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Speaker 1: Here we go. Buckle up, hold on tight, we gotta

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Speaker 1: fall you here. It is Strawberry letter subject I have tried,

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Speaker 1: but I'm not being satisfied. Dear Steve and miss Strawberry.

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Speaker 1: I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year

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Speaker 1: and I love him so much. We hardly ever argue

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Speaker 1: or fight because we live an hour away from each other,

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Speaker 1: so when we are together, we make the best of

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Speaker 1: our time. We do everything together except one big thing.

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Speaker 1: When we do see each other, I always find a

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Speaker 1: way to avoid having sex with him. He is very handsome,

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Speaker 1: but when it comes to the bedroom, he just doesn't

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Speaker 1: have it. I hardly ever get in the mood with him.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't complain much, but I can tell he gets frustrated.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I just lie there and fake moan and lie

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Speaker 1: about how good he is in bed. He said it

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Speaker 1: makes him feel good when I give him feedback. I

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Speaker 1: feel bad for saying this, but he is lacking in

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Speaker 1: the packing. I blame Steve because I waited for six months.

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Speaker 1: It's right there in bullprint. I blame Steve because I

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Speaker 1: waited for six months before we were intimate, just to

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Speaker 1: later find out that the sex is bad. I often

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Speaker 1: find myself thinking of a man from my past. While

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Speaker 1: I'm intimate with my boyfriend. His friends have been giving

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Speaker 1: me hints that he is going to propose to me soon.

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Speaker 1: So I just want to know what can I do

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Speaker 1: to make our bedroom life better so I can marry

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Speaker 1: this good man and live happily ever after? Is this

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Speaker 1: even possible? Please help? I don't want to deal with

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Speaker 1: this every night. You pretty much answered your own letter

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Speaker 1: your own letter when you said I don't want to

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Speaker 1: deal with this every night happily ever after? I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's possible in fairy tales, and this is real life.

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Speaker 1: This is not a fairy tale. I don't want you

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Speaker 1: to marry this man just out of obligation or just

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Speaker 1: because he asked you. You have to marry him because

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Speaker 1: you love him, and you, guys, think you can make

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Speaker 1: a future together and have a great life together, not

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Speaker 1: because of some obligation you feel toward him, But you

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Speaker 1: lie to him to make him feel good. What about

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Speaker 1: your feelings? Why can't you tell him in a nice

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Speaker 1: way what you need in this relationship? If you're going

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Speaker 1: to marry him, Steve, she's mad at you. Go ahead

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Speaker 1: because she mentioned your name. What you blaming Steve because

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Speaker 1: you made her weight. She said, okay, fixed my song.

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Speaker 1: You know, ain't nobody told you what to weight on.

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Speaker 1: I'll get to that in a second. I've tried, but

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Speaker 1: I'm not being satisfied. You know how many letters we

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Speaker 1: get from women who just upset because they dude ain't packing,

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Speaker 1: he ain't bringing it. You know how many times we've

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Speaker 1: had this letter? Y? What? Yes? Yes? What are you doing? Why? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Selling attention to No, you ain't gonna drift off while

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Speaker 1: I'm doing this. I'm sorry, I did you know, but

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Speaker 1: you're gonna do it like I'm the dude in the letter.

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Speaker 1: You're just bored now. You just off trying to occupy

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Speaker 1: your mind with your ex. You're all on Instagram. All right,

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Speaker 1: I'm back. I'm back. I'm focused, Steve, I'm focused. Been

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Speaker 1: dating for over a year and you just love him

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Speaker 1: so much. They'ren't ever all fight because they live all

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Speaker 1: the way from each other, so when we get together,

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Speaker 1: they just make the best of day time. We do

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Speaker 1: everything together except one big thing. When we do see

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Speaker 1: each other, I always find a way to avoid having

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Speaker 1: sex with him. He's very handsome, but when it comes

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Speaker 1: think one of the reasons he ain't having it it's

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Speaker 1: because you keep a boarding him. The man can't practice.

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Speaker 1: That could be one thing, but let's read deeper. I

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Speaker 1: he don't know nothing about foul play. See getting in

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Speaker 1: the mood is foul play. See all this stuff y'all doing,

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Speaker 1: going shopping and all this here, y'all need to be

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Speaker 1: sometimes I just lay down and I fake moan and

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Speaker 1: I lie about how good he is in bed. He said,

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Speaker 1: it makes it feel good when I give him feedback.

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Speaker 1: mean about he say he feels good when he gets feedback.

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Speaker 1: Stop lying to the man? Thank you? See you are

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Speaker 1: Uh think he's really doing something? Oh Lord, change that

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Speaker 1: to this hill. So what fucking her tea? Yeah, do

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Speaker 1: that one time? Like she's bored her mind? Why he

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Speaker 1: doing it? Paint your nails. God, reach out on the

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Speaker 1: nice day and get some water, checking emails, text your mama,

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Speaker 1: call your girlfriend. That's how you let him know he's

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Speaker 1: doing He's on the phone while he's call your mama.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna church this Sunday. Yeah, check him counter paint

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Speaker 1: your nails. Why he doing it? Why he doing it?

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Speaker 1: Take that finished sheet and fit it back on one

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Speaker 1: out of the bed now, you know, because that's when

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Speaker 1: you really aint doing it. She just got him starts

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Speaker 1: just while in the stop making up the bed with him. Idiot,

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Speaker 1: hate that finished. He put it back on that colt.

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Speaker 1: That's the first thing come up. I have tried, but

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Speaker 1: I'm not being satisfied. Satisfied call own boy. Ain't got it.

