Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2: Hello, everybody, we were scrubbing.
Speaker 3: In, Yes we are. Rebecca's enjoying a light breakfast over there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been, it's been. It's been a busy morning.
Speaker 1: And then I get in and I've already been bullied
Speaker 1: by Easton.
Speaker 2: Tanya.
Speaker 1: I don't know if Mark said anything that feels half bullied.
Speaker 1: I got half bullied by Hannah, but everyone else full bullied.
Speaker 3: Not first of all, not bully in the slightest bit. Yeah, bullied,
Speaker 3: not bullied, not bullied. This feels like a microaggression. As
Speaker 3: Easton said.
Speaker 2: You don't know what that meant.
Speaker 3: No, I still don't really know what it means, but
Speaker 3: it sounds about right. I feel like something's going on internally.
Speaker 1: Where No, you know what it is is that I switched.
Speaker 1: I was flying in from San Francisco in my fight.
Speaker 1: I didn't know, like you know, if my flight was
Speaker 1: gonna be later or not, and Tanya wanted me to
Speaker 1: come in an hour earlier than was on the calendar.
Speaker 1: I said, you know what, for Tanya, I'm gonna try
Speaker 1: to do this. Everything worked out, everything aligned, I get
Speaker 1: here on time, I had to go home and get
Speaker 1: my car from the airport. And Tanya's like, I checked
Speaker 1: your location your home already.
Speaker 3: I said, your home, question, your home.
Speaker 1: My whole body tensed up. This might be the day
Speaker 1: I stopped sharing my location with Tanya.
Speaker 2: No, no, you may have caught me on the wrong day.
Speaker 1: So then I get a notification that I needed to
Speaker 1: post an a branded Instagram story by a certain time,
Speaker 1: and we're podcasting like a couple hours today, and so
Speaker 1: then Easton and Tanya start going, oh, this feels like
Speaker 1: something you got information on a long time ago, and.
Speaker 2: I just got it.
Speaker 3: I showed you the timestamp, so ye said, the timestamp
Speaker 3: text feels like a reminder, like, hey, you need to
Speaker 3: post this by twelve thirty today.
Speaker 1: I just sent you approval in your email needs to
Speaker 1: go up by twelve thirty.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, as somebody who has done these in
Speaker 3: the past, have you die the timelines where they say
Speaker 3: with a lot of brands, I do, Yes, You're going
Speaker 3: to post this on Monday whatever, June twenty.
Speaker 2: Sixth YEA, at this time, I usually have a.
Speaker 3: Time window, right, So that's all pre approved and pre
Speaker 3: given to me.
Speaker 2: Giving benefit of the doubt that I'm a professional.
Speaker 3: No, are you joking.
Speaker 2: Anyway, so jez to be honest.
Speaker 3: When I checked your location, Marc goes, is she is
Speaker 3: backa in the sky, And I was like, oh, like,
Speaker 3: I actually never seen anybody like in flight on find
Speaker 3: my friends.
Speaker 4: You usually just don't get anything. It doesn't show up.
Speaker 3: So I was kind of excited to see because it
Speaker 3: was before ten thirty, and I was like, if for
Speaker 3: flight lands at ten thirty, there's no way she's probably
Speaker 3: still in the air. So I went to check it
Speaker 3: and I saw was shocked to see that you were home,
Speaker 3: and so I was like, you're home. I thought maybe
Speaker 3: you got an earlier flight or something like. I just
Speaker 3: did not know the fact that your flight landed at
Speaker 3: whatever time I take to you. Was like, that's so
Speaker 3: crazy that you're already home by then ten thirty eight.
Speaker 3: You got home in eight minutes. What if your flight
Speaker 3: landed at ten thirty.
Speaker 2: We landed I guess early. Oh, I don't know. I
Speaker 2: didn't tracked my flight, you know.
Speaker 1: I wasn't like, oh, am I right on the dot
Speaker 1: of the original landing time.
Speaker 2: But I imagine that's probably what you do to make sure
Speaker 2: things are lined up.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I believe in sharing locations with friends. I enjoy that.
Speaker 4: But I do see where Becca's coming.
Speaker 1: It's feeling a little taken advantage of it. I feel
Speaker 1: like she's really taking advantage of the situation.
Speaker 3: There is no first of all, and I was not
Speaker 3: even tense about it. I was shocked when you got
Speaker 3: here at the time that you did like I was
Speaker 3: pleasantly so I was not. I am this was not.
Speaker 2: Because I'm a professional.
Speaker 1: And I don't know if Y'll know this, but for
Speaker 1: weeks I have been on time professor.
Speaker 2: This podcast confirm. So when each questioned my branding post,
Speaker 2: what Nadia A.
Speaker 3: Kamoto, I believe you were late too.
Speaker 2: I walked in before Nadia walked in, didn't I.
Speaker 3: That's true, But that's not necessarily on time.
Speaker 2: It was on time enough.
Speaker 3: It appears that somebody's uh a little tense today. So
Speaker 3: I'm gonna tread lightly.
Speaker 2: Over here, busy professional.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna tread lightly over here with got micro aggressed.
Speaker 3: How was your weekend?
Speaker 2: My weekend was great.
Speaker 1: I went to the pool, I went to the beach,
Speaker 1: I went to San Francisco. I went to my first pride.
Speaker 3: That was your first Pride.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like my first Pride one. Well, we went to
Speaker 2: the Hailey performed the concert. But I got to see like.
Speaker 3: The Walk the Preid actual like uh huh.
Speaker 1: I got to see my first Pride parade and Haley
Speaker 1: Hailey headlined San Francisco Pride, so she did a full show.
Speaker 1: And it's freezing really so cold and gloomy. San Francisco
Speaker 1: is tough in that way. It's a beautiful city. Like right,
Speaker 1: I've never been me.
Speaker 3: Neither, but the way I imagine it is like cloudy
Speaker 3: and cold.
Speaker 1: Yeah, stepping up the microphone, No, I just I love
Speaker 1: to break in with a Mark Twain quote, but he
Speaker 1: always says the uh what.
Speaker 5: The coldest winter I ever felt was a summer in
Speaker 5: San Francisco, something mister Twain used to say.
Speaker 1: Yeah, wise man, it can get like down to like
Speaker 1: thirty five degrees in the summer. This was more like
Speaker 1: a sixty situation. But it was really fun and I'm
Speaker 1: very tired because it was just like get up by
Speaker 1: It felt very like, it felt very like something I
Speaker 1: would do in my youth, but as an elder, it
Speaker 1: felt like.
Speaker 3: Exhaust Yeah, everything's exhausting. The other day I didn't even
Speaker 3: know what I was. I was day one of my period,
Speaker 3: and I can't remember what I was doing, but it
Speaker 3: was something totally normal, like I went upstairs to grab
Speaker 3: something and then I went to my car, like I
Speaker 3: ran like one errand and I got home and I
Speaker 3: was like, Oh, that was a lot.
Speaker 1: That's how I feel every day of my life. Can't
Speaker 1: you imagine, Villain, how you felt that day? Every activity
Speaker 1: I do. I'm like, it's a lot.
Speaker 2: It was a lot.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know if maybe I have something wrong
Speaker 1: with me for that to be the case. I read
Speaker 1: this quote the other day and it really inspired me
Speaker 1: because since we're talking about like life and being older,
Speaker 1: it said, I like today, No, I'm not scary, I'm good.
Speaker 3: I can't read the quote.
Speaker 1: It says, I like to pretend I already died and
Speaker 1: asked God to send me back to Earth so I
Speaker 1: can swim in lakes again and see mountains and get
Speaker 1: my heart broken and love my friends and cry so
Speaker 1: hard in the bathroom and go grocery shopping a thousand
Speaker 1: more times, and that I promised I would never forget
Speaker 1: the miracle of being here.
