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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 1: I'm Meila.

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Speaker 2: Hi, it's Wednesday, Beach. What's up?

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Speaker 1: What's going on?

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Speaker 3: I smoked in Indica, and therefore I've been smoking more

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Speaker 3: Indias lately because I've been feeling like, I just I

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Speaker 3: think me and Sativa need a little break, and so

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Speaker 3: I'm just I have a really good body high going

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Speaker 3: right now.

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Speaker 2: It's feeling good.

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Speaker 4: I smoked a Masativa. It is a couple of puffs,

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Speaker 4: which is my favorite Sativa blue Dream, which I feel

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Speaker 4: like it's always been good to me. And then I

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Speaker 4: came here with you and I hit that Indica. Apparently

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Speaker 4: that we've been smoking and pretty high, I'm feeling good.

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Speaker 2: I wish I knew what brand this was.

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Speaker 3: I like it because it's kind of it's like it's

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Speaker 3: not too heavy, it's like kind of light, it's not

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Speaker 3: too crazy.

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Speaker 2: I forgot Actually Sebastian got.

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Speaker 3: It for me.

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Speaker 4: I would prefer like a Sativa Indica hybrid with a

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Speaker 4: Sativa dominant.

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Speaker 2: That's what I normally get.

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Speaker 3: But even that, I've been feeling like I just need

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Speaker 3: to switch it up, kind of like you know, like

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Speaker 3: hair product.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, your body gets you switch up your weed product. Well,

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Speaker 1: I was with.

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Speaker 4: Sebastian and Josh quite a bit while you're gone, and

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Speaker 4: the well Sebastian smokes indicates and every time I was

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Speaker 4: stuck hungry instead.

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Speaker 3: Well he smokes super heavy India that Nia like wants

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Speaker 3: to be just laid stone, stoned and eating.

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Speaker 4: We made the biggest, highest Thanksgiving fucking meal while you

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Speaker 4: were gone.

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Speaker 3: Oh I saw it was like mac and cheese, fried chicken.

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Speaker 2: What else?

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Speaker 4: It was mac and cheese, fried chicken, Bristol spouts and

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Speaker 4: califlower candy.

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Speaker 1: Damn what Brent, cornbread, greens and cornbread, God damn it?

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Speaker 2: Y'all?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and Luna just Es three and oh that's so cute.

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Speaker 4: They light a candle and everything we came out here. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I don't know if you lit a candle?

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Speaker 3: Actually, wait, wasn't Did Sebastian set the table really beautifully?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? We grew rubbed.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, he's okay. I love it.

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Speaker 1: That was good.

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Speaker 2: I ever noticed those tattoos on his back?

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Speaker 3: He showed me, but I forgot. We're just gazing out

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Speaker 3: of my window at Sebastian's boyfriend.

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Speaker 4: They look like twins, they do, and they even put

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Speaker 4: They even put their faces together on their credit card.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I saw that.

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Speaker 1: I was like, we always walk out the door as

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Speaker 1: a cold up? Is that? Is that what I think

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Speaker 1: it is?

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Speaker 2: Who?

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Speaker 1: Which one are you ordered?

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Speaker 3: This? Josh is like I did, Oh, I'm wanted to

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Speaker 3: put his fucking That's what I said, our picture. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: nig that's my money. That's our money, and you love me.

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Speaker 3: You want to look at me every time you spend our.

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Speaker 1: Money, right right? Think of me, buy me something thanks

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Speaker 1: to ching.

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Speaker 4: Like honestly, speaking of money, I went on a date

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Speaker 4: with this guy and he I was like saying, I'm

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Speaker 4: not into the cars and ship that much. Like I'm

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Speaker 4: not very named brandy bitch, however, like you know, I

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Speaker 4: don't doubt when I get my million dollars, I want

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Speaker 4: to be a named brandy bitch a little bit.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, you know, I'm not really that,

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm big on that, but I would like,

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Speaker 1: you know, do you want like a Chanel bag? I

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Speaker 1: do you want a Rolex? He's like he's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I could see that, babe.

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Speaker 4: Like just like spending a ridiculous amount of money and

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Speaker 4: you're getting a Chanel bag and then like having wild

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Speaker 4: sex like I did that. I was like, yeah, I'm

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Speaker 4: getting wet right now just thinking about it, crossbody channels.

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Speaker 2: I can't.

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Speaker 3: Speaking of expensive bags, I've been losing everything honestly, Like

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Speaker 3: you know, this happens every few years too, Like every

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Speaker 3: few years there comes a time where like things to

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Speaker 3: just fall off my body.

