WEBVTT - THE FULL SHOW: Sharing Locations 0:00:00.560 --> 0:00:01.840 From Hollywood to you. 0:00:02.279 --> 0:00:06.440 Thank you for listening to Ryan. Air on Air with 0:00:06.559 --> 0:00:12.639 a Ryan Seacrest. Yeah, free slurpees. Kiss, good morning. It's 0:00:12.680 --> 0:00:15.680 eleven seven, eleven day and they got free slurpees. 0:00:16.560 --> 0:00:18.520 They're taking the kids on a field trip today at 0:00:18.560 --> 0:00:20.800 their summer camp to go get the free slurpies at 0:00:20.800 --> 0:00:23.079 seven or seven field trip. That's the field trip because 0:00:23.079 --> 0:00:24.959 it's like right by the school, so there can. 0:00:24.880 --> 0:00:25.439 They can walk there. 0:00:25.440 --> 0:00:26.560 It's little across the street. 0:00:26.600 --> 0:00:29.200 SIPs have evolved since I went to go see the constellations. 0:00:29.480 --> 0:00:30.760 Yeah that summer. 0:00:30.960 --> 0:00:31.680 It's summer camp. 0:00:31.800 --> 0:00:34.159 Oh summer. Yeah, that's rue. So the big one when 0:00:34.200 --> 0:00:36.879 we were in actual school was the dairy farm. That 0:00:37.000 --> 0:00:39.120 was the big one. Go to that dairy farm. Yeah. 0:00:39.240 --> 0:00:40.600 See how they did ours. 0:00:40.360 --> 0:00:41.360 Was the Librit tarpit. 0:00:41.640 --> 0:00:43.400 Yeah, I think want to say my kids actually just 0:00:43.440 --> 0:00:44.720 did the Libret tarpets. 0:00:44.760 --> 0:00:45.960 That's very interesting. 0:00:46.040 --> 0:00:48.440 I mean that's still and they've been like some botanical 0:00:48.479 --> 0:00:49.080 garden at u. 0:00:49.000 --> 0:00:49.360 C l A. 0:00:50.240 --> 0:00:50.839 That was kind of cool. 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:51.760 It's like I want to go there. 0:00:52.159 --> 0:00:54.400 Most seven elem slurpee in the summer. Nice and so 0:00:54.520 --> 0:00:57.480 get your free slurpee. All right, uh hot this weekend 0:00:57.520 --> 0:01:00.160 mostly sunning highs in the mid eighties and nineties. I 0:01:00.200 --> 0:01:02.720 have to ask you a question. I almost texted y'all 0:01:02.880 --> 0:01:06.480 last night. I wish you did. I thought, more fun here, 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:11.600 more fun here. So I have been changing my routine, 0:01:11.640 --> 0:01:13.080 and I'm told you, I've been doing a little yoga 0:01:13.240 --> 0:01:15.000 because I want to be more flexible, and I'm just 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:17.080 I was getting sore and stiff. So I'm starting to 0:01:17.120 --> 0:01:18.920 do the show. And now I've been committed to it 0:01:19.080 --> 0:01:21.640 kind of in a way that I do it often regularly. 0:01:22.120 --> 0:01:23.760 But I don't know what to wear. I don't know 0:01:23.760 --> 0:01:25.600 what to wear because if I wear shorts, I feel 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:28.320 like that's weird in yoga. Then I wear baggy T 0:01:28.440 --> 0:01:30.360 shirt and it falls over my head when I do 0:01:30.400 --> 0:01:33.920 some of the positions right shirt, No, you have to 0:01:33.920 --> 0:01:35.160 wear clothes in the cost Tony. 0:01:35.200 --> 0:01:37.319 I don't know where you go for your yoga tight 0:01:37.400 --> 0:01:38.520 briefs and shirtless. 0:01:38.560 --> 0:01:41.320 No, the tight tight doesn't work either. So I tried 0:01:41.400 --> 0:01:44.640 like loose sort of beach pants, but then they fall 0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:45.640 to my knee. 0:01:45.240 --> 0:01:48.000 I mean, you need like an school elastic. 0:01:48.040 --> 0:01:51.000 What like, what did guys wear for yoga? I don't know. 0:01:51.240 --> 0:01:54.919 I'm telling you anytime I go with Robbie. He wears 0:01:54.920 --> 0:01:56.800 a T shirt in but then he'll take it off 0:01:57.040 --> 0:02:00.000 when the class starts. 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:03.080 You no one where I am? Where are you going. 