1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,360 Speaker 1: My girlfriend has gotten me fired from all my jobs. 2 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 1: I'll be homeless soon. I kind of want to leave her, 3 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 1: but I'm not sure. So am I the a hole? 4 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:09,000 Speaker 2: You know? 5 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 3: It's like you've only taken away my livelihood and almost 6 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 3: put me on the street. It's like, why should I 7 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:16,960 Speaker 3: be so rash with my decision making to lease? 8 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? 9 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's because she wants to spend more time with you. 10 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 1: Why do you know working too hard? 11 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 2: Baby? 12 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: Like you spend time with me. Quit your job. Yeah, 13 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 1: I'll provide you with nothing but pain and lies. 14 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 2: I mean I can live off of that. 15 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:33,159 Speaker 1: Pain and lie is what most marriages are built on. 16 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 2: The more you know, the more you know. 17 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 1: I'm male twenty four, and I've been with my girlfriend 18 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:44,479 Speaker 1: female twenty nine, let's go all her Janis, for two 19 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: and a half years. I just finished my education when 20 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 1: we started dating, and I have been doing all sorts 21 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 1: of jobs since, sometimes two at a time. Man's multitask gang, 22 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 1: he's doing it. I did this to expand my resume 23 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 1: and gather job experience, which is important. 24 00:00:58,200 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 2: It's true. 25 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 1: I worked in cafes, books stores, a library, a grocery store, 26 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 1: and as an English tutor. Most of those jobs lasted 27 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 1: about three to five months. My shortest day was two 28 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 1: and a half weeks, my longest eight months. But since 29 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 1: I didn't have a hard time applying for new positions, 30 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 1: I tried to block it out, though it was kind 31 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 1: of eating me up internally. So man can't hold a 32 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 1: job down, he really can't. People called to complain about me. 33 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:25,559 Speaker 1: People left bad reviews about me, People used my employee 34 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 1: Wi Fi access to look up sketchy things on the 35 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 1: internet under my name, what former employees called to inform 36 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 1: them about me right name at all, and much more 37 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: subtle stuff that I couldn't disprove. But I was too 38 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 1: anxious to do anything about it. I just told my girlfriend. 39 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 1: She comforted me. She supported me every time I got 40 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 1: my life ruined by these people, but I kept going 41 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 1: though they kept finding me. 42 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 2: Is this like this feels like a conspiracy? Like? Right, 43 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 2: who is this group of people conspiring to make sure 44 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 2: time he goes to a new place? 45 00:01:57,800 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 1: Or maybe it's just OPI is so unlikable every place 46 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 1: he goes to, people are just like, yeah, that guy in. 47 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 3: Particular, he just doesn't know he's the a hole yet 48 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 3: and needs us to tell you. 49 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, And don't worry. We'll get to the bottom of this. 50 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 1: Are you the a hole or are you not? Because usually, 51 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 1: like if everyone else says, you're the problem, probably the problem. 52 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 1: Probably the probably the problem, unless something crazy happens it's true, 53 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 1: which it might. Fast forward to this week. I currently 54 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: hold a part time position in a bakery. I've been 55 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: working there for two months and a half. Is that 56 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 1: like an English way of saying two and a half months? 57 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 1: Two months and a half and a half I worked 58 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: out for two months and a half and please give 59 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:33,800 Speaker 1: me my tea. 60 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 2: That's right, it's going okay. 61 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: But my manager approached me about something regarding our Google reviews. 62 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 1: Someone was complaining about an employee and their description of 63 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: them could really only fit me. It was on a 64 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 1: day where we were pretty short of staff, so I 65 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 1: could have been the only person in the store on 66 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:54,800 Speaker 1: that day for all I know. Anyway, the review contained 67 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: some pretty elaborate and nasty comments about me. This happened 68 00:02:58,440 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: on one or two of my jobs already. Basically like 69 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 1: this has happened repeatedly. Yeah, something is going something which 70 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: is crazy, Like there could be someone that hates you 71 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 1: so much in your life that just follows your LinkedIn 72 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 1: and could just glass door that of you that would 73 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 1: like send you a manager a bunch of emails. 