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Speaker 1: He don't do what he posted to do. Now you

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Speaker 1: all in here just laying that fake moaning. You lie

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Speaker 1: about how good it is. I said, he said to

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Speaker 1: make him feel good when he's giving feedback, and I

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Speaker 1: told you some stuff you can do. You say, but

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Speaker 1: he's lacking in the packet. Then the line right after

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Speaker 1: that is I blame Steve. Let's get to it finally,

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Speaker 1: blame you. I blame Steve because I waited six months

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Speaker 1: before we were intimated, just to later find out that

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Speaker 1: the sexist bad. Well, waiting six months, six weeks, or

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Speaker 1: six years ain't the reason the sexiest bad. And it

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Speaker 1: ain't cause I told you to wait on it. You

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Speaker 1: can't blame me. And you said for little fella's inability

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Speaker 1: to perforone and bring the heat. Because if he knew me,

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Speaker 1: you wouldn't be in this damn letter he did, Uncle

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Speaker 1: Steve did. This wouldn't even be a damn letter. You

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Speaker 1: You'd be somewhere calling in to work. I said ninety days,

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Speaker 1: just to be clear. Now, I don't give it. I

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Speaker 1: put pressure on people. Uncle Steve was in the pressure,

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Speaker 1: bringing bids up in the back of your head somewhere. Yeah. Nothing.

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Speaker 1: I make all for the corners, come up off the

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Speaker 1: sheet and fit it sheets, all for the corners. But

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Speaker 1: she's still in there. She's up fixing the bed, making

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Speaker 1: the bed. Hell no, you ain't not trying to climb out.

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Speaker 1: I have you looking like Eddie Murphy and the Nutti Professor.

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Speaker 1: tried to climb out that booth. You know what I

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Speaker 1: had your day? Are you sitting in the barber chest

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Speaker 1: spinning yourself a run? That what I was doing? I

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Speaker 1: don't actually have sparks coming off the sheet from what

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Speaker 1: my toes were slipping off getting traction. You don't understand me, really,

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Speaker 1: I blame Steve. If your man was me, you wouldn't

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Speaker 1: have a damn letter on the headboard somewhere. You got

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Speaker 1: it going on Huste Charley Shelly. Listen to me, girl,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm doing to hell. You heard

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Speaker 1: a lot of things about me on the nding neck,

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Speaker 1: but you ever heard that at that ain't been out there.

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Speaker 1: They can't even put that out. They don't good? In't heal? Well?

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Speaker 1: Steve answers praying somewhere to me, I don't need that.

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Speaker 1: What is he doing? Money? Fake motor? He ain't doing that.

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Speaker 1: He sound like a man, So it don't sound good

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Speaker 1: at all. Somewhere, man, all the stuff out and done

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Speaker 1: in my life I'm telling about you. Blame Steve. Could

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Speaker 1: have yourself in a real relationship. You knew what I

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Speaker 1: knew so we're looking for lott of bottles, looking for

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Speaker 1: water bottles. Why do you need? What's the water bottles for?

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Speaker 1: Set up in here? Just thirst? I don't even understand

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Speaker 1: the stuff out of I had I had people bring lunch,

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Speaker 1: cooler or eglood setting on side to be egloo. I

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Speaker 1: ain't trying to go know where, let me get I'm

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Speaker 1: no eglood, a little cooler, the cooler. I didn't had

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Speaker 1: him bring a cool in that because I don't want

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Speaker 1: to go nowhere, but something though he was in Alaska,

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Speaker 1: he's talking about a snack. We're gonna be in here

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Speaker 1: a few days. I don't need your help, Junior and Tommy,

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Speaker 1: tell you no more about when I'm doing straw bed.

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Speaker 1: Two little rookies. You two little rookies, sit over here,

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Speaker 1: learn yourself something so you can better do your what's

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Speaker 1: your little segment, Junior? U just in case? Well, okay,

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Speaker 1: Steve said, what should she tell? What does she need

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Speaker 1: to tell him to do? First of all, you can't

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Speaker 1: man him small packages. Can't he look unless well tell

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Speaker 1: us Tommy, hey, no I'm not in there. I'm not

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Speaker 1: in there. Just what you want to say? The small

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Speaker 1: package can't get asking for this man, didn't you I'm

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Speaker 1: talking about this man. That's only I'm just taking the

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Speaker 1: shut it didn't it? Satellite? He was offended. It sounds

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Speaker 1: like it to me. It sound like that bad timing,

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Speaker 1: bad timing. That sound like you was speaking out, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: for sertain group of people. I give him some advice, Steve, seriously,

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Speaker 1: Now you who's both? Yeah, she needs to know what

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Speaker 1: to tell. I mean, really, she's got to do something

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Speaker 1: to help your man get to this point because you

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Speaker 1: are in love with him in hell, good dude, So

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Speaker 1: you got to do something. Yeah, you might have to

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Speaker 1: be one of them people, one of the women. You

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Speaker 1: might have to get a suitcase. What do you mean?

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Speaker 1: Is she going somewhere? Not that little trunk they keep

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Speaker 1: under the bed. They want this into closet. Oh, the gadgets,

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Speaker 1: and maybe we have to hell him him be well

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Speaker 1: versed in these gadgets. Oh, he got to control everything. See,

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Speaker 1: and then you get what you want from him? What

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Speaker 1: do you get? He happy? It doesn't matter to him.

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Speaker 1: It's her. He didn't write the letters. She did. Now

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