Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to Ryan. Air on Air with
Speaker 2: a Ryan Seacrest. Yeah, free slurpees. Kiss, good morning. It's
Speaker 2: eleven seven, eleven day and they got free slurpees.
Speaker 1: They're taking the kids on a field trip today at
Speaker 1: their summer camp to go get the free slurpies at
Speaker 1: seven or seven field trip. That's the field trip because
Speaker 1: it's like right by the school, so there can.
Speaker 2: They can walk there.
Speaker 1: It's little across the street.
Speaker 2: SIPs have evolved since I went to go see the constellations.
Speaker 2: Yeah that summer.
Speaker 1: It's summer camp.
Speaker 2: Oh summer. Yeah, that's rue. So the big one when
Speaker 2: we were in actual school was the dairy farm. That
Speaker 2: was the big one. Go to that dairy farm. Yeah.
Speaker 2: See how they did ours.
Speaker 3: Was the Librit tarpit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think want to say my kids actually just
Speaker 1: did the Libret tarpets.
Speaker 2: That's very interesting.
Speaker 1: I mean that's still and they've been like some botanical
Speaker 1: garden at u.
Speaker 4: C l A.
Speaker 2: That was kind of cool.
Speaker 1: It's like I want to go there.
Speaker 2: Most seven elem slurpee in the summer. Nice and so
Speaker 2: get your free slurpee. All right, uh hot this weekend
Speaker 2: mostly sunning highs in the mid eighties and nineties. I
Speaker 2: have to ask you a question. I almost texted y'all
Speaker 2: last night. I wish you did. I thought, more fun here,
Speaker 2: more fun here. So I have been changing my routine,
Speaker 2: and I'm told you, I've been doing a little yoga
Speaker 2: because I want to be more flexible, and I'm just
Speaker 2: I was getting sore and stiff. So I'm starting to
Speaker 2: do the show. And now I've been committed to it
Speaker 2: kind of in a way that I do it often regularly.
Speaker 2: But I don't know what to wear. I don't know
Speaker 2: what to wear because if I wear shorts, I feel
Speaker 2: like that's weird in yoga. Then I wear baggy T
Speaker 2: shirt and it falls over my head when I do
Speaker 2: some of the positions right shirt, No, you have to
Speaker 2: wear clothes in the cost Tony.
Speaker 1: I don't know where you go for your yoga tight
Speaker 1: briefs and shirtless.
Speaker 2: No, the tight tight doesn't work either. So I tried
Speaker 2: like loose sort of beach pants, but then they fall
Speaker 2: to my knee.
Speaker 1: I mean, you need like an school elastic.
Speaker 2: What like, what did guys wear for yoga? I don't know.
Speaker 5: I'm telling you anytime I go with Robbie. He wears
Speaker 5: a T shirt in but then he'll take it off
Speaker 5: when the class starts.
Speaker 2: You no one where I am? Where are you going.
Speaker 3: Core power or like heated room?
Speaker 2: Were you doing hot yoga? I'm doing regular yoga.
Speaker 1: Con Oh, that makes more sense because she's doing hot yoga.
Speaker 2: So say that part. I.
Speaker 3: I guess I've never done cold yoga?
Speaker 2: Is that cold?
Speaker 6: It's just.
Speaker 1: I never do it cold?
Speaker 3: Are we on something.
Speaker 2: Plunging and cold yoga yoga? Let's go open our spot.
Speaker 2: I just don't know what's whut.
Speaker 1: Bike shorts under the bag eat shorts.
Speaker 2: I used to think those were cool and I bought
Speaker 2: some of those. Now I think they look really bad
Speaker 2: on me.
Speaker 1: No, I think they look same good on you and
Speaker 1: your potential yoga outfit. Snap a picture, send it to us.
Speaker 1: I will let you know if it looks good or not.
Speaker 2: I actually will.
Speaker 3: You can't wear sure, you just can't.
Speaker 2: No, you can't. You just good morning? You called sicany
Speaker 2: Etania the back room this morning? Hey, does any fonds
Speaker 2: of you back there? Is not back there yet. I
Speaker 2: can't see that he's not back here yet. He's not
Speaker 2: that back there yet. Any of your boyfriends or whatever
Speaker 2: you have husbands? Do they do yoga? And what do
Speaker 2: they wear?
Speaker 3: No, they don't do yoga.
Speaker 2: Oh they need to start or tight they do walks
Speaker 2: and runs. You are yoked. You must have to stretch
Speaker 2: that out right? Yeah, what do you wear a lot
Speaker 2: of stretching? Great? What do you wear for stretching?
Speaker 6: Uh?
Speaker 2: Sometimes shirtless? And just like some what is with you?
Speaker 2: People can't keep Sometimes in the old boxer briefs, if
Speaker 2: I'm home alone, boxer brees, I'm with a class bro. No,
Speaker 2: then yeah, you gotta wear short. All right, thank you
Speaker 2: for that. Let's get to tell me something good, just
Speaker 2: some good news in this world right now? Tell me
Speaker 2: something good.
Speaker 1: Tonight we are celebrating my husband and his band. They're
Speaker 1: doing their second show ever in life for them at
Speaker 1: the Hotel Cafe in Hollywood.
