WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Corn Maze Freak Out

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<v Speaker 1>Second dat up Day. A common argument that couples get

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<v Speaker 1>in is usually over directions. Happens a lot. It can

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<v Speaker 1>make it even more stressful if you're trying to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out those directions and there could be a serial killer

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<v Speaker 1>following you or a madman with a chainsaw wants to

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<v Speaker 1>cut you in half. It can make it very stressful.

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<v Speaker 1>And nobody knows that better than Matthew right now, who's

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone for a second date update. Matthew, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you? Yeah, I'm good. We'll get to the reason

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<v Speaker 1>that you think you're not getting a call back in

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<v Speaker 1>just a second. But first, tell us about the girl

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<v Speaker 1>you want to call today. What's her name? Name Sarah? Sarah?

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<v Speaker 1>And where did you meet Sarah? Hold up, we're just

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<v Speaker 1>like nonchalantly going into Sarah's. There is a bad man

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<v Speaker 1>following them. Like, I'm kind of more concerned about the

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<v Speaker 1>serial killer than Sarah at this point, So I said,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll do it in a second. We met online a

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<v Speaker 1>while back and I don't know. We just started talking

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<v Speaker 1>tie it up and whatnot, and it was, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the start of fall, so it would be the perfect

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<v Speaker 1>time to go to Haunted House or something fall festiv. Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I was concerned for your safety this whole time, and

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<v Speaker 1>it turns out it's just one big haunted house height.

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<v Speaker 1>I just kind of wanted to be game ride hill time,

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<v Speaker 1>but it turned out to not be that at all. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>corner your email, it seems like you might have had

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<v Speaker 1>one of the worst dates ever. It kind of became

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<v Speaker 1>like a haunted house actually, because after all the games

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<v Speaker 1>and the people and you know whatever, we there was

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<v Speaker 1>just corn maze and so okay, yeah, like sure, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>do the corn maze, and everything's going great, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like we're hitting it off, having a great time, bonding

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<v Speaker 1>and all that. But then fifteen twenty minutes started to

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<v Speaker 1>go by and we're not seeing anybody else. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we're lost in a corn maze. And I know that's

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<v Speaker 1>the point of a corn maze, but it's getting kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like a long time and it's starting to get dark, darker, darkest.

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<v Speaker 1>It's back I could see though, Like if you're claustrophobic,

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<v Speaker 1>like that's not a good feeling. Yeah. Yeah, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>think I was, but I kind of turned into Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was closing in on me. So you guys were

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<v Speaker 1>struggling in the corn maze and that's where all the

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<v Speaker 1>madness started. Yeah. So I wouldn't say we were fighting

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<v Speaker 1>per se, but I got short with each other and

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<v Speaker 1>I just know where we were going and where we

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<v Speaker 1>were coming from. But then, you know, I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>involve her, so we went her way. It just wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the right way. So things were not going great, and

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<v Speaker 1>she started a panic and I asked she was okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was not okay, and so I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, what could I do to calm her down?

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<v Speaker 1>Because that's the worst thing is being you know, freaking out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you could have said, hey, we're at a corn maze

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<v Speaker 1>in a pumpkin patch. I have a cell phone on me.

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<v Speaker 1>I can call nine one one to find her. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if I would have called her on wine.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't think for her life was in danger.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was trying to use my cell phone as

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<v Speaker 1>a flashlight. Oh gosh, she's getting that dark. Yeah, yeah, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>and the battery was going down like crazy. This is

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<v Speaker 1>like a scene from a horror film. It felt like it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I, like any good horror film, I needed some

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<v Speaker 1>comedic timing and a little softened it up. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I told her about this story. You know, when I

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<v Speaker 1>was little, I got lost in this choice or us

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<v Speaker 1>and started to you know, get nervous, but I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>up finding my mom. And then I look up and

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<v Speaker 1>she's crying. What she was actually crying? I thought she

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<v Speaker 1>was laughing, but then I'd noticed there's tears in her eyes,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, what, what's wrong. It's like a

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<v Speaker 1>few little stories. She was like, oh she could picture.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this a little five year old lost and toys

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<v Speaker 1>r us and this sad story? And I thought, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought she was crying because she couldn't forgot how

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<v Speaker 1>to get out of there or something. She was actually

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<v Speaker 1>crying because of your story. Well that's what it turned into.

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<v Speaker 1>And she just started crying because of the corn maze,

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<v Speaker 1>and I mean not crying. She was bawling, like wailing,

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<v Speaker 1>and she just screamed me like Helplus, you didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>someone to think I was like hurting her or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>So did your date in there? Did you just like,

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<v Speaker 1>go all right, I'm gonna find my own way out.