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Speaker 2: Oh consistently, this is my whole life.

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Speaker 3: And but like I just think I'm not meant to

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Speaker 3: keep it like I don't even like I don't really

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Speaker 3: like to buy really expensive clothes either, Like I have

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Speaker 3: a few things and most of them are like gifted

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Speaker 3: to me or like I've spent.

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Speaker 1: Like shoes because ill, Yeah, I just feel.

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Speaker 3: Like I also like I get tired of things and

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Speaker 3: I'm just like why would I spend?

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Speaker 4: And I think it's always like equally as unique like

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Speaker 4: vintage pieces, right or not like that are actually like

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Speaker 4: oh I've never seen that before.

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 3: So I had this really nice bag and I went

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Speaker 3: to a bar, I think I told you, and I

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Speaker 3: got stolen at the bar, which.

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Speaker 2: My black Proda bag.

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Speaker 1: Oh the little one. It's annoying. Yeah, they pulled the camera.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I else that little Gucci wall. I remember

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Speaker 3: the one that I finally gone, bitch, all of it's gone.

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Speaker 1: Damn wait, but did I see who pulled? Who took it?

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Speaker 3: So I put it under the bar. I was on

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Speaker 3: this date, and I walked away for like a little

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Speaker 3: like I walked away. We got another table literally like

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Speaker 3: a half a foot away from the bar, and we

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Speaker 3: were sitting there talking for a while, and then I

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Speaker 3: was like, oh my god, my purse. And then I

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Speaker 3: realized I left it under the bar and it was gone.

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Speaker 3: And so one of my friends actually works at the bar.

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Speaker 3: With the security footage, it was kind of hard. It

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Speaker 3: was hard to tell I don't know, it's just gone.

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Speaker 2: It's just gone. So it's okay, it's fine.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, you needn't find it.

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Speaker 2: It's not fine. But he's not having a mental breakdown.

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Speaker 2: It's fine, it's fine.

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Speaker 3: It's fine. But I was on this date too, and

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Speaker 3: I was like trying to act.

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Speaker 1: Like you weren't that face.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't crazy, but I was. I was like silently

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Speaker 3: hyperventilating a little bit. I was like making people move,

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Speaker 3: excuse me, making you move, move, move, move move.

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Speaker 1: I was nowhere, no so then I go to New

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Speaker 1: York and I so that was out here, that was here?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh so I'll have is my you know, passport.

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Speaker 3: Then I go to New York and my mom has

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Speaker 3: this really nice scarf that I know she cares about

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Speaker 3: a lot, and I take it and it's designer as well,

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Speaker 3: and I'm like, it was gonna be fine. She don't

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Speaker 3: even know, bitch, I leave this bar. I left it

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Speaker 3: at a bar. Thank god I got that back, because

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Speaker 3: that would have not ended well for me.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say, then, this is why, you know what,

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Speaker 1: I need.

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Speaker 3: To set my ass down. My friend happened to be

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Speaker 3: in town. He was getting a tattoo, and I was like,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna go say hi to him, knowing damn well,

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Speaker 3: I don't need to go sehide to his ass.

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Speaker 2: It's fine.

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Speaker 3: I went, But it wasn't fine because I left my

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Speaker 3: fucking purse in the uber.

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Speaker 1: Bitch.

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Speaker 3: Things are just falling off. I got my purse back,

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Speaker 3: thank god. Yeah, my passport my only other form of ID.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, what, I want to call you a

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Speaker 1: name of one of your friends?

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Speaker 2: What does this mean? It means? I just I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, am I not focused.

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Speaker 3: I need to like sit my ass down.

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Speaker 4: I'm just what is why am I I'm not paying attention?

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Speaker 4: Look at that metaphysical reason. I'm pretty sure I've looked

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Speaker 4: it up like four times in my life, medically physical.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why do I lose all my ship?

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Speaker 1: Met a physical reason for losing all your ship?

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Speaker 3: It was like, it's like, honestly laughable at this point you.

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Speaker 4: Have no choice, but like what happens like an uncomfortable, annoyed,

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Speaker 4: pissed off at yourself laugh that what better ways?

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Speaker 2: This is like embarrassing? Honestly, why did we get on this?

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Speaker 1: Stop?

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Speaker 4: Well? Eric and I haven't seen each other like two

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Speaker 4: weeks because she's been gone.

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Speaker 2: We've got a long Your lashes look good, nothing I

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Speaker 2: like them.

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Speaker 3: Thanks, I've been gone.

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Speaker 2: I was gone for like yeah, two weeks.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was nice.

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Speaker 2: I liked it was.