Speaker 2: Echo Bird is the band, and can you go? Can
Speaker 2: people get tacked?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can totally get tickets.
Speaker 2: So look it up.
Speaker 1: It's a hotel cafe in Hollywood and there right there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Tana's coming.
Speaker 2: Tell me something good, Tanya.
Speaker 5: Okay, So I'm so excited because I didn't even realize
Speaker 5: that the final season of squid Game is out and
Speaker 5: so we're gonna binge it this weekend.
Speaker 1: Loa, you conbined like a weekend watch list. Wun, you're
Speaker 1: telling me something good.
Speaker 3: We'll have another show for my weekend.
Speaker 2: Half hour earlier because we didn't watch this. Jeremy called
Speaker 2: in and told you Mark what you can wear yoga
Speaker 2: style pants?
Speaker 7: That, yeah, don't they make They make pants just for this,
Speaker 7: the yoga style forman guys. They're not too tired, they
Speaker 7: don't dig into your waist, but they also stay up
Speaker 7: all right, lu Lulamsco ten thousand has them.
Speaker 2: There you go. Costco might have them too, That that's true. Friday,
Speaker 2: July eleven, seven eleven, twenty twenty five. Yeah, so I
Speaker 2: think it was yesterday, if my memory serves me correctly.
Speaker 2: We were talking about red and green flags, and we said,
Speaker 2: if someone after you've dated them for a month, asked
Speaker 2: for your location to be on twenty four to seven,
Speaker 2: is that a red, pink, beige, yellow, blue, flat? What
Speaker 2: flag is that?
Speaker 1: I said it was an amber, because after a month,
Speaker 1: I think it's too soon.
Speaker 2: I think you're to me it's red. It's a months
Speaker 2: too soon.
Speaker 1: Well, you don't like to share your location. I love
Speaker 1: to share my location with all my friends, saying, look
Speaker 1: look at how many people I share locations with, and
Speaker 1: that's just on this side of the country.
Speaker 2: Why do you want them to know where you are
Speaker 2: all the time?
Speaker 1: Is that what I want them to know where I
Speaker 1: where I am. It's more like if we're going to
Speaker 1: meet up, I already know, like or Tanya leave the
Speaker 1: house already to come here. Yeah, it's come out so handy,
Speaker 1: Like I don't know when you had to like come
Speaker 1: and pick me up for work one day, but I
Speaker 1: was like, I knew that you hadn't left. I checked
Speaker 1: your location. You were like halfway to work, and it
Speaker 1: was like perfect, soak me up on the way.
Speaker 2: So can't you just go, bro, where are you?
Speaker 8: Like?
Speaker 2: Not faster?
Speaker 1: No, it's not because then then then then they have
Speaker 1: to listen to it and then they have to.
Speaker 5: Rep At that point, she already knew I wasn't past
Speaker 5: her house, so she's like, hey, can you swing by
Speaker 5: on your way in to pick me up?
Speaker 3: Great?
Speaker 2: See the value in that moment. But we bring this
Speaker 2: up specifically because obviously Sistany and Michael have their twenty
Speaker 2: four seven sharing because they're married for a lifetime friend
Speaker 2: something happened recently.
Speaker 1: Why then, Yeah, now this is maybe where it might
Speaker 1: become a problem mentally for me.
Speaker 2: Okay, listen to this, Tanya.
Speaker 1: So Michael's phone died a few days ago in the morning,
Speaker 1: and he was trying to fix it.
Speaker 3: It didn't die.
Speaker 1: It was really weird. It was like still vibrating, but
Speaker 1: it was a black screen. So I said, you have
Speaker 1: Apple Care, so go and see if you can get
Speaker 1: it fixed without you know, he was ready to buy
Speaker 1: a new phone. I was like, whoa, whoa, whoa, let's
Speaker 1: figure out if we can fix it. So he figured
Speaker 1: out that he could. He made an appointment at what
Speaker 1: is it called the Genius Bar. We're at the Apple store,
Speaker 1: and so he goes, all right, I'm going and he's like,
Speaker 1: going to the mall and he I knew he was
Speaker 1: at the mall, and I knew that it was probably
Speaker 1: going to take an hour or so, and it was
Speaker 1: three hours at this point, and so I kept trying
Speaker 1: to refresh his phone. I was like, maybe it's already fixed,
Speaker 1: and it wasn't showing me his location, And just for
Speaker 1: those three hours of not having Michael's location, it really
Speaker 1: bothered me, like it.
Speaker 2: Really why why because you're just so.
Speaker 1: But it's not like I like, I don't think he's
Speaker 1: out there like cheating on me or anything like that.
Speaker 1: I just I just realized I depend on it so much,
Speaker 1: like I checked a crutch, Like before I text him,
Speaker 1: I check his location, like I just it's like a
Speaker 1: cadence that I do, Like where is he at? Okay,
Speaker 1: so I'm going to text him he's at work or
Speaker 1: he's driving, or like if he's driving, then I'm not going.
Speaker 2: To tex Almost a courtesy exactly, it's almost a courtesy
Speaker 2: to do that.
Speaker 1: Yes, But it was just weird that, like I I
Speaker 1: just felt so I wasn't. I don't know if I
Speaker 1: felt naked. I felt like it was like I was
Speaker 1: missing something.
