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Speaker 1: It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we cover

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Speaker 1: dating a lot on this show. One of the most

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Speaker 1: common awkward moments that comes up is when you're out

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Speaker 1: at a restaurant and they bring you the bill. Who pays?

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Speaker 1: Is the guy expected to pay? Is it rude to

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Speaker 1: ask to split the bill? Should you tell the waiter

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Speaker 1: that your fettiwop's cousin Sweatywop. In every restaurant that you

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Speaker 1: go to, you get your meals comps, so they should

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Speaker 1: give this one to you for free. There's a lot

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Speaker 1: of theories out there about how this should work, but

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Speaker 1: one that we haven't discussed before came up on a

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Speaker 1: dating blog recently. The post went viral and it sparked

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Speaker 1: a huge online debate. So we thought this might actually

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Speaker 1: be a good discussion for one of our segments called

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Speaker 1: am I the Jerky, and so we reached out to

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Speaker 1: one of the people involved and they agreed to be

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Speaker 1: on the show with us. If you haven't heard am

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Speaker 1: I the Jerk before, it's pretty simple. You tell us

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Speaker 1: about an argument or a weird situation you found yourself

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Speaker 1: in and how you handled it. Then we'll discuss and

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Speaker 1: not only give our opinion, but we'll also ask the

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Speaker 1: listeners to text in to seventy eight five nine two

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Speaker 1: and tell us what they think if you're in the

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Speaker 1: right or if you were the jerk. So who needs

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Speaker 1: our help today? His name is Marshall. Welcome to the show. Marshall,

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Speaker 1: you jerky?

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 3: You can't judge already.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm already guilty.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for agreeing to be on with us. Why

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Speaker 1: don't you tell us about the situation that you find

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Speaker 1: yourself in.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I've been dating this woman for about two months.

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Speaker 2: She's amazing. She's beautiful, smart, funny, like literally all the

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Speaker 2: things I've ever been looking for in a forever partner.

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Speaker 4: Sounds like she should.

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Speaker 2: Pay well you hear me out? This is crazy. The

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Speaker 2: other week we took our first romantic getaway together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, we did a.

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Speaker 2: Weekend road trip. Went about three hours to a luxury campground.

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Speaker 2: I'd never stated you're.

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Speaker 5: Glamping, and that is that's not campground, that's glamping. Will

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Speaker 5: you show up and there's like a canvas tent and

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Speaker 5: there's a bed inside of it and then everything is

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Speaker 5: set up for Instagram? Right?

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Speaker 3: You can get a good picture everywhere.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that sounds fun.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they had a.

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Speaker 2: Couple of restaurants there. We had a really good time.

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Speaker 2: But then after we got back, this is big problem

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Speaker 2: because the trip wasn't exactly cheap.

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Speaker 5: No, those places are so expensive. Those Philampiane places are

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Speaker 5: often more expensive than a hotel.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it was. You know, we put all

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Speaker 2: the charges on my credit card to make it easy.

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Speaker 2: So afterwards I sent her a Venmo request for half

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Speaker 2: of the trip. Okay, So after I sent it, she

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Speaker 2: asked me what's this and I explained it and that

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Speaker 2: it was her half from the trip and the show

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Speaker 2: or that I'm you know, not being weird. I sent

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Speaker 3: Okay, that made it weird.

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Speaker 2: Well, I didn't include gas, bear, I didn't include tips,

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Speaker 2: So I wasn't like being like a complete jerk about it.

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Speaker 2: So her half was you know, four hundred and sixty

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Speaker 2: six dollars okay. Yeah. So a little while later, my

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Speaker 2: friend sent me a link and I couldn't believe it,

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Speaker 2: like she had actually complained online and so many people

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Speaker 2: that I was killing the good botch from the vacation.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 2: I think she said it was a major red flag.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, what wait wait.

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Speaker 5: Wait, wait oh, So when you say online, are you

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Speaker 5: saying that that was the dating blog thing that Jeffrey

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Speaker 3: Like she wrote into a dating.

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Speaker 1: Blog that was the one that we found that a

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Speaker 1: woman had posted that some guy had made her pay

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Speaker 1: for half of their trip together.