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Speaker 3: The weather in New York is really mild right now,

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Speaker 3: which is kind of scary because global warming not be that.

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Speaker 1: Warm, right? But how was it like sixty?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? One day was like the day where I got

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Speaker 2: there was seventy one degrees.

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Speaker 1: Oh shit, okay, we need to care about the environment.

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Speaker 2: Oh I went to the Horrible Decision Show.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we went.

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Speaker 3: So I went to the Horrible Decisions Show. I hung

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Speaker 3: out with my girl Wheezy, and it was so dope.

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Speaker 3: If you guys haven't been to a Horrible Decision show,

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Speaker 3: you for sure should go. It's it's there there people

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Speaker 3: a ride or die for them.

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Speaker 2: It is good dope. It's so dope to see like

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Speaker 2: they were walking in there just like public.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they had on some interesting.

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Speaker 3: Guests and uh yeah, k my Tequila's took my ass home,

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Speaker 3: but I bed.

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Speaker 2: It was very responsible in New York, you know, normally

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Speaker 2: when I go there, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: How to act shows her motherfucking ass like.

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Speaker 3: Very responsible. Only did one thing, only to made one bad.

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Speaker 1: Choice, only one?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, mm hmm.

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Speaker 3: It's really hard to make a lot of bad choices

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Speaker 3: when you have a kid with you and your mother

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Speaker 3: and right you're working and can't be late.

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Speaker 2: I got it.

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Speaker 3: Responsible, can't be late.

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Speaker 1: Also a babysitter when you wake up in the morning, it's.

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Speaker 3: Only like alcohol with your kid and Grandma's probably your

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Speaker 3: grandma was there too, No, no, no, her grandma.

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Speaker 1: You stayed with her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we had like a wet We all stayed in

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Speaker 3: like a little apartment together too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's pretty close. You can't really sunk up.

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Speaker 1: You have no room when you're sharing a room with

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Speaker 1: your friend. Oh yeah, you in more like you know,

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Speaker 1: or don't come back to the room.

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Speaker 2: You don't come back and I come back.

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Speaker 1: Yet it's fun something to do. God, well, I did

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Speaker 1: it like a little bit of both while you're gone.

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Speaker 4: I like chilled one weekend and then immediately showed my

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Speaker 4: ass the next.

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Speaker 1: So you know, balance baby.

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Speaker 3: That's literally your tagline, balance baby. Yeah, just make a

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Speaker 3: shirt that says balance baby.

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Speaker 1: Do I say that a lot? Interesting?

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Speaker 5: My?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? My version of balance is very extreme. I went

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Speaker 1: And then I made out with her after I just

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Speaker 1: She seems she was.

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Speaker 3: You can't do that.

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Speaker 1: I told everybody. I told her what I've done, and

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Speaker 1: So I foreseend at eleven thirty, get on hands and

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Speaker 4: I drive to his house in West Hollywood after I

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Speaker 4: chill for one day. It's just yeah, I never know

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Speaker 1: So I don't know if I'm proud of it. I'm

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Speaker 2: It's fine, you know, but no one's judging here.

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Speaker 3: You know, we've all we all, we've all we we've

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Speaker 4: And apparently the tequila just shoots that right up to

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Speaker 4: just pull back and weep bit one last one, last one,

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Speaker 4: letn't make one last week go oh my god. And

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Speaker 4: the funniest part about the whole thing is that that

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, what was that? What triggered?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I did a sex series. And they

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Speaker 2: Like very sexually liberated after that sex series, and You're like.

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Speaker 1: I could do anything.

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Speaker 4: I am now in a sex series, so I don't

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Speaker 4: even know if I'm gonna get on it whatever, And

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Speaker 4: they were like, have you ever done any and not?

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Speaker 4: Have you ever had an anonymous sex, And I was like,

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Speaker 4: anonymous sex, what does that mean? Like, maybe you don't

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Speaker 4: know their name? You ever talk to them? Again, I'm like,

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Speaker 4: I probably knew their name and I don't remember it,

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Speaker 4: but I guess that. I guess that's what I was

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Speaker 2: I've definitely had anonymous sex. If that's the definition, You're right.

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Speaker 1: That's why I said definitely.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, there's something I'm like, did we have sex

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Speaker 3: right now?

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god. And then then if they

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Speaker 1: never forget. But You're like, like, I know I are

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Speaker 1: kind of like you, and I'm like, how give me

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Speaker 1: more specific?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god? It is what it is.

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Speaker 4: It's called your twenties and a little bit of your

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Speaker 4: early thirties if your best, and maybe your forties.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Who gives a fuck.

