WEBVTT - The Mom Off: Episode 90 with Joe Gatto and Steve Byrne

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<v Speaker 1>Heybody, thanks for listening to Too Cool Moms. I'm Joe

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<v Speaker 1>Gatto and my boy crossed the way. Stevie Burne is

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<v Speaker 1>here with us. Two Cool Moms is your favorite podcast

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<v Speaker 1>that you're listening to right now. So Stevie, I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>seen this thing that's going on on the internet. I

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<v Speaker 1>need my readers, Okay, I like your readers. By the way,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. These are a bundle from Amazon dot com unisex.

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<v Speaker 1>Clearly Superman's Yes seventy eight. God asked me where super

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<v Speaker 1>Man is? Excuse me, ask me where Superman is? We're Superman.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that.

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<v Speaker 2>I like the way you palmed your glasses like a

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<v Speaker 2>third grader.

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<v Speaker 1>You did take him up, take him up? So I'd

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<v Speaker 1>seen this in going around the internet, you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>world Wide Web, of.

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<v Speaker 2>Course, and no bunga, dude, I love surfing.

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<v Speaker 1>They said, Uh, the they had like a you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the n C A double A brackets of like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>March Madness and whatnot. So they did that for TV dads,

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<v Speaker 1>and they put people up against each other. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, because of our show, Too Cool Moms, I

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<v Speaker 1>would put up the forty. Uh we put up a

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<v Speaker 1>bracket of just who do we think the best moms were?

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<v Speaker 1>And who who's the better mom? Between two who's the

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<v Speaker 1>better mom between two fictitious moms? Okay? So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>for instance, uh you know, let's say Edith bunker okay

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<v Speaker 1>versus Roseanne barr.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, both horrible singers. I think we can agree on that.

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<v Speaker 2>Roseanne watched the Anthem and Edith bunka.

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<v Speaker 1>But now we're hundred cent. We're just doing it on

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<v Speaker 1>their skills we know from TV as all their skills.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh boy, I would have to say, well, Roseanne. Roseanne

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<v Speaker 2>was more of a blue collar kind of like cut

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<v Speaker 2>to the Edith was more of a pushover with Archie,

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<v Speaker 2>but she had a ton of heart and she'd set

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<v Speaker 2>him straight at the end. I would say Roseanne, she's

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<v Speaker 2>more of a blunt force instrument as opposed to Edith,

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<v Speaker 2>who has the patience.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I what are your thoughts? I would one

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<v Speaker 1>say that?

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<v Speaker 2>Really?

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<v Speaker 1>I would? Yeah, Okay, you know what. Edith was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of just like you know what, the Edith did a

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<v Speaker 1>big like mommy like making sure our buddy was fed

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<v Speaker 1>and doing things like that too though, so I think

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<v Speaker 1>she gets mom points there, you know, But overall, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she would. Roseanne was in the trenches in

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<v Speaker 1>the Roseanne Show, right, she was rough and tumble, trying

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<v Speaker 1>to solve family problems, not having a lot of money,

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<v Speaker 1>doing all this, you know what she had to So

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think I would go. I think I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, fun fact, my folks bought Edith Bunker's

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<v Speaker 2>apartment from her in New York City when they moved

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<v Speaker 2>to New York in ninety five, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Believe, really holy cow.

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<v Speaker 2>So when they my father's in Native New York and

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<v Speaker 2>when he moved back, that's that's the young lady or

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<v Speaker 2>I should say young lady, but who he bought the

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<v Speaker 2>apartment from. So when we were there, I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>that's pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 1>That's pretty cool. All right. Uh, would you say Peg

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<v Speaker 1>Bundy or Marge Simpson.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, first off, Peg Bundy. When we were in junior

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<v Speaker 2>high school or high school and peg Bunny was out,

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, oh my god, Wow, what are you doing.

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<v Speaker 2>You're complaining about having sex with her? She's like, awesome,

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<v Speaker 2>Peg Bundy. I look, Peg Bundy one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 1>I love her.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Katie Segal look, I'm not okay, yeah, I'm sticking.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm stick of the script. Peg Bunny's hot. I say

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<v Speaker 2>that you're like peg Bunny back in the day was hot.

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<v Speaker 2>I think she's still a very beautiful actress. But I

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<v Speaker 2>think Peg Bundy back in the day was hot, hilarious

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<v Speaker 2>and at the same time like very selfish, which I like.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, March is Marg is more of a mom

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<v Speaker 1>though March.

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<v Speaker 2>Is a mom. Yeah, i'd have to say who's the

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<v Speaker 2>better mom?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, probably March.

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<v Speaker 2>But in terms of just like being a pervy, like

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<v Speaker 2>that's not the kid.

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<v Speaker 1>You're playing your own game here. How about how about.

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<v Speaker 2>Like like MILFs, she would do a milk mom.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, the better mom would be March Simpsons Martin.

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<v Speaker 2>What are your thoughts on it?

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<v Speaker 1>I I think I again, a Peggy is like kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a Roseannie kind of eye where she was just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get through what she had to get through.

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<v Speaker 1>I do find that she was kind of she was

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<v Speaker 1>more motherly. In the they mostly poked fun than the

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<v Speaker 1>show about her being a horrible mom. Yeah, like a

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<v Speaker 1>horrible mom. But at the end of the day, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it was more she was more like a her

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<v Speaker 1>and her husband. Was the dynamic between her and al

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<v Speaker 1>that was more of the butt of the jokes and

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<v Speaker 1>her and her kids. I do you think there was

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<v Speaker 1>love there too? But yeah, I think, I mean, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I I don't think she wins Peg Bundy.

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<v Speaker 2>Though she looked out, she always had heels on.

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<v Speaker 1>She did always had like those yoga put together. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she had yoga pants for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yoga pants were like capris or whatever, but they were tight.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, should we leave you alone? Permit it? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Peg Bundy.

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't kind of have a crush on Peg Bunny,

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah I.

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<v Speaker 1>Did for sure her end What was the Applegate?

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<v Speaker 2>Yea, yeah, Christine Applegate. But what was her name? And

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<v Speaker 2>I forget, But anyways, they were both hot. Yeah the

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<v Speaker 2>Bundy household.

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<v Speaker 1>Bud could get it. But the sun was hot too.