Speaker 2: That's so lovely, that's so profound.
Speaker 3: I don't quite get it. What so like you wish
Speaker 3: that you die, like.
Speaker 1: You pretend like that you're living, like you made a
Speaker 1: promise with God that you would get to live this
Speaker 1: life and you would never take it for granted, like
Speaker 1: even the big things, the small things.
Speaker 3: Okay, got it? The second time round?
Speaker 1: Tough.
Speaker 2: When you have a profound quote and share it, Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's the pose.
Speaker 3: The profound professional in the room.
Speaker 2: And is that me?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, profound and professional.
Speaker 3: It's not quite hitting the amateur in the room. No, No,
Speaker 3: today feels like not the day to ask you for
Speaker 3: a favor. So I'm like, no, I would love to.
Speaker 1: Do a favor. I already did a favor. I came
Speaker 1: in early for you. So what else can I do
Speaker 1: for you? What else can I help you? So?
Speaker 3: I was packing yesterday for my trip and I found
Speaker 3: and I found this pink dress that's yours, but I
Speaker 3: wore it to something forever ago. Okay, I wanted to
Speaker 3: pack it for my trip.
Speaker 2: What pink dress?
Speaker 3: It's like long, it's like down to the floor. You
Speaker 3: wore to JoJo's rehearsal dinner.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm yeah sure.
Speaker 1: I mean you have my sweater dress that you never returned,
Speaker 1: and I don't even you don't even.
Speaker 3: Four pieces of Becca's clothing that just like.
Speaker 1: Them and post them and I'm like, and then like
Speaker 1: links them for people to shop with them.
Speaker 3: Although I wish I could. I wish I could buy
Speaker 3: that sweater dress and every color.
Speaker 2: I know it was. It was great.
Speaker 1: I got to wear it one time before it was
Speaker 1: borrowed and never returned.
Speaker 3: The way that it's like the most flattering sweat I
Speaker 3: don't like sweater dresses because I feel like they're very unflattering.
Speaker 3: This one, for some reason, is so freaking flattering.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: If they had it in multiple colors, I would own
Speaker 3: it in multiple colors.
Speaker 1: Well, I can't wait to see the vacation picks of
Speaker 1: you in the pink dress. I think it looks stunning. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it just felt very uh colorful. It was for Selena's
Speaker 1: thirtieth birthday party. Remember it was like a black tie.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, yeah.
Speaker 2: It didn't get worn there, so I did get I
Speaker 2: did wear it.
Speaker 3: Oh oh yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's having a revamp.
Speaker 1: She's having I'm glad she's getting her Yeah, sure of
Speaker 1: course you can.
Speaker 2: Is there anything else?
Speaker 3: But last week you'd mentioned wanting to start a ward
Speaker 3: of the week.
Speaker 2: So microaggression.
Speaker 3: I'm scared.
Speaker 6: I'm so scared over here.
Speaker 1: Nice. We didn't establish a word of the week, so
Speaker 1: we would have to do that off air. Yeah, like
Speaker 1: the game is for them to guess.
Speaker 2: What the world week.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I wasn't quite understanding. Now I got it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you we can revisit that at a later time,
Speaker 1: which we like to do on this podcast.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so we'll do it next week.
Speaker 1: One thing about us is we have great ideas. Yes,
Speaker 1: sometimes those ideas coming to fruition. That's the challenge.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I'm never seen me like scared of me.
Speaker 6: I'm so scared. I'm so scared right now. Okay, it's fine, daddy, No,
Speaker 6: not daddy. What do you do this weekend?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 3: If I'm being honest, I did a lot of nothing.
Speaker 3: I got my period and was so out of commission
Speaker 3: for two days. Like it was pretty bad. I was why,
Speaker 3: I don't know what. For some reason, I was so bloated,
Speaker 3: like I felt like you could take a needle and
Speaker 3: like put it in my stomach and it would just
Speaker 3: like pop. Like I felt so bloated. It was crazy,
Speaker 3: but so we went on a double date on Friday
Speaker 3: night with one of Robbie's cousins, and I felt so ugly,
Speaker 3: like you know when you just feel gross. Yes, I
Speaker 3: felt so gross, and Robbie was like, you've never looked
Speaker 3: more beautiful, like he like was like your lipstick looks
Speaker 3: so pretty and like you just look you're glowing. And
Speaker 3: I was like, I can't tell if you're just like
Speaker 3: trying to make me feel better, or.
Speaker 1: There's a theory about this, or there's some science to
Speaker 1: it where I feel truly the grossest and ugliest when
Speaker 1: I'm on my period, like a in that area, and
Speaker 1: there's a theory that your partner finds you like the
Speaker 1: most beautiful or like I'll notice I get compliments when
Speaker 1: I'm like feeling that way more than I do.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, this makes no sense. Yeah I'm disgusting.
Speaker 3: Yeah I feel like a disgusting troll.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I don't know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, something to that.
Speaker 1: I thought, like the cycle sinking and like doing all
Speaker 1: the things of your like phases is supposed to make
Speaker 1: your like help the symptoms.
Speaker 3: It's supposed to help the symptoms. I've never been a
Speaker 3: big bloater, so this one was like interesting to me
Speaker 3: because I've never been I get really bad cramps. That
Speaker 3: was my whole thing.
Speaker 1: Is this your first period since you've like kind of
Speaker 1: been a little more relaxed on your diet.
Speaker 3: Yes. Interesting, Yeah, I don't know, we'll see. But and
Speaker 3: then we put up We did the soundproofing in my
Speaker 3: studio at Robbie's house, and it was so funny because
Speaker 3: so we get these like they're like these square don't
Speaker 3: you call the foam squares or whatever, and have to
Speaker 3: put them up over the whole wall. And so tubs
Speaker 3: or engineers like a bunch of this film and a
Speaker 3: bunch of tape, and so we're like dud pulling out
Speaker 3: the tape and Robie goes, Okay, I think we should
Speaker 3: do four pieces in each corner and like put them up,
Speaker 3: and I was like no, I think just like one
Speaker 3: quick slab and like done, Like we'll move quicker, right,
Speaker 3: So they put it the whole wall. We're so excited.
Speaker 3: It sounds pretty good and we go to run more errands.
Speaker 3: We come home and like half the walls went off
Speaker 3: and I was like I was wrong, You're right, we
Speaker 3: should have put it in all four corners. Hate when
Speaker 3: I'm wrong.
Speaker 2: I do too. It's rare, but I do hate it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's rare. Yeah, yeah, it's pretty common for me.
Speaker 1: We were just having this conversation about like how when
Speaker 1: you're when you're lazy and you're trying to rush through
Speaker 1: something instead of just doing it the right way. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's how you waste time more than you would have
Speaker 1: originally if you had just done it the right right.
Speaker 2: Like Hayley was.
Speaker 1: Folding these flags after the show and she had just
Speaker 1: like balled them up and put them in there, and
Speaker 1: then they didn't fit. So she was like, now I'm
Speaker 1: having to go back and like fold them. So that
Speaker 1: was a fresh conversation. But we had one of those
Speaker 1: moments where I always load our car up, like I'm
Speaker 1: just like, I'm like, I got the suit case I
Speaker 1: can lift to let me help you, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: don't injure yourself.
Speaker 2: She's too prone to injury, so I just do it myself.
Speaker 3: I give her uh huh.
Speaker 1: Just strong, Yeah, just some might say just absolutely legend strong.
Speaker 1: So I always load the car up so I know
Speaker 1: how the suitcases will fit in both of our cars
Speaker 1: and like how they need to be arranged. So I
Speaker 1: go to put both of ours in there, and she's like,
Speaker 1: it's we're both like standing watching at the door closed,
Speaker 1: and we're both like, she goes, it's not gonna fit.