0:02:02.960 --> 0:02:05.600 Core power or like heated room? 0:02:06.160 --> 0:02:08.240 Were you doing hot yoga? I'm doing regular yoga. 0:02:09.040 --> 0:02:11.720 Con Oh, that makes more sense because she's doing hot yoga. 0:02:11.800 --> 0:02:14.239 So say that part. I. 0:02:14.360 --> 0:02:15.920 I guess I've never done cold yoga? 0:02:16.240 --> 0:02:16.760 Is that cold? 0:02:16.800 --> 0:02:17.160 It's just. 0:02:20.400 --> 0:02:21.640 I never do it cold? 0:02:22.040 --> 0:02:23.359 Are we on something. 0:02:24.720 --> 0:02:27.880 Plunging and cold yoga yoga? Let's go open our spot. 0:02:27.960 --> 0:02:30.520 I just don't know what's whut. 0:02:30.600 --> 0:02:33.440 Bike shorts under the bag eat shorts. 0:02:33.480 --> 0:02:35.000 I used to think those were cool and I bought 0:02:35.000 --> 0:02:36.880 some of those. Now I think they look really bad 0:02:36.919 --> 0:02:37.160 on me. 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:39.880 No, I think they look same good on you and 0:02:40.000 --> 0:02:43.400 your potential yoga outfit. Snap a picture, send it to us. 0:02:43.960 --> 0:02:46.160 I will let you know if it looks good or not. 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:46.839 I actually will. 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:49.440 You can't wear sure, you just can't. 0:02:49.880 --> 0:03:00.519 No, you can't. You just good morning? You called sicany 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:04.000 Etania the back room this morning? Hey, does any fonds 0:03:04.000 --> 0:03:05.480 of you back there? Is not back there yet. I 0:03:05.480 --> 0:03:07.200 can't see that he's not back here yet. He's not 0:03:07.240 --> 0:03:09.760 that back there yet. Any of your boyfriends or whatever 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:11.640 you have husbands? Do they do yoga? And what do 0:03:11.680 --> 0:03:12.000 they wear? 0:03:13.240 --> 0:03:14.480 No, they don't do yoga. 0:03:14.720 --> 0:03:17.200 Oh they need to start or tight they do walks 0:03:17.240 --> 0:03:22.079 and runs. You are yoked. You must have to stretch 0:03:22.080 --> 0:03:23.960 that out right? Yeah, what do you wear a lot 0:03:23.960 --> 0:03:25.960 of stretching? Great? What do you wear for stretching? 0:03:27.160 --> 0:03:27.400 Uh? 0:03:27.440 --> 0:03:30.400 Sometimes shirtless? And just like some what is with you? 0:03:30.440 --> 0:03:35.480 People can't keep Sometimes in the old boxer briefs, if 0:03:35.520 --> 0:03:39.200 I'm home alone, boxer brees, I'm with a class bro. No, 0:03:39.480 --> 0:03:42.120 then yeah, you gotta wear short. All right, thank you 0:03:42.160 --> 0:03:47.880 for that. Let's get to tell me something good, just 0:03:48.000 --> 0:03:52.120 some good news in this world right now? Tell me 0:03:52.160 --> 0:03:52.640 something good. 0:03:52.960 --> 0:03:56.480 Tonight we are celebrating my husband and his band. They're 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:59.480 doing their second show ever in life for them at 0:03:59.480 --> 0:04:01.320 the Hotel Cafe in Hollywood. 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:04.200 Echo Bird is the band, and can you go? Can 0:04:04.200 --> 0:04:04.800 people get tacked? 0:04:04.880 --> 0:04:05.960 Yeah, you can totally get tickets. 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:06.480 So look it up. 0:04:06.480 --> 0:04:09.720 It's a hotel cafe in Hollywood and there right there. Yeah, 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:10.760 Tana's coming. 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:12.440 Tell me something good, Tanya. 0:04:12.840 --> 0:04:15.200 Okay, So I'm so excited because I didn't even realize 0:04:15.200 --> 0:04:18.840 that the final season of squid Game is out and 0:04:18.960 --> 0:04:21.320 so we're gonna binge it this weekend. 