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<v Speaker 1>Even the dog that's wasn't the dogs name? Did they

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<v Speaker 1>have a dog?

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<v Speaker 2>They had a dog and the dog would always had

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<v Speaker 2>like voiceover that was really a little doggy.

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<v Speaker 1>Mat all right. How about Maltitia Adams or uh June

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<v Speaker 1>Cleaver from Leave It to Beaver? I bang either. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I've lost focus on the game. They're both in

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<v Speaker 1>black and white. Yeah hot.

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<v Speaker 2>Mortitia was pretty hot though, Yeah she was hot. Look,

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<v Speaker 2>June Cleaver, that's all America. So yes, one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 2>Who's the better mom? June Clever Leave It to Beaver

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<v Speaker 2>one hundred percent great paint by the numbers, mean potatoes, fun,

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<v Speaker 2>easy family sitcom. But Adam's family Martitia Adams was way hotter.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, way hotter.

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<v Speaker 2>Not as good of a mom, but what are your thoughts?

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<v Speaker 1>She raised a weird family? Pretty well.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean there's a hand in that you welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>She literally got a hand in the house. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I think I got Morticia, Yeah I think

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<v Speaker 1>I would. Yeah, I think I got Mortitia Adams two. Yeah, Okay, ready,

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<v Speaker 1>how about this is gonna be this is gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>a tough one here, ready, Carmelo Soprano or missus Brady. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>Now who's the better mom? I mean, I have to

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<v Speaker 1>say missus Brady. I had to say, Missus Brady. I

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<v Speaker 1>disagree here. You I think Carmelo was doing nothing but

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<v Speaker 1>insulating her family from the shit show that was going

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<v Speaker 1>on around them. Sure, but missus Brady had how many kids? Three?

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<v Speaker 1>And then she found the other guy and there was

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<v Speaker 1>six together. Kid but she broughte an aalys who was

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<v Speaker 1>doing some of the mom helping hand. Yeah, she had

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<v Speaker 1>helping hands. I don't know. I think Carmelo soprano is

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<v Speaker 1>tough to beat. Shout out Edie Falco.

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<v Speaker 2>I love her, Yeah, I think I look, I think

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<v Speaker 2>your Italian bloodline is pouring into this and so there

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<v Speaker 2>might be some favoritism here.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe maybe. Yeah, but you know they were fictitious Italian

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<v Speaker 1>mom family that lived in New Jersey.

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<v Speaker 2>You lived in Jersey. I lived in Jersey for a

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<v Speaker 2>minute for sure. Yeah. Boy, that's a tough one.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, do you know think Carmelo is a

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<v Speaker 1>mom was trying to do like more? You're probably right

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<v Speaker 1>leading them down the right dealing with hell.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you couldn't find a bigger pendulum swing than

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<v Speaker 2>seventy sickcom It's one of those gritty popular shows of

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<v Speaker 2>all time, right with uber violence, drug sex, all of it.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's so like it's crazy. Yeah, i'd have

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<v Speaker 2>to say Carmelo Soprano.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Maria Barone from Everybody Loves Raymond okay, and from

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<v Speaker 1>Happy Days. Missus Cunningham. Oh, I love Missus connhad love

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<v Speaker 1>Missus Kinnham. I think for me, that's the mom's mom

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<v Speaker 1>of America, right. Missus Conningham was just the best, the best,

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<v Speaker 1>the best, and so was mister Cunningham. By the way,

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<v Speaker 1>the Cunningham's overall, we're America America's family, Dan's daughter. What

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<v Speaker 1>was the name Chochi loves Joni? Yeah, Jony right, Jony Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, never never cared for Jony.

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<v Speaker 2>Really do you like Jony?

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<v Speaker 1>You a team Jocchi.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Jony kind of went through the fell through the cracks

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<v Speaker 1>and Happy Days yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, so it was Richie, but you know

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<v Speaker 2>then then you you know, you learn older like Richie's

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<v Speaker 2>there to service all the other characters. He's just there

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<v Speaker 2>to be kind of like the guy that sets everything

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<v Speaker 2>up right. He's the Dean Martin to the Jerry Jerry Lewis.

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<v Speaker 2>That is Patsy, Yeah, Vonn's al Ralph. Yeah. Happy Days

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<v Speaker 2>was my jam when I was a kid. Happy Days

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<v Speaker 2>one of your faves, absolutely love.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the most successful spinoffs ever was Lavernon Shirley

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<v Speaker 1>for that show.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, a lot of people don't know that, but

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<v Speaker 2>that was a spin off of that More Commindy. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>spin off of Happy Days was More Commindy really.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Because Gary Marshall, the producer, his son was in the

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<v Speaker 2>Aliens at the time because of uh, because I want

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<v Speaker 2>to spiel. I think it was Close Encounters or something

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<v Speaker 2>like that, and so his son said, you have to

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<v Speaker 2>have an alien on the show. He goes, okay, So

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<v Speaker 2>they had Rob Williams come in and Robin Williams did

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<v Speaker 2>a guest appearance and it was so popular and it

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<v Speaker 2>was the biggest comic that they put more committed that.

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<v Speaker 1>I did not know. Yeah, that's unbelievable.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Lavernon Shirley, the big ragou. Yeah, big loved him.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they they That's insane that there was two huge

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<v Speaker 1>spinoffs from one show, which was a juggernaut itself. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a and Joni loves yeah, Oh my god, Jody loves

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<v Speaker 1>Shotcy from that too. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, my one of my favorite jokes, Lisa

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<v Speaker 2>Lampanelli had a great joke. She's like, what was that

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<v Speaker 2>sitcom where these kids were in high school? It's like Wisconsin.

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<v Speaker 2>They hang out with the guy in a cool leather

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<v Speaker 2>jacket and it's just all white people, just all whites

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<v Speaker 2>and there was not one black person on that show.

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<v Speaker 1>What was that called?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Happy Days?

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<v Speaker 2>So ridiculous. But I will tell you my favorite sitcom

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<v Speaker 2>when I was a kid. Uhf remember you'd have to

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<v Speaker 2>you'd have your your normal three uhf fifty three in Pittsburgh.