74 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:17,920 Speaker 2: That's like actually super terrifying. 75 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 1: Think about how easy it is to just destroy someone's like, like, 76 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: I could destroy anyone that I know, even tangentially, I 77 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:29,359 Speaker 1: could destroy their reputation with a few emails. 78 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 2: That's power, Babe, that's kind of crazy. 79 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: That's power. That is that's power. I'm terrified. Now you 80 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: better watch John. I'm going to report you to HR. 81 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 2: Oh God, that's me. 82 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 1: I told my manager that it was all pretty bogus 83 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 1: and that someone had a ndetta against me as it 84 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 1: has happened before. She believed me and told me that 85 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: she'll dismiss the comment. On my break, I checked out 86 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 1: the review myself. Their username was kind of stupid. I'm 87 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 1: not going to type it out here since I still 88 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 1: work there, but I'll just call them Mick Myrtle as 89 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: it is in the same range of sounds kind of 90 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 1: fake but not really. 91 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 2: Mick Myrtle mcmurdle. I think of the girl from Harry Potter. 92 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, moaning Myrtle, honing Myrtle, which great name for a 93 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 1: porn star too. 94 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 2: Bro Like Harry Potter is them porn star? 95 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, bro, there's no way that does not exist. I 96 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 1: mean that only fans handle Moaning Myrtle pre premo. 97 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 2: Can we we like grab. 98 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 1: That let's see moaning Moaning Myrtle. OnlyFans Moaning Myrtle exists 99 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 1: and one point six k likes five hundred and two 100 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 1: click that subscribe button. Private live stream twenty five dollars 101 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: for thirty minutes, dick ratings ten dollars no dick ball 102 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: and actual ratings fifty dollars fifteen dollars. Girlfriend Package four 103 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 1: hundred dollars a month includes exclusive daily AM or PM picture, 104 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: daily texting, sexting, one to ten minute call a week, 105 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 1: one twenty minute live stream a month, plus fifty percent 106 00:04:57,080 --> 00:05:01,360 Speaker 1: off all other services. Damn, she's freaking it in. That's crazy, 107 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 1: my girl. 108 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 3: My gosh, the branding, the product, it's all on point. 109 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 1: Her at as she's thicky thick though. No, we have 110 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 1: to have a moaning at Moaning Myrtle anyway, the questions 111 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: that need to be answered, Yeah, we get to the 112 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 1: bottom of stuff for you guys. Anyway, I come home, 113 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 1: but don't tell Janie about it. 114 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:21,600 Speaker 2: This is a girlfriend. 115 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: She has heard it all before, so I didn't see 116 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 1: the point in complaining about another time I almost lost 117 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 1: my position. We chat all as well, and she leaves 118 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: the room. Her phone is on the table and suddenly 119 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 1: she gets a notification or email of some sort from Google. 120 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 1: I don't remember exactly what it said, but the pop 121 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 1: up read something along the lines of Mick Myrtle, manager 122 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 1: has responded to your review. 123 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 2: The girlfriend is Mick Myrtle. Mick Myrtle is the girlfriend. 124 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:53,159 Speaker 2: Oh my god, no wonder, no wonder. 125 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 1: But why that's the question. 126 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 2: Why is this? 127 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: Oh god, my heart dropped. I've been trying to ignore 128 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 1: it since this is two days ago. It just fit 129 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 1: in the picture of bad reviews. It fit the picture 130 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 1: of the phone complaints my workplaces have received about me. 131 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 2: In the past. 132 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 1: It fits the picture of all the sketchy things I've 133 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:09,719 Speaker 1: been fired for. 134 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 2: Why would she do that? 135 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 1: Though I'm looking for an explanation, this literally can't be. 136 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:17,600 Speaker 1: She's the only thing keeping me sane. I don't know 137 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 1: what to do. There is an update, but like I 138 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 1: think there's this, like there's this. I forgot what the 139 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 1: It's like some psychological complex where it's like you poison 140 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 1: your kids, so you can take care of them. 141 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:27,719 Speaker 3: Huh. 142 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 1: I think it's the equivalent, like she's making her boyfriend's 143 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 1: life hell, so she can take care of him. 144 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 2: Wow, that is that is terrible. 