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Speaker 2: I'm ready to be married. I've had an epiphany.

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Speaker 3: I'm ready to settle down me too.

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Speaker 1: Come get I'm ready to be married, Come get me

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Speaker 1: out of these streets.

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Speaker 2: I'm only you know what I well.

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Speaker 3: I was listening to you know, you just see that

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Speaker 3: Amanda Seals is now on the real So I was

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Speaker 3: she was saying, like I date with I'm I date

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Speaker 3: with intention, Like I don't, like, I need to know

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Speaker 3: this is what I want. These are the things I'm

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Speaker 3: not dating just to like hang out. I'm dating with

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Speaker 3: the hope to find a partner. And something about her

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Speaker 3: just saying it out loud, I don't know, it just

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Speaker 3: made me feel like, yeah, I think I am too now.

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Speaker 2: At this point.

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Speaker 1: Yeah for sure, but like.

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Speaker 6: I I mean, what the fuck I just had this

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Speaker 6: epiphany like this week, Okay, well here's the thing with epiphany,

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Speaker 6: I could do the function that I did last week, No,

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Speaker 6: and and still want that, you know, at least I'm like,

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Speaker 6: it's the thing, No, you weren't dating that, But.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying, if I'm going on today with you, yeah, like.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, if it's like we're spending a lot of time together, absolutely,

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Speaker 4: If I don't see a future with us in French

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Speaker 4: or whatever, it's not clear, then there's absolutely no reason

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Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like for me, like that wasn't

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Speaker 3: I just know I don't even know that my opinion

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Speaker 3: might change literally next week.

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Speaker 2: Who I just I don't know. I'm just tired of

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Speaker 2: I'm tired of I want. I need someone to pay

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Speaker 2: half my rent.

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Speaker 4: Me too, I need someone to pay I pay the

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Speaker 4: whole thing and give me spending money I can cook

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Speaker 4: and tend to the children.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, I think I'm I'm not anything.

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Speaker 2: I just want.

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Speaker 3: I just feel like I I want to give my

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Speaker 3: love to someone. I'm ready to love someone.

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Speaker 1: I have a lot of love to give someone.

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Speaker 4: Me too. I think my love is valuable and yours

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Speaker 4: is too. I noticed because you love me. No, I'm serious.

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Speaker 4: Our love is valuable.

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Speaker 1: We are good people. We're loyal friends, like we're sexy.

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Speaker 1: Let's do freaky ship. We're fun.

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Speaker 3: Is this like our it's our audition tape.

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Speaker 2: This is why you shouldn't want to marry me.

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Speaker 1: I like spontaneous.

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Speaker 3: This is why you should want to wife me number one.

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Speaker 1: No, literally, I'm making that tape? Can we make it?

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Speaker 2: Is?

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Speaker 3: This reminds me of when I wanted to audition for

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Speaker 3: the real world. That was one of my life dreams.

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Speaker 2: Me too, I will be on the real world. I will.

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Speaker 3: I had my story down. It was really it was compelling,

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Speaker 3: it was good.

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Speaker 1: It was Thankfully by the time I got to college

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Speaker 1: going on that. Then I was like, even, like I.

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Speaker 2: Could do road rules.

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Speaker 3: These bitches are so unathletic. I will fucking I will win.

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Speaker 4: I didn't have a much desire to red Rules, but

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Speaker 4: I figured if I got on either, it would be fine.

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Speaker 3: The child I was like that I could do both

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Speaker 2: This is very I was really invested in that for

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Speaker 2: a while.

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Speaker 1: My life goal is between being a housewife and the

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Speaker 1: World Road Rolls Challenge.

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Speaker 3: Speaking of marriage, this is going we're taking a turn here.

446
00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:19,240
Speaker 4: That was I don't like this turn. I'm not really

447
00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:21,159
Speaker 4: feeling that transition. But I was wondering how we're going

448
00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:22,439
Speaker 4: to transition from any of us.

449
00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:29,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it's it's a sad day in LA.

450
00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:33,240
Speaker 3: It's a sad It's just it's just kind of sad

451
00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:35,840
Speaker 3: to be from LA period at this point. Like I

452
00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:42,000
Speaker 3: feel like we've lost an icon that really like it

453
00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:45,320
Speaker 3: really took the breath out of everyone yesterday literally.

454
00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:48,480
Speaker 1: And and it's heavy, you can feel it. It's very heavy.

455
00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:49,639
Speaker 1: It's heavy around here.

456
00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:52,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, And it's just I think everything's so shocked, it's

457
00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:57,480
Speaker 4: so shocking. When my baby daddy told me, I was

458
00:20:57,560 --> 00:20:59,960
Speaker 4: like no, I was like, no, what are you talking about?