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<v Speaker 1>What's happening? What's happening? We wei?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, for sure, that's rerun with rerun Dwayne Wayne Wayne

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<v Speaker 2>Wayne and then Rudge and they went to to uh

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<v Speaker 2>surely was there was their waitress. I watched What's Happened

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<v Speaker 2>all the time. I remember the Doobie Brothers. Do you

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<v Speaker 2>remember they were on this? I don't remember that, and

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<v Speaker 2>they and then uh I think it was rerun that

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<v Speaker 2>went and like recorded them and bootlegged it, and the

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<v Speaker 2>Doobie Brothers got into a big thing with them.

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<v Speaker 1>That was that was.

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<v Speaker 2>Good times, good times, good.

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<v Speaker 1>I had the Jefferson's I loved growing up too, but

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<v Speaker 1>I had watched My mom wouldn't let me watch Three's Company,

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<v Speaker 1>all the sexual innu and stuff to watch that, so

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<v Speaker 1>I hadn't seen that.

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<v Speaker 2>And that Tripper, nobody better than that.

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<v Speaker 1>And then Jack Tripper who was such an amazing, amazing

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<v Speaker 1>physical comedian, John Rider, John Ridder, who I completely see

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<v Speaker 1>and when I was older and able to watch him,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was loved, so I can't even imagine if

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<v Speaker 1>I was exposed to a younger age of what he

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<v Speaker 1>was doing. But yeah, there was one show that I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I wasn't allowed to watch, but but then

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<v Speaker 1>I was allowed to watch Bosom Buddies. Did you remember

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<v Speaker 1>that one with.

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<v Speaker 2>Close Comfort?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you remember that one?

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<v Speaker 2>Three Daughters?

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<v Speaker 1>And oh, oh no, I'm thinking about the one with

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<v Speaker 1>the robot daughter? What is that? Small wonder?

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<v Speaker 2>Small one was great too. Silver Spoons was the ship

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<v Speaker 2>Silver is the best train your house? And his dad

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<v Speaker 2>ran a toy company. And Aaron Gray from Buck Rogers,

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<v Speaker 2>who is the hottest woman on the face of the

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<v Speaker 2>planet to this day, was do you do you remember her?

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<v Speaker 1>No, not as much as you do. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>my I had.

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<v Speaker 2>Two crushes when I was a kid, it was well

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<v Speaker 2>Peg Bunny was more like high school. But when I

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<v Speaker 2>was a kid, I loved Aaron Gray from Buck Rogers,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I followed her a Silver Spoons and then

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<v Speaker 2>and then uh missus Huckstaball. I had a big crush

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<v Speaker 2>on miss Huxtable.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>For Alicia, I thought, like when I was a kid,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, God, she she's like so hot.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say she was probably one of the best

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<v Speaker 1>TV moms. She was out there for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, it was a great TV dad. You

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<v Speaker 2>can't say his name anymore though, let me you say

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<v Speaker 2>his name, yeah, because the TV dad, the fictional character. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, dude, he was America's dad for how many years?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I will say probably as we were when we

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<v Speaker 1>were coming up here. That was a show for us.

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<v Speaker 1>But another big TV The biggest TV dad for me

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<v Speaker 1>was probably The Wonder Years, Dan Laura Dan Lauria, Right,

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<v Speaker 1>he was like such a worker for his family kind

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<v Speaker 1>of you know, they feared him in the right amount

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<v Speaker 1>of way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think he did great.

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<v Speaker 1>And you've befriended Dan right through your show.

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<v Speaker 2>Became my TV dad, which is so odd to like

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<v Speaker 2>think if you would have told me that TV dad

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<v Speaker 2>one day is going to be your TV dad.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no way crazy. He could not be.

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<v Speaker 2>More nice than you know, just the nicest guy. I

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<v Speaker 2>think you guys met him because you guys came.

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<v Speaker 1>To also a dyl dad. Laurie could get it. But

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<v Speaker 1>I will say like he was like super we've been

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<v Speaker 1>for a little bit, but super nice. But on he

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<v Speaker 1>just exudes dad vibes. Yeah, he was great.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a forgettle you know who also was like

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<v Speaker 1>kind of trying to be kind of made that cusple

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<v Speaker 1>like you had that Dan Laurier character. It was that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of dad. But then when you go across and

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<v Speaker 1>you remember like Alan Thick and growing pains, he started

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<v Speaker 1>to become like the try to be like the cool dad.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that was one of the first dads I remember

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<v Speaker 1>being like, he's not acting very dad. You know, he

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<v Speaker 1>was like trying to be cool. He was cool for sure,

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<v Speaker 1>but he was like cool with his kids in a

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<v Speaker 1>different way. Like the between him, you know it was

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<v Speaker 1>and his kids was a little little you know, different

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<v Speaker 1>hope improvement.

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<v Speaker 2>Tim Allen was a great dad.

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<v Speaker 1>Best so that he was a great dad for sure,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. You know, I loved. I loved that show.

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<v Speaker 2>That showing great you know, perfect Strangers.

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<v Speaker 1>You weren't a dad on TV. I'm sorry you weren't

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<v Speaker 1>a dad on TV, Sullivan Sudden, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Wasn't a dad on TV. I got offered a show

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<v Speaker 2>that was on uh Disney even f Flicks and my

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<v Speaker 2>my my wife would have been Tiffany Ambertheesan. And my

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<v Speaker 2>manager said, you can't do this because you're not paying

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<v Speaker 2>your rate. I was like, well, I'm not doing it

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<v Speaker 2>because and I was like, wait, what hold on, like

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<v Speaker 2>Tiffany Ambertheesian, I get to be like married to her,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll pay them. Yeah, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Hercle. Yeah, that's one of my favorite sitcoms of all time.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, Family Matters.

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<v Speaker 2>I I've it's on HBO Max where I should say Max,

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<v Speaker 2>and I got my kids watching it now.

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<v Speaker 1>And we we've heard the fan, You've heard the fantom,

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<v Speaker 1>you've heard the fan there about how you know Carl

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<v Speaker 1>that that happens after retired after because he talks about

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<v Speaker 1>an incident that he had. Is that funny? I retired?

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<v Speaker 2>But nobody? I think? Like that's what I miss about

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<v Speaker 2>Like the classic sitcom there were so many great physical

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<v Speaker 2>tier to your point, like John Ritter was a great

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<v Speaker 2>physical actor. Julia White. Julia White, I mean he's got

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<v Speaker 2>to be in the top five the greatest physical actors

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<v Speaker 2>on a sitcom ever.