0:04:21.720 --> 0:04:23.760 Loa, you conbined like a weekend watch list. Wun, you're 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:24.440 telling me something good. 0:04:24.440 --> 0:04:25.760 We'll have another show for my weekend. 0:04:26.120 --> 0:04:30.039 Half hour earlier because we didn't watch this. Jeremy called 0:04:30.080 --> 0:04:32.239 in and told you Mark what you can wear yoga 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:32.920 style pants? 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:36.240 That, yeah, don't they make They make pants just for this, 0:04:36.360 --> 0:04:39.080 the yoga style forman guys. They're not too tired, they 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:41.479 don't dig into your waist, but they also stay up 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:43.880 all right, lu Lulamsco ten thousand has them. 0:04:43.960 --> 0:04:47.560 There you go. Costco might have them too, That that's true. Friday, 0:04:47.640 --> 0:04:51.800 July eleven, seven eleven, twenty twenty five. Yeah, so I 0:04:51.800 --> 0:04:54.280 think it was yesterday, if my memory serves me correctly. 0:04:54.279 --> 0:04:57.080 We were talking about red and green flags, and we said, 0:04:57.080 --> 0:04:58.960 if someone after you've dated them for a month, asked 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:01.320 for your location to be on twenty four to seven, 0:05:01.440 --> 0:05:03.880 is that a red, pink, beige, yellow, blue, flat? What 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:04.640 flag is that? 0:05:05.160 --> 0:05:07.320 I said it was an amber, because after a month, 0:05:07.320 --> 0:05:08.240 I think it's too soon. 0:05:08.600 --> 0:05:10.679 I think you're to me it's red. It's a months 0:05:10.720 --> 0:05:11.120 too soon. 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:13.880 Well, you don't like to share your location. I love 0:05:13.920 --> 0:05:16.200 to share my location with all my friends, saying, look 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:19.080 look at how many people I share locations with, and 0:05:19.120 --> 0:05:20.640 that's just on this side of the country. 0:05:20.680 --> 0:05:21.839 Why do you want them to know where you are 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:22.440 all the time? 0:05:22.640 --> 0:05:24.080 Is that what I want them to know where I 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:26.360 where I am. It's more like if we're going to 0:05:26.440 --> 0:05:28.800 meet up, I already know, like or Tanya leave the 0:05:28.800 --> 0:05:31.640 house already to come here. Yeah, it's come out so handy, 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:33.280 Like I don't know when you had to like come 0:05:33.279 --> 0:05:34.720 and pick me up for work one day, but I 0:05:34.760 --> 0:05:36.279 was like, I knew that you hadn't left. I checked 0:05:36.320 --> 0:05:38.920 your location. You were like halfway to work, and it 0:05:38.960 --> 0:05:40.400 was like perfect, soak me up on the way. 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:42.720 So can't you just go, bro, where are you? 0:05:42.760 --> 0:05:42.839 Like? 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:43.480 Not faster? 0:05:43.760 --> 0:05:46.800 No, it's not because then then then then they have 0:05:46.839 --> 0:05:48.000 to listen to it and then they have to. 0:05:47.920 --> 0:05:50.320 Rep At that point, she already knew I wasn't past 0:05:50.360 --> 0:05:52.360 her house, so she's like, hey, can you swing by 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:53.840 on your way in to pick me up? 0:05:54.120 --> 0:05:54.400 Great? 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:56.560 See the value in that moment. But we bring this 0:05:56.680 --> 0:05:59.880 up specifically because obviously Sistany and Michael have their twenty 0:06:00.040 --> 0:06:02.680 four seven sharing because they're married for a lifetime friend 0:06:03.640 --> 0:06:05.200 something happened recently. 