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<v Speaker 1>Or did you guys finally make it out of the

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<v Speaker 1>corn maze? I thought about it, but I think it

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<v Speaker 1>might have been like an hour, an hour and a half.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe we were into saying. We just start seeing these

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<v Speaker 1>flashlights like a search party, and it ended up being

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<v Speaker 1>the workers of the maze. They were like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>coming pretty fast too, because they were hearing all these

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<v Speaker 1>screaming noises. Yeah, and they kind of looked at me

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<v Speaker 1>like I was crazy. But whatever, we ended up getting

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<v Speaker 1>out and everything was okay. I just I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>where we should stand really because I haven't been able

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<v Speaker 1>to get a hold of her. So wait, you got out,

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<v Speaker 1>and then what happened? Did you just part ways or no?

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<v Speaker 1>I took her home, and again I was trying to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, light in the mood. I don't think it

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<v Speaker 1>was probably the smartest at another story about when you

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<v Speaker 1>were seven and you were left in a Walmart. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I just told her that the GPS wasn't working like

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<v Speaker 1>it was the GPS was going crazy, oh like in

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<v Speaker 1>your car. Yeah, And it was just like a subtle thing,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I didn't even think a think of it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she did not appreciate that. Okay, So at

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<v Speaker 1>this point she feels like you're making fun of her

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<v Speaker 1>for overreacting in the corn maze. I'm guessing I can

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<v Speaker 1>see where that, Yeah, that logic comes in. And have

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<v Speaker 1>you talked to her at all since your day? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been trying to text her, even called her a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of times, just kind of see how she is

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<v Speaker 1>because I just want to know about her well being. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you're okay with dating someone who may be a

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<v Speaker 1>little emotional. Yeah, I mean it was my fault because

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<v Speaker 1>I put her in that situation and if she wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to go out again, I wouldn't take her to a

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<v Speaker 1>place like that. So okay, yeah, less a big less

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<v Speaker 1>and learned. All right, Well, we'll play a song and

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<v Speaker 1>then come back and call her and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Okay, all right, all right, hang up fucking

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<v Speaker 1>jubil in the morning. What are some of the scariest

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<v Speaker 1>things in life? Right? Sharks? Most likely? Most likely sharks,

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<v Speaker 1>and then there's the corn maze. Right, Yeah, those are

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<v Speaker 1>probably the two scariest things or worth The shark in

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<v Speaker 1>a corn maze that would be horrible. Also, a great

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<v Speaker 1>new movie that should come out. They had Shark Nado.

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<v Speaker 1>Why out Shark in a corn Maze? Anybody called Sarah

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<v Speaker 1>Michelle Geller about that one. I'm sure she's got a

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<v Speaker 1>clear schedule for it, and I'm already frightened. We'll work

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<v Speaker 1>on that after the second date update. But right now,

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<v Speaker 1>Matthew is on the phone and he wants to call

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<v Speaker 1>a girl named Sarah. That's what they did on their

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<v Speaker 1>first date. They went out to a place that had

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<v Speaker 1>a corn maze, and things got bad because they got

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<v Speaker 1>lost in the corn maze. Eventually, she was crying because

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<v Speaker 1>she just wanted to get out of there. They were

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<v Speaker 1>finally found by the staff. They got out, they drove home,

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<v Speaker 1>and he made a joke at the end of the

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<v Speaker 1>evening about his GPS not working in his car. She

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like that joke very much, and she hasn't talked

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<v Speaker 1>to him since. So we're about to get her on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and find out if we can get Matthew

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<v Speaker 1>a second date. You ready to go, Matthew? Yep? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I just you know, hope she wasn't actually crying because

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<v Speaker 1>she was scared she was going to be stuck with

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<v Speaker 1>you forever. Out. Yeah, I'm just saying prepare for that.

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<v Speaker 1>We've heard some not very nice kind things during these

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<v Speaker 1>second date updates. Yeah. Like I said, I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure you know, everything's okay and she's not

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<v Speaker 1>completely traumatized, and maybe we can, you know, do something

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<v Speaker 1>else besides go to a corn maize. Okay, Yeah, all right?