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<v Speaker 1>And at a young age too.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, those two, uh Balki and cousin Larry brought

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<v Speaker 2>some pinchot. But those guys, they that that ABC block

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<v Speaker 2>what was the Friday night thing? I forget what they

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<v Speaker 2>called it, but man, those I loved stay at home

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<v Speaker 2>watching this.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever see the blooper or outtake or the

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<v Speaker 1>end credit scene of whatever it was, the Family Matters

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<v Speaker 1>where it comes over the fresh for instance, Yes, that

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<v Speaker 1>was unreal. That was they could do stuff like that

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<v Speaker 1>was super cool. So they just did they do. They

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<v Speaker 1>don't do crossovers as much as you would like anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just saw that Abbot elementary and it's always

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<v Speaker 1>stunning in Philadelphia because they're both said in Philadelphia, which

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<v Speaker 1>is so weird because they're like such different vibes. But

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<v Speaker 1>that's pretty cool that they're doing stuff like that. I

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<v Speaker 1>wish there was so much more of that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a shame because TV is not communal anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>We all used to gather around the fireplace and there

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<v Speaker 2>were only so many shows, and now there's a multitude

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<v Speaker 2>of so many it's too much and so you could.

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<v Speaker 1>Never be hard to do.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a bummer, Yeah, because I really I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>even like we're saying it now, like we I know

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<v Speaker 2>the theme songs.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like I remember specific episodes and core memory stuff, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but to have that, but not these kids these.

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<v Speaker 2>Days now streaming what are they watching?

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<v Speaker 1>TikTok stupid tiktoks, Squirrell with Dole YouTube, mister beast beast,

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<v Speaker 1>misters yeah, stupid, send your beast is that name, mister

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<v Speaker 1>be Yeah, well, you know what, We're here for them

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<v Speaker 1>and now they can listen to podcasts.

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<v Speaker 2>What what what?

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<v Speaker 1>What is your favorite childhood sitcom of all time? Before

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<v Speaker 1>we move on, I mean I remember watching most of

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<v Speaker 1>The Golden Girls. I love The gold Boy Girls was great.

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<v Speaker 2>That's another, I mean just a gem, Yeah, for sure,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a great one. For sure, theme song fantastic.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean Camras Free the one liners writing.

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<v Speaker 2>It and then hearing like do you remember the first

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<v Speaker 2>time you heard of stell Getty was younger than be Off,

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<v Speaker 2>You're like.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, wa just blown unbelievable. Yeah, that was amazing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>super sweet. I love that show. I think I that

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<v Speaker 1>was one of the ones I remember watching a lot

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<v Speaker 1>and laughing. But then as I grew up in entertainment,

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<v Speaker 1>like realizing what a cool like like how well it

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<v Speaker 1>was produced and sure you know, like the writing was

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<v Speaker 1>so smart and the idea of the dynamic, like the

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<v Speaker 1>just the idea of that show is so like such

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<v Speaker 1>a cool idea. And then when we started touring as

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<v Speaker 1>the Jokers, we used to finish the show with singing

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for me and a friend with the crowd.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember some of my most famous favorite memories was

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<v Speaker 1>just sitting in these stadiums and like arenas and just

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<v Speaker 1>having people sing along with it. I thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>really cool. So Golden Girls for me, Baby, Golden Girls,

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<v Speaker 1>how about you? Cheers? Cheers? Oh yeah, no words is

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite.

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<v Speaker 2>And and to think, like when I was a kid,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm watching a show about a bunch of adults in

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<v Speaker 2>a bar in like what do I have as a

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<v Speaker 2>child to relate to?

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<v Speaker 1>And it was just the dynamic of just all these misfits.

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<v Speaker 2>Coming in to hang out and no one really has love,

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<v Speaker 2>no one really has a solid relationship, and they just

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<v Speaker 2>had each other and that camaraderie and the writing was fantastic,

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<v Speaker 2>and the dynamic between Sam and Diana and then Sam

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<v Speaker 2>and Christi Ali was just like, I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely love that show.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever see the string out of Norm's entrances? Oh? No, great,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a seventeen because he always had a line

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<v Speaker 1>coming together. Nor how's it going? Let's still go? When

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<v Speaker 1>you know? Like you say that like all them, there's

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<v Speaker 1>like a seventeen minute clip from like his whole Oh wow.

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<v Speaker 2>That's great. My favorite episode is where Sam gets locked

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<v Speaker 2>out and he has to go to everybody's It's it's

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<v Speaker 2>one of the only episodes that's not the bar. Wow,

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<v Speaker 2>and he has to go to everybody's house. That's such

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<v Speaker 2>a great idea and so you get to see a

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<v Speaker 2>reflection of who everybody is.

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<v Speaker 1>Could you imagine pitching that idea that had that writer

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<v Speaker 1>had to be stoked such a great idea for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Great, great, great idea. Yeah, and when uh, when Cliff

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<v Speaker 2>was on uh, what's on Jeopardy? That's that's one of

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<v Speaker 2>my favorite Do you remember that I was so good?

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<v Speaker 2>But I mean I still look back on the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that I got to work with Rob Long on Sullivan

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<v Speaker 2>and Son and and over lunch breaks, I would always

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<v Speaker 2>ask him, please tell me about like Cheers and what

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<v Speaker 2>happened was what he like really like was he cool

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff? And just hear in all those stories and

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know even like there were times where when

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<v Speaker 2>we were doing it, I was watching Cheers like on

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<v Speaker 2>my own to be like, oh, I'm going to be

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<v Speaker 2>inspired and stuff, and I saw like Rob recycling old

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<v Speaker 2>jokes from the Sullivan and I was like, that's pretty cool. Actually, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I thought that was pretty sweet. Okay, So what were

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<v Speaker 2>the top three? Since this is two cool moms, this

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<v Speaker 2>just came out, what were the top three TV moms

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<v Speaker 2>of all time?

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<v Speaker 1>Number three was the mom from the Partridge Family, which

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know her name really. Number two was Claire Huxtable.

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<v Speaker 1>Number one was Brady Missus.

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<v Speaker 2>Brady was number one of all time.

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<v Speaker 1>So that was that's what the internet says on that

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<v Speaker 1>specific side. I don't know who was told for this.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, people sixteen up, like the Partridge Family,

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<v Speaker 2>I killed.

