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Speaker 1: What will you do? Lesic at Evergreen dot com Rooking Jewels,

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Speaker 1: Second dat up Day. A common argument that couples get

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Speaker 1: And nobody knows that better than Matthew right now, who's

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Speaker 1: on the phone for a second date update. Matthew, how

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Speaker 1: you want to call today. What's her name? Name Sarah? Sarah?

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Speaker 1: And where did you meet Sarah? Hold up, we're just

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Speaker 1: I was concerned for your safety this whole time, and

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Speaker 1: jubil in the morning. What are some of the scariest

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Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: This is whol Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: That's where if you go out on a date with

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