WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Two Timing Two-Stepper

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking jewels. Second dat up date the girl on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone for a second date update today says that she

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<v Speaker 1>went dancing on her first date with the guy that

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<v Speaker 1>she wants to call So they went to a dance class.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't specify which kind, So I'm assuming probably out there

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<v Speaker 1>learning all the new dance moves that the kids are

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<v Speaker 1>doing out at the clubs, like the foxtrot and the

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<v Speaker 1>Lindy Hop and the Charleston chew. Is that right, Denise?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you hipcats were out there doing? Uh No,

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<v Speaker 1>it was slatting a rug. She's like, no, you're idiot.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just taking salsa. Okay, though that's a little

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<v Speaker 1>more boring than what I thought. All Right, So, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it says that you guys went, So you took a

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<v Speaker 1>salsa class with the guy you want to call it

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<v Speaker 1>a huh yeah? And what's his name? Mark? Mark? And

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<v Speaker 1>how did you meet Mark? We actually met on a

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<v Speaker 1>dating site. Were you both already interested in salsa? And

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<v Speaker 1>that's how you guys linked up? Uh No, it kind

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<v Speaker 1>of came about randomly because we were sort of bonding

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<v Speaker 1>and joking about our past dates and how boring they were,

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<v Speaker 1>like the usual dinner whatever, movie boring thing that never

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<v Speaker 1>really works out to like a second date. So we

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<v Speaker 1>kind of were like, if we went out, we would

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<v Speaker 1>do something totally fun and salsa dancing is what we

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<v Speaker 1>came up with. We would learn to dance of love.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it fun? Yeah, I mean it was super fun.

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<v Speaker 1>We decided to meet up like a half hour before

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<v Speaker 1>across the street at a bar and had a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of drinks. We laughed a lot, and you know, he

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<v Speaker 1>was really funny and we had a great time, and

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<v Speaker 1>we went in to do the dancing and we were horrible,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we were both really bad, which could be awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean if you're both laughing at yourselves during the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing, like it could really be attractive. Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>And he had this really great laugh too, and awesome

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<v Speaker 1>like hair too that I just wanted to touch all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. But anyway, are you the creep that was

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<v Speaker 1>smelling his hair? It was just like really like soft

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<v Speaker 1>and fluffy. I don't know, that's get You know, we

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<v Speaker 1>do a lot of these second date updates. We rarely

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<v Speaker 1>have women fawn over a guy's hair, so he must

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<v Speaker 1>have a fantastic haircutter. It was just like the right

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<v Speaker 1>amount of curl. You know, do you like his personality

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<v Speaker 1>at all or was it just the hair that did

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<v Speaker 1>it for you? Oh? No, no, yeah, no he was great.

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<v Speaker 1>If personality was awesome. He's really sweet and just like

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<v Speaker 1>made me laugh. I mean, like I said, when we

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<v Speaker 1>were dancing, we were so bad, and we just made

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<v Speaker 1>each other laugh the whole time. It was great. And

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<v Speaker 1>even though you're bad, I mean, there's still a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of physical contact in dancing. Was there a good chemistry

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<v Speaker 1>between you two? I thought so. I mean it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>like super mushy romantic, you know, like there wasn't like

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<v Speaker 1>this huge spark. But at the same time, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like we were kind of just distracted by the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that we were salted dancing and we suck. It's probably

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<v Speaker 1>hard to be romantic and make a lot of eye

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<v Speaker 1>contact when you're trying to count in your head two three, four, seven, ten,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're awkwardly trying to dance. I can understand that.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you guys do anything other than dance together? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we danced, and then you know, we went home pretty

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<v Speaker 1>much after right after that, I think it was like

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<v Speaker 1>said good night, and that was the sort of weird

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<v Speaker 1>thing about it. It was like I was totally down

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<v Speaker 1>for a kiss, you know kiss on the first night,

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<v Speaker 1>but he just gave me a hug. Did he make

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<v Speaker 1>any plans with you to see you later? Like we

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<v Speaker 1>got to take another class because we're so bad? I

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<v Speaker 1>think we kind of were like, oh, yeah, let's meet

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<v Speaker 1>up again, you know, sort of that casual thing you do.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, we had talked a lot on the website,

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<v Speaker 1>so I guess I kind of assumed too, like we

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<v Speaker 1>were gonna follow up. You said he gave you a

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<v Speaker 1>hug at the end. Was it the kind of hug

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<v Speaker 1>where it's like he moved slow or was it the

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<v Speaker 1>kind of hug where he was just like done and

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to see you again? Hug? I know I

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<v Speaker 1>should have like really paid attention to that. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I was probably too busy, like just wanting to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of grab his hair and puts his hair, so went

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<v Speaker 1>in for the hug, and you know it was like

