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Speaker 2: Trevor is on the phone today for our first Day
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Ella.
Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she'll
Speaker 2: just tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get
Speaker 2: him a second date. But first, Trevor, how long has
Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Ella.
Speaker 3: It's been a couple of months actually, whoa, whoa?
Speaker 1: And you still want to get a hold of her.
Speaker 4: I can't stop thinking about her.
Speaker 3: What do you guys want to want?
Speaker 1: You know, you know the heart wants what it wants. Well,
Speaker 1: tell us about your day with Ella.
Speaker 4: Look, I'll keep it real simple.
Speaker 5: You know, we were kind of just being text the
Speaker 5: and flirty and stops and she invites me over to
Speaker 5: this like game night kind of situation with their friends, right,
Speaker 5: And it was super cozy. There were candles with naxt
Speaker 5: now you know, everyone was in sweats.
Speaker 3: It something really nice.
Speaker 4: I really enjoyed it, and.
Speaker 5: You know, I thought I was a gentleman. I brought
Speaker 5: out a bottle of wine and my kind of like
Speaker 5: funny but chill kind of energy. You guys know, all
Speaker 5: that goes right much?
Speaker 4: Yeah, like her, her friends are super nice to me,
Speaker 4: except this one guy who kept winning everything like he
Speaker 4: was born inside of a deck of Luna cards.
Speaker 3: But that's mid heads up.
Speaker 4: I accidentally blurted out one of the answers that I
Speaker 4: wasn't supposed to to.
Speaker 5: Stay like, total rookie, move right, everyone's boode laughed at off.
Speaker 3: Okay, chill, But I could tell Ella looked like, how.
Speaker 4: Can I say, like mildly disappointed, Like I broke some
Speaker 4: I don't know, some sacred board game code.
Speaker 3: I accidentally did it twice. I'm so stupid, But.
Speaker 1: What happened. She's probably feeling like the guy I brought
Speaker 1: to game night is the one that's going to ruin
Speaker 1: game now.
Speaker 5: I know, But listen, none of us are getting out
Speaker 5: of this thing alive anyways.
Speaker 3: You know, have a laugh and move on. I don't
Speaker 3: really that Like I felt fine.
Speaker 5: And felt chill, you know, getting back to laughing, sitting close,
Speaker 5: we're all cozy.
Speaker 4: You know, her knee was touching mind and all that,
Speaker 4: and I left.
Speaker 3: Thinking sweet game night boyfriend material. You got what I'm saying?
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like that's the part well, listen, that's the.
Speaker 3: Part I'm confused about.
Speaker 4: Like, after that done, the radio silence, nothing, I texted
Speaker 4: her the next morning, nothing, And I truthfully, I still
Speaker 4: can't figure out what it is, Like did I embarrass her?
Speaker 4: But what the hell happened with? Do her friend not
Speaker 4: like me?
Speaker 3: I don't. I just don't get it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that does feel weird.
Speaker 4: So yeah, and I thought, Okay, you know, she just
Speaker 4: didn't work out. It's not meant to be. So hopefully
Speaker 4: I thought I would have moved on from it, but
Speaker 4: I just can't. I'm still thinking about it.
Speaker 1: And I feel over a month and you're still thinking
Speaker 1: about it. Yeah, I mean, whenever she was giving you
Speaker 1: radio silence, So did you think about like, oh, let
Speaker 1: me just try texting like hey, what's up?
Speaker 3: Well? I did, but that's what I'm saying. She didn't
Speaker 3: respond to me like she she ghosted me.
Speaker 2: Okay, So do you think it's you blurting out the
Speaker 2: thing at the board game that's the reason she's ghosting you.
Speaker 5: I mean, I think that's a dumb reason to go somewhere,
Speaker 5: But sure, that's the situation I have that came to
Speaker 5: mind that could be a reason.
Speaker 1: Do they take games really serious, Like was that did
Speaker 1: it feel like high competitive level?
Speaker 4: Not even because like her friends were laughing, it was
Speaker 4: just her. She just looked bugged out of nowhere. And
Speaker 4: then I want yes, I guess it would, but that's weird.
Speaker 1: All right, Well we'll see what it is. Well, play us.
Speaker 2: I'll come back and then call her and see if
Speaker 2: she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get
Speaker 2: you a second date.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right, look, we'll get your first
Speaker 1: day follow up next.
Speaker 4: Fight.