0:06:05.200 --> 0:06:08.040 Why then, Yeah, now this is maybe where it might 0:06:08.080 --> 0:06:09.880 become a problem mentally for me. 0:06:10.000 --> 0:06:11.719 Okay, listen to this, Tanya. 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:15.880 So Michael's phone died a few days ago in the morning, 0:06:16.120 --> 0:06:18.160 and he was trying to fix it. 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:18.600 It didn't die. 0:06:18.600 --> 0:06:20.240 It was really weird. It was like still vibrating, but 0:06:20.279 --> 0:06:22.880 it was a black screen. So I said, you have 0:06:22.960 --> 0:06:24.960 Apple Care, so go and see if you can get 0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:26.880 it fixed without you know, he was ready to buy 0:06:26.880 --> 0:06:28.799 a new phone. I was like, whoa, whoa, whoa, let's 0:06:28.920 --> 0:06:31.440 figure out if we can fix it. So he figured 0:06:31.440 --> 0:06:33.359 out that he could. He made an appointment at what 0:06:33.440 --> 0:06:35.400 is it called the Genius Bar. We're at the Apple store, 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:38.719 and so he goes, all right, I'm going and he's like, 0:06:39.160 --> 0:06:42.480 going to the mall and he I knew he was 0:06:42.520 --> 0:06:44.400 at the mall, and I knew that it was probably 0:06:44.400 --> 0:06:46.640 going to take an hour or so, and it was 0:06:46.680 --> 0:06:49.279 three hours at this point, and so I kept trying 0:06:49.320 --> 0:06:51.359 to refresh his phone. I was like, maybe it's already fixed, 0:06:51.360 --> 0:06:54.120 and it wasn't showing me his location, And just for 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:57.160 those three hours of not having Michael's location, it really 0:06:57.200 --> 0:06:58.240 bothered me, like it. 0:06:58.200 --> 0:07:00.159 Really why why because you're just so. 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:02.640 But it's not like I like, I don't think he's 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:05.160 out there like cheating on me or anything like that. 0:07:05.240 --> 0:07:09.200 I just I just realized I depend on it so much, 0:07:09.960 --> 0:07:14.960 like I checked a crutch, Like before I text him, 0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:19.120 I check his location, like I just it's like a 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:21.960 cadence that I do, Like where is he at? Okay, 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:23.800 so I'm going to text him he's at work or 0:07:23.880 --> 0:07:25.960 he's driving, or like if he's driving, then I'm not going. 0:07:25.960 --> 0:07:28.560 To tex Almost a courtesy exactly, it's almost a courtesy 0:07:28.600 --> 0:07:29.240 to do that. 0:07:29.440 --> 0:07:32.960 Yes, But it was just weird that, like I I 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:34.520 just felt so I wasn't. I don't know if I 0:07:34.520 --> 0:07:37.000 felt naked. I felt like it was like I was 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:37.880 missing something. 0:07:38.120 --> 0:07:42.120 Nomes so dependent, you know, Like I so the other night, 0:07:42.200 --> 0:07:44.360 I was like, I'm gonna go watch something and not 0:07:44.400 --> 0:07:45.840 to have my phone. I'm gonna leave my phone in 0:07:45.880 --> 0:07:48.000 my bedroom on the charger. As soon as I go 0:07:48.040 --> 0:07:49.640 to watch something, I started thinking of things that I 0:07:49.680 --> 0:07:53.640 needed to send somebody, social, could be whatever. Then I 0:07:53.720 --> 0:07:56.360 found myself getting up pausing. I'm trying to watch the 0:07:56.440 --> 0:07:58.120 amateur Have you seen this yet? 0:07:58.720 --> 0:07:59.800 Heard of it? 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:00.280 Now? 0:08:00.320 --> 0:08:02.640 Okay? The amateur. It's coming up on the weekend, watching 0:08:02.960 --> 0:08:06.640 anyway with I Robot? What's the robot guy? 