Speaker 2: Nomes so dependent, you know, Like I so the other night,
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm gonna go watch something and not
Speaker 2: to have my phone. I'm gonna leave my phone in
Speaker 2: my bedroom on the charger. As soon as I go
Speaker 2: to watch something, I started thinking of things that I
Speaker 2: needed to send somebody, social, could be whatever. Then I
Speaker 2: found myself getting up pausing. I'm trying to watch the
Speaker 2: amateur Have you seen this yet?
Speaker 3: Heard of it?
Speaker 8: Now?
Speaker 2: Okay? The amateur. It's coming up on the weekend, watching
Speaker 2: anyway with I Robot? What's the robot guy?
Speaker 1: That robot movie.
Speaker 2: Robby Mallick Robbie Mah, yeah, he's in it anyway. So
Speaker 2: I was trying to watch that. It's a long one,
Speaker 2: but I kept having to go upstairs and send a
Speaker 2: note and then come back down, and I just was like,
Speaker 2: why am This has become worse because I thought I
Speaker 2: was doing myself good by leaving it not with me, yes,
Speaker 2: but it became a chore to go into the bedroom
Speaker 2: and back to the TV and back and forth. So
Speaker 2: I finally threw it on the chair next to me.
Speaker 2: We've become too reliant on things like this problem.
Speaker 1: I know, I'm with you, but I also just love
Speaker 1: sharing locations. Like I just started sharing locations with like
Speaker 1: a few of my friends from school. I was like,
Speaker 1: this is great now, I mean I share locations of
Speaker 1: probably forty five people. I had a problem.
Speaker 2: Now when you hear that, you know you haven't watch
Speaker 2: all right? Come up NeXT's tuck some grilling this weekend,
Speaker 2: so I'll do cooking.
Speaker 1: Kiss I can tell you JoJo's still at home.
Speaker 2: We got a quote of the Day on this Friday.
Speaker 2: But if you think about grilling, cooking out, barbecuing. We're
Speaker 2: in the middle of the season, right, but experts say
Speaker 2: these are the worst foods to grill. Have you done this?
Speaker 2: This happened to me and it's a it's a disaster.
Speaker 2: But flaky fish like cod or flounder, Yeah, sticks to
Speaker 2: the grates, it falls apart. I give up and don't
Speaker 2: care if it looks pretty and just scrape it off.
Speaker 2: And then you have to clean obviously the grill from
Speaker 2: those burnt pieces of flaky fish. But that's obviously not easy.
Speaker 2: Frozen shrimp. Frozen shrimp not good to grill. They will
Speaker 2: cook unevenly. That's not good. And watermelon this is big
Speaker 2: on TikTok. So have a grilled watermelon.
Speaker 1: I never have.
Speaker 2: But is that a thing?
Speaker 1: H and does it works?
Speaker 2: No? Oh, it will fall apart and make a big mess.
Speaker 2: So if it's looking good on TikTok, it's being stage
Speaker 2: dressed you. Oh yeah. One thing that I do think
Speaker 2: is great on the grill. Have you done peaches like
Speaker 2: you grill peaches? The flavor a grilled pea.
Speaker 1: I personally haven't, but I've tasted them grilled and they're
Speaker 1: good on a salad.
Speaker 2: They're also a great healthy kind of dessert, a grilled peach.
Speaker 2: Throwing it out there if you want to try something
Speaker 2: sweet on the grill this weekend. Today's quote some people
Speaker 2: don't grow with you because they were only meant to
Speaker 2: water your roots, not to walk your path. Today we
Speaker 2: have got more heat. Not quite hot is yesterday, but
Speaker 2: more heat eighties and nineties, high nineties inland. On the
Speaker 2: phones here before I give aways some summer cash, It's Beth, Beth,
Speaker 2: good morning.
Speaker 8: How you doing, Good morning, how are you?
Speaker 2: We're all right. So you're calling about your boyfriend who
Speaker 2: recently got into solo camping.
Speaker 8: Yeah, so it's been pretty sudden. He just got into camping,
Speaker 8: like really out of nowhere. And I'm trying to be
Speaker 8: a supportive girlfriend, but honestly, I'm kind of freaking out
Speaker 8: about it. He all he did was watch a few
Speaker 8: YouTube videos, he bought all this gear, and now he's
Speaker 8: just going on these solo trips in the woods, Like
Speaker 8: he went all the way out to Joshua Tree last weekend.
Speaker 8: And I like, I get it, like nature and peace
Speaker 8: and finding yourself, and like I really want to support that,
Speaker 8: but this thing is is that he goes alone with
Speaker 8: no cell service. And I just found out that on
Speaker 8: his last trip, he slept with the car door open,
Speaker 8: like all the way open, and he told me that
Speaker 8: it was for airflow, but then admitted he didn't even
Speaker 8: think about animals getting in until the next morning, which
Speaker 8: like that's the top priority. And I don't want to
Speaker 8: be overbearing or like make him think I don't trust him,
Speaker 8: but I also want to talk him out of it,
Speaker 8: or at least make make him safer. I don't know
Speaker 8: if I mean crazy or like, is this actually dangerous?