Speaker 1: It's not gonna fit. It's not gonna fit. It's not
Speaker 1: gonna close, and I'm like, it will just stop. And
Speaker 1: it did the click noise where it shut all the way.
Speaker 1: I just walked away smiling, Oh wow. And she had
Speaker 1: to go like, I'm so, I just know you're gonna
Speaker 1: be on a high for the rest of the day
Speaker 1: because of that. Unfortunately, that is my personality and I
Speaker 1: I like, I like being right.
Speaker 3: I can't I can't see that. So yeah, that pretty
Speaker 3: much sums up my my weekend. I'm already packed. My
Speaker 3: bag is packed. I'm leaving in four days.
Speaker 1: You're kidding, No, packed the entire bag aside. I'm assuming
Speaker 1: from like your toiletries.
Speaker 3: Toiletries are packed except for like the the stuff I
Speaker 3: used day to day. I'm gonna put that in last
Speaker 3: minute and throw it in. But yeah, we're good. We
Speaker 3: gone a carry on, very a carry.
Speaker 2: On, any carry on?
Speaker 3: Yeah, modern woman?
Speaker 4: Who I in a carry on?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: How long are you gone?
Speaker 3: H eight nine days?
Speaker 4: Wow?
Speaker 2: That is the most impressive thing.
Speaker 3: I'm definitely like not going to be looking my cutest,
Speaker 3: you know, like I'm gonna have to repeat outfits and
Speaker 3: like whatever, but it's just gonna be hot. So I
Speaker 3: feel like I'm just wearing like cover ups and like
Speaker 3: like I just wore cover ups and dresses and then
Speaker 3: a couple like workout outfits and then one pair of heels.
Speaker 4: Oh they're wearing a fishing vest. I've heard they can
Speaker 4: get a lot of stuff in the pocket.
Speaker 3: No, but I will act to show you the picture.
Speaker 3: Do you remember there was like a gifting suite one
Speaker 3: year where they gave us these like giant canvas bags.
Speaker 3: And the canvas bag is like the size of like
Speaker 3: my dog's crake. It's gigantic. So that's gonna be my
Speaker 3: like personal item, and I'm gonna put up some shoes
Speaker 3: and like my tall trees and stuff in there, and
Speaker 3: then then like a carry on like my roller. I
Speaker 3: am so shocked shocked myself.
Speaker 1: I took a full size bag for my twenty four
Speaker 1: hour trip to San Francisco.
Speaker 2: You're joking, no, because here's what happened. Here's what happened.
Speaker 1: I have been able to pack a carry on like
Speaker 1: typically for a weekend. I've gotten that down, but I
Speaker 1: was like trying to force all this stuff.
Speaker 2: And I had a free bag.
Speaker 1: And we flew an airline where you don't have to
Speaker 1: go like wait at baggage claimer, right.
Speaker 3: And the thing is, like the problem is we're going
Speaker 3: we're flying to two different places, so like and we
Speaker 3: have like a connecting flight and so it just makes
Speaker 3: life easier if we don't have to like wait for
Speaker 3: our bags and blah blah blah. So we just said
Speaker 3: we decided we're going to carry on. Great, I'm not
Speaker 3: bringing any hair tools. I'm not gonna do my hair,
Speaker 3: and I'm bringing like mascara, not bringing in makeup.
Speaker 2: Wow, I would.
Speaker 1: Love to get to that point. It feels unattainable, but
Speaker 1: I would love to get there.
Speaker 3: That's where I'm at right now. Baby, Throw one extra
Speaker 3: hair one hair tool in there, depending if we'll make.
Speaker 1: Sure it's safety use in Europe.
Speaker 3: Is that the whole thing?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, And you can very quickly ruin your uh your
Speaker 1: tools in an adapter.
Speaker 2: Well you know, but.
Speaker 3: Even when I don't even need it, even I don't need.
Speaker 1: It, even with adapters, it can blow the can burn
Speaker 1: up in Australia.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, their hair d.
Speaker 1: Off like okay, yeah, my friends like burn their hair
Speaker 1: off because it got too hot and they didn't know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, this just feels safer. If I don't have it,
Speaker 3: then I was.
Speaker 2: Gonna say, really, embrace your natural.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna go Sanzi vibes.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: This brings me to another question. So you said it's
Speaker 1: gonna be hot and you have to repeat outfits.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so if you.
Speaker 2: Sweat in something, are you going to rewar it?
Speaker 3: We'll probably be a bathing suit. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Oh, so you're not gonna have to repeat clothes.
Speaker 3: Oh, I see what you're saying. No, I have like
Speaker 3: enough like tops and tank tops and stuff. I think
Speaker 3: I'll be okay. But I'm also like, it's not a
Speaker 3: below me. I'm like a because I don't like to
Speaker 3: pack so much workout stuff. I don't want to pack
Speaker 3: workout stuff for every day if we're gonna go only
Speaker 3: a couple of times. So I wash my like, uh,
Speaker 3: like leggings, my unmentionables. I'll wash them in the sink
Speaker 3: and like just rewar those. That's right. I do my
Speaker 3: laundry on vacation.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's where I struggle because I can't if something's
Speaker 1: been worn or I've been outside in it.
Speaker 3: Yeah's touched the outside.
Speaker 2: I've been touched the outside air dirdy, Yeah, daddy go.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna repeat some things.
Speaker 1: Actually this brings me to another conversation, because I what.
Speaker 4: The reason I do hand signals is so I don't
Speaker 4: have to stop the whole conversation. We should take a break.
Speaker 2: Oh fine, we'll be right back.
Speaker 3: I'm scared.
Speaker 2: All right, we're back, as I was rudely interrupted with
Speaker 2: hand signals.
Speaker 1: Actually, this is on the rundown and we This would
Speaker 1: have been great for the previous conversation, but what a
Speaker 1: eat one to come back with. Apparently you're supposed to
Speaker 1: be switching out your underwear like after a year or something.
Speaker 3: Yeah, let me tell you, I've had some bras since
Speaker 3: I was like puberty. Yeah, I honestly think I've had
Speaker 3: some for a decade or two.
Speaker 2: But like brawls, I don't feel bras to me.
Speaker 3: No, I think it's the same thing. And I've definitely
Speaker 3: had some underwear for like a.
Speaker 2: Decade, the same underwor for decades.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, yes, especially the ones I love, like
Speaker 3: my like what are they? The seamless granny panties. You
Speaker 3: can't find those there everywhere.
Speaker 2: Sure, they're just in specialty stores exactly.
Speaker 3: They're not. It's not just like a hanky panky song
Speaker 3: that you can just buy online. You know, like, I'm
Speaker 3: not just like special I'm not wearing g strings up
Speaker 3: in here. Yeah, I need my seamless granny panties or
Speaker 3: to buy them originally Victoria's secret.
Speaker 2: They don't. They don't offer those anymore.
Speaker 3: No, they like go and they like now they have
Speaker 3: seams and they're all like not cotton. I'm just it's
Speaker 3: like not the vibe.
Speaker 2: Okay, So you've had your grannies for.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well they're like sexy grannies.
Speaker 1: They're like something's something telling me that sexy part was added.
Speaker 2: Generously.
Speaker 3: They're not like granny panties. But they're not like boy shorts.
Speaker 3: They're like they're like cheeky's, Like cheeky's you know what
Speaker 3: I'm talking about, Like cheek's. Yeah, they have those anywhere,
Speaker 3: not seamless ones.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: The seamless is basically the only Oh really, I don't
Speaker 1: know about that.
Speaker 2: I think we could do a quick search and find
Speaker 2: you a new pair.