145 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 1: That's terrible strategyes Poison kids? 146 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 2: What was it? What did I call it? What do 147 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:41,720 Speaker 2: I call it? 148 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 1: Poison kids? So you can take care of them? But 149 00:06:44,680 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 1: what's what's that called? Then you have a mental disease thing? 150 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 1: Poison kids syndrome syndrome oh man chows and man man 151 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: honey man Chowsen man Chausen syndrome is by proxy's a 152 00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 1: mental illness. In a form of child abuse, the caretaker 153 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 1: of a child, most of in the mother either makes 154 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:03,720 Speaker 1: up fake symptoms or causes real symptoms to make it 155 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 1: a to make it look like the child is sick. 156 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 2: I mean she actually had to pronounce that. 157 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 1: Moon chousen moon Chowsen. 158 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 2: Wow. 159 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 3: Honestly, I think that's a pretty good guess. I feel like, 160 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 3: of what's happening? 161 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 2: He yeah? Because yeah, the question is what is the incentive? Yeah? 162 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 1: I mean she's an older woman wants I mean it 163 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 1: seems like she just wants to take care of him 164 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 1: or something. It's just like this weird alone time. Yeah, 165 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 1: it's a little lone time. Just drained those balls all 166 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: wor cravy. Let me you got a little stress on 167 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 1: those balls, Yester, Wake up, nut, have breakfast, nut, lunch nut, 168 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 1: go to work, he come home nut, lunch break at 169 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 1: work nut. 170 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 2: My man looking like a box of honey nut cheerios. 171 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: Man looking like man looking like he just like sucked dry, 172 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 1: like one of those zombies in the Walking Dead where 173 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 1: it's like all skin and bones. 174 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 2: She's sucking that man's soul out for real, getting his nut. 175 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 2: All right. 176 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 1: So, hello people who are still invested. I'm sorry for 177 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 1: not updating you guys earlier. A lot has been going on, 178 00:07:58,080 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 1: I'm sure. 179 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 2: Op. Yeah. 180 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 1: First of all, yes, we broke up. That's why I'll 181 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 1: be referring to her as my ex from now on. 182 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 3: Rounte of applause, Thank you God. Imagine he's like I 183 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 3: wanted to give her a chance. 184 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 1: You know, I just think about how many nuts he's getting. 185 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 1: It's Lenny, that's a lot being sucked dry. She's the vampire. 186 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: Come over here, Jesus dry his bank account that he 187 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 1: is man man h at least he can bake though 188 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 1: his balls in his bank are our breaking anyway, Let's 189 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 1: start from the beginning. On Monday of the following week, 190 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:34,199 Speaker 1: I couldn't take the uncertainty anymore. I told my ex 191 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 1: I needed her booking account to book a train ticket 192 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:39,079 Speaker 1: to visit my dad for a few days. She complied, 193 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: and when she was in the shower getting ready for work, 194 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 1: I booked my ticket and started looking through her emails. 195 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: After some digging, I found an email to herself which 196 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:49,840 Speaker 1: contained a spreadsheet file. I sent the file to myself 197 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: printer and took a screenshot. Why the spreadsheet contained about 198 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 1: every single information about me. There was numbers, emails, passwords, 199 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 1: work times, colleagues, their numbers, and social media's, as well 200 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 1: as some emails passwords that she used for accounts to 201 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 1: ruin my life. With everything was on there conveniently sorted 202 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 1: for her to ruin my life as efficiently as possible. 203 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 1: When she left for work, I decided it would be 204 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 1: best to immediately pack my stuff. Okay, so he's like 205 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 1: he's in in freakin' I'm leaving mode. 206 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, he was like. 207 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:24,200 Speaker 1: A board a boor freaking mission. I'm pressing emergency ejack 208 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 1: going through the sky for real. Nothing that mattered would 209 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 1: be left behind. I feel like a wanted man, like 210 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:33,840 Speaker 1: I was being a hunted despite nothing being seeming out 211 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 1: of place. I called my boss, told her I would 212 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 1: be taking some time off work, and headed out to 213 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:40,679 Speaker 1: see my dad. Needless to say, he was a sanity 214 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 1: I needed. I cried about everything I saw. I panicked 215 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: for a whole two days straight about how my life 216 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:47,199 Speaker 1: was ruined and I didn't know. 217 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 2: What to do. We had to sleep on the couch. 