Speaker 2: Like well, first of all, when you have a conversation
Speaker 2: with his safety priority thinking, because thinking of wild animals
Speaker 2: eating you would be top of mind for me. So
Speaker 2: I don't know how he's looking at all this. But
Speaker 2: if he's gone on these camping trips, he's saying that
Speaker 2: he wants to find himself. That's why he's going to
Speaker 2: just need some time to think. That's the purpose of them.
Speaker 8: Yeah, he's saying he wants to enjoy more time with
Speaker 8: nature because he doesn't really get to you very often,
Speaker 8: I guess.
Speaker 2: But and you say he's going how often.
Speaker 8: He goes? Like every week?
Speaker 1: Every week okay, that that's a real yeah, no craziness here.
Speaker 2: This is a real, like what is he running from?
Speaker 1: Problem? But it's a hobby, like it's an obsession.
Speaker 2: No, no, it's a problem. Like if you don't to
Speaker 2: be with me once a week on a night, that's
Speaker 2: a problem for me.
Speaker 5: Well no, no, no, no, this to to to you
Speaker 5: like you like to go work out, and you like
Speaker 5: to do that many times, So this might be okay,
Speaker 5: an hour a day whatever. This might be his version
Speaker 5: of working out. This might be good like for him mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, it's.
Speaker 2: Not good for Beth. That's not good for the relationship.
Speaker 1: If Robby went camping every week, but this would.
Speaker 2: Be a no.
Speaker 3: This would be a no go for me. However, However,
Speaker 3: I'm just saying it's not for us to say that
Speaker 3: he is.
Speaker 2: Do you want to cards what in the world he's
Speaker 2: trying to say, It's gonna be Saturday by the time
Speaker 2: we get there. Look, I'm telling you it's a problem.
Speaker 2: Are you invited on these solo camping trips every week
Speaker 2: or not?
Speaker 1: That's a good question. He has he invited you.
Speaker 8: He's invited me a couple of times, but I that's
Speaker 8: not my thing, and like, of course I do want
Speaker 8: to be supportive, but I'm not going to subject myself
Speaker 8: to getting bid and like potentially getting eaten me. And
Speaker 8: like I loved him, but he.
Speaker 2: Needs to cut it back. I mean, if he wants
Speaker 2: to go somewhere for a month and why all night,
Speaker 2: like just go out and sit and watch a sunset
Speaker 2: if you want to reflect and think about your life
Speaker 2: and include me. I don't like it. I don't think
Speaker 2: it's healthy for the relationship. So you, I mean, you
Speaker 2: got to make the choice, but it would really get
Speaker 2: under I'd get under my skin, and I don't think
Speaker 2: you should feel bad about the same.
Speaker 1: But it could just be a phase, Beth. I know
Speaker 1: people that kind of went through stuff like this. My
Speaker 1: brother kind of used to camp a lot. And also
Speaker 1: like my brother went through a skydiving phase where he
Speaker 1: really just loved skydiving so much and he was like
Speaker 1: going through stuff at the time, so it was like nice,
Speaker 1: I don't know, it was just as hot something yell,
Speaker 1: but it was it was a phase. Like it happened
Speaker 1: for a few months and then it just doesn't happen
Speaker 1: anymore at all.
Speaker 2: Beth, just tell him, we're uncomfortable with this.
Speaker 1: Yeah, tell your boyfriend that Ryan Secrets is uncomfortable with
Speaker 1: him camping.
Speaker 2: I think that will make him sop mate, whatever it takes.
Speaker 2: All right, well, Beth, get into it with him and
Speaker 2: express your fears, be honest. All right, thank you for
Speaker 2: bringing that up.
Speaker 8: Thank you guys.
Speaker 2: All right, you take care, good luck, Thank you. Tanya.
Speaker 1: Did you think about what you were trying to say?
Speaker 2: Did you want to finish?
Speaker 1: I just feel as though, oh god, we're back at
Speaker 1: it overpast whatever.
Speaker 5: We were quick at the jump, quick from the rip
Speaker 5: to be like this isn't it It's not good when
Speaker 5: in reality it might be very therapeutic and good for
Speaker 5: him to have these experienceses and it's just not our thing.
Speaker 1: But it's also good to be temporary.
Speaker 2: All right, let's just leave it at that. She's gone,
Speaker 2: so there's no no Beth anymore. Tanya is ready to
Speaker 2: go with her. Is now what you got?
Speaker 5: Ashley Tisdale, the legendary Sharpey Evans from high school musical
Speaker 5: and her husband, musician Christopher French.
Speaker 3: They have been married for ten years. They have two.
Speaker 5: Daughters together, and Ashley is sharing what the key to
Speaker 5: their long lasting marriage is, which is a question that
Speaker 5: I am now obsessed with asking anyone that I meet. So,
Speaker 5: if Robby and I are anywhere and we meet a
Speaker 5: married couple that have been married for thirty plus years,
Speaker 5: I ask, what's the secret on our honeymoon? One couple
Speaker 5: told us it's not to get jealous. Another couple said,
Speaker 5: let each other do their own thing. Another couple said
Speaker 5: stay connected through it all. And for Ashley Tisdale, she said,
Speaker 5: it's no matter what in life things change, I think
Speaker 5: the biggest thing is to always just try to stay
Speaker 5: on the same page throughout that. Communication is key on everything.