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:08.160 That robot movie. 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:11.720 Robby Mallick Robbie Mah, yeah, he's in it anyway. So 0:08:11.840 --> 0:08:13.320 I was trying to watch that. It's a long one, 0:08:13.440 --> 0:08:15.800 but I kept having to go upstairs and send a 0:08:15.840 --> 0:08:18.040 note and then come back down, and I just was like, 0:08:18.160 --> 0:08:21.400 why am This has become worse because I thought I 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:24.400 was doing myself good by leaving it not with me, yes, 0:08:24.520 --> 0:08:26.720 but it became a chore to go into the bedroom 0:08:26.800 --> 0:08:28.320 and back to the TV and back and forth. So 0:08:28.360 --> 0:08:29.760 I finally threw it on the chair next to me. 0:08:30.080 --> 0:08:32.160 We've become too reliant on things like this problem. 0:08:32.320 --> 0:08:34.720 I know, I'm with you, but I also just love 0:08:34.760 --> 0:08:37.440 sharing locations. Like I just started sharing locations with like 0:08:37.480 --> 0:08:38.920 a few of my friends from school. I was like, 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:43.400 this is great now, I mean I share locations of 0:08:43.440 --> 0:08:48.040 probably forty five people. I had a problem. 0:08:49.679 --> 0:08:51.319 Now when you hear that, you know you haven't watch 0:08:52.200 --> 0:08:54.680 all right? Come up NeXT's tuck some grilling this weekend, 0:08:54.720 --> 0:08:55.480 so I'll do cooking. 0:08:55.600 --> 0:08:57.160 Kiss I can tell you JoJo's still at home. 0:08:57.320 --> 0:08:59.000 We got a quote of the Day on this Friday. 0:08:59.400 --> 0:09:02.679 But if you think about grilling, cooking out, barbecuing. We're 0:09:02.679 --> 0:09:04.640 in the middle of the season, right, but experts say 0:09:04.640 --> 0:09:06.520 these are the worst foods to grill. Have you done this? 0:09:06.520 --> 0:09:08.760 This happened to me and it's a it's a disaster. 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:12.440 But flaky fish like cod or flounder, Yeah, sticks to 0:09:12.440 --> 0:09:14.720 the grates, it falls apart. I give up and don't 0:09:14.720 --> 0:09:16.439 care if it looks pretty and just scrape it off. 0:09:16.480 --> 0:09:18.000 And then you have to clean obviously the grill from 0:09:18.000 --> 0:09:22.960 those burnt pieces of flaky fish. But that's obviously not easy. 0:09:24.040 --> 0:09:27.640 Frozen shrimp. Frozen shrimp not good to grill. They will 0:09:27.640 --> 0:09:30.959 cook unevenly. That's not good. And watermelon this is big 0:09:30.960 --> 0:09:33.200 on TikTok. So have a grilled watermelon. 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:35.600 I never have. 0:09:35.880 --> 0:09:36.720 But is that a thing? 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:38.440 H and does it works? 0:09:39.200 --> 0:09:42.000 No? Oh, it will fall apart and make a big mess. 0:09:42.040 --> 0:09:44.600 So if it's looking good on TikTok, it's being stage 0:09:44.640 --> 0:09:47.679 dressed you. Oh yeah. One thing that I do think 0:09:47.720 --> 0:09:50.520 is great on the grill. Have you done peaches like 0:09:50.679 --> 0:09:52.440 you grill peaches? The flavor a grilled pea. 0:09:52.640 --> 0:09:55.760 I personally haven't, but I've tasted them grilled and they're 0:09:55.800 --> 0:09:56.360 good on a salad. 0:09:56.360 --> 0:09:59.760 They're also a great healthy kind of dessert, a grilled peach. 0:10:00.080 --> 0:10:01.360 Throwing it out there if you want to try something 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:04.600 sweet on the grill this weekend. Today's quote some people 0:10:04.640 --> 0:10:06.800 don't grow with you because they were only meant to 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:11.760 water your roots, not to walk your path. Today we 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:14.080 have got more heat. Not quite hot is yesterday, but 0:10:14.120 --> 0:10:18.000 more heat eighties and nineties, high nineties inland. On the 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:21.360 phones here before I give aways some summer cash, It's Beth, Beth, 0:10:21.400 --> 0:10:21.880 good morning. 