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Speaker 5: Are you on this radio show to get revenge and

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Speaker 2: No, not at all, you jess. He's the one who

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well there was a lot of discussion online because I

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Speaker 5: Really, I mean, I think it's interesting that you guys

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Speaker 5: didn't talk about it before a big trip, Like there

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Speaker 3: There was no discussion about who is paying for it.

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Speaker 2: No, And you know that's kind of my fault because

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Speaker 2: I kind of shied away from it. I don't like

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Speaker 3: You just like sending passive aggressive requests instead.

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Speaker 1: But no kind of kill the romance of a trip.

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Speaker 1: In my mind, if before you even leave. You're like,

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Speaker 1: by the way, you're good for six hundred, right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: but then.

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Speaker 3: You prevent this, which is more of a romance killer.

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Speaker 5: Right, Like, this issue right now is a bigger killer

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Speaker 5: than the discussion.

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Speaker 3: It wouldn't have to be an issue.

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Speaker 6: He just paid.

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Speaker 4: I was gonna say, look, I've never made a girl

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Speaker 4: girl I've ever dated.

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Speaker 1: But I've advertising right now to all the women out there.

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Speaker 4: I have never had a healthy relationship that doesn't work necessarily.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Anyway, here's a question who initiated the trip, Whose

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Speaker 3: Who did all of the planning?

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Speaker 2: Well, it was my idea to go on the trip.

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Speaker 2: She chose the place and chose like the restaurant and everything.

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Speaker 1: Okay, she chose the fancy camping ground.

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Speaker 5: So it was a split You would say that the

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Speaker 5: labor of making it happen was a split effort, flavor.

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Speaker 3: It takes all the work.

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Speaker 5: You got to plan what you're you know, where you're staying,

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Speaker 5: what kind of restaurants there are, Like, it's not just easy.

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Speaker 1: That's what twenty percent fee that you have got on there.

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Speaker 5: I just think that it matters because if you're the

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Speaker 5: one that plans everything and it's a surprise weekend, right,

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Speaker 5: then that bill is on you. But if you were

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Speaker 5: going into it with an agreeance that you're doing this together,

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Speaker 5: then why wouldn't you split it?

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Speaker 2: I think I assumed that it was that we were

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Speaker 2: this is how we're.

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Speaker 1: Going to do it, assuming alexis what do you think

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Speaker 1: who's the jerk? Is the guy the jerk for asking

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Speaker 3: Listen to what you're saying to me, Jeff, of course

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Speaker 3: I think the guy is the jerk. Why would you think?

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Speaker 3: I mean, he's the guy. That's his role. He has

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Speaker 3: one job.

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Speaker 5: Pay for the girl, take her on nice dates. Okay,

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Speaker 5: that was traditional back when women didn't work. Yes, it

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Speaker 5: made sense back then that men would pay because we

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Speaker 5: didn't have jobs like yes, exactly, because there was no

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Speaker 3: This is a different world.

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Speaker 1: Okay, again Brooke being angry whenever guys do nice things.

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Speaker 5: Angry, I'm actually siding with him. I think that if

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Speaker 5: you want to be an independent woman, then you got

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Speaker 5: to pay your share.

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Speaker 1: Let's how about we asked the listeners to weigh in

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Speaker 1: on this. Okay, text into seven eighty five nine two

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Speaker 1: tell us, who do you think is the jerk in

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Speaker 1: this situation? Do you think Marshall is a jerk for

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Speaker 1: sending his girl that he's dating a bill basically asking

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Speaker 3: Oh my god?

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Speaker 1: Or is she the jerk for not wanting to pay

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Speaker 3: Both of them are so passive aggressive.

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Speaker 1: You're saying this, there could be two jerks for the

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Speaker 1: first time ever. I know.

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying that.

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Speaker 5: I'm just saying that maybe communication could be improved in

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Speaker 4: Tell him I said.

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Speaker 1: All right, well, we'll play a song, we'll come back

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Speaker 1: and we'll decide once and for all who is the jerk?