Speaker 5: That's a big one for us. So communication, Yeah, communication,
Speaker 5: And like I I found that she said, no matter
Speaker 5: what things change, like life is constantly changing, We're always evolving.
Speaker 5: New things are happening, uh in our lives, and it's
Speaker 5: it's about communicating through all of those changes and all
Speaker 5: the things that are happening.
Speaker 2: The thing is why as humans we find it difficult
Speaker 2: to do something so simple we do all the time,
Speaker 2: which is communicating is what we do for a living.
Speaker 2: Yet in the wild it's hard to communicate. Yeah, why stubborn?
Speaker 2: Do you more often than anything else that we do
Speaker 2: all day. We breathe more than we communicate, maybe, but
Speaker 2: other than that, like why is that so difficult? It's
Speaker 2: stubby things.
Speaker 5: I don't even know if it's subborn because it's like
Speaker 5: it's not even fighting, like you guys are saying. Sometimes
Speaker 5: you get so you get so talked out at work
Speaker 5: that you go home and you're a little silent. Sure,
Speaker 5: and you should just be constantly Like one of the
Speaker 5: things I was reading about is just constantly being in
Speaker 5: communication with your partner throughout the day.
Speaker 1: There's one thing where it's constant communication, like hey, here's
Speaker 1: the checklist of things we have to do today and
Speaker 1: this week, and versus like hey, hey, let's talk, like
Speaker 1: how are you how are you feeling? Well, that's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like how has life been like whatever? But
Speaker 1: it's important. I'm not saying I'm the person that initiates
Speaker 1: those conversations.
Speaker 2: But that's stubbornness.
Speaker 1: I'm tired.
Speaker 2: But in like, if you drill down on communication, one
Speaker 2: of the things that I try to focus on is
Speaker 2: not interrupting, like like don't react until the whole thing's finished,
Speaker 2: Like let him say. Whoever you talk to, let them
Speaker 2: say everything they want to say is your response and
Speaker 2: not get into an interrupting response because then it escalates.
Speaker 2: I mean, it's hard to do, but it's better if
Speaker 2: you don't. And my experiences, well, I'm not good at it.
Speaker 2: I'm just saying I try to, I try to think
Speaker 2: about it.
Speaker 1: My dream conversation.
Speaker 2: He doesn't interrupt. I feel like you interrupt to with him.
Speaker 6: I know.
Speaker 1: It's more like I feel like sometimes I can't finish
Speaker 1: my thought.
Speaker 2: You know, do you ever say can I just finish?
Speaker 1: Yeah, all the time. But I'd say that with my
Speaker 1: kids too, Like everyone interrupts me.
Speaker 2: Oh gosh, it's supposed to be good news, wasn't it?
Speaker 3: Well that was good news.
Speaker 5: Yeah, than the guy who told me, I go, how
Speaker 5: was your hus married thirty five years?
Speaker 3: How do you what's the secret? And he goes, I
Speaker 3: take my hearing aid out a lot.
Speaker 2: I was like, well, where were you getting these people?
Speaker 2: Where's the sample group from.
Speaker 5: Anybody that we meet, Like this guy was at an
Speaker 5: airport on our way to our huntland.
Speaker 2: When the woman walks up to you, it doesn't you
Speaker 2: don't know out of context and says what's the secret,
Speaker 2: and you're like, I get what Yeah, these.
Speaker 3: Are people that were having somewhat of a.
Speaker 5: Conversation with prior because I know that they've been married
Speaker 5: for thirty plus years and I'm just walking up to stranger.
Speaker 2: So and you think about like a Sunday, Saturday, you
Speaker 2: have like this idea of what the perfect morning is.
Speaker 2: I usually it's a weekend or a holiday in my head,
Speaker 2: the perfect more vacation, right, the perfect morning. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: think Tany you had ten perfect mornings recently on your
Speaker 2: honeymoon where you said you got to wake up next
Speaker 2: to him, your husband on your honeymoon without having to
Speaker 2: go anywhere.
Speaker 3: My favorite thing.
Speaker 2: I can understand why. Yeah, it's a popular trend on
Speaker 2: TikTok right now, people talking about their favorite mornings. So
Speaker 2: some of the examples that they say on TikTok Christmas
Speaker 2: morning obviously, you know it is my favorite, but I
Speaker 2: put so much weight into it that I get a
Speaker 2: little stressed out. And on Christmas Morning that is going
Speaker 2: by fast.
Speaker 3: And then by the afternoon it's like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's such a letdown because I put I call
Speaker 2: it my favorite morning all year, and I'm completely depleted
Speaker 2: by noon.
Speaker 1: Isn't the twenty fourth also a favorite morning for you though, too,
Speaker 1: because that's your birthday?
Speaker 2: Do you not wait night? No, I don't wake up
Speaker 2: my birthday.
Speaker 1: And then tomorrow's Christmas.
Speaker 2: It's like like I get like that at sunset, like
Speaker 2: when the sun's going down late in the afternoon because
Speaker 2: it's the winter. Yeah, because we're about to do our
Speaker 2: fun new dinner with the family. Yeah, that I get excited. Okay,
Speaker 2: So it's like Christmas Eve to Christmas eleven am is
Speaker 2: my block of my favorite morning. Wow.
Speaker 1: God, you better get it in that window otherwise forget it.