0:10:21.920 --> 0:10:24.640 How you doing, Good morning, how are you? 0:10:25.240 --> 0:10:27.439 We're all right. So you're calling about your boyfriend who 0:10:27.480 --> 0:10:29.400 recently got into solo camping. 0:10:30.640 --> 0:10:34.720 Yeah, so it's been pretty sudden. He just got into camping, 0:10:34.840 --> 0:10:38.080 like really out of nowhere. And I'm trying to be 0:10:38.120 --> 0:10:41.880 a supportive girlfriend, but honestly, I'm kind of freaking out 0:10:41.920 --> 0:10:44.480 about it. He all he did was watch a few 0:10:44.520 --> 0:10:47.280 YouTube videos, he bought all this gear, and now he's 0:10:47.320 --> 0:10:49.360 just going on these solo trips in the woods, Like 0:10:49.720 --> 0:10:52.319 he went all the way out to Joshua Tree last weekend. 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:55.480 And I like, I get it, like nature and peace 0:10:55.559 --> 0:10:58.520 and finding yourself, and like I really want to support that, 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:02.120 but this thing is is that he goes alone with 0:11:02.280 --> 0:11:04.880 no cell service. And I just found out that on 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:07.680 his last trip, he slept with the car door open, 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:10.319 like all the way open, and he told me that 0:11:10.360 --> 0:11:12.679 it was for airflow, but then admitted he didn't even 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:15.560 think about animals getting in until the next morning, which 0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:17.760 like that's the top priority. And I don't want to 0:11:17.800 --> 0:11:20.719 be overbearing or like make him think I don't trust him, 0:11:20.720 --> 0:11:22.880 but I also want to talk him out of it, 0:11:23.200 --> 0:11:26.679 or at least make make him safer. I don't know 0:11:26.679 --> 0:11:29.040 if I mean crazy or like, is this actually dangerous? 0:11:29.080 --> 0:11:31.360 Like well, first of all, when you have a conversation 0:11:31.440 --> 0:11:34.959 with his safety priority thinking, because thinking of wild animals 0:11:35.520 --> 0:11:38.400 eating you would be top of mind for me. So 0:11:38.800 --> 0:11:40.840 I don't know how he's looking at all this. But 0:11:41.600 --> 0:11:43.280 if he's gone on these camping trips, he's saying that 0:11:43.280 --> 0:11:44.920 he wants to find himself. That's why he's going to 0:11:44.960 --> 0:11:48.320 just need some time to think. That's the purpose of them. 0:11:48.760 --> 0:11:51.840 Yeah, he's saying he wants to enjoy more time with 0:11:52.000 --> 0:11:54.280 nature because he doesn't really get to you very often, 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:54.680 I guess. 0:11:54.679 --> 0:11:56.960 But and you say he's going how often. 0:11:58.240 --> 0:11:59.559 He goes? Like every week? 0:12:00.040 --> 0:12:04.800 Every week okay, that that's a real yeah, no craziness here. 0:12:04.840 --> 0:12:06.960 This is a real, like what is he running from? 0:12:07.960 --> 0:12:10.520 Problem? But it's a hobby, like it's an obsession. 0:12:10.960 --> 0:12:12.480 No, no, it's a problem. Like if you don't to 0:12:12.520 --> 0:12:14.199 be with me once a week on a night, that's 0:12:14.200 --> 0:12:15.000 a problem for me. 0:12:15.520 --> 0:12:18.920 Well no, no, no, no, this to to to you 0:12:19.000 --> 0:12:21.400 like you like to go work out, and you like 0:12:21.440 --> 0:12:24.559 to do that many times, So this might be okay, 0:12:24.600 --> 0:12:27.520 an hour a day whatever. This might be his version 0:12:27.640 --> 0:12:33.160 of working out. This might be good like for him mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, it's. 0:12:33.040 --> 0:12:35.200 Not good for Beth. That's not good for the relationship. 