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<v Speaker 1>Well dollar phone numb right now here we go. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>I to Sarah. Please, This is Sarah. How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>This is whol Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a radio show. Jubel. No, that's my sister. My

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<v Speaker 1>name is jew Bowl jew Bowl okay and Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel in the Morning is a radio show. And we

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<v Speaker 1>got an email about you from one of our listeners.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I'm calling you, m Okay, okay. We do

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<v Speaker 1>a segment our show. It's called the second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where if you go out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody and then end up not calling them back after

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<v Speaker 1>they can email us to get you on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and ask what happened. And Matthew, the guy that you

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<v Speaker 1>went out with to a corn maze recently, oh god,

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<v Speaker 1>he emailed us because he says he's been trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get a hold of you, but you're not calling him back. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that will be correct. No. Wait, is that reaction because

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<v Speaker 1>of him or because of how terribly the date ended?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know it. All I can say is I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. It just wasn't a good experience, so I'll

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<v Speaker 1>just leave it at that. I mean, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>he met for you guys to get stuck in the

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<v Speaker 1>corn maze and for things to get that bad. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck you know. My mother has always told me that

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<v Speaker 1>when you hold a man's hand, if you don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>safe and secure, then he's not the one. When I

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<v Speaker 1>held his hand, it was all sweaty and clammy and disgusting,

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<v Speaker 1>and he just didn't act like a real man on

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<v Speaker 1>the date, Like I don't understand how we're lost. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're lost. And I'm usually not that emotional, but I

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<v Speaker 1>showed a lot of emotion. I'm crying, I'm upset, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's just like sitting down on the ground with his

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<v Speaker 1>legs up, not gonna move. I'm just gonna chill here

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<v Speaker 1>until someone comes and get us. Like, who goes that?

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<v Speaker 1>When he sat he sat down. He said that, like,

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<v Speaker 1>this could have been a real life or death situation. Okay, last,

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<v Speaker 1>let's slow it down. You're in a corn maze. It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't actually a life or death situation. Maybe not necessarily,

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<v Speaker 1>but what if it was. You just sit down on

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<v Speaker 1>the ground and throw your legs up in the air

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<v Speaker 1>and like, oh, I don't know what to do. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, I will say to his defense, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're ever lost in the woods somewhere, you're told to

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<v Speaker 1>stay put, like oftentimes going further is just going to

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<v Speaker 1>get you into more trouble. Okay, listen, I'm sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know your name, whatever, but this is not the

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<v Speaker 1>wood hunt. It's simple corn made. It literally goes in circles.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how much lost could we have gotten? And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, get out of my mind? And he's

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<v Speaker 1>doing nothing, just like ha ha, cracking jokesol. I had

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<v Speaker 1>this happened to me before? Well, guess what, It's never

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<v Speaker 1>happened to me. So I would like to like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I love my life, hello, you know, and I want

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<v Speaker 1>to get out of here, Like now, wait, you were

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<v Speaker 1>really honestly that scared. It's pitched black in a cornfield

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<v Speaker 1>no light, no nothing. I didn't want to spend the

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<v Speaker 1>night there, and he was just acting like, well, some

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<v Speaker 1>want to find us, We'll be all right. What okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So basically you don't think he's the type of man

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<v Speaker 1>you want to be with because he wouldn't be able

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<v Speaker 1>to take care of you in like a life or

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<v Speaker 1>death or any kind of situation. Basically, yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>what if it was a real disaster, like an earthquake

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<v Speaker 1>or you know, we've had hurricanes and stuff. What are

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<v Speaker 1>we gonna do just sit on the ground and chill, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get sucked the way. But some want to find us.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like that's a pretty una got in

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<v Speaker 1>a fetal position and was like giving up hope or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Oh sir, that's Matthew. He's actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently just started talking to you. Jesus, take the whole wheel. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't like I was just giving up. That wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the point. I wasn't trying to be this like whoosy guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's what it looked like to me, Matthew. And

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<v Speaker 1>then on top of that, when we get in a car.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, oh, yeah, my GPS is screwed up. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't even get a home. What what's that? I was

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<v Speaker 1>going for another joke, I mean another I think, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm freaking out you want to make another joke. We

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<v Speaker 1>were at a corn made supposed to be fun, lighthearted,

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<v Speaker 1>and and it just got so serious, and you were

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<v Speaker 1>yelling at the top of your lungs like I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to kill you or something. So my emotions aren't

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<v Speaker 1>valid to you? Is that what you're saying. That's how

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<v Speaker 1>you were acts. It was like I was your girlfriend

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<v Speaker 1>and I was freaking out about something. You're just like, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just this, that's how. That's how. That's your answer.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. I was trying to be calm and trying

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<v Speaker 1>to calm you down. I mean what, I was supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to freak out too, But no, you weren't supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>freak out. You were supposed to validate my emotions and

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<v Speaker 1>make me feel like I was face and securing you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't do that. I was trying to get your mind

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<v Speaker 1>off the situation, and I guess it just did not work. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you're I feel like you're not giving

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<v Speaker 1>him enough chance, like you were over emotional. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>but you were in a cornmaze. I understand you were scared,

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<v Speaker 1>but to be screaming and crying at the top of

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<v Speaker 1>your lungs and then blame him for your emotions seems unfair.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm even emotional all over again just thinking about it,

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<v Speaker 1>Like she doesn't know what my childhood was. Maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>got stuck somewhere and he just made fun of I

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<v Speaker 1>told you a situation from my childhood, and you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even care about that. I did care, Matthew. I was crying.