Speaker 1: Anyways, I think it's time to try yours out. I
Speaker 1: would say, like I order a new like round probably
Speaker 1: every year and a half.
Speaker 3: I would say that's commendable.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 1: But like sometimes you know when you all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: one pair just feels like uncomfortable. Yeah, it just doesn't
Speaker 1: sit well, and you're just like this, ain't it trash? Yeah?
Speaker 3: I don't really get that because mine are like, well, when.
Speaker 7: You got the three thousands, your mom just like everything
Speaker 7: just right.
Speaker 2: They're just so good. It's just like, my god.
Speaker 1: How long ago I have to stare at these same underwear.
Speaker 3: It was his idea to keep them no, do not read,
Speaker 3: because remember I was getting all these crazy UTIs and
Speaker 3: da da da, and so I was like, f the thongs, Hello,
Speaker 3: granny panties.
Speaker 2: You never wear a thong.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't say never, like never say never, but like
Speaker 3: ninety percent of the time now.
Speaker 1: So you wear the grannies with every jeans. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: and you haven't switched them out in a decade, that's right, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'll be thinking about that.
Speaker 3: Well, now that I think about it's probably not a
Speaker 3: decade because this was since I've known Robbie. So maybe
Speaker 3: three years.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's a good seven years, like a decade. Oh, okay,
Speaker 2: the truth comes out.
Speaker 1: Also, something that was brought to my attention was that
Speaker 1: you know how you showed us how you sat on
Speaker 1: the toilet. Yeah, and you got a lot of people
Speaker 1: saying it changed our life and in super Validah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you. Actually, thank you so much for everybody
Speaker 3: reaching out, because you made me feel less alone. I
Speaker 3: felt very validated that a lot of you poop the
Speaker 3: same way that I do.
Speaker 1: And I'm very happy for all of you who are
Speaker 1: able to find success in your bowel movements. But the
Speaker 1: thing that I need to talk about is the fact
Speaker 1: that you put your feet up on the toilet seat,
Speaker 1: and you also have.
Speaker 2: Publicly stated you don't wash your feet.
Speaker 3: It's my own toilet.
Speaker 2: There's other bums on that toilet, Robbie's the children, not
Speaker 2: in our toilet.
Speaker 1: There's just a lot going on around that toilet seat
Speaker 1: that I feel like your feet should definitely get up.
Speaker 3: I watched now, Thank you very much thanks to this podcast.
Speaker 3: I now washed my feet every single time I get
Speaker 3: your shower. Yes I do. I told you, did I
Speaker 3: not tell you that? Robbie like so sad Actually I
Speaker 3: was in the bathroom when he was like legging in
Speaker 3: the bed and he was like babe, and I was like, yeah,
Speaker 3: what's going on? He goes, can you start washing your Yeah?
Speaker 2: Because Tete comes over every night.
Speaker 3: I was like, this is why I tell you not
Speaker 3: to listen to the podcast. Just because he heard that
Speaker 3: or was there I saw the clip. He said, like
Speaker 3: Crystal posed it so he watched.
Speaker 4: Not because he's caught an odor from your feet, No, no.
Speaker 3: No fungus. My feet are pristine, gotcha. It was because
Speaker 3: he saw the clip on scrubbing in. I was out
Speaker 3: in my.
Speaker 1: Sisters, Well we I think I I have to shower
Speaker 1: or take a bath before I get on an airplane.
Speaker 1: And you know, like every night before I get into
Speaker 1: my bed, I shower, Like there's no in between time, right,
Speaker 1: and so.
Speaker 2: Haley, today I get up. We showered right.
Speaker 1: Before we got into bed last night at the hotel,
Speaker 1: and then this morning I was like, I have to
Speaker 1: get up and chower. She's like, you just showered last
Speaker 1: night and I was like, well, but I'm getting on
Speaker 1: an airplane. She's like that makes no sense. And I
Speaker 1: was like, I don't like when I can smell like
Speaker 1: people just.
Speaker 2: Rolled out of bed. Oh I know, I know, So
Speaker 2: I don't ever want to be that person.
Speaker 3: Me neither.
Speaker 4: On this one. Airplanes are disgusting, so just go on disgusting.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but what if everyone was clean?
Speaker 4: They're not. And then when you get off, that's when
Speaker 4: you shower, because you want to shower the airplane off
Speaker 4: of you, that's for sure.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's great obviously, right.
Speaker 3: You shower it all before you get so.
Speaker 4: Many hours a day. I feel like it's not great
Speaker 4: to shower constantly. I feel tend to shower constantly, but.
Speaker 2: I also shower.
Speaker 3: I'm in and out like I'm made it out quicker
Speaker 3: than that new Barbie Girls song.
Speaker 4: Then you're not watching Freed properly, not.
Speaker 3: Every single time. Like my morning shower is like my
Speaker 3: quickest one because I just like, again, I don't want
Speaker 3: to smell like bed, so I just like get in
Speaker 3: there and I'm out.
Speaker 2: Not many people know the smell of bed.
Speaker 3: It's a it's distinct.
Speaker 2: It's distinct.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's very and like you know, that's what it is.
Speaker 3: It's like beds.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, yeah, you might be clean enough, but
Speaker 1: you smell like sleep.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I just don't personally like that.
Speaker 3: Tell us what else you don't like?
Speaker 2: Well, I was gonna ask.
Speaker 1: I wanted to bring up the thing about this.
Speaker 3: This, oh the Discover page. Did you look at Discover page?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's actually so funny because it was just like this.
Speaker 1: I think I'm going to post a real event, but
Speaker 1: it was so funny because it was like this guy
Speaker 1: with like abs and he was naked, but he had
Speaker 1: like an avocado emoji over his weiens.
Speaker 2: So it was like, I was like, what what are
Speaker 2: you looking at?
Speaker 3: What is she looking at?
Speaker 1: She has a random She'll be like, I'll look over
Speaker 1: and she's watching reels of these different countries, these people
Speaker 1: eating fruit, like their local fruit, and they'll be like
Speaker 1: them like cutting the fruit and like slicing it and
Speaker 1: then eating it. Okay, she loves that. So that's a
Speaker 1: lot of it. But yeah, it was. It was a
Speaker 1: random assortment, nothing suspicious.
Speaker 2: So, oh that's good. Just the man with the avocado.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I know. I So I saw the trend.
Speaker 3: I'm up on all the trends on the you know,
Speaker 3: and it was it on TikToker Instagram.
Speaker 2: I saw shere up on it.
Speaker 3: I saw I saw it on somebody's Instagram and I
Speaker 3: sent it to my friend and she was like, oh yeah,
Speaker 3: that's that's very like trendy right now, trending right now.
Speaker 3: I guess discover pages instagrams has to me it's an Instagram,
Speaker 3: right Yeah. So I said to Robbie and I said, Heyle,
Speaker 3: you send me a picture of your discover page. And
Speaker 3: he sends it to me and it's like the most
Speaker 3: green flaggy thing that I've ever seen in my life.
Speaker 3: It is all cars and dogs, all cars and dogs.
Speaker 3: I was like, wow, yeah, that's my guy.
Speaker 2: Definite green flag, definite green flag across the board.
Speaker 3: Find you a guy with that discover page right there?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Hogs and what's another word for.
Speaker 2: Dogs and dogs? Dogs?
Speaker 3: Hogs and dogs. I was trying to I was out
Speaker 3: clevering my cleverness.
Speaker 7: Sometimes you just don't have to sometimes you're so clever. Yeah,
Speaker 7: it just comes to me cleverness. Yeah, you're like the intellectual.
Speaker 7: What did you say, You were a profound professional, profound professional,
Speaker 7: And I'm just like clever, Susan.