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<v Speaker 1>a hold and release. It was a hold and release, hold, release, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so that could be just a moving, slow hug. Then

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't ask him for like a lock of his

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<v Speaker 1>hair and anything with it scared him off. Is there

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<v Speaker 1>anything awkward that you could think of. I guess just

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<v Speaker 1>like I was totally expecting to kiss. Like, there was

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of moments even like when we were dancing

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<v Speaker 1>that I thought, you know, like when we you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you take breaks and you listen to the teacher or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought said he was gonna kiss me, but he

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<v Speaker 1>totally didn't. He was just like leaning into like say

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<v Speaker 1>something funny. So that was kind of awkward, but nothing huge.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, how long has it been since your date?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see, two weeks? Two weeks? And have you talked

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<v Speaker 1>at all? No, you know, I sent him a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of tacks messages or whatever, but I haven't gotten any response. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well we'll play a song, come back call him and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update and find out if something happened. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, all right, hanging up five brooking jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Second Update. Today's second date update is brought

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<v Speaker 1>to you by passion. Yes, the kind of passion that

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<v Speaker 1>comes with salsa dancing, the hips gyrating back and forth,

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<v Speaker 1>and the fast paced movement of your legs creating eye

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<v Speaker 1>contact and love that only two people can share when

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<v Speaker 1>they salsa dance. Passion find it online or somewhere anywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Denise went salsa dancing on her first date with a

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<v Speaker 1>guy named Mark, but Mark is not calling her back.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why she's on the phone to day to do

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update. Denise, anything you want to say

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<v Speaker 1>to us before we call Mark? Uh? No, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm nervous. You're nervous right now? Are you niverous

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<v Speaker 1>he's gonna say something bad? Or what are you nervous about? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean, I guess. I just hope he's

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<v Speaker 1>not too embarrassed, but whatever, he'll get over it. Not

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<v Speaker 1>too embarrass being on the radio and a second date update, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>or to embarrassed because we know he's a crappy dancer.

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<v Speaker 1>That the radio thing. Yeah, okay, And if you're just

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<v Speaker 1>tuning in for the second day update, they went sausa dancing.

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<v Speaker 1>They had a fun night. At the end of the evening,

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<v Speaker 1>he just gave her a hug when she wanted a kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>But she's really not sure what happened. So let's find

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<v Speaker 1>out right now by dialing his phone number, getting him

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. Okay, okay, sounds great, All right, here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Hello, Hi, is Mark there? Yeah? This is Mark.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Mark, how are you? My name is Jubil. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Hi Mark. I don't know if you know who I

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<v Speaker 1>am or not. I host a morning radio show. It's

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<v Speaker 1>called Brook and Jubil in the Morning. What's going on? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually calling you today because one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>sent us an email about you. Okay. Her name is Denise,

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<v Speaker 1>and you guys recently went salsa dancing together. Whoa what? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a segment we do on our show. It's called

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<v Speaker 1>the second Date Update. So if somebody goes out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date and then they get blown off, they ask

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<v Speaker 1>us to get that person on the phone and ask why.

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<v Speaker 1>So Denise wants to know why you're not calling her back?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, you call her radio station? Yes, she did.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew this was a bad idea. You knew you

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<v Speaker 1>knew what was a bad idea? Going out with Denise? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Well sort of. I mean, I just, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>feel guilty. I just there's just like really no future

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<v Speaker 1>for she and I as things. Why do you say that? Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I really rather not like get into it. But if

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<v Speaker 1>you you know, I mean, if you talk to her

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever, definitely tell her she's cool and great, but

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<v Speaker 1>like nothing's going to happen. So you thought she was

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<v Speaker 1>cool and great, but there's no future between you two

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. Yeah, can you give me anything more than that?

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know, I don't know. You said just

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<v Speaker 1>a second ago that you feel guilty. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's just that she's probably not the only girl

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<v Speaker 1>that like feels that way. And what do you mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just that she Like, there have been a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of sort of one and done kind of dates that

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<v Speaker 1>I've been on recently from with like a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>different girls, and you're dating around a lot. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you mean? No? You just you just said

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<v Speaker 1>that you're taking lots of girls out on dates and

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<v Speaker 1>not calling any of them back. I mean that's fine,

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<v Speaker 1>like date dates. I mean it's not like it's not

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<v Speaker 1>a date date that sounds exactly like a date date.