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<v Speaker 1>That's when moms were like mom, right, that was like

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<v Speaker 1>back in the day. It was like you're yeah, they're

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<v Speaker 1>in the kitchen making the Applepolaus and bullshit, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>not the Modern Family mom. You know she's out there

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, yeah, I mean Family.

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<v Speaker 2>Is It's like, could you could you even name five

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<v Speaker 2>TV moms for the last ten years?

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<v Speaker 1>I would not animated, No, I mean I would have

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<v Speaker 1>no idea I could name, you know, the moms from

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<v Speaker 1>Modern Family, the two moms, right, you have Claire Family,

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<v Speaker 1>So that's one of the shows that has a mom.

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly don't think I could name many moms besides

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<v Speaker 1>the mom from Breaking Bed. Yeah, right, and then your

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<v Speaker 1>mom burn. All right, let's get it. Let's get into

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<v Speaker 1>the questions. Thank you for submitting the two cool moms,

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<v Speaker 1>and we got some uh we're gonna give some advice

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<v Speaker 1>here and help people. Let's do it, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>This one is pretty relevant, but we were just talking

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<v Speaker 3>about So Mary.

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<v Speaker 1>Says, I married this guy. He has three children, and

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<v Speaker 1>I anything, we have a housekeeper.

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<v Speaker 2>What do we do?

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<v Speaker 4>How do I know if I'm being a good enough

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<v Speaker 4>mom to my daughters. They're my entire world and I

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<v Speaker 4>can't afford to stay home with them, and I feel

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<v Speaker 4>so guilty by going to work every day and taking

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<v Speaker 4>them to daycare. I keep questioning if I made the

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<v Speaker 4>wrong life choices that wound me up not being able

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<v Speaker 4>to stay at home with them. There's one year old,

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<v Speaker 4>there's a one year old and almost three year old.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the answer isn't going to be now. I

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<v Speaker 2>think the answer is going to be eighteen, nineteen, or

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<v Speaker 2>twenty years from now, because all that work, all the

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<v Speaker 2>sacrifice you're doing now, they're too young to acknowledge it,

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<v Speaker 2>but there will come a time when.

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<v Speaker 1>They'll recognize your sacrifice.

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<v Speaker 2>It hits them and they go, oh my god, she's

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<v Speaker 2>breaking her back so we can have school supplies, so

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<v Speaker 2>we could go to summer camp, so we could do

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<v Speaker 2>all these things. So I wouldn't put that onus on

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<v Speaker 2>you now, Yeah, I would just keep doing what you're doing.

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<v Speaker 2>And the fact that she's even thinking about this tells

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<v Speaker 2>you everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Yeah, that's she's thinking. I mean, we're two traveling dads.

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<v Speaker 1>It's put some time away from our kids, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, it's all we talk about, like focus

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<v Speaker 1>and balance all the time. I just think is as

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<v Speaker 1>long as you're trying to spend his best time you

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<v Speaker 1>can with them while you're with them, that's important. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's gonna be Look, look at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 1>you got to make money. You got to pay the bills.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't do that, what are you doing? You fine,

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<v Speaker 1>you're senting with your kids, but you'll be on the street,

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<v Speaker 1>right yeah, begging for money. Like what are you gonna do?

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<v Speaker 1>You have to do what you have to do here

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<v Speaker 1>to to get through. So I would say, try to

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<v Speaker 1>find a happy balance that you could go And I

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<v Speaker 1>realized this later, unfortunately a little bit too late, but

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<v Speaker 1>my relationships with it was if you you could get

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<v Speaker 1>a lot out of a little It doesn't have to

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<v Speaker 1>be these grand gesture where youre always abah. But if

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<v Speaker 1>you're making a moment each day, or a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>moments each day where that you feel fulfilled that you

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<v Speaker 1>had a mommy moment or whatever you get an unsolicited

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<v Speaker 1>I love you mom hug, or a smile or tickle

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<v Speaker 1>fight or whatever. Those kind of things could fuel what

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<v Speaker 1>you need. They don't have to do these big grain

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<v Speaker 1>gestures and you still could go to work. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>that five minutes that you're making memories started, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>recapping with my son when we went to bed, what

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<v Speaker 1>was your favorite part of the day You know stuff

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<v Speaker 1>like that, and they would say these little silly things

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<v Speaker 1>that took a moment right and it makes their whole day.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>She's the epitome of action. Speak louder than words, like

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<v Speaker 2>you're doing all this work. They're going they they they

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<v Speaker 2>they will get to a point where they're going to know.

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<v Speaker 2>And right now, when you're a kid, it's like, I

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<v Speaker 2>mean one, they don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember shit, Yeah, remember I remember nothing. They don't barely

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<v Speaker 1>know who you are. Stupid. They're fucking throwing up on themselves,

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<v Speaker 1>punching themselves in their face, shitting their own pants. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you think they care about you.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a reason. There's the reason you have to tell

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<v Speaker 2>them don't get in a vandwidth strangers. Yeah, yeah, because

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<v Speaker 2>they're so stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>When you stop telling the kids to put that in

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<v Speaker 1>their mouth, that's when you stop being like, okay, we're

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<v Speaker 1>making memories. You have to stop telling kids and not

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<v Speaker 1>put something in their mouth. That's when you that's the

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<v Speaker 1>that's the litmus test. It's like, okay, now I got

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<v Speaker 1>to start putting the time in. Yeah, you're raising little animals. Yeah,

0:24:59.680 --> 0:25:02.600
<v Speaker 1>they're all there, a little beasts, that's what they are.

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<v Speaker 1>What they're doing, you know what I mean. But I

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<v Speaker 1>remember that I do no, I do think that there

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<v Speaker 1>is a time to try to bank up and prepare

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<v Speaker 1>for the future, and it is now where you can

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<v Speaker 1>just like you know it'll be you just start getting it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you think it's hard now. I mean, my

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<v Speaker 1>son cries when I have to go out of town.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't go, Dad. I'm like, oh, it's the worst, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because they realize that you're going and leaving right now.