0:12:37.160 --> 0:12:39.920 If Robby went camping every week, but this would. 0:12:39.760 --> 0:12:40.120 Be a no. 0:12:40.640 --> 0:12:44.679 This would be a no go for me. However, However, 0:12:44.840 --> 0:12:51.440 I'm just saying it's not for us to say that 0:12:51.520 --> 0:12:52.880 he is. 0:12:54.080 --> 0:12:56.679 Do you want to cards what in the world he's 0:12:56.679 --> 0:12:59.280 trying to say, It's gonna be Saturday by the time 0:12:59.320 --> 0:13:02.840 we get there. Look, I'm telling you it's a problem. 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:05.079 Are you invited on these solo camping trips every week 0:13:05.160 --> 0:13:05.320 or not? 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:07.520 That's a good question. He has he invited you. 0:13:08.400 --> 0:13:11.040 He's invited me a couple of times, but I that's 0:13:11.120 --> 0:13:13.600 not my thing, and like, of course I do want 0:13:13.600 --> 0:13:15.840 to be supportive, but I'm not going to subject myself 0:13:15.880 --> 0:13:18.800 to getting bid and like potentially getting eaten me. And 0:13:18.800 --> 0:13:21.360 like I loved him, but he. 0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:23.440 Needs to cut it back. I mean, if he wants 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:25.079 to go somewhere for a month and why all night, 0:13:25.160 --> 0:13:26.880 like just go out and sit and watch a sunset 0:13:26.880 --> 0:13:28.520 if you want to reflect and think about your life 0:13:28.760 --> 0:13:30.880 and include me. I don't like it. I don't think 0:13:30.880 --> 0:13:34.160 it's healthy for the relationship. So you, I mean, you 0:13:34.240 --> 0:13:35.839 got to make the choice, but it would really get 0:13:35.880 --> 0:13:37.320 under I'd get under my skin, and I don't think 0:13:37.320 --> 0:13:38.520 you should feel bad about the same. 0:13:38.640 --> 0:13:41.480 But it could just be a phase, Beth. I know 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:43.200 people that kind of went through stuff like this. My 0:13:43.240 --> 0:13:45.959 brother kind of used to camp a lot. And also 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:49.520 like my brother went through a skydiving phase where he 0:13:49.679 --> 0:13:52.880 really just loved skydiving so much and he was like 0:13:52.920 --> 0:13:54.760 going through stuff at the time, so it was like nice, 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:57.360 I don't know, it was just as hot something yell, 0:13:57.600 --> 0:13:59.800 but it was it was a phase. Like it happened 0:13:59.840 --> 0:14:02.880 for a few months and then it just doesn't happen 0:14:02.920 --> 0:14:03.600 anymore at all. 0:14:04.400 --> 0:14:06.320 Beth, just tell him, we're uncomfortable with this. 0:14:08.000 --> 0:14:11.240 Yeah, tell your boyfriend that Ryan Secrets is uncomfortable with 0:14:11.320 --> 0:14:11.920 him camping. 0:14:12.880 --> 0:14:16.480 I think that will make him sop mate, whatever it takes. 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:18.679 All right, well, Beth, get into it with him and 0:14:18.720 --> 0:14:20.840 express your fears, be honest. All right, thank you for 0:14:20.880 --> 0:14:21.480 bringing that up. 0:14:22.080 --> 0:14:23.040 Thank you guys. 0:14:23.360 --> 0:14:30.560 All right, you take care, good luck, Thank you. Tanya. 0:14:31.920 --> 0:14:33.840 Did you think about what you were trying to say? 0:14:33.960 --> 0:14:35.360 Did you want to finish? 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:39.120 I just feel as though, oh god, we're back at 0:14:39.120 --> 0:14:41.640 it overpast whatever. 