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<v Speaker 1>Well even from the get go, like from even beforehand,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't plan on calling any of them back, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>so why go on dates and then they're not dates?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean they're not dates. I use the site. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, basically I'm married. What what did you just say?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm married. I'm very happily, very happily married. You are

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<v Speaker 1>not obviously very happily married if you're on a dating

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<v Speaker 1>website going out on dates that you refuse to call

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<v Speaker 1>dates like, I promise you that my wife and I

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<v Speaker 1>are very much in love and I'm not cheating, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't kiss any of these girls, I don't hook

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<v Speaker 1>up with them. You just lonely or something, and you

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<v Speaker 1>want companionship when your wife's at workers. No, no, no, no no,

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<v Speaker 1>So my wife and I are five year is coming

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<v Speaker 1>up right? Your five year anniversary? Yeah? Yeah, our five

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<v Speaker 1>year anniversary. So I had this whole idea that I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to do this big surprise for her where basically

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<v Speaker 1>I've been going out and I've been taking dancing lessons

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<v Speaker 1>with different women, and these girls are helping me practice. Essentially,

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<v Speaker 1>they're like dancing partners. You are so full of crap.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't even believe it. You're trying to tell us

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<v Speaker 1>that you're just learning how to dance by being on

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<v Speaker 1>a dating website. St Yeah, you're Oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to custle bad. It's the truth. Look, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I start talking to these girls whatever we if it's

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<v Speaker 1>I only go with people that I think I would

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<v Speaker 1>have a good time with and then you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>go out, we dance, and half the time I even

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<v Speaker 1>tell them what I'm up to. You know, why have

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<v Speaker 1>to say why not tell everybody? Why not just go hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I need a partner to dance with because I want

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<v Speaker 1>to learn to dance for my wife for anniversary. Because

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<v Speaker 1>it's about my wife. It's not about like bringing somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else in on this thing. You know, like I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>trying to like include some girl in like my five

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<v Speaker 1>year thing. Why are you on a dating website? Because

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<v Speaker 1>it's an easy way to meet people. It's people who

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<v Speaker 1>are willing to go out and have fun. They want

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<v Speaker 1>to engage with somebody. And you know, like I could

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<v Speaker 1>put up some ad on Chryslist, but I might get

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<v Speaker 1>some creep or some you know, weirdo. What are you

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<v Speaker 1>talking about? You can go to a dancing studio and

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<v Speaker 1>they find a partner for you. Well, I've been to

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<v Speaker 1>classes before where they have an number of people and

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<v Speaker 1>I just end up standing in the corner like anthing

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<v Speaker 1>by myself. So would you say exaccurate that you're faking

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<v Speaker 1>going on datestan? No, because I don't think that there's

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<v Speaker 1>anything that I'm doing on the date. That is anything

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<v Speaker 1>that would like lead these girls to believe that there's

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<v Speaker 1>like a romantic thing. Person on a dating website thinks

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<v Speaker 1>that there's going to be a romantic thing. That's why

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<v Speaker 1>they're on the dating website. Dude. Look, I'm telling you,

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<v Speaker 1>these girls have really fun times. I have a really

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<v Speaker 1>fun time. I'm not a jerk. I don't treat them poorly,

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<v Speaker 1>And in my opinion, I think what I'm doing is

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<v Speaker 1>way better than what most of these guys are doing

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<v Speaker 1>on these apps and on this stuff anyway, where they're

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to get hookups. Like on my profile too,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't say I'm looking for a relationship. It says

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just looking to have fun. So what should I

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<v Speaker 1>tell Denistan, Like, oh, hey, sorry, he's married. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to talk to her, I would hope that you

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<v Speaker 1>would include that I thought she was really great and

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that she can know I'm sure she's going

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<v Speaker 1>to find a really great guy because she was really cool. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know you could actually talk to her because she's

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the phone listening. Yeah, you are a liar

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<v Speaker 1>and you're crazy. Yeah I need mental health. What is

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<v Speaker 1>going on here? Denise is actually on the phone listening,

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<v Speaker 1>so she's heard this entire conversation. Yeah, you used me.

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<v Speaker 1>You made me believe that you were taking me out

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<v Speaker 1>on the date. You made me believe that. Well, if

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<v Speaker 1>you think back on the conversation, I didn't allude to

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<v Speaker 1>us dating or anything like that. You know, there was

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<v Speaker 1>no leading me dating website. Every conversation you have on

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<v Speaker 1>a dating website is alluding to you dating. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you think the point is just to be friends? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't just talk about like hooking up with a

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<v Speaker 1>guy the entire time. You're trying to get to know

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<v Speaker 1>each other. There's so much more to do it. You're

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<v Speaker 1>crazy and you're a complete Thanks for ruining my dating experience. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>you are pitting this all on me, and this is

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<v Speaker 1>not my fault. Okay, Like, if you had asked me

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<v Speaker 1>at all, I would have been totally upfront with you.

