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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, This is from Tricia on Steve HARVEFM.

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Speaker 1: Tricia says, I just found out that my money, that

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Speaker 1: the money my grandparents left me, has basically been spent.

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Speaker 1: I got into my dream college and was excited to

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Speaker 1: have that financial cushion. But when I asked about it,

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Speaker 1: my parents showed me an accounting of how they used

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Speaker 1: it over the years. Turns out all the things they

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Speaker 1: gave me growing up, cheer camp, my senior trip, extracurricular activities, etc.

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Speaker 1: Were paid were paid for with my money. They never

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Speaker 1: once told me that that's where the money was coming from.

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Speaker 1: And now I only have enough left to cover my

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Speaker 1: first year of school. After that, I'll need to get

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Speaker 1: a job and figure it out on my own. I

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Speaker 1: feel like that money was supposed to be for my future,

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Speaker 1: not for them to use to cover stuff they didn't

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Speaker 1: want to pay for. Am I wrong to be mad

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Speaker 1: about this? Isn't it wrong for my parents to have

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Speaker 1: spent money meant for me without asking?

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Now because they spend it on you. You

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Speaker 2: went to cheer camp and it's expensive. Take it.

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Speaker 3: That's expensive. All the roll trips and everything. Grandmama, they

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Speaker 3: did all that to get to the way you are now.

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Speaker 3: Now you got one year of college paid for, gone,

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Speaker 3: go to college.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna have to get a job. Get alan.

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Speaker 3: It's all good. Don't worry about that. You in college

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Speaker 3: and the college degree first year paid for. Year number two.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna have to work it out now. Maybe your

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Speaker 3: mommy and daddy can.

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Speaker 2: Help you with year two. You never know, but you

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Speaker 2: got to quit complaining.

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Speaker 3: You in college, ain't nobody had no money for me

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Speaker 3: to do nothing.

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Speaker 1: Now it's back to you.

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Speaker 2: Cass, back to me morning loan. It's just care from

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Speaker 2: my TV cansel.

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Speaker 3: I showed and he got cut from tamp Bay buy year.

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Speaker 3: But twenty one years old, I got counseling.

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Speaker 2: I was sick. You know how hard he is.

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Speaker 3: Recover when you're in your sixty is like falling down

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Speaker 3: some steps for you six twenty one, you get up sixty.

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Speaker 2: I got to lay that check with myself, call in,

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Speaker 2: make sure nothing's broken. Yeah, fracture, I mean, I gotta

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Speaker 2: be steel.

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Speaker 1: You're inserting yourself in the Shiloh all on me, just

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Speaker 1: like in the Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 2: Today.

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Speaker 3: The best way to answer these questions is insert yourself

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Speaker 3: into these letters.

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Speaker 1: Transparent today.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're gonna be all right.

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Speaker 3: Uh Shilloh, your daddy's them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And you in college? What you crying for? Just

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Speaker 2: go to college. This lady here now you switched to.

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Speaker 3: She only got one year paid for and they used

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Speaker 3: the money and they showed an account how they she

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Speaker 3: sent me to cheer camping, paid for my trips and books. Well,

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Speaker 3: you wouldn't have got to college if you had to

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Speaker 3: on these other things.

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Speaker 1: Well, is it wrong for her parents to have spent

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Speaker 1: the money on her without asking her?

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Speaker 2: They spent the money on her.

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Speaker 3: Now, if they went out and bought some trips and

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Speaker 3: cars and stuff, I'd understand. But all that money went

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Speaker 3: towards you. But her thing is they her thing, don't matter.

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Speaker 1: They should have spent their own money on her.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, Grandma sets some money aside for you.

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Speaker 3: Now you want to cut into your college fund? With

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Speaker 3: all these little cheer camps and ballet bowls for the

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Speaker 3: back of your head and.

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Speaker 2: All this here trip, we're not doing all that. You

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Speaker 2: on a robe and all this here for graduation street clothes.

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Speaker 2: You shouldn't have been here. You gotta graduate with a robe,

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Speaker 2: cap and down. Just get the cap you're able to

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Speaker 2: flip the tassel when everybody flipped theirs. What is that?

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Speaker 2: Listen the gown. You're only gonna win for a hour.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're about this regulation dress and let them see

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Speaker 3: it right now.

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Speaker 2: You hating on this young lady.

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Speaker 3: I ain't got no degree, so I don't really know

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Speaker 3: what we're talking about.

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Speaker 2: That was him about you all day. It's all right

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Speaker 2: about him and Shiloh.

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Speaker 3: I'm talking about he got cut from Tampa Bay Buccaneers.

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Speaker 3: Let him take your TV show when you're sixty two.

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Speaker 2: Try that.

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Speaker 3: I recovered from that. You'll be fine. You got some

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Speaker 3: more teams you can go to. I ain't had no

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Speaker 3: more show.

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Speaker 2: All right. We'll have more of the stee Harvey coming

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Speaker 2: up right after. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning

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Speaker 2: Show