Speaker 2: What else a Friday morning when you have the day off,
Speaker 2: people say, yeah, that's nice because you get that extra
Speaker 2: day of the moment weekend.
Speaker 1: I think the morning after being engaged. I remember that
Speaker 1: morning's still so clearly, opening my eyes and looking at
Speaker 1: my hand and seeing the ring and being like, oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, it wasn't a dream.
Speaker 2: That's a good one.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I agree, because that's only going to happen once.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Some people said that random Saturday morning when you wake
Speaker 2: up and you think it's a workday and it's a weekend,
Speaker 2: and you realize, oh my gosh, it's not a day.
Speaker 2: I have to go through my RESI and tomorrow.
Speaker 1: Sunday, Like it's still yeah, you still have the whole weekend.
Speaker 2: Better on Saturday than Sunday for sure. Uh huh.
Speaker 1: How about like like that first morning of summer as
Speaker 1: a kid like schools? The last day of school was
Speaker 1: yesterday and then that first morning of summer.
Speaker 2: But okay, so I remember that feeling. Does anything get
Speaker 2: you that feeling as an adult, Like, I'm just it's
Speaker 2: for me. It's easier to get that feeling as a
Speaker 2: kid than it is as an adult. I think.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess a lot of my favorite mornings are
Speaker 1: probably from childhood.
Speaker 3: From childhood, No, what about like the morning after a.
Speaker 1: Really good first day that happened. It's so rare sixteen
Speaker 1: years for me, and like seeing if they texted, Yes,
Speaker 1: if I was single, if I was dating, then that
Speaker 1: would be a really good feeling of a morning for sure.
Speaker 2: All right, let us know we should add to the
Speaker 2: list here on a talkback or give us a call.
Speaker 2: You can use the talk back button inside driver's license.
Speaker 2: That day was pretty great. I had to wait because
Speaker 2: it was a holiday obviously, Christmas Eve, Christmas Day to
Speaker 2: go to the twenty six So those were like difficult
Speaker 2: days to way through because I wanted the license right
Speaker 2: away to such fun music. I know, I know it
Speaker 2: was a hard one. I don't know why I noticed.
Speaker 2: But you put lipstick on.
Speaker 3: I just put chapstick on.
Speaker 2: Oh chapstick, I got it. Lipscott got really glossy and shiny.
Speaker 5: My lips are burnt, no burnt. So I've been putting
Speaker 5: a lot of chapstick.
Speaker 2: On protect them.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: First dates, we talked about them a second ago. If
Speaker 2: you're going on one this weekend, there's a trend that
Speaker 2: is on social media. Some people, a lot of people
Speaker 2: got talking about this. I don't have anyone doing it,
Speaker 2: but there's about ditching something that you would feel.
Speaker 1: Thousands are doing this. This is like, yeah, this is big. Okay,
Speaker 1: So it's the first date situation.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: When you think about the first date, you want to
Speaker 1: look your best. You try to pick out the perfect outfit.
Speaker 1: You don't want to wear like too much makeup or
Speaker 1: you want to put a little makeup on you kind
Speaker 1: of like think about all these things.
Speaker 3: How you show some skin but not too much.
Speaker 1: Kay, how's your hair gonna look? You don't want to
Speaker 1: overdo it. All these things go through your head as
Speaker 1: like the first date jitters. But now everyone is doing
Speaker 1: this new trend of completely going makeup free. This is
Speaker 1: more for the women on the first date situation. It's
Speaker 1: low key scary. A lot of people are admitting like
Speaker 1: I don't know if I could do this, like not
Speaker 1: even concealer, like not even a little bit like under right,
Speaker 1: But it's like completely makeup free. It's supposed to apply
Speaker 1: less pressure, actually give you more confidence and give the
Speaker 1: the person you're about to be on a date with
Speaker 1: like that first impression of like this is me. If
Speaker 1: you don't take me like this, then you don't even
Speaker 1: get to see my glam version.
Speaker 2: What is I don't what to say, because I could.
Speaker 2: I don't wear makeup on first date, but I don't
Speaker 2: know that I do you notice makeup?
Speaker 1: Do you notice makeup on it's like too if it's.
Speaker 2: Too much, like I don't know, like if it's like
Speaker 2: if it's too much red circles or black circles or
Speaker 2: something around. I don't know what the thing is.
Speaker 1: These wings, the wings, I.
Speaker 2: Noticed those things.
Speaker 3: I don't know how to do those.
Speaker 2: I'm not a shoes fan of the wings.
Speaker 3: Well that's good.
Speaker 2: Well that's good.
Speaker 1: So Exer's experts say that skipping makeup can actually help
Speaker 1: you connect better and save emotional energy. Plus, if someone's
Speaker 1: not into your bare face, that is a red flag. Anyway.
Speaker 5: It's interesting because I don't wear a ton of makeup
Speaker 5: in the first place.
Speaker 1: I don't either, but I still.
Speaker 5: Think going completely make up for you on a first
Speaker 5: date feels like I don't care.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna look at it with a very positive lens.
Speaker 2: Just think, if you get into relationship with this person,
Speaker 2: how much time you'll save getting ready? Sure, you ready,
Speaker 2: no time.
Speaker 1: But you also if you get into relationship with this person,
Speaker 1: they're going to see you bare face like all the time.