459
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,680
Speaker 1: Like, no, that's not true. He's like, why would I

460
00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:03,920
Speaker 1: joke about this?

461
00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:06,680
Speaker 4: And so immediately I start looking and then the first

462
00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:10,680
Speaker 4: people I was so sad Instagram TMZ, and I was

463
00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:11,880
Speaker 4: just like, I don't think that there.

464
00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:14,000
Speaker 1: They would not. I don't they don't think they're going

465
00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:14,639
Speaker 1: to put out.

466
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:16,920
Speaker 2: Fake news.

467
00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:18,520
Speaker 5: Yeah.

468
00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:23,200
Speaker 3: I was on the airplane, and so I was just yeah.

469
00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:25,600
Speaker 3: I opened up Instagram. Some one had posted a picture

470
00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:29,639
Speaker 3: like rip the Goat, and I was like what, no, no, no,

471
00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:31,359
Speaker 3: no no. And then I looked and it was literally

472
00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:34,480
Speaker 3: TMZ had reported it fourteen minutes ago.

473
00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,440
Speaker 2: I was just like, there's no way this can be true. No, no, no,

474
00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:39,520
Speaker 2: there's just no way.

475
00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 1: And then it just continued. Oh my god.

476
00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:44,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, the spiral of the information.

477
00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:48,440
Speaker 3: And I was on an airplane when I got the

478
00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:52,200
Speaker 3: news with my daughter, and I just like, please God,

479
00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:54,879
Speaker 3: don't let there be a child on that plane. Because

480
00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:56,960
Speaker 3: someone had messaged me like I had messaged my friend

481
00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:59,359
Speaker 3: like yo, what the fuck, and he like knows NBA

482
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:02,360
Speaker 3: players and stuff, and he's like, yeah, apparently his daughter

483
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:05,600
Speaker 3: was on the plane. And wasn't even reported yet, or

484
00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 3: like there's some some kids were on the plane and

485
00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:13,640
Speaker 3: I was like, hmm no, please God, please, like please,

486
00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:18,200
Speaker 3: it's just like shit like that that I just makes

487
00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:20,440
Speaker 3: me like I'm one of those I'm one of those people,

488
00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:22,359
Speaker 3: and I know you are too. Like everything happens for

489
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:24,920
Speaker 3: a reason, everything is connected, everything is as it should be.

490
00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:27,960
Speaker 3: But like when things like that happen, it's like why, why?

491
00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:29,399
Speaker 3: Why does why is that?

492
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:31,399
Speaker 2: What was the purpose of this?

493
00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:36,280
Speaker 3: You know, like I know in time it will be

494
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:40,760
Speaker 3: revealed and it's I mean, but it's just like I

495
00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 3: just kept thinking about his wife, right, and that's the

496
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,320
Speaker 3: transition that I was making about being a wife.

497
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:47,879
Speaker 4: And just like.

498
00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:52,960
Speaker 3: This woman, this has been the love of her life,

499
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:56,720
Speaker 3: her her only partner. Really I don't know their personal life,

500
00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:59,480
Speaker 3: but this is her partner since she's a teenager.

501
00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 2: They have four kids together.

502
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 3: Like, aside from him being Kobe the basketball player, he's

503
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 3: a man, this is a she's it's just so much

504
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:16,760
Speaker 3: bigger than that, you know it is, and something that

505
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,160
Speaker 3: she's gonna have to like, you know, nothing you never

506
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 3: imagined you have to do alone on top of being

507
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:26,200
Speaker 3: married to like this icon of a human. You know,

508
00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 3: you have so many eyes on you. You have so

509
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 3: much support though too, because so many people are pouring out.

510
00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:33,040
Speaker 1: I'm sure, but.

511
00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:37,399
Speaker 3: And I do believe energy is real, like all this energy.

512
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 3: I know there's a lot of morning going on, but

513
00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:40,880
Speaker 3: there's gonna be a lot of celebrating at one point.

514
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:44,159
Speaker 3: We're gonna celebrate this man's life because that's what we

515
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:48,119
Speaker 3: have to do, you know, And it's as it should be.

516
00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:49,080
Speaker 4: But I just.

517
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 3: That little girl she had a future, you know, like

518
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:57,760
Speaker 3: watching that listen listening to him talk about her in

519
00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:01,480
Speaker 3: all these interviews and her aspirations to be in the

520
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 3: w NBA, and they called her mom like little like

521
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:09,240
Speaker 3: Mamba number two and Mama Mama Sita Like it's just

522
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:11,679
Speaker 3: too devas it's so devastating.