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<v Speaker 1>You're lucky you could sneak out in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>the night and go smoke a cigarette and know what

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<v Speaker 1>it could tell you what to do. She's out there

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<v Speaker 1>on the streets being able to get a puff puff.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm saying, this is what I'm saying. You're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna miss these days. You're gonna miss them, what I'm saying. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say you're putting a lot of it on

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<v Speaker 1>yourself right now. But remember big picture, you're doing what

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<v Speaker 1>you got to do for your children. It's not like

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, hey, I want to be working this much.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, Yeah, you're one hundred percent doing the right thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Especially, you made a great point. If you're thinking about that,

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<v Speaker 1>you're a good mom, Like some moms are just operating

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<v Speaker 1>and being like they don't even care about missing their children,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like that that's a good indicator that you're

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<v Speaker 1>a good mother and.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what makes us so cool mom moms.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, Peter says, I'm getting married in October in Spain.

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<v Speaker 4>My partner is Spanish, and I promise her family I

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<v Speaker 4>would learn Spanish by the time of the wedding. So, mommis,

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<v Speaker 4>what are some good learning techniques I have until October?

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<v Speaker 1>We did this question? Right? You did? No, I'm just kidding.

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<v Speaker 3>Why would you do that?

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<v Speaker 1>Omiga. What I'm saying is no mean I would say,

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<v Speaker 1>I do not know anything about learning a second language.

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<v Speaker 2>But you are six months at the home depot. Get

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<v Speaker 2>up pretty pretty quickly, pretty quickly?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you speak Korean?

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<v Speaker 2>I I did a little bit. Look, there's all these

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<v Speaker 2>programs these days, by the way, like Rosetta Stone and all.

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<v Speaker 1>The Onlamuthla, Do a Lingo? Do a Lingo? Do a

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<v Speaker 1>Lingo is the new one. It's an app, right and

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<v Speaker 1>teach you. Yeah, you could do a nap so get on,

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<v Speaker 1>do a lingo. This could have been a Google search.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why you took the time to write

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<v Speaker 1>into us to English speaking only people, this is a

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but you don't speak it. Yeah, yeah, why

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<v Speaker 1>I even ask me? Very true? You want to learn Spanish?

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<v Speaker 1>It's like here, it goes a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>I already did it. I already did the most racist

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<v Speaker 2>joke I could come up with. Work at home.

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<v Speaker 1>People, you could do. You could do better than that,

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<v Speaker 1>can I? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well learn it and then we're gonna kick you

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<v Speaker 2>out of this country.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I would say, you know, don't be a fool.

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<v Speaker 1>Google it. I don't know this. Google translate also, by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, so what are you gonna do? Just write

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<v Speaker 1>your vows, put it into Google Translate and you'll be

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<v Speaker 1>a hero. By the way, why would you even promise

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<v Speaker 1>that to the family. Crazy, that's your setting up a disaster.

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<v Speaker 2>How about I'll take care of your daughter the rest

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<v Speaker 2>of my life. We're done.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna take care of your daughter the rest of

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<v Speaker 1>my life and pick up language so I can.

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<v Speaker 2>I can speak fluently for three days.

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck you know a bitch, real real, silly face. You

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<v Speaker 1>already got it.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, why even why dive in?

0:28:12.800 --> 0:28:14.760
<v Speaker 1>Why set up yourself a failure? Yeah? You put a

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<v Speaker 1>ring on it. It's over. You did it? Endgame?

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<v Speaker 2>Why negotiate to uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Put a pinata up and you'll be fine at the wedding, right? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you want to be a real spandard stab somebody

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<v Speaker 2>like there it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I was waiting for it. There we go, There you go.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll cut that weddy good stabbing, We'll cut the pinata

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<v Speaker 1>and that one. Uh, good luck my friend? Or should

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<v Speaker 1>I say when a loke? Is that? How you say

0:28:38.400 --> 0:28:42.760
<v Speaker 1>good luck? When? Why don't you say goodbye again? Audios? Yeah?

0:28:43.360 --> 0:28:47.800
<v Speaker 1>But how do you say? Why not? For its Italian?

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<v Speaker 1>How do you say good luck? Go to Google trends.

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<v Speaker 1>This is what I'm talking about. Go to Google trays.

0:28:52.640 --> 0:28:57.280
<v Speaker 1>I say good luck when I swear? There you go,

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<v Speaker 1>There we go.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, how do you say dumb?

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<v Speaker 1>Dumb's Spanish? Idiot?

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<v Speaker 3>Idiota?

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<v Speaker 2>Idiota idiota. I would never promise anybody that's an idiot.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what I'm gonna do. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna learn your language. Why, I'll tell you something.

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<v Speaker 1>I guarantee they speaking for the next episode. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to learn Korean and I'm gonna do the whole episode

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<v Speaker 1>with me speaking Korean. But that's that's as plausible as

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<v Speaker 1>that guy right there. That's as plausible as the promise

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<v Speaker 1>that fellow me, old lady.

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<v Speaker 2>I would love to take. I'm sure there's got to

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<v Speaker 2>be an AI program where you could take an episode,

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<v Speaker 2>just put it in and then have them w speaking

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<v Speaker 2>in Korean. We should we should put that out and

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<v Speaker 2>then subtitle and it'd be so fantastic.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm sure that one of our fans could do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure somebody could do that. Give us a clip,

0:29:46.040 --> 0:29:49.320
<v Speaker 1>Give us a clip, give us a cliplip, speaking dubbed

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<v Speaker 1>in Korean, but both of us like in a female

0:29:52.080 --> 0:30:00.840
<v Speaker 1>Korean accent. Okay, you just repeating to specials. What is

0:30:02.920 --> 0:30:05.760
<v Speaker 1>what we're saying is that I'll take the beef.

0:30:08.000 --> 0:30:09.800
<v Speaker 2>Okay, what's their next question?

0:30:10.040 --> 0:30:10.840
<v Speaker 1>Let's go to the next one.

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<v Speaker 4>Chrissy asks, I just moved to Italy. How do you

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<v Speaker 4>deal with being away from family when they can't afford

0:30:18.480 --> 0:30:19.040
<v Speaker 4>to come visit?

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<v Speaker 1>That was racist, you pointed to me when they said

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<v Speaker 1>I just moved to Italy. I live in America. How

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<v Speaker 1>do I what do I do with my family when

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<v Speaker 1>they live so far away.

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<v Speaker 3>When when they can't afford to come visit, gotcha.

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<v Speaker 1>You got rid of them, so you would in the game.