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:44.040 We were quick at the jump, quick from the rip 0:14:44.120 --> 0:14:46.800 to be like this isn't it It's not good when 0:14:46.880 --> 0:14:49.400 in reality it might be very therapeutic and good for 0:14:49.480 --> 0:14:52.360 him to have these experienceses and it's just not our thing. 0:14:52.480 --> 0:14:54.280 But it's also good to be temporary. 0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:57.200 All right, let's just leave it at that. She's gone, 0:14:57.240 --> 0:15:00.760 so there's no no Beth anymore. Tanya is ready to 0:15:00.840 --> 0:15:02.520 go with her. Is now what you got? 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:06.400 Ashley Tisdale, the legendary Sharpey Evans from high school musical 0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:08.920 and her husband, musician Christopher French. 0:15:09.440 --> 0:15:12.280 They have been married for ten years. They have two. 0:15:12.160 --> 0:15:15.440 Daughters together, and Ashley is sharing what the key to 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:18.920 their long lasting marriage is, which is a question that 0:15:19.200 --> 0:15:24.240 I am now obsessed with asking anyone that I meet. So, 0:15:25.440 --> 0:15:27.280 if Robby and I are anywhere and we meet a 0:15:27.320 --> 0:15:29.240 married couple that have been married for thirty plus years, 0:15:29.280 --> 0:15:32.520 I ask, what's the secret on our honeymoon? One couple 0:15:32.560 --> 0:15:36.160 told us it's not to get jealous. Another couple said, 0:15:36.360 --> 0:15:40.120 let each other do their own thing. Another couple said 0:15:40.160 --> 0:15:44.560 stay connected through it all. And for Ashley Tisdale, she said, 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:48.160 it's no matter what in life things change, I think 0:15:48.200 --> 0:15:50.480 the biggest thing is to always just try to stay 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:54.720 on the same page throughout that. Communication is key on everything. 0:15:54.840 --> 0:15:58.840 That's a big one for us. So communication, Yeah, communication, 0:15:59.040 --> 0:16:01.680 And like I I found that she said, no matter 0:16:01.720 --> 0:16:06.400 what things change, like life is constantly changing, We're always evolving. 0:16:06.400 --> 0:16:10.080 New things are happening, uh in our lives, and it's 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:14.240 it's about communicating through all of those changes and all 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:15.320 the things that are happening. 0:16:15.480 --> 0:16:17.960 The thing is why as humans we find it difficult 0:16:18.000 --> 0:16:19.760 to do something so simple we do all the time, 0:16:19.800 --> 0:16:22.960 which is communicating is what we do for a living. 0:16:23.520 --> 0:16:30.240 Yet in the wild it's hard to communicate. Yeah, why stubborn? 0:16:30.280 --> 0:16:32.600 Do you more often than anything else that we do 0:16:32.680 --> 0:16:34.720 all day. We breathe more than we communicate, maybe, but 0:16:34.760 --> 0:16:36.400 other than that, like why is that so difficult? It's 0:16:36.400 --> 0:16:37.000 stubby things. 0:16:37.240 --> 0:16:38.640 I don't even know if it's subborn because it's like 0:16:38.920 --> 0:16:40.920 it's not even fighting, like you guys are saying. Sometimes 0:16:40.920 --> 0:16:42.760 you get so you get so talked out at work 0:16:42.840 --> 0:16:45.320 that you go home and you're a little silent. Sure, 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:47.560 and you should just be constantly Like one of the 0:16:47.560 --> 0:16:49.800 things I was reading about is just constantly being in 0:16:49.840 --> 0:16:51.680 communication with your partner throughout the day. 0:16:51.720 --> 0:16:54.320 There's one thing where it's constant communication, like hey, here's 0:16:54.320 --> 0:16:56.040 the checklist of things we have to do today and 0:16:56.080 --> 0:16:59.360