Speaker 2: I was gonna, yeah, okay, this story. Was this something
Speaker 2: someone that came up to you?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well okay, so this friend of mine.
Speaker 2: Oh okay.
Speaker 3: Uh, she was telling me this story about this guy
Speaker 3: that she was dating. So they've gone out like a
Speaker 3: handful of times, not a first date, but they're not
Speaker 3: like exclusive or by any means. And she told him
Speaker 3: that she didn't want to have sex until she was
Speaker 3: in a committed relationship. She very much like a Tanya.
Speaker 3: And they were making out one night and the end
Speaker 3: he came just in his pants. Can I say that
Speaker 3: the podcast.
Speaker 8: Too late?
Speaker 6: Now? That just.
Speaker 2: There are they doing something?
Speaker 3: Making out? Making out?
Speaker 4: Was she manipulating him in some way?
Speaker 3: No, she's not. She's a nice girl.
Speaker 4: It was just was known as the dry situation.
Speaker 3: Yes, oh wait, you mean like with her hands.
Speaker 4: So she wasn't manipulating him. They were just kind of
Speaker 4: in the position and you.
Speaker 3: Know when you're like making out with clear clothes on.
Speaker 4: And then in the act of that, he finished, oh.
Speaker 3: That's a better way of saying it.
Speaker 2: Thank you more PG scrubbing, and I can redo it?
Speaker 2: Should I redo it?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 2: I think I think it's good.
Speaker 3: Okay. Well, and then he finished okay, And so now
Speaker 3: things have been kind of like weird between them, and
Speaker 3: I'm like, well, yeah, you might just be embarrassed.
Speaker 2: Oh, he's been weird.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I think too.
Speaker 2: But that's like a huge compliment to her, right.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm like, I'd be stoked, just like.
Speaker 4: Make a guys that when they do get to that point,
Speaker 4: it's going to be unsatisfying in the sense that it's
Speaker 4: going to be over much sooner than she would like
Speaker 4: it to be over.
Speaker 3: But maybe just the first time, maybe and then they'll
Speaker 3: love yeah, or maybe that's.
Speaker 4: Something that he deals with all the time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've been seeing a lot of these commercials. I
Speaker 3: don't know why this one keeps talking. It's like his commercials.
Speaker 3: Have you seen these? Yeah, like a pill for him,
Speaker 3: but I don't really know what it does. But maybe
Speaker 3: that could help.
Speaker 6: Him and her next sponsor on the podcast dot com or.
Speaker 2: Whatever it is. But it was it a deal breaker
Speaker 2: for her?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 2: Is that a deal breaker?
Speaker 3: She was just saying that, like he's been weird, Like
Speaker 3: he's just been kind of like aloof And I'm like,
Speaker 3: I think that's why.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And so she should talk to him. Oh, I
Speaker 4: think she should. So did he say that's what happened
Speaker 4: or she could just tell him what happened?
Speaker 3: No, she knew that's what happened.
Speaker 4: She could tell yeah, and it's been awkward since.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think she brings it up in a way of saying, like, look,
Speaker 4: that happened. I don't care. I think I'm flattered. That's right.
Speaker 4: I like, let's just put it behind us.
Speaker 2: I don't I don't know if there needs to be
Speaker 2: a conversation.
Speaker 3: The conversation makes me feel so cringey.
Speaker 1: I think it's just go if she likes him, it's like,
Speaker 1: go out with him again.
Speaker 2: I think it's a compliment.
Speaker 3: I think they are, they have they do have plans
Speaker 3: to go out again.
Speaker 4: How are you? How are you going to break him
Speaker 4: out of his weirdness? If you don't address right.
Speaker 1: You just don't address it and you don't make it
Speaker 1: feel like it's a thing.
Speaker 4: Isn't addressing it always a better idea than just this situation.
Speaker 3: And it's early days, like it's just so odd for.
Speaker 1: Dating, and then a committed a relationship and then it
Speaker 1: keeps happening and she's like, I'm not getting satisfied out
Speaker 1: of this.
Speaker 2: Then it's a conversation.
Speaker 1: But I don't know if she's not looking to have
Speaker 1: sex with him right now, they're not doing anything. Then
Speaker 1: I would be like, thank you so much for acknowledging
Speaker 1: my performance.
Speaker 3: And yeah, admiring my.
Speaker 2: Beauty, admiring my beauty.
Speaker 4: And I think in his mind it's a big deal
Speaker 4: and it would help him if she told him it
Speaker 4: wasn't a big deal.
Speaker 1: I think if she just goes on another date and
Speaker 1: doesn't even it's not even a thing, I think that's
Speaker 1: her letting him know it's not a big deal.
Speaker 3: Okay, you need to follow up on I think they have.
Speaker 2: You know, I need a Hanna take on this.
Speaker 5: There's the chance that he that he's being weird about
Speaker 5: something else is not even related.
Speaker 3: To that that she thinks she's like, I think he's
Speaker 3: dating other people.
Speaker 2: Oh no, he might be the dry hump bandit. We
Speaker 2: don't know, dB, yeah, D.
Speaker 9: I would not address it.
Speaker 2: Yeah would that be a Would that be a deal
Speaker 2: breaker for you?
Speaker 9: I'd just be a little creeped out, but not necessarily
Speaker 9: a deal breaker if I really like him. But I
Speaker 9: would try to do other things to make him feel
Speaker 9: like I'm still into him, rather than addressing it directly.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's pretty good advice. I'm giving you the
Speaker 4: male point of view. No, one seems to value it.
Speaker 4: But I think there is a male side to this thing.
Speaker 4: But I think that I think Hannah's probably right.
Speaker 8: How old is this guy again? What's age?
Speaker 3: I don't know specifically, but I think like late twenties.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I just I understand wanting to be upfront about it.
Speaker 5: But I also feel like if I was that age,
Speaker 5: I would not want I would not I would want
Speaker 5: to pretend that this never. I want to bury this
Speaker 5: as far deep into the earth as I could.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, if that's encyclopedia, that's ze me.
Speaker 5: Now as as a thirty five year old man of
Speaker 5: this product, like I would want to talk about with
Speaker 5: anyone who would listen, right right, But but me at
Speaker 5: twenty one, I'd be like, oh no, that didn't happen.
Speaker 8: I actually I pissed my pants. That's why iated myself that.
Speaker 2: Yeah kind of Yeah, I don't know. I don't think
Speaker 2: it's a yeah.
Speaker 4: I think I mean, of the two problems that he
Speaker 4: can have, one is finishing too soon and one is
Speaker 4: not even starting at all. I think this is the
Speaker 4: one to have. You had to pick one.
Speaker 3: This is you know, we're not in a why do
Speaker 3: you have to be between those two.
Speaker 4: You know, this is the main problem of a male
Speaker 4: in bed.
Speaker 2: Male.
Speaker 4: I'd rather have the functioning There is a lot.
Speaker 3: Of functioning male genitalia in the seat, you know.
Speaker 4: Move on.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, is that a deal breaker for you?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm just saying if it like chronically is happening, maybe.
Speaker 1: But it's only happened once. Yeah, correct, correct, I think
Speaker 1: we gotta we're gonna need an update.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'll check in. I know they hung out
Speaker 3: this weekend.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think my ego would I think I'd be like,
Speaker 1: please with myself.
Speaker 2: I would too, like be walking around like topless head.
Speaker 1: And I'd be walk here on my head in the
Speaker 1: air and Tanya at the time the same time, that's topless.
Speaker 3: I could officially say that that has never happened to
Speaker 3: me in my life. Yeah, sadly, probably never will.
Speaker 2: Yeah, dream big Tanya.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right.
