11.759
<v Speaker 3>a test and guess what is not tequila? They mixed

0:35:11.760 --> 0:35:15.080
<v Speaker 3>to aurguardiante and other stuff with it. So it's not

0:35:15.080 --> 0:35:16.920
<v Speaker 3>nothing we can do with. But I have an idea,

0:35:18.000 --> 0:35:20.040
<v Speaker 3>which she always does, because she's one of those people

0:35:20.080 --> 0:35:22.400
<v Speaker 3>that there's never a problem. Just this problem and solution

0:35:22.560 --> 0:35:25.600
<v Speaker 3>go together, and I go to Mexico. A couple of

0:35:25.600 --> 0:35:28.719
<v Speaker 3>weeks later, she is convinced the master tequila maker of

0:35:28.760 --> 0:35:31.520
<v Speaker 3>Mexico to come out of retirement to do one more tequila.

0:35:32.000 --> 0:35:34.839
<v Speaker 3>And he takes this bootleg stuff and he go, there's

0:35:34.880 --> 0:35:38.000
<v Speaker 3>a process I've always wanted to try on tequila. I'm

0:35:38.160 --> 0:35:40.480
<v Speaker 3>certain I can make this out of one hundred percent

0:35:40.520 --> 0:35:43.520
<v Speaker 3>of gobby, which makes it tequila. And so they I

0:35:43.520 --> 0:35:46.520
<v Speaker 3>gave him some money for a lab. About nine months later,

0:35:47.040 --> 0:35:50.719
<v Speaker 3>they came back with about six variations, and over the

0:35:50.840 --> 0:35:53.080
<v Speaker 3>two day period, we drank them all and picked one.

0:35:53.120 --> 0:35:57.480
<v Speaker 3>And that became consider going a shoven, which is our signature.

0:35:57.040 --> 0:35:58.760
<v Speaker 2>And you picked the one that you thought.

0:35:58.640 --> 0:36:01.200
<v Speaker 3>Was sort of the smooth, This had the most flavor.

0:36:01.480 --> 0:36:04.160
<v Speaker 3>What makes Costa Dragonas so special is the way we

0:36:04.200 --> 0:36:06.960
<v Speaker 3>make it. We preserve the flavor of the agabi. A

0:36:06.960 --> 0:36:08.759
<v Speaker 3>lot of what you taste in tequila is that's sort

0:36:08.760 --> 0:36:11.920
<v Speaker 3>of harsh taste and it's sort of the flavor has

0:36:11.960 --> 0:36:14.840
<v Speaker 3>been burned out of the agabi, and in considragonas if

0:36:14.880 --> 0:36:19.520
<v Speaker 3>you just smell it, you'll pick up pear notes, pepper, citrus, vanilla,

0:36:19.880 --> 0:36:22.600
<v Speaker 3>and so the secret of it is preserving that flavor.

0:36:23.080 --> 0:36:24.360
<v Speaker 3>And it's been great fun.

0:36:24.480 --> 0:36:27.120
<v Speaker 2>Does it tempt you to do something else? Like wine?

0:36:27.120 --> 0:36:28.440
<v Speaker 2>Would you want to buy it? No?

0:36:28.640 --> 0:36:31.120
<v Speaker 3>If I had known how hard it is, I probably

0:36:31.120 --> 0:36:33.800
<v Speaker 3>wouldn't have done this. What started as a lark wound

0:36:33.880 --> 0:36:37.719
<v Speaker 3>up being, you know, a major project. But it's turned

0:36:37.719 --> 0:36:38.200
<v Speaker 3>out well.

0:36:38.080 --> 0:36:39.880
<v Speaker 2>And SOA we had it the other night at the

0:36:39.960 --> 0:36:43.080
<v Speaker 2>River Cafe. I think tequila. Having lived in Mexico for

0:36:43.120 --> 0:36:45.960
<v Speaker 2>four months, I really got used to having tequila with food,

0:36:46.520 --> 0:36:48.560
<v Speaker 2>and not just Mexican food. I think it. You know,

0:36:48.600 --> 0:36:51.200
<v Speaker 2>it's just a drink that you can drink through, do

0:36:51.280 --> 0:36:51.960
<v Speaker 2>you yeah?

0:36:51.960 --> 0:36:52.640
<v Speaker 3>Absolutely?

0:36:52.920 --> 0:36:56.360
<v Speaker 2>So. You have houses all over, whether it's Jamaica or

0:36:56.440 --> 0:37:01.719
<v Speaker 2>Mexico or New York and Miami, and what is when

0:37:01.760 --> 0:37:05.520
<v Speaker 2>you go to those different places? Are you affected by

0:37:05.560 --> 0:37:09.120
<v Speaker 2>the food as well? In Jamaica, do you crave something

0:37:09.200 --> 0:37:11.200
<v Speaker 2>that will be remind you of Jamaica.