Speaker 2: Look like, oh this is a good thing. How many
Speaker 2: times you have to wash your hair a week because
Speaker 2: let's go. If you wan't like, let's leave in ten minutes,
Speaker 2: you have to make they show.
Speaker 1: Up with dirty hair, I said.
Speaker 2: But make shamp I'm like, oh no, it's a shampoo
Speaker 2: night before we can go anywhere. Forever. Blow dry.
Speaker 1: One of your axes had like so much hair that
Speaker 1: probably took forever.
Speaker 2: Definitely, you couldn't leave it at the same time as
Speaker 2: you did without that shampoo.
Speaker 1: Blow drin't imagine bow drin her hair like two hours?
Speaker 2: What do you think I had to do it? Sometimes?
Speaker 1: You know me? Are you?
Speaker 5: That is so funny that you say that, because that
Speaker 5: was one of the first things Robbie said, like when
Speaker 5: we're newly dating that he loved so much was that
Speaker 5: I could get ready in like ten.
Speaker 2: It is a green flag. It's like when you're eagle Rock.
Speaker 2: What's up? Max? How are you doing?
Speaker 8: Doing pretty good?
Speaker 4: How are you?
Speaker 2: We are great? Welcome to the show. So they tell
Speaker 2: me that you're calling about fumbling the girl of your dreams?
Speaker 2: What happened? Max?
Speaker 4: Yes, So there was this girl I'll call her Sarah,
Speaker 4: and last summer we had a little bit, you know,
Speaker 4: we were talking here and there. She came out to
Speaker 4: visit me, and I feel like it was kind of
Speaker 4: well going well between us. However, things kind of fizzled
Speaker 4: out a little bit as the summer closed out and
Speaker 4: I started dating some other girl, and that girl and
Speaker 4: I kind of quickly ended. And I feel like after
Speaker 4: that relationship ended, I went back to talking to this girl, Sarah,
Speaker 4: and I feel like she got a little scared by
Speaker 4: that about how quickly, you know, I kind of switched
Speaker 4: there and I want to figure out what can I do?
Speaker 4: Do I have a chance?
Speaker 2: You have a chance, of course you have a chance.
Speaker 2: But this is kind of like karma, right, But it's
Speaker 2: not uncommon that you don't realize what's before you until
Speaker 2: you don't have.
Speaker 1: It, I mean, and then you're gonna be making it
Speaker 1: up to her forever and ever can't.
Speaker 2: You just so? Have you tried to approach Sarah again?
Speaker 4: When I when I broke up with that other girl,
Speaker 4: about one or two weeks later, I ran into Sarah
Speaker 4: and immediately I feel like I came on a little
Speaker 4: bit too hard, and I feel like she was like, okay,
Speaker 4: she did she don't want to be a rebound. I
Speaker 4: feel like was her was her immediate reaction.
Speaker 2: So that's good news. Wait, that's good if she doesn't
Speaker 2: want to be a rebound. The door is a jar
Speaker 2: because she don't want to be a rebound. She didn't
Speaker 2: say this is not gonna happen, right, a rebound? So
Speaker 2: this is positive. You might to just slow roll this,
Speaker 2: bro And I think sincerity and honestly from the heart,
Speaker 2: that you really realize that you made a mistake or
Speaker 2: whatever it is that you feel, that's just that sincerity
Speaker 2: at the right time with a slow roll, I think
Speaker 2: is the approach.
Speaker 4: I see, Yeah, that's what I was. That's what I
Speaker 4: was trying to do. After she kind of has that
Speaker 4: initial pullback, I took a step back. So I'm trying
Speaker 4: to see, like where can this go? Should I like
Speaker 4: keep talking with her, like keep it like a very
Speaker 4: like casual thing, or like.
Speaker 2: Not too casual.
Speaker 1: I think you want her to know that you are trying,
Speaker 1: so don't be.
Speaker 2: Don't be too cool. There's a fine line to the
Speaker 2: pace of this. I think you being honest about whatever
Speaker 2: it is you felt with her versus anybody else, is
Speaker 2: what you Yeah, they I think the door's open, Max.
Speaker 2: The door is open from what we're hearing, the doors open.
Speaker 1: And don't do it again like that.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, good luck man, Thank you for calling. I appreciate
Speaker 2: you very much.
Speaker 6: Thank you.
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 2: A good night you.
Speaker 1: Too, have a say, have a good night. What what.
Speaker 2: He's excited he's thinking about the days and everything, and
Speaker 2: good night to you, good night. What is your bedtime?
Speaker 2: Mat watch list? And here we go the weekend watch list.
Speaker 2: Just watch and maybe you should try and watch something.
Speaker 2: They're trying to watch something with your phone in another
Speaker 2: room and see if you can.
Speaker 1: I have gone a few hours. I just like, oh
Speaker 1: my phone was in the kitchen the whole time, and
Speaker 1: life goes on.
Speaker 2: It's fine, I know, I know. I want to do
Speaker 2: more of that.
Speaker 5: I love watching TV while I'm on my phone.
Speaker 1: The problem though, like the minute you lose interest in
Speaker 1: like something you're watching, then you like pick up.
Speaker 2: Then you have to go back and rewind takes three
Speaker 2: times so much time, and my rewind is not rewind.