Speaker 2: All right, I think we're gonna take a break. Oh
Speaker 2: should we talk about and just like that when we
Speaker 2: come back.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, we're back, and just like that, we're back,
Speaker 1: and just like that, we're back. I didn't watch it,
Speaker 1: I just saw clips of it, but I would love
Speaker 1: to hear y'alls run down because I ain't gonna watch
Speaker 1: it and.
Speaker 3: We get into and just like that. I would like
Speaker 3: to just say that, you know, I have been inundated
Speaker 3: with some dms of Love Island UK fans. I would
Speaker 3: like to chat about it, so.
Speaker 2: Well, watches it, doesn't she?
Speaker 9: I do watch it, but I haven't gotten into this
Speaker 9: new season because I don't like the people opet very respectfully.
Speaker 3: I say, Roddy has like a really big hot take
Speaker 3: on this season that they're all in it for the fame.
Speaker 9: Totally, especially that Molly girl. Really she's a Molly May
Speaker 9: want to be.
Speaker 3: Oh come, I know. I was like, wow, I don't
Speaker 3: feel that way with all of them.
Speaker 4: I love that Hannah's scared of Tanya. Tanya scared of Becky.
Speaker 4: Hannah scared.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, don't piss off.
Speaker 2: I apologize scared Becky.
Speaker 5: Do you remember we did the Friends thing in New York.
Speaker 5: The woman that played she said, Becky Tilly in my
Speaker 5: head every time we do this show.
Speaker 2: And I just couldn't corryt I just was like.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, well that breaks my little heart. I'm
Speaker 3: so into this season. I can't get enough. Every day
Speaker 3: they dropped one episode. I'm like, oh, that's exhausting.
Speaker 1: I don't that's it's Love Island every day.
Speaker 3: An hour every day, every day till August.
Speaker 4: I just feel bad that the people who work on
Speaker 4: that show, the editors and everything, because you know.
Speaker 2: Right, like, seriously, I think a thirty minute episode. I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 2: maybe can sit down for thirty minutes every day and
Speaker 2: commit to this, but an hour is insane to me.
Speaker 3: Like I cannot wait that we're going to go on
Speaker 3: vacation and be gone so that when I come home,
Speaker 3: I'm going to have ten new.
Speaker 4: Episodes on vacation, like you're going closer to the homeland.
Speaker 3: No, because I don't. I don't know, I'm not. I mean, honestly, maybe,
Speaker 3: but definitely not every day for the you know, I
Speaker 3: mean like not every day. Okay, good, So anyways, I'm
Speaker 3: really enjoying it. But I'll just I guess I'll say
Speaker 3: that's from Instagram feed.
Speaker 2: That feels good. That feels like a connection with your
Speaker 2: personal followers.
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, I'll keep it there, Okay, And just
Speaker 3: like that, I only watched the first episode.
Speaker 2: Did you watch the last season?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Oh you did?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Why do we ever? I don't remember you chiming in
Speaker 2: on the combos.
Speaker 3: I don't know about time.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so you chimed in, but there were several weeks behind.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we did.
Speaker 1: The first episode of the second season feel like the
Speaker 1: other episodes of the first season in the sense that
Speaker 1: you love to hate it.
Speaker 8: Uh, I'm watching.
Speaker 5: There are two episodes out as of this record, and
Speaker 5: I've seen them both and I will continue to watch.
Speaker 5: And I'm enjoying making fun of it more than the
Speaker 5: first season because the first season, I was there's a
Speaker 5: lot of real pain there, because I was very disappointed.
Speaker 5: This one, I'm kind of know what I'm anticipating. There
Speaker 5: was a moment in this the first two episodes where
Speaker 5: I felt emotionally touched, which wasn't didn't happen through the
Speaker 5: whole first season.
Speaker 3: There's an opening scene of the first episode to me
Speaker 3: was like classic sex and the City.
Speaker 8: There's a part at the end of the second episode
Speaker 8: that I think you're really going to love.
Speaker 3: And so I really enjoyed it. I was like, Oh,
Speaker 3: it's like they're basically it's just all of them kind
Speaker 3: of like doing their walkouts and they're different, Like, you know,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna have sex outfits.
Speaker 2: That's the scene I saw.
Speaker 3: I loved it. No, I don't know.
Speaker 8: I enjoyed that scene.
Speaker 5: But they also included the new characters, which I've almost
Speaker 5: forgotten about.
Speaker 3: The new characters I just really don't care for. Like
Speaker 3: I just want to see Charlotte, Miranda, and Carrie.
Speaker 2: That's it. I kept going every time there would be
Speaker 2: a new one, I'm like, wait, who's that again?
Speaker 3: Yeah, who's friend is she?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: The first episode it's all about the met Gala, or
Speaker 5: as they call it, the met Ball, which I thought
Speaker 5: was very funny. And Seema is Carrie's realtor friend who
Speaker 5: is in the first season, and she is apparently a
Speaker 5: very big deal because everyone's like, oh my god, Sema,
Speaker 5: who are you taking to the met Ball? Seema's here.
Speaker 5: I'm like, is she like a famous person in New York?
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 8: I thought she was just a realtor.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: The first episode made me really upset it was. I
Speaker 5: found it annoying.
Speaker 3: I've also just seen so much of like Miranda naked
Speaker 3: a lot.
Speaker 8: Of sugar, warning random wears a strap on.
Speaker 5: It's like a full body attachment, Like there's like a
Speaker 5: full like goes over her shoulders yea thing which is fun.
Speaker 5: Chay is annoying as hell. I'm I'm sorry, Chay is
Speaker 5: so annoying. But in the second episode there's a moment
Speaker 5: of vulnerability with Chay that made me.
Speaker 8: Tear up and I really appreciated. I thought it was
Speaker 8: a really sweet moment.
Speaker 5: And the other thing is there's so much really ham
Speaker 5: handed exposition in the first episode. There's like a lot
Speaker 5: of people on the phonequin like, uh, Charlotte, did you
Speaker 5: get my flowers? Well, it's not every day you're selected
Speaker 5: to be the you know, like like just really, I'm like,
Speaker 5: oh my god. I feel like they read it over
Speaker 5: a weekend. It was able to watch.
Speaker 1: I'm equal parts dreading and so excited to watch. I've
Speaker 1: never felt this type of conflict with the TV.
Speaker 3: Was watching it because Robbie had plans and so that's
Speaker 3: like my show that I want to like. I don't
Speaker 3: think he's gonna want to watch it with me. I
Speaker 3: remember he came home and I was like, it was
Speaker 3: the scene where Brianna had the strap on on and
Speaker 3: he was.
Speaker 2: Like, worry what.
Speaker 3: I was like, carry on with myself.
Speaker 8: This isn't much of it.
Speaker 5: This is a spoiler if you haven't watched it, you
Speaker 5: don't want anything be spoiled, skip the next fifteen seconds.
Speaker 5: But there's a lot about Carrie's podcast and she gets
Speaker 5: a commercial for like a vaginal product, and she doesn't
Speaker 5: want to read the copy, which you know we've dealt
Speaker 5: with sometimes doing various podcasts here at I Hurt Radio.
Speaker 5: And it's funny because she refuses to read it, and
Speaker 5: then the entire podcast network closes down.
Speaker 2: Wow, because she didn't want to read it.
Speaker 8: Because she don't read one ad imagine.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I think a lot of the episode is her and
Speaker 5: the producer who she's sleeping with, sitting up in bed
Speaker 5: trying to rewrite copy for it. And there's a nice
Speaker 5: moment where she sits at her old desk and like
Speaker 5: opens up the laptop and it's like, I'm a writer,
Speaker 5: I'm gonna write this. Then she just can't come up
Speaker 5: with anything.
Speaker 2: Wow, So she is going to be on a new path,
Speaker 2: I think.
Speaker 3: So, Yeah, she's in her old apartment.