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<v Speaker 3>I think when you go to a place, the food's

0:37:14.280 --> 0:37:16.720
<v Speaker 3>a very important part of it. When I go to Jamaica,

0:37:16.920 --> 0:37:20.800
<v Speaker 3>crave jerk. You can't get enough at Aqi saltfish for breakfast.

0:37:21.480 --> 0:37:25.120
<v Speaker 3>There are unique foods there. And when I go to

0:37:25.480 --> 0:37:30.359
<v Speaker 3>La There it's interesting. There is I live very near

0:37:30.400 --> 0:37:34.080
<v Speaker 3>in Venice, Arawan, which is you know, probably what the

0:37:34.080 --> 0:37:37.359
<v Speaker 3>most expensive grocery store was crazy, But it's fun and

0:37:37.440 --> 0:37:39.920
<v Speaker 3>so we sort of play with the food there. Go

0:37:40.000 --> 0:37:43.200
<v Speaker 3>to Malibu. It's mostly seafood that we have there, and

0:37:43.280 --> 0:37:48.239
<v Speaker 3>you know, fresh farm vegetables. Miami has got everything now

0:37:49.280 --> 0:37:52.319
<v Speaker 3>an interesting sort of food capital. New York, of course

0:37:52.400 --> 0:37:55.319
<v Speaker 3>is New York. What do you want? And it's there?

0:37:55.800 --> 0:37:59.080
<v Speaker 3>And I'm building a house in Portugal. That's sort of

0:37:59.120 --> 0:38:02.040
<v Speaker 3>discovering the Portuguese cuisine.

0:38:02.120 --> 0:38:04.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, do you have chefs in each No?

0:38:04.440 --> 0:38:07.319
<v Speaker 3>No, no, I don't you just go Yeah, Casey, we'll

0:38:07.360 --> 0:38:09.360
<v Speaker 3>hire somebody to come in and cook. But part of

0:38:09.360 --> 0:38:12.240
<v Speaker 3>the funest cooking ourselves or going out to the restaurant.

0:38:12.600 --> 0:38:16.240
<v Speaker 2>And if food is a sense of discovery, it's also comfort.

0:38:17.000 --> 0:38:19.279
<v Speaker 2>My last question to you on this boat on our

0:38:19.360 --> 0:38:23.120
<v Speaker 2>time together. Is if you were saying that you needed food,

0:38:23.560 --> 0:38:27.000
<v Speaker 2>not to alleviate hunger or to remind you of a memory,

0:38:27.160 --> 0:38:29.400
<v Speaker 2>but you needed comfort. Is there a food that you

0:38:29.400 --> 0:38:30.000
<v Speaker 2>would turn to?

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<v Speaker 3>Ice cream? Ice cream, ice cream, cookies, yea chocolate, okay?

0:38:37.120 --> 0:38:40.040
<v Speaker 3>And if they're poisoned to me, I just have to

0:38:40.120 --> 0:38:42.120
<v Speaker 3>keep them away. If I have them in the refrigerator,

0:38:42.320 --> 0:38:44.279
<v Speaker 3>I'll say, I'm not going to have any and then

0:38:44.320 --> 0:38:46.760
<v Speaker 3>I'll go through the refrigerator, literally look at the freezer

0:38:46.840 --> 0:38:48.920
<v Speaker 3>and walk away, and then I'll get closer to it

0:38:48.960 --> 0:38:50.360
<v Speaker 3>and then I'll open it up and look at it.

0:38:50.560 --> 0:38:52.680
<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to resist that open it up. Then I'll go,

0:38:52.719 --> 0:38:55.279
<v Speaker 3>I'll have one spoonful and then suddenly I've eaten the

0:38:55.440 --> 0:38:59.840
<v Speaker 3>entire container of ice cream. And I'm absolutely, like, you know,

0:39:00.000 --> 0:39:03.279
<v Speaker 3>addict kind of behavior with those comfort foods, and none

0:39:03.320 --> 0:39:05.239
<v Speaker 3>other foods are like take it or leave it. But

0:39:05.320 --> 0:39:06.960
<v Speaker 3>those are the ones that really get me. And by

0:39:07.000 --> 0:39:09.279
<v Speaker 3>the way, and I guess when you say you know

0:39:09.320 --> 0:39:11.000
<v Speaker 3>it's the comfort food, it's the ones that make me

0:39:11.080 --> 0:39:13.400
<v Speaker 3>hate myself for eating them because it's so good and

0:39:13.440 --> 0:39:17.400
<v Speaker 3>so delicious and feels so good and so addictive.

0:39:17.600 --> 0:39:20.040
<v Speaker 2>It looks to me like you look pretty well, you

0:39:20.160 --> 0:39:23.000
<v Speaker 2>talk beautifully. You're my new friend, and I would go

0:39:23.120 --> 0:39:23.360
<v Speaker 2>for it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I love it. Thank you, You've given me great permission.

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<v Speaker 2>I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, and thank you for great dinner.

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