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Speaker 2: Oh man, I can't wait to hear what they have

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Speaker 2: to say.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god. We're already getting text messages in about this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of passionate responses. We'll tell you the

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Speaker 1: text and tell you who's the jerk right after this.

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Speaker 1: If you're just joining us we're in the middle of

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Speaker 1: doing Am I the jerk trying to help out one

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Speaker 1: of our I don't know if he's a listener, but

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Speaker 5: Out to, somebody we duped into being on the show

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Speaker 1: His name is Marshall, and Marshall recently went on a

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Speaker 1: trip with a girl that he's been dating for about

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Speaker 1: two months now. It was their first romance to get away,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she owed like four hundred and dollars.

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Speaker 1: And afterwards, this girl went online and made an angry

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Speaker 1: him asking if he would be willing to come on

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Speaker 1: the show and talk about it and find out once

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Speaker 1: and for all if he's the jerk. Now, Marshall, after

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Speaker 1: it's all said and done, what do you think Do

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Speaker 1: you think that you're a jerk?

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Speaker 4: Here?

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Speaker 2: No, not at all.

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Speaker 5: You know, I was even thinking about this and she

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Speaker 5: called it a red flag that you didn't pay. I

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Speaker 5: think it's a red flag that she didn't even offer

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Speaker 5: to split it with you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 5: I do, I really do. I think it's a sign

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Speaker 5: that it's not an equal partnership. You need an equal

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Speaker 5: partnership to make things work.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if all the women out there would

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Speaker 1: necessarily agree with you, Brooke. I feel like more more

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Speaker 1: ladies might be on board with Alexis, who thinks that

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Speaker 1: guys should be willing to pay a little bit more.

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Speaker 4: I mean, if he would have brought it up before.

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Speaker 4: But if you don't talk about it, I'm traditional, but

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Speaker 4: I think it's always assumed the guy's going to pay,

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Speaker 4: unless the conversation happened.

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Speaker 3: But they planned it together.

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Speaker 4: But don't matter. Oh that's perfect. You want this room as.

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Speaker 5: Still business woman saving her own money having him pay.

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Speaker 4: All right, Well, he should like her even more.

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Speaker 1: We asked our listeners to text in, and we've actually

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Speaker 1: had a few people call in. Right now, Marshall is

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Speaker 1: willing to talk to some of our listeners and see

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Speaker 1: what they think. Yeah, okay, let's go to Jill. Jill,

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Speaker 1: what do you think who's the jerk? Here? Is Marshall

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Speaker 1: the jerk?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Marshall, you were totally the dirk?

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Speaker 3: Well why do why?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: If you wanted to split the cost. You have that

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Speaker 2: talk before the trip, maybe even like during the trip,

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Speaker 2: but you do not have to talk after the trip

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Speaker 2: has happened. I mean, I thought it was just I

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Speaker 2: thought it was just already you know, assumed that we

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Speaker 2: about talk kind of bringing it up. Yeah, it's just

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Speaker 2: too transactional to send like a venmo.

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Speaker 6: I mean, there's just nothing sexy about that.

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Speaker 5: I will say, even though I'm on Marshall's side, the

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Speaker 5: way that you asked for the money is a little sketch.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what if you asked for the money in a

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Speaker 1: bed of rose pedals? Now there's some romance, a singing

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Speaker 1: telegram perhaps, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: That's even creepier.

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Speaker 3: Oh sorry, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: I think Jill's on board with men should just pay

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Speaker 1: for everything. It sounds like, how about we talked to

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Speaker 1: another female, Mandy. What do you think is Marshall the jerk?

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Speaker 6: Marshall, you are so not the jerk. Yes, all right,

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Speaker 6: honestly you are a super rare find. And I just

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Speaker 6: have to say, like my ex boyfriend, he would make

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Speaker 6: me pay for the whole trip because it was my Yeah.

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Speaker 3: That's funny.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's funny.

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Speaker 6: To make you laugh a little more. He would be like,

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Speaker 6: give me a thousand bucks up front.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I think he was just stealing from.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: Also, in my defense, I do pay for half of

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Speaker 2: me go to dinners and stuff. This was just like

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Speaker 2: a really gigantic bill.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, honestly, you would pay.