Speaker 2: It just like goes back one second. Somehow I can't
Speaker 2: get it to ten times, only.
Speaker 1: Goes back ten seconds. I know it's annoying.
Speaker 2: It's my press press press press press. They'd be rested
Speaker 2: too much. Ago goes the beginning to start over. Oh
Speaker 2: my gosh, this thing on my phone on Excydney. What
Speaker 2: we can watch this? Okay?
Speaker 1: So I have been a fan of Jersey Shore since
Speaker 1: it aired fifteen years ago and it's still on the air.
Speaker 1: Jersey to Our Family Vacation Season eight is on MTV.
Speaker 1: It's streaming on Hulu as well. New episodes Thursdays. The
Speaker 1: finale is actually next week and they're still relatable, which
Speaker 1: is just blows my mind. I feel like I've grown
Speaker 1: up with.
Speaker 2: This cast too, and.
Speaker 1: I love them so much. I would love to have
Speaker 1: any of them on our show. So if you ever listen.
Speaker 1: I know Jaywow follows me on Instagram, so I'm just like,
Speaker 1: I am a stand of Jersey Shore.
Speaker 2: And that's it.
Speaker 3: So go watch it.
Speaker 2: Direct a message her then is she find I know,
Speaker 2: but I don't want to be too like. You know,
Speaker 2: it's a DMME on I want to be technical about
Speaker 2: these terms. All right, Tony, what's Tony? We can watch list?
Speaker 5: So mine is We Were Liars. It's on Prime. This
Speaker 5: is a book adaptation, so the show already has like
Speaker 5: a cult like following for people who read and loved
Speaker 5: the books. But after a mysterious accident changes Cadence Sinclair's
Speaker 5: life forever, everyone including her friends, seemed to be hiding something.
Speaker 5: So the show is kind of like Outer Banks meets
Speaker 5: Gossip Girl. I like it, and Candace King is one
Speaker 5: of the stars of the show. We had on our
Speaker 5: podcast and she sold it so well. So all eight
Speaker 5: episodes are streaming now and it's getting a lot of buzz.
Speaker 2: Ruby, what's in your weekend watch list? Oh?
Speaker 6: We are back The Bear Season four I was so
Speaker 6: excited for this Carme and his kitchen crew are back
Speaker 6: for a four season with their new restaurant, The Bear.
Speaker 6: It officially opens to the public, and so obviously that's
Speaker 6: a major leap from where they first started at the Diner,
Speaker 6: at the Humble Diner.
Speaker 2: So yep. I like all the characters. I love what's
Speaker 2: the brother, Richie, Richie? Yeah, thank you, thank you everyone, Richie.
Speaker 2: I love his character.
Speaker 5: Fun fact, Brad Goreski's husband, Gary Jennetti is in season
Speaker 5: four of The Bear.
Speaker 2: Huge one scene.
Speaker 3: I don't know what scenes episode Yeah.
Speaker 2: All right, mine, we can watch the Ideas The Amateur.
Speaker 2: It's a movie on Prime. It stars Robbie Mallick, Rachel Brosnan,
Speaker 2: and Lawrence Fishburn. And I haven't finished it, but it's
Speaker 2: a long one. And I got through our ten which
Speaker 2: is a big deal. And I'm still sucked in. But
Speaker 2: you cannot have your phone. You really got to pay attention.
Speaker 2: You got to read some things. It's ci A stuff.
Speaker 2: I love the c i A ones. And you just
Speaker 2: have to read some documents to follow along documents on
Speaker 2: the screen that he's reading on a computer. I mean,
Speaker 2: that is not that laborious don't watch it.
Speaker 1: Then this is the way this all makes sense. Ryan,
Speaker 1: This is why you have to put your phone in
Speaker 1: your Yeah.
Speaker 3: If you have time to be scrolling and chatting.
Speaker 2: Well, he's a CIA decoder who embarks on a trek
Speaker 2: across the globe to track down those responsible for the
Speaker 2: death of his wife. And it's really compelling so far.
Speaker 2: Haven't seen the ending. Much to finish it. I'm thirsty.
Speaker 2: That was a show. It is warm today, gonna be
Speaker 2: eighties and nineties. We're gonna wrap it up, get out
Speaker 2: of here for the weekend, Have a good, safe weekend.
Speaker 2: Thanks for being here to listen to the show. On Monday,
Speaker 2: we're gonna get into another Ryan's roses. She found something
Speaker 2: in their shower that she claims does not belong there.
Speaker 2: Her thoughts on that, what it means? What does that mean?
Speaker 2: That was there?
Speaker 1: What does that means?
Speaker 2: Fine, I don't even know what it is yet. So
Speaker 2: that's coming up, Marcus and told me it's coming up
Speaker 2: on Monday. If you say anything, it's up on the
Speaker 2: podcast by noon on air with Ryan Seacrest. All right,
Speaker 2: back room, how happy you got through another week? We
Speaker 2: are well done?
Speaker 7: So yeah, we.
Speaker 2: Yayyay, yay. You go out over the weekend and we'll
Speaker 2: see it first day Monday morning. Bye bye, guys, take care,
Speaker 2: Thanks for listening so on Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make
Speaker 2: sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again Monday,