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<v Speaker 1>What you about, Yeah, you want to see them? I

0:30:35.880 --> 0:30:38.440
<v Speaker 1>mean you got FaceTime. Now these questions, I mean these

0:30:38.480 --> 0:30:42.520
<v Speaker 1>people that FaceTime FaceTime, they got speed dot com. You

0:30:42.600 --> 0:30:44.520
<v Speaker 1>got your bundle it you get a rental car for

0:30:44.760 --> 0:30:47.000
<v Speaker 1>cheap bundle, get a hotel.

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<v Speaker 2>Fly when nobody else is fly like on September eleventh. Yea,

0:30:51.120 --> 0:30:53.760
<v Speaker 2>that's when you have nobody's flying in September eleventh, the

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<v Speaker 2>rates go down.

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<v Speaker 1>Fly out there, Yeah, there you go. These are all

0:30:56.720 --> 0:31:01.880
<v Speaker 1>great suggestions. I would say for your family. There's a

0:31:02.000 --> 0:31:04.320
<v Speaker 1>big adjustment when you move away from your family. So

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<v Speaker 1>I moved to California, you know big, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't live in my family anymore. So when I moved,

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<v Speaker 1>did you have to live away from your family? Yeah,

0:31:10.240 --> 0:31:11.560
<v Speaker 1>when you moved to New York, but you were in

0:31:11.640 --> 0:31:14.360
<v Speaker 1>your twenties, right, Yeah, but my folks were here. Yeah.

0:31:14.600 --> 0:31:17.640
<v Speaker 1>When I lived in California, going to school on that stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>So school I wouldn't count college. Yeah, probably, I would

0:31:20.000 --> 0:31:22.040
<v Speaker 1>say that. But I do think when you live away,

0:31:22.080 --> 0:31:23.880
<v Speaker 1>you just have to get used to your new normal. Love.

0:31:24.000 --> 0:31:26.120
<v Speaker 1>That's you don't live with them anymore. And that's the

0:31:26.160 --> 0:31:28.160
<v Speaker 1>hardest part. Once you get used to it, and then

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<v Speaker 1>it makes it time together even better I think one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred percent.

0:31:30.920 --> 0:31:33.360
<v Speaker 2>But it's also part of the norm. It's like you

0:31:33.520 --> 0:31:37.320
<v Speaker 2>are an adult now and you're there for either love

0:31:38.640 --> 0:31:42.240
<v Speaker 2>or occupation or love and occupation, and they understand you're

0:31:42.600 --> 0:31:44.920
<v Speaker 2>you're doing what you need to do in terms of

0:31:44.960 --> 0:31:46.920
<v Speaker 2>your life. So I'm sure that they're supportive. But at

0:31:46.920 --> 0:31:50.160
<v Speaker 2>the same time, like, of course you want to communicate FaceTime,

0:31:50.280 --> 0:31:53.520
<v Speaker 2>like you said, videos, texting, it's so much more accessible

0:31:53.560 --> 0:31:57.200
<v Speaker 2>than before. But yeah, like when you do have those opportunities,

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<v Speaker 2>one hundred percent. And the great thing is like you

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<v Speaker 2>get to be an m bassador on behalf of a

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<v Speaker 2>country that you know, maybe they're not too privy, or

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<v Speaker 2>they're gonna want to come visit.

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<v Speaker 1>You're in Italy, so maybe people are gonna want to

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<v Speaker 1>come and see you. You know. It's funny because most

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder what the statistics are people that move away

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<v Speaker 1>from their family, because in the US it's quite the

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<v Speaker 1>norm where the kids won't live in the same state

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<v Speaker 1>or same place as their parents. Becoming right, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think like if you go to South American countries or uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know European or even African countries do do people

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<v Speaker 1>stay with they'll live in the same house. I think that, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not what I was trying to say, Well, tend

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<v Speaker 1>to a bedroom. No, that's just frugal talk about bundling.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking about. I'm thinking about, like, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it's as you know, normal in other societies to move

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<v Speaker 1>away from your your family. You know, your parents are

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<v Speaker 1>normally with until death, you know. I think I know

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<v Speaker 1>that's for sure, Like my my wife's Lebanese and a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of our family over there, like they've all lived

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<v Speaker 1>together and stuff like that. Yeah, so I don't I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's kind of an American issue, or maybe in

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<v Speaker 1>Europeans do, but I think that's the minority of the

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<v Speaker 1>world I think does that. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Look again, another example of how like spoiled we are

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<v Speaker 2>as a country that you have so much accessibility to

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<v Speaker 2>so many opportunities and as much as people some people

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<v Speaker 2>can knock this country. It's like there are a plethora

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<v Speaker 2>of you know, tech West Coast, yeah, finance, East coast,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, agriculture, I mean everything else. There's so much

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<v Speaker 2>and this country is so all encompassing. Even in Florida.

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<v Speaker 2>You look at there's people that make six figures cleaning

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<v Speaker 2>pools because many, so many people up pools, and it's

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<v Speaker 2>like it's a real industry. So I just think, to

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<v Speaker 2>your point, it's like there's ample opportunity as opposed to.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, some countries, like for example, like in Korea.

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<v Speaker 2>My like to your point with Bessie, like my mom's

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<v Speaker 2>family would all have lived together, or they would all

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<v Speaker 2>have together in New Jersey and then slowly branch out

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<v Speaker 2>once you get to America.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think, yeah, like you you die with your parents,

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<v Speaker 1>you die with your family, like everybody's in together in

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<v Speaker 1>the same you know, same village, same city, same whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Yeah, I think it's a very because like in America, right,

0:34:15.640 --> 0:34:16.960
<v Speaker 1>you think about it, You're like, oh, figure out when

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<v Speaker 1>I get there. I want to move to Boston. I

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<v Speaker 1>heard Boson is a great place to live. What are

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<v Speaker 1>you gonna do. I don't know if I'll apply for

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<v Speaker 1>a job when I get there, end up as a waiter,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, you figure out those kinds of things.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how much that opportunity, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>could be very small minded. I'm not sure either, but

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<v Speaker 1>I just do think that families stay together in other

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<v Speaker 1>countries more than here in America? Yeah, I don't disagree. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and while they're there, you're in Italy gets some raviolis.

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<v Speaker 1>They're delicious. We have time for one more.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay. Taylor asks, it's very short.