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<v Speaker 1>You cared too much. Now you didn't care about it,

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<v Speaker 1>But now she cared too much, Matthew, which one is it? Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but what I do know is that

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<v Speaker 1>whenever they found us, they did take us the way

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to go. Oh oh, I wouldn't put it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I told you so in that right now, Matthew,

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<v Speaker 1>that's probably super smart. I'm just saying, if you would

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<v Speaker 1>have trusted me, Sarah and let me be the man,

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<v Speaker 1>I would have saved you and got you out of

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<v Speaker 1>the situation like you wanted to. How So now you

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<v Speaker 1>want me to trust you after you sat down on

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<v Speaker 1>the ground, and threw your legs up and made jokes. Nasan,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not believing you, Sah. We just kept going in

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<v Speaker 1>circles and circles and circles, and at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the day, it is a Cormez and children had done

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<v Speaker 1>this Cormets and since we obviously couldn't figure it out,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we just should have gotten naked in the corn

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<v Speaker 1>mais and done stuff that would have been what you wanted.

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<v Speaker 1>At that point, you couldn't even get me, so, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, come on. Just you know, earlier when I

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<v Speaker 1>talked to people at the radio station, I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to go to a Cormez. But I think we should

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<v Speaker 1>go back to the Cormes and to face our fears,

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<v Speaker 1>show you that I can be a man and take

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<v Speaker 1>control the situation. Okay, all right, Sarah, Hey, Sarah, would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to go on a second date with Matthew.

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it. You guys, go back to

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<v Speaker 1>the corn maze. He can punch a seven year old

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<v Speaker 1>in the face, so he's a man, and you can

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<v Speaker 1>handle any kind of adversity. What do you think? So

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<v Speaker 1>let me get this straight. He wants me to go

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<v Speaker 1>back to the corn maze. The place where we had

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<v Speaker 1>all of this disagreement at and try to no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Yeah, I don't think you guys are a

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<v Speaker 1>very well fit couple. It'd kind of be like a cute,

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<v Speaker 1>fun story the way we started out our relationship, you know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't think you guys went to a corn maze,

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<v Speaker 1>you questioned his manhood. Back to the corn maze, you

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<v Speaker 1>probably still would question it again after, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like it'd be a cute story, Sarah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I've done enough crying for the entire year already. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do it again, thank you? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, well it's your loss. You're missing out on this,

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<v Speaker 1>and if we thank it, you have my number. No,

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<v Speaker 1>actually I don't. I'll blast and deleted you, all right, Sorry, Matthew,

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<v Speaker 1>no second date. But I'm sure there's a woman out

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<v Speaker 1>there who will hold you when you're scared, So don't

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<v Speaker 1>worry about it. Yeah, at the very least, somebody who's

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<v Speaker 1>not going to break out and go out lunatic crazy

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<v Speaker 1>on me at the corn maze. I mean, that's the

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<v Speaker 1>type of girl I'm looking for. Welcome luck, Homie, find

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<v Speaker 1>her because I'm done block in the morning. The text

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<v Speaker 1>in at seven eight, five nine two that says, See,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I don't go to corn mazes. It's ruined

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<v Speaker 1>three of my relationships. Talking about today's second date update

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<v Speaker 1>if you missed it, Matthew and Sarah spent their first

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<v Speaker 1>date lost in a giant corn maze. Oh man, she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't think that he handled the situation like a man.

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<v Speaker 1>He was wondering why he wasn't getting a call back,

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<v Speaker 1>and she thought he didn't handle like a man because

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<v Speaker 1>instead of taking charge and finding a way out of

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<v Speaker 1>the corn maze, he just sat on the ground and

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<v Speaker 1>made jokes and waited for people to find them. Matthew

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<v Speaker 1>said that he's only trying to take Sarah's mind off

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<v Speaker 1>the situation with a little bit of humor. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>Sarah was completely turned off by his attitude and doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>think that he could handle himself in stressful situations. Because

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<v Speaker 1>of it, they decided not to go on a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like she's looking for like a super

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<v Speaker 1>like pumped up testosterone dude that would like, oh, try

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<v Speaker 1>to walk straight through it. I don't care. Remember if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do a second day update, all you

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<v Speaker 1>have to do is email the show and we will

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<v Speaker 1>call the person who didn't call you back, who the

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<v Speaker 1>ninety two point five