523
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 1: It's odds.

524
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 4: I just I like, just had a conversation randomly at

525
00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 4: a bar literally like two days three days ago with

526
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 4: this guy who's a bar manager, and he's I could

527
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,440
Speaker 4: tell he was super like pessimistic or something, and we

528
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 4: guess because we talked about astrology or like, oh, talent,

529
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,639
Speaker 4: he's I don't believe in talent. I just believe in skill.

530
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 4: And we went on to He's like, why I don't

531
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 4: believe in like what happens if someone dies, if a

532
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:40,160
Speaker 4: child dies, What is the reason behind that. I don't

533
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 4: believe in everything happens for a reason. I believe in

534
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:45,120
Speaker 4: free will or whatever. And I was like arguing with him,

535
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 4: you know, just that like there's always a bigger picture,

536
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 4: nothing's by coincidence, even though there's free will. And I

537
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 4: was and now that you're asking that, I'm just like

538
00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 4: such a fucking tragedy man, and like that any mother,

539
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:03,440
Speaker 4: any sibling has to to mourn their father and their sister.

540
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 4: At the same time, it's so like I can't even

541
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:07,479
Speaker 4: wrap my head around it. I can't even imagine how

542
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:08,960
Speaker 4: i'd function.

543
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 2: How i'd function, how i'd support my children.

544
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 3: I mean, this is when you really really, this is

545
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 3: like honestly, when because I know she's gonna rise and

546
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 3: she's gonna be okay somehow, because women, we are so

547
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:23,399
Speaker 3: incredibly strong.

548
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 2: I don't want to say we're built for this, because

549
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 2: we're not.

550
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 3: No one's built to I mean, we we're built to

551
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 3: experience whatever life comes at us. And no one tells

552
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,120
Speaker 3: you what that's gonna be, and you hope it's never

553
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:41,120
Speaker 3: this devastating, but women like we, I just I hope

554
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 3: that I hope she's surrounded by just incredible support, because man, she's.

555
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:49,159
Speaker 2: Gonna need it.

556
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:52,159
Speaker 3: But I know that like those those other children are

557
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 3: gonna get her through the situation.

558
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 2: They're gonna get her through.

559
00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 4: And I think it is a lot to be said

560
00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:01,920
Speaker 4: about like his life life, and what a legend he was,

561
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:04,640
Speaker 4: and what an influenced an impact that he's obviously living

562
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 4: on our city and like everyone everywhere, it's so powerful,

563
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:10,120
Speaker 4: Like I read something like we all have this same

564
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 4: twenty four hours in a day, Like you can literally

565
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 4: change so much just by being yourself and being you,

566
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 4: you know, and also just not being caught. Anything can

567
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:23,200
Speaker 4: happen at any fucking moment, Like is it worth holding grudges?

568
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:24,480
Speaker 1: Is it worth life?

569
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 4: Just not being clear when someone may not walk back

570
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 4: through the door, just like I love you, I care

571
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:32,760
Speaker 4: about you, even just like petty shit bit bickering like

572
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 4: with my baby daddy. Just the anger I feel sometimes,

573
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 4: the resentment. I'm just like, if something were to actually

574
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:39,919
Speaker 4: happen to either one of you know what I mean,

575
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 4: I would that would that would kill me. And just

576
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:45,240
Speaker 4: so it's just like just to really be happy every

577
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:47,440
Speaker 4: day and to not take people for granted and not

578
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:49,680
Speaker 4: take your life for granted, just like to laugh more,

579
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:52,440
Speaker 4: to live more, to be more authentic, to be less apologetic.

580
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 1: It's just such a powerful and just to like, what.

581
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 4: Is your purpose and if you're on your path of

582
00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:59,479
Speaker 4: your purpose, look how much of an influence you can

583
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 4: have if you're actually just living presently.

584
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:05,400
Speaker 1: I Mean, there's just such that shit sat me down

585
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:07,920
Speaker 1: because it's heavy.

586
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:12,200
Speaker 3: It's yeah, I get like all throughout the day, I've

587
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:14,200
Speaker 3: had waves of like okay, I'm like and then I

588
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 3: just it just hits me and I'm like, it feels

589
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 3: like the air is like knocked out of me. Every

590
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 3: time I think about it. It's just man, it is.

591
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 4: Man.

592
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:27,920
Speaker 2: I mean, he was a symbol for so many people

593
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 2: in the world, some of this city. Like I don't

594
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 2: even watch basketball.