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<v Speaker 1>You just said, hey, like, are you are you seeing

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<v Speaker 1>other people? Are you you know? What's what's your deal?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you married? Like I would have totally been like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I am married. I love my wife. That is ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 1>That is the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Yeah, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>other girls asked and I told them. So what are

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<v Speaker 1>you going to tell your wife? All, honey, just for you,

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<v Speaker 1>I signed up for a dating website and I have

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<v Speaker 1>been going out with random women learning how to dance. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll probably, you know, won't tell her that's part of it.

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<v Speaker 1>But what I will say is that I took four

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<v Speaker 1>months of dance classes for her. It went and spent

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<v Speaker 1>all this time and energy trying to do something romantic. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to ask a question, no matter what, So, Mark,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out on a second date

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<v Speaker 1>with niece? We'll send you guys out again for another

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<v Speaker 1>salsa dancing class or something. I mean, I need to

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<v Speaker 1>take more classes. Are you kidding me? No, I'm not kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean now everything's out in the open, and it'd be,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like friends going for a dance class. I

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<v Speaker 1>think Denise would rather kill you. I hope your wife

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<v Speaker 1>leaves you seriously. So is that a no? Yeah? I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's a very strong no. Mark. Thanks for your

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<v Speaker 1>time though, I appreciate it. Yeah. Yeah, good luck on

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<v Speaker 1>your dance classes. Okay, I hope your wife loves it.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you? Married Will and Denise. There you go. That's

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<v Speaker 1>why you're not getting a call back. Wow, I'm glad

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<v Speaker 1>I found out at least, well you should have asked

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<v Speaker 1>to begin with. Apparently, Denise. Apparently. Yeah. For now on,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to ask every day, I going are you married?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you just hearing for your wife? Yeah? I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good idea. In the morning text in at

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<v Speaker 1>seven eight, five to nine two that says, see that

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<v Speaker 1>second date update is proof never do anything to try

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<v Speaker 1>to impress your wife, because no matter what you do,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll always lose. Talking of course, about the second date

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<v Speaker 1>update from today, this girl named Denise want to call

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<v Speaker 1>a dude name Mark. They met online, they were going out,

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<v Speaker 1>they went out to a salsa dancing class, had a

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<v Speaker 1>fun time, and all of a sudden, he just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of dropped off the face of the earth. Well, it

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<v Speaker 1>turns out Mark has been dating a lot of women

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<v Speaker 1>off of this website and taking them to salsa classes. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and he doesn't actually think that they're dates. He's just

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<v Speaker 1>going with these women so that he can learn to

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<v Speaker 1>dance salsa to surprise his wife for their anniversary. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Never mind the fact that he doesn't tell anybody that

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<v Speaker 1>he's married or that he leads them on. Well, that's

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<v Speaker 1>not true. He said that there was one girl that

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<v Speaker 1>asked if he was married, and he was honest and

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<v Speaker 1>he said, yes, I am married, and I'm doing this

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<v Speaker 1>for my wife. Other than that, he's just duping girls

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<v Speaker 1>into going on dates so that he can have dance

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<v Speaker 1>partners because he can't do it with somebody that he

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<v Speaker 1>already knows because they might tell his wife. And so

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<v Speaker 1>he's basically going on dates yea, with women to learn

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<v Speaker 1>sal stuff for his wife. That is the most elaborate

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<v Speaker 1>excuse for cheating I've ever heard in my life. But

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<v Speaker 1>he's not. But he's not cheating. Cheating going on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with someone else's cheating, you, guys, It doesn't matter

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<v Speaker 1>if there's a physical I don't know. I mean, he's not.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not calling him back, he's not carrying on a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>He's just going out doing some dance lessons and then

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<v Speaker 1>going home. He didn't even he didn't do anything with

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<v Speaker 1>her at the end of the night, didn't even like

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<v Speaker 1>pretend that they were going to go on another day.

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<v Speaker 1>He did, not telling his wife about it and not

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<v Speaker 1>telling her how he learned how to solve the dance.

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<v Speaker 1>She should be flatter than her husband. Work it is

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<v Speaker 1>to plan all these dates and go out with people

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<v Speaker 1>to learn to dance at A text in at seven

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<v Speaker 1>eight five nine two says, OMG, I think I danced

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<v Speaker 1>with Mark once we took a class. He stepped on

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<v Speaker 1>my foot and broke my toe, just saying his wife

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<v Speaker 1>should watch out. Another text in at seven eight five

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<v Speaker 1>nine two that says, hey, Marky boy, for your next anniversary,

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<v Speaker 1>just do what most of us guys do. Throw some

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<v Speaker 1>jewelry at her and call it a day. Hey see,

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<v Speaker 1>just proof. Stop putting in the effort. Guys, you're just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get you in trouble. I remember, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second day update, I have to do

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<v Speaker 1>an email of the show and we will call the

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<v Speaker 1>person who didn't call you back