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<v Speaker 1>Yay or nay.

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<v Speaker 3>On work relationships, Nay, I go yay yay.

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<v Speaker 1>May and best who worked together? I married her and

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<v Speaker 1>had children.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, it depends what where'd you guys work though, giggle

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<v Speaker 2>the baby store.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean that doesn't matter. Are we saying, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>in retail? I worked in retail. I would say retail

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<v Speaker 1>and restaurant relationships working, and those things happened very, very easily.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, there's there's like a social dynamic you're working

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<v Speaker 2>in a restaurant as.

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<v Speaker 1>Opposed to corporate America.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if you're working a corporate job, absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's kind of tough. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, having to be like you're gonna lose your job,

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<v Speaker 2>and then there's that stigma that follows you and then

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna go to another job and you're gonna ask

0:35:32.239 --> 0:35:34.040
<v Speaker 2>for reference. It's like, well, what did you get fired?

0:35:34.080 --> 0:35:36.279
<v Speaker 2>Because I was couldn't get my take my pants at

0:35:36.320 --> 0:35:39.200
<v Speaker 2>Meryl Lynch. It's like, yeah, you're Meryl and Lynch.

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<v Speaker 1>I was Sax and Fifth Avenue. You know what I'm saying. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know I I do think by interestry. But look,

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<v Speaker 1>love is love right if you find it that, if

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<v Speaker 1>your heart's getting spoken.

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<v Speaker 2>To wherever you're at, you can't let your dating.

0:36:06.920 --> 0:36:09.040
<v Speaker 1>That's the different. Dating is different. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I always thought like I always hated when comics hooked

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<v Speaker 2>up with uh, I just say hate, but I was

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<v Speaker 2>frowned upon comics hooking up with like weight staff.

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<v Speaker 1>When you're on the road, it's like.

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<v Speaker 2>Guy, why there's two hundred strangers out there you could

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<v Speaker 2>meet and talk to, and these girls are getting hit

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<v Speaker 2>on every week and you're gonna make it uncomfortable and

0:36:29.200 --> 0:36:30.799
<v Speaker 2>the manager's going to hear about it, and it's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be an awful situation. Just like I don't know, I

0:36:32.719 --> 0:36:36.400
<v Speaker 2>don't you know, that's my mentality. So if you're at work, like,

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<v Speaker 2>unless it's like undeniable, I guess for sure, it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>why why would you even tempt faith?

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<v Speaker 1>I think when you're yeah, I do think the best

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<v Speaker 1>part about it is to be kind of open too.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember when the CEO of my company pulled me

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<v Speaker 1>in to talk to her about me and Bessie. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and she like confronted me about it, and I was

0:36:56.480 --> 0:36:59.719
<v Speaker 1>honest and said, yeah, we're dating. She was taking back

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<v Speaker 1>a little but being like, oh you are, and I

0:37:01.960 --> 0:37:03.799
<v Speaker 1>was like yeah. I was like we're like you yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we are. And it's like, oh, well, how does that work?

0:37:05.600 --> 0:37:06.719
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, well, it's long distance. She was

0:37:06.719 --> 0:37:08.800
<v Speaker 1>in California, I was in New York blah blah and

0:37:09.120 --> 0:37:11.480
<v Speaker 1>uh and she was like, oh, okay, well, I said,

0:37:11.520 --> 0:37:13.880
<v Speaker 1>I said, it's not a problem with I mean, she

0:37:13.920 --> 0:37:16.759
<v Speaker 1>doesn't report to me, you know, you know whatever I said,

0:37:16.800 --> 0:37:18.640
<v Speaker 1>but you know, if you have any questions about anything, fine,

0:37:18.680 --> 0:37:21.880
<v Speaker 1>it's you know. And then it was just it was

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<v Speaker 1>just an interesting thing to have to like report it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. Like there's all those kind

0:37:26.160 --> 0:37:28.160
<v Speaker 1>of hr things about that, and I think that kind

0:37:28.200 --> 0:37:31.319
<v Speaker 1>of that kind of stuff is just look, it's frowned upon.

0:37:31.880 --> 0:37:33.600
<v Speaker 1>I think it used to be more frowned upon, but

0:37:33.719 --> 0:37:36.239
<v Speaker 1>now there's all sorts of like as long as you

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<v Speaker 1>like pronounce your love to the company, like as long

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<v Speaker 1>as you come out and say it and whatever. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're not doing its sneaky behind the closed doors kind

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<v Speaker 1>of thing. I think it's way more. It's worse if

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<v Speaker 1>you get found out, right, it's worse if you get

0:37:47.960 --> 0:37:50.120
<v Speaker 1>found out instead of versus being like, hey you know

0:37:50.120 --> 0:37:51.680
<v Speaker 1>where you started dating? Who do I need to talk

0:37:51.719 --> 0:37:52.840
<v Speaker 1>to about this? You know what I mean? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's way worse if you get found out.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you want to bang while you're working, just

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<v Speaker 2>pizza delivery, pizza delivery, hundred ups, plumbers, plumber, yep, prison

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<v Speaker 2>guard in the UK.

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<v Speaker 1>Present that this is where all of it happens.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this is follow it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's those are my suggest Those are the top

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<v Speaker 1>jobs for we googled it. Which is the top jobs for?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes on it's the clock on the.

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<v Speaker 2>Clock loving Yeah, MTA worker here in New York. They

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<v Speaker 2>got busted recently. So there's another one.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it does happen a lot. If you were

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<v Speaker 1>able to name this many why not? Yeah, I would say,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say follow your heart, but also watch yourself

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<v Speaker 1>on these streets. And that's our episode. Thank you so

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<v Speaker 1>much for joining us on this week's Two Cool Moms.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we love you guys, We love that you

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<v Speaker 2>Dot live, Steve Burnet see me. And by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>it was so awesome to just even talk like eighties

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<v Speaker 2>and nineties sitcoms.

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<v Speaker 1>So let us know what your favorite sitcoms are too.

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<v Speaker 2>That's great, that's awesome. And let us know who your

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<v Speaker 2>favorite TV moms or dads are.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder what people are saying about the best TV moms.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have would see that if the people comming

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<v Speaker 1>on the under the post here, I would love to

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<v Speaker 1>see what uh Artridge chooses a bitch. Thanks listening by guys,