Speaker 2: The middle of your first day follow up if you're
Speaker 2: just joining us, Trevor is on the phone and he's
Speaker 2: getting ghosted by Ella. So in a second, we're gonna
Speaker 2: call her and see if to tell us why she's
Speaker 2: ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. But
Speaker 2: before we do that, Trevor, why don't you refresh our
Speaker 2: memory about your date real quick?
Speaker 3: Yeah, pretty much. I'll keep it real simple.
Speaker 5: I went out on this date with this girl called
Speaker 5: that I really liked her. I went out of her house.
Speaker 5: I went to her house. We had a nice little
Speaker 5: game night with her friends, cozy the snacks and stuff,
Speaker 5: and I kind of maybe up I've blerted out a
Speaker 5: couple of answers. I shouldn't have blurted out and maybe
Speaker 5: spoiled half of the game, but hey, everybody else would laughing.
Speaker 4: She's the only one who seemed bothered by it, and
Speaker 4: that's it.
Speaker 5: I texted her the next morning. I haven't heard from her,
Speaker 5: gos it and I want to really try to reach.
Speaker 1: Out to her that it has been over a month.
Speaker 1: All right, you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 3: Go for it?
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak to Ella. Please?
Speaker 3: This is she?
Speaker 1: Hey Ella, how are you? This is a radio show.
Speaker 1: It's called the Jubil Show. Hi, Ella, I'm Nina. Hi,
Speaker 1: I'm Victoria, and my name is what's up?
Speaker 3: Hi? I'm good? This is cool. What's going on?
Speaker 4: You?
Speaker 1: Listen to the show?
Speaker 6: I do?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 1: Sweet? Thank you? Have you ever heard a first day
Speaker 1: follow up before?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 2: Grat How excited would you be to know if I
Speaker 2: was calling you because of that?
Speaker 3: I I want to be a little.
Speaker 6: You know.
Speaker 2: That's the second where if you go on a date
Speaker 2: with somebody and end up ghosting them, they can email
Speaker 2: us to get you on the phone and ask why
Speaker 2: you're ghosting them.
Speaker 1: But we got an email about you, Ella. You want
Speaker 1: to take a guess.
Speaker 6: Oh, okay, I don't know that I ghosted anyone recently.
Speaker 1: I mean, you got on a date with anybody and
Speaker 1: just like didn't talk to him again.
Speaker 3: I mean, yes, I've definitely done that.
Speaker 6: But the last day I went on was Josh.
Speaker 3: But I don't think that. I think that was like
Speaker 3: a mutual.
Speaker 2: Ghost okay, ghost at each other. It's not Josh. And
Speaker 2: it has been a while since this date, back to
Speaker 2: like over a month ago.
Speaker 3: A month ago game night. Oh my gosh, this is where.
Speaker 2: Yes, Trevor emailed us told us all about your dates,
Speaker 2: that he really liked you. He's been thinking about you
Speaker 2: for over a month, and you ghosted him and he
Speaker 2: wants to know. Why would you mind telling us?
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, it's fair.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, yeah, I will tell you about it.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 6: It was really weird. Honestly. We were at this game night, right,
Speaker 6: it's my friend's house, and he keeps referring to my
Speaker 6: friend's dog and he's like, hey, little dude. He says
Speaker 6: it like fifty times, little dude. It's not a dog.
Speaker 1: What is that?
Speaker 3: It's a ferret.
Speaker 1: These are so.
Speaker 6: Cute, I know, they are so cute. But they're very
Speaker 6: different than dogs, and he was it like a dog.
Speaker 6: He was like petting it and saying, oh, what a
Speaker 6: cute little puppy.
Speaker 1: He thought that fare it was a dog, Yes, did
Speaker 1: you correct?
Speaker 6: I don't know that it necessarily was like, it's a ferret.
Speaker 6: I feel like it was like self explain.
Speaker 3: It's so it's one thing to like, oh he's calling
Speaker 3: the fair to dog hahaha.
Speaker 6: But he was trying to feed it, and fairts have
Speaker 6: really sensitive tummies.
Speaker 3: And I felt like I was being like really.
Speaker 6: Clear, like hey, don't feed it, and he just kept
Speaker 6: coming back to like he's just a cute little dude.
Speaker 3: He needs to eat.
Speaker 6: Like it was so odd, Tod like why was he
Speaker 6: doing this? Puppy boys all nights like one thing like
Speaker 6: when you first see the animal, but all night and
Speaker 6: like my friends are watching the whole thing, and oh
Speaker 6: it was just so embarrassing.