Speaker 2: No, I meant like, not well with the podcast.
Speaker 5: There's a line where she's because the podcast is called
Speaker 5: Sex and the City, and there's a line where she says,
Speaker 5: you know some names. It's better to not live in
Speaker 5: the past and just let sex and the city go.
Speaker 5: And I was like, that's good advice for me, who's
Speaker 5: dying for.
Speaker 2: We're not ready to let it get it.
Speaker 5: We're in a new universe. I'm here for the ride.
Speaker 5: I'll be watching it every.
Speaker 3: Week theasally want to go back and watch the old ones.
Speaker 8: They're good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's they hold the time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they do stand the test of time.
Speaker 1: I can't wait to watch. Wow, I'm so excited and like,
Speaker 1: can't wait to just be like so cringed. It's exciting.
Speaker 3: I'm still rolling from Hanna's common about Molly.
Speaker 2: Shoot, she's still thinking about it. Do we have time
Speaker 2: for an email?
Speaker 4: Or we we do have time for an email?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 4: Anonymous so os, I think I'm in love with my client.
Speaker 4: I'm a physical therapist in my late twenties and I
Speaker 4: just got out of a four year relationship. He cheated
Speaker 4: on me, But that's another story. Me and one of
Speaker 4: my clients who I've known and been treating for two years,
Speaker 4: have been going through breakups at the same time. And
Speaker 4: now I see him in a new light. As John
Speaker 4: Mayer would say, at this point, he's become a really
Speaker 4: good friend. Do I happen to treat Sometimes he gives
Speaker 4: me signs where I think the feeling might be mutual,
Speaker 4: like inviting me to hang out with him and his friends,
Speaker 4: sometimes one on one, but nothing has been said. All
Speaker 4: I know is I feel that magical feeling and a
Speaker 4: rare connection you don't get with everyone. I had a
Speaker 4: dream that we kissed and they got the v tingles
Speaker 4: in my dream. At the end of the day, he's
Speaker 4: my client. First, I would need to fire him as
Speaker 4: my client for anything to happen for ethical reasons. The
Speaker 4: thing is, I don't want to be the one to
Speaker 4: initiate it, because not only does it pose the possibility
Speaker 4: of ruining the friendship, but also a longtime client. We
Speaker 4: do have plans to go to a concert in two months,
Speaker 4: hoping he makes a move, But it's hard for me
Speaker 4: to sit idly by. Do I say something? Do I
Speaker 4: hope he feels the same things and bring it up?
Speaker 4: Are there any handkerchiefs I could drop? I'm sorry, haven't
Speaker 4: you already crossed the line here? If you're going on
Speaker 4: dates with this guy? Isn't that yeah?
Speaker 3: Or like going to a concerts day? Very daty?
Speaker 4: Now it seems very dat to me.
Speaker 1: But it was a date when't I mean, two months
Speaker 1: is a long time away. I feel like if it
Speaker 1: was a date, I the only hesitation I have is
Speaker 1: that why isn't he asking like, Hey, could we get
Speaker 1: drinks sometimes?
Speaker 2: Or can we go to dinner?
Speaker 1: Like a concert in two months feels very much like
Speaker 1: a friend, like, hey, you enjoy the same music I enjoy.
Speaker 1: Like they're coming to the city in two months.
Speaker 4: It's still a date, isn't it. Hey, who are you
Speaker 4: going to the concert with? Oh? You know my physical therapist.
Speaker 4: That's not a normal thing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would not go to a concert with my
Speaker 3: physical therapist. I don't have one, but I'm imagining what
Speaker 3: that would be like.
Speaker 1: But if you were both single and you had a
Speaker 1: connection with someone that you were just interacting with, like
Speaker 1: weekly or something, and y'all had a connection, you don't think.
Speaker 2: I feel like you would. Yeah it was a man
Speaker 2: if you were single.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've hit on plenty, Like I had a knee
Speaker 3: doctor that I tried to hit on. Yeah, yeah you try,
Speaker 3: I did try. Yeah, yeah, you had a patients. You
Speaker 3: can't do it the other way around. If it's her,
Speaker 3: she's the she's the she's the physical therapist. Different, I think, well.
Speaker 2: Then shouldn't she if it's already weird, whether their friends
Speaker 2: are dating or whatever for her to go to the concert,
Speaker 2: shouldn't she fire him now.
Speaker 1: And just say, hey, I I like hanging out with
Speaker 1: you outside of these sessions, but I can't do it
Speaker 1: like ethically, I have to choose one or the other. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I'm going to set you up with another.
Speaker 3: Pet and I'll take the.
Speaker 2: Bet.
Speaker 3: What's the vagina?
Speaker 2: Nice?
Speaker 4: I think she should fire him because if you have
Speaker 4: these feelings, I think you already are in an ethical quandary. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I think you're already have a quandary.
Speaker 3: What's ever with everybody in the words today?
Speaker 4: So I think I think would be a cool move.
Speaker 4: Is that the concert, you know, or after the concert whatever?
Speaker 4: Sometime that night you say to him, I don't think
Speaker 4: I should be your physical therapist anymore. Why I'm sorry
Speaker 4: you're fired? Well, I don't understand, because I want to
Speaker 4: make out with you right now.
Speaker 3: And just make out.
Speaker 4: Wouldn't that be great? It's like right out of a movie. No,
Speaker 4: Hannah's shocked at whatever.
Speaker 2: Said Hannah's horror fun I don't know.
Speaker 4: That's so wrong coming.
Speaker 2: It's so like, yeah, it's too wrong, camm No, but
Speaker 2: I like it.
Speaker 9: Yeah, to each their own.
Speaker 5: Yeah, if he just really likes here's a physical the
Speaker 5: it's like, oh man, he's like.
Speaker 4: There's no way he's not taking into a concert as
Speaker 4: his buddy. I just it doesn't agree.
Speaker 2: I agree, I agree, I don't. I don't agree.
Speaker 1: I think I think if he made a move, he
Speaker 1: would he would ask for something sooner than two months.
Speaker 2: That's a long time to just like want to go out.
Speaker 4: I'm also going to the hanging out with buddies. They're
Speaker 4: hanging out one on one. This is already happening.
Speaker 3: You just got to fire them.
Speaker 4: I think he feels like he can't make the first
Speaker 4: move because she's in the power position here.
Speaker 2: Well, she can't make the first move. So I think
Speaker 2: that's what she's asking.
Speaker 4: Fire him and then make the first move.
Speaker 1: Okay, So like the only option that she gets the
Speaker 1: answer she needs is to fire him and then she'll
Speaker 1: have her answer.
Speaker 3: I think so if not, then she's out of have
Speaker 3: her many bucks in the week, and that's suck.
Speaker 4: She'll find another client.
Speaker 2: I'm not worried about her finding another client. I'm worried
Speaker 2: about her.
Speaker 1: Having a connection with someone as a friend at least.
Speaker 1: But I guess she doesn't want to be friends with him, right.
Speaker 3: Oh, I just want to be friends.
Speaker 2: I think you fire him?
Speaker 4: Are you not a fan of romance?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: I am.
Speaker 9: I think when it doesn't have to do with me.
Speaker 2: She likes watching it on TV.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I like reading romance books and watching brom comms.
Speaker 9: But the second I have to like envision myself in
Speaker 9: it or happens to me, I want to cry.
Speaker 5: Really yeah, so putting herself in that scenario made you Yeah.
Speaker 9: Smart was explaining this. I was just like melting in
Speaker 9: a bad.
Speaker 4: Way, in a bad way. See, I would think melting
Speaker 4: in a good way.
Speaker 9: Okay, I was crumbling to the ground.
Speaker 4: Okay, But I think read romance novels and they watch
Speaker 4: romantic movies. Don't we all put ourselves in this?