595
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 1: You know, it's not that I'm a huge basketball but

596
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 1: it's just like it was that.

597
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 3: But that just even shows you how much he represented.

598
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 3: Like he's a symbol, a mascot, like he never asked

599
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,400
Speaker 3: really to be, but he just is something.

600
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 4: Since childhood, right out of like right out of high school,

601
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 4: like he's been just hard on fire gone strong for

602
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 4: for decades and decades and decades, and I feel like

603
00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 4: he was.

604
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:01,159
Speaker 3: Just beginning to scratch the surface, like what he was

605
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:02,440
Speaker 3: gonna do after retirement.

606
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 1: You know, he'd only been retired for fucking years.

607
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 4: I know his family's probably just getting used to him

608
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 4: just being there all the time and being with them,

609
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 4: Like what a fucking like.

610
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:18,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like I just was looking at iron

611
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:21,680
Speaker 3: like I could not imagine too, like being a parent

612
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 3: and being in that happening and feeling like I, You're

613
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 3: just so out of control. You cannot help what's happening here.

614
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 3: And I don't mean to get like really graphic, but

615
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 3: I can't help thinking about those like those moments, that moment,

616
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 3: those like I want that's what's like really because it's

617
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 3: just ingrained in my brain, like I feel like I

618
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 3: was there or something like I could just see so

619
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 3: many scenarios and just god, like I just I just hope,

620
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 3: like just we just need to cover them, like just

621
00:28:55,320 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 3: with energy positivity, like like I don't need I don't

622
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 3: even know.

623
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 2: I was thinking also like if.

624
00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 3: I had a friend who experienced something like this, how

625
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 3: would I be there for that person? I really started

626
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 3: thinking like I would almost be afraid to call them,

627
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 3: Like I don't even know what to say to you

628
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 3: right now, like except like I'm here.

629
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 2: That's it, Like there's nothing to be said in those moments,

630
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 2: like yeah.

631
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 4: It's just it's gonna take time to process. I think, Yeah,

632
00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:32,480
Speaker 4: so that's that registered and that.

633
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 3: It's just a really weird way to start this year.

634
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 3: It is, and for it to be on the day

635
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 3: of the Grammys, Like I didn't give a fuck about

636
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 3: the Grammys.

637
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 1: I don't even know how one.

638
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 2: I have no clue did not watch them. I don't

639
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 2: know who one.

640
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 3: I was like, they might as well just cancel all

641
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 3: the games, cancel the Grammys, Like the Grammy's already got

642
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 3: some bullshit going around over there, and like I just

643
00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 3: feel like no one cared anyway.

644
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 4: Lozo one Tyler the creator one. There was a tribute

645
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 4: to Kobe obviously.

646
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 3: I mean I saw something on Instagram about Alicia Keys,

647
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 3: like she started the show and she did from that,

648
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 3: just from that, I thought she did an amazing job

649
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 3: and like she didn't know that she was going to

650
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 3: do that.

651
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 2: You know, you have to really have I feel like

652
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 2: what I've been hearing because I haven't.

653
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 3: Seen it is like that she really did a beautiful

654
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 3: job at like making people feel like, Okay, she did

655
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:31,480
Speaker 3: she did.

656
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 1: You know, she really did.

657
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 3: She did.

658
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 1: She did it well.

659
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 2: She did it well. I couldn't imagine having to do that.

660
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 2: But yeah, so.

661
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 3: God rest his soul and her soul and everybody on

662
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 3: that plane because other kids were lost their too, mother,

663
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:53,360
Speaker 3: a mother of three, all of them had kids, you know,

664
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 3: like it's just so tragic.

665
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 2: You're not just it doesn't matter who you are at

666
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 2: the end of at the end of the day, life will.

667
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Speaker 1: To do what it does.

668
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, no matter what, you know, nobody's exempt from life,

669
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 4: no one from the site. Like however way it plays out, whatever,

670
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Speaker 4: however that looks.

671
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Speaker 1: Yeah it did.

672
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 3: Maybe it really did make me think, like what's important?

673
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 3: What is actually important to me? Like is my beef

674
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 3: with this person for.

675
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 2: You, you know what I mean?

676
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:26,720
Speaker 3: And what does that mean though I have to go

677
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 3: and be go be different with them? Or is it

678
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 3: just a matter of just forgiving them in your heart,

679
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 3: in my heart.

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00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 2: You know, even though that's so hard.

681
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 3: But when it does, when something like this does happen,

682
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 3: it really doesn't matter.

683
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter, It doesn't That's it.

684
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 3: Overall, at the end of the day, I believe you

685
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 3: still have to have some people you just know you

686
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 3: have to have boundaries with, but like you can forgive them.