218 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 1: In the guest room because I was so scared of 219 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 1: my ex coming in. He handled it like a champ. 220 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: I love you, Dad. He called the police, a lawyer, 221 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 1: and recently a therapist for me because I was in 222 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 1: the most horrible state of my life. We're currently sorting 223 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:03,080 Speaker 1: out the legal stuff. I haven't talked to my ex 224 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 1: except for letting her know it was over and that 225 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: she's a sick psychopath. My dad handled the rest. I 226 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 1: changed all my passwords, and I'm now looking for a 227 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 1: place to live. Sorry for the brief update. My mind 228 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 1: is tangled. Please ask your questions if you want answers. 229 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: By the way, thank you to every single person who 230 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 1: gave advice talk to me over DMS and was generally 231 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 1: concerned about me. I appreciate every single. 232 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 2: One of you. 233 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:31,680 Speaker 1: Holy moly, damn dude, this is why you don't date women. 234 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 1: End of sentence, done, This is this is why you 235 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 1: never date, never trust again. 236 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 2: Op remember why me and Sam date each other? 237 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 1: Podcast? But yeah, damn that that would make me like 238 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 1: scared to ever be in a relationship again. 239 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:50,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, because like like, and you know, it's irrational. It's like, 240 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:54,720 Speaker 3: obviously there's of all the people you would date, this 241 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 3: is not going to happen frequently. But it's just like 242 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 3: it's just gonna be hard to pull out of your 243 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 3: mind as you're like talking getting to know someone, like 244 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 3: now they know where I work. Now they could go 245 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:04,199 Speaker 3: and do this to me. 246 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, And it's like I mean she could still 247 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:10,160 Speaker 1: do this potentially, yeah you know yeah, Like what do 248 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 1: you say every before every job, Like, hey, there's someone 249 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 1: that wants to to like ruin my life all the time. 250 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:17,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like come on, yeah. 251 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:20,320 Speaker 1: It's crazy that almost everyone in your life that you've 252 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 1: ever known has the power. 253 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:24,719 Speaker 3: To destroy it. I've never thought about it before. It's 254 00:11:24,800 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 3: kind of easy, Yeah, it really is. 255 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:30,199 Speaker 1: And anyone has like any job that they have an 256 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:34,319 Speaker 1: employer for bro, just write some bad Google reviews and say, oh, dude, 257 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: the guy with long blonde hair and blue eyes and 258 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 1: dreamy smile is a dick. 259 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:43,560 Speaker 2: My smile is dreaming. That's all I heard. Yeah, this 260 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:44,679 Speaker 2: is insane. 261 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 3: Also, I love how we like low key accidentally just 262 00:11:47,679 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 3: created the blueprint for like exactly. 263 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:52,959 Speaker 2: How to distress like I know crazy. This is like my. 264 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 3: Childhood drug seminar where they literally told us step by 265 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 3: step how to make a meth It was, it was great. 266 00:11:57,800 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 2: It was then you made it and it was it was. 267 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 3: But you know what else? It is delicious. Sam are 268 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:04,080 Speaker 3: beautiful public subscriber. 269 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 2: I love them so much. I want to read a 270 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:06,520 Speaker 2: comment from them right now. 271 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 1: Let's do it. 272 00:12:07,280 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 2: This is from the video I'm infertile but now I'm pregnant. 273 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 3: It's a story where Ope sleeps with the ex husband's 274 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:15,440 Speaker 3: mistress's husband, but now she's pregnant. 275 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 2: It was a juicy one. 276 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:20,720 Speaker 3: Public subscriber George slash Smiths says, am, I supposed to 277 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 3: type daddy if I can read what is written on 278 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:27,319 Speaker 3: the wall, Okay, daddy, Lol, that's right, Okay, Daddy, keep 279 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 3: writing that new freaking podcast cover. 280 00:12:29,360 --> 00:12:29,560 Speaker 2: Well. 281 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:33,440 Speaker 1: Mims Michayla says, nah, Larry and Ope, that is a 282 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 1: beautiful outcome from a situation. I love that for them heart. 283 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:41,720 Speaker 3: And finally, Tatiana Gay as someone who has been pregnant twice, 284 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 3: OPI's the ahole being pregnant and having to chase a dog, 285 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:47,400 Speaker 3: is not it? When I was pregnant with my daughter, 286 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:51,559 Speaker 3: I did not have the energy to chase my son around. Tatiana, 287 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:53,679 Speaker 3: thank you for sharing your experience. Those are the ones 288 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 3: that we love the most where we get some insights. Yeah. 289 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, we like caring about your life exactly. So thanks 290 00:12:58,040 --> 00:12:58,840 Speaker 1: so much for watching. 