Speaker 3: It's yes, Hannah, there you go.
Speaker 9: It's really unrealistic, which is why.
Speaker 3: Rom coms and these fairy tales that we put in
Speaker 3: our heads screw.
Speaker 2: Us up as adults.
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, why my guard. So far, I have gone
Speaker 3: many therapy sessions through this.
Speaker 2: Bingo.
Speaker 3: I have been triggered.
Speaker 4: I don't think that there. I don't think they're that
Speaker 4: unrealistic because I think you can pull it off if
Speaker 4: you really want to.
Speaker 3: Put the Yeah, I mean that one was like not
Speaker 3: just that, I mean just.
Speaker 4: In general romantic comedies. I feel like it's it's more
Speaker 4: of a guide post, like you can do this stuff.
Speaker 4: If you really feel that way and really want to
Speaker 4: pull it off, you can do something amazing.
Speaker 1: I feel I feel like my story is kind of
Speaker 1: a rom calm me trying to set her up with
Speaker 1: my sister.
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, but like the day and day out of
Speaker 3: your relationship is very there's like real stuff in there,
Speaker 3: of course.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I have the moments of those cutem call
Speaker 1: me moments.
Speaker 3: Sure, everybody does.
Speaker 2: You write letters every morning, I.
Speaker 3: Know, but there's a lot Like I think that I
Speaker 3: was so in this headspace of like love is a
Speaker 3: rom com. Like there's never issues, there's never fighting, there's
Speaker 3: never you know what I mean. So like when we
Speaker 3: started having any of that stuff, I was like, what
Speaker 3: is this?
Speaker 1: I know, but I don't think the first moment of
Speaker 1: like romance and falling in love is initial conflict.
Speaker 2: That's always that is a hopeful.
Speaker 1: Time, right, Yeah, but it doesn't. It's not saying that
Speaker 1: like forever is going to be like, but that's.
Speaker 4: Where those moments can happen, the beginning of the stuff,
Speaker 4: the declaration of feelings for the first time. It can
Speaker 4: be pretty spectacular.
Speaker 1: Anonymous canby fire him, make them you've dropped the handkerchief
Speaker 1: and just be excited and embrace the excitement of knowing
Speaker 1: that you can feel those things for someone, even if
Speaker 1: it doesn't work out the wrong calm way.
Speaker 4: One more. This is a quickie. It's actually answer no question, Eileen.
Speaker 4: I've been so intrigued lately by your conversations about long
Speaker 4: distance relationships. My husband and I have been in some
Speaker 4: form of long distance relationship from the time we started
Speaker 4: eating until now six years of marriage. It's a total
Speaker 4: of almost twelve years. At this point. He's a pro
Speaker 4: baseball player, so his schedule is wild and constantly on
Speaker 4: the go. I've always been along for the ride. I
Speaker 4: would truly consider myself an expert in long distance relationships,
Speaker 4: not by choice, and you would be shocked the sacrifices
Speaker 4: you're willing to make when your person is following their dreams.
Speaker 4: Do you think this is sustainable.
Speaker 2: To make it work?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean they've been together twelve I would say, yeah, absolutely,
Speaker 1: you're along for the I think that's the mentality though,
Speaker 1: Like I'm along for the ride. I'm supporting my partner's
Speaker 1: dreams in this season of life. And it's like complicated
Speaker 1: and maybe not perfect, but they're I mean, I think
Speaker 1: any relationship is like a choice that you're dating that person.
Speaker 1: Like I started dating Haley knowing that she was an artist.
Speaker 1: There was no like, even though sometimes I struggle with
Speaker 1: like the distance, sometimes there was no shock that was
Speaker 1: thrown at me like oh she tours or she you know,
Speaker 1: does music videos with other whatever. It was like, it
Speaker 1: wasn't like this was sprung on me. So like it's
Speaker 1: a choice that I'm dating someone who is in that lifestyle.
Speaker 1: Same with like an athlete. It's like that choice you make.
Speaker 1: But it's also knowing that if your needs change, there's
Speaker 1: worth having conversation because you're even though you're along for
Speaker 1: the ride, you deserve to have your needs met too.
Speaker 1: It's not like like he's got to meet you some
Speaker 1: in some capacity.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I just think every every shoe has its foot,
Speaker 3: you know, Like this would not work for me personally.
Speaker 3: I could not handle it, but like you can you
Speaker 3: know what I mean?
Speaker 4: Yeah, everything is sustainable. Yeah, people in open relationships that
Speaker 4: are happiest can be and it's sustainable. People in thropples.
Speaker 4: You know, it's a shoe for every foot, exactly.
Speaker 3: Right, beautifully sock for every toe.
Speaker 4: If there's love, if there's trust, it's all sustainable. And
Speaker 4: you should DM me because I want to know who
Speaker 4: your husband is because I'm a big baseball fan.
Speaker 1: But also you should be so like, it's so commendable
Speaker 1: that you're you've done it for twelve years and that
Speaker 1: you have figured it out.
Speaker 2: That's a great thing.
Speaker 1: We did talk about the Taylor Swift addressing the John
Speaker 1: Mayer hate and her concert.
Speaker 3: We'll have to do it next week. Can we come back?
Speaker 4: That's to come.
Speaker 1: I'm just like it was just so funny because the
Speaker 1: comments even after when she told like did her speech,
Speaker 1: the comments on his page, they were like, mother scolded
Speaker 1: us because of it, because we are.
Speaker 2: Being mean to you. They're so funny.
Speaker 1: The comments on social media are social media and some
Speaker 1: of the worst part, but sometimes I'm like.
Speaker 3: People are so hilarious, so funny.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she basically was like, hey, I wrote this, I'm
Speaker 1: re releasing this album because I want to own my music.
Speaker 1: It's not because I'm still thinking about what happened to
Speaker 1: me nineteen years when I was nineteen years old.
Speaker 3: So like, but I can guarantee that there's going to
Speaker 3: be a song on there in the vault about John Mayer,
Speaker 3: well as I.
Speaker 2: Speculator could have what it should have is about. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 2: sure they were like that wasn't That wasn't when you
Speaker 2: were nineteen years old. That was recent.
Speaker 3: No, See, people don't understand Midnight's the album was an
Speaker 3: accumulation of all the nights in her life that kept
Speaker 3: her up until midnight. So I think could have, would
Speaker 3: have should have was from the John Mayer era, right.
Speaker 2: But she's not feeling that feelings right anyways?
Speaker 8: Did you really quick? Did you guys see that TikTok?
Speaker 5: A bunch of scrubbers were at a wedding and yes,
Speaker 5: and Hillary Crystal was filming it and Hillary comes in
Speaker 5: because Taylor played dear John is the she came in
Speaker 5: like what's his name? Paul Revere, like the British coming.
Speaker 5: It was like middle of waiting receptions, Unstu Danceler.
Speaker 2: It's so funny.
Speaker 1: Went viral it's nicky Crystal Crystal then yeah, Hillary.
Speaker 2: And it is so funny in the comments on So
Speaker 2: Good Cosmic.
Speaker 8: Paulton did an article about it.
Speaker 1: It's yeah, proud, I know, proud of our scrubbers.
Speaker 2: As I did an interview with Lauren Spencer Smith that's
Speaker 2: coming out this Thursday. Tanya wasn't here, but it was
Speaker 2: such a fun interview and she is so cute and
Speaker 2: sweet and so talented and I can't wait for y'all
Speaker 2: to hear it.
Speaker 1: But that will be Thursday's episode, so I can't wait
Speaker 1: for y'all to listen.
Speaker 2: And I hope you have a wonderful week, and we
Speaker 2: love you so much.
Speaker 3: Love you Bye.