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Speaker 6: You sound really super cute. And I left my number

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Speaker 6: with the producer.

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Speaker 3: We're getting you options, Mandy.

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Speaker 1: All Right, well let's get a guy's opinion on this.

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Speaker 1: We have Brian on the phone. Brian, what do you

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Speaker 1: think is Marshall the jerk?

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Speaker 5: Hey?

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Speaker 2: Man, I thank you're the man.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, thanks man, I appreciate that. But I'm asking

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Speaker 2: What do you think about mar Well, yeah, that's all

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Speaker 2: I'm yeah, that's all I'm talking about.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, why why do you say that?

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Speaker 6: He's definitely not a jerk. I think like dudes are

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Speaker 2: I think it's cool sometimes, but not every time. It

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Speaker 2: should be an expectation, and like, there's so many chicks

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Speaker 2: I got an invoice right now that I've gone out

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Speaker 2: on dates with.

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Speaker 1: Bro.

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Speaker 2: He's totally not a jerk at all.

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Speaker 3: After this, so many Venmo requests are going out.

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Speaker 1: Brian sending invoices back to girls from middle school. I

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Speaker 1: remember that snickers I bought from you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I andvoicing is trending.

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's the thing, right, Marshall. Your girlfriend has

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Speaker 3: a job, Yes he does.

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Speaker 2: He makes more money than I do. And the only

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Speaker 2: reason I'm bringing that up is that you know, I

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Speaker 2: don't expect her to pay more than her half. But

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Speaker 2: it was just an expensive trip.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, that's how relationship should be. You should

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Speaker 5: just do a percentage of whatever you make, right, So like, okays?

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Speaker 2: No, yeah, I mean all joking aside, I didn't I

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Speaker 2: wasn't a jerk. I didn't ask her to just give

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Speaker 2: me like a lump sum of money, and I didn't

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Speaker 2: like overcharge or anything. I mean, the invoice was all

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Speaker 2: there so I could show exactly what you know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't know if that makes.

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Speaker 5: It better, but yeah, I mean I think I think

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Speaker 5: it comes down to poor communication is what it really

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Speaker 5: comes down to. You guys aren't communicating what your needs

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Speaker 5: and expectations are in your relationship.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fair.

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Speaker 3: That boring? Was that a boring?

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Speaker 1: She's Yeah, we just lost all of our listeners under

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Speaker 1: age twenty five.

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Speaker 3: Good work, but I doubt I don't know what you said.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's let's get the final tally here. Our producer

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Speaker 1: has been looking at all the texts and the final results.

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Speaker 3: I feel like we need a drum roll or something

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Speaker 3: is too dramatics.

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Speaker 1: Do a drum roll, radio, guys, we can't afford the

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Speaker 1: drum roll. Okay, actually this is different than what it

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Speaker 1: says online, Marshall. Fifty three percent of our listeners say

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Speaker 1: you're not the jerky Yeah, say you are.

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's maybe because hearing your voice, you sound much

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Speaker 2: Maybe maybe that's it.

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Speaker 3: What are you gonna do, Marshall? Are you gonna like

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Speaker 3: hold her to her end of.

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Speaker 2: The deal or well, let she'll ever talk to me again. Oh,

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Speaker 2: she hasn't gotten back to me, so just play for her.

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Speaker 5: I think that you guys need to chalk this one

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Speaker 5: re establish the boundaries together.

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Speaker 3: And you're not getting that money, I would say find

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Speaker 3: a compromise.

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Speaker 4: Just say, look, give me like one hundred dollars just

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Speaker 4: for the point. Okay, I'm trying to make a point.

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Speaker 1: You're bargain the amount.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if it's a negotiating tool.

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Speaker 1: We definitely keep us updated, Marshall, email us and let

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Speaker 1: us know how this works out. And at this point,

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Speaker 1: I do need to let you know that we will

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Speaker 1: be charging you for being on with us. There are

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Speaker 1: talent fees and Brooks is definitely the highest. So look

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Speaker 1: for an invoice and thank you for being on with us.

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Speaker 1: It's broken.

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the morning brook and Jeffrey in the Morning