291 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 3: If you want to have your comment possibly read publicly, 292 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:02,679 Speaker 3: subscribe comment below. 293 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:05,320 Speaker 1: We just might read it amazing. Well, see you and Soya, 294 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:07,839 Speaker 1: why wasn't I at my desk? Well maybe it was 295 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:10,080 Speaker 1: because you said you'd slap the shit out of me. 296 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 3: You know if if someone said that, I probably wouldn't 297 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:14,959 Speaker 3: be at the place where they are. 298 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. 299 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna about to be 300 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 1: will Smith by someone. I'm not standing there watching this 301 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 1: big do come over me to smack me in the face. 302 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:28,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna defend myself, that's right, by running away. About 303 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:30,959 Speaker 1: fifteen years ago, I worked for a large hospital for 304 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 1: kids in the maintenance department. Our manager, let's call her 305 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:37,959 Speaker 1: Karen was a major bitch. No one on our team. Yeah, 306 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:40,439 Speaker 1: that's right, that's right. Hey, do we know any Karen's that. 307 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:42,439 Speaker 3: She's a major bas All she's doing is taking care 308 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 3: of six children all day. 309 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 2: Like, what a what a bitch? What terrible person? Awful? 310 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: Let the kids die. No one on our team liked her, 311 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: and we outwardly showed no respect for her after her 312 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:56,480 Speaker 1: constant harassment towards us in the two years she worked here. 313 00:13:56,679 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 1: I love It's like, like I imagine like Karen like 314 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 1: gone off on the wrong foot, like everyone just dump. 315 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:06,760 Speaker 1: It's like, oh, Karen's such a bitch, but literally they're 316 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:10,080 Speaker 1: like dunking on her every single day, throwing pies in 317 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:12,000 Speaker 1: her face, like putting your thumb tacks on her ches. 318 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 1: Karen's so terrible. 319 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:16,560 Speaker 2: And it's like, you sound kind of terrible. 320 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 1: You guys have been pranking me for way too long. 321 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 1: She would call us on the maintenance radios and be 322 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:24,440 Speaker 1: rude to tell the guys they were being incompetent. It 323 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 1: was beyond micromanagement, but also rude. On top of it. 324 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:30,440 Speaker 1: She expected the maintenance guys to come to work at 325 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 1: her house for free, or would tell some of the 326 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:36,400 Speaker 1: hospital vendors she would guarantee the hospital contract if they 327 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 1: did work at her house. 328 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 2: For cheap Okay, she does suck. That sucks. 329 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 1: God, that's like like blackmail, almost literally. 330 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:46,760 Speaker 2: Wow. 331 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:49,800 Speaker 1: She used to brag about this to me. Karen and 332 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 1: I were the only woman in our department of about 333 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 1: twenty five people, so I it was a mouthy twenty 334 00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 1: something year old, and didn't care for her attitude and 335 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 1: regularly would say yeah, sure or whatever when she asked 336 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 1: me to do things. I would do what she asked 337 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 1: because it was my job, but I would make a 338 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 1: non committal remark like that. One time she asked me 339 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 1: to come to her house and help her pull down 340 00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 1: dead trees in her backyard she was having a pool installed. Lady, 341 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 1: this is not the job. 342 00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 3: I do not work for you. I work for the hospital. 343 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:25,280 Speaker 3: I am not like your your personal tree dragger. 344 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 2: What are you talking about? 345 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 1: I said no, mainly because I wouldn't do it for 346 00:15:30,560 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 1: someone I liked, let alone her. And pretty soon after 347 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 1: that she started treating me even worse than she did before. 348 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 3: I did you did you threw it back? H so 349 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 3: like is it worth Like to me, that's like not 350 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 3: not worth it. I don't want to make my life 351 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 3: health one like got one singer. 352 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 2: You know. 353 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 1: She had been trying to get me in trouble since then, 354 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 1: such as see seeing her buddy in HR and emails 355 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: to me asking for status on project that I was 356 00:15:56,880 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 1: working on and wanted my replies in writing okay, yeah, 357 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:03,600 Speaker 1: so Karen's really trying to yeah, get her most. Fast 358 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:05,760 Speaker 1: forward six months later, me and one of the maintenance 359 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 1: guys were chatting in the office and I was five 360 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 1: months pregnant with my first baby. 361 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:11,479 Speaker 2: Congrats, op. Yeah. 362 00:16:11,560 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 1: She asked me to do something I don't remember what, 363 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 1: and I said, yeah, whatever, I'll do it in a 364 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 1: few minutes. And I turned back around to talk to 365 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 1: my coworker. She's standing behind me, and I hear her whisper. 