Speaker 1: Okay, so the ferret that he thought was a dog
Speaker 1: is the reason that he goes to him.
Speaker 6: Yes. My friend even pulled me aside and was like, hey,
Speaker 6: can you get this guy to stop?
Speaker 4: And I asked him and he was just he shokey, Yeah.
Speaker 6: Puts me in an awkward position, and so I was like,
Speaker 6: I don't want to go out with someone who doesn't
Speaker 6: have any social cues honestly can't recognize a ferret from
Speaker 6: a dog.
Speaker 1: All right, well, thank you for telling us what you're
Speaker 1: ghosting him?
Speaker 3: Yeah of course.
Speaker 2: Well I don't know if you forgot or not, but
Speaker 2: Trevor is on the phone listening and wants to talk
Speaker 2: to you.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I define okay, Ella, Yeah, that is absolutely ridiculous.
Speaker 3: It has spur I could I thought it was a dog.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm sorry.
Speaker 6: It was a fair. It's like a pool noodle with teeth.
Speaker 4: I don't understand.
Speaker 3: And so you just don't want to see me anymore
Speaker 3: because of that. I mean, look, I wasn't enjoying my time.
Speaker 3: If it bothered you so much, why didn't you just
Speaker 3: tell me that it was a fairy. I just assumed
Speaker 3: you wouldn't know.
Speaker 6: I didn't want to make you feel stupid.
Speaker 3: Well you're making me feel stupid now. Well I'm the
Speaker 3: one who called into a radio show about a dog's ferret.
Speaker 3: I called about you because I missed you. I have
Speaker 3: had a good time with it.
Speaker 4: I want to see you again.
Speaker 3: Carol.
Speaker 6: We lent on one date.
Speaker 5: And we can go on a second date if you
Speaker 5: get over this whole dog farre thing.
Speaker 3: Look, I can work on it.
Speaker 5: It takes a second for me to go to a
Speaker 5: dog park and work on my dog's.
Speaker 3: Body and capabilities.
Speaker 6: But you're gonna bring flashcards to the dog park.
Speaker 4: If that's what it takes to get a second l
Speaker 4: a date. I'm in.
Speaker 6: That's very sweet. But why would I want to go
Speaker 6: out with someone who doesn't know what a dog and
Speaker 6: a fair it is?
Speaker 5: Well, because he knows now, like less than learned, it's
Speaker 5: not going to happen again.
Speaker 3: Ferrits are ferrets. Dogs are dogs. Like I get it now, Trevor.
Speaker 6: I don't want to have to be your teacher. You
Speaker 6: should have learned that in the fifth grade.
Speaker 5: Well you're my teacher anyways, because you're teaching me now
Speaker 5: and I learned better late than never, Right, Trevor, You're hot,
Speaker 5: but maybe a little more life exper before you can
Speaker 5: try to bond with another specie.
Speaker 1: Hella, would you like another day? Whichever? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 3: Not yet, Ella, Ella.
Speaker 5: They just offered a free date. If you don't want
Speaker 5: to go, I'll go off with the ferret but I
Speaker 5: need that. I want a free date.
Speaker 6: Let's say you only want it because of tree.
Speaker 5: No, I don't want it because it's free. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 5: of course that's too, but it's because it's with you.
Speaker 1: Man.
Speaker 3: You guys are between you and your ferret.
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 3: It's kind of hard to please you guys. And why
Speaker 3: am I liking it? Why am I turned on? Right now? Ella?
Speaker 4: Did you see what you just did?
Speaker 3: You just cracked the laugh People don't like people don't
Speaker 3: do that. I don't laugh when I don't like someone
Speaker 3: in front of me.
Speaker 6: I was just laughing because it was ridiculous you said.
Speaker 3: See when you said that, you were smiling. I can
Speaker 3: hear it. I just saw you, and you're smiling right now.
Speaker 4: I see you.
Speaker 3: Come on, Ella, one more day. I promise you no
Speaker 3: animal species will be mixed up.
Speaker 1: What do you think, Ella?
Speaker 6: As long as you don't go to a zoo, I'm.
Speaker 1: In really wow? Okay, Trevor, congratulations, you got another date.
Speaker 6: There you go.
Speaker 1: Persistence pays off.
Speaker 3: Thank you, guys.
Speaker 4: Ella.
Speaker 3: I'll be seeing you soon and not at the zoo.
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