687
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 2: There's definitely people.

688
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 3: In my life right now that I'm holding grudges with

689
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:54,080
Speaker 3: that I just like it's hard for me to let

690
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 3: go as much as I even say that I've let

691
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Speaker 3: it go.

692
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 1: And sometimes it's like it's not even honestly about them.

693
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 4: I really it's like how I feel in my body

694
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 4: that it irritates me, or it annoys me alor it

695
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 4: gets to me, or it hurts me. It's just like

696
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 4: you have to release it, to just release it for

697
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 4: yourself and for the sake of the other person, just

698
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 4: for the sake of energy, energy, for the sake of energy.

699
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 1: Period. Life is short.

700
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 4: You know, whatever impressions we make, shit, you got to

701
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:22,480
Speaker 4: make the best out of it. Honestly, what the fuck

702
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 4: is really important? Like that bill might be late, this

703
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 4: might not be perfect, but at the end of the day,

704
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 4: like we're healthy, we're here, we have friendships, we love,

705
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 4: we have kids.

706
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 1: You know, there's just more important shit happening every day.

707
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 3: Well, on that note, sorry to end this episode on

708
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 3: a somber note. But honestly, I think too though, like

709
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:55,480
Speaker 3: it is, we'll get past this, and you know she

710
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 3: will too, No, she probably never will, but I mean,

711
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 3: I just feel like it's just a reminder. Like I

712
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 3: think a lot of times when things like this happen,

713
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 3: we have a moment of gratitude and then like the fad.

714
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Speaker 2: It's like.

715
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:12,720
Speaker 3: There's been a lot of things popping up in my

716
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 3: life that have like shown me like life is very

717
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 3: precious and I have to like honor that for real,

718
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 3: Like I really need to check in with myself, and

719
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 3: like I challenge you guys too, to like make sure

720
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 3: you guys are checking in with yourself and remembering, like

721
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 3: all this shit could just be gone to morrow, all

722
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 3: of it.

723
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Speaker 2: Like even that makes me want to like I have to.

724
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:35,960
Speaker 3: Be more present for my daughter too, Like I realize

725
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 3: I'm so caught up on my phone so much, you know,

726
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 3: and it's like I have to check that too because

727
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 3: thinking about her too, Like these moments are so precious.

728
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 3: I was looking at these, like these.

729
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 2: Pictures of him and his daughter.

730
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 1: It was just like, okay, sorry, we're going back.

731
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Speaker 2: We're going back.

732
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 3: We be backtracked all of our beautiful enders.

733
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Speaker 1: I mean, I mean just that's something to take into

734
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 1: every day. Yeah, life is precious and we've got to

735
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:10,360
Speaker 1: be grateful for it.

736
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:10,760
Speaker 3: Today.

737
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 2: I'm grateful. I love you.

738
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Speaker 1: I love you too.

739
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 2: You know, like if we have to tell our people

740
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 2: that we love each other because we.

741
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 1: Get so caught up we think they know, they know,

742
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: and it's like, did I tell you?

743
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 2: Did I tell you that?

744
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 3: What was our last conversation?

745
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 2: Fuck?

746
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 3: You know, So tell your people you love them then,

747
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:32,759
Speaker 3: but we will catch you guys next week. Make sure

748
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Speaker 3: you look out on our website next week. What make

749
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Speaker 3: sure you look out on our website.

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Speaker 5: Our tickets to our live show on March twenty eighth

751
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 5: in Los Angeless. And look at our merch and yeah,

752
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 5: people have rarely been digging our little our shirts.

753
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Speaker 1: You guys. Look at the necklaces. The nexts are like

754
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: my favorite thing.

755
00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 2: They're my favorite thing too.

756
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 1: They're really bombed there, gold plated.

757
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,320
Speaker 3: They're so cute, and they're they're really good quality. Like

758
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:06,319
Speaker 3: Jamila and I've been wearing these necklaces in the shower.

759
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 2: For like a year.

760
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:07,320
Speaker 1: I don't like.

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Speaker 4: That's why I really don't wear a lot of joy

762
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,360
Speaker 4: because I get itchy and then the ship turns and

763
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 4: I don't like taking it off because I'm too lazy.

764
00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 1: But this has been rocking with me for like a minute,

765
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 1: like almost a year.

766
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 3: By Yeah, So one says good moms, the other one

767
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 3: says bad choices. Obviously bad choices is my favorite because

768
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 3: I'm obviously my good mom. Because all right, we'll talk

769
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 3: to you guys later, Bye bye bye, you know,