366 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:24,479 Speaker 1: I wish I could slap the shit. 367 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 2: Out of you. What Karen's getting feisty? Ro Karen's about 368 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:30,480 Speaker 2: to throw hands. 369 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 1: Yo, that's an HR violation I ever heard one. Oh yeah, 370 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:37,840 Speaker 1: but also oh, he's being kind of like being kind 371 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 1: of a dick. 372 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 3: She's stoking the flames. But like you go up to 373 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 3: a pregnant well, I mean, she's another woman going to 374 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 3: a pregnant woman, and. 375 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 2: Like, I wish I could slap the shit out you. 376 00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 1: No, Yeah, it's fucked up. It's fucked up. I can 377 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 1: see my coworker saw her say it too, and I 378 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 1: made no comment, but I was shocked. I actually like 379 00:16:57,120 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 1: I didn't hear though. She left the office a minute 380 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 1: later to do something. I get up walk down the 381 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:05,520 Speaker 1: hall to the employee health department because I am fuming 382 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:08,240 Speaker 1: and my heart was racing. I'm pissed, and I'm also 383 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:12,160 Speaker 1: five months pregnant, so I'm extra bits. Yeah, the employee 384 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:14,440 Speaker 1: health nurse has me laid down for a bit, take 385 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:17,360 Speaker 1: my vitals and write up a formal report, and an 386 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:19,399 Speaker 1: hour later she sends me back to my desk as 387 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:22,160 Speaker 1: I'm okay to continue working. So basically, she just did 388 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:26,640 Speaker 1: this to get a complaint filed against Karen Smart. When 389 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 1: I log back in, I see an email from Karen 390 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:32,399 Speaker 1: with HRC seed asking where I had been for the 391 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 1: last hour, as she had called the office phone a 392 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:38,680 Speaker 1: bunch of times and was wondering why I had abandoned 393 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 1: my desk. So I emailed her back. I love that 394 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:45,280 Speaker 1: this is like I read ahead a little bit. This 395 00:17:45,320 --> 00:17:47,000 Speaker 1: is like corporate like clapbacks. 396 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:47,880 Speaker 2: You know, I love this. 397 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:51,480 Speaker 1: I apologize for being away from my desk when you 398 00:17:51,600 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 1: said you'd like to slap the shit out of me. 399 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:57,199 Speaker 1: I was upset. I had to be calmed down and 400 00:17:57,320 --> 00:18:00,400 Speaker 1: have mine in my baby's vitals checked at the employ 401 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 1: health center and they were concerned about my hostile working 402 00:18:03,600 --> 00:18:06,120 Speaker 1: environment and wanted me to stay there the full hour. 403 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 1: And you can bet your ass that I bcced her 404 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 1: buddy in HR and all of HR, her boss and 405 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:19,440 Speaker 1: his boss to make sure everyone saw it. Bro those ccs, 406 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:23,919 Speaker 1: through those ccs saw c s. I was summoned to 407 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 1: HR about thirty minutes later. I knew Karen hadn't seen 408 00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:29,160 Speaker 1: my reply yet. This was early two thousand's and her 409 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:31,640 Speaker 1: computer was down in the office near me. They had 410 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 1: me go home for a day and put me on 411 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 1: admin leave for three extra days. I came back to 412 00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 1: the office to see her desk had been emptied and 413 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:43,440 Speaker 1: we never saw her again. Those guys and maintenance threw 414 00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 1: me the best baby shower ever three months later. Dude, Yo, 415 00:18:48,320 --> 00:18:49,360 Speaker 1: that's revenge. 416 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 2: Dude. 417 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 1: That is a dish served, well played, well played, crushed. 418 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:58,639 Speaker 1: It also I love like corporate clapbacks in the email chains, 419 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:02,440 Speaker 1: like as per my last email, freaking thumb ass. 420 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:05,879 Speaker 3: As per my last email, you can see that. I 421 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 3: fucking hate you. Get over it. 422 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:10,640 Speaker 2: I love. 423 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 1: I love like the the corporate lingo translations. It's like, 424 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 1: as per my last email is like did you not 425 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:21,920 Speaker 1: see you, idiot? Or like, what's another? 426 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:22,359 Speaker 2: Let me know. 427 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 3: Your earliest convenience is get this ship done right now, dude. 428 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 2: It's so weird. Corporate America. I ain't about it. Ain't 429 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:35